JustPearlyThings - What Modern Women Want： Today's Relationships with Traditional Privileges ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 Thank you.

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00:01:00.000 And welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:01:03.460 I am your host, Pearl.

00:01:05.240 And today we are going to be talking about Brett Cooper leaving the Daily Wire.

00:01:10.520 So as you guys know, I talk about the Daily Wire a lot on this show.

00:01:15.200 And last year, Candace Owens was let go from the Daily Wire because they had a difference 1.00

00:01:20.840 of opinion.

00:01:21.620 Now, Candace Owens said some things that were maybe more pro-Palestine.

00:01:26.520 The Daily Wire is more pro-Israel.

00:01:30.380 And so because they had a conflict of opinion, they ended up letting Candace Owens go.

00:01:34.640 Now, when Candace Owens left the Daily Wire, it was a huge spectacle. 1.00

00:01:38.480 I think there were lawsuits that came out of this.

00:01:41.440 It was a very dramatic exit, right?

00:01:46.260 At one point, there was going to be a debate between the two.

00:01:49.300 And I see this often with women in media, right? 0.97

00:01:53.780 They go into an organization and either they file sexual harassment claims or they kind

00:02:01.200 of take the whole organization down with them.

00:02:03.540 And what I really respected now that Brett Cooper has announced she is leaving the Daily

00:02:08.780 Wire is that she was very respectful in the way that she handled it.

00:02:13.720 I thought it was very classy.

00:02:15.280 As you guys know, I do think Brett Cooper is a little bit gynocentric. 0.97

00:02:19.140 But overall, her takes remind me of maybe some of my like she reminds me of me a couple

00:02:25.260 of years ago.

00:02:26.580 And I think she's got a good show.

00:02:29.880 Like, I think she's good at her job.

00:02:31.900 So I wanted to show you guys the farewell like video that she did.

00:02:39.080 Some of you have heard the rumors online and the rumors are mostly true. 0.70

00:02:43.280 Today, December 10th, will be my last day hosting the comment section and working for

00:02:46.920 the Daily Wire.

00:02:47.540 It is not true that I am being forced out.

00:02:49.600 It was my own choice to leave.

00:02:51.440 And believe me, this is bittersweet.

00:02:52.800 I have had the most unbelievable three years helping to craft the show, building this community

00:02:58.320 and telling stories and sharing the truth every day.

00:03:00.580 Through the comment section, you all have made me braver, more articulate, more thoughtful,

00:03:05.100 more hopeful than I could have ever imagined.

00:03:07.160 And I'm grateful that we spent this time together.

00:03:09.560 And I'm grateful that the Daily Wire gave us a platform to grow this community.

00:03:12.580 But at this point in my life, I am ready to take on a new direction, both personally

00:03:16.260 and professionally.

00:03:17.060 This means new challenges and new endeavors, which I will share with you soon.

00:03:20.820 As for this show, the comment section will continue with the Daily Wire.

00:03:24.120 My producer, Reagan, is taking over as host of the comment section, and I wish her and

00:03:27.900 the Daily Wire all the best.

00:03:29.000 We have had three great years, and I am proud of what we've accomplished together.

00:03:33.020 Leaving this show and the platforms that we've built is hard, but I am very excited for

00:03:37.060 what's to come.

00:03:38.140 Knowing that we have brought so many people together in laughter over these last three

00:03:41.580 years means the world to me.

00:03:42.580 I adore, I appreciate all of you.

00:03:44.680 So let's chat again soon.

00:03:46.080 But in the meantime, go touch some grass, kick some rocks, and we'll catch up shortly.

00:03:51.180 And now for some final thoughts from the God King himself, Jeremy Boring.

00:03:56.640 Bittersweet indeed.

00:03:58.000 We're sad to see Brett go, but we're excited to see her take the next step in her journey.

00:04:02.300 Brett's an amazing talent, both as a personality and as an actor.

00:04:05.060 One note I want to make is it doesn't seem like female talents are panning out for networks 1.00

00:04:13.240 because much like our voting blocks, men seem to be more consistent and stay where the women 0.98

00:04:20.940 have a tendency to leave.

00:04:23.140 I noticed Amala left, Brett Cooper's now leaving, Candace Owen's left.

00:04:27.200 Not a dig, right?

00:04:28.040 It's not right or wrong, but it's interesting to see this trend sort of happen in media.

00:04:33.780 Yeah, first.

00:04:35.060 It's been a pleasure to see her bring the comment section to life these last three years.

00:04:38.900 And her performance in the Pendragon cycle is sensational.

00:04:42.640 I'm certain that whatever Brett creates next will be filled with the same joy and laughter

00:04:46.520 and heart that she's brought to all of her work at the Daily Wire.

00:04:49.560 And we wish her nothing but the best.

00:04:52.000 So my friends, while I have you here, I thought we could run it back one last time with the

00:04:57.020 comment section.

00:04:57.720 So it's interesting because there's a lot of speculation online.

00:05:00.900 So online, they're saying maybe she was forced out because she had a difference of opinion

00:05:06.180 with Jeremy.

00:05:07.780 Other people are saying that it was like, you know, that's what they're saying on paper.

00:05:13.180 It was peaceful.

00:05:13.920 But, you know, being in media as former employers, just because you have a difference in opinion

00:05:21.460 on a topic.

00:05:22.120 Like, I didn't really like the way Candace Owens did it. 1.00

00:05:24.680 I just thought that it was very, like, trash.

00:05:28.260 You know, it's kind of trashy to go out, get into a lawsuit, shout Christ is king as a way

00:05:36.120 to attack them.

00:05:37.280 I mean, we all kind of knew what she was doing there, right?

00:05:40.520 So I do respect Brett a lot for this decision.

00:05:44.460 I like the way that she went about it.

00:05:45.980 I think it's very classy.

00:05:47.320 It'll be interesting to see what she does on her own. 0.98

00:05:50.540 One theory I have is maybe she she just got married. 0.95

00:05:53.720 So maybe she's walking the walk, which we don't really see much in media, right?

00:05:59.200 Maybe she's actually going to be a mom and quit the media stuff. 1.00

00:06:02.460 I don't know.

00:06:03.340 So we'll see.

00:06:04.520 I'm excited to see what's happening.

00:06:07.740 Now, the next story that we're going to cover is the simp epidemic that is going on. 0.55

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00:08:18.200 Okay, so the next story that we're going to cover

00:08:23.160 is a woman I saw on TikTok that was a literal prostitute at 68 years old. 0.99

00:08:36.000 So as you guys know, we are going to see a crazy surge in selling sex.

00:08:42.280 Relationships are going to become incredibly transactional in the next decade.

00:08:48.800 And I saw a TikTok of a woman who was literally selling sex at 68 years old. 0.99

00:08:56.300 Let me pull it up.

00:08:57.080 I'm 68 now.

00:09:02.940 Your life ain't over, girl.

00:09:04.560 Your life ain't over.

00:09:05.820 How long you want me to do it?

00:09:08.580 Good God, 68.

00:09:10.140 There's nobody.

00:09:10.860 They're already teasing me.

00:09:12.000 I'm the oldest in Tucson.

00:09:14.100 Oh, we're?

00:09:14.480 They're already teasing me.

00:09:16.240 Okay.

00:09:17.040 That's old.

00:09:19.060 So how long are you going to do this?

00:09:21.420 Just until you can't walk anymore?

00:09:23.700 Just like as long as you need to?

00:09:26.100 I'll have to slow down in the future, but, you know, I can't just keep doing it.

00:09:31.180 Yeah, so Queenie, right? 0.88

00:09:32.680 I came from Florida.

00:09:35.020 And how long you been out here?

00:09:38.300 All summer.

00:09:39.440 Okay.

00:09:40.640 And I came to look for an Indian husband.

00:09:45.780 And I get a little $800 check every month.

00:09:49.540 Social Security.

00:09:50.820 But that's all it was given me was $800.

00:09:52.920 So I still have to come out and try to work a little bit.

00:09:56.840 $800 a month and $90 in food stamps is not much to live off of.

00:10:02.460 So I come out and I pick up a few dates.

00:10:05.800 Now, the most interesting man that I met was a middle-aged white man.

00:10:10.780 He was about 60.

00:10:11.840 And we went to his house and he paid me $100 and we watched Dizzy Borton on television.

00:10:19.420 And I gave him a nice job.

00:10:21.740 That was one of the exciting adventures.

00:10:24.340 There you go.

00:10:25.560 And then...

00:10:26.640 Did you say Dizzy Borton?

00:10:28.540 Huh?

00:10:28.880 Did you say Dizzy Borton?

00:10:30.200 No, Dizzy Borton.

00:10:32.300 Dizzy Borton.

00:10:33.280 Oh, Dizzy Borton.

00:10:34.200 Okay.

00:10:34.780 I don't know what that is.

00:10:36.100 Is that like an actress? 1.00

00:10:37.140 Well, she was... 0.78

00:10:38.280 Dizzy Borton, she lived around the 1890s.

00:10:41.640 Okay.

00:10:42.220 But I was...

00:10:43.000 I was 21 years old and there was no money in Atlanta, Georgia.

00:10:48.680 Well, I had a hard time getting jobs.

00:10:52.340 Because all I had was an 8th grade education.

00:10:56.320 So that's why I started...

00:10:59.580 You like it?

00:11:01.520 Like you actually like it?

00:11:02.600 Well...

00:11:03.160 Or you like the money?

00:11:07.580 I like the money.

00:11:09.080 Okay.

00:11:10.580 Well, in those days, I wore $100 dresses every day.

00:11:15.280 And that was like $200 a day.

00:11:17.300 Yeah.

00:11:17.560 And I lived in motels.

00:11:22.420 And it was...

00:11:23.980 It was really...

00:11:25.880 It wasn't really grand, but it was okay.

00:11:31.760 I survived.

00:11:33.240 I didn't ask my relatives for nothing.

00:11:35.140 Me and my relatives, we did not get along.

00:11:37.080 We did not like each other.

00:11:38.440 Okay.

00:11:39.220 I was a p***er, too.

00:11:40.680 They didn't like that?

00:11:41.580 No.

00:11:42.740 And they did not like it.

00:11:44.100 So, I just...

00:11:47.660 So, how's things been in Tucson?

00:11:50.860 It's been okay.

00:11:52.720 Did you work all night?

00:11:53.880 Or you just come out in the morning?

00:11:54.980 Just come out.

00:11:55.940 Yeah.

00:11:56.500 Yeah, it's crazy overnight.

00:11:57.720 So, be careful.

00:11:58.480 Yeah.

00:11:58.800 You dress really nice, by the way.

00:12:00.460 Oh, thank you.

00:12:00.720 Thank you.

00:12:01.160 Thank you.

00:12:01.320 Absolutely.

00:12:02.360 So, what's been the scariest experience you've had since you've been out here?

00:12:06.820 Well, I would say a quarter of the cars I get into are scary, because you don't never know

00:12:14.440 what's going to happen the next...

00:12:16.720 And some of them act like they...

00:12:19.700 Some of them...

00:12:20.920 Well, some of them, if you don't give them what they want for $10 or $5, they'll leave you there.

00:12:28.380 Leave you where they picked you up at.

00:12:30.440 Yeah.

00:12:30.620 I mean, leave you on a back road someplace.

00:12:33.560 Yeah, stranded.

00:12:34.580 And I don't like to do $5 and $10 dates.

00:12:39.820 Okay.

00:12:40.460 I feel like it's degrading.

00:12:42.600 You know, some of these girls do things for appeal. 1.00

00:12:45.760 The blues, yeah.

00:12:46.900 I don't do things for appeal.

00:12:48.320 I don't do that.

00:12:49.220 I think it's degrading.

00:12:51.240 So, when you get paid, does that go to, like, hotels and food and just regular stuff?

00:12:56.860 That's right.

00:12:57.680 Yeah.

00:12:58.000 Yeah.

00:12:58.640 That's good.

00:12:59.460 That's good.

00:12:59.800 Now, in Florida...

00:13:02.800 What's been the best experience since you've been doing this life?

00:13:06.920 The best one?

00:13:07.700 Yeah.

00:13:07.940 The best experience?

00:13:09.680 Well, that night when that man took me to his house and gave me $100 and we watched

00:13:13.140 Lizzie Borden, that was a nice experience.

00:13:15.240 Yeah.

00:13:15.680 And then after that, he just dropped you off?

00:13:17.880 That's right.

00:13:18.500 Yeah.

00:13:18.920 I got you.

00:13:19.960 So, do you have to make, like, a certain amount a day?

00:13:22.780 Well, I try to at least make $100.

00:13:26.300 Yeah.

00:13:27.340 Yeah.

00:13:27.700 Yeah.

00:13:27.740 Yeah.

00:13:28.980 Have you ever had to defend yourself out here?

00:13:33.740 No.

00:13:34.460 Thank God.

00:13:35.080 Because this seems like a scary job.

00:13:36.300 Scary job.

00:13:36.880 What I liked about this video, it's obviously gross, right?

00:13:41.600 Prostitution, ew. 0.99

00:13:42.560 But what I liked about this video is it's very raw, real, and it's not performative.

00:13:48.520 You can always tell after, like, say, after Nala converted.

00:13:52.980 You know, she's going on these podcasts.

00:13:54.840 She's making it this whole spectacle, making it this whole show.

00:13:57.840 And that's what I see when a lot of the OF models or prostitutes come out and just start crying later. 1.00

00:14:05.360 You know, to a lot of them, it's either a job or they get off on it.

00:14:10.380 It's they either do it for attention, they maybe they like having sex with a lot of guys, or it is just easier than working.

00:14:19.280 And, you know, I think the more psychology that we put into this and project onto them, the worse off people are going to be.

00:14:28.960 Because in my opinion, you have to let people suffer the consequences of their choices and deal with them.

00:14:36.340 It's not helpful to people to not let them accept the consequences for the choices that they made.

00:14:45.980 Okay, so the next story that we're going to cover is yesterday I covered the story of a man that committed suicide in India.

00:14:53.820 And this was a man who left a hour and a half long video and a 20 plus page suicide note detailing some of the abuse he received from the court system in India.

00:15:07.440 Now, I had a lot of questions that I had unanswered because on paper, India looks a lot better than the United States and many other countries in terms of the court system.

00:15:17.800 The reason being is that if you look at the divorce rate, it seems like it's a lot lower than other parts of the world.

00:15:24.940 So I really wanted to bring on somebody that was from India and that could tell me a little bit more about some of the things that are going on in India.

00:15:34.580 Is she on? Yeah. Oh, she's not yet? Okay.

00:15:38.160 Oh, dang, she's not. Okay. Okay, well, you know, she's going to be on in a second.

00:15:43.160 Let me message her to come on. Come on now. 0.86

00:15:47.800 All right. Let me check the chat and then we can go back to her.

00:15:53.020 Otherwise, we may move on to the next story.

00:15:55.500 Okay. Charles says Nala's future and where the OF women are headed for hells and bells with their newfound feminist freedoms, 1.00

00:16:04.160 but for the simpidemic and the simps who will buy into their BS. 0.97

00:16:09.340 That one, that was more than sad, Rob said. None of it's real. It's all a high.

00:16:17.800 Yeah. The way I view this stuff. And by the way, guys, if you have a comment, I do read it.

00:16:22.660 Um, it's $10 a month, 80 bucks for the year. And then all your comments I read in the chat on here.

00:16:28.300 It's like YouTube, same chat, but you just put it on the website.

00:16:31.060 So, you know, um, normally you have to do a super chat in order to get it read.

00:16:36.260 But here, all you have to do is pay the monthly fee and then boom, your comments will read all month.

00:16:44.360 So, you know, also we have merch and I wanted to get you guys' feedback on the merch.

00:16:50.000 Um, it's just pearly merch if you guys want to check it out.

00:16:54.840 Hello. How are you?

00:16:58.940 Hi, Paul. I'm good. I'm sorry. I have a really bad throat, but I hope you'll be able to hear me.

00:17:03.920 No, you're fine. Welcome to the show.

00:17:06.620 Thank you so much for getting me here.

00:17:08.540 Um, I'm sorry. Could you introduce yourself and maybe like your role in, um, what you do in India?

