JustPearlyThings - December 11, 2024


What Modern Women Want: Today's Relationships with Traditional Privileges | Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 51 minutes

Words per Minute

155.53894

Word Count

17,274

Sentence Count

1,373

Misogynist Sentences

124

Hate Speech Sentences

67


Summary

Brett Cooper has left the Daily Wire after three years as the host of the comment section at The Daily Wire. She joins host Jordan Peterson to discuss her departure and what it means for the future of the show and her career.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Thank you.
00:00:30.000 Thank you.
00:01:00.000 And welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
00:01:03.460 I am your host, Pearl.
00:01:05.240 And today we are going to be talking about Brett Cooper leaving the Daily Wire.
00:01:10.520 So as you guys know, I talk about the Daily Wire a lot on this show.
00:01:15.200 And last year, Candace Owens was let go from the Daily Wire because they had a difference
00:01:20.840 of opinion.
00:01:21.620 Now, Candace Owens said some things that were maybe more pro-Palestine.
00:01:26.520 The Daily Wire is more pro-Israel.
00:01:30.380 And so because they had a conflict of opinion, they ended up letting Candace Owens go.
00:01:34.640 Now, when Candace Owens left the Daily Wire, it was a huge spectacle.
00:01:38.480 I think there were lawsuits that came out of this.
00:01:41.440 It was a very dramatic exit, right?
00:01:46.260 At one point, there was going to be a debate between the two.
00:01:49.300 And I see this often with women in media, right?
00:01:53.780 They go into an organization and either they file sexual harassment claims or they kind
00:02:01.200 of take the whole organization down with them.
00:02:03.540 And what I really respected now that Brett Cooper has announced she is leaving the Daily
00:02:08.780 Wire is that she was very respectful in the way that she handled it.
00:02:13.720 I thought it was very classy.
00:02:15.280 As you guys know, I do think Brett Cooper is a little bit gynocentric.
00:02:19.140 But overall, her takes remind me of maybe some of my like she reminds me of me a couple
00:02:25.260 of years ago.
00:02:26.580 And I think she's got a good show.
00:02:29.880 Like, I think she's good at her job.
00:02:31.900 So I wanted to show you guys the farewell like video that she did.
00:02:39.080 Some of you have heard the rumors online and the rumors are mostly true.
00:02:43.280 Today, December 10th, will be my last day hosting the comment section and working for
00:02:46.920 the Daily Wire.
00:02:47.540 It is not true that I am being forced out.
00:02:49.600 It was my own choice to leave.
00:02:51.440 And believe me, this is bittersweet.
00:02:52.800 I have had the most unbelievable three years helping to craft the show, building this community
00:02:58.320 and telling stories and sharing the truth every day.
00:03:00.580 Through the comment section, you all have made me braver, more articulate, more thoughtful,
00:03:05.100 more hopeful than I could have ever imagined.
00:03:07.160 And I'm grateful that we spent this time together.
00:03:09.560 And I'm grateful that the Daily Wire gave us a platform to grow this community.
00:03:12.580 But at this point in my life, I am ready to take on a new direction, both personally
00:03:16.260 and professionally.
00:03:17.060 This means new challenges and new endeavors, which I will share with you soon.
00:03:20.820 As for this show, the comment section will continue with the Daily Wire.
00:03:24.120 My producer, Reagan, is taking over as host of the comment section, and I wish her and
00:03:27.900 the Daily Wire all the best.
00:03:29.000 We have had three great years, and I am proud of what we've accomplished together.
00:03:33.020 Leaving this show and the platforms that we've built is hard, but I am very excited for
00:03:37.060 what's to come.
00:03:38.140 Knowing that we have brought so many people together in laughter over these last three
00:03:41.580 years means the world to me.
00:03:42.580 I adore, I appreciate all of you.
00:03:44.680 So let's chat again soon.
00:03:46.080 But in the meantime, go touch some grass, kick some rocks, and we'll catch up shortly.
00:03:51.180 And now for some final thoughts from the God King himself, Jeremy Boring.
00:03:56.640 Bittersweet indeed.
00:03:58.000 We're sad to see Brett go, but we're excited to see her take the next step in her journey.
00:04:02.300 Brett's an amazing talent, both as a personality and as an actor.
00:04:05.060 One note I want to make is it doesn't seem like female talents are panning out for networks
00:04:13.240 because much like our voting blocks, men seem to be more consistent and stay where the women
00:04:20.940 have a tendency to leave.
00:04:23.140 I noticed Amala left, Brett Cooper's now leaving, Candace Owen's left.
00:04:27.200 Not a dig, right?
00:04:28.040 It's not right or wrong, but it's interesting to see this trend sort of happen in media.
00:04:33.780 Yeah, first.
00:04:35.060 It's been a pleasure to see her bring the comment section to life these last three years.
00:04:38.900 And her performance in the Pendragon cycle is sensational.
00:04:42.640 I'm certain that whatever Brett creates next will be filled with the same joy and laughter
00:04:46.520 and heart that she's brought to all of her work at the Daily Wire.
00:04:49.560 And we wish her nothing but the best.
00:04:52.000 So my friends, while I have you here, I thought we could run it back one last time with the
00:04:57.020 comment section.
00:04:57.720 So it's interesting because there's a lot of speculation online.
00:05:00.900 So online, they're saying maybe she was forced out because she had a difference of opinion
00:05:06.180 with Jeremy.
00:05:07.780 Other people are saying that it was like, you know, that's what they're saying on paper.
00:05:13.180 It was peaceful.
00:05:13.920 But, you know, being in media as former employers, just because you have a difference in opinion
00:05:21.460 on a topic.
00:05:22.120 Like, I didn't really like the way Candace Owens did it.
00:05:24.680 I just thought that it was very, like, trash.
00:05:28.260 You know, it's kind of trashy to go out, get into a lawsuit, shout Christ is king as a way
00:05:36.120 to attack them.
00:05:37.280 I mean, we all kind of knew what she was doing there, right?
00:05:40.520 So I do respect Brett a lot for this decision.
00:05:44.460 I like the way that she went about it.
00:05:45.980 I think it's very classy.
00:05:47.320 It'll be interesting to see what she does on her own.
00:05:50.540 One theory I have is maybe she she just got married.
00:05:53.720 So maybe she's walking the walk, which we don't really see much in media, right?
00:05:59.200 Maybe she's actually going to be a mom and quit the media stuff.
00:06:02.460 I don't know.
00:06:03.340 So we'll see.
00:06:04.520 I'm excited to see what's happening.
00:06:07.740 Now, the next story that we're going to cover is the simp epidemic that is going on.
00:06:14.600 And as most of you guys know, I have been fighting on the front lines of this epidemic
00:06:19.820 for years.
00:06:20.600 But I need to tell you about a quiet weapon being ratcheted up against men that is rarely
00:06:24.500 talked about.
00:06:25.500 It's not just the relentless anti-masculinity propaganda and only fans hose causing the
00:06:30.180 societal issues that we discuss on the show.
00:06:32.700 Did you know that the average city's tap water contains trace pharmaceuticals and endocrine
00:06:36.800 disruptors?
00:06:37.620 This often includes estrogen from birth control.
00:06:40.940 The average adult consumes a credit card worth of plastic a week.
00:06:44.020 That's five grams of plastic a week on average.
00:06:47.120 So it's no wonder that the average male testosterone is half of what it was 50 years ago.
00:06:51.580 Testosterone levels decline 1% a year, and without a course correction, we are headed towards
00:06:59.200 extinction.
00:07:00.200 No matter how based you are, you need to be naturally boosting your testosterone.
00:07:04.120 My friends at Chalk, C-H-O-Q.com, are on a mission to save mankind from extinction by boosting
00:07:09.340 your vitality.
00:07:10.820 Chalk's male vitality stack contains premium and potent herbs clinically studied to boost
00:07:15.720 your testosterone levels, sperm count, and overall vitality.
00:07:19.660 Just one of the many ingredients in the male vitality stack was studied in double-blind human
00:07:24.020 clinical trials to boost total testosterone 20% in 90 days.
00:07:28.160 When you boost your testosterone, you'll have more mental clarity, you're more capable of
00:07:32.920 making decisions and taking risks.
00:07:35.700 Having high testosterone will also affect your pheromone, so women will find you more attractive
00:07:40.800 subconsciously.
00:07:42.380 Get the Chalk male vitality stack right now on Chalk.com, that's C-H-O-Q.com.
00:07:47.900 Use MyNamePearl as your coupon code and you'll get 25% off sitewide on Chalk.com, that's C-H-O-Q.com.
00:07:54.600 My name is, MyNamePearl is the discount code.
00:07:59.020 Okay, also guys, make sure you go to TheAudacityNetwork.com if you want your comment to be read.
00:08:04.120 I'm going to take a second and read the comments on, oh, there aren't any yet.
00:08:08.300 Okay, go be the first on the website.
00:08:11.180 TheAudacityNetwork.com, make sure you guys go comment there.
00:08:14.140 I do read all the comments in that chat and it's available on the Apple Store.
00:08:18.200 Okay, so the next story that we're going to cover
00:08:23.160 is a woman I saw on TikTok that was a literal prostitute at 68 years old.
00:08:36.000 So as you guys know, we are going to see a crazy surge in selling sex.
00:08:42.280 Relationships are going to become incredibly transactional in the next decade.
00:08:48.800 And I saw a TikTok of a woman who was literally selling sex at 68 years old.
00:08:56.300 Let me pull it up.
00:08:57.080 I'm 68 now.
00:09:02.940 Your life ain't over, girl.
00:09:04.560 Your life ain't over.
00:09:05.820 How long you want me to do it?
00:09:08.580 Good God, 68.
00:09:10.140 There's nobody.
00:09:10.860 They're already teasing me.
00:09:12.000 I'm the oldest in Tucson.
00:09:14.100 Oh, we're?
00:09:14.480 They're already teasing me.
00:09:16.240 Okay.
00:09:17.040 That's old.
00:09:19.060 So how long are you going to do this?
00:09:21.420 Just until you can't walk anymore?
00:09:23.700 Just like as long as you need to?
00:09:26.100 I'll have to slow down in the future, but, you know, I can't just keep doing it.
00:09:31.180 Yeah, so Queenie, right?
00:09:32.680 I came from Florida.
00:09:35.020 And how long you been out here?
00:09:38.300 All summer.
00:09:39.440 Okay.
00:09:40.640 And I came to look for an Indian husband.
00:09:45.780 And I get a little $800 check every month.
00:09:49.540 Social Security.
00:09:50.820 But that's all it was given me was $800.
00:09:52.920 So I still have to come out and try to work a little bit.
00:09:56.840 $800 a month and $90 in food stamps is not much to live off of.
00:10:02.460 So I come out and I pick up a few dates.
00:10:05.800 Now, the most interesting man that I met was a middle-aged white man.
00:10:10.780 He was about 60.
00:10:11.840 And we went to his house and he paid me $100 and we watched Dizzy Borton on television.
00:10:19.420 And I gave him a nice job.
00:10:21.740 That was one of the exciting adventures.
00:10:24.340 There you go.
00:10:25.560 And then...
00:10:26.640 Did you say Dizzy Borton?
00:10:28.540 Huh?
00:10:28.880 Did you say Dizzy Borton?
00:10:30.200 No, Dizzy Borton.
00:10:32.300 Dizzy Borton.
00:10:33.280 Oh, Dizzy Borton.
00:10:34.200 Okay.
00:10:34.780 I don't know what that is.
00:10:36.100 Is that like an actress?
00:10:37.140 Well, she was...
00:10:38.280 Dizzy Borton, she lived around the 1890s.
00:10:41.640 Okay.
00:10:42.220 But I was...
00:10:43.000 I was 21 years old and there was no money in Atlanta, Georgia.
00:10:48.680 Well, I had a hard time getting jobs.
00:10:52.340 Because all I had was an 8th grade education.
00:10:56.320 So that's why I started...
00:10:59.580 You like it?
00:11:01.520 Like you actually like it?
00:11:02.600 Well...
00:11:03.160 Or you like the money?
00:11:07.580 I like the money.
00:11:09.080 Okay.
00:11:10.580 Well, in those days, I wore $100 dresses every day.
00:11:15.280 And that was like $200 a day.
00:11:17.300 Yeah.
00:11:17.560 And I lived in motels.
00:11:22.420 And it was...
00:11:23.980 It was really...
00:11:25.880 It wasn't really grand, but it was okay.
00:11:31.760 I survived.
00:11:33.240 I didn't ask my relatives for nothing.
00:11:35.140 Me and my relatives, we did not get along.
00:11:37.080 We did not like each other.
00:11:38.440 Okay.
00:11:39.220 I was a p***er, too.
00:11:40.680 They didn't like that?
00:11:41.580 No.
00:11:42.740 And they did not like it.
00:11:44.100 So, I just...
00:11:47.660 So, how's things been in Tucson?
00:11:50.860 It's been okay.
00:11:52.720 Did you work all night?
00:11:53.880 Or you just come out in the morning?
00:11:54.980 Just come out.
00:11:55.940 Yeah.
00:11:56.500 Yeah, it's crazy overnight.
00:11:57.720 So, be careful.
00:11:58.480 Yeah.
00:11:58.800 You dress really nice, by the way.
00:12:00.460 Oh, thank you.
00:12:00.720 Thank you.
00:12:01.160 Thank you.
00:12:01.320 Absolutely.
00:12:02.360 So, what's been the scariest experience you've had since you've been out here?
00:12:06.820 Well, I would say a quarter of the cars I get into are scary, because you don't never know
00:12:14.440 what's going to happen the next...
00:12:16.720 And some of them act like they...
00:12:19.700 Some of them...
00:12:20.920 Well, some of them, if you don't give them what they want for $10 or $5, they'll leave you there.
00:12:28.380 Leave you where they picked you up at.
00:12:30.440 Yeah.
00:12:30.620 I mean, leave you on a back road someplace.
00:12:33.560 Yeah, stranded.
00:12:34.580 And I don't like to do $5 and $10 dates.
00:12:39.820 Okay.
00:12:40.460 I feel like it's degrading.
00:12:42.600 You know, some of these girls do things for appeal.
00:12:45.760 The blues, yeah.
00:12:46.900 I don't do things for appeal.
00:12:48.320 I don't do that.
00:12:49.220 I think it's degrading.
00:12:51.240 So, when you get paid, does that go to, like, hotels and food and just regular stuff?
00:12:56.860 That's right.
00:12:57.680 Yeah.
00:12:58.000 Yeah.
00:12:58.640 That's good.
00:12:59.460 That's good.
00:12:59.800 Now, in Florida...
00:13:02.800 What's been the best experience since you've been doing this life?
00:13:06.920 The best one?
00:13:07.700 Yeah.
00:13:07.940 The best experience?
00:13:09.680 Well, that night when that man took me to his house and gave me $100 and we watched
00:13:13.140 Lizzie Borden, that was a nice experience.
00:13:15.240 Yeah.
00:13:15.680 And then after that, he just dropped you off?
00:13:17.880 That's right.
00:13:18.500 Yeah.
00:13:18.920 I got you.
00:13:19.960 So, do you have to make, like, a certain amount a day?
00:13:22.780 Well, I try to at least make $100.
00:13:26.300 Yeah.
00:13:27.340 Yeah.
00:13:27.700 Yeah.
00:13:27.740 Yeah.
00:13:28.980 Have you ever had to defend yourself out here?
00:13:33.740 No.
00:13:34.460 Thank God.
00:13:35.080 Because this seems like a scary job.
00:13:36.300 Scary job.
00:13:36.880 What I liked about this video, it's obviously gross, right?
00:13:41.600 Prostitution, ew.
00:13:42.560 But what I liked about this video is it's very raw, real, and it's not performative.
00:13:48.520 You can always tell after, like, say, after Nala converted.
00:13:52.980 You know, she's going on these podcasts.
00:13:54.840 She's making it this whole spectacle, making it this whole show.
00:13:57.840 And that's what I see when a lot of the OF models or prostitutes come out and just start crying later.
00:14:05.360 You know, to a lot of them, it's either a job or they get off on it.
00:14:10.380 It's they either do it for attention, they maybe they like having sex with a lot of guys, or it is just easier than working.
00:14:19.280 And, you know, I think the more psychology that we put into this and project onto them, the worse off people are going to be.
00:14:28.960 Because in my opinion, you have to let people suffer the consequences of their choices and deal with them.
00:14:36.340 It's not helpful to people to not let them accept the consequences for the choices that they made.
