JustPearlyThings - Western Marriage Get Destroyed

00:00:00.000 Because the person I was with wanted to have a baby so so again, I thought I did it right clearly not because I wasn't married, but

00:00:06.720 It still didn't work out because it just wasn't my guy

00:00:08.560 So that's where I just think like even if I still would have taken it slow

00:00:12.080 There just were a lot of people that just were generally not my person and that's okay

00:00:15.960 Hmm. I would just thinking of speaking of marriage. I wanted to know do you think we're in a post marriage society?

00:00:22.720 Hmm because on one hand we hear that women should wait till they're married to have sex 1.00

00:00:30.000 But at the same time we also hear from the men that they don't want to get married anymore

00:00:34.160 So what do we do with that seems like it's true because nowadays a lot of people are looking at marriage as a contract

00:00:40.040 Rather than a partnership and there's a huge difference between that because with a contract

00:00:44.160 There are so many terms and many headaches and this and I know it is it is a contract

00:00:48.480 Yeah, but that's because that is what it is now because realistically the traditional sense of marriage is not a contract

00:00:55.760 Really in terms of the law once the law is involved. That's when everything went tits up. I think

00:01:01.440 Yeah, so the problem is is that there's zero advantage to marriage in the western world for a man 0.57

00:01:09.120 There is zero statistical advantage

00:01:11.120 If you use your mind if use your head instead of your heart and you look at the advantages to getting married

00:01:15.280 There are absolutely not really none because this new idea of new age feminism just basically destroys all men in the idea

00:01:22.320 In the event of her leaving and and it's very common that women leave right? 1.00

00:01:26.480 Let's let's stop the a man versus woman attack etc etc life's difficult for everybody

00:01:30.400 We all have different challenges different things to go through

00:01:32.720 But if a woman marries a man and it goes wrong she has emotional heartbreak fine

00:01:36.880 But if a man marries a woman and it goes wrong he has emotional heartbreak plus

00:01:41.200 Everything he has ever worked for is ripped out from underneath him and he has to give that chick money 0.99

00:01:46.160 Forever in some places. You don't even have to be married exactly that's why the men don't want to live with the women even 1.00

00:01:51.040 That's right 0.96

00:01:51.440 So when you make these rules and these laws right under the guise of feminism and equality all this garbage 1.00

00:01:56.800 All you're doing is scaring men away from commitment and then you have to add in the other hidden element 0.98

00:02:01.680 And the other hidden element is what I said earlier is whose fault a lot of this is is promiscuous women, right? 1.00

00:02:05.760 So in society is broken down if women 1.00

00:02:08.960 We're saying if all women got together and said we'll only have sex after marriage. Guess what men would do get married 0.99

00:02:14.160 But you don't right so now you're in miami. I go miami. I can fuck anything in the club 1.00

00:02:18.400 I don't have to marry any of them if I marry them. I get wrecked 1.00

00:02:21.920 So like let's all use our brains here. What am I gonna do? Well, i'm gonna be like well, no

00:02:27.280 Bounce see ya. No, no

00:02:29.360 So men have been scared away from the idea of marriage and that's a law 1.00

00:02:32.480 That is the fault of this new bullshit law and this new feminism and this new crap. They don't give men any 1.00

00:02:38.400 Tactical advantage and i'm talking about small things a man's not even allowed to be a man in his own house

00:02:44.240 You know in england you will get accused of emotional abuse. I can marry a woman

00:02:49.120 Not lay a hand on her. I can just raise my voice to her. That's emotional abuse

00:02:53.920 I can raise my voice to her because she's going out drinking with dudes 1.00

00:02:57.280 She can go out drinking six nights of might and week with men and I can say what the fuck you're my wife sit down 1.00

00:03:02.800 She can call the cops call me emotionally abusive. I get arrested now. Now. There's a court case against me 1.00

00:03:08.160 I have to go to court and defend myself. She'll divorce me take my house 0.96

00:03:11.280 I have to sell my car because she's drinking vodka with fucking god knows who but you know 1.00

00:03:15.840 What do you think what do you think of child support? 0.99

00:03:21.520 And that's another interesting thing because a lot of these arguments

