JustPearlyThings - UNCOVERING The Reasons Conor McGregor Was Found GUILTY

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00:01:30.000 I am your host, Pearl, and welcome to the show.

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00:02:11.080 Okay, so today's topic, I actually wanted to start the show with a couple stats that I

00:02:19.800 found that were actually insane.

00:02:21.960 So, I started thinking about how prevalent sex work was, and I decided to Google the number

00:02:31.400 of OnlyFans workers.

00:02:35.180 And when I tell you guys this number, I want you to remember, sex work is an industry for

00:02:45.280 young women.

00:02:46.060 And so, the majority of this number is going to come from Gen Z.

00:02:51.940 I found out 1.4 million women in America do OnlyFans.

00:02:58.140 So, out of curiosity, I Googled, and, you know, some of this is with discretion.

00:03:06.680 We don't have all the information, but they guessed that 1.2 million is between 18 and 24.

00:03:12.480 So, I decided to Google what percent of women, how many women in America are between 18 to 24.

00:03:21.820 I find out roughly 10 million in America, 10 million women.

00:03:27.120 So, just on OnlyFans alone, 10% of women in that age group are on OnlyFans.

00:03:36.340 So, this got me thinking even further.

00:03:39.060 And I thought, actuality to get money.

00:03:43.520 So, I Googled, seeking arrangements, which is, if you guys don't know, it's a sugar site.

00:03:50.980 How many women do you guys think are on seeking arrangements?

00:03:56.200 How many do you guys think?

00:04:02.680 17 million women are currently on seeking arrangements.

00:04:06.800 Now, I could not find the age breakdown.

00:04:10.940 Maybe if I do a little more research, I'll find it.

00:04:13.420 But to think that the majority of women on seeking, now, let's say the clientele for seeking

00:04:20.780 goes up to, like, 80 years old.

00:04:25.400 Like, I'd imagine there's got to be some old men.

00:04:27.320 So, let's say women can do that up to 40, 35.

00:04:31.280 You have to think the majority of those women are likely under 30, 35 at least.

00:04:37.880 There's only 10 million women between 18 to 25, roughly.

00:04:43.600 I think it's like 10 point something.

00:04:46.860 So, out of 82 million American men that are, oh, sorry.

00:04:51.760 So, then I decided to think more about the consumers.

00:04:55.120 Who is consuming OnlyFans?

00:04:57.100 And I found out that 82 million American men subscribe to OnlyFans.

00:05:06.820 Now, to think about how big that number is, how many people are in America?

00:05:13.180 I'm pretty sure it's 350 million.

00:05:16.880 How many men are?

00:05:19.740 Yeah, it's 165 million men are in the United States.

00:05:24.120 And they're telling me that 82 million out of 162 million are subscribed to OnlyFans.

00:05:35.420 Now, this study was a smaller sample size, to be fair, the one I'm about to say.

00:05:43.260 So, I'm not sure.

00:05:44.540 It could be, let's give or take 10%.

00:05:47.300 Of the 82 million men subscribed to OnlyFans, 90% are married.

00:05:58.500 And 87% of OnlyFans users are male.

00:06:03.960 And 68% of OnlyFans users are white.

00:06:07.860 So, the average OnlyFans customer is a white married man.

00:06:19.260 Now, how accurate are these stats?

00:06:23.720 I know there's some discretion, but even the fact that this is how it's leaning, even if it was 70% or 60% that are married, I still think that's mind-blowing.

00:06:40.060 So many men live quiet lives of desperation in marriages.

00:06:44.320 And the interesting thing is, you know, people see drug dealers as exploitative, right?

00:06:55.600 You're exploiting people that are drug addicts.

00:06:59.080 But yet, lonely men, young, attractive women that exploit lonely men for attention and money are not seen as exploitative.

00:07:13.160 Anyways, so, it's kind of crazy.

00:07:18.100 So, all right.

00:07:19.220 So, I'm trying to remember.

00:07:24.480 Oh, I did.

00:07:25.500 Oh, I can't play this clip on YouTube because it's a Nick clip.

00:07:29.840 Okay.

00:07:30.320 Well, as most of you know, I have been fighting on the front lines of the simp epidemic for years.

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00:07:42.480 It's not just the relentless anti-masculinity propaganda and OnlyFans hoes causing these societal issues that we discuss on the show.

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00:09:23.560 Okay, so I wanted to re-show you guys the video that we saw on Monday.

00:09:38.600 So there was a guy who got divorced over Yu-Gi-Oh!

00:09:43.380 So let me show you guys the video.

00:09:47.340 Let me just say it straight out the way.

00:09:49.440 Let me just say it straight out the way.

00:09:51.440 Let me just say it straight out the way.

00:09:56.800 Oh.

00:09:59.180 Oh, yeah, okay.

00:10:00.300 Sorry.

00:10:01.980 Okay.

00:10:04.920 I need to say this.

00:10:08.580 Let me just say it straight out the way.

00:10:10.780 I am no longer married, and I'm divorced.

00:10:14.460 This is not what this video is about, but that is something that you guys need to know.

00:10:24.920 When I met this woman, and I told her about my Yu-Gi-Oh! stuff, she hated it.

00:10:32.580 She didn't like it.

00:10:34.040 She said that, hey, you can do something better with your life.

00:10:38.280 You should go back to school.

00:10:39.680 So you know what I did back in 2016, 17, 16?

00:10:47.440 I said, you know what?

00:10:48.900 Maybe she's right.

00:10:50.580 You know what I did?

00:10:51.640 I sold all my equipment.

00:10:54.940 I sold my YouTube channel.

00:10:56.600 I sold all my camera stuff.

00:10:58.000 I'm like, you know what?

00:10:59.020 Maybe it is time to move on.

00:11:00.300 Maybe it's time for me to do something better with my life.

00:11:02.640 Not knowing that at that time, what I had was very special.

00:11:07.680 At that time, something that I chose to do, YouTube, I had something going on.

00:11:14.940 Even though I had some drama and stuff going on before, and I shut my channel a few times,

00:11:20.060 I had something that I completely gave up.

00:11:23.940 But I gave it up because someone said, hey, you know what?

00:11:29.340 Maybe it is time to move on.

00:11:31.160 You got to do something better with your life.

00:11:32.820 There's got to be something more for your life.

00:11:36.980 And I sold all my stuff for a woman.

00:11:41.480 And she's no longer here.

00:11:43.340 And the thing is, guys, the median is the message.

00:11:46.340 So if a woman is trying to change all of the things that you love, she doesn't like you.

00:11:51.480 She likes what you can provide.

00:11:53.940 I mean, he was a certain way.

00:11:56.420 He had certain things going on.

00:11:58.260 And by her coming in and saying, oh, do it my way, do it my way, do it my way,

00:12:02.640 it means that she thinks she knows better than he does for his life.

00:12:07.300 And this problem persists.

00:12:09.740 She told me at that time, hey, you want to meet my mother?

00:12:15.000 You need a car.

00:12:17.360 Because I didn't have a car at the time.

00:12:18.740 I was doing YouTube.

00:12:20.220 I was working from home.

00:12:21.580 I didn't need to drive anywhere.

00:12:24.560 Yes, YouTube is what I did for a living.

00:12:28.260 It's how I paid my bills.

00:12:29.660 And I was street performing also.

00:12:32.380 How did I street perform?

00:12:33.360 I just catch the bus 20 minutes down the street, played my horn, went home.

00:12:37.180 I never needed a car.

00:12:38.300 But when I met this woman, you have to go back to school.

00:12:42.720 You have to exercise.

00:12:44.580 You have to get your degree.

00:12:46.640 You have to do something better with your life.

00:12:48.360 Even though I explained to her, this is what I chose to do.

00:12:52.680 And this is why women get the impression that they build men.

00:12:58.360 It's very interesting when you hear women that say, don't ever make the mistake of building a man.

00:13:04.120 And I'm like, so I saw a woman the other day on TikTok.

00:13:09.060 And she was with this basketball player.

00:13:11.280 And she said she supported him when he was in college.

00:13:15.020 And she really helped to build him up.

00:13:17.700 And I just kept thinking, well, did you shoot?

00:13:20.460 Did you?

00:13:22.940 I mean, did you memorize the plays for him?

00:13:25.760 Did you learn how to dunk?

00:13:27.080 What did you do in this situation to build him?

00:13:32.420 But for some reason, we have a tendency to take all the credit and do none of the work.

00:13:38.660 I see it all the time.

00:13:40.700 I mean, how many times have you seen it where a woman, a man starts a business,

00:13:48.280 a woman's the secretary, salesperson, whatever, and seems to think she did all the work?

00:13:55.260 Like, I mean, I've seen this story a million times.

00:14:03.560 And now you have women that are in the NBA thinking that they are with NBA players thinking

00:14:13.720 that they built that.

00:14:16.380 This, I mean, gosh, I have literally, I mean, like Jeff Bezos's wife.

00:14:20.800 Did she deserve half of everything?

00:14:26.400 Did she build Amazon?

00:14:28.960 And then they'll show pictures of her in, like, Jeff's garage.

00:14:33.900 And you're like, okay, anyways.

00:14:36.800 Arms in your life and trying to tell you the plan that you chose for your life is wrong.

00:14:42.900 And out of love, I choose to say, you know what?

00:14:46.840 Maybe she's right.

00:14:47.700 And I took a chance.

00:14:49.400 I took a chance.

00:14:51.520 I said, you know what?

00:14:53.300 I'm going to give this up completely.

00:14:55.000 Like, for good.

00:14:57.580 Sold the channel to Jobber.

00:14:59.080 Sold all my stuff.

00:15:01.520 Tried to go back to school multiple times.

00:15:05.540 There's something.

00:15:07.560 I don't want to say that I can't finish school.

00:15:12.100 But it certainly feels like I can't.

00:15:14.960 I don't know what it is.

00:15:17.200 And every time I talk to people, they just think that everything I say is just an excuse.

00:15:23.540 You are a grown man.

00:15:26.000 You are an adult.

00:15:27.560 You can do it.

00:15:28.600 It's like no one can see it from my perspective.

00:15:32.600 It's like I am always wrong.

00:15:37.260 When I study, what do I do?

00:15:40.160 I fall asleep.

00:15:41.540 What do they say?

00:15:42.700 Hey, you're lazy.

00:15:43.980 You're procrastinating.

00:15:45.780 You're choosing not to do this.

00:15:47.380 And I'm like, there's got to be something wrong with me.

00:15:50.900 When it comes to school, study, and staying on task and staying focused, I just can't do it.

00:15:58.600 And I try, and I go back to school, and I pay all this money, and I pay all this money, and I fail, and I fail, and I fail.

00:16:11.020 Music has always been there for me, and I've always been great at it.

00:16:15.580 People say that, hey, they try to test me.

00:16:22.200 They say, hey, you know music, right?

00:16:24.780 You know this person?

00:16:25.640 No.

00:16:26.020 You know this person?

00:16:26.800 No.

00:16:27.160 You know this person?

00:16:27.860 No.

00:16:28.100 Well, how are you a musician?

00:16:30.440 I also get people say to me, hey, what key is this in?

00:16:33.520 I say, I don't know.

00:16:34.640 They say, well, how are you playing?

00:16:36.360 How are you a musician?

00:16:37.880 How do you play so well?

00:16:39.040 Now, I am not the type of person who is book smart or knowledgeable.

00:16:47.960 I don't know things, but I know how to do things.

00:16:52.820 I know how to do things physically in a creative way.

00:16:58.580 I'm not the type of person who retains things and holds on to things, who can read a book and then take a test, pass it, and go on.

00:17:07.260 That's not me.

00:17:09.040 I am a creative mind, creative-minded person.

00:17:12.520 To be honest, I see this struggle on both sides of the equation, right?

00:17:18.800 When we were looking at the Brianna chicken fry situation, she's trying to become someone she's not to be with the guy.

00:17:27.000 And, you know, so I do see this on both sides.

00:17:31.600 And I think that's the challenge you're going to get is people trying to be things that they're not in order to get a relationship.

00:17:42.600 Some people can change who they are, but I think over a certain age, your core is just your core.

00:17:49.400 That's how you are.

00:17:50.200 Something that involves creativity, I can do at least to some degree where people are like, why are you doing so well?

00:17:58.480 You ever thought about going to school?

00:17:59.920 No.

00:18:00.300 I tried.

00:18:01.000 It doesn't work.

00:18:01.740 So, this is all tying together.

00:18:06.820 I met the parents.

00:18:09.940 They asked me, hey, what do you do for a living?

00:18:13.500 I had to tell them I am a musician.

00:18:18.300 I didn't, I couldn't tell them I was a street musician.

00:18:20.880 I am a musician.

00:18:22.740 Then they said, hey, you have a degree?

00:18:25.740 I said, I don't have a degree.

00:18:27.420 My ex-wife parents did not speak to me for two years and told her not to marry me because I don't have a degree.

00:18:37.460 What sense does that make?

00:18:39.740 So, I give up this YouTube thing.

00:18:41.620 I give up my entrepreneurial thing.

00:18:43.420 I try to do something that's not innately a part of my strengths at all because I'm thinking I'm in love to do something for somebody to prove something.

00:18:54.120 And this continues on through the merge.

00:19:00.520 She says, hey, you need to find a hobby.

00:19:03.600 I'm like, oh, let me play Yu-Gi-Oh again.

00:19:08.100 So, last December, last year, I stocked my channel up again.

00:19:12.860 I buy my channel back.

00:19:14.380 From job, I'm like, oh, she gave me the LK to go into a hobby.

00:19:17.520 You know what she said?

00:19:18.720 You're spending too much time playing those cards.

00:19:22.100 It's either the cards or me.

00:19:23.360 She literally said that.

00:19:24.920 Like, you just said I need a hobby.

00:19:26.660 I get into a hobby.

00:19:27.480 And now you're saying I'm doing it too much.

00:19:29.480 What is it?

00:19:30.960 What do I do?

00:19:32.640 And do you know what the saddest thing is?

00:19:38.120 Women will nitpick and henpick men for years over things that they genuinely love and love to do.

00:19:46.820 And I've seen men get out of marriages where they're just constantly apologizing for being loud or singing or whatever their thing that they really loved or maybe something about them that was a little quirky or different.

00:20:03.120 And it's like the saddest thing to see a man just broken because this woman has, you know, berated him over something he loves for years.

00:20:17.800 She says, why are you into those cards so much?

00:20:20.980 Peter Jones says, thank you, Pearl.

00:20:22.440 You're exposing another struggle that men have to fight with women.

00:20:25.920 Women work to neuter their man.

00:20:28.180 I said, hey, I need to make a video about something.

00:20:30.740 And I haven't played this card game for two years.

00:20:33.840 On and off, how can I make a video for my subscribers about something I have no knowledge of?

00:20:41.880 And I try to explain it to her, but she don't get it.

