JustPearlyThings - October 19, 2023


What Every OBESED Person Must Know About Weight Loss.


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In this episode I speak to a man who has an incurable eating disorder and is struggling to lose weight. He talks about his journey and how he has managed to get back on track with his diet and exercise. We talk about the dangers of eating disorders and how to overcome them.

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00:00:00.000 have a much healthier, and if they do well in the exam,
00:00:02.520 like, I would never take them for a meal to celebrate that.
00:00:04.500 I'd do something else.
00:00:05.440 That was part of my issue.
00:00:07.200 Okay.
00:00:08.300 What do you think?
00:00:09.240 I feel like it's child abuse only because the child has no control
00:00:13.180 over what they can or cannot eat.
00:00:15.520 At the end of the day, your parent will cook for you,
00:00:17.940 and then they'll be like, they have the food on the table, go and eat.
00:00:21.280 So where you were saying that you were rewarded,
00:00:23.720 like, when you were being, like, good or whatever,
00:00:26.120 my dad, he's an athlete.
00:00:27.760 So the moment I started putting on weight, he would just say,
00:00:31.720 nope, he used to make me do four laps around a track.
00:00:34.660 I used to see him, four laps, that's it.
00:00:37.120 And the slower I got, I would be reprimanded again.
00:00:41.220 He would be like, oh, well, like, it wouldn't be good for me
00:00:43.880 in any shape or form.
00:00:45.540 So for me, I feel like I've taken a lot of sacrifices.
00:00:48.180 I haven't always been this size.
00:00:49.540 I used to be once a lot bigger.
00:00:51.300 And then because of my diagnosis, I said to myself, listen,
00:00:54.300 I have to make a sacrifice.
00:00:55.420 So I became vegan.
00:00:57.100 And then from that, that's where I started to lose more weight as well.
00:01:00.140 I need to be as light as possible so that I can manage my condition
00:01:03.340 as well as other people.
00:01:05.260 So if I have a relapse tomorrow, and I'm like, what, 200 kilograms
00:01:09.560 or 120 kilograms or whatever, I'm going to be a lot harder to manage
00:01:13.580 than if I was 80 kilograms.
00:01:15.340 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:01:16.120 So for me personally, you have to kind of think of the longevity of your life.
00:01:22.480 Otherwise, you know, there's no value in that.
00:01:25.960 I have a question for the bodybuilders.
00:01:32.420 Bodybuilders, yeah.
00:01:32.980 If someone wanted to lose weight, which step do you, because I hear this a lot that you
00:01:39.300 need to attack it from both sides, do everything, but I actually don't think that's correct.
00:01:42.480 I think you have to start somewhere, right?
00:01:45.180 So if someone were to start, would you advise them to change their diet first or go to the gym first?
00:01:51.960 If it's an obese person, I'm saying ease yourself into it.
00:01:56.100 You don't have to go nuts in the gym straight off the bat.
00:01:59.820 I think you've got to go diet first.
00:02:01.840 Like the guys have said, 80% diet, 20% exercise.
00:02:05.000 Diet first, ease your way into it.
00:02:06.600 Then move your way into exercise.
00:02:08.840 Walking, then resistance training slowly, you know, other forms of equipment.
00:02:13.960 But you have to work up towards it.
00:02:15.160 Your body's going to react pretty suddenly to it.
00:02:17.240 But definitely diet first.
00:02:18.380 And the reason to that is the first thing I'll do to a client is I'll put them on the, most gyms have scales, right?
00:02:24.260 And these scales give you certain numbers.
00:02:27.640 When your clients see these numbers, now you have to explain to them what category they're in.
00:02:33.620 Either this is healthy, this is heading into the danger zone, or this is alarming.
00:02:39.560 And that is by diet.
00:02:43.620 There's not much that the gym could do with these numbers.
00:02:46.600 So now you have to explain to this person, okay, yes, we're going to start training,
00:02:51.860 and this is the particular type of training that you will be doing.
00:02:55.360 But now, because of what, because of the lifestyle that you're doing right now, it needs to change.
00:03:03.240 And because of the diet you have right now, it needs to change.
00:03:05.180 Because whatever you're doing right now is causing these numbers to grow and to get into the alarming range.
00:03:11.840 So, I'd say 100% diet.
00:03:16.220 Okay.
00:03:19.060 I thought he was a personal trainer as well.
00:03:22.000 Oh, okay.
00:03:22.560 No, but 100%, no, I feel like it's more so diet first.
00:03:25.100 Wait, are you not a trainer?
00:03:27.520 No, I am.
00:03:28.520 Okay.
00:03:28.900 But I was just really checking in what you were saying.
00:03:31.080 I was like, hold on, wait.
00:03:31.900 It was like audio before a second.
00:03:33.480 But no, 100%, I feel like diet first.
00:03:36.780 And then after that, it would be like exercise.
00:03:39.500 So, because you need to create some sort of sustainable lifestyle for yourself.
00:03:44.220 So, you need to ease yourself into it and be able to, like, you know, micromanage yourself into, you know what I'm trying to say.
00:03:50.420 You know what's funny about that?
00:03:52.420 I actually disagree with all three of them.
00:03:54.420 You think exercise first?
00:03:55.760 Yeah.
00:03:56.320 I think you're wrong.
00:03:57.580 I mean, I can prove you wrong as well, but.
00:03:59.860 You can prove.
00:04:00.640 You want to try?
00:04:01.540 You want us to go?
00:04:03.120 Wait.
00:04:03.840 All right.
00:04:04.200 You want to go right now?
00:04:05.120 You take one fat person, I'll take another fat person. 0.97
00:04:07.840 Let's see who gets the best results.
00:04:09.160 No, no, no.
00:04:09.420 I volunteer.
00:04:11.300 Hey, 11 a.m. tomorrow.
00:04:13.440 But in terms of, like, the discussion, the reason why I say it, I think that's, well, I wouldn't say it's incorrect because there's no right way to anything.
00:04:19.380 But the reason why I don't think that's the most optimal way is because, one, companies benefit from this whole ideology behind dieting.
00:04:30.880 So, if you look at where the money goes, usually you should go in the opposite direction.
00:04:35.400 So, I always think of it like this.
00:04:38.600 If I have to pay money for anything, I would rather do the thing that's free.
00:04:42.840 Going to, working out is free.
00:04:44.500 You can go for a run on the road.
00:04:45.860 You can do all of that.
00:04:46.400 And the reason why I think working out is better first is because I think it's more sustainable and it gives you more of a feedback than dieting.