00:17:14.280 Okay. Uh, hi everyone. My name is Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj. I'm a documentary filmmaker predominantly,

00:17:22.080 but for the last 12 years, I've been focusing my work, uh, on men's issues in India. Uh, I've produced,

00:17:29.180 uh, and directed two documentary films on misuse of, um, women-centric laws in the country. Uh, 0.64

00:17:36.420 one was on misuse of dowry laws and another one, which was called Martyrs of Marriage. It was on Netflix,

00:17:42.460 uh, from 2018 to 2020. And, uh, there's another documentary that I've done, which is called

00:17:49.100 India's Sons, which is on victims of false rape cases who were eventually proven innocent.

00:17:56.360 So I bring these stories out, uh, where men are the victims at the hands of women daily suicides,

00:18:03.920 false accusations, domestic violence, spousal murders, adultery, everything.

00:18:11.260 Okay. So it's interesting because for a period of time, I used to think that these things didn't

00:18:17.840 really happen in India because on paper, if we Google your divorce rates, they seem much lower

00:18:23.820 than the West. Um, so could you tell me maybe a little bit more of how long these issues have

00:18:30.000 been going on and maybe some of like the legal framework that caused them in India?

00:18:34.880 Uh, so, um, as far as I can, um, remember, um, almost in late 1990s, the kind of, there was kind

00:18:47.080 of a, uh, very vocal voice that started coming out that men are being, becoming victims of false

00:18:53.500 accusations in India. Uh, this very problematic law, which is called the anti-dowry law, which

00:18:59.800 is also, uh, something that is discussed in the suicide, uh, of this gentleman called Atul

00:19:05.340 Subhash, which you've spoken about. Uh, it's called IPC 498A. It was brought in 1983. So

00:19:12.340 essentially to protect women from domestic violence and cruelty at the hands of their husbands,

00:19:17.220 uh, particularly in context of demand of dowry, which is kind of a phenomena which only happens

00:19:24.380 in India, um, where a bride and her family has to pay, uh, as per the demands of the husband

00:19:30.980 and it's called dowry. And there were a lot of cases where women are, where women were killed,

00:19:36.380 women were beaten up, uh, for these demands. And that's why there was a, um, need for a provision 1.00

00:19:42.640 to actually control this. And so in 1983, this law came about, but within few years, any dispute,

00:19:50.440 any marital dispute sort of started, um, um, turning into the allegations of dowry and the 498A

00:19:58.580 being filed on the husband. And what's peculiar about this law, Pearl, is that while predominantly

00:20:05.720 a lot of this, these cases are now matrimonial disputes where, whether it's, it's incompatibility

00:20:12.000 or it's extramarital affair, or it's just financial differences or, uh, career differences, uh, invariably,

00:20:20.280 the woman out of spite would file this case on the husband, but it's not just the husband.

00:20:26.000 The law allows you to implicate not just the husband, but any of his family members or relatives.

00:20:34.920 So what started happening was it was not just the husband, his father, no matter how, how old they

00:20:41.840 are, mother, father, brothers, sisters, husband of sisters, wives of brothers.

00:20:50.280 So there have been cases where there have been, uh, approximately 12 to 13 family members

00:20:56.440 implicated in one criminal case. And this is a criminal provision. Uh, this is not a civil

00:21:02.400 provision. This is a criminal provision. Um, the husband and, uh, several family members

00:21:08.000 get, uh, used to be arrested immediately and thrown behind bars on a mere complaint by the wife,

00:21:17.520 uh, that sort of changed in 2014 after almost 30 years of the law being in place, because there was

00:21:24.800 just so ridiculous, horrid misuse of the law recognized by the apex courts in the country.

00:21:31.160 So after that, the arrests have sort of now got controlled. They are not as much, but the numbers

00:21:38.840 that we are talking about is 120,000 cases of this provision, 498, they get filed in India every

00:21:46.660 year, out of which minuscule number are found to be true. Rest are either settled with money

00:21:55.860 or found to be blatantly false. So yes, the divorce rate in India in comparison to the West is

00:22:03.720 much, much lesser pearl. But, uh, as much as I know, uh, there are no very concrete statistics

00:22:11.760 or data collection that happens in India. Um, a lot of these statistics that we see are from some

00:22:19.060 agencies that are, um, calculating the divorce rates, which are not really Indian. So I'm not 0.97

00:22:25.200 really sure if it is that low as it is projected to be because we are seeing divorces, thousands and

00:22:32.320 thousands of cases coming into the courts every single day. Yeah. Cause what happened was I used

00:22:38.300 to have a panel show and there was someone that would argue that India didn't have these problems 1.00

00:22:43.580 because you guys have arranged marriage there. Um, but I kept getting messages from men, like from

00:22:49.460 India saying that like the stats weren't like talking about something or that they're like,

00:22:55.220 I heard about the dowry laws, so I didn't really understand it. So you're saying essentially at one

00:23:00.880 point, the wives family gave money to, um, the husband and his family or just the husband,

00:23:07.840 the husband and his family, because in India it's a, it's, it's by default that the wife has to move 1.00

00:23:15.740 into the husband's house and a, in a lot of households right now also have a joint family

00:23:21.700 system. So it is the son that takes care of his parents. So his wife moves in with him and some

00:23:28.780 families, uh, in fact, most of the families, I would say, um, till date are in joint family system

00:23:35.020 where at least the parents are staying with the son and, um, their daughter-in-laws. Uh, but there

00:23:40.440 are of course, a lot of houses where it's just the husband that the wife stays with and there are

00:23:45.440 nuclear family, but it's, it's kind of an, so it, this is, this concept is a little tough to understand

00:23:53.640 but what happens in India is, um, because the son is essentially taking care of his elderly parents

00:24:04.060 and they're going to be staying with him. The daughter of the family, when she gets married,

00:24:09.520 uh, a lot of parents want to give away part of their wealth to her at the time of her marriage 1.00

00:24:14.500 because she's setting up a new home. So it initially started as gifts and essential items to be given to

00:24:22.020 their daughter, which was her share of the wealth of the property, but it deteriorated where the groom's

00:24:28.260 family started making these obnoxious demands. It continues till date. It is a very prevalent

00:24:34.080 practice. There are cars that are given in form of dowry. Some people give house as well. Some

00:24:41.920 people give cash. Some people give household items. So it happens, uh, today as well. But I would like to

00:24:49.400 believe that in most cases it's a mutual exchange. Yeah. So, um, and not really imposed upon, but yes,

00:24:56.220 in some, in, in a lot of cases it is imposed upon as well. Okay. And so they essentially made that

00:25:01.120 illegal is what you're saying is what I think I understood. They made that illegal. And then the

00:25:06.280 woman decided, and because the families were involved, then the woman was able. So if she doesn't 1.00

00:25:12.900 like her mother-in-law, she can put her through hell. If she doesn't like the sister, I mean, how often do

00:25:18.460 the in-laws get along? Right. That's like impossible. Maybe in India, you guys don't have that problem. I 0.91

00:25:23.960 don't know, but we have that problem everywhere. They don't get along. Yeah. So essentially if

00:25:30.900 she's feeling spited, this law makes it able for her to go and just make their life a living hell 1.00

00:25:38.100 too. But you said it stopped in 2014 or it's not as prevalent. Uh, no. So, uh, 2014 is when, uh,

00:25:47.860 an amendment came in the law where the arrests, uh, that, you know, the entire family or the husband

00:25:54.320 being put behind bars, that sort of got a prohibition from the Supreme Court of India because

00:26:00.020 the law was getting misused so much. The law has been there since 1983. It continues to exist. The

00:26:06.800 law is still there. Dowry or this exchange basically that we are talking about has been made illegal.

00:26:13.300 Uh, so anybody asking for this money or anybody giving this money is technically illegal, but it

00:26:20.560 continues. So I've, I've read online that a man in India can be prosecuted if he has sex with a woman

00:26:28.280 and he does not marry her. Is that true? Yes. So how did it like, what law prohibits that? Like why,

00:26:36.560 what is that under the dowry law or is that something else? No, that's absolutely a different

00:26:43.460 law, uh, Pearl. And, um, what I'm going to tell you is going to completely, completely shock you.

00:26:49.960 Uh, there have been cases where the woman has been in a consensual live-in relationship

00:26:54.580 or a sexual relationship with a man for five years, seven years, 10 years, and then they broke up

00:27:01.500 for some reason. And because the man did not marry her, she pressed, uh, rape charges on him saying

00:27:08.360 that her consent for sex was obtained by promising her marriage, which did not happen. And there are

00:27:16.260 thousands of such cases that are happening in India today. And for the last couple of years,

00:27:20.520 these cases have gone up, uh, tremendously. The, and obviously this is, I would call it an absolute

00:27:27.360 misuse, uh, of what rape actually is. Um, but we are talking about anything from, uh, from 10,000

00:27:35.820 cases, uh, to maybe 12,000 to 15,000 cases being filed every year of this kind, where no matter how

00:27:44.640 long the relationship was, no matter whether the man actually made any promise or not, the woman just

00:27:50.920 has to write in her criminal complaint that he could obtain my consent by giving me a

00:27:57.180 promise of marriage. And now he's not marrying me. So he be sued for rape. Um, until now, this was

00:28:04.080 rape. Now they have brought in, uh, absolutely new provision, which is called section 69 of the

00:28:11.780 Bharti Anyaya Sahita. Um, and it says, if a man has sex with a woman by promising to marry her and not,

00:28:21.980 they have not restricted it to just marriage. They say, if he promised to give her a job or if he

00:28:29.280 promised to give her a promotion and that doesn't happen, it will not be called rape, but the man will

00:28:36.540 be prosecuted, um, and put behind bars and can be imprisoned men, imprisoned for maximum of 10 years

00:28:45.260 in jail. Wow. So can you tell me a little bit more about the man who committed suicide? So, um, I,

00:28:53.740 I could only understand the parts that they translated. I didn't really get to watch the

00:28:58.280 whole video, but could you maybe tell me more about that case? Yeah. So Atul Subhash, uh, is a 34 year

00:29:06.700 old man who, um, hanged himself to death on 9th of December. Uh, he left a 90 minute suicide video

00:29:15.920 along with 24 pages of suicide note in various packs where, uh, one, he, uh, kept it for people

00:29:25.720 to read, one, he sent it to the president of India, one, he sent it to the prime minister of India.

00:29:30.960 Uh, so he got married in 2019. Uh, according to him, his wife was not really interested in this

00:29:39.180 marriage, but because her father was very, very ill and, uh, he wanted to really see his daughter

00:29:45.380 getting married. So they hushed up the wedding and then they got married and, uh, she expressed her

00:29:51.640 displeasure with the marriage pretty much early in the marriage. Uh, but he, you know, sort of tried

00:29:57.760 to make it work, tried to make her understand that this is what our life is now, but she wasn't quite

00:30:03.480 happy. Um, then, uh, soon after COVID hit and a lot of complications started happening because

00:30:11.280 of COVID, she had conceived also at that time. Uh, then her mother, uh, Atul's mother started,

00:30:18.600 uh, living with them. That led to a little bit more conflicts. Uh, but the breaking point in their

00:30:24.620 marriage came when Atul's wife started asking for, uh, five, uh, 50 lakhs is what? Five million,

00:30:33.080 five million, uh, for settling her brother down in his career. Five million, five million. What's

00:30:41.380 the currency? I'm just going to translate it. So the odd five million, what is it? It is. It is 50

00:30:48.100 lakh rupees, 15 lakh rupees. Okay. 50 lakh rupees in dollars. Okay. So that's like 17,000 us dollars

00:30:57.560 guys. Sorry. Keep going. Yeah. Yeah. So, uh, he said that I'm not going to give that kind of money.

00:31:03.700 He did give them, um, uh, quite a lot, but then he eventually put his foot down that I'm not going

00:31:09.240 to spend my money on, um, establishing career of your brother who hasn't anyways been serious about

00:31:16.300 whatever he's doing in his life. And that became a point of contention. Uh, she and her mother and

00:31:22.880 her brother sort of conspired against him, started ill treating him. Uh, she eventually left him. Uh,

00:31:29.680 by then their child has, uh, been born. So within few months, uh, she left him and then she filed

00:31:36.500 this case that I was talking to you about for 98 day and unnatural sex charges, uh, hurt charges,

00:31:44.880 domestic violence. Uh, she had filed nine different cases on him in the last three years and not just

00:31:53.940 him. He, along with his elderly parents, his brother was also made an accused and the woman went to the

00:32:01.220 extent of implicating them in a murder case. Uh, this is where the things get dark in India. 0.99

00:32:09.460 She claimed that her father died because, um, he was, um, he became a victim of demand of money by her

00:32:17.780 husband and died out of shock. Whereas her father already had heart ailment. He was suffering. He had

00:32:26.740 natural, um, uh, disease and he passed away. So after two years after his, her father's death,

00:32:34.700 she claimed that her father was murdered, uh, because of this demand and the cops registered a

00:32:41.000 murder case on this man. And he was completely dumbfounded that how can something like this

00:32:46.280 happen? But then it's a small place in the country and, um, the cops can be bought and, uh, there is

00:32:53.740 extreme corruption in the system. So one after the other, he kept getting a lot of these cases from

00:33:00.520 his wife's side. And, um, he, she was asking him three crores. So we could get that in dollars as

00:33:08.080 well. Three crore Indian rupees. Three claw. Okay. No, three, three C-R-O-R-E. Okay. Three crore.

00:33:17.500 Two U.S. Dollars. Okay. That, uh, three, three crore. I don't know why it's not 50. Oh, wow.

00:33:28.080 Guys, that's $58,000. Yeah. So, um, that was the money that she was demanding from him to set

00:33:38.080 him free and to sort of take away all the cases that she had filed on him. And he said that he's

00:33:44.000 not going to fund his own destruction and he refused to pay money. Uh, he was, he had been asked

00:33:51.460 to pay, uh, maintenance for the child, which was pretty high. Um, and, uh, he was not being allowed

00:33:59.600 to see his son at all. And he has left the evidences where the wife is saying that she's

00:34:05.840 not going to let him see the face of their child. And while she was pursuing all of these cases to get

00:34:11.280 money from him. So he, he just got completely fed up. And he said that the system is so stacked against

00:34:21.180 men that, uh, there is no hope for justice. And he just killed himself. And we are seeing these

00:34:28.100 suicides every, almost every day, almost every day. And this has gained a lot of attention to the

00:34:36.280 point. I mean, I'm in America and I saw the case. Do you have any hope that maybe we'll change some

00:34:41.340 of the laws there? Have politicians responded, um, as the judge gone under review, like what is going

00:34:48.620 on there since this has happened? So as of now there's, uh, for the last, I think I've been working

00:34:54.080 on men's issues for the last 12 years is the first time that I'm seeing, um, um, an uproar of this

00:35:00.460 level, this magnitude in India over, um, men's issues in particular, or, you know, suicide of a

00:35:08.620 man. Uh, so I'm hopeful that probably this will lead to some change. I don't have too many hopes

00:35:13.900 because this is just too big a country and every issue just dies down within two, three days. And

00:35:20.140 probably it will be the same with this case as well. But some politicians have spoken up. The media

00:35:26.220 has been very supportive. Um, um, you know, it's, it's quite a surprise to me for the first time

00:35:32.220 ever. The media has been extremely supportive because that suicide video is very, very heartbreaking.

00:35:39.720 And he details, uh, the trajectory of his life from the day he got married to the day he's dying,

00:35:46.760 uh, within a span of five years, it went from there to there. So it struck a chord with people

00:35:52.720 and they were like, just wondering that how much, uh, can you push the person to the wall?

00:35:58.800 And obviously anybody can, you know, we'll just break down in such circumstances that

00:36:03.780 you see your parents suffering, you see your siblings suffering, uh, you're separated from

00:36:09.160 your child. You have absolutely no semblance of the affection of, uh, there have been no discussions

00:36:14.320 in the parliament so far. We haven't seen that. Uh, but yes, um, there is quite an outrage over

00:36:20.960 this case. And I really, really hope that something positive comes out of it.

00:36:25.120 And have you spoken to his family at all? How are they taking it?

00:36:29.580 Uh, well, they are devastated, but they are obviously completely devastated. And what is

00:36:33.940 really, really sad is that the criminal charges that have been pressed against the entire family,

00:36:39.360 they will still continue.

00:36:41.100 No way.

00:36:42.920 Yes. Yes.

00:36:44.700 Wow. So the criminal charges have, so in, is child custody in India settled in family court

00:36:55.520 or do you guys have family court or is it all criminals?

00:37:00.180 No. Okay.

00:37:01.100 We have, we have a family court. Yeah.