00:20:44.120 She thinks it's just cards you pick up and you just play like Uno.

00:20:48.520 It's not that way.

00:20:50.800 Every three months, a new set come out, new stuff come out.

00:20:53.640 I can't make a video about something if I don't know what it's about.

00:20:57.620 So, I can't start my channel back up and just start making videos.

00:21:04.140 I have to be in it.

00:21:06.260 I have to learn about it and learn what's going on.

00:21:14.040 So, she hated those cards.

00:21:16.740 She literally cried because of those cards.

00:21:20.580 And people say, hey, priorities, man.

00:21:22.520 It's your wife or, you know, you got to do what you got to do.

00:21:25.900 But then I'll be back at that point where I'm giving up things that I like, things that's a part of my life for someone else to feel happy.

00:21:38.020 And I feel miserable in the process.

00:21:41.060 I'm sitting there watching all these YouTubers come out and make videos and do all this stuff.

00:21:45.360 They're traveling.

00:21:46.060 I'm like, that's what I used to do.

00:21:48.200 I love that.

00:21:49.160 I miss that.

00:21:50.040 Why can't she come along with my journey instead of scrutinizing me?

00:21:53.080 And then that's money gone from me.

00:21:55.940 It's not about the money, but that was money gone from me.

00:22:00.200 Then, street performing.

00:22:02.600 I said to her, hey, I don't want to move away from Baltimore.

00:22:09.280 You might be thinking, why?

00:22:10.780 That's where my home base is.

00:22:13.280 My gigs, my performances, everything.

00:22:16.360 Keep in mind, I didn't have a job.

00:22:18.620 Like, when I say I don't have a job, like a real job.

00:22:21.700 A real job is, you know, going in, nine to five.

00:22:25.720 I didn't have a real job for over 10 years.

00:22:28.440 It was YouTube and playing my horn.

00:22:30.800 That's how I paid all my bills.

00:22:33.080 So when we got married and we moved out to Baltimore to somewhere else that I didn't want to be,

00:22:38.140 she said, hey, how come you're not paying the bills?

00:22:40.780 And I was like, what?

00:22:43.780 I have a job.

00:22:45.700 I have a nine to five job.

00:22:48.400 I don't make enough from this nine to five job to pay all these bills.

00:22:53.720 Before then, I could.

00:22:56.840 Street performing.

00:22:58.480 And YouTube.

00:22:59.840 I made enough money off of that to pay the bills.

00:23:02.800 Now I'm working nine to five all day long.

00:23:05.720 And that's not a complaint because there are people who do that.

00:23:07.800 But I had something that most people wish they had.

00:23:11.780 Most people wish they can go out, make some money, pay their bills, and have all day off.

00:23:17.960 That was a gift.

00:23:20.680 That was something that I had.

00:23:27.580 Now, you can take this video of me complaining, crying.

00:23:31.740 It is true.

00:23:33.400 I am complaining.

00:23:34.760 I am hurt.

00:23:36.060 I made some mistakes.

00:23:37.480 I did some dumb things.

00:23:39.940 And you're right.

00:23:41.060 It is my fault.

00:23:42.780 I chose.

00:23:44.360 I chose to sell my channel.

00:23:48.400 I chose to give up the thing.

00:23:50.640 Not realizing, you know what?

00:23:54.020 This is my YouTube channel.

00:23:56.760 This is my life.

00:23:58.500 You can't come into my life and dictate to me and tell me what's better for me.

00:24:03.840 Because you don't see it from my perspective.

00:24:06.940 And they get mad at me when I lose all of those things that I can't do.

00:24:16.260 And I can't do what you think I should do.

00:24:18.580 I've never been that way.

00:24:21.040 It's like you're trying to tell me to walk or run a lap or race with no legs.

00:24:30.000 You're trying to tell me to do something that I innately just cannot do.

00:24:33.560 And when I say I can't do that, it's just an excuse.

00:24:38.800 So, I'm moving out.

00:24:44.660 In two weeks, I'll be moving out.

00:24:46.380 I'll have my own place again.

00:24:48.560 I'm starting over.

00:24:49.780 Starting my life over.

00:24:50.840 And you guys know, I couldn't make videos in the house.

00:24:57.040 The only time I can make YouTube videos is when she's gone.

00:25:01.320 And you might be thinking, oh, why is that?

00:25:03.500 She would come in here from her room and say, hey, you're too loud.

00:25:08.800 Hey, I'm trying to read.

00:25:11.620 I'm like, wait, what?

00:25:12.860 I got to talk.

00:25:14.380 I got to make a video.

00:25:16.840 I'm disturbing her.

00:25:18.100 And, yes, I'm venting and I'm ranting.

00:25:27.280 If you stayed this long, thank you.

00:25:28.960 If you didn't, it's okay.

00:25:31.240 But I needed to get this off my chest because it was brewing.

00:25:34.660 I am deeply hurt.

00:25:36.780 And I hurt myself.

00:25:38.500 I don't blame her at all.

00:25:41.420 Everything that I've chosen to do is because I wanted to do it.

00:25:48.100 I wanted to make someone happy.

00:25:51.720 I wanted to make, I thought I can be that person for someone else.

00:25:55.400 And I thought I can do it.

00:25:56.980 I thought I can get away from YouTube and Yu-Gi-Oh!

00:25:59.960 And Street Performer.

00:26:00.920 I thought I can go back to school and pass and get a real job and make some good money.

00:26:07.240 To pay all my bills.

00:26:08.240 I thought I could be that man who could do those things.

00:26:10.980 But the truth is, I have special gifts and talents that other people wish they had to be able to pay and make money.

00:26:26.520 Okay, so I went to his channel because I was just curious about, he was getting millions of views on this stuff.

00:26:35.680 I kind of wanted to see what he was doing.

00:26:39.800 So this was 11 years ago.

00:26:46.360 Also, he's going to come on.

00:26:56.300 We're going to interview him in a second.

00:26:58.540 And if you guys have questions for him, please put it in the Audacity Network chat.

00:27:02.600 I will read your questions.

00:27:04.220 And yeah, we can.

00:27:05.580 I was just kind of curious what he's doing now.

00:27:07.560 So I thought I'd bring him on the show.

00:27:08.900 I'm going to dump, where you at?

00:27:13.260 Where are the counterpunks to the gravy?

00:27:15.620 Or whenever you attack me.

00:27:17.020 How much you boy at?

00:27:17.640 28?

00:27:18.380 No, 38.

00:27:19.440 38?

00:27:20.740 Okay.

00:27:21.600 I do not understand this at all.

00:27:24.740 What?

00:27:27.680 Oh, okay.

00:27:28.920 My producer says he's playing a very competitive game.

00:27:32.880 It must be very impressive in the UK.

00:27:36.260 Enjoy.

00:27:37.560 We're going to wrap.

00:27:38.900 Oh, he's one of the OGs.

00:27:42.140 Do you know his stuff?

00:27:43.700 No.

00:27:43.980 Oh, okay.

00:27:45.900 Oh, okay.

00:27:48.120 Yu-Gi-Oh gone crazy.

00:27:52.760 Oh, hell yeah.

00:27:54.280 Like, look how happy he is.

00:27:56.420 I can't believe she made him give this up.

00:28:00.440 So you go to 2,000.

00:28:01.920 I'll take that light point.

00:28:03.440 So you took that.

00:28:04.480 You took, what is that?

00:28:05.400 Seven?

00:28:06.120 Six.

00:28:07.300 Okay.

00:28:07.640 Is he on yet or no?

00:28:10.020 He is okay.

00:28:12.260 Be one second.

00:28:14.580 Yes.

00:28:15.020 You can work him up.

00:28:16.320 Okay.

00:28:16.760 I think it's, um, I think you're glitching a little bit.

00:28:41.360 I don't know.

00:28:42.020 Is that us or him?

00:28:42.860 Yeah, I think, uh, I think your Wi-Fi is glitching a little bit.

00:28:49.240 I'm not actually the one in the video doing anything.

00:28:52.600 I'm just the one filming the videos.

00:28:55.440 Oh, I thought this, okay.

00:28:57.360 I thought this was you like 10 years ago or something.

00:29:00.160 No, I look the same now as I did 10 years ago.

00:29:03.800 I have not changed my look.

00:29:04.960 Got it.

00:29:05.700 So you would go to these, like, Yu-Gi-Oh conventions or something and you would just film all of the, like, intense back and forth?

00:29:13.080 Is that, like, the premise of your channel?

00:29:15.540 No.

00:29:16.200 So if it's Yu-Gi-Oh related, I'm posting it.

00:29:19.220 That was my motto.

00:29:20.240 So I'm basically just a newscaster or broadcaster for the game of Yu-Gi-Oh.

00:29:25.340 Oh, so you were, like, a Yu-Gi-Oh news channel.

00:29:30.160 Sort of.

00:29:30.900 Sort of.

00:29:32.540 So that's really it.

00:29:34.060 So I go out, interview players, interview people who won tournaments.

00:29:38.740 I would go to tournaments and meet people, meet fans, talk about the game, what their opinion is on the game, and upload it.

00:29:46.340 Okay.

00:29:47.080 And so when did you decide to give it all up?

00:29:50.500 How long were you?

00:29:51.840 Were you married at the time?

00:29:53.200 Were you dating the woman?

00:29:54.180 No.

00:29:55.740 Um, I got married two years ago.

00:29:59.700 I was dating her six years before that.

00:30:04.040 So I met her a year before that.

00:30:06.620 So nine years ago from now is what?

00:30:10.660 2000?

00:30:12.200 2000?

00:30:16.060 15?

00:30:17.300 Mm-hmm.

00:30:17.660 2015.

00:30:18.720 15?

00:30:19.880 Okay.

00:30:20.940 And did she not know about the Yu-Gi-Oh?

00:30:24.060 She did not know stuff before?

00:30:25.540 She did not know, but I did bring her to the tournament.

00:30:29.140 That's one of the first things.

00:30:30.320 I still do that.

00:30:31.020 When I meet someone, I say, hey, let's go to a tournament.

00:30:33.700 Let me show you what I do.

00:30:35.960 So I brought her there, and she was just disinterested at that time.

00:30:40.200 Mm-hmm.

00:30:41.680 Okay.

00:30:42.020 Because I was just curious, um, you know, it's one thing if you don't know what you're

00:30:47.840 getting into, right?

00:30:49.140 But it seems like she knew about the Yu-Gi-Oh stuff before you guys were that serious, right?

00:30:54.900 Right.

00:30:55.200 Okay.

00:30:56.740 And how did the conversation start about you, like, stopping?

00:31:02.960 Like, how long into the relationship was it when she started bringing that up?

00:31:07.060 It was around the second year, but it wasn't about Yu-Gi-Oh as, as, I know Yu-Gi-Oh, what

00:31:17.360 my channel's about when I posted about Yu-Gi-Oh, but it was the second year that we were together

00:31:23.540 that they, the topics about, uh, what do you do?

00:31:28.420 How much of I came up?

00:31:30.940 Yeah.

00:31:32.580 Did your ex, they want to know if your ex stole your router?

00:31:36.840 No, she's not a bad person.

00:31:39.620 Yeah.

00:31:39.920 Uh, as a whole, she's not a bad person at all.

00:31:42.560 Her intentions are actually good, and I just wanted to make that clear that, you know, it

00:31:49.200 wasn't a, um, heated divorce, nobody lost anything, it was mutual, and we both came to

00:31:57.060 the conclusion that we just weren't for each other.

00:31:59.380 Yeah, it was just, it's, it didn't sound like you were trashing her, it sounded like

00:32:03.480 you, she was trying to make you into something you weren't.

00:32:07.120 Would you say that's true?

00:32:12.000 Did he drop?

00:32:27.060 Um, I can't hear you right now.

00:32:30.940 We'll give him a second, guys.

00:32:32.620 Put any questions you have in the chat.

00:32:34.540 I will read them to him.

00:32:36.220 Nothing rude or disrespectful, you know, don't, nothing like that, but if you have any questions

00:32:41.100 about, like, what happened, and I'm more, I was going to ask him next about what he's

00:32:47.760 doing now.

00:32:48.520 I see we got six people in the chat, we got Peter Craig, EJ, Chenille, Yakov, all you got

00:32:59.420 to do, it's 10 bucks a month on the Audacity Network.

00:33:06.300 She wasn't getting 24-hour attention.

00:33:11.440 Yeah, everything on, everything on my end.

00:33:13.800 Oh, I hear you now, now you're back.

00:33:15.920 I don't know.

00:33:16.340 Everything on my end just stopped.

00:33:18.560 I don't know.

00:33:19.480 Literally, I'm looking at my camera, I see myself looking at myself frozen.

00:33:23.920 I don't know.

00:33:25.000 I mean, we'll just, we'll just roll with it.

00:33:27.460 Yeah, it is.

00:33:28.500 But like I was saying, I don't think it sounded like you were trashing her.

00:33:32.320 It sounded like she just wanted you to be something that you just couldn't be.

00:33:37.700 Right.

00:33:38.260 And I tried.

00:33:41.120 Yeah.

00:33:41.520 Um, so what are you, I think people are curious what you're doing now.

00:33:46.480 So like what, when you gave up Yu-Gi-Oh, what did you end up like going to do?

00:33:50.860 And are you happy doing it?

00:33:53.080 Okay.

00:33:53.480 Can you hear me?

00:33:54.340 Yeah, I can hear you.

00:33:55.780 All right.

00:33:56.420 So my goal was, well, I took high ideas of, hold on.

00:34:07.840 I took high ideas and I said, okay, I'll go back to school.

00:34:12.600 Well, I'm trying to put in the timeline because in my video was the car first.

00:34:17.240 So I bought the car.

00:34:22.200 I took out a loan for that.

00:34:25.000 I went back to school.

00:34:26.480 This was Coppin State University in Baltimore for political science.

00:34:32.560 Um, didn't do so well there.

00:34:36.060 We talked about my passion and what I really, really wanted to do, which was music.

00:34:41.120 And I'm trying to put or combine what she wanted from me and what I wanted so we can

00:34:49.860 both get the same thing.

00:34:51.780 I was trying to achieve her goal and my goal in one.

00:34:56.460 And so since I love music and she wants me to go back to school, let me go back to school

00:35:01.380 for music.

00:35:02.740 So I changed my major to music and I went to Baltimore City Community College and changed

00:35:10.000 my major to music and I went there and I didn't do so well there, my grandmother's house and

00:35:19.440 our, our, um, I'll try school again.

00:35:25.860 So I tried Morgan State University, went there one week, ended up leaving that school, uh,

00:35:33.620 because conflicts of interest, I was starting to get older and I was, there were things I

00:35:38.920 had to do mandatory, like marching band, which I've done already while I was in high school.

00:35:44.120 I mean, college and high school.

