JustPearlyThings - What Every Man Want From Their Woman

00:00:00.000 Trying to improve the aspect which that doesn't mean that I don't listen to people. I don't I don't care

00:00:05.760 I'm actually very passionate. So everything is actually the opposite when I'm very passionate about something

00:00:11.000 I just you know through my ideas. So you worked on talking less and therapy. Those are the two things

00:00:16.900 Well, just like having this type of dialogue conversations when I don't cut people when they talk eventually. Okay, what did you do?

00:00:25.340 Um, I also went to therapy not not for very long

00:00:30.620 so I started and then

00:00:33.680 I became pregnant, so then I stopped but I do

00:00:37.940 Eventually want to go back because I think it is very important. I think a lot of people need therapy

00:00:43.580 It's it's just because you know, we've all I think everyone's been through something in life

00:00:48.780 And I do think it it plays a role in how you are in relationships. So yeah

00:00:53.740 Go forward. Did you do anything else therapy and then any other self-improvement stuff? Um, no, it was just for me

00:01:00.460 Okay, what about you mine was building my confidence?

00:01:03.740 Um, how do you how do you do that go to the gym? Okay?

00:01:07.500 Um, so I took time out because I feel like you don't really get I'm very I'm much of a giver of life

00:01:13.140 So I always sit on the phone to someone and give my energy all the time and I felt like gym was my space of having my energy

00:01:20.660 Getting myself back and it was even like even now I go for a walk at lunch time just to take time out for myself

00:01:28.420 um eat healthy

00:01:30.500 Just spend time being happy with myself

00:01:34.420 And I couldn't do that. I realized that there was times where I wasn't by myself

00:01:39.860 And that wasn't normal

00:01:41.860 So I needed to work on myself to learn to love myself

00:01:46.420 And I go to the temple now once a week and just pray

00:01:51.300 and

00:01:52.260 Yeah, that's how I

00:01:53.300 So you got closer to god you did therapy and did you say that?

00:01:56.660 I didn't know you did therapy. You went to the gym

00:01:58.820 Yeah, closer to god just walk and I love um nature and stuff like that

00:02:02.980 So I'm quite an earthy person. I'll actually like to walk in the park and see the trees and see little squirrels run around

00:02:08.260 And say hi to the old people because they're really nice

00:02:10.820 and um

00:02:12.100 That's what I love to do to be honest and music honestly

00:02:14.900 I feel like music

00:02:16.420 Is my therapy because anytime I'm sad I sing a sad song to myself

00:02:21.140 And majority time I freestyle it forget the words and then I can't write after that

00:02:24.900 But you know and when I'm happy is and I feel like music does help me a lot

00:02:29.700 Uh, what did you or did you do any self-improvement and if so what?

00:02:34.580 Um, well

00:02:36.180 I have accountability partners which they're my sisters, but like they give me a lot of sisters are good for that 0.81

00:02:42.100 They're honest. Oh, yeah, you're not going to get anyone else. Yeah, exactly

00:02:45.700 We lie to each other. Yeah, yeah

00:02:48.500 Lie to us too, but a little less

00:02:51.060 My mom as well like literally she'll tell me the truth all the time

00:02:53.780 So yeah, I think the things that I worked on was my patience. I used to be very impatient

00:02:58.100 I think I still am but like I'm definitely improving

00:03:01.300 um

00:03:03.300 It's hard

00:03:04.020 Have you ever noticed like um because I'm not the most patient person in the world

00:03:07.780 But I found that like my impatience is what makes me good at things because I'm so impatient

00:03:13.780 Like I don't want to be bad at something so I'll get like good at it really fast

00:03:16.980 Yeah, yeah

00:03:17.620 But it's also like not good when it comes to relationships. Exactly

00:03:21.060 Because you're just like

00:03:22.500 Yeah, that's the issue that I face as well

00:03:25.060 So yeah, I think that my impatience is something that I definitely have worked on and I've improved

00:03:30.740 And how did you know you improved? Did your sisters notice?

00:03:33.620 Yeah, definitely and I feel like in relationships I could just find myself, you know

00:03:38.820 I don't want to say tolerating because that's obviously a negative word to use

00:03:41.940 But like not just lashing out or reacting or being impatient

00:03:47.060 What would you get impatient about?

00:03:49.940 Um, I don't like

00:03:51.380 Don't get in the handbag

00:03:54.660 I feel like when people don't think fast on their feet

00:03:57.140 So I think fast on my feet like I don't like slow people so

00:04:00.260 I guess

00:04:00.820 Do you know what I mean?

00:04:01.380 I know what they are

00:04:02.180 Yeah

00:04:03.700 Honestly, yeah, that's

00:04:04.660 You ever remember the slow walkers?

00:04:06.820 Oh my god

00:04:07.620 I got it

00:04:08.420 I got it

00:04:10.020 I'm a power walker

00:04:11.300 You know what I mean?

00:04:12.020 But it's like it's kind of good for you though when you walk slow and like enjoy life a little more

00:04:20.340 Yeah

00:04:21.060 And I'm seeing the beauty of taking time to do things like like you said walking as well and stuff like that

00:04:25.620 So yeah

00:04:26.980 And you I know you mentioned you're on like a health journey. So I'm assuming that's one. Okay. What else?

00:04:32.260 Um, for me, I had to be realistic with myself

00:04:35.620 I thought about the type of man that I wanted and then looked at myself and I was like, okay

00:04:40.500 How I am physically am I going to attract the type of man that I'm I I want now

00:04:46.580 I'm not saying that I can't get that type of man because I can but it's not that I'm trying to get them

00:04:50.900 I'm trying to keep them

00:04:52.340 Do you see what I mean like you need to keep you I want to keep the man I want the husband I want the family and

00:04:58.340 Realistically speaking a lot of men. I'm not saying that you know their preferences aren't plus size women

00:05:04.580 But the type of men that I am looking for

00:05:07.700 The type of man that I'm looking for

00:05:09.700 His preference would probably be somebody that is a lot that does weigh a lot less than me. How much weight have you lost?

