JustPearlyThings - What is the Red Pill

00:00:00.000 How many of you know what the red pill is? I know you said you're like into this type of content.

00:00:04.660 What about you guys? Not so much. Yeah, I kind of know what red pill is.

00:00:07.780 You kind of know. Guys, so guys know, girls. I'm still learning.

00:00:10.680 You're still learning.

00:00:11.780 Okay, you're getting used to the game.

00:00:13.540 So I think the fundamental of the red pill is showing like what the world really is.

00:00:21.840 And it's showing women's true nature. Now, who here knows what hypergamy is? 1.00

00:00:28.100 Yeah. You guys know? Okay. Not yet.

00:00:32.640 So hypergamy is the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background.

00:00:43.300 Women date across and up hierarchies. 1.00

00:00:46.920 Okay. All right.

00:00:47.940 So it's basically saying that if a girl is making $45,000 a year, she wants a guy that's making $70,000.

00:00:54.660 Like we want a guy that we can look up to.

00:00:58.100 All right.

00:00:59.120 So would you guys as girls, what do you think of that? Do you think that's true with what you see?

00:01:04.760 I think that's very true. I see it a lot or hear it a lot from girls like, my man's got to be making over six figures.

00:01:13.720 They have to do this. They have to do that. But a lot of them aren't even making that.

00:01:18.260 So, yeah, I hear that more than anything.

00:01:22.680 Yeah. I do definitely agree on that. There are so many people who have a huge list of requirements when they try to find partners, especially financial status.

00:01:33.680 Okay. And what about you guys? Have you guys ever found that women have rejected you for not making enough money or maybe not being, you guys are both pretty tall, but like another way is height that women reject men?

00:01:45.340 Yeah. Back when I wasn't huge. Yeah. Back when I was a normal sized human being, right? I wasn't admirable by females. I wasn't really looked at as a prize in any way.

00:01:58.400 But as soon as you have something that they like or you are something that they want to have, then yeah, you're going to get all the attention right then.

00:02:07.840 And I think the attention comes with what they perceive as well. Like if you're around, you know, whoever you're around, if they're around, the guys that you're around, they've got swag and they'll automatically think that, yeah, you've got swag in it.

00:02:22.460 Because birds of the same feather flock together kind of thing. So it depends on your circle. And if the girls are seeing that a lot of girls want you as well, they'll want a piece of that.

00:02:32.240 100%.

00:02:32.640 Yeah. I mean, so have I experienced a time where girls rejected me? I mean, girls reject guys all the time. So like, yeah, it's just about what they see, to be honest.

00:02:44.280 You know, so part of hypergamy is that women all want a very small percentage of men. So this is something that literally blew my mind when I first started, when I first started like watching this content.

00:03:00.640 If you ask 80% of women what they want in a man, they list 20% of men. So the reason that girls say things like men are trash, men are the problem is because we're all sleeping with the same ones. 1.00

00:03:11.600 For example, Sasha, how tall are you? 0.99

00:03:15.420 5'7".

00:03:16.300 How tall would you like your potential boyfriend to be?

00:03:21.520 Like ideally, like perfect world.

00:03:23.620 Oh, perfect world. Okay. He had to be over six foot.

00:03:27.100 Over six foot.

00:03:27.960 What percent of guys do you think are over six foot?

00:03:32.100 Maybe like 30, 40%.

00:03:36.020 No, 15.

00:03:37.360 15.

00:03:37.620 And so it's kind of the curse of as, as like, as I'm tall, I'm six foot. So I understand, I understand it. But, but it's kind of a curse in a way, because if you're six foot or tall, or you're looking for a guy that's six foot or taller, you're competing with everyone, because all the girls want him, even the short girls.

00:03:56.320 Some of the short girls win as well. 0.93

00:04:00.440 Unfortunately.

00:04:01.280 No, they do.

00:04:03.180 Yeah.

00:04:04.360 Look at him.

00:04:05.540 It doesn't make sense to me. I'm like, you're five, you're five foot. You can get somebody that's five, five, he's going to be five inches taller than you. You don't need nobody that's six foot. Leave it to the tall people.

00:04:14.340 And it's, it's interesting because after I learned this stat, I would start to like walk into a room. Right. And I would just look at it differently. And there's a whole group of men that like women just don't, we do not see. Like the guy behind the checkout counter at McDonald's. Like, and I would, I would start to take notes in a room if there was like 10 guys in it, like how many I was actually attracted to. And I was like, damn.

00:04:38.100 And the crazy thing is 20% is the high end. Like there are some studies that say it's 5%. There's some studies that say it's 10%. Like basically five to 20% of men are sleeping with all of the girls. 0.99

00:04:55.020 Wow.

