JustPearlyThings - When Modern Women Get Dumped (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 Because men are useless. 0.89

00:00:02.960 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.

00:00:05.580 Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:08.440 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:13.000 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:16.000 Nobody needs men! 1.00

00:00:17.220 The future is female. 1.00

00:00:20.260 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. 0.99

00:00:26.120 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:30.120 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:32.800 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:36.360 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:40.440 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:42.920 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:46.120 Now many of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:50.980 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:00:54.380 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:00:58.360 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:01.160 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:06.380 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:08.540 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:01:12.080 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:01:14.980 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:01:17.640 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:22.520 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:25.860 You need no evidence.

00:01:26.980 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

00:01:30.680 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:34.020 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:36.520 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:38.940 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:41.040 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:43.360 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:44.800 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:46.700 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:01:48.880 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:53.400 Family is a foundation of society.

00:01:55.120 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:01:58.240 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:02:02.600 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

00:02:04.540 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:06.360 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 0.99

00:02:08.120 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:10.880 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:15.340 Oh, freeze your ex, have an abortion. 1.00

00:02:17.200 What?

00:02:17.440 You're evil.

00:02:18.480 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:22.220 Right.

00:02:22.460 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally,

00:02:26.860 the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:29.060 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:29.960 And that's the thing.

00:02:30.520 Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00

00:02:33.720 This is not about happiness.

00:02:35.520 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:37.480 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when

00:02:42.680 I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:45.440 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:50.280 They think, well, men have all the rights. 0.95

00:02:51.800 They have all the power.

00:02:53.040 Privileged patriarchal system that we have.

00:02:55.320 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.99

00:02:57.920 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:01.160 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:03.060 Men are homeless.

00:03:04.040 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:05.420 I have seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:10.260 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:15.640 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:19.500 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.99

00:03:22.160 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among

00:03:28.020 men than among women. 0.87

00:03:29.300 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:31.120 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:32.160 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:34.000 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:35.280 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 1.00

00:03:37.220 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.66

00:03:39.860 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:43.500 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get... 1.00

00:03:45.720 500K.

00:03:46.400 500K.

00:03:46.800 300K.

00:03:47.340 300K.

00:03:47.780 200K.

00:03:48.240 Am I crazy?

00:03:48.940 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:03:51.200 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them. 1.00

00:03:54.780 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:03:58.700 Women. 0.81

00:03:59.060 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:02.320 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:04.580 I'm over it.

00:04:05.740 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:07.040 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:08.800 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:11.560 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:12.860 You simp for men. 0.99

00:04:13.280 No, I think you simp for women. 1.00

00:04:14.900 She's a provocateur. 1.00

00:04:15.860 She says stupid stuff.

00:04:17.040 But Pearl is right about this.

00:04:18.320 It's already happening.

00:04:19.440 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:20.900 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want 0.99

00:04:24.520 a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00

00:04:26.580 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:30.860 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:34.840 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:36.500 The American story does not end well.

00:04:39.060 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:42.000 All right, what's going on, everybody?

00:04:48.060 Welcome to another episode here of Pearl Daily.

00:04:50.700 I am your host, Pearl.

00:04:51.540 And today we are talking about female breakups.

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00:05:16.120 So anyways, guys, as you guys know, I do go to war with these trad cons.

00:05:23.600 I really do.

00:05:26.020 I really, you know what I just realized?

00:05:30.280 I left one of the lights on and it's okay.

00:05:32.780 I really go to war with these trad cons.

00:05:35.800 And there was a particular trad con that we really saw get red pilled in front of our own

00:05:42.680 eyes.

00:05:43.060 So to start the show, I want to talk about how Crowder has actually joined us in the women 0.86

00:05:50.960 ain't shit crowd.

00:05:52.840 Do you guys don't mind making this full screen when I play this?

00:05:57.720 Cause I got to, I'm going to fix the lighting thing.

00:06:01.440 And that's how you get to the point of being because you weren't giving her enough attention.

00:06:05.800 Exactly.

00:06:06.800 Exactly.

00:06:07.380 Exactly.

00:06:07.680 There was no more intimacy.

00:06:08.720 There was a breakdown in communication.

00:06:10.320 If a guy cheats, no matter what, he is a piece of crap societally.

00:06:14.020 Here's the thing.

00:06:15.100 There are now people on the right who are still telling you, no, no, young men.

00:06:20.280 It's not that the options available to you.

00:06:22.660 It's not that the agenda that's been driven home and that has been thrust upon you as a

00:06:27.660 problem.

00:06:27.880 It's actually just you, young men.

00:06:29.600 You are still, even though you make up 94% of workplace deaths, even though you make up 1.00

00:06:33.980 so many of the suicide.

00:06:35.020 Yeah.

00:06:35.620 Did you, you guys see the contrast between that and the clip from earlier?

00:06:40.360 Crowder had a very different tune a decade ago.

00:06:44.960 Very different tune.

00:06:47.180 A decade ago, he was telling men to man up and now he's saying, holy shit, he got zeroed

00:06:51.600 out.

00:06:52.760 Besides, you are the problem, at least according to Tommy Lauren.

00:06:56.400 It's a major problem.

00:06:57.580 And, you know, Speaker Johnson has been talking about those maybe deadbeat folks that are on

00:07:02.440 Medicaid and maybe some of those folks are the stay-at-home sons.

00:07:05.640 We don't know.

00:07:06.480 But I'll tell you this.

00:07:07.600 Leave it to Gen Z to rebrand laziness and social awkwardness as something cutesy, like a stay-at-home 1.00

00:07:14.020 son.

00:07:15.020 They did much the same thing with quiet quitting, where you can go to work and do less.

00:07:18.640 And if you call it quiet quitting, it's somehow better.

00:07:21.340 But Laura, I got to tell you, this is also a big problem when it comes to, I think, declining

00:07:25.740 birth rates.

00:07:26.520 What did the surgeon do to her nose? 0.99

00:07:31.260 Oh, my God.

00:07:33.200 People not getting married and having children.

00:07:35.320 You know, that's a big problem.

00:07:36.260 They blame it on women. 1.00

00:07:37.640 Well, look at what young women have to choose from. 0.99

00:07:40.260 The pickings are slim.

00:07:42.060 Yes, we might have a feminism problem in America. 1.00

00:07:44.720 Yeah, but what are women bringing to the table? 1.00

00:07:46.460 We're fat.

00:07:47.240 It's the feminization of. 0.97

00:07:48.800 Crowder is a recovering simp.

00:07:50.760 I think he's in recovery now.

00:07:53.020 I don't think he's how he used to be.

00:07:55.300 One evil woman red pills a man. 1.00

00:07:57.840 Men.

00:07:58.400 There are a lot of young women out there that want to get married. 1.00

00:08:01.160 They want to have kids.

00:08:01.980 Well, you want.

00:08:02.260 They want to have stable families.

00:08:03.760 You want.

00:08:04.120 But there are a lot of young men out there who want to live in mama's basement and order 0.99

00:08:08.260 DoorDash.

00:08:09.140 And therein lies a big part of the problem.

00:08:11.600 Yeah.

00:08:11.840 You know, I know a lot of men, actually, that live at home with their parents.

00:08:15.080 And it's not, they're all working, to be honest.

00:08:19.260 They just want to save money on rent.

00:08:21.620 I know probably three different men that have money for a house and they just live at home.

00:08:29.060 And it's not because they can't buy a house, but they don't really have a reason to.

00:08:34.280 Why pay rent when you don't have to?

00:08:37.720 Yeah.

00:08:38.000 And by the way, I understand this idea of dealing with the work ethic of young people in some

00:08:42.720 ways.

00:08:42.980 Sure.

00:08:43.280 Um, Tommy Loren is a master of the straw man.

00:08:48.780 Like that's just not the real problem.

00:08:50.700 It's, there are no options for men.

00:08:52.240 They've been, well, who's feminized men.

00:08:53.360 And I just heard Tommy Loren list a bunch of things that she wants and expects from men.

00:08:58.020 Okay.

00:08:59.440 But maybe men have expectations too.

00:09:01.900 So men are the ones who are living at mom's home and ordering DoorDash. 0.96

00:09:05.180 Um, here's the thing you need to understand around the 20 year old, like Gen Z women, they're 1.00

00:09:09.940 twice as likely to be obese as men.

00:09:13.280 They're significant.

00:09:15.200 16% of women were obese at age 20.

00:09:18.340 Jesus Christ.

00:09:20.600 More likely to be depressed and to be on psychiatric medication.

00:09:24.560 Uh, this is so, so young men who, by the way, are in many ways, becoming more fit.

00:09:30.320 Young men who are often in many ways, certainly young conservative men who are focusing on self-improvement.

00:09:34.320 That's the message that you hear from people like Dr.

00:09:36.240 Jordan Peterson.

00:09:37.020 That's the message you hear from a lot of people, whether you like them or not.

00:09:40.080 And I think he's wrong a lot, Andrew Tate.

00:09:41.560 That's the message you're hearing from people like Andrew Wilson out there.

00:09:43.520 It's resonating with young men.

00:09:44.760 It's not a message.

00:09:46.100 You can argue until you're blue in the face, but the message to young men right now, where

00:09:50.180 they are checking out of the dating pool.

00:09:51.440 The message is very consistent.

00:09:52.600 Young men get your house in order, make yourself valuable, make yourself desirable so you can 0.99

00:09:58.940 select the right kind of woman for you. 1.00

00:10:03.320 Young men are less obese.

00:10:05.580 They're less depressed.

00:10:06.940 They're more independent and women still blame young men. 0.86

00:10:11.100 Let me tell you, can anyone out there, can anyone out there name me one fat pride male

00:10:17.700 model, one, one who's making millions.

00:10:21.860 Hey, can anyone name me an equivalent to only fans for young men?

00:10:27.000 I've heard you've read numbers as high as 25% of young women have an only fans or have

00:10:31.080 considered it.

00:10:32.160 The lowest I've seen is 15%.

00:10:33.900 What's the equivalent?

00:10:35.620 Young straight men.

00:10:37.280 That doesn't include women that do sugar baby, escort, or just ran through Tinder, right? 0.99

00:10:43.240 There are young gay men that are fat, gross potato sex symbols. 1.00

00:10:48.060 Yeah.

00:10:48.400 Yeah.

00:10:48.660 I don't really know about sex.

00:10:50.160 I'm sure they have only fans, but as far as like the test holidays of the world, as far

00:10:54.360 as take your pick, the entire Victoria's Secret lineup where they did plus size.

00:11:00.560 Yeah.

00:11:00.700 Look, this is the, you cannot continue to blame men while women are being told that they are

00:11:07.320 beautiful at any size, that they can have an abortion at any time, that all of their

00:11:11.780 decisions are valid and none are valid for men. 0.92

00:11:15.200 To the point now where we've invalidated young men's decisions to not engage.

00:11:20.180 I will make the, I would argue young men have far fewer prospects when they're looking at

00:11:26.900 good women in their generation than women do. 1.00

00:11:29.180 And you know how, you know, the dialogue reflects that?

00:11:32.000 Tommy Lauren, she, she can't help herself.

00:11:33.960 She lists a bunch of expectations of men and none from herself.

00:11:39.480 Andrew Wilson asked her, we, that's why we had him on the show on Pierce Morgan.

00:11:43.460 He said, can you name me one duty?

00:11:45.220 He said, there are many women who would love to be feminine, who would love to have a man 1.00

00:11:48.520 take care of them, who would love to have, who would love to have a family and be able

00:11:51.980 to stay home.

00:11:52.500 Okay, great.

00:11:52.860 Those are things that you would want.

00:11:54.180 What are you bringing to the table?

00:11:55.400 Aside from being fatter, more depressed.

00:11:59.380 And having herpes and being on antidepressants.

00:12:02.480 Antidepressants, yeah.

00:12:03.560 Physically inert than ever.

00:12:05.100 That is young women. 0.96

00:12:06.760 It's not the same message that young men are being bombarded with.