00:05:17.220 Um, so I've been on the fitness journey since February

00:05:20.100 So it's new. I mean it's okay. You have to start somewhere. Yeah, I just started yeah

00:05:23.140 But um since I've since the ending of February, I've lost nine pounds. Okay. Yeah

00:05:27.940 Okay, do you have a goal weight there? Like you don't have to say the weight but like a goal number like amount of pounds

00:05:32.740 You're trying to lose and I want to lose around 50 pounds. Okay, that's great. That's awesome. Yeah

00:05:38.260 Anything else that you've done self-improvement and no, okay

00:05:42.740 Um, just this is I know that stuff guys always say

00:05:48.260 So I would say I'm currently still trying to self-improve myself

00:05:52.500 So I'm just trying to spend more time with myself just trying to do things that makes me happy

00:05:57.060 So I just go on solo dates myself and just spend more time alone. I pray more as well

00:06:03.620 I've become quite spiritual as well lately and

00:06:06.660 Yeah, that's what I'm and I'm trying to get get into the gym as well

00:06:10.420 I just need a bit more motivation

00:06:11.940 But other than that it's just what I've been doing is just spending time for myself and my son as well

00:06:17.140 So, um, I'm curious for you. Um, because you seem very in love

00:06:22.340 She's glowing look at her

00:06:24.420 What do you feel like you brought that other girls didn't?

00:06:27.300 What today?

00:06:28.340 No, no like that got you in a relationship

00:06:32.020 Um, I don't know God put me in a place where my match was there

00:06:39.860 You didn't think you brought like anything that other girls didn't? 1.00

00:06:44.260 Well cute

00:06:47.940 Um, I don't know well well my partner essentially he's like I said he's very intellectual

00:06:53.220 So he likes a female that is very intellectual that can hold conversation 1.00

00:06:57.460 Um, who isn't just pretty that brings more to the table than just that 1.00

00:07:02.340 I feel like a lot of um modern day females are very like 1.00

00:07:07.460 find it hard to be submissive to men

00:07:10.260 and um

00:07:11.060 Um, I was that you know to my man

00:07:14.580 Eventually after time

00:07:16.340 Um, what are you eventually after you weren't at first?

00:07:18.340 Oh, absolutely not

00:07:19.620 What we're gonna do is outright so he needs to show me that there's a reason for me to be submissive

00:07:26.660 I can't just be submissive to any man

00:07:29.380 That comes across my way

00:07:30.980 He has to show me like

00:07:32.420 You're conditionally submissive?

00:07:34.260 No, I'm forever submissive to the one

00:07:37.300 To the one

00:07:38.020 To the one

00:07:39.300 Um, so he has to show me different qualities to why I need to be submissive or why I should be submissive

00:07:46.340 I think it just comes it plays in trust really and um

00:07:51.060 Knowing somebody being able to empathize with that individual

00:07:54.660 You know just understanding their different attributes

00:07:57.300 Their way of life their way of thinking

00:07:59.060 And once I've understood that I feel like that's when I became wholeheartedly me

00:08:05.620 And um

00:08:07.540 Yeah, he fell in love, I guess

00:08:10.340 You know, it's interesting. It's like nobody

00:08:13.540 Put like cooking clean, you know any of the traditional like housewife stuff like I don't think did anyone say that?

00:08:19.220 Oh, I cook and clean

00:08:21.140 No, I asked like it approved at it like to to get in a relationship

00:08:24.740 Well, you I speaking for me. I come from an African household

00:08:28.100 I'm Congolese

00:08:29.540 So I have to cook and clean like you know as a woman my brother sits there and does nothing

00:08:35.780 As women, that's just my culture whether it's wrong or right. That's just how we've been brought up 1.00

00:08:40.420 We cook and we clean my mom cooks for us every single day

00:08:44.180 If it's not every other day is every single day she feeds us and that's just how we were brought up

00:08:50.420 So you know when you're conditioned to something

00:08:53.940 You're able to

00:08:55.940 Do what you're conditioned to that's what I'm conditioned to so

00:08:59.460 I'm always going to just do what I've all I've known

00:09:02.740 Okay, so you feel like you were raised to be a wife so you didn't need to improve at that

00:09:05.860 I'm raised to be a wife in this generation

00:09:10.020 Meaning I still get the bag

00:09:12.740 And I still have to be the wife absolutely

00:09:15.380 But

00:09:15.620 My whole purpose in life is not just to be the wife

00:09:19.300 There's more to me than just the wife, you know 0.89

00:09:22.260 I'm intellectual, I'm small, I'm pretty, you know, I have more to change

00:09:27.540 I have so much to put in this world than just to be a wife

00:09:31.060 Why do you say just a wife? 0.77

00:09:34.580 It's not just a wife if you're proud of the man you're with

00:09:37.780 No, it is still just a wife even if it is 1.00

00:09:40.420 Because you know I'm speaking on like, you know, in Africa for instance

00:09:44.820 Let me give you that sort of scenario, hypothetical situation

00:09:48.500 In Africa, you know, I feel like they're brought up to be just wives 1.00

00:09:52.740 That's what they know, you know, but here I know more than just a wife 1.00

00:09:57.460 I know you can be a wife and be other things 1.00

00:10:00.740 Don't they have better outcomes though?

00:10:02.740 Why aren't they more married?

00:10:04.740 Why because they have plenty kids? 1.00

00:10:06.740 Yeah, no

00:10:10.180 I can be a working wife and my mom showed me that

00:10:13.540 No, but I'm saying like in the west our outcomes are terrible

00:10:16.980 Like they're horrible and a global person

00:10:18.980 I don't know I'm not going to tell you the stats of like Africa

00:10:21.940 But what I'm saying like in terms of our divorce stats, they're horrible

00:10:25.780 It's like we have a 50% divorce rate

00:10:28.580 40%

00:10:29.380 So I agree

00:10:30.180 So being raised to like it seems like being raised to be just a wife

00:10:35.460 Seems like a better outcome because you have an intact family

00:10:38.100 Which I would argue you you're going to be happier if you have a family

00:10:42.180 I agree, but then when we're in a western society

00:10:44.580 You have to include the whites, the black, the Asians and every other 0.83

00:10:48.420 Minorities or ethnicity that's put there 0.98

00:10:50.980 When I'm speaking in Africa, I'm talking about all the black Africans

00:10:54.660 And in Africa, my mom will vouch for this 0.92

00:10:57.700 They don't believe in divorce

00:10:59.620 Nor do I

00:11:00.500 I don't believe in divorce

00:11:01.300 No, we don't

00:11:01.700 So if I'm married, I'm married forever

00:11:03.220 Forever, yeah

00:11:03.940 So they mean as in

00:11:05.060 So isn't that good?