00:04:55.460 Dieting is very broad.
00:04:56.500 It's like, it's almost like when you say dieting, most people are confused.
00:05:00.400 They don't even know what you're talking about.
00:05:01.180 Nice.
00:05:01.420 I have a question.
00:05:02.080 But the reason why I think working out is actually more important is because if you go to the gym every day and you're able to stay consistent with that, your body will give you feedback.
00:05:10.480 One, two, the harder it gets, it will get harder first before it gets easier, right?
00:05:14.520 Yeah, but the same goes for a diet though.
00:05:17.820 No, because the reason why I'm trying to make this point is because these days, when an era where people hammer so much on mental health and all this crap, which I actually agree that these are the things that are hindering people from achieving these goals.
00:05:32.180 But the reality is you cannot have a strong mind without a strong body first.
00:05:36.600 Right.
00:05:36.840 But both require discipline.
00:05:38.920 Having a good diet and exercising regularly.
00:05:41.360 But you still have to build a strong body to get to the strong mentality.
00:05:45.700 Yeah, but how are you going to, you got to get, you got to get yourself to a point to build the strong body.
00:05:49.980 No.
00:05:50.220 You can start straight away with the diet.
00:05:51.440 You can build the strong body even when you don't want to.
00:05:54.020 You can have people force you to build a strong body.
00:05:56.140 So you're exercising still.
00:05:58.060 Yeah.
00:05:58.480 But you're still eating like a pig.
00:05:59.740 Yeah, but that's the thing, the more you keep exercising, the more the discipline comes.
00:06:03.940 Because that's, if you're working hard at exercise and you're seeing that you're still putting on this effort, but you're not getting to your goals, and your body is still giving you that feedback of you do this and it's painful, you would want to improve in other areas to make that endeavor easier.
00:06:19.100 Yeah, but you could burn 1,000 calories and eat 4,000 calories.
00:06:25.280 I think you've got to start with your diet first.
00:06:27.580 I would disagree.
00:06:28.740 I'm sorry, go ahead.
00:06:29.560 I was going to say I would disagree and agree is because if you start having that consistency and discipline, yes, you're going to get stronger.
00:06:38.000 You're going to get stronger mindset.
00:06:39.520 You're going to get a fitter body.
00:06:41.300 But then when you continue eating poor diet, then they're definitely not going to change.
00:06:47.540 But what it will do.
00:06:48.520 But that's what I'm saying.
00:06:48.660 And when you work out.
00:06:49.740 What it will do.
00:06:50.400 It will encourage you.
00:06:51.540 It builds your mental state.
00:06:51.960 Yes.
00:06:52.040 What do you guys think?
00:06:53.580 What do you guys think?
00:06:54.640 What would you rather start with?
00:06:55.800 I think.
00:06:56.340 Start exercising or start with your diet first?
00:06:58.840 Because it sounds like you guys have more.
00:07:00.540 Hey, 11 a.m. tomorrow.
00:07:02.300 One second.
00:07:02.880 One second.
00:07:03.180 I think the part that I agree on is because of that discipline and consistency, it is going to encourage you to eat healthier.
00:07:11.160 Because you now start feeling better.
00:07:12.760 You now start feeling fitter.
00:07:14.160 It will encourage you to eat more healthy.
00:07:17.320 And that's the part I agree on you on.
00:07:19.720 But still, I mean, diet wins.
00:07:21.600 Because even when I started working out again, I was saying for the longest time, I'm going to stop fizzy drinking.
00:07:27.700 I didn't actually stop until I started going to the gym.
00:07:31.080 Yeah.
00:07:31.620 So because the thing is.
00:07:32.840 And doing the stairs.
00:07:33.720 And doing the stairs is actually the start of everything.
00:07:36.100 Yeah.
00:07:36.360 You see the elevator up.
00:07:38.620 We do the stairs.
00:07:40.520 So yeah.
00:07:41.580 For me.
00:07:42.200 Yeah, but I think now you're a little bit more conscious on your diet though, right?
00:07:45.400 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:46.380 In the process of.
00:07:47.700 I've really tried to lose weight.
00:07:49.200 I find it much easier to eat better on days I've worked out that morning.
00:07:52.980 Because I have this whole thing in my head of like, I don't want to undo it.
00:07:55.420 I don't want to undo it.
00:07:56.040 I don't want to undo it.
00:07:57.000 You know?
00:07:57.860 Whereas if I haven't worked out that day, I'm like, well.
00:08:00.660 Yeah.
00:08:00.960 Do you know what I mean?
00:08:01.440 It is easier.
00:08:02.700 But the diet is the more effective thing.
00:08:04.560 I used to never ever do this.
00:08:06.780 But when I was skinnier, I used to do water fasts.
00:08:10.380 Particularly for roles or for auditions when I was an actor.
00:08:13.440 I would water fast for like five days.
00:08:15.500 And I would lose like two pounds a day.
00:08:17.520 It could not be me.
00:08:18.800 Yeah.
00:08:19.260 Oh, no.
00:08:19.900 I would say that that's like, that takes a lot of discipline.
00:08:22.240 It's very, very hard.
00:08:23.040 But like, I was like, not okay.
00:08:25.200 When I did those things.
00:08:25.640 Do you guys think that weight loss programs are toxic?
00:08:29.480 Toxic.
00:08:29.880 If they include taking non-natural things, yeah.
00:08:35.920 But if it's natural and if it's just using your own way and equipment, that is no harm to you.
00:08:41.780 Then no, it's not toxic.
00:08:43.480 Only gets toxic when you add the drugs.
00:08:45.280 I think it's the execution of the weight loss program that makes it not necessarily toxic, but unhelpful.
00:08:51.300 And it doesn't serve the individual.
00:08:53.000 It just serves the company.
00:08:53.840 What about the biggest loser?
00:08:57.000 What's that?
00:08:57.640 Has that show got cancelled yet?
00:08:58.640 Wait, you guys don't know what the biggest is?
00:09:00.720 It's like a challenge.
00:09:01.600 I remember.
00:09:02.440 I used to talk all the time.
00:09:03.280 They're so big in the US.
00:09:04.400 I would get eight to ten.
00:09:05.660 I don't know.
00:09:06.140 I watched it.
00:09:06.700 I used to watch it on YouTube.
00:09:07.380 They get about eight to ten obese people.
00:09:10.540 Pair them up with personal trainers.
00:09:12.960 Prominent personal trainers.
00:09:14.580 I love them.
00:09:14.860 And they would see who would lose the most weight.
00:09:17.000 Did they gain it back?
