JustPearlyThings - TrueGeordie Said This About Modern Women

00:00:00.000 I could be wrong here, the lads may pick us up on this,

00:00:02.160 but in terms of when I got to the point where I felt like I'm a man,

00:00:05.800 I'm ready for the woman, I'm in that right frame of mind, 1.00

00:00:08.920 I met a couple of girls where I was like, I'm bringing up,

00:00:12.760 I'm bringing to the table a lot, and they're still coming at me

00:00:15.940 with the same attitude that they came at me,

00:00:18.360 that these other geezers with, who aren't on my level, 0.99

00:00:21.220 and you think that that's going to fly with me,

00:00:23.060 and you don't realise, when I say, I can't believe I'm going to say this,

00:00:26.600 but when I say jump, you should be saying how high,

00:00:28.500 because that's actually, like, I'm going to change your life,

00:00:31.080 I'm going to make it so you don't have to work anymore,

00:00:33.400 I'm going to buy you a car, I'm going to buy you a dress,

00:00:34.880 I'm going to buy you everything you need.

00:00:35.980 Talk to a big dog.

00:00:36.960 If I'm going to make it so that you don't have anything to worry about, 1.00

00:00:42.840 then what the fuck are you doing for me? 0.98

00:00:44.960 Because if you're not free Friday, don't expect me to call you Saturday, 0.98

00:00:48.660 because that ain't happening, and that's what I was experiencing

00:00:51.180 a little bit of, is like, if you're going to treat me 0.99

00:00:53.380 like another one of these fuckboys, then goodbye. 0.99

00:00:56.280 That's not going to happen. 1.00

00:00:56.820 Yeah.

00:00:57.440 I get back.

00:00:58.500 I totally understand that, but I'm going to play devil's advocate here.

00:01:03.720 Good.

00:01:04.120 Those individuals hasn't actually healed.

00:01:07.620 They're bringing in, and this is where women... 1.00

00:01:09.680 But why does he have to deal with their trauma?

00:01:11.420 No, no, no, no, and I don't expect him to.

00:01:14.680 What I was actually trying to say is,

00:01:16.840 those individuals are bringing in baggage from their past relationships,

00:01:21.420 and they haven't actually...

00:01:23.640 or some of them were in this, I don't know if you guys have experienced this,

00:01:27.060 but some women, because of the modern-day women thing, 1.00

00:01:29.940 modern women, they go to uni, they live on pot noodles, 1.00

00:01:32.980 they're messy, they're slobs.

00:01:34.120 They're not old-school women who would... 1.00

00:01:36.200 old-school women are fucking organized. 1.00

00:01:38.980 They know how to cook. 1.00

00:01:39.820 They know how to clean.

00:01:40.740 Everything that I'm not good at,

00:01:42.380 they come into your life, and they're like, 0.99

00:01:43.800 Mary fucking... 1.00

00:01:44.760 That's your personality, right? 1.00

00:01:46.880 That's what you've experienced.

00:01:48.720 But I'm saying the majority of modern women, 1.00

00:01:53.680 because of this uni lifestyle,

00:01:55.420 they're like more lad than what I am. 0.96

00:01:57.400 I'm more fucking cleaner and organized than they are, 0.94

00:01:59.760 so obviously I'm generalizing, 0.96

00:02:01.880 and I will continue to generalize,

00:02:03.220 but you get the point.

00:02:05.640 Yeah, but maybe that's why men have now a tendency or propensity to cheat,

00:02:09.300 because the quality of women are no longer like my mum, 1.00

00:02:12.340 but I get that, but the difference is...

00:02:16.020 I think men are more likely to cheat.

00:02:17.360 Women choose non-monogamy. 1.00

00:02:19.440 We choose non-monogamy because when we have the most sexual power,

00:02:23.820 which is like 21, 22, 23, we choose non-monogamy.

00:02:27.740 It's not like there's a man...

00:02:28.620 That's true, though.

00:02:29.420 Women have experience. 1.00

00:02:31.000 When I was in this situation,

00:02:32.620 they were coming at me with this casual attitude.

00:02:35.880 It's like, I'm ready to go.

00:02:36.800 And the thing is, men, when they're in their peak,

00:02:40.040 which is like 35, more are married,

00:02:42.340 because the average age of first marriage is like 32 for men

00:02:45.140 and 31 for women.

00:02:46.560 So women choose non-monogamy in their 20s, 0.99

00:02:49.320 and in their 30s ask for monogamy.

00:02:51.640 But what's the problem is we bring less to the table

00:02:54.100 because now you have a body count.

