JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023


What Every Man Want From Their Woman


Episode Stats

Length

32 minutes

Words per Minute

197.3049

Word Count

6,335

Sentence Count

38

Misogynist Sentences

66

Hate Speech Sentences

55


Summary

In this episode, I speak to a young girl who has been through a lot in her life and has worked hard to improve herself. She shares her journey of self improvement and how she has been able to overcome a lot of obstacles in life. We talk about her struggles with anxiety, depression and self esteem issues, how she dealt with them and the things she has worked on in order to improve.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Trying to improve the aspect which that doesn't mean that I don't listen to people. I don't I don't care
00:00:05.760 I'm actually very passionate. So everything is actually the opposite when I'm very passionate about something
00:00:11.000 I just you know through my ideas. So you worked on talking less and therapy. Those are the two things
00:00:16.900 Well, just like having this type of dialogue conversations when I don't cut people when they talk eventually. Okay, what did you do?
00:00:25.340 Um, I also went to therapy not not for very long
00:00:30.620 so I started and then
00:00:33.680 I became pregnant, so then I stopped but I do
00:00:37.940 Eventually want to go back because I think it is very important. I think a lot of people need therapy
00:00:43.580 It's it's just because you know, we've all I think everyone's been through something in life
00:00:48.780 And I do think it it plays a role in how you are in relationships. So yeah
00:00:53.740 Go forward. Did you do anything else therapy and then any other self-improvement stuff? Um, no, it was just for me
00:01:00.460 Okay, what about you mine was building my confidence?
00:01:03.740 Um, how do you how do you do that go to the gym? Okay?
00:01:07.500 Um, so I took time out because I feel like you don't really get I'm very I'm much of a giver of life
00:01:13.140 So I always sit on the phone to someone and give my energy all the time and I felt like gym was my space of having my energy
00:01:20.660 Getting myself back and it was even like even now I go for a walk at lunch time just to take time out for myself
00:01:28.420 um eat healthy
00:01:30.500 Just spend time being happy with myself
00:01:34.420 And I couldn't do that. I realized that there was times where I wasn't by myself
00:01:39.860 And that wasn't normal
00:01:41.860 So I needed to work on myself to learn to love myself
00:01:46.420 And I go to the temple now once a week and just pray
00:01:51.300 and
00:01:52.260 Yeah, that's how I
00:01:53.300 So you got closer to god you did therapy and did you say that?
00:01:56.660 I didn't know you did therapy. You went to the gym
00:01:58.820 Yeah, closer to god just walk and I love um nature and stuff like that
00:02:02.980 So I'm quite an earthy person. I'll actually like to walk in the park and see the trees and see little squirrels run around
00:02:08.260 And say hi to the old people because they're really nice
00:02:10.820 and um
00:02:12.100 That's what I love to do to be honest and music honestly
00:02:14.900 I feel like music
00:02:16.420 Is my therapy because anytime I'm sad I sing a sad song to myself
00:02:21.140 And majority time I freestyle it forget the words and then I can't write after that
00:02:24.900 But you know and when I'm happy is and I feel like music does help me a lot
00:02:29.700 Uh, what did you or did you do any self-improvement and if so what?
00:02:34.580 Um, well
00:02:36.180 I have accountability partners which they're my sisters, but like they give me a lot of sisters are good for that
00:02:42.100 They're honest. Oh, yeah, you're not going to get anyone else. Yeah, exactly
00:02:45.700 We lie to each other. Yeah, yeah
00:02:48.500 Lie to us too, but a little less
00:02:51.060 My mom as well like literally she'll tell me the truth all the time
00:02:53.780 So yeah, I think the things that I worked on was my patience. I used to be very impatient
00:02:58.100 I think I still am but like I'm definitely improving
00:03:01.300 um
00:03:03.300 It's hard
00:03:04.020 Have you ever noticed like um because I'm not the most patient person in the world
00:03:07.780 But I found that like my impatience is what makes me good at things because I'm so impatient
00:03:13.780 Like I don't want to be bad at something so I'll get like good at it really fast
00:03:16.980 Yeah, yeah
00:03:17.620 But it's also like not good when it comes to relationships. Exactly
00:03:21.060 Because you're just like
00:03:22.500 Yeah, that's the issue that I face as well
00:03:25.060 So yeah, I think that my impatience is something that I definitely have worked on and I've improved
00:03:30.740 And how did you know you improved? Did your sisters notice?
00:03:33.620 Yeah, definitely and I feel like in relationships I could just find myself, you know
00:03:38.820 I don't want to say tolerating because that's obviously a negative word to use
00:03:41.940 But like not just lashing out or reacting or being impatient
00:03:47.060 What would you get impatient about?
00:03:49.940 Um, I don't like
00:03:51.380 Don't get in the handbag
00:03:54.660 I feel like when people don't think fast on their feet
00:03:57.140 So I think fast on my feet like I don't like slow people so
00:04:00.260 I guess
00:04:00.820 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:01.380 I know what they are
00:04:02.180 Yeah
00:04:03.700 Honestly, yeah, that's
00:04:04.660 You ever remember the slow walkers?
00:04:06.820 Oh my god
00:04:07.620 I got it
00:04:08.420 I got it
00:04:10.020 I'm a power walker
00:04:11.300 You know what I mean?
00:04:12.020 But it's like it's kind of good for you though when you walk slow and like enjoy life a little more
00:04:20.340 Yeah