00:11:06.420 That's good

00:11:07.060 Yeah

00:11:07.380 It is good, but it doesn't always happen that way, you know

00:11:09.700 Yeah

00:11:10.100 Yeah, but it's

00:11:10.900 In regards to me, if I'm getting married, I'm marrying forever

00:11:13.620 Forever

00:11:14.100 I'm not marrying to the force

00:11:15.140 I like what you said there

00:11:16.260 Because my grandparents came to this country

00:11:18.740 My grandad came here first

00:11:20.820 And I believe he wasn't

00:11:22.980 He came here to work

00:11:24.580 And my grandma had to come after 1.00

00:11:26.660 But when she came, she worked too

00:11:29.140 Now in India, she weren't working 1.00

00:11:30.740 She was sending butter

00:11:31.780 She was very proud about it

00:11:33.060 100%

00:11:33.700 You know, she was very proud

00:11:34.980 She was even telling me the other day

00:11:36.180 That's how I used to make butter

00:11:37.140 So I'm like, oh my god, yeah

00:11:39.220 But I get that

00:11:40.500 That's how you

00:11:42.020 In India, that's how she was 0.80

00:11:44.180 She came here straight away

00:11:45.220 The first thing she did was work

00:11:47.140 And she worked in a factory

00:11:48.660 And you know, completely different to what I see what men do now 0.65

00:11:51.700 Because my grandad was working in some serious labor work

00:11:55.780 Yeah

00:11:56.100 You know, there wasn't

00:11:57.540 He came and he worked

00:11:58.820 And he's always worked his whole life being here

00:12:02.180 Back home, here

00:12:03.700 My grandma came here

00:12:05.060 She worked too 0.99

00:12:06.340 So it does depend on the country you're from as well

00:12:09.300 100%

00:12:10.020 Because the first thing she thought is

00:12:11.300 I need to build a house

00:12:12.420 I need us to get a mortgage

00:12:14.420 What am I going to do?

00:12:15.140 He can't do it by himself

00:12:16.340 I'm going to work

00:12:16.980 I wasn't knocking woman working 0.72

00:12:18.740 I have my work

00:12:21.940 I was just saying

00:12:22.660 I was talking about

00:12:23.460 She said just a wife 1.00

00:12:24.660 And I said, what's wrong with being

00:12:25.940 No, I don't want to just be a wife

00:12:27.860 I'm saying, wait, wait, wait

00:12:29.620 So I'm just saying

00:12:30.180 You make it sound like that's such a bad thing

00:12:32.180 No, it's not a bad thing

00:12:33.540 But even if I had the opportunity to be just a wife

00:12:36.260 I feel like me personally

00:12:37.860 I would still want to have my own

00:12:39.540 What about when you have like children?

00:12:41.140 I still want to have my own

00:12:42.900 Why?

00:12:43.140 Because I want to

00:12:44.340 I want to make sure that I portray the image of having your own

00:12:48.100 And not depending on anybody in this life

00:12:49.940 Do you think your five-year-old cares?

00:12:52.020 No, but

00:12:52.500 You know what?

00:12:53.140 She's going to care when she's 16

00:12:54.900 And she's 18

00:12:55.780 And she's 21

00:12:56.580 Do you know why?

00:12:57.140 Wouldn't she rather have her mom there more?

00:12:59.540 Because if you're working

00:13:00.900 Like if you have your own

00:13:02.020 And you're working 20, 30, 40 hours a week

00:13:04.100 Like you can't be with your kid

00:13:06.180 100% I agree

00:13:07.300 I feel like

00:13:07.780 So like isn't it more important to the kid

00:13:09.540 To have a mother that's present

00:13:10.900 Than has her own? 0.64

00:13:12.100 That's why COVID came in place

00:13:13.460 Because that's why we have hybrids 1.00

00:13:14.660 So mommy works three times a week 1.00

00:13:16.420 She's in the office two times a week

00:13:18.100 She's at home

00:13:19.140 And as much as

00:13:20.340 You know what?

00:13:20.820 Like the society

00:13:21.860 We live in London

00:13:23.060 Cost of livings are increasing

00:13:24.420 I have to work

00:13:25.620 And the thing is

00:13:26.180 I'm not a lazy individual

00:13:27.620 I want to work

00:13:29.140 I want to

00:13:30.500 I promise you that my partner is a person that

00:13:33.540 Wants me to be at home and raise the kids

00:13:35.140 And I will do that

00:13:36.260 I will be as efficient as I can be

00:13:38.900 But I still have to get my own

00:13:40.900 I have to

00:13:41.460 So what if you said

00:13:42.100 Hey babe I really want you to be home with the kids

00:13:45.140 I quit your job

00:13:46.340 You're submissive right?

00:13:47.860 100% I would do that for my husband

00:13:49.380 Absolutely

00:13:49.860 And guess what?

00:13:50.740 So you're in

00:13:51.300 I would do that till they reach 18

00:13:53.060 And I'm back at work

00:13:54.420 Oh then you're back at work

00:13:55.380 Absolutely

00:13:56.020 Okay

00:13:56.340 My degree never expired

00:13:57.780 I have a law degree

00:13:58.500 You would give it up for the family though?

00:14:00.580 Absolutely

00:14:01.060 Okay

00:14:01.460 Family first

00:14:02.260 Always

00:14:02.820 That's how I was raised

00:14:03.540 You made it sound like you wouldn't

00:14:04.820 No no no no

00:14:05.540 I would

00:14:05.940 I would

00:14:06.580 I was like girl

00:14:07.140 Do you have any girls want to stay at home? 1.00

00:14:08.820 No no no I would

00:14:09.780 But the thing is

00:14:10.420 My partner gives me that option

00:14:11.700 He says you know when we do have kids to you

00:14:13.780 But I'm like

00:14:14.740 Yeah yeah

00:14:15.380 Small small

00:14:16.020 Do you know what I mean?

00:14:16.740 But if it got to a place where he said

00:14:19.140 Serious conversation

00:14:20.340 I want you to be at home with the children

00:14:22.340 I'd say okay

00:14:23.540 Till they reach a certain amount of age

00:14:25.300 Then I want to go back to work

00:14:26.660 I do

00:14:27.460 I don't want to be bored at home baking cakes

00:14:30.500 And I feel like it's personal preference as well

00:14:32.580 And not every woman wants to do that

00:14:34.180 But obviously some women do 1.00

00:14:35.460 Like me personally as well

00:14:36.500 I would want to do that as well

00:14:37.700 I feel like it's always good to have your own

00:14:39.540 Even if your husband does give you that option

00:14:42.340 But I feel like

00:14:43.380 Just have your own

00:14:44.340 You know you never know

00:14:45.300 You don't think that's like having one foot out the door?