00:14:45.980 Okay, so the next story that we're going to cover is yesterday I covered the story of a man that committed suicide in India.
00:14:53.820 And this was a man who left a hour and a half long video and a 20 plus page suicide note detailing some of the abuse he received from the court system in India.
00:15:07.440 Now, I had a lot of questions that I had unanswered because on paper, India looks a lot better than the United States and many other countries in terms of the court system.
00:15:17.800 The reason being is that if you look at the divorce rate, it seems like it's a lot lower than other parts of the world.
00:15:24.940 So I really wanted to bring on somebody that was from India and that could tell me a little bit more about some of the things that are going on in India.
00:15:34.580 Is she on? Yeah. Oh, she's not yet? Okay.
00:15:38.160 Oh, dang, she's not. Okay. Okay, well, you know, she's going to be on in a second.
00:15:43.160 Let me message her to come on. Come on now.
00:15:47.800 All right. Let me check the chat and then we can go back to her.
00:15:53.020 Otherwise, we may move on to the next story.
00:15:55.500 Okay. Charles says Nala's future and where the OF women are headed for hells and bells with their newfound feminist freedoms,
00:16:04.160 but for the simpidemic and the simps who will buy into their BS.
00:16:09.340 That one, that was more than sad, Rob said. None of it's real. It's all a high.
00:16:17.800 Yeah. The way I view this stuff. And by the way, guys, if you have a comment, I do read it.
00:16:22.660 Um, it's $10 a month, 80 bucks for the year. And then all your comments I read in the chat on here.
00:16:28.300 It's like YouTube, same chat, but you just put it on the website.
00:16:31.060 So, you know, um, normally you have to do a super chat in order to get it read.
00:16:36.260 But here, all you have to do is pay the monthly fee and then boom, your comments will read all month.
00:16:44.360 So, you know, also we have merch and I wanted to get you guys' feedback on the merch.
00:16:50.000 Um, it's just pearly merch if you guys want to check it out.
00:16:54.840 Hello. How are you?
00:16:58.940 Hi, Paul. I'm good. I'm sorry. I have a really bad throat, but I hope you'll be able to hear me.
00:17:03.920 No, you're fine. Welcome to the show.
00:17:06.620 Thank you so much for getting me here.
00:17:08.540 Um, I'm sorry. Could you introduce yourself and maybe like your role in, um, what you do in India?
00:17:14.280 Okay. Uh, hi everyone. My name is Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj. I'm a documentary filmmaker predominantly,
00:17:22.080 but for the last 12 years, I've been focusing my work, uh, on men's issues in India. Uh, I've produced,
00:17:29.180 uh, and directed two documentary films on misuse of, um, women-centric laws in the country. Uh,
00:17:36.420 one was on misuse of dowry laws and another one, which was called Martyrs of Marriage. It was on Netflix,
00:17:42.460 uh, from 2018 to 2020. And, uh, there's another documentary that I've done, which is called
00:17:49.100 India's Sons, which is on victims of false rape cases who were eventually proven innocent.
00:17:56.360 So I bring these stories out, uh, where men are the victims at the hands of women daily suicides,
00:18:03.920 false accusations, domestic violence, spousal murders, adultery, everything.
00:18:11.260 Okay. So it's interesting because for a period of time, I used to think that these things didn't
00:18:17.840 really happen in India because on paper, if we Google your divorce rates, they seem much lower
00:18:23.820 than the West. Um, so could you tell me maybe a little bit more of how long these issues have
00:18:30.000 been going on and maybe some of like the legal framework that caused them in India?
00:18:34.880 Uh, so, um, as far as I can, um, remember, um, almost in late 1990s, the kind of, there was kind
00:18:47.080 of a, uh, very vocal voice that started coming out that men are being, becoming victims of false
00:18:53.500 accusations in India. Uh, this very problematic law, which is called the anti-dowry law, which
00:18:59.800 is also, uh, something that is discussed in the suicide, uh, of this gentleman called Atul
00:19:05.340 Subhash, which you've spoken about. Uh, it's called IPC 498A. It was brought in 1983. So
00:19:12.340 essentially to protect women from domestic violence and cruelty at the hands of their husbands,
00:19:17.220 uh, particularly in context of demand of dowry, which is kind of a phenomena which only happens
00:19:24.380 in India, um, where a bride and her family has to pay, uh, as per the demands of the husband
00:19:30.980 and it's called dowry. And there were a lot of cases where women are, where women were killed,
00:19:36.380 women were beaten up, uh, for these demands. And that's why there was a, um, need for a provision
00:19:42.640 to actually control this. And so in 1983, this law came about, but within few years, any dispute,
00:19:50.440 any marital dispute sort of started, um, um, turning into the allegations of dowry and the 498A
00:19:58.580 being filed on the husband. And what's peculiar about this law, Pearl, is that while predominantly
00:20:05.720 a lot of this, these cases are now matrimonial disputes where, whether it's, it's incompatibility
00:20:12.000 or it's extramarital affair, or it's just financial differences or, uh, career differences, uh, invariably,
00:20:20.280 the woman out of spite would file this case on the husband, but it's not just the husband.
00:20:26.000 The law allows you to implicate not just the husband, but any of his family members or relatives.
00:20:34.920 So what started happening was it was not just the husband, his father, no matter how, how old they
00:20:41.840 are, mother, father, brothers, sisters, husband of sisters, wives of brothers.
00:20:50.280 So there have been cases where there have been, uh, approximately 12 to 13 family members
00:20:56.440 implicated in one criminal case. And this is a criminal provision. Uh, this is not a civil
00:21:02.400 provision. This is a criminal provision. Um, the husband and, uh, several family members
00:21:08.000 get, uh, used to be arrested immediately and thrown behind bars on a mere complaint by the wife,
00:21:17.520 uh, that sort of changed in 2014 after almost 30 years of the law being in place, because there was
00:21:24.800 just so ridiculous, horrid misuse of the law recognized by the apex courts in the country.
00:21:31.160 So after that, the arrests have sort of now got controlled. They are not as much, but the numbers
00:21:38.840 that we are talking about is 120,000 cases of this provision, 498, they get filed in India every
00:21:46.660 year, out of which minuscule number are found to be true. Rest are either settled with money
00:21:55.860 or found to be blatantly false. So yes, the divorce rate in India in comparison to the West is
00:22:03.720 much, much lesser pearl. But, uh, as much as I know, uh, there are no very concrete statistics
00:22:11.760 or data collection that happens in India. Um, a lot of these statistics that we see are from some
00:22:19.060 agencies that are, um, calculating the divorce rates, which are not really Indian. So I'm not
00:22:25.200 really sure if it is that low as it is projected to be because we are seeing divorces, thousands and
00:22:32.320 thousands of cases coming into the courts every single day. Yeah. Cause what happened was I used
00:22:38.300 to have a panel show and there was someone that would argue that India didn't have these problems
00:22:43.580 because you guys have arranged marriage there. Um, but I kept getting messages from men, like from
00:22:49.460 India saying that like the stats weren't like talking about something or that they're like,
00:22:55.220 I heard about the dowry laws, so I didn't really understand it. So you're saying essentially at one
00:23:00.880 point, the wives family gave money to, um, the husband and his family or just the husband,
00:23:07.840 the husband and his family, because in India it's a, it's, it's by default that the wife has to move
00:23:15.740 into the husband's house and a, in a lot of households right now also have a joint family
00:23:21.700 system. So it is the son that takes care of his parents. So his wife moves in with him and some
00:23:28.780 families, uh, in fact, most of the families, I would say, um, till date are in joint family system
00:23:35.020 where at least the parents are staying with the son and, um, their daughter-in-laws. Uh, but there
00:23:40.440 are of course, a lot of houses where it's just the husband that the wife stays with and there are
00:23:45.440 nuclear family, but it's, it's kind of an, so it, this is, this concept is a little tough to understand
00:23:53.640 but what happens in India is, um, because the son is essentially taking care of his elderly parents
00:24:04.060 and they're going to be staying with him. The daughter of the family, when she gets married,
00:24:09.520 uh, a lot of parents want to give away part of their wealth to her at the time of her marriage
00:24:14.500 because she's setting up a new home. So it initially started as gifts and essential items to be given to
00:24:22.020 their daughter, which was her share of the wealth of the property, but it deteriorated where the groom's
00:24:28.260 family started making these obnoxious demands. It continues till date. It is a very prevalent
00:24:34.080 practice. There are cars that are given in form of dowry. Some people give house as well. Some
00:24:41.920 people give cash. Some people give household items. So it happens, uh, today as well. But I would like to
00:24:49.400 believe that in most cases it's a mutual exchange. Yeah. So, um, and not really imposed upon, but yes,
00:24:56.220 in some, in, in a lot of cases it is imposed upon as well. Okay. And so they essentially made that
00:25:01.120 illegal is what you're saying is what I think I understood. They made that illegal. And then the
00:25:06.280 woman decided, and because the families were involved, then the woman was able. So if she doesn't
00:25:12.900 like her mother-in-law, she can put her through hell. If she doesn't like the sister, I mean, how often do
00:25:18.460 the in-laws get along? Right. That's like impossible. Maybe in India, you guys don't have that problem. I
00:25:23.960 don't know, but we have that problem everywhere. They don't get along. Yeah. So essentially if
00:25:30.900 she's feeling spited, this law makes it able for her to go and just make their life a living hell
00:25:38.100 too. But you said it stopped in 2014 or it's not as prevalent. Uh, no. So, uh, 2014 is when, uh,
00:25:47.860 an amendment came in the law where the arrests, uh, that, you know, the entire family or the husband
00:25:54.320 being put behind bars, that sort of got a prohibition from the Supreme Court of India because
00:26:00.020 the law was getting misused so much. The law has been there since 1983. It continues to exist. The
00:26:06.800 law is still there. Dowry or this exchange basically that we are talking about has been made illegal.
00:26:13.300 Uh, so anybody asking for this money or anybody giving this money is technically illegal, but it
00:26:20.560 continues. So I've, I've read online that a man in India can be prosecuted if he has sex with a woman
00:26:28.280 and he does not marry her. Is that true? Yes. So how did it like, what law prohibits that? Like why,
00:26:36.560 what is that under the dowry law or is that something else? No, that's absolutely a different
00:26:43.460 law, uh, Pearl. And, um, what I'm going to tell you is going to completely, completely shock you.
00:26:49.960 Uh, there have been cases where the woman has been in a consensual live-in relationship
00:26:54.580 or a sexual relationship with a man for five years, seven years, 10 years, and then they broke up
00:27:01.500 for some reason. And because the man did not marry her, she pressed, uh, rape charges on him saying
00:27:08.360 that her consent for sex was obtained by promising her marriage, which did not happen. And there are
00:27:16.260 thousands of such cases that are happening in India today. And for the last couple of years,
00:27:20.520 these cases have gone up, uh, tremendously. The, and obviously this is, I would call it an absolute
00:27:27.360 misuse, uh, of what rape actually is. Um, but we are talking about anything from, uh, from 10,000
00:27:35.820 cases, uh, to maybe 12,000 to 15,000 cases being filed every year of this kind, where no matter how
00:27:44.640 long the relationship was, no matter whether the man actually made any promise or not, the woman just
00:27:50.920 has to write in her criminal complaint that he could obtain my consent by giving me a
00:27:57.180 promise of marriage. And now he's not marrying me. So he be sued for rape. Um, until now, this was
00:28:04.080 rape. Now they have brought in, uh, absolutely new provision, which is called section 69 of the
00:28:11.780 Bharti Anyaya Sahita. Um, and it says, if a man has sex with a woman by promising to marry her and not,
00:28:21.980 they have not restricted it to just marriage. They say, if he promised to give her a job or if he
00:28:29.280 promised to give her a promotion and that doesn't happen, it will not be called rape, but the man will
00:28:36.540 be prosecuted, um, and put behind bars and can be imprisoned men, imprisoned for maximum of 10 years
00:28:45.260 in jail. Wow. So can you tell me a little bit more about the man who committed suicide? So, um, I,
00:28:53.740 I could only understand the parts that they translated. I didn't really get to watch the
00:28:58.280 whole video, but could you maybe tell me more about that case? Yeah. So Atul Subhash, uh, is a 34 year
00:29:06.700 old man who, um, hanged himself to death on 9th of December. Uh, he left a 90 minute suicide video
00:29:15.920 along with 24 pages of suicide note in various packs where, uh, one, he, uh, kept it for people
00:29:25.720 to read, one, he sent it to the president of India, one, he sent it to the prime minister of India.
00:29:30.960 Uh, so he got married in 2019. Uh, according to him, his wife was not really interested in this
00:29:39.180 marriage, but because her father was very, very ill and, uh, he wanted to really see his daughter
00:29:45.380 getting married. So they hushed up the wedding and then they got married and, uh, she expressed her
00:29:51.640 displeasure with the marriage pretty much early in the marriage. Uh, but he, you know, sort of tried
00:29:57.760 to make it work, tried to make her understand that this is what our life is now, but she wasn't quite
00:30:03.480 happy. Um, then, uh, soon after COVID hit and a lot of complications started happening because
00:30:11.280 of COVID, she had conceived also at that time. Uh, then her mother, uh, Atul's mother started,
00:30:18.600 uh, living with them. That led to a little bit more conflicts. Uh, but the breaking point in their
00:30:24.620 marriage came when Atul's wife started asking for, uh, five, uh, 50 lakhs is what? Five million,
00:30:33.080 five million, uh, for settling her brother down in his career. Five million, five million. What's
00:30:41.380 the currency? I'm just going to translate it. So the odd five million, what is it? It is. It is 50
00:30:48.100 lakh rupees, 15 lakh rupees. Okay. 50 lakh rupees in dollars. Okay. So that's like 17,000 us dollars
00:30:57.560 guys. Sorry. Keep going. Yeah. Yeah. So, uh, he said that I'm not going to give that kind of money.
00:31:03.700 He did give them, um, uh, quite a lot, but then he eventually put his foot down that I'm not going
00:31:09.240 to spend my money on, um, establishing career of your brother who hasn't anyways been serious about
00:31:16.300 whatever he's doing in his life. And that became a point of contention. Uh, she and her mother and
00:31:22.880 her brother sort of conspired against him, started ill treating him. Uh, she eventually left him. Uh,
00:31:29.680 by then their child has, uh, been born. So within few months, uh, she left him and then she filed
00:31:36.500 this case that I was talking to you about for 98 day and unnatural sex charges, uh, hurt charges,
00:31:44.880 domestic violence. Uh, she had filed nine different cases on him in the last three years and not just
00:31:53.940 him. He, along with his elderly parents, his brother was also made an accused and the woman went to the
00:32:01.220 extent of implicating them in a murder case. Uh, this is where the things get dark in India.
00:32:09.460 She claimed that her father died because, um, he was, um, he became a victim of demand of money by her
00:32:17.780 husband and died out of shock. Whereas her father already had heart ailment. He was suffering. He had
00:32:26.740 natural, um, uh, disease and he passed away. So after two years after his, her father's death,
00:32:34.700 she claimed that her father was murdered, uh, because of this demand and the cops registered a
00:32:41.000 murder case on this man. And he was completely dumbfounded that how can something like this
00:32:46.280 happen? But then it's a small place in the country and, um, the cops can be bought and, uh, there is
00:32:53.740 extreme corruption in the system. So one after the other, he kept getting a lot of these cases from
00:33:00.520 his wife's side. And, um, he, she was asking him three crores. So we could get that in dollars as
00:33:08.080 well. Three crore Indian rupees. Three claw. Okay. No, three, three C-R-O-R-E. Okay. Three crore.
00:33:17.500 Two U.S. Dollars. Okay. That, uh, three, three crore. I don't know why it's not 50. Oh, wow.