00:12:10.840 Young men right now, and I have a son, I have a daughter.

00:12:13.680 I'm going to have to protect her from predators.

00:12:15.520 Anyone touches her wrong, guess what?

00:12:17.400 They, you'll see me on the nightly news with cuffs behind my back.

00:12:21.320 I have to protect him from false accusations of him being a predator.

00:12:26.300 I've had to think about this when you have a boy, girl, twin.

00:12:28.340 I have to teach my daughter that she is not perfect, just the way she is.

00:12:35.080 She is not a princess.

00:12:36.920 Everything she does is an inherently virtuous.

00:12:38.920 And I have to teach my son the same.

00:12:41.000 Also, you're not a piece of garbage because you were born a young white male.

00:12:45.980 Don't own the checking your privilege.

00:12:48.400 Don't own the white guilt.

00:12:49.840 Then I have to teach both of them.

00:12:51.400 You are both imperfect.

00:12:52.760 You are both fearfully and wonderfully created in the image of God.

00:12:55.540 And your actions define you.

00:12:57.180 Society says, man at fault, woman, beautiful at any size, brave, no matter what you do.

00:13:04.060 All choices are as valid as the next choice.

00:13:07.380 Men, these are your duties.

00:13:09.220 And then you see it from conservative, so-called conservative women. 1.00

00:13:12.100 These are, this is what we expect of you.

00:13:14.140 Okay.

00:13:15.160 What can we expect of women? 1.00

00:13:16.680 Why are you trying to control me?

00:13:18.460 Okay.

00:13:19.060 Then enjoy 60% of women being single and unmarried by the year 2035. 0.76

00:13:25.760 Yeah, I mean, what's happening is women are delaying marriage. 1.00

00:13:31.500 So if you do like women and childbearing, it's just the age of first birth and first marriage is going to get older and older.

00:13:37.220 Women are winning with our sexual strategy. 1.00

00:13:39.120 We're going to spend as much of our youth and fertility on ourselves.

00:13:44.860 Women don't, because he's still under the idea, and I went through this too, that women want to be in relationships. 0.98

00:13:49.900 But we really don't.

00:13:51.600 We don't.

00:13:52.260 Because if we wanted to, we would make choices to reflect that.

00:13:57.240 Five, I think, is a stat that I heard.

00:13:59.100 I'm sorry, what she just said is flat out wrong and sounds really shrill and naggy. 0.97

00:14:06.080 And there's hypocrisy in what she said, her fake, her fake little scenario that she presented.

00:14:10.680 Yeah.

00:14:10.960 A woman wants this, a woman wants that, a woman wants this. 1.00

00:14:13.060 And the man just wants to sit at home in his mom's basement.

00:14:16.300 Well, let's think about that little analogy just made up there.

00:14:18.680 His mom's basement?

00:14:19.700 Where's dad?

00:14:20.740 Yeah.

00:14:21.440 Did mom get tired of- 0.85

00:14:22.100 And I think most of the guys are just doing this to save rent.

00:14:25.880 Pretty much every guy I know that's living at home, under 35 or even under 40, they can afford a house.

00:14:34.040 But they don't have a woman to move in with. 0.88

00:14:36.540 They like their parents.

00:14:38.740 And they just think, eh, whatever.

00:14:40.820 You know, it's easier to just live here and not pay rent.

00:14:45.120 I don't think- men are kind of pragmatic.

00:14:48.000 Like, I know a lot of guys with the money for a house, but they just don't see the point.

00:14:52.980 Her marriage, when it was convenient for her, and then leave him, take the house.

00:14:57.000 80% chance.

00:14:57.280 And now dad's in an apartment, can't afford to provide for his son.

00:14:59.920 Yeah.

00:15:00.180 So now he's living at home with a mom who left his dad at a convenient time and put him out.

00:15:04.500 Oh, why would- what is it like women? 1.00

00:15:06.380 Why doesn't he trust women? 0.98

00:15:07.360 Yeah.

00:15:07.940 No, she's making it sound like young men just put in no effort and live at home.

00:15:11.520 Hold on a second.

00:15:11.920 Let me ask you.

00:15:12.880 Who was it who spearheaded an entire movement to make sure that you wouldn't have to pay for your own birth control?

00:15:18.580 Was it men with condoms?

00:15:22.100 What was it- or no, it was- that's right, Sandra Fluke, remember that?

00:15:24.940 Where it should all be taxpayer-funded, on-demand, period.

00:15:28.300 Same thing Hobby Lobby.

00:15:29.540 It was a violation of your rights to not have abortion or abortificance, as they believe it.

00:15:33.680 16 out of 21 birth control methods were paid for by Hobby Lobby Health Insurance, but it was a violation of your-

00:15:39.980 So who was the one who wants free birth control? 0.88

00:15:41.740 Who's the one- which group wants free extended maternity leave, free childcare, rearing, raising so you can out- 0.95

00:15:50.680 I just want to be clear.

00:15:52.260 Which one is that?

00:15:53.240 Is it- is it young men or is it young women?

00:15:57.740 How many young women are checking out and going to trade schools? 1.00

00:16:00.160 The trend that we see- how many are becoming carpenters, electricians, working in a foundry?

00:16:06.120 No, we're just getting jobs in human resources and basket study weaving programs.

00:16:12.640 Sure, there are plenty of lazy young men in type-

00:16:14.920 Matt says, I'm 40 and I still live with my mom and dad.

00:16:17.920 Pearl's right, there's no point in buying a property when I can build with my family.

00:16:21.120 They appreciate my resources and anytime I build with them.

00:16:23.880 Yeah, like some of the guys I know, it's just their parents are getting older.

00:16:27.840 Sometimes it's their mother, like they- maybe their dad died and like their mom just needs help.

00:16:33.440 And it's just easier.

00:16:34.440 Eddled young men. 0.98

00:16:35.400 Absolutely.

00:16:36.280 Is Tommy Lauren- is she- is she married to like a, um, like a-

00:16:40.000 Former baseball player.

00:16:40.560 Like a tradesman or- oh, it's- oh.

00:16:42.320 Who's now a coach.

00:16:43.120 Ah.

00:16:43.620 Yeah.

00:16:44.480 Okay.

00:16:44.780 I mean, that's cool.

00:16:45.320 I'm sure he's not a lazy guy, but-

00:16:46.720 Yeah.

00:16:47.020 Yeah, super-

00:16:47.520 She definitely- she definitely, uh-

00:16:49.600 Wealthy guy.

00:16:50.240 I'm sure wealthy guy.

00:16:51.360 She picked a lot of boxes for herself there.

00:16:52.320 Yeah.

00:16:52.880 I'm sure there were no tradesmen around who were working really hard-

00:16:55.360 She says all these young men are lazy.

00:16:56.880 Who do you think's putting up the frickin' electric poles? 0.99

00:16:59.040 I know.

00:17:00.320 Yeah.

00:17:00.720 Yeah.

00:17:01.360 More construction than ever in history in this country.

00:17:04.000 Yeah.

00:17:04.400 Who do you think is doing it, dum-dum? 1.00

00:17:06.080 Yeah, it's- but it's just a feminist- 1.00

00:17:07.520 Not young men? 0.76

00:17:08.400 Listen, it's just like a feminist rehash. 1.00

00:17:10.240 Fake nose makeup chicks, you think that's who's doing it? 1.00

00:17:12.560 Yeah.

00:17:13.120 Yeah.

00:17:13.600 Really?

00:17:14.160 You think-

00:17:14.960 Yeah.

00:17:15.440 Sorry, Gerald.

00:17:16.000 No, don't be.

00:17:16.640 No, you're fine.

00:17:17.040 My problem is it's just like Tommy Lauren is sounding just like

00:17:19.680 what she purports to hate.

00:17:20.960 And that's my issue with her specifically on this, is that

00:17:24.400 she doesn't look at what caused men to be in that state.

00:17:27.440 She doesn't look at that and say, hey, what are we telling young men right now?

00:17:31.280 What are we doing to them as women, as society in general? 0.99

00:17:34.720 What are we telling young men?

00:17:35.920 Because that's what we're really talking about is young men are checking out.

00:17:38.160 Okay, why?

00:17:39.200 Not, ah, stupid, lazy young men.

00:17:41.680 That's not how you solve the problem.

00:17:43.280 Even if you disagree with what's causing it, you don't go,

00:17:45.680 men are being lazy right now and living in mom's basement, stupid men. 0.96

00:17:49.760 We have enough men telling other men that they're stupid men.

00:17:52.080 We have enough self kind of regulation amongst men. 0.90

00:17:55.520 What we don't have enough of is looking at how are we training society?

00:18:00.000 Are you getting what you've asked for ladies? 1.00

00:18:02.400 Do you like what you have?

00:18:03.600 Okay.

00:18:04.400 Then let's change it.

00:18:05.680 Don't just keep blaming men.

00:18:07.600 Try to figure out what the root of the problem is.

00:18:09.280 Yeah.

00:18:09.680 Then we can get somewhere.

00:18:10.480 Well, there are two, there are two solutions to this.

00:18:12.480 Okay.

00:18:13.040 And they don't like the male solution.

00:18:14.480 The young male solution, statistically, and we've talked about this,

00:18:16.800 they're just checking out.

00:18:18.160 They're saying, I'm not going to get married.

00:18:19.680 It's too much risk.

00:18:20.960 I don't like the choices that I'm looking at before me as far as women. 1.00

00:18:25.520 Young women like Tommy Loren, their solution is to blame men more for checking out. 1.00

00:18:30.320 What about a young man who's just planning his life?

00:18:32.960 He's like, yeah, I'm working my ass off.

00:18:34.640 I'm working 10 hours, 12 hours a day, five to six days a week.

00:18:38.400 I come home.

00:18:39.040 My parents are not just my mom.

00:18:41.040 I hate that because it implies that the mom just leaves and takes everything,

00:18:44.240 and the dad's a deadbeat, whatever.

00:18:46.640 But he's just this young guy, he's living at home with his parents,

00:18:50.160 saving up money so that someday he can, when he's ready to propose to a woman,

00:18:54.240 when he's ready to start a family, when he's ready to suggest that to a woman,

00:18:56.880 he has all the things behind him, ready to go.

00:18:58.720 Yeah.

00:18:59.360 And he has the money.

00:19:00.240 He has an investment.

00:19:01.200 He has investment accounts.

00:19:04.160 He has down payment for a house.

00:19:05.920 Yeah.

00:19:06.400 Guy has a car that's paid off.

00:19:08.080 Yeah.

00:19:08.560 The guy who can support somebody.

00:19:09.760 What's wrong with that guy?

00:19:10.720 Yeah.

00:19:10.960 Because he lived at home with his parents until he was 25.

00:19:13.680 Right.

00:19:13.920 Took advantage of the opportunity he had because he came up kind of,

00:19:16.720 you know, not rich.

00:19:17.760 Let me tell you what a young man goes.

00:19:20.080 First off, let me give you a very clear example.

00:19:21.920 Okay.

00:19:22.720 If you have, if you're a man and you're obese,

00:19:24.320 now you're two times as likely to be obese.

00:19:25.840 If you're a woman, a young woman than a young man, that's just a fact. 1.00

00:19:29.440 And young men don't typically like obese women.

00:19:31.600 Black guys, we get it.

00:19:32.400 But that's so true.

00:19:37.840 So you're a young man and you're obese.

00:19:40.720 You're living in your basement.

00:19:42.240 You know what not one of your male friends says?

00:19:44.960 No, don't worry.

00:19:45.440 You're in great shape.

00:19:49.840 The best you can hope for is, hey, man, you're in a rough spot.

00:19:52.240 You know, I'm here.

00:19:52.960 I'm here for you.

00:19:53.680 You'll figure it out.

00:19:54.720 We don't tell them that you're beautiful and brave in your state of disarray.

