JustPearlyThings - What's The Way a Woman Fumbled You and Didn't Even Know It？ (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.320 Hey, what's up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to another

00:00:06.700 episode of Pearl Daily. Today we're talking about women fumbling men. So what we're gonna

00:00:14.720 get when we get into the show today, we're gonna talk about has a woman ever said something

00:00:22.420 or did something and you knew in that moment that you had to make her break up with you.

00:00:30.800 Men, you guys don't really like dumping us. I don't know why. We deserve it. So I know how you

00:00:37.260 guys do it. You'll just try to get us to do it to you. But later we're gonna get into it. We're

00:00:42.880 gonna talk about that moment. But here's the thing. I just saw something stupid that a tradcon woman did

00:00:50.840 or said. And obviously I have to roast her today. So before we get into the show, we're gonna react

00:00:59.080 to another stupid, traditional, conservative talking point. So as you guys know, I really

00:01:07.060 don't think women are the nurturing gender. I actually know that women are not the nurturing

00:01:11.860 gender. Men, we're gonna go off of like who's better at raising kids, better with babies,

00:01:18.480 better with everything. Um, when it comes to children, it really is the men. But for some

00:01:24.160 reason we have this idea that women just want to be mothers, even though we've aborted an eighth of

00:01:29.360 the world population. And I actually, I was thinking about this the other day. I think men are equally

00:01:35.280 responsible for this propaganda because it's like what the men will do is the men will say, yeah,

00:01:43.280 you guys are just special women. And you're so motherly and nurturing. And the women are like,

00:01:48.960 nah, we want to be whores, slut march, let's get abortions. And the men are like, no, not all women

00:01:55.620 are like that. That's not female nature. Those are just the evil women. And I'm like, you guys are

00:02:00.020 stupid. In the most respectful way I could possibly say it. Oh, shit. My Siri went off. In the most

00:02:09.040 respectful way I could, you know, possibly say it. Um, women keep showing who they are, but

00:02:17.760 conservatives just like refuse to believe them. Um, it's like the biggest cope I've ever seen.

00:02:24.340 And so I saw this, I'm sorry to derail, but I just saw this video and I just had to do a commentary

00:02:32.100 because this title here is just so stupid. It's just the stupidest title I've ever heard in my life.

00:02:42.100 Satan's guide to making women hate motherhood.

00:02:47.400 That would be like me putting Satan's guide to making men be criminals, right? You would think

00:02:53.840 that would be a stupid title. You would say, no, he wanted to be a criminal, but conservatives,

00:03:01.300 women can't actually hate their children, even though we kill one in three of them. Okay. One

00:03:06.940 out of three women has an abortion and eighth of the, we would have a second city of London

00:03:12.660 if it wasn't for abortion and the conservatives, they say, ah, women just are born to be mother

00:03:20.500 are not from what I've seen. So anyways, I just wanted to react to this because when a trad kind

00:03:30.100 we'll get into the actual show today, I promise. But when a trad con puts something dumb, I just

00:03:35.440 got to, I got to start my show with this and then we'll get into the main topic in their own life.

00:03:40.880 Reels. Oh, shoot. Let me start from the beginning. I played it a little before the show last weekend.

00:03:45.900 My Instagram feed was over. And by the way, I'm not hating on this girl. I defended her when Brett

00:03:52.200 Cooper sent her like fans after this woman. I said, Hey Brett, you could just like leave work

00:04:00.500 like a norm, like a man would, right? Like a man would just leave and not make it a big commotion,

00:04:06.840 not be unfollowing, doing this passive aggressive bullshit. Well, you know what you're doing.

00:04:11.480 I said, do you know what? You could just like, it's work. It's a job. We don't have to get so

00:04:16.800 emotional about this. So this is not me. The rest of conservatives super simped for Brett Cooper

00:04:24.560 and they all went after this woman, right? They really did me. I I'm not on that, but when she

00:04:33.000 has a stupid take, I got to put this out there. Blowing with young women posting about what

00:04:37.040 motherhood means in their own life. Reels highlighting their first birth or the joy that they never.

00:04:42.200 Now, remember when women, so she's framing this as a good thing because conservatives,

00:04:47.020 they tend to care about money more than family, right? So that's, that's generally how it goes.

00:04:51.820 It's like, do we care about the wellbeing of the kid or do we care about money and feeling good?

00:04:58.860 That's kind of the two choices that conservatives tend to have. And nobody thought that there's like

00:05:04.960 pedos on the internet and maybe it's not the best idea. Cause you have to understand we,

00:05:10.960 a lot of these women are marketing for husband number two. Okay. That's why they're posting this.

00:05:19.860 They're showing I am a good mother. Uh, so they can leave this beta guy they got and go try to,

00:05:27.160 you know, vie for that personal trainer or musician, whoever the hell it is. Ricky Lee,

00:05:32.780 thanks for the super chat, but please stop simping. Um, this is not a simp show.

00:05:37.280 Uh, we're here to, we're here to get down to the nitty gritty, get down to business,

00:05:43.020 get rid of these hard eyes, get out of here. Unless you want to pay me $10 next time.

00:05:50.380 So, but they're not, the women, again, the women care about their reputation above all,

00:05:58.280 right? They care about looking good and conservatives. That's why conservatives have

00:06:02.340 almost turned into the party of women. Cause they care more about looking good rather than being

00:06:07.420 accurate. That's why they like use their families for clout. You know, Charlie Kirk will bring his

00:06:12.360 wife up. Oh my gosh. Then they bring the wife and have the wife be part of the brand.

00:06:19.380 Oh, that's such a terrible idea. Oh my goodness. So, but anyway, so a lot of them see this as sweet.

00:06:28.380 Oh, we're just posting the kid. Not me, not me because I've seen women thirst trap with kids.

00:06:37.420 I know what you're doing. Ladies felt before that moment, the fulfillment and the purpose they feel

00:06:42.620 every day, whether it was famous celebrities, fashionable. Okay. This bitch is using Kylie Jenner

00:06:50.080 as an example of pushing motherhood. She's a single mother.

00:06:58.860 Okay. You can't, the, the simping never ends. Okay.

00:07:03.860 Girl bosses or the friends I grew up with, the theme of their messages.

00:07:07.800 Does Hailey Bieber even have a kid? I thought they didn't have a kid yet. I could be wrong.

00:07:12.400 We're all the same. There is value in motherhood. And it stood out to me in harsh contrast to the

00:07:17.860 research I had pulled just a few weeks ago when I was talking about second wave feminism. And in

00:07:21.920 that research, I found countless examples of women spearheading the charge to teach other women

00:07:26.520 how burdened they should be by their own biology. They taught them to view marriage as a prison

00:07:31.540 and how the family is a trap. Okay. So do you hear this language? This is called simp language.

00:07:37.500 Women were taught to view marriage as a prison. This is a simp. This is a women trying to dodge

00:07:44.260 accountability and a simp for, they can't, cause simps, the problem with simps is simps can't

00:07:49.720 accept women's true nature, right? Terrible people. Not all, not all. I got to stay YouTube friendly. Not all.

00:07:59.920 Um, so is there an issue in the chat? Someone put something.

00:08:08.040 Doug MP, I'm watching for your thing. If you got an issue. So no, this isn't at,

00:08:12.820 I said, what a face to pause on. Um, Ricky, stop simping in the chat. Stop it. I need you to

00:08:22.940 end this. Okay. So we're going back to this lady. So the simps, they can't accept women's true nature.

00:08:31.280 So what they do is they say women aren't like that or they were tricked, right? Like, it's like the guy

00:08:37.780 that said, Oh, these women, they're like tricked into leaving me or her friends made her do it. She

00:08:44.520 didn't like you. Yeah, she didn't. It was you. It was who you are. And you shouldn't take it personal

00:08:52.340 fellas. We don't like anyone. We don't even like ourselves, but yeah, she, you, she was just done

00:08:58.900 with, um, no, her friends didn't trick her into divorcing. You wasn't the culture. It was, uh,

00:09:04.740 who you are as a person. She just couldn't deal anymore. Uh, yeah, we're still not live on the

00:09:10.920 website. So I think it's the stream key. You guys gotta just see if you can fix it. Um,

00:09:19.260 I'm going to continue crap or a concentration camp. And the more I was digging into those lies,

00:09:24.860 the more the truth was standing out. And it made me all just kind of stop and look at the facts in my

00:09:29.800 own life. Every mother that I know said that she became the best version of herself when she became

00:09:35.480 a mom. Sure. They also say what she didn't say was how many kids she aborted before she became a

00:09:41.280 mother is the hardest job you will ever have. But they also say it was the most rewarding.

00:09:45.620 Not a single mother in my own life who I respect and admire has ever told me that they wish they

00:09:50.800 didn't become a mom or that they hate motherhood by any stretch. It is always the single greatest

00:09:56.380 blessing in their life time and time again. And they always say they are better for it.

00:10:00.960 So then as I was thinking about that, I kept thinking, okay, so who told me the opposite?

00:10:05.000 Who introduced me to any fear behind it? The meat. Okay. So again, she could take accountability and

00:10:11.200 say who, why did I not want to be a mother? Or why did I make that choice? But immediately it's got

00:10:19.680 to go to who told me that. Here's the thing. Women go find the information they want. All this bullshit

00:10:27.020 brainwashing. I can't stand it. This is how, again, this is simp language because what women do

00:10:35.380 is they, I was brainwashed. It's like the get out of jail free card that we use on simps.

00:10:41.420 So we go to the conservative guy and say, ah, I didn't mean to have sex with 10 dudes. I mean,

00:10:49.800 I was just brainwashed. And the conservative simp, they tend, the Christian guy is like, oh yeah,

00:10:55.540 honey, idiot. Or she's like, do you know what? I was on the phone with this lady the other day

00:11:02.760 and I told her that I don't believe any woman that says she's a virgin at 27.

00:11:07.560 I don't believe it. And she was like, but, but I was, and I said,

00:11:13.260 right. Do you, I said, I said, do you, do you want me to be nice? Or do you want me to go down

00:11:21.120 this rabbit hole, Chica? She's like, no, no, no. You can tell. And she was chill about it. Nothing

00:11:26.160 against her, but I'm like, okay, you did nothing else. You didn't blow anybody. And she's like, oh,

00:11:32.500 well I did. Bitch. And I'm like, this is what you're trying to do. And I told her, I'm like,

00:11:38.240 you're trying to sell purity. So you're trying to make me think, or your husband think who bought

00:11:42.420 that, that you're pure on some level, right? You're trying to sell this. And, um, I'm supposed

00:11:49.400 to believe it, even though you've had a sex drive since you were like 15, that you were just so good

00:11:56.660 for 12 years. Right. Tell your simp husband that lady. Lies, lies, and more lies. Women who are

00:12:12.680 strangers to me. And I just think that's very telling and very interesting. If I were to turn

00:12:17.700 off the noise and simply just look around at the people in my own life growing up, I would have only

00:12:22.800 seen the truth, but that's not the world that we live in anymore. Sometimes the most

00:12:26.700 blaming someone else, you find the, you find the information you want. Okay. If somebody wants to

00:12:34.720 stay fat, they find the body positivity movement. If somebody wants to lose weight, they find a weight

00:12:39.980 loss page. You can't market something to somebody that doesn't want it. I mean, you could maybe put,

00:12:46.620 maybe they want it 40% and the marketing brings it to 60, but you could not market me into fixing

00:12:52.700 a car. I'm paying for that shit. The rest of my life, I don't want to learn. I don't,

00:12:57.860 I don't. Most influential people in women's lives are people they will never meet. That's a crazy

00:13:03.580 thing to think about. And in my stewing about this and thinking about mother's day and watching all

00:13:08.440 these women in my life, be mothers and be incredible. And it's just such a fun, frankly,

00:13:12.160 week on social media to see all of that. That's when I stumbled upon this reel reposted from Evie

00:13:17.020 magazine. It was originally a post from a woman. Oh God, not Evie. I'm sorry. You sent me a dress

00:13:23.520 recently and it was nice, but I'm going to take the dress and just say not Evie. You can't buy me.

00:13:29.500 I don't, I'm not bought yet. Your, your magazine's too simpy for me. It just is named right. I did

00:13:35.580 like the dress though. It was nice. And I believe great name. And she posted a video that said, I asked

00:13:40.600 chat GBT, if I were the devil, how would I make women despise motherhood? And then she went on to post

00:13:47.020 gave her. I guess that makes me the devil. I re-entered that into chat GBT. And I want to show

00:13:52.980 you guys what it said, because it was the same thing that she got as well, because this was

00:13:56.420 so telling. I assumed it would sound. The devil made me gluck, gluck 5,000.

00:14:04.620 God, you guys got to stop believing this stuff.

00:14:08.100 The devil made me, made me bang Chad and Tyrone. Oh, the devil made me do. And then,

00:14:17.700 and then Charlie Kirk is like, Oh, totally. The women are being used.

00:14:26.940 Right.

00:14:27.520 On similar to things I read about in my feminist deep dive, but I did not expect the prompt to be

00:14:32.780 this on the nose. We literally put in the exact same thing. If I were the devil, how would I make

00:14:37.260 women despise motherhood? If you were the devil and wanted women to despise motherhood, you wouldn't

00:14:41.060 attack it directly. You'd reframe it as oppressive, limited, or outdated. Here's a concise playbook.

00:14:47.200 Gives me chills because it's just, just step one, rebrand motherhood as a trap. What did I say they

00:14:52.560 did? They called it a prison. They called it a concentration camp, a trap.

00:14:56.340 No, it's just work. I mean, it's so simple when we go down to it.

00:15:01.000 Kids are work, right? They change your, every morning you got to do stuff and

00:15:06.040 women are lazy and they don't feel like it. That's it. It's really, it's truly that simple in my eyes.

00:15:15.140 Women just don't want to be mothers because it's too much work. And we'd rather go to like a concert

00:15:20.260 or be in a yacht in Dubai or whatever, you know, hot girl activity. And then when we're done doing

00:15:29.220 that, then we're ready to raise the kids, preferably one. Okay. Um, let's see.

00:15:40.000 Okay. Uh, the, Oh, the other part I was going to do. So I wanted to show again. So we got two women,

00:15:52.080 um, in the conservative side that are having kids. And I just, I would love to see one woman have a

00:15:59.780 child and not use the kid to build their brand. I just, I just want to, I just want to know,

00:16:07.340 can a woman have a child and not post it on the internet? Is that possible?

00:16:15.400 Is that even, is, and anyways, so do you know, the thing is with the internet, people

00:16:25.200 seek out like women, like, like pedos and weirdos seek out women with children that have a lot of

00:16:33.740 information about them on the internet? I had a PI on the show. Um, so anyways,

00:16:41.960 I, this isn't like the worst one I've ever seen, but I just wonder if it's possible,

00:16:48.980 if a woman can have a child and not put it on the internet. Okay. So that's really my housekeeping

00:16:55.400 right now. So we're going to talk about fumbling. So I'm going to go to the main thing. If you guys

00:17:06.720 want to take the, all right, so welcome to another episode of Pearl daily, um, modern women, we have

00:17:15.960 decided to be strong and independent and really our, our mothers did not teach us how to get a man

00:17:26.360 and to keep a man. Although there is information on Google, but we choose not to, you know, you know,

00:17:32.240 so many women have been perpetually single or never get into a serious relationship. And these women

00:17:38.060 will go on dates with men have sex with men and often just can't get to the next phase. Um, the lucky

00:17:46.520 few that do end up in relationships, uh, they usually fumble it. And it's cause of, you know, women's

00:17:53.120 horrible attitudes, being overly independent, spending too much money, terrible friends, a number of thing,

00:17:59.680 uh, things, you know, men will date these women for three to nine months and then leave the situation.

00:18:04.860 A lot of the time, the man will leave without giving the women a reason why, or he does give

00:18:13.540 the women a reason why, but it's never good enough for the women. Some men will blatantly lie saying

00:18:19.040 you're too good for me, et cetera, or try to get the woman to dump him. He's like, ah, he'll get super

00:18:26.660 clingy and be like, I can't live without you. You are my world. And she'll be like, ah, I dumped him.

00:18:31.900 Um, and some men just ghost. So the media always talks about how men, um, how women are, how men

00:18:41.480 lose good women, but they never talk about women fumbling good men. And if you think about it, uh,

00:18:47.420 it shouldn't be that hard for women to keep a man, um, cook, clean, shut up. The shut up is hard.

00:18:52.960 I talk for three hours straight on this show. Okay. Pretty simple, right? No, not in 2025. It's really

00:18:59.880 not. That's what we're going to talk about today. Women fumbling good men. Um, I was on the, on

00:19:06.700 Twitter and I posed the question, what's a way that women fumbled you, a woman fumbled you and didn't

00:19:14.060 know it. I also texted some of my friends, some of the top, um, responses here, her religious belief

00:19:24.640 in astrology, along with her religious belief in Christian tenants, caking on makeup and jewelry,

00:19:30.540 um, wearing three inch high heels. Um, every person, okay, wait, hold on. Let me go to the next

00:19:41.800 one. So here's some of the answers. She admitted she had a current friends with benefits. She said

00:19:48.060 she had a train ran on her in college. Nice. When in, when in front of the flat, she decided to do,

00:19:56.220 Oh, Oh, when she was in front of her flat, she decided to do a one 80 to not look easy.

00:20:01.340 When she decided to leave when we were midway through getting down because she had to wake up

00:20:06.980 early the next day after she gave it up. She was expecting me to secure something more

00:20:13.140 despite eating me out in PDA. She said she does not come home on first dates. The anymore is silent

00:20:22.880 after saying to, in me, I'm not going to say that on the first date, she flakes two hours before the

00:20:29.680 second date asking to reschedule the next day with no explanation. After she said she doesn't do anal

00:20:38.500 anymore, but she did it with someone else on a first date after saying she had one night stands and

00:20:44.900 hookups, but she is past it. And she expects five to six dates now because she wants to be appreciated

00:20:50.440 for who she is, what she does and what she values. Fake engagement. If you're speaking to a woman, no matter

00:20:57.160 what the subject is, if I get the sense that she's only acting or pretending to be interested,

00:21:02.120 that's a huge turnoff. If you're going to put on a show, at least be good at it and be a good actor.

00:21:08.120 A filthy house in a car. Women will go out in the streets dressed to the nines, but their home and

00:21:14.560 their car will be filthy, especially the bathrooms. I've seen some women's homes that looked awful after

00:21:20.280 they invited me over. Instead of smashing, I made up an emergency and left. It's unacceptable.

00:21:25.140 Trying to establish dominance. I'm not going to be dominated by anyone, male or female. Someone will

00:21:32.180 accompany you to a group setting, but immediately try to establish themselves as independent operator

00:21:38.700 and try to be dominant, to dominate the engagement unacceptable. She has her eye on the crowd. If

00:21:44.800 I'm with a woman, she's constantly searching in the crowd to see who might be noticing or paying

00:21:49.620 attention to her. It's a huge turnoff and she has to go. Okay. Here's a woman saying that she,

00:21:56.440 that women never apologize and that's how they lose relationships.

