JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


What All Men and Women needs to Know in Modern Society


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18 minutes

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158.87636

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2,990

Sentence count

309

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Misogyny

32

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Hate speech

27

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of having female friends and why it's a waste of time. We also talk about how to deal with your dog snoring in the chat and why you should kick it out of your room.

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00:00:00.000 Some, hated by many, just on the internet, yeah.
00:00:02.800 On the internet, yeah, we're both on the internet.
00:00:04.640 Yeah, we are, it's a strange life.
00:00:06.280 Yeah.
00:00:07.340 I feel like, okay, this is an observation,
00:00:09.900 and I'm not trying to roast anyone,
00:00:12.100 I just have observation.
00:00:13.780 I feel like when we've been on the internet
00:00:15.240 or too long, I have this problem too.
00:00:17.180 Our posture just starts to go.
00:00:20.240 It just starts to...
00:00:24.800 I have the same problem, same issue.
00:00:27.440 I've seen some videos.
00:00:28.940 You're not a fan of me, are you?
00:00:30.740 Uh, you know, I'm not a fan of many things.
00:00:33.740 Yeah?
00:00:34.240 You just happen to be in there, maybe a little bit.
00:00:35.640 Why is that?
00:00:36.540 We disagree on some things.
00:00:37.840 I think we might get on though.
00:00:39.540 That's why I'm, like, interested.
00:00:41.240 Off to a great start, he hates me.
00:00:43.240 I think it's very important to be able to
00:00:45.540 articulate your views, and if you don't agree with someone,
00:00:47.340 it doesn't mean you have to hate them, but...
00:00:48.840 Exactly.
00:00:49.440 But I think being too agreeable is not good.
00:00:51.640 Really?
00:00:52.240 Especially as a man.
00:00:53.240 Because typically, if a guy is too agreeable,
00:00:55.180 you can't trust him.
00:00:56.340 Really?
00:00:57.140 Yeah.
00:00:57.640 Why?
00:00:58.540 Because all men want to get laid. 1.00
00:01:00.040 And if you don't tell the truth,
00:01:01.440 and you're just being agreeable,
00:01:02.540 well, he's trying to get laid,
00:01:03.340 and he's trying to lie as well, so...
00:01:05.540 Well, at least a man actually admits
00:01:06.740 all men are trying to get laid. 0.55
00:01:07.940 Oh, yeah, 100%.
00:01:08.740 Yeah, I mean, that's just common sense.
00:01:11.140 Duh.
00:01:12.940 How bad is my dog snoring in the chat?
00:01:17.040 How bad is my dog snoring in the chat?
00:01:19.540 Absolutely pointless to have a female friend. 1.00
00:01:22.440 No, no, it's not pointless to have a female friend.
00:01:24.940 Very pointless.
00:01:25.940 100%.
00:01:26.940 Why would guys sit there and be friends with girls?
00:01:28.740 It's pointless.
00:01:29.340 Stupid.
00:01:29.940 So you don't have any female friends?
00:01:31.140 Absolutely not.
00:01:32.140 It's a waste of time.
00:01:32.940 How is it a waste of time?
00:01:34.340 Because women don't offer much utility to you as a guy. 1.00
00:01:36.940 What makes you think that?
00:01:38.540 Well, hmm.
00:01:39.740 I mean, if you get in some kind of fight,
00:01:41.440 she can't do nothing.
00:01:42.240 What's she going to do?
00:01:42.840 She's going to be like, oh, my God.
00:01:44.440 Why would you want a woman to fight? 1.00
00:01:45.240 If anything, she's a liability.
00:01:46.240 That's what I'm trying to say.
00:01:46.940 But women would fight. 1.00
00:01:47.540 Like, I'd fight a woman for you if you're my man. 1.00
00:01:50.140 I don't want my girl to be involved
00:01:51.140 in any type of physical confrontation.
00:01:53.040 That's not her job. 0.71
00:01:54.240 That's my job.
00:01:54.840 So I look at it like if I'm with a girl
00:01:57.140 and I'm supposed to protect her and provide for her, et cetera,
00:02:00.040 I want that to be my woman. 0.98
00:02:01.140 I'm not going to give that type of energy to, like, a friend.
