JustPearlyThings - March 27, 2023


Tyrese Gibson Is HUMILIATED By His Girlfriend


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Length

10 minutes

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179.27412

Word count

1,877

Sentence count

240

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Hate speech

17

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In this week's episode, we talk about Tyrese Gibson's relationship with Paul Walker's ex-girlfriend, R.B.'s comments about his ex-fiancee, and why she's not wife material.

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00:00:00.000 Let's do the social media one, the last one I sent you.
00:00:05.920 Not the one from the Google Doc, the one I emailed you.
00:00:11.000 So I was scrolling through social media, and there's a story that's viral this week.
00:00:17.240 So, I forgot the guy's name.
00:00:22.440 What's his name?
00:00:25.940 Tyrese.
00:00:27.220 What's his last name?
00:00:29.320 Tyrese Gibson.
00:00:30.360 Tyrese Gibson.
00:00:31.180 Did you guys see the story with Tyrese Gibson?
00:00:33.300 So he was the guy in Fast and Furious.
00:00:36.460 Okay.
00:00:36.840 Oh.
00:00:37.400 Yeah.
00:00:37.840 Friends with Paul Walker.
00:00:39.600 Is he bold?
00:00:40.340 Yeah.
00:00:40.880 So, what?
00:00:41.860 Is he bold?
00:00:42.660 Yes.
00:00:43.180 Yeah.
00:00:43.600 Yeah.
00:00:45.340 So, him and his girl, he has a girlfriend.
00:00:50.400 Now, we can decide as a group, is she wife material? 1.00
00:00:53.380 Just based on this clip, you know, I know we don't have to say that we don't know all the facts.
00:00:58.380 You know?
00:00:59.100 Just based on this clip.
00:01:00.500 Wife material or not wife material? 1.00
00:01:02.200 How did we meet?
00:01:05.200 Mm-hmm.
00:01:05.720 I slid in the DMs.
00:01:07.160 Yeah.
00:01:07.780 We linked up.
00:01:09.400 He wasn't my type at all.
00:01:11.300 My type was actually Paul Walker recipes.
00:01:14.240 Oh, my God.
00:01:14.900 But I, he wasn't my type at all.
00:01:19.580 And my type is not white.
00:01:21.140 I'm just saying I was more interested in Paul and every Fast and Furious.
00:01:27.300 Don't touch me.
00:01:27.700 Um, and even when I met him, I was like, uh, he's kind of old.
00:01:35.760 Uh, I just like his smile.
00:01:39.740 It's pretty cool.
00:01:40.720 This, this, this one, this one's really bad.
00:01:43.440 His personality, his personality was.
00:01:45.720 This just went really bad, really fast.
00:01:47.280 His personality was okay, but he didn't.
00:01:49.220 I'm getting off live.
00:01:50.440 He didn't understand the Instagram model, um, thing.
00:01:54.600 So he would always talk down.
00:01:56.060 So you wanted the homie. 1.00
00:01:57.620 You didn't want me.
00:01:58.980 Um.
00:02:00.680 I never said I wanted the homie. 1.00
00:02:02.260 Just that he was cuter.
00:02:03.200 You said I'm old.
00:02:05.880 You know all this already.
00:02:07.580 I wasn't your type either.
00:02:09.120 So relax.
00:02:11.560 And, um, yeah.
00:02:13.280 So now we're here.
00:02:14.400 It's like an actual somewhat of a love story, which is crazy.
00:02:18.740 Cause I didn't know that I, um, yeah, no, I'm done.
00:02:25.660 No, no, don't touch me.
00:02:26.980 Don't put on this.
00:02:29.580 Okay.
00:02:30.900 What's your initial reaction to that?
00:02:32.880 That's so wrong.
00:02:33.760 I'm so shocked.
00:02:34.600 Is that real then?
00:02:35.580 That was harsh.
00:02:36.860 They weren't like pretending or anything.
00:02:38.720 I don't seem joking.
00:02:39.160 I mean, who knows?
00:02:41.240 Who is wrong?
00:02:44.120 She's wrong.
00:02:44.800 She is wrong.
00:02:45.740 He was quite clearly uncomfortable.