00:04:55.580 Yikes.

00:04:56.340 Now, as a guy, does this surprise you?

00:04:58.920 No, it doesn't surprise me at all.

00:05:01.100 No way.

00:05:01.500 It's actually pretty funny when, when you actually think about it because, um, you see it in school all the time. When you're growing up, you see these kind of like social hierarchies happening in school. You'll see that, you know, it's either the athlete, the guy that, you know, is playing football or, you know, the rapper, the guy that everyone knows as a rapper in school, like all the girls like him or the football player, all the girls like him or the funny guy, you know, the comedian, you get me? All the girls like him.

00:05:29.520 But, um, it's like the boring guys at all, the more quiet guys are the, it's more the majority of boys in school anyway. When you see it, it's no majority. And the girls just won't go for them, them kind of guys.

00:05:43.580 I have this one friend, I'm not going to say his name. He's one of my closest friends from like uni time. And, uh, he looks like, I always tell my friends, he looks like a Hollister model. Like he looks exactly what you would envision a Hollister model to look like in the face, right?

00:05:57.960 Hollister.

00:05:58.360 Hollister. Yeah. Oh, like, uh, like the clothing brand. You know, you know, those guys used to stand outside the shop shirtless randomly? Yeah, yeah, yeah. He looks like one of those, right? So I've been with this guy all night, so, and he's drunk out of his mind, can't string two words together. He will lean, lean on a bar and a girl will come to him and it'll walk out together. And it's like, whoa.

00:06:19.360 Hollister. Are you saying that's not the experience of the average man?

00:06:23.240 No way in hell, Zach.

00:06:26.580 He got lucky and he did get lucky, but, you know.

00:06:30.340 Wait, do you think that's luck?

00:06:32.140 No, it was, it was a joke.

00:06:35.960 Stochastically.

00:06:36.360 But it's interesting because like, once you, once you see this, you can't unsee it.

00:06:41.900 And so once as a girl, I think as a girl, we're shielded from reality a lot. So I think men are a lot more aware of hierarchies than women. So why do you think we have movements like fatphobic and ageist?

00:06:57.140 Because everyone wants to be coddled, right? It's easy to say, don't be fatphobic. It's harder to actually put the work in to lose the weight, right? Because everyone, when people say, you should just go to the gym and lose weight. I think people on the other side of that phrase, what they hear is, it's easy. It's easy. No one said it was going to be easy. Just because I said go to the gym doesn't mean it's going to be easy. You're going to have to go to the gym pretty much every day for like a year.

00:07:24.920 It's for like a few months to even see any sort of changes. But it's the action of going to the gym that will help you.

00:07:31.400 Yeah. And there's a lot of people who just like, they'll push it down the road, push it down the road, push it down the road. And when you push it down the road that much, it builds. So by the time you decide to actually face it, it's too big for you to deal with.

00:07:44.620 Like, you know those 100 pound sisters? 1.00

00:07:49.260 The 600 pounds?

00:07:50.320 Yeah, one of them's lost a bunch of weight. One of them has put on an enormous amount of weight, right? Because she just kept pushing it down, pushing it down, pushing it down.

00:07:57.040 Wait, she got over 600 pounds? She got fatter? 1.00

00:08:00.460 One of the sisters got fatter. 0.99

00:08:02.140 How?

00:08:03.480 Oh, okay. Sorry. Keep going.

00:08:05.480 Just like, how do you get fatter than 600 pounds?

00:08:08.480 When you get a chance, go look at them now, right?

00:08:10.940 Okay.

00:08:12.020 They literally look like, what's that alien in Star Wars?

00:08:17.160 Oh, don't. Oh, not Boba Fett.

00:08:21.380 That's the one.

00:08:24.140 Like, genuinely. And it's like, because then you watch the show and it's like, she just kept pushing it, pushing it, pushing it to the point where now she doesn't even want to tackle it because it's too much of a big task.

00:08:34.120 Because now, instead of just going to the gym to lose 10 pounds, whatever, now you have to go to the gym to be able to walk first.

00:08:42.600 And then from there, you can then jog or speed walk and then jog and then run because you've been neglecting it for so long.

00:08:51.060 So, personally, I feel like that's basically what's going on. People just don't want to deal with their issues.

00:08:55.640 And they want to blame other people for not wanting to deal with their issues.

00:08:59.360 Do you think as women, we're honest to each other?

00:09:02.280 No.

00:09:02.920 I don't completely think so either.

00:09:05.400 Yeah.

00:09:06.600 Women aren't friends with each other. 1.00

00:09:07.880 What about you?

00:09:09.160 I would partially agree to it, yeah.

00:09:11.560 That we're not honest to each other?