00:02:03.540 That's stupid.
00:02:04.040 Why am I going to put my life on the line
00:02:05.140 for a girl that doesn't even suck my dick? 1.00
00:02:06.740 Wait, but is that too much there?
00:02:08.240 I think you should just be able to have a friendship
00:02:10.240 with women, though.
00:02:11.040 Well.
00:02:11.540 Well, firstly, it's not always, like, men versus women.
00:02:14.440 So I kind of feel like having female friends
00:02:16.540 will give you that balance to understand, like,
00:02:18.640 there's actually nice, normal women out there. 1.00
00:02:19.940 OK.
00:02:22.440 Is there any utility to female friends? 1.00
00:02:26.840 Hmm.
00:02:29.740 As a guy, I mean, it just depends.
00:02:32.840 I mean, some guys, Ellie, they use the friends
00:02:39.240 as, like, pre-selection to get laid,
00:02:41.540 and that's how they do it.
00:02:42.840 I think they argue that's not an effective way
00:02:45.340 because all the girls know they're friend-zoned, 1.00
00:02:47.340 but I'm like, ah, I don't know.
00:02:49.740 I've seen, like, I can think of two people
00:02:53.540 that are dating right now that met through me
00:02:55.540 because I was friends with the girl and the guy.
00:02:58.040 So, you know, some people, yeah, some people, no.
00:03:00.340 Aren't just trying to sleep with you, like, for your money
00:03:02.340 or everything like that.
00:03:03.240 We bring a lot of value.
00:03:05.740 I've interviewed almost 1,600 women now at this point,
00:03:07.840 and I would say, without a shadow of a doubt,
00:03:10.340 women are absolutely terrible at being, 1.00
00:03:12.340 understanding what it takes to be attractive to women as a man.
00:03:17.340 Yeah, that's true.
00:03:18.540 We have no idea.
00:03:19.840 Oh, my God.
00:03:21.640 Should I kick my dog out?
00:03:22.840 Let me know in the chat.
00:03:23.640 Should I kick my dog out of my room?
00:03:26.040 One or two.
00:03:26.640 One or two in the chat.
00:03:32.540 One or two in the chat.
00:03:33.540 Should I kick my dog out?
00:03:34.640 I can't tell how loud it is for you guys.
00:03:36.840 But, yeah, I would say,
00:03:42.140 doing the show for six months, no.
00:03:44.240 Women have no idea what women like. 1.00
00:03:47.540 Like, none.
00:03:49.140 None.
00:03:50.540 None.
00:03:51.940 Their advice typically is not good at all.
00:03:54.440 1,600 women.
00:03:56.440 Poor women. 0.99
00:03:57.340 Men carry, like, a lot of, like, hurt,
00:04:00.640 and they push it on women. 1.00
00:04:02.040 OK.
00:04:02.740 Hurt in what way?
00:04:03.740 Yeah, I think it's because, like, for example,
00:04:05.440 this incel culture, which, like, respectfully,
00:04:07.740 like, your podcast really brings to life.
00:04:11.140 You're just projecting onto women unnecessarily. 0.93
00:04:13.340 Because there's a lot of good women. 1.00
00:04:14.340 Like, I, myself, would say I'm a good woman.
00:04:16.340 I don't do anything wrong.
00:04:17.340 I'm very loyal.
00:04:18.240 I'm a kind woman.
00:04:19.140 And a lot of men will make the assumption.
00:04:21.440 I've actually talked to Cheyenne a little bit.
00:04:23.940 She's actually very nice.
00:04:25.440 She's very nice.
00:04:26.240 I don't, she's not the exact way she is on camera.
00:04:30.040 I'd like to say she's very nice.
00:04:32.240 Oh, shit, what'd I do?
00:04:33.340 OK, hold on, OK.
00:04:34.940 Because of podcasts like yours and people and men like you,
00:04:37.640 to then push that onto me.
00:04:39.340 I'm this kind of woman, I'm a gold digger,
00:04:41.740 and I'm this and that, and I'm not.
00:04:42.840 No, no, no, but this is the thing.
00:04:44.440 Like, you might be kind, and you might be loyal for the right guy.
00:04:48.840 But, like, the thing is, our nature is the same,
00:04:52.040 and the West is still the West.
00:04:53.940 So even if you're a nice woman, you're still in the West, 0.98
00:04:56.440 and you're still a modern woman.
00:04:59.440 Yeah.
00:05:01.140 Well, the reality is, would it be fair to say that most men,
00:05:04.740 I mean, you said there's a whole incel culture, et cetera.
00:05:06.640 Would it be fair to say that most guys are losers and don't really measure up?