00:02:56.020 Now you have trauma from your exes that cheated on you.

00:03:00.080 And the thing that they don't tell women is by 30,

00:03:03.920 your chance of having a kid...

00:03:05.020 If you're single at 30,

00:03:06.120 your chance of having a child is below 50%.

00:03:08.780 That means we are more likely to not have a kid than have one.

00:03:11.660 No, and I understand that.

00:03:13.360 And, you know, what I'm saying is,

00:03:15.620 it's like, I get it.

00:03:17.340 Like you said,

00:03:18.780 you would like somebody to match

00:03:20.440 what you are bringing to the table, so to speak.

00:03:23.980 Like, you know,

00:03:25.060 and I believe in a relationship,

00:03:27.420 you're there to instill and uplift each other.

00:03:31.500 So if it's a case of...

00:03:34.000 Well done, by the way,

00:03:34.940 because there's a lot of...

00:03:35.940 Like, in modern-day relationships,

00:03:37.640 it's like who can take the most,

00:03:39.700 whereas the reality...

00:03:40.900 It should be a competition of who can give them.

00:03:42.540 Exactly.

00:03:43.460 I believe it should be a case of 0.64

00:03:45.940 you're uplifting me,

00:03:47.720 I'm uplifting you.

00:03:48.620 And you bring both...

00:03:49.360 And we're elevating together.

00:03:52.540 It shouldn't just be,

00:03:53.660 oh, well,

00:03:54.200 what are you bringing to the table?

00:03:56.040 But like they're saying,

00:03:57.720 with the generation now,

00:03:59.220 it's not like that.

00:03:59.940 They're in competition with each other.

00:04:01.700 And that needs to stop.

00:04:03.260 And the competition is the same.

00:04:04.860 That's why a lot of things don't work.

00:04:07.380 Because of the competition.

00:04:08.960 But the issue is the quality of woman has gone down. 1.00

00:04:11.840 And because there's a very small percentage of men

00:04:14.280 that we would even consider.

00:04:16.020 So it's a very...

00:04:16.880 There's less than like 20% of men

00:04:18.560 that we would even consider give a chance to.

00:04:21.220 So it's like...

00:04:22.220 And those men,

00:04:23.400 like the quality of woman is still low. 0.98

00:04:25.220 No, and I get that.

00:04:26.320 I mean, I'm a very old school woman.

00:04:28.280 Like, I'm not going to sit here and say,

00:04:29.880 oh, I'm a virgin and I'm this and I'm that.

00:04:31.780 Okay, that's just...

00:04:33.060 Yeah, anyway.

00:04:34.180 But I'm very much old school.

00:04:36.220 Like, I'm sometimes a little bit more...

00:04:40.680 I don't know how to put it.

00:04:42.340 More mature than my age,

00:04:43.860 if however you want to put it.

00:04:45.080 Like, I believe if we're together,

00:04:48.460 I'm going to bring as much as I can,

00:04:51.560 as well as you can.

00:04:52.420 And if it means that we're going to start this road

00:04:54.700 of life together,

00:04:55.620 where we build each other,

00:04:57.460 build our empire,

00:04:58.680 have our tribe,

00:05:00.000 and do what we need to do,

00:05:01.400 I'm about that.

00:05:02.340 And yes, I can cook,

00:05:03.700 I can clean,

00:05:04.700 I can keep a house tidy,

00:05:06.160 and I can keep you satisfied.

00:05:07.720 But the question is, again,

00:05:09.600 why do you still feel

00:05:11.500 that that's still not enough for you?

00:05:14.760 Like you say...

00:05:15.440 Can I ask you a question?

00:05:16.540 See, that's the question.

00:05:17.360 What do you think women bring to the table 1.00

00:05:19.200 that a guy couldn't get with a cook,

00:05:21.040 a cleaner, 0.98

00:05:21.580 and a hooker? 1.00

00:05:22.760 Facts. 0.97

00:05:23.280 Wow.

00:05:23.560 Okay, right.

00:05:24.720 Because everything you listed,

00:05:26.160 you've got to be outsourced.

00:05:26.820 You've got to acknowledge your own.

00:05:27.780 No, no, no.

00:05:28.860 I get all of that.

00:05:30.100 Okay.

00:05:30.780 No, I'm asking, like, what?

00:05:32.460 Me, personally,

00:05:33.500 like I said,

00:05:34.440 I've had people ask me,

00:05:35.900 well, what are you bringing to the table?

00:05:37.720 First of all,

00:05:38.500 I'm bringing myself.