00:03:24.800 It's it's it it goes beyond man and woman and it goes into the the larger sphere as a whole right because we talked earlier about war

00:03:31.520 And how a lot of men used to die and that doesn't happen anymore

00:03:34.640 So what you used to have in societies and i'm not saying i have all the answers i'm just commenting right

00:03:39.440 What you used to have in societies is a bunch of men would die at war because men have more dangerous lives than women 1.00

00:03:44.480 There'd be a bunch more women than men 1.00

00:03:46.720 The top g's would impregnate a bunch of women and the top g's could take care of the women and that'd be etc etc 1.00

00:03:51.520 That's now changed, right?

00:03:52.960 So the reason a lot of the reason that monogamy is pushed is because it's good for society and it is good for society

00:03:58.080 It's good for society as a whole to have a man a woman a family together

00:04:01.120 The man provides for the woman etc 0.91

00:04:03.120 The government doesn't want to pay for all these kids if you don't have child support who's paying for these kids?

00:04:06.720 The government does it it breaks down, right?

00:04:08.640 So that's why child support is enforced in many parts of the world

00:04:11.600 In certain other parts of the world child support isn't enforced because they have religious beliefs or genuine

00:04:16.720 Fan genuine family beliefs that keep the families together

00:04:18.640 But in the western world now you need child support because you've broken things down to the point where men don't want to be 0.99

00:04:24.240 Married to chicks chicks don't want to listen to the man the man can't even be the man in his own household 0.99

00:04:28.720 He can't even feel respected where he goes his woman gives him no status 1.00

00:04:32.560 And and now he doesn't want to fucking deal with her anymore 0.96

00:04:34.640 So how do you get that kid paid for well? 1.00

00:04:36.800 Then tell the man or you go to jail and you just come along with a fucking long arm of the law and you fuck him 1.00

00:04:41.040 And so yeah, it's difficult. It's hard to answer. Yeah, but it's hard to answer 1.00

00:04:45.200 The true answer to all of it is an idealistic answer

00:04:47.600 I don't like to think idealistically and talk idealistically, but it's the truth

00:04:50.320 The true answer to it is to instill in the man a sense of duty in which he wants to take care of his woman regardless because that's his child

00:04:56.960 But you will do that

00:04:58.160 I'll tell you how you do that you do that by inspiring out of the man by being a very good woman

00:05:02.000 So I'll give you an example if I had a child with a woman and she was always a great woman to me

00:05:06.480 She was never she never cheated on me. She was a good woman to me and I was running around being whatever and she's like look 0.95

00:05:12.320 I just can't put up with you anymore

00:05:14.560 You're top G. You're gonna do what you're gonna do. I'm gonna look after your kid

00:05:18.000 I'm gonna you can see him anytime you want. I care about you. Please don't leave me in poverty

00:05:23.760 I'd say cool 100% I'm not I'm not a fucking dickhead 0.98

00:05:27.360 That's a real man though because I was in a situation just yeah 0.97

00:05:30.880 But I was just in a situation like that to where it's like hearts don't break even and that's the reality, too 0.98

00:05:35.840 It's like if those morals and principles are not instilled in a man none of that shit matters 0.62

00:05:39.760 So obviously the child support stuff obviously hits close home to me because I'm already 50,000 0.96

00:05:44.800 It's just in lawyer fees trying to get him to provide you know what I mean?

00:05:49.120 And it sucks because it's like you playing the NBA like why

00:05:51.760 Couldn't you why don't you want to do more and it just because again of the relationship. It's personal. It's not about our personal 0.57

00:05:57.760 That's right. So it's like yeah

00:05:59.200 If you're not so I just I just feel like it's like why do you get money for making a poor choice?

00:06:04.560 Well, it wasn't a poor choice

00:06:06.800 I'm not trying to like disrespect you in any way. It's just like if you left

00:06:13.760 Right because we because we made a commitment

00:06:16.240 So we made it at the end of the day. We made a commitment. We have a forever commitment. Fuck marriage. We're we are forever

00:06:21.600 Family, so again as someone who is literally going through this if I made more money than him

00:06:26.800 I would be paying him child support and that would be fair to me

00:06:29.280 But this is what's really interesting

00:06:30.560 What's truly interesting is if you go to other countries and i'm talking about civilized countries, right?