00:05:10.840 I personally don't think that, but I know.
00:05:13.140 Keep it a thousand, keep it a thousand.
00:05:14.640 No, I personally don't, like, genuinely, I don't.
00:05:16.440 OK, being politically correct.
00:05:17.840 I'll keep it real, since you don't want to.
00:05:19.740 Most guys, I'll be honest, are fat, losers,
00:05:21.640 and don't have leadership qualities.
00:05:23.540 And there's a whole bunch of reasons for that.
00:05:26.240 And most women, quite frankly, are terrible. 1.00
00:05:28.540 They're hoarse, fat, rude, crass, whatever it may be.
00:05:31.440 And most of them don't qualify for a relationship,
00:05:33.040 and most guys don't qualify to be the leader of said relationships.
00:05:35.740 I think it goes on both parts.
00:05:37.540 OK, the men are weak, and the women, there's a bunch of issues there. 1.00
00:05:41.540 I agree, I agree.
00:05:42.540 I do think women cause those issues. 1.00
00:05:46.540 Like, I think men, like, by and large, are the same.
00:05:51.440 They're just, like, less motivated, almost,
00:05:54.940 because it's, like, the juice isn't really worth the squeeze anymore.
00:06:00.940 What we basically highlight on our podcast is,
00:06:03.240 you need to be the best version of yourself.
00:06:04.940 And I think the thing is, is that guys are yearning for this,
00:06:08.140 because we've been lying to men for the better part of five to six
00:06:11.340 decades about what being masculine and strong actually is.
00:06:14.140 We've been demonizing it, when in reality, guys need to become stronger.
00:06:17.540 Because no woman wants a weak man, even though girls say dumb shit like, 1.00
00:06:20.740 oh, well, you know, I want you to be emotionally intelligent,
00:06:23.040 and get in tune with your feelings, or whatever.
00:06:24.440 It's all a lie.
00:06:25.440 No, but I personally would like a man
00:06:28.040 that's emotionally available and emotionally intelligent,
00:06:31.240 but it's not me saying, like, I want you crying all the time.
00:06:34.740 So, do you know what I mean?
00:06:36.240 It's true, though. 0.82
00:06:37.340 Like, so I understand what you're saying,
00:06:38.640 but at the same time, you have to give some room for men because, like... 0.97
00:06:41.440 No, like, see, this is what I mean.
00:06:42.640 Like, when women, we don't understand what, like, 1.00
00:06:47.140 what makes men attractive to women.
00:06:49.040 Like, it's not to say you can never, ever, ever cry
00:06:52.940 or be emotionally available to your girl, ever.
00:06:55.240 But the point that men are making is that you only have so much
00:06:58.540 before she's disgusted by it.
00:07:00.240 And each girl is different, and you don't know what your girl is.
00:07:04.340 FaceTime, end it.
00:07:05.640 Is Blessing calling me again?
00:07:08.940 See, okay, I'm gonna call him back.
00:07:10.740 I'm gonna call him back.
00:07:11.940 Yeah, okay, well, anyways, yeah, so that's my whole, that's my whole point.
00:07:23.140 Yeah, is, you still, wait, hold on.
00:07:28.640 Sorry, mistake.
00:07:30.140 Oh, okay, bye.
00:07:31.840 Is mental health is a serious, like, issue.
00:07:35.740 We tell guys not to be vulnerable in front of your girl.
00:07:38.040 You know, you go ahead, you're gonna be vulnerable,
00:07:40.040 you're gonna shed a tear, whatever.
00:07:41.240 You do that around other men that understand, you know, the male.
00:07:44.440 And that's the whole point, and when I first heard this,
00:07:46.340 I was like, shut up!
00:07:47.240 Like, you know, of course, in a 50-year marriage,
00:07:50.240 you're gonna be vulnerable sometime.
00:07:51.440 Like, that was my initial reaction.
00:07:52.740 But then I thought about it, and I was like, oh, he's saying that it's just,
00:07:59.940 and a balance of probabilities, it's better to go to the men,
00:08:03.740 because they're not gonna be repulsed by it.
00:08:07.240 And women tend to be, and, you know, it's not a fun part of our nature, 1.00
00:08:11.440 but, you know, we all crazy.
00:08:13.940 We all crazy.
00:08:14.740 So it's like, we'd rather, we'd rather have a guy that can lead us
00:08:19.340 through our emotions, because we operate on emotion.
