JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


Western Women Ain't Hot

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Length

18 minutes

Words per minute

177.17

Word count

3,364

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Harmful content

Misogyny

57

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Toxicity

30

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Hate speech

40

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Summary

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On this episode of the podcast, we have our first guest on the pod, and we are joined by our good friend . We talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:24.640 damn 1.00
00:00:28.620 people are leaving me on 0.99
00:00:31.720 anyways 1.00
00:00:35.040 stupid quote happy wife happy life I think that's the dumbest quote ever 1.00
00:00:43.840 I think it's a good quote absolutely not why because a woman's job is to 1.00
00:00:48.040 please the man not the other way around a woman's job is to please each other 1.00
00:00:51.420 women are pleased by being with the best man in in the area that women are
00:00:56.640 pleased by you being the best version of yourself as a man gains more status
00:01:00.300 success income etc the woman wins she's all his success she benefits from that
00:01:07.200 it's not the same
00:01:10.200 that's true yeah because women women don't like guys don't care about your 0.99
00:01:15.660 success like they're happy for you they're like cool babe but are they
00:01:20.160 attracted to it no no I don't make the world I don't I'm just telling you what
00:01:24.420 it is $5 super chap pearl isn't ugly plain but still cute she gets points for 1.00
00:01:30.960 ching with their mouths closed and being tall always wondered a woman I could go 0.99
00:01:35.140 up on go up on you what you anyways um hey etc and she starts to outgrow her man 1.00
00:01:52.780 she's gonna look for a better man men and women are not the same but some women we 1.00
00:01:56.560 are emotional beings like we will stay which is a problem no but we will stay with the man like if a
00:02:01.720 man loves us and his lawyer we will stay really is that why women initiate an 1.00
00:02:05.140 overwhelming amount of the breakups mm-hmm women also one of the number one 1.00
00:02:11.620 indicators we're gonna leave your ass is if we start out earning you we get a 0.99
00:02:15.760 promotion at work like yeah because they're emotional and they're loyal no women are 1.00
00:02:23.240 the list most disloyal creatures that we have but I feel like you're welcome which
00:02:26.660 is okay yeah and I hated that when I first heard it I was like what no I'm loyal he's
00:02:34.940 right he's right if a dude's bumming it for so long at some point you're out
00:02:39.020 you're out you're not gonna take care of him
00:02:42.980 did you like the whole sugar baby kind of lifestyle man look after the woman that's 0.58
00:02:49.240 you no no that sounds like it like you want to be this provider that sounds
00:02:53.680 like it well here's the thing but then you moan about women for doing that so 0.92
00:02:57.280 you know if you I accept that women are hypergamous creatures that want to get 1.00
00:03:04.660 their needs met through men I accept this reality and I've accepted it a long time 0.70
00:03:08.000 ago I'm a firm believer that men need to be men men need to lead women follow men 0.90
00:03:12.120 pay for dates men should provide men should be breadwinners I think women 0.81
00:03:15.460 working should be elective I don't think it should be mandatory guys definitely a
00:03:18.940 sugar daddy look at no girls gonna argue with that no girls gonna argue you get
00:03:27.100 to work for fun I'm I've always I've always never minded working but no no
00:03:35.420 girls gonna argue so guys all the time go on sugar sites and use them to date 1.00
00:03:38.920 because there's a lot of girls on there there aren't necessarily how do I say 1.00
00:03:42.580 this sugar babies that are just looking to be taken care of and paid an 1.00
00:03:46.120 allowance there's a good amount of girls on there that make their own money or 1.00
00:03:48.400 and or just want to deal with a guy that it has his stuff together let's be
00:03:51.700 honest tinder bumble hinge these traditional dating apps they fail 90
00:03:56.380 plus percent of men and the stats show that how you meet a woman matters a lot
00:04:00.080 more than meeting the woman what I mean by that is that women place a lot of
00:04:04.000 importance in the context under which they meet you it's my job as a man to not
00:04:07.540 get finessed that's true that is very true I'm way more likely to talk to a guy if I
00:04:13.720 meet him through mutual friends than if I met him like their Instagram like I get a
00:04:21.520 lot of DMS on Instagram and it's kind of overwhelming it's like I don't even know
00:04:32.540 what to do with them but I know you guys are like oh that's a hard problem to have
00:04:39.860 Pearl I know it's just more like I'm afraid I'm gonna get killed sometimes and