00:37:04.280 These issues are not enough.

00:37:06.180 It's just the dowry is criminal.

00:37:08.720 That goes, that's settled. Okay. That's a criminal.

00:37:10.840 Yes. Okay.

00:37:11.580 So, um, let me explain this. Why it is, uh, very different and very problematic in India

00:37:17.900 is, uh, you could tell me more about the U.S. laws in the U.S. But, so on the criminal

00:37:23.060 side, you would have these charges of either dowry or, uh, criminal breach of trust. So, you

00:37:30.060 know, multiple sections under one criminal case so that you file fight in the criminal court.

00:37:36.140 Then you have the Domestic Violence Act in which the woman can ask for maintenance as well as 0.97

00:37:42.240 residence rights, um, or injunctions or protection orders. So, that's a separate case. Then there

00:37:49.760 is a separate provision altogether for getting maintenance, which is called the 125 section

00:37:55.060 of criminal procedure code. So, she can ask for maintenance there as well. So, there are just

00:38:02.240 so many avenues where just one dispute between husband and wife is being, is, is tried. And

00:38:09.700 the husband is basically the, uh, respondent in all of these cases, because these are all

00:38:14.960 instituted by the wife. Uh, he just feels a little sucked up, uh, because he has to attend

00:38:21.060 several dates in the courts. And what, what really is a very disturbing pearl in India is that 0.50

00:38:28.740 these cases can go on from anywhere between four or five years to 15 years, 20 years, sometimes 25

00:38:37.760 years, uh, 25 years. How old are the, is it when there's an age gap with the kids or what?

00:38:45.120 Because for us, once the kids, once the kids 18, unless you get on alimony to like 25, that is a long

00:38:52.460 time. That is absolutely a long time. Uh, there have been cases where the couple has been separated,

00:38:58.100 living separately for 20 years and the cases are still running in between them. Uh, but anywhere

00:39:03.800 from five years to 10 years is the average amount of time that it takes until, unless the man decides

00:39:10.760 to just give in the money and, you know, settle the case and then just get, get away with it. And

00:39:16.780 that's why most, in most of these cases, there are now exorbitant money demands, monetary demands,

00:39:22.940 because they know that, you know, you can just, um, uh, harass the person through the process of

00:39:29.040 the courts and the law for as long as you want until he breaks down to just give in and, you know,

00:39:35.020 just say, is that, okay, I'll just give you whatever you want and then give, you know, give me my life

00:39:40.340 back kind of a thing. Yeah. Yeah. You see that here too. In the West, it's not that deep, the litigations

00:39:47.280 are not that prolonged, I guess. I mean, and there's, I, I'm, I'm assuming there's a bit of

00:39:52.860 fairness. They do look at both the sides. No, they don't. No, no, no, no. Sorry. I don't,

00:40:02.140 I don't mean to laugh, but no, like I'm laughing cause it's, it's absurd here too, but that's, I,

00:40:07.180 I haven't talked to anyone that's been in litigation for that long, unless there's a big

00:40:13.020 age gap in the kids. So, you know, if one kid, um, they had one at 15 and one at, as a baby,

00:40:20.800 you know, but that's, but, but, um, uh, it's, it's just that, um, there are just too many

00:40:28.580 platforms that you have to go and fight these battles in which, um, Atul also spoke about in

00:40:35.220 his U-Side video. So one instance that I really, uh, you know, would like to share, which is described

00:40:41.880 in detail in his, uh, Seaside note is, uh, he was, he was asked to come in the judge's chamber

00:40:49.480 during one of their hearings. And this female judge told him, why don't you just pay the money to your 1.00

00:40:55.540 wife and settle these cases? You know, why are you even fighting? You're earning decent. So why don't 1.00

00:41:01.740 you just pay her and then settle these cases? And he said, ma'am, I want to fight on merits.

00:41:06.020 I have not done anything wrong. She's falsely accused me and I want to fight on my merits.

00:41:11.240 And then she asks him to give her, uh, five lakh rupees, um, which is, uh, what, um, uh,

00:41:19.800 $1,000. No, no, not $1,000, something like that. Um, it's like five, five to $6,000.

00:41:28.400 Yeah. Five to $6,000. So, yeah. Uh, so she asked for that money and she says, if you give me that

00:41:35.180 money, then I'm going to give you a favorable order. And if you don't, then, uh, you know, I I'll

00:41:40.180 ensure that you get as many dates as possible and you'll have to come to the court. So this man was

00:41:45.540 traveling from Bengaluru, which is in South, uh, to Johnpur, Uttar Pradesh, which is pretty far, must be at

00:41:52.180 least, uh, uh, 2,500 kilometers or maybe 3000 kilometers. So he had to take a flight every

00:41:59.540 time, go to this place, attend the litigation, come back, uh, not being insured whether there's

00:42:05.820 going to be a hearing or not. And in the last two years, he says he attended 120 hearings

00:42:11.260 and got nothing out of it. So, um, this, this, this whole system is way, way burdening and it just

00:42:20.640 takes a toll on you. It just takes a huge mental toll. And out of curiosity is the standard for

00:42:28.060 young people today, arranged marriages, is that still typical in India? Um, I am not aware of any

00:42:37.780 data if we have, but, um, arranged marriage setup is quite prevalent in India, still quite prevalent,

00:42:44.740 uh, but in urban pockets, um, there are just a lot of marriages that are happening where the couple

00:42:52.220 was already in relationship and then they got married. But even in urban pockets, uh, arranged

00:42:57.800 marriages are quite prevalent to date. Okay. I was just curious. Well, thank you very much for coming on.

00:43:04.260 Um, good job. Like good. I like the work you've been doing. You've been covering this case really

00:43:09.900 closely on Twitter. Do you want to tell my followers where they can find you?

00:43:14.640 Aya, um, I am Deepika Narayan Bhav, YouTube, and I would really, really request your audience,

00:43:20.940 Paul, to watch my documentary films. Uh, India Sons, uh, particularly is, is a very, very sensitive

00:43:27.640 issue, which is right now, um, uh, very, very disturbing in India. There are just thousands of men who are, 0.88

00:43:34.260 being implicated in false rape cases, uh, with impunity, uh, and there are proper gangs that

00:43:42.340 are now operating, that are, um, sort of filing these cases and extorting, uh, lacks and crores

00:43:49.520 from men, uh, by these false cases. So it tells plight of men who were falsely accused of rape and how

00:43:55.700 blatantly false those cases were, where they had CCTV footage that they were not even there at the place

00:44:03.080 of the incident, or they did not even know the woman, had never seen the woman, did not even know

00:44:09.420 about her existence. And then she slapped a rape case on them and they had to fight it out for three

00:44:15.400 years, five years and things like that. So, um, it's, it's quite shocking, uh, on what's happening

00:44:21.440 in India and how the system is absolutely, um, turned a blind eye to fairness, equality, balance,

00:44:29.860 and fair investigation. So yeah, uh, Martyrs of Marriage is on YouTube. Uh, it's on my channel

00:44:35.660 itself and India Sons is on my website, indiasons.com. I now, um, uh, run an organization

00:44:42.960 called Ekam Niai Foundation Pearl. It's called E-K-A-M, uh, that's, that's Ekam Niai. I don't 0.85

00:44:49.480 know if it's visible or not, but that's a t-shirt that I'm wearing as well. Uh, it's E-K-A-M-N-Y-A-A-Y.org.

00:44:56.800 Please do take a look at our work, my documentary films, and all the lives that we have tried to

00:45:02.840 have an impact on by working on ground. Okay. Thank you so much. Thank you so much, Paul. Take

00:45:09.780 care. Take care. Okay, guys, I'm going to take a second to read the next, if you guys have any,

00:45:16.760 anything. Oh, wait, are you still there? Is she still there? They want you to spell your name

00:45:22.660 in, in the spelling in India, or that's too much for us. We're, they're not going to know how.

00:45:28.800 All right. It's D-A-E-P-I-K-A, Deepika, Narayan, N-A-R-A-Y-A-N, and Bhardwaj, B-H-A-R-D-W-A-J.

00:45:45.480 Okay. Thank you so much.

00:45:47.620 Thank you.

00:45:48.200 Thank you. Bye.

00:45:49.040 Bye.

00:45:49.500 Bye. Okay. Charles says none of it's real. It's a high. See, that's why you guys got to be on the website, right?

00:45:58.020 He didn't know how to spell her name in two seconds. Boom. Boom. I read it. It was read or not.

00:46:04.800 I know you guys got a lot going on. Okay. Rob says that was more than sad. Okay. I read the other one.

00:46:12.480 Okay. So the next story I want to cover today is I want to talk about Lily Phillips.

00:46:20.160 So I have talked about this woman on the show again, but as you guys know, there has been an influx of the OnlyFans and Cornstar to church pipeline.

00:46:31.440 And I want to show you guys the stages of this and how this happens. Now, I'm not saying it's bad if OF models come to church, but I personally would not want to bring my husband. Sorry, ladies. I don't know why nobody thinks about these things.

00:46:50.580 So, okay. So Lily Phillips, OnlyFans models cries after sleeping with 101 men in a day. Sometimes I feel so robotic and OnlyFans model who slept with 101 men in a day breaks down in tears as she recounts her 24 hour sex marathon.

00:47:10.240 Lily Phillips, onlyFans. Lily Phillips, 23, had sex with over 100 men in a day back in October to create some scandalous content for her subscription-based social media page.

00:47:20.620 But despite previously insisting that she enjoyed the extreme stunt and the sex, all that sex didn't make her feel good.

00:47:28.840 Sometimes I feel so robotic, Phillips admitted in YouTube Josh Peters' documentary titled I Slept with 100 Men in a Day.

00:47:38.320 The British sex worker fought back the tears as she recalled that day. I think by the 30th we're getting on a bit.

00:47:46.300 I've got a routine of how we're going to do this and sometimes you disassociate and it's not like normal sex at all.

00:47:53.000 Although it was momentarily frisky freak, it wasn't all memorable for the young woman who admitted she didn't remember much of it.

00:48:04.340 In my head, I can think of like 5, 6, 10 guys that I remember and that's it, she revealed.

00:48:10.360 But it's just weird, isn't it? If I didn't have the videos, I wouldn't have known I did 100.

00:48:15.680 That's how women lie about their body count. I don't remember. It was 10. 1.00

00:48:20.380 Phillips shared that it's not just the physical intimacy of having sex with so many men that made her feel so bad,

00:48:26.380 but also by disappointing them and not being able to talk with them or being interested in doing so.

00:48:32.800 She said that conversing with them was also hard and recounted how one man complained that they only chatted for about two minutes

00:48:39.360 and she had said beforehand they would talk for about five minutes.

00:48:43.100 The OnlyFans creator counted, continued to hold back tears, although her red puffy eyes showed she had already broken down.

00:48:51.000 When she asked if she thinks she should feel bad about not talking with each man, she slept with for a set amount of time.

00:48:59.080 She said, I guess when you've promised something to people who support you, it's kind of hard to let them down.

00:49:04.200 The sex worker also admitted she hadn't processed what she did on the day,

00:49:08.300 but she said she wouldn't forget the day of her emotional interview.

00:49:11.900 The scene ends with her crying and being comforted.

00:49:14.860 In another part of the documentary, Phillips shared that she wouldn't recommend doing what she had done

00:49:20.980 and admitted it was more intense than she thought.

00:49:25.840 It's not for the weak girls, if I'm being honest.

00:49:28.480 It was hard.

00:49:29.680 I don't know if I'd recommend it.

00:49:31.500 It's a different feeling.

00:49:33.420 It's not one in, one out.

00:49:35.540 It feels intense, she said.

00:49:37.420 Yet despite discussing how bad betting 100 men in 24 hours was for her mental and physical health,

00:49:44.860 Phillips recently declared that she plans to have sex with 1,000 men in a day.

00:49:50.940 Phillips has claimed that she wants to take on the new challenge in January.

00:49:55.640 1,000 men in 24 hours.

00:49:58.080 Men talent casting call.

00:50:00.020 18 and up only.

00:50:01.580 She posted on social media.

00:50:03.480 I dreamed it up with my assistant.

00:50:05.080 I can't wait.

00:50:05.620 It's very exciting and will be a world record, a real challenge.

00:50:09.260 The current world record is held by Lisa Sparks,

00:50:11.600 an adult film star who betted 919 men in one day at a sex industry event in Poland back in 2004.

00:50:19.560 To be completely transparent with you all,

00:50:21.800 the event is the one thing I regret doing in the 23 plus years in the corn industry to this day.

00:50:30.620 This was also the only job I agreed to perform strictly for money.

00:50:34.600 Sparks, known best by her corn name, Lisa Sparks, and her website.

00:50:38.980 Sydney medical practitioner, Dr. Zach Turner, who specializes in preventative health and wellness,

00:50:44.600 warned that when pushed to the extreme, such activity could hurt the body.

00:50:49.580 Sex at its core is a physically demanding activity that engages various muscles.

00:50:56.340 The cardiovascular system and the release of endorphins, he said.

00:51:01.280 Done in moderation, it's akin to a rewarding workout, promoting stress relief, cardiovascular health,

00:51:07.380 and emotional well-being.

00:51:09.100 However, when pushed to the extremes, like a 24-hour sex marathon,

00:51:12.740 the physical and physiological toll can be severe.

00:51:16.280 Okay.

00:51:17.140 So as you guys know, and we can expect, conservative Twitter really just ate this up.

00:51:22.080 They really just, you know, I want my brother to marry a woman that defends him as hard 0.89

00:51:32.760 as church ladies defend corn stars.

00:51:36.900 It's ridiculous.

00:51:38.620 It's insane.

00:51:40.040 You know, I never get the benefit of the doubt with the trad cons on Twitter.

00:51:44.680 Maybe it's because I talk about how dumb they are.

00:51:49.360 But, I mean, I never get it.

00:51:51.760 It's always, you're not a real Christian, you hate women, da-da-da-da-da-da. 1.00

00:51:56.000 I never get it.

00:51:57.280 But the corn star and OnlyFans models, it's like, here's second chance, third chance, tenth chance. 0.54

00:52:05.780 And I'm not saying, we are for genuine conversions here.

00:52:10.260 That's fine.

00:52:10.980 That's great.

00:52:12.180 But, I need to see something.

00:52:17.760 Now, she's not at the conversion stage yet.

00:52:20.180 We'll wait another six months.

00:52:21.760 So, Billy Bragg says, young women have been groomed into thinking they should be able 0.99

00:52:28.120 to do this.

00:52:29.340 We have gone from loose women have something wrong with them to the belief that women should 1.00

00:52:34.040 be able to be able to be loose or there is something wrong with her.

00:52:39.760 Decades of societal messaging has led us here.

00:52:42.640 It's why I don't judge any of them.

00:52:44.220 They're all victims to me.

00:52:46.960 Okay.

00:52:47.700 So, when I was interviewing 1,000 people.

00:52:52.340 Now, as you guys know, I moved from Chicago to London a couple of years ago.

00:52:56.380 I played volleyball in the UK for three years.

00:52:58.460 And in that time, I launched a YouTube show that became one of the biggest shows in the

00:53:03.000 United States at the time.

00:53:04.220 And I would interview about five to ten women every night at 1.6 days a week we had coming 0.98

00:53:10.840 in.

00:53:11.140 I was either casting or I was interviewing them myself.

00:53:15.220 And once you actually start dealing with corn stars and women that are in the sex industry, 0.99

00:53:20.840 you realize that they are not groomed or coerced at all.

00:53:24.720 It's usually one of three or four things.

00:53:27.900 One, they like sexual variety.

00:53:30.800 And from a young age, they were just never meant to be with one man.

00:53:34.620 They do not have it in them.

00:53:37.440 And they figure, well, I might as well monetize this because I will never be with one person.

00:53:42.280 The second thing is they love the excitement.

00:53:45.760 It's a fantasy to them.

00:53:47.620 They enjoy having sex on camera with multiple men.

00:53:52.480 They enjoy being desired that much by multiple men.

00:53:56.980 They get a thrill out of it.

00:53:58.700 They like doing things that society would say is bad.

00:54:06.080 Like they get off on doing the wrong thing.

00:54:10.600 Another reason that they do sex work, sometimes it's a money grab. 0.99

00:54:14.360 You know, it's easier than working.

00:54:15.720 And it's just so interesting to me that everybody thinks the women are coerced. 0.99

00:54:24.800 They think that, you know, this says the look of dignity lost forever.