00:06:34.880 If you go to poland or czech republic or whatever these countries which are in many metrics more civilized than the west

00:06:40.640 They're safer to live in they're cleaner, etc. There's no child support laws

00:06:44.720 So if you have a divorce the man just takes care of the woman because that's his kid 0.96

00:06:48.000 That's just what he's supposed to do and that's just it so what you're saying is

00:06:51.920 You're right about the man having the morality instilled inside of them and my point is that

00:06:55.920 The reason a lot of this doesn't exist the reason men don't have morality installed in them 0.99

00:06:59.200 It's not just about the individual case of the man. It's about society as a whole

00:07:03.040 It's about women as a whole men as a whole the dating game as a whole the life he's living as a whole

00:07:08.560 And and it's and this is the world we live in

00:07:10.160 This is why I was talking about how dangerous new thing is because now we have this new thing this new world and we're living in this new world and the truth is

00:07:16.080 As a man now you're the game has changed in the game of chess

00:07:20.800 Sometimes it's not about winning. It's about making sure you don't lose if you cannot lose if you could not blunder any pieces and protect your king long enough

00:07:27.440 You'll win the game and there's a lot of men who are now like, okay, how do I not lose? 0.96

00:07:30.960 Well, you know what I become fucking ruthless 1.00

00:07:32.960 That's how I don't lose I get I get all my sex because the women are promiscuous. I get laid as much as I want 1.00

00:07:38.360 I don't let anyone fucking tie me into anything dumb 1.00

00:07:40.760 Any bitch wants to get fresh to me or fucking talk to another dude. I cut her off financially 1.00

00:07:44.660 But when you just forget ruthless so you don't lose the game, but that's because the game's been rigged against men

00:07:49.100 So the harder you rigged the game against us the more ruthless we're gonna have to be to compete and that's what it's unfortunate

00:07:54.580 I'm not saying I have the answers. I'm just saying why men do what they do 0.97

00:07:56.820 Can I just say with regards to Britney I just think that with regards to child support you've got a kid you look after it

00:08:01.380 Hey, and I do

00:08:03.380 No, not you the men

00:08:05.380 Oh, I was saying I do look after my son

00:08:07.380 No, that's why I said no, that's why I said with regards to the child support

00:08:10.820 That's what I first said. I think that you have a kid that you should look after it

00:08:14.020 I don't agree that I don't agree with men giving the women money 0.97

00:08:17.220 But I think it's disgusting that a man can have a child and not support him 0.99

00:08:19.820 So so why but this is another thing so this is this is the comments we have to make right because we don't have all the answers

00:08:24.780 We have to make the comments on it. This goes into the deeper point

00:08:27.820 Every time a court rules in favor of a chick have a hundred thousand dollars a month 1.00

00:08:31.980 That puts men off to a level like it's fine if there was a baseline child support thousand dollars a month two thousand dollars a month

00:08:38.540 That's if you have a kid baseline regardless of income if your man wants to give you more

00:08:42.300 He does it he doesn't whatever whatever when you come along start saying this percent of a man's income

00:08:45.980 Do you have any idea how scary that is to a man who works for his money? He works for his money

00:08:50.140 And you know why it's scary? It's not just because he's giving his money away

00:08:52.940 It's because he knows he isn't giving money to the kid

00:08:54.700 Yeah, the kid you can raise a kid on 500 bucks a month in most of the world

00:08:59.100 You want that kid in gucci you in gucci you in a nice car going on dates with another dude with my money 1.00

00:09:05.340 You can i'd rather burn the fucking house down than give it to you under 0.99

00:09:08.140 I just think it incentivizes poor decisions like I haven't gotten pregnant by someone 1.00

00:09:16.300 But like you someone what i'm saying

00:09:17.660 But like you're gonna you're gonna pay someone who's done that like why did they get okay?