00:09:13.540 Yeah.

00:09:13.940 Yeah, 100%.

00:09:14.600 I don't think women like each other, to be honest. 1.00

00:09:16.860 Yeah.

00:09:17.720 I would say that too.

00:09:19.320 I mean, not everyone, but yeah.

00:09:21.640 Jess, do you like me?

00:09:23.340 No, I'm playing.

00:09:24.080 Yes, of course I do.

00:09:27.040 I mean, like, obviously there's a handful that like each other.

00:09:29.540 Yeah, there's a handful that like each other, but in terms of like, in terms of like the competition, the competition market.

00:09:35.960 No, I, yeah, girls will fight over a guy. 1.00

00:09:38.180 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:39.320 Even if you're friends with them.

00:09:40.440 Sounds so bad.

00:09:42.620 Ask yourself this question.

00:09:44.320 Out of all the, for the females, out of all the people that you call friends, how many of them have you spoken about behind their back? 0.78

00:09:50.580 Oh, shoot.

00:09:54.080 I like to say talking about topics about them.

00:09:59.360 Yeah, but at least for the guys, if I say something behind one of my boys' back, it's something that I have or will say to his face.

00:10:06.760 But ask yourself as a, be honest.

00:10:08.980 Like, how many times have you talked about that person you call your friend?

00:10:11.980 Yeah, I know, but the thing is, girls are more emotional. 1.00

00:10:14.260 That's what I'm saying.

00:10:14.600 So, like, I feel like girls do it in a form of like venting and then they get it out and then they, we come back down to earth and we're like, okay, that's rational enough to like bring it up to her.

00:10:23.100 Where men, I think men are just more like rooted in logic.

00:10:26.740 Yeah, but then if you find out that your emotional friend said X, Y, and Z about you when she was quote unquote venting.

00:10:32.740 Yeah, I mean, but I don't know.

00:10:34.200 I feel like as girls, like you kind of know, like your friends are going to talk about you a little bit.

00:10:38.240 Yeah, I can't go away.

00:10:39.300 And I just don't get mad because I'm like, okay, if she's venting and then if it's a big enough problem, they'll bring it to you.

00:10:46.120 I don't know if you guys feel the same way, but no, I do.

00:10:49.980 Go ahead.

00:10:50.320 For me, when I do vent, the only person I vent to is my brother because I know that he's a guy and he's not going to go say anything.

00:11:00.100 But I analyze when females vent to me. 1.00

00:11:04.360 And I'm like, if you're going to say that about that person, you say that's your best friend, you say that's your road dog, whoop, whoop.

00:11:10.680 Then what are you saying about me?

00:11:12.640 And it adjusts how I am in like the relationship with them.

00:11:19.540 No, I think the same thing, like, especially if they're like, yeah, she told me not to tell anyone this, but I'm telling you, I'm like, that is the last time I share anything ever.

00:11:31.520 Well, for me, it's because when I was in sixth form, I became really good friends with this girl.

00:11:41.260 We became best friends.

00:11:42.360 We're still best friends to this day.

00:11:43.960 So having a female best friend, which is, I advocate for everyone to have a really close friend from the opposite sex because it benefits you in more ways than one.

00:11:52.420 So you think that 100% I got, I got, I got to, I got, yeah, I think men and women can be friends, but it's down to how mature you are as individuals.

00:12:01.080 Do you find, so if she, if she tried to sleep with you, would you say no?

00:12:03.900 Yeah, I mean, I'm in a relationship right now.

00:12:08.060 So obviously that's no, but like, yeah, so, so if you wasn't in a relationship, you'll sleep with her.

00:12:14.720 I think, I think personally, right, from, from having a, we've been so close for so long that I now see you as a sister.

00:12:21.880 That's regardless, bro.

00:12:22.860 If she tried it on you, would you give it to her?

00:12:25.220 Maybe when we first were friends, sure.

00:12:27.840 Now, no.

00:12:29.580 I think it's easier for you.

00:12:31.400 Okay, okay, okay.

00:12:32.420 You're, you're alone.

00:12:33.280 She walks in naked. 1.00

00:12:34.380 You're not, you're, you're, you're going to say no?

00:12:37.980 No.

00:12:38.260 You're going to.

00:12:39.220 Try it.

00:12:39.840 See?

00:12:40.100 Next time y'all hang out, try it.

00:12:41.460 I'm kidding.

00:12:42.380 I'm playing, I'm playing in a relationship.

00:12:43.980 I think it's going to be, because the thing is, like, like I said, it's down to the, the individuals themselves, right?

00:12:48.580 It's not, it's like, it's one of those things where like, I can't make a blanket statement of all males and could be friends with all females, because it's not true.