00:33:28.080 Guys, that's $58,000. Yeah. So, um, that was the money that she was demanding from him to set
00:33:38.080 him free and to sort of take away all the cases that she had filed on him. And he said that he's
00:33:44.000 not going to fund his own destruction and he refused to pay money. Uh, he was, he had been asked
00:33:51.460 to pay, uh, maintenance for the child, which was pretty high. Um, and, uh, he was not being allowed
00:33:59.600 to see his son at all. And he has left the evidences where the wife is saying that she's
00:34:05.840 not going to let him see the face of their child. And while she was pursuing all of these cases to get
00:34:11.280 money from him. So he, he just got completely fed up. And he said that the system is so stacked against
00:34:21.180 men that, uh, there is no hope for justice. And he just killed himself. And we are seeing these
00:34:28.100 suicides every, almost every day, almost every day. And this has gained a lot of attention to the
00:34:36.280 point. I mean, I'm in America and I saw the case. Do you have any hope that maybe we'll change some
00:34:41.340 of the laws there? Have politicians responded, um, as the judge gone under review, like what is going
00:34:48.620 on there since this has happened? So as of now there's, uh, for the last, I think I've been working
00:34:54.080 on men's issues for the last 12 years is the first time that I'm seeing, um, um, an uproar of this
00:35:00.460 level, this magnitude in India over, um, men's issues in particular, or, you know, suicide of a
00:35:08.620 man. Uh, so I'm hopeful that probably this will lead to some change. I don't have too many hopes
00:35:13.900 because this is just too big a country and every issue just dies down within two, three days. And
00:35:20.140 probably it will be the same with this case as well. But some politicians have spoken up. The media
00:35:26.220 has been very supportive. Um, um, you know, it's, it's quite a surprise to me for the first time
00:35:32.220 ever. The media has been extremely supportive because that suicide video is very, very heartbreaking.
00:35:39.720 And he details, uh, the trajectory of his life from the day he got married to the day he's dying,
00:35:46.760 uh, within a span of five years, it went from there to there. So it struck a chord with people
00:35:52.720 and they were like, just wondering that how much, uh, can you push the person to the wall?
00:35:58.800 And obviously anybody can, you know, we'll just break down in such circumstances that
00:36:03.780 you see your parents suffering, you see your siblings suffering, uh, you're separated from
00:36:09.160 your child. You have absolutely no semblance of the affection of, uh, there have been no discussions
00:36:14.320 in the parliament so far. We haven't seen that. Uh, but yes, um, there is quite an outrage over
00:36:20.960 this case. And I really, really hope that something positive comes out of it.
00:36:25.120 And have you spoken to his family at all? How are they taking it?
00:36:29.580 Uh, well, they are devastated, but they are obviously completely devastated. And what is
00:36:33.940 really, really sad is that the criminal charges that have been pressed against the entire family,
00:36:39.360 they will still continue.
00:36:41.100 No way.
00:36:42.920 Yes. Yes.
00:36:44.700 Wow. So the criminal charges have, so in, is child custody in India settled in family court
00:36:55.520 or do you guys have family court or is it all criminals?
00:37:00.180 No. Okay.
00:37:01.100 We have, we have a family court. Yeah.
00:37:04.280 These issues are not enough.
00:37:06.180 It's just the dowry is criminal.
00:37:08.720 That goes, that's settled. Okay. That's a criminal.
00:37:10.840 Yes. Okay.
00:37:11.580 So, um, let me explain this. Why it is, uh, very different and very problematic in India
00:37:17.900 is, uh, you could tell me more about the U.S. laws in the U.S. But, so on the criminal
00:37:23.060 side, you would have these charges of either dowry or, uh, criminal breach of trust. So, you
00:37:30.060 know, multiple sections under one criminal case so that you file fight in the criminal court.
00:37:36.140 Then you have the Domestic Violence Act in which the woman can ask for maintenance as well as
00:37:42.240 residence rights, um, or injunctions or protection orders. So, that's a separate case. Then there
00:37:49.760 is a separate provision altogether for getting maintenance, which is called the 125 section
00:37:55.060 of criminal procedure code. So, she can ask for maintenance there as well. So, there are just
00:38:02.240 so many avenues where just one dispute between husband and wife is being, is, is tried. And
00:38:09.700 the husband is basically the, uh, respondent in all of these cases, because these are all
00:38:14.960 instituted by the wife. Uh, he just feels a little sucked up, uh, because he has to attend
00:38:21.060 several dates in the courts. And what, what really is a very disturbing pearl in India is that
00:38:28.740 these cases can go on from anywhere between four or five years to 15 years, 20 years, sometimes 25
00:38:37.760 years, uh, 25 years. How old are the, is it when there's an age gap with the kids or what?
00:38:45.120 Because for us, once the kids, once the kids 18, unless you get on alimony to like 25, that is a long
00:38:52.460 time. That is absolutely a long time. Uh, there have been cases where the couple has been separated,
00:38:58.100 living separately for 20 years and the cases are still running in between them. Uh, but anywhere
00:39:03.800 from five years to 10 years is the average amount of time that it takes until, unless the man decides
00:39:10.760 to just give in the money and, you know, settle the case and then just get, get away with it. And
00:39:16.780 that's why most, in most of these cases, there are now exorbitant money demands, monetary demands,
00:39:22.940 because they know that, you know, you can just, um, uh, harass the person through the process of
00:39:29.040 the courts and the law for as long as you want until he breaks down to just give in and, you know,
00:39:35.020 just say, is that, okay, I'll just give you whatever you want and then give, you know, give me my life
00:39:40.340 back kind of a thing. Yeah. Yeah. You see that here too. In the West, it's not that deep, the litigations
00:39:47.280 are not that prolonged, I guess. I mean, and there's, I, I'm, I'm assuming there's a bit of
00:39:52.860 fairness. They do look at both the sides. No, they don't. No, no, no, no. Sorry. I don't,
00:40:02.140 I don't mean to laugh, but no, like I'm laughing cause it's, it's absurd here too, but that's, I,
00:40:07.180 I haven't talked to anyone that's been in litigation for that long, unless there's a big
00:40:13.020 age gap in the kids. So, you know, if one kid, um, they had one at 15 and one at, as a baby,
00:40:20.800 you know, but that's, but, but, um, uh, it's, it's just that, um, there are just too many
00:40:28.580 platforms that you have to go and fight these battles in which, um, Atul also spoke about in
00:40:35.220 his U-Side video. So one instance that I really, uh, you know, would like to share, which is described
00:40:41.880 in detail in his, uh, Seaside note is, uh, he was, he was asked to come in the judge's chamber
00:40:49.480 during one of their hearings. And this female judge told him, why don't you just pay the money to your
00:40:55.540 wife and settle these cases? You know, why are you even fighting? You're earning decent. So why don't
00:41:01.740 you just pay her and then settle these cases? And he said, ma'am, I want to fight on merits.
00:41:06.020 I have not done anything wrong. She's falsely accused me and I want to fight on my merits.
00:41:11.240 And then she asks him to give her, uh, five lakh rupees, um, which is, uh, what, um, uh,
00:41:19.800 $1,000. No, no, not $1,000, something like that. Um, it's like five, five to $6,000.
00:41:28.400 Yeah. Five to $6,000. So, yeah. Uh, so she asked for that money and she says, if you give me that
00:41:35.180 money, then I'm going to give you a favorable order. And if you don't, then, uh, you know, I I'll
00:41:40.180 ensure that you get as many dates as possible and you'll have to come to the court. So this man was
00:41:45.540 traveling from Bengaluru, which is in South, uh, to Johnpur, Uttar Pradesh, which is pretty far, must be at
00:41:52.180 least, uh, uh, 2,500 kilometers or maybe 3000 kilometers. So he had to take a flight every
00:41:59.540 time, go to this place, attend the litigation, come back, uh, not being insured whether there's
00:42:05.820 going to be a hearing or not. And in the last two years, he says he attended 120 hearings
00:42:11.260 and got nothing out of it. So, um, this, this, this whole system is way, way burdening and it just
00:42:20.640 takes a toll on you. It just takes a huge mental toll. And out of curiosity is the standard for
00:42:28.060 young people today, arranged marriages, is that still typical in India? Um, I am not aware of any
00:42:37.780 data if we have, but, um, arranged marriage setup is quite prevalent in India, still quite prevalent,
00:42:44.740 uh, but in urban pockets, um, there are just a lot of marriages that are happening where the couple
00:42:52.220 was already in relationship and then they got married. But even in urban pockets, uh, arranged
00:42:57.800 marriages are quite prevalent to date. Okay. I was just curious. Well, thank you very much for coming on.
00:43:04.260 Um, good job. Like good. I like the work you've been doing. You've been covering this case really
00:43:09.900 closely on Twitter. Do you want to tell my followers where they can find you?
00:43:14.640 Aya, um, I am Deepika Narayan Bhav, YouTube, and I would really, really request your audience,
00:43:20.940 Paul, to watch my documentary films. Uh, India Sons, uh, particularly is, is a very, very sensitive
00:43:27.640 issue, which is right now, um, uh, very, very disturbing in India. There are just thousands of men who are,
00:43:34.260 being implicated in false rape cases, uh, with impunity, uh, and there are proper gangs that
00:43:42.340 are now operating, that are, um, sort of filing these cases and extorting, uh, lacks and crores
00:43:49.520 from men, uh, by these false cases. So it tells plight of men who were falsely accused of rape and how
00:43:55.700 blatantly false those cases were, where they had CCTV footage that they were not even there at the place
00:44:03.080 of the incident, or they did not even know the woman, had never seen the woman, did not even know
00:44:09.420 about her existence. And then she slapped a rape case on them and they had to fight it out for three
00:44:15.400 years, five years and things like that. So, um, it's, it's quite shocking, uh, on what's happening
00:44:21.440 in India and how the system is absolutely, um, turned a blind eye to fairness, equality, balance,
00:44:29.860 and fair investigation. So yeah, uh, Martyrs of Marriage is on YouTube. Uh, it's on my channel
00:44:35.660 itself and India Sons is on my website, indiasons.com. I now, um, uh, run an organization
00:44:42.960 called Ekam Niai Foundation Pearl. It's called E-K-A-M, uh, that's, that's Ekam Niai. I don't
00:44:49.480 know if it's visible or not, but that's a t-shirt that I'm wearing as well. Uh, it's E-K-A-M-N-Y-A-A-Y.org.
00:44:56.800 Please do take a look at our work, my documentary films, and all the lives that we have tried to
00:45:02.840 have an impact on by working on ground. Okay. Thank you so much. Thank you so much, Paul. Take
00:45:09.780 care. Take care. Okay, guys, I'm going to take a second to read the next, if you guys have any,
00:45:16.760 anything. Oh, wait, are you still there? Is she still there? They want you to spell your name
00:45:22.660 in, in the spelling in India, or that's too much for us. We're, they're not going to know how.
00:45:28.800 All right. It's D-A-E-P-I-K-A, Deepika, Narayan, N-A-R-A-Y-A-N, and Bhardwaj, B-H-A-R-D-W-A-J.
00:45:45.480 Okay. Thank you so much.
00:45:47.620 Thank you.
00:45:48.200 Thank you. Bye.
00:45:49.040 Bye.
00:45:49.500 Bye. Okay. Charles says none of it's real. It's a high. See, that's why you guys got to be on the website, right?
00:45:58.020 He didn't know how to spell her name in two seconds. Boom. Boom. I read it. It was read or not.
00:46:04.800 I know you guys got a lot going on. Okay. Rob says that was more than sad. Okay. I read the other one.
00:46:12.480 Okay. So the next story I want to cover today is I want to talk about Lily Phillips.
00:46:20.160 So I have talked about this woman on the show again, but as you guys know, there has been an influx of the OnlyFans and Cornstar to church pipeline.
00:46:31.440 And I want to show you guys the stages of this and how this happens. Now, I'm not saying it's bad if OF models come to church, but I personally would not want to bring my husband. Sorry, ladies. I don't know why nobody thinks about these things.
00:46:50.580 So, okay. So Lily Phillips, OnlyFans models cries after sleeping with 101 men in a day. Sometimes I feel so robotic and OnlyFans model who slept with 101 men in a day breaks down in tears as she recounts her 24 hour sex marathon.
00:47:10.240 Lily Phillips, onlyFans. Lily Phillips, 23, had sex with over 100 men in a day back in October to create some scandalous content for her subscription-based social media page.
00:47:20.620 But despite previously insisting that she enjoyed the extreme stunt and the sex, all that sex didn't make her feel good.
00:47:28.840 Sometimes I feel so robotic, Phillips admitted in YouTube Josh Peters' documentary titled I Slept with 100 Men in a Day.
00:47:38.320 The British sex worker fought back the tears as she recalled that day. I think by the 30th we're getting on a bit.
00:47:46.300 I've got a routine of how we're going to do this and sometimes you disassociate and it's not like normal sex at all.
00:47:53.000 Although it was momentarily frisky freak, it wasn't all memorable for the young woman who admitted she didn't remember much of it.
00:48:04.340 In my head, I can think of like 5, 6, 10 guys that I remember and that's it, she revealed.
00:48:10.360 But it's just weird, isn't it? If I didn't have the videos, I wouldn't have known I did 100.
00:48:15.680 That's how women lie about their body count. I don't remember. It was 10.
00:48:20.380 Phillips shared that it's not just the physical intimacy of having sex with so many men that made her feel so bad,
00:48:26.380 but also by disappointing them and not being able to talk with them or being interested in doing so.
00:48:32.800 She said that conversing with them was also hard and recounted how one man complained that they only chatted for about two minutes
00:48:39.360 and she had said beforehand they would talk for about five minutes.
00:48:43.100 The OnlyFans creator counted, continued to hold back tears, although her red puffy eyes showed she had already broken down.
00:48:51.000 When she asked if she thinks she should feel bad about not talking with each man, she slept with for a set amount of time.
00:48:59.080 She said, I guess when you've promised something to people who support you, it's kind of hard to let them down.
00:49:04.200 The sex worker also admitted she hadn't processed what she did on the day,
00:49:08.300 but she said she wouldn't forget the day of her emotional interview.
00:49:11.900 The scene ends with her crying and being comforted.
00:49:14.860 In another part of the documentary, Phillips shared that she wouldn't recommend doing what she had done
00:49:20.980 and admitted it was more intense than she thought.
00:49:25.840 It's not for the weak girls, if I'm being honest.
00:49:28.480 It was hard.
00:49:29.680 I don't know if I'd recommend it.
00:49:31.500 It's a different feeling.
00:49:33.420 It's not one in, one out.
00:49:35.540 It feels intense, she said.
00:49:37.420 Yet despite discussing how bad betting 100 men in 24 hours was for her mental and physical health,
00:49:44.860 Phillips recently declared that she plans to have sex with 1,000 men in a day.
00:49:50.940 Phillips has claimed that she wants to take on the new challenge in January.
00:49:55.640 1,000 men in 24 hours.
00:49:58.080 Men talent casting call.
00:50:00.020 18 and up only.
00:50:01.580 She posted on social media.
00:50:03.480 I dreamed it up with my assistant.
00:50:05.080 I can't wait.
00:50:05.620 It's very exciting and will be a world record, a real challenge.
00:50:09.260 The current world record is held by Lisa Sparks,
00:50:11.600 an adult film star who betted 919 men in one day at a sex industry event in Poland back in 2004.
00:50:19.560 To be completely transparent with you all,
00:50:21.800 the event is the one thing I regret doing in the 23 plus years in the corn industry to this day.
00:50:30.620 This was also the only job I agreed to perform strictly for money.
00:50:34.600 Sparks, known best by her corn name, Lisa Sparks, and her website.
00:50:38.980 Sydney medical practitioner, Dr. Zach Turner, who specializes in preventative health and wellness,
00:50:44.600 warned that when pushed to the extreme, such activity could hurt the body.
00:50:49.580 Sex at its core is a physically demanding activity that engages various muscles.
00:50:56.340 The cardiovascular system and the release of endorphins, he said.
00:51:01.280 Done in moderation, it's akin to a rewarding workout, promoting stress relief, cardiovascular health,
00:51:07.380 and emotional well-being.
00:51:09.100 However, when pushed to the extremes, like a 24-hour sex marathon,
00:51:12.740 the physical and physiological toll can be severe.
00:51:16.280 Okay.
00:51:17.140 So as you guys know, and we can expect, conservative Twitter really just ate this up.
00:51:22.080 They really just, you know, I want my brother to marry a woman that defends him as hard
00:51:32.760 as church ladies defend corn stars.
00:51:36.900 It's ridiculous.
00:51:38.620 It's insane.
00:51:40.040 You know, I never get the benefit of the doubt with the trad cons on Twitter.
00:51:44.680 Maybe it's because I talk about how dumb they are.
00:51:49.360 But, I mean, I never get it.
00:51:51.760 It's always, you're not a real Christian, you hate women, da-da-da-da-da-da.
00:51:56.000 I never get it.
00:51:57.280 But the corn star and OnlyFans models, it's like, here's second chance, third chance, tenth chance.
00:52:05.780 And I'm not saying, we are for genuine conversions here.
00:52:10.260 That's fine.
00:52:10.980 That's great.
00:52:12.180 But, I need to see something.
00:52:17.760 Now, she's not at the conversion stage yet.
00:52:20.180 We'll wait another six months.