00:09:22.220 I'm literally telling you that what if I made more money than him

00:09:25.260 I would have no problem paying for my child and their child 0.99

00:09:27.900 Child support laws vary in different states. So in North Carolina for instance

00:09:31.500 If you make over combined over 300,000 a year, then you are considered off the grid

00:09:36.060 So then you have to prove this is how much my your rent is any bill that my son occupies

00:09:40.940 I get a percent that I get a percentage of so on the low end

00:09:44.380 It would be 50 if there's a big enough salary gap

00:09:46.940 It could be up to 97 and the court the judge gets to decide what makes the most sense

00:09:51.740 So if my child's father makes 20 million dollars a year from basketball

00:09:54.860 He gets to decide if six thousand dollars is a lot if eight thousand or ten thousand whatever

00:09:58.860 But you have to prove that so it's not like you just it's enough money for a chanel bag

00:10:03.100 Like these are a my son watches peppa pig. That's a part of that's a cable bill

00:10:07.340 You know what I mean?

00:10:07.900 So it's it's a percentage of everything so you're not like just living living it up. You're just living

00:10:15.740 My whole point is like it's all down to choices and the man made a choice too because I can't get pregnant unless he nuts

00:10:20.780 I I understand that but I'm then there's nothing to argue

00:10:24.300 You're the one that's only you're in control of who gets born abortions legal 1.00

00:10:27.900 Okay, well as soon as as soon as he nuts it's completely out of his control listen

00:10:33.980 Can I just say something though?

00:10:35.260 Wait, auntie

00:10:36.060 Just play an advocate that I had a I had my child and me and the dad went together

00:10:40.220 And I didn't take a penny from him and the government wanted me to but I decided that no

00:10:44.620 It was better off that my child I look after him myself

00:10:47.580 Anything he wants to give his son if he wanted to is extra

00:10:50.140 But I worked hard and I've done it all on my own because it was just less because it's this headache

00:10:54.700 Oh, it's this no, and I know a lot of women that went that route my child 1.00

00:10:58.700 That is you you have to think that he's not going to be a man and take care of his child

00:11:03.020 Don't you think that's unfair on you?

00:11:05.100 No, because my child and he's happy not gonna give him what he wants

00:11:07.900 Well, he made that child

00:11:09.420 That's why I don't need a man 1.00

00:11:10.540 But the whole point is you choose who you sleep with

00:11:12.540 Listen right, as far as you pick

00:11:13.900 He chooses as well, that's the thing

00:11:15.580 Yeah, this is

00:11:18.300 I'm saying right now it's not fair because women have abortion that's legal it's not legal for them 1.00

00:11:23.580 Oh, they get no saying they get no saying and the same thing with birth

00:11:26.940 I mean, I could have done it I could have done but it wasn't worth my time

00:11:29.340 You can get an IUD it's like 99

00:11:32.460 But what if the man wanted the child though?

00:11:34.940 That's exactly my point so I was on birth

00:11:36.620 Let's just give you an example

00:11:38.060 My whole point my point I think he should I think he should take care of it

00:11:41.900 But I just don't agree with having legal incentives for women to leave 0.99

00:11:45.100 That's my point

00:11:45.900 He should give you money for the kid

00:11:47.980 If you have a kid you should but I just don't agree

00:11:50.060 Wow

00:11:51.500 See, but the thing is if men stood up and became fathers to their children women wouldn't have to 1.00

00:11:56.140 But if women choose differently 1.00

00:11:58.220 They don't need to

00:11:58.780 But men aren't stepping up 0.91

00:12:01.100 We're in control of who we sleep with

00:12:03.020 So at the end of the day

00:12:03.900 But that's not the point

00:12:04.460 Because he wanted the child

00:12:06.700 But you pick who you sleep with

00:12:08.220 So if you pick a guy that's getting girls pregnant left and right 0.99

00:12:10.780 But she doesn't know that he's not going to be there

00:12:12.860 She doesn't know that

00:12:13.660 If she married him she'd be all right 0.54

00:12:14.940 She trusted this man to be a father to a child

00:12:17.900 And now she's left with a child and no one's going to support her 0.55