00:35:46.160 The first time I didn't want to do that as I got older, um, marching band.

00:35:55.360 Uh, ended up moving into my father's house.

00:35:58.540 This is the timeline.

00:35:59.700 Uh, and I just worked from that point on, I worked and I worked and I worked until she

00:36:09.080 wanted, around the time, this is the sixth year in now, six years, her parents probably

00:36:16.100 gave up the idea, oh, he doesn't, he's okay.

00:36:19.260 You can marry him.

00:36:20.040 Um, and so I, oh, as soon as the parents gave me the ALK, I worked, I worked, I saved up

00:36:25.400 for the merge, I paid for the merge, we got married, great.

00:36:31.980 Now that we're married, conversation come up again.

00:36:34.280 What are you going to do?

00:36:34.880 Are you going to go back to school?

00:36:35.920 So I went to Frederick Community College for music and then I started teaching as a long-term

00:36:42.600 sub in Frederick, uh, County Public Schools.

00:36:45.780 And here we go at the end of the school, of the eight years, I became a full-time staff

00:36:59.580 member and there's no way I could have gone to school full-time and work full-time and major

00:37:08.200 in music.

00:37:09.460 There's no way I could have done it because once I go to a four-year university, it's the

00:37:15.740 classes are during the time that I work, unless I get a nighttime job, which I've been trying

00:37:20.660 to do and I've been unsuccessful.

00:37:25.260 Okay.

00:37:25.740 So now you're teaching full-time?

00:37:28.800 Yes.

00:37:29.560 Okay.

00:37:29.840 And I'm just curious.

00:37:30.800 So before you were working three hours a day when you were doing YouTube, okay.

00:37:36.520 Let me elaborate on that.

00:37:38.040 Monday through Thursday, I work three hours, winter until spring.

00:37:46.720 And then Saturday, Friday, Saturday, I would work up until, if it's not winter or spring,

00:37:54.380 all day.

00:37:55.840 And Sunday wouldn't be either be my day off or if I didn't reach my financial goals for

00:38:00.020 that week, I would play on Sunday.

00:38:01.680 And you're saying the, is that a trumpet in your picture?

00:38:06.180 It's a flugel horn that I play.

00:38:09.580 I've never heard of, I've never heard of that, a flugel horn.

00:38:12.480 If it is a trumpet there, then that's fine.

00:38:17.140 But I play flugel horn.

00:38:20.440 Okay.

00:38:20.820 So you would do that in the summer.

00:38:22.680 And were you, you don't have to say numbers, but were you making more doing the YouTube

00:38:27.380 stuff than you ended up doing teaching?

00:38:29.600 I was making more playing my horn than teaching in YouTube.

00:38:38.900 Wow.

00:38:39.820 So you're doing pretty well then.

00:38:42.160 Yeah.

00:38:42.500 So I know people say, oh, he's a street performer.

00:38:46.400 And they think that you're just someone on the street begging or whatever.

00:38:51.580 But that was a choice that I made.

00:38:54.940 I wanted to street perform.

00:38:57.500 Yeah.

00:38:58.060 But now I use street perform.

00:39:00.780 Oh, I'm a street performer, but I was also a DJ and I also had a band and we did shows

00:39:06.920 and people hired me for weddings and solo events.

00:39:11.280 So street performing was the base, was at the base level for me, but that led to other

00:39:17.020 things for me.

00:39:20.100 That's how I passed out my business card.

00:39:22.080 That's how I promoted myself.

00:39:23.580 Well, and it seems like you're really happy.

00:39:25.920 That seems like a great way to, so are you going to move back to Baltimore now and start

00:39:29.680 street performing again?

00:39:31.540 I still street perform.

00:39:33.120 Okay.

00:39:33.580 And I'm not going to go back to Baltimore right now because I'm financially not ready to move

00:39:42.240 there.

00:39:42.500 So I have a plan.

00:39:44.540 Go back to your question.

00:39:46.020 And I made about $1,000 a week.

00:39:50.400 Okay.

00:39:51.060 That's not bad.

00:39:52.560 Consistently across the year.

00:39:54.660 Okay.

00:39:55.140 So in the summertime, of course, there was more.

00:39:59.120 I would make $1,000 just on the weekend.

00:40:03.000 So for those three hours, I played Monday through Thursday, which is between $150 and $500 a day.

00:40:12.720 And then Friday, Saturday, Sunday, just $1,000.

00:40:17.000 It's usually more than that, but I've just, I averaged it out throughout the year as $1,000

00:40:21.320 a week.

00:40:22.400 Okay.

00:40:23.640 But I just, were you making more doing that than the teaching stuff now?

00:40:28.900 Yeah, that's true.

00:40:29.800 Okay.

00:40:30.420 Yeah.

00:40:30.660 So it's almost like you gave it up to make, it must be pretty frustrating.

00:40:34.860 You give it up to do something you don't like as much to make less.

00:40:39.100 I do like teaching.

00:40:41.220 Okay.

00:40:41.600 You do.

00:40:42.560 So going back to what I talked about earlier, finding the middle ground between what she wants

00:40:47.640 for me and what works for me was how I thought was going to bridge us together.

00:40:54.700 And so teaching and going back to school for music was one of them.

00:40:59.380 I only, I'm a substitute teacher because I have enough credits, college credits to do

00:41:04.480 that, but not enough to be a music teacher.

00:41:08.280 Oh, okay.

00:41:10.040 Yes.

00:41:10.620 So what are your plans now?

00:41:12.920 Okay.

00:41:13.340 So I'm in the process of moving out.

00:41:17.240 My first plan is, was to find a second job, which I did.

00:41:21.600 I worked at the RVT, which is a registered behavioral technician where I help kids with

00:41:27.600 autism or ADHD, dyslexia, things like that.

00:41:32.640 So school during the day, teaching between four and seven.

00:41:38.160 Today I took off because of Thanksgiving.

00:41:41.460 So my goal was to save as much money, move out, cheap, as cheap as possible where I can

00:41:48.520 still do what I need to do, save all my money, build my credit back up to where it was, and

00:41:56.220 then get my, get my own place again.

00:41:58.820 My own, when I say my own, it's just me.

00:42:00.820 And my own stuff and build myself back up.

00:42:05.740 Because before I met her, I had two bedrooms, two bath apartments.

00:42:11.320 I was, had all new furniture.

00:42:13.480 I was great.

00:42:14.360 I was fantastic.

00:42:16.740 And then you got into debt from school, I'm guessing.

00:42:21.340 Say that again?

00:42:22.320 And then you, you got into like a less, a worse financial place because of going to school.

00:42:28.980 Yes.

00:42:29.320 Because I don't really have control over my finances.

00:42:33.380 For example, if I'm playing my horn, the level of control is what place I go to, how many

00:42:40.680 people are out there.

00:42:41.820 I can pick and choose what place, like Washington, D.C.

00:42:47.400 The inner harbor, Baltimore City.

00:42:49.140 And I play well enough where people's like, you shouldn't be out here, dude, here.

00:42:57.480 You shouldn't be out here.

00:42:59.060 And I dress nice.

00:43:00.000 I make sure I get my hair cut.

00:43:01.140 I wear a suit.

00:43:02.040 I play my horn.

00:43:03.120 I treat people nice.

00:43:04.240 And people tip me for that.

00:43:06.140 So my plan is just to get back to where I was eight years ago, financially and credit-wise.

00:43:19.220 And then build myself from there.

00:43:21.980 Okay.

00:43:23.000 Well, I'm happy to hear it.

00:43:24.640 It sounds like you're in good spirits through it all, right?

00:43:28.200 Yeah.

00:43:28.540 Yeah, I am.

00:43:29.960 Because even though the divorce happened in May, the healing process or for me and the realization

00:43:38.800 of what's been going on started way before that.

00:43:42.460 Mm-hmm.

00:43:43.600 It started, if I were to say it started before.

00:43:49.220 Even before I got married.

00:43:50.740 And I still went through with things.

00:43:55.960 Wait, so who filed?

00:43:57.580 Did she file or did you file?

00:44:00.260 I filed.

00:44:01.360 Okay.

00:44:03.100 I filed.

00:44:05.280 But it was mutual.

00:44:07.840 Okay.

00:44:09.180 There's a lot more to go into this, culture-wise.

00:44:15.180 She's from Kenya.

00:44:16.540 I'm from Baltimore.

00:44:17.240 She's Kenyans in Africa.

00:44:21.040 Oh, that makes the degree thing make a lot of sense.

00:44:23.860 I guess they really care about that.

00:44:25.880 Yeah.

00:44:26.560 So let me feed you more context then.

00:44:29.200 Yeah.

00:44:30.300 They believe in education.

00:44:32.880 Yeah.

00:44:33.180 They believe in religion.

00:44:36.640 Heavily.

00:44:37.160 Now that you got that out of the way, that is also, I have moments where I forget what

00:44:44.540 I'm about to say.

00:44:47.920 Education and Christian religion.

00:44:53.240 And also, for the wedding, normally in America, who pays for the wedding?

00:45:04.720 The guy.

00:45:06.200 The guy pays for the wedding in America?

00:45:08.440 I think so.

00:45:09.520 Yeah.

00:45:09.700 Okay.

00:45:10.520 Let's say that.

00:45:12.240 Yes, I paid for the wedding.

00:45:13.900 Okay.

00:45:15.100 I, if I can save $60,000 in two years to pay for the wedding, why can't I be able to, these

00:45:24.860 are things that come in my head.

00:45:26.060 Why wasn't I able to provide?

00:45:27.900 Why couldn't I?

00:45:28.520 You spent $60,000 on a wedding?

00:45:32.900 Yes.

00:45:35.180 If I, and I'm going to give you some more context.

00:45:40.000 I don't want to keep rambling, but I'm trying to let you see more inside.

00:45:46.180 I don't get along with my family at all.

00:45:49.160 When I say get along, it's not like, it's more like we don't talk.

00:45:54.540 And I talked to my ex-wife at the time.

00:45:59.480 I said, let's have a small wedding because I don't want to invite my family.

00:46:05.200 I don't want to go through that process of trying to invite people who don't know me.

00:46:11.720 When I say don't know me, if you come to me and say, hey, and you call me some other

00:46:16.760 name, I'm like, dude, my name is J-F-F.

00:46:19.920 It's been years.

00:46:21.320 Or you come to me and say, hey, how's your saxophone playing going?

00:46:24.040 I'm like, wait, I've been playing since I was 10 and I played trumpet and you're

00:46:28.520 telling me I play sax.

00:46:30.180 Those are the type of people I don't want to invite to my wedding who don't know me.

00:46:34.800 But I had to invite people to the wedding.

00:46:39.940 Like it was her way.

00:46:42.560 To me, it was her way or nothing.

00:46:46.860 That's what it felt like.

00:46:47.820 No matter how much I talked or how much I pleaded.

00:46:50.280 And some people would say, hey, I've just been a pushover and I didn't put my foot down

00:46:56.980 enough.

00:46:59.280 But.

00:46:59.340 I just.

00:47:03.700 Sorry, go ahead.

00:47:04.820 I just wish that someone that.

00:47:08.340 She just listened to me and saw me and say, OK, this is going to be my husband.

00:47:14.320 Let me focus on us and not, you know, my religion, my what my family thinks, the projections that

00:47:24.380 she puts on me based on how she was raised.

00:47:27.580 Just us and grow together for us.

00:47:31.480 So we can be successful for each other and not for the world or other people.

00:47:37.020 Yeah.

00:47:37.220 There's a couple of questions in the chat that people have for you.

00:47:43.460 OK.

00:47:43.980 They want to know what did you have in common with her?

00:47:46.700 We.

00:47:59.820 We both want it.

00:48:01.120 This is going to sound stupid.

00:48:02.520 Of course, we both.

00:48:03.420 Everyone wants a relationship or at least a good majority of people.

00:48:07.900 We believe in the idea of love.

00:48:10.540 Like we, we, we have our mindset of what love is and what.

00:48:18.280 That entails.

00:48:21.100 Um, we both want a family and the normal stuff that people would want.

00:48:28.040 Family, kids, pay your bills.

00:48:31.140 It's very basic, basic things there.

00:48:35.180 Um.

00:48:35.780 But as far as the word in common, as in the normal sense, you read the same books.

00:48:45.640 Do you watch the same shows?

00:48:47.500 Do you go to the same places?

00:48:49.740 Uh, not much of those.

00:48:51.840 She's a book reader.

00:48:52.760 I'm not a book reader.

00:48:54.680 Um, I like scary movies.

00:48:57.220 She don't.

00:48:58.720 She like action movies.

00:48:59.780 I like action movies.

00:49:00.540 But we didn't really have much in common as in, it was like, oh, wow, we can, that would

00:49:08.760 spark people, that people like to use that as a way to get together with someone.

00:49:13.500 They want to, that wasn't.

00:49:15.120 Sorry, go ahead.

00:49:16.640 They want to, they want to know also when you first started to feel inadequate to her.

00:49:23.900 The second year after we started dating.

00:49:27.660 And here's why.

00:49:33.940 We were just friends and we were just going out and dating.

00:49:38.500 And then after the second year, I was like, maybe I should turn up the relationship because

00:49:43.560 I'm the type, I'm not pushy.

00:49:44.920 I'm not, I didn't try to have sex with her or do anything with her.

00:49:48.360 So the second year, I was like, we've been together for the second year.

00:49:51.340 Maybe we should turn this thing up.

00:49:55.140 But that's when we had to talk.

00:49:56.600 She wanted to wait to emerge.

00:49:58.920 And I was like, can I really do this?

00:50:01.260 Can I wait?

00:50:02.380 How old was she?

00:50:05.140 She's 25.

00:50:06.560 Was she a virgin?

00:50:08.400 Yes.

00:50:09.720 Are you sure?

00:50:11.320 Yes.

00:50:13.560 Okay.

00:50:14.100 25?

00:50:15.380 Did she go to college?

00:50:17.280 Yes.

00:50:18.160 She went to college?

00:50:19.880 Yes.

00:50:20.340 And she has a master's degree.

00:50:21.480 She's, she's, yeah.

00:50:25.260 Okay.

00:50:25.820 So we had to, and I was like, wait till merge, knowing myself.

00:50:30.320 Yeah.

00:50:31.660 I was like, maybe I, maybe I could.

00:50:34.320 Yeah.

00:50:34.640 Maybe I could.

00:50:35.220 Well, it sounds like, it sounds like you're kind of going with what she wanted.

00:50:38.940 Yeah.

00:50:39.220 That's true.

00:50:39.900 Yeah.

00:50:40.120 And so then it became, what can I do since we have to wait till merge?

00:50:49.920 So I started to touch her and she was like, oh, no, no.

00:50:54.160 We couldn't, we couldn't touch her.

00:50:56.540 She couldn't stay the night.

00:50:57.760 We couldn't do anything.