00:54:30.300 A soul forfeited for notoriety, a life lost in those eyes.

00:54:34.720 Sad.

00:54:36.620 And next we have...

00:54:37.720 She's not forever lost, you wretched wretch.

00:54:45.160 The blood of Christ washes all sins away and evil away and can make any person whole again.

00:54:54.980 Oh my goodness, you guys drive me nuts.

00:54:57.460 Everyone keeps on hating on Lily Phillips but ignored the 101 men who participated.

00:55:11.400 The ratio of sick men to women is the reason few women have become this sick. 1.00

00:55:18.680 Okay, so let me get this straight.

00:55:20.080 If I put a million dollars on the street for free, I say anybody can take this million dollars.

00:55:32.560 Here, it's for you.

00:55:36.140 Are we really going to blame people for taking it when she's giving out sex for free?

00:55:45.220 Now, many people want to say that these women have no choice. 1.00

00:55:49.220 They are just groomed and society pushes them to do this.

00:55:52.980 Now, this woman, 1 to 10, I'm going to give her like, I would say 7. 1.00

00:55:57.660 You guys agree with that?

00:55:58.580 I mean, you guys are guys.

00:55:59.600 You guys like women.

00:56:00.960 So I want to hear, you know, you can put it in the chat.

00:56:02.940 I'd say 7, right?

00:56:04.220 7, maybe 8 before.

00:56:06.480 I know it's kind of hard to rank her knowing what she's done, but just imagine she did it.

00:56:11.640 She could have, A, gone to golf courses and looked to marry rich. 1.00

00:56:16.900 She could have did that. 0.99

00:56:17.680 She could have said, you know what, all I want to do in life is marry rich. 0.66

00:56:21.900 That would be more admirable than this.

00:56:24.060 She could have said, you know what, I'm not really meant to be a wife, but do you know

00:56:28.040 what I'm going to be?

00:56:31.120 I'm going to be a strong, independent woman, and I'm going to go into medical device sales.

00:56:36.420 She could have gone into medical device sales. 1.00

00:56:38.840 She's attractive enough to do it. 1.00

00:56:40.620 You really need to be a 7 or higher.

00:56:42.440 No one knocked on my door asking if I wanted to do medical device, but you get a big pair

00:56:48.360 of fake boobs, boom, you're golden. 1.00

00:56:50.300 Go do it.

00:56:50.940 She could go make six figures doing that, and then, you know, then she could be a strong, 1.00

00:56:57.220 independent woman.

00:56:58.840 She could go be a stripper. 1.00

00:57:00.660 She could go strip, right?

00:57:04.460 I mean, at least, you know, maybe then she could get her sluttiness out there and not 1.00

00:57:10.480 have sex with a hundred men in one day.

00:57:12.080 A hundred's a lot, right?

00:57:13.500 All I'm saying, I mean, she could have went into the nunnery, but let's not, let's not,

00:57:19.200 you know, let's not say things that are never going to happen.

00:57:21.700 All I'm saying is she had so many choices of things she could have done that all women 1.00

00:57:26.620 are given.

00:57:27.080 It's like, you want to go to school?

00:57:29.000 Here.

00:57:30.240 You guys want to be a prostitute? 0.97

00:57:33.060 Oh, you don't, you want to do, you want to be a prostitute from the comfort of your 1.00

00:57:36.540 home?

00:57:37.640 Here, here's OnlyFans.

00:57:39.340 Oh, you guys, you want to be a social media influencer, an assistant, a teacher?

00:57:44.480 Go ahead.

00:57:45.640 Do it.

00:57:46.460 You want to go get a gender studies degree? 1.00

00:57:48.860 Here you go.

00:57:50.620 Nobody was coerced.

00:57:52.000 She's an adult.

00:57:53.500 Are women, and that's my question. 0.99

00:57:54.680 Are we adults who can make our own decisions?

00:57:57.640 Or are we kids?

00:58:01.660 Which one?

00:58:02.560 Pick one, Tradcons. 1.00

00:58:04.100 Was she coerced, or did she make a choice?

00:58:07.000 Does she have free will? 0.97

00:58:09.180 Or is the free will dependent on the men?

00:58:13.420 I don't know.

00:58:14.100 Pick one.

00:58:15.380 And then I always get the, if men only led right, she wouldn't do this. 1.00

00:58:19.860 Well, you know, I actually watched the documentary, and I'm going to show you guys a couple clips

00:58:25.660 from it.

00:58:26.520 I actually watched the full thing from beginning to end.

00:58:30.520 And there was a lot of men that kept saying, are you sure you want to do this?

00:58:38.620 The guy who was doing the documentary the whole time is saying, are you worried about STDs?

00:58:46.360 Are you sure you can do this?

00:58:49.200 So let's not, you know, when we make bad decisions, right, as ladies, there is a million men along

00:58:56.600 the way that say, that's a bad idea.

00:59:01.360 And if we don't listen, I mean, I say, let us suffer, right?

00:59:05.360 So, you know, when we get into a bunch of debt, do most of the women that get a gender 1.00

00:59:10.100 studies degree go to their dad and say, hey, dad?

00:59:12.500 Or maybe another guy in their life and say, hey, is this a good degree?

00:59:18.440 Do you think I should get this?

00:59:20.600 Or do they say, oh, that sounds fun.

00:59:22.600 Let me go.

00:59:24.920 Do the ladies get spending money on Botox, hair, expensive gym memberships? 1.00

00:59:30.480 Do they go to their male friends, their dad, and say, hey, could you help me with this budget?

00:59:36.720 Men love help.

00:59:37.540 Men are the most helpful.

00:59:38.580 I mean, men are just, they love feeling needed, right, if you appreciate them for it.

00:59:45.680 So, you know, we could do that.

00:59:48.140 How many, it's not like nobody said, no one put a gun to her head and said, you must sleep

00:59:55.540 with that many men in a day.

00:59:58.660 Now, obviously, I'm going to show you guys some clips from this documentary.

01:00:04.940 So I have 16 minute mark.

01:00:06.580 Okay, so at this point in the documentary, she is talking about how, again, she's not

01:00:13.080 traumatized by this stuff, but she enjoys it.

01:00:16.700 Okay, you guys think I'm making this up?

01:00:18.200 You think, Pearl, you're just making up that these women enjoy this stuff. 1.00

01:00:22.680 They really secretly hate it.

01:00:24.940 But I think at the end of the day, people forget there's also my fantasy.

01:00:28.760 And this is also something that I'm really enjoying and want to do and have wanted to do

01:00:33.880 before I was even in the industry.

01:00:35.660 Our filming was interrupted briefly by a phone call from Lily's mother.

01:00:39.880 Apparently, she calls Lily every day.

01:00:42.660 My mom always calls me every day.

01:00:44.560 What have you been up to today?

01:00:46.240 I'm just getting railed.

01:00:47.300 What are you?

01:00:50.040 Okay, so we have an involved mother, right? 0.58

01:00:54.820 And okay, the other thing is there's this idea that the sex workers just had a really bad

01:00:59.360 home life and, you know, that doesn't help, right?

01:01:02.160 I mean, a bad home life.

01:01:03.900 It's not like a good, I mean, that's not a, it's not going to contribute to making her

01:01:07.500 a better person.

01:01:09.460 But she's got two parents that love her and call her every day.

01:01:15.100 She's checking in on her.

01:01:21.060 My parents know what I do, but I'm not on the phone to them every day going, oh, you

01:01:25.600 know, I just got DPE'd, I'm 17 guys today.

01:01:29.920 Yeah.

01:01:30.280 All this and that.

01:01:30.860 They don't need to know the logistics.

01:01:33.420 Of course.

01:01:33.780 I do feel a little bit like embarrassed being like mom and dad, I'm a hundred guys.

01:01:38.720 Why?

01:01:39.960 I guess because it's not really what my parents would have chose, wanted me to do.

01:01:45.460 Okay, there we go.

01:01:47.300 Did she have someone to get, she had two people she could have went to for guidance and did

01:01:51.760 she? 0.98

01:01:52.980 No.

01:01:55.600 The next mark was the 26 minute mark where she says that she gets off on this and she

01:02:02.360 enjoys it.

01:02:03.780 Now, a lot of people want to say ban corn, ban this stuff.

01:02:10.120 We just got to ban it.

01:02:11.980 I really don't see that being a good strategy.

01:02:16.140 One, it's going to be so difficult to get women like this to stop. 1.00

01:02:23.860 I think it sounds nice on a podcast.

01:02:26.000 Like I saw, I see people tweeted all the time, ban corn, ban.

01:02:30.640 And okay, that's, do you know the police power?

01:02:36.100 I mean, that's going to take way too much work.

01:02:38.540 All I say is let them face the consequences.

01:02:43.460 Let them, let them suffer.

01:02:45.120 Let them fail.

01:02:45.640 I think it's more if someone's on my face.

01:02:49.180 I can imagine that's what's put another guy off.

01:02:51.980 So you would let like these guys do that on your face?

01:02:55.220 Yeah, yeah.

01:02:55.940 And in your mouth?

01:02:56.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:02:58.280 What if they're HIV?

01:03:00.160 Is that where it comes from?

01:03:01.180 Okay, so now, now he's saying, okay, you're going to let the guys finish on you.

01:03:11.240 You might get AIDS.

01:03:14.480 Is that where it comes from?

01:03:15.840 Okay, I'm going to do it anyway.

01:03:18.160 With spunk in the mouth? 0.61

01:03:20.100 It can.

01:03:21.400 Oh, really?

01:03:22.280 Yeah, I've never really thought about that.

01:03:23.680 Last time when I did it, all of them put spunk in the mouth.

01:03:26.780 And I can't really explain it.

01:03:30.380 I get like serotonin, like from when people are like, oh my God, you're that on the internet.

01:03:35.640 Sounds crazy.

01:03:36.680 I know, and I know you're saying that to me right here, but I don't believe that.

01:03:40.080 Really?

01:03:40.680 No.

01:03:41.760 This is, okay, it's the dynamic.

01:03:43.980 She's saying, I get serotonin from being on, by all these men.

01:03:52.220 And he's saying, I don't believe you.

01:03:55.040 They do.

01:03:55.740 I promise to God, they do.

01:03:58.460 I kind of love like ruffling feathers a little bit and people getting a bit agitated by maybe the fact that I'm messed up.

01:04:06.520 People think I'm like so sad and stuff like that, but that could not be like further from the truth.

01:04:11.900 I don't think people realize like how happy this makes me.

01:04:15.160 Well, I just think it's so funny and fun.

01:04:17.200 I can't really put it into words.

01:04:18.960 Have you done anything to me?

01:04:19.960 I can't put it into words.

01:04:21.620 How happy this makes me.

01:04:23.980 I am so glad that we have social media now because I think when I tell these stories, people think I'm crazy.

01:04:32.420 When I tell the stories of the sex workers that I've met that enjoyed what they did.

01:04:37.760 Everyone thinks I'm insane until now.

01:04:43.080 Okay.

01:04:43.400 42 minute mark.

01:04:45.000 Let's see.

01:04:45.640 It's after she did all the sexing.

01:04:48.100 Um, if you guys want to see this is on Josh Peters channel, you can watch the whole thing.

01:04:54.980 Um, okay.

01:04:57.220 This is.

01:05:01.420 Is that real?

01:05:02.700 Yeah.

01:05:02.980 He's not getting his smells.

01:05:04.760 Lily then walked us through the process that she had repeated a hundred times that day.

01:05:09.080 Come on in.

01:05:09.960 Make yourself at home.

01:05:10.780 Take your shoes off.

01:05:11.820 I've got some, um, hangers here if you want to put your coat up.

01:05:15.420 Nice.

01:05:15.840 Come on in.

01:05:16.420 Where do you travel from?

01:05:17.260 Say, oh, lovely.

01:05:18.360 Yeah.

01:05:18.600 Yeah.

01:05:18.960 Oh, it's so nice to meet you.

01:05:20.360 I'll get you on the bed.

01:05:21.240 Make yourself comfortable.

01:05:22.380 Yeah.

01:05:22.500 Take off your trousers.

01:05:24.220 And we're going to have a fun time.

01:05:25.860 And I'll give them the phone camera.

01:05:28.320 I'll just say, I'm guessing you don't want your face in it.

01:05:30.420 Yeah.

01:05:30.720 And if they don't, it'll be POV phone camera.

01:05:33.700 Yeah.

01:05:34.220 I'll start usually with a job.

01:05:36.520 And then I'll say like, is there anything you like, don't like?

01:05:39.580 Any certain position you want to do?

01:05:41.620 Yeah.

01:05:42.000 And then, yeah, we kind of got straight into it.

01:05:43.700 Did you do the with a condom on or?

01:05:45.840 No.

01:05:46.260 No.

01:05:46.620 I didn't.

01:05:47.760 Condom off.

01:05:48.600 Okay.

01:05:48.960 And then, but then like once they're having sex, it's like condom on type thing.

01:05:53.340 Yeah.

01:05:53.920 It does smell a lot like, a lot like.

01:05:57.100 So did she say when they started, they had it all?

01:06:02.060 Ew.

01:06:02.560 Oh my gosh.

01:06:03.280 This girl's going to get AIDS. 1.00

01:06:04.300 I mean.

01:06:05.460 Diseases sometimes can, sometimes can be cured.

01:06:08.300 Others can't.

01:06:09.020 They said, look, guys.

01:06:12.620 There is too much money in fixing women's poor decisions. 1.00

01:06:17.960 If you want to make money, you just invest in something, which is undoing a decision that

01:06:26.200 we made previously.

01:06:27.360 Example, tattoo removal.

01:06:30.060 That's going to come back.

01:06:31.380 If somebody could reverse menopause, I doubt it, but they would be really rich.

01:06:38.700 Now, the AIDS thing.

01:06:41.480 Now we're having people live long life, lives with AIDS.

01:06:45.600 That was unheard of.

01:06:47.020 There's too much money in this stuff.

01:06:48.360 And there's a rose.

01:06:50.220 That's nice.

01:06:50.780 And how are you feeling?

01:06:54.020 Surprisingly, downstairs is not too, not really sore.

01:06:57.640 Okay.

01:06:58.140 It's more just tired.

01:06:59.740 My eyes sting like nothing else.

01:07:02.380 Why?

01:07:02.600 So, part of the reason she was tearing up is because her eyes sting.

01:07:09.540 Because of all the comment.

01:07:11.020 I think I repeatedly said, you can't have Facebook, not in my eyes.

01:07:14.420 And they just went right at the eyes.

01:07:15.680 Well, I think, like, it might have been an accident.

01:07:18.160 But no, I mean, I've definitely seen some spunk today, Jesus.

01:07:22.780 Yeah.

01:07:23.380 So, then next, we're going to go to 44-minute mark where she says she feels bad.

01:07:31.260 We're going to watch the full clip.

01:07:33.960 You know, when I talked to you last, like, I was not nervous.

01:07:36.720 It was, like, the day before.

01:07:37.760 I was like, oh, I'm so nervous.

01:07:40.560 But it was good.

01:07:41.460 It was more, I guess the interactions weren't, like, I'd have to stop them early.

01:07:46.320 And, like, you'd have to stand on business and be like, I'm so sorry.

01:07:51.460 You've got to go.

01:07:52.200 And, like, the awkward interaction of, like, you feeling pressure to have to make them calm if, like, you haven't spent enough time with them and feeling like.

01:08:01.860 Now, I got no sympathy because this is still easier than a lot of men's jobs.

01:08:08.900 I asked, um, my brother.

01:08:11.620 My brother's, um, best friend works for my dad.

01:08:14.820 And I asked him, I asked him today.

01:08:17.220 I said, for a billion dollars, would you be gay?

01:08:24.040 Would you hook up with a guy for a billion? 0.92

01:08:26.360 One time, you're set for life.

01:08:30.960 He said a lot of men, I mean, if it's enough money, they'll do it, too.

01:08:36.340 I, you know what?

01:08:37.400 I actually met a couple male-only fans models.

01:08:40.180 They don't get paid out nearly as much, but they weren't gay, allegedly, but they said they were for money.

01:08:47.560 They realize it's easier than doing that?

01:08:50.680 They didn't.

01:08:51.400 They said no.

01:08:51.820 Okay, I'm not saying you guys would do it.

01:08:53.840 I'm just saying.

01:08:55.120 I'm just saying there's harder jobs than this, okay?