00:52:21.760 So, Billy Bragg says, young women have been groomed into thinking they should be able
00:52:28.120 to do this.
00:52:29.340 We have gone from loose women have something wrong with them to the belief that women should
00:52:34.040 be able to be able to be loose or there is something wrong with her.
00:52:39.760 Decades of societal messaging has led us here.
00:52:42.640 It's why I don't judge any of them.
00:52:44.220 They're all victims to me.
00:52:46.960 Okay.
00:52:47.700 So, when I was interviewing 1,000 people.
00:52:52.340 Now, as you guys know, I moved from Chicago to London a couple of years ago.
00:52:56.380 I played volleyball in the UK for three years.
00:52:58.460 And in that time, I launched a YouTube show that became one of the biggest shows in the
00:53:03.000 United States at the time.
00:53:04.220 And I would interview about five to ten women every night at 1.6 days a week we had coming
00:53:10.840 in.
00:53:11.140 I was either casting or I was interviewing them myself.
00:53:15.220 And once you actually start dealing with corn stars and women that are in the sex industry,
00:53:20.840 you realize that they are not groomed or coerced at all.
00:53:24.720 It's usually one of three or four things.
00:53:27.900 One, they like sexual variety.
00:53:30.800 And from a young age, they were just never meant to be with one man.
00:53:34.620 They do not have it in them.
00:53:37.440 And they figure, well, I might as well monetize this because I will never be with one person.
00:53:42.280 The second thing is they love the excitement.
00:53:45.760 It's a fantasy to them.
00:53:47.620 They enjoy having sex on camera with multiple men.
00:53:52.480 They enjoy being desired that much by multiple men.
00:53:56.980 They get a thrill out of it.
00:53:58.700 They like doing things that society would say is bad.
00:54:06.080 Like they get off on doing the wrong thing.
00:54:10.600 Another reason that they do sex work, sometimes it's a money grab.
00:54:14.360 You know, it's easier than working.
00:54:15.720 And it's just so interesting to me that everybody thinks the women are coerced.
00:54:24.800 They think that, you know, this says the look of dignity lost forever.
00:54:30.300 A soul forfeited for notoriety, a life lost in those eyes.
00:54:34.720 Sad.
00:54:36.620 And next we have...
00:54:37.720 She's not forever lost, you wretched wretch.
00:54:45.160 The blood of Christ washes all sins away and evil away and can make any person whole again.
00:54:54.980 Oh my goodness, you guys drive me nuts.
00:54:57.460 Everyone keeps on hating on Lily Phillips but ignored the 101 men who participated.
00:55:11.400 The ratio of sick men to women is the reason few women have become this sick.
00:55:18.680 Okay, so let me get this straight.
00:55:20.080 If I put a million dollars on the street for free, I say anybody can take this million dollars.
00:55:32.560 Here, it's for you.
00:55:36.140 Are we really going to blame people for taking it when she's giving out sex for free?
00:55:45.220 Now, many people want to say that these women have no choice.
00:55:49.220 They are just groomed and society pushes them to do this.
00:55:52.980 Now, this woman, 1 to 10, I'm going to give her like, I would say 7.
00:55:57.660 You guys agree with that?
00:55:58.580 I mean, you guys are guys.
00:55:59.600 You guys like women.
00:56:00.960 So I want to hear, you know, you can put it in the chat.
00:56:02.940 I'd say 7, right?
00:56:04.220 7, maybe 8 before.
00:56:06.480 I know it's kind of hard to rank her knowing what she's done, but just imagine she did it.
00:56:11.640 She could have, A, gone to golf courses and looked to marry rich.
00:56:16.900 She could have did that.
00:56:17.680 She could have said, you know what, all I want to do in life is marry rich.
00:56:21.900 That would be more admirable than this.
00:56:24.060 She could have said, you know what, I'm not really meant to be a wife, but do you know
00:56:28.040 what I'm going to be?
00:56:31.120 I'm going to be a strong, independent woman, and I'm going to go into medical device sales.
00:56:36.420 She could have gone into medical device sales.
00:56:38.840 She's attractive enough to do it.
00:56:40.620 You really need to be a 7 or higher.
00:56:42.440 No one knocked on my door asking if I wanted to do medical device, but you get a big pair
00:56:48.360 of fake boobs, boom, you're golden.
00:56:50.300 Go do it.
00:56:50.940 She could go make six figures doing that, and then, you know, then she could be a strong,
00:56:57.220 independent woman.
00:56:58.840 She could go be a stripper.
00:57:00.660 She could go strip, right?
00:57:04.460 I mean, at least, you know, maybe then she could get her sluttiness out there and not
00:57:10.480 have sex with a hundred men in one day.
00:57:12.080 A hundred's a lot, right?
00:57:13.500 All I'm saying, I mean, she could have went into the nunnery, but let's not, let's not,
00:57:19.200 you know, let's not say things that are never going to happen.
00:57:21.700 All I'm saying is she had so many choices of things she could have done that all women
00:57:26.620 are given.
00:57:27.080 It's like, you want to go to school?
00:57:29.000 Here.
00:57:30.240 You guys want to be a prostitute?
00:57:33.060 Oh, you don't, you want to do, you want to be a prostitute from the comfort of your
00:57:36.540 home?
00:57:37.640 Here, here's OnlyFans.
00:57:39.340 Oh, you guys, you want to be a social media influencer, an assistant, a teacher?
00:57:44.480 Go ahead.
00:57:45.640 Do it.
00:57:46.460 You want to go get a gender studies degree?
00:57:48.860 Here you go.
00:57:50.620 Nobody was coerced.
00:57:52.000 She's an adult.
00:57:53.500 Are women, and that's my question.
00:57:54.680 Are we adults who can make our own decisions?
00:57:57.640 Or are we kids?
00:58:01.660 Which one?
00:58:02.560 Pick one, Tradcons.
00:58:04.100 Was she coerced, or did she make a choice?
00:58:07.000 Does she have free will?
00:58:09.180 Or is the free will dependent on the men?
00:58:13.420 I don't know.
00:58:14.100 Pick one.
00:58:15.380 And then I always get the, if men only led right, she wouldn't do this.
00:58:19.860 Well, you know, I actually watched the documentary, and I'm going to show you guys a couple clips
00:58:25.660 from it.
00:58:26.520 I actually watched the full thing from beginning to end.
00:58:30.520 And there was a lot of men that kept saying, are you sure you want to do this?
00:58:38.620 The guy who was doing the documentary the whole time is saying, are you worried about STDs?
00:58:46.360 Are you sure you can do this?
00:58:49.200 So let's not, you know, when we make bad decisions, right, as ladies, there is a million men along
00:58:56.600 the way that say, that's a bad idea.
00:59:01.360 And if we don't listen, I mean, I say, let us suffer, right?
00:59:05.360 So, you know, when we get into a bunch of debt, do most of the women that get a gender
00:59:10.100 studies degree go to their dad and say, hey, dad?
00:59:12.500 Or maybe another guy in their life and say, hey, is this a good degree?
00:59:18.440 Do you think I should get this?
00:59:20.600 Or do they say, oh, that sounds fun.
00:59:22.600 Let me go.
00:59:24.920 Do the ladies get spending money on Botox, hair, expensive gym memberships?
00:59:30.480 Do they go to their male friends, their dad, and say, hey, could you help me with this budget?
00:59:36.720 Men love help.
00:59:37.540 Men are the most helpful.
00:59:38.580 I mean, men are just, they love feeling needed, right, if you appreciate them for it.
00:59:45.680 So, you know, we could do that.
00:59:48.140 How many, it's not like nobody said, no one put a gun to her head and said, you must sleep
00:59:55.540 with that many men in a day.
00:59:58.660 Now, obviously, I'm going to show you guys some clips from this documentary.
01:00:04.940 So I have 16 minute mark.
01:00:06.580 Okay, so at this point in the documentary, she is talking about how, again, she's not
01:00:13.080 traumatized by this stuff, but she enjoys it.
01:00:16.700 Okay, you guys think I'm making this up?
01:00:18.200 You think, Pearl, you're just making up that these women enjoy this stuff.
01:00:22.680 They really secretly hate it.
01:00:24.940 But I think at the end of the day, people forget there's also my fantasy.
01:00:28.760 And this is also something that I'm really enjoying and want to do and have wanted to do
01:00:33.880 before I was even in the industry.
01:00:35.660 Our filming was interrupted briefly by a phone call from Lily's mother.
01:00:39.880 Apparently, she calls Lily every day.
01:00:42.660 My mom always calls me every day.
01:00:44.560 What have you been up to today?
01:00:46.240 I'm just getting railed.
01:00:47.300 What are you?
01:00:50.040 Okay, so we have an involved mother, right?
01:00:54.820 And okay, the other thing is there's this idea that the sex workers just had a really bad
01:00:59.360 home life and, you know, that doesn't help, right?
01:01:02.160 I mean, a bad home life.
01:01:03.900 It's not like a good, I mean, that's not a, it's not going to contribute to making her
01:01:07.500 a better person.
01:01:09.460 But she's got two parents that love her and call her every day.
01:01:15.100 She's checking in on her.
01:01:21.060 My parents know what I do, but I'm not on the phone to them every day going, oh, you
01:01:25.600 know, I just got DPE'd, I'm 17 guys today.
01:01:29.920 Yeah.
01:01:30.280 All this and that.
01:01:30.860 They don't need to know the logistics.
01:01:33.420 Of course.
01:01:33.780 I do feel a little bit like embarrassed being like mom and dad, I'm a hundred guys.
01:01:38.720 Why?
01:01:39.960 I guess because it's not really what my parents would have chose, wanted me to do.
01:01:45.460 Okay, there we go.
01:01:47.300 Did she have someone to get, she had two people she could have went to for guidance and did
01:01:51.760 she?
01:01:52.980 No.
01:01:55.600 The next mark was the 26 minute mark where she says that she gets off on this and she
01:02:02.360 enjoys it.
01:02:03.780 Now, a lot of people want to say ban corn, ban this stuff.
01:02:10.120 We just got to ban it.
01:02:11.980 I really don't see that being a good strategy.
01:02:16.140 One, it's going to be so difficult to get women like this to stop.
01:02:23.860 I think it sounds nice on a podcast.
01:02:26.000 Like I saw, I see people tweeted all the time, ban corn, ban.
01:02:30.640 And okay, that's, do you know the police power?
01:02:36.100 I mean, that's going to take way too much work.
01:02:38.540 All I say is let them face the consequences.
01:02:43.460 Let them, let them suffer.
01:02:45.120 Let them fail.
01:02:45.640 I think it's more if someone's on my face.
01:02:49.180 I can imagine that's what's put another guy off.
01:02:51.980 So you would let like these guys do that on your face?
01:02:55.220 Yeah, yeah.
01:02:55.940 And in your mouth?
01:02:56.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:02:58.280 What if they're HIV?
01:03:00.160 Is that where it comes from?
01:03:01.180 Okay, so now, now he's saying, okay, you're going to let the guys finish on you.
01:03:11.240 You might get AIDS.
01:03:14.480 Is that where it comes from?
01:03:15.840 Okay, I'm going to do it anyway.
01:03:18.160 With spunk in the mouth?
01:03:20.100 It can.
01:03:21.400 Oh, really?
01:03:22.280 Yeah, I've never really thought about that.
01:03:23.680 Last time when I did it, all of them put spunk in the mouth.
01:03:26.780 And I can't really explain it.
01:03:30.380 I get like serotonin, like from when people are like, oh my God, you're that on the internet.
01:03:35.640 Sounds crazy.
01:03:36.680 I know, and I know you're saying that to me right here, but I don't believe that.
01:03:40.080 Really?
01:03:40.680 No.
01:03:41.760 This is, okay, it's the dynamic.
01:03:43.980 She's saying, I get serotonin from being on, by all these men.
01:03:52.220 And he's saying, I don't believe you.
01:03:55.040 They do.
01:03:55.740 I promise to God, they do.
01:03:58.460 I kind of love like ruffling feathers a little bit and people getting a bit agitated by maybe the fact that I'm messed up.
01:04:06.520 People think I'm like so sad and stuff like that, but that could not be like further from the truth.
01:04:11.900 I don't think people realize like how happy this makes me.
01:04:15.160 Well, I just think it's so funny and fun.
01:04:17.200 I can't really put it into words.
01:04:18.960 Have you done anything to me?
01:04:19.960 I can't put it into words.
01:04:21.620 How happy this makes me.
01:04:23.980 I am so glad that we have social media now because I think when I tell these stories, people think I'm crazy.
01:04:32.420 When I tell the stories of the sex workers that I've met that enjoyed what they did.
01:04:37.760 Everyone thinks I'm insane until now.
01:04:43.080 Okay.
01:04:43.400 42 minute mark.
01:04:45.000 Let's see.
01:04:45.640 It's after she did all the sexing.
01:04:48.100 Um, if you guys want to see this is on Josh Peters channel, you can watch the whole thing.
01:04:54.980 Um, okay.
01:04:57.220 This is.
01:05:01.420 Is that real?
01:05:02.700 Yeah.
01:05:02.980 He's not getting his smells.
01:05:04.760 Lily then walked us through the process that she had repeated a hundred times that day.
01:05:09.080 Come on in.
01:05:09.960 Make yourself at home.
01:05:10.780 Take your shoes off.
01:05:11.820 I've got some, um, hangers here if you want to put your coat up.
01:05:15.420 Nice.
01:05:15.840 Come on in.
01:05:16.420 Where do you travel from?
01:05:17.260 Say, oh, lovely.
01:05:18.360 Yeah.
01:05:18.600 Yeah.
01:05:18.960 Oh, it's so nice to meet you.
01:05:20.360 I'll get you on the bed.
01:05:21.240 Make yourself comfortable.
01:05:22.380 Yeah.
01:05:22.500 Take off your trousers.
01:05:24.220 And we're going to have a fun time.
01:05:25.860 And I'll give them the phone camera.
01:05:28.320 I'll just say, I'm guessing you don't want your face in it.
01:05:30.420 Yeah.
01:05:30.720 And if they don't, it'll be POV phone camera.
01:05:33.700 Yeah.
01:05:34.220 I'll start usually with a job.
01:05:36.520 And then I'll say like, is there anything you like, don't like?
01:05:39.580 Any certain position you want to do?
01:05:41.620 Yeah.
01:05:42.000 And then, yeah, we kind of got straight into it.
01:05:43.700 Did you do the with a condom on or?
01:05:45.840 No.
01:05:46.260 No.
01:05:46.620 I didn't.
01:05:47.760 Condom off.
01:05:48.600 Okay.
01:05:48.960 And then, but then like once they're having sex, it's like condom on type thing.
01:05:53.340 Yeah.
01:05:53.920 It does smell a lot like, a lot like.
01:05:57.100 So did she say when they started, they had it all?
01:06:02.060 Ew.
01:06:02.560 Oh my gosh.
01:06:03.280 This girl's going to get AIDS.
01:06:04.300 I mean.
01:06:05.460 Diseases sometimes can, sometimes can be cured.
01:06:08.300 Others can't.
01:06:09.020 They said, look, guys.
01:06:12.620 There is too much money in fixing women's poor decisions.
01:06:17.960 If you want to make money, you just invest in something, which is undoing a decision that
01:06:26.200 we made previously.
01:06:27.360 Example, tattoo removal.
01:06:30.060 That's going to come back.
01:06:31.380 If somebody could reverse menopause, I doubt it, but they would be really rich.
01:06:38.700 Now, the AIDS thing.
01:06:41.480 Now we're having people live long life, lives with AIDS.
01:06:45.600 That was unheard of.
01:06:47.020 There's too much money in this stuff.
01:06:48.360 And there's a rose.
01:06:50.220 That's nice.
01:06:50.780 And how are you feeling?
01:06:54.020 Surprisingly, downstairs is not too, not really sore.
01:06:57.640 Okay.
01:06:58.140 It's more just tired.
01:06:59.740 My eyes sting like nothing else.
01:07:02.380 Why?
01:07:02.600 So, part of the reason she was tearing up is because her eyes sting.
01:07:09.540 Because of all the comment.
01:07:11.020 I think I repeatedly said, you can't have Facebook, not in my eyes.
01:07:14.420 And they just went right at the eyes.
01:07:15.680 Well, I think, like, it might have been an accident.
01:07:18.160 But no, I mean, I've definitely seen some spunk today, Jesus.
01:07:22.780 Yeah.
01:07:23.380 So, then next, we're going to go to 44-minute mark where she says she feels bad.
01:07:31.260 We're going to watch the full clip.