00:51:01.000 And knowing myself, that was the first time, not that I felt inadequate for her, but I

00:51:06.620 was, that was the first instance I was letting something that I like go for her.

00:51:12.640 But it was way into merge, you know, maybe I could do that.

00:51:16.860 Wait, and how long, you guys dated for like seven years, right?

00:51:20.040 Six years.

00:51:21.760 Wow.

00:51:22.200 So, um, they, they also want to know, ask him if he forgave his mother.

00:51:31.700 Did you forgive your mother?

00:51:33.720 Forgive her mother?

00:51:35.160 No, your mother.

00:51:36.240 I don't know.

00:51:37.560 My mother is dead.

00:51:40.920 Sorry.

00:51:41.680 They just, I don't know.

00:51:43.420 My mother died two years ago.

00:51:45.560 Okay.

00:51:47.100 I'm sorry to hear that.

00:51:49.200 I'm sorry.

00:51:50.080 They don't know.

00:51:50.520 They put it in the chat.

00:51:51.280 Drug overdose.

00:51:52.820 Yeah.

00:51:53.420 Um, okay.

00:51:54.840 Well, I'm really glad to hear you're doing better.

00:51:57.600 Where can they, um, where can they find you?

00:52:03.580 Um, just type in your Yu-Gi-Oh channel, or you can type in my name.

00:52:11.920 My name is spelled J-A-P-H-E-T-H.

00:52:16.660 And my last name is C-L-A-R-K.

00:52:19.820 Hey, you'll find a lot of things about me on the internet.

00:52:23.040 I was arrested for street performing.

00:52:24.540 I'm going to court for that.

00:52:25.800 That's crazy.

00:52:27.140 You're arrested for street performing.

00:52:29.480 Yeah.

00:52:29.940 You should see the videos.

00:52:30.900 All over Reddit.

00:52:32.340 It's crazy.

00:52:33.260 Okay.

00:52:34.040 I'll look it up.

00:52:35.160 I got, I got a lot of stuff going on.

00:52:36.960 It's crazy.

00:52:37.280 Okay.

00:52:38.380 Well, um, thanks for coming on.

00:52:40.480 And, um, I know there's a couple people I, I think that want to have you on in the manosphere.

00:52:46.160 So I'm sure you'll get some emails.

00:52:48.560 We'll see.

00:52:49.540 We'll see.

00:52:50.120 I just want to be able to tell a story in a way where I'm not blaming her for anything.

00:52:55.240 Yeah.

00:52:56.320 Cause I'm not the type of person who put someone down.

00:52:59.720 Yeah.

00:53:00.660 Yeah.

00:53:01.260 Yeah.

00:53:01.440 I can tell.

00:53:01.940 I don't think anyone gets that impression.

00:53:03.720 So thank you very much for coming on.

00:53:05.480 Um, okay guys.

00:53:09.040 So the next story we're going to talk about today is the Conor McGregor case.

00:53:17.740 So I recently started researching the Conor McGregor case and I wanted to know

00:53:24.940 what incentive does a man as rich, powerful, and famous as Conor McGregor have to

00:53:34.920 assault somebody.

00:53:36.540 So recently Conor McGregor was accused of, um, I don't know if I can say it on YouTube,

00:53:42.360 but great.

00:53:42.960 Let's say, and Conor McGregor is a world famous superstar.

00:53:47.840 He's worth hundreds of millions of dollars.

00:53:50.240 He's married.

00:53:51.200 He has four kids and allegedly, actually this was confirmed by both of them around six years

00:53:57.880 ago.

00:53:58.660 He received a message from a woman named Nikita and Nikita sent him provocative pictures.

00:54:04.920 of her in a sex, sexy dress.

00:54:09.520 Now, who is Nikita?

00:54:11.460 Nikita was somebody that he knew, I think through mutual friends.

00:54:15.320 And apparently she had a boyfriend and a child at home.

00:54:19.380 Now he picks up Nikita.

00:54:22.180 They go out, they are partying.

00:54:25.720 Um, I don't, it was like a three day bender, but I think she was at the end of this bender

00:54:30.020 and they're partying all night drinking.

00:54:33.260 And he ends up taking her back to the hotel room with his friend and one of her friends.

00:54:40.160 Now they're doing drugs.

00:54:41.860 They're drinking.

00:54:42.620 This is like a three day bender.

00:54:44.440 Right.

00:54:44.760 And I want to talk about some of the, and after this happens, she is, she accuses Connor

00:54:53.080 McRaviger of rape.

00:54:54.560 Now I listened to many people go over this case and I want to talk about the facts that

00:55:00.500 are not too good for Nikita and the ones that are not too good for Connor.

00:55:05.600 So number one, she sent him a sexual picture in a dress.

00:55:09.520 I don't know.

00:55:11.940 I mean, to me, if you're sending sexual pictures to a guy with your boobs out and in provocative

00:55:18.940 poses to me, that signals that you want to have sex, right?

00:55:23.340 She had a boyfriend.

00:55:24.240 She had a child at home.

00:55:25.940 Connor's friend, I guess, also had sex with her that night consensually.

00:55:31.620 So not only did this woman have sex with Connor, but she also had sex with Connor's friend.

00:55:36.920 She was lying to her boyfriend about where she was the whole night and having in, she

00:55:42.080 in typing in depth essays to him.

00:55:44.860 She says there are parts of the night that she doesn't remember.

00:55:48.100 For example, Connor's friend having sex with her.

00:55:50.900 It's pretty convenient.

00:55:52.460 I don't know.

00:55:53.700 And, um, to me and, but magically she remembers Connor McRaviger raping her.

00:56:00.940 Allegedly there's CCTV footage showing Nikita all over both of the guys.

00:56:06.920 Her friend actually testified against her.

00:56:10.880 The security guard that was with them all night said that he didn't see anything and

00:56:16.200 she was very drunk doing coke.

00:56:20.420 Now this court was, this case was done in civil court and civil court is different than criminal

00:56:27.560 court.

00:56:28.020 Criminal court is based on a preponderance of the evidence.

00:56:32.200 It means basically that you have to be over 90% sure that the person did it.

00:56:38.260 Unfortunately, in the UK, I learned about a system called the balance of probabilities.

00:56:42.480 Now balance of probabilities means that it is more likely that they did it than not, meaning

00:56:47.340 it's 51%.

00:56:48.940 And I've seen this get abused in family court year over year over year.

00:56:54.200 Now he did have a jury trial and it was eight women and four men.

00:56:59.740 I think that kind of worked against him in this case.

00:57:02.140 Now there was some facts that I have to say did, I mean, could look bad, right?

00:57:09.420 One is that there is a tampon wedged in her vagina, very, um, far up.

00:57:15.260 And I guess it had to be like surgically taken out.

00:57:19.480 And the second is that the doctor said that she had pretty bad bruising on her.

00:57:24.600 Now, my question is if she's super drunk and doing coke, what else was she doing that night?

00:57:29.720 She already had sex with two different guys.

00:57:32.740 So do we know the bruising is for sure from Conor McGregor?

00:57:37.240 And not only that, she proceeded to spend time with both of the men after.

00:57:42.320 So if, if I don't know about you ladies, but if I was assaulted by a man, you want to

00:57:48.160 get away from him as soon as possible.

00:57:50.580 The next question is if he really was that vicious towards her, I mean, how is she not

00:57:58.420 dead?

00:57:58.800 Doesn't he beat up men for a living?

00:58:00.740 Like, how is she alive?

00:58:02.540 Um, so anyways, today I have a special guest coming on.

00:58:08.600 We have Private Eye Russ.

00:58:10.760 Hello, welcome to the show.

00:58:12.820 And he is going to talk about how Conor McGregor, I mean, I think to the average person, um,

00:58:20.880 this would be a cut and dry case to me.

00:58:23.400 Like, this is not guilty.

00:58:25.380 I don't even know how we got a guilty plea.

00:58:28.280 And like, I want to know, how did he find himself in this situation?

00:58:32.400 And can, what can men do to protect themselves?

00:58:34.920 Well, thank you very much for having me on again, Pearl.

00:58:39.580 Um, as usual, you're killing it.

00:58:41.640 Uh, your production quality is outstanding.

00:58:44.020 And so, uh, so I've got a high bar to try to reach.

00:58:47.240 So the, the Conor McGregor case, um, it's unfortunately, I've worked on a, um, a bunch

00:58:55.600 of grape accusations.

00:58:58.180 Um, and every single one I worked on turned out to be a false accusation.

00:59:02.340 Now, that's not to say that there aren't valid accusations, but the, the men that I, that

00:59:08.480 I helped defend had the wherewithal to protect themselves with excellent legal counsel.

00:59:13.340 They hired me as well, too.

00:59:14.560 And so Conor McGregor, see men like Conor McGregor, wealthy, famous, um, super famous guys.

00:59:22.320 He's what you call a, um, ultra high net worth individual.

00:59:26.340 Anybody with a net worth over $20 million is considered ultra high net worth, right?

00:59:32.020 If you're an ultra high net worth individual and you're not famous and no one knows who

00:59:36.140 you are, you can go out in public and have fun and do whatever you want.

00:59:39.700 When you're Conor McGregor, when you're a famous individual, um, you put yourself at

00:59:44.500 risk in a, in a very significant way.

00:59:46.880 I used to wonder why wealthy people, some of the clients I've worked for, for executive

00:59:51.200 protection would only go to really expensive clubs, exclusive places.

00:59:55.600 It's because they don't want to deal with the general public, not, not because they don't

00:59:59.260 like the general public, but because of the risk of, of liability or the potential for

01:00:03.900 liability.

01:00:04.460 I'll give you an example.

01:00:05.100 One of the guys who trained me how to do executive protection work so many years ago,

01:00:09.380 a man named Clifford Stewart, Clifford Stewart worked for, uh, Larry Flint.

01:00:13.600 After he got shot, he was on his protection detail.

01:00:16.420 He worked for a bunch of famous people, James Garner, but also to Mr. T also the, uh, members

01:00:21.720 of the Saudi Royal family.

01:00:22.800 So people would ask, why would Mr. T need a bodyguard, especially in the eighties?

01:00:27.340 Uh, Mr. T was a tough guy.

01:00:28.880 You know what I mean?

01:00:29.360 Big guy, martial artist, um, fighter, all the rest that liability.

01:00:33.400 If somebody walks up to Mr. T and starts a fight, Mr. T hits them.

01:00:36.400 That just cost Mr. T half a million dollars because they are going to sue.

01:00:40.660 So Conor McGregor had no business being in the position he was in.

01:00:46.400 I'm not saying whether or not I think he was guilty or innocent.

01:00:49.220 It doesn't really matter now because he's got to pay, um, not a significant amount of

01:00:53.120 money considering the charges against him.

01:00:55.120 It was like $260,000, I think.

01:00:57.420 And, and American $250,000, you're 250,000 euros.

01:01:02.360 But he winds up in this position because, um, a couple of different things.

01:01:06.760 One lack of discipline, lack of self-control, um, lack of accountability, uh, the people on

01:01:13.060 his team should have been steering him in a different direction.

01:01:16.320 So if, if you have an alcohol and a drug problem and you're out with a woman and you're both under

01:01:23.220 the influence of drugs and alcohol, if there is an accusation, typically that should be a wash,

01:01:28.400 right?

01:01:28.580 That should be about equal if there's equal protection under the law, right?

01:01:32.280 In theory.

01:01:33.720 But we already know if you're a man and you're being accused by a woman, even though you were

01:01:38.520 both under the influence, you are going to be, um, automatically considered to be the villain

01:01:44.960 or the predator.

01:01:46.000 She's going to automatically be considered the, the, um, the, the victim no matter what.

01:01:50.860 So imagine it from this, from this standpoint, you know, whether he, whether he did anything

01:01:55.520 wrong or not, I think the, you know, if you look at the, the court documents, they kind

01:01:59.560 of speak for themselves, you know, but, you know, I won't, won't say anything that's going

01:02:03.180 to get you, uh, get you in trouble with the YouTube, uh, YouTube overlords, you know what

01:02:07.420 I mean?

01:02:07.940 But, you know, the, the more you look into it, the more it, it looks a little bit, um, off,

01:02:13.160 let's just say.

01:02:13.800 So the key is don't get yourself in that position in the first place.

01:02:18.000 All right.

01:02:18.980 So I've, I've come across women that were very, you know, um, you know, under the influence

01:02:26.520 and very flirty, even aggressively, you know, pursuing me sexually.

01:02:31.140 You know what I do?

01:02:31.940 I walk away.

01:02:32.860 Why?

01:02:33.360 Because I know that's trouble, but for me to do that, I have to be sober.

01:02:37.320 You see what I'm saying?

01:02:38.080 So I have to be sober and in control of my, my, um, my faculties.

01:02:42.500 So I don't make that decision in the first place.

01:02:44.340 Cause once you get in that position, think of it like this, even if you're innocent,

01:02:48.620 once you're accused of G G R A P E grape, once you're accused of that, imagine you're

01:02:54.980 in, you're a 10 foot in a 10 foot hole in the ground and you've got to now dig yourself

01:02:59.520 out with a spoon while people shovel dirt on top of you.

01:03:03.020 Uh, it's, it's, it's a, it's an incredibly difficult task.

01:03:07.000 We've been able to do it.

01:03:08.240 Um, we've been able to do it every time we've, we've, we've embarked on that, on that particular

01:03:12.940 thing.

01:03:13.260 I haven't had the privilege of working with some really good attorneys, but there's,

01:03:19.400 there's, there's a correlation to this.

01:03:21.340 So bear with me.

01:03:21.880 So people wonder sometimes why the same women or stars or celebrities wind up going out with

01:03:27.340 the same women over and over.

01:03:28.360 You see it again, this, this woman's dating this guy and she's dating this guy and this guy

01:03:31.920 and this guy, they're like, why, why are they dating the same woman?

01:03:35.020 They're dating the same woman because she has been either partially or, or, or, or completely

01:03:41.160 vetted.

01:03:42.180 She's a woman who can be trusted around a person who is, has that much wealth, that much

01:03:47.360 power, that much fame.

01:03:48.820 And so she's, she's proven not to be a thief.

01:03:52.080 That's one of those things.

01:03:52.920 She's proven not to be a person who's going to speak out of turn or pillow talk.

01:03:56.600 That's another thing.

01:03:57.700 And she's, and she's not trying to embarrass them.

01:04:00.340 And that's why some of these guys will go out with the same women.

01:04:03.840 That's, that's part of the reason why, why, why Drake is Mr.

01:04:06.960 Steal Your Girl.

01:04:08.240 You know, like, like, you know, number one, keep your girl away from Drake, away from Drake

01:04:13.880 because Drake is, Drake is ruthless.

01:04:15.960 But part of the reason for that is these women have been already pre-selected, pre-chosen

01:04:21.100 and pre-strained.