00:04:53.300 I'm like if someone kills me off Instagram anyways anyways I'm gonna just yeah oh boohoo
00:04:58.460 okay okay look it and it's different if someone messages you that knows your friends but it's 0.55
00:05:07.220 like the more mutual people the less likely that you're crazy and I feel like I don't know what the
00:05:12.440 evolutionary but hot thing behind that is but yeah someone said Pearl will you be able to raise 0.99
00:05:20.240 your kid with your YouTube business that way you are home more plus your dad is right one
00:05:24.180 wife before four wives my plan I cannot when I have kids I will not do these shows I will not
00:05:30.660 do these shows when I have children that's not really conducive to family no I don't know when I
00:05:36.600 have the business will come second when you have a family the family comes first so whatever is best for
00:05:47.400 the family did you ever get finessed because I thought kind of feel like you run this every
00:05:51.780 girl like so hard like every guy's thinking else I wouldn't be in a position to be able to give this
00:05:56.340 information if I didn't take plenty of those listen he's definitely been finessed before and now he's
00:06:00.360 like come back with a vengeance hey I'll be are we interested to see what like your experience with
00:06:06.120 London women are okay can I be they're not as hot as the girls in Miami I'll just be honest yo I'm sorry 0.88
00:06:12.840 London chicks I've said that I'm a point hotter in London I look it I'm a solid I'm a solid five in
00:06:22.720 the United States I get six to seven six to seven US and it's because London chicks aren't as hot and 1.00
00:06:30.000 if they are they aren't usually from here I'm sorry London I'm sorry um you know but Miami is an anomaly
00:06:36.720 like we got the most attractive girls you know per capita like and he's just someplace in the world like
00:06:42.600 if you compete like maybe with Colombia Brazil etc but yeah I mean Miami's an anomaly yeah British 1.00
00:06:49.620 girls are not as hot as Miami girls I mean but yeah it is what it is but we'll see what happens I 0.54
00:06:53.880 mean I'll I'll try to womanize here and see what happens but my standards have went up oh yeah well 1.00
00:06:58.740 Miami yeah Miami also the girls there is so hot you want to be humbled real quick go to Miami that's not
00:07:05.580 good that's a good thing see it's such a negative term but womanizers are actually the best guys
00:07:10.260 yeah womanize I hope he meets a woman for himself really they know what's attractive they know how 0.94
00:07:16.440 to take her on a date they know how to treat a woman well etc it's the weirdos that you guys don't
00:07:21.180 want the womanizers the ones you guys want the misogynists those guys I would argue sexism benefits
00:07:27.420 women really 100% why is that because with sexism it adds a whole other standard and a whole other 1.00
00:07:34.320 league for women I mean if there wasn't sexism there wouldn't be a WNBA or female MLS or we 1.00
00:07:39.420 wouldn't have different standards I agree look at the fact that they subsidize women's sports is sexist 1.00
00:07:46.380 and I'm glad it happens I don't think it's fair but shit like that's the only reason I'm here 0.96
00:07:52.800 like that's the only reason I've gotten to play as long as I've had thanks for keeping it real 0.96
00:07:58.980 pearl your content has helped me steer clear of plenty of 304's got a few feminine low body count 1.00
00:08:04.420 options now I'm happy for you bro I'm happy for you sorry I gotta stop saying bro I'm happy for you
00:08:11.420 sir sir you know female police officers are female firefighters etc I mean okay I don't believe in 1.00
00:08:18.320 female police officers I swear to god especially in the UK if someone breaks in my apartment and they 1.00
00:08:23.940 send me a woman what what is a woman gonna do an average guy can be both of us up he's just gonna 0.99
00:08:30.300 take your gun he's just gonna yeah I don't believe in in the UK if I'm not mistaken female firefighters 1.00
00:08:38.640 can fail the test and still get the job versus a man would never be able to do that I can't think 1.00
00:08:43.260 of anything sexist that benefits men besides maybe being able to sleep a lot of girls are being 1.00
00:08:47.820 respected but that's tough to do I can't think of any other one yeah I can't think of one hundred
00:09:05.880 percent very difficult I do agree like it's a lot harder for men to get sex but I kind of I don't
00:09:10.800 understand like why there's so much obsession with like this body count and everything on the double
00:09:14.820 standard do you have an issue that men have an issue with a woman's body count or do you have 0.99
00:09:19.080 an issue with men wanting a lot of sex a bit of both really because I kind of feel like you get mad
00:09:24.120 okay if a woman is sleeping with multiple men yeah rightly so yeah but then if you do the same men and 1.00
00:09:30.780 women aren't the same well how about this let's say look at men don't really get mad they don't really