00:19:59.120 Every single woman, by the way, who are twice as likely to be obese as young men 0.93

00:20:03.760 has friends going, no, Becky, you're beautiful.

00:20:06.800 If he doesn't, I had a scenario.

00:20:09.120 This is true.

00:20:10.240 I had a scenario where I was roped in by my then lady to console her friend

00:20:17.840 who boyfriend broke up with her.

00:20:20.320 And they were going, oh my God, let's go.

00:20:21.600 He just doesn't deserve you.

00:20:23.120 And they were like, tell her.

00:20:24.240 I go, I remember when she cheated on him.

00:20:28.560 And they all were like, no, it's his loss.

00:20:36.000 I'm like, no, it's not.

00:20:37.360 It's not like he.

00:20:41.040 Oh, that's so funny.

00:20:42.400 Dodged a bullet.

00:20:43.440 Where have you been, Crowder?

00:20:44.960 We've been waiting for you.

00:20:46.160 It took a divorce.

00:20:47.280 You want me to, you want.

00:20:48.960 Whereas if a guy cheats on a woman, we all go, even the bad guys,

00:20:53.600 like, nah, she caught you.

00:20:54.800 Well, them's the breaks.

00:20:56.160 It's your consequence.

00:20:57.440 Young men are held accountable.

00:20:59.280 Young women are not. 1.00

00:21:00.640 And that's how you get to the point of being Coney Lorette.

00:21:03.040 She only cheated because you weren't giving her enough attention. 1.00

00:21:04.800 Exactly.

00:21:05.360 Oh boy.

00:21:05.920 Exactly.

00:21:06.560 Exactly.

00:21:06.960 There was no more intimacy.

00:21:08.080 There was a breakdown in communication.

00:21:09.840 If a guy cheats no matter what, he is a piece of crap societally.

00:21:13.680 And I'm not saying that either one is okay.

00:21:15.760 But I remember going through that going, wow, I guess there is no wrong

00:21:18.880 that can be committed here that is impermissible.

00:21:22.240 Hey, let me ask you this.

00:21:23.120 You're a young man.

00:21:23.680 You go through it.

00:21:24.160 You go, oh, okay.

00:21:25.120 Hey, I think she's really, I think that woman's really, you know what? 1.00

00:21:28.720 I'm going to take my show.

00:21:29.520 Oh wait, can't cat call.

00:21:30.800 Oh wait, according to Gillette, I can't even go up and hit on a woman. 1.00

00:21:33.680 Okay.

00:21:34.800 Oh wait, we have a problem of rape culture. 1.00

00:21:36.560 So if everything is consensual, but she doesn't like me later on and I break up,

00:21:40.080 she could still go out and falsely accuse me of rape. 1.00

00:21:42.080 And I lose everything as we saw with Aziz Ansari, as we saw with Chris Hardwick,

00:21:45.040 as we saw with plenty of, as we saw with Trevor Bauer.

00:21:47.600 Okay.

00:21:47.920 There's that.

00:21:48.320 All right.

00:21:48.720 Well, let's say I work.

00:21:50.240 I do, I don't incur student debt and I finally find a right woman.

00:21:53.120 Okay.

00:21:53.360 I want, oh, well, if she doesn't want to work it. 1.00

00:21:55.600 Okay.

00:21:55.840 She's going to go out and work. 0.98

00:21:56.640 She's not going to raise the kids. 1.00

00:21:57.520 Oh, I guess I have to outsource the raising of my children,

00:21:59.760 which is never a part of my dream.

00:22:00.960 All right.

00:22:01.200 I guess I'm going to, you know, I'm going to work extra.

00:22:02.880 And Crowder knows about that.

00:22:04.320 He got a white woman, white women love nannies. 1.00

00:22:08.960 They do not want to be moms. 0.95

00:22:10.800 They're like, who else can do this?

00:22:13.680 Who else for hearts that we can get the best nanny and oh, 1.00

00:22:16.320 now I'm not present enough at home and she's gone.

00:22:19.040 And the law says that even if she never made as much as me,

00:22:22.480 she can take all of it.

00:22:23.680 And now I'm living in a junior suite.

00:22:25.120 So men go, you know what?

00:22:26.480 Considering the caliber of women out there in the young generations, 1.00

00:22:31.120 they're checking out.

00:22:32.080 And I'm not even a month.

00:22:32.880 I'm 37.

00:22:33.600 Especially if it's a young man and their mom is that woman. 0.99

00:22:37.120 Yeah.

00:22:37.600 In that scenario, you just, you just played out.

00:22:39.360 Yeah.

00:22:39.840 Their mom is that woman. 0.86

00:22:41.200 Why won't this man get married?

00:22:42.880 Yeah.

00:22:43.440 And by the way, you also hear, by the way, if he loves you,

00:22:45.680 he'll love you just the way you are.

00:22:47.680 Women tell other women. 1.00

00:22:48.640 Guess what?

00:22:49.360 That's not true.

00:22:54.080 Loves you.

00:22:54.800 There are things he wants to change about you.

00:22:56.560 Just like.

00:22:57.040 I know Crowder's nanny was working 50 plus hours a week. 1.00

00:23:01.280 Yup.

00:23:03.120 White women and nannies. 1.00

00:23:04.480 You with him, you know, the pet project that you treat him as.

00:23:07.280 But then I've also heard women go, 1.00

00:23:08.880 if love is never transactional.

00:23:11.120 You just heard not one, two, three, but four or five.

00:23:14.560 Transactional portions of that equation.

00:23:16.880 Man has to be successful.

00:23:18.240 Man has to be a provider.

00:23:19.680 Man has to be masculine. 0.99

00:23:20.960 Man has to lead until he starts leading in a way that you don't like.

00:23:23.680 In which case you can leave him and take half.

00:23:27.040 Love is never transactional.

00:23:29.200 But she's not going for a carpenter. 1.00

00:23:31.680 Who's working his ass off and making a good living, but isn't rich.

00:23:34.240 And is a good man who will treat her right.

00:23:36.800 There are plenty of men like that around.

00:23:39.040 Young women aren't interested. 1.00

00:23:40.320 And young women are fatter, more depressed, less mentally stable. 0.98

00:23:44.160 And men are checking out.

00:23:45.440 Here's the thing.

00:23:46.080 You can scream women. 1.00

00:23:47.840 And I don't want to see this.

00:23:48.880 I want to see a return to traditional relationships.

00:23:52.160 Because it's the most fulfilling thing that you can find in your life.

00:23:54.640 If you find a woman who is good. 1.00

00:23:56.160 And women, if you find a man who is a leader and submit to him as in any other 0.53

00:24:04.720 subordinate role to a leader, you will too find what is good.

00:24:08.320 But here's the reality.

00:24:10.080 You can scream until you're blue in the face and blame.

00:24:13.200 They're checking out now.

00:24:14.160 They're just not.

00:24:15.120 They're just not getting married.

00:24:16.880 They don't think it's worth it.

00:24:18.640 You can scream.

00:24:20.480 You can continue to blame men and you will die alone.

00:24:24.880 That is a guarantee.

00:24:27.760 There is no door.

00:24:29.520 There's always a simp, Crowder.

00:24:31.680 I hate to say it, but there's always a guy that'll do it.

00:24:34.240 There is.

00:24:35.280 Number two, until you start taking, taking that lens

00:24:41.120 and looking back on yourself.

00:24:42.480 Let's talk about choice.

00:24:43.440 Because I always hear about women's choice. 1.00

00:24:44.880 All right.

00:24:45.280 I think we got enough.

00:24:46.320 That was amazing.

00:24:48.160 Welcome to the Red Pill crew, Steven Crowder.

00:24:51.680 Welcome.

00:24:53.200 We've been waiting for you.

00:24:57.200 All right.

00:24:57.600 Well, let's get into today's topic.

00:24:59.200 The reason why you guys are all here.

00:25:03.040 All right.

00:25:03.680 So everybody, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:25:08.960 Today, we're going to talk about women getting dumped. 1.00

00:25:11.920 So we all know that women end 70 to 80% of relationships and marriage. 0.99

00:25:17.200 And there's a social infrastructure in place to encourage women leaving their men.

00:25:22.560 They leave because they're not happy.

00:25:24.400 They leave because they think they can do better.

00:25:26.640 They leave because they get pumped and dumped by Chad, Gavis, Tyrone.

00:25:32.160 And all you hear about in society is women breaking up with men. 1.00

00:25:36.160 But what happens when it's the other way around?

00:25:39.440 Over here, we recognize that men give a lot more in relationships than women.

00:25:45.280 Men are expected to pay for everything. 1.00

00:25:47.200 They're expected to give up their hobbies and peace of mind just to have a woman in their lives. 0.90

00:25:52.480 Men also deal with so much more than women would deal with in a relationship.

00:26:00.080 Think about it, guys.

00:26:01.280 The last girl you dated, she probably wouldn't shut up. 1.00

00:26:06.320 She made you go do things you didn't want to do.

00:26:09.280 She nagged you in your own house. 0.94

00:26:11.840 She had some pet that she brought around that messed up all your stuff. 0.92

00:26:15.840 So if a man leaves, it's usually stuff that's serious.

00:26:19.120 Women cannot handle being broken up with. 1.00

00:26:21.200 We can't handle rejection.

00:26:22.320 We refuse to do the inner work to see how we contributed to a certain situation.

00:26:27.440 That's what we are going to talk about today.

00:26:29.440 Women and how they can't handle when men break up with them. 1.00

00:26:34.240 All right.

00:26:34.560 So first, let's talk about the top five reasons why men leave.

00:26:38.400 Here's an article.

00:26:41.120 Okay.

00:26:41.440 You thought you had the perfect guy.

00:26:42.800 You couldn't imagine him cheating or walking out on you.

00:26:45.520 I hear this frequently in my office.

00:26:47.680 Why didn't he tell you how he felt?

00:26:49.520 Why did he clam up or act like everything we did was okay when it wasn't?

00:26:52.880 He was so into you that you thought he would never leave.

00:26:57.120 These are the things that guys keep to themselves.

00:26:59.680 A majority of men I counsel are complimentary about their partners until I ask them how she makes

00:27:05.600 him feel.

00:27:06.800 And they begin revealing all the things that hurt them.

00:27:10.000 When a guy feels hurt, he seldom uses words to express himself.

00:27:14.560 When he may say he feels angry or he feels neglected, but for him to say what you really

00:27:21.280 did hurt my feelings or you made me feel like less of a man is rare.

00:27:24.960 Unfortunately, women expect words from men that they can't relate to.

00:27:29.600 Therefore, they frequently overlook how their actions may be making a man feel.

00:27:33.920 Men don't typically just walk out of a door and leave the love of their life.

00:27:39.440 If they do, they probably won't explain why.

00:27:42.560 Here are the top five reasons why guys leave.

00:27:45.600 One, a guy cannot feel loved or build trust with someone who they feel disrespected by.

00:27:54.640 He needs to feel like his opinion matters and that you have his back.

00:27:58.320 When a man gets close to you, he understands you see his weakness.

00:28:02.160 He needs to feel accepted even with his weakness.

00:28:05.280 When you talk with your friends about how your partner is like another child, how much more money

00:28:09.920 you make or all you do for the family, his natural instinct is to feel defensive and compete against

00:28:16.160 you.

00:28:16.720 If his masculinity is threatened, you're making all the decisions.

00:28:20.400 He questions why he's in a relationship.

00:28:23.040 He feels like he's a project instead of a partner.

00:28:25.600 Trying to fix your partner is like pushing them out the door.

00:28:28.640 He questions if he can ever please you or if he'll match up to your expectations.

00:28:33.120 Instead of trying harder, he gives up and becomes apathetic and the relationship falls apart.

00:28:38.800 He feels sexually rejected.

00:28:40.320 The majority of men I counsel feel unloved by their partner.

00:28:43.520 Men feel as though their partner makes excuses not to be with them.

00:28:47.360 He compares the way you dress for work or for girls night to the way you dress around the house.