01:04:22.440 You know what I'm saying?

01:04:23.160 So, so Conor McGregor, and, and I've, I've worked with some very wealthy, famous people,

01:04:28.500 people that can't do things that ordinary people can do.

01:04:31.360 So I'll give you an example, not names.

01:04:32.840 I don't give you any names, anything like that.

01:04:34.120 But I had a client that was so famous and so wealthy.

01:04:37.520 He had a car guy.

01:04:39.280 The car guy filled the car, the cars with gas.

01:04:42.040 Why?

01:04:42.440 He couldn't go to a gas station.

01:04:44.160 If he went to a gas station, not that anybody's trying to hurt him, but he's so famous, he would

01:04:48.620 be mobbed.

01:04:49.260 And it would be, it would create a dangerous situation from there.

01:04:52.260 And if somebody was hurt in that crush, he would be sued because he would be seen to

01:04:56.360 be responsible.

01:04:57.840 So when you have that much money and you, you, you represent that much wealth and that

01:05:03.400 much earning potential, your life is no longer your own.

01:05:06.940 So once you reach like, say a C-suite position, right?

01:05:09.900 And I've worked for many C-suite individuals as well, too, temporary jobs.

01:05:15.240 They're not just representing themselves and their family anymore.

01:05:18.320 They're representing their, their corporate interests, their shareholders.

01:05:22.440 They have their, their answer, answerable to the board of directors.

01:05:25.860 Conor McGregor is answerable to all these people.

01:05:28.320 He's answerable to his employees, the people who work for him.

01:05:31.440 You know, this is a man who's worth more than, I think, $150 million or something like

01:05:35.520 that.

01:05:35.820 An incredible amount of wealth for a guy who started out punching people in the face for

01:05:40.660 a living, you know?

01:05:41.680 And so to have that much, you have so much responsibility that goes along with it.

01:05:45.860 Um, so that $260,000 is a drop in the world compared to what he's going to lose going forward

01:05:53.060 into the future.

01:05:54.000 So we're talking about brand ambassadorships are walking away from him.

01:05:57.620 Um, you know, he's the face of so many different companies, including his, his alcohol brand.

01:06:02.380 All these things are in jeopardy now because of poor decision-making.

01:06:06.100 And, um, you know, look, I've, I've worked for wealthy guys that had issues, whether it

01:06:12.460 was drug or drugs or substance issues.

01:06:15.300 And we've been assigned to, you know, I actually have guys now that when they call me, typically

01:06:20.200 they'll call me when they're in trouble.

01:06:21.880 Hey, I need you to come get me.

01:06:23.840 Um, I went out with some, some, uh, some exotic dancers, took them back to a hotel room.

01:06:29.040 They took all my clothes, my watch, my money, my car, my Lamborghini's gone.

01:06:33.060 And I'm here in the hotel naked.

01:06:34.900 Can you bring me some clothes and pick me up and track down my stuff?

01:06:38.220 Uh, and, and so they have those, but these aren't guys that are well-known they're wealthy,

01:06:42.420 but they're not well-known Conor McGregor, you know, and, and, and again, I try to tell

01:06:48.380 guys is that there is no equal protection under the law.

01:06:51.760 Okay.

01:06:52.220 If you're a man and you're in that position, you, the presumption is that you are guilty.

01:06:57.880 And, and now instead of the way our, our criminal justice system is supposed to work,

01:07:02.220 where the, the burden of proof is on the accuser.

01:07:05.400 Now the burden of, of proof is on the, on the accused, which is the opposite of what

01:07:09.900 it should be.

01:07:10.580 But when it comes to this sort of thing, you're automatically going to be seen to be the bad

01:07:14.940 guy.

01:07:15.860 Would it have been better for him to use escorts?

01:07:19.960 Wouldn't that have like solved this in a way, if he was going to cheat, it might as well

01:07:24.420 and party and go out.

01:07:25.720 Wouldn't it have better?

01:07:26.640 Aren't there women paid to do that?

01:07:28.200 Uh, yes, there are, there are women who do this and again, people vilify them, but you

01:07:34.040 know, escorting, um, sex work, whatever it might be, or eggs work, sorry, um, is the world's

01:07:40.340 oldest profession for a reason.

01:07:42.320 Yeah.

01:07:42.720 You know, and I had a debate with a, um, with, with a politician, not, not too long.

01:07:47.220 Well, a couple of years ago, uh, not, not the one I've photographed.

01:07:50.660 I was photographed with in South Florida, another politician.

01:07:52.720 So they were, they were pro-choice, but they were anti-sex work, you know?

01:07:59.220 And, and so, well, she was anti-men paying for it, not women selling it.

01:08:04.520 So, you know, go, go ahead and try to figure out the hypocrisy there.

01:08:07.480 But my argument to her was this, okay, why are you pro-choice?

01:08:10.320 Well, I think it's a woman's body.

01:08:11.900 She has a right to choose.

01:08:13.160 Okay.

01:08:13.480 So a woman can choose to, um, abort a fetus, kill a baby, whatever you want to call it.

01:08:18.200 All right.

01:08:18.500 But why can't that same woman choose to sell her body for money?

01:08:24.240 There you go.

01:08:24.980 And, and I got silence back in return.

01:08:26.840 And so there's a lot of hypocrisy.

01:08:28.520 There's a lot of double standard that goes on, um, in, in the, the legal realm and so

01:08:34.020 many other things that men are up against.

01:08:36.700 And so when I hear people talk about, especially feminists talk about this vast patriarchy that's

01:08:42.780 holding them down, and most of them don't know what they're talking about.

01:08:45.520 But, you know, if this was a patriarchy, we have so many laws that only benefit women.

01:08:50.800 We'd be the worst patriarchy in the history of patriarchies.

01:08:54.740 Um, so many laws are anti-male and pro-female.

01:08:58.700 And, um, and again, you know, Conor McGregor, will he appeal this?

01:09:02.860 The best thing he could do is just pay this off and still try to, try to clear his name

01:09:08.240 the best he can, but, uh, it, you know, the, the legal system over there was so stacked

01:09:15.540 against him.

01:09:16.460 The judge was disallowing or ordering the jury to ignore evidence that would have, uh, cast

01:09:24.700 even further doubt on the, the, uh, the, the victim story.

01:09:28.880 The, the, I think it was the prime minister or the president of Ireland was sending her

01:09:32.920 encouraging text messages.

01:09:34.940 Uh, the fix was in, the fix was in again.

01:09:38.400 And even with his vast wealth, he still, you know, look, you can't fight city hall, even

01:09:42.500 when you're a super, super rich.

01:09:44.300 Uh, and so he, he should have been, um, you know, look, some, some guys, and it seems like

01:09:49.320 he has some substance issues, possibly some guys need handling, you know?

01:09:55.220 And, and again, I've handled, I've been, you know, a handler for people that had issues,

01:10:00.160 brilliant people, incredible at earning money, but their demons, uh, would sometimes push

01:10:06.700 them over the edge.

01:10:07.460 And my job was to grab them and pull them back, pull them back off that precipice.

01:10:11.580 And he needs people that are not going to enable him, um, or help facilitate his, his

01:10:17.860 downward spiral, but to put the brakes on it and give him alternatives and escort probably

01:10:23.020 would have, you know, probably would have made life easier.

01:10:26.580 Um, and you know, again, it's about vetting, but he's got so much money that, you know,

01:10:31.940 pay somebody to go out with you would have been easier.

01:10:34.780 So, yeah, I, I, I think so.

01:10:36.580 And again, there's a stigma against, um, escorts, but you know, they've been around forever for,

01:10:43.800 for a very good reason.

01:10:44.980 Well, and how is it different than, I mean, that woman was going to sleep with her boyfriend

01:10:48.980 in the next week, you know, so I, I know it's, I know it's, um, it's kind of gross, like some

01:10:56.100 guys see it as gross, but I mean, uh, a slut's going to be doing the same thing, you know?

01:11:01.900 Yeah, yeah, pretty much.

01:11:03.320 And, and, you know, so, so again, you know, I, I, um, I made this, this comparison before,

01:11:09.800 uh, women make the best, um, they make the best spies.

01:11:15.480 They make the best hit men.

01:11:18.280 They're the best at setting people up because people automatically want to trust them and

01:11:22.520 trust their story.

01:11:23.300 And so that, that same, um, ability to, to, to appear innocent, um, helps them.

01:11:30.300 And, and, you know, again, I don't, you know, I'm not angry at, you know, people shouldn't

01:11:33.960 be angry at women, but men shouldn't be angry at women because this is just the nature of

01:11:37.640 things.

01:11:38.200 So don't be, don't be angry.

01:11:39.940 It's like, you know, okay, my dog barks.

01:11:42.040 He cleans himself.

01:11:42.920 Usually he cleans himself when I'm on a conference call and a really loud obnoxious, this is just

01:11:47.740 what happens.

01:11:48.320 I'm not comparing women to dogs.

01:11:49.740 As I said, that was a bad, that was a bad, please don't cancel me, uh, you know, um, but

01:11:56.840 what I'm saying is that's just the nature.

01:11:58.660 And so you have to understand their nature.

01:12:01.500 And I've, I posted this in one of my X stories.

01:12:03.960 I think men have been the victim of the, the Disney princess and Prince charming narrative

01:12:10.500 more than women have, you know, the damsel in distress, uh, because, you know, there are

01:12:14.940 more men that are, that are attacking and vilifying, uh, Conor McGregor than there are women.

01:12:22.180 No, I, I saw that.

01:12:24.520 I couldn't actually believe, um, I like Jake Paul, but I saw a tweet from him calling Conor

01:12:30.700 a rapist and I just thought, do the men believe this?

01:12:35.000 I'm like, well, I understand the bruising.

01:12:38.320 Maybe, maybe it was pretty intense bruising, but we don't know if she hit herself.

01:12:43.120 You know, we don't, we don't know how, we don't know if she fell down a flight of stairs.

01:12:46.360 If she's on Coke, she says she doesn't remember having sex with another man.

01:12:50.880 What else does she not remember?

01:12:53.640 Yeah.

01:12:54.140 And it, it, yeah, precisely.

01:12:55.380 But this is precisely why he, he should have been away from that in the first place.

01:12:58.980 But a lot of guys that will jump on board that will do that as a means of virtue signal.

01:13:04.080 You know, uh, they'll, they'll virtue signal because they want to get the, the, you know,

01:13:07.960 the attaboy and the pat on the head.

01:13:10.060 Um, and, and, you know, it's, it's unfortunate, but you know, there are guys, you know, Jake

01:13:14.700 Paul is, you know, he's a social media guy.

01:13:17.820 And so he understands the value of, of what he's saying and what stories he's putting out

01:13:23.220 there.

01:13:23.540 You know, obviously he's a master of social media.

01:13:25.560 Um, and, and so he, he, he understands that that's part of, you know, something that's

01:13:30.760 going to be, you know, in his favor, as far as likes and clicks and views and people watching

01:13:36.400 his, you know, the, uh, the BS fixed fights.

01:13:39.260 Uh, if you watch that Mike Tyson fight, that was fixed.

01:13:41.540 That was fixed.

01:13:42.340 Love Mike, but, but that was a fixed fight.

01:13:44.780 Uh, and, and so, but, but he, he understands this stuff and he understands how to work the

01:13:48.740 crowd.

01:13:49.000 So, so a bunch of other guys, there are some guys who believe it because again, they've,

01:13:52.700 they've gotten this, they've, and, uh, I remember there was a post out, a tweet out where someone

01:13:57.700 was asking, you know, would you, if you saw a woman in a fight with a man, would you intercede?

01:14:02.440 It depends.

01:14:03.620 You know, like, remember I, I used to be a cop, right?

01:14:06.500 And so I'd say about 70% of the domestic violence calls I went on, the violence was initiated

01:14:14.040 by the woman.

01:14:14.980 And she called the cop after she called the cops, after she started getting their behind

01:14:18.880 kicked, the women that were really getting battered and, and beaten by guys, unfortunately,

01:14:24.740 were the women who rarely called the cops.

01:14:26.520 It was usually somebody else who called the cops.

01:14:28.260 Well, most of the cops, most of the calls we got was a woman hit a guy and he hit her

01:14:32.260 back.

01:14:32.560 Then she called the cops.

01:14:34.320 And so, um, and you know, as far as the, the thing with the, the tampon, I've actually,

01:14:39.620 I actually know, I actually know a woman that that happened to, um, she put one in and then

01:14:46.080 she forgot and she put another one in.

01:14:48.660 And, and, and the only reason I know about it was because she asked me to help her extricate

01:14:52.580 it.

01:14:55.140 And I was like, uh, no, thanks.

01:14:59.340 No, no, thanks anyway.

01:15:00.720 But you know, like that does happen.

01:15:02.180 It's rare.

01:15:03.340 Um, and, and, you know, I, I don't know what part of that story, what part, you know, of

01:15:08.520 her story that was supposed to support.

01:15:10.460 I really don't know.

01:15:11.880 Um, what is she saying that Conor McGregor has a unit, the size of an arm.

01:15:16.720 I, I, I don't know.

01:15:18.480 I, I, I don't get it.

01:15:20.480 It seemed like the, what was when I was listening to the court reporter talk, it seemed like

01:15:27.080 they were convinced by the doctors.

01:15:29.900 That was the big thing that the doctor's statements were very convincing.

01:15:34.640 Well, yeah, but the doctor's statement is a very, you know, very linear in a certain lane.

01:15:43.220 Okay.

01:15:43.480 They can say, yes, she showed bruising and this happened.

01:15:47.120 Did the doctor see Conor McGregor or his friend perform an activity that would have caused

01:15:52.200 that?

01:15:53.220 No.

01:15:53.960 Uh, but the sensationalism of a doctor and, and this was genius on the, um, the, the prosecution

01:15:59.700 side, um, or the, the plaintiff side, I should say, the, the, the introduction of the, the

01:16:05.780 doctor giving testimony in this dramatic way.

01:16:08.440 It's like this Perry Mason moment where like, oh my goodness, this happened to her and that

01:16:12.480 happened to her.

01:16:13.300 And it makes it seem a lot more dramatic.

01:16:15.220 And I'm sure whatever happened to her, uh, you know, who can help you, uh, dig your way

01:16:19.960 out of that hole.

01:16:20.960 Why didn't he call you?

01:16:22.760 Why didn't he?

01:16:23.500 Well, you know what?

01:16:25.020 I, you know, I'm, I'm available.

01:16:27.800 I would have flown over to Ireland.

01:16:29.060 They speak English barely.

01:16:32.500 And, and so, you know, it's, it's, it's unfortunate, you know, because you're, you're dealing with

01:16:39.920 this sort of circumstances where someone is saying, okay, um, this happened to me and,

01:16:45.460 and look, I'm not a calloused individual.