01:08:58.840 And I don't, I don't buy.

01:09:00.440 I think when they say they're so broken and da-da-da-da-da, I think maybe they have remorse because of the decisions, the consequences later.

01:09:15.260 But now the Corn Stars are getting married.

01:09:19.060 I think most of the time it's just a rebrand.

01:09:23.340 Like, you didn't give them a good time because, like, they only got two.

01:09:26.380 So she's mad, not because she regrets it, but because she didn't give them a good enough time.

01:09:32.560 That's good customer service, I'll tell you what.

01:09:35.080 She's very, she is very proud of her brand.

01:09:41.240 Yes.

01:09:41.960 And that's what's making you feel emotional is that maybe you think you didn't give some guys a good enough time today.

01:09:48.200 Yeah, yeah, and it's hard, I think, having the interactions with them when they're like,

01:09:52.740 what, you're not going to make me finish?

01:09:54.360 I've come all this way.

01:09:55.180 Like, kind of, like, guilt-tripping me a little bit.

01:09:58.300 I felt bad.

01:09:59.220 Like, some people just travel so far.

01:10:00.800 Like, I didn't want to give them a shit time and, like, come away from us and be like, oh, that's shit.

01:10:06.920 I think sometimes I'm feeling so, like, robotic.

01:10:10.040 Like, by the, I think, like, the 30th, you know, like, when we're getting on a bit, I've got, like, a routine of, like, how we're going to do.

01:10:17.000 Now, we have to think about the incentives here, right?

01:10:19.720 We have to go back to the incentives.

01:10:21.420 The incentive is, if she cries after, she sells more OnlyFans. 0.99

01:10:28.300 If she makes this, we all know in a story, the more ups and downs there are in a story, the better it sells.

01:10:35.640 So, do I buy this for a second?

01:10:38.140 Not really.

01:10:38.700 I don't.

01:10:39.460 I don't.

01:10:39.980 And I'm sorry that I think you guys are all dumb if you buy it.

01:10:43.040 You know what?

01:10:43.540 I'm not going to.

01:10:44.360 Maybe I should be more respectful.

01:10:47.240 But I didn't buy it when I was in high school.

01:10:51.300 And they would always.

01:10:52.200 I went to a Catholic high school.

01:10:54.080 And they would bring in chastity speakers every year.

01:10:58.080 And every year, they would bring in some couple where the woman, her testimony was that she got ran through.

01:11:05.960 And the man's testimony was that he cleaned up her mess after.

01:11:11.540 And that's what we keep seeing, right?

01:11:13.940 We see women get married and then the men have to clean up after. 0.99

01:11:17.720 So, now here, she made a poor decision that everyone warned her against.

01:11:21.840 And now the men are expected to give her, what, sympathy after? 0.65

01:11:25.480 Please.

01:11:26.880 Please.

01:11:28.240 It's completely fake.

01:11:29.500 Yeah.

01:11:31.280 Okay.

01:11:32.040 So, moving on to the next story today.

01:11:35.760 I saw a video yesterday that made me think, okay?

01:11:40.380 And this was a video.

01:11:42.040 It was of another conservative comment.

01:11:47.480 You guys know how I feel.

01:11:48.660 I don't really think there's conservative women. 1.00

01:11:50.900 Not really anymore.

01:11:56.340 There was a conservative commentator talking about the trend of women rethinking 50-50 relationships.

01:12:05.380 And what we're going to see now is non-traditional women asking for things they don't deserve. 1.00

01:12:11.380 So, to start this show, when I'm talking about traditional women versus modern women, I want to clarify what I'm talking about.

01:12:20.800 So, let me see.

01:12:30.960 All right.

01:12:31.740 Testing.

01:12:32.520 You good?

01:12:33.720 Okay.

01:12:34.000 Now, I decided to make a chart of traditional versus 50-50.

01:12:42.360 Actually, I like the word modern better.

01:12:44.660 So, I want to make a chart of things that are more traditional versus more modern.

01:12:51.700 So, traditional would be arranged marriage.

01:13:00.960 Now, young marriage, I am going to define as below 25.

01:13:16.240 So, if you get married below 25 with the intent of having kids in the next couple years.

01:13:24.140 So, your first kid or second, like, let's say three plus kids is more traditional.

01:13:33.280 The reason that three plus kids is more traditional is because birth control, modern.

01:13:43.540 That's modern.

01:13:45.720 Traditional, natural family planning.

01:13:49.280 So, modern would be tattoos.

01:13:51.580 Okay.

01:13:54.140 Modern is going to be plastic surgery.

01:14:04.840 Young marriage.

01:14:06.040 I'm going to say kids had below 25.

01:14:13.200 Oh, wait.

01:14:14.420 Below 25.

01:14:20.240 So, at least the first one, right?

01:14:22.560 Like, maybe I'll give you, if you had your first kid at 24, okay, and then you had the

01:14:28.400 three kids in your 20s plus.

01:14:30.620 I really think it should be four plus.

01:14:33.340 Maybe it's because I'm from a family of a million kids.

01:14:37.020 But, we'll give them three plus, okay?

01:14:41.060 Just out of the kindness of my heart.

01:14:43.680 Now, modern career.

01:14:46.820 And I would like to clarify, there's no right or wrong.

01:14:51.200 If anything, doing a show interviewing a thousand women made me convinced that there are many women that should never have children ever. 1.00

01:15:00.920 Because they are so irresponsible that I just cannot imagine them bringing up a child.

01:15:08.620 God help us.

01:15:11.200 I would meet women that would come on my show. 1.00

01:15:13.860 And I would always ask the question, you know, there would be women I could text, and within a half hour, they would be there.

01:15:22.320 And one of them had four children.

01:15:24.240 And every night, I would think to myself when she would come, who is watching your kids?

01:15:31.560 Who is doing it?

01:15:32.880 Because it's not you.

01:15:34.140 You're too available.

01:15:35.300 You're at too many of the events.

01:15:37.220 With the women with no kids. 0.99

01:15:38.900 This isn't making sense.

01:15:40.220 Okay, so, let's see.

01:15:43.480 Career, plastic surgery.

01:15:45.640 Let's say, plastic surgery, tattoo.

01:15:50.500 Let's say debt, right?

01:15:52.040 If you have a lot of debt.

01:15:54.500 Tattoos.

01:16:00.740 Onlyfans is modern.

01:16:03.520 Porn, modern.

01:16:06.140 Slutty behavior.

01:16:07.220 Now, what's traditional?

01:16:13.480 If we're going to go back to the real traditional, virginity.

01:16:18.600 Now, this is why people think, I have a friend on Twitter, his name's Luffy.

01:16:25.660 Now, Luffy is famous on Twitter because he replies to women that will signal traditional. 0.98

01:16:32.320 So, they'll wear the flower dress.

01:16:33.700 Yes, they'll talk about how bad feminism is. 1.00

01:16:37.920 They'll talk about how they want to have a lot of kids and how they'll try to signal that

01:16:43.120 they are traditional.

01:16:44.560 And he always asks the question, did you lose your virginity to your husband?

01:16:50.880 And they get very angry because the answer is usually no.

01:16:54.700 Now, again, I'm not saying right or wrong.

01:16:56.820 I'm not saying good or bad.

01:16:58.140 I'm saying one is traditional and one is modern.

01:17:03.980 I'm going to check the chat really quick and see if you guys have anything to add to traditional

01:17:10.200 versus modern.

01:17:14.420 Let's see.

01:17:15.040 Natural hair color.

01:17:16.320 I can add that.

01:17:17.140 I can add that.

01:17:26.820 I can't, I think natural hair color.

01:17:31.720 I can't see anything else.

01:17:33.020 Body count.

01:17:33.800 No.

01:17:33.960 Oh, yeah.

01:17:34.360 No.

01:17:34.900 Piercings.

01:17:35.420 Okay.

01:17:36.620 Pier, I'll add that next to tattoos, piercings, hair dye. 0.60

01:17:45.160 Can you think of anything else?

01:17:46.600 What am I missing?

01:17:47.620 You know?

01:17:48.100 Nothing.

01:17:48.480 Nothing.

01:17:48.580 I think I covered it, but if you think of anything, I'll add it.

01:17:58.160 Oh, yeah, yeah, okay.

01:18:01.140 Thank you.

01:18:01.980 Social media is, yeah, public, is much more modern.

01:18:10.680 Now, again, I'm not saying one's right or wrong.

01:18:14.040 I don't care how modern or traditional you are.

01:18:19.360 If you're a nice person and you're modern, you're a nice person.

01:18:24.160 If you're a nice person and you're traditional, then you're a nice person.

01:18:28.060 Okay.

01:18:29.060 I'm going to go back down.

01:18:34.860 Oh, someone said no therapist.

01:18:39.180 Okay.

01:18:39.620 Okay.

01:18:44.040 So, now, we're in the, oh, let me turn it, did I turn it off now?

01:18:49.640 All right.

01:18:50.580 Okay.

01:18:51.380 Okay.

01:18:52.460 Now, we have the challenge where the ladies are, if you look on there, modern on the right, 1.00

01:19:02.200 but they want traditional outcome.

01:19:06.580 So, now you have the ladies getting mad that they have to work. 1.00

01:19:10.420 Now, so, it's interesting because this conservative commentator, I'm going to watch this and then

01:19:24.500 we'll go through it together.

01:19:25.660 Others and saying, honey, I do not have the money to pay the mortgage, the rent, the bills

01:19:31.720 this month.

01:19:32.300 And it's creating a lot of discourse online.

01:19:34.380 And it's sort of become a new relationship test to see whether or not you should leave

01:19:39.440 your man.

01:19:40.240 And people online have much to say about whether or not women should be in traditional relationships

01:19:44.380 where the man provides or the new 50-50 that seems to be the norm these days.

01:19:49.240 Let's talk about it.

01:19:49.940 Yeah, you better.

01:19:54.400 Yeah, you better.

01:19:55.660 Guys, before we get into today's video, please like and subscribe.

01:19:59.900 Yes, we're going to be looking into this new relationship test where you go up to your

01:20:02.980 hubby or your boyfriend and say, I don't have the money to pay the mortgage or rent.

01:20:07.220 I'm going to say relationship tests on social media, modern.

01:20:12.300 Some of them are funny.

01:20:13.420 I'm not hating, but modern.

01:20:18.040 We're going to start with a 50-50 couple, meaning they split their finances 50-50.

01:20:22.220 Now, this couple is getting a lot of heat on the internet. 1.00

01:20:24.200 They are telling this woman to leave her husband because of her response to this trend.

01:20:27.660 Hey, babe.

01:20:29.140 Babe.

01:20:29.900 Yeah.

01:20:30.520 Hey, sorry.

01:20:32.100 Listen, I know we both have to go to work here in a minute, but I just needed to tell you

01:20:35.360 that with everything and how busy it's all been that I'm not going to be able to pay the rent

01:20:46.140 this month.

01:20:46.820 Well, like just Black Friday, all the holiday shopping, Christmas.

01:20:56.920 Like, I don't know.

01:20:57.940 I don't know what to do.

01:20:59.080 Babe, I love you, but I don't even know who we pay our rent to.

01:21:02.160 Oh, no.

01:21:04.260 Yeah, I don't know.

01:21:04.780 Do you get like an extension or...

01:21:06.820 I don't really...

01:21:10.700 I don't really know, to be honest with you.

01:21:14.420 Yeah, I don't know.

01:21:16.200 I mean, I can call them and see.

01:21:19.160 But like, what do we do if like we can't pay the rent?

01:21:23.500 I don't know.

01:21:25.020 Like, they have a grace period.

01:21:26.120 We're still okay, but...

01:21:30.440 Like, I think we get a late fee, do you know?

01:21:37.580 Yeah, so I know we get like a late fee if it's paid after, I think, like the 5th or the 6th.

01:21:47.100 But, yeah, I can't pay it.

01:21:48.680 So...

01:21:53.680 Will they kick us out, or like...

01:21:58.680 I think.

01:22:01.080 Okay.

01:22:01.660 I thought I was going to be laughing more for this trend.

01:22:04.400 I'm not laughing at this.

01:22:05.860 You know what?

01:22:06.360 I got to be honest.

01:22:07.100 50-50 is what a lot of couples have to do these days, especially in this economy.

01:22:10.320 Okay, I want you to notice her language.

01:22:13.520 50-50 is what couples have to do.

01:22:16.640 Now, this is a get-out-of-jail-free card.

01:22:22.060 Because going 50-50 was a conscious choice by the ladies. 0.99

01:22:28.920 We could have...

01:22:30.120 Again, society lets us do anything.

01:22:33.140 Now, oftentimes, the ladies, we love to push it on everybody else. 1.00

01:22:38.380 So we say, well, you have to go to college.

01:22:42.200 No, you don't.

01:22:43.860 If you don't want to, you don't.

01:22:45.060 And whenever women want to make a really bad decision, we have a tendency to make it, no matter what anybody tells us. 0.97

01:22:54.360 We don't like to listen.

01:22:56.040 Not all women. 0.96

01:22:56.840 YouTube.

01:22:57.320 Not all.

01:22:57.760 Not all.

01:22:58.220 Not all.

01:23:00.340 So you could say the same thing about a good decision.

01:23:03.680 If somebody really wants to make a good or a different decision, they will do it if they want to.

01:23:12.420 Most of America is fat.

01:23:14.240 And if you want to lose weight, you would take the choices to do it, right?

01:23:18.940 So a lot of women have no choice but to be in 50-50 relationships. 1.00

01:23:22.200 Again, the ladies choose it. 1.00

01:23:26.840 They choose it.

01:23:27.740 Choice.

01:23:28.780 Choice, choice, choice.

01:23:29.920 You know, if...

01:23:31.160 Okay, let's say being a housewife is your goal. 1.00

01:23:33.760 And you want to achieve that.

01:23:36.540 You get in really good shape.

01:23:38.760 You get a low-paying job near where high-earning men live at a young age.

01:23:44.380 Set your dating app there.

01:23:46.880 Go on a couple dates a week.

01:23:49.320 Or flirt with them at work.

01:23:51.720 Golf cart girl. 0.98

01:23:54.400 Clerk at a law firm.

01:23:55.640 I can think of like a million assistant to high-earning men.

01:24:01.160 Bartender at members clubs.

01:24:05.500 You know, one time...

01:24:06.660 So my dad, he bought box seats once to a game.

01:24:11.220 And it was the only time...

01:24:12.420 I think it was like his friend's box seat.

01:24:14.160 And we just got him because someone he knew had them or whatever.

01:24:18.140 And I remember there was a woman that came by that would serve dessert. 0.99

01:24:22.700 So she would come by and bring like the dessert cart. 0.85

01:24:25.740 And I remember thinking that woman, she was very morbidly obese. 0.76

01:24:31.680 And I was thinking, you know, the amount of rich men up here

01:24:36.580 is probably more than most people will ever meet in their life.

01:24:40.660 You are missing the opportunity of a lifetime.

01:24:43.380 Most women will never be in a room with men that wealthy.

01:24:51.640 And this woman was just squandering it away, being 300 pounds. 1.00

01:24:54.940 Nobody's going to look twice.

01:24:57.080 So again, this is like a get-out-of-jail-free card.

01:25:00.360 Where nobody's responsible for the choices they...

01:25:03.160 I mean, even men, right?

01:25:04.240 It's rare, right?

01:25:07.100 But if a man really wanted to be a house husband,

01:25:09.900 what would be the choices he could do to get there?

01:25:13.740 He could get really jacked, get in really incredibly good shape,

01:25:18.760 and target high-earning women that are a bit older, maybe fatter. 0.93

01:25:23.720 Now, you could say, oh, I don't want to do that.

01:25:27.600 I don't want to date a 50-year-old cougar.

01:25:29.560 Well, the ladies do it. 1.00

01:25:33.600 Feminism right back, you know. 1.00

01:25:35.740 I'm just saying, then we have a plan.

01:25:37.600 Then we have like a what do you want.

01:25:39.840 ...even if that's not what they want.

01:25:42.140 With that being said,

01:25:43.660 if you're going to be in a 50-50 relationship,

01:25:45.340 maybe the man should have some solutions.

01:25:47.340 It's not really the financial dynamic.

01:25:49.740 It's more the attitude that he's bringing to this new problem

01:25:53.100 that they're both...

01:25:53.920 Why?

01:25:54.940 Now, again,

01:25:56.160 why are we not responsible?