00:14:49.300 Covid taught us you need to have more than one income

00:14:51.540 Because when work is done

00:14:53.060 What you're going to have

00:14:54.020 Yeah

00:14:54.340 You could be a stay at home mum 0.99

00:14:55.780 And have a home business

00:14:57.140 Yeah

00:14:58.180 You know

00:14:59.060 I'm just thinking like

00:14:59.940 Wouldn't you rather put that time and energy

00:15:01.620 You could teach your kids how to do something

00:15:03.380 You can do both

00:15:04.660 I could

00:15:05.540 No

00:15:05.860 I want to homeschool my kids

00:15:07.460 I want to homeschool my kids

00:15:08.900 I do

00:15:09.380 I definitely do

00:15:10.180 You can

00:15:12.020 You can

00:15:12.500 You can kind of do both

00:15:13.660 But it's at a cost

00:15:14.620 Right

00:15:14.900 Yeah

00:15:15.140 Because if you're not there

00:15:16.060 Someone else is raising your kid 0.97

00:15:17.460 100%

00:15:18.260 And that's not right

00:15:19.380 Yeah

00:15:19.740 And so it's like

00:15:20.420 It depends

00:15:20.900 It just depends how you view it

00:15:22.040 If you think it's okay for someone else to raise your kid

00:15:24.200 Instead of you

00:15:25.060 But I feel like it then depends

00:15:27.180 If you're a working wife 0.98

00:15:28.500 I feel like

00:15:29.180 If you do want to spend time with your kid

00:15:30.640 You should be able to

00:15:31.460 Know how to manage that

00:15:32.640 You wouldn't work 24-7

00:15:33.920 And you would limit

00:15:34.960 The time

00:15:35.520 Amount of time that you're working

00:15:36.560 To also make sure that you're spending time

00:15:38.480 With your kids as well

00:15:39.440 So I feel like you can balance it out

00:15:41.120 Yeah

00:15:41.400 I'm just saying

00:15:41.920 Especially when they're young

00:15:43.080 It's like there's only so many hours in a week

00:15:44.760 I can see when they're in school

00:15:46.040 Right

00:15:46.420 Yeah

00:15:46.920 But

00:15:47.540 I think it comes down to circumstances as well though

00:15:49.960 Yeah

00:15:50.340 Definitely

00:15:50.680 Yeah

00:15:50.920 Like

00:15:51.440 Look at the inflation

00:15:52.760 Like

00:15:53.220 You and your partner

00:15:54.640 If you're earning the same amount of money

00:15:57.000 And you rely on that money

00:15:59.360 How is one of you going to drop out?

