JustPearlyThings - October 28, 2023


Ungrateful Woman COMPLAINS About Her 9-5 Job


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Length

8 minutes

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200.35129

Word count

1,673

Sentence count

131

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Hate speech

5

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In this episode, I talk about how women in our modern era are working so much more than their ancestors and how this is ruining our ability to have a social life. I also talk about the benefits of having a 9-5 schedule.

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00:00:00.000 Women have chosen to go to college and get into a ton of debt that they will now have to spend 1.00
00:00:05.780 their 20s paying off instead of raising a family. So there's a video, and this isn't the only one,
00:00:11.820 I've seen a bunch of videos like this, of a woman complaining about having a normal nine to five. 0.99
00:00:16.680 Let's pull up the clip. I know I'm probably just being so dramatic and annoying,
00:00:21.020 but this is my first job, like my first nine to five job after college. And I'm in person
00:00:26.080 and I'm commuting in the city and it takes me fucking forever to get there. There's no way
00:00:31.260 I'm going to be able to afford living in the city right now. So that's off the table. Like fucking
00:00:35.400 duh. If I was able to walk to work and it'd be fine, but I'm not. So it literally takes me like
00:00:40.280 I leave here, like I get on the train at seven 30 and I don't get home till like six 15 earliest.
00:00:45.460 And then like, I don't have time to do anything. I don't, I want to shower, eat my dinner and go to
00:00:51.280 sleep. I don't have time or energy to cook by dinner either. Like I don't have energy to work
00:00:55.860 out. Like that's out the window. Like I'm so upset. Oh my God. Nothing to do with my job at all. But
00:01:02.820 just like the nine to five schedule in general is crazy. Being in the office nine to five, like if
00:01:08.080 it was remote, you get off at five and you're home and everything's fine. But like, I'm not home. It
00:01:12.620 takes me long to get home. And like, like people that drive to the office, like it doesn't,
00:01:18.060 you don't get off at five and I know it could be worse. I know I could be working longer, but like
00:01:22.800 I literally get off. It's pitch black. Like I don't have energy. How do you have friends? Like
00:01:27.380 how do you have time to like meet like a guy? I don't know. Like how do you have time for like
00:01:32.960 dating? Like I don't have time for anything and I'm like so stressed out and I'm also getting my
00:01:38.000 period. So that's why I'm all emotional, but like, am I so dramatic? It's fine. So I want to actually
00:01:44.760 come at this video from two angles. So one is I don't really think, especially young women
00:01:51.420 have the work ethic that women of the past did. You know, I really, and I know I referenced this
00:01:57.620 all the time, but I want you guys to Google a day in the life of the Amish. These women get up at 6 1.00
00:02:02.520 AM. They milk the cows. They have recipes from scratch. They worked 10 times harder than the women 1.00
00:02:08.620 do of today. Um, but the difference was it coincided with having a family. So the difference
00:02:15.980 is now, you know, people go to their job. That's away from their family where before it used to be
00:02:22.380 a family affair. Everybody would work together to make the farm work or whatever, or whatever
00:02:27.920 family business they had. And you can look at different time periods and find different jobs
00:02:33.000 that they had. Life has been hard for most of history. We live in a modern era where things
00:02:38.120 are easier than ever. And yet, you know, she's complaining that she doesn't have a social life. 1.00
00:02:43.780 Now, I actually do want to play devil's advocate for a second. She does have a point when she says,
00:02:50.300 when are you going to have time to date? Because people used to find their husbands at work. 1.00
00:02:57.480 But the problem is now men are not even crossing that line because it's not worth it to them. They get
00:03:04.020 their money from work. And if they flirt with a girl at work, they can get claims of harassment.
00:03:09.540 So it used to like coincide a bit. You would go, you'd get your job after college, you'd meet someone
00:03:14.940 at work, they would get married, the girl would stop working once they had kids. But now it's got to