00:28:52.400 He feels used in questions if you love him or your lifestyle more.

00:28:56.320 This is a contributing factor to divorce. 0.99

00:28:58.720 Moms often become more emotionally attached to their children than their husband. 0.81

00:29:03.120 He begins feeling rejected emotionally and sexually.

00:29:08.640 Five, he feels unappreciated.

00:29:10.880 A man will do almost anything for a woman he loves as long as he feels appreciated.

00:29:15.360 He needs to be recognized by his partner as satisfying her the most.

00:29:19.200 Men may seem unemotional, detached, and focused on other things,

00:29:23.520 but they hear everything you say about them when it involves appreciation.

00:29:28.640 Don't wait to thank him.

00:29:29.840 It loses its significance when they're walking out the door.

00:29:32.880 A relationship involves two different people, and that means men and women must think about what

00:29:37.600 they say and do, how what they say and do affects their partners.

00:29:41.040 Women have permission in society to feel pain and hurt, but men find that more difficult and usually

00:29:46.320 only share how they feel with their significant other.

00:29:49.040 If you're the person who holds your man's feelings, hold your man's hidden feelings,

00:29:54.640 take extra care to treat him with respect and appreciation.

00:29:59.680 All right, put a one in the chat.

00:30:00.880 If you've ever dumped a woman for any of those reasons, make sure you like the video while you're

00:30:05.680 here. There's 650 of you in the chat. It would be great to get 600 likes. A like is free.

00:30:12.800 Okay. Why men quit relationships. Women says the three reasons why men leave relationships. 0.96

00:30:19.440 Here are the top three reasons why some men leave relationships. I've done some research.

00:30:25.120 Let's get into it family. Number one, their needs are not being met and have not been met for a period

00:30:30.800 of time. And therefore they have given up on the idea that their needs will be met in this relationship.

00:30:35.840 Number two, he feels unappreciated and like he's being taken for granted.

00:30:40.560 Number three, there is a lack of connection and intimacy.

00:30:43.840 This lack of connection can cause a man to disconnect completely.

00:30:47.120 I mean, completely. And it creates a desire within him to move on.

00:30:53.680 All right, there we go. Number one, crazy girl won't leave her ex-boyfriend alone. 1.00

00:31:00.160 Hello? Oh, man.

00:31:02.320 Can I keep knocking on that door? Okay. Well, I need you to come over here and wait for the door.

00:31:05.840 Ma'am, step away from the door. 1.00

00:31:09.520 All right, go inside. I don't want her here. She's been asked to leave many, many times.

00:31:13.360 She doesn't want to leave. I don't want her hurt. I don't want her arrested. I just want her out of 0.83

00:31:17.440 here, please. And I want it noted. I want to report. You can see she's been doing this forever. I've

00:31:22.560 been waiting for my glass to come in and break. She dated my son. They're not together anymore.

00:31:27.040 And I don't want her on my premises. This is my home. I don't want her here. And this is my son.

00:31:32.640 And I don't want him coming out of here because I don't feel safe with her, with him.

00:31:36.960 Okay. Ma'am, what is your name?

00:31:38.720 You're here, ma'am.

00:31:40.320 Ma'am. Dang. Just take the L. That's enough. 0.99

00:31:44.480 What is your name?

00:31:45.040 I don't want her in trouble. I just want her to understand she's not welcome here.

00:31:49.120 What's her first name?

00:31:49.920 She doesn't want to answer me.

00:31:50.880 Sandra? Samantha?

00:31:52.160 Samantha? Are you hearing what she's saying?

00:31:56.240 Hello? Samantha?

00:31:57.920 I bet he had that good D. That is the only way you have a girl acting that nuts. 1.00

00:32:02.240 Have your driver's license. You're an ID with you.

00:32:05.200 Okay. This is going to last for a couple more minutes until my other deputy gets here. And then

00:32:09.760 she's going to have two routes. One, she's going to answer me or she's going to go to jail. 1.00

00:32:13.440 You have two routes. Can you answer him or are you going to leave?

00:32:14.800 No, she's going to go to jail. 1.00

00:32:16.400 Okay. So please, that's not what we want.

00:32:18.400 Stop. Just give me your driver's license.

00:32:19.760 I don't have it with me. You still need to leave.

00:32:22.560 Well, then you need to talk to me.

00:32:23.760 I can understand how relationships and stuff like that can be very, very volatile.

00:32:28.640 But this is not the way to act like it because I'm assuming you're an adult.

00:32:33.600 All right?

00:32:36.640 What is your last name?

00:32:41.280 Amanda, what is your last name?

00:32:42.560 Samantha, if you keep instructing him, he is going to-

00:32:45.680 Samantha, you're currently trespassing. Do you have ID on you?

00:32:50.160 You don't or are you not going to provide it?

00:32:52.480 I don't have it.

00:32:53.600 Okay. I'm asking.

00:32:54.640 Are you going to leave?

00:32:56.800 Do you have your registration in your car?

00:32:58.480 Yeah.

00:32:58.560 You have your registration in your car?

00:32:59.920 You brought that in your car right now, that car.

00:33:01.760 I'm sure I'm about to show your registration.

00:33:04.000 Are you going to leave right now off this property?

00:33:09.040 Is this her car right here?

00:33:10.320 Yes.

00:33:10.720 Okay.

00:33:11.680 Is that a yes or no?

00:33:13.760 I'm not going to ask you again.

00:33:14.960 Sam, they're not playing with you.

00:33:17.120 We just want you to leave our home. We don't wish you any ill will. You're just not welcome.

00:33:22.160 You can't logic with crazy mother. Tell her to arrest them. Tell her to arrest her. 1.00

00:33:27.520 Welcome here anymore. You need to leave.

00:33:30.320 Why would you want to go and obstruct justice and get yourself into trouble

00:33:34.240 when you're being given the chance by three officers to leave here who are being very

00:33:39.200 respectful and calm with you and giving you the chance to go to your home and deal with whatever

00:33:43.920 it is that you need to deal with. Brutal. Brutal. Okay. Part two. Let's see what she does next. 1.00

00:33:53.280 I love police cam justice and get yourself into trouble when you're being given the chance by

00:33:58.480 three officers to leave here who are being very respectful and calm with you and giving you the

00:34:04.160 chance to go to your home and deal with whatever it is that you need to deal with today

00:34:09.200 and not be here and get yourself in trouble. It's not worth it.

00:34:13.920 You just can't stay here. That's going to cause your problems later.

00:34:18.640 If you get arrested, then you got to go back to court. Then you're considered a stalker.

00:34:23.280 Then you're obstructions of justice. Now listening to a police officer.

00:34:26.960 Are you going to leave right now? Please leave and do not come back.

00:34:31.920 Yes or no. Okay. So you heard her. She wants you to trespass from this point.

00:34:41.600 It's on camera. If you come back on this property and we catch you here, you go to jail.

00:34:46.160 Do you understand? All right. Thank you. I don't know.

00:34:57.600 All right. Like I said, if she comes back on your property, you call us. 0.95

00:35:00.480 You're welcome. She's blue fit. Stop sign. 0.97

00:35:10.880 Go get her. She's going to kill somebody. Yep. 1.00

00:35:13.360 They think they're going to have no consequences.

00:35:24.800 And by the way, guys, we want you to call in later and tell us your breakup stories.

00:35:29.760 So get ready. There's going to be a link in the chat in a bit.

00:35:32.160 The suspect passed seven business parking lots, multiple side streets,

00:35:43.120 and a few turning lanes, but didn't stop.

00:35:50.640 Turn the car off. Turn it off. Turn the car off. Turn it off. Turn the car off.

00:35:57.040 Get out of the car off. Turn the car off. That girl's going to get shot or something. 1.00

00:36:04.560 Okay. A woman cheats on a man and also will not leave his doorstep. 1.00

00:36:10.960 Open the door. I'm not letting you be with nobody else. I'm not playing.

00:36:15.680 Well, you did what you did. I'm not playing that on me.

00:36:18.480 Check this out, man. I'm going to make this last screen.

00:36:22.240 Eight years. Eight years you want to let it go.

00:36:24.880 You should have thought about that when you did what you did.

00:36:27.120 You want that I said go, please. Please.

00:36:29.920 Go, go, go.

00:36:31.040 That's the .

00:36:32.240 Man, come on.

00:36:33.200 I want you.

00:36:34.240 I want you. I can't live without you.

00:36:39.520 You've thought about that when you did what you did.

00:36:41.600 I've been coming by this hell for three days, and you ain't been you never .

00:36:45.680 Bro, she's crashing out. 0.99

00:36:47.040 You're going somewhere like you're not in here.

00:36:49.600 I got neighbors right and I need you to go.

00:36:52.240 I'm not going nowhere.

00:36:53.600 I need you to go.

00:36:57.040 It's done.

00:36:57.520 I'm not going nowhere when you close the door on me.

00:37:00.720 I'm going to keep.

00:37:01.280 I'm going to stay right here.

00:37:02.320 I'm sleeping.

00:37:02.960 I will.

00:37:03.360 I'm not going nowhere.

00:37:05.840 Man, if you need a seat in a blanket, you can cap out right now.

00:37:08.880 He said, I think he should.

00:37:09.920 One of the comments says, I think he should forgive her and take her back and then treat her like Cassie.

00:37:14.800 Oh.

00:37:15.600 No!

00:37:17.360 No!

00:37:18.240 Don't leave me.

00:37:19.600 No, no, no.

00:37:20.400 No, no.

00:37:20.720 TJ, he came on the beat.

00:37:22.640 I didn't even know I was drinking.

00:37:24.880 Like, no, you serious?

00:37:26.320 Go drink, do you have your liquor next?

00:37:27.520 I don't know.

00:37:28.400 Oh no.

00:37:29.840 You're back.

00:37:30.400 You're back.

00:37:31.360 You're back.

00:37:31.920 I can't do this.

00:37:33.280 I can't live without you.

00:37:35.280 I'm not living with.

00:37:36.280 I can't do it.

00:37:37.280 Yeah, you are.

00:37:38.280 I can't do it.

00:37:39.280 I'm not saying.

00:37:40.280 You think that I want another?

00:37:42.280 That's all I ever wanted.

00:37:45.280 Man, I can't do it.

00:37:47.280 I'm really like by the coolant.

00:37:51.280 Oh my God.

00:37:56.280 I can't live without you line.

00:37:58.280 All right.

00:37:59.280 Girl gets rejected and looks like a psychopath. 0.92

00:38:02.280 Wait, what did it say?

00:38:08.280 Hold on.

00:38:09.280 It said, watch me get rejected by my crush.

00:38:28.280 Pay phone.

00:38:32.280 Hey.

00:38:33.280 I was wondering if it's Sophia, if you want to come grab dinner with me and I'll buy.

00:38:42.280 Oh, who is this?

00:38:43.280 Sophia.

00:38:44.280 Okay.

00:38:45.280 What's up?

00:38:46.280 Do you want to go get sushi stop and I'll buy?

00:38:48.280 I'm kind of busy.

00:38:49.280 Okay.

00:38:50.280 What's up?

00:38:51.280 Do you want to go get sushi stop and I'll buy?

00:38:52.280 I'm kind of busy.

00:38:53.280 Okay, that's fine.

00:38:54.280 Are you sure?

00:38:55.280 I mean, I'll pay just for a second.

00:38:56.280 No, like.

00:38:57.280 I just want to talk to you about everything and say sorry.

00:38:58.280 And like no expectations.

00:38:59.280 I literally am just like, I was in the area just by Riley's.

00:39:03.280 Yeah, I can't.

00:39:04.280 I can't.

00:39:05.280 I can't.

00:39:06.280 Yeah.

00:39:07.280 Yeah.

00:39:08.280 What the hell did she do to get that response? 0.99

00:39:10.280 Right.

00:39:11.280 Oh, I can't.

00:39:12.280 I can't.

00:39:13.280 I can't.

00:39:14.280 Yeah.