00:09:36.120 get mad I would say like this men just don't want to wife you after like I think that men appreciate hoes 1.00
00:09:41.940 this is unpopular opinion men appreciate hoes they don't respect them but they appreciate you they're 1.00
00:09:48.420 like yeah I needed I needed um someone for Tuesdays and Mondays that's not main chick night clearly my
00:09:57.720 main chicks working on Mondays and Tuesdays I need a side chick in your dating right hypothetically and 1.00
00:10:03.540 and you find out that I might have done some gay porn in the past to make some money what would happen 0.98
00:10:09.840 it'd be over actually I have a question for women oh my god I have a question what if a guy did a gay 1.00
00:10:20.280 a gay scene a gay scene a gay scene okay wait I'm gonna ask 0.99
00:10:26.280 who can I call you know what do you guys think someone will answer 0.97
00:10:39.060 you think someone will answer
00:10:42.060 like
00:10:50.900 who can I call you
00:10:53.380 I have a question
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00:11:09.560 I'm gonna just keep playing I know this is gonna be sad what would happen yeah I
00:11:24.140 feel like you would break up with me that's the truth you would leave me if
00:11:27.800 you found out well because I would assume that you were gay and then I'm 0.99
00:11:30.680 your secret to cover up your past matters right it's not necessarily like 0.82
00:11:36.200 the fact that it's your past that matters it's just the fact that you aren't
00:11:39.500 being but it was it was unattractive that's how men feel and and you weren't
00:11:43.760 being honest right how many girls lie about their body count women that have a 1.00
00:11:50.120 past men are interested in a woman's past women are interested in a man's future
00:11:54.440 body count matters ladies if you're a hoe you are a hoe by definition and men are 1.00
00:11:59.600 not hoes we are home makers that's the reality so would you not be with a woman 1.00
00:12:04.640 for her family background or whatever like that because I kind of feel when
00:12:07.880 you do your background check that those things are really important when you're
00:12:10.820 dating someone okay I'd prefer a guy that had two parents I'm sorry it's like if
00:12:15.380 you haven't seen what a marriage looks like how are you gonna do it kind of
00:12:19.340 want to understand their mindset yeah there's always exceptions to the rule
00:12:22.280 but in general girls that come from broken homes typically tend to have very
00:12:26.600 bad habits girls I don't have a father in their life typically tend to have bad 1.00
00:12:30.200 habits is this all no but a majority of women that don't have these things in 1.00
00:12:33.680 place typically don't end up being good women in general they don't have 1.00
00:12:37.360 rudimentary basics or if they have trauma in their life whatever you know
00:12:40.760 trauma destroys women but it builds men this guy is insane but I actually think 0.99
00:12:46.280 he believes his own bullshit so as a guy it's your job to find a girl that isn't 0.99
00:12:51.440 there's gonna sound terrible hopefully don't get cancer me saying this tarnished 1.00
00:12:55.480 tarnished yeah it's not really fair to say tarnished well it's not fair but it's
00:13:00.920 true and this is an unpopular opinion some men can be so damaged that it's
00:13:07.880 completely different for men for women like it affects women worse but my point
00:13:12.260 is this some men like like it's not even bad like you could say that about some men
00:13:17.840 and women wouldn't get upset like you could say oh he was too damaged and women 0.99
00:13:21.860 wouldn't get upset but when they say it about vice versa it's like because like a
00:13:26.120 a lot of people do hold themselves accountable and do the work and personal development well yes 0.89
00:13:30.080 we do so no no we don't stop it stop it you know damn well we don't you know damn well we don't you
00:13:38.360 know why does he keep laughing at me most girls don't hold themselves accountable whatsoever most 1.00
00:13:44.540 girls rarely self-approve if ever most girls think I'm special I'm perfect the way that I am I'm a
00:13:49.880 princess I deserve the world and unfortunately reality kind of smacks them in the face because they
00:13:53.480 can't keep a guy long term they just get used for sex and once modern-day women understand that you 1.00
00:13:58.520 actually have to compete you actually have to show up to that job interview for that prestigious law
00:14:02.480 firm in a suit and actually be ready to do the work you're never gonna be able to keep a job or in
00:14:06.560 this case keep a guy have you ever suffered with mental health no thankfully really if I'm going through
00:14:19.480 something I'm able to just like kind of use it as motivation to push myself through that that time
00:14:24.460 period so how do you deal with it through fitness I'm guessing yeah that's a big one I was a division