00:12:20.540 Marry him

00:12:20.940 Don't you think that's unfair

00:12:21.660 She should have married him first 0.99

00:12:22.380 I mean you can get married

00:12:23.580 Of course

00:12:23.820 You can get married

00:12:24.460 But she's a lot of women 1.00

00:12:25.580 That's what I'm saying

00:12:26.380 It's just like

00:12:27.020 You think marriage is what solves problems 0.94

00:12:28.380 Are you guys actually sitting here

00:12:29.500 What I'm trying to say

00:12:30.220 Marriage will solve her financial problems

00:12:31.980 You've already spoken auntie

00:12:33.100 Please don't cut me off

00:12:34.300 This is the problem yeah

00:12:35.500 Stop acting like every woman that leaves a marriage and gets divorced

00:12:38.540 Is because she's this and she's that 0.98

00:12:40.620 There's a lot of women that suffer and they actually need the support 1.00

00:12:43.260 And the legal incentive so that they know when they leave

00:12:45.660 Somebody can back them up because they'll be on their own

00:12:47.740 Stop acting like men are angels 0.85

00:12:49.500 Because there's a lot of men that are dealing with a lot of the traumas

00:12:52.620 That they have from a man's world being difficult

00:12:54.860 The same way that Andrew Tate explained

00:12:56.620 A man's world is highly competitive 1.00

00:12:58.380 Men are out there suffering

00:12:59.660 It is hard to be a man

00:13:00.540 And a lot of the time the person takes the brunt of it is the woman 0.99

00:13:03.500 So yes she's well within her right to leave

00:13:05.580 Take her child and be in a better place 1.00

00:13:07.580 And the government should step in to make sure that that man

00:13:09.820 That made her make that decision steps in for their kid 0.97

00:13:12.220 Can I say something now when she's finished?

00:13:13.740 Wait the time that she takes to take care of the child

00:13:16.540 Is the time that she doesn't have to go to work

00:13:18.300 So she's already done on income

00:13:19.820 And she's having to be taking care of the child on her own 1.00

00:13:21.660 That don't make sense

00:13:22.700 Not every man is a bloody angel

00:13:24.220 And not every woman is a devil

00:13:25.500 They don't pick men 1.00

00:13:26.540 Wait hang on a minute

00:13:27.500 And we're gonna leave

00:13:28.540 Go ahead

00:13:28.940 Hang on a minute

00:13:29.500 How do you do that bro?

00:13:30.460 When did I say a man was an angel?

00:13:31.660 How do you do that?

00:13:32.060 How do you do that?

00:13:32.620 How do you pick the right man?

00:13:33.660 How do you do that?

00:13:34.300 How do you pick the right man?

00:13:35.580 I'm talking

00:13:36.140 I'm talking

00:13:36.620 I waited

00:13:37.340 I waited

00:13:37.980 Yes she did

00:13:38.380 I waited

00:13:39.580 Right

00:13:39.900 So now it's my time to talk

00:13:41.100 Talk to me

00:13:41.740 What I was saying to her is right

00:13:43.820 Is that if she got married first 0.99

00:13:46.860 Then she would have been all right

00:13:47.820 She would have to be fighting through the court

00:13:49.180 So the same law that you're saying

00:13:50.780 Would have supported her and her child

00:13:52.140 And no

00:13:52.700 That is the difference between getting married first 0.60

00:13:55.340 No

00:13:55.660 And that's what I was saying

00:13:56.620 And that's what

00:13:57.180 When people were saying

00:13:57.900 Getting married just gives you more money

00:13:58.780 Hang on a minute

00:13:59.260 It's not a good decision yeah?