01:07:33.960 You know, when I talked to you last, like, I was not nervous.
01:07:36.720 It was, like, the day before.
01:07:37.760 I was like, oh, I'm so nervous.
01:07:40.560 But it was good.
01:07:41.460 It was more, I guess the interactions weren't, like, I'd have to stop them early.
01:07:46.320 And, like, you'd have to stand on business and be like, I'm so sorry.
01:07:51.460 You've got to go.
01:07:52.200 And, like, the awkward interaction of, like, you feeling pressure to have to make them calm if, like, you haven't spent enough time with them and feeling like.
01:08:01.860 Now, I got no sympathy because this is still easier than a lot of men's jobs.
01:08:08.900 I asked, um, my brother.
01:08:11.620 My brother's, um, best friend works for my dad.
01:08:14.820 And I asked him, I asked him today.
01:08:17.220 I said, for a billion dollars, would you be gay?
01:08:24.040 Would you hook up with a guy for a billion?
01:08:26.360 One time, you're set for life.
01:08:30.960 He said a lot of men, I mean, if it's enough money, they'll do it, too.
01:08:36.340 I, you know what?
01:08:37.400 I actually met a couple male-only fans models.
01:08:40.180 They don't get paid out nearly as much, but they weren't gay, allegedly, but they said they were for money.
01:08:47.560 They realize it's easier than doing that?
01:08:50.680 They didn't.
01:08:51.400 They said no.
01:08:51.820 Okay, I'm not saying you guys would do it.
01:08:53.840 I'm just saying.
01:08:55.120 I'm just saying there's harder jobs than this, okay?
01:08:58.840 And I don't, I don't buy.
01:09:00.440 I think when they say they're so broken and da-da-da-da-da, I think maybe they have remorse because of the decisions, the consequences later.
01:09:15.260 But now the Corn Stars are getting married.
01:09:19.060 I think most of the time it's just a rebrand.
01:09:23.340 Like, you didn't give them a good time because, like, they only got two.
01:09:26.380 So she's mad, not because she regrets it, but because she didn't give them a good enough time.
01:09:32.560 That's good customer service, I'll tell you what.
01:09:35.080 She's very, she is very proud of her brand.
01:09:41.240 Yes.
01:09:41.960 And that's what's making you feel emotional is that maybe you think you didn't give some guys a good enough time today.
01:09:48.200 Yeah, yeah, and it's hard, I think, having the interactions with them when they're like,
01:09:52.740 what, you're not going to make me finish?
01:09:54.360 I've come all this way.
01:09:55.180 Like, kind of, like, guilt-tripping me a little bit.
01:09:58.300 I felt bad.
01:09:59.220 Like, some people just travel so far.
01:10:00.800 Like, I didn't want to give them a shit time and, like, come away from us and be like, oh, that's shit.
01:10:06.920 I think sometimes I'm feeling so, like, robotic.
01:10:10.040 Like, by the, I think, like, the 30th, you know, like, when we're getting on a bit, I've got, like, a routine of, like, how we're going to do.
01:10:17.000 Now, we have to think about the incentives here, right?
01:10:19.720 We have to go back to the incentives.
01:10:21.420 The incentive is, if she cries after, she sells more OnlyFans.
01:10:28.300 If she makes this, we all know in a story, the more ups and downs there are in a story, the better it sells.
01:10:35.640 So, do I buy this for a second?
01:10:38.140 Not really.
01:10:38.700 I don't.
01:10:39.460 I don't.
01:10:39.980 And I'm sorry that I think you guys are all dumb if you buy it.
01:10:43.040 You know what?
01:10:43.540 I'm not going to.
01:10:44.360 Maybe I should be more respectful.
01:10:47.240 But I didn't buy it when I was in high school.
01:10:51.300 And they would always.
01:10:52.200 I went to a Catholic high school.
01:10:54.080 And they would bring in chastity speakers every year.
01:10:58.080 And every year, they would bring in some couple where the woman, her testimony was that she got ran through.
01:11:05.960 And the man's testimony was that he cleaned up her mess after.
01:11:11.540 And that's what we keep seeing, right?
01:11:13.940 We see women get married and then the men have to clean up after.
01:11:17.720 So, now here, she made a poor decision that everyone warned her against.
01:11:21.840 And now the men are expected to give her, what, sympathy after?
01:11:25.480 Please.
01:11:26.880 Please.
01:11:28.240 It's completely fake.
01:11:29.500 Yeah.
01:11:31.280 Okay.
01:11:32.040 So, moving on to the next story today.
01:11:35.760 I saw a video yesterday that made me think, okay?
01:11:40.380 And this was a video.
01:11:42.040 It was of another conservative comment.
01:11:47.480 You guys know how I feel.
01:11:48.660 I don't really think there's conservative women.
01:11:50.900 Not really anymore.
01:11:56.340 There was a conservative commentator talking about the trend of women rethinking 50-50 relationships.
01:12:05.380 And what we're going to see now is non-traditional women asking for things they don't deserve.
01:12:11.380 So, to start this show, when I'm talking about traditional women versus modern women, I want to clarify what I'm talking about.
01:12:20.800 So, let me see.
01:12:30.960 All right.
01:12:31.740 Testing.
01:12:32.520 You good?
01:12:33.720 Okay.
01:12:34.000 Now, I decided to make a chart of traditional versus 50-50.
01:12:42.360 Actually, I like the word modern better.
01:12:44.660 So, I want to make a chart of things that are more traditional versus more modern.
01:12:51.700 So, traditional would be arranged marriage.
01:13:00.960 Now, young marriage, I am going to define as below 25.
01:13:16.240 So, if you get married below 25 with the intent of having kids in the next couple years.
01:13:24.140 So, your first kid or second, like, let's say three plus kids is more traditional.
01:13:33.280 The reason that three plus kids is more traditional is because birth control, modern.
01:13:43.540 That's modern.
01:13:45.720 Traditional, natural family planning.
01:13:49.280 So, modern would be tattoos.
01:13:51.580 Okay.
01:13:54.140 Modern is going to be plastic surgery.
01:14:04.840 Young marriage.
01:14:06.040 I'm going to say kids had below 25.
01:14:13.200 Oh, wait.
01:14:14.420 Below 25.
01:14:20.240 So, at least the first one, right?
01:14:22.560 Like, maybe I'll give you, if you had your first kid at 24, okay, and then you had the
01:14:28.400 three kids in your 20s plus.
01:14:30.620 I really think it should be four plus.
01:14:33.340 Maybe it's because I'm from a family of a million kids.
01:14:37.020 But, we'll give them three plus, okay?
01:14:41.060 Just out of the kindness of my heart.
01:14:43.680 Now, modern career.
01:14:46.820 And I would like to clarify, there's no right or wrong.
01:14:51.200 If anything, doing a show interviewing a thousand women made me convinced that there are many women that should never have children ever.
01:15:00.920 Because they are so irresponsible that I just cannot imagine them bringing up a child.
01:15:08.620 God help us.
01:15:11.200 I would meet women that would come on my show.
01:15:13.860 And I would always ask the question, you know, there would be women I could text, and within a half hour, they would be there.
01:15:22.320 And one of them had four children.
01:15:24.240 And every night, I would think to myself when she would come, who is watching your kids?
01:15:31.560 Who is doing it?
01:15:32.880 Because it's not you.
01:15:34.140 You're too available.
01:15:35.300 You're at too many of the events.
01:15:37.220 With the women with no kids.
01:15:38.900 This isn't making sense.
01:15:40.220 Okay, so, let's see.
01:15:43.480 Career, plastic surgery.
01:15:45.640 Let's say, plastic surgery, tattoo.
01:15:50.500 Let's say debt, right?
01:15:52.040 If you have a lot of debt.
01:15:54.500 Tattoos.
01:16:00.740 Onlyfans is modern.
01:16:03.520 Porn, modern.
01:16:06.140 Slutty behavior.
01:16:07.220 Now, what's traditional?
01:16:13.480 If we're going to go back to the real traditional, virginity.
01:16:18.600 Now, this is why people think, I have a friend on Twitter, his name's Luffy.
01:16:25.660 Now, Luffy is famous on Twitter because he replies to women that will signal traditional.
01:16:32.320 So, they'll wear the flower dress.
01:16:33.700 Yes, they'll talk about how bad feminism is.
01:16:37.920 They'll talk about how they want to have a lot of kids and how they'll try to signal that
01:16:43.120 they are traditional.
01:16:44.560 And he always asks the question, did you lose your virginity to your husband?
01:16:50.880 And they get very angry because the answer is usually no.
01:16:54.700 Now, again, I'm not saying right or wrong.
01:16:56.820 I'm not saying good or bad.
01:16:58.140 I'm saying one is traditional and one is modern.
01:17:03.980 I'm going to check the chat really quick and see if you guys have anything to add to traditional
01:17:10.200 versus modern.
01:17:14.420 Let's see.
01:17:15.040 Natural hair color.
01:17:16.320 I can add that.
01:17:17.140 I can add that.
01:17:26.820 I can't, I think natural hair color.
01:17:31.720 I can't see anything else.
01:17:33.020 Body count.
01:17:33.800 No.
01:17:33.960 Oh, yeah.
01:17:34.360 No.
01:17:34.900 Piercings.
01:17:35.420 Okay.
01:17:36.620 Pier, I'll add that next to tattoos, piercings, hair dye.
01:17:45.160 Can you think of anything else?
01:17:46.600 What am I missing?
01:17:47.620 You know?
01:17:48.100 Nothing.
01:17:48.480 Nothing.
01:17:48.580 I think I covered it, but if you think of anything, I'll add it.
01:17:58.160 Oh, yeah, yeah, okay.
01:18:01.140 Thank you.
01:18:01.980 Social media is, yeah, public, is much more modern.
01:18:10.680 Now, again, I'm not saying one's right or wrong.
01:18:14.040 I don't care how modern or traditional you are.
01:18:19.360 If you're a nice person and you're modern, you're a nice person.
01:18:24.160 If you're a nice person and you're traditional, then you're a nice person.
01:18:28.060 Okay.
01:18:29.060 I'm going to go back down.
01:18:34.860 Oh, someone said no therapist.
01:18:39.180 Okay.
01:18:39.620 Okay.
01:18:44.040 So, now, we're in the, oh, let me turn it, did I turn it off now?
01:18:49.640 All right.
01:18:50.580 Okay.
01:18:51.380 Okay.
01:18:52.460 Now, we have the challenge where the ladies are, if you look on there, modern on the right,
01:19:02.200 but they want traditional outcome.
01:19:06.580 So, now you have the ladies getting mad that they have to work.
01:19:10.420 Now, so, it's interesting because this conservative commentator, I'm going to watch this and then
01:19:24.500 we'll go through it together.
01:19:25.660 Others and saying, honey, I do not have the money to pay the mortgage, the rent, the bills
01:19:31.720 this month.
01:19:32.300 And it's creating a lot of discourse online.
01:19:34.380 And it's sort of become a new relationship test to see whether or not you should leave
01:19:39.440 your man.
01:19:40.240 And people online have much to say about whether or not women should be in traditional relationships
01:19:44.380 where the man provides or the new 50-50 that seems to be the norm these days.
01:19:49.240 Let's talk about it.
01:19:49.940 Yeah, you better.
01:19:54.400 Yeah, you better.
01:19:55.660 Guys, before we get into today's video, please like and subscribe.
01:19:59.900 Yes, we're going to be looking into this new relationship test where you go up to your
01:20:02.980 hubby or your boyfriend and say, I don't have the money to pay the mortgage or rent.
01:20:07.220 I'm going to say relationship tests on social media, modern.
01:20:12.300 Some of them are funny.
01:20:13.420 I'm not hating, but modern.
01:20:18.040 We're going to start with a 50-50 couple, meaning they split their finances 50-50.
01:20:22.220 Now, this couple is getting a lot of heat on the internet.
01:20:24.200 They are telling this woman to leave her husband because of her response to this trend.
01:20:27.660 Hey, babe.
01:20:29.140 Babe.
01:20:29.900 Yeah.
01:20:30.520 Hey, sorry.
01:20:32.100 Listen, I know we both have to go to work here in a minute, but I just needed to tell you
01:20:35.360 that with everything and how busy it's all been that I'm not going to be able to pay the rent
01:20:46.140 this month.
01:20:46.820 Well, like just Black Friday, all the holiday shopping, Christmas.
01:20:56.920 Like, I don't know.
01:20:57.940 I don't know what to do.
01:20:59.080 Babe, I love you, but I don't even know who we pay our rent to.
01:21:02.160 Oh, no.
01:21:04.260 Yeah, I don't know.
01:21:04.780 Do you get like an extension or...
01:21:06.820 I don't really...
01:21:10.700 I don't really know, to be honest with you.
01:21:14.420 Yeah, I don't know.
01:21:16.200 I mean, I can call them and see.
01:21:19.160 But like, what do we do if like we can't pay the rent?
01:21:23.500 I don't know.
01:21:25.020 Like, they have a grace period.
01:21:26.120 We're still okay, but...
01:21:30.440 Like, I think we get a late fee, do you know?
01:21:37.580 Yeah, so I know we get like a late fee if it's paid after, I think, like the 5th or the 6th.
01:21:47.100 But, yeah, I can't pay it.
01:21:48.680 So...
01:21:53.680 Will they kick us out, or like...
01:21:58.680 I think.
01:22:01.080 Okay.
01:22:01.660 I thought I was going to be laughing more for this trend.
01:22:04.400 I'm not laughing at this.
01:22:05.860 You know what?
01:22:06.360 I got to be honest.
01:22:07.100 50-50 is what a lot of couples have to do these days, especially in this economy.
01:22:10.320 Okay, I want you to notice her language.
01:22:13.520 50-50 is what couples have to do.
01:22:16.640 Now, this is a get-out-of-jail-free card.
01:22:22.060 Because going 50-50 was a conscious choice by the ladies.
01:22:28.920 We could have...
01:22:30.120 Again, society lets us do anything.
01:22:33.140 Now, oftentimes, the ladies, we love to push it on everybody else.
01:22:38.380 So we say, well, you have to go to college.
01:22:42.200 No, you don't.
01:22:43.860 If you don't want to, you don't.
01:22:45.060 And whenever women want to make a really bad decision, we have a tendency to make it, no matter what anybody tells us.
01:22:54.360 We don't like to listen.
01:22:56.040 Not all women.
01:22:56.840 YouTube.
01:22:57.320 Not all.
01:22:57.760 Not all.
01:22:58.220 Not all.
01:23:00.340 So you could say the same thing about a good decision.
01:23:03.680 If somebody really wants to make a good or a different decision, they will do it if they want to.
01:23:12.420 Most of America is fat.
01:23:14.240 And if you want to lose weight, you would take the choices to do it, right?
01:23:18.940 So a lot of women have no choice but to be in 50-50 relationships.
01:23:22.200 Again, the ladies choose it.
01:23:26.840 They choose it.
01:23:27.740 Choice.
01:23:28.780 Choice, choice, choice.
01:23:29.920 You know, if...
01:23:31.160 Okay, let's say being a housewife is your goal.
01:23:33.760 And you want to achieve that.
01:23:36.540 You get in really good shape.
01:23:38.760 You get a low-paying job near where high-earning men live at a young age.
01:23:44.380 Set your dating app there.
01:23:46.880 Go on a couple dates a week.
01:23:49.320 Or flirt with them at work.
01:23:51.720 Golf cart girl.
01:23:54.400 Clerk at a law firm.
01:23:55.640 I can think of like a million assistant to high-earning men.
01:24:01.160 Bartender at members clubs.
01:24:05.500 You know, one time...
01:24:06.660 So my dad, he bought box seats once to a game.
01:24:11.220 And it was the only time...
01:24:12.420 I think it was like his friend's box seat.
01:24:14.160 And we just got him because someone he knew had them or whatever.
01:24:18.140 And I remember there was a woman that came by that would serve dessert.
01:24:22.700 So she would come by and bring like the dessert cart.
01:24:25.740 And I remember thinking that woman, she was very morbidly obese.
01:24:31.680 And I was thinking, you know, the amount of rich men up here
01:24:36.580 is probably more than most people will ever meet in their life.
01:24:40.660 You are missing the opportunity of a lifetime.
01:24:43.380 Most women will never be in a room with men that wealthy.
01:24:51.640 And this woman was just squandering it away, being 300 pounds.
01:24:54.940 Nobody's going to look twice.
01:24:57.080 So again, this is like a get-out-of-jail-free card.
01:25:00.360 Where nobody's responsible for the choices they...
01:25:03.160 I mean, even men, right?