00:04:21.060 And I'm seeing the beauty of taking time to do things like like you said walking as well and stuff like that
00:04:25.620 So yeah
00:04:26.980 And you I know you mentioned you're on like a health journey. So I'm assuming that's one. Okay. What else?
00:04:32.260 Um, for me, I had to be realistic with myself
00:04:35.620 I thought about the type of man that I wanted and then looked at myself and I was like, okay
00:04:40.500 How I am physically am I going to attract the type of man that I'm I I want now
00:04:46.580 I'm not saying that I can't get that type of man because I can but it's not that I'm trying to get them
00:04:50.900 I'm trying to keep them
00:04:52.340 Do you see what I mean like you need to keep you I want to keep the man I want the husband I want the family and
00:04:58.340 Realistically speaking a lot of men. I'm not saying that you know their preferences aren't plus size women
00:05:04.580 But the type of men that I am looking for
00:05:07.700 The type of man that I'm looking for
00:05:09.700 His preference would probably be somebody that is a lot that does weigh a lot less than me. How much weight have you lost?
00:05:17.220 Um, so I've been on the fitness journey since February
00:05:20.100 So it's new. I mean it's okay. You have to start somewhere. Yeah, I just started yeah
00:05:23.140 But um since I've since the ending of February, I've lost nine pounds. Okay. Yeah
00:05:27.940 Okay, do you have a goal weight there? Like you don't have to say the weight but like a goal number like amount of pounds
00:05:32.740 You're trying to lose and I want to lose around 50 pounds. Okay, that's great. That's awesome. Yeah
00:05:38.260 Anything else that you've done self-improvement and no, okay
00:05:42.740 Um, just this is I know that stuff guys always say
00:05:48.260 So I would say I'm currently still trying to self-improve myself
00:05:52.500 So I'm just trying to spend more time with myself just trying to do things that makes me happy
00:05:57.060 So I just go on solo dates myself and just spend more time alone. I pray more as well
00:06:03.620 I've become quite spiritual as well lately and
00:06:06.660 Yeah, that's what I'm and I'm trying to get get into the gym as well
00:06:10.420 I just need a bit more motivation
00:06:11.940 But other than that it's just what I've been doing is just spending time for myself and my son as well
00:06:17.140 So, um, I'm curious for you. Um, because you seem very in love
00:06:22.340 She's glowing look at her
00:06:24.420 What do you feel like you brought that other girls didn't?
00:06:27.300 What today?
00:06:28.340 No, no like that got you in a relationship
00:06:32.020 Um, I don't know God put me in a place where my match was there
00:06:39.860 You didn't think you brought like anything that other girls didn't?
00:06:44.260 Well cute
00:06:47.940 Um, I don't know well well my partner essentially he's like I said he's very intellectual
00:06:53.220 So he likes a female that is very intellectual that can hold conversation
00:06:57.460 Um, who isn't just pretty that brings more to the table than just that
00:07:02.340 I feel like a lot of um modern day females are very like
00:07:07.460 find it hard to be submissive to men
00:07:10.260 and um
00:07:11.060 Um, I was that you know to my man
00:07:14.580 Eventually after time
00:07:16.340 Um, what are you eventually after you weren't at first?
00:07:18.340 Oh, absolutely not
00:07:19.620 What we're gonna do is outright so he needs to show me that there's a reason for me to be submissive
00:07:26.660 I can't just be submissive to any man
00:07:29.380 That comes across my way
00:07:30.980 He has to show me like
00:07:32.420 You're conditionally submissive?
00:07:34.260 No, I'm forever submissive to the one
00:07:37.300 To the one
00:07:38.020 To the one
00:07:39.300 Um, so he has to show me different qualities to why I need to be submissive or why I should be submissive
00:07:46.340 I think it just comes it plays in trust really and um
00:07:51.060 Knowing somebody being able to empathize with that individual
00:07:54.660 You know just understanding their different attributes
00:07:57.300 Their way of life their way of thinking
00:07:59.060 And once I've understood that I feel like that's when I became wholeheartedly me
00:08:05.620 And um
00:08:07.540 Yeah, he fell in love, I guess
00:08:10.340 You know, it's interesting. It's like nobody
00:08:13.540 Put like cooking clean, you know any of the traditional like housewife stuff like I don't think did anyone say that?
00:08:19.220 Oh, I cook and clean
00:08:21.140 No, I asked like it approved at it like to to get in a relationship
00:08:24.740 Well, you I speaking for me. I come from an African household
00:08:28.100 I'm Congolese
00:08:29.540 So I have to cook and clean like you know as a woman my brother sits there and does nothing
00:08:35.780 As women, that's just my culture whether it's wrong or right. That's just how we've been brought up
00:08:40.420 We cook and we clean my mom cooks for us every single day
00:08:44.180 If it's not every other day is every single day she feeds us and that's just how we were brought up
00:08:50.420 So you know when you're conditioned to something
00:08:53.940 You're able to
00:08:55.940 Do what you're conditioned to that's what I'm conditioned to so
00:08:59.460 I'm always going to just do what I've all I've known
00:09:02.740 Okay, so you feel like you were raised to be a wife so you didn't need to improve at that
00:09:05.860 I'm raised to be a wife in this generation
00:09:10.020 Meaning I still get the bag
00:09:12.740 And I still have to be the wife absolutely
00:09:15.380 But
00:09:15.620 My whole purpose in life is not just to be the wife
00:09:19.300 There's more to me than just the wife, you know
00:09:22.260 I'm intellectual, I'm small, I'm pretty, you know, I have more to change
00:09:27.540 I have so much to put in this world than just to be a wife