00:05:40.160 Second of all,

00:05:40.940 I'm bringing my intelligence,

00:05:42.840 whether I'm a spiritual person...

00:05:44.280 If you have a higher IQ,

00:05:46.100 you're less likely to get married,

00:05:47.360 so intelligence, yeah.

00:05:49.700 Men don't like women who are smart. 1.00

00:05:50.820 No, no, no.

00:05:52.100 But intelligence,

00:05:53.160 but intelligence...

00:05:54.400 Is that Andrew speaking?

00:05:55.220 Hold on.

00:05:55.940 But intelligence could be taken

00:05:57.420 in a different form of way.

00:05:59.060 Emotional intelligence,

00:05:59.900 you're talking about.

00:06:00.320 There you go.

00:06:00.760 I'm not talking about,

00:06:01.900 oh, my IQ is a million.

00:06:03.380 I'm not talking about it like that.

00:06:04.740 I'm talking about it is,

00:06:05.920 I'm bringing myself to the table.

00:06:08.960 I'm bringing what I know that I've got,

00:06:11.900 whether it's my qualifications,

00:06:13.220 my intellect,

00:06:15.740 you know,

00:06:16.120 yes, like you said,

00:06:17.040 all of those things can be sourced,

00:06:18.840 and I get that.

00:06:20.420 But my point is like,

00:06:22.140 the point I'm having is like,

00:06:24.140 we don't have a resume

00:06:25.200 like our grandmothers

00:06:26.340 and our great-grandmothers did.

00:06:28.000 And so my point is like,

00:06:29.180 when you're dealing with

00:06:29.900 these top percent of men,

00:06:31.240 which most men that you deal with

00:06:32.760 are going to be top 20%,

00:06:34.200 because if we show you 10 men,

00:06:37.160 you're going to find eight of them 0.93

00:06:38.000 as ugly,

00:06:38.600 just in general.

00:06:39.900 So it's like,

00:06:40.780 when we're dealing with those men,

00:06:41.800 they have so much more leverage

00:06:43.400 than we do.

00:06:45.580 And the issue is a lot of times,

00:06:47.980 like the women don't realize, 1.00

00:06:49.540 like in order to be with those guys,

00:06:50.760 you have to give up monogamy.

00:06:52.620 And you know,

00:06:53.160 there's some people

00:06:54.000 that may sell you a dream.

00:06:56.480 But don't sign up tonight.

00:06:59.220 I personally do believe it,

00:07:01.060 but like you say,

00:07:02.220 like no disrespect to yourself,

00:07:03.920 like you're a beautiful woman,

00:07:05.080 but obviously you're saying

00:07:06.180 you bring something stuff to the table.

00:07:07.980 or you're bringing like your education,

00:07:10.340 your this,

00:07:10.780 you can clean,

00:07:11.120 but okay,

00:07:13.000 cool,

00:07:13.160 but you're bringing that stuff,

00:07:14.200 but you're still single.

00:07:15.480 I feel not single.

00:07:16.160 You're still in a situation.

00:07:17.140 I never stated that I was single,

00:07:18.240 nor did I state that I was in a situation,

00:07:20.320 but continue.

00:07:21.280 Okay,

00:07:21.540 so what are you currently in?

00:07:22.820 Okay,

00:07:22.840 but you're not answering the question.

00:07:24.680 So it's like,

00:07:25.900 she put the hand up.

00:07:28.260 No,

00:07:28.540 no,

00:07:28.840 I was saying,

00:07:30.080 no,

00:07:30.480 I'm saying,

00:07:31.080 I'm saying like,

00:07:31.700 it's like,

00:07:31.980 how is he,

00:07:32.440 he doesn't know,

00:07:33.060 because you don't answer,

00:07:33.880 like you won't answer the question.

00:07:34.820 I don't know why is it a secret for marriage?

00:07:38.500 No,

00:07:38.940 I just don't want to read that out.

00:07:41.460 Okay,

00:07:41.880 cool.

00:07:42.220 But it's like a relationship podcast.

00:07:44.280 I would say,

00:07:45.420 I feel like you'll be proud to say that I'm married.

00:07:48.620 I'm in a relationship,

00:07:49.180 I'm off the market,

00:07:49.840 I'm taken,

00:07:50.660 I'm off the market,

00:07:51.900 well,

00:07:52.140 good.

00:07:52.680 Okay,

00:07:53.100 but I'll leave that there.

00:07:54.560 But I'm saying like,

00:07:55.640 even so,

00:07:56.360 just like on paper,

00:07:57.380 right?