01:25:04.240 It's rare, right?
01:25:07.100 But if a man really wanted to be a house husband,
01:25:09.900 what would be the choices he could do to get there?
01:25:13.740 He could get really jacked, get in really incredibly good shape,
01:25:18.760 and target high-earning women that are a bit older, maybe fatter.
01:25:23.720 Now, you could say, oh, I don't want to do that.
01:25:27.600 I don't want to date a 50-year-old cougar.
01:25:29.560 Well, the ladies do it.
01:25:33.600 Feminism right back, you know.
01:25:35.740 I'm just saying, then we have a plan.
01:25:37.600 Then we have like a what do you want.
01:25:39.840 ...even if that's not what they want.
01:25:42.140 With that being said,
01:25:43.660 if you're going to be in a 50-50 relationship,
01:25:45.340 maybe the man should have some solutions.
01:25:47.340 It's not really the financial dynamic.
01:25:49.740 It's more the attitude that he's bringing to this new problem
01:25:53.100 that they're both...
01:25:53.920 Why?
01:25:54.940 Now, again,
01:25:56.160 why are we not responsible?
01:25:59.480 So if she's being irresponsible and she has signed up,
01:26:02.880 she's opted in to 50% of the rent,
01:26:05.760 why does he have to bail her out when she doesn't do it?
01:26:09.680 Why do...
01:26:13.720 we expect men to solve our problems?
01:26:17.340 The women...
01:26:20.320 I mean, the men don't expect us to solve their problems.
01:26:25.620 And again, we've had all these years of feminism
01:26:28.460 saying we want equality.
01:26:30.460 And the choices...
01:26:31.780 not the words.
01:26:33.160 The choices are still modern.
01:26:38.140 So...
01:26:38.700 Like, again, this is just becoming entitlement.
01:26:42.780 Experiencing or this fictitious problem.
01:26:44.760 I would prefer he stand up and go,
01:26:46.840 okay, I wasn't ready for this issue to pop up,
01:26:49.580 but I got to figure out what I'm going to do about this.
01:26:51.280 And I got to figure out how...
01:26:52.180 Again, see, it goes back to,
01:26:53.700 you must solve my irresponsibility.
01:26:57.100 You must solve...
01:26:58.140 Now, again,
01:26:59.480 if the ladies were staying for life,
01:27:02.900 I mean, that would be...
01:27:03.820 Oh, I should have put that up there.
01:27:05.500 Divorce.
01:27:07.220 If the ladies were actually staying
01:27:09.520 and not divorcing,
01:27:11.180 it would make sense.
01:27:13.540 Okay, at least we get the loyalty from the women.
01:27:16.580 We know they're not going to leave.
01:27:19.300 But conservative women divorce just as much as liberal women.
01:27:22.620 So,
01:27:26.360 now,
01:27:28.680 why would the man
01:27:30.180 put in
01:27:31.340 all of this extra money
01:27:33.860 to pay for you
01:27:35.980 when it's more likely,
01:27:37.960 or there's at least a 50-50 shot
01:27:40.000 that you're going to stay?
01:27:41.880 Wouldn't it make more sense
01:27:43.060 from a guy's point of view
01:27:44.260 to have her work
01:27:46.400 the first 10 years?
01:27:48.060 Let's make sure she stays.
01:27:49.360 I understand if there's a kid,
01:27:51.680 maybe that's different,
01:27:52.640 but is it?
01:27:53.720 I mean, it's one,
01:27:54.880 not 10,
01:27:55.560 one on average.
01:27:57.400 We're going to cross our T's
01:27:58.300 and dot our I's,
01:27:59.000 and I'm going to get up
01:27:59.700 and have some solutions here.
01:28:01.360 Instead, he's saying,
01:28:02.340 I don't know who we pay our rent to
01:28:03.920 or how we pay the rent.
01:28:05.260 I don't know what happens
01:28:06.220 if we come up with a late rent payment.
01:28:08.100 I don't know what to do
01:28:09.160 in response to this,
01:28:10.160 and sort of throws the problem
01:28:11.740 back onto her,
01:28:13.100 which for me
01:28:14.080 doesn't really work.
01:28:15.320 It's not very masculine.
01:28:17.000 I'm going to need some solutions.
01:28:18.740 Yeah.
01:28:18.900 So then this goes back
01:28:20.120 to the common conservative trope.
01:28:22.260 You're not a real man
01:28:23.420 if you don't bail me out
01:28:26.240 of my bad decisions.
01:28:27.960 You're not a real man
01:28:28.980 if you don't man up
01:28:29.660 and marry these hoes.
01:28:30.820 You're not a real man.
01:28:31.880 I mean, that's what they keep saying.
01:28:33.380 In trust,
01:28:33.900 this couple is already getting
01:28:34.780 enough heat online,
01:28:35.740 so I don't want to necessarily
01:28:36.920 add to that.
01:28:38.000 People are commenting up a storm.
01:28:40.200 The first comment says,
01:28:41.080 you know what?
01:28:41.600 Hell no.
01:28:42.480 Take me back to provider talk,
01:28:44.220 meaning they want to see
01:28:45.000 the versions of this
01:28:45.860 with the providers
01:28:46.860 rather than this 50-50 thing.
01:28:48.600 He literally had no solutions.
01:28:50.980 Embarrassing.
01:28:51.580 Oh, okay.
01:28:52.360 I like the ones
01:28:53.160 where the man is the provider.
01:28:54.800 And somebody else said,
01:28:55.700 thank you for marrying him.
01:28:57.180 Somebody had to,
01:28:58.140 and I'm glad it wasn't me.
01:29:00.960 Ooh.
01:29:02.820 Ooh.
01:29:03.420 I don't know if she was ready for that.
01:29:04.720 I think there's a lot of people
01:29:06.200 who sort of film these moments
01:29:07.280 in their relationships
01:29:07.960 and they're posting it online
01:29:09.440 thinking it's going to be funny.
01:29:10.720 Ha ha.
01:29:11.440 And then it doesn't end up
01:29:12.700 being funny at all.
01:29:14.640 I wish her well.
01:29:15.620 And you know what?
01:29:16.100 We're just seeing
01:29:16.620 a small sliver
01:29:17.380 of their relationship.
01:29:18.380 I'm sure they have
01:29:18.940 a good, fun dynamic going on
01:29:20.920 and hopefully she is happy
01:29:22.960 where she is.
01:29:23.580 But I think,
01:29:24.160 like the comments suggest,
01:29:25.200 we're going to move on
01:29:26.040 to the provider relationships
01:29:28.080 and see what the difference is.
01:29:29.560 Hi, babe.
01:29:31.340 Hi.
01:29:32.740 So I checked my account today.
01:29:36.320 And, um...
01:29:37.260 Your account?
01:29:38.020 Yeah.
01:29:38.280 And I'm not going to be able
01:29:39.520 to pay the mortgage this month.
01:29:46.400 You're not going to what?
01:29:47.740 I'm not going to be able
01:29:48.480 to pay the mortgage this month.
01:29:50.380 Well, hell,
01:29:51.000 you don't ever pay
01:29:51.900 the fucking mortgage anyway.
01:29:54.440 Well, what's fucking changed?
01:29:55.800 I was just going to let you know
01:29:56.860 that I can't pay it this month.
01:29:58.100 Oh, well, thanks for letting me know.
01:29:59.680 Ha ha ha.
01:30:00.680 Ha ha ha.
01:30:01.680 Ha ha ha.
01:30:03.840 I like that there's
01:30:04.880 a good energy about that.
01:30:06.060 And, you know,
01:30:06.480 we're just comparing,
01:30:07.460 you know,
01:30:07.740 two separate videos.
01:30:08.900 There's a lot within
01:30:09.740 these relationships
01:30:10.340 that we're not seeing.
01:30:11.460 But there does seem to be
01:30:12.420 a certain comfortability there.
01:30:14.460 And, of course, you know,
01:30:15.620 it's hard for him to believe
01:30:16.700 considering she's never
01:30:18.080 paid the mortgage
01:30:18.840 in the first place.
01:30:19.700 But it's interesting
01:30:20.380 to just watch a man
01:30:21.220 go full force and say,
01:30:22.460 what are you talking about?
01:30:23.880 You don't even pay a mortgage.
01:30:25.300 Let's watch another one
01:30:26.040 while we're on provider talk.
01:30:28.220 Babe,
01:30:29.260 I can't pay the mortgage
01:30:30.480 this month.
01:30:33.100 What?
01:30:33.920 I can't pay the mortgage
01:30:35.120 this month.
01:30:35.620 I'm so sorry.
01:30:36.640 Do we have another house?
01:30:38.560 No.
01:30:39.680 What mortgage are you paying?
01:30:42.540 I just can't pay it.
01:30:45.240 Why would you pay the mortgage?
01:30:47.580 I just thought I'd help,
01:30:49.140 but I can't.
01:30:51.160 Help with what?
01:30:52.460 A mortgage.
01:30:53.920 I can't pay it.
01:30:55.860 When do you ever pay the mortgage?
01:30:58.080 I thought I'd start.
01:31:00.040 Why?
01:31:01.180 To help you.
01:31:02.300 Like to buy a second house?
01:31:03.540 No, this house.
01:31:04.280 The one we live in?
01:31:06.320 Yeah.
01:31:08.080 Why did you pay for the house
01:31:09.300 we live in?
01:31:10.440 Because I live here.
01:31:11.440 I wanted to help.
01:31:12.740 Yeah, you live here.
01:31:13.440 You don't pay for it.
01:31:14.680 Yeah, but...
01:31:15.400 Okay.
01:31:16.400 I wanted to help you.
01:31:17.940 No help necessary.
01:31:19.300 You do more than enough
01:31:20.120 with this, that, and that.
01:31:24.180 Yeah, but you help a lot too.
01:31:26.080 So I wanted to help you.
01:31:26.880 Yeah, but this is my job.
01:31:29.020 Okay.
01:31:30.040 Okay.
01:31:30.600 He said, this is my job.
01:31:32.560 Music to my ears.
01:31:33.860 I'm starting to wonder
01:31:34.500 whether or not this is a skit.
01:31:35.760 Now, the interesting thing
01:31:37.200 I'm going to point out,
01:31:38.600 I looked it up before this show.
01:31:41.040 What percent of married women
01:31:42.440 do you think get to stay at home?
01:31:46.080 What percent, guys?
01:31:47.300 What percent?
01:31:49.380 One out of four.
01:31:51.680 Meaning, meaning,
01:31:52.600 you've got to be in the top
01:31:54.900 quarter of women
01:31:56.260 in order to get that.
01:31:58.740 So what is going to happen here
01:32:00.480 is this is going to be
01:32:01.880 selling dreams
01:32:03.060 to ladies that will not get this
01:32:04.960 because, unfortunately,
01:32:06.080 we've made terrible decisions.
01:32:09.400 Unfortunately,
01:32:09.880 I don't say this in, like,
01:32:10.820 a happy way.
01:32:12.440 And what they're going to do
01:32:14.120 is instead of saying,
01:32:15.920 ladies, make better decisions
01:32:18.080 so you can get that,
01:32:19.580 what it's going to turn into
01:32:20.660 is, men,
01:32:21.560 you're not real men
01:32:23.120 if you don't do this.
01:32:24.480 And it's going to be
01:32:25.420 shaming language of
01:32:26.900 if you don't pay for women
01:32:28.740 that have,
01:32:29.680 that statistically will leave
01:32:31.180 at some point,
01:32:32.520 you are not a real man.
01:32:36.420 With how perfect he is.
01:32:37.860 They said, yep,
01:32:38.480 it's selling dreams.
01:32:39.700 I'm going to check the chat
01:32:40.700 really quick.
01:32:41.900 I like to interact with you guys.
01:32:43.340 You go to the website,
01:32:44.480 theaudacitynetwork.com,
01:32:46.420 10 bucks a month
01:32:47.340 and I read your chats.
01:32:48.800 It's so,
01:32:49.280 it's such a simple,
01:32:50.180 it's on the app store.
01:32:51.940 Links in the description.
01:32:53.020 Okay.
01:32:54.400 All right.
01:32:54.780 As 100 men,
01:32:55.780 12 hours is 69 minutes
01:32:57.640 for each.
01:32:58.280 Numbers are so fun.
01:32:59.280 So for her to do
01:32:59.880 1,000 men in a day,
01:33:01.260 I think that is 1.44 minutes each
01:33:03.660 for men for 24 hours straight.
01:33:06.340 Can a man get in and out
01:33:07.500 in one and a half minutes?
01:33:10.640 Is that even possible?
01:33:11.560 As long as you believe it,
01:33:12.440 you can fake it
01:33:13.000 until you make it.
01:33:13.640 Rob, six.
01:33:14.220 My sister did her PhD thesis
01:33:16.300 on 45 years ago
01:33:17.580 that prostitutes
01:33:18.440 are basically grape scenarios
01:33:20.720 on a continuous basis.
01:33:22.320 She would argue that point
01:33:23.460 till her dying days.
01:33:25.700 Edward, you're on your own network,
01:33:27.260 but still censor yourself
01:33:28.360 for YouTube.
01:33:29.440 It's so ridiculous to say porn
01:33:30.780 because YouTube
01:33:31.480 won't allow you to say porn.
01:33:33.180 The nanny state is disgusting.
01:33:35.460 I don't, you know,
01:33:36.100 then get more of you
01:33:37.000 to sign up for my website
01:33:38.240 and I'll only stream there.
01:33:39.600 I don't know what to tell you,
01:33:41.660 you know.
01:33:42.440 All right.
01:33:43.380 Please call
01:33:44.220 Save Indian Family Foundation.
01:33:46.940 She has not been on point
01:33:48.020 in her explanation
01:33:48.820 of the situation.
01:33:49.940 The person who died
01:33:50.720 was associated
01:33:51.820 with the SIFF Foundation.
01:33:53.680 She's a feminist.
01:33:55.920 Well, you can have them
01:33:56.860 message me.
01:33:58.460 Okay, let me go back.
01:33:59.800 Answers are with everything.
01:34:01.420 And of course,
01:34:01.840 I'm in a more traditional mindset.
01:34:03.780 I do like the...
01:34:04.740 Okay, but notice she says
01:34:06.060 traditional mindset.
01:34:07.320 Not traditional actions.
01:34:12.220 Okay.
01:34:14.200 I'm gonna...
01:34:15.100 I'm gonna take it down
01:34:16.660 for one second,
01:34:17.580 but I'm gonna do some research.
01:34:19.320 So Amala Prager University.
01:34:25.340 Age.
01:34:25.960 Okay, she's 24.
01:34:27.320 So she's got one year
01:34:28.460 to get a ring
01:34:29.780 before she goes from my...
01:34:31.740 Before she goes from my left board
01:34:34.200 to my right board.
01:34:35.320 Then I'm gonna go on her
01:34:38.600 and...
01:34:39.500 Let me see my other page.
01:34:42.160 Go on Instagram.
01:34:43.720 And by the way,
01:34:44.500 this is not an insult.
01:34:45.800 I'm just...
01:34:46.260 I'm just pointing out
01:34:47.260 the difference
01:34:47.960 between...
01:34:49.660 Oh.
01:34:50.900 Between actions
01:34:52.480 and words.
01:34:53.800 Okay.
01:34:55.840 Um...
01:34:56.360 What the...
01:34:59.580 Okay, hold on, guys.
01:35:00.560 I have to get into
01:35:01.340 my Instagram.
01:35:02.140 I got locked out
01:35:03.020 so I can look up
01:35:04.420 her Instagram
01:35:05.020 because I'm pretty sure
01:35:06.240 she's got a sleeve tattoo.
01:35:08.160 I'm not positive.
01:35:09.500 I don't want to say that.
01:35:10.640 I don't want to...
01:35:11.620 I'm just gonna Google it.
01:35:13.080 Amala.
01:35:16.720 Sleeve tattoo.
01:35:19.740 Yeah, I thought so.
01:35:21.780 Yeah.
01:35:22.340 So, you know,
01:35:23.440 this just kind of looks
01:35:25.940 like one of the...
01:35:27.020 Have you seen those?
01:35:29.440 Like, your trad wife, sir?
01:35:31.520 And it's not...
01:35:32.460 It's not meant to be a knock.
01:35:33.840 It's...
01:35:34.500 It just...
01:35:36.360 It's not what they're, like,
01:35:37.980 selling, right?
01:35:39.400 Because if we look at
01:35:40.840 words, actions,
01:35:42.280 words, actions,
01:35:43.860 um...
01:35:45.500 They differ.