00:09:31.060 Why do you say just a wife?
00:09:34.580 It's not just a wife if you're proud of the man you're with
00:09:37.780 No, it is still just a wife even if it is
00:09:40.420 Because you know I'm speaking on like, you know, in Africa for instance
00:09:44.820 Let me give you that sort of scenario, hypothetical situation
00:09:48.500 In Africa, you know, I feel like they're brought up to be just wives
00:09:52.740 That's what they know, you know, but here I know more than just a wife
00:09:57.460 I know you can be a wife and be other things
00:10:00.740 Don't they have better outcomes though?
00:10:02.740 Why aren't they more married?
00:10:04.740 Why because they have plenty kids?
00:10:06.740 Yeah, no
00:10:10.180 I can be a working wife and my mom showed me that
00:10:13.540 No, but I'm saying like in the west our outcomes are terrible
00:10:16.980 Like they're horrible and a global person
00:10:18.980 I don't know I'm not going to tell you the stats of like Africa
00:10:21.940 But what I'm saying like in terms of our divorce stats, they're horrible
00:10:25.780 It's like we have a 50% divorce rate
00:10:28.580 40%
00:10:29.380 So I agree
00:10:30.180 So being raised to like it seems like being raised to be just a wife
00:10:35.460 Seems like a better outcome because you have an intact family
00:10:38.100 Which I would argue you you're going to be happier if you have a family
00:10:42.180 I agree, but then when we're in a western society
00:10:44.580 You have to include the whites, the black, the Asians and every other
00:10:48.420 Minorities or ethnicity that's put there
00:10:50.980 When I'm speaking in Africa, I'm talking about all the black Africans
00:10:54.660 And in Africa, my mom will vouch for this
00:10:57.700 They don't believe in divorce
00:10:59.620 Nor do I
00:11:00.500 I don't believe in divorce
00:11:01.300 No, we don't
00:11:01.700 So if I'm married, I'm married forever
00:11:03.220 Forever, yeah
00:11:03.940 So they mean as in
00:11:05.060 So isn't that good?
00:11:06.420 That's good
00:11:07.060 Yeah
00:11:07.380 It is good, but it doesn't always happen that way, you know
00:11:09.700 Yeah
00:11:10.100 Yeah, but it's
00:11:10.900 In regards to me, if I'm getting married, I'm marrying forever
00:11:13.620 Forever
00:11:14.100 I'm not marrying to the force
00:11:15.140 I like what you said there
00:11:16.260 Because my grandparents came to this country
00:11:18.740 My grandad came here first
00:11:20.820 And I believe he wasn't
00:11:22.980 He came here to work
00:11:24.580 And my grandma had to come after
00:11:26.660 But when she came, she worked too
00:11:29.140 Now in India, she weren't working
00:11:30.740 She was sending butter
00:11:31.780 She was very proud about it
00:11:33.060 100%
00:11:33.700 You know, she was very proud
00:11:34.980 She was even telling me the other day
00:11:36.180 That's how I used to make butter
00:11:37.140 So I'm like, oh my god, yeah
00:11:39.220 But I get that
00:11:40.500 That's how you
00:11:42.020 In India, that's how she was
00:11:44.180 She came here straight away
00:11:45.220 The first thing she did was work
00:11:47.140 And she worked in a factory
00:11:48.660 And you know, completely different to what I see what men do now
00:11:51.700 Because my grandad was working in some serious labor work
00:11:55.780 Yeah
00:11:56.100 You know, there wasn't
00:11:57.540 He came and he worked
00:11:58.820 And he's always worked his whole life being here
00:12:02.180 Back home, here
00:12:03.700 My grandma came here
00:12:05.060 She worked too
00:12:06.340 So it does depend on the country you're from as well
00:12:09.300 100%
00:12:10.020 Because the first thing she thought is
00:12:11.300 I need to build a house
00:12:12.420 I need us to get a mortgage
00:12:14.420 What am I going to do?
00:12:15.140 He can't do it by himself
00:12:16.340 I'm going to work
00:12:16.980 I wasn't knocking woman working
00:12:18.740 I have my work
00:12:21.940 I was just saying
00:12:22.660 I was talking about
00:12:23.460 She said just a wife
00:12:24.660 And I said, what's wrong with being
00:12:25.940 No, I don't want to just be a wife
00:12:27.860 I'm saying, wait, wait, wait
00:12:29.620 So I'm just saying
00:12:30.180 You make it sound like that's such a bad thing
00:12:32.180 No, it's not a bad thing
00:12:33.540 But even if I had the opportunity to be just a wife
00:12:36.260 I feel like me personally
00:12:37.860 I would still want to have my own
00:12:39.540 What about when you have like children?
00:12:41.140 I still want to have my own
00:12:42.900 Why?
00:12:43.140 Because I want to
00:12:44.340 I want to make sure that I portray the image of having your own
00:12:48.100 And not depending on anybody in this life
00:12:49.940 Do you think your five-year-old cares?
00:12:52.020 No, but
00:12:52.500 You know what?
00:12:53.140 She's going to care when she's 16
00:12:54.900 And she's 18
00:12:55.780 And she's 21
00:12:56.580 Do you know why?
00:12:57.140 Wouldn't she rather have her mom there more?
00:12:59.540 Because if you're working
00:13:00.900 Like if you have your own
00:13:02.020 And you're working 20, 30, 40 hours a week
00:13:04.100 Like you can't be with your kid
00:13:06.180 100% I agree
00:13:07.300 I feel like
00:13:07.780 So like isn't it more important to the kid
00:13:09.540 To have a mother that's present
00:13:10.900 Than has her own?
00:13:12.100 That's why COVID came in place
00:13:13.460 Because that's why we have hybrids
00:13:14.660 So mommy works three times a week
00:13:16.420 She's in the office two times a week
00:13:18.100 She's at home
00:13:19.140 And as much as
00:13:20.340 You know what?
00:13:20.820 Like the society
00:13:21.860 We live in London
00:13:23.060 Cost of livings are increasing
00:13:24.420 I have to work
00:13:25.620 And the thing is
00:13:26.180 I'm not a lazy individual