00:21:59.860 Let me go full screen.

00:22:03.680 Women do not say sorry. Women do not apologize. Instead, women gaslight men into apologizing

00:22:15.860 for things that they're not even at fault for. And then these same women will sit there and wonder

00:22:21.660 why their relationships don't work out. I'm sorry. They won't sit there and wonder why their

00:22:25.380 relationships don't work out because that would take some self-accountability and reflection

00:22:28.680 because that would take some real work, right? That would take some real accountability.

00:22:33.000 So instead, they take the easy way out. They blame men.

00:22:37.340 Yep. Women, um, she says women can fumble good men too.

00:22:44.120 Women can fumble good men too. Let's talk about it. Imagine a man coming into your life that's

00:22:50.760 really worth having and you fumble him. You can fumble this man just by simply not being ready

00:22:56.180 or being so jacked up from your past that you won't allow a man to love you properly.

00:23:02.840 Now, as a woman, I do feel like we're the catch. Absolutely. 100%. But that does not mean

00:23:08.240 that when a man comes around worth having, that he is not, he is not the catch as well.

00:23:12.860 Here are a couple of ways that I feel like as a woman, you can fumble a good man.

00:23:17.860 Not believing or trusting anything that a man tells you because of what your past relationships

00:23:22.760 have shown you. I'm all for innocence of proven guilty. Making a man have to pay for every single

00:23:29.520 thing that your ex did. This man could literally be asleep when you're calling him. But because

00:23:36.040 your ex used to tell you that he was asleep and he was cheating on you, now this man has to suffer

00:23:41.620 from everything that your past relationship showed you. Dealing with someone who never ever communicated

00:23:46.940 with you where you didn't know that it was important to communicate. So now that you have someone,

00:23:51.260 a man in your life that's trying to communicate everything with you, you feel like everything

00:23:55.300 is an attack. Or you feel like you just want to shut down. Or the smallest form of miscommunication

00:24:02.160 makes you not want to deal with him no more. You're fumbling. All right, I'm going to give

00:24:04.960 y'all a more example than I'm done. Imagine that you've never grown mentally or even relationship

00:24:10.380 wise, right? So you finally get in a relationship with a man who knows how to lead properly.

00:24:16.620 But you're so used to dealing with a guy who don't know how to lead. That's what you're

00:24:21.020 doing. Or come over to my house. Or let me drive your car. So now you got this man that

00:24:27.220 wants to, good morning, beautiful. Let me take you out at this time. Be ready at this

00:24:32.200 time. Let me lead you. Then another thing is women feel like being submissive means you're

00:24:38.500 letting a guy control you. That's an immature way to think. Now don't get me wrong. Some

00:24:42.240 guys can be controlling. But it's up to you and your mindset to realize if he's trying to

00:24:48.460 control you or just simply lead you. So these are just a few ways that I feel like women

00:24:53.540 can fumble good men too. And it could have a lot to do with women never having growth

00:24:59.660 within their relationships. Dealing with the same man for so long that you're used to old

00:25:05.260 toxic behavior that when you finally get a man worth having, you don't know what to do

00:25:09.900 with them. Just don't fumble. Okay, let's see what we got next. Women says she lost a good

00:25:19.500 man because of her tendencies. I think I have just lost. I think I have just lost the one

00:25:30.360 person that I prayed for. All because of my self-sabotaging tendencies. God forbid I actually

00:25:45.420 accept good things that are happening to me because I'm so used to it being a mess. I'm

00:25:51.820 so used to it being toxic. And here I am in the face of a non-toxic situation, in the face

00:26:02.480 of a God-fearing man, in the face of a family man, an amazing person.

00:26:11.240 She's just marketing for her next relationship. It's performative. I don't really buy it.

00:26:15.740 Thank you for the super chat, Ricky. I appreciate the hard eyes going away.

00:26:21.820 And I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know what I'm doing. And I think I've just lost.

00:26:31.620 I think I just lost the opportunity to experience something I've never experienced before.

00:26:39.660 All right, let's see what we got next. What happens when you lose a good man?

00:26:45.520 After you actually lose a good man, let me tell you the aftermath. Before you choose to lose

00:26:50.180 this good man, you will try to find a man equivalent to the man you're with. And you will think that you

00:26:57.100 could find better. But when you actually put yourself out there, you'll realize that there

00:27:01.180 is no man left right now. And every man will try to use you for a certain thing. And you will look

00:27:09.440 for that man that you left in other men. You will regret that man to the core because you'll realize

00:27:16.360 that there is no good people out there. And nobody loved you as much as that man loved you. And after

00:27:23.080 that, you will try to go back to that good man, only to realize that that good man doesn't want you.

00:27:30.060 And he actually found a good girl. If you have someone good in your life, cherish them. Don't think you

00:27:37.060 good. Yeah, cooked. Also performative, but cooked. All right. A man talks about how his friend's

00:27:47.080 girlfriend fumbled the relationship. There's a girl I knew in college that dated a guy for four

00:27:50.760 years. And this guy was amazing. He was really good to her. And she was really good to him for

00:27:55.020 the relationship in itself. But one day she realized that she didn't want to be in a relationship

00:27:58.800 anymore. She just decided that motherhood and settling down and marriage and having kids just

00:28:03.480 just wasn't what life was all about for her. And so she actually left the relationship just one

00:28:08.800 day out of the blue. She said, I'm done. There's nothing wrong with you. And she said this to many

00:28:12.360 people like there was nothing wrong with him. And it devastated this guy. It killed him. For the

00:28:17.120 first year after the relationship, he was just not functional. And what happened was even more so

00:28:21.240 painful for him was that she went back to her ex. She went back to her ex who was probably trying to

00:28:26.200 talk to her the entire relationship, encouraging her to do these things with him. And this ex traveled,

00:28:30.580 he had a good lifestyle. And they actually went and traveled together for a period of time. They

00:28:34.160 hooked up. They did whatever they did. I don't know all the details, but she had fun with him.

00:28:37.760 But at some point, about a year and a half in, the ex completely dropped her. And then for another

00:28:42.640 six months, she chased this individual. And after a year, the person that she left initially,

00:28:49.040 he got over the breakup. It took him some time. It took him a year to get over it. But then he found a

00:28:53.720 new girl. And then he actually started dating her very seriously. And so when she tried to come back to

00:28:57.800 him, because that's what she did, she tried to come back. He didn't want her anymore. Until this

00:29:02.760 day, that woman is single. And she's out here justifying it to herself, rationalizing. I know

00:29:07.820 she's not happy because she tells people very close to her that she's not happy.

00:29:10.520 Here's the thing. She's not a happy person.

00:29:17.180 Women, if she would have stayed with him, that man should just count his blessings because she

00:29:24.420 would have just tortured him. There's some idea that women that are unhappy people will somehow be

00:29:31.140 happy in a marriage or relationship. They're just less lonely, but they torture everybody around them.

00:29:38.380 Like, if anything, you should just count his lucky stars. She's just an unhappy person.

00:29:44.420 Happy. And she missed out on the good guy. She let that go. And when she was young and when she was

00:29:51.520 attractive, she spent all her time trying to chase the bad guys and trying to tame them instead of

00:29:56.140 really focus on settling down with the good guy. And she regrets it. She really does. Because she tells

00:30:00.720 people that were close to her that she wishes she could go back to this individual. And she regrets the

00:30:05.740 decision that she made. And my heart, it aches for her. Yeah, she says that, but

00:30:10.320 she would get back and do the same thing to him if he ever took her back.

00:30:17.820 It really hurts to see this happen because in no part of me do I want her to suffer. I think that

00:30:23.020 things would have worked out beautifully for them. But unfortunately, she made the decision that she

00:30:26.600 wanted to make because she felt like at the time in her life, she wanted more. And that greed a lot of

00:30:31.320 time, that idea of validation and verification and the desire to just go do things that are fun

00:30:36.040 will cause you a lifestyle of misery in the future because you missed out on the one good thing that

00:30:40.880 was... She'll be fine. As long as she didn't get fat. Someone will do it. Don't worry.

00:30:45.740 ...really loyal to you and really good for you. So I encourage a lot of young women, if you find the

00:30:50.480 good guy, stay with him. Because you can go try to tame all these bad boys and have fun. But

00:30:56.600 if you get out of the period... There are women that tame bad boys. There are.

00:31:02.900 But I've gotten the numbers from bad boys, ladies. Do you know the numbers? I've gotten

00:31:08.980 from players. I make them give me their stats. Or, you know, guys that have been in the field for a

00:31:15.020 while. Out of 100 women that you hook up with, how many would you consider for a relationship?

00:31:26.600 Guess. Put it in the chat. What do you think?

00:31:37.040 Four. And sometimes you're just not hot enough to be with them. And you might be cute.

00:31:43.600 But you're just not... Like, these guys that are running through these hoes, they got really high

00:31:52.120 physical standards. Yeah, four. And that's after. So then these guys... They're always going to cheat

00:32:01.520 for one. But they generally have a kid with somebody. Yeah, four. And then out of the four...

00:32:06.600 I think the one guy told me there's 10 over like a decade that he would have considered

00:32:16.760 like to have children with. And he had kids with none of them. So... Because sometimes they

00:32:24.080 don't even pick anybody. They pick themselves. Do you know what I mean? They just say,

00:32:31.120 do you know what? I pick me. Um... Yeah. Yeah, none of them.

00:32:45.740 Yeah, I know. I know. And look at... Because I've seen it go both ways, right? I have seen

00:32:52.540 guys that are like... It depends how far gone they are. There's a certain level of player

00:32:58.280 where... Okay, this is what I've seen. You got one... They'll get married, but they'll always

00:33:06.460 cheat. And not cheat respectfully. Like, they'll cheat disrespect... Or a long-term girlfriend,

00:33:14.640 right? They're going to cheat disrespectfully. Do you know what I mean? Like, they're going

00:33:20.220 to have a second girlfriend when you're 40. Because they... You're not going to be hot enough

00:33:24.960 to, like, entertain them anymore. Um... Some are just for the streets forever. They'll

00:33:31.020 just have baby mamas, girlfriends. Um... They'll be married for like a year. Um...

00:33:46.960 I would say most are just going to go down the making some single mother's route.

00:33:55.020 And those women aren't even safe because those guys, if you're annoying them, like, if you

00:34:00.840 lift a finger the wrong way... Guess what, bitch? You're out to the curb.

00:34:07.740 ...time where your sexual agency is very high, your ability to negotiate in the dating marketplace

00:34:13.380 drops significantly, precipitously. And then you're found in a situation where you can't

00:34:18.460 find the good guy anymore, or the good guy that you want, because they're just not interested

00:34:22.740 in you anymore. They're typically all taken, especially after 30. Number two, all the good

00:34:27.560 guys are going for girls that are very young, and that have no history, and that haven't done

00:34:31.500 all those things, and those experiences. And last but not least, you may have bags, you may

00:34:35.260 have trauma from all...

00:34:37.260 Unfortunately, the good guys still tend to get the old women. Sorry, it's just the world

00:34:48.880 doesn't really reward. Unfortunately, the chads are the ones that still get the 22-year-olds,

00:34:57.660 the pookies, the ray-rays.

00:34:59.220 All the bad...

00:35:00.220 The good guys will get them after, though.

00:35:01.560 ...that you try to tame, and you may have trust issues that prevent you from really starting

00:35:04.680 a good, healthy relationship.

00:35:08.020 All right, let's see what's next.

00:35:14.040 Hey, what's going on, fam, man? I'm sitting out here on my balcony studying some information

00:35:18.300 for another licensure. And I was just sitting here thinking about this whole dating and relationship

00:35:26.800 space. There are so many women who fumble good guys. Because their image of what a good

00:35:34.660 guy is has been tainted through social media podcasts, social media posts, through television

00:35:42.720 that's telling a vision, and all types of other sources that shouldn't be primary in your life.

00:35:50.280 And, you know, I want to say that, man, if you got a good man, you better hold on to him.

00:35:53.840 Because, man, good men are hard to come by. But because of your decision making, and because

00:36:01.360 of how you view relationships, and how you view partnership, I believe that many of you

00:36:08.280 are fumbling good guys because of the way that you think. So I want you to be very careful.

00:36:13.000 If you run into a good guy, recognize that that is a good guy, and you do whatever it

00:36:17.960 takes to hold on to him. Because these good guys are rare. And you may not get another

00:36:23.560 opportunity to make.

00:36:25.680 They'll get opportunities forever.

00:36:28.680 I didn't say hot guy. I said good guy. Yep. Unfortunately, forever.

00:36:33.820 The world has black-pilled me.

00:36:38.040 The first impression.

00:36:40.720 Okay. So...

00:36:43.820 I think we're going to do the call-in now.

00:36:49.140 All right. So what are some of the ways... I want to hear from you guys. Have you ever

00:36:52.760 gone on a date or been dating a woman, and she fumbled a relationship with you?

00:36:57.400 What did she say or what did she do? And what are some of the early signs that a woman is

00:37:04.700 going to fumble a good man? Please call in. Rules for the call-in. I understand you guys

00:37:13.000 are fans of the show, but it kind of derails us when you guys tell me you're a fan of the

00:37:17.700 show. If you're watching, I'm going to assume you're a fan. Thank you guys so much for watching.

00:37:23.240 But when you come on, I'd love to hear a little bit about you to get some context. Maybe the

00:37:28.940 industry you're in, your name, age, what part of the country you're in. Okay. That's usually what

00:37:34.720 I try to start with. Then I'd love to hear the story. If you guys are making it too long,

00:37:41.500 it's not to be rude, but I do have to cut you off. So try to get... tell the story, get to the point,

00:37:49.040 finish the story, and then we can... I'd love to do a lot of callers.

00:37:53.860 So if you guys haven't called in before, please think about calling in. It really does make the

00:37:58.940 show the more stories and callers we can get. It's a Zoom link. So make sure the YouTube is not

00:38:04.560 playing in the background. We're going to go one by one today.

00:38:10.180 What up, guys? Welcome.

00:38:12.000 We have Doug MPA on the line.

00:38:13.800 What up, guys?

00:38:14.780 Doug MPA, how are you?

00:38:16.940 Oh, it's good to be here, Pearl. What's going on?

00:38:18.860 Oh, you know, just doing the show. What's going on with you?

00:38:24.560 These topics we've been coming up with, man, these are great.

00:38:27.600 So tell me how women have fumbled you. How are you not married? Why did you let down these women?

00:38:39.380 So, one of the worst things for me is when a woman...

00:38:44.200 So, my parents never fought in front of us kids growing up.

00:38:47.940 And then, you know, I have a twin brother, AJ's rant reactions.

00:38:51.340 You'll never see us fight in public. Ever.

00:38:54.240 We have disagreements, but you don't see us fight.

00:38:57.500 So, women will get more and more comfortable around you and then start challenging you or fighting with you in public.

00:39:04.880 The first couple of months, everything you say, uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh.

00:39:08.640 Then she'll start arguing with you in public.

00:39:11.520 I have to get you told.

00:39:13.200 She'll be like, well, you're wrong. You're this, that, whatever.

00:39:15.860 And it's just like, even if we disagree, well, why are you arguing with me in public?

00:39:19.140 So, I only do that once and, or maybe twice, and then she's done.

00:39:26.160 Because there is no reason why you need to be arguing with me in public.

00:39:30.060 No reason why.

00:39:32.140 I'm talking full-blown, I'm going to get you told, I'm going to raise my voice and get in your face.

00:39:36.820 I've had women try to wag their finger in my face.

00:39:40.180 I'm like, whoa, hold up a second.

00:39:42.500 That's a big one.

00:39:43.740 And it never comes out at the beginning.

00:39:45.520 It usually comes out after three or four months.

00:39:49.140 So, they do that once and you just cut it?

00:39:52.160 Yeah, yep.

00:39:53.440 Do you tell them why or do you get them?

00:39:55.400 Don't let them argue with you in public.

00:39:56.660 How do you go about it?

00:39:59.420 Do you just block them, send them a text?

00:40:03.440 Do you get them to dump you?

00:40:06.120 See, I ghost a lot.

00:40:07.980 A lot of people say, oh, don't ghost.

00:40:09.300 But, hey, you know, women feel entitled to everything in current society, especially closure.

00:40:16.880 Guys, don't give them closure.

00:40:18.720 Don't let them know why.

00:40:20.320 That's probably the worst thing you could possibly do to a woman is not tell her why you don't want to talk to her anymore.

00:40:27.540 Because she needs to know.

00:40:28.940 She has to have closure.

00:40:30.520 You see it in the movies, media, romance novels.

00:40:33.680 They have to have closure.

00:40:34.960 Don't give it to them.

00:40:38.560 Anything else?

00:40:39.500 So, arguing in public.

00:40:44.540 Oh, when you start meeting a girl's actual friend group and she has some crazy friends.

00:40:51.340 Like, wait.

00:40:53.640 You've known this girl since high school or since college and her friends are scandalous?

00:41:00.120 You're like, wait a minute.

00:41:01.440 You hang out with these broads?

00:41:03.560 How bad do they have to be and how quick do you cut it?

00:41:07.000 Like, you meet one bad friend.

00:41:08.640 Are you cutting it?

00:41:10.560 Well, so, most guys are going to have to have that, hey, you know, if we get serious, you're going to have to stop hanging out with those friends.

00:41:18.400 And I don't mind having that conversation.

00:41:21.300 But I try to have that conversation first.

00:41:23.420 Like, I try to see why, like, the motivation as to why the woman hangs out with those friends.

00:41:28.580 And is she going to keep doing it?

00:41:30.460 And if she's going to keep doing it, I would never tell a woman, you need to stop hanging out with those scandalous women.

00:41:36.960 I just, I'd rather just leave.

00:41:39.780 Yeah, it's too much work.

00:41:41.820 Because then you got to, then she'll blame, then she'll blame you later.

00:41:46.460 Exactly.

00:41:46.780 Yeah, she'll say, oh, you cut me off from my friends.

00:41:51.000 Yeah.

00:41:51.320 And then, then you're the villain.

00:41:52.480 That's giving her friend's ammunition, too.

00:41:53.580 Look, she's trying to isolate, he's trying to isolate you from all of us because he's a narcissist.

00:41:59.340 It's like, no, you guys are just whores.

00:42:01.840 Yep, exactly.

00:42:03.100 Oh, okay.

00:42:04.040 Who else?

00:42:05.240 And then the, um, arguing in public.

00:42:09.000 Women get a little too comfortable sometimes.

00:42:11.120 And the worst thing that can happen with a modern woman is, guys,

00:42:14.780 these women will talk to you like they can kick your ass in a fight.

00:42:20.080 Why?

00:42:22.180 Why?

00:42:23.120 I don't get it.

00:42:24.700 Hmm.

00:42:27.020 So.

00:42:28.180 Is that it?

00:42:28.780 I thought you'd have more.