00:08:21.840 Men, in general, operate on logic.
00:08:24.840 Women don't understand the male experience at all, 1.00
00:08:26.840 and it goes to show, like, when I said earlier,
00:08:29.440 when you put the girl in a male perspective,
00:08:31.440 I want you to pick up this girl. 1.00
00:08:32.540 They always fall flat on their face,
00:08:34.140 because women are in a privileged position 1.00
00:08:35.540 where they don't have to necessarily understand
00:08:37.940 what it takes to attract the man, because men come to them. 0.82
00:08:40.640 For me, as a partner, I would want to be able to give my man a safe space
00:08:44.240 to be able to be vulnerable, and it's like, but not completely, like, oh my-
00:08:47.240 Partnerships aren't real.
00:08:49.340 50-50 is not real.
00:08:51.640 I cry all the time, but just so he knows, like, it's, like, things are okay.
00:08:56.240 You know, like, it's-
00:08:57.140 Oh, guys, I have to take the lamb out of the oven.
00:08:59.440 I'm sorry.
00:08:59.940 I have to go.
00:09:00.540 One second.
00:09:01.240 I'll be back.
00:09:02.040 I'll be back.
00:09:02.640 One second.
00:09:04.640 Ow! 1.00
00:09:06.640 We're a dog.
00:09:08.640 We're a dog.
00:09:10.640 Going by.
00:09:30.840 Thank you.
00:10:00.840 All right. I'm back, y'all. I had to take the lamb out of the oven. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I just needed a second. Okay. Partnership? No, it's not a partnership. That's another common lie in modern-day dating. It's not a partnership. But I want a partnership, though. Question for you. Do you want a man that's taller than you? Idealistically speaking? I do the property because I like to wear heels. I like to be so nice. Fantastic. Do you want a guy that's stronger than you? Yeah. Do you want a guy that makes more money than you?
00:10:30.840 Oh, should I get a... Okay. Well... Oh, shit. Hold on. I got a... Hold on. I forgot...
00:10:52.840 Hold on. Let me... I forgot to message. Topic tonight. Can relationships really be 50-50? That'd be a good topic. What does a 50-50 relationship look like?
00:11:14.960 That... Okay. Sorry, guys.
00:11:16.840 You wanted to make at least your equivalent, if not preferably better. Remember, this is your ideal guy.
00:11:20.940 Yeah. Okay. Do you want a guy that's more confident than yourself?
00:11:25.720 Yeah. More experienced than yourself?
00:11:27.680 Yeah.
00:11:27.940 Okay. You basically described the superior. So you expect this guy to come in and have a partnership with you?
00:11:32.440 Whatever he might excel on, I'll also add value in other ways. Because it's not always about being physically on the same, on par with that person, just for certain requirements.
00:11:41.780 Like, you can't birth a baby. You know?
00:11:44.380 Yeah, but...
00:11:44.800 So we complement each other in other ways, and so we're still equal in that sense?
00:11:49.660 Men and women are not equal at all. At all. That's another fallacy that we have in modern-day dating culture, which leads so many women astray. We're not the same.
00:11:57.380 There's certain things that men can do, that women can't do, and vice versa. And we're different, and we're designed to complement each other. And I don't believe in partnerships. I think men come in and lead, women follow.
00:12:07.240 I agree with that. Like, it's kind of weird, because you don't really think about it, I don't know, when you're blue pill, or you're just, like, looking at the world.
00:12:20.120 But the relationships that I admire the most, the woman follows the man, and, like, follows his lead. And it doesn't really seem to work when the woman leads, because she just kind of, like, busts his balls all the time. 1.00
00:12:32.300 I find it funny, because women typically want a man, and here's the thing, what you just described is what every girl wants. But they think that they're going to go into relationship with a guy that's better than them in every single metric, and it's going to be an equal partnership or 50-50. It doesn't work that way. 0.90
00:12:45.900 There's always a leader, there's always a decider, and for it to work, the man's got to be in the leadership role, never the woman. Women can't lead anything. 1.00