00:09:17.820 Very entertaining show.
00:09:19.020 A lot of did.
00:09:20.000 I would love to watch it if that came back.
00:09:21.680 I might even go on it.
00:09:22.920 But a lot of the personal trainers, we have one in Australia.
00:09:25.560 Hey, we can make our own version here.
00:09:27.120 We should do it.
00:09:27.840 We should do it on YouTube.
00:09:28.480 Just do it.
00:09:28.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:09:29.680 But a personal trainer back in Australia who was on the show, Michelle Bridges, got cancelled
00:09:33.820 because she would have a go at magazines, media, all pushing body positivity, and larger 0.98
00:09:41.600 women on magazines.
00:09:42.700 And I think the same thing happened with a US personal trainer on The Biggest Loser.
00:09:46.640 Yeah.
00:09:47.580 That's her field. 1.00
00:09:48.600 She's in fitness. 0.91
00:09:49.500 Should she even be getting cancelled for saying this is unhealthy?
00:09:54.480 No.
00:09:55.020 I don't think she should be cancelled, but I think it's about sensitivity again, right?
00:09:59.780 It's the fact that we want to sort of molly cuddle people into, we want to wrap them in
00:10:06.720 cotton wool and protect their feelings.
00:10:08.440 And if a personal trainer is on a bit more of the brutal side and their approach is a little
00:10:14.000 bit more bootcamp-esque, they are less palatable, less desirable to people who are essentially 1.00
00:10:19.320 not as serious about their goals or people who just don't take kindly to being shouted
00:10:24.340 abuse at.
00:10:25.040 So you're saying there's no watchers say as how?
00:10:27.320 She said execution.
00:10:28.240 I think there's a lot in that.
00:10:28.940 There is a lot in how you say it.
00:10:30.360 Yeah.
00:10:30.680 Yeah.
00:10:30.940 And how weight loss programs like approach things.
00:10:33.440 I like it when my trainer's a little mean to me, just a little bit.
00:10:37.740 Pearl, I've realized you like things in your own little ways.
00:10:41.080 Yeah.
00:10:41.480 No, but it's like playing a song.
00:10:42.680 You always have your own little ways.
00:10:44.280 You know, it's kind of like the teacher.
00:10:45.800 You like the one that's a bit strict, you know?
00:10:48.100 There are clients that will come to you and be like, I want you to be happy.
00:10:51.420 Look it, look it, look it.
00:10:53.460 No, no.
00:10:54.100 I just think, you know, otherwise I'll cancel the personal training.
00:10:59.480 You know, if they don't yell at me, I'll be like.
00:11:01.880 There are clients, if you're not hard on them, they will cancel you.
00:11:04.040 Yeah.
00:11:05.140 Especially if you cancel and they're like, oh, it's okay.
00:11:07.580 No, it's not okay.
00:11:08.620 Stop letting me do that.
00:11:09.840 Even if you charge me.
00:11:11.640 Yeah, I agree.
00:11:12.500 So Pearl, would you say generally in life, are you more dominant or like, would you say,
00:11:20.040 would you say you're more dominant or you're more on the opposite of dominance?
00:11:25.000 Well, submissive.
00:11:25.960 You know, it depends on the environment.
00:11:27.860 I played sports for a while.
00:11:29.720 So I would say in sports, I was more dominant.
00:11:31.700 Yeah, but as an athlete, you would rather a coach that is strict and hard on the team.
00:11:36.500 You want to play for the coach.
00:11:37.820 Yeah.
00:11:38.220 So when you bring up our workout routines, toxic, at the end of the day, it's up to the individual.
00:11:44.600 If you don't like the way they're executing it, you can leave, go to the next personal trainer.
00:11:47.640 Absolutely.
00:11:47.900 But, you know, you want someone that's going to keep you accountable at the end of the day.
00:11:52.660 Yeah, facts, facts.
00:11:53.980 It depends on the weight loss program.
00:11:55.520 Because as I said earlier, there are places like Slimming World, which are almost designed to keep you in them forever.
00:11:59.960 They want you to leave and then gain weight and come back.
00:12:02.320 And a lot of things are like that.
00:12:03.980 Well, what's a non-toxic weight loss program to you guys?
00:12:06.560 I would say having a personal trainer.
00:12:08.580 A certified nutritionist.
00:12:09.440 That's more healthy because you're going to keep that in the long term.
00:12:11.820 But these like fast accountability weight loss things, they're all supposed to help each other,
00:12:16.840 like Slimming World and Weight Watchers.
00:12:18.320 I think that they make a lot of money of the same people.
00:12:20.560 People, you need to spend money on a certified nutritionist.
00:12:23.900 My mom lost like 50 pounds on Weight Watchers. 1.00
00:12:27.120 Is that a bad one?
00:12:28.520 I think that's really bad.
00:12:29.300 Do you know what toxic health plads are?
00:12:31.660 Is muscle meals and health foods toxic then?
00:12:35.020 It's the same as Weight Watchers.
00:12:36.160 We have a thing in Australia called the man shake for men that are overweight.
00:12:40.280 The dad bods, they, instead of having a meal, they replace it with a shake.
00:12:43.980 People have lost hundreds of kilos on the man shake.
00:12:48.680 Is that bad?
00:12:49.780 Couldn't you argue that everything, like 80% of people gain the weight back?
00:12:54.460 So, like, I don't think there's any weight loss program that's not successful.
00:12:58.720 Which, my next question is, why do you think that is?
00:13:02.500 Because it shouldn't be a short-term, eight-week weight loss program.
00:13:06.820 It should just be a lifestyle change.
00:13:08.400 It should be a lifestyle, and that's what it is.
00:13:10.580 So, that was my question for the trainers.
00:13:12.140 Why do 80% of people gain the weight back?
00:13:15.520 Because they lose it on diets.
00:13:17.380 Yeah, it'd be probably dieting, fad dieting, intermittent fasting, 0.98
00:13:22.220 thinking this is going to solve the problem.
00:13:23.600 It's really just about consistency and doing it over a long period of time.
00:13:26.740 I think it is the shakes.
00:13:27.940 The body starts to adapt to the diet that you're consistently having.
00:13:32.800 As soon as you change adaptation, like, as soon as you break that, it changes.
00:13:39.120 But that's why diets don't work.
00:13:40.820 That's my point.
00:13:41.520 Now, what John said, it is literally, you need to change the mindset of wanting to...
00:13:47.420 Listen to me.
00:13:48.000 Wanting to actually be, like, aware of what you're eating, drinking.
00:13:52.040 Listen to me.
