Western Marriage Get Destroyed
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why men don t want to get married anymore, why women should wait to have sex until they re married, and how to deal with post-marriage society. We also talk about child support and what to do when things don t work out.
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Because the person I was with wanted to have a baby so so again, I thought I did it right clearly not because I wasn't married, but
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It still didn't work out because it just wasn't my guy
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So that's where I just think like even if I still would have taken it slow
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There just were a lot of people that just were generally not my person and that's okay
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Hmm. I would just thinking of speaking of marriage. I wanted to know do you think we're in a post marriage society?
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Hmm because on one hand we hear that women should wait till they're married to have sex
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But at the same time we also hear from the men that they don't want to get married anymore
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So what do we do with that seems like it's true because nowadays a lot of people are looking at marriage as a contract
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Rather than a partnership and there's a huge difference between that because with a contract
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There are so many terms and many headaches and this and I know it is it is a contract
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Yeah, but that's because that is what it is now because realistically the traditional sense of marriage is not a contract
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Really in terms of the law once the law is involved. That's when everything went tits up. I think
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Yeah, so the problem is is that there's zero advantage to marriage in the western world for a man
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If you use your mind if use your head instead of your heart and you look at the advantages to getting married
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There are absolutely not really none because this new idea of new age feminism just basically destroys all men in the idea
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In the event of her leaving and and it's very common that women leave right?
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Let's let's stop the a man versus woman attack etc etc life's difficult for everybody
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We all have different challenges different things to go through
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But if a woman marries a man and it goes wrong she has emotional heartbreak fine
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But if a man marries a woman and it goes wrong he has emotional heartbreak plus
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Everything he has ever worked for is ripped out from underneath him and he has to give that chick money
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Forever in some places. You don't even have to be married exactly that's why the men don't want to live with the women even
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So when you make these rules and these laws right under the guise of feminism and equality all this garbage
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All you're doing is scaring men away from commitment and then you have to add in the other hidden element
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And the other hidden element is what I said earlier is whose fault a lot of this is is promiscuous women, right?
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We're saying if all women got together and said we'll only have sex after marriage. Guess what men would do get married
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But you don't right so now you're in miami. I go miami. I can fuck anything in the club
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I don't have to marry any of them if I marry them. I get wrecked
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So like let's all use our brains here. What am I gonna do? Well, i'm gonna be like well, no
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So men have been scared away from the idea of marriage and that's a law
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That is the fault of this new bullshit law and this new feminism and this new crap. They don't give men any
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Tactical advantage and i'm talking about small things a man's not even allowed to be a man in his own house
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You know in england you will get accused of emotional abuse. I can marry a woman
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Not lay a hand on her. I can just raise my voice to her. That's emotional abuse
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I can raise my voice to her because she's going out drinking with dudes
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She can go out drinking six nights of might and week with men and I can say what the fuck you're my wife sit down
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She can call the cops call me emotionally abusive. I get arrested now. Now. There's a court case against me
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I have to go to court and defend myself. She'll divorce me take my house
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I have to sell my car because she's drinking vodka with fucking god knows who but you know
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What do you think what do you think of child support?
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And that's another interesting thing because a lot of these arguments
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It's it's it it goes beyond man and woman and it goes into the the larger sphere as a whole right because we talked earlier about war
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And how a lot of men used to die and that doesn't happen anymore
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So what you used to have in societies and i'm not saying i have all the answers i'm just commenting right
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What you used to have in societies is a bunch of men would die at war because men have more dangerous lives than women
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The top g's would impregnate a bunch of women and the top g's could take care of the women and that'd be etc etc
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So the reason a lot of the reason that monogamy is pushed is because it's good for society and it is good for society
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It's good for society as a whole to have a man a woman a family together
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The government doesn't want to pay for all these kids if you don't have child support who's paying for these kids?