00:12:54.600 It depends on the female, it depends on the male. 1.00

00:12:56.900 Me and my friend have got to a point where we now see each other as just family members rather than friends.

00:13:02.620 So, I think for us, personally, just for our situation, which I know we hate doing, we're talking about niche situations in the grand scheme, but like, it really comes down to how you guys communicate with each other.

00:13:16.480 And like, yeah, because the thing is, she knows that I fancied that when we first started.

00:13:22.000 Do you know, I think, like, my opinion on your situation, it's, uh, you've got to a point with that girl where, you know, you don't want to ruin the friendship.

00:13:32.480 Yeah.

00:13:32.880 And, but I think if there was, she gave you some sort of hall pass where you don't ruin the friendship, but you can still hit, I think you'll take that, bro.

00:13:43.360 But isn't maturity knowing when to do things and when not to do things?

00:13:46.480 Is your girlfriend watching?

00:13:47.780 Yeah.

00:13:48.220 Okay.

00:13:49.280 Thank you.

00:13:49.880 I'm going to say my, but yeah, I really do generally think that it's, it's really a thing where like, it's, it's an individual bit because not everyone's coming in there.

00:14:13.620 No, I agree with that.

00:14:14.520 I think what I would say is, is there a possibility that in that dynamic of your friendship with that female, the roles changed and where it was once upon a time you liked her, the fact that you're still friends and you're now in a relationship, maybe she likes you.

00:14:29.440 And that's what's holding that friendship together.

00:14:33.440 No, no, no.

00:14:34.820 Next time, if you guys ever invite me on, I'll ask you to come.

00:14:37.880 You can ask me, you can ask me, like genuinely.

00:14:40.340 We'll see the dynamic.

00:14:41.460 Yeah, yeah.

00:14:42.300 We'll see how she looks at you. 0.92

00:14:43.500 We'll see how you look at her.

00:14:45.080 Oh, really?

00:14:45.720 Oh, really?

00:14:46.120 But I do get that.

00:14:48.720 I'm not the norm.

00:14:49.900 And I do think for the most part, a lot of guys are not mature enough to be friends with a lot of girls and a lot of girls the same way.

00:14:56.200 A lot of girls are just as 20 years guys, which is something that I found out in my late years.

00:15:00.360 And they don't tell you that when you, I don't think it's a thing of being mature.

00:15:03.980 I just think it's knowing exactly who you are and what you're about.

00:15:08.440 I think if you can be with, if you, like, as you said, you can be friends with her and whatnot.

00:15:12.380 If you feel like you can do that, do it.

00:15:15.020 Like me personally, like I've got, I can probably say I've got like one female friend that I'm not attracted to. 0.51

00:15:23.220 And it's like, yeah, cool.

00:15:24.360 We're cool.

00:15:24.900 Out of 10, what would you rate her?

00:15:27.440 Like the thing is she used to be a tomboy and like stuff like that. 1.00

00:15:31.220 So it kind of, yeah, it's like, it's kind of.

00:15:34.440 So what's the rating?

00:15:35.940 I'll give her like.

00:15:36.600 I'll give her, I'll give her a good six. 1.00

00:15:39.960 Jeez.

00:15:40.600 Yeah.

00:15:40.880 I'll give her a good six. 1.00

00:15:41.420 Have you beat a girl that's less than a six? 0.57

00:15:42.860 Have I beat a girl that's less than a six? 0.96

00:15:44.760 Uh, probably.

00:15:46.080 Okay.

00:15:46.840 So.

00:15:49.020 But that's what I'm saying that me, I'm not attracted to her, innit?

00:15:52.040 Do you get me?

00:15:52.340 I'm not attracted to her.

00:15:53.080 So I can be like, yeah, we're friends, innit?

00:15:54.980 Do you get me?

00:15:55.420 But if I was attracted to her, if I did think she's sexy and whatnot, like, then I wouldn't, 0.96

00:16:00.840 I wouldn't be, I wouldn't be friends with her like that.

00:16:03.380 Yeah.

00:16:04.820 Because I feel like I look at my friend as good looking the same way I look at my male

00:16:09.100 friend as good looking.

00:16:11.000 Paws, paws, paws, paws, paws.

00:16:12.080 Obviously, paws, one, two, it's obviously a little bit different. 0.96

00:16:17.420 Have you ever checked out her butt? 0.96

00:16:20.180 No comment. 0.98

00:16:20.560 We were kids when we met, I'm 26 now, we made a trip when we went 18.

00:16:27.380 So you haven't done that in the last year?

00:16:29.240 No.

00:16:30.280 Your girlfriend's watching?

00:16:32.140 Okay.

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JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023

What is the Red Pill

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