00:39:15.280 What the hell did she do to get that response? 0.99

00:39:17.280 Oh, okay.

00:39:18.280 All right.

00:39:19.280 I'm doing something right now.

00:39:20.280 Oh, okay.

00:39:21.280 For sure.

00:39:22.280 Maybe later sometime.

00:39:23.280 Okay.

00:39:24.280 Bye.

00:39:25.280 Bye.

00:39:26.280 Bye.

00:39:27.280 Bye.

00:39:28.280 Bye.

00:39:29.280 Bye.

00:39:30.280 Bye.

00:39:31.280 Bye.

00:39:32.280 Bye.

00:39:33.280 Bye.

00:39:34.280 Bye.

00:39:35.280 Bye.

00:39:36.280 Bye.

00:39:37.280 Bye.

00:39:38.280 Bye.

00:39:39.280 Bye.

00:39:40.280 Bye.

00:39:41.280 Bye.

00:39:42.280 Bye.

00:39:43.280 Bye.

00:39:44.280 Bye.

00:39:45.280 Bye.

00:39:46.280 Bye.

00:39:47.280 Bye.

00:39:49.280 Bye.

00:39:50.280 Bye.

00:39:51.280 Bye.

00:39:52.280 Bye.

00:39:53.280 Bye.

00:39:54.280 Bye.

00:39:55.280 Bye.

00:39:56.280 Bye.

00:39:57.280 Bye.

00:39:58.280 Bye.

00:39:59.280 Bye.

00:40:00.280 Bye.

00:40:01.280 Bye.

00:40:03.280 Bye.

00:40:04.280 Bye.

00:40:13.280 Bye.

00:40:14.280 Bye.

00:40:16.280 Bye.

00:40:17.280 he was easy to talk to but towards the end that's when we started getting into

00:40:21.660 like the more serious questions I try to keep first dates like 90 to 95 percent

00:40:27.000 fun and light-hearted and just like a vibe and only like 5 to 10 percent more

00:40:32.280 serious deep conversation so we got to like the question of like what are you

00:40:36.240 looking for long term and I was honest I said you know I see myself being a

00:40:40.560 stay-at-home mom one day I don't know how to work this oh I see trying out this

00:40:45.900 new concealer by me she's not hot enough for a doctor unless he's kind of simpy 0.99

00:40:50.340 and anyway the doctor was super honest with me about he sees himself with a

00:40:55.020 partner who works full-time like long term like even when they have kids and he

00:41:00.180 was really honest you know he says that you know he's a family practice medicine

00:41:04.740 or something like that and he has so many student debts he can't financially

00:41:10.140 provide for a family for like 10 to 15 years I feel like I put on way too much

00:41:14.580 concealer like what's the point of the ball and listen I do want to be a

00:41:18.240 stay-at-home mom but what he said is not a deal-breaker for me because you have to

00:41:22.680 put it into perspective we live in California we live in one of the most

00:41:25.860 expensive places to live so yeah him as a family doctor with you know hundreds of

00:41:31.740 thousand dollars of debt probably for medical school yeah he can't afford a

00:41:35.160 family here but if we were to fall in love and you know date seriously we could

00:41:40.740 just move right that's why in my mind I'm like this this isn't a deal-breaker for

00:41:45.960 me I didn't say that to him but that's what I was thinking I feel like I can

00:41:49.680 still see my pimple so far I like this concealer so we finished dinner and it's

00:41:54.060 when he's dropping me off that he was really honest with me remember we met on

00:41:58.740 delight where you have to unmatch your match in order to keep swiping to get a

00:42:03.120 new match so he told me that he didn't think our ideal future lifestyles were

00:42:07.140 compatible and look at I could have disagreed with him but what's the point

00:42:11.160 because he doesn't really like me he's just not that into me so I agreed with

00:42:15.060 them thanked him for dinner and by the time I made it back to my apartment he

00:42:18.900 had unmatched me on delight but here's the best part I got rematched with a guy

00:42:23.520 who I had previously swiped right on before I matched with the doctor and we

00:42:27.780 talked a bit last night and guess what I'm getting ready for right now she took

00:42:33.120 the L okay this was a this was an all right that's right your girl already has 0.51

00:42:38.040 another dinner date for 5 p.m. tonight ladies don't let rejection get to you 1.00

00:42:43.800 final makeup look now I just need to do my hair wish me luck yeah he probably

00:42:50.000 found her tick-tock all right crazy ex-girlfriend comes over to a 1.00

00:42:55.080 boyfriend's house hey it's funny me um okay

00:43:00.000 do you know what day it was yesterday day yesterday I don't know it's Monday my

00:43:06.420 birthday okay happy birthday right now but I'm sure she didn't actually message me

00:43:13.540 yesterday to be honest sorry what I'm sure she didn't message me yesterday

00:43:18.880 okay but you blocked me okay but you blocked me no I haven't blocked you on

00:43:27.520 Instagram yes you have you blocked my you blocked my number you blocked me off

00:43:32.440 Instagram like we've broken up like I'm like like a month ago yeah but you know

00:43:38.080 you can email me you can wish me happy birthday it's just the least that you

00:43:43.540 could do even though you've just broken up not that long ago I still I still care about

00:43:47.740 you in it but hopefully you care about me but clearly you don't wish me happy

00:43:51.220 birthday okay but okay but you broke up with me like how am I supposed to say

00:43:54.100 happy birthday I feel like this might be a scare to you how am I supposed to

00:43:57.040 happy birthday to you if you blocked me because there's so many ways you can

00:44:01.740 you've got my email you could email me you could even you can even bank

00:44:04.840 transfer me a penny doesn't even have to break the bank for it transfer me a

00:44:08.560 penny put reference happy birthday there's so many people that do that

00:44:11.680 nowadays like why am I gonna bank transfer you money or like even a

00:44:16.360 penny when like you blocked me and you're the one who broke up with me I

00:44:22.060 just don't think it's a bit unfair that you're not even wishing me happy but if

00:44:26.680 it was your birthday yeah I'd have 100% to wish my birthday oh my gosh okay I had

00:44:34.240 four guys break oh okay now we can watch the breakups last week so guys last week I

00:44:41.560 decided I wanted you guys to give give you guys a chance to dump me obviously we

00:44:49.480 could see how well I took these um breakups so I had a great breakup guy

00:44:55.540 number five or four I think it was Sean he calls in a lot he had a great

00:45:01.420 breakup so let's react to these wait wait I can change I can change I'll do

00:45:06.700 better you've had three months to do it I haven't seen any change sorry yeah can

00:45:13.240 you guys can you guys um dump me on stream I want to see how you guys would

00:45:16.840 do it all right can I get like you guys is dumping speeches scenario you gotta give

00:45:23.440 us a scenario of how why are we dumping okay so the scenario is it's just not

00:45:29.500 like um I don't know what's the not cheating she's just not putting out no no putting out

00:45:37.240 not cheating but you're just like over it it's who I am as a person go ahead how about this how

00:45:42.580 about this she wants she's spending too much time at your house and she's like she's putting too much time at

00:45:51.580 your house and she doesn't like your interest so she's starting to put herself at odds with

00:45:57.100 your with your business time and your hobbies how about that okay yeah let's do it Shiv you

00:46:03.100 want to go Shiv you want to go first yeah so for me I I just don't give women reasons I just break 1.00

00:46:08.420 up with them so I just be like hey like I found out like my grandma's really sick I might have to go

00:46:14.000 to India for four months oh don't worry wait wait but but I'll wait for you I'll wait for you

00:46:20.340 no you don't understand like you deserve so much better I don't you're the no you're the

00:46:26.320 you're the one for me don't worry I'll be there for you girl I'm gay I'm gay

00:46:31.980 get the fuck out i'm having i did i'm asexual i identify as that's okay 0.95

00:46:41.400 that's okay

00:46:44.400 okay then can we just be can we just be friends and still hang out it's against my religion i

00:46:54.500 changed so i'm a scientologist now okay all right glenn you're next tell me i'm ready

00:47:02.300 i'm like let's say i want to say that once again she she's she insists on coming to your house

00:47:09.220 so you you haven't had alone time in like a month a month and a half because she wants to spend

00:47:14.200 every waking second with you and when she comes over she doesn't like you on your computer she 0.99

00:47:19.820 doesn't like you watching football i want to do something glenn yeah what do you want to do

00:47:25.080 and then you're naming these offices i don't want to do that why do we have to do what you want to do

00:47:28.460 if you okay this is how would you come here come here let me show you something i'm gonna show you

00:47:32.720 something in the bedroom um oh wow i'm excited do you see um what's next to the bed is that one night

00:47:40.300 stand yeah you are supposed to be just like that one night stand okay okay but it worked out i'm so

00:47:48.800 happy yeah so one night stand you have turned into a 30 day stand and um yeah it's not gonna work

00:47:58.880 out like it's just it's just doesn't why but why um i fucked your sister 0.99

00:48:05.500 she's 15. i don't know what to tell you i'm just kidding i'm just kidding

00:48:16.220 oh god it's just like i i'm i'm going all right you know i think my favorite

00:48:24.940 i think glenn he got right to the point i did enjoy that but the best one oh doug your mom okay like

00:48:33.500 your mom is the business like she makes the biscuits okay you you burnt the biscuits you know

00:48:40.460 it was one time i'm getting dumped over one time i'm sorry could you tell me could you just tell me

00:48:48.440 why what did i do can you tell me please your mom uses no teeth okay i told you the teeth thing is a

00:48:54.580 problem okay well can we can i just get some closure yes the door will close on the way

00:49:04.160 sean you're next how are you gonna do it this was a masterpiece

00:49:12.580 hey can i talk to you for a second yeah what's going on so you know and this is an open conversation

00:49:25.240 it's a two-way street as we always have communication and conversations it's not only my opinions it's

00:49:32.520 yours too and so i would like for you to say anything there'll be no consequences no negative

00:49:37.740 things it's opening discussion i was looking on the internet and i found these clips of you being

00:49:46.000 a colonizer and i wanted to ask you about that because you know i'm pro-black you know and i'm

00:49:52.740 i'm for the community and uh you know what do you have to say about these things i'm gonna have to break

00:49:59.960 up with you actually because i get it i get it and that's where we just have to separate you know

00:50:07.280 and i get it you know i still care about you and still be friend will still be close friends i wish

00:50:15.080 you the best this is the best breakup i've ever had no i don't want it to be negative i don't we had

00:50:23.680 80 percent of our time together it was great yeah you know and the last guy shut the door in my face

00:50:30.080 so this is great no the door closed on itself self-closing doors i wouldn't i wouldn't do that

00:50:37.600 yeah the other guys look i'm not gonna do that to you probably i'm not gonna lie to you oh you're so

00:50:44.420 nice i'm gonna miss you okay yeah i'll miss you you rather you hate to see a go but you love to

00:50:50.540 watch a leave already i asked him to do another well i'm sorry my colon i'm sorry my colonization

00:51:02.680 was a problem it's cool some people needed to be colonized sometimes yeah it's okay yeah so you

00:51:09.500 didn't do it i just have to stand with the community yeah i understand doug mpa you're next are you gonna

00:51:17.560 dump me so so i would set it up where so example i i'm a punctual person pearl and i work together

00:51:26.640 and she knows how much i can't stand it when she's late to calls and stuff like that so but when i'm

00:51:31.360 with somebody i i'll do something like if we're supposed to be somewhere at two and another person

00:51:36.940 is always late i'll tell her like 1 15 right and so there are things i will do to mitigate the

00:51:44.560 things that she does to piss me off right and what i'll do is i'll stop doing those things 0.58

00:51:50.100 so she's doing things that annoy me so i'll say you know the last couple of last month or two you're

00:52:00.240 always late always it's because you don't respect me do you i don't think you do and and and so i'll

00:52:10.420 start keep you're not supposed to keep um keep tally or keep track but i'll change certain behaviors

00:52:16.040 and start keeping tally and track of where she's deficient and then use that to break up with her 1.00