01:35:46.880 Okay, let me go back.
01:35:48.560 What the...
01:35:49.500 Hold on.
01:35:54.500 Oh, here we go.
01:35:55.380 Okay.
01:35:57.560 ...roles in leaning into them
01:35:58.820 for I feel like it brings about
01:36:00.060 healthier dynamics
01:36:00.820 within relationships.
01:36:01.860 Now, that is not the case for all.
01:36:03.660 Some people really don't want
01:36:05.140 that dynamic
01:36:05.660 within their relationship
01:36:06.480 and they don't feel like
01:36:07.240 it plays to their strengths.
01:36:08.540 With my outlook on relationships,
01:36:09.760 I feel like it's better for women
01:36:10.860 to lean into their femininity
01:36:12.100 and this involves the nurturing
01:36:13.360 and taking care of the household
01:36:14.720 and children,
01:36:15.880 which is...
01:36:16.560 Okay.
01:36:22.340 I think that some women,
01:36:24.040 not all,
01:36:25.380 use wanting
01:36:27.020 to be a housewife
01:36:29.760 as a way to not work
01:36:30.840 and be lazy.
01:36:32.460 The reason I think this
01:36:33.920 is because
01:36:34.520 when I was going into
01:36:35.440 divorce documents,
01:36:37.400 it shocked me
01:36:38.320 how many stay-at-home wives
01:36:41.100 still had nannies.
01:36:42.560 What on earth?
01:36:44.080 Especially from wealthy men.
01:36:45.880 So, you know,
01:36:46.160 the Crowder divorce was one.
01:36:48.240 They had a nanny
01:36:49.040 40 to 60 hours a week
01:36:50.820 while she's touting
01:36:52.060 on social media
01:36:52.920 how she's a stay-at-home wife.
01:36:54.620 Now, obviously,
01:36:55.660 that's the ideal,
01:36:56.580 but it's only the ideal
01:36:57.540 if they're really involved
01:36:59.440 in their kid's life.
01:37:01.540 And again,
01:37:02.240 once the kid is four,
01:37:03.920 I still go back
01:37:04.780 to the question,
01:37:05.560 what are you doing all day?
01:37:06.900 Now, again,
01:37:07.860 we can go to more
01:37:08.740 traditional areas
01:37:09.840 like the Amish.
01:37:11.100 I would never say
01:37:13.140 that they're not
01:37:13.880 doing stuff all day.
01:37:15.600 But sometimes I think
01:37:20.240 women just want that
01:37:22.020 as a get-out-of-jail-free card.
01:37:25.100 Oh, I'm traditional now,
01:37:28.120 but I was liberal before.
01:37:30.460 It just...
01:37:31.500 Hard work,
01:37:32.460 where men go out
01:37:33.500 and do their own version
01:37:34.440 of hard work
01:37:35.040 that brings the resources
01:37:36.240 to make sure
01:37:36.960 everything stays up and running.
01:37:39.220 And it seems like
01:37:39.760 they have a very healthy relationship,
01:37:41.380 at least in this small clip
01:37:42.420 that we've seen,
01:37:42.980 that's working out
01:37:44.080 based on those gendered roles.
01:37:45.840 I don't know,
01:37:46.200 there's just an underlying energy
01:37:47.620 of security
01:37:48.440 that exists within the videos
01:37:50.240 where the man is providing
01:37:51.260 and he goes,
01:37:51.740 what are you talking about?
01:37:52.800 You don't have to worry about that.
01:37:54.340 And as a woman,
01:37:55.140 it's kind of nice
01:37:55.740 to be able to
01:37:56.460 shut off your brain
01:37:57.580 at least to some capacity
01:37:58.780 and not have to
01:37:59.620 worry about these things
01:38:00.720 and know that somebody's
01:38:02.140 got you in that respect.
01:38:03.220 Whereas when we watch
01:38:03.840 that 50-50 video,
01:38:04.680 not only is that woman
01:38:05.420 not supported financially,
01:38:06.660 which is something,
01:38:07.640 you know,
01:38:07.780 a lot of us have to deal with
01:38:08.960 and that's just the nature
01:38:09.960 of the world these days,
01:38:11.020 but she doesn't.
01:38:13.500 A lot of us have to deal
01:38:15.120 with like paying for yourself
01:38:16.780 like an adult.
01:38:19.520 We're having 1.5 kids,
01:38:21.980 not seven.
01:38:23.700 One.
01:38:25.520 One.
01:38:27.520 One.
01:38:28.520 Doesn't seem to be supported
01:38:29.920 mentally either
01:38:31.200 as far as tackling problems
01:38:33.160 as they arise.
01:38:34.160 And this is not to bring down
01:38:35.040 all 50-50 couples.
01:38:36.160 I know there are many out there
01:38:37.320 where the man is...
01:38:37.980 Let me get this straight.
01:38:41.880 She says,
01:38:43.640 I made the mistake
01:38:44.900 of not paying the mortgage
01:38:46.360 because I spent too much shopping.
01:38:52.080 You know,
01:38:53.140 I respect the men more
01:38:56.540 that say figure it out,
01:38:58.260 deal with the problem you caused.
01:39:00.200 Now,
01:39:01.340 it's one thing
01:39:02.180 if that's the traditional,
01:39:03.860 you know,
01:39:04.060 that's what their arrangement,
01:39:05.440 right?
01:39:06.440 But,
01:39:07.060 I get,
01:39:08.420 I'm just not Captain Save-A-Ho.
01:39:10.760 I'm just really not,
01:39:12.080 you know.
01:39:12.920 If you spend a bunch
01:39:14.160 of money shopping,
01:39:15.820 I don't know why
01:39:17.980 you wouldn't have
01:39:18.900 to figure it out.
01:39:20.040 ...is ready for solutions
01:39:21.560 as soon as a problem pops up.
01:39:23.180 Just seems like
01:39:23.800 that first video
01:39:24.460 maybe got us off
01:39:25.200 on the wrong foot.
01:39:25.880 We'll watch one more
01:39:26.440 of the providers
01:39:26.940 just for fun.
01:39:27.800 Babe,
01:39:28.000 so I'm not going to be able
01:39:28.720 to pay the mortgage this month
01:39:30.020 because I did a little
01:39:30.760 too much Christmas shopping.
01:39:33.200 Like our house mortgage?
01:39:34.720 Yeah.
01:39:35.780 Do you even know
01:39:36.400 how to pay the house mortgage?
01:39:37.440 Money and my money
01:39:38.240 is our money?
01:39:39.640 The bills are paid.
01:39:40.600 The mortgage has been paid.
01:39:42.000 What do you mean?
01:39:42.920 So you're not mad?
01:39:44.260 Why would I be mad
01:39:45.160 if you never paid a mortgage?
01:39:46.540 Like,
01:39:47.480 what's the difference this month?
01:39:49.180 Because I shopped
01:39:50.100 a little too much
01:39:51.020 and so I can't help you.
01:39:51.680 Did you get the things
01:39:52.520 you wanted?
01:39:53.320 Yeah.
01:39:53.820 Okay then,
01:39:54.480 we're fine.
01:39:55.020 Like,
01:39:55.760 the bills are paid
01:39:56.580 and you went shopping?
01:39:57.480 Oh well.
01:39:58.020 Like,
01:39:58.460 I get paid again.
01:39:59.700 Okay.
01:40:00.420 Okay.
01:40:00.980 Okay,
01:40:01.500 he said.
01:40:01.900 Put it to bed.
01:40:02.600 You don't got to worry about it.
01:40:03.640 Who's stressed?
01:40:04.660 Not me.
01:40:05.380 You know what?
01:40:05.820 I find it hard to believe
01:40:06.700 that most women
01:40:07.680 do not want
01:40:08.660 this sort of relationship.
01:40:10.700 I know there's going
01:40:11.440 to be many
01:40:11.900 who say
01:40:12.880 they don't care
01:40:13.980 and even men
01:40:14.820 I'm not saying
01:40:15.840 they don't want it.
01:40:17.160 I'm saying
01:40:17.780 you don't get it.
01:40:19.680 I'm saying
01:40:20.380 statistically
01:40:21.220 you will not
01:40:22.800 get this.
01:40:23.600 it's not going
01:40:24.820 to happen.
01:40:26.060 Out of married women
01:40:27.240 so out of the women
01:40:28.180 that get married
01:40:29.320 which half won't
01:40:31.060 out of the ones
01:40:34.520 that stay married
01:40:35.620 half will divorce
01:40:36.580 or sorry
01:40:37.280 out of the ones
01:40:38.040 that get married
01:40:38.760 half divorce
01:40:39.660 out of the ones
01:40:42.200 that are still married
01:40:43.500 a quarter
01:40:44.560 get one spouse
01:40:46.220 to stay home.
01:40:47.120 It's 23%.
01:40:48.520 It's selling dreams.
01:40:53.560 This is the problem
01:40:54.300 with social media.
01:40:55.260 So now you got
01:40:55.740 the teacher
01:40:56.380 you know
01:40:57.240 she's got her kid
01:40:58.220 in public school
01:40:59.160 she teaches
01:40:59.860 at the school
01:41:00.540 and she goes home
01:41:01.320 and says
01:41:01.740 Bob
01:41:03.580 I was looking
01:41:07.600 at provider talk
01:41:08.840 why don't you
01:41:09.420 do this?
01:41:11.380 He's like
01:41:11.780 wait wait wait wait
01:41:12.980 I like the
01:41:13.880 I like the 50-50
01:41:16.420 I don't
01:41:16.960 the kid's old
01:41:17.860 get a job
01:41:19.100 she's no no no
01:41:20.820 provider talk
01:41:22.220 any who are looking
01:41:23.700 exactly for a 50-50
01:41:25.020 relationship
01:41:25.600 but my goodness
01:41:27.060 I'd prefer
01:41:27.880 this
01:41:28.740 I prefer this one
01:41:29.860 and I feel like
01:41:30.620 many of the single
01:41:31.340 women that I know
01:41:32.260 as somebody who's
01:41:33.140 in my 20s
01:41:33.760 in LA
01:41:34.280 they're looking
01:41:35.200 for this too
01:41:35.880 they're just finding
01:41:36.920 it a little difficult
01:41:37.740 to find
01:41:38.300 and of course
01:41:38.980 now again
01:41:39.940 bored
01:41:42.140 bored
01:41:43.860 which one
01:41:46.420 are they woman
01:41:47.180 on the left
01:41:47.900 or woman on the right
01:41:48.920 it's fine
01:41:50.100 most women
01:41:51.840 are on the right
01:41:52.700 it's okay
01:41:53.480 I'm not saying
01:41:55.080 you're a bad person
01:41:56.140 but
01:41:58.380 left right
01:41:59.860 left right
01:42:00.680 which one
01:42:01.520 there is the reality
01:42:03.440 that 50-50
01:42:04.500 is the norm
01:42:05.280 because in many ways
01:42:06.240 it has to be
01:42:06.880 with the economy
01:42:07.560 a lot of people
01:42:08.120 have to be
01:42:08.560 in dual income
01:42:09.380 households
01:42:09.920 where
01:42:10.220 no
01:42:11.020 you don't
01:42:14.840 have to be
01:42:15.740 you made the choice
01:42:17.040 not to
01:42:17.640 you're telling me
01:42:18.460 okay
01:42:18.780 if at 18 years old
01:42:20.880 you said
01:42:21.300 I'm going to be
01:42:23.120 a housewife
01:42:23.840 I will marry rich
01:42:26.460 this is what
01:42:27.760 you would have
01:42:28.400 if you wanted this
01:42:29.400 this is what
01:42:29.900 you would know
01:42:30.420 you would know
01:42:31.500 exactly what
01:42:32.680 professions
01:42:33.360 make a lot of money
01:42:35.240 you would have a list
01:42:36.280 you would know
01:42:36.940 okay
01:42:37.880 doctors make
01:42:39.040 this much
01:42:39.780 they'll want
01:42:40.620 to have kids
01:42:41.220 on average
01:42:41.760 in their 40s
01:42:42.680 after medical school
01:42:43.980 or maybe you have
01:42:45.080 to meet them
01:42:45.660 at the medical school
01:42:46.680 maybe there's one
01:42:47.500 near you
01:42:47.860 I don't know
01:42:48.320 lawyers
01:42:49.360 I don't know
01:42:50.740 I don't know
01:42:51.080 what you're into
01:42:51.660 engineers
01:42:52.320 maybe
01:42:55.280 maybe you want
01:42:56.080 to be an MLB
01:42:56.940 baseball wife
01:42:57.900 okay
01:42:58.320 well
01:42:59.320 are you hot
01:43:00.200 if you
01:43:02.140 if not
01:43:02.920 are you going
01:43:03.260 to go get
01:43:03.620 surgery
01:43:04.080 to get hot
01:43:04.920 no
01:43:07.240 okay
01:43:08.140 do you know
01:43:08.700 where they hang
01:43:09.300 out
01:43:09.680 have you researched
01:43:12.460 where they hang
01:43:13.300 out
01:43:13.700 well I don't care
01:43:15.020 what it is
01:43:15.740 but
01:43:16.080 what choices
01:43:18.240 have you made
01:43:18.900 are you young
01:43:19.560 are you
01:43:20.500 did you make
01:43:21.760 that
01:43:22.100 when you have
01:43:22.900 the most
01:43:23.220 bargaining power
01:43:24.140 it's okay
01:43:24.620 if you didn't
01:43:25.360 all I'm saying
01:43:28.380 is choices
01:43:29.340 it's just
01:43:30.920 annoying me
01:43:31.480 okay
01:43:31.760 they're both
01:43:32.540 carrying a little
01:43:33.440 bit of the weight
01:43:34.460 but I'm also
01:43:35.420 seeing this
01:43:36.480 push towards
01:43:37.660 the cultural
01:43:38.680 norm of 50-50
01:43:40.140 yeah because
01:43:41.180 what's happening
01:43:41.840 is women
01:43:42.660 all we made
01:43:43.520 all these
01:43:43.880 modern decisions
01:43:44.860 and now we
01:43:45.500 said yeah
01:43:46.680 we want the
01:43:47.460 traditional
01:43:48.020 we want the
01:43:48.820 traditional back
01:43:49.920 and the men
01:43:50.900 are saying
01:43:51.280 hell no
01:43:52.340 they're saying
01:43:53.660 F that
01:43:54.480 you're going
01:43:54.840 to give me
01:43:55.240 one and a half
01:43:55.960 kids
01:43:56.380 one two
01:43:57.040 kids tops
01:43:57.880 I'm not
01:43:59.960 signing up
01:44:00.500 for that
01:44:00.840 that not
01:44:01.500 only are we
01:44:02.140 forced to be
01:44:02.700 in this dynamic
01:44:03.240 but we should
01:44:03.780 expect that
01:44:04.360 in our
01:44:04.820 relationships
01:44:05.480 and a video
01:44:06.220 that went
01:44:06.520 super viral
01:44:06.940 recently that
01:44:07.580 really pointed
01:44:08.060 this out to
01:44:08.520 me was actually
01:44:09.160 American men
01:44:10.000 being asked
01:44:10.500 about 50-50
01:44:11.020 relationships
01:44:11.620 and then
01:44:12.340 Russian men
01:44:13.200 being asked
01:44:13.940 about that
01:44:14.580 very same
01:44:15.300 dynamic
01:44:15.560 okay
01:44:15.840 I think
01:44:16.420 we get
01:44:16.720 the idea