00:14:29.200 one athlete in college and I rode it's very painful sport for anyone that does it so if you can do a you
00:14:34.520 know 2,000 meter race or a 6,000 meter race then you can deal with a lot of other stuff you know I will
00:14:40.240 say I think athletes it absolutely builds character and discipline being an athlete in college men or
00:14:46.900 women like I just yeah yeah makes you mentally tough do you find that you always have to be tough yeah 1.00
00:14:56.860 you can't afford to not be as a man because the difference is this when a woman cries on the man's 0.91
00:15:02.140 shoulder that man doesn't lose attraction respect for that woman however from man cries on a woman's 0.60
00:15:06.520 shoulder she's inevitably gonna lose respect for that man she might not at that moment she might
00:15:10.900 be there like I got you whatever but there's something revolting from a female perspective to 1.00
00:15:17.140 see their man crying out you might not be someone that's like that but I've had so many women on my 1.00
00:15:21.300 podcast say I thought I can accept it but when you cry in front of me it just changed and and the
00:15:27.060 reason why is because like there's this visceral like switch in a woman's head it's like this guy's 0.69
00:15:30.700 crying in front of me showing weakness damn this guy can't protect me and provide for me right even if 0.63
00:15:35.560 it's not true even if it's like a moment of weakness it can show something that like oh this guy isn't 0.98
00:15:40.480 there because like women are designed to look like and that's straight like this is why women give a 1.00
00:15:46.000 horrible advice to men and I'm sure I probably have said this at some point on some of my reactions but
00:15:51.040 we this is we don't understand like first first you you think like oh yeah they could cry but it's like 0.99
00:15:58.600 if they do that often you will leave and you're not gonna be attracted to his ass and it's not saying 0.98
00:16:04.360 like never but like no girl wants a guy that's crying all the time and you know it survival value 0.99
00:16:14.260 and men men are designed to look for replication value women yeah I think it's like I think it's
00:16:18.760 unfair to like completely rule that out because I feel like it's fair for a man to be able to do that 0.99
00:16:23.020 you are allowed to have a moment and this is okay unpopular opinion this is one of the traits that I think
00:16:28.620 men overlook in women now just personal opinion okay this isn't I'm probably biased because I'm a woman
00:16:36.900 um but I also look at the women that my brothers chose that I really like now I think that men
00:16:44.760 overlook work ethic from women because here's the thing like you don't want a girl that's like lazy 1.00
00:16:50.700 and sitting around the house all the time you don't want that if you're going to train a girl 0.97
00:16:55.080 she's got to work hard to be trained being a molding yourself to a man isn't easy it's not easy 1.00
00:17:01.260 if you want a girl that works hard to like learn to cook learn to like whatever it is work ethic's 1.00
00:17:06.180 important and but men aren't attracted to it like women are attracted that men don't really care like
00:17:10.680 it's just kind of there but I feel like that's one of the things that men overlook in women because
00:17:15.940 I'll see it all the time where it's like a guy will date a girl but she's lazy and she's like pretty 1.00
00:17:22.500 and she's fun but she's lazy so long term you know she just like doesn't do anything and then 1.00
00:17:30.660 he's like working she's I'm cleaning around the house she's not helping him in any way you know
00:17:34.800 just personal opinion but you can take that or leave it isn't fair but okay life's not fair but I
00:17:40.260 think you should be allowed your moment of weakness and I kind of feel like from a woman's perspective it
00:17:44.460 would be then how you then deal with that I think we should end world hunger I also think that we
00:17:48.700 shouldn't have nuclear weapons people shouldn't be dying needlessly etc but I can't operate and
00:17:53.920 should couldn't would I operate on what is and what is is that women and that's why I talk about 1.00
00:17:57.760 this I don't tell the world what to be it just is what it is I don't I don't want guys to have four
00:18:02.860 wives but shit there's a dude in Africa I guess I had like over a hundred wives like over 200 that's 1.00
00:18:09.340 crazy inherently unattracted to weak men and crying and showing vulnerability is a component to that 1.00
00:18:16.300 no so you wouldn't cry in front of me absolutely not never you would never see that have you ever
00:18:24.960 been in love to a woman yeah I've had love for women but I don't think yeah I don't think it's a 1.00
00:18:33.400 man in a man's best interest to be in love with a woman you lose control so I feel like um everything
00:18:40.000 and your standpoint on women is gonna change as many of you know I was just banned on tick tock
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