00:16:01.640 You know

00:16:01.800 Very true

00:16:02.220 I've actually

00:16:02.760 I'm going to

00:16:03.300 I'm actually excited

00:16:04.120 I'm going to do a wife school episode on it 0.96

00:16:05.780 So we have a second channel

00:16:07.040 Where we like talk about

00:16:08.060 Basically it's like self-improvement for women 1.00

00:16:11.140 So you know

00:16:12.240 There's going to be courses in like femininity 0.81

00:16:14.120 And there's going to

00:16:14.980 Like learning to cook better

00:16:16.520 And one of the things actually

00:16:17.900 As a wife is budgeting 0.97

00:16:18.840 That they're going through

00:16:19.640 Like a lot of women 1.00

00:16:20.420 Want a certain type of lifestyle

00:16:22.920 That they can't afford

00:16:23.820 So they want like

00:16:24.560 The makeup

00:16:25.440 The new clothes

00:16:26.300 The lip filler

00:16:27.320 Botox

00:16:28.000 All that

00:16:28.240 It all adds up

00:16:29.100 Right

00:16:29.340 And this woman basically said 1.00

00:16:31.620 That when she does budgeting with wives 1.00

00:16:33.180 She goes down to like three basic necessities 1.00

00:16:35.080 Which is food

00:16:35.800 Shelter

00:16:36.480 And clothing

00:16:37.400 And like she teaches them

00:16:39.060 How to do hand-me-downs

00:16:40.000 With the kids

00:16:40.620 And like how to work within a budget

00:16:42.160 Guess how much money she spent on a year 1.00

00:16:44.020 With ten kids

00:16:44.700 Ten kids

00:16:46.700 Guess how much she spent on the kids in a year 1.00

00:16:48.840 Guess

00:16:49.200 A hundred K

00:16:50.380 Over

00:16:51.000 Less

00:16:52.200 I guess

00:16:52.880 It's going to be shocking

00:16:53.720 Fifty

00:16:54.540 Fifty

00:16:55.040 Twenty

00:16:55.540 Twenty

00:16:56.120 Ten

00:16:56.620 Did it really be

00:16:57.380 Ten

00:16:58.040 Ten

00:16:58.540 No

00:16:59.040 Ten

00:16:59.540 How is that possible

00:17:00.540 It was in dollars

00:17:01.540 So it was eight thousand

00:17:02.420 What

00:17:02.960 So what she does

00:17:04.180 Is she moved out

00:17:05.480 To

00:17:06.020 Like I don't know

00:17:07.300 What you guys' country is here

00:17:08.760 And basically

00:17:10.060 Her

00:17:10.260 Her

00:17:10.560 Her husband

00:17:11.560 Her husband

00:17:12.140 You know

00:17:12.840 I don't know

00:17:14.520 I don't know

00:17:14.540 You guys have like

00:17:16.000 The outskirts of London

00:17:16.960 It's cheaper

00:17:17.460 Right

00:17:17.800 Yeah

00:17:18.300 It is cheaper

00:17:19.220 Outside London

00:17:19.960 Yeah

00:17:20.240 So that's what she teaches

00:17:22.100 The wives to do 0.99

00:17:23.020 I guess

00:17:23.380 So I think they did Miami

00:17:24.980 And so she lives like

00:17:26.440 An hour and a half

00:17:27.440 Outside of

00:17:28.020 I think Miami

00:17:29.120 And so he has to commute

00:17:30.480 Really far for work

00:17:31.420 But the costs are so low

00:17:32.860 That and she grows her own food 1.00

00:17:34.880 Wow

00:17:35.520 She teaches

00:17:36.160 She homeschools her kids

00:17:37.500 And she does hand-me-downs

00:17:39.160 Wow

00:17:39.660 So if you're doing

00:17:40.520 Yeah, it's a lot of work

00:17:42.000 It's a lot

00:17:42.600 That's a lot

00:17:43.400 That's a work in itself

00:17:44.440 Yeah, no

00:17:45.020 Yeah, that's a job in itself

00:17:47.000 Definitely

00:17:47.700 Yeah, that's why she doesn't have a job 1.00

00:17:49.220 Yeah

00:17:49.600 She homeschools the kids, right 1.00

00:17:51.580 But women who do want to work 1.00

00:17:52.840 They just would not have time for all that

00:17:54.540 No, that's what I'm saying

00:17:55.540 Yeah

00:17:55.580 Like that's everything comes at a cost

00:17:57.080 Yeah

00:17:57.340 I'm not saying like what you should or shouldn't do

00:17:59.000 Yeah

00:17:59.120 But what I am saying is

00:18:00.120 It is possible

00:18:01.040 Definitely

00:18:01.840 And a lot of women think it's like impossible 1.00

00:18:03.960 To stay at home with one income

00:18:05.380 And he's going to make more money

00:18:06.940 Yeah

00:18:07.040 If he's able to work more

00:18:08.660 Full time

00:18:09.080 100%

00:18:09.860 That's if they're allowed to get overtime though

00:18:12.160 If you're on a set wave

00:18:13.200 Do you know what I mean?

00:18:13.700 You've got to think about it

00:18:14.320 And I think it depends on what you want to do

00:18:15.860 With your kids as well

00:18:16.560 Because if you want to take them on holiday

00:18:17.860 10k

00:18:18.740 That's not

00:18:19.440 That's not

00:18:20.060 That's not feasible

00:18:20.820 But that's lifestyle

00:18:22.200 Yeah

00:18:22.940 Right

00:18:23.220 So it's like

00:18:24.060 That's choosing like lifestyle

00:18:26.140 No, my kids need to fly out

00:18:27.940 By all means

00:18:28.520 Definitely

00:18:29.280 Primary needs, right?

00:18:32.240 Yeah, well, it's kind of a trade-off

00:18:33.460 When you think about it

00:18:34.200 Like what's more important

00:18:34.920 The trip or spending time with their mom every day

00:18:36.900 Yeah, they do that every day

00:18:38.440 They can fly out

00:18:39.520 Go to their auntie somewhere 0.88

00:18:41.180 For six weeks

00:18:42.660 I mean, it depends how

00:18:44.040 It depends how you view it, right?