01:25:59.480 So if she's being irresponsible and she has signed up,

01:26:02.880 she's opted in to 50% of the rent,

01:26:05.760 why does he have to bail her out when she doesn't do it?

01:26:09.680 Why do...

01:26:13.720 we expect men to solve our problems? 0.99

01:26:17.340 The women... 1.00

01:26:20.320 I mean, the men don't expect us to solve their problems.

01:26:25.620 And again, we've had all these years of feminism 1.00

01:26:28.460 saying we want equality.

01:26:30.460 And the choices...

01:26:31.780 not the words.

01:26:33.160 The choices are still modern.

01:26:38.140 So...

01:26:38.700 Like, again, this is just becoming entitlement.

01:26:42.780 Experiencing or this fictitious problem.

01:26:44.760 I would prefer he stand up and go,

01:26:46.840 okay, I wasn't ready for this issue to pop up,

01:26:49.580 but I got to figure out what I'm going to do about this.

01:26:51.280 And I got to figure out how...

01:26:52.180 Again, see, it goes back to,

01:26:53.700 you must solve my irresponsibility.

01:26:57.100 You must solve...

01:26:58.140 Now, again,

01:26:59.480 if the ladies were staying for life, 1.00

01:27:02.900 I mean, that would be...

01:27:03.820 Oh, I should have put that up there.

01:27:05.500 Divorce.

01:27:07.220 If the ladies were actually staying 0.99

01:27:09.520 and not divorcing,

01:27:11.180 it would make sense.

01:27:13.540 Okay, at least we get the loyalty from the women. 1.00

01:27:16.580 We know they're not going to leave.

01:27:19.300 But conservative women divorce just as much as liberal women. 1.00

01:27:22.620 So,

01:27:26.360 now,

01:27:28.680 why would the man

01:27:30.180 put in

01:27:31.340 all of this extra money

01:27:33.860 to pay for you

01:27:35.980 when it's more likely,

01:27:37.960 or there's at least a 50-50 shot

01:27:40.000 that you're going to stay?

01:27:41.880 Wouldn't it make more sense

01:27:43.060 from a guy's point of view

01:27:44.260 to have her work

01:27:46.400 the first 10 years?

01:27:48.060 Let's make sure she stays. 1.00

01:27:49.360 I understand if there's a kid,

01:27:51.680 maybe that's different,

01:27:52.640 but is it?

01:27:53.720 I mean, it's one,

01:27:54.880 not 10,

01:27:55.560 one on average.

01:27:57.400 We're going to cross our T's

01:27:58.300 and dot our I's,

01:27:59.000 and I'm going to get up

01:27:59.700 and have some solutions here.

01:28:01.360 Instead, he's saying,

01:28:02.340 I don't know who we pay our rent to

01:28:03.920 or how we pay the rent.

01:28:05.260 I don't know what happens

01:28:06.220 if we come up with a late rent payment.

01:28:08.100 I don't know what to do

01:28:09.160 in response to this,

01:28:10.160 and sort of throws the problem

01:28:11.740 back onto her,

01:28:13.100 which for me

01:28:14.080 doesn't really work.

01:28:15.320 It's not very masculine.

01:28:17.000 I'm going to need some solutions.

01:28:18.740 Yeah.

01:28:18.900 So then this goes back

01:28:20.120 to the common conservative trope.

01:28:22.260 You're not a real man 1.00

01:28:23.420 if you don't bail me out

01:28:26.240 of my bad decisions.

01:28:27.960 You're not a real man 1.00

01:28:28.980 if you don't man up

01:28:29.660 and marry these hoes. 1.00

01:28:30.820 You're not a real man. 0.59

01:28:31.880 I mean, that's what they keep saying.

01:28:33.380 In trust,

01:28:33.900 this couple is already getting 0.99

01:28:34.780 enough heat online,

01:28:35.740 so I don't want to necessarily

01:28:36.920 add to that.

01:28:38.000 People are commenting up a storm.

01:28:40.200 The first comment says,

01:28:41.080 you know what?

01:28:41.600 Hell no.

01:28:42.480 Take me back to provider talk,

01:28:44.220 meaning they want to see

01:28:45.000 the versions of this

01:28:45.860 with the providers

01:28:46.860 rather than this 50-50 thing.

01:28:48.600 He literally had no solutions.

01:28:50.980 Embarrassing.

01:28:51.580 Oh, okay.

01:28:52.360 I like the ones

01:28:53.160 where the man is the provider.

01:28:54.800 And somebody else said,

01:28:55.700 thank you for marrying him.

01:28:57.180 Somebody had to,

01:28:58.140 and I'm glad it wasn't me.

01:29:00.960 Ooh.

01:29:02.820 Ooh.

01:29:03.420 I don't know if she was ready for that.

01:29:04.720 I think there's a lot of people

01:29:06.200 who sort of film these moments

01:29:07.280 in their relationships

01:29:07.960 and they're posting it online

01:29:09.440 thinking it's going to be funny.

01:29:10.720 Ha ha.

01:29:11.440 And then it doesn't end up

01:29:12.700 being funny at all.

01:29:14.640 I wish her well.

01:29:15.620 And you know what?

01:29:16.100 We're just seeing

01:29:16.620 a small sliver

01:29:17.380 of their relationship.

01:29:18.380 I'm sure they have

01:29:18.940 a good, fun dynamic going on

01:29:20.920 and hopefully she is happy

01:29:22.960 where she is.

01:29:23.580 But I think,

01:29:24.160 like the comments suggest,

01:29:25.200 we're going to move on

01:29:26.040 to the provider relationships

01:29:28.080 and see what the difference is.

01:29:29.560 Hi, babe.

01:29:31.340 Hi.

01:29:32.740 So I checked my account today.

01:29:36.320 And, um...

01:29:37.260 Your account?

01:29:38.020 Yeah.

01:29:38.280 And I'm not going to be able

01:29:39.520 to pay the mortgage this month.

01:29:46.400 You're not going to what?

01:29:47.740 I'm not going to be able

01:29:48.480 to pay the mortgage this month.

01:29:50.380 Well, hell,

01:29:51.000 you don't ever pay

01:29:51.900 the fucking mortgage anyway.

01:29:54.440 Well, what's fucking changed?

01:29:55.800 I was just going to let you know

01:29:56.860 that I can't pay it this month.

01:29:58.100 Oh, well, thanks for letting me know.

01:29:59.680 Ha ha ha.

01:30:00.680 Ha ha ha.

01:30:01.680 Ha ha ha.

01:30:03.840 I like that there's

01:30:04.880 a good energy about that.

01:30:06.060 And, you know,

01:30:06.480 we're just comparing,

01:30:07.460 you know,

01:30:07.740 two separate videos.

01:30:08.900 There's a lot within

01:30:09.740 these relationships

01:30:10.340 that we're not seeing.

01:30:11.460 But there does seem to be

01:30:12.420 a certain comfortability there.

01:30:14.460 And, of course, you know,

01:30:15.620 it's hard for him to believe

01:30:16.700 considering she's never

01:30:18.080 paid the mortgage

01:30:18.840 in the first place.

01:30:19.700 But it's interesting

01:30:20.380 to just watch a man

01:30:21.220 go full force and say,

01:30:22.460 what are you talking about?

01:30:23.880 You don't even pay a mortgage.

01:30:25.300 Let's watch another one

01:30:26.040 while we're on provider talk.

01:30:28.220 Babe, 0.51

01:30:29.260 I can't pay the mortgage

01:30:30.480 this month.

01:30:33.100 What?

01:30:33.920 I can't pay the mortgage

01:30:35.120 this month.

01:30:35.620 I'm so sorry.

01:30:36.640 Do we have another house?

01:30:38.560 No.

01:30:39.680 What mortgage are you paying?

01:30:42.540 I just can't pay it.

01:30:45.240 Why would you pay the mortgage?

01:30:47.580 I just thought I'd help,

01:30:49.140 but I can't.

01:30:51.160 Help with what?

01:30:52.460 A mortgage.

01:30:53.920 I can't pay it.

01:30:55.860 When do you ever pay the mortgage?

01:30:58.080 I thought I'd start.

01:31:00.040 Why?

01:31:01.180 To help you.

01:31:02.300 Like to buy a second house?

01:31:03.540 No, this house.

01:31:04.280 The one we live in?

01:31:06.320 Yeah.

01:31:08.080 Why did you pay for the house

01:31:09.300 we live in?

01:31:10.440 Because I live here.

01:31:11.440 I wanted to help.

01:31:12.740 Yeah, you live here.

01:31:13.440 You don't pay for it.

01:31:14.680 Yeah, but...

01:31:15.400 Okay.

01:31:16.400 I wanted to help you.

01:31:17.940 No help necessary.

01:31:19.300 You do more than enough

01:31:20.120 with this, that, and that.

01:31:24.180 Yeah, but you help a lot too.

01:31:26.080 So I wanted to help you.

01:31:26.880 Yeah, but this is my job.

01:31:29.020 Okay.

01:31:30.040 Okay.

01:31:30.600 He said, this is my job.

01:31:32.560 Music to my ears.

01:31:33.860 I'm starting to wonder

01:31:34.500 whether or not this is a skit.

01:31:35.760 Now, the interesting thing

01:31:37.200 I'm going to point out,

01:31:38.600 I looked it up before this show.

01:31:41.040 What percent of married women 0.99

01:31:42.440 do you think get to stay at home?

01:31:46.080 What percent, guys?

01:31:47.300 What percent?

01:31:49.380 One out of four.

01:31:51.680 Meaning, meaning,

01:31:52.600 you've got to be in the top

01:31:54.900 quarter of women 1.00

01:31:56.260 in order to get that.

01:31:58.740 So what is going to happen here

01:32:00.480 is this is going to be

01:32:01.880 selling dreams

01:32:03.060 to ladies that will not get this 1.00

01:32:04.960 because, unfortunately,

01:32:06.080 we've made terrible decisions.

01:32:09.400 Unfortunately,

01:32:09.880 I don't say this in, like,

01:32:10.820 a happy way.

01:32:12.440 And what they're going to do

01:32:14.120 is instead of saying,

01:32:15.920 ladies, make better decisions 1.00

01:32:18.080 so you can get that,

01:32:19.580 what it's going to turn into

01:32:20.660 is, men,

01:32:21.560 you're not real men 0.93

01:32:23.120 if you don't do this.

01:32:24.480 And it's going to be

01:32:25.420 shaming language of

01:32:26.900 if you don't pay for women 0.99

01:32:28.740 that have,

01:32:29.680 that statistically will leave

01:32:31.180 at some point,

01:32:32.520 you are not a real man.

01:32:36.420 With how perfect he is.

01:32:37.860 They said, yep,

01:32:38.480 it's selling dreams.

01:32:39.700 I'm going to check the chat

01:32:40.700 really quick.

01:32:41.900 I like to interact with you guys.

01:32:43.340 You go to the website,

01:32:44.480 theaudacitynetwork.com,

01:32:46.420 10 bucks a month

01:32:47.340 and I read your chats.

01:32:48.800 It's so,

01:32:49.280 it's such a simple,

01:32:50.180 it's on the app store.

01:32:51.940 Links in the description.

01:32:53.020 Okay.

01:32:54.400 All right.

01:32:54.780 As 100 men,

01:32:55.780 12 hours is 69 minutes

01:32:57.640 for each.

01:32:58.280 Numbers are so fun.

01:32:59.280 So for her to do

01:32:59.880 1,000 men in a day,

01:33:01.260 I think that is 1.44 minutes each

01:33:03.660 for men for 24 hours straight.

01:33:06.340 Can a man get in and out

01:33:07.500 in one and a half minutes?

01:33:10.640 Is that even possible?

01:33:11.560 As long as you believe it,

01:33:12.440 you can fake it

01:33:13.000 until you make it.

01:33:13.640 Rob, six.

01:33:14.220 My sister did her PhD thesis

01:33:16.300 on 45 years ago

01:33:17.580 that prostitutes 0.99

01:33:18.440 are basically grape scenarios

01:33:20.720 on a continuous basis.

01:33:22.320 She would argue that point

01:33:23.460 till her dying days.

01:33:25.700 Edward, you're on your own network,

01:33:27.260 but still censor yourself

01:33:28.360 for YouTube.

01:33:29.440 It's so ridiculous to say porn

01:33:30.780 because YouTube

01:33:31.480 won't allow you to say porn.

01:33:33.180 The nanny state is disgusting. 1.00

01:33:35.460 I don't, you know,

01:33:36.100 then get more of you

01:33:37.000 to sign up for my website

01:33:38.240 and I'll only stream there.

01:33:39.600 I don't know what to tell you,

01:33:41.660 you know.

01:33:42.440 All right.

01:33:43.380 Please call

01:33:44.220 Save Indian Family Foundation.

01:33:46.940 She has not been on point

01:33:48.020 in her explanation

01:33:48.820 of the situation.

01:33:49.940 The person who died

01:33:50.720 was associated

01:33:51.820 with the SIFF Foundation.

01:33:53.680 She's a feminist. 1.00

01:33:55.920 Well, you can have them

01:33:56.860 message me.

01:33:58.460 Okay, let me go back.

01:33:59.800 Answers are with everything.

01:34:01.420 And of course,

01:34:01.840 I'm in a more traditional mindset.

01:34:03.780 I do like the...

01:34:04.740 Okay, but notice she says

01:34:06.060 traditional mindset.

01:34:07.320 Not traditional actions.

01:34:12.220 Okay.

01:34:14.200 I'm gonna...

01:34:15.100 I'm gonna take it down

01:34:16.660 for one second,

01:34:17.580 but I'm gonna do some research.

01:34:19.320 So Amala Prager University.

01:34:25.340 Age.

01:34:25.960 Okay, she's 24.

01:34:27.320 So she's got one year

01:34:28.460 to get a ring

01:34:29.780 before she goes from my...

01:34:31.740 Before she goes from my left board

01:34:34.200 to my right board.

01:34:35.320 Then I'm gonna go on her

01:34:38.600 and...

01:34:39.500 Let me see my other page.

01:34:42.160 Go on Instagram.

01:34:43.720 And by the way,

01:34:44.500 this is not an insult.

01:34:45.800 I'm just...

01:34:46.260 I'm just pointing out

01:34:47.260 the difference

01:34:47.960 between...

01:34:49.660 Oh.

01:34:50.900 Between actions

01:34:52.480 and words.

01:34:53.800 Okay.

01:34:55.840 Um...

01:34:56.360 What the...

01:34:59.580 Okay, hold on, guys.

01:35:00.560 I have to get into

01:35:01.340 my Instagram.

01:35:02.140 I got locked out

01:35:03.020 so I can look up

01:35:04.420 her Instagram

01:35:05.020 because I'm pretty sure

01:35:06.240 she's got a sleeve tattoo.

01:35:08.160 I'm not positive.

01:35:09.500 I don't want to say that.

01:35:10.640 I don't want to...

01:35:11.620 I'm just gonna Google it.

01:35:13.080 Amala.

01:35:16.720 Sleeve tattoo.

01:35:19.740 Yeah, I thought so.

01:35:21.780 Yeah.

01:35:22.340 So, you know,

01:35:23.440 this just kind of looks

01:35:25.940 like one of the...

01:35:27.020 Have you seen those?

01:35:29.440 Like, your trad wife, sir? 0.68

01:35:31.520 And it's not...

01:35:32.460 It's not meant to be a knock.

01:35:33.840 It's...

01:35:34.500 It just...

01:35:36.360 It's not what they're, like,

01:35:37.980 selling, right?

01:35:39.400 Because if we look at

01:35:40.840 words, actions,

01:35:42.280 words, actions,

01:35:43.860 um...

01:35:45.500 They differ.

01:35:46.880 Okay, let me go back.

01:35:48.560 What the...

01:35:49.500 Hold on.

01:35:54.500 Oh, here we go.

01:35:55.380 Okay.

01:35:57.560 ...roles in leaning into them

01:35:58.820 for I feel like it brings about

01:36:00.060 healthier dynamics

01:36:00.820 within relationships.

01:36:01.860 Now, that is not the case for all.

01:36:03.660 Some people really don't want

01:36:05.140 that dynamic

01:36:05.660 within their relationship

01:36:06.480 and they don't feel like

01:36:07.240 it plays to their strengths.