01:44:17.260 here
01:44:18.260 but this
01:44:19.000 is
01:44:19.240 this is
01:44:21.380 what
01:44:21.580 conservatism
01:44:22.640 has not
01:44:23.440 caught up
01:44:23.920 with
01:44:24.120 so
01:44:24.400 I looked
01:44:26.300 up
01:44:26.500 23%
01:44:27.540 have one
01:44:28.680 spouse
01:44:29.060 that stays
01:44:29.700 home
01:44:30.020 of married
01:44:30.480 couples
01:44:30.940 50%
01:44:32.180 of women
01:44:32.940 millennial
01:44:34.080 women
01:44:34.480 which is
01:44:35.520 28 to
01:44:37.000 like 42
01:44:38.080 or something
01:44:38.880 roughly there
01:44:39.600 are married
01:44:40.620 and guess
01:44:42.440 what percent
01:44:43.080 of women
01:44:43.680 that are
01:44:44.140 Gen Z
01:44:44.660 are making
01:44:45.560 traditional
01:44:46.460 decisions
01:44:47.000 so
01:44:47.460 3%
01:44:49.900 3.75%
01:44:51.820 of Gen Z
01:44:52.640 women
01:44:52.900 are married
01:44:53.420 Gen Z
01:44:56.360 I think
01:44:56.660 that's up
01:44:57.020 to 26
01:44:57.920 right now
01:44:58.600 27
01:45:00.780 yeah
01:45:06.560 so up
01:45:07.100 to 27
01:45:07.740 I'm not
01:45:08.140 saying it's
01:45:08.400 right or
01:45:08.720 wrong
01:45:08.960 but I'm
01:45:09.260 saying the
01:45:09.600 data
01:45:09.960 if I
01:45:10.440 pull
01:45:10.660 Gen Z
01:45:11.080 women
01:45:11.340 it says
01:45:11.700 men are
01:45:12.160 seventh
01:45:12.560 in priorities
01:45:13.300 seventh
01:45:14.820 okay
01:45:17.100 like I'm
01:45:17.660 okay
01:45:19.380 now there's
01:45:20.620 this idea
01:45:21.080 too that
01:45:21.760 we deserve
01:45:22.480 to stay
01:45:23.140 home
01:45:23.540 if you
01:45:24.620 have three
01:45:25.040 kids
01:45:25.440 I'm gonna
01:45:25.780 give it
01:45:26.120 to you
01:45:26.360 you could
01:45:26.760 stay home
01:45:27.500 I mean
01:45:28.620 the kids
01:45:29.500 go to
01:45:29.820 preschool
01:45:30.240 at like
01:45:30.660 three
01:45:31.060 four
01:45:31.680 that's
01:45:32.900 like a
01:45:33.200 decade
01:45:33.520 right
01:45:33.940 okay
01:45:34.360 but
01:45:35.700 you know
01:45:37.580 I was
01:45:39.520 doing the
01:45:39.940 math on
01:45:40.480 this
01:45:40.660 you could
01:45:40.960 become a
01:45:41.440 server
01:45:41.880 $31,000
01:45:43.160 a year
01:45:43.920 a secretary
01:45:45.140 $44,000
01:45:46.760 a year
01:45:47.180 journalism
01:45:47.780 $72,000
01:45:48.940 a year
01:45:49.300 I just
01:45:49.780 looked up
01:45:50.120 the average
01:45:50.640 teacher
01:45:51.440 salary
01:45:51.920 $71
01:45:52.620 hairdresser
01:45:53.580 $43,000
01:45:54.620 so
01:45:55.640 I'm
01:45:56.400 thinking
01:45:56.860 and I'm
01:45:57.900 just gonna
01:45:58.520 do some
01:45:59.340 calculations
01:46:00.140 so let's
01:46:01.040 do the
01:46:01.380 lowest paid
01:46:02.120 of all
01:46:02.420 of those
01:46:02.780 $31,000
01:46:04.580 and let's
01:46:06.640 say
01:46:07.040 the woman
01:46:08.520 has two
01:46:09.180 kids
01:46:09.640 and stays
01:46:10.600 home with
01:46:11.160 them
01:46:11.340 even in
01:46:11.780 this model
01:46:12.420 stays home
01:46:13.760 with them
01:46:14.120 until the
01:46:14.600 kid
01:46:14.940 is five
01:46:17.240 okay
01:46:17.660 let's say
01:46:18.020 they have
01:46:18.320 a 40
01:46:18.740 year marriage
01:46:19.400 so
01:46:20.360 they have
01:46:21.040 a decade
01:46:21.520 of the
01:46:22.120 mom
01:46:22.900 staying
01:46:23.280 home
01:46:23.560 she goes
01:46:24.140 back
01:46:24.500 back
01:46:24.860 to work
01:46:25.260 at a
01:46:25.500 server
01:46:25.800 I mean
01:46:27.120 $31,000
01:46:28.300 times 30
01:46:29.440 that's a
01:46:30.740 million dollars
01:46:31.540 you don't
01:46:32.800 want to
01:46:33.000 help
01:46:33.260 you don't
01:46:34.920 think that
01:46:35.280 would be
01:46:35.540 pretty helpful
01:46:36.140 to your
01:46:36.560 husband
01:46:36.940 who on
01:46:38.300 average
01:46:38.560 makes
01:46:38.860 $65,000
01:46:40.040 a year
01:46:40.740 no
01:46:42.400 why do
01:46:43.900 you deserve
01:46:44.420 to
01:46:44.840 again
01:46:46.000 not right
01:46:46.560 or wrong
01:46:47.060 but
01:46:47.520 you know
01:46:49.780 we're
01:46:50.300 leaving
01:46:50.680 after
01:46:51.140 and I
01:46:52.200 saw a
01:46:52.640 woman
01:46:52.860 that
01:46:53.140 sort
01:46:53.400 of
01:46:53.540 shared
01:46:53.940 this
01:46:54.300 sentiment
01:46:54.800 on
01:46:55.900 TikTok
01:46:56.340 I
01:46:56.800 make it
01:46:57.080 canceled
01:46:58.320 for this
01:46:58.900 but
01:46:59.520 I
01:47:00.560 don't
01:47:00.900 want
01:47:01.400 my
01:47:02.600 husband
01:47:03.060 to
01:47:04.680 just
01:47:04.980 work
01:47:05.360 and pay
01:47:05.760 bills
01:47:06.180 I
01:47:07.480 don't
01:47:07.720 want
01:47:08.020 him
01:47:08.340 to
01:47:08.620 not
01:47:08.880 have
01:47:09.080 a
01:47:09.220 hobby
01:47:09.560 I
01:47:10.320 don't
01:47:10.560 want
01:47:10.840 him
01:47:11.060 to
01:47:11.260 not
01:47:11.460 have
01:47:11.640 healthy
01:47:11.960 mental
01:47:12.300 health
01:47:12.800 I
01:47:13.480 don't
01:47:13.740 want
01:47:14.040 him
01:47:14.340 to
01:47:14.580 not
01:47:14.840 have
01:47:15.080 savings
01:47:15.640 I
01:47:16.660 don't
01:47:16.900 want
01:47:17.220 him
01:47:17.680 to
01:47:18.820 work
01:47:20.880 and
01:47:21.180 slave
01:47:21.700 all
01:47:22.520 day
01:47:22.780 every
01:47:23.100 day
01:47:23.500 to
01:47:24.200 take
01:47:24.560 care
01:47:24.800 of
01:47:25.020 my
01:47:25.260 bills
01:47:25.740 our
01:47:26.420 bills
01:47:27.000 and
01:47:28.040 me
01:47:28.320 just
01:47:28.640 sit
01:47:28.860 there
01:47:29.220 and
01:47:29.980 not
01:47:30.260 contribute
01:47:30.760 anything
01:47:31.600 this
01:47:33.740 is
01:47:33.920 coming
01:47:34.220 from
01:47:35.040 a
01:47:36.300 young
01:47:36.520 lady
01:47:36.860 who
01:47:37.240 has
01:47:37.520 never
01:47:37.820 been
01:47:38.040 married
01:47:38.360 I
01:47:38.940 don't
01:47:39.120 have
01:47:39.300 any
01:47:39.480 kids
01:47:39.900 I
01:47:40.640 have
01:47:40.780 a
01:47:40.880 dog
01:47:41.320 I
01:47:43.000 am
01:47:43.080 fully
01:47:43.280 educated
01:47:43.780 pay
01:47:44.860 my
01:47:45.020 bills
01:47:45.380 right
01:47:45.620 now
01:47:45.960 and
01:47:46.580 it
01:47:46.700 is
01:47:46.840 difficult
01:47:47.200 I
01:47:48.420 have
01:47:48.560 a
01:47:48.660 great
01:47:48.860 career
01:47:49.280 and
01:47:49.700 it
01:47:49.820 is
01:47:49.980 difficult
01:47:50.360 so
01:47:51.360 when
01:47:51.560 I
01:47:51.760 think
01:47:52.100 of
01:47:52.540 getting
01:47:53.140 married
01:47:53.680 and
01:47:56.320 building
01:47:57.380 with
01:47:57.740 someone
01:47:58.180 or
01:47:58.540 coming
01:47:58.880 together
01:47:59.320 and
01:47:59.600 bringing
01:47:59.940 our
01:48:00.140 assets
01:48:00.620 together
01:48:01.140 I
01:48:03.080 could
01:48:03.340 never
01:48:03.780 lay
01:48:04.220 in
01:48:04.380 my
01:48:04.600 bed
01:48:05.080 knowing
01:48:06.140 that
01:48:07.140 my
01:48:07.460 husband
01:48:07.940 has
01:48:08.260 no
01:48:08.600 life
01:48:09.160 and
01:48:10.360 no
01:48:10.580 freedom
01:48:11.080 and
01:48:12.580 maybe
01:48:12.900 no
01:48:13.220 peace
01:48:13.780 because
01:48:15.400 all he
01:48:16.220 does
01:48:16.380 is
01:48:16.500 work
01:48:16.940 and
01:48:17.200 because
01:48:17.780 when
01:48:18.400 you
01:48:18.560 think
01:48:18.800 about
01:48:19.020 it
01:48:19.120 we
01:48:19.260 worked
01:48:19.760 in
01:48:19.980 the
01:48:20.100 past
01:48:20.500 we
01:48:20.680 just
01:48:20.880 worked
01:48:21.300 on
01:48:21.680 farms
01:48:22.360 and
01:48:23.020 now
01:48:23.260 society
01:48:23.880 has
01:48:24.240 changed
01:48:24.960 now
01:48:25.680 I'm
01:48:27.700 not
01:48:28.000 saying
01:48:28.540 it's
01:48:28.840 wrong
01:48:29.360 to do
01:48:29.820 a
01:48:29.960 traditional
01:48:30.400 relationship
01:48:31.120 clearly
01:48:32.360 there are
01:48:32.820 benefits
01:48:33.320 but what
01:48:33.660 I don't
01:48:34.200 like
01:48:34.620 is the
01:48:35.400 entitlement
01:48:36.240 that is
01:48:36.960 what drives
01:48:37.440 me crazy
01:48:38.040 okay
01:48:39.060 so
01:48:39.700 I think
01:48:41.280 that's
01:48:43.060 what are we
01:48:44.840 five o'clock
01:48:45.580 yeah okay
01:48:46.340 guys I think
01:48:47.020 that's all we
01:48:47.500 got today
01:48:48.160 um
01:48:48.940 let me know
01:48:50.500 what you think
01:48:51.080 in the comments
01:48:51.840 and go to
01:48:52.280 the audacity
01:48:52.840 network.com
01:48:53.740 I'm going to
01:48:54.780 read our
01:48:55.660 comments from
01:48:56.360 the network
01:48:56.800 page
01:48:57.300 uh
01:48:58.880 right now
01:48:59.520 I do
01:49:00.040 I generally
01:49:00.700 do it
01:49:01.100 in between
01:49:01.520 stories
01:49:02.100 that's
01:49:02.380 when I
01:49:02.560 look at
01:49:02.780 the
01:49:02.900 chat
01:49:03.200 um
01:49:06.180 let me
01:49:07.800 go
01:49:08.260 okay
01:49:08.640 until
01:49:09.020 content
01:49:09.500 creators
01:49:09.920 stop
01:49:10.380 drawing
01:49:11.160 their
01:49:11.420 audience
01:49:11.920 to
01:49:12.140 platforms
01:49:12.640 that
01:49:12.900 censor
01:49:13.320 the
01:49:13.520 censorship
01:49:13.960 won't
01:49:14.340 end
01:49:14.640 we need
01:49:15.020 to break
01:49:15.360 free
01:49:15.580 and tell
01:49:15.900 youtube
01:49:16.260 to shove
01:49:16.880 it
01:49:17.060 well go
01:49:18.040 to the
01:49:18.300 audacity
01:49:18.860 network
01:49:19.300 dot com
01:49:19.940 thank you
01:49:20.360 edward
01:49:20.660 edward
01:49:21.140 did but
01:49:21.740 you know
01:49:22.080 we got to
01:49:22.780 get enough
01:49:23.100 members on
01:49:23.660 the website
01:49:24.160 to go
01:49:24.640 completely
01:49:25.220 on the
01:49:25.560 website
01:49:25.900 so we
01:49:26.980 can build
01:49:27.380 up to it
01:49:27.940 eventually
01:49:28.360 but we
01:49:28.840 just got
01:49:29.220 to get
01:49:29.400 enough
01:49:29.780 um
01:49:30.260 battle
01:49:31.000 star
01:49:31.340 for the
01:49:31.700 win
01:49:31.960 everyone
01:49:32.360 keeps
01:49:32.640 talking
01:49:32.940 about
01:49:33.140 the
01:49:33.300 she
01:49:33.460 economy
01:49:33.820 but most
01:49:34.360 of the
01:49:34.580 20 to
01:49:35.020 30 year
01:49:36.040 old women
01:49:36.420 I know
01:49:36.740 are broke
01:49:37.220 AF
01:49:37.480 they're literally
01:49:38.260 choosing to
01:49:38.920 live like
01:49:39.320 peasants
01:49:39.780 over being
01:49:40.620 subservient
01:49:41.320 to a man
01:49:41.880 well what's
01:49:42.700 interesting
01:49:43.180 she said
01:49:43.680 they'd rather
01:49:44.080 friend zone
01:49:44.660 a stable
01:49:45.140 provider
01:49:45.660 and get
01:49:46.740 spun out
01:49:47.260 by chat
01:49:47.720 on weekends
01:49:48.380 what's
01:49:49.720 interesting
01:49:50.200 is they
01:49:51.340 are serving
01:49:52.120 men but
01:49:52.640 they're serving
01:49:53.240 men at
01:49:53.780 large
01:49:54.280 so for
01:49:55.260 example
01:49:55.760 they work
01:49:56.440 at a
01:49:56.700 daycare
01:49:57.180 instead of
01:49:57.800 having their
01:49:58.240 own kids
01:49:58.860 um
01:49:59.900 we
01:50:00.480 work as
01:50:03.180 do uber
01:50:03.840 eats
01:50:04.320 instead of
01:50:05.680 cooking like
01:50:06.200 we deliver
01:50:06.740 food to
01:50:07.260 men
01:50:07.520 oftentimes
01:50:08.600 um
01:50:09.380 but we
01:50:10.240 do
01:50:10.600 make most
01:50:11.660 of the
01:50:11.900 buying
01:50:12.140 decisions
01:50:12.580 because we
01:50:13.520 spend so
01:50:14.040 much more
01:50:14.420 money
01:50:14.700 oftentimes
01:50:15.160 we don't
01:50:15.700 have it
01:50:16.160 but we
01:50:16.420 do
01:50:16.620 there's
01:50:18.360 no
01:50:18.560 traditional
01:50:19.140 marriages
01:50:19.840 because of
01:50:20.480 the state
01:50:20.840 there's no
01:50:21.400 truly independent
01:50:22.520 media because
01:50:23.260 of youtube
01:50:23.760 even if they
01:50:24.860 do wake up
01:50:25.460 one day
01:50:26.000 big says
01:50:26.700 even if they
01:50:27.300 do wake up
01:50:27.900 one day
01:50:28.340 which many
01:50:29.220 don't they
01:50:29.760 longer they
01:50:30.520 no longer
01:50:31.040 qualify for a
01:50:31.960 committed
01:50:32.200 relationship with
01:50:33.140 all of the
01:50:33.580 emotional trauma
01:50:34.880 and damage
01:50:35.700 big says is
01:50:36.480 pearl following
01:50:37.080 the chat
01:50:37.460 i am
01:50:38.040 i am
01:50:38.700 oh wait one
01:50:39.760 more uh
01:50:40.660 pearl the
01:50:41.020 indian guy who
01:50:41.820 committed to
01:50:42.720 self-delete was
01:50:44.060 asked to pay
01:50:44.680 36 oh no
01:50:46.420 360 thousand
01:50:47.820 dollars wow
01:50:48.600 that's a lot
01:50:50.060 okay guys
01:50:50.680 make sure you
01:50:51.880 go get my
01:50:52.580 merch at
01:50:53.080 just pearly
01:50:53.560 merch dot com
01:50:54.420 we have
01:50:54.760 equal rights
01:50:55.420 equal left
01:50:56.000 shirts so
01:50:56.560 go check
01:50:57.620 them out
01:50:58.000 like the
01:50:58.640 video on
01:50:59.040 your way
01:50:59.280 out subscribe
01:50:59.840 to the
01:51:00.220 channel and
01:51:00.620 i will talk
01:51:01.040 to you
01:51:01.220 tomorrow
01:51:01.540 see ya
01:51:02.080 you