00:13:27.620 I want to work
00:13:29.140 I want to
00:13:30.500 I promise you that my partner is a person that
00:13:33.540 Wants me to be at home and raise the kids
00:13:35.140 And I will do that
00:13:36.260 I will be as efficient as I can be
00:13:38.900 But I still have to get my own
00:13:40.900 I have to
00:13:41.460 So what if you said
00:13:42.100 Hey babe I really want you to be home with the kids
00:13:45.140 I quit your job
00:13:46.340 You're submissive right?
00:13:47.860 100% I would do that for my husband
00:13:49.380 Absolutely
00:13:49.860 And guess what?
00:13:50.740 So you're in
00:13:51.300 I would do that till they reach 18
00:13:53.060 And I'm back at work
00:13:54.420 Oh then you're back at work
00:13:55.380 Absolutely
00:13:56.020 Okay
00:13:56.340 My degree never expired
00:13:57.780 I have a law degree
00:13:58.500 You would give it up for the family though?
00:14:00.580 Absolutely
00:14:01.060 Okay
00:14:01.460 Family first
00:14:02.260 Always
00:14:02.820 That's how I was raised
00:14:03.540 You made it sound like you wouldn't
00:14:04.820 No no no no
00:14:05.540 I would
00:14:05.940 I would
00:14:06.580 I was like girl
00:14:07.140 Do you have any girls want to stay at home?
00:14:08.820 No no no I would
00:14:09.780 But the thing is
00:14:10.420 My partner gives me that option
00:14:11.700 He says you know when we do have kids to you
00:14:13.780 But I'm like
00:14:14.740 Yeah yeah
00:14:15.380 Small small
00:14:16.020 Do you know what I mean?
00:14:16.740 But if it got to a place where he said
00:14:19.140 Serious conversation
00:14:20.340 I want you to be at home with the children
00:14:22.340 I'd say okay
00:14:23.540 Till they reach a certain amount of age
00:14:25.300 Then I want to go back to work
00:14:26.660 I do
00:14:27.460 I don't want to be bored at home baking cakes
00:14:30.500 And I feel like it's personal preference as well
00:14:32.580 And not every woman wants to do that
00:14:34.180 But obviously some women do
00:14:35.460 Like me personally as well
00:14:36.500 I would want to do that as well
00:14:37.700 I feel like it's always good to have your own
00:14:39.540 Even if your husband does give you that option
00:14:42.340 But I feel like
00:14:43.380 Just have your own
00:14:44.340 You know you never know
00:14:45.300 You don't think that's like having one foot out the door?
00:14:49.300 Covid taught us you need to have more than one income
00:14:51.540 Because when work is done
00:14:53.060 What you're going to have
00:14:54.020 Yeah
00:14:54.340 You could be a stay at home mum
00:14:55.780 And have a home business
00:14:57.140 Yeah
00:14:58.180 You know
00:14:59.060 I'm just thinking like
00:14:59.940 Wouldn't you rather put that time and energy
00:15:01.620 You could teach your kids how to do something
00:15:03.380 You can do both
00:15:04.660 I could
00:15:05.540 No
00:15:05.860 I want to homeschool my kids
00:15:07.460 I want to homeschool my kids
00:15:08.900 I do
00:15:09.380 I definitely do
00:15:10.180 You can
00:15:12.020 You can
00:15:12.500 You can kind of do both
00:15:13.660 But it's at a cost
00:15:14.620 Right
00:15:14.900 Yeah
00:15:15.140 Because if you're not there
00:15:16.060 Someone else is raising your kid
00:15:17.460 100%
00:15:18.260 And that's not right
00:15:19.380 Yeah
00:15:19.740 And so it's like
00:15:20.420 It depends
00:15:20.900 It just depends how you view it
00:15:22.040 If you think it's okay for someone else to raise your kid
00:15:24.200 Instead of you
00:15:25.060 But I feel like it then depends
00:15:27.180 If you're a working wife
00:15:28.500 I feel like
00:15:29.180 If you do want to spend time with your kid
00:15:30.640 You should be able to
00:15:31.460 Know how to manage that
00:15:32.640 You wouldn't work 24-7
00:15:33.920 And you would limit
00:15:34.960 The time
00:15:35.520 Amount of time that you're working
00:15:36.560 To also make sure that you're spending time
00:15:38.480 With your kids as well
00:15:39.440 So I feel like you can balance it out
00:15:41.120 Yeah
00:15:41.400 I'm just saying
00:15:41.920 Especially when they're young
00:15:43.080 It's like there's only so many hours in a week
00:15:44.760 I can see when they're in school
00:15:46.040 Right
00:15:46.420 Yeah
00:15:46.920 But
00:15:47.540 I think it comes down to circumstances as well though
00:15:49.960 Yeah
00:15:50.340 Definitely
00:15:50.680 Yeah
00:15:50.920 Like
00:15:51.440 Look at the inflation
00:15:52.760 Like
00:15:53.220 You and your partner
00:15:54.640 If you're earning the same amount of money
00:15:57.000 And you rely on that money
00:15:59.360 How is one of you going to drop out?
00:16:01.640 You know
00:16:01.800 Very true
00:16:02.220 I've actually
00:16:02.760 I'm going to
00:16:03.300 I'm actually excited
00:16:04.120 I'm going to do a wife school episode on it
00:16:05.780 So we have a second channel
00:16:07.040 Where we like talk about
00:16:08.060 Basically it's like self-improvement for women
00:16:11.140 So you know
00:16:12.240 There's going to be courses in like femininity
00:16:14.120 And there's going to
00:16:14.980 Like learning to cook better
00:16:16.520 And one of the things actually
00:16:17.900 As a wife is budgeting
00:16:18.840 That they're going through
00:16:19.640 Like a lot of women
00:16:20.420 Want a certain type of lifestyle
00:16:22.920 That they can't afford
00:16:23.820 So they want like
00:16:24.560 The makeup
00:16:25.440 The new clothes
00:16:26.300 The lip filler
00:16:27.320 Botox
00:16:28.000 All that
00:16:28.240 It all adds up
00:16:29.100 Right
00:16:29.340 And this woman basically said
00:16:31.620 That when she does budgeting with wives
00:16:33.180 She goes down to like three basic necessities
00:16:35.080 Which is food
00:16:35.800 Shelter
00:16:36.480 And clothing
00:16:37.400 And like she teaches them
00:16:39.060 How to do hand-me-downs
00:16:40.000 With the kids