00:02:48.340 And she kept going with it and kept touching him when he said,
00:02:51.380 stop touching me.
00:02:52.540 But that was the other way around.
00:02:54.100 Yeah, it was awkward.
00:02:55.000 Pretty awkward to watch, wasn't it?
00:02:56.200 Yeah, horrible.
00:02:56.680 I was cringing, but also he looked so embarrassed as well.
00:03:00.940 I was embarrassed for him.
00:03:02.080 Can you imagine?
00:03:02.880 Can you imagine if the roles were reversed and he said,
00:03:05.780 you know, she was kind of chubby, not really my type.
00:03:08.920 I wanted her friend.
00:03:11.040 That would have gone down horribly.
00:03:14.960 It shouldn't go either way.
00:03:17.260 Neither person should ever say that to either person.
00:03:19.980 But yeah, it would be.
00:03:20.980 It would be in the eyes of society.
00:03:22.900 Yeah.
00:03:23.460 Yeah.
00:03:23.780 And that shouldn't be how it's presented.
00:03:25.860 That's wrong.
00:03:26.300 So she got a guy that's hot.
00:03:29.140 Okay, let's just be real here.
00:03:30.480 Man's fine.
00:03:30.660 Gorgeous.
00:03:31.280 Gorgeous.
00:03:32.340 And Rich, allegedly, he said he was faithful in his last marriage, right?
00:03:40.500 So, I mean, who knows?
00:03:41.460 Celebrities, right?
00:03:42.260 You know?
00:03:42.660 Yeah.
00:03:42.860 But, and she still is coming on Instagram and saying she wanted his friend.
00:03:49.900 Yeah, that was so bad.
00:03:50.600 Who, by the way, isn't it?
00:03:52.540 I just think it's wrong.
00:03:53.220 Which is even worse.
00:03:53.800 That was the worst part.
00:03:54.960 That was, and the fact that she went, R.I.B.?
00:03:57.660 No.
00:03:58.340 Oh, yeah.
00:03:59.200 That was so disrespectful on so many different levels.
00:04:03.460 Yeah.
00:04:04.540 And the whole Instagram model comment, it's so cringe.
00:04:08.960 Yeah, it was trying to flip it though, wasn't it?
00:04:10.780 I don't know what she was talking about.
00:04:11.900 She was trying to flip it.
00:04:12.880 She was trying to flip it on him.
00:04:14.200 She messed that up and then.
00:04:14.780 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:15.180 She was like, oh, yeah, but you said this.
00:04:17.240 Yeah.
00:04:17.660 It was just trying to flip it around on him to make him look like that one.
00:04:20.140 Yeah, he was not having it.
00:04:21.520 He was so uncomfortable.
00:04:22.260 It was horrible.
00:04:23.000 What was your question about what you just said?
00:04:26.120 To ask, ask.
00:04:27.980 Oh, who is wrong?
00:04:29.120 Yeah.
00:04:30.060 Yeah.
00:04:30.600 Yeah, she's definitely in the wrong.
00:04:32.120 There's 100%.
00:04:33.920 That's wrong.
00:04:34.220 It's just not okay.
00:04:35.340 Why do we live in a society where women think they can put their men down on social media? 1.00
00:04:42.580 I wouldn't say all women do. 0.99
00:04:44.140 I don't think all women do. 1.00
00:04:45.920 I think it's...
00:04:48.020 Have you ever heard a girl say, oh, you know, 0.99
00:04:52.060 he's just an idiot or he's... 0.95
00:04:55.020 I mean, I've seen it.
00:04:56.440 Yeah.
00:04:56.540 I've seen it, yeah.
00:04:58.540 Yeah.
00:04:59.240 Well, there's been this thing, hasn't there, for a long time where guys in the media,
00:05:03.660 like, say, Homer Simpson, guys on adverts, guys in sitcoms,
00:05:07.240 are shown to be the idiot, you know, the do-first, 0.82
00:05:09.180 like the fat husband who's useless and blah, blah, blah. 0.78
00:05:11.580 And it's almost like a sort of a meme now, isn't it?
00:05:13.880 Where women... 1.00
00:05:14.540 It's acceptable for women to say that kind of thing. 1.00
00:05:16.720 But if a guy said something similar to a woman, that would be completely right. 1.00