00:07:57.880 It's like,

00:07:58.340 you're 35,

00:07:59.500 there's no purity,

00:08:00.340 there's no youth there.

00:08:01.340 It's gone.

00:08:02.260 Like by 35,

00:08:03.040 you can't argue,

00:08:03.780 you bring,

00:08:03.940 and that's the two most important things to men.

00:08:05.900 like I said,

00:08:06.760 I'm in a relationship,

00:08:08.400 and we're good,

00:08:09.600 and we're stable.

00:08:11.180 I'm not saying that.

00:08:13.740 Even if we take you out of it,

00:08:15.200 the average woman,

00:08:16.000 31 at first marriage,

00:08:17.660 and overweight.

00:08:18.560 Okay,

00:08:18.840 no,

00:08:19.140 no,

00:08:19.580 no,

00:08:20.100 not in shape,

00:08:21.080 and not young.

00:08:22.140 Women don't realize the urgency that they should be operating with, 1.00

00:08:25.360 by the way,

00:08:25.840 like as in like,

00:08:26.840 a friend of mine was in a wedding the other day,

00:08:29.860 it was an Indian wedding,

00:08:30.820 and like there was several girls there who were like late 20s, 0.98

00:08:36.060 not in a relationship,

00:08:37.380 not married,

00:08:38.000 and we're thinking like women from that background,

00:08:40.180 usually they're the quickest to get married, 1.00

00:08:41.780 you know what I mean?

00:08:42.280 So I don't think,

00:08:43.500 and when I'm dealing with,

00:08:44.840 when I've been dealing with women, 1.00

00:08:46.480 it's,

00:08:46.680 they don't realize like the competition that they're up against.

00:08:49.920 They have no clue.

00:08:51.240 That's why they look at me and they're like,

00:08:52.940 like,

00:08:53.480 I'm a pretty girl,

00:08:54.780 you know,

00:08:55.020 what's he going to do?

00:08:55.860 They don't realize it's like,

00:08:57.000 oh,

00:08:57.200 you're like,

00:08:57.940 I'll just spin the wheel,

00:08:58.900 and just pick a name out if I want.

00:09:00.300 I'm not that guy now,

00:09:01.320 I'm just saying that's the way I want, 0.96

00:09:02.620 just to be fucking clear. 0.96

00:09:04.080 You know what I'm saying? 0.97

00:09:05.360 I think if women realize the reality that Pearl is trying to get across, 1.00

00:09:09.000 yeah,

00:09:09.180 people think Pearl is like,

00:09:10.720 trying to rub people's nose.

00:09:11.740 No,

00:09:11.840 no,

00:09:12.020 she's actually,

00:09:13.260 no,

00:09:13.440 but I'm just saying like,

00:09:14.540 if people were aware of how I would cut throat in competition,

00:09:17.480 it wouldn't be,

00:09:18.480 because you are competing for a small amount of men.

00:09:21.080 there's competition out there.

00:09:22.000 But that's,

00:09:22.640 that's the thing,

00:09:23.180 it's like every guy that we're interested in is probably top 20% of men,

00:09:27.060 meaning he's talking to five other chicks.

00:09:29.660 So wait,

00:09:29.960 how are these other 80% of guys in a relationship?

00:09:32.400 They're not.

00:09:32.860 They're not.

00:09:33.020 They find one person,

00:09:34.140 stick with them for life.

00:09:34.960 You know,

00:09:35.260 you're only five.

00:09:36.840 They're the subscribers.

00:09:38.900 No,

00:09:39.180 so this is the thing,

00:09:40.140 when women are in their 20s,

00:09:41.580 they choose non-monogamy,

00:09:43.220 right?

00:09:43.760 So,

00:09:44.160 so what do,

00:09:44.820 when women, 1.00

00:09:45.440 we take out the men,

00:09:46.340 what do women pick for? 1.00

00:09:47.860 Butterflies.

00:09:48.480 Right?

00:09:48.860 Tingles.

00:09:49.280 He makes me feel a certain way.

00:09:50.840 So what is that?

00:09:51.800 What does that mean?

00:09:52.300 It's looks.

00:09:53.020 Okay.

00:09:53.380 Let's just call it space.

00:09:54.560 So in our 20s,

00:09:55.680 we go for looks,

00:09:56.640 meaning we share men in our 20s.

00:09:58.360 And then at 30s,

00:09:59.220 when we need a child,

00:10:00.740 it switches.

00:10:01.580 So the guys that are in relationships are getting the leftover women. 0.99

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JustPearlyThings - May 26, 2023

TrueGeordie Said This About Modern Women

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