00:12:52.580 Yeah, we can. It creates too much pressure on you as a man, then. Because if you want to be this, like, macho man, do you not think that's going to cause a lot of strain on a relationship?
00:13:01.120 Pressure creates dominance. Because here's the thing, women are just a cherry on top. Like, you should have already. 1.00
00:13:07.040 He's right. He's right. Look at, if a woman's the center of your world, then you just ain't that guy. That's what I mean. Like, the guys that women want to be with, you just ain't shit to them, because they have so many. 0.96
00:13:23.980 So it's like, like, a woman shouldn't be the center of a guy's world. I agree. 1.00
00:13:28.440 By the time she comes into the picture. You know, you should have already conquered a boardroom or conquered some kind of physical labor, played sports at some point in your life, endured some kind of stress.
00:13:39.040 Like, men need to go through pain. Men must become, women are, men must become.
00:13:43.080 Being a loser is unacceptable. If you're broke, fat, or you don't got your stuff together, that's your problem.
00:13:47.960 Yeah, but then...
00:13:48.440 That, true. True, true, I agree with that.
00:13:52.200 I wonder if he says that to the other one. Walter or whatever, because isn't he kind of chunky?
00:14:00.040 Like, you would complain about women, because you'd say, oh, they only come for, like, the glory of it, like, and not the graft, so I'd rather be with someone that I'm building with.
00:14:10.200 Oh, I've never, I've never, I've never said that women build. I actually say the contrary. I say women don't build, they move in. 1.00
00:14:14.740 Yeah, but don't you tell me...
00:14:15.300 And I acknowledge that cold reality 100%. I tell guys, they need to build the castle so that she can come in and, you know, put... 0.96
00:14:21.640 You know what? I want to, I'm going to call a couple people.
00:14:24.380 I'm going to see something. I just want to check something. I want to see if, I'm going to call, like, three of my female friends and ask them what they'd prefer.
00:14:46.960 Let's see if she answers. Hold on.
00:14:54.380 Okay. Just random. Who else can I call and ask?
00:15:10.920 Got a FaceTime audio, this bitch, because... 1.00
00:15:15.380 She's in the U.S. 0.99
00:15:24.380 Damn, I'm getting left on.
00:15:40.080 Okay, she doesn't answer.
00:15:42.920 Mmm...
00:15:47.380 Mmm...
00:15:48.380 See, a lot of the girls in the U.S. are probably working now. 1.00
00:16:03.080 Mmm, mmm, mmm...
00:16:07.580 No, she's too crazy. I can't mask her.
00:16:10.880 Mmm...
00:16:11.500 Let me try her.
00:16:14.120 She'll be at work. I think she works from home, though, so let's see.
00:16:17.080 I swear to God, if I get left on, if I get left on Delivered for three, it's going to hurt my existence.
00:16:38.320 Oh, my God.
00:16:41.280 Damn.
00:16:41.640 Damn.
00:16:41.820 Damn.
00:16:47.080 Sad.
00:16:51.980 Sad.
00:16:54.080 Is there anyone else?
00:16:58.320 I'm so sick.
00:17:00.940 Good a lot.
00:17:01.560 Mm-hmm.
00:17:07.500 Hmm.
00:17:12.320 Hmm.
00:17:12.780 Hmm.
00:17:14.240 Hmm.
00:17:15.020 Hmm.
00:17:15.560 Let me see what my dad picks, I'm going to ask my dad actually what's better.
00:17:43.560 I'll see, I bet my dad will answer, I bet my dad will answer.
00:17:48.880 He wouldn't leave me on, he wouldn't not answer, he wouldn't do that to me.
00:17:54.800 He wouldn't, he wouldn't do that to me.
00:17:58.260 He wouldn't.
00:18:00.260 Oh, okay, thank God.
00:18:04.120 Quick question dad, just so you know, I'm on a stream, I'm on a, okay, I'm on a stream,
00:18:11.840 I'm on a stream, I just had a quick question.
00:18:15.100 So if you, if you had to pick, okay, so if I had two guys trying to marry me, they're
00:18:20.600 all the same, okay.
00:18:22.640 But one was my age, he's 26 and he was like working hard and like building something and
00:18:31.720 the other one was 30.
00:18:33.020 As many of you know, I was just banned on Tik Tok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:18:39.000 on this platform.
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