01:16:47.100 Look, I, but before I worked the first grape accusation case I ever worked, the attorney,

01:16:53.320 that, that, that put me on that case, I'd worked for him doing a bunch of other criminal

01:16:57.760 defense stuff before.

01:16:59.200 And when he told me about it, you know, he said, look, I know you're, you're squeamish

01:17:02.680 about this.

01:17:03.320 And I was like, what, what is it?

01:17:04.660 And he said, well, this guy's accused of this.

01:17:06.600 And I was like, ah, I'm not interested.

01:17:08.340 He said, look, just look at the evidence and let me know what you think.

01:17:12.240 And as I looked at the evidence more and more, I was like, wait a second.

01:17:14.920 So here in, in Florida, the cases I've worked on and in all of the cases, law enforcement

01:17:22.600 did no investigation.

01:17:24.480 There was no investigation before these men were arrested and accused.

01:17:30.140 You know, so the, the, the accuser went in and said, this person did this to me.

01:17:34.100 They said, okay, let's go get him.

01:17:35.300 And he was arrested and per walked, they were arrested and per walked in front of their

01:17:38.880 family, friends, and their, their peers at work with no evidence supporting it.

01:17:44.060 And so we had to find evidence to disprove it.

01:17:46.820 And, and again, unless you understand the dynamics of how to get that, that information, how to

01:17:52.160 extract that information from people and how to go about pursuing it, you're, you know,

01:17:57.340 like that, that, that, that, that line at the end of one of my favorite movies of all

01:18:01.720 time, Blade, some MFers are always trying to ice skate uphill and, and you're, you're literally

01:18:07.400 going to be trying to ice skate uphill.

01:18:08.860 Well, and again, a man with, and we go back to his wealth, a man with Conor McGregor's

01:18:13.540 wealth and fame shouldn't be dealing with people like this.

01:18:19.660 And where he's going for, for a guy in that position, you know, so now, so he's going to

01:18:24.040 lose money with brand ambassadorships, endorsements.

01:18:27.200 Those are going to be gone.

01:18:29.100 You know, he's got to pay, you know, the money he has to pay, but also too, he had political

01:18:33.840 aspirations in Ireland.

01:18:35.260 Those are probably out the window.

01:18:36.520 But yeah, and so, you know, so there's so many different things, you know, if he had

01:18:43.160 political opponents that were worried about him, you know, running up behind them and catching

01:18:49.420 up to them, this was the perfect opportunity to wipe him off the board.

01:18:53.380 And, and, and if anybody thinks that people won't go to any length when it comes to politics,

01:18:57.040 I've done political work.

01:18:58.780 I've done opposition research, man, you want to talk about knife fight.

01:19:01.880 That's when the knives and claws and fangs come out and anything goes.

01:19:05.740 And so if I were Mr. McGregor going forward, I would, number one, I would probably go to

01:19:11.480 rehab.

01:19:12.960 He probably needs rehab.

01:19:14.400 People have been speculating a long time that he's, you know, he's hasn't been sober for

01:19:18.320 a very, very long time.

01:19:19.760 He's probably go to rehab just for his own sake.

01:19:22.180 Number two, fire your team, wherever your team is, they haven't served you well.

01:19:28.400 You need a team that's going to tell you, no, you can't do this.

01:19:30.820 No, we can't do that.

01:19:31.900 No, we have to do this instead.

01:19:33.320 No, we have to do that.

01:19:34.080 And then if you need to hire a professional, hire a professional, you know, but, you know,

01:19:39.080 he's a married guy.

01:19:40.520 You know, I get it.

01:19:41.500 He doesn't want to, you know, he's, he's kind of got to walk that, that type of, and

01:19:45.820 he's got children, but, you know, you know, he's, he's, he's got to revamp his whole system.

01:19:53.660 And with his fame, he probably, he might be able to rebuild because of, of how much money

01:20:00.960 was awarded.

01:20:01.660 So if it was in the United States of America, especially a case like this, when it comes

01:20:05.880 to a lot of money, somebody wealthy, famous, famous, Gloria Allred would have been on the

01:20:10.520 case.

01:20:10.820 100%, she would have been on that case.

01:20:13.060 And once Gloria Allred gets on that case, you better get out your checkbook.

01:20:15.980 You're going to pay some money.

01:20:17.720 You're going to.

01:20:18.460 She's, she's, she's really, really good at what she does, you know, but the fact that

01:20:24.960 she was only awarded the equivalent of about $250,000, that for me raised a lot of red flags

01:20:31.900 as well, too, because like, okay, you know, and remember the burden of proof is, is, you

01:20:38.140 know, the standard of proof for conviction or, or judgment in this case is less than it

01:20:43.400 is in the criminal court.

01:20:44.380 And the criminal court is beyond a shadow of a doubt or supposed to be.

01:20:48.460 And in civil court, this threshold is much, much, much lower.

01:20:52.180 Oh, well, maybe he did it.

01:20:53.320 So let's give an award of, of, you know, some monetary value, but, you know, she only

01:20:59.280 got $250,000.

01:21:00.980 If that same case had taken place in the States, it would have been in the millions.

01:21:04.880 It would have been much, much more.

01:21:06.100 So he might be able to rebuild from this, but I would say the first thing he needs to

01:21:10.120 do is do the usual mea culpas where he goes to rehab and then puts out a statement,

01:21:15.840 you know, with his wife next to him and his kids with him, doing the, you know, the hallmark

01:21:19.740 moment, you know, I want to be a better man and this net, and then try to rebuild from

01:21:23.340 there.

01:21:23.660 But with the image he has, with the trouble he's gotten into over the years, your, your

01:21:29.360 reputation follows you.

01:21:30.700 That's, that's why brand management is so important.

01:21:33.300 That's what we talked about before, how, you know, men have to vet their women like you

01:21:38.160 would a brand ambassador, like a corporation or a corporate entity would a brand ambassador.

01:21:42.440 It's part of your image.

01:21:43.620 I know guys out there will say, women out there will say, I don't have a brand.

01:21:46.420 Yes, you do.

01:21:47.480 And you either control the construction of your brand or someone else will control it

01:21:52.320 for you.

01:21:53.040 So a guy like Conor McGregor, you know, he was involved in an incident where a man, an

01:21:58.400 old man didn't accept a drink from him and Conor McGregor punched the guy.

01:22:03.000 Like an elderly guy.

01:22:05.660 And it's like, so his image is such that, you know, probably the jury looked at it and

01:22:10.500 said, well, you know, maybe he didn't do it, but I could see him doing it.

01:22:14.140 You know, the evidence doesn't look really good, but I can see him doing it because I

01:22:17.540 mean, look, I mean, you know, for the most part, he seems like a jerk, you know, to most

01:22:21.940 people.

01:22:22.380 I'm sure he's great to his family, but he's done so many things in the public eye that

01:22:27.500 that hurt his image so much.

01:22:30.760 You know, frankly, I'm surprised he hasn't been hit with a, with a significant judgment

01:22:35.160 before this.

01:22:37.200 So what were his, okay.

01:22:39.260 The three-day bender, the alcohol, the strange woman.

01:22:42.380 Was there any other mistakes he made in this process?

01:22:47.280 Yeah.

01:22:48.040 Well, yeah.

01:22:48.680 I mean, there's a, there's a laundry list of mistakes he made.

01:22:51.320 Number one, he shouldn't have been there in the first place.

01:22:53.500 Number two, if you got a buddy that hangs with you and he facilitates this, this sort

01:22:57.460 of, um, behavior, knowing what you stand to lose, your friend would not let you or should

01:23:04.760 not let you do this considering what you stand to lose.

01:23:07.740 Now, he's, he's obviously got an alcohol and it seems like he has a drug problem.

01:23:14.320 That's his, that's your biggest problem.

01:23:16.060 If you're a man and you're out of control, you're going to be held accountable.

01:23:19.220 Most women in usual, in most cases, when it comes to the woman is not going to be held

01:23:22.740 accountable.

01:23:23.840 They're not.

01:23:24.500 And so the man is going to be held accountable.

01:23:27.480 You can't be out of control like that.

01:23:29.740 Number two, um, control the community, your communication with people.

01:23:34.860 Um, and so, you know, there, there, there should have been a lot more accountability as

01:23:41.100 far as her being given the opportunity to vocalize or put on writing somewhere and text

01:23:46.800 messages that see that she consented to this.

01:23:49.280 And there are contracts that, that people have sexual activity consent forms and things

01:23:54.400 of that nature.

01:23:55.160 I know it seems far fetched and people think that's a lot to go through.

01:23:58.500 I've met women personally.

01:24:00.120 And, and, and so when I meet women, there's no alcohol involved.

01:24:04.360 There's no alcohol.

01:24:05.460 Meeting women for drinks is the worst idea on the face of the earth.

01:24:08.640 Why?

01:24:08.820 Because there's a thing called what I call the retroactive, uh, grape charge, right?

01:24:14.740 So the retroactive grape charge can usually be triggered by regret, guilt, or, uh, in some

01:24:22.380 instances, um, the, the promise of, of, uh, financial reward.

01:24:27.200 So if we look back in time and we, we examine the Kobe Bryant, uh, incident in Colorado, um,

01:24:35.840 a good friend of mine was friends with the young lady that made the accusation after she,

01:24:42.180 after supposedly he forced himself on her, she had, she had, um, uh, consensual eggs with,

01:24:50.240 I think four other guys.

01:24:51.700 They found the, the, the, the DNA of four of the men in her underwear, none of it, Kobe Bryant's.

01:24:57.660 Uh, and, but what happened was this, she was bragging to people at a party.

01:25:02.880 This was all testified that, Oh, Hey, I hooked up with Kobe Bryant, you know, this is after

01:25:08.280 he's, you know, and laughing and high-fiving people, that sort of thing.

01:25:11.560 And so, and, and, and, and, you know, and so people are so quick to just say, okay,

01:25:16.560 the guy must've been guilty.

01:25:17.660 Well, you know, my, my burden and my curse as an investigator is I look at the evidence.

01:25:23.460 I don't, I take my feelings out of things, uh, and look at the objective evidence.

01:25:27.940 It was settled out of court.

01:25:29.360 He settled for millions of dollars.

01:25:30.780 Why?

01:25:31.000 Because that was the most expedient way to go forward.

01:25:33.860 So whenever you see a star settling, it doesn't necessarily mean that they're guilty.

01:25:38.500 I'm just speaking of just from an objective standpoint.

01:25:41.140 Um, it, it just means that it's the easiest way to go forward to, to put everything to bed instead

01:25:46.940 of dragging everything out of court.

01:25:49.020 Um, look at the lengths Johnny Depp had to go through to, to, to prove himself innocent.

01:25:55.020 But now guess what?

01:25:55.940 But again, and I've said this before, being wealthy, it's like having a superpower.

01:25:59.580 Right.

01:26:00.260 If he didn't have the money to afford the, um, the, the legal representation he had and

01:26:04.740 the investigators he had, um, he, he would still have this stain over his head.

01:26:09.400 People still want to blame him, even though it was found that she made up the story.

01:26:12.560 So how common is this to happen to average men?

01:26:17.220 Because, you know, I've sort of, I, me being me, when there's like men that I know or friends

01:26:23.140 with relatives, I'll, I'll say things like, you know, maybe get like ring cameras in your

01:26:28.060 apartment just in case, you know, cause you never know, but most men have the impression

01:26:32.780 this won't happen to them.

01:26:34.360 I'm not rich.

01:26:35.320 I'm not famous.

01:26:36.240 And would you say that is warranted?

01:26:41.300 Well, um, here's what I would say when it comes to that.

01:26:44.900 There's no way they, they say the, the occurrence of false grape accusations is less than 10%.

01:26:52.100 Well, you know, how do you really quantify that?

01:26:55.540 Because if a guy can't afford an attorney, he can't afford an investigator.

01:26:59.380 Uh, how many guys are in jail right now that, that are innocent, but that couldn't afford

01:27:06.100 to prove themselves, you know, um, you know, couldn't afford to prove that, that they were

01:27:10.760 innocent.

01:27:11.160 And so what I would tell guys is this, it doesn't matter if you're wealthy.

01:27:14.440 Um, it's not always about financial reward.

01:27:17.280 Sometimes it's about guilt.

01:27:18.660 Sometimes it's about shame or embarrassment.

01:27:20.840 You know, like they, you know, their friends find out, oh, you hooked up with that, with that

01:27:24.980 fat, hairy, ugly dude at the bar.

01:27:26.800 Oh, that's nasty.

01:27:27.600 Oh, well, I didn't mean to do anything with him.

01:27:30.140 He just took it.

01:27:31.320 And, and I've actually worked on cases where that has happened to guys.

01:27:35.180 And so what, what I would tell guys is this, and this protects the women as well too, you

01:27:40.080 know, before anybody accuses me of being misogynist or whatever.

01:27:43.560 So get confirmed consent, get a positive or definite yes, that they want to engage in,

01:27:50.560 in physical activity.

01:27:52.060 Years ago, you could just, you know, like you could meet a woman or your guy or whatever,

01:27:58.460 however you, however you go, and you could go out and, you know, one thing led to another

01:28:02.500 and it was just, people would just kind of go with flow, right?

01:28:05.760 You can't do that anymore.

01:28:07.260 You have to get a positive yes.

01:28:08.800 I've actually met women for coffee and I actually have a, an actual activity consent form.

01:28:15.520 And I'm like, look, do you see this getting physical at some point?

01:28:18.520 Yes.

01:28:18.920 And literally I'll give it to them with an envelope.

01:28:21.160 When you have time, review this.

01:28:23.340 That's awesome.

01:28:24.060 I'm not even kidding.

01:28:26.300 I know.

01:28:26.820 Look, look, I'm, I'm so paranoid about, about these things.

01:28:30.480 I actually tell people that I'm, I'm actually cursed, I think, you know what I mean?

01:28:35.400 And, and I've had women say to me, are you serious?

01:28:37.740 Yes, I am quite serious.

01:28:38.960 This protects you.

01:28:40.020 This protects you and it protects me as well.

01:28:42.860 And so, you know, and, and I've only had one woman object to, to, to signing and filling

01:28:49.940 out the sexual activity consent form.

01:28:51.920 And guess what?

01:28:52.680 Didn't see her again.

01:28:53.440 And why?

01:28:54.480 Because, you know, look, I'm, I'm not going to engage with someone who may in the future

01:29:00.700 want to do something like that.

01:29:02.180 And as well as saving text messages, because here's the thing, women will save every bit

01:29:08.140 of correspondence you have, every text message you have, they will save it.

01:29:12.560 They'll record phone calls, they'll save emails.

01:29:15.280 And so having a, having that consent form, that's just one piece in the puzzle to, to protect

01:29:21.240 yourself.

01:29:21.580 Next, don't we, don't meet women.

01:29:23.440 For, you know, for, for alcohol.

