JustPearlyThings - November 06, 2023


When Feminists Protests BACKFIRE!!!


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16 minutes

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3,083

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180

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Misogyny

49

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In this episode, we talk about the concept of being smart, and why women are always going to be smarter than men. We also talk about what it means to be a smart kid and why it's a bad thing.

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00:00:00.000 And it's like, if someone has to tell you what they are, tell us how they're not.
00:00:03.680 The smartest people I know never say that they're smart.
00:00:06.700 You know, they're never like I think of my I think of the smartest people I know were like literally my dad and my brother, Adam.
00:00:13.540 And even Austin's really like my brothers, really.
00:00:16.440 And I've never heard them say that they're smart, because when you ask, when you tell a smart person that they're smart or like say you're so smart, they kind of are like, oh, whatever, because they know people smarter than them.
00:00:27.520 Yes. Yeah. Yeah.
00:00:28.200 And it's like the person in the room who constantly feels a need to say what they are is saying that because it's a projection of the fact that they're not.
00:00:37.200 So they project it outwards and they say this is what I am because the inside this is just psychoanalysis, whether they're conscious of this or not is a different issue.
00:00:45.000 But the truth is, at least from what I've seen, it's they can't feel it in themselves.
00:00:51.020 So they feel a need to have to say it, because at least that way, if they convince if they can convince other people of it, that validates what they're missing.
00:00:58.820 Yeah, because the people that always say this is one I've noticed, I'm so real.
00:01:03.360 Oh, you're never real.
00:01:05.780 No, they're never real.
00:01:07.480 Or I'm a, what is it?
00:01:11.680 It's always something.
00:01:12.820 Or I'm a traditional woman.
00:01:15.100 They never look traditional.
00:01:16.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:17.000 Because traditional women, I mean, they're rare anyways, but it's like one trait they have is humility. 1.00
00:01:24.000 And they're always thinking, well, I could be better, you know.
00:01:26.840 And that's the thing.
00:01:27.660 It's like people that are actually skilled in something.
00:01:30.420 I don't need to say that they are.
00:01:31.840 No.
00:01:32.160 And typically they know people that are better than them because that's who they're around.
00:01:36.640 Like the most traditional women are around the most traditional women. 1.00
00:01:39.980 The smartest men are around the smartest men.
00:01:42.180 So they're always reminded that they are not the smartest person.
00:01:45.860 Well, it's like if you have a job that say, the example that comes to mind is, for example, a surgeon.
00:01:51.060 Do you think a surgeon walks into the room and feels the need to tell everyone that he saves lives?
00:01:55.120 No.
00:01:55.400 Absolutely not.
00:01:56.100 Because every day people thank him for saving their lives.
00:01:59.380 Whereas you have something else.
00:02:01.460 I don't know.
00:02:01.960 Say just like a mundane, normal job, a normal person job.
00:02:06.300 If that person really feels unfulfilled in their job,
00:02:08.980 I can guarantee you that they go around telling people that, you know,
00:02:12.640 I save lives in this job or I do this or they find some way to make out that what they do is so important.
00:02:20.360 Ultimately, the only reason they do that is because it's not fulfilling them in the way that it needs to.
00:02:25.040 When people are fulfilled, they don't feel the need to spread to the rest of the world what they have because they already have it.
00:02:31.400 Why do you need to project what you have if you already are that?
00:02:34.480 Yeah.
00:02:34.820 People that brag about money are the same way.
00:02:37.500 They never have money.
00:02:38.600 So many people come on the show and they say, like, you know, like, I'm quite well-off or I do this or like, you know, I get this, I get that.
00:02:45.540 They realize that we can Google their company.
00:02:48.260 I know.
00:02:51.580 Okay.
00:02:52.200 So, you know, I got a lot of heat because I said basically.
00:02:56.540 You getting heat.
00:02:57.480 What?
00:02:58.100 Never, never, never.
00:02:59.020 I say that basically women's jobs are pretty much useless. 1.00
00:03:02.920 Right.
00:03:03.160 Now, again, there are exceptions.
00:03:05.900 Now, I always say I use Ivanka Trump as an example. 0.98
00:03:09.620 That's Donald Trump's daughter, right?
00:03:11.360 I would imagine she's better at business than a lot of people being raised by a Trump.
00:03:15.360 Of course.
00:03:15.780 I'd imagine.
00:03:16.340 I don't actually know too much about her.
00:03:18.020 Maybe she doesn't do anything.