00:14:02.460 Excuse me

00:14:03.100 But I shut up when you were talking

00:14:04.700 Go on apologies my auntie

00:14:05.980 Right

00:14:06.220 They made me to disrespect you

00:14:07.260 So what I was trying to say

00:14:08.940 Is that there is an incentive

00:14:10.780 When women get married first 1.00

00:14:12.860 And have children

00:14:14.220 Because I'm not saying that

00:14:15.420 I'm not saying like you

00:14:16.140 I'm just saying women in general 1.00

00:14:17.580 If a woman gets married first 1.00

00:14:19.660 Before she has a child

00:14:20.940 And then it leaves

00:14:21.900 Then it's totally different

00:14:22.940 Like he said before

00:14:24.140 She's up for life

00:14:25.500 If she leaves

00:14:26.540 She's up for life

00:14:27.660 So if somebody else

00:14:28.860 She's up for life without marriage though 1.00

00:14:29.820 That's the point

00:14:30.380 No and that is

00:14:31.580 You want to hear

00:14:32.700 No and as a person

00:14:33.900 Again let's ask somebody

00:14:34.780 Who's actually going through

00:14:35.580 Because none of you 0.99

00:14:36.060 Fucking know what the 1.00

00:14:36.700 Fuck you're talking about 1.00

00:14:37.420 When it comes to child support 1.00

00:14:38.620 Lawyers none of that 1.00

00:14:39.420 Shit 1.00

00:14:39.580 None of you 1.00

00:14:40.060 Fucking know 1.00

00:14:40.700 Okay 0.99

00:14:41.260 So you don't

00:14:42.860 The reality is

00:14:44.220 If I would have gotten married

00:14:45.340 And did everything right

00:14:46.060 And did everything the moral way

00:14:47.420 Right

00:14:48.460 Guess what

00:14:49.020 All I would have

00:14:49.820 A dish on top of

00:14:50.860 What I'm going through

00:14:51.660 With child support

00:14:52.620 Is alimony

00:14:53.740 So I'm still in the courts

00:14:55.500 Fighting whether I'm married

00:14:56.620 Or whether I'm not

00:14:57.660 So that

00:14:58.220 I get what you're saying

00:14:59.340 Because hey

00:14:59.820 You at least get the commitment

00:15:01.100 To you know

00:15:01.740 Maybe back up

00:15:02.620 That he's going to be there

00:15:03.820 But it doesn't

00:15:04.780 Ensure anything

00:15:06.140 Everybody wants a 0.97

00:15:07.020 Fucking guaranteed thing 0.98

00:15:08.220 There's no guarantee in life 1.00

00:15:09.580 We're talking different places

00:15:10.780 When you're in America

00:15:11.820 And you're married

00:15:12.380 And you're divorced

00:15:12.860 You still got to fight for your money

00:15:14.620 And would you start

00:15:15.340 Yes

00:15:15.740 You have to get a lawyer

00:15:16.780 Right

00:15:17.020 Not in England

00:15:17.500 In England you get a lawyer

00:15:18.940 And it's sorted

00:15:20.300 That's the difference

00:15:20.940 You would have to be going there

00:15:22.380 Saying oh I need this for my child

00:15:23.900 And I need this

00:15:24.700 You get

00:15:25.100 Once you get divorced

00:15:26.300 And you go to court

00:15:27.180 It's that much

00:15:27.900 Alimony and child support are different

00:15:29.180 I'm saying

00:15:29.740 She just spent 50,000 pounds 1.00

00:15:31.340 She's still fighting 0.72

00:15:32.060 You don't have to pay that here

00:15:33.580 You would not have to pay that here

00:15:35.500 You would not have to pay that here

00:15:37.980 You would not have to pay that here

00:15:39.340 Do your research

00:15:40.060 You would not have to pay that here

00:15:41.180 But you still need a lawyer

00:15:41.820 When you get divorced

00:15:43.100 She wouldn't be going for all the battle

00:15:44.860 That she's going

00:15:45.580 It'd be simpler in England

00:15:46.780 To get divorced than in America 0.57

00:15:48.380 That's what I'm saying

00:15:50.940 Take your money

00:15:51.580 Don't get married

00:15:52.380 Have a parental partnership

00:15:53.500 Love your woman

00:15:54.380 Pay whatever you pay for your kids

00:15:55.020 I just want to make a point

00:15:56.460 You know what you were saying

00:15:57.740 Get married

00:15:58.620 Even Tate said it himself

00:16:00.060 Men don't want to get married anymore 1.00

00:16:01.900 Why are you not turning what he's saying?