00:03:21.200 be separate. And before, again, they used to work together. They used to have one job. And that was
00:03:26.940 what the entire family did. And so it's interesting because how can we expect the younger generation to
00:03:33.300 have community if we can't even have community at home? And now you have the husband working for one 0.99
00:03:38.940 person, the wife working for one person, and somebody's got to pick and somebody's got to choose. 0.97
00:03:44.620 And it doesn't really conduce strong families. And I guarantee that nobody's actually laid out the
00:03:51.680 option for this chick to actually go get married. You know, she's in her young 20s. 1.00
00:03:56.020 If she made dating a priority the next six months and maybe got a part-time job, lived at home,
00:04:01.760 she could actually go get married. But the culture doesn't push that. She's probably in a ton of debt 1.00
00:04:07.780 because of a degree that she was told to get that she doesn't need. And she probably has a lifestyle 0.99
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00:05:16.500 So the comment section is roasting the shit out of this chick. Holy hell. I walked about two miles 1.00
00:05:22.720 when I was 14 in the Arizona heat to work at McDonald's. I felt blessed to be able to work
00:05:28.000 for money. Just wow. And I think that's a fair point. Again, the younger generation does not have
00:05:33.640 the work ethic that people in the past had. And we have this illusion that somehow we work harder than
00:05:38.820 women's of times past. I guarantee no desk office job is harder than what women used to have to do. 1.00
00:05:46.480 helping their husband on the farm. Charles says, I work in a factory building engines and transmissions
00:05:52.260 from 5 p.m. to 5 a.m. six days a week. And she's crying about an eight hour day. I wish for just one
00:05:57.660 day she could do my job and she would not be crying about hers. And he's exactly right. He is right.
00:06:05.480 Women are all about work life balance. That is what women typically want. We are typically too lazy to 1.00
00:06:11.820 work the hard jobs and do the things that men do. Which is why I go back to, why are we fighting to
00:06:17.320 be equal when we're clearly not and we clearly do not have the work ethic or the intelligence to do
00:06:22.400 what men do? And we have been lied to in society for decades saying that we are the same. Our ancestors,
00:06:28.260 time to wake up at 4 a.m. to milk the cows, feed the animals, plow the fields, churn the butter,
00:06:32.980 knit a new sweater. Gen Z, why can't I just do nothing and live for free? 1.00
00:06:36.900 Libra cat, raise your hand if you're tired of this shit. Yeah, I know. I know. And this is the 0.99
00:06:41.920 thing. Like the younger generation has no idea what people used to do in a day. But the problem
00:06:48.520 is also, you know, we're so used to being on our phones all the time. I mean, I'd ask her too,
00:06:53.980 what's your screen time in a day? Today's Galileo says lots of folks don't realize how things have
00:06:58.780 changed the job market and how unprepared education has left the younger generations. These youngsters
00:07:04.380 don't get graded, are trapped into loan system, and we're never taught how to balance a checkbook.
00:07:09.760 Yes, that is exactly right. And the thing is, a lot of times it's not even necessarily their fault
00:07:16.340 because she was probably raised by a mother that was not around much. When would she have any time
00:07:22.460 to learn life skills? The school system allows women to live life on easy mode. They are given 0.99
00:07:28.560 preferential treatment in the school system. And now the school system is leaving students unable
00:07:35.520 to read at an eighth grade level coming out of high school. They go to colleges, which is subsidized.
00:07:40.940 And college isn't even known for education anymore. It used to be the best and brightest people went
00:07:45.800 there. It was a four-year university. And really, before they subsidized education in the 70s,
00:07:53.860 people actually used to learn things and be prepared for the job market. I actually was laughing the
00:07:58.940 other day because, you know, I think we have like 10 people that work here. I didn't even know if they
00:08:04.460 had a degree. I didn't even, I didn't even think to ask. That's how, that's how, that's how little it
00:08:10.420 matters to employers nowadays. Mandy says, good thing she didn't become a nurse. Try 12 to 13 hour shifts, 0.99
00:08:16.440 often with no breaks while raising kids and keeping a house. Yes. Yes.