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So that's why child support is enforced in many parts of the world
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In certain other parts of the world child support isn't enforced because they have religious beliefs or genuine
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Fan genuine family beliefs that keep the families together
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But in the western world now you need child support because you've broken things down to the point where men don't want to be
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Married to chicks chicks don't want to listen to the man the man can't even be the man in his own household
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He can't even feel respected where he goes his woman gives him no status
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And and now he doesn't want to fucking deal with her anymore
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Then tell the man or you go to jail and you just come along with a fucking long arm of the law and you fuck him
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And so yeah, it's difficult. It's hard to answer. Yeah, but it's hard to answer
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The true answer to all of it is an idealistic answer
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I don't like to think idealistically and talk idealistically, but it's the truth
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The true answer to it is to instill in the man a sense of duty in which he wants to take care of his woman regardless because that's his child
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I'll tell you how you do that you do that by inspiring out of the man by being a very good woman
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So I'll give you an example if I had a child with a woman and she was always a great woman to me
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She was never she never cheated on me. She was a good woman to me and I was running around being whatever and she's like look
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You're top G. You're gonna do what you're gonna do. I'm gonna look after your kid
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I'm gonna you can see him anytime you want. I care about you. Please don't leave me in poverty
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I'd say cool 100% I'm not I'm not a fucking dickhead
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That's a real man though because I was in a situation just yeah
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But I was just in a situation like that to where it's like hearts don't break even and that's the reality, too
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It's like if those morals and principles are not instilled in a man none of that shit matters
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So obviously the child support stuff obviously hits close home to me because I'm already 50,000
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It's just in lawyer fees trying to get him to provide you know what I mean?
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And it sucks because it's like you playing the NBA like why
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Couldn't you why don't you want to do more and it just because again of the relationship. It's personal. It's not about our personal
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If you're not so I just I just feel like it's like why do you get money for making a poor choice?
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I'm not trying to like disrespect you in any way. It's just like if you left
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So we made it at the end of the day. We made a commitment. We have a forever commitment. Fuck marriage. We're we are forever
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Family, so again as someone who is literally going through this if I made more money than him
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I would be paying him child support and that would be fair to me
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What's truly interesting is if you go to other countries and i'm talking about civilized countries, right?
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If you go to poland or czech republic or whatever these countries which are in many metrics more civilized than the west
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They're safer to live in they're cleaner, etc. There's no child support laws
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So if you have a divorce the man just takes care of the woman because that's his kid
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That's just what he's supposed to do and that's just it so what you're saying is
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You're right about the man having the morality instilled inside of them and my point is that
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The reason a lot of this doesn't exist the reason men don't have morality installed in them
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It's not just about the individual case of the man. It's about society as a whole
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It's about women as a whole men as a whole the dating game as a whole the life he's living as a whole
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This is why I was talking about how dangerous new thing is because now we have this new thing this new world and we're living in this new world and the truth is
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As a man now you're the game has changed in the game of chess
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Sometimes it's not about winning. It's about making sure you don't lose if you cannot lose if you could not blunder any pieces and protect your king long enough
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You'll win the game and there's a lot of men who are now like, okay, how do I not lose?
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That's how I don't lose I get I get all my sex because the women are promiscuous. I get laid as much as I want
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I don't let anyone fucking tie me into anything dumb
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Any bitch wants to get fresh to me or fucking talk to another dude. I cut her off financially
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But when you just forget ruthless so you don't lose the game, but that's because the game's been rigged against men
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So the harder you rigged the game against us the more ruthless we're gonna have to be to compete and that's what it's unfortunate
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I'm not saying I have the answers. I'm just saying why men do what they do
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Can I just say with regards to Britney I just think that with regards to child support you've got a kid you look after it
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No, that's why I said no, that's why I said with regards to the child support
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That's what I first said. I think that you have a kid that you should look after it
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I don't agree that I don't agree with men giving the women money
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But I think it's disgusting that a man can have a child and not support him
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So so why but this is another thing so this is this is the comments we have to make right because we don't have all the answers
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We have to make the comments on it. This goes into the deeper point
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Every time a court rules in favor of a chick have a hundred thousand dollars a month
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That puts men off to a level like it's fine if there was a baseline child support thousand dollars a month two thousand dollars a month
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That's if you have a kid baseline regardless of income if your man wants to give you more
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He does it he doesn't whatever whatever when you come along start saying this percent of a man's income
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Do you have any idea how scary that is to a man who works for his money? He works for his money
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And you know why it's scary? It's not just because he's giving his money away
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It's because he knows he isn't giving money to the kid
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Yeah, the kid you can raise a kid on 500 bucks a month in most of the world
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You want that kid in gucci you in gucci you in a nice car going on dates with another dude with my money
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You can i'd rather burn the fucking house down than give it to you under
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I just think it incentivizes poor decisions like I haven't gotten pregnant by someone
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But like you're gonna you're gonna pay someone who's done that like why did they get okay?