00:03:18.920 But you would just assume by association that she would be.
00:03:21.140 Yeah.
00:03:21.500 And there's women that are super smart, like the same way you have children, right? 1.00
00:03:26.860 And in general, adults are smarter than children.
00:03:29.640 Yeah.
00:03:29.960 But occasionally you'll get a child prodigy.
00:03:32.100 Yeah.
00:03:32.360 That's amazing.
00:03:33.500 It's phenomenal.
00:03:34.460 You can't even believe they're a kid.
00:03:36.660 I feel the same way about women. 0.95
00:03:37.920 Yeah.
00:03:38.220 No.
00:03:38.640 I feel like by and large, men are smarter.
00:03:41.120 Occasionally you get a female prodigy that is really smart. 0.99
00:03:45.220 But typically the same way the smartest adults are always smarter than children.
00:03:52.260 The smartest men are always going to be smarter than women. 1.00
00:03:55.880 Yeah.
00:03:56.040 And I came to this conclusion that a lot of women's jobs are useless. 1.00
00:04:00.820 And the reason I came to this conclusion was I started thinking about women's sports. 0.98
00:04:06.880 You know, I play volleyball here.
00:04:08.700 And I know that women's sports always operates at a loss. 1.00
00:04:12.320 And it's funny.
00:04:13.260 I was arguing, actually, with a couple of my teammates about this.
00:04:17.540 I swear, I was arguing with some of my teammates on the way up to our game last weekend.
00:04:21.300 Okay.
00:04:21.600 And they were saying how there are profitable women's leagues places.
00:04:26.440 And I was saying, no, no, no, they're not.
00:04:29.080 And I was saying, if women's leagues are profitable, it's always because of either drama, sexuality, or male investors subsidizing it. 1.00
00:04:38.380 Yeah.
00:04:38.680 Being nice, basically.
00:04:39.980 In the same way, actually, I found an investor for our team and they did it to be nice.
00:04:43.840 Wow.
00:04:44.180 Exactly.
00:04:45.280 You can't make this shit up.
00:04:47.040 And I was telling them that they basically don't know what they're talking about.
00:04:50.760 And I was thinking, like, you know, I actually run shows.
00:04:53.800 So I have to think about what would be profitable.
00:04:56.100 And I've literally thought about how can I make, just because I really like my coaches.
00:04:59.900 I think they're nice people.
00:05:01.000 I try to help them out when I can.
00:05:02.580 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:02.940 So I've thought about how can we make our league more profitable because all the players have to play.
00:05:08.080 Yeah.
00:05:08.360 Or pay to sign up.
00:05:09.660 And the idea is typically you get picked up by, like, a European team.
00:05:13.280 Okay.
00:05:13.440 So it's like, and which was what I was going to do until, you know, this all, whatever.
00:05:18.140 And basically, like, they really believed that.
00:05:20.480 And I was comparing women's sports to charity work.
00:05:23.480 Right.
00:05:24.040 Well, it essentially is, isn't it?
00:05:25.520 Because they need the outside help to do anything.
00:05:29.160 And I thought about the WNBA.
00:05:31.000 What the WNBA does is it takes the top guys say, here's our charity work, women's sports. 1.00
00:05:36.360 We're going to take pay from the men.
00:05:37.840 Yeah.
00:05:38.180 And give it to the women. 1.00
00:05:39.160 And I thought about how this probably happens where men's wages are being stolen from by women. 1.00
00:05:45.380 But the men don't even know it because it's not their decision.
00:05:50.000 Right.
00:05:50.280 And what I thought about was in corporate America, the before and after of Twitter.
00:05:54.600 Yes.
00:05:54.980 So the before picture, there was a bunch of women there. 1.00
00:05:57.760 Yeah.
00:05:57.900 There was a bunch.
00:05:58.580 It was like half women. 0.95
00:05:59.740 And then when the rubber met the road and they said, oh, shit, we need to cut our expenses so we can make money.
00:06:05.660 Which resulted in a lot of women losing their jobs. 1.00
00:06:08.260 Yeah.
00:06:08.320 The women were the ones that went because they're not doing the actual work. 1.00
00:06:12.980 And now the company is innovating.
00:06:14.680 Yes.
00:06:15.420 And what backed up this claim also was that I would see these women with their what I do in a day at TikTok.
00:06:22.800 Yeah.
00:06:23.040 Yeah.
00:06:23.180 Yeah.
00:06:23.540 And it was always like, well, I went to a meeting and then I got my latte.
00:06:27.460 And so I'm thinking maybe they're not really doing that much work.
00:06:30.840 And I think this is everywhere, I think.
00:06:34.620 And again, yes, there are exceptions.
00:06:36.620 Even in Twitter, you know, it's funny.
00:06:39.380 I was I was not surprised at all.
00:06:41.820 There was like five chicks that made it like that was it. 1.00
00:06:45.240 And it was anyways.
00:06:46.920 But there was a couple of chicks that made it. 1.00
00:06:48.940 They're hard workers, whatever.
00:06:50.080 So, OK, my thought is I think this just goes on in society.
00:06:54.340 Yeah.
00:06:54.460 This is this is the reason I think that to back up this claim even further.