01:29:26.020 Why?

01:29:26.660 You have to look at it from, from this standpoint, when we talk about consent, right?

01:29:31.160 Here's what guys need to keep in mind.

01:29:34.060 You cannot consent.

01:29:35.540 If you are not in the right mind to also be able to sign a, a contract, a legally binding

01:29:42.300 contract.

01:29:42.800 So if that person, if, if a drunk person shows up at a closing for a piece of property, the

01:29:48.520 closing agent is going to cancel that closing and reschedule for another day.

01:29:51.760 Why?

01:29:52.020 Because that, that contract can be invalidated because they're not in their right mind.

01:29:56.940 Are they of legal age?

01:29:58.440 That's obviously, that's the first thing.

01:30:00.220 Otherwise you're in real trouble.

01:30:01.620 Yeah.

01:30:01.780 Um, are they, are they, are they, are they of sound mind and body?

01:30:06.000 Are they under coercion or duress?

01:30:09.420 You know, you see what I'm coming from?

01:30:10.880 So if, if they can't legally consent, so meaning if they're under the influence of alcohol or

01:30:15.620 drugs, there is no consent.

01:30:16.920 Now I can't, I also can't consent, but nobody cares about men.

01:30:21.720 Nobody cares whether or not we consent.

01:30:23.560 It's all about whether or not the woman consents.

01:30:26.020 And so, and again, I'm not, you know, going to go back and forth about whether that's right

01:30:30.240 or wrong.

01:30:30.860 I think we can all draw a very reasonable conclusion about the, uh, the, the, um, you know, the

01:30:36.520 fairness of that.

01:30:37.360 But as men, you have to protect yourself.

01:30:39.220 So that's where I would start if I were men, um, avoid those women who go out and, and

01:30:45.000 are really, really, really easy.

01:30:48.340 Um, and, and, you know, women that are drunk and throwing themselves at you.

01:30:52.580 Yeah, sure.

01:30:53.160 That might be an easy way to go, but, um, you know, you could pay a price for it later

01:30:58.240 on down the line.

01:30:59.160 And it's incredibly hard for, for you to prove that you didn't, especially if she could consent.

01:31:06.640 Uh, and, and so from a male standpoint, guys have to stop being so cavalier.

01:31:13.040 You know, every single guy I helped defend probably thought the same thing until they

01:31:19.800 were literally arrested and perp walked and put in handcuffs and taken to jail and accused

01:31:25.000 of rape.

01:31:26.100 And so you look at the, the, the consequences of being arrested.

01:31:32.420 Uh, and even if you're not convicted, so your reputation is shattered, it's done.

01:31:36.880 You know, so if you, if you Google these guys' names, it'll show that they were arrested

01:31:41.140 for actual battery, right?

01:31:44.140 Which here in Florida, that's the statute for grape.

01:31:47.100 And so most people don't have the wherewithal or the skill or the knowledge to look further

01:31:51.820 and say, okay, what really happened?

01:31:53.280 I know, I know how to do that, but most people don't.

01:31:55.320 So their reputations are screwed.

01:31:57.680 Most people, when they hear that, just hearing the accusation is enough for most people to want

01:32:03.320 to destroy you and burn your house, whether you're guilty or not, people don't wait for

01:32:07.080 a guilty verdict.

01:32:07.940 They just, Hey, you're accused.

01:32:09.600 We had that hashtag, believe all women thing.

01:32:11.880 Remember that?

01:32:12.660 Yeah.

01:32:13.180 Um, you know, and instead that should be replaced with hashtag.

01:32:18.540 Analyze.

01:32:19.120 Believe no women.

01:32:21.140 Believe no, believe no.

01:32:22.520 Trust the evidence, trust the evidence in front of you instead of just an individual's

01:32:29.680 word, because, uh, how many women, like there was a colonel in the army that wound up having

01:32:35.160 to get out of the army because he was accused of a, um, he was about to make general.

01:32:39.460 I don't remember the guy's name.

01:32:40.700 And he was accused of a woman he knew from the, from the military academy of, of forcing

01:32:46.940 himself on her.

01:32:48.160 Well, you know, his name got dragged through the mud.

01:32:50.580 His career stalled.

01:32:52.020 He wound up leaving the military and he wound up suing.

01:32:55.680 And years later, she wound up admitting and, and retracting her accusation.

01:33:00.760 Well, well, the guy's life is already in tatters.

01:33:02.920 And, and when you look at the consequences for women who make false accusations, there

01:33:10.020 is none.

01:33:10.640 She was fined.

01:33:11.620 Well, she was, he was given a judgment of like $8 million.

01:33:14.640 And then, um, you know, then it was reduced to like $1.2 million or something like that.

01:33:19.940 She'll never pay that money.

01:33:21.480 But this guy's life is ruined.

01:33:23.100 His family life was ruined.

01:33:24.400 I think his wife divorced him, you know, it ruined his career.

01:33:27.900 And, and most guys are just happy to be, just be out of it.

01:33:32.460 But more guys should seek, um, punitive damages when, when, when they've been falsely accused.

01:33:40.060 The other question too, is what specifically is essay?

01:33:45.620 Because, you know, is it like, I've heard that that even could be considered if he takes

01:33:52.240 the condom off without like her consent, you know, not say like that's, you shouldn't do

01:33:57.880 that.

01:33:58.220 Right.

01:33:58.480 But is that the same thing as getting pulled off the side of the road and, you know, by

01:34:02.820 our stranger and four, you know, I don't, I think those are different things, right?

01:34:07.680 Well, yeah.

01:34:08.920 Grape, grape by itself is, it's kind of like the term, um, human trafficking.

01:34:15.580 What does it mean?

01:34:17.240 Could mean a whole bunch of things.

01:34:18.980 Um, you know, so like with the famous Diddy case right now, he was accused of human trafficking

01:34:24.180 because he paid some, you know, male and female, you know, pro prostitutes, um, to go

01:34:32.500 across state lines.

01:34:34.820 So he paid them to do this.

01:34:36.440 Did he force them to do this?

01:34:38.040 Were they kidnapped and thrown in the back of a trunk and, and transported?

01:34:42.320 No, they drove themselves over there.

01:34:43.980 They transported themselves over there, but that's human trafficking.

01:34:46.740 It can also be, it could be so many different things.

01:34:48.800 So when you look at the term, the term grape, what, what I think of is someone being forced

01:34:54.260 or coerced through some sort of force, through forceful action or the threat of force.

01:34:59.900 But it's, it's much, much more than that.

01:35:03.140 Grape can be, again, you know, the, the problem with our legal system and the way the, the

01:35:08.720 unequal or, you know, the, the, the inequity in the administration of justice is that I can

01:35:16.600 have consent from a woman and we can copulate, you know, I'm trying to use words that, that

01:35:22.180 you two won't get angry about and we can copulate.

01:35:25.380 And a month later she can decide she no longer consents.

01:35:28.480 So she can retroactively remove consent.

01:35:33.380 You know what I'm saying?

01:35:34.100 And so, and you know, and, and so it's so fraught with danger.

01:35:38.120 Guys are, you know, like friends of mine think I'm crazy.

01:35:40.120 Like, dude, you really have women sign and fill these things out.

01:35:42.880 And they even have categories like, Hey, do you want to do X, Y, Z?

01:35:49.420 Why?

01:35:49.940 Because look, I I've worked on so many cases where guys were falsely accused.

01:35:53.660 And when you look at the evidence, like, wait a second, this guy didn't do anything any

01:35:58.580 differently than anybody else would have.

01:35:59.860 What do you think of ring cameras in the house?

01:36:03.020 Would that protect men?

01:36:05.280 Uh, to a certain extent.

01:36:07.360 Uh, and so, you know, look, here's the thing.

01:36:10.660 You, they can show that you didn't do anything forcefully to someone, but if you then videotape

01:36:19.500 them without their knowledge, then there's a whole nether set of, and again, this is

01:36:25.880 not to black pill men.

01:36:27.380 This is not to black pill men.

01:36:28.660 You know, I know guys are thinking, why bother?

01:36:31.300 Look, you gotta be really, you really, really careful.

01:36:34.400 You have to use a lot of discernment and you have to vet women thoroughly.

01:36:38.720 Vetting women thoroughly helps with this.

01:36:41.360 You know, we worked on one case where, and I'll, I'll tell the story about this one day.

01:36:45.460 So I'll give you and your viewers a peek about this story.

01:36:48.820 All right.

01:36:49.200 A peek behind the, at the curtain.

01:36:51.120 So this was a, um, an essay accusation of a wealthy guy.

01:36:59.280 But when we started peeling back the layers and, you know, he made bond and I sat down

01:37:03.620 and talked with him, she, he did have, you know, copy, he did copulate with her, but

01:37:09.300 after copulating with her, she threatened to accuse him of grape unless he pay her.

01:37:15.140 He refused to pay.

01:37:18.240 She accused him of grape.

01:37:20.220 He was arrested.

01:37:22.280 And so when we looked further and further and further, she had a habit of doing this.

01:37:26.440 I'll, I'll, I'll write that story up at some point.

01:37:28.240 But, um, he wound up getting out of it.

01:37:30.720 But again, like most people, we encouraged them to seek punitive damages against her,

01:37:34.860 but he did not.

01:37:35.720 He just wanted to get, he just wanted to get, put that behind him.

01:37:39.620 You know, which I understand to one extent, but if there is no punishment, because the law,

01:37:44.960 you know, the, the, the state attorneys here in Florida that were quick to arrest guys,

01:37:52.420 um, they were not willing to levy any sort of legal charges for filing a false report against

01:37:59.180 the women that falsely accused these guys, even with admissions that yes, it was a false

01:38:03.660 accusation.

01:38:04.900 Uh, they, they still refuse to.

01:38:06.520 So again, there is no equal administration of justice.

01:38:10.460 And so as men, you have to be really careful.

01:38:13.460 So I know a lot of people have been talking about, and you brought it up about escorts,

01:38:18.180 more and more guys are, are utilizing the services of escorts.

01:38:23.380 I found, you know, more and more women doing hidden, hidden sex works, the husband or the

01:38:29.420 fiance, so boyfriends didn't know about.

01:38:31.900 Um, and you know, the, the, you know, the, the benefit of that, I guess would be that this

01:38:38.820 is a person who would be unlikely to want to file any sort of charges against you because

01:38:43.980 that is their profession.

01:38:47.080 What do you think when, cause men seem to think, oh, that's just the girls in the city.

01:38:53.760 The girls by me won't do that.

01:38:55.700 Or, oh, that's just the girl.

01:38:56.980 Like, even I would have this challenge with, um, like whenever I talk about a trend, like

01:39:02.860 people just seem to think that doesn't happen where they live or amongst their communities.

01:39:07.840 Um, if it's ever a negative trend that women do, does that make sense?

01:39:14.080 Yes, it does.

01:39:15.020 And, and it's, it's, again, it's this, um, it's hidden the kind of the head, the head

01:39:19.840 in the sand, wishful thinking attitude.

01:39:22.400 Um, I've worked on cases for false grape charges in places like Miami, which is a major

01:39:30.100 metropolitan area.

01:39:31.540 And also in places like Ocala, Florida, most people never heard of his horse country, but,

01:39:36.740 but the same thing.

01:39:38.280 And so the, the tendencies of female nature, um, they don't have borders.

01:39:44.580 Female nature is female nature, period.

01:39:47.680 And, and I'm not saying all women do this, you know, please, you know, to your viewers,

01:39:51.860 I'm not saying all women do this, you know, the amount of women that do this is not a large

01:39:55.600 number of women, but look at some of the things we've seen from the past where a guy and a

01:40:00.660 girl, maybe they dated, they got together.

01:40:02.820 Then later on, years later, he's famous now.

01:40:06.500 And then all of a sudden they come out of the woodwork and say, oh yeah, he did this to

01:40:09.040 me 40 years ago.

01:40:11.180 Uh, there's a very famous one right now of, uh, of a gentleman who was recently elected

01:40:16.320 to a very, very high public office.

01:40:18.140 Uh, the woman said, he, he did this to me and, um, some of it is politically motivated.

01:40:24.140 Again, we talk about the political game being about the dirtiest fighting you will ever see

01:40:28.440 in your entire life.

01:40:29.620 Uh, they will ruin your life and they will ruin your reputation.

01:40:32.640 They'll have you thrown in jail just so they can win or, you know, defeat their enemy.

01:40:36.220 That's their job.

01:40:37.320 And so if, if you become rich later on in life, you could be, you could be a dude that

01:40:43.920 has nothing.

01:40:44.540 And, and again, I've seen this where guys have had nothing that all of a sudden they

01:40:48.480 make a bunch of money.

01:40:50.100 And if a woman who hooked up with you in the past, all of a sudden finds out that you've

01:40:54.940 got, you know, eight, nine figures behind your, you know, in your bank account that,

01:40:59.320 hmm, let's see, what can I do?

01:41:01.840 And then they'll start getting those, those little voices, you know, chirping in their

01:41:05.560 hair.

01:41:05.860 Hey, look, you know what?

01:41:06.600 You can get paid.

01:41:08.140 Uh, and, and a lot of times they can, and for them to get paid, they've got to ruin your

01:41:12.300 reputation and drag your name through the button.

01:41:14.540 And they have no problem doing it.

01:41:16.520 So, um, you know, if, if you become a target of opportunities, someone will target you.

01:41:22.820 Right.

01:41:24.440 Yeah.

01:41:25.180 But it's, it got to the point when I was doing my shows, like, I just don't believe any

01:41:32.140 women pretty much.

01:41:33.440 And I don't know.

01:41:34.520 No, no, I really don't.

01:41:35.600 Because they would say, they would all say pretty much every other show, a woman would

01:41:41.140 tell me she was abused by her ex-boyfriend.

01:41:44.000 And at first I would just believe them because, I mean, if someone tells, like, if we're on,

01:41:49.080 on this stream and you tell me my, okay, were you in his house?

01:41:53.020 And so what had actually happened was he was pushing her to get out because she wouldn't

01:41:59.580 leave.

01:42:00.000 So she was trespassing and she fell down the stairs because he was pushing her out of the,

01:42:05.200 like, that's what I gathered is he was just trying to get her to leave because she wouldn't

01:42:09.220 leave.

01:42:09.640 And so I'm like, okay, you said he was abusive, but really you were doing the illegal thing.

01:42:15.100 You were trespassing.

01:42:17.700 Yeah.

01:42:18.180 And, and again, it's a, it's a slippery slope.

01:42:21.220 If you're a man, um, you know, if, if you want someone to leave your, your house, especially

01:42:26.680 a woman, you know, and I get it is your house is your castle.

01:42:30.720 And so if there's a man in my house and I want him to leave, guess what?

01:42:34.360 I'm not, I'm not calling the police.

01:42:35.500 I'm going to grab him by the scruff of his neck and his belt.