00:16:40.620 And like how to work within a budget
00:16:42.160 Guess how much money she spent on a year
00:16:44.020 With ten kids
00:16:44.700 Ten kids
00:16:46.700 Guess how much she spent on the kids in a year
00:16:48.840 Guess
00:16:49.200 A hundred K
00:16:50.380 Over
00:16:51.000 Less
00:16:52.200 I guess
00:16:52.880 It's going to be shocking
00:16:53.720 Fifty
00:16:54.540 Fifty
00:16:55.040 Twenty
00:16:55.540 Twenty
00:16:56.120 Ten
00:16:56.620 Did it really be
00:16:57.380 Ten
00:16:58.040 Ten
00:16:58.540 No
00:16:59.040 Ten
00:16:59.540 How is that possible
00:17:00.540 It was in dollars
00:17:01.540 So it was eight thousand
00:17:02.420 What
00:17:02.960 So what she does
00:17:04.180 Is she moved out
00:17:05.480 To
00:17:06.020 Like I don't know
00:17:07.300 What you guys' country is here
00:17:08.760 And basically
00:17:10.060 Her
00:17:10.260 Her
00:17:10.560 Her husband
00:17:11.560 Her husband
00:17:12.140 You know
00:17:12.840 I don't know
00:17:14.520 I don't know
00:17:14.540 You guys have like
00:17:16.000 The outskirts of London
00:17:16.960 It's cheaper
00:17:17.460 Right
00:17:17.800 Yeah
00:17:18.300 It is cheaper
00:17:19.220 Outside London
00:17:19.960 Yeah
00:17:20.240 So that's what she teaches
00:17:22.100 The wives to do
00:17:23.020 I guess
00:17:23.380 So I think they did Miami
00:17:24.980 And so she lives like
00:17:26.440 An hour and a half
00:17:27.440 Outside of
00:17:28.020 I think Miami
00:17:29.120 And so he has to commute
00:17:30.480 Really far for work
00:17:31.420 But the costs are so low
00:17:32.860 That and she grows her own food
00:17:34.880 Wow
00:17:35.520 She teaches
00:17:36.160 She homeschools her kids
00:17:37.500 And she does hand-me-downs
00:17:39.160 Wow
00:17:39.660 So if you're doing
00:17:40.520 Yeah, it's a lot of work
00:17:42.000 It's a lot
00:17:42.600 That's a lot
00:17:43.400 That's a work in itself
00:17:44.440 Yeah, no
00:17:45.020 Yeah, that's a job in itself
00:17:47.000 Definitely
00:17:47.700 Yeah, that's why she doesn't have a job
00:17:49.220 Yeah
00:17:49.600 She homeschools the kids, right
00:17:51.580 But women who do want to work
00:17:52.840 They just would not have time for all that
00:17:54.540 No, that's what I'm saying
00:17:55.540 Yeah
00:17:55.580 Like that's everything comes at a cost
00:17:57.080 Yeah
00:17:57.340 I'm not saying like what you should or shouldn't do
00:17:59.000 Yeah
00:17:59.120 But what I am saying is
00:18:00.120 It is possible
00:18:01.040 Definitely
00:18:01.840 And a lot of women think it's like impossible
00:18:03.960 To stay at home with one income
00:18:05.380 And he's going to make more money
00:18:06.940 Yeah
00:18:07.040 If he's able to work more
00:18:08.660 Full time
00:18:09.080 100%
00:18:09.860 That's if they're allowed to get overtime though
00:18:12.160 If you're on a set wave
00:18:13.200 Do you know what I mean?
00:18:13.700 You've got to think about it
00:18:14.320 And I think it depends on what you want to do
00:18:15.860 With your kids as well
00:18:16.560 Because if you want to take them on holiday
00:18:17.860 10k
00:18:18.740 That's not
00:18:19.440 That's not
00:18:20.060 That's not feasible
00:18:20.820 But that's lifestyle
00:18:22.200 Yeah
00:18:22.940 Right
00:18:23.220 So it's like
00:18:24.060 That's choosing like lifestyle
00:18:26.140 No, my kids need to fly out
00:18:27.940 By all means
00:18:28.520 Definitely
00:18:29.280 Primary needs, right?
00:18:32.240 Yeah, well, it's kind of a trade-off
00:18:33.460 When you think about it
00:18:34.200 Like what's more important
00:18:34.920 The trip or spending time with their mom every day
00:18:36.900 Yeah, they do that every day
00:18:38.440 They can fly out
00:18:39.520 Go to their auntie somewhere
00:18:41.180 For six weeks
00:18:42.660 I mean, it depends how
00:18:44.040 It depends how you view it, right?
00:18:45.480 Like some people want their kids to just be
00:18:47.480 I had a girl on her show
00:18:48.740 That didn't want
00:18:49.420 She doesn't want any teacher talking to her kid
00:18:51.580 Because she doesn't want anyone else
00:18:53.460 To influence the children
00:18:54.420 Other than the family
00:18:55.180 But then her children will find it difficult
00:18:57.100 To be in the outside world
00:18:58.280 In real reality
00:18:58.920 Because they won't know how to communicate
00:19:01.640 I don't
00:19:02.460 You know, I used to think like that
00:19:04.120 But, you know
00:19:05.080 I have cousins
00:19:05.740 And they're like the most sheltered
00:19:07.380 Like they're all homeschooled
00:19:08.480 And they were so
00:19:09.160 Guys, you don't even know
00:19:10.480 Like we always thought
00:19:11.340 They were like the crazy Catholic family
00:19:13.040 Because it was like
00:19:14.280 The dad like
00:19:15.220 Wouldn't let her show her knee
00:19:17.040 It was like that, you know
00:19:18.220 But the kids turned out so good
00:19:20.000 Like they're all really smart
00:19:21.220 They all are normal
00:19:23.260 Like it's
00:19:24.060 You'd be surprised
00:19:25.320 Yes
00:19:25.700 They socialize all right
00:19:27.500 Socializing with other people
00:19:28.540 Yeah, they're all
00:19:29.980 Actually, I don't want to say their names
00:19:32.360 But she's married
00:19:33.000 She's too young to be married
00:19:35.240 All the boys are married
00:19:37.020 Yeah
00:19:37.340 There are three out of the
00:19:38.440 The three oldest
00:19:39.160 Because I think there's five or six
00:19:40.660 Are married
00:19:41.300 So
00:19:41.620 Yeah
00:19:41.840 No, five
00:19:42.500 Because they were trying to catch up to us
00:19:43.940 For the six
00:19:44.460 The two are young
00:19:47.820 Okay
00:19:49.500 I'm going to read super chats really quick
00:19:51.460 And then we're going to close out the show
00:19:53.180 So you can give any final thoughts
00:19:54.680 Plug any social media
00:19:55.680 Yeah, you guys are a really good group today