00:13:52.560 Diets don't work, and I'll tell you why.
00:13:53.920 Because it's almost like saying...
00:13:56.740 The human...
00:13:57.280 We are not designed to eat the...
00:13:58.620 Like, you can't say someone should eat the same thing for...
00:14:00.840 Because if you lose your weight on diets, then you're going to have to maintain it with that diet.
00:14:04.400 And you can't stay on that same diet for the rest of your life.
00:14:07.580 So, the idea is, if you lose the weight on this diet,
00:14:10.260 eventually you're going to go back to eating whatever you liked eating.
00:14:13.320 The reality is, if you build your body to the point where...
00:14:16.840 Because I don't eat healthy.
00:14:19.600 I hear what you're trying to say.
00:14:20.540 I don't eat all of that.
00:14:21.600 The reason why I'm able to stay and keep my body fit is because I've played sports all my life.
00:14:25.760 I've been in the gym almost all my life.
00:14:27.380 And even for, like, the past three, four years that I didn't step in the gym for a single hour,
00:14:32.940 all the work I've done prior to that is what is sustaining me.
00:14:36.460 So, fitter people have a higher metabolism.
00:14:38.540 Yes.
00:14:39.240 Metabolism is it.
00:14:40.320 The reason why people stay obese is because their metabolism slows down.
00:14:43.460 Slows down.
00:14:44.180 Exactly.
00:14:44.340 And the only way to kick start on metabolism is to move.
00:14:49.320 Exactly.
00:14:49.600 You need to move your body.
00:14:51.080 You can't do whatever diet you like.
00:14:52.800 It's never going to work.
00:14:53.920 It's not moving without consistency, you know.
00:14:56.020 Yeah, 100%.
00:14:56.560 That's exactly right.
00:14:57.020 It has to be consistent at the same time.
00:14:58.500 Yeah.
00:14:58.720 You can say diets don't work or whatever.
00:15:02.480 Metabolism is the reason why people stay fat.
00:15:04.580 But at the end of the day, it's personal accountability.
00:15:07.240 Yeah, it goes back to that stuff.
00:15:08.560 And keeping yourself in a calorie deficit for a long period of time.
00:15:11.580 It's very simple.
00:15:12.180 You know what I was thinking of?
00:15:13.340 But when you said the average, like, job, are you sacrificing your health?
00:15:17.020 You kind of are because you're sitting for eight hours a day.
00:15:20.400 Yeah.
00:15:20.860 Yeah.
00:15:21.100 What's that called?
00:15:22.780 Like the neck.
00:15:24.020 I mean, I kind of get it.
00:15:24.660 Yeah, as a posture.
00:15:25.540 But that's why they bring in the standing desks.
00:15:27.160 Yeah.
00:15:27.520 For a walkout.
00:15:28.420 There's ways to stay healthy.
00:15:29.880 You can.
00:15:30.440 No, there are.
00:15:31.340 But I'd say, like, the average person, in a way, in corporate America, you do.
00:15:34.880 Like, they don't really.
00:15:35.920 I worked in corporate America.
00:15:37.580 They didn't look healthy.
00:15:38.500 A lot of them.
00:15:39.360 Yeah.
00:15:39.940 Wall Street do a lot of cocaine as well. 0.93
00:15:41.740 Well, you know, that's a different problem.
00:15:45.500 With fit people, they do a lot of coke.
00:15:48.300 That's one thing for sure.
00:15:49.620 You know.
00:15:49.800 I've never seen a big person do this.
00:15:53.740 Hey, hey, hey.
00:15:54.320 Hey, hey.
00:15:54.480 And nobody here does coke.
00:15:56.060 And why is it?
00:15:57.120 Hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:15:58.060 He's coming for us.
00:15:58.840 Why is it that everyone always has the sniffles?
00:16:01.700 Why is it?
00:16:02.480 That could never come near me.
00:16:03.520 I agree, Cole.
00:16:04.860 That could never come near me.
00:16:06.220 The corporate nine to five has a standardry lifestyle, I think it's called, where you're just behind a desk.
00:16:10.380 Cook can never come near me.
00:16:11.200 And you're shocked, you're shocked.
00:16:12.340 But every job has its pros and cons.
00:16:16.120 And it's just like, you know, that's work.
00:16:18.160 I think with weight loss programs like Weight Watchers and Slimming World, they actually ultimately end up disempowering people because I can't remember which one it is.
00:16:27.920 And I don't know if they still do it, but they attribute what they call sins to like good foods and bad foods.
00:16:34.380 And they don't actually talk about calories.
00:16:36.000 So the person who's on the weight loss program becomes attached to this concept of sins.
00:16:41.320 But that's really unhelpful because you might say an orange has two sins, but chocolate bar has one.
00:16:47.400 And it doesn't actually help you evaluate the nutritional profile of either one.
00:16:51.380 And so where these programs become, I don't know if I'd say toxic, but unhelpful is where you're not actually giving people the numbers and you're not giving them the data.
00:17:00.320 If you have the knowledge, then you can make the choices.
00:17:03.840 It's knowledge and choices.
00:17:04.740 So we need to educate people?
00:17:07.680 Well, I think the question was sort of like, what was it, workout programs and stuff?
00:17:13.160 Like, are they helpful or toxic?
00:17:14.900 And I think that some of them can be unhelpful if it's something like Weight Watchers.
00:17:18.760 Why do we skip nutritionists to go to weight loss programs?
00:17:22.360 I can't answer that question because I haven't done that.
00:17:23.800 Guys, it's all a business.
00:17:26.160 Money, money, money.
00:17:27.820 They bring all the honeys.
00:17:29.400 It's all a business, guys.
00:17:30.720 It's all a business.
00:17:31.580 Why do we skip the right people?
00:17:33.060 Why do we skip the right people to go to the people that bullshit and everyone?
00:17:36.880 I wonder if it's, yeah, it's the BS, right?
00:17:39.080 You want things to be, you know, pun intended, but you want it to be, yeah, sugar-coated, right?
00:17:42.920 Because a nutritionist is like a long-term solution.
00:17:45.220 It's also cheap to go to Weight Watchers and Slimming World.
00:17:47.840 It's not that cheap to get a personal nutritionist in comparison to going to these weekly groups.
00:17:51.480 The nutritionist is a little bit more personalized.
00:17:56.140 Yeah, you get what you pay for, but it is more expensive.
00:17:59.380 Yeah.
00:17:59.600 It is more expensive, but I think it's a little bit more expensive.
00:18:01.500 I know, like, we were talking about smoking and drug addiction, and being obese is, like, a food addiction.