00:06:58.180 Twenty five percent of Iceland's population went on strike, mostly women.
00:07:04.420 OK.
00:07:04.820 Which you also see when we go by the hospital, it's always women protesting. 1.00
00:07:09.120 Right.
00:07:09.440 So twenty five percent of Iceland's population went on strike and nobody even noticed.
00:07:15.060 Pull up the video.
00:07:15.780 Oh.
00:07:17.200 Oh.
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00:07:45.280 Like, did you hear about that?
00:07:47.060 No.
00:07:47.380 I want to know what it is that they're fighting for.
00:07:49.780 They're fighting for equality.
00:07:51.580 But what?
00:07:52.140 OK.
00:07:52.980 What do you mean?
00:07:54.660 Well, if they were not have.
00:07:56.380 If they were so needed, why didn't they stand up?
00:07:58.020 the economy tank right i mean you could look at any business right it just looks like an excuse
00:08:03.960 to have a street party yeah like like you could look at any business if people didn't show up to
00:08:09.520 work shit starts to go south absolutely you notice it like 25 of bloody oil workers and 0.95
00:08:16.640 or even here 25 of the staff it would be like oh fuck yeah and they didn't even notice 0.75
00:08:22.460 so this further backs up my claim yeah that i really do think the majority of women have useless 1.00
00:08:30.360 jobs well yeah well they had to invent a bunch of useless jobs because they had all these women who 1.00
00:08:35.280 wanted to work they're not going to put these women in say jobs that need to be done by men for the 1.00
00:08:39.900 sake of society not collapsing yeah they had to invent a bunch of useless jobs human resources
00:08:45.340 project manager right and twitter's health and what is it uh diversity and inclusion diversity
00:08:53.220 and inclusion there's another one as well it's the uh the one that was censoring all the people
00:08:57.380 on twitter that was all women like 80 90 percent women yeah so the do you know rachel wilson yeah
00:09:03.880 yeah friend of the show she comments on this and says people have raged against me and pearly things
00:09:09.440 for saying that the world would actually be fine if women didn't go to work well it actually happened 1.00
00:09:14.340 and we were right nobody gave a shit plus iceland was already ultra egalitarian epic patriarchy w
00:09:21.520 yep the next comment says and you know what's interesting just to add to that in egalitarian
00:09:27.940 societies where the like access to equal opportunity is a lot more equal the women tend to do more 0.99
00:09:34.840 feminine jobs and the men tend to do more masculine jobs and actually the separation between the sexes is 0.56
00:09:39.740 much greater so that actually just reinforces what you're saying because that means those women chances 1.00
00:09:46.060 are they were in very much women's jobs so it's not like it's not the same as saying over here if 25
00:09:52.420 of the population went on strike because over here you know you've got more women in in masculine sectors 1.00
00:09:58.740 yeah but that just shows you that these women are women who would have been in likely feminine positions 1.00
00:10:03.920 and even with them disappearing like nothing nothing changed no one noticed you know what else
00:10:10.380 too i was reading some of the early anti-suffragists writing yeah did you know they equated women voting to 0.94
00:10:17.620 communism because yeah that makes sense yeah because they said it indicates that it's the vote of the
00:10:22.520 individual and not the vote of the family yeah yeah it's the family yeah and i never even thought about
00:10:28.300 that it that's it's more communism like i never even thought about that it's marxism and communism at its
00:10:34.760 core because it's the idea that the family is this oppressive unit and the idea that we we we have to be
00:10:40.760 all of these individuals in a pot rather than having like family units that are derived from hierarchies
00:10:47.100 it's it's ultimately the destruction of a hierarchy which is marxist and communist at its core
00:10:52.160 so they said women deserve the liberty to go to work if they want and denying them this is evil 0.92
00:10:57.680 most women would be happier at home if women left the job market and pass pay would skyrocket for men 1.00
00:11:05.100 allowing more most families to live comfortably on one income both are true at the same time i never
00:11:12.800 even i never even say that women should be banned from the workforce except in police officers that hill 0.94
00:11:20.340 i will die on get them out of the oil rigs get them out of the yeah and the sas yeah that that hill i 0.93
00:11:28.080 will die on but what's hilarious is that with the with the sas thing in particular i think they're making 0.92
00:11:33.320 it it's either happened or it's going to happen uh where women can can you know join the sas but the 0.99
00:11:40.780 thing is is that to join the sas um that's the special forces in the uk um so like the top of the top