00:19:57.120 So this was fun
00:19:58.100 Thanks
00:19:58.700 All right, guys
00:20:01.000 Make sure you like the video
00:20:02.340 And subscribe to the channel
00:20:03.960 Guys
00:20:04.220 If you've watched two or more
00:20:05.140 Two or more of my videos
00:20:07.420 And you do not subscribe
00:20:08.600 We have beef
00:20:10.500 Okay
00:20:10.900 It's not cool
00:20:12.080 To just be watching
00:20:13.060 And not
00:20:13.780 I lost the super chats again
00:20:15.880 So we're going to do the final thoughts first
00:20:17.260 So you go
00:20:17.740 And then go around
00:20:18.340 Okay, what should I say
00:20:19.900 Any thought you had on the conversation
00:20:23.840 You know
00:20:24.580 If you have any social media
00:20:26.840 You want them to follow you on
00:20:28.060 Go ahead
00:20:28.460 Yes
00:20:28.740 I mean, that would be lovely
00:20:29.740 My name is Vina Rose
00:20:31.000 You can find me everywhere
00:20:32.720 I have also a website
00:20:33.960 VinaRoseMusic.com
00:20:35.460 I would love to, you know
00:20:36.960 To see you there
00:20:37.980 And, you know
00:20:38.880 Check it out
00:20:39.440 My music
00:20:40.000 On all the streaming platforms
00:20:41.780 And it was really, really great
00:20:44.340 Being here tonight
00:20:45.440 Thank you for inviting me
00:20:46.680 Because I think
00:20:47.560 We all need to have more conversations
00:20:50.000 About, like, uncomfortable topics
00:20:51.760 And I'm a very big fan
00:20:53.420 Of this type of, you know
00:20:54.620 Things sometimes
00:20:55.320 Women and men
00:20:56.700 We need more communication
00:20:58.040 So I'm very glad
00:20:59.440 You know
00:20:59.900 That I'm here tonight
00:21:00.800 And also, like, expressing my views
00:21:03.400 And having, you know
00:21:04.520 To listen to everyone
00:21:05.740 View
00:21:06.460 Yeah
00:21:06.980 And I really like
00:21:07.600 I love the green, by the way
00:21:08.880 I know I said it earlier
00:21:09.660 But I love that color
00:21:11.140 Thank you
00:21:11.640 Thank you
00:21:12.280 God
00:21:12.600 I really enjoyed being
00:21:14.580 Like, here today
00:21:15.840 Thank you for inviting me
00:21:17.000 Thank you for meeting everyone
00:21:18.260 Loved hearing everyone's views
00:21:20.680 It was really interesting
00:21:21.720 You know
00:21:22.140 Hearing about
00:21:22.820 You know
00:21:23.640 The stats as well
00:21:24.580 About men
00:21:25.320 And women
00:21:26.300 And who swipes
00:21:27.880 And
00:21:28.320 And I love
00:21:31.220 Hearing about
00:21:32.740 You also
00:21:33.620 Talking about
00:21:35.140 You know
00:21:35.620 Positivity with your
00:21:36.920 Your guy
00:21:37.560 It was really good
00:21:38.680 But yeah
00:21:40.800 That's it for me
00:21:41.620 Go ahead
00:21:42.420 I've had a really good time
00:21:45.040 I actually
00:21:45.620 This is my first podcast
00:21:46.740 To be honest
00:21:47.060 Oh yeah
00:21:47.280 I was very nervous
00:21:48.480 I was like
00:21:48.920 Oh, what is she gonna ask?
00:21:50.680 But
00:21:50.860 I feel like
00:21:52.640 Listening to other people's opinions
00:21:54.480 Has made me a little bit wiser
00:21:57.380 Honestly
00:21:58.680 Like
00:21:59.600 Like you said
00:22:00.700 The stats
00:22:01.280 And
00:22:01.660 I did ask about the stats
00:22:02.960 Because I have a senior podcast
00:22:03.900 So I know you've got stats
00:22:04.960 So I had to ask the question
00:22:06.140 And
00:22:06.940 Did you change your opinion
00:22:08.560 On anything?
00:22:09.640 Or maybe
00:22:10.720 Something that changed
00:22:12.300 The way you viewed the world
00:22:13.180 A little bit
00:22:13.680 Something you never thought of?
00:22:16.560 Um
00:22:16.860 I'd like to say
00:22:19.020 Could be no
00:22:20.180 No is okay
00:22:20.640 Women
00:22:20.940 Who do we say were picky?
00:22:22.680 Men
00:22:22.940 I feel like
00:22:24.220 Women could potentially
00:22:26.900 Be more picky
00:22:27.500 I mean
00:22:28.140 Because I'm picky
00:22:29.280 So I get that
00:22:30.580 And sometimes
00:22:31.280 I think I'm picky
00:22:31.980 For the wrong reasons
00:22:32.740 Because then
00:22:33.380 I'm just like
00:22:34.100 Oh
00:22:34.340 Why did I do that?
00:22:36.500 So
00:22:36.920 But definitely
00:22:38.520 I can see
00:22:40.240 Why women are more picky
00:22:41.160 Because I think
00:22:41.920 Every single one of us
00:22:42.800 Women in this room
00:22:43.420 Are picky
00:22:43.760 So
00:22:44.600 We are probably
00:22:45.640 The most pickiest people
00:22:46.640 I get it
00:22:47.360 And
00:22:48.100 Yeah
00:22:48.940 So that's what
00:22:49.460 You definitely showed me
00:22:50.320 But however
00:22:51.000 I'm Rita
00:22:52.140 You can find me
00:22:53.300 On Instagram
00:22:53.980 And TikTok
00:22:54.700 It's R-E-E-T-A
00:22:56.700 Underscore X
00:22:57.600 And
00:22:58.600 You can find me
00:22:59.320 On Spotify
00:22:59.660 Or the music platforms
00:23:01.140 Please stream our music
00:23:02.500 It's actually called
00:23:03.200 Mind Your Business
00:23:03.980 Funny enough
00:23:04.980 So yeah
00:23:06.520 Find me
00:23:07.240 And
00:23:07.620 Speak to you guys soon
00:23:08.720 I've really enjoyed
00:23:11.500 Being on this podcast
00:23:12.420 So thank you for having me
00:23:13.620 Listening to all
00:23:15.100 Everyone's opinions
00:23:15.940 And the statistics
00:23:16.760 It's actually made me
00:23:17.700 Wonder
00:23:18.280 In society
00:23:19.620 Who's viewed as the prize
00:23:21.800 Men or women
00:23:22.580 So
00:23:23.820 Men
00:23:24.040 I believe that
00:23:26.640 I do believe that
00:23:29.500 I actually believe that
00:23:30.660 But yeah
00:23:31.560 You can find me
00:23:32.140 On all socials
00:23:32.760 As Iamunique
00:23:33.640 Double I's
00:23:34.420 And yeah
00:23:34.980 That is me
00:23:35.560 Great stuff
00:23:37.200 Well thanks ever so much
00:23:38.000 For having me on Pearl