00:18:06.760 Is there AA for fat people?
00:18:09.680 What's AA?
00:18:10.140 You know what, my aunt joined something like that.
00:18:13.160 I know she did.
00:18:14.660 There's something.
00:18:15.400 It's not that popular.
00:18:16.620 It's not that common.
00:18:17.060 They go around the room, oh, I've been fat for this one.
00:18:19.000 Yeah, it's like an online community.
00:18:20.600 I just know my aunt actually said something to me.
00:18:23.780 She lost, like, a ton of weight through it.
00:18:26.320 Is it?
00:18:26.580 Wow.
00:18:27.180 Wow.
00:18:27.600 At least it's fat people keeping each other accountable. 0.92
00:18:30.160 Yeah, yeah.
00:18:30.880 It's, um, gosh, I wish I could remember the name.
00:18:34.980 There's something like that, though.
00:18:36.240 I don't know if they're in-person meetings, though.
00:18:38.080 I think it's, like, online.
00:18:39.000 Zoom.
00:18:40.340 Yeah.
00:18:40.840 I think people would get scared if they saw a group of 12 fat people, like, huddled together.
00:18:45.060 It'd be, like, a bit of a fat cult, I think.
00:18:46.420 I mean, I think they'd be like, oh, my God.
00:18:48.720 Well, Domination.
00:18:49.240 I mean, I think that's, like, the average American woman. 1.00
00:18:52.160 What is fat?
00:18:52.920 The fat.
00:18:53.800 I just can't.
00:18:54.340 No, maybe.
00:18:55.160 That would just be a normal day.
00:18:56.760 I was in South Beach last week, and, like, coming from Australia and going into Florida,
00:19:02.980 seeing the amount of people that are overweight is crazy.
00:19:05.880 Like, it is an epidemic over there.
00:19:08.540 The amount of obese people there are.
00:19:10.620 And it's just, like, just the average person looks overweight.
00:19:14.440 Just the average person looks overweight.
00:19:16.000 Oh, my gosh.
00:19:16.500 But when I see a group of big people together, it does genuinely scare me,
00:19:20.380 because I know how much I weigh.
00:19:21.940 I've broken a lot of beds, plastic.
00:19:25.040 I'm scared of plastic seats.
00:19:26.560 I'm scared of, like, little things like that.
00:19:29.000 And so when I see a group of big people, although I don't discriminate,
00:19:32.920 because I know how much I weigh in the things that I've broken,
00:19:35.160 when they come together, it is scary.
00:19:36.680 Also, I'll have another fear of big women in heels. 1.00
00:19:39.460 I'm scared.
00:19:40.060 I'm scared for them just in case it snaps, and it's not even that.
00:19:43.080 And I actually saw someone, and it happened to me on the bus,
00:19:47.240 and I felt the weight of the shoulder on my feet,
00:19:49.840 and I'm never going to forget it.
00:19:51.820 And now when I see big person, I'm always that kind of, like,
00:19:55.100 oh, I want to try and catch you just in case you fall.
00:19:58.620 Can I just be real?
00:19:59.360 Like, I have no idea if you're a character or, like, a real person.
00:20:03.320 I'm a real person.
00:20:04.660 They're real experiences.
00:20:06.380 I'm sharing real life experiences here.
00:20:09.480 This is not a joke.
00:20:10.940 Oh, my God.
00:20:12.260 I am a real person.
00:20:13.420 Would you be afraid if they came in in heels?
00:20:16.460 No, not like that.
00:20:17.500 You know, like, imagine wearing, like, a party or something,
00:20:20.660 and the dancing next to me.
00:20:22.520 No, but if I saw the stick was just like a pencil,
00:20:25.700 no, that is scary for me.
00:20:27.540 And this is not a discrimination.
00:20:29.840 This is, like, literally health and safety for myself
00:20:32.060 because I felt someone's shoulder on my foot,
00:20:34.500 and I remember.
00:20:36.840 Oh, my God.
00:20:37.960 You guys, am I making you guys laugh?
00:20:39.760 Sorry.
00:20:40.620 I didn't know plus-size heels were a thing. 0.90
00:20:42.820 No, it's not.
00:20:44.080 People just wear this.
00:20:45.160 She just said they're a thing.
00:20:46.880 Yeah, but if they were a pencil thing,
00:20:48.380 you know what I'm talking about.
00:20:49.480 Well, so a person who is rational
00:20:52.280 and actually cares about their safety,
00:20:54.380 I don't want to say health and safety,
00:20:55.440 but someone who cares about their safety,
00:20:56.640 like, you're not going to catch me in a stiletto
00:20:58.140 because I'd have the same beard.
00:20:59.340 That is going to snap.
00:21:00.200 Could snap your ankle.
00:21:00.820 I just wouldn't do it.
00:21:01.560 Yeah, but, like, you make the right choices,
00:21:04.320 and there are actually heels for bigger people 0.57
00:21:06.260 that are designed to hold your weight.
00:21:07.780 Everything for bigger people.
00:21:08.900 No, I'm not that big, though.
00:21:11.740 I've learned so much about the plus-size world.
00:21:14.580 I don't understand how you think.
00:21:15.780 It's the accommodations that have to be made, right?
00:21:17.240 Like breaking chance.
00:21:18.520 Plus-size heels are enabling.
00:21:19.940 I do.
00:21:21.780 I do.
00:21:23.320 Look at, look at, okay, okay.
00:21:24.960 Just imagine if you guys couldn't buy clothes anywhere,
00:21:28.280 I just think you might lose weight quicker.
00:21:30.360 Yeah, like if you couldn't, if you could.
00:21:32.160 I think I'd just be naked, wouldn't I,
00:21:33.520 if I couldn't buy clothes anywhere?
00:21:34.400 No.
00:21:35.600 No, no, no.
00:21:35.980 I'm saying, if I couldn't buy clothes anywhere,
00:21:41.460 the first thing I would be is naked.
00:21:43.360 Okay.
00:21:43.940 That's the first thing.
00:21:44.620 I think you'd make arrangements.
00:21:46.060 You'd get some cloths and then you'd start losing weight
00:21:48.540 to buy clothes elsewhere.
00:21:50.020 You'd make arrangements.
00:21:51.260 You would be with me 11 a.m.
00:21:53.520 It's like, I want someone to work out with me so bad.
00:21:56.280 I'm always by myself.
00:21:57.340 I'll tell you when I prepel.
00:21:58.800 I'll come.
00:21:59.340 You can train me out with you.