00:42:30.620 Go ahead.

00:42:31.180 I said I thought you'd have more.

00:42:32.500 No, I'll think of, uh, maybe some of the callers will jog some from the memory, but those

00:42:38.720 are the two biggest ones right now.

00:42:40.220 Is that anyone on the line?

00:42:41.880 Yeah, I'll bring him up.

00:42:48.760 Andres.

00:42:51.520 Andres, are you there?

00:42:53.020 Oh, can you hear me?

00:42:54.360 Yeah.

00:42:54.800 We can hear you.

00:42:56.760 Yo, what's up?

00:42:59.380 So, what do you think about the topic?

00:43:01.940 What, um, what are some ways that you've seen women fumbling relationships with guys?

00:43:09.140 Uh, uh, well, I'll just see experiences.

00:43:14.080 So, I think it was my third girlfriend in Iowa cheated on me with, like, two of my friends.

00:43:24.360 So, that's one way.

00:43:26.920 Uh, and then, uh.

00:43:29.260 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:43:32.840 What's up?

00:43:34.000 She cheated once, and then you stayed, and she cheated again?

00:43:38.260 No, no, I found out, I found out that she had cheated with both of them.

00:43:44.080 At the same time, so.

00:43:46.400 Oh, my gosh.

00:43:47.640 She got tag-teamed by your friends?

00:43:49.540 One happened, and I found out, and then the other one happened, and I found out.

00:43:52.560 I found out that both of them had, on the same day.

00:43:56.440 Did they, um, did they tell you, or how'd you find out?

00:44:00.740 Um, I can't, man, somebody, I think another friend of mine told me.

00:44:06.120 And, and I was like, oh, man.

00:44:10.740 Nah.

00:44:11.300 Uh, so, and it was funny, because, uh, uh, you know, after college and everything, she,

00:44:18.100 I, I told her I forgave her and everything, and then she, she was gonna leave her husband

00:44:23.580 for me, and I was like, no way, man.

00:44:26.640 I ain't doin' that again.

00:44:31.320 Uh, uh.

00:44:33.020 Are you still friends with the guys, or did you cut them off?

00:44:37.700 Uh, well, I, I stayed, I stayed friends with them.

00:44:42.620 Uh, sorta.

00:44:43.600 Uh, like, I didn't, I didn't, I didn't really cut them off.

00:44:47.960 I should have, probably, but.

00:44:49.720 You don't bring your, you don't bring the new girls you're dating around them anymore, huh?

00:44:53.720 Like, to me, like, like, she was obviously the problem.

00:44:57.920 Yeah.

00:44:58.540 I mean, it's like, you know, uh, I couldn't blame them, you know.

00:45:04.480 But, uh.

00:45:05.300 Wait, so, did you just say that you didn't blame your friends for sleeping with your girl

00:45:11.920 while you were with her?

00:45:13.240 Oh, no, no, I, I did.

00:45:15.900 Uh, yeah, I, I definitely did, but, like, like, like, they didn't matter to me, you know

00:45:22.640 what I mean?

00:45:23.440 Like, it wasn't like, oh, like, I can't believe you do that, dude, and blah, blah, blah, blah,

00:45:28.420 because I wasn't really that good of friends with them, it was more like, they were kind

00:45:33.340 of, like, friends of friends, and.

00:45:35.580 Yeah.

00:45:36.420 You know what I mean?

00:45:37.500 When I was young, we had, like, one or two guys that would try to screw everything walking

00:45:42.440 along, walking along, and the only thing good about having a guy like that around is because

00:45:47.640 we called him the hoe detector, right?

00:45:51.040 So, it would be kind of beneficial for you to bring your girl around the friend group,

00:45:55.480 because if, if she fell for, you know, just in the first, when you first meet her, whatever,

00:45:59.880 because if she would fall for the hoe detector, well, then she was a hoe, you know what I'm

00:46:04.940 saying?

00:46:05.780 Yeah, yeah.

00:46:06.280 So, your friends actually did you a favor.

00:46:09.200 Oh, yeah, absolutely.

00:46:11.200 Uh, and then my other, my other story was, I was in college, and I was talking to this girl,

00:46:18.140 chatting with her online, and she was a friend of a friend, and, and I thought, I thought

00:46:25.020 maybe it would go somewhere, and then she just, like, told me about her escapades with

00:46:31.420 her friend, that they, they were hooking up with some married guy, and getting on the

00:46:36.940 plan B and everything, and I was like, oh, no, I'm out, I was out so fast, I'm like, uh-uh.

00:46:45.740 Oh, man.

00:46:46.400 Oh, no, I can't be, hmm, that's trouble right there.

00:46:50.640 So, anyways, yeah, that's my two stories.

00:46:54.900 Well, you dodged a whole bunch of bullets, man.

00:46:56.940 Thank you for calling in.

00:46:58.420 Call in any time, okay?

00:47:00.020 All right.

00:47:00.500 Thanks for having me.

00:47:01.540 Bye.

00:47:02.760 Okay.

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00:47:26.800 I put David in here.

00:47:29.020 He must have dropped out.

00:47:30.060 So, let's get...

00:47:31.240 Let's get Chad.

00:47:36.060 He's joining.

00:47:38.340 Chad?

00:47:38.940 Of course, Chad.

00:47:41.600 Oh, yes, I'm here.

00:47:43.040 Just for a little bit, if the...

00:47:46.240 Pearl, you have to have him turn up your microphone, because it's really, really low.

00:47:50.360 Is it?

00:47:50.920 Okay.

00:47:51.900 No, no, not you, Chad.

00:47:53.220 I'm talking to Pearl.

00:47:55.420 Ah, sorry.

00:47:57.180 Okay.

00:47:57.980 I can hear...

00:47:59.020 It sounds...

00:47:59.620 It's weird in my...

00:48:00.540 I have all my sound settings up.

00:48:02.340 Yeah, it's weird in mine I can hear.

00:48:04.520 Is it better now?

00:48:05.300 What do you think about the topic, bro?

00:48:06.400 Is it better now?

00:48:07.000 What have women done in the past to fumble a relationship with you?

00:48:12.860 Well, thankfully, I have three kids now, and everything is going well.

00:48:18.740 I've never married and fumbled the ball.

00:48:21.220 But prior to that, I've had many fumbles.

00:48:23.580 And most of the time, it's the whole cry, cry, cry, and victimhood sort of thing.

00:48:31.400 This is before it was a major mainstream thing.

00:48:35.180 And I'm just glad that I'm not in the dating market now.

00:48:39.160 That's all I can say.

00:48:41.100 I feel sorry for people that have to actually be part of the dating market now.

00:48:46.140 It's sad.

00:48:47.000 But in my time, women were more traditional.

00:48:52.740 I retired dating in the year 2001.

00:48:56.680 So, yeah.

00:48:59.120 I feel sorry for all the guys out there.

00:49:02.040 And maybe you should go east.

00:49:05.080 Perhaps that's the only option.

00:49:07.480 But, yeah.

00:49:08.580 That's all I have to say about that.

00:49:13.120 Okay.

00:49:14.480 Okay.

00:49:17.000 Can you hear me better now, Doug?

00:49:20.400 It's changed.

00:49:20.820 MPA?

00:49:21.940 It's radically changed.

00:49:23.840 Radically changed.

00:49:25.440 Now we can't hear you on a Zoom call for some reason.

00:49:28.100 Uh-oh.

00:49:29.340 Oh.

00:49:30.120 No, no.

00:49:30.600 You're fine, Chad.

00:49:31.640 I can't hear Pearl on a Zoom call.

00:49:34.080 Okay.

00:49:34.320 Wait.

00:49:35.240 Can he not?

00:49:35.920 Chad, can you not hear me either?

00:49:39.320 If you're talking, we can't hear you, Pearl.

00:49:43.140 I'm so sorry, you guys.

00:49:45.120 Um.

00:49:45.480 I can't.

00:49:50.080 Can you guys hear me on the, now they're saying it's too, all right, these tech issues are killing

00:49:55.100 me lately.

00:49:56.220 Um.

00:49:56.680 I think.

00:49:58.340 Now they're saying it's too loud on there.

00:50:00.360 One second, guys.

00:50:02.800 I think she's talking, but we can't hear.

00:50:04.800 Um.

00:50:05.880 Well, um.

00:50:06.580 But they hear on YouTube.

00:50:09.180 Yeah, they hear me on YouTube.

00:50:11.040 I'm gonna text them.

00:50:12.220 Hold on.

00:50:13.160 One second.

00:50:14.940 Fair enough.

00:50:15.400 They hear.

00:50:16.020 One second, guys.

00:50:28.560 Oh, people say that they can hear everybody fine, but on the Zoom call, we can't hear Pearl,

00:50:47.780 though, unfortunately.

00:50:48.760 So I don't know what happened.

00:50:49.680 I'm unsure.

00:50:52.300 I turned on my volume as requested, so I'm not too sure what's going on with Pearl's input.

00:50:58.300 Can you hear her talking?

00:50:59.900 Well, I turned on my volume, so unless you pipe it into my dialogue, I can't hear her.

00:51:07.820 No.

00:51:09.500 Yeah, hold on.

00:51:10.900 I'm gonna turn the YouTube on.

00:51:13.440 But there's no input coming in from the, uh, Zoom chat.

00:51:19.100 That's what you're asking.

00:51:24.420 Okay.

00:51:24.900 Well, while she gets up to look at the settings, um, for, guys, give a woman, like, how long

00:51:34.560 do you normally give a woman when you're seeing red flags?

00:51:38.740 Because I think it's usually between, like, three to six months.

00:51:42.060 Honestly, in a couple of dates, you can see a lot of things, but I do know that there are

00:51:47.820 women out there that wait until certain things occur, like engagement, dating, some sort of

00:51:54.480 those mile markers pass, and then all of a sudden they're like, Jekyll and Hyde, and

00:51:58.640 you've never met this person.

00:52:00.820 And as soon as you see that happen, that's a red flag.

00:52:04.500 Because if someone can actually compartmentalize their relationship with you in such manner

00:52:08.900 that they're not date-worthy, in my opinion.

00:52:12.600 Can you hear me now?

00:52:13.460 I'd agree with that.

00:52:14.480 I'd agree.

00:52:14.800 Um, when, when a woman shows you red flags, whether she's, she's going to fumble it, or

00:52:22.340 when she's fumbled it, how do you normally handle it?

00:52:24.760 Do you ghost?

00:52:26.040 Do you tell her it's not working out?

00:52:28.120 What do you normally do, Chad?

00:52:30.140 Well, I would state a few things what I've mentioned.

00:52:34.560 But beyond that, if, if I see a night and day Jekyll and Hyde situation when demarcations

00:52:41.060 are closed, then I state it.

00:52:44.800 And if they can't rectify it, which they clearly can't, I, I drop them like, ah, potato.

00:52:53.200 Okay.

00:52:54.160 I'll tell you, I recommend ghosting.

00:52:55.580 I said it for about 15 minutes, and I say it again now.

00:52:58.460 Don't give these women closure.

00:52:59.980 Stop talking to them.

00:53:01.020 That's what I'm saying.

00:53:02.820 I mean, I mean, having a response immediately after is, is close to ghosting.

00:53:08.160 I'm not going to ignore them.

00:53:09.780 I give them two responses.

00:53:12.580 It's almost like a three strike rule for me.

00:53:15.000 But when I see a, an immediate change in demeanor and actual being themselves, then they've obviously

00:53:25.620 been able to compartmentalize themselves beyond the, uh, realms.

00:53:29.620 Can you guys hear me?

00:53:30.460 What a person should be able to do when you're having a relationship.

00:53:34.980 And if they have that, I mean, I see that.

00:53:37.560 I, both my parents are teachers and they have a teaching mode and they, they act like teachers

00:53:41.680 and then they act like human beings outside of that area.

00:53:44.740 But when they can't actually have the confines of a relationship in that manner and realize that it's not some sort of like, like third thing, or even if it is a third thing, if a third thing changes to a fourth thing and they've taken the mask off, that's what I, I throw out the line.

00:54:05.280 And I honestly do feel pity for men right now because it's a whole different situation.

00:54:12.540 Partnership is out the window.

00:54:13.880 It's like, Oh, you are, if you accompany me and my endeavor, I'm a strong and a woman.

00:54:19.260 And therefore you're good for me, but I don't want to partner with you.

00:54:23.820 And if, if anything is not like a hundred percent what I want it to be, then therefore I'll exit and I'll take, take after stop while you're at it.

00:54:33.560 Yeah.

00:54:33.860 That's cool.

00:54:36.220 Yeah.

00:54:36.620 Yeah.

00:54:37.220 You know, I'm in my mid forties and I feel bad for all the young guys growing up, man.

00:54:41.380 They have no idea.

00:54:42.400 Well, they have a, they have an idea of how rough they had it.

00:54:46.220 They don't know how good we had it when we were younger.

00:54:49.580 It was so much easier.

00:54:50.900 Yeah.

00:54:51.240 I'm in the same area.

00:54:52.380 I'm at 48, but I'm in Canada and I think it's sort of trickled down by about three years.

00:54:57.700 Well, you're Canadian and I have to say thank you to all my Canadian brothers and Australian brothers for making another day in those feminist hell holes.

00:55:10.160 Oh, it's scary.

00:55:11.360 I see that I'm off the chat.

00:55:13.400 Everything.

00:55:13.760 Okay.

00:55:14.360 Is everything, should, should I leave the conversation or what's going on?

00:55:17.300 Yeah.

00:55:18.260 We're going to try to get the zoom thing fixed.

00:55:20.860 Cause I can't, I still can't hear her.

00:55:22.980 So I have my volume down.

00:55:24.980 So should I keep it that way on the other device so I can hear her or.

00:55:29.360 Well, you can hear her on YouTube.

00:55:31.540 I just can't hear her on the zoom call.

00:55:33.200 Yeah.

00:55:33.620 Yeah.

00:55:33.800 I turned it on a YouTube ad as instructed because you don't want to have that.

00:55:37.320 Yeah.

00:55:37.520 You don't have devil.

00:55:38.660 Yeah.

00:55:39.320 Anyways.

00:55:40.600 Okay.

00:55:40.860 All right.

00:55:41.800 Thanks for calling.

00:55:42.820 Call in anytime, buddy.

00:55:44.720 All right.

00:55:45.260 Should I leave them?

00:55:46.680 Yeah.

00:55:47.080 I'll put you out there.

00:55:49.780 Okay.

00:55:50.240 Hold on.

00:56:00.600 Okay.

00:56:01.000 I don't really know what to do now.

00:56:02.300 Um.

00:56:02.480 Um.

00:56:05.000 Cause that was the whole point of the show.

00:56:10.140 Um.

00:56:13.820 I mean,

00:56:14.400 I might have to see if I can.

00:56:20.380 Cause it was working earlier.

00:56:23.860 Hey,

00:56:24.360 what's up,

00:56:25.040 buddy?

00:56:25.180 Hey guys.

00:56:29.320 Yo,

00:56:29.740 what's up?

00:56:30.900 Um,

00:56:31.260 I know Pearl.

00:56:32.920 You know what?

00:56:33.300 I wonder since obviously I know Pearl,

00:56:35.460 should I just call her on her phone?

00:56:36.920 She just puts on speaker phone on the mics and people.

00:56:39.300 But then it's just like.

00:56:40.400 Yeah.

00:56:41.120 Maybe we could do that.

00:56:43.020 Yeah.

00:56:44.120 Maybe we just do that.

00:56:47.680 Problem is.

00:56:48.520 I probably can't,

00:56:49.260 probably can't hear me.

00:56:50.920 To.

00:56:51.120 hear that idea.

00:56:52.640 But let me.

00:56:53.600 Let me see.

00:57:00.680 Yeah.

00:57:01.220 I would,

00:57:01.480 um.

00:57:02.740 But I'll.

00:57:03.860 Everything.

00:57:04.940 Was working until I said something about.

00:57:06.960 Her volume on the zoom.

00:57:08.420 And then something happened,

00:57:09.280 but it was just really low on the zoom.

00:57:11.080 I could barely hear her.

00:57:12.440 So.

00:57:13.180 Oh man.

00:57:14.280 Oh,

00:57:14.520 I know.

00:57:15.140 Yeah.

00:57:15.980 But just real fast.

00:57:17.100 For the audience.

00:57:17.860 The audience on YouTube.

00:57:18.960 They can hear you.

00:57:20.100 Name a.

00:57:22.020 Just real fast.

00:57:23.180 Okay.

00:57:24.400 Wait,

00:57:24.720 there you are.

00:57:26.060 You can hear me now?

00:57:27.860 Yes.

00:57:28.960 Oh,

00:57:29.300 cool.

00:57:30.040 Thank God.

00:57:32.580 I was about to cut the show too.

00:57:34.620 Cause I was like,

00:57:35.260 we can't really finish it without the thing.

00:57:37.620 Can you hear me?

00:57:38.980 Yeah.

00:57:39.820 Wait,

00:57:40.180 can bro hear me though?

00:57:42.040 Yeah,

00:57:42.240 I can hear you.

00:57:43.460 Yeah.

00:57:44.560 It's nice and loud too.

00:57:47.700 Nice.

00:57:48.360 Nice.

00:57:50.300 Cool.

00:57:50.700 Cool.

00:57:51.540 So,

00:57:52.100 so Shiv,

00:57:53.020 how are you fumbled?

00:57:56.680 Um,

00:57:57.240 well,

00:57:57.500 the biggest thing that girls do that fumble it with me is if they ask too many personal

00:58:02.180 questions about my money.

00:58:05.580 Like if they,

00:58:07.500 the second they come to my apartment,

00:58:08.800 they ask like,

00:58:09.620 Oh,

00:58:10.120 how much rent is this?

00:58:11.260 How much does this couch cost?

00:58:12.680 Or like,

00:58:13.100 they check up for price tags.

00:58:17.440 Then I go,

00:58:18.260 how much is the Uber to send you home right now?

00:58:22.220 Um,

00:58:22.840 so yeah,

00:58:23.440 I just can't,

00:58:24.040 I don't know.

00:58:24.700 I know it sounds stupid,

00:58:25.780 but like,

00:58:26.440 it just,

00:58:27.100 it just really annoys me.

00:58:28.880 It's like,

00:58:29.060 you're already getting,

00:58:29.840 you get to be in the place.

00:58:31.780 Like,

00:58:32.620 and you're not paying for it anyways.

00:58:33.900 Like,

00:58:34.060 why does the girl need to know?

00:58:35.680 It just makes me feel really uncomfortable.

00:58:36.820 And it makes me feel like she's gold digging.

00:58:38.340 So,

00:58:38.520 um,

00:58:39.500 any,

00:58:39.760 like if we go to a dinner and then she like wants to know what the,

00:58:41.880 unless she's like trying to split the bill,

00:58:43.280 but if she's just like,

00:58:44.280 how much is it?

00:58:44.820 I'm just curious.

00:58:45.440 Like,

00:58:45.780 I don't know.

00:58:46.180 I just feel really like,

00:58:47.540 eh,

00:58:48.420 about it.

00:58:49.340 So yeah,

00:58:51.000 you,

00:58:51.380 you wait,

00:58:52.560 you've taken girls on a date to the type of date that you would want to

00:58:56.880 take her to.

00:58:58.400 And she's offered to split the bill.

00:59:00.400 Like,

00:59:00.640 do you,

00:59:01.360 what do you do?

00:59:02.580 Cause you know that I've always thought that if a woman wants to split the

00:59:06.560 bill,

00:59:06.860 she doesn't like you.

00:59:08.640 Oh,

00:59:09.100 so you know what's weird?

00:59:09.940 It's a generational thing.

00:59:11.980 Don't,

00:59:12.300 don't you agree?

00:59:13.060 Yeah.

00:59:14.280 Is it really?

00:59:15.620 Yeah,

00:59:16.140 it's different.

00:59:16.580 And also to be fair,

00:59:17.440 a lot of the girls that I'm dating are like,

00:59:19.200 they already,

00:59:19.860 they make like 150 K 200 grand a year.

00:59:22.260 Um,

00:59:22.900 there's like a lot of tech doctors,

00:59:24.840 things like that,

00:59:25.420 especially I'm dealing with Indian girls lately.

00:59:27.540 Um,

00:59:28.260 but,

00:59:28.640 um,

00:59:29.280 I don't,

00:59:29.620 so the funny part is I,

00:59:30.360 I never let them,

00:59:31.620 but I love when they offer.

00:59:33.960 So to me,

00:59:35.100 it's a,

00:59:35.540 it's a green flag.

00:59:36.380 If they ask,

00:59:37.220 I hate it,

00:59:37.900 dude.

00:59:38.120 I hate that stupid dance where you put the bill down and then they look at you and,

00:59:42.740 and fake reach for their purse.

00:59:44.780 I hate that crap.

00:59:45.840 I hate it.

00:59:46.900 Why?

00:59:47.540 Like,

00:59:47.840 you know for dang well that you're not,

00:59:50.220 because here's the thing they do the fake reach.

00:59:53.100 Right.

00:59:53.420 And you don't know.

00:59:57.100 Some women will be okay with having to split the check,

01:00:00.700 but it's a risk because you could ruin it by splitting the check with the wrong woman and then not getting laid.

01:00:09.120 Understand what I'm saying?

01:00:10.760 So,

01:00:11.060 no,

01:00:11.240 I totally get it.

01:00:12.520 I just don't take the risk.

01:00:13.440 And I think this whole,

01:00:14.920 most women know for dang well that a real man pays for the dates.

01:00:20.940 So why take the risk?

01:00:22.640 Why?

01:00:23.000 I don't know.

01:00:23.460 I think it's because in our generation,

01:00:25.440 50,

01:00:25.920 50 is not uncommon.

01:00:28.760 Like,

01:00:29.060 I,

01:00:29.220 I know a decent amount of couples that just split everything down the middle.

01:00:32.840 Like,

01:00:33.320 that's not,

01:00:34.000 I can think of one person in my family that's married.

01:00:37.340 And until he didn't even pay rent until like,

01:00:41.480 they got married and they were together like eight years,

01:00:44.160 they split everything.

01:00:46.040 Like,

01:00:46.440 it's not really like,

01:00:47.940 I've,

01:00:48.320 I've just seen that a lot amongst like younger millennials.

01:00:53.340 I just,

01:00:54.200 for me,

01:00:54.860 I don't think that you can get the kind,

01:00:57.080 especially if you've achieved,

01:00:59.060 you can't get the kind of respect.

01:01:02.980 Oh,

01:01:03.500 I agree.

01:01:03.960 So don't get me wrong.

01:01:05.000 I,

01:01:05.240 I don't like,

01:01:06.160 I never let them.

01:01:07.300 So like,

01:01:07.600 usually what I'll,

01:01:08.500 what I'll do is if I ever give the girl a concession,

01:01:11.820 it'll be like the next day morning,

01:01:13.180 we go get coffee.

01:01:14.040 I'll let her buy me coffee.

01:01:15.420 Right.

01:01:15.800 But I,

01:01:16.060 I paid for the real thing last night.

01:01:17.960 So I will get sense.

01:01:19.560 Yeah.

01:01:19.780 So they can feel like they're equal.

01:01:21.440 They're not,

01:01:21.980 but,

01:01:22.040 you know,

01:01:24.640 but,

01:01:25.000 but other than that,

01:01:26.780 like,

01:01:27.060 I think the other one that really drives me crazy is I've had girls like,

01:01:30.440 try to like,

01:01:32.140 like,

01:01:32.620 they'll just try to bring like a friend on a date,

01:01:34.900 but like,

01:01:35.960 not,

01:01:36.620 not like a,

01:01:37.480 you know,

01:01:37.680 not to join in.

01:01:39.100 Like,

01:01:39.480 like,

01:01:40.100 if you're going to,

01:01:41.620 if you're going to bring a friend,

01:01:43.540 she better join.

01:01:45.180 Yeah.

01:01:45.380 She better be hot and join in.

01:01:48.500 But,

01:01:48.840 um,

01:01:49.520 no,

01:01:49.840 I,

01:01:50.000 I just find like,

01:01:50.740 that's really annoying because it obviously that friend always just ruin,

01:01:54.560 it ruins your chance of sex every fucking time.

01:01:58.480 Um,

01:01:58.840 so that one just drives me up a wall.

01:02:01.240 If they're like,

01:02:01.880 Oh,

01:02:02.060 can I,

01:02:02.560 you know,

01:02:02.920 whatever,

01:02:03.420 like,

01:02:03.640 Hey,

01:02:03.700 let's go do this.

01:02:04.280 Oh,

01:02:04.400 can my friend join?

01:02:05.920 Um,

01:02:06.740 I don't know.

01:02:07.800 Sometimes it just annoys me unless it's like a group,

01:02:11.020 like sometimes if it's like they have like eight girlfriends,

01:02:13.780 if it's like a huge group,

01:02:14.780 sometimes it's cool to do that.

01:02:16.500 Um,

01:02:16.900 but yeah,

01:02:18.100 I don't,

01:02:18.740 I don't,

01:02:19.100 that also has fumbled out for me.

01:02:20.480 Have you ever been in a relationship with a girl and that she fumbled it?

01:02:29.620 Um,

01:02:30.260 yes.

01:02:31.620 Well,

01:02:31.880 my ex,

01:02:32.580 my,

01:02:32.820 my,

01:02:33.020 my last,

01:02:33.820 like we were together for a year and a half.

01:02:36.020 And,

01:02:36.540 um,

01:02:38.240 honestly,

01:02:38.940 I think the biggest thing for her was just not respecting my,

01:02:42.500 like the fact that my work schedule is so sporadic.

01:02:45.860 Like the thing with me is I have either a lot of free time or none,

01:02:48.820 and it's very random.

01:02:50.260 It's probably similar to you.

01:02:51.440 Like,

01:02:52.000 like today was just a total cluster of a day.

01:02:54.420 I've been on back to back meetings from early,

01:02:56.040 like from 6am to now.

01:02:58.120 Um,

01:02:58.600 so,

01:02:58.940 but there might be tomorrow.

01:03:00.000 I might have nothing to do.

01:03:00.940 So she would just like,

01:03:02.200 if,

01:03:02.440 if,

01:03:02.800 you know,

01:03:03.200 it was date night and that day I was like,

01:03:04.640 Oh,

01:03:04.740 I'm so busy.

01:03:05.360 I have to cancel,

01:03:06.220 but we'll do it tomorrow.

01:03:07.360 She would get so annoyed about it.

01:03:09.660 And I'm like,

01:03:10.660 you don't like,

01:03:11.540 what do you expect?

01:03:12.180 I don't get how girls want this like high value guy.

01:03:14.820 And then there's shock that high value guys have like to do,

01:03:17.080 like have to sacrifice certain things.

01:03:20.260 Well,

01:03:20.560 you know what it is?

01:03:21.220 It's because they put themselves,

01:03:23.500 uh,

01:03:24.840 at,

01:03:25.140 at odds with your work schedule or even worse,

01:03:28.740 your hobbies,

01:03:29.860 man.

01:03:30.440 That's another thing.

01:03:31.540 So usually right around once you start throwing labels around,

01:03:36.140 she'll be like,

01:03:36.580 Oh,

01:03:36.700 you watch football too much or you play video games too much,

01:03:40.160 or you're on your computer too much,

01:03:42.140 or you work too much,

01:03:43.380 putting herself directly opposite of something that you like or a pursuit in

01:03:49.820 life.

01:03:50.180 If a woman does that,

01:03:51.860 you're gone.

01:03:52.920 Oh,

01:03:53.060 I had a girl get really mad at me.

01:03:54.960 I was dating for my girlfriend at the time because she had a marketing

01:03:59.600 degree.

01:04:00.020 Now she was a waitress and she still got fired from,

01:04:02.780 and she got fired from waitress job to waitress job,

01:04:04.580 like her whole life.

01:04:05.260 And she was,

01:04:05.780 she was like 29.

01:04:07.380 So it's like,

01:04:08.380 she had time to build a career and she couldn't.

01:04:10.840 Um,

01:04:11.160 and then she had a marketing degree degree.

01:04:12.820 And so she got really mad.

01:04:13.820 I wouldn't hire her.

01:04:14.600 Cause I run a big marketing company.

01:04:16.500 Like,

01:04:17.100 and that was,

01:04:17.900 I broke up with her like the next week.

01:04:19.820 I was like,

01:04:20.060 I'm out.

01:04:20.480 Like,

01:04:21.000 cause she just kept pressing on it.

01:04:22.700 And I'm like,

01:04:23.480 why would I hire you?

01:04:24.880 Like,

01:04:25.180 it's,

01:04:25.580 it's a,

01:04:26.020 it's the worst idea ever,

01:04:27.360 you know,

01:04:28.460 for,

01:04:28.800 for me to like,

01:04:29.580 like,

01:04:29.880 you know,

01:04:30.160 I don't know.

01:04:30.700 And she was just dumb as a box of rocks.

01:04:32.500 So that was also,

01:04:35.200 yeah.

01:04:35.420 Well,

01:04:35.560 if you can't keep a waitress job,

01:04:37.420 then to like,

01:04:38.240 it would just give you guys something to argue about.

01:04:41.520 Exactly.

01:04:42.100 I'm like,

01:04:42.400 you can't,

01:04:43.100 you can't keep,

01:04:43.820 the like,

01:04:44.280 do you want fries with that job?

01:04:46.200 And like,

01:04:46.840 you know,

01:04:47.160 I'm the guy who's supposed to like put you in my company.

01:04:49.700 And yeah.

01:04:50.340 And then also like more importantly,

01:04:52.040 it's if she,

01:04:52.840 you know,

01:04:53.380 girls can be really vindictive.

01:04:55.000 If she has my client list,

01:04:56.840 she knows my,

01:04:57.620 Oh yeah.

01:04:59.340 I didn't actually.

01:05:00.360 Oh,

01:05:00.700 there was a divorce story.

01:05:02.140 That's exactly what the wife did.

01:05:04.580 Oh yeah.

01:05:05.160 She took his client list and like called them and started subpoenaing them in the divorce.

01:05:10.740 Holy.

01:05:11.140 No thanks.

01:05:13.820 That's really all I was thinking.

01:05:15.100 Cause she had that already those patterns where like,

01:05:18.140 dude,

01:05:18.280 she would do,

01:05:19.240 I mean,

01:05:19.620 look,

01:05:20.400 everyone has to go through one psycho girlfriend.

01:05:22.700 I did that on the last one.

01:05:24.920 And dude,

01:05:25.500 she would like DM anytime I was with anyone,

01:05:28.220 she would like DM them on Instagram and be like,

01:05:30.640 what are you doing with Shiv?

01:05:32.040 Like any time I was on a story.

01:05:33.700 Oh my gosh.

01:05:35.140 That's insane.

01:05:36.560 It was nuts.

01:05:37.260 Absolutely.

01:05:37.520 I mean,

01:05:37.700 this was all towards the end,

01:05:38.900 but she,

01:05:39.520 she just became full psycho and yeah,

01:05:41.780 it was a total blow.

01:05:43.200 It doesn't even have to happen on that grand of a scale.

01:05:45.780 I was,

01:05:46.500 I met this girl when I was in undergrad in Vegas.

01:05:49.300 And I told you,

01:05:50.940 this was the first girl where the,

01:05:52.840 my friends were like,

01:05:53.520 Doug and PA,

01:05:54.160 you gotta let this girl go.

01:05:55.660 She's crazy.

01:05:56.700 She's six foot tall and she's half Irish and half Korean.

01:06:00.620 She was hot.

01:06:01.440 You showed me a picture.

01:06:03.080 Yeah.

01:06:03.380 So this girl was anyway,

01:06:05.820 and I waited tables at a restaurant and she was a host girl there.

01:06:10.720 And then we went to school together.

01:06:12.740 So she would intentionally start every,

01:06:16.160 when we were in bed or at my house,

01:06:18.180 she was fine,

01:06:18.920 but anywhere outside of there,

01:06:20.200 she was nuts.

01:06:21.180 So she'd start a fight with me at the restaurant and then not seat tables in my

01:06:26.280 section to,

01:06:26.840 to get back at me while we were fighting.

01:06:29.100 Then she would ditch her classes and be waiting outside my classes.

01:06:33.000 When I was in class.

01:06:35.560 So we would fight and then I have to go into the class and then she would

01:06:38.900 wait outside my class.

01:06:41.980 Then I come out of the class and we keep fighting,

01:06:44.760 bro.

01:06:47.420 That's so,

01:06:48.240 yeah,

01:06:48.900 man.

01:06:49.540 Yeah.

01:06:50.200 So you gotta watch out.

01:06:51.420 And that was about three to four months in.

01:06:54.640 I hit that magic mark.

01:06:55.800 What about 90 days to like four or five months?

01:06:57.960 And it all came out.

01:06:59.020 Yep.

01:07:00.200 Yeah.

01:07:00.640 But God,

01:07:01.680 the crazy ones are the best,

01:07:03.400 best sex,

01:07:04.200 right?

01:07:05.660 Yeah.

01:07:07.340 Undeniable.

01:07:11.460 That's funny.

01:07:12.820 You want to stay on?

01:07:13.780 I'm going to bring Sean obstacles to opportunities.

01:07:16.480 He's waiting for a while.

01:07:21.780 Hey,

01:07:22.820 Sean,

01:07:23.260 what's up,

01:07:23.700 buddy?

01:07:23.840 How's it going,

01:07:26.020 Sean?

01:07:28.380 You're on mute.

01:07:30.180 Yeah,

01:07:30.440 yeah,

01:07:30.580 yeah.

01:07:30.780 Good,

01:07:31.000 good,

01:07:31.220 good,

01:07:31.420 good.

01:07:32.720 Good to see you,

01:07:33.560 buddy.

01:07:34.240 How are you?

01:07:35.060 What's going on?

01:07:36.600 I live in a good life in Thailand.

01:07:38.600 Swatty cop.

01:07:40.620 It's funny.

01:07:41.420 That's how happy you guys look when they get away from Western women.

01:07:45.420 It's like that.

01:07:46.520 Oh,

01:07:46.800 thanks.

01:07:47.720 It's like there's a new life in their eyes.

01:07:51.140 But are they fumbling you there too?

01:07:53.800 What's going on?

01:07:56.140 Oh,

01:07:56.960 yeah,

01:07:57.340 they is.

01:07:57.940 They still do it over here just in different ways.

01:08:00.720 So,

01:08:01.100 well,

01:08:04.600 you know,

01:08:05.100 I'm in Asia.

01:08:05.820 So most guys,

01:08:06.740 you know,

01:08:07.120 women approached,

01:08:08.460 you know,

01:08:09.280 marketplace different where their date naps.

01:08:11.100 They're really nice at the beginning out the gate,

01:08:13.220 but there's some,

01:08:14.280 uh,

01:08:14.960 the little fierce cats on the back end.

01:08:16.920 And so once most guys love them more than,

01:08:19.840 and you know,

01:08:20.380 she loves them.

01:08:21.300 That's when she brings out the claws and then she starts controlling them

01:08:24.860 like that.

01:08:25.380 Guys in Thailand are getting divorced,

01:08:27.100 like in crazy numbers too.

01:08:28.800 The local guys are paying on only fans too.

01:08:31.780 So it's not,

01:08:32.500 you know,

01:08:33.160 all peaches and cream.

01:08:34.960 So I would say fumble is more so,

01:08:37.400 you know,

01:08:38.260 I think social media has changed the dynamics a lot.

01:08:40.740 So a lot of girls think like they're like very high value for the position in

01:08:45.640 life they are.

01:08:46.220 And so they look at a lot of the men that they come encounter with and say,

01:08:50.240 what's your price?

01:08:51.280 Hurry up and buy.

01:08:52.500 And then at the same time,

01:08:54.140 you know,

01:08:54.420 they have these dysfunctional relationships where the girls don't think

01:08:57.220 they're beautiful inside.

01:08:58.760 And so that tears on the relationship in a long time.

01:09:01.400 So it's not even like an issue that you'll have with a girl.

01:09:03.700 It's most of the issues she have with herself that actually fumbles the

01:09:07.160 position.

01:09:07.920 She's in her head thinking,

01:09:09.340 what is he doing?

01:09:10.320 Is he cheating?

01:09:11.520 Oh,

01:09:11.760 do I really look good?

01:09:13.220 Does he really like me?

01:09:14.820 And so this really destroys a lot of relationships.

01:09:17.980 Because she's insecure and she takes it out on him.

01:09:22.080 Yeah.

01:09:22.900 And not even necessarily on him,

01:09:25.080 just in the relationship.

01:09:26.540 She's insecure about her position.

01:09:28.680 And of course the guys try to say what they can say.

01:09:31.480 Like,

01:09:31.660 oh no,

01:09:32.200 baby,

01:09:32.500 I'm with you.

01:09:32.980 I love you so much.

01:09:34.200 You're beautiful.

01:09:35.400 But you know,

01:09:36.460 girls are looking on Instagram.

01:09:37.900 These girls love Kim Kardashian.

01:09:39.360 So they're comparing,

01:09:41.000 you know,

01:09:41.320 how they look to them and other figures too,

01:09:43.980 in the culture.

01:09:47.020 That's crazy.

01:09:48.700 That's crazy that the Thailand like Bali girls learned the grift so fast.

01:09:53.420 So much from the West.

01:09:56.900 It's pretty bad,

01:09:58.020 man.

01:09:58.520 I was telling Pearl last time we was on here,

01:10:00.880 like,

01:10:01.140 yo,

01:10:01.300 the girls will marry early.

01:10:03.260 So that does happen.

01:10:04.960 They don't wait until no 30 or something over here.

01:10:07.040 And that's only because they ain't got the economic opportunities and means to

01:10:10.520 be waiting until no 35.

01:10:11.920 They got to hurry up and get saddled.

01:10:13.820 But I was saying on the back end,

01:10:16.100 they do get divorced once they become 40 and they have the kids.

01:10:19.940 And then they go and hook up with the young Thai guys.

01:10:23.280 And so they're like,

01:10:23.800 I left my husband.

01:10:24.660 It's better to be alone.

01:10:26.120 And so they still fall into the same habit.

01:10:28.860 It's just reverse.

01:10:29.920 You get what I'm saying?

01:10:30.860 They do it more on the back end.

01:10:33.260 They do it more on the back end.

01:10:35.300 Yes.

01:10:35.580 So have you ever been in a full blown like relationship with a girl or like

01:10:42.580 maybe a deep into a talking phase or something and you really liked the girl,

01:10:48.220 but then she said something or did something and it was just done.

01:10:51.720 And you knew then you knew you either had to dump her or make her break up with

01:10:55.540 you.

01:10:57.000 Yeah.

01:10:57.500 Yeah.

01:10:57.800 Make her break up with me.

01:10:59.240 Cause I'm,

01:10:59.900 I'm,

01:11:00.160 you know,

01:11:00.500 coach game.

01:11:01.120 We after care.

01:11:02.140 I don't want girls to be coming back mad at me.

01:11:04.160 Like you dumped me.

01:11:05.340 I got vengeance on my heart.

01:11:07.260 So there's too many white nights in this world.

01:11:12.160 So,

01:11:12.440 you know,

01:11:13.160 how do you go about it?

01:11:14.400 Are you,

01:11:15.160 are you the,

01:11:16.160 are you the,

01:11:16.800 Oh,

01:11:17.000 it's not you.

01:11:17.700 It's me.

01:11:18.060 Because I was telling Pearl this before we got on the call,

01:11:21.520 I would say,

01:11:22.160 you know,

01:11:22.880 I just,

01:11:23.740 I just can't live up to the expectations that you're setting.

01:11:28.080 And you need to find a guy that can give you more than I can give you.

01:11:32.560 And what did you mean?

01:11:33.880 What did you really mean,

01:11:34.940 Doug?

01:11:36.520 You're annoying.

01:11:37.340 And I don't want to be around you anymore.

01:11:38.620 I'd rather play video games.

01:11:42.500 And that's what that means.

01:11:44.500 Yeah.

01:11:44.920 Right.

01:11:45.420 I'd rather live my life free.

01:11:47.600 Um,

01:11:48.180 it depends on the person and how you're having a relationship and what seems to be an issue at that time.

01:11:53.720 But I could say recently,

01:11:55.320 there was an issue where a girl was like,

01:11:56.960 yo,

01:11:57.260 basically I have open conversations and dialect.

01:11:59.860 And so she was like,

01:12:01.480 I stepped out and I,

01:12:03.240 you know,

01:12:04.020 slept with a guy or something.

01:12:05.680 And then I was like,

01:12:06.260 oh,

01:12:06.480 okay.

01:12:07.700 And then I was like,

01:12:08.360 okay,

01:12:08.700 you know,

01:12:09.140 explain.

01:12:09.760 And she went in to explain why,

01:12:11.500 oh,

01:12:11.700 you don't call me every day.

01:12:13.180 He messages.

01:12:14.140 We talk all the time.

01:12:15.680 You know,

01:12:16.060 you don't do this and you don't do that.

01:12:17.720 I said,

01:12:18.060 oh,

01:12:18.320 I get it.

01:12:21.600 I understand.

01:12:23.460 And what I think is best for you is to partner with a guy that gives you what you desire.

01:12:28.760 I'm very indifferent.

01:12:30.740 It's your life,

01:12:31.620 your body,

01:12:32.140 your choice.

01:12:34.040 And so at the end of the day,

01:12:35.540 everybody makes the decision.

01:12:37.620 And you didn't even have to tell me that.

01:12:39.100 You could have lied to me.

01:12:39.920 Most people would lie and never tell anything.

01:12:42.180 So I respect you for that.

01:12:44.240 I always respect you.

01:12:46.540 And I think you should move on with this guy.

01:12:49.860 And I think you guys have something good going on.

01:12:53.040 And we'll forever respect each other and forever be friends.

01:12:58.480 She cried.

01:13:00.100 You know,

01:13:01.120 she went back and forth and it was a thing,

01:13:04.280 but I put her on a little scooter,

01:13:06.420 kissed her on the forehead and watched her drove off into the sunset.

01:13:10.620 So what did you really mean?

01:13:12.120 I really meant that.

01:13:14.920 Okay.

01:13:15.960 Hey, look, look, look, look, look, at the end of the day, man, look, indifference.

01:13:23.620 Things happen.

01:13:24.400 People make choices, guys.

01:13:25.740 Don't crash out.

01:13:27.060 Don't lose your life off of that.

01:13:28.480 What somebody else decided to do.

01:13:30.260 I had a best friend who was a girl stepped out.

01:13:32.460 He didn't know what to do.

01:13:33.500 He lost his identity.

01:13:34.640 He thought he was less of a man.

01:13:35.960 And I told him, look, you're still an honorably discharged soldier.

01:13:40.560 You still helped people across the world.

01:13:42.160 Do you still, who are you?

01:13:43.900 You're still a man who's done great in the world.

01:13:47.100 Don't have your ego tied into what other these people do.

01:13:51.000 Don't think you're lesser because someone else stepped out on you.

01:13:54.260 Just be who you are and continue to move forward.

01:13:57.460 And that's what I say to a lot of guys, man.

01:13:59.380 It hurts.

01:14:00.100 I get it.

01:14:01.280 But you got to be indifferent.

01:14:02.620 People make choices, guys.

01:14:05.020 And so you got to grow beyond it.

01:14:06.580 Don't crash out on what some girl decided to do with her mouth,

01:14:10.640 her little, you know, cheeks.

01:14:12.340 Yeah.

01:14:12.900 That doesn't define you.

01:14:13.780 I used to always tell the young guys I was a mentor.

01:14:16.300 I'd say, guys, look, in divorce and breakups,

01:14:21.580 men's value increases and, like, net worth and value increase

01:14:26.340 and women's decreases.

01:14:27.720 It's how it always goes.

01:14:29.060 I said, this is a temporary setback.

01:14:31.320 You're going to make more money.

01:14:33.080 You're going to start moving forward.

01:14:34.940 And a lot of these guys, they get complacent in a relationship

01:14:40.220 and the uncomfortability of the newness of getting broken up with

01:14:45.900 could be the catalyst towards success, you know?

01:14:50.080 My father used to tell me, when you're going through adversity

01:14:54.300 or you experience hardship, there's two knee-jerk reactions.

01:14:58.240 There's two knee-jerk emotions you're going to feel,

01:15:01.420 either anger or sadness.

01:15:03.900 And he'd always recommend getting angry because anger is an emotion of action.

01:15:09.360 Now, unfortunately, we always associate anger with violence with men,

01:15:13.880 but that's not true.

01:15:15.540 No, you can get angry enough to go do something in your life

01:15:19.800 or to go fix something or go achieve something.

01:15:22.620 So don't get sad that the woman broke up with you.

01:15:25.440 Go get angry and go do something.

01:15:28.500 Go get out of your house and do something to make your life better.

01:15:32.520 Get angry about it.

01:15:33.660 Get pissed off and go do something about it.

01:15:36.460 Not to her.

01:15:37.900 I'm just saying in general, in life.

01:15:39.300 Yeah, you know, nothing is a better catalyst than a breakup to really...

01:15:43.800 Just whatever goal you want to go towards,

01:15:46.880 it really does push you, doesn't it?

01:15:50.460 Yeah.

01:15:51.100 Yeah.

01:15:52.460 Shoot, Pearl, you be interviewing people that have it bad, you know?

01:15:55.720 It's always somebody else with worse situations.

01:15:58.000 Like, you can interview guys with families, been married for 20 to 30 years.

01:16:03.460 Y'all guys be crashing out about a girlfriend for two years.

01:16:06.960 Imagine if you had kids staring at you, you know, 30 years in a relationship.

01:16:11.460 And she's like, I'm pregnant with the guy's baby.

01:16:14.080 That's a sticky situation.

01:16:15.600 Like Tom Brady right now.

01:16:17.180 Brutal.

01:16:18.040 Exactly.

01:16:19.140 Oh, yeah.

01:16:19.560 Let's add this too, Pearl.

01:16:21.000 And I'm going to take half of your net worth, plus 20% in the future.

01:16:24.480 God, that's the situation.

01:16:27.500 Not even that.

01:16:28.380 Your kids are right across town, but they can't even see their kids

01:16:32.880 that are less than 15 miles away from them.

01:16:34.980 Can you imagine?

01:16:36.260 Yeah, you're going to crash out like yay.

01:16:38.440 So it's just difficult.

01:16:40.940 So that situation is difficult.

01:16:42.760 But guys, if you got a girl and she loves me, she's going, boss up, man.

01:16:48.100 Like, there's dirt bikes, there's four-wheelers,

01:16:50.820 the free agent lifestyle.

01:16:52.560 And there's always younger and hotter.

01:16:53.860 Exactly, too, right?

01:16:57.160 Pearl, what did you say?

01:16:58.020 There's a McDonald's coffee from Starbucks?

01:17:01.080 Like, there's ways to get your money up.

01:17:05.200 You're watching my tweets, huh?

01:17:07.920 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:17:08.760 I know.

01:17:09.480 I just couldn't believe it was only $2.50 for a latte.

01:17:12.640 I was like, oh, my God.

01:17:13.660 What am I doing at Starbucks?

01:17:16.740 It's the biggest scam.

01:17:18.180 Pearl, I keep telling you, one of the hidden gems is 7-Eleven coffee.

01:17:24.280 I haven't tried it yet.

01:17:26.320 Don't sleep on it.

01:17:27.800 So, Doug, for example, like, for dinner, like, I'll pay,

01:17:31.380 but then I let Pearl get the McDonald's coffee.

01:17:33.820 See how that works?

01:17:36.180 We're equal.

01:17:37.820 It's great.

01:17:40.880 Let her get the $2.50 coffee.

01:17:42.640 Maybe you can get one of the little croissants or something from the case.

01:17:49.040 No, no, no, because then the girl you're dating will never have the end of it.

01:17:53.140 Remember when I bought you that croissant from the coffee?

01:17:57.060 I do so much.

01:17:58.080 Wait, then it goes into, I do so much for you and you don't appreciate me.

01:18:02.960 I got you a croissant and a caramel latte.

01:18:06.580 That's hilarious.

01:18:08.920 How do you pronounce your name?

01:18:10.300 Is it Shiv?

01:18:11.240 Yeah, Shiv like a prison knife.

01:18:13.360 Okay, Shiv.

01:18:14.400 Yo, Shiv, it's actually funny because you said something about paying for the date.

01:18:18.920 I remember I was in Israel and I went on a date with a girl.

01:18:21.640 This is how she fumbled the rock.

01:18:23.900 And, you know, we went, had the date, whatever.

01:18:26.680 And then at the end of the date, the bill came.

01:18:28.820 So I was like, all right, bet.

01:18:29.980 She went to the bathroom conveniently.

01:18:32.680 But next, she went to the bathroom.

01:18:35.740 So I just paid the bill.

01:18:36.560 I wasn't even thinking about it, right?

01:18:37.860 So I just paid the bill, boom, boom, boom.

01:18:39.160 And then she, and you know, Israel is a very feminist country.

01:18:43.520 So she came back and she was like, what happened?

01:18:47.640 The bill got paid.

01:18:48.860 I was like, ah, yeah, I paid it.

01:18:50.180 She was like, did you wait for me to go to the bathroom to pay the bill?

01:18:54.540 You think I'm a woman and I can't?

01:18:56.460 I was like, oh, no.

01:18:57.200 Oh, my God, she turned it on you.

01:18:59.180 Yeah, yeah, yeah, watch this.

01:19:00.480 I said, no, no problem.

01:19:01.520 You could just pay me.

01:19:02.700 It's blank this much shekels.

01:19:04.160 I was like, you can give me the money.

01:19:05.580 And she was like, well, I mean, how do you know I didn't want to, like, I was like, no, I stand on it.

01:19:12.140 You said you want to pay.

01:19:13.460 You can give me half of the money.

01:19:14.740 Here you go.

01:19:15.880 And then she was like, oh, never mind.

01:19:19.540 I'm cool.

01:19:20.880 But watch this.

01:19:22.440 I never spoke to her again.

01:19:23.920 She was like, oh, I had a nice dinner.

01:19:25.440 I can't wait to see you next time.

01:19:26.660 I was like, negative.

01:19:27.360 There will be no next time.

01:19:28.540 I didn't tell her that.

01:19:29.500 I just kept it pushing.

01:19:30.780 So she fumbled that route.

01:19:32.360 But net net, I don't have a problem when people say they want to pay or whatever.

01:19:35.440 I mean, I've been in Holland.

01:19:36.700 Girls go Dutch.

01:19:37.960 I mean, girls be having guys on the back of their bicycle and giving them rides around.

01:19:42.660 So net net, it's a different culture.

01:19:44.000 But you've got to stand on it if you're going to be about it.

01:19:47.780 Well, it was the attitude, right?

01:19:50.660 It's the attitude.

01:19:51.800 Yeah.

01:19:52.200 I mean, that's wild to get gaslit for that.

01:19:55.020 That's so insane.

01:19:56.120 Yeah, right?

01:19:57.060 It's happened to me before.

01:19:58.520 You know, I've gone on a date with women.

01:20:00.800 I reached to pay, and they're like, oh, we're splitting this in half.

01:20:05.360 And I'm like, what?

01:20:06.680 And when that happens, I'm like, I mean, this must be over with.

01:20:11.480 You know, I must have said something or done something.

01:20:13.440 And that's usually what it is.

01:20:15.060 When a woman wants to split the bill, something happened on the date where it's going to end right there.

01:20:20.400 So that's my indicator that I said something or did something that she doesn't like, and that's it.

01:20:26.180 So, so wild.

01:20:28.320 So, but we're going to let Glenn is the last caller on the line.

01:20:36.280 So let's let Glenn in.

01:20:38.380 Then we'll literally have, hey, Glenn, are you there?

01:20:47.760 Uh-oh.

01:20:48.900 Glenn?

01:20:50.620 Glenn, are you there?

01:20:51.340 I see him, and he's behind.

01:20:53.960 That's quite the fit.

01:20:55.160 He passes the fit check.

01:20:58.140 Glenn, how are you?

01:21:01.860 I can't hear him.

01:21:03.520 Well.

01:21:05.140 He's so zen.

01:21:06.200 I got to keep my girl away from him.

01:21:07.600 He's going to.

01:21:09.460 Game is so next level.

01:21:11.280 I'm going to text him because he's.

01:21:13.380 Yo, I can hear you.

01:21:14.380 Oh, there.

01:21:14.900 There he is.

01:21:16.080 Let's go.

01:21:16.560 Glenn, how are you?

01:21:18.480 Doing well.

01:21:19.360 Doing well.

01:21:19.860 How are you guys doing?

01:21:21.080 I heard some crazy stories.

01:21:24.200 Yeah.

01:21:24.780 Tell me, how is, how is a bitch fumbled you?

01:21:30.880 And like.

01:21:33.220 Sorry.

01:21:34.080 A girl fumbled you.

01:21:35.540 It's hard.

01:21:35.740 It's hard to like, you know, to deal with this.

01:21:37.760 But, you know, they fumble when they just don't like catch the vibe right.

01:21:43.700 They don't.

01:21:44.160 They think that like they know.

01:21:46.120 And they're like to give you an attitude.

01:21:48.280 You're like, what are you doing?

01:21:49.560 What do you mean?

01:21:50.140 What am I doing?

01:21:51.100 First of all, right there.

01:21:52.160 That tone right there.

01:21:53.120 What do you mean?

01:21:54.280 What do you mean?

01:21:55.080 That right there is goodbye.

01:21:59.300 Goodbye.

01:22:01.440 You know, I just.

01:22:03.200 I don't.

01:22:03.840 I don't like attitude.

01:22:05.440 That's why I just don't like any black chicks.

01:22:07.640 I mean, it's just too much.

01:22:09.880 Man, after my own soul.

01:22:11.880 I'm getting off stream.

01:22:13.580 I'm just being honest.

01:22:16.460 It's like, you know, like.

01:22:17.320 Yeah, bro.

01:22:17.780 You know, you can't say nothing.

01:22:18.880 It's like, ah, get me out of here.

01:22:21.060 I'm just kidding.

01:22:22.140 Like, I have.

01:22:22.840 I have black siblings.

01:22:23.900 So, like, you know, like, I know.

01:22:25.160 Look.

01:22:26.300 Can't do it.

01:22:27.380 Just can't do it.

01:22:29.360 Just won't happen.

01:22:30.060 Doug and PA, I always say.

01:22:33.460 American black.

01:22:34.320 No one has worse women to choose from on the planet than American black men.

01:22:39.200 We have the worst women on the planet to choose from.

01:22:42.020 I say.

01:22:43.180 You could Thanos snap 80% of American black women away with the Infinity Gems.

01:22:48.660 And not only would no one care, but the world would be a better place.

01:22:52.740 Now, that's not Pearl saying that.

01:22:54.300 That's me.

01:22:55.000 That's Doug and PA saying that.

01:22:56.300 And I'll stand on that, too.

01:22:58.220 80% of them.

01:22:59.320 Boom.

01:22:59.880 Snack them away.

01:23:00.920 Let's see.

01:23:01.220 Like, I would say, like.

01:23:03.480 We could snap our fingers and get rid of 80% of the guys.

01:23:06.740 And, you know.

01:23:07.720 And this is just men in general.

01:23:10.300 Like.

01:23:11.080 Because they don't want to level up.

01:23:13.440 I've come to the conclusion that guys are just as bad as women.

01:23:17.180 If not worse.

01:23:18.040 Because they have every opportunity to be the solution.

01:23:22.460 And they want to remain the problem.

01:23:24.180 See, the only reason why I disagree is because men do try to level up.

01:23:29.360 And then there's no reward.

01:23:30.760 Right?

01:23:31.040 Because it's like.

01:23:32.140 Even if you.

01:23:33.320 Yeah, you might get women.

01:23:34.580 But you're still dealing with girls with attitude on a date.

01:23:37.520 Right?

01:23:37.780 I still deal with.

01:23:38.720 No.

01:23:39.100 No, I don't.

01:23:39.720 Actually.

01:23:42.240 I mean, I really don't.

01:23:43.880 Because.

01:23:44.640 Well, I guess they're gone.

01:23:45.740 Right?

01:23:46.040 But, like.

01:23:46.460 I think.

01:23:47.080 I think for a lot of guys, they just feel discouraged.

01:23:48.860 Because, like.

01:23:50.060 They look.

01:23:50.320 Well, I think it's the wrong reason.

01:23:51.980 When you level up.

01:23:52.860 Like.

01:23:53.240 What are you leveling up for?

01:23:54.420 Are you leveling up for abundance in all areas of your life?

01:23:58.560 Or are you leveling up because you wanted to meet a certain type of woman?

01:24:02.820 Like.

01:24:03.080 A woman is supposed to be the byproduct of your success.

01:24:05.160 Not the end goal of your efforts.

01:24:07.740 I think what Shift is talking about is just the average guy.

01:24:13.080 Look.

01:24:14.400 Like the grandpa.

01:24:15.860 Right?

01:24:16.060 Like.

01:24:16.280 Our grandpas were like a UPS driver.

01:24:18.980 And they had a great wife.

01:24:20.680 Right?

01:24:21.000 They weren't leveling up.

01:24:22.180 Our grandpas were like mediocre as fuck.

01:24:23.880 But they had a great wife.

01:24:24.700 And they raised a family.

01:24:26.060 There was nothing exceptional.

01:24:27.880 Yeah.

01:24:28.200 About it.

01:24:28.760 Yeah.

01:24:29.400 And that's the thing with this whole.

01:24:30.640 Oh, yeah.

01:24:30.940 You have to level up and be high value.

01:24:32.700 I agree with that 100%.

01:24:34.580 But you also have to factor in that 50% of guys are going to be average.

01:24:39.540 And like Shift said.

01:24:41.740 They used to be able to meet a decent woman and have a decent life.

01:24:44.820 We can't just factor out the average guy.

01:24:47.460 When did they used to meet a decent woman?

01:24:49.720 Do you know what I think?

01:24:51.140 When did you say?

01:24:52.360 Sorry.

01:24:53.100 Yeah.

01:24:53.380 When was there a time when they can meet a decent woman?

01:24:56.860 Because even King Solomon said, look.

01:24:59.000 I searched for righteous men.

01:25:01.720 And I found one out of 10,000.

01:25:03.660 And I couldn't find one righteous woman.

01:25:06.900 So, I mean, back in the biblical days, these women were bad.

01:25:10.560 So, when was the time where you could find a decent woman?

01:25:13.960 They just need to be at least quiet in the household, right?

01:25:16.780 Like, they might be loud and about.

01:25:18.280 Or not fat.

01:25:20.600 Yeah.

01:25:21.060 They weren't fat.

01:25:22.460 And at least they would play the role.

01:25:24.820 Like, they would at least pretend to be obedient enough.

01:25:28.780 Do you know what I think it is?

01:25:30.000 I don't think men are, like, I don't think it's the leveling up, though.

01:25:33.600 Because women will have sex with guys with literally nothing.

01:25:36.860 Like, mattress on the floor, nothing.

01:25:38.980 Men are just addicted to simping.

01:25:40.800 That's what I really think it is.

01:25:42.200 There we go.

01:25:42.760 That's more of the disheartening.

01:25:44.620 That's exactly what it is.

01:25:45.720 It's like, it's like, I did a, I did a.

01:25:48.600 Women to appeal to them.

01:25:50.220 Yeah.

01:25:50.540 Like, what, what, that's the problem.

01:25:52.160 Guys are always trying to appeal to women.

01:25:53.920 Like, hey, girl.

01:25:54.760 Hey, look at me.

01:25:56.120 And instead of, like, having the girl appeal to you, try to get your attention.

01:26:01.700 Nah.

01:26:02.700 Yeah.

01:26:03.220 I mean, I did a reaction at the beginning of the show.

01:26:07.240 So, and, it's like these, I forgot where I was going with that.

01:26:13.340 Sorry.

01:26:13.760 But the, it's more just, like, telling, oh, it was, okay.

01:26:19.920 I was talking about in the beginning of the show how women don't want to be mothers at all.

01:26:24.260 And simps, it's like telling them that, they'll just say, oh, the women are brainwashed.

01:26:28.840 They're this, they're that.

01:26:29.860 By feminism.

01:26:30.600 Yeah, yeah, and it's, men are, like, addicted to thinking highly of women.

01:26:36.700 That's almost.

01:26:37.660 No, no, no, Pearl.

01:26:38.920 Pearl, what's his name?

01:26:40.540 Psych Hacks.

01:26:41.080 The guy from Psych Hacks just did a video about it.

01:26:42.800 Oh, yeah, yeah.

01:26:43.660 Men, men, men are stuck in, yeah, exactly, a rioterabam.

01:26:47.220 He says men are stuck in two conundrums.

01:26:49.640 They want to be sacrificial lambs for women, and that's the honorable thing, to die for a woman.

01:26:54.600 So, they want to be a, a work mule and a war horse.

01:26:58.080 Yes, or they're on the other side.

01:27:01.080 They're mad that there's not a woman available to serve and die for.

01:27:05.940 So, they're mad about the marketplace not providing them this stock factory-issued woman and say, hey, where's my girl?

01:27:13.480 I want to sacrifice and lay on my sword for her.

01:27:16.040 And that's the only conundrum.

01:27:17.480 They're propagandized, man.

01:27:19.140 They're conditioned to do everything for women and seek validation from them to the highest extent.

01:27:24.180 And it even goes all the way back to their mother.

01:27:26.320 Like, their mother still got them underneath their damn thumb.

01:27:29.540 Oh, that's so true.

01:27:31.520 Oh, my gosh, so many men.

01:27:32.660 Watch this.

01:27:33.100 It's the mother.

01:27:33.780 It's the mother who does the indoctrination.

01:27:36.140 Yeah.

01:27:36.580 The mother's the one who indoctrinates.

01:27:38.520 The mother don't tell her daughter, hey, you better suck his dick and you better do right by your husband.

01:27:43.620 She don't say that.

01:27:44.720 But for the son, don't hit your sister.

01:27:46.780 Take out the trash.

01:27:47.840 Open the girl's door.

01:27:48.960 Get her a plate.

01:27:50.220 You're a butler.

01:27:50.960 You're conditioned to be a butler from the day that you were born as a man.

01:27:55.560 And you never leave that.

01:27:56.380 And it's worse.

01:27:57.040 You see that in.

01:28:00.140 You got to be a good servant leader.

01:28:02.520 Oh, God.

01:28:03.600 The church guys do it the worst.

01:28:06.020 Oh, yeah.

01:28:06.480 Oh, that's impossible.

01:28:08.740 Telling a Christian man to stop simping.

01:28:11.060 It's like he's got to get destroyed by a woman probably three times before he might stop because those guys are like, like, it's like the wife will be currently actively ruining his life and destroying him.

01:28:29.040 And he will still argue with me that I'm a doomer and not all women are like that.

01:28:33.620 And I'm like, your wife.

01:28:34.540 OK.

01:28:35.760 All right.

01:28:36.900 Keep trying.

01:28:37.840 The way I look at it, it's like it's like if they if if these idiots would just read their Bible, they will know that the Bible clearly states that women were men were not made from women, but women were made for men.

01:28:49.020 These are made for you.

01:28:51.040 Why are you appealing to them?

01:28:52.560 It's true because because most of the holy scriptures, the Koran, the Bible are some of the most red pill books there ever were.

01:29:03.120 But somehow it got twisted.

01:29:04.580 You have guys simping in the church while their wife is using the scriptures against them.

01:29:11.060 It's insane.

01:29:13.240 Yeah, I love it.

01:29:14.360 You got to be a good servant leader.

01:29:16.260 I'm just to the point where when simps get cheated on, I don't feel bad at all.

01:29:21.900 I almost encourage I'm like, maybe more men should be side dudes so they'll learn a lesson.

01:29:27.620 Do you know what I mean?

01:29:28.200 I'm like, I'm like, I'm just a dude business.

01:29:32.240 Ladies, I will.

01:29:35.020 Listen, I do know what?

01:29:36.500 Maybe maybe women should cheat more because these guys just won't learn their lesson.

01:29:40.980 It's like the woman that keeps going back to like the pookie.

01:29:44.920 It's you just don't feel bad.

01:29:47.120 You're like, oh, get beat up.

01:29:48.240 I don't care.

01:29:49.360 Like, I don't.

01:29:51.360 Go ahead.

01:29:52.820 No, and it goes back to why I think they're like telling guys to level up.

01:29:56.840 It's like if a simp is like it's an operating system.

01:29:59.480 It's a way of thinking.

01:30:00.980 I mean, look at some of these tech guys are worth $100 billion and there's simps, too.

01:30:05.580 You know, so it's not it's not it.

01:30:07.460 And they're leveled up.

01:30:08.420 Jeff Bezos.

01:30:08.960 Yeah.

01:30:09.520 Right.

01:30:09.800 Like you could you could argue like I know jack guys who are tall, who are rich, who are charismatic,

01:30:14.580 but they have that because women are always you know, women are always right mentality and women can do no wrong.

01:30:21.280 And it's like they're cooked.

01:30:22.280 But that's that's where they're lazy.

01:30:24.720 That's where they're that's where they're lazy, though.

01:30:27.220 It's because they don't want to do the work to overcome the mentality.

01:30:30.700 It's not the gym.

01:30:32.040 It's I mean, there's fat guys that get women like I've seen obese.

01:30:36.120 I completely agree.

01:30:37.080 Yeah.

01:30:37.360 Like, I mean, you see that I was saying earlier.

01:30:40.020 Yeah.

01:30:40.200 Sean was saying earlier.

01:30:40.980 Guys are programmed this way.

01:30:42.260 And what it's going to take is to deprogram that.

01:30:45.300 And what guys have been programmed as to is they've been programmed to not respect themselves.

01:30:50.960 OK, they have been conditioned to not respect themselves, that their needs, their desires are less than hers.

01:30:58.240 And until you say, how can you expect her to respect you if you don't even respect you?

01:31:03.160 But it's it's the guys.

01:31:06.280 Yeah, it's the guy's responsibility once you're 18.

01:31:08.920 It's the same way it's like a woman's responsibility to know when a guy's using her for sex.

01:31:14.140 I mean, it's a guy's responsibility.

01:31:16.440 I let them know from the beginning.

01:31:18.340 You're right.

01:31:21.120 Women, the guys are only using her for sex.

01:31:23.620 Like, look, I'm just here to to do things.

01:31:28.580 Yeah.

01:31:29.400 And I think the simpian is because we get conditioned.

01:31:32.320 Because, like, we all have experiences growing up where we like where a woman beat.

01:31:38.040 Like, I remember in school, this girl, this was when I was in fifth grade.

01:31:42.480 This like one of my female classmates, she like hit me across the face.

01:31:46.080 So I punch her back and I got and I got suspended from school.

01:31:51.000 Right.

01:31:51.260 Oh, wow.

01:31:52.100 So that like created the simp thing in my childhood.

01:31:54.940 Because, like, any time I went against a woman, even though I was clearly right, I would lose every freaking time.

01:32:00.600 Group project.

01:32:01.400 I did all the work.

01:32:02.200 Girl would take all the credit.

01:32:03.680 They would assume she did.

01:32:04.860 Right.

01:32:05.000 Like, oh, she's super smart.

01:32:06.720 They're not.

01:32:07.520 Like, you know, that's why they don't invent anything.

01:32:09.220 So, like, it was it was just very frustrating growing up.

01:32:11.540 And then also when you hire employees, you get accused of being, like, sexist or whatever.

01:32:17.140 And you're too afraid of a lawsuit.

01:32:18.720 I'm so afraid of getting sued with my employees that I'll just be like, yeah, I was wrong, even though I know I was right.

01:32:23.600 I'm like, I'll just take the hell.

01:32:25.240 So you just get conditioned by submission because the cost is so high for it.

01:32:28.720 Do you guys think that, like, guys are so they're needy?

01:32:34.740 They feel like they need this external validation of a woman to satisfy them, that they're not they're not at peace or content with their own solitude?

01:32:44.640 Because, yeah, my solitude, like I will take my solitude over your vagina sometimes.

01:32:50.080 Just I'm just telling you, it's just my piece is perfect.

01:32:54.720 I think all the guys in the Zoom could attest to that.

01:32:56.640 Right.

01:32:56.780 I think I think Sean, Doug, you, Glenn, like, we're all like, yeah, I've turned down I've turned down pussy because, dude, I just like I've like figured out to be happy.

01:33:06.980 You know, I have enough things in my life now to be happy with.

01:33:09.420 Right.

01:33:10.240 I think for guys, though, it's a hard journey because some guys, they live such stressful lives that that's the only thing that's keeping them through is like body, you know, for some it's sad for a lot of guys.

01:33:21.200 And I like especially in my early 20s, I know what it's like where I was working 80, 100 hours a week.

01:33:25.700 You're just like, I just want someone to give a shit about how hard my life.

01:33:28.700 I think it's also it's how difficult it is to replace the girl for a lot of guys.

01:33:34.160 I could be a thing.

01:33:35.780 Yeah.

01:33:36.420 That's a scarcity mentality, though.

01:33:38.420 That's like not.

01:33:39.240 I think I think some guys don't like if you've seen a Chad's phone, you can't unsee it.

01:33:47.920 And I think a lot of like and but I'll tell guys these stories that maybe don't get like laid as much and they don't think it's possible.

01:33:54.820 Like, I don't I think a lot of guys don't think it's possible to go from like not getting a lot of women to getting a ton to getting a lot.

01:34:01.440 Yeah, because most people make it out like you didn't get girls in the playground in high school, so you'll never get them in the future.

01:34:07.360 And that's just stupid.

01:34:08.800 I would say because I would say let me tell you, go ahead, go ahead.

01:34:11.600 I'll tell you, as I keep saying it.

01:34:16.080 State don't have any kids and get a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, highly valued education and don't get married.

01:34:23.900 Keep your head down.

01:34:24.620 Once you hit hit 35, the whole world changes, man.

01:34:27.420 I don't know what it is about that 35.

01:34:29.800 It really does.

01:34:31.080 It really does.

01:34:31.780 I don't know what 30.

01:34:33.160 I'm excited.

01:34:34.040 Oh, bro.

01:34:34.680 Shiv, you got to just wait, bro.

01:34:37.600 I'm talking.

01:34:38.380 Well, wait, hold on.

01:34:39.780 It's crazy when you're in your 20s.

01:34:41.620 Like you look at everybody else and you're like, oh, damn.

01:34:44.440 Like, you know, they got the girls.

01:34:45.900 Oh, damn.

01:34:46.360 Like, you know, like and you don't even know where they're at really in life.

01:34:50.780 They could be focused on that and they don't have what you have.

01:34:53.800 You know, they could be given a mirage and, you know, you actually are leveled up because, like, once you hit mid 30s, I'm telling you, it's like all of a sudden vagina starts falling from the sky.

01:35:05.320 It really does.

01:35:06.560 You don't have to do it.

01:35:07.740 All you have to do is have some decent social skills and know when and where to show up and just boom.

01:35:15.260 Yeah.

01:35:16.680 Look, I'm going to say this, though.

01:35:19.240 That's a kicker.

01:35:20.280 All right.

01:35:20.540 I'm there already.

01:35:22.000 All right.

01:35:22.320 Six, six, six and all that other BS.

01:35:24.200 But what I would say, guys, you still have to have that love for your own life because up here it's the same problems.

01:35:31.100 I tell you what, even though I'm the guy, girls don't like that all the time.

01:35:35.960 Girls change.

01:35:36.840 They want the they want the beta for certain particular things.

01:35:40.580 Right.

01:35:41.180 They don't want no alpha to lead them and control the family and tell them what to do.

01:35:45.260 And it's 10 times smarter than them.

01:35:47.400 They'd be like, hey, look, I just want a guy who will deal with my and no matter how ugly and fat I get, he's going to keep me.

01:35:53.540 And so they're going to get that type of guy.

01:35:55.700 So, again, it's not like once you get up here.

01:35:58.260 Oh, man, if you love your own life and you put yourself first and you do the work, then life becomes amazing.

01:36:04.000 It was like Glenn saying you got to love your life.

01:36:06.940 Number one, number first, it doesn't come out of another person.

01:36:10.040 It's not external.

01:36:11.480 Your mama loved you.

01:36:12.480 That's the only woman that's going to love you like that.

01:36:15.040 Get over it.

01:36:15.580 And she may not even love you.

01:36:16.340 Yeah, I was like, that's like 50-50.

01:36:19.060 I gave him that.

01:36:20.580 I gave him that, Glenn, because your mom's going to actually, you know, set you up to get slaughtered, too.

01:36:25.220 You have better odds your mama loving you the way you want to be loved than a woman loving you.

01:36:30.860 I'm going to bounce off what Sean said real fast.

01:36:34.280 If you, the modern woman's playbook, they want to find a guy like Sean said who never puts his, they want to find an ambitious, accomplished man, get with him, and then have him set his ambitions and dreams and desires aside to help her achieve her own selfish goals.

01:36:56.340 Well, that's really what it is.

01:36:58.100 That is a modern movie playbook.

01:36:59.560 They want your ambitions to be able to fuel her endgame, her end goal.

01:37:06.220 100% true.

01:37:07.900 Like, they want you to be successful, but for her.

01:37:12.780 Like, she needs to reap the rewards of your success.

01:37:15.060 If your success is not, you know, directed at her, well, then now you're selfish.

01:37:21.340 Yep.

01:37:21.700 You know.

01:37:22.380 Remember, when men win, everyone wins.

01:37:25.480 When women win, they win for themselves.

01:37:29.040 When women win, nobody wins because they end up sabotaging their own success in the long run.

01:37:35.440 Yeah, that's true.

01:37:36.360 You know, but it just comes back down to, it really just comes back down to the guy being able to say, like, you know, I don't, I'm good with you and I'm good without you.

01:37:48.560 You know, if you can't, if you can't get to that point, then you've already given her all the pieces that she needs to play you because she's going to be, now she has the leverage.

01:37:59.400 Do you, sometimes I feel, though, the guys that were late, like, they were late to the game, they, wait, can you not hear me?

01:38:06.540 No, I can hear you.

01:38:07.340 You're good.

01:38:07.740 Go ahead.

01:38:08.500 Yeah.

01:38:09.160 Sometimes I feel like the guys who are late to the game, though, like, they didn't get the easy, you know, girlfriend or pussy in high school.

01:38:14.880 Sometimes I feel those are the guys who actually get red-pilled and then when they get to 30, it's like, oh, now they have real control over women.

01:38:22.040 Because some, I feel like sometimes the biggest simps are the ones that just get a girlfriend and they just kind of, they don't see, they just don't really realize.

01:38:29.400 That she's domineering and ruining their life.

01:38:32.680 At least I've seen that with some of my friends where they just, like, marry their high school sweetheart.

01:38:36.640 But then I used to go in my early 20s, like, what the fuck?

01:38:40.600 Like, why, like, he's such a loser and she's, like, pretty.

01:38:43.700 But then you, like, see their dynamics and she's, like, just so annoying.

01:38:48.680 So, for the guys who, like, if you weren't, like, just naturally good with women, the consolation prize is when you get really good as you get older, you're just, for me now, it's, like, I so far surpass all the guys who got married at 25.

01:39:04.020 Like, it's on a whole other level, right?

01:39:05.840 So, because I know what the fuck I'm doing.

01:39:07.880 Here's the other thing, like, guys have been, like, that struggled, like, when they're younger years.

01:39:12.600 Because most guys struggled in their younger years.

01:39:14.860 Let's just be honest.

01:39:15.820 None of us were batting 1,000 right out the gate.

01:39:18.700 It's the West, man, of course.

01:39:20.520 You know, but a lot of them have this, like, mentality, like, they get this bitterness.

01:39:24.800 So, that once they actually get a girl, they're, like, they have to be domineering.

01:39:30.220 Like, just, you don't want to control them.

01:39:33.740 You have to understand that the only person you're in control of is you.

01:39:37.280 And you can control who you let in your life and who you let out your life.

01:39:41.320 And trying to appeal to them, trying to, like, teach.

01:39:44.960 I don't have time to teach you.

01:39:47.040 Look, you either shape up or ship out.

01:39:49.260 I have a replacement here in about four hours.

01:39:51.860 Okay?

01:39:52.180 Like, that's the mentality you have to have.

01:39:55.640 It's not like, hey, I'm not going to.

01:39:56.980 There's no negotiations.

01:39:58.180 You don't negotiate with terrorists.

01:40:02.440 I said that to someone about a relative recently.

01:40:06.540 And they thought I was over-exaggerating.

01:40:08.640 And honestly, if you just do the opposite.

01:40:10.880 Yeah, go ahead.

01:40:12.160 No, no, I wanted to say this on what Glenn just said.

01:40:14.560 I always say this from the story.

01:40:16.040 Guys listen to, what is it, Adam and Eve, right?

01:40:19.040 And they take away the wrong story.

01:40:20.420 And they be like, oh, man, he didn't game.

01:40:22.400 Eve, he didn't warn her.

01:40:23.760 It's not about that.

01:40:24.620 Look, God made them both and told them what they were supposed to do.

01:40:27.500 Right?

01:40:28.340 Now, Eve still decided to do what she did, was listen to the serpent.

01:40:33.000 Right?

01:40:33.480 Now, remember, this is the girl made by God.

01:40:37.780 He made her.

01:40:38.780 He crafted her.

01:40:39.800 This is the ultimate girl.

01:40:41.560 This is the ultimate trad woman.

01:40:43.700 God made it with her own hands.

01:40:44.560 Like, she had the perfect double Ds and everything.

01:40:47.200 All that.

01:40:48.540 And she had.

01:40:49.000 All covered by leaves.

01:40:51.040 No leaves.

01:40:51.900 No leaves.

01:40:52.520 This is just all.

01:40:53.120 She's naked all the time.

01:40:55.760 Adam already had abundance.

01:40:57.940 So there was no bags that she needed.

01:41:00.040 No nothing.

01:41:00.800 Nothing.

01:41:01.080 Right?

01:41:01.540 And then a ninja slithering on his back was able to spit game in Eve's ear.

01:41:06.280 Well, he had legs at the time.

01:41:08.280 Okay.

01:41:08.820 All right.

01:41:08.980 He had some legs.

01:41:10.140 He had some legs.

01:41:11.160 Little legs.

01:41:11.720 But, you know, I got you.

01:41:12.940 And he was able to convince her to do something else that she wasn't supposed to do.

01:41:18.340 Right?

01:41:19.060 Yeah.

01:41:19.380 Now, this is the problem.

01:41:20.980 When God came, he said, what happened?

01:41:23.300 Eve blamed the snake.

01:41:26.080 And Adam blamed Eve.

01:41:27.240 And Adam blamed Eve.

01:41:28.560 The moral of the story is self-agency.

01:41:31.500 You all had choices.

01:41:33.400 He couldn't control what Eve did.

01:41:35.740 But he could have controlled.

01:41:36.840 Adam could have did this.

01:41:38.480 Hey, God.

01:41:39.580 He's like, hey, where's Eve at?

01:41:40.740 He's like, oh, I kicked her out.

01:41:42.240 She bit from the tree.

01:41:43.460 She wasn't supposed to.

01:41:44.760 You said I ruled this world.

01:41:46.340 So I punished her and kicked her out.

01:41:48.560 He got to go.

01:41:49.960 I need you to make me another one that listens.

01:41:51.580 God would have been like, hey, man, that's cool.

01:41:53.900 Let's have a beer.

01:41:54.660 Let's chill.

01:41:55.780 But he didn't do it.

01:41:57.420 So kind of like what Glenn was saying.

01:41:59.020 But what was Adam's sin, though?

01:42:00.180 It's all self-agency.

01:42:01.500 His sin was.

01:42:02.120 What was Adam's sin?

01:42:03.960 Because I love it.

01:42:04.940 If you read it right, he said, God said, because you listen to the words of your wife.

01:42:10.160 Men, do not listen to your women.

01:42:12.120 Okay?

01:42:12.380 Your women will set you up for failure.

01:42:14.580 Okay?

01:42:14.800 God says it in the Bible because you listen to the words of your wife.

01:42:18.560 But also, too, just have self-agency.

01:42:21.240 I gave you guys freedom of choice.

01:42:22.960 And you both passed the buck.

01:42:24.300 Y'all didn't have accountability.

01:42:25.920 Like I said, Eve blamed the snake.

01:42:27.660 And then he blamed Eve.

01:42:29.560 And the simple blame feminism.

01:42:32.860 And the simple.

01:42:33.620 Hey, wait.

01:42:34.100 Hold on.

01:42:34.900 Hold on.

01:42:35.660 And the Trag Cons will blame feminism.

01:42:38.900 Yeah.

01:42:39.720 Oh, no, no, no.

01:42:40.360 The Trag Cons are feminists.

01:42:42.940 I just can't take another women are brainwashed argument.

01:42:47.380 I'm like, okay.

01:42:48.360 She was brainwashed into throwing it back for Chad, Tyrone, Tyrese, Alex, John.

01:42:59.560 Yeah.

01:43:00.320 Gavin, the starving musician.

01:43:02.900 Doug.

01:43:03.580 You know?

01:43:04.280 Like, you know, it's funny.

01:43:08.800 Yes.

01:43:09.940 I have stolen a few Chad's girls, you know.

01:43:12.040 That's for sure.

01:43:13.520 I just can't take it.

01:43:15.860 The funny thing is, is like, you know, guys always are trying to give girls a way out.

01:43:22.180 And that's the other problem is, like, men, I don't think guys actually really respect women enough.

01:43:27.200 Like, we don't respect them enough to let them face the consequences of their actions.

01:43:32.860 There's always going to be a captain save a hoe.

01:43:35.460 All right?

01:43:36.820 And I have, like, a shirt.

01:43:38.520 And they deserve to suffer, to be honest.

01:43:40.360 I don't save hoes.

01:43:41.400 I'm not that heroic.

01:43:42.940 You know what I'm saying?

01:43:43.700 Like, guys are trying to be heroic.

01:43:46.540 And they deserve to suffer, if I'm being honest.

01:43:49.480 Like, the guys that do it.

01:43:50.900 I mean, what do you expect?

01:43:52.980 Pearl, you've been interviewing guys too long.

01:43:55.180 You're like, man, let them suffer.

01:43:56.600 I'm tired of this.

01:43:59.340 I am.

01:44:00.040 I used to be like, oh, it's terrible.

01:44:02.900 And I'm like, well, how did you not see that coming?

01:44:07.100 I mean, think about this.

01:44:08.860 Like, you look at the smush-mortion issue, right?

01:44:13.000 Let them kill their kids.

01:44:14.480 I don't care anymore.

01:44:15.960 I don't care.

01:44:16.240 Let them do it.

01:44:16.920 Oh, my gosh.

01:44:17.580 You can have the babies.

01:44:19.980 Like, no.

01:44:21.960 Oh.

01:44:22.420 I don't think so.

01:44:22.940 Oh, those are the worst ones.

01:44:24.260 Those stupid women that get on the stage and say they regret their abortion.

01:44:30.040 And I would just think that's so convenient that you regret it now after the kid is dead

01:44:35.120 by the guy you didn't want to be the dad.

01:44:37.180 That's so convenient that after.

01:44:40.320 Why don't you turn yourself into jail?

01:44:43.000 Go to jail.

01:44:43.680 I was going to say, would you go to prison?

01:44:45.260 Do you regret it enough to, you know.

01:44:47.720 Surf time.

01:44:48.260 Say that you committed murder?

01:44:49.900 No.

01:44:50.660 No.

01:44:50.960 You just say, oh, the culture.

01:44:53.720 And then they blame it on the guy.

01:44:55.220 Oh, he didn't want to be a dad.

01:44:57.600 Then why don't you let him nut in you?

01:44:59.280 Like, come on.

01:45:00.580 Get.

01:45:01.820 That was your fault.

01:45:02.940 Take that L.

01:45:04.140 You know what I mean?

01:45:04.760 Just eat the L.

01:45:05.780 Give them the.

01:45:06.440 Eat the L.

01:45:07.460 Take it.

01:45:07.800 The opportunity to face that responsibility.

01:45:09.680 We won't give them the consequence.

01:45:10.760 But I'm just going to counter this by saying life is never going to be fair for men ever.

01:45:18.760 We all know this, guys.

01:45:20.460 But so women fighting for feminism inequality is in fighting for their lives to be just as

01:45:27.140 unfair for them as it is for men.

01:45:29.140 And you're starting to see it more.

01:45:30.640 Guys, I watch body cam footage a lot because it's so entertaining.

01:45:35.200 And you're seeing police karate chopping and body slamming women now and locking them up

01:45:39.900 and stuff.

01:45:40.160 We should make a show on that, Doug, MPA.

01:45:42.920 Yeah.

01:45:43.420 Yeah.

01:45:43.820 I'm telling you.

01:45:44.560 Just review body cam footage.

01:45:45.980 There's some good stuff.

01:45:46.660 All these women should shoplifting.

01:45:48.760 The rate of violence and crime of women getting arrested for is, like, skyrocketing.

01:45:55.540 You know what I'm saying?

01:45:56.380 So, yeah.

01:45:57.000 I'm telling you.

01:45:57.760 Women are just advocating for their lives to be just as unfair as it is for men.

01:46:03.040 And I don't know why they want to do that.

01:46:04.420 Because being a man is tough.

01:46:05.780 And they're going to find out.

01:46:07.860 You know what's funny, Doug?

01:46:08.720 It's like, you know, like, I had this girl I was dating.

01:46:13.340 And I always tell her, like, I'll give her grace.

01:46:15.960 Give her grace.

01:46:16.680 You know, like, all right, you know, I'm not really dealing with this.

01:46:18.580 I ain't feeling this.

01:46:19.460 I don't like this, you know, behavior or whatever.

01:46:21.860 And she never thought there would ever be a consequence until the day, like, she realized

01:46:26.020 that her key didn't work no more.

01:46:28.380 She couldn't get in.

01:46:29.860 And all her shit was outside.

01:46:32.180 And she was like, what happened?

01:46:33.840 She just came home.

01:46:37.040 You didn't want to learn.

01:46:41.080 What was the biggest consequence that you ever had to have?

01:46:47.300 What's the biggest consequence a girl ever had to face in dating where you're like, I

01:46:50.940 have to let this girl suffer a piece of what she did?

01:46:53.120 Well, I just, I break up pretty easily.

01:46:55.460 Like, I don't.

01:46:56.860 So that's kind of my thing.

01:46:59.040 Like, I don't let it go to.

01:47:00.620 And I, but I always do it very cordial.

01:47:02.860 Because once again, I have a ghost.

01:47:04.680 No, no ghosting.

01:47:06.840 Don't get PA's a fan of you.

01:47:08.000 You know, I usually, I usually try to act like I'm going through something.

01:47:11.860 I'm like, I'm not.

01:47:14.300 Family thing and business.

01:47:16.240 I'm just really going through a lot.

01:47:17.820 And I, you know, you, I'll just gaslight them.

01:47:20.660 I'll just do what women do back.

01:47:21.780 I have too much to lose.

01:47:23.640 How many?

01:47:23.960 How many times?

01:47:25.800 I tell them straight up.

01:47:26.780 It's, it's not me.

01:47:28.180 It's you actually.

01:47:30.000 It's, it's not, it's not, you know, it's a you problem.

01:47:33.020 I'm leaving you.

01:47:34.000 It's a you thing.

01:47:35.000 You the problem.

01:47:35.760 I'll let you know.

01:47:36.720 I would say.

01:47:37.260 How many various forms of cancer have you had, Shiv?

01:47:44.160 Yeah, Shiv, what do you mean?

01:47:45.560 She might want to stay.

01:47:46.380 Oh, you're dying.

01:47:47.020 Let me blow you every day.

01:47:48.180 No, no.

01:47:49.620 Shiv.

01:47:50.300 The cancer spreads.

01:47:51.420 I'll nurse you back to hell, Shiv.

01:47:53.340 Shiv, when you say that, what do you actually mean?

01:47:57.480 Oh, get the fuck out.

01:47:59.460 Get the fuck out.

01:48:00.400 That's what I mean.

01:48:03.120 Like, dude, I just, I just, I just don't want them to do something on the way out.

01:48:07.800 Right?

01:48:08.300 So that's my thing.

01:48:09.940 And dude, like I've had, I've had.

01:48:11.620 Aftercare is important, but that's after you, you, you give it to them, you know, like.

01:48:17.200 No, because it extends the breakup too.

01:48:19.680 It extends the breakup too.

01:48:20.640 I do breakups.

01:48:22.100 It's like, I fire people.

01:48:23.220 Like, you know what?

01:48:24.440 It just.

01:48:25.180 Yeah.

01:48:25.380 Can you guys, can you guys, um, dump me on stream?

01:48:28.200 I want to see how you guys would do it.

01:48:30.920 Can I, can I get like you guys is dumping speeches?

01:48:33.400 You gotta give us a scenario.

01:48:35.300 You gotta give us a scenario of how, why are we dumping?

01:48:38.520 Okay.

01:48:38.880 So the scenario is, it's just not like, um, I don't know.

01:48:44.760 What's the, not cheating, but you're just, she's just not putting out.

01:48:48.300 No, no.

01:48:49.040 Putting out, not cheating, but you're just like over it.

01:48:51.560 It's who I am as a person.

01:48:53.040 Go ahead.

01:48:53.740 How about this?

01:48:54.720 How about this?

01:48:56.100 She wants, she's spending too much time at your house.

01:49:00.800 And she doesn't like your, she's putting too much time at your house and she doesn't like

01:49:05.220 your interests.

01:49:05.740 So she's starting to put herself at odds with your, with your business time and your hobbies.

01:49:12.520 How about that?

01:49:13.360 Okay.

01:49:13.640 Yeah.

01:49:13.840 Let's do it.

01:49:14.920 Shiv, you want to go, Shiv, you want to go first?

01:49:17.880 Yeah.

01:49:18.300 So for me, I, I just don't give women reasons.

01:49:20.180 I just break up with them.

01:49:21.240 So I just be like, Hey, like I found out like my grandma's really sick and like, I might

01:49:25.980 have to go to India for four months.

01:49:28.940 Oh, don't worry.

01:49:29.700 Wait, wait, but, but I'll wait for you.

01:49:31.820 I'll wait for you.

01:49:33.240 No, you don't understand.

01:49:34.720 Like you deserve so much better.

01:49:36.940 I don't, you're the, no, you're the, you're the one for me.

01:49:39.500 Don't worry.

01:49:39.880 I'll be there for you.

01:49:42.400 Girl, I'm gay.

01:49:43.680 I'm gay.

01:49:45.800 Get the fuck out.

01:49:47.460 I'm having, I didn't, I didn't, I didn't, I didn't.

01:49:51.400 I'm asexual.

01:49:52.680 I identify as a girl.

01:49:55.900 That's okay.

01:49:57.440 Oh, okay.

01:50:00.000 Then can we just be, can we just be friends?

01:50:02.340 And still hang out?

01:50:05.380 It's against my religion.

01:50:06.660 I changed.

01:50:07.520 I'm a Scientologist now.

01:50:09.820 Okay.

01:50:10.700 Scientologist.

01:50:11.600 All right, Glenn, you're next.

01:50:13.680 Dump me.

01:50:14.140 I'm ready.

01:50:15.140 I'd be like, let's say, I want to say that once again, she, she's, she insists on coming

01:50:20.840 to your house, so you, you haven't had alone time in like a month, a month and a half, because

01:50:25.900 she wants to spend every waking second with you.

01:50:28.400 And when she comes over, she doesn't like you on your computer.

01:50:31.820 She doesn't like you watching football.

01:50:34.080 I want to do something, Glenn.

01:50:35.880 Yeah.

01:50:36.380 What do you want to do?

01:50:37.440 And then you're naming things off.

01:50:38.540 And so I don't want to do that.

01:50:39.440 Why do we have to do what you want to do?

01:50:41.880 Okay.

01:50:42.520 How would you break up?

01:50:43.460 Come here.

01:50:43.760 Come here.

01:50:43.980 Let me show you something.

01:50:44.700 I'm going to show you something in the bedroom.

01:50:46.480 Oh, wow.

01:50:46.980 I'm excited.

01:50:48.540 Do you see what's next to the bed?

01:50:51.400 Is that one night stand?

01:50:54.580 Yeah.

01:50:54.980 You are supposed to be just like that one night stand.

01:50:58.900 Okay.

01:50:59.520 Okay.

01:50:59.780 But it worked out.

01:51:00.740 I'm so happy.

01:51:02.360 Yeah.

01:51:02.940 So one night stand, you have turned into a 30 day stand and, um, yeah, but it's not going

01:51:10.840 to work out.

01:51:11.420 Like it's just, it's just doesn't work.

01:51:13.800 But why?

01:51:15.480 Um, I fucked your sister.

01:51:20.900 She's 15.

01:51:25.240 I don't know what to tell you.

01:51:26.920 I'm just kidding.

01:51:27.860 I'm just kidding.

01:51:31.040 Oh, God.

01:51:33.440 It's just like, I'm going after your mom.

01:51:36.280 Okay.

01:51:36.620 Like your mom is the business.

01:51:38.920 Like she makes the biscuits.

01:51:40.960 Okay.

01:51:41.580 You, you burnt the biscuits.

01:51:43.000 You know, it was one time I'm getting dumped over one time.

01:51:49.000 Sorry.

01:51:50.120 Could you tell me?

01:51:51.180 Could you just tell me why?

01:51:52.340 What did I do?

01:51:53.380 Can you tell me, please?

01:51:54.880 Your mom uses no teeth.

01:51:56.360 Okay.

01:51:56.620 I told you the teeth thing is a problem.

01:52:01.780 Okay.

01:52:02.320 Well, can we, can I just get some closure?

01:52:05.960 Yes.

01:52:06.320 The door will close on the way.

01:52:07.600 Sean, you're next.

01:52:13.880 How are you going to do it?

01:52:17.400 Hey, can I talk to you for a second, Pearl?

01:52:20.640 Yeah.

01:52:21.040 What's going on?

01:52:22.040 So, you know, and this is an open conversation.

01:52:27.560 It's a two-way street.

01:52:29.620 As we always have communication and conversations, it's not only my opinions, it's yours too.

01:52:35.660 And so, I would like for you to say anything.

01:52:38.080 There will be no consequences, no negative things.

01:52:40.360 It's open to any discussion.

01:52:41.620 I was looking on the internet, and I found these clips of you being a colonizer, and I

01:52:49.880 wanted to ask you about that, because, you know, I'm pro-black, you know, and I'm for

01:52:55.320 the community, and, you know, what do you have to say about these things?

01:53:01.020 I'm going to have to break up with you, actually, because I can't have this.

01:53:04.920 I get it.

01:53:06.620 I get it.

01:53:07.180 And that's where we just have to separate, you know?

01:53:09.420 And I get it, you know?

01:53:11.620 I still care about you.

01:53:13.500 We'll still be close friends.

01:53:16.600 I wish you the best.

01:53:18.600 This is the best breakup I've ever had.

01:53:22.120 I don't want it to be negative.

01:53:24.940 I don't.

01:53:25.400 We had 80% of our time together.

01:53:27.420 It was great.

01:53:28.120 Yeah.

01:53:28.740 You know?

01:53:29.900 The last guy shut the door in my face, so this is great.

01:53:33.800 No, the door closed on itself.

01:53:35.920 Self-closing doors.

01:53:38.280 I wouldn't do that to you, Pearl.

01:53:40.220 Yeah, the other guy's okay.

01:53:43.560 Look, I'm not going to do that to you, Pearl.

01:53:45.240 I'm not going to lie to you.

01:53:46.080 Oh, you're so nice.

01:53:48.040 I'm going to miss you.

01:53:49.480 Okay.

01:53:49.900 Yeah, I'll miss you.

01:53:50.680 You hate to see her go, but you love to watch her leave already.

01:53:53.580 Well, I'm sorry my colonization was a problem.

01:54:05.040 It's cool.

01:54:05.820 Some people need to be colonized sometimes, but it's okay, Pearl.

01:54:08.840 Yeah.

01:54:09.520 You didn't do it.

01:54:11.100 I just have to stand with the community.

01:54:13.120 Yeah, I understand.

01:54:15.740 Doug MPA, you're next.

01:54:17.700 Are you going to dump me?

01:54:18.460 So, I would set it up.

01:54:21.260 So, example, I'm a punctual person.

01:54:26.420 Pearl and I work together, and she knows how much I can't stand it when she's late to calls and stuff like that.

01:54:30.260 So, but when I'm with somebody, I'll do something like, if we're supposed to be somewhere at 2, and another person is always late, I'll tell her like 1.15, right?

01:54:40.680 And so, there are things I will do to mitigate the things that she does to piss me off, right?

01:54:48.280 And what I'll do is I'll stop doing those things.

01:54:50.620 So, she's doing things that annoy me.

01:54:55.320 So, I'll say, you know, the last couple of, the last month or two, you're always late.

01:55:01.680 Always.

01:55:03.100 It's because you don't respect me, do you?

01:55:07.040 I don't think you do.

01:55:08.280 And so, I'll start, you're not supposed to keep tally or keep track, but I'll change certain behaviors and start keeping tally and track of where she's deficient and then use that to break up with her.

01:55:21.520 You're always late.

01:55:24.340 I'll pay for all the dates and all the food, and then I'll say, you never pay for dates.

01:55:30.900 You just want me for my money.

01:55:32.280 But I thought, wait, you told me you wanted to pay.

01:55:36.360 Yeah, but you know what?

01:55:38.280 You should have at least offered.

01:55:42.140 But you hate it when people offer.

01:55:45.220 Yeah, you know what?

01:55:47.060 I would set it up like that, where I would find reasons where she's deficient and use those to break up with her.

01:55:55.340 Like, you know what?

01:55:57.020 You're late all the time.

01:55:58.620 Okay, but wait, wait.

01:56:00.060 I can change.

01:56:01.300 I can change.

01:56:02.100 I'll do better.

01:56:04.120 You've had three months to do it.

01:56:05.720 I haven't seen any change.

01:56:06.920 Sorry.

01:56:08.280 Here's my question.

01:56:09.500 Have you guys ever used, like, pointing out other chicks to make her feel like you're not even into her?

01:56:17.460 Like, she's not your type?

01:56:20.780 I did that.

01:56:22.140 She broke up with me.

01:56:23.420 It was great.

01:56:24.220 I didn't have to go through any of it.

01:56:25.540 You know, she's like, I just don't think, I really don't think I'm your type.

01:56:30.020 I'm like, the smallest thing I've used to break up with a girl that I didn't want to see anymore was the type of underwear she wore.

01:56:43.680 She wore these, like, they just were just these, I forgot what kind they were, but they just wore a jacket.

01:56:49.480 And I'm like, why do you wear that underwear?

01:56:52.220 Like, I don't like ruffles.

01:56:53.900 Yeah, I don't like.

01:56:54.580 It's a lacy shit.

01:56:55.440 Yeah, I don't like that freaking granny painting look at underwear.

01:56:59.400 Like, it's just not attractive.

01:57:00.940 It's not.

01:57:01.660 And then you use that, you use a deficiency and then snowball it into all sorts of other small things and build a case as to why you don't want to see her again.

01:57:09.960 I really liked my colonizer breakup the best.

01:57:15.200 That was so good, Sean.

01:57:18.060 Like, wow.

01:57:19.140 Yeah, bring up something that would make me want to dump you.

01:57:24.440 That was great.

01:57:25.660 That was great.

01:57:27.900 No, Sean, I'm changing up my game now.

01:57:29.960 Thanks.

01:57:30.540 No problem, man.

01:57:31.860 I've been doing it for a while.

01:57:34.680 He's like the professional breakup.

01:57:37.620 You know, like.

01:57:38.000 Yeah, that was great.

01:57:39.060 With, like, HR, they would bring somebody in to fire you.

01:57:43.080 All you got to do is get Sean to come over and break up with your bitch with you.

01:57:47.100 He'll handle it all bad.

01:57:48.960 Wait, can we give him another?

01:57:50.480 He's still at the end.

01:57:51.480 Can we give him another?

01:57:52.280 Sean, we've got a business here.

01:57:53.420 Can we give him another scenario?

01:57:55.520 I want another one.

01:57:57.360 Yeah, okay.

01:57:59.020 Try to judge my game.

01:58:00.660 Okay, I got one.

01:58:01.940 I got one.

01:58:02.280 Go ahead.

01:58:02.920 Let's say she's insecure and she's accusing you of leaving dick imprints

01:58:08.820 on the counter.

01:58:11.200 Okay.

01:58:11.940 I.e.

01:58:12.840 She thinks you're cheating all the damn time.

01:58:15.060 She thinks you're cheating on her.

01:58:16.180 And she thinks that she sees your dick imprint on the counter.

01:58:20.420 And, you know, you're following all these girls.

01:58:24.080 I'm not doing that.

01:58:25.140 You're liking all these pictures and I'm just, I'm freaking out.

01:58:30.420 And she knows your Instagram DMs are full of titties.

01:58:34.360 Yeah.

01:58:35.380 I need you to follow uglier women, please.

01:58:39.880 Yeah, right.

01:58:40.920 No, I understand that one.

01:58:43.120 All right.

01:58:43.920 Hey, Pearl, can we have a conversation?

01:58:46.280 Yeah.

01:58:47.820 Let's go.

01:58:48.740 Guys, I always tell you, you've got to have communication with your girl

01:58:54.900 that's more superior than her ability to communicate.

01:58:57.420 So you have to make time for it.

01:58:59.200 So, Pearl, I know you've been having issues or speaking about IG.

01:59:09.840 And first of all, I don't want to get it wrong.

01:59:13.220 So tell me if there are any issues or things you want to talk about.

01:59:17.780 What is it?

01:59:19.120 What's the?

01:59:19.660 Well, you're just, you're always like you,

01:59:22.340 you're always following these girls and liking their picture.

01:59:25.260 Like you never follow men.

01:59:27.080 It's always just women on Instagram.

01:59:29.260 Always, you know, and your friend, she wants to sleep with you.

01:59:33.340 I can just tell.

01:59:34.640 I think you're cheating on me.

01:59:38.060 No.

01:59:38.680 Don't forget the dick imprint.

01:59:40.460 I'm not saying that.

01:59:45.660 It's on the counter.

01:59:46.600 As far as the girl in particular, right?

01:59:50.540 We're friends and we've been friends for a while.

01:59:53.640 And Pearl, I never lie.

01:59:55.440 I'm not going to lie to you.

01:59:56.740 I'm too old to be doing that.

01:59:58.560 I went to war.

02:00:00.100 I've been in combat.

02:00:01.520 I'm not scared of you.

02:00:02.960 I'm going to tell you the truth.

02:00:04.600 I'm going to tell you what you need to hear, even if you don't like it.

02:00:07.220 Have I not done that in our relationship already?

02:00:09.640 Yeah, you have.

02:00:12.440 I guess I was overblowing it.

02:00:15.620 That's okay.

02:00:16.420 People get their ideas.

02:00:19.700 And the number one most important part is you communicated to me.

02:00:23.360 And we had the time to talk about it.

02:00:24.940 If you didn't, then that would be a problem, right?

02:00:27.540 Because possibly it would build resentment and other things like that.

02:00:31.100 So I appreciate you bringing that to me.

02:00:33.580 Is there anything else that you had issues with?

02:00:36.200 No, you're the best.

02:00:37.740 I'm so glad this is working out.

02:00:40.940 Now.

02:00:42.480 What I would say about it really working out, I think it would work out if we transition this relationship.

02:00:52.120 I'm serious, Pearl.

02:00:53.620 Because at the end of the day, I might not be the guy that you need.

02:00:59.180 I could be a great friend for you.

02:01:01.000 I think we did great things for you.

02:01:01.980 No, I need you.

02:01:03.080 But, like, we're, I've never been with anyone better.

02:01:07.860 Pearl, I think you need yourself.

02:01:08.600 What?

02:01:09.780 You need yourself.

02:01:11.000 That's number one.

02:01:13.740 I can't, you know, that's inside you.

02:01:16.040 You have those feelings, right?

02:01:17.600 Mm-hmm.

02:01:18.200 You believe I'm cheating.

02:01:19.760 You believe that this IG is right or wrong.

02:01:23.240 I never asked you about yours.

02:01:25.180 So you don't, you don't want to be with me anymore?

02:01:29.480 I want to be your friend.

02:01:30.760 I want to support you.

02:01:33.560 That's so good.

02:01:34.540 I've always done that.

02:01:36.260 And I'm okay with that.

02:01:38.040 Most of our relationship was good, Pearl.

02:01:39.940 It's not a bad thing.

02:01:40.800 But everything in life doesn't last forever.

02:01:43.440 There's time limits.

02:01:44.980 But you said you wanted to marry me someday.

02:01:48.980 And you said that you have an issue with these things.

02:01:51.640 And we don't want that in a marriage.

02:01:53.160 Imagine our kids having to deal with this.

02:01:54.940 If we had kids together.

02:01:56.760 Would you want that for your children?

02:01:58.300 I don't think you would.

02:02:00.340 No, I wouldn't.

02:02:02.120 And I think you need someone who won't give you those type of issues.

02:02:05.260 That don't follow women on Instagram.

02:02:07.320 I get it.

02:02:08.680 And it's not a cool thing for your perspective.

02:02:11.160 And I respect your perspective.

02:02:13.000 It's important.

02:02:15.700 I'll always be here for you, Pearl.

02:02:17.700 That's for sure, for sure.

02:02:19.080 Really?

02:02:21.000 Especially at 2 a.m.

02:02:24.080 Try, man.

02:02:24.900 Holy shit.

02:02:25.680 Yo, man.

02:02:30.100 You need to seriously, like, teach a course on Pearl's frickin' message.

02:02:35.420 Yeah, we need him in the course.

02:02:37.060 Let the part like Pearl's getting the cue eclipses for the university.

02:02:40.600 Because here's the thing.

02:02:42.220 We need to have these skills so we see less videos on social media about women breaking up their, you know, busting out their windows and going to their work and yell and screaming.

02:02:52.720 But, bro, seriously, you need to, like, put something together, man.

02:02:57.380 Yeah, that was beautiful.

02:02:59.160 That was awesome.

02:03:00.200 I really enjoyed that breakup.

02:03:03.460 But here's the problem.

02:03:05.260 We didn't get to the alleged cheating.

02:03:08.580 He never had to deal with the accusations.

02:03:11.700 I did.

02:03:12.360 I said the following and, you know.

02:03:14.540 That's the following.

02:03:15.300 That's just, like, girls liking them.

02:03:17.380 Like, you didn't give them the accusations.

02:03:19.500 Like, I know you are sleeping with Susan.

02:03:22.180 Okay?

02:03:25.200 There's dick imprints on the camera.

02:03:28.680 How many years ago say that, Glenn?

02:03:30.180 I have been there.

02:03:32.820 I have been accused of the dick imprints, you guys.

02:03:34.620 I'm telling you this.

02:03:35.240 I just wanted to see how you would react to it.

02:03:37.420 I want to be your friend.

02:03:39.080 That was so funny.

02:03:40.260 That was so good.

02:03:42.280 How did you come up with that?

02:03:46.220 You literally built, you got to teach men how to literally break up with a woman with her getting crazy and not being at risk for the woman busting up the PS5 on the way out the door.

02:03:58.300 Bust it up the PS5.

02:03:59.800 That's hilarious.

02:04:00.920 I'd say, look, a lot of it just comes from being very stoic, also approaching it very indifferent.

02:04:07.140 And then also, it's going to sound bad, guys, and you might not want to hear it, but humanizing people.

02:04:11.780 People make decisions.

02:04:13.620 Right?

02:04:14.600 And, look, I can't control, as Glenn said, I can't control what somebody else does.

02:04:19.720 The only thing I can control is the way I respond to it.

02:04:23.140 That's the only thing within my control.

02:04:24.820 And so, I might as well make it a goddamn good story for me.

02:04:28.280 I might as well make it a good partner because I got to live with it afterwards.

02:04:32.300 They don't.

02:04:33.140 They going to move on and do what they do.

02:04:35.080 You feel me?

02:04:35.900 That's just the world.

02:04:37.360 And so, like I said, it takes a lot of stoicism and it takes a lot of indifference in its practice.

02:04:43.700 But see it from their perspective.

02:04:46.060 I understand what Pearl was saying.

02:04:48.240 That could be a lot for you, Pearl.

02:04:49.620 Well, I get it, but she deserves better.

02:04:54.340 The colonizer was a great one.

02:04:57.120 That was amazing.

02:04:58.820 To bring up something that would make me want to dump you.

02:05:01.640 That was great.

02:05:02.380 Yeah, right?

02:05:02.900 Like, all right, man, get out of here.

02:05:04.720 It made it easy.

02:05:06.360 Ah, not again!

02:05:08.620 You could talk to your girls.

02:05:09.940 Like, I had to get rid of them.

02:05:11.140 He was out here while it.

02:05:12.460 See?

02:05:12.780 So, it's cool.

02:05:13.560 I don't care.

02:05:14.260 You know, it was done.

02:05:16.720 We're coming up on the two-hour mark.

02:05:19.260 Everyone, make sure to like the video while you're here and subscribe because we are almost at 2 million subs.

02:05:26.060 Yeah, we're getting close.

02:05:28.240 Subscribe button.

02:05:29.780 You want to wrap it up, Pearl?

02:05:31.380 Yeah, sure.

02:05:32.260 We'll take a divorce and take half those subscribers.

02:05:33.580 Thanks so much for watching.

02:05:37.980 You guys were great.

02:05:38.900 Thanks for dumping me on the stream.

02:05:40.780 You know, that was great.

02:05:44.500 Guys, I think we got to bring...

02:05:47.220 Sean's got to do...

02:05:48.480 You want to do like an in-depth course of how to dump a woman?

02:05:52.680 Would you do it on the...

02:05:53.580 Oh, they're going to put me on the stream somewhere.

02:05:56.360 No, no, no.

02:05:56.940 No, it'd be in our...

02:05:58.540 Just in our commute.

02:05:59.600 Sean's how to break up with elegance.

02:06:03.580 Yeah.

02:06:04.420 I know.

02:06:05.120 I'm going to be...

02:06:05.720 It's not going to be on YouTube.

02:06:07.100 It would be on the Audacity site.

02:06:09.360 I got you.

02:06:10.400 No problem.

02:06:10.720 Bro, honestly, like...

02:06:11.800 Yeah, that was amazing.

02:06:13.500 Because, bro, I'm telling you, man, you were killing it, bro.

02:06:17.120 Like, wow.

02:06:17.780 I got you.

02:06:18.900 I think you guys will agree with this.

02:06:22.040 If you want to...

02:06:23.360 If you already know you're going to...

02:06:25.220 Like, things are going bad, it's better that you pull the trigger and end it sooner than before she does.

02:06:32.040 Because that...

02:06:35.180 The opportunity for her to want to come back after you is so much greater.

02:06:43.160 Because now she's going to feel like, wait a minute, he's leaving me?

02:06:46.780 I need to prove myself.

02:06:48.780 And I've done that to a couple of girls where I just break up with them.

02:06:51.520 I didn't really want to break up with them.

02:06:52.960 But I would break up with them just to kind of get them to get their attitude adjusted.

02:06:56.860 Makes sense.

02:07:02.740 Yeah.

02:07:03.980 All right.

02:07:04.560 Well, thanks so much for watching, everybody.

02:07:08.080 Please like the video on your way out.

02:07:10.460 And, um...

02:07:12.200 And, Pearl, I'll send you to...

02:07:13.500 Or, Doug, whoever takes care of it.

02:07:15.420 But I sent you the email on the back chat.

02:07:17.380 I believe you see it, yeah?

02:07:19.100 You got it, Doug MPA?

02:07:20.840 Give me one second.

02:07:21.960 Let me copy it.

02:07:23.900 Yeah, because we got to follow up.

02:07:25.160 That was amazing.

02:07:26.200 We got to do that.

02:07:27.400 Yeah, man.

02:07:28.200 We just saw the beginning, the creation of a whole new thing here, man.

02:07:33.380 This is great.

02:07:34.980 I got you.

02:07:35.960 Okay, thank you.

02:07:36.900 Thanks so much for watching.

02:07:38.880 Thanks for coming on, guys.

02:07:39.960 Please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel.

02:07:42.920 Ring that notification bell.

02:07:45.560 And let me know if you guys have any great ways to dump women in the comments.

02:07:49.160 Or if a woman has fumbled you.

02:07:51.080 And I'll read the best comments next show.

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JustPearlyThings - May 27, 2025

What's The Way a Woman Fumbled You and Didn't Even Know It？ (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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