00:23:38.660 Pleasure as always
00:23:39.560 So I think
00:23:41.140 A key thing to
00:23:42.220 Take away from this
00:23:43.460 Is
00:23:43.900 Mark Manson
00:23:44.780 The writer
00:23:45.440 He wrote that book
00:23:46.440 I'm not giving a fuck
00:23:48.560 Or whatever it's called
00:23:49.000 The blogger
00:23:49.420 The writer
00:23:49.780 Etc
00:23:50.080 Etc
00:23:50.400 He made a really great
00:23:51.800 Point
00:23:52.440 Which is
00:23:53.760 The best form of dating advice
00:23:55.460 Is self-improvement
00:23:56.560 Or really the only form
00:23:58.360 Of dating advice
00:23:58.960 Is self-improvement
00:23:59.660 Like in the end
00:24:00.480 Particularly for guys
00:24:01.700 But for women as well
00:24:02.480 We've got to be working
00:24:03.580 On ourselves the whole time
00:24:04.620 Right
00:24:05.080 In all different areas
00:24:06.600 You know
00:24:07.100 Whether that's physique
00:24:08.780 Whether it's fashion
00:24:09.640 And grooming
00:24:10.120 Whether it's spirituality
00:24:12.020 Whether it's your finances
00:24:14.280 All of these different things
00:24:15.280 We've got to be working
00:24:15.960 On all these different areas
00:24:16.760 Of our life the whole time
00:24:17.620 Now there is also
00:24:18.740 Social skills
00:24:19.620 Or what we used to call game
00:24:21.040 That's important
00:24:22.060 But it's only one part
00:24:23.280 Of the bigger puzzle
00:24:23.920 So I think
00:24:24.700 You know
00:24:25.020 I mean
00:24:25.580 Sometimes
00:24:26.160 People can watch these podcasts
00:24:27.580 So they can think
00:24:28.120 Oh it's all doom and gloom
00:24:29.820 Like it's only the top 1%
00:24:31.320 Who are getting any action
00:24:32.120 And everything like that
00:24:32.740 But the reality is
00:24:33.460 You can transcend
00:24:34.140 You've just got to work on yourself
00:24:35.480 So anyway
00:24:37.240 If you could follow
00:24:37.960 If you'd like to follow me
00:24:38.860 I'm on all social platforms
00:24:40.140 YouTube
00:24:40.580 Twitter
00:24:41.580 And
00:24:42.280 TikTok
00:24:43.000 And also Instagram
00:24:44.400 At Real Troy Francis
00:24:45.720 So follow me there
00:24:46.880 And if you want help
00:24:47.580 With dating
00:24:48.500 And so on and so forth
00:24:49.380 You can book a free call with me
00:24:50.520 Just go
00:24:51.780 Over there
00:24:52.460 You'll see links
00:24:53.100 Under my videos
00:24:53.800 And yeah
00:24:54.760 We can have a chat
00:24:55.280 And see how I can help
00:24:57.400 Go ahead
00:25:00.420 It's my first time
00:25:01.940 Being on a podcast
00:25:02.780 And it was really good
00:25:04.200 I really enjoyed it
00:25:05.040 I was a bit nervous
00:25:05.860 At the start
00:25:06.620 But as we went on
00:25:08.140 I got the hang of it
00:25:09.060 And thank you
00:25:09.960 For inviting me
00:25:10.620 It was really good
00:25:11.440 Yeah
00:25:12.840 So my social media
00:25:14.540 It's
00:25:15.900 Queen.delice
00:25:17.220 Delice
00:25:17.920 Is spelt
00:25:18.620 D-E-L-I-C-E
00:25:19.740 Because a lot of people
00:25:20.460 Spell it wrong
00:25:21.140 But yeah
00:25:22.220 I'm on all social media platforms
00:25:23.820 Thank you
00:25:25.580 Thank you for coming
00:25:26.500 Go ahead
00:25:27.500 Hey
00:25:28.380 Thanks
00:25:28.840 So I just want to say
00:25:29.760 Thank you for so much
00:25:30.760 For having me
00:25:31.460 My social media is
00:25:34.940 President
00:25:35.540 Ors
00:25:36.420 President
00:25:37.220 Spelt
00:25:37.820 Normal
00:25:38.200 A-U-R-S
00:25:39.980 And I feel like
00:25:41.520 My take
00:25:42.060 On the situation
00:25:42.940 Is
00:25:43.220 On the topic
00:25:44.540 Is
00:25:45.020 As it was before
00:25:46.540 Beauty
00:25:48.820 Isn't defined
00:25:50.140 By how people
00:25:50.880 Find you
00:25:51.460 Or how people
00:25:52.000 See you
00:25:52.600 As long as
00:25:53.460 You love yourself
00:25:54.160 And you're assertive
00:25:54.960 In yourself
00:25:55.560 Then that's all
00:25:56.980 That's all that matters
00:25:58.240 Nice pretty lies
00:26:02.940 To finish the show
00:26:03.780 She's excited
00:26:07.080 But it helps
00:26:12.040 But it helps
00:26:14.660 If you're hot
00:26:15.260 But yeah
00:26:15.840 Couldn't have said it better
00:26:18.760 If you're Rihanna
00:26:19.400 It's better
00:26:20.260 Stop using Rihanna
00:26:22.740 As an example
00:26:23.740 Cause you're never gonna go anywhere
00:26:25.380 Yeah
00:26:25.760 And there's someone out there
00:26:27.060 That doesn't find Rihanna nice
00:26:28.440 Show me
00:26:29.080 Show me a guy
00:26:29.660 That thinks she's ugly
00:26:30.080 But she's nice
00:26:30.700 No one says she was ugly
00:26:32.220 Rihanna's absolutely beautiful
00:26:33.180 No one's ugly
00:26:33.860 No one is ugly
00:26:36.300 What about James Altitude
00:26:37.180 He only got a two
00:26:37.960 He wasn't ugly
00:26:41.320 Do we need to see other victims
00:26:43.040 He wasn't ugly
00:26:44.120 He just wasn't attractive
00:26:45.540 To us
00:26:46.360 Yeah
00:26:46.740 But Rihanna is beautiful
00:26:48.140 Just to put it out there
00:26:49.120 She's a 10 out of 10
00:26:49.960 In my eyes
00:26:50.600 Just be assertive
00:26:51.000 And confident in yourself
00:26:51.840 Love yourself
00:26:52.620 Love yourself
00:26:53.480 Okay
00:26:54.680 Well you know what
00:26:55.640 This sounds nice
00:26:57.000 But it won't
00:26:58.280 It won't change your results
00:26:59.600 In the world
00:27:00.200 I encourage everyone
00:27:01.960 To get to the gym
00:27:02.880 You know
00:27:03.480 Eat healthy
00:27:04.300 Yes
00:27:05.260 Try to be more charismatic
00:27:08.280 All that
00:27:09.140 Okay
00:27:09.340 I'm gonna read the super chats
00:27:11.420 Because you guys did pay
00:27:12.320 So you know
00:27:13.160 Rihanna's
00:27:14.160 Just a wife
00:27:15.420 You mean the position
00:27:16.140 That women strive to get to
00:27:17.400 Having the opportunity