00:05:20.240 Completely right.
00:05:20.680 Yeah.
00:05:21.420 I think because women are meant to be the mature ones, you know? 1.00
00:05:25.560 That's the...
00:05:26.260 That's the narrative.
00:05:27.660 And it's like, no, a woman can be goofy, she can be a bit immature as well, 1.00
00:05:32.060 and the guy could be mature than her.
00:05:33.940 But we don't see that much, if that makes sense.
00:05:36.720 Yeah.
00:05:36.900 Because like you said, we always see in the media that the guy's a bit stupid
00:05:39.980 and the woman's always like, kind of, she's always there like lecturing him
00:05:45.760 or being like, do this, do that, and yeah.
00:05:48.800 It's just become acceptable that way around, hasn't it,
00:05:51.220 in Western culture for some reason.
00:05:52.660 I don't think...
00:05:53.360 I don't agree with it.
00:05:54.440 It's not good.
00:05:55.020 I don't think you should put your man down.
00:05:56.720 I think that actually makes you look bad,
00:05:58.880 and I think it says more about you and your character when you do that.
00:06:02.140 What's she saying?
00:06:02.980 She's like, yeah, yeah, I thought your mate was hotter, 1.00
00:06:05.340 but, you know, I kind of settled for you.
00:06:07.000 Yeah.
00:06:07.220 She's basically saying, like, I didn't even really want you in the first place.
00:06:11.360 I'm just here with you.
00:06:13.060 I wanted your friend, but your friend didn't want me.
00:06:15.120 And he died, so...
00:06:16.220 Yeah, and he's dead as well, which is awful.
00:06:18.440 It's just degrading.
00:06:19.320 I didn't like that.
00:06:20.000 Yeah, just, that's awful.
00:06:21.560 I feel like it's extreme feminists, though, 1.00
00:06:24.080 that have turned that kind of narrative,
00:06:26.240 where they've gone, we can say what we want,
00:06:28.540 because we're females, 1.00
00:06:30.540 but really neither person can say what they want.
00:06:34.140 You have to have, regardless of what gender you are, 0.98
00:06:36.920 you have to have mutual respect.
00:06:38.340 Yeah, and again...
00:06:38.960 But feminists have flipped that, and they've gone... 1.00
00:06:41.120 Because they don't want equality.
00:06:43.600 No.
00:06:43.980 They want to be better than this.
00:06:45.700 I'm not...
00:06:46.340 I'm equality.
00:06:48.180 Everyone should be equal.
00:06:49.400 But in retrospect, so you should only...
00:06:52.640 It's like saying a goldfish should do the same test as a bear.
00:06:57.180 Like, a goldfish can't climb a tree.
00:06:59.600 You know what I mean?
00:07:01.480 It doesn't make sense.
00:07:02.100 Being equal doesn't necessarily mean that you're going to do the same things,
00:07:06.200 or be able to be tested on the same things.
00:07:08.640 But feminists, they want to switch the whole narrative around. 1.00
00:07:11.880 I think men and women can't ever be equal, because we're not...
00:07:14.480 I agree.
00:07:14.500 No, but biologically, we're totally different.
00:07:16.960 Totally different.
00:07:17.600 So when they say, oh, we want equality,
00:07:19.400 it's like, what does equality look like?
00:07:20.900 You want to do half of the bricklaying,
00:07:22.260 half of the plumbing, half of the electric?
00:07:24.220 Yeah, but some of the women do that. 1.00
00:07:26.340 No, they don't.
00:07:26.720 They're doing loads of sewage rebuilding, aren't they,
00:07:28.480 in London at the moment.
00:07:29.520 So maybe women could get on board with that. 1.00
00:07:31.620 No, not for sure.
00:07:32.740 No, thanks.
00:07:33.520 I'll sit in the kitchen cooking.
00:07:35.920 I'll do three meals.
00:07:37.320 I used to work in construction.
00:07:38.740 The majority of the employees are men.