00:21:59.920 I'll work out at 11 a.m. tomorrow.
00:22:02.020 So I have a life, but I can come some days.
00:22:05.080 Okay, okay.
00:22:06.600 I've got Doms right now.
00:22:07.760 I was at the gym yesterday.
00:22:08.900 I haven't been in the gym for ages.
00:22:10.460 Well, you say nice.
00:22:11.160 It bloody hurts.
00:22:12.180 Like, it's supposed to be a reward, isn't it?
00:22:13.740 Like, when you've got Doms, it's like,
00:22:16.340 Yeah, they say that, but it bloody hurts.
00:22:18.540 And I think I just pushed myself too hard.
00:22:20.240 My, we were talking about what the tipping point is
00:22:23.240 for someone who is big.
00:22:24.480 Like, at what point do you change your life?
00:22:26.620 For me, I just realized that I wasn't as,
00:22:28.320 it was a mobility thing.
00:22:29.580 I wasn't as flexible as I used to be.
00:22:30.880 And I was like, wait, I could do that before with no issue.
00:22:33.640 And now like, I can still do it, but it's an effort.
00:22:36.800 So I went to the gym.
00:22:38.620 I threw my back out helping someone else,
00:22:40.540 like being some sort of emergency spot,
00:22:42.840 thinking that I could do something I couldn't.
00:22:44.320 Saved the guy, threw my back out.
00:22:46.800 But then I went to the gym yesterday and worked out.
00:22:50.740 It was great.
00:22:51.320 It was really fun.
00:22:52.680 But I think I just like,
00:22:54.200 I let it go for so long that I didn't lift weights.
00:22:56.980 And then I thought I did something really easy.
00:22:59.340 I was doing like 18 kilos on various weight machines.
00:23:02.640 And it was fine at first.
00:23:04.500 Like when I was in the gym, I was like, yeah,
00:23:06.160 this is the easiest light work.
00:23:07.180 Let me, you know, hike up to 24, 32.
00:23:09.620 But today I am in so much pain.
00:23:11.460 And that is another like unintended outcome
00:23:14.920 of just not going to the gym for ages.
00:23:17.020 A lot of people think, yeah, I'll just gain a bit of weight.
00:23:18.680 But actually it gets harder and it's there comes a point where it's I won't say
00:23:23.680 that, you know, you're too far gone because people have been 600 pounds
00:23:27.200 and and gone the other way, but it definitely becomes harder.
00:23:30.740 And I think a lot of people develop this mindset that they are too far gone
00:23:34.660 and then they just never do anything about it.
00:23:36.620 And I've seen loads of posts recently about famous people having heart attacks.
00:23:40.660 And like, I look in the comments because I'm like, well, this person's 400 pounds.
00:23:44.380 I feel like I know why they had a heart attack.
00:23:47.660 I look in the comments and people are like, you know, it's because they had this.
00:23:50.840 They had that.
00:23:51.420 And, you know, it's like, you're never, you're never, you're never too far gone.
00:23:55.260 There's always a person that's done it.
00:23:57.300 There's always a person that achieved it.
00:23:59.520 And it can all start at 11 a.m. tomorrow.
00:24:03.220 Let me let you in on a little secret as well.
00:24:05.300 You see that pain you felt, it does, it doesn't happen to only people that overweight.
00:24:10.180 I know, yeah, I'm very fit.
00:24:11.780 And when I went to the gym, the next day, I felt like I was going to die.
00:24:15.640 That is normal, even when I'm at my fittest, I still feel that pain.
00:24:22.860 The difference is fit people understand that that pain equals growth.
00:24:26.780 Some other people would look at it like, ah, okay, now this is painful.
00:24:30.700 I'm going to stop.
00:24:31.280 No, if you don't feel that pain, then you probably didn't even work out as much.
00:24:35.040 Yeah, exactly.
00:24:36.000 All right.
00:24:36.420 So basically, Pearl, you keep on talking about that 11 a.m.
00:24:42.680 So if you're watching earlier, I was like to put Pearl, you're really gorgeous.
00:24:48.400 You know, I'm telling you, you need to like wear like some fashionable clothes.
00:24:53.220 And then she told me to send her a DM with the clothes that I think she should wear. 0.92
00:24:58.060 So I think people should vote Pearl.
00:25:00.160 What do they want to watch you getting dressed in a new outfit and feeling on fly and looking cool?
00:25:05.620 Or do they want to watch me and you exercise?
00:25:08.160 I think you should ask your followers that because I'm Paul, put a pull in the chat.
00:25:11.800 If they pick the workout, will you come?
00:25:14.220 Well, if I have to do it, I'll do it.
00:25:17.000 But come on.
00:25:18.420 Who would want to watch Pearl being dressed up in good fashion, actually celebrating herself and getting her features.
00:25:28.420 And getting her features out because she just wears plain clothes. 1.00
00:25:32.100 And I feel like there's nothing wrong with it because that's her.
00:25:34.560 It's not about me trying to change her fashion.
00:25:37.160 It's just adding little cuteness and a pop of color because she comes across as this mean person or whatever, very opinionated.
00:25:46.220 But I see right through her and she needs some love.
00:25:49.860 I'm sure all of Pearl's followers want her to take fashion advice from Sugar Puff. 1.00
00:25:53.660 No, Pearl, I'm telling you, you're going to look.
00:25:56.700 Hey, hey, let's, let's, we'll do a pull.
00:25:59.160 We'll do a pull.
00:25:59.460 All right, you do the pull.
00:26:00.680 And if they do the workout one, are you coming?
00:26:03.180 Yes, I'll do the workout one.
00:26:04.620 I'll attempt it.
00:26:05.340 I won't, I won't shy away.
00:26:06.680 Well, I know.
00:26:07.160 We're not moving the golf place now.
00:26:08.000 But if they choose, if they choose the fashion one, are you going to go?
00:26:12.000 And I'm not buying them because you're buying them.
00:26:13.720 I'm just shopping them for you.
00:26:14.980 That's fine.
00:26:15.700 That's fine.
00:26:16.200 All right.
00:26:16.620 Okay, that's cool.
00:26:17.860 Wow.
00:26:18.160 A hundred percent says losing weight with Pearl.
00:26:23.420 Look, at the end of the day, I'm not scared of exercising.
00:26:27.380 I'm not against it.
00:26:28.620 I'm all for actually trying to be healthy.
00:26:30.980 And if Pearl wants to do it, why not?
00:26:33.040 I'll do it.
00:26:33.720 But you guys need to vote.
00:26:34.800 What do you want to watch?