00:52:20.360 you're always late you i i'll pay for all the days and all the food and then i'll say you

00:52:27.000 you never pay for a date you just want me for my money i thought i thought it was especially funny

00:52:34.080 because i know doug mpa hates when girls that pay you told me you wanted to pay yeah but you know 0.99

00:52:41.620 what you should at least offer but you hate it when people offer yeah i you know what i i would set

00:52:52.340 up like that where i would find reasons where she's deficient and use those to break up with her 1.00

00:52:58.500 like you know what you you you're late all the time okay but wait wait i can change i can change

00:53:06.460 i'll do better you've had three months to do it i haven't seen any change sorry here's my question

00:53:13.840 have you guys ever used like pointing out other chicks to make her feel like she's like you're like

00:53:20.040 you're not even into her like she's not your type 0.63

00:53:23.000 i did that she made she broke up yeah i don't i mean i really liked my colonizer breakup the best

00:53:31.960 get one more and i'll get to it no problem man i've been doing it for a while

00:53:36.880 he's like the professional breakup you know like yeah that was great like h still at the end can we

00:53:45.840 give him another business here can we give him another scenario i want another one yeah okay

00:53:52.040 okay i got i got one i got one let's say she's insecure and she's accusing you of leaving dick 1.00

00:54:02.320 imprint on the counter okay i.e she thinks you're cheating on her and she thinks that she sees your 0.99

00:54:12.120 dick imprint on the counter and you know you're following all these girls um i'm not doing that

00:54:19.240 but you're liking all these pictures and i'm just i'm freaking out and she knows your instagram dms

00:54:26.660 are full of titties yeah i need you to follow uglier women please 1.00

00:54:32.320 yeah right no i understand that one all right hey pearl can we have a conversation yeah let's go

00:54:42.840 guys always tell you you gotta have

00:54:46.100 communication with your girl that's more superior than her ability to communicate so you have to make

00:54:52.140 time for it so pearl um i know you've been having issues or speaking about ig

00:55:01.300 and first first of all i don't want to get it wrong so tell me if there are any issues or

00:55:10.480 things you want to talk about what is it what's the well you're just you're always like you you're

00:55:16.560 always following these girls and liking their picture like you never follow men it's always just

00:55:21.700 women on instagram always you know and your friend she wants to sleep with you i can just tell 0.95

00:55:28.340 i think you're cheating on me 0.71

00:55:30.300 no don't forget the print i'm not saying that

00:55:36.260 it's on the counter as far as the girl in particular right

00:55:43.980 we're friends and we've been friends for a while and pearl i never lie i'm not going to lie to you

00:55:50.720 i'm too old to be doing that i went to war i've been in combat i'm not scared of you i'm going to tell

00:55:57.600 you the truth i'm going to tell you what you need to hear even if you don't like it have i not done

00:56:02.100 that in our relationship already yeah you have i guess i was overblowing it

00:56:08.280 no that's okay people get their ideas and the number one most important part is you communicated

00:56:16.720 to me and we had the time to talk about it if you didn't then that would be a problem right

00:56:21.380 because possibly it would build resentment and other things like that so i appreciate you

00:56:26.220 bringing that to me is there anything else that you had issues with no you're the best i'm so glad

00:56:32.480 this is working out

00:56:33.660 now

00:56:36.860 now

00:56:38.920 about it really working out i think it would work out if we transition this relationship

00:56:45.500 i'm serious bro because i think i mean it does it was such a straight thing

00:56:52.480 at the end of the day i might not be the guy that you need i could be a great friend for you i think

00:56:59.580 we know no i need you but like we're i've never been with anyone better what you need yourself that's

00:57:09.640 number one i can't you know that's inside you you have those feelings right you believe i'm cheating

00:57:18.000 you believe that this ig is right or wrong so he takes the problems he opened me up to say 0.96

00:57:26.180 and uses them against me

00:57:28.400 so you don't

00:57:30.820 about chores

00:57:31.360 but you so you don't you don't want to be with me anymore

00:57:35.000 i want to be your friend

00:57:37.260 i want to support you

00:57:39.320 i've always done that and i'm okay with that

00:57:43.980 most of our relationship was good pearl it's not a bad thing but everything in life doesn't last forever

00:57:49.200 there's time limits

00:57:51.020 but you said you wanted to marry me someday

00:57:53.740 and you said that you have an issue with these things and we don't want that in a marriage imagine

00:57:59.940 our kids having to deal with this if we had kids that was such a beautiful line

00:58:04.620 would you want that for your children i don't think you would

00:58:08.440 no i wouldn't

00:58:10.500 and i think you need someone who won't give you those type of issues that don't follow women on instagram i get

00:58:16.680 it and it's not a cool thing for your perspective and i respect your perspective it's important

00:58:22.680 i'll always be here for you pearl that's for sure for sure really

00:58:28.440 especially at 2 a.m

00:58:31.400 anyways guys i got a i know a standing ovation from the panel

00:58:45.000 okay so i want you guys to call in the links in the chat

00:58:49.460 and what is the worst way a woman responded to you breaking up with her 0.90

00:58:54.460 what caused the breakup and if you divorced your ex-wife how did she handle it 1.00

00:58:58.840 doug mpa are you on the line

00:59:01.700 is he here yet no maybe he's not he's coming soon if he's not

00:59:08.220 oh it's telling me my battery's low let me check the website really quick by the way guys you do

00:59:14.940 have unlimited super chats on the website so

00:59:17.520 the let me see let me go back you get so if you do have a super chat put it on the website

00:59:27.180 and i will read it okay i'm charging this hey sorry about that okay how's it going doug mpa

00:59:39.240 going good i was just reminiscing from that beautiful breakup

00:59:43.880 yeah yeah that that breakup um show that we had and sean's beautiful two beautiful breakups yeah that's a talent right there it's great because he gets the girl to open up do you have any other problems and then she's like yes this this this and this well we can't bring that into a marriage

01:00:05.880 so um what was the worst way a woman responded to you dumping her hold on one second one second one second one second okay one second 1.00

01:00:18.740 one second one second okay yeah there are people in the uh actually on the show already ask the question again

01:00:33.080 um what's the worst way a woman responded to you breaking up with her 1.00

01:00:37.960 well um so i've never been broken up with i just had women

01:00:44.940 on date you know we're dating and they're like yeah

01:00:47.960 you're not really my speed but out of a relationship i've never

01:00:52.980 been broken up with um in dating though

01:00:56.680 uh you know i believe in ghosting

01:01:00.660 guys guys ghost these women because women feel entitled to your time 0.98

01:01:05.420 to your resources and to closure don't give them any of those

01:01:10.120 right so i ghosted this woman 1.00

01:01:14.240 and um she put me in one of those um 0.93

01:01:18.540 are we dating the same guy groups

01:01:21.180 those are brutal

01:01:22.940 and so one of my friends who's a woman 1.00

01:01:27.800 uh was like is this you i'm part of this group and i'm like what and it was a picture of me and i'm like what the heck

01:01:37.260 is going on here so that's probably i've never really been broken up with out of a relationship but i've had some crazy stuff happen

01:01:43.840 in dating where you know i've ghosted a woman or i just didn't want to see her

01:01:48.240 uh anymore and she's you know does something like that 1.00

01:01:51.460 or you know

01:01:53.180 just

01:01:54.600 the places where you would

01:01:56.560 example

01:01:57.440 you know i like to karaoke a lot

01:02:00.020 or i like to do trivia and stuff

01:02:01.980 they'll do the thing where you'll break up with them

01:02:04.820 you don't want to date them anymore

01:02:05.980 but they'll show up to the place

01:02:08.280 that you brought them multiple times

01:02:10.540 they'll just show up one day

01:02:12.800 and you're like what are you doing here

01:02:14.240 so i've had that happen but i've never really been broken up with

01:02:17.240 did a girl ever crash out on you when you dumped her 1.00

01:02:20.040 uh

01:02:22.080 the crash out like get violent and stuff

01:02:24.700 no like i don't know she called crying

01:02:28.280 texting

01:02:29.500 anything like that

01:02:32.800 um

01:02:33.000 screaming 0.51

01:02:33.940 never not really no i i guess i avoid

01:02:38.060 the crazy ones

01:02:39.380 okay so

01:02:40.420 so most of them took it okay and just accepted it

01:02:43.960 yeah most of them took it okay

01:02:45.760 okay

01:02:46.420 that's it

01:02:47.440 so i i have had the one i've had one girl

01:02:51.780 uh where i broke up with her and

01:02:54.460 she got my sister's phone number one time

01:02:57.920 and was trying to call my sister and say hey

01:03:00.420 you know i think he's about to break up with me and i really blah blah blah