00:16:03.580 Why are you not twisting what he's saying?

00:16:04.620 You're not even listening to what he's saying

00:16:06.140 But it's not attractive anymore

00:16:07.340 But it's more like a loss for a man

00:16:08.780 Isn't it true that

00:16:09.580 You're not taking it

00:16:10.300 Wait, wait, wait

00:16:10.700 You're taking what he's saying

00:16:11.820 And you're twisting it to suit yourself

00:16:13.100 What did you say?

00:16:13.660 No, I'm not

00:16:14.220 He literally said

00:16:15.260 Tate, didn't you say that men are scared of getting married now?

00:16:18.220 Yeah, okay, but why?

00:16:20.380 Because like you said with child support

00:16:22.540 They feel like there's no advantage

00:16:24.060 And the alimony is alimony

00:16:25.180 You say just get married

00:16:26.140 It's not that simple

00:16:27.100 Because men don't want to marry you 0.99

00:16:29.100 Okay, so let's analyze that point

00:16:31.340 And first thing back to the child support thing

00:16:33.500 What's actually interesting to talk about is

00:16:35.660 There's a lot of countries in the world where

00:16:37.740 There is no child support system

00:16:39.420 And it functions, right?

00:16:40.700 So you have to

00:16:41.500 If you want to pay attention to actually

00:16:43.580 You know, learn about society as a whole

00:16:45.340 It's very interesting to study all the

00:16:47.580 Different societies and economies

00:16:49.820 In which there is no child support

00:16:51.100 And children don't die

00:16:52.780 I mean, people get divorced

00:16:54.060 And they still find a way to function

00:16:55.740 And it's interesting

00:16:56.460 And it's a very long conversation

00:16:57.500 Because it extrapolates about how the whole society works as a whole

00:17:00.140 That's the first point

00:17:00.940 The second thing

00:17:01.740 I'll actually sit here and argue

00:17:04.380 The point that

00:17:05.100 Is that I don't think any man really ever wants to get married

00:17:09.980 I think that women convince them to get married 1.00

00:17:12.220 And I think that any woman who is genuinely serious

00:17:14.620 About convincing her man to get married could do it 0.95

00:17:17.420 I don't think in the modern world at least

00:17:19.340 Men wake up and go, can't wait to get married 0.93

00:17:20.940 But what they do is they get a chick who's so good 1.00

00:17:23.660 And ticks so many boxes

00:17:25.260 And makes them so happy

00:17:26.620 And she'll sit there and say, you know what?

00:17:28.940 It would mean the world to me

00:17:30.380 Please 1.00

00:17:31.660 And he'll go off for fuck's sake 1.00

00:17:33.740 All right then 0.99

00:17:34.940 And that's what happens

00:17:35.740 So I still think you can convince 99.9% of men to marry you

00:17:39.580 The point I was making is

00:17:41.500 The society isn't convincing the man to marry you

00:17:45.180 It's not like it used to be where the man believed he had to be married

00:17:47.580 Society's done the opposite

00:17:48.860 So it's your job as a woman to make it clear to him that it is worthwhile

00:17:52.780 Once again, how would you convince a man it's worthwhile for him to say, that's my wife

00:17:58.620 Status

00:17:59.820 That's how you do it

00:18:00.940 This is under a misunderstood hack to to men as a whole

00:18:05.020 Is status

00:18:05.980 If you can say

00:18:07.100 If you can convince that man, but by marrying you 0.79

00:18:09.100 His status will increase amongst his peers

00:18:11.260 He's going to do it

00:18:12.380 And for anyone out here who disagrees with me

00:18:14.700 The things men do for status 0.99

00:18:16.460 Let's actually analyze how baseline men are 0.69

00:18:19.500 What is status?

00:18:20.140 Status is respect, right?

00:18:21.740 Men kill over respect

00:18:23.740 Men gangs kill each other over respect 0.97

00:18:26.620 A man will smash another man's face in for insult

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00:18:32.780 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform

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JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022

Western Marriage Get Destroyed

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