00:26:35.620 Pearl getting a makeover or Sugar Puff exercising?
00:26:38.280 They did this.
00:26:38.780 They need to be here 11 years.
00:26:40.020 Well, they did it that quick.
00:26:41.480 Yeah.
00:26:41.800 I can't, no, I can't come tomorrow.
00:26:43.480 It has to be organized another day.
00:26:45.200 I'm not trying to get out of it by genuinely.
00:26:48.280 What about the next day, Saturdays?
00:26:50.900 No, they have to have a long vote, maybe on something else.
00:26:55.220 All right.
00:26:55.900 All right.
00:26:56.400 Well, this was a fun panel, guys.
00:26:59.960 We are going to close out the show.
00:27:02.580 Do we have to?
00:27:04.100 We could stay here all night.
00:27:05.640 But, you know, I do have to get up.
00:27:11.340 11 a.m.
00:27:12.520 Yeah, yeah.
00:27:13.100 That's right.
00:27:13.520 Yeah, yeah.
00:27:15.240 Which, you know, 70, oh, 20%.
00:27:17.420 It's going up your way, but it's still 77.
00:27:19.620 Yes.
00:27:20.200 Listen.
00:27:21.140 We are going to look, Pearl look fire.
00:27:23.340 She's going to be, she's going to look like a material girl. 1.00
00:27:25.400 And we are living in a material world.
00:27:28.140 Look at, I just don't know.
00:27:29.700 I just don't know.
00:27:30.780 I'm going to get you to pause.
00:27:32.200 I really could have time.
00:27:33.240 Your fashion, I just don't think it's me.
00:27:36.140 What you're wearing, the leopard.
00:27:38.560 Pearl, I see your personality.
00:27:40.800 It's not on.
00:27:41.460 It's just me seeing you and the way I see you and what the goodness that I see in you.
00:27:45.360 That's how I'm going to dress you, basically.
00:27:46.840 Okay.
00:27:47.220 Wow.
00:27:47.560 So, yeah.
00:27:48.720 I love the energy.
00:27:49.800 That's the aim.
00:27:51.760 Not to change you, to enhance just the things that you like.
00:27:55.180 That was profound.
00:27:56.780 No, you put some serious energy into that, yeah.
00:27:59.620 Well, here's the part in the show where we do final thoughts.
00:28:02.960 You can put your social media.
00:28:04.320 I really appreciate everyone coming out.
00:28:05.960 I feel like this was a very nice panel.
00:28:08.340 We're not heated, you know.
00:28:09.260 Thank you.
00:28:10.400 Aw.
00:28:11.200 Thank you, Pearl.
00:28:12.380 So, I'm starting here.
00:28:13.960 Final thoughts, go around, and then we'll do second row.
00:28:16.760 Final thoughts.
00:28:17.840 Ooh.
00:28:18.020 I'm not a body positivity warrior just because I am a fat person.
00:28:23.440 It doesn't mean I can be the spokesperson for all fat people.
00:28:27.060 I absolutely believe in being healthy.
00:28:29.960 I believe that there are ways and means to do it that don't endanger the health of the individual.
00:28:36.860 But all in all, I'm for being healthy, and that's something that I'm prioritizing myself.
00:28:43.700 I am for body positivity.
00:28:46.020 I believe people should be happy in their bodies.
00:28:50.640 I don't believe in unhealthy body positivity where you eat junk and you're going to have a heart attack and you're going to die.
00:28:57.240 No, I don't agree with that.
00:28:58.560 I don't believe in that message is Instagram tick rock is sugar puff official, s-u-g-a-p-u-f-f-official.
00:29:06.300 And today, the hundred pound egg dropped on pop.com.
00:29:10.520 It's by James Abadi, who's worked on Big Brother.
00:29:14.220 I'm a celebrity.
00:29:14.920 Get me out of here.
00:29:16.440 And I think you all will really enjoy a hundred pound egg.
00:29:19.780 Another thing.
00:29:20.740 Pearl, can I go on?
00:29:21.600 Can I finish what I need to say?
00:29:23.100 So, I'm working on my celebrity one-to-one chats.
00:29:27.420 I am so sick and tired of celebrities not actually promoting the good side.
00:29:32.940 Like, for example, a lot of them are big pop stars.
00:29:35.760 They use qualities and skills that are actually life skills that you need, but things like that aren't promoted.
00:29:41.960 I'm all about celebrating celebrities.
00:29:44.680 So, watch out for that.
00:29:46.220 If you think I should interview a certain celebrity, let me know.
00:29:50.260 If you want to watch my interviews, my first world-wide viral was with Ariana Grande when she came to the UK.
00:29:57.240 For the first time, I treated her like a star.
00:30:00.140 And, yeah, I'm working on my one-to-one interviews.
00:30:05.040 Pearl, did I put you to sleep with my long-long...
00:30:08.300 What's happening?
00:30:09.940 Why is your voice so quiet?
00:30:10.720 I was looking up the Ariana Grande thing.
00:30:12.720 I was like, did he really interview Ariana Grande?
00:30:15.520 I'll show you, I'll show you.
00:30:16.760 I've interviewed lots of Hollywood A-listers, movie stars.
00:30:19.460 Oh, very cool.
00:30:20.360 I didn't even know that.
00:30:21.000 I'll show you my showroom.
00:30:22.540 Go ahead.
00:30:23.180 I'm Pia Blossom, P-I-A, Blossom Like a Flower.
00:30:26.740 And I'm mostly a TikToker, but I also stream on Twitch.
00:30:30.580 Follow my Instagram to see my fat body in a bikini.
00:30:35.960 I'm pro body positivity.
00:30:37.740 I just think that you should love yourself
00:30:39.860 while still aiming to be the best version of yourself you can be.
00:30:42.840 And there's nothing wrong with that.
00:30:44.440 Yeah.
00:30:45.060 John Bernard.
00:30:46.280 Catch me on all socials, TikTok, Instagram, YouTube,
00:30:49.680 at John Bernard K, J-O-N Bernard K.
00:30:53.140 From Australia, just a content creator.
00:30:56.220 My final thoughts, being fat is unhealthy.
00:31:00.100 And we should stop it.
00:31:01.980 We should do everything we can to stop it.
00:31:04.400 Big fan of the show, Pearl.
00:31:05.720 Thank you for having me on.
00:31:06.980 It's a pleasure coming all the way from Australia to London.
00:31:10.460 So I appreciate you having me.
00:31:11.960 And I thought it was a good conversation.
00:31:13.700 Good dialogue.