00:27:18.640 To raise your kids correctly
00:27:19.900 In such a corrupt society
00:27:22.160 Full of agenda
00:27:23.000 Is priceless
00:27:23.680 Please come correct
00:27:25.520 Toni
00:27:26.320 She said she's african
00:27:27.580 But has the qualities
00:27:28.600 Of a modern western woman
00:27:30.100 Trevor
00:27:31.220 Do they think that makeup
00:27:32.900 Would define a woman
00:27:33.840 D
00:27:34.500 Can
00:27:35.520 C
00:27:36.060 Hi pearl
00:27:37.900 Pleasure to meet you
00:27:39.140 At the london meetup
00:27:40.140 Looking forward
00:27:41.000 To the next one
00:27:42.040 See dumb
00:27:43.320 Oh also guys
00:27:44.120 If you wanna know
00:27:45.360 When we have meetups
00:27:46.320 We do little like
00:27:47.100 Gatherings
00:27:47.740 With all the podcasters
00:27:48.840 And stuff
00:27:49.200 Sign up for our google form
00:27:50.600 You know
00:27:50.980 That's where
00:27:51.840 We send the address
00:27:53.640 And the place
00:27:54.160 C
00:27:55.120 And there's security
00:27:55.780 So no weird stuff
00:27:56.680 Alright
00:27:56.940 C
00:27:59.260 Dumbledore
00:27:59.820 I've improved myself
00:28:01.020 By gluing my eyelids
00:28:02.240 Anti
00:28:02.980 Aircraft fake lashes
00:28:04.560 That would make
00:28:05.300 The ukrainian army blush
00:28:07.740 Evil if he's hot
00:28:09.420 And smart
00:28:09.880 And he wants
00:28:10.620 From mrs nine nails
00:28:12.520 Woman
00:28:13.600 30 plus
00:28:14.440 And single moms
00:28:15.220 Are recreational use
00:28:16.440 Only
00:28:16.940 Black moses
00:28:17.740 These women are allergic
00:28:18.960 To accountability
00:28:19.720 Modern women always
00:28:20.640 Blame someone else
00:28:21.460 Instead of looking
00:28:22.060 In the mirror
00:28:22.620 Ribs
00:28:23.680 Women control
00:28:24.440 Access to sex
00:28:25.300 So if men want sex
00:28:26.240 They have to appease
00:28:27.060 Women to have sex
00:28:29.560 Equally
00:28:30.020 If a woman want
00:28:30.820 A relationship
00:28:31.400 They have to appease men
00:28:32.500 Tell
00:28:32.800 If you're in control
00:28:33.780 Of something
00:28:34.200 You dictate how it's used
00:28:35.400 It's simple as
00:28:36.120 Raise your standards
00:28:36.940 For giving it up
00:28:37.620 And it fixes the problems
00:28:38.640 It's not rocket science
00:28:40.040 Hinesburg
00:28:41.220 Ladies stop projecting
00:28:42.300 Your agenda
00:28:42.980 You want to be hunted
00:28:43.940 No man wants to hunt women
00:28:45.260 We have better things
00:28:45.960 To do with our lives
00:28:46.740 Than validate women
00:28:47.540 C
00:28:48.040 Dumbledore
00:28:48.480 For the girl in the back
00:28:49.320 The only 10 out of 10
00:28:50.460 On you is the toxicity
00:28:51.620 Of your
00:28:52.680 Oh that's so mean
00:28:54.280 I'm not gonna do that
00:28:54.920 I'm sorry
00:28:55.380 Shrugs
00:28:56.420 Men
00:28:57.380 I'm sorry
00:28:58.240 Men panic
00:28:59.560 When they are dumped
00:29:00.760 Because it is harder
00:29:01.600 To pull
00:29:02.120 Decent men
00:29:03.060 Gals
00:29:04.520 It's okay to slap
00:29:05.860 Comedians
00:29:06.440 But not a 304 wife
00:29:08.020 Hinesburg
00:29:09.020 No man ever
00:29:10.280 Picks a whoopee
00:29:11.760 Whoopee over
00:29:12.760 A gal
00:29:13.780 Gidiot
00:29:14.700 Like the
00:29:15.760 Galgado
00:29:16.640 What's that
00:29:17.500 A good
00:29:17.920 Actress
00:29:18.620 Gal
00:29:18.920 Gal
00:29:19.300 Gal
00:29:19.400 Gal
00:29:19.420 Gal
00:29:19.660 Gal
00:29:20.060 Gal
00:29:20.140 Gal
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00:29:20.440 Gal
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00:29:21.200 Gal
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00:29:21.340 Gal
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00:29:21.600 Gal
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00:29:23.600 Gal
00:29:23.660 Gal
00:29:24.340 Gal
00:29:24.480 Gal
00:29:24.540 Gal
00:29:24.600 Gal
00:29:25.540 Gal
00:29:26.540 Gal
00:29:27.540 Gal
00:29:28.540 Gal
00:29:29.540 Gal
00:29:30.540 Gal
00:29:31.540 Gal
00:29:31.660 Gal
00:29:32.060 Gal
00:29:32.120 Stop trying to find
00:29:33.060 The exceptions
00:29:33.700 Pearl
00:29:34.060 Check them
00:29:35.680 Pearl
00:29:36.020 Please please please
00:29:38.480 Women switch off
00:29:39.280 Your delusion button
00:29:40.460 Pull up
00:29:41.660 Helena
00:29:42.880 Christen
00:29:43.800 She's 50
00:29:44.680 Ribs
00:29:45.840 For each requirement
00:29:46.560 A woman has on her list
00:29:47.820 She doesn't have
00:29:48.400 The equivalent value
00:29:49.500 Exchange
00:29:50.020 In order to offer
00:29:51.040 A man that caters
00:29:51.900 To his needs
00:29:52.480 On a one-to-one basis
00:29:53.440 Follow me
00:29:54.000 If you're a 10 to yourself
00:29:55.760 As that before
00:29:56.600 After the makeup
00:29:57.540 And interracial
00:29:58.640 Relationships
00:29:59.440 Would any woman consider
00:30:01.280 Leaving their career
00:30:02.120 Deleting all social media
00:30:03.420 And reducing their lifestyle
00:30:04.560 For the perfect husband
00:30:05.600 Who doesn't cheat
00:30:06.400 Or lie
00:30:07.000 Tiger
00:30:07.480 They think their
00:30:08.520 Instagram filters
00:30:09.380 How they look
00:30:09.960 In real life
00:30:10.600 Hassan
00:30:11.120 If he's a 5
00:30:11.900 Then all of you
00:30:14.120 Together are 3's
00:30:15.120 Mr. Missing
00:30:16.500 4-4
00:30:17.080 The panel of 10
00:30:18.940 Have spoken
00:30:19.960 Shrugs
00:30:20.660 The girl in the green
00:30:21.360 Wants to date a guy
00:30:22.240 Who weighs 11 stone
00:30:23.780 Come on
00:30:24.760 The UK economist
00:30:25.920 If your husband
00:30:27.640 Got ill
00:30:28.240 And couldn't earn
00:30:28.920 The same income
00:30:29.580 Would you look
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00:30:33.780 Oh that's abortion
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