00:18:45.480 Like some people want their kids to just be

00:18:47.480 I had a girl on her show 0.58

00:18:48.740 That didn't want

00:18:49.420 She doesn't want any teacher talking to her kid 1.00

00:18:51.580 Because she doesn't want anyone else

00:18:53.460 To influence the children

00:18:54.420 Other than the family

00:18:55.180 But then her children will find it difficult

00:18:57.100 To be in the outside world

00:18:58.280 In real reality

00:18:58.920 Because they won't know how to communicate

00:19:01.640 I don't

00:19:02.460 You know, I used to think like that

00:19:04.120 But, you know

00:19:05.080 I have cousins

00:19:05.740 And they're like the most sheltered

00:19:07.380 Like they're all homeschooled

00:19:08.480 And they were so

00:19:09.160 Guys, you don't even know

00:19:10.480 Like we always thought 0.99

00:19:11.340 They were like the crazy Catholic family 1.00

00:19:13.040 Because it was like 0.98

00:19:14.280 The dad like

00:19:15.220 Wouldn't let her show her knee 0.81

00:19:17.040 It was like that, you know

00:19:18.220 But the kids turned out so good

00:19:20.000 Like they're all really smart

00:19:21.220 They all are normal

00:19:23.260 Like it's

00:19:24.060 You'd be surprised

00:19:25.320 Yes

00:19:25.700 They socialize all right

00:19:27.500 Socializing with other people

00:19:28.540 Yeah, they're all

00:19:29.980 Actually, I don't want to say their names

00:19:32.360 But she's married 0.99

00:19:33.000 She's too young to be married 1.00

00:19:35.240 All the boys are married

00:19:37.020 Yeah

00:19:37.340 There are three out of the

00:19:38.440 The three oldest

00:19:39.160 Because I think there's five or six

00:19:40.660 Are married

00:19:41.300 So

00:19:41.620 Yeah

00:19:41.840 No, five

00:19:42.500 Because they were trying to catch up to us

00:19:43.940 For the six 0.91

00:19:44.460 The two are young

00:19:47.820 Okay

00:19:49.500 I'm going to read super chats really quick

00:19:51.460 And then we're going to close out the show

00:19:53.180 So you can give any final thoughts

00:19:54.680 Plug any social media

00:19:55.680 Yeah, you guys are a really good group today

00:19:57.120 So this was fun

00:19:58.100 Thanks

00:19:58.700 All right, guys

00:20:01.000 Make sure you like the video

00:20:02.340 And subscribe to the channel

00:20:03.960 Guys

00:20:04.220 If you've watched two or more

00:20:05.140 Two or more of my videos

00:20:07.420 And you do not subscribe

00:20:08.600 We have beef

00:20:10.500 Okay

00:20:10.900 It's not cool

00:20:12.080 To just be watching

00:20:13.060 And not

00:20:13.780 I lost the super chats again

00:20:15.880 So we're going to do the final thoughts first

00:20:17.260 So you go

00:20:17.740 And then go around

00:20:18.340 Okay, what should I say

00:20:19.900 Any thought you had on the conversation

00:20:23.840 You know

00:20:24.580 If you have any social media

00:20:26.840 You want them to follow you on

00:20:28.060 Go ahead

00:20:28.460 Yes

00:20:28.740 I mean, that would be lovely

00:20:29.740 My name is Vina Rose

00:20:31.000 You can find me everywhere

00:20:32.720 I have also a website

00:20:33.960 VinaRoseMusic.com

00:20:35.460 I would love to, you know

00:20:36.960 To see you there

00:20:37.980 And, you know

00:20:38.880 Check it out

00:20:39.440 My music

00:20:40.000 On all the streaming platforms

00:20:41.780 And it was really, really great

00:20:44.340 Being here tonight

00:20:45.440 Thank you for inviting me

00:20:46.680 Because I think

00:20:47.560 We all need to have more conversations

00:20:50.000 About, like, uncomfortable topics

00:20:51.760 And I'm a very big fan

00:20:53.420 Of this type of, you know

00:20:54.620 Things sometimes

00:20:55.320 Women and men

00:20:56.700 We need more communication

00:20:58.040 So I'm very glad

00:20:59.440 You know

00:20:59.900 That I'm here tonight

00:21:00.800 And also, like, expressing my views

00:21:03.400 And having, you know

00:21:04.520 To listen to everyone

00:21:05.740 View

00:21:06.460 Yeah

00:21:06.980 And I really like

00:21:07.600 I love the green, by the way

00:21:08.880 I know I said it earlier

00:21:09.660 But I love that color

00:21:11.140 Thank you

00:21:11.640 Thank you

00:21:12.280 God

00:21:12.600 I really enjoyed being

00:21:14.580 Like, here today

00:21:15.840 Thank you for inviting me

00:21:17.000 Thank you for meeting everyone

00:21:18.260 Loved hearing everyone's views

00:21:20.680 It was really interesting

00:21:21.720 You know

00:21:22.140 Hearing about

00:21:22.820 You know

00:21:23.640 The stats as well

00:21:24.580 About men

00:21:25.320 And women

00:21:26.300 And who swipes

00:21:27.880 And

00:21:28.320 And I love

00:21:31.220 Hearing about

00:21:32.740 You also

00:21:33.620 Talking about

00:21:35.140 You know

00:21:35.620 Positivity with your

00:21:36.920 Your guy

00:21:37.560 It was really good

00:21:38.680 But yeah

00:21:40.800 That's it for me

00:21:41.620 Go ahead

00:21:42.420 I've had a really good time

00:21:45.040 I actually

00:21:45.620 This is my first podcast

00:21:46.740 To be honest

00:21:47.060 Oh yeah

00:21:47.280 I was very nervous

00:21:48.480 I was like

00:21:48.920 Oh, what is she gonna ask?

00:21:50.680 But

00:21:50.860 I feel like

00:21:52.640 Listening to other people's opinions

00:21:54.480 Has made me a little bit wiser

00:21:57.380 Honestly

00:21:58.680 Like

00:21:59.600 Like you said

00:22:00.700 The stats

00:22:01.280 And

00:22:01.660 I did ask about the stats

00:22:02.960 Because I have a senior podcast

00:22:03.900 So I know you've got stats

00:22:04.960 So I had to ask the question

00:22:06.140 And

00:22:06.940 Did you change your opinion

00:22:08.560 On anything?

00:22:09.640 Or maybe

00:22:10.720 Something that changed

00:22:12.300 The way you viewed the world

00:22:13.180 A little bit

00:22:13.680 Something you never thought of?

00:22:16.560 Um

00:22:16.860 I'd like to say

00:22:19.020 Could be no

00:22:20.180 No is okay

00:22:20.640 Women 1.00

00:22:20.940 Who do we say were picky?

00:22:22.680 Men

00:22:22.940 I feel like

00:22:24.220 Women could potentially 1.00

00:22:26.900 Be more picky

00:22:27.500 I mean

00:22:28.140 Because I'm picky

00:22:29.280 So I get that

00:22:30.580 And sometimes

00:22:31.280 I think I'm picky

00:22:31.980 For the wrong reasons

00:22:32.740 Because then

00:22:33.380 I'm just like

00:22:34.100 Oh

00:22:34.340 Why did I do that?