01:03:04.540 so that's probably the craziest thing

01:03:06.180 i brought her to a family function

01:03:08.540 and apparently she said hey

01:03:10.660 you know

01:03:11.520 let me get your phone number

01:03:13.040 and my sister was like okay

01:03:14.200 and so

01:03:15.100 after we broke up she 0.89

01:03:16.560 she kept calling my sister

01:03:17.720 but that's probably the craziest thing that happened

01:03:19.760 that is crazy

01:03:21.820 is anyone on the line

01:03:23.400 yep i'll bring them in

01:03:25.480 guys make sure to like the stream

01:03:27.260 subscribe if you haven't already

01:03:28.820 thanks for getting us to over 2 million

01:03:31.720 we really appreciate that

01:03:33.300 and i'm gonna bring in just the other life

01:03:37.780 just the other life are you there

01:03:45.460 yes i am

01:03:47.200 hey how's it going

01:03:48.960 doing excellent how about your guys

01:03:51.580 good so tell me about

01:03:54.020 your la or um tell me about your breakups

01:03:57.760 have you had a woman crash out 0.99

01:03:59.920 most time i just ghost women 0.99

01:04:01.760 uh it's like if i'm not interested in them anymore

01:04:04.760 i just ghost them

01:04:05.720 just start stop talking to them

01:04:07.980 texting or whatever

01:04:09.020 it just kind of goes away eventually

01:04:11.420 but uh there was like one woman 1.00

01:04:14.840 who was trying to cause issues

01:04:17.860 but since i have like more than three years

01:04:19.660 of private security experience

01:04:21.020 i was able to foresee that ahead of time

01:04:24.160 and when she started talking

01:04:26.400 things that i didn't like

01:04:28.580 i just pointed to my hobby which is

01:04:30.840 those little guys

01:04:32.500 is it a camera

01:04:34.820 yep security cameras

01:04:36.700 i just pointed to one of my security cameras

01:04:40.520 inside my apartment

01:04:41.460 and she immediately changed her tune

01:04:43.260 just left and that was it

01:04:45.180 uh you just have to prepare ahead of time

01:04:49.000 for this kind of stuff nowadays

01:04:50.240 it's just simple as that

01:04:52.440 what was the reason you dumped her 0.85

01:04:54.040 uh she wanted 0.99

01:04:57.200 to be just the only woman in my life

01:05:00.760 and that's not gonna happen

01:05:02.440 okay

01:05:03.440 yeah

01:05:04.740 so

01:05:05.380 because i'm all about ghosting man

01:05:07.740 you know

01:05:08.300 ghosting is another one of those things

01:05:10.740 where women try to 1.00

01:05:11.640 women will do that to men 1.00

01:05:13.520 but then when it happens to them

01:05:15.280 they try to say a real man wouldn't ghost

01:05:17.200 and blah blah blah

01:05:17.960 because i

01:05:19.580 not okay

01:05:20.400 women still try to hold men to a higher standard 1.00

01:05:23.220 and there are a lot of men

01:05:25.400 who think that they should hold themselves

01:05:26.840 to a higher standard

01:05:27.900 when when we tried to do that at one time

01:05:30.520 but women call that patriarchy 1.00

01:05:32.680 so i'm all about it

01:05:34.120 so what got you into the whole ghosting thing

01:05:36.300 where you just stopped talking to a woman

01:05:38.180 uh it's just uh once

01:05:40.200 i get what i want from a woman 0.99

01:05:43.380 and she doesn't have anything else to offer

01:05:46.080 that that is it pretty much

01:05:48.500 it's just how it goes

01:05:50.880 i mean i'm in a small town

01:05:52.220 most women are from like 1.00

01:05:53.500 over 100 miles away from me

01:05:54.940 so

01:05:55.240 it's actually easier for me

01:05:57.500 got it

01:06:00.060 okay

01:06:00.340 cool

01:06:01.000 well i wish you luck in your ghosting

01:06:05.840 keep it up

01:06:06.680 yeah

01:06:07.000 i sure will

01:06:08.140 and keep those cameras rolling man

01:06:09.820 oh dude

01:06:10.720 i just had two more contracts for cameras

01:06:14.080 just today alone

01:06:15.360 so i'm installing more and more around my town

01:06:18.160 so i have access to over 60 cameras now

01:06:22.320 so that helps me

01:06:24.100 great

01:06:25.000 well thanks for calling in

01:06:26.200 call in anytime okay

01:06:27.480 sounds good

01:06:28.880 have a good one

01:06:29.660 okay

01:06:31.620 jc jackson

01:06:33.860 jc are you there

01:06:39.400 yeah can you hear me

01:06:41.100 hey there he is

01:06:42.140 hey jc how's it going

01:06:43.880 where are you calling out of

01:06:45.080 she's going good

01:06:46.480 out of north carolina

01:06:47.400 same as always

01:06:48.240 cool

01:06:48.780 so tell me

01:06:50.740 have you dumped a woman

01:06:51.940 she crashed out

01:06:53.120 what happened

01:06:53.820 um

01:06:55.180 i had two

01:06:57.880 really bad ones

01:06:59.220 um one

01:06:59.840 one i just straight up

01:07:01.080 like

01:07:01.980 dipped

01:07:02.560 i got

01:07:03.180 i got sick of her 1.00

01:07:04.040 she was always

01:07:04.520 we had this like

01:07:05.880 we were together for like three years

01:07:07.460 we had this arrangement

01:07:08.260 where i worked to put her 0.99

01:07:09.540 put her through school

01:07:10.740 and then we got her 0.78

01:07:12.320 done with school

01:07:12.940 and then we were working

01:07:14.060 to put me through school

01:07:14.960 and uh

01:07:15.940 yeah she didn't like

01:07:17.680 the whole working full time

01:07:18.700 while i went to school

01:07:19.480 thing so

01:07:19.980 of course not

01:07:21.280 yeah yeah that

01:07:22.160 there was there was no

01:07:23.340 there was no even backseat

01:07:24.560 there that did that was not

01:07:25.580 that was not happening

01:07:26.400 but yeah i uh

01:07:27.640 i dipped i just i left

01:07:28.980 she came home from work one day

01:07:30.620 me most of the furniture

01:07:31.660 all that good stuff was gone

01:07:32.700 just left her

01:07:33.560 and uh

01:07:34.600 the apartment

01:07:36.500 her name

01:07:37.100 and her dog

01:07:37.660 was like here you go

01:07:38.320 so she

01:07:41.200 she messaged me

01:07:42.540 and she was pretty 0.80

01:07:43.060 ill about that

01:07:43.740 she went through our preacher 1.00

01:07:44.760 and stuff

01:07:45.160 even to get a hold of me

01:07:46.520 because i wasn't

01:07:47.260 i was like

01:07:48.560 i was i was not talking to her

01:07:49.840 but

01:07:50.080 yeah you gotta just

01:07:51.360 take the l

01:07:52.160 yeah i just

01:07:54.100 i told

01:07:54.460 i even told the preacher

01:07:55.260 i said look

01:07:55.880 she was this way before

01:07:57.740 um she started working

01:07:59.140 everything was fine

01:07:59.880 then she started uh 0.98

01:08:00.980 i i got her through

01:08:02.080 her

01:08:02.560 emt school

01:08:04.340 then she started working

01:08:05.880 full-time while i went to

01:08:07.360 uh you know

01:08:08.240 went back to college

01:08:09.120 to finish my degree

01:08:09.980 and she

01:08:11.800 was always angry

01:08:13.080 always ill

01:08:13.760 always had an attitude

01:08:15.460 i was like

01:08:16.120 but

01:08:18.620 what about the other one

01:08:19.960 my ex-wife 0.95

01:08:21.480 uh

01:08:22.120 uh

01:08:23.020 so my first

01:08:23.820 marriage

01:08:24.520 uh

01:08:25.380 uh

01:08:26.380 we were

01:08:26.660 we

01:08:26.900 i i found out

01:08:28.120 she was like

01:08:28.480 talking to other dudes

01:08:29.280 and stuff

01:08:29.560 while i was gone

01:08:30.100 for like the military

01:08:30.960 when i got back

01:08:31.840 she didn't think i knew

01:08:32.580 so i just kind of

01:08:33.680 let it go for a time

01:08:34.680 i she didn't know

01:08:35.840 i knew

01:08:36.180 but all the bills

01:08:38.280 were in my name

01:08:39.100 so like i took

01:08:40.220 the phone

01:08:40.820 and uh

01:08:41.820 when i left

01:08:42.760 i took the phone

01:08:43.460 took my stuff

01:08:44.180 you know

01:08:44.440 and our kid

01:08:45.200 i couldn't really

01:08:45.880 take our kid

01:08:46.440 at the moment

01:08:46.900 but when i went

01:08:48.100 but when i went

01:08:48.120 through the phone

01:08:48.800 she had been buying

01:08:50.280 she'd been buying

01:08:52.300 prescription pills

01:08:53.160 from one of our neighbors

01:08:53.940 one of our neighbors

01:08:54.620 had like a pain

01:08:55.660 uh pain pill

01:08:57.040 uh

01:08:57.760 a pill mill

01:08:58.360 yeah yeah yeah

01:08:59.480 so i went

01:09:01.560 to uh

01:09:02.580 i went to my lawyer

01:09:04.540 because we were

01:09:05.040 you know

01:09:05.340 i was getting divorced

01:09:06.060 and i said hey look

01:09:06.600 this is going on

01:09:07.720 he went to a judge

01:09:09.480 got an emergency order

01:09:11.000 and so

01:09:11.880 she found out

01:09:12.900 i was breaking up

01:09:13.620 where they're basically

01:09:14.140 when the cops showed up

01:09:15.620 they're like hey

01:09:16.180 hey uh

01:09:17.280 the kid's going with him

01:09:18.540 you can argue about it

01:09:19.480 the kid's going with him

01:09:20.120 right now

01:09:20.640 oh my gosh

01:09:22.360 i i was

01:09:24.700 i was not

01:09:26.380 physically there

01:09:27.780 like like like

01:09:28.420 i was not within like

01:09:29.520 but i was like

01:09:30.460 across the street

01:09:31.240 watching it

01:09:32.180 and she was

01:09:34.020 she was freaking out

01:09:35.380 with the cops

01:09:35.960 and then

01:09:36.460 my phone blew up

01:09:38.040 after they took the kid

01:09:39.020 and you know

01:09:39.660 they put the kid

01:09:40.260 in the cop car

01:09:40.800 brought her to my house 0.99

01:09:41.780 i would like to say

01:09:42.380 i was within a hundred

01:09:43.300 yards

01:09:43.780 so she couldn't see me

01:09:45.460 but i could see everything

01:09:46.380 and my phone

01:09:48.640 just

01:09:49.500 my phone went off

01:09:51.560 and that was a

01:09:54.280 that was a bad

01:09:55.020 i ended up getting

01:09:56.320 full custody eventually

01:09:57.400 no way

01:09:58.160 hey

01:09:59.200 good job

01:09:59.680 yeah yeah yeah

01:10:00.180 i got

01:10:00.860 i won a few men

01:10:02.080 in the history

01:10:02.660 that got full custody

01:10:03.520 but uh

01:10:04.280 i had full custody

01:10:05.840 of my daughter

01:10:06.400 after that

01:10:07.220 from age

01:10:08.460 five

01:10:10.120 until she was about

01:10:10.940 nine i think

01:10:12.040 and then you know

01:10:13.080 her mother

01:10:13.520 went and got

01:10:14.160 quote quote

01:10:15.180 clean off drugs

01:10:16.240 and remarried

01:10:17.500 and she came back

01:10:18.320 and now we share

01:10:19.400 50-50 custody

01:10:20.240 now she's fine

01:10:21.400 but like it was

01:10:23.260 you know

01:10:23.840 when our early years

01:10:25.100 was really rough

01:10:25.940 okay on a scale

01:10:28.020 on a scale of

01:10:28.160 one to ten

01:10:28.680 in looks

01:10:29.280 the mother of your child

01:10:31.820 where would she rate

01:10:33.100 because she got off drugs 0.59

01:10:34.720 and got remarried again

01:10:36.260 uh

01:10:37.540 she um

01:10:39.040 i'd say about a six

01:10:40.460 like like

01:10:41.800 we were from

01:10:42.340 we were from a small town

01:10:43.460 and we were high school

01:10:44.560 sweethearts

01:10:45.220 and then

01:10:46.420 you know

01:10:46.740 we broke up

01:10:47.260 and she got a younger guy

01:10:48.460 from our same high school

01:10:49.560 and she 100%

01:10:52.340 convinced that man

01:10:53.000 like hey

01:10:53.360 yeah go into the military

01:10:54.300 like they got

01:10:55.140 they got

01:10:55.840 they got

01:10:56.720 they got married

01:10:57.680 three weeks

01:10:59.380 after our divorce

01:11:00.420 went through

01:11:00.880 so

01:11:01.240 oh okay

01:11:02.240 it was kind of

01:11:03.600 like completely lined up

01:11:04.660 so another thing

01:11:06.340 i'm gonna ask

01:11:06.980 the um

01:11:08.180 i'll ask each person

01:11:09.320 is

01:11:09.540 why do you think

01:11:10.740 it's so hard