00:07:41.120 It's like...
00:07:41.620 Majority.
00:07:42.100 It's like...
00:07:42.740 I think it's 98% men in all those fields.
00:07:46.060 Yeah.
00:07:46.960 The women usually take on the admin rules. 1.00
00:07:49.240 It's not usually the hard labour,
00:07:50.720 which they're more...
00:07:53.280 Most of them are more than able to do it,
00:07:56.140 but they don't want to.
00:07:57.320 I quite like that women... 1.00
00:07:58.560 Which is where feminism comes from. 1.00
00:08:00.240 Yeah.
00:08:01.000 Sorry.
00:08:01.580 I quite like that.
00:08:02.180 No, it's fine, darling.
00:08:03.760 I quite like that women can have this independence, 1.00
00:08:08.680 in a way.
00:08:09.240 But then I kind of...
00:08:11.180 But I still agree with, you know,
00:08:15.760 being that wife and staying at home. 1.00
00:08:19.120 The housewife.
00:08:19.820 But, personally, to some extent,
00:08:23.620 I like to work as well,
00:08:26.880 and obviously earn money,
00:08:29.880 and realistically,
00:08:30.740 the man is always going to be making more,
00:08:33.980 you know?
00:08:34.660 And I'm not on about, like, job-wise or anything,
00:08:37.420 because it is equal.
00:08:38.920 I'm on about, you know,
00:08:40.360 like I've said before,
00:08:41.320 like, when I do have kids,
00:08:43.760 I won't be working.
00:08:45.060 He'll be working.
00:08:45.720 You know, so...
00:08:48.400 The other thing,
00:08:49.380 would you guys submit to a guy in a 50-50 relationship?
00:08:55.220 Submit.
00:08:56.060 Submit.
00:08:56.560 So what he says goes,
00:08:58.520 you're not going out tonight.
00:08:59.820 No argument.
00:09:00.640 If it's 50-50.
00:09:02.420 Yeah.
00:09:02.580 No.
00:09:03.840 Sacrifice.
00:09:04.240 I'm not being...
00:09:06.000 There's sacrifice,
00:09:06.920 but then there's submission.
00:09:08.160 Submission isn't sacrifice.
00:09:09.380 I'm not...
00:09:10.580 So...
00:09:11.580 It's not even that.
00:09:12.860 It's just I feel like I'm a wife.
00:09:15.240 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:15.720 So I'm going to do what he says.
00:09:18.900 But the respect isn't always going to be there for him,
00:09:22.220 because it's just 50-50.
00:09:24.100 Why are you asking me to bring 50%?
00:09:27.180 Like, you're telling me you're not capable of,
00:09:30.400 you know, you need my help, basically.
00:09:32.440 And that's not attractive to women when men say that.
00:09:35.380 Here we go.
00:09:35.860 It's the burden of performance again, isn't it?
00:09:37.760 The guy's got to be stepping up.
00:09:38.860 I'm just being real.
00:09:39.100 As a woman, when a guy says, like, 0.98
00:09:40.760 oh, I need you to help me with this,
00:09:42.420 it's a bit like,
00:09:43.860 oh, you haven't got it then.
00:09:44.860 But it's also...
00:09:46.320 The one thing, though, is in the long run,
00:09:48.300 most women aren't going to want to work the same 1.00
00:09:49.820 when they're older.
00:09:50.900 Yeah.
00:09:51.200 So it's like, okay, you know,
00:09:52.960 let's just say you're in your 30s,
00:09:54.480 you're single, right?
00:09:55.520 We're not bringing the same youth and fertility
00:09:57.460 that we used to bring.
00:09:58.760 So how can we expect them to take over 100% of the bills?
00:10:02.380 And it's like, okay, the next...
00:10:04.580 You're going to be with him the next 50 years.
00:10:06.020 Maybe you only work the next 20 and 30.
00:10:08.740 But he's probably going to work longer than you.
00:10:12.020 As many of you know,
00:10:13.000 I was just banned on TikTok
00:10:15.140 and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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