01:42:37.780 And he's going to get catapulted out of my house.

01:42:39.820 Yeah.

01:42:40.540 But woman, if it was a woman, I know from, from, from, um, from just cases I've worked

01:42:47.220 on that if I, if I put a hand on a woman and throw her out of my house, it doesn't matter

01:42:53.260 what the circumstances are.

01:42:54.440 I'm still probably going to get arrested.

01:42:57.000 Um, and if she gets bruised, I'm going to get sued.

01:42:59.860 And so I've seen guys, um, worked on cases where guys actually had to call the police.

01:43:05.260 And I've worked on cases where guys have physically thrown women out of their houses that all of

01:43:10.160 a sudden they're getting arrested.

01:43:11.400 They're getting sued, even though they're trying to get some, and again, there is no

01:43:15.020 equal administration of the law.

01:43:16.660 There's no equal protection under the law.

01:43:18.380 And so men have to be really, really carrying them into their life.

01:43:21.700 I've got like me personally, I'm, I've walked away from so many women, uh, just because I'm

01:43:27.960 like, nah, I, I don't like this.

01:43:29.840 I don't like that.

01:43:30.940 Or, you know, obviously the, one of the big red flags is if they're not willing to

01:43:34.120 sign my, uh, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my consent form, you know, I'm going

01:43:40.000 to, I'm going to, I'm going to email it to you one day, just so you can see what I'm talking

01:43:43.640 about.

01:43:45.160 And, and, you know, it's like, I've instructed my son to do the same thing.

01:43:48.540 Like, look, if they're not willing to sign this, go away.

01:43:51.840 But that's just one piece of it.

01:43:53.540 Number one, I'm going to, I'm going to check their habits.

01:43:55.780 Number one, I'm going to peruse their social media and see what types of things they,

01:43:59.460 they, they do on social media.

01:44:01.680 And so, you know, guys were, guys have to be more careful, especially nowadays, because

01:44:06.220 it's so easy to put yourself in harm's way, either criminally or, or in a civil, civil court.

01:44:12.040 You know, it's like they, in, in the criminal part of the Conor McGregor, uh, case, uh, they,

01:44:18.440 they found there was insufficient evidence to charge him, you know?

01:44:22.040 And so that, that could mean a lot of different things.

01:44:23.920 There wasn't enough evidence.

01:44:24.660 They didn't think it rose to the level of criminal activity.

01:44:27.360 But in the civil trial, he winds up paying.

01:44:30.860 And so, you know, as men, you know, and you talk about, you know, you, you mentioned before

01:44:36.460 about assault and, you know, that sort of thing.

01:44:39.200 Like if a guy takes off a, a condom, you know, stealth removal, they call it stealth condom

01:44:44.360 removal is what it's called.

01:44:45.940 Um, is that illegal?

01:44:47.060 Yeah, that is illegal.

01:44:47.920 If you take that off and you enter a woman, um, without a condom, when she thinks you're

01:44:54.580 wearing one and you stealthily take it off and say you impregnate her or give her an

01:44:58.280 STI, you can't, that is actually battery.

01:45:02.820 But that same woman can retrieve your condom from the trash.

01:45:06.440 And again, I've worked on, worked on a really tragic case where this happened and she impregnated

01:45:11.560 herself.

01:45:12.360 That works?

01:45:15.460 Look.

01:45:16.360 I did not think, I did not think that worked.

01:45:20.260 I'm actually working on a video just for the purpose of, they don't call it sperm jacking

01:45:27.180 or spurglary, which is what it is, but they have these kits that women can use either two

01:45:31.880 to four times.

01:45:32.680 So it does work.

01:45:33.560 Excellent.

01:45:34.200 They can retrieve a condom from the trash and it's kind of like a term, right?

01:45:39.940 None.

01:45:40.420 None whatsoever.

01:45:41.560 If a woman sperm jacks a man and steals his DNA without his consent, you know, they call

01:45:48.120 it false, false, uh, false, false, false parentage, uh, false paternity or, or forced paternity

01:45:54.560 I should say, a sperm jacking, spurglary, there's so many other names for it, but in the family

01:45:59.720 courts, the judges always presume 100% liability on the man's part.

01:46:06.620 If it's your DNA, it doesn't matter how she got it.

01:46:09.240 Sperm jacking is not illegal anywhere on the planet earth.

01:46:14.760 Okay.

01:46:15.060 There are companies and you know, they have marketing material, a whole bunch of like,

01:46:18.840 I've watched some of the YouTube videos.

01:46:20.580 I've seen a watch it like, like, man.

01:46:22.520 Um, and, and there are companies that manufacture products just for that.

01:46:27.120 So if I take off a condom without a woman's, you know, knowledge and impregnator, um, I can

01:46:32.500 be charged, charged with battery.

01:46:33.980 But if she retrieves my DNA and impregnates herself, uh, without my consent, without my

01:46:39.560 knowledge, and, um, I can still be, I will still be paying child support for the next

01:46:46.180 18 years.

01:46:46.720 The guy we, we, we, we tried to help out with this case, uh, we knew it was, it was an

01:46:50.920 uphill battle, you know, but even with all the evidence we got, even with, um, statements

01:46:56.540 I, I, I retrieved from her friends who said, yeah, that was her intention because the guy

01:47:00.840 was the guy who made a lot of money, um, she even admitted and text messages that, that

01:47:06.660 we were able to capture from friends of hers that, yeah, now I got them on the hook.

01:47:10.840 Um, you know, if I can just get, you know, so, you know, she, she fraudulently used his

01:47:18.100 DNA.

01:47:19.120 And even with all the evidence we got, the judge was still like, yeah, okay, whatever.

01:47:23.360 You're still paying.

01:47:25.160 That's, that's how, that's how, that's how slanted.

01:47:28.660 And that's how good we are at being a patriarchy.

01:47:31.220 We put ourselves in, in jeopardy and danger with all these rules and laws that are designed

01:47:36.220 to destroy a man's life.

01:47:37.680 So now imagine how that impacts a guy's life, his future.

01:47:42.160 Say you're a guy who's just trying to live his life.

01:47:44.160 You got a plan.

01:47:44.920 Well, now that plan has been, uh, put off the rails because you got sperm jacked.

01:47:49.980 Does that happen?

01:47:50.900 There's no way to quantify how much of this has happened.

01:47:54.920 Uh, there's more than one way.

01:47:56.280 There's more than just that.

01:47:57.240 There's obviously the tampering with a condom.

01:47:59.820 That's one way that still is the tried and true method, but the most common way women

01:48:04.660 get a man to impregnate them without a man's, uh, knowledge or willful, you know, act of

01:48:11.980 trying to get a woman pregnant is I can't get pregnant or I'm already pregnant.

01:48:17.520 So you don't need to use a condom.

01:48:18.720 Um, so the old head fake and, and, and, but, but it still works.

01:48:22.640 Why are they sleeping with pregnant with you?

01:48:25.560 That's so gross.

01:48:27.520 You know, but, but, you know, yeah, yeah, but, but these things exist and, uh, you know,

01:48:33.380 um, and you know, when I look at it, I'm sitting there like, holy smokes, man, you know, if there

01:48:37.400 was a company that manufactured, you know, a roofie kit, you know what I mean?

01:48:44.000 Uh, they, they, they wouldn't be in business for very long, you know, and people would be

01:48:47.960 outside protesting these companies, but these other companies, there's more than one company

01:48:51.500 that manufactures these things.

01:48:54.160 And, and, um, and, and it's unfortunate.

01:48:56.720 That's why, you know, guys have to be careful.

01:48:58.860 You have to, and I actually talked about this.

01:49:01.340 You have to dispose.

01:49:02.440 I did a live about this one.

01:49:03.640 You have to dispose of your DNA.

01:49:05.520 You have to take charge of your DNA yourself, man.

01:49:08.500 Uh, first of all, throw it in the trash.

01:49:10.060 Ugh.

01:49:10.700 That's nasty.

01:49:11.280 You know what I mean?

01:49:12.780 Like, it's this nasty anyway.

01:49:14.980 Just throw it in the trash.

01:49:16.340 Wrap it in toilet paper.

01:49:18.200 Flush it.

01:49:18.700 Use spermicidal, uh, agents in, in the, uh, the, the condoms, um, that are designed to

01:49:24.860 kill sperm cells once you, you know, once you ejaculate, um, you have to take charge

01:49:29.840 of your DNA.

01:49:30.700 Um, I actually told a, put a story on X about a, um, a sperm jacking ring out in California

01:49:36.060 where they had women that would collect DNA.

01:49:38.760 That was their job to collect DNA from men.

01:49:41.660 And they had women that would impregnate themselves with the DNA.

01:49:45.740 And these rings were criminal rings that would get a percentage of the child support.

01:49:50.640 Now, California is different because if, if, and these were, were targeting wealthy guys,

01:49:55.880 mostly ball players, other athletes.

01:49:58.380 I got turned on to this because, um, one of my neighbors, a woman was dating one of, um,

01:50:05.760 one of, one of the, the basketball teams in Los Angeles, uh, one of his sons, you know,

01:50:10.860 the, the previous owner, he's passed away, but she was dating one of his sons.

01:50:13.820 He would tell us all the, the scoops about this.

01:50:16.040 This was back in the nineties, that stuff was going on.

01:50:18.840 So I'm sure it's probably still going on.

01:50:21.100 Um, and, and so men are targets, you know, so men have to be more cautious and you have

01:50:28.820 to be more careful.

01:50:29.580 And, and what I tell guys is this, think of it this way, especially if you're an up and

01:50:33.200 coming guy, if you're a wealthy guy, think that you are a spy in cold war East Germany.

01:50:38.620 And one slip up will, will send you to a gulag in Russia and Siberia.

01:50:47.520 Yeah.

01:50:48.080 I just didn't know that worked.

01:50:50.280 Like I figured there was no way that would, that would work you.

01:50:54.620 No, I'll, I'll, I'll, I'll share some more details with you, but I'm actually going to

01:50:58.400 make a video about talking about one of these companies in particular and some of them, and

01:51:02.500 I'll share it with you, but, uh, it's, you know, again, you know, there are so many pitfalls

01:51:10.060 and landmines that men can step on nowadays, you know, besides all the rest of the thing,

01:51:14.660 the competition with other men, business, all the rest of this stuff.

01:51:18.160 Um, you know, there are women out there that, and again, I'm not saying most women, I'm not

01:51:24.000 saying all women, you know, but, um, does it happen enough to where men should be careful

01:51:29.680 and cautious? Yes, they should. And then, you know, going even further, we're talking about

01:51:33.140 paternity fraud, you know? So like, if I'm married and my wife steps out of the marriage

01:51:39.120 and gets impregnated by another man, do you know, by law, the family courts in Florida

01:51:43.460 would still, I would still have to take care of someone else's child.

01:51:49.620 Yeah. I knew that.

01:51:51.740 Unless the guy was willing to, and probably not because the guy's a dirt bag anyway for messing

01:51:56.740 with a married woman, but what, you know, unless he was willing to come forward and say,

01:52:00.340 yeah, you know what, I want to take full responsibility and go to the courts and, and claim responsibility

01:52:05.640 for that child. What are the odds of that happening? I've never seen it happen. I've never seen it.

01:52:09.660 Well, actually it happened once. I've seen it happen once. And again, I have people, I have friends

01:52:14.960 who work, work at the family courts and with the family court system. They tell me these stories.

01:52:19.000 I'm sitting there like, holy smokes, man. Uh, and that's a, I mean, like, that's a horrible law.

01:52:23.480 That, that, that's a terrible law. And again, there is no equal protection under the law when

01:52:28.540 it comes to that. The man is, you know, going to be, um, in a very bad situation. And so when

01:52:35.600 people ask about marriage, why is marriage falling off a cliff? Well, these are part of the reasons

01:52:40.480 why marriage, marriage is falling off a cliff. Like what, like what's in it for me? Oh, well,

01:52:45.760 you know, society needs this. Okay. Well to hell with society. What do I get out of it? Everybody

01:52:49.920 else gets out of something out of this, but men, why should men do this? If the laws are

01:52:54.520 set up for men to either be, um, a slave, the wage slave to your wife. Um, it used to

01:53:03.660 be, they changed the laws, the, the, um, the, the statute for alimony used to be a life sentence.

01:53:10.000 So if a woman got alimony, she got it for the rest of her life until the man died, she died

01:53:15.840 or until she remarried. Guess how many of those women remarried? None of them. Why should they?

01:53:19.920 None. Yeah. So now they put a limit on it. So now it's just more like a really long car

01:53:24.940 payment than a life sentence. But again, there are so many laws that, that heavily in skewed,

01:53:30.940 heavily skewed in the favor of women and against men. So, you know, so we, we, we need to do a lot

01:53:37.200 of work on our patriarchy skills. Yeah. Well, thank you so much for coming on. Can you tell the people

01:53:43.640 where they can find you? You can find me on X private. I rest an X. You can look me up on,

01:53:49.520 if you need to send me a, um, an email, send an email to private investigator Russ at, uh, at

01:53:56.340 Gmail. You can DM me on X right now. My, my website, I think I told you before that, that guy who was

01:54:02.720 running my website, that friend, he's been dealing with cancer. Uh, and, uh, so he's still dealing

01:54:07.860 with that. And so we're still trying to retrieve passwords. And so my website right now is, uh, you

01:54:12.520 know, I've updated some of it, but, but I still need to get some, some more access. So just reach out to

01:54:16.980 me there, reach out to me, DM me on X, or you can find me on private, private. I rest on a private

01:54:22.240 I rest YouTube channel. Well, thank you so much. I want to thank you for having me on again. It's

01:54:27.920 always a pleasure to talk to you. Yeah. Thank you so much. They love you in the chat. So you're a fan

01:54:32.980 favorite here. See ya. See ya. Okay guys. So let me see. Let me check the live chat. How can courts be

01:54:43.720 fixed with beyond the feminine favor with men and women being equal at all? Family court is the

01:54:49.760 worst. The legislation does not fix this. I mean, guys, I gotta be honest. I don't see this changing

01:54:55.980 in any of our lifetimes. Um, I mean, I'm just being honest. I hope it does. I mean, maybe Trump will do

01:55:06.220 something, but it's, it's a pretty crazy system that's been going on for like 50 plus years.

01:55:14.640 I don't know. Anyways, guys, let me know what you think in the comments. Thank you for watching as

01:55:19.860 usual. Also, we have a, um, fundraiser. If you guys want, we really want to get this divorce

01:55:26.340 documentary done. We're trying to raise money because we are demonetized. Um, so we can go a bit

01:55:32.120 more off the cuff, the more donations and people we have on the website, you know, it just makes it a

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JustPearlyThings - November 27, 2024

UNCOVERING The Reasons Conor McGregor Was Found GUILTY ｜ Pearl Daily

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