00:11:47.260 like the people who are in this group you you have to be a specific type of human being to get into
00:11:51.860 that group it doesn't really make a difference for the sas because it's like we can say oh yeah 0.55
00:11:56.120 women come along and join they won't pass the training they won't make it no but they lower it 1.00
00:12:00.980 for them that's what they did in the u.s they they won't they as far as from what i know from someone
00:12:06.360 who knows quite a lot about this um they won't for the sas they might for the army and they might for
00:12:10.840 the police but because the sas is such a high up thing i don't think they will yeah hopefully 1.00
00:12:16.500 well if they do we're really well and it takes away from the women that actually pass those
00:12:21.320 requirements yes when there's quotas because then people just assume she's just there because she's 1.00
00:12:26.400 a woman and then you have incompetent people in positions of power exactly women can marry the 1.00
00:12:30.680 government but they don't see the government as the actual patriarchy they blame men under the same
00:12:35.260 system who were raised by single mothers married to the government yes uh probably the most peaceful
00:12:41.600 day men have had in century oh can you imagine they were able to go back to their old school banter
00:12:47.980 they were able to have a laugh they were able to say what they thought without worrying about a woman 0.86
00:12:52.840 listening they're like thank god these chicks are out here that's the thing i don't think women 1.00
00:12:58.180 realize how much they police men's speech i was talking about this on an interview yesterday we did an
00:13:03.400 interview for the audacity network me and shahara with a guy called mike bell and he's the founder
00:13:08.440 of an appg in the uk and he talks about men's rights we was talking about the fact that men don't
00:13:15.260 have men's spaces anymore there's more than enough women's spaces there's more than enough places that 1.00
00:13:20.000 are just for women in most gyms you've got areas that are women only you know you don't have any men's 0.82
00:13:24.740 only gyms in the uk there's a women's minister there's no men's minister and even in jobs where they 0.89
00:13:30.260 were predominantly before mostly men women have now infiltrated those spaces and what happens is 0.95
00:13:36.060 men can't talk how men talk even in places like the fire brigade you know you've got women firefighters 1.00
00:13:41.520 come in men are used to having a particular type of banter and and they can't when the women are 1.00
00:13:46.520 around and i think it's it's what me and you have had this conversation before most women haven't heard
00:13:51.520 how men talk when women aren't around the locker room talk so when they do hear it it triggers them and
00:13:56.700 they make a problem out of it but it's like you know i i sort of i i mentioned this on the interview
00:14:00.980 i i sort of it really irks me and i want to shake these women sometimes and be like do you not think 0.99
00:14:05.740 your dad your granddad oh yeah your brother has said stuff that if you heard in another room you
00:14:11.900 would be shocked let's not act innocent it's not like women don't say things to each other that if the 1.00
00:14:19.620 men heard they would be shocked too we totally have locker room talk this this guy totally yeah
00:14:26.580 exactly this guy mike bell made made a very very funny point what was it he said um men men insult
00:14:32.480 each other and don't mean it but women compliment each other and uh don't mean it i was just like
00:14:37.460 that is so true yeah that is so true yeah and that's what that's what frustrates me is then like
00:14:43.760 the women go to hr and they cry and do all this stuff and i'm like okay you've asked to be in a
00:14:49.220 man's world and i know some tough ass women i know some women that don't do this bullshit and they're 1.00
00:14:55.120 they're just tough women you know what's interesting in the 1900s they actually had the same like women 1.00
00:15:01.620 have put in policing men's speech even before like media they're in the workforce they would try to
00:15:06.740 police men's like bars oh that doesn't surprise me yeah like the 1900s there's like writings of them
00:15:11.500 trying to get yeah it's like the men are just like leave us alone bitches let us have a laugh 1.00
00:15:18.120 i think that's the point like men don't mean half the things they say yeah yeah and that's the bad
00:15:25.020 things they say but it's like women don't mean the good things they say so we don't even have a leg 1.00
00:15:30.700 to stand on yeah and uh come on guys like i'm like okay if you recorded women's locker like i grew up
00:15:37.400 an athlete like women talk very raunchy when it's not in like a public i'm like come on guys yeah 0.99
00:15:43.800 there's not stuff you've said you're god you've never said anything behind the scenes
00:15:48.600 inappropriate come on like get out of my face 1.00
00:15:52.020 oh
00:15:56.260 you