00:22:36.500 So

00:22:36.920 But definitely

00:22:38.520 I can see

00:22:40.240 Why women are more picky 1.00

00:22:41.160 Because I think

00:22:41.920 Every single one of us

00:22:42.800 Women in this room 1.00

00:22:43.420 Are picky

00:22:43.760 So

00:22:44.600 We are probably

00:22:45.640 The most pickiest people

00:22:46.640 I get it

00:22:47.360 And

00:22:48.100 Yeah

00:22:48.940 So that's what

00:22:49.460 You definitely showed me

00:22:50.320 But however

00:22:51.000 I'm Rita

00:22:52.140 You can find me

00:22:53.300 On Instagram

00:22:53.980 And TikTok

00:22:54.700 It's R-E-E-T-A 1.00

00:22:56.700 Underscore X

00:22:57.600 And

00:22:58.600 You can find me

00:22:59.320 On Spotify

00:22:59.660 Or the music platforms

00:23:01.140 Please stream our music

00:23:02.500 It's actually called

00:23:03.200 Mind Your Business

00:23:03.980 Funny enough

00:23:04.980 So yeah

00:23:06.520 Find me

00:23:07.240 And

00:23:07.620 Speak to you guys soon

00:23:08.720 I've really enjoyed

00:23:11.500 Being on this podcast

00:23:12.420 So thank you for having me

00:23:13.620 Listening to all

00:23:15.100 Everyone's opinions

00:23:15.940 And the statistics

00:23:16.760 It's actually made me

00:23:17.700 Wonder

00:23:18.280 In society

00:23:19.620 Who's viewed as the prize

00:23:21.800 Men or women 0.91

00:23:22.580 So

00:23:23.820 Men

00:23:24.040 I believe that

00:23:26.640 I do believe that

00:23:29.500 I actually believe that

00:23:30.660 But yeah

00:23:31.560 You can find me

00:23:32.140 On all socials

00:23:32.760 As Iamunique

00:23:33.640 Double I's 0.91

00:23:34.420 And yeah

00:23:34.980 That is me

00:23:35.560 Great stuff

00:23:37.200 Well thanks ever so much

00:23:38.000 For having me on Pearl

00:23:38.660 Pleasure as always

00:23:39.560 So I think

00:23:41.140 A key thing to

00:23:42.220 Take away from this

00:23:43.460 Is 0.88

00:23:43.900 Mark Manson

00:23:44.780 The writer

00:23:45.440 He wrote that book 0.99

00:23:46.440 I'm not giving a fuck 0.99

00:23:48.560 Or whatever it's called 0.98

00:23:49.000 The blogger

00:23:49.420 The writer

00:23:49.780 Etc

00:23:50.080 Etc

00:23:50.400 He made a really great

00:23:51.800 Point

00:23:52.440 Which is

00:23:53.760 The best form of dating advice

00:23:55.460 Is self-improvement

00:23:56.560 Or really the only form

00:23:58.360 Of dating advice

00:23:58.960 Is self-improvement

00:23:59.660 Like in the end

00:24:00.480 Particularly for guys

00:24:01.700 But for women as well

00:24:02.480 We've got to be working

00:24:03.580 On ourselves the whole time

00:24:04.620 Right

00:24:05.080 In all different areas

00:24:06.600 You know

00:24:07.100 Whether that's physique

00:24:08.780 Whether it's fashion

00:24:09.640 And grooming

00:24:10.120 Whether it's spirituality

00:24:12.020 Whether it's your finances

00:24:14.280 All of these different things

00:24:15.280 We've got to be working

00:24:15.960 On all these different areas

00:24:16.760 Of our life the whole time

00:24:17.620 Now there is also

00:24:18.740 Social skills

00:24:19.620 Or what we used to call game

00:24:21.040 That's important

00:24:22.060 But it's only one part

00:24:23.280 Of the bigger puzzle

00:24:23.920 So I think

00:24:24.700 You know

00:24:25.020 I mean

00:24:25.580 Sometimes

00:24:26.160 People can watch these podcasts

00:24:27.580 So they can think

00:24:28.120 Oh it's all doom and gloom

00:24:29.820 Like it's only the top 1%

00:24:31.320 Who are getting any action

00:24:32.120 And everything like that

00:24:32.740 But the reality is

00:24:33.460 You can transcend

00:24:34.140 You've just got to work on yourself

00:24:35.480 So anyway

00:24:37.240 If you could follow

00:24:37.960 If you'd like to follow me

00:24:38.860 I'm on all social platforms

00:24:40.140 YouTube

00:24:40.580 Twitter

00:24:41.580 And

00:24:42.280 TikTok

00:24:43.000 And also Instagram

00:24:44.400 At Real Troy Francis

00:24:45.720 So follow me there

00:24:46.880 And if you want help

00:24:47.580 With dating

00:24:48.500 And so on and so forth

00:24:49.380 You can book a free call with me

00:24:50.520 Just go

00:24:51.780 Over there

00:24:52.460 You'll see links

00:24:53.100 Under my videos

00:24:53.800 And yeah

00:24:54.760 We can have a chat

00:24:55.280 And see how I can help

00:24:57.400 Go ahead

00:25:00.420 It's my first time

00:25:01.940 Being on a podcast

00:25:02.780 And it was really good

00:25:04.200 I really enjoyed it

00:25:05.040 I was a bit nervous

00:25:05.860 At the start

00:25:06.620 But as we went on

00:25:08.140 I got the hang of it

00:25:09.060 And thank you

00:25:09.960 For inviting me

00:25:10.620 It was really good

00:25:11.440 Yeah

00:25:12.840 So my social media

00:25:14.540 It's

00:25:15.900 Queen.delice

00:25:17.220 Delice

00:25:17.920 Is spelt

00:25:18.620 D-E-L-I-C-E 1.00

00:25:19.740 Because a lot of people

00:25:20.460 Spell it wrong

00:25:21.140 But yeah

00:25:22.220 I'm on all social media platforms

00:25:23.820 Thank you

00:25:25.580 Thank you for coming

00:25:26.500 Go ahead

00:25:27.500 Hey

00:25:28.380 Thanks

00:25:28.840 So I just want to say

00:25:29.760 Thank you for so much

00:25:30.760 For having me

00:25:31.460 My social media is

00:25:34.940 President

00:25:35.540 Ors

00:25:36.420 President

00:25:37.220 Spelt

00:25:37.820 Normal

00:25:38.200 A-U-R-S 1.00

00:25:39.980 And I feel like

00:25:41.520 My take

00:25:42.060 On the situation

00:25:42.940 Is 0.88

00:25:43.220 On the topic

00:25:44.540 Is 0.88

00:25:45.020 As it was before

00:25:46.540 Beauty

00:25:48.820 Isn't defined

00:25:50.140 By how people

00:25:50.880 Find you

00:25:51.460 Or how people

00:25:52.000 See you

00:25:52.600 As long as

00:25:53.460 You love yourself

00:25:54.160 And you're assertive

00:25:54.960 In yourself

00:25:55.560 Then that's all

00:25:56.980 That's all that matters

00:25:58.240 Nice pretty lies

00:26:02.940 To finish the show

00:26:03.780 She's excited

00:26:07.080 But it helps

00:26:12.040 But it helps

00:26:14.660 If you're hot

00:26:15.260 But yeah

00:26:15.840 Couldn't have said it better

00:26:18.760 If you're Rihanna

00:26:19.400 It's better

00:26:20.260 Stop using Rihanna

00:26:22.740 As an example

00:26:23.740 Cause you're never gonna go anywhere

00:26:25.380 Yeah

00:26:25.760 And there's someone out there

00:26:27.060 That doesn't find Rihanna nice

00:26:28.440 Show me

00:26:29.080 Show me a guy 0.99

00:26:29.660 That thinks she's ugly 1.00

00:26:30.080 But she's nice 0.99