01:11:11.280 for

01:11:11.580 for women to take L's 1.00

01:11:13.560 when it comes to

01:11:14.240 like relationships

01:11:14.920 why is it

01:11:15.600 because they've never done it before

01:11:17.000 yeah

01:11:17.220 i i see

01:11:18.740 i see it with

01:11:19.620 everyone

01:11:20.760 i've seen it with my mother

01:11:21.920 i've seen it with my mother-in-law

01:11:23.060 i've seen it with

01:11:23.700 my sister-in-law

01:11:24.880 i've seen it with

01:11:25.420 i've seen it with my sister

01:11:26.880 they don't

01:11:27.860 they don't know how

01:11:28.900 like it fundamentally

01:11:30.820 messes up their brain

01:11:32.040 if they're the ones

01:11:32.800 that broken up with

01:11:33.580 because it just

01:11:34.200 it's just not supposed to happen

01:11:35.780 in quote quote

01:11:36.980 their reality

01:11:38.080 and they have no idea

01:11:39.900 how to

01:11:40.480 like you can't explain it

01:11:42.000 to them all day

01:11:42.800 but it just

01:11:43.680 the wires will not connect

01:11:45.820 it doesn't matter what you do

01:11:46.820 you know

01:11:47.460 you know

01:11:48.120 like men will crash out

01:11:49.800 over a breakup

01:11:50.540 at like 18 to 20

01:11:52.540 and since it's so delayed

01:11:54.320 for women

01:11:55.000 and it doesn't happen to us

01:11:56.380 till like 25 to 35

01:11:58.100 depending on when

01:11:59.900 you start getting ugly

01:12:01.120 and um

01:12:03.700 i don't know

01:12:04.200 i think it's kind of

01:12:05.080 delayed for women

01:12:06.320 would you agree

01:12:07.080 yeah

01:12:08.580 i think most

01:12:09.520 young men

01:12:10.500 so i think social media

01:12:12.760 is different now

01:12:13.520 i don't

01:12:14.220 because back then

01:12:14.860 we didn't have like

01:12:15.460 phones in our faces

01:12:16.220 for everything

01:12:16.780 so i think most young men

01:12:18.340 my age

01:12:18.780 they don't cried over girls

01:12:20.140 by like 12 13

01:12:21.100 and so like by the time

01:12:22.420 they got to 18

01:12:23.120 they're like

01:12:23.560 oh yeah

01:12:24.180 i got dumped again

01:12:25.040 it is what it is

01:12:25.940 yeah

01:12:26.520 well i think um

01:12:28.240 gen z is just kind of

01:12:29.600 delayed with that

01:12:30.400 i don't know how old

01:12:31.040 your daughter is

01:12:31.820 but like

01:12:32.380 it seems

01:12:33.480 i don't

01:12:34.600 like

01:12:35.020 my gen z

01:12:36.300 relatives

01:12:37.220 um

01:12:38.680 it was very different

01:12:40.020 than like the millennials 0.88

01:12:41.180 because if they like

01:12:42.680 went out drinking or

01:12:43.700 something we would be

01:12:44.500 excited

01:12:45.020 because they'd be going

01:12:46.480 out and like doing

01:12:47.300 something

01:12:47.880 like none of them

01:12:49.060 really seem to date

01:12:50.100 or like

01:12:50.720 i don't know

01:12:51.940 they just seem like

01:12:52.840 all the big life events

01:12:54.100 are like delayed

01:12:54.960 is that what you've seen

01:12:56.320 or no

01:12:56.700 yes

01:12:58.740 um

01:12:59.880 like i don't even

01:13:00.720 because i have younger

01:13:01.620 female cousins

01:13:02.320 like no one really even

01:13:03.440 dates anymore

01:13:04.180 like

01:13:04.560 like there's no like

01:13:06.280 talking or dating phase

01:13:07.580 it's uh

01:13:08.380 it's because

01:13:09.460 my cousin recently

01:13:10.500 got a boyfriend

01:13:11.340 and it was

01:13:11.960 i had no idea

01:13:12.880 he's this

01:13:13.280 i know how to do this

01:13:14.280 he's at the fucking 0.92

01:13:15.020 family family dinner

01:13:16.200 like just

01:13:17.260 it goes from

01:13:19.280 it goes from

01:13:19.980 this person doesn't exist

01:13:20.960 to they're coming over

01:13:22.100 for every holiday

01:13:23.280 like

01:13:23.580 there's no

01:13:25.040 really in between

01:13:26.120 for some reason

01:13:26.800 yeah

01:13:27.720 yeah

01:13:28.620 yeah

01:13:29.020 i i agree with that

01:13:30.580 and i think it's

01:13:32.200 because of the social

01:13:32.900 media thing where

01:13:33.720 that has translated

01:13:35.220 to like instant

01:13:35.960 instant gratification

01:13:37.120 uh in real life too

01:13:39.200 yeah they don't have

01:13:40.340 to go out

01:13:41.020 like they can just

01:13:41.960 sit at home

01:13:42.580 yep

01:13:43.880 um like

01:13:44.820 my

01:13:45.260 i have a sister-in-law

01:13:46.640 who's 16

01:13:47.380 and a

01:13:48.020 or my daughter

01:13:49.560 will be 15

01:13:50.240 later this year

01:13:50.900 they don't want

01:13:52.000 their licenses

01:13:52.660 like they don't

01:13:54.120 want to drive

01:13:54.680 because they don't

01:13:55.080 have to drive

01:13:55.680 that's a big thing

01:13:56.240 that's a big thing

01:13:56.960 a lot of young

01:13:57.940 young people

01:13:58.800 just aren't driving

01:13:59.760 yeah

01:14:00.160 so weird

01:14:00.940 it's so weird

01:14:01.740 yeah my

01:14:03.240 my gen z

01:14:04.020 relatives

01:14:04.540 it's it was

01:14:05.500 it was just

01:14:06.260 really contrast

01:14:07.580 because if they

01:14:09.440 the two i'm thinking

01:14:10.440 of if they were

01:14:11.240 caught like

01:14:11.940 with a boy

01:14:13.060 drinking or anything

01:14:14.320 i think our family

01:14:15.420 would have been like

01:14:16.200 excited

01:14:16.740 because they just

01:14:18.200 would never leave

01:14:19.180 do you know

01:14:19.620 what i mean

01:14:20.060 like we're like

01:14:21.060 oh finally

01:14:21.760 they're doing

01:14:22.300 they're like

01:14:22.800 doing some

01:14:23.360 normal teenager

01:14:24.360 stuff

01:14:24.960 but yeah

01:14:26.220 yeah

01:14:27.160 okay

01:14:28.020 and even

01:14:28.720 even back

01:14:29.200 when i was

01:14:29.600 young and dating

01:14:30.200 like you know

01:14:30.720 the early 2000s

01:14:31.720 like the dating

01:14:33.180 the the breakup

01:14:34.020 ratio was still

01:14:34.860 the same

01:14:35.240 most times

01:14:35.860 the girls 0.99

01:14:36.220 were breaking

01:14:36.880 up with the

01:14:37.280 guys

01:14:37.580 like

01:14:37.880 you you

01:14:39.220 you would

01:14:39.580 know if

01:14:40.180 you would

01:14:40.680 know

01:14:41.180 if a girl 0.97

01:14:42.240 got broken

01:14:42.720 up with

01:14:43.320 because they'd

01:14:43.820 be

01:14:44.020 they had

01:14:44.520 meltdowns

01:14:45.140 in the middle

01:14:45.600 class

01:14:46.040 in high school

01:14:46.640 they didn't

01:14:47.040 care

01:14:47.380 okay

01:14:49.280 yeah

01:14:49.480 now they do

01:14:50.680 it on social

01:14:51.080 media

01:14:51.460 yeah

01:14:52.800 all right

01:14:53.300 thanks for

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01:14:55.560 yeah thanks

01:14:56.100 for calling

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01:15:49.880 hey luis

01:15:51.440 how's it

01:15:52.020 going

01:15:52.400 good hey

01:15:53.720 pearl

01:15:54.140 good to

01:15:55.060 finally see

01:15:55.680 you i was

01:15:56.540 watching youtube

01:15:57.360 not too long

01:15:57.960 ago and i saw

01:15:58.780 that you were

01:15:59.140 at the grove

01:15:59.940 right up the

01:16:00.820 street from my

01:16:01.520 fiance's place

01:16:02.640 it was a shame

01:16:03.480 i wasn't there

01:16:04.040 at the time

01:16:04.480 i would have

01:16:04.800 said hello

01:16:05.120 to you

01:16:05.600 and uh

01:16:06.520 the guy

01:16:07.100 that you

01:16:07.320 were with

01:16:07.740 okay

01:16:09.420 cool

01:16:10.360 i don't know

01:16:12.720 where that's

01:16:13.320 i don't know

01:16:13.780 if that was

01:16:14.200 me

01:16:14.600 yeah you were

01:16:16.340 at the grove

01:16:17.060 you were doing

01:16:17.680 some uh

01:16:18.460 some um

01:16:19.380 interviews

01:16:19.980 and you were

01:16:20.620 with um

01:16:21.460 uh the indian 0.86

01:16:23.360 guy i think

01:16:24.120 he's indian i'm

01:16:24.660 not too sure

01:16:25.080 what his name

01:16:25.580 is oh

01:16:26.380 okay

01:16:27.000 oh you're

01:16:27.920 talking about

01:16:28.560 in california

01:16:29.900 i i could

01:16:31.000 i don't i forget

01:16:31.720 the names of

01:16:32.480 places i went

01:16:33.300 to i'm like

01:16:33.900 i don't remember

01:16:34.600 going to the

01:16:35.200 okay yeah

01:16:36.120 yeah yeah

01:16:37.360 no that was

01:16:37.800 awesome i enjoyed

01:16:38.740 that interview

01:16:39.440 cool

01:16:40.320 cool um

01:16:42.880 what was i gonna

01:16:44.960 ask so

01:16:45.960 dumping women 1.00

01:16:47.460 how has that

01:16:48.360 gone for you

01:16:49.160 what's the

01:16:50.620 craziest thing

01:16:51.320 that a woman's 0.88

01:16:53.000 done after you

01:16:53.740 dumped her 0.97

01:16:54.200 oh yeah

01:16:56.200 so so i

01:16:57.760 dated this

01:16:58.300 religious chick

01:16:59.140 right and i

01:17:00.540 was actually

01:17:01.040 engaged to this

01:17:02.100 religious chick

01:17:02.820 and uh we

01:17:03.840 were together

01:17:04.760 for about two

01:17:05.380 three years

01:17:06.060 and everything

01:17:07.040 was going great

01:17:08.020 but i started

01:17:08.920 seeing all these

01:17:09.520 red flags

01:17:10.280 so but after

01:17:11.880 the engagement

01:17:12.840 broke off and

01:17:13.620 it didn't work

01:17:14.140 out uh she

01:17:15.540 got into this

01:17:16.400 uh religious

01:17:17.040 podcast right

01:17:18.400 where she was

01:17:19.360 being negative

01:17:20.820 being super

01:17:22.420 uh you know

01:17:24.060 playing the

01:17:24.980 small fiddle

01:17:25.840 uh oh woe 1.00

01:17:26.940 is me it was

01:17:28.160 all his fault

01:17:29.000 uh and just

01:17:30.460 you're just spewing

01:17:31.320 all these lies

01:17:32.200 to this platform

01:17:33.320 that she had

01:17:34.000 you know on

01:17:34.480 this uh

01:17:34.960 religious uh

01:17:35.780 uh chat that

01:17:36.940 she would have

01:17:37.380 on on youtube

01:17:38.200 she was telling

01:17:39.200 the female friendly

01:17:40.220 version of the

01:17:40.920 story you know

01:17:41.660 what that is

01:17:42.380 uh what is that

01:17:43.680 friendly version

01:17:44.220 of the story

01:17:44.820 is where they're

01:17:45.540 the hero and

01:17:46.540 the victim at

01:17:47.220 the same time

01:17:48.040 in the story

01:17:48.640 right that's

01:17:51.200 that's about

01:17:51.520 right sounds

01:17:52.140 sounds about

01:17:52.820 100%

01:17:53.860 go ahead

01:17:54.760 so yeah so

01:17:55.920 and then when

01:17:56.500 i found this

01:17:57.040 out obviously

01:17:57.540 i didn't reach

01:17:58.020 out to her

01:17:58.440 i'm like look

01:17:59.060 at this i was

01:17:59.660 sharing that

01:18:00.340 platform with

01:18:01.940 my friends and

01:18:02.760 family members

01:18:03.300 like can you

01:18:03.740 believe this broad

01:18:04.460 you know she's 0.98

01:18:04.920 like telling

01:18:05.740 lies how you

01:18:06.620 know i was a

01:18:07.560 bad guy you

01:18:08.500 know i was a

01:18:08.920 bad influence

01:18:09.580 and i just

01:18:10.860 couldn't believe

01:18:11.440 it it was just

01:18:12.120 you know lies

01:18:13.080 after lies but

01:18:13.840 it was making

01:18:14.300 her look good

01:18:15.320 obviously but

01:18:16.180 it was just

01:18:17.020 one of the

01:18:17.380 things that i

01:18:17.860 couldn't believe

01:18:18.240 she would you

01:18:18.740 know go to

01:18:19.340 that extent to

01:18:20.220 you know kind

01:18:20.740 of blackball

01:18:21.860 me or you

01:18:22.920 know treat me

01:18:23.620 you know paint

01:18:24.440 me like i was

01:18:25.260 the evil person

01:18:26.540 in the relationship

01:18:27.240 which which i

01:18:27.840 wasn't because i

01:18:28.380 did everything

01:18:28.940 for her i bent

01:18:29.620 over backwards

01:18:30.440 uh yeah it's a

01:18:32.460 long story but

01:18:33.300