01:36:08.540 With my outlook on relationships,

01:36:09.760 I feel like it's better for women 0.98

01:36:10.860 to lean into their femininity 0.74

01:36:12.100 and this involves the nurturing

01:36:13.360 and taking care of the household

01:36:14.720 and children,

01:36:15.880 which is...

01:36:16.560 Okay.

01:36:22.340 I think that some women, 1.00

01:36:24.040 not all,

01:36:25.380 use wanting

01:36:27.020 to be a housewife 0.75

01:36:29.760 as a way to not work

01:36:30.840 and be lazy.

01:36:32.460 The reason I think this

01:36:33.920 is because

01:36:34.520 when I was going into

01:36:35.440 divorce documents,

01:36:37.400 it shocked me

01:36:38.320 how many stay-at-home wives 1.00

01:36:41.100 still had nannies.

01:36:42.560 What on earth?

01:36:44.080 Especially from wealthy men.

01:36:45.880 So, you know,

01:36:46.160 the Crowder divorce was one.

01:36:48.240 They had a nanny 0.80

01:36:49.040 40 to 60 hours a week

01:36:50.820 while she's touting

01:36:52.060 on social media

01:36:52.920 how she's a stay-at-home wife. 1.00

01:36:54.620 Now, obviously,

01:36:55.660 that's the ideal,

01:36:56.580 but it's only the ideal

01:36:57.540 if they're really involved

01:36:59.440 in their kid's life.

01:37:01.540 And again,

01:37:02.240 once the kid is four,

01:37:03.920 I still go back

01:37:04.780 to the question,

01:37:05.560 what are you doing all day?

01:37:06.900 Now, again,

01:37:07.860 we can go to more

01:37:08.740 traditional areas

01:37:09.840 like the Amish.

01:37:11.100 I would never say

01:37:13.140 that they're not

01:37:13.880 doing stuff all day.

01:37:15.600 But sometimes I think

01:37:20.240 women just want that 1.00

01:37:22.020 as a get-out-of-jail-free card.

01:37:25.100 Oh, I'm traditional now,

01:37:28.120 but I was liberal before.

01:37:30.460 It just...

01:37:31.500 Hard work,

01:37:32.460 where men go out

01:37:33.500 and do their own version

01:37:34.440 of hard work

01:37:35.040 that brings the resources

01:37:36.240 to make sure

01:37:36.960 everything stays up and running.

01:37:39.220 And it seems like

01:37:39.760 they have a very healthy relationship,

01:37:41.380 at least in this small clip

01:37:42.420 that we've seen,

01:37:42.980 that's working out

01:37:44.080 based on those gendered roles.

01:37:45.840 I don't know,

01:37:46.200 there's just an underlying energy

01:37:47.620 of security

01:37:48.440 that exists within the videos

01:37:50.240 where the man is providing

01:37:51.260 and he goes,

01:37:51.740 what are you talking about?

01:37:52.800 You don't have to worry about that.

01:37:54.340 And as a woman,

01:37:55.140 it's kind of nice

01:37:55.740 to be able to

01:37:56.460 shut off your brain

01:37:57.580 at least to some capacity

01:37:58.780 and not have to

01:37:59.620 worry about these things

01:38:00.720 and know that somebody's

01:38:02.140 got you in that respect.

01:38:03.220 Whereas when we watch

01:38:03.840 that 50-50 video,

01:38:04.680 not only is that woman

01:38:05.420 not supported financially,

01:38:06.660 which is something,

01:38:07.640 you know,

01:38:07.780 a lot of us have to deal with

01:38:08.960 and that's just the nature

01:38:09.960 of the world these days,

01:38:11.020 but she doesn't.

01:38:13.500 A lot of us have to deal

01:38:15.120 with like paying for yourself

01:38:16.780 like an adult.

01:38:19.520 We're having 1.5 kids,

01:38:21.980 not seven.

01:38:23.700 One.

01:38:25.520 One.

01:38:27.520 One.

01:38:28.520 Doesn't seem to be supported

01:38:29.920 mentally either

01:38:31.200 as far as tackling problems

01:38:33.160 as they arise.

01:38:34.160 And this is not to bring down

01:38:35.040 all 50-50 couples.

01:38:36.160 I know there are many out there

01:38:37.320 where the man is...

01:38:37.980 Let me get this straight.

01:38:41.880 She says,

01:38:43.640 I made the mistake

01:38:44.900 of not paying the mortgage

01:38:46.360 because I spent too much shopping.

01:38:52.080 You know,

01:38:53.140 I respect the men more

01:38:56.540 that say figure it out,

01:38:58.260 deal with the problem you caused.

01:39:00.200 Now,

01:39:01.340 it's one thing

01:39:02.180 if that's the traditional,

01:39:03.860 you know,

01:39:04.060 that's what their arrangement,

01:39:05.440 right?

01:39:06.440 But,

01:39:07.060 I get,

01:39:08.420 I'm just not Captain Save-A-Ho.

01:39:10.760 I'm just really not,

01:39:12.080 you know.

01:39:12.920 If you spend a bunch

01:39:14.160 of money shopping,

01:39:15.820 I don't know why

01:39:17.980 you wouldn't have

01:39:18.900 to figure it out.

01:39:20.040 ...is ready for solutions

01:39:21.560 as soon as a problem pops up.

01:39:23.180 Just seems like

01:39:23.800 that first video

01:39:24.460 maybe got us off

01:39:25.200 on the wrong foot.

01:39:25.880 We'll watch one more

01:39:26.440 of the providers

01:39:26.940 just for fun.

01:39:27.800 Babe, 0.51

01:39:28.000 so I'm not going to be able

01:39:28.720 to pay the mortgage this month

01:39:30.020 because I did a little

01:39:30.760 too much Christmas shopping.

01:39:33.200 Like our house mortgage?

01:39:34.720 Yeah.

01:39:35.780 Do you even know

01:39:36.400 how to pay the house mortgage?

01:39:37.440 Money and my money

01:39:38.240 is our money?

01:39:39.640 The bills are paid.

01:39:40.600 The mortgage has been paid.

01:39:42.000 What do you mean?

01:39:42.920 So you're not mad?

01:39:44.260 Why would I be mad

01:39:45.160 if you never paid a mortgage?

01:39:46.540 Like,

01:39:47.480 what's the difference this month?

01:39:49.180 Because I shopped

01:39:50.100 a little too much

01:39:51.020 and so I can't help you.

01:39:51.680 Did you get the things

01:39:52.520 you wanted?

01:39:53.320 Yeah.

01:39:53.820 Okay then,

01:39:54.480 we're fine.

01:39:55.020 Like,

01:39:55.760 the bills are paid

01:39:56.580 and you went shopping?

01:39:57.480 Oh well.

01:39:58.020 Like,

01:39:58.460 I get paid again.

01:39:59.700 Okay.

01:40:00.420 Okay.

01:40:00.980 Okay,

01:40:01.500 he said.

01:40:01.900 Put it to bed.

01:40:02.600 You don't got to worry about it.

01:40:03.640 Who's stressed?

01:40:04.660 Not me.

01:40:05.380 You know what?

01:40:05.820 I find it hard to believe

01:40:06.700 that most women 1.00

01:40:07.680 do not want

01:40:08.660 this sort of relationship.

01:40:10.700 I know there's going

01:40:11.440 to be many

01:40:11.900 who say

01:40:12.880 they don't care

01:40:13.980 and even men

01:40:14.820 I'm not saying

01:40:15.840 they don't want it.

01:40:17.160 I'm saying

01:40:17.780 you don't get it.

01:40:19.680 I'm saying

01:40:20.380 statistically

01:40:21.220 you will not

01:40:22.800 get this.

01:40:23.600 it's not going

01:40:24.820 to happen.

01:40:26.060 Out of married women 1.00

01:40:27.240 so out of the women 1.00

01:40:28.180 that get married

01:40:29.320 which half won't

01:40:31.060 out of the ones

01:40:34.520 that stay married

01:40:35.620 half will divorce

01:40:36.580 or sorry

01:40:37.280 out of the ones

01:40:38.040 that get married

01:40:38.760 half divorce

01:40:39.660 out of the ones

01:40:42.200 that are still married

01:40:43.500 a quarter

01:40:44.560 get one spouse 1.00

01:40:46.220 to stay home.

01:40:47.120 It's 23%.

01:40:48.520 It's selling dreams.

01:40:53.560 This is the problem

01:40:54.300 with social media.

01:40:55.260 So now you got

01:40:55.740 the teacher

01:40:56.380 you know

01:40:57.240 she's got her kid

01:40:58.220 in public school

01:40:59.160 she teaches

01:40:59.860 at the school

01:41:00.540 and she goes home

01:41:01.320 and says

01:41:01.740 Bob

01:41:03.580 I was looking

01:41:07.600 at provider talk

01:41:08.840 why don't you

01:41:09.420 do this?