00:26:30.700 No one says she was ugly

00:26:32.220 Rihanna's absolutely beautiful

00:26:33.180 No one's ugly

00:26:33.860 No one is ugly

00:26:36.300 What about James Altitude

00:26:37.180 He only got a two

00:26:37.960 He wasn't ugly

00:26:41.320 Do we need to see other victims

00:26:43.040 He wasn't ugly

00:26:44.120 He just wasn't attractive

00:26:45.540 To us

00:26:46.360 Yeah

00:26:46.740 But Rihanna is beautiful 1.00

00:26:48.140 Just to put it out there

00:26:49.120 She's a 10 out of 10

00:26:49.960 In my eyes

00:26:50.600 Just be assertive

00:26:51.000 And confident in yourself

00:26:51.840 Love yourself

00:26:52.620 Love yourself

00:26:53.480 Okay

00:26:54.680 Well you know what

00:26:55.640 This sounds nice

00:26:57.000 But it won't

00:26:58.280 It won't change your results

00:26:59.600 In the world

00:27:00.200 I encourage everyone

00:27:01.960 To get to the gym

00:27:02.880 You know

00:27:03.480 Eat healthy

00:27:04.300 Yes

00:27:05.260 Try to be more charismatic

00:27:08.280 All that

00:27:09.140 Okay

00:27:09.340 I'm gonna read the super chats

00:27:11.420 Because you guys did pay

00:27:12.320 So you know

00:27:13.160 Rihanna's

00:27:14.160 Just a wife 1.00

00:27:15.420 You mean the position

00:27:16.140 That women strive to get to 1.00

00:27:17.400 Having the opportunity

00:27:18.640 To raise your kids correctly

00:27:19.900 In such a corrupt society

00:27:22.160 Full of agenda

00:27:23.000 Is priceless

00:27:23.680 Please come correct

00:27:25.520 Toni

00:27:26.320 She said she's african

00:27:27.580 But has the qualities

00:27:28.600 Of a modern western woman

00:27:30.100 Trevor

00:27:31.220 Do they think that makeup

00:27:32.900 Would define a woman 1.00

00:27:33.840 D

00:27:34.500 Can

00:27:35.520 C

00:27:36.060 Hi pearl

00:27:37.900 Pleasure to meet you

00:27:39.140 At the london meetup

00:27:40.140 Looking forward

00:27:41.000 To the next one 0.99

00:27:42.040 See dumb 0.99

00:27:43.320 Oh also guys 0.97

00:27:44.120 If you wanna know

00:27:45.360 When we have meetups

00:27:46.320 We do little like

00:27:47.100 Gatherings

00:27:47.740 With all the podcasters

00:27:48.840 And stuff

00:27:49.200 Sign up for our google form

00:27:50.600 You know

00:27:50.980 That's where

00:27:51.840 We send the address

00:27:53.640 And the place

00:27:54.160 C

00:27:55.120 And there's security

00:27:55.780 So no weird stuff

00:27:56.680 Alright

00:27:56.940 C

00:27:59.260 Dumbledore

00:27:59.820 I've improved myself

00:28:01.020 By gluing my eyelids

00:28:02.240 Anti

00:28:02.980 Aircraft fake lashes

00:28:04.560 That would make

00:28:05.300 The ukrainian army blush

00:28:07.740 Evil if he's hot

00:28:09.420 And smart 0.77

00:28:09.880 And he wants

00:28:10.620 From mrs nine nails

00:28:12.520 Woman 0.99

00:28:13.600 30 plus

00:28:14.440 And single moms 1.00

00:28:15.220 Are recreational use

00:28:16.440 Only

00:28:16.940 Black moses 1.00

00:28:17.740 These women are allergic 1.00

00:28:18.960 To accountability

00:28:19.720 Modern women always 1.00

00:28:20.640 Blame someone else

00:28:21.460 Instead of looking

00:28:22.060 In the mirror

00:28:22.620 Ribs

00:28:23.680 Women control 1.00

00:28:24.440 Access to sex 1.00

00:28:25.300 So if men want sex 0.98

00:28:26.240 They have to appease 1.00

00:28:27.060 Women to have sex 1.00

00:28:29.560 Equally 0.99

00:28:30.020 If a woman want 1.00

00:28:30.820 A relationship

00:28:31.400 They have to appease men 1.00

00:28:32.500 Tell

00:28:32.800 If you're in control

00:28:33.780 Of something

00:28:34.200 You dictate how it's used

00:28:35.400 It's simple as

00:28:36.120 Raise your standards

00:28:36.940 For giving it up

00:28:37.620 And it fixes the problems

00:28:38.640 It's not rocket science

00:28:40.040 Hinesburg

00:28:41.220 Ladies stop projecting 1.00

00:28:42.300 Your agenda 0.97

00:28:42.980 You want to be hunted 0.98

00:28:43.940 No man wants to hunt women 0.99

00:28:45.260 We have better things

00:28:45.960 To do with our lives

00:28:46.740 Than validate women 1.00

00:28:47.540 C

00:28:48.040 Dumbledore

00:28:48.480 For the girl in the back

00:28:49.320 The only 10 out of 10

00:28:50.460 On you is the toxicity

00:28:51.620 Of your 0.88

00:28:52.680 Oh that's so mean

00:28:54.280 I'm not gonna do that

00:28:54.920 I'm sorry

00:28:55.380 Shrugs

00:28:56.420 Men

00:28:57.380 I'm sorry

00:28:58.240 Men panic 0.63

00:28:59.560 When they are dumped

00:29:00.760 Because it is harder

00:29:01.600 To pull

00:29:02.120 Decent men 0.99

00:29:03.060 Gals 0.95

00:29:04.520 It's okay to slap 0.95

00:29:05.860 Comedians 0.98

00:29:06.440 But not a 304 wife 1.00

00:29:08.020 Hinesburg

00:29:09.020 No man ever

00:29:10.280 Picks a whoopee

00:29:11.760 Whoopee over 1.00

00:29:12.760 A gal 0.92

00:29:13.780 Gidiot

00:29:14.700 Like the 0.95

00:29:15.760 Galgado

00:29:16.640 What's that

00:29:17.500 A good

00:29:17.920 Actress

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00:29:32.120 Stop trying to find

00:29:33.060 The exceptions

00:29:33.700 Pearl

00:29:34.060 Check them

00:29:35.680 Pearl

00:29:36.020 Please please please

00:29:38.480 Women switch off 1.00

00:29:39.280 Your delusion button

00:29:40.460 Pull up

00:29:41.660 Helena

00:29:42.880 Christen

00:29:43.800 She's 50

00:29:44.680 Ribs

00:29:45.840 For each requirement

00:29:46.560 A woman has on her list 1.00

00:29:47.820 She doesn't have

00:29:48.400 The equivalent value

00:29:49.500 Exchange

00:29:50.020 In order to offer

00:29:51.040 A man that caters 1.00

00:29:51.900 To his needs

00:29:52.480 On a one-to-one basis

00:29:53.440 Follow me

00:29:54.000 If you're a 10 to yourself

00:29:55.760 As that before

00:29:56.600 After the makeup

00:29:57.540 And interracial

00:29:58.640 Relationships

00:29:59.440 Would any woman consider

00:30:01.280 Leaving their career

00:30:02.120 Deleting all social media

00:30:03.420 And reducing their lifestyle

00:30:04.560 For the perfect husband

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00:30:07.000 Tiger

00:30:07.480 They think their

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00:30:16.500 4-4

00:30:17.080 The panel of 10

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00:30:19.960 Shrugs

00:30:20.660 The girl in the green

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JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023

What Every Man Want From Their Woman

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