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I'm literally telling you that what if I made more money than him
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I would have no problem paying for my child and their child
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Child support laws vary in different states. So in North Carolina for instance
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If you make over combined over 300,000 a year, then you are considered off the grid
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So then you have to prove this is how much my your rent is any bill that my son occupies
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I get a percent that I get a percentage of so on the low end
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It would be 50 if there's a big enough salary gap
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It could be up to 97 and the court the judge gets to decide what makes the most sense
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So if my child's father makes 20 million dollars a year from basketball
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He gets to decide if six thousand dollars is a lot if eight thousand or ten thousand whatever
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But you have to prove that so it's not like you just it's enough money for a chanel bag
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Like these are a my son watches peppa pig. That's a part of that's a cable bill
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So it's it's a percentage of everything so you're not like just living living it up. You're just living
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My whole point is like it's all down to choices and the man made a choice too because I can't get pregnant unless he nuts
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I I understand that but I'm then there's nothing to argue
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You're the one that's only you're in control of who gets born abortions legal
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Okay, well as soon as as soon as he nuts it's completely out of his control listen
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Just play an advocate that I had a I had my child and me and the dad went together
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And I didn't take a penny from him and the government wanted me to but I decided that no
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It was better off that my child I look after him myself
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Anything he wants to give his son if he wanted to is extra
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But I worked hard and I've done it all on my own because it was just less because it's this headache
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Oh, it's this no, and I know a lot of women that went that route my child
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That is you you have to think that he's not going to be a man and take care of his child
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No, because my child and he's happy not gonna give him what he wants
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But the whole point is you choose who you sleep with
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I'm saying right now it's not fair because women have abortion that's legal it's not legal for them
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Oh, they get no saying they get no saying and the same thing with birth
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I mean, I could have done it I could have done but it wasn't worth my time
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My whole point my point I think he should I think he should take care of it
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But I just don't agree with having legal incentives for women to leave
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If you have a kid you should but I just don't agree
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See, but the thing is if men stood up and became fathers to their children women wouldn't have to
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So if you pick a guy that's getting girls pregnant left and right
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But she doesn't know that he's not going to be there
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And now she's left with a child and no one's going to support her
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Stop acting like every woman that leaves a marriage and gets divorced
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There's a lot of women that suffer and they actually need the support
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And the legal incentive so that they know when they leave
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Somebody can back them up because they'll be on their own
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Because there's a lot of men that are dealing with a lot of the traumas
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That they have from a man's world being difficult
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And a lot of the time the person takes the brunt of it is the woman
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And the government should step in to make sure that that man
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That made her make that decision steps in for their kid
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Wait the time that she takes to take care of the child
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Is the time that she doesn't have to go to work
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And she's having to be taking care of the child on her own
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She would have to be fighting through the court
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That is the difference between getting married first
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Tate, didn't you say that men are scared of getting married now?
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And first thing back to the child support thing
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Because it extrapolates about how the whole society works as a whole
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Is that I don't think any man really ever wants to get married
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I think that women convince them to get married
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And I think that any woman who is genuinely serious
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About convincing her man to get married could do it
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But what they do is they get a chick who's so good
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So I still think you can convince 99.9% of men to marry you
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The society isn't convincing the man to marry you
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It's not like it used to be where the man believed he had to be married
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So it's your job as a woman to make it clear to him that it is worthwhile
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Once again, how would you convince a man it's worthwhile for him to say, that's my wife
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This is under a misunderstood hack to to men as a whole
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If you can convince that man, but by marrying you
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