00:31:14.720 Thank you.
00:31:15.360 It was really pleasant.
00:31:17.180 Yeah.
00:31:17.400 So Instagram name is Kadeem868.
00:31:21.180 That's K-H and not K-A.
00:31:23.280 And final thoughts.
00:31:24.620 I just think that, again, you live in your body before you live on land.
00:31:31.320 You can change.
00:31:33.440 And also there's always support.
00:31:35.220 There's always guidance.
00:31:37.060 If you need support, you need guidance, seek it.
00:31:39.600 If you're stressing about it, there's Google.
00:31:43.560 You can ask Google questions.
00:31:44.740 It's going to give you all the answers you need.
00:31:47.020 Just want to say big up to Region London Croydon.
00:31:49.720 We just opened up.
00:31:51.220 We're having our grand opening on the 3rd of July.
00:31:54.420 Make sure to come out.
00:31:55.660 Anyone from South London, big up.
00:31:57.780 Come down to our opening.
00:31:59.760 And yeah, that's it.
00:32:01.800 Yeah, you can find me on all socials, work.works.
00:32:05.120 I feel all together, you should need to prioritize everything.
00:32:11.440 You can't really be putting your mental health behind your physical health.
00:32:16.000 They both need to be balanced.
00:32:17.460 In all of this, you always need to find a balance in both.
00:32:20.360 But again, your physical health will affect your mental health.
00:32:24.580 So assuring you have the balance ready and having a happy, healthy life.
00:32:30.680 So we do have a couple super chats to end the show.
00:32:35.260 Adventurous Filmmaker says 11 a.m. tomorrow.
00:32:38.980 Mark Rose, I went on Pia's socials and she does look great in a bikini. 0.89
00:32:43.380 Life should be lived now, not later.
00:32:47.020 Adventurous Filmmaker, high protein, 10,000 steps, vitamin D, calorie deficit,
00:32:53.360 multiply goal weight by 12 to start with your calorie intake.
00:32:58.180 Adventurous Filmmaker again, enter Black Dragon.
00:33:01.280 I agree that the body comes before the mind.
00:33:03.380 When you are trying to lose belly, going to the gym won't work.
00:33:07.980 It's starting by changing your eating.
00:33:11.240 Puffy Vegas, cardiologist told me 20 years ago,
00:33:14.280 there's only two things you do, drink lots of water and 10,000 steps a day.
00:33:18.060 Everything else you don't like so much, diet, stress, etc.
00:33:23.720 Adam Sutton, this is my collection of nickels for each one of Stevia Puffs excuses.
00:33:30.440 KB Moss, in five minutes you get muscle pain.
00:33:34.240 You can tell a bra hasn't picked up a weight, for real.
00:33:37.400 Anon, Pia Blossom is the best thing to happen to this podcast.
00:33:40.940 She should be invited on more often.
00:33:43.260 Denalva, Denalva, Denalva.
00:33:45.660 Biggie has said it best, four in the back, two if you fat. 0.83
00:33:49.840 Puffy Vegas, OB is a terrible, please do some research.
00:33:53.300 Dragon Stallion, Pearl, can we drop the three on the couch 0.74
00:33:57.180 and the three trainers in a forest for three months
00:34:00.400 and see which group fares better?
00:34:03.000 As in, lazy POS, it hurts.
00:34:06.240 Dr. David Baker, according to the Journal of Environmental Medicine,
00:34:10.500 the reasons why poor people in Western countries are fatter
00:34:14.780 compared to third world countries are high unemployment,
00:34:17.120 lower education level, and lack of physical activity,
00:34:21.260 aka welfare cases.
00:34:24.660 Mr. B, down another term to add.
00:34:30.300 Oh, damn another, I read that one.
00:34:31.840 Let me refresh it really quick before we end the show
00:34:34.180 just to make sure I didn't miss any.
00:34:36.300 Also, guys, seriously, like the video on your way out.
00:34:39.580 A like is free, so I do not, all you people that just watch
00:34:43.200 and don't like, get it to 1,000 likes on your way out.
00:34:47.700 Like the video.
00:34:49.000 Also, leave a comment.
00:34:50.400 Let me know, do you think body positivity
00:34:52.300 is a good thing or a bad thing?
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00:35:08.060 Yeah!
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00:35:16.880 and welcome to The Pre-Game!
00:35:19.420 Yo, what's going on, people?
00:35:20.960 King Rich is back again with another podcast.
00:35:23.120 Good evening, and hi, and welcome to Auntie Jenny's Village,
00:35:26.100 Auntie Jenny's podcast.
00:35:27.460 It's your boy, the Fresh Prince of Zomone.
00:35:31.160 But I've been coffee-free for four months, okay?
00:35:34.100 I gotta say that.
00:35:35.480 How can everyone have someone out there for them
00:35:37.600 when there's more women than men? 1.00
00:35:38.840 Like, I'm not saying you have to be submissive
00:35:40.740 to every old waste man walking around. 0.52
00:35:42.780 I'm just saying that it would be femininity 0.98
00:35:44.700 would be in your nature.
00:35:45.920 Breaking it is to find somebody
00:35:47.140 that you're compatible with, that you like,
00:35:49.020 that's of your same generation,
00:35:50.920 and that likes the same things that you do.
00:35:53.040 Going out, having fun.
00:35:54.540 Then get out.
00:35:55.160 Okay, okay.
00:35:56.520 Then, then, then get out.
00:35:57.940 Then get out.
00:35:58.380 I'm so tired.
00:35:59.240 Aster, Aster, then get out.
00:36:00.600 I'm not here to get cancelled today.
00:36:02.420 Most men want a woman that has some degree of femininity, 0.90
00:36:05.160 where they feel like they're taking care of,
00:36:06.560 taking care of.
00:36:07.400 I'm lady night.
00:36:08.240 I'm submissive.
00:36:09.340 And you'd be surprised,
00:36:10.120 because I will say what I want to say now,
00:36:12.340 and I'll say what I want to say with my man,
00:36:14.020 but my demeanor doesn't change.
00:36:15.760 And I'm going to look down on him,
00:36:17.320 because at the end of the day,
00:36:18.280 whoever you're with is a reflection of you.
00:36:20.280 What has happened to society
00:36:21.700 that has made the normal man a waste man?
00:36:25.720 I would feel so bad asking a guy
00:36:27.380 to buy like a $3,000 bag.
00:36:30.040 Now he...
00:36:31.120 As many of you know,
00:36:43.660 I was just banned on TikTok,
00:36:46.160 and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:36:48.680 on this platform.
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