01:41:11.380 He's like

01:41:11.780 wait wait wait wait

01:41:12.980 I like the

01:41:13.880 I like the 50-50 1.00

01:41:16.420 I don't

01:41:16.960 the kid's old

01:41:17.860 get a job

01:41:19.100 she's no no no 0.97

01:41:20.820 provider talk

01:41:22.220 any who are looking

01:41:23.700 exactly for a 50-50

01:41:25.020 relationship

01:41:25.600 but my goodness

01:41:27.060 I'd prefer

01:41:27.880 this

01:41:28.740 I prefer this one

01:41:29.860 and I feel like

01:41:30.620 many of the single

01:41:31.340 women that I know 0.94

01:41:32.260 as somebody who's

01:41:33.140 in my 20s

01:41:33.760 in LA

01:41:34.280 they're looking

01:41:35.200 for this too

01:41:35.880 they're just finding

01:41:36.920 it a little difficult

01:41:37.740 to find

01:41:38.300 and of course

01:41:38.980 now again

01:41:39.940 bored

01:41:42.140 bored

01:41:43.860 which one

01:41:46.420 are they woman

01:41:47.180 on the left

01:41:47.900 or woman on the right

01:41:48.920 it's fine

01:41:50.100 most women 0.99

01:41:51.840 are on the right

01:41:52.700 it's okay

01:41:53.480 I'm not saying

01:41:55.080 you're a bad person

01:41:56.140 but

01:41:58.380 left right

01:41:59.860 left right

01:42:00.680 which one

01:42:01.520 there is the reality

01:42:03.440 that 50-50

01:42:04.500 is the norm

01:42:05.280 because in many ways

01:42:06.240 it has to be

01:42:06.880 with the economy

01:42:07.560 a lot of people

01:42:08.120 have to be

01:42:08.560 in dual income

01:42:09.380 households

01:42:09.920 where

01:42:10.220 no

01:42:11.020 you don't

01:42:14.840 have to be

01:42:15.740 you made the choice

01:42:17.040 not to

01:42:17.640 you're telling me

01:42:18.460 okay

01:42:18.780 if at 18 years old

01:42:20.880 you said

01:42:21.300 I'm going to be

01:42:23.120 a housewife

01:42:23.840 I will marry rich

01:42:26.460 this is what

01:42:27.760 you would have

01:42:28.400 if you wanted this

01:42:29.400 this is what

01:42:29.900 you would know

01:42:30.420 you would know

01:42:31.500 exactly what

01:42:32.680 professions

01:42:33.360 make a lot of money

01:42:35.240 you would have a list

01:42:36.280 you would know

01:42:36.940 okay

01:42:37.880 doctors make

01:42:39.040 this much

01:42:39.780 they'll want

01:42:40.620 to have kids

01:42:41.220 on average

01:42:41.760 in their 40s

01:42:42.680 after medical school

01:42:43.980 or maybe you have

01:42:45.080 to meet them

01:42:45.660 at the medical school

01:42:46.680 maybe there's one

01:42:47.500 near you

01:42:47.860 I don't know

01:42:48.320 lawyers

01:42:49.360 I don't know

01:42:50.740 I don't know

01:42:51.080 what you're into

01:42:51.660 engineers

01:42:52.320 maybe

01:42:55.280 maybe you want

01:42:56.080 to be an MLB

01:42:56.940 baseball wife

01:42:57.900 okay

01:42:58.320 well

01:42:59.320 are you hot

01:43:00.200 if you

01:43:02.140 if not

01:43:02.920 are you going

01:43:03.260 to go get

01:43:03.620 surgery

01:43:04.080 to get hot

01:43:04.920 no

01:43:07.240 okay

01:43:08.140 do you know

01:43:08.700 where they hang

01:43:09.300 out

01:43:09.680 have you researched

01:43:12.460 where they hang

01:43:13.300 out

01:43:13.700 well I don't care

01:43:15.020 what it is

01:43:15.740 but

01:43:16.080 what choices

01:43:18.240 have you made

01:43:18.900 are you young

01:43:19.560 are you

01:43:20.500 did you make

01:43:21.760 that

01:43:22.100 when you have

01:43:22.900 the most

01:43:23.220 bargaining power

01:43:24.140 it's okay

01:43:24.620 if you didn't

01:43:25.360 all I'm saying

01:43:28.380 is choices

01:43:29.340 it's just

01:43:30.920 annoying me

01:43:31.480 okay

01:43:31.760 they're both

01:43:32.540 carrying a little

01:43:33.440 bit of the weight

01:43:34.460 but I'm also

01:43:35.420 seeing this

01:43:36.480 push towards

01:43:37.660 the cultural

01:43:38.680 norm of 50-50

01:43:40.140 yeah because

01:43:41.180 what's happening

01:43:41.840 is women 0.99

01:43:42.660 all we made

01:43:43.520 all these

01:43:43.880 modern decisions

01:43:44.860 and now we

01:43:45.500 said yeah

01:43:46.680 we want the

01:43:47.460 traditional

01:43:48.020 we want the

01:43:48.820 traditional back

01:43:49.920 and the men

01:43:50.900 are saying

01:43:51.280 hell no

01:43:52.340 they're saying

01:43:53.660 F that

01:43:54.480 you're going

01:43:54.840 to give me

01:43:55.240 one and a half

01:43:55.960 kids

01:43:56.380 one two

01:43:57.040 kids tops

01:43:57.880 I'm not

01:43:59.960 signing up

01:44:00.500 for that

01:44:00.840 that not

01:44:01.500 only are we

01:44:02.140 forced to be

01:44:02.700 in this dynamic

01:44:03.240 but we should

01:44:03.780 expect that

01:44:04.360 in our

01:44:04.820 relationships

01:44:05.480 and a video

01:44:06.220 that went

01:44:06.520 super viral

01:44:06.940 recently that

01:44:07.580 really pointed

01:44:08.060 this out to

01:44:08.520 me was actually

01:44:09.160 American men

01:44:10.000 being asked

01:44:10.500 about 50-50

01:44:11.020 relationships

01:44:11.620 and then

01:44:12.340 Russian men

01:44:13.200 being asked

01:44:13.940 about that

01:44:14.580 very same

01:44:15.300 dynamic

01:44:15.560 okay

01:44:15.840 I think

01:44:16.420 we get

01:44:16.720 the idea

01:44:17.260 here

01:44:18.260 but this

01:44:19.000 is

01:44:19.240 this is

01:44:21.380 what

01:44:21.580 conservatism

01:44:22.640 has not

01:44:23.440 caught up

01:44:23.920 with

01:44:24.120 so

01:44:24.400 I looked

01:44:26.300 up

01:44:26.500 23%

01:44:27.540 have one

01:44:28.680 spouse

01:44:29.060 that stays

01:44:29.700 home

01:44:30.020 of married

01:44:30.480 couples

01:44:30.940 50%

01:44:32.180 of women

01:44:32.940 millennial

01:44:34.080 women 1.00

01:44:34.480 which is

01:44:35.520 28 to

01:44:37.000 like 42

01:44:38.080 or something

01:44:38.880 roughly there

01:44:39.600 are married

01:44:40.620 and guess

01:44:42.440 what percent

01:44:43.080 of women

01:44:43.680 that are

01:44:44.140 Gen Z 0.62

01:44:44.660 are making

01:44:45.560 traditional

01:44:46.460 decisions

01:44:47.000 so

01:44:47.460 3%

01:44:49.900 3.75%

01:44:51.820 of Gen Z

01:44:52.640 women 1.00

01:44:52.900 are married

01:44:53.420 Gen Z 0.62

01:44:56.360 I think

01:44:56.660 that's up

01:44:57.020 to 26

01:44:57.920 right now

01:44:58.600 27

01:45:00.780 yeah

01:45:06.560 so up

01:45:07.100 to 27

01:45:07.740 I'm not

01:45:08.140 saying it's

01:45:08.400 right or

01:45:08.720 wrong

01:45:08.960 but I'm

01:45:09.260 saying the

01:45:09.600 data

01:45:09.960 if I

01:45:10.440 pull

01:45:10.660 Gen Z 0.62

01:45:11.080 women 1.00

01:45:11.340 it says

01:45:11.700 men are

01:45:12.160 seventh

01:45:12.560 in priorities

01:45:13.300 seventh

01:45:14.820 okay

01:45:17.100 like I'm

01:45:17.660 okay

01:45:19.380 now there's

01:45:20.620 this idea

01:45:21.080 too that

01:45:21.760 we deserve

01:45:22.480 to stay

01:45:23.140 home

01:45:23.540 if you

01:45:24.620 have three

01:45:25.040 kids

01:45:25.440 I'm gonna

01:45:25.780 give it

01:45:26.120 to you

01:45:26.360 you could

01:45:26.760 stay home

01:45:27.500 I mean

01:45:28.620 the kids

01:45:29.500 go to

01:45:29.820 preschool

01:45:30.240 at like

01:45:30.660 three

01:45:31.060 four

01:45:31.680 that's

01:45:32.900 like a

01:45:33.200 decade

01:45:33.520 right

01:45:33.940 okay

01:45:34.360 but

01:45:35.700 you know

01:45:37.580 I was

01:45:39.520 doing the

01:45:39.940 math on

01:45:40.480 this

01:45:40.660 you could

01:45:40.960 become a

01:45:41.440 server

01:45:41.880 $31,000

01:45:43.160 a year

01:45:43.920 a secretary

01:45:45.140 $44,000

01:45:46.760 a year

01:45:47.180 journalism

01:45:47.780 $72,000

01:45:48.940 a year

01:45:49.300 I just

01:45:49.780 looked up

01:45:50.120 the average

01:45:50.640 teacher

01:45:51.440 salary

01:45:51.920 $71

01:45:52.620 hairdresser

01:45:53.580 $43,000

01:45:54.620 so

01:45:55.640 I'm

01:45:56.400 thinking

01:45:56.860 and I'm

01:45:57.900 just gonna

01:45:58.520 do some

01:45:59.340 calculations

01:46:00.140 so let's

01:46:01.040 do the

01:46:01.380 lowest paid

01:46:02.120 of all

01:46:02.420 of those

01:46:02.780 $31,000

01:46:04.580 and let's

01:46:06.640 say

01:46:07.040 the woman 0.98

01:46:08.520 has two

01:46:09.180 kids

01:46:09.640 and stays

01:46:10.600 home with

01:46:11.160 them

01:46:11.340 even in

01:46:11.780 this model

01:46:12.420 stays home

01:46:13.760 with them

01:46:14.120 until the

01:46:14.600 kid

01:46:14.940 is five

01:46:17.240 okay

01:46:17.660 let's say

01:46:18.020 they have

01:46:18.320 a 40

01:46:18.740 year marriage

01:46:19.400 so

01:46:20.360 they have

01:46:21.040 a decade

01:46:21.520 of the

01:46:22.120 mom

01:46:22.900 staying

01:46:23.280 home

01:46:23.560 she goes

01:46:24.140 back

01:46:24.500 back

01:46:24.860 to work

01:46:25.260 at a

01:46:25.500 server

01:46:25.800 I mean

01:46:27.120 $31,000

01:46:28.300 times 30

01:46:29.440 that's a

01:46:30.740 million dollars

01:46:31.540 you don't

01:46:32.800 want to

01:46:33.000 help

01:46:33.260 you don't

01:46:34.920 think that

01:46:35.280 would be

01:46:35.540 pretty helpful

01:46:36.140 to your

01:46:36.560 husband

01:46:36.940 who on

01:46:38.300 average

01:46:38.560 makes

01:46:38.860 $65,000

01:46:40.040 a year

01:46:40.740 no

01:46:42.400 why do

01:46:43.900 you deserve

01:46:44.420 to

01:46:44.840 again

01:46:46.000 not right

01:46:46.560 or wrong

01:46:47.060 but

01:46:47.520 you know

01:46:49.780 we're

01:46:50.300 leaving

01:46:50.680 after

01:46:51.140 and I

01:46:52.200 saw a

01:46:52.640 woman 0.99

01:46:52.860 that

01:46:53.140 sort

01:46:53.400 of

01:46:53.540 shared

01:46:53.940 this

01:46:54.300 sentiment

01:46:54.800 on

01:46:55.900 TikTok

01:46:56.340 I

01:46:56.800 make it

01:46:57.080 canceled

01:46:58.320 for this

01:46:58.900 but

01:46:59.520 I

01:47:00.560 don't

01:47:00.900 want

01:47:01.400 my

01:47:02.600 husband

01:47:03.060 to

01:47:04.680 just

01:47:04.980 work

01:47:05.360 and pay

01:47:05.760 bills

01:47:06.180 I

01:47:07.480 don't

01:47:07.720 want

01:47:08.020 him

01:47:08.340 to

01:47:08.620 not

01:47:08.880 have

01:47:09.080 a

01:47:09.220 hobby

01:47:09.560 I

01:47:10.320 don't

01:47:10.560 want

01:47:10.840 him

01:47:11.060 to

01:47:11.260 not

01:47:11.460 have

01:47:11.640 healthy

01:47:11.960 mental

01:47:12.300 health

01:47:12.800 I

01:47:13.480 don't

01:47:13.740 want

01:47:14.040 him

01:47:14.340 to

01:47:14.580 not

01:47:14.840 have

01:47:15.080 savings

01:47:15.640 I

01:47:16.660 don't

01:47:16.900 want

01:47:17.220 him

01:47:17.680 to

01:47:18.820 work

01:47:20.880 and

01:47:21.180 slave

01:47:21.700 all

01:47:22.520 day

01:47:22.780 every

01:47:23.100 day

01:47:23.500 to

01:47:24.200 take

01:47:24.560 care

01:47:24.800 of

01:47:25.020 my

01:47:25.260 bills

01:47:25.740 our

01:47:26.420 bills

01:47:27.000 and

01:47:28.040 me

01:47:28.320 just

01:47:28.640 sit

01:47:28.860 there

01:47:29.220 and

01:47:29.980 not

01:47:30.260 contribute

01:47:30.760 anything

01:47:31.600 this

01:47:33.740 is

01:47:33.920 coming

01:47:34.220 from

01:47:35.040 a

01:47:36.300 young

01:47:36.520 lady

01:47:36.860 who

01:47:37.240 has

01:47:37.520 never

01:47:37.820 been

01:47:38.040 married

01:47:38.360 I

01:47:38.940 don't

01:47:39.120 have

01:47:39.300 any

01:47:39.480 kids

01:47:39.900 I

01:47:40.640 have

01:47:40.780 a

01:47:40.880 dog

01:47:41.320 I

01:47:43.000 am

01:47:43.080 fully

01:47:43.280 educated

01:47:43.780 pay

01:47:44.860 my

01:47:45.020 bills

01:47:45.380 right

01:47:45.620 now

01:47:45.960 and

01:47:46.580 it

01:47:46.700 is

01:47:46.840 difficult

01:47:47.200 I

01:47:48.420 have

01:47:48.560 a

01:47:48.660 great

01:47:48.860 career

01:47:49.280 and

01:47:49.700 it

01:47:49.820 is

01:47:49.980 difficult

01:47:50.360 so

01:47:51.360 when

01:47:51.560 I

01:47:51.760 think

01:47:52.100 of

01:47:52.540 getting

01:47:53.140 married

01:47:53.680 and

01:47:56.320 building

01:47:57.380 with

01:47:57.740 someone

01:47:58.180 or

01:47:58.540 coming

01:47:58.880 together

01:47:59.320 and

01:47:59.600 bringing

01:47:59.940 our

01:48:00.140 assets

01:48:00.620 together

01:48:01.140 I

01:48:03.080 could

01:48:03.340 never

01:48:03.780 lay

01:48:04.220 in

01:48:04.380 my

01:48:04.600 bed

01:48:05.080 knowing

01:48:06.140 that

01:48:07.140 my

01:48:07.460 husband

01:48:07.940 has

01:48:08.260 no

01:48:08.600 life

01:48:09.160 and

01:48:10.360 no

01:48:10.580 freedom

01:48:11.080 and

01:48:12.580 maybe

01:48:12.900 no

01:48:13.220 peace

01:48:13.780 because

01:48:15.400 all he

01:48:16.220 does

01:48:16.380 is

01:48:16.500 work

01:48:16.940 and

01:48:17.200 because

01:48:17.780 when

01:48:18.400 you

01:48:18.560 think

01:48:18.800 about

01:48:19.020 it

01:48:19.120 we

01:48:19.260 worked

01:48:19.760 in

01:48:19.980 the

01:48:20.100 past

01:48:20.500 we

01:48:20.680 just

01:48:20.880 worked

01:48:21.300 on

01:48:21.680 farms

01:48:22.360 and

01:48:23.020 now

01:48:23.260 society

01:48:23.880 has

01:48:24.240 changed

01:48:24.960 now

01:48:25.680 I'm

01:48:27.700 not

01:48:28.000 saying

01:48:28.540 it's

01:48:28.840 wrong

01:48:29.360 to do

01:48:29.820 a

01:48:29.960 traditional

01:48:30.400 relationship

01:48:31.120 clearly

01:48:32.360 there are

01:48:32.820 benefits

01:48:33.320 but what

01:48:33.660 I don't

01:48:34.200 like

01:48:34.620 is the

01:48:35.400 entitlement

01:48:36.240 that is

01:48:36.960 what drives

01:48:37.440 me crazy

01:48:38.040 okay

01:48:39.060 so

01:48:39.700 I think

01:48:41.280 that's

01:48:43.060 what are we

01:48:44.840 five o'clock

01:48:45.580 yeah okay

01:48:46.340 guys I think

01:48:47.020 that's all we

01:48:47.500 got today

01:48:48.160 um

01:48:48.940 let me know

01:48:50.500 what you think

01:48:51.080 in the comments

01:48:51.840 and go to

01:48:52.280 the audacity

01:48:52.840 network.com

01:48:53.740 I'm going to

01:48:54.780 read our

01:48:55.660 comments from

01:48:56.360 the network

01:48:56.800 page

01:48:57.300 uh

01:48:58.880 right now

01:48:59.520 I do

01:49:00.040 I generally

01:49:00.700 do it

01:49:01.100 in between

01:49:01.520 stories

01:49:02.100 that's

01:49:02.380 when I

01:49:02.560 look at

01:49:02.780 the

01:49:02.900 chat

01:49:03.200 um

01:49:06.180 let me

01:49:07.800 go

01:49:08.260 okay

01:49:08.640 until

01:49:09.020 content

01:49:09.500 creators

01:49:09.920 stop

01:49:10.380 drawing

01:49:11.160 their

01:49:11.420 audience

01:49:11.920 to

01:49:12.140 platforms

01:49:12.640 that

01:49:12.900 censor

01:49:13.320 the

01:49:13.520 censorship

01:49:13.960 won't

01:49:14.340 end

01:49:14.640 we need

01:49:15.020 to break

01:49:15.360 free

01:49:15.580 and tell

01:49:15.900 youtube

01:49:16.260 to shove

01:49:16.880 it

01:49:17.060 well go

01:49:18.040 to the

01:49:18.300 audacity

01:49:18.860 network

01:49:19.300 dot com

01:49:19.940 thank you

01:49:20.360 edward

01:49:20.660 edward

01:49:21.140 did but

01:49:21.740 you know

01:49:22.080 we got to

01:49:22.780 get enough

01:49:23.100 members on

01:49:23.660 the website

01:49:24.160 to go

01:49:24.640 completely

01:49:25.220 on the

01:49:25.560 website

01:49:25.900 so we

01:49:26.980 can build

01:49:27.380 up to it

01:49:27.940 eventually

01:49:28.360 but we

01:49:28.840 just got

01:49:29.220 to get

01:49:29.400 enough

01:49:29.780 um

01:49:30.260 battle

01:49:31.000 star

01:49:31.340 for the

01:49:31.700 win

01:49:31.960 everyone

01:49:32.360 keeps

01:49:32.640 talking

01:49:32.940 about

01:49:33.140 the

01:49:33.300 she

01:49:33.460 economy

01:49:33.820 but most

01:49:34.360 of the

01:49:34.580 20 to

01:49:35.020 30 year

01:49:36.040 old women 0.99

01:49:36.420 I know

01:49:36.740 are broke

01:49:37.220 AF

01:49:37.480 they're literally

01:49:38.260 choosing to

01:49:38.920 live like

01:49:39.320 peasants

01:49:39.780 over being

01:49:40.620 subservient

01:49:41.320 to a man

01:49:41.880 well what's

01:49:42.700 interesting

01:49:43.180 she said

01:49:43.680 they'd rather

01:49:44.080 friend zone

01:49:44.660 a stable

01:49:45.140 provider

01:49:45.660 and get

01:49:46.740 spun out

01:49:47.260 by chat

01:49:47.720 on weekends

01:49:48.380 what's

01:49:49.720 interesting

01:49:50.200 is they

01:49:51.340 are serving

01:49:52.120 men but

01:49:52.640 they're serving

01:49:53.240 men at

01:49:53.780 large

01:49:54.280 so for

01:49:55.260 example

01:49:55.760 they work

01:49:56.440 at a

01:49:56.700 daycare

01:49:57.180 instead of

01:49:57.800 having their

01:49:58.240 own kids

01:49:58.860 um

01:49:59.900 we

01:50:00.480 work as

01:50:03.180 do uber

01:50:03.840 eats

01:50:04.320 instead of

01:50:05.680 cooking like

01:50:06.200 we deliver

01:50:06.740 food to

01:50:07.260 men

01:50:07.520 oftentimes

01:50:08.600 um

01:50:09.380 but we

01:50:10.240 do

01:50:10.600 make most

01:50:11.660 of the

01:50:11.900 buying

01:50:12.140 decisions

01:50:12.580 because we

01:50:13.520 spend so

01:50:14.040 much more

01:50:14.420 money

01:50:14.700 oftentimes

01:50:15.160 we don't

01:50:15.700 have it

01:50:16.160 but we

01:50:16.420 do

01:50:16.620 there's

01:50:18.360 no

01:50:18.560 traditional

01:50:19.140 marriages

01:50:19.840 because of

01:50:20.480 the state

01:50:20.840 there's no

01:50:21.400 truly independent

01:50:22.520 media because

01:50:23.260 of youtube

01:50:23.760 even if they

01:50:24.860 do wake up

01:50:25.460 one day

01:50:26.000 big says

01:50:26.700 even if they

01:50:27.300 do wake up

01:50:27.900 one day

01:50:28.340 which many

01:50:29.220 don't they

01:50:29.760 longer they

01:50:30.520 no longer

01:50:31.040 qualify for a

01:50:31.960 committed

01:50:32.200 relationship with

01:50:33.140 all of the

01:50:33.580 emotional trauma

01:50:34.880 and damage

01:50:35.700 big says is

01:50:36.480 pearl following

01:50:37.080 the chat

01:50:37.460 i am

01:50:38.040 i am

01:50:38.700 oh wait one

01:50:39.760 more uh

01:50:40.660 pearl the

01:50:41.020 indian guy who

01:50:41.820 committed to

01:50:42.720 self-delete was

01:50:44.060 asked to pay

01:50:44.680 36 oh no

01:50:46.420 360 thousand

01:50:47.820 dollars wow

01:50:48.600 that's a lot

01:50:50.060 okay guys

01:50:50.680 make sure you

01:50:51.880 go get my

01:50:52.580 merch at

01:50:53.080 just pearly

01:50:53.560 merch dot com

01:50:54.420 we have

01:50:54.760 equal rights

01:50:55.420 equal left

01:50:56.000 shirts so

01:50:56.560 go check

01:50:57.620 them out

01:50:58.000 like the

01:50:58.640 video on

01:50:59.040 your way

01:50:59.280 out subscribe

01:50:59.840 to the

01:51:00.220 channel and

01:51:00.620 i will talk

01:51:01.040 to you

01:51:01.220 tomorrow

01:51:01.540 see ya

01:51:02.080 you

JustPearlyThings - December 11, 2024

What Modern Women Want： Today's Relationships with Traditional Privileges ｜ Pearl Daily

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