JustPearlyThings - April 13, 2023


What Women Bring To Table In RELATIONSHIPS


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11 minutes

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2,234

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193

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Misogyny

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In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and how important it is to have a good woman beside you in order to become a better man. We also discuss the importance of a good wife and why a woman is more valuable than a man.

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00:00:00.000 To go off of what, um, ice cream, right? What you said about how you're old school and you, um, just, I can't remember everything you said, but what you just said about being old school, a lot of women have taken that mindset in the role. 1.00
00:00:18.440 Like I need to do this for myself. I need to provide, I need to be the masculine. So that, that essence of being old school, wanting to be feminine, wanting to just be a woman in a sense is very slim to none and a lot of women. And it's not until late that they realize, Hmm, maybe I should retract how I've been acting in the masculine way to be able to attract what I want. 0.72
00:00:45.880 And then there's some that's like, no, why would I, why would I lower myself to attract a man when a man needs to be X, Y, Z to be able to attract me?
00:00:56.160 I think a wife's a wife before she's a wife. Do you understand? So there's certain characteristics. You can't meet somebody. And then when they, then you show them who you are, cause then they're not going to make you a wife. 0.85
00:01:06.980 When a man, like you said, what you bring to the table. Um, I do think the women are the table. If a man meets the right woman, she will add value to that man. 0.99
00:01:18.040 That's non-tangible. And that's just that on that. That's what I believe. What value? Value to a man. That's non-tangible. That means he will become 10 times more valuable than he was before she met him.
00:01:28.620 Like his characteristics, the way he is certain things that make him a great man. Money isn't the only thing that makes him a great man. The right woman makes you want to do better, be better, create a family, create a legacy, build and create together.
00:01:43.060 I think that's what I think. I think that's a narrative that we sold women to make us feel like we're more valuable than we are. Like, for example, I think most billionaires that even if they've been married with their wife for 20, 30 years, they seem like good women and they get a divorce. Like they're, they're usually fine after they're still doing great things. Jeff Bezos, um, same with Microsoft guy. Like, I don't, I don't think, I think men are great. And if like a great man is going to be a great man, regardless if he has a woman or not, it depends on what is.
00:02:10.740 I think Genghis Khan, I think would still conquer the world, even if he didn't have a main, I don't know what.
00:02:14.740 Einstein would have still done what he was doing.
00:02:17.540 I didn't say that they wouldn't. I just said, if you have the right woman beside you, you're even better. That's what I think.
00:02:23.560 Well, I think, sure. Like, I think it's better to have the right woman, but I don't, I don't think they really play a part in a man's success. Not, not really. 0.99
00:02:30.140 I do.
00:02:30.980 Like, I think, I think that like hardworking, like my dad, even though my mom like helped him build his business and she did help a lot.
00:02:38.580 But, um, I would still say he would have done the same thing, even without her.
00:02:43.880 Okay.
00:02:44.620 Like, I think the woman helps navigate a man's thought process and certain things if he listens to her as well certain times.
00:02:51.780 That's just me. I feel like the man is the head, the woman is the neck. 1.00
00:02:55.800 And I feel like there's certain things that a woman can see in hindsight sometimes that a man can't see.
00:03:00.380 He's more logical. She's more emotional and stuff.
00:03:03.400 But I feel like she instills certain things in him that he doesn't have.
00:03:07.180 And when, when you have the right woman that can help you to grow with you and build with you, you'll be more of a principled person.
00:03:15.660 More of a principled person.
00:03:17.300 Listen, bruh, I just think like this, yeah, there is a certain level of synergy that, that is, uh, good between, you know, when you're in a relationship, when you're, when you're with a good woman.
00:03:28.940 But the woman doesn't necessarily make him a better man, bruv.
00:03:32.960 He is what he is.
00:03:34.840 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:03:35.560 So I just, I just don't agree with that at all.
00:03:38.540 And then you said, and then also you said the woman, then you also said the woman is the table.
00:03:43.160 How did you come to that?
00:03:44.620 That's what I believe.
00:03:45.680 Yeah, but I'm saying how do you come to that?
00:03:46.960 I just feel like a woman, basically a man can become even more greater with a woman beside him.
00:03:52.500 So how does that make her the table? 1.00
00:03:54.140 I think if you like specifically describe it, like how?
00:03:57.800 Like a woman is the person, you know, like they say, like you give her a house and she creates a home. 0.96
00:04:03.200 You give her food, she creates a dinner plate.
00:04:06.340 You plant the seed, she gives you a child.
00:04:09.260 She's able to create things out of whatever you give her.
00:04:12.760 She's a support.
00:04:13.140 Do you understand what I'm saying?
00:04:14.080 No, she's a support.
00:04:14.880 She's not a table. 1.00
00:04:16.020 That's my opinion.
00:04:17.520 It's just my opinion.
00:04:17.880 No, I feel you.
00:04:18.580 You can have your opinion.
00:04:19.320 I don't think that there is any, you know, you can say what you feel.
00:04:21.420 That's just my belief.
00:04:22.080 What would make more sense is that you work together.
00:04:25.240 I think what you're saying sounds more like you're two pieces of the same of a pie, innit?
00:04:30.480 Like you're two sides of a pie.
00:04:31.940 But when you say it's the table, it kind of sounds like the woman is the be all, end all. 0.61
00:04:37.000 The guy's just the cameo character, bruv.
00:04:39.740 No, I don't think it's the be all, end all.
00:04:41.040 It does.
00:04:41.380 When you say the table, because the table is the epicentre of everything in that scenario, in that situation.
00:04:49.340 Yeah, that's where the dinner's on there.
00:04:51.040 We're the ones that have the babies and everything.
00:04:52.880 I just feel like we are the table.
00:04:55.160 We're the table.
00:04:55.960 He probably bought the table.
00:04:56.900 And the man brings the chairs.
00:04:57.700 He brings everything to us.
00:04:59.720 Did you say he built the table?
00:05:01.100 He probably bought and built the table.
00:05:03.860 He bought the food.
00:05:05.540 He bought the house.
00:05:06.800 He's protecting you.
00:05:08.320 What are you talking about?
00:05:10.120 I mean, like the man built the house.
00:05:11.780 And sure, you can add decorations and make it a home.
00:05:14.160 But he built the house.
00:05:16.460 Making a home to me isn't just about furniture.
00:05:20.360 What can a man get from a woman? 1.00
00:05:22.020 That's why so much people broke up when it was lockdown.
00:05:25.180 Because they couldn't live in the house together.
00:05:26.900 Because their houses weren't homes.
00:05:28.380 What can a man get from a woman that he can't get from a cook? 1.00
00:05:31.100 A maid and a hooker. 1.00
00:05:35.860 If that was...
00:05:36.780 I don't just think it's as clean cut.
00:05:39.400 I don't think it's as clean cut as that.
00:05:41.460 I just want to cook.
00:05:42.940 I just want to...
00:05:43.780 Do you understand what I'm saying?
00:05:44.900 Because there's energy there.
00:05:46.140 There's chemistry there.
00:05:46.960 There's a relationship there.
00:05:48.700 Do you understand?
00:05:49.240 Yeah.
00:05:49.680 No, I don't.
00:05:51.400 Don't you?
00:05:51.840 So you just think that a man would just get a cook, just get a clean up?
00:05:54.920 Yeah.
00:05:55.100 There's plenty of men that do that in real life.
00:05:56.780 And that's okay.
00:05:58.180 I don't know.
00:05:58.840 No, I'm not saying that's okay.
00:06:00.340 Just saying like,
00:06:00.940 What does a woman offer? 1.00
00:06:03.780 I'm saying that the men are the table.
00:06:05.700 I don't think the women are the table. 1.00
00:06:07.300 I think the men are the table and the women can come along for the ride. 1.00
00:06:11.580 And they can either come or they go.
00:06:12.800 Most women don't want to be the driver. 1.00
00:06:14.460 They want to be in the sidecar, bruv.
00:06:17.040 You know what I'm saying?
00:06:17.760 They want to be in a nice ride.
00:06:19.400 They don't want to be the driver.
00:06:20.320 They don't want to buy the car and drive the car.
00:06:22.380 They want to be riding shotgun, bruv.
00:06:24.580 How can you be the table from the sidecar?
00:06:28.240 How can you be the leader from the sidecar?
00:06:30.300 You can't, bruv.
00:06:31.880 You don't even protect the sidecar.
00:06:33.460 I can understand what you're saying.
00:06:40.400 It's not the table and the aspect as we know what the table is, how females say, 1.00
00:06:47.960 Oh, I'm the table.
00:06:49.120 I bring everything.
00:06:50.160 But it's more of looking at what is the aspect of a table.
00:06:54.360 It's a support.
00:06:55.040 So if, say, you needed to step on it to do something better, she's there to support him.
00:07:03.500 She's able to support.
00:07:06.980 So the aspect of a table is to support whatever you put on it.
00:07:12.700 And so if a man needs to elevate whatever, a woman's there to support him.
00:07:17.720 A woman's there to support whatever is placed there. 1.00
00:07:20.060 Like she said, building a family, building a home, X, Y, Z.
00:07:26.160 She's there to support him in his aspects.
00:07:30.260 Is that kind of what you were talking about with the table?
00:07:33.520 I kind of understand.
00:07:34.980 I don't agree with that.
00:07:36.140 She'd be more like the food on the table. 0.97
00:07:38.000 That's what I'm saying.
00:07:39.100 Because the table, without the table there, which is the origin, without the table there,
00:07:45.660 the foundation, you can't put no food on air.
00:07:51.060 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:07:51.720 So the man has to, for instance, I'll give you the example, yeah?
00:07:54.640 The man buys the house, because we said that in our examples, yeah?
00:07:57.240 The man buys the house, yeah?
00:07:58.520 The woman makes it a home, right? 1.00
00:08:00.640 Without the bricks and the roof and the doors, bruh, you can bring all the decorations from
00:08:06.260 Ikea or whatever, but there's no house, bruv.
00:08:10.020 So really and truly, that's the table, bruv.
00:08:12.600 All them little things are just extras.
00:08:15.400 All the little mirrors and the love, hope, live crap on the wall, that's just, that's
00:08:20.640 nothing, bruv.
00:08:21.440 That's nothing.
00:08:22.640 Really and truly, you can live in an empty house.
00:08:25.780 You can feel protected in an empty house.
00:08:28.540 You're sheltered from the weather in an empty house.
00:08:31.160 Them decorations don't mean shit.
00:08:33.280 They don't mean nothing.
00:08:34.740 Like I said, I'm not talking just about the furnishings.
00:08:37.920 No, but you said the woman makes the home. 1.00
00:08:40.100 Yeah, but making a home doesn't, to me, it doesn't just rely on the furniture.
00:08:45.920 Making a home is where your kids come.
00:08:48.180 It's the energy that's in there.
00:08:50.060 Do you understand what I'm saying?
00:08:51.000 It's where you feel like you're most peaceful when you get home.
00:08:54.520 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:55.820 What was the point?
00:08:56.660 Like women make a man greater? 1.00
00:09:00.000 I feel like behind every successful man is a strong woman.
00:09:04.440 I feel like a man can, a man that finds the right, a man who finds the right woman.
00:09:09.420 That's just my agreement.
00:09:10.760 There's loads of men that are mega successful.
00:09:12.080 I didn't say that there isn't.
00:09:12.980 No, no, but I think men are designed.
00:09:15.640 I would say behind every successful man is a bunch of women he's fucking... 1.00
00:09:19.000 Maybe.
00:09:21.060 On the side, in the front, everywhere.
00:09:23.080 And this is coming from, like, my dad was very loyal, but like, no, I don't think so.
00:09:29.320 Like, I just think that men are great.
00:09:31.500 Like, the men that are going to be great and going to be ultra productive are going to do
00:09:35.420 that regardless of if there's a girl there or not.
00:09:37.580 I don't think the girl really does shit. 1.00
00:09:38.920 I just think those guys are workaholics.
00:09:40.600 They're usually very conscientious.
00:09:41.980 They're on their path.
00:09:43.140 You can either come or you can go.
00:09:44.740 That's it.
00:09:45.120 I think men are literally designed to succeed with or without women because they're meant 1.00
00:09:49.340 to be building buildings and stuff.
00:09:51.020 Do they really need a woman? 1.00
00:09:52.140 Okay, now I'm going to...
00:09:53.660 If it's fundamental, like, to build a whole civilization and a society, usually they get
00:10:00.820 their skills and everything and they're succeeding.
00:10:03.100 If the woman is like, it's an addition to that, but he will be consistent with his, you 0.93
00:10:09.520 know, greatness.
00:10:10.300 But I look at success in two different things.
00:10:12.400 You lot keep speaking about, yo, you've built loads of things.
00:10:15.120 That doesn't make you a good man.
00:10:16.460 No, no, I just said that as an example.
00:10:18.220 Do you know what I mean?
00:10:18.800 So when you lot might be...
00:10:20.640 Yeah, but that is a great thing.
00:10:21.800 Building things is a necessity.
00:10:22.880 No, no, it's a great, but I said, I don't believe that that is the, that just you doing
00:10:27.760 a lot alone makes you, there's more, there's more things to you to me that make you a great
00:10:32.380 man.
00:10:32.720 That's what I, that's what I think as well anyway.
00:10:35.300 Do you know what I mean?
00:10:36.580 Auntie Jenny says, behind, not in front or next to you.
00:10:39.320 Women are supposed to support the man, not lead. 1.00
00:10:41.940 Help me, not headache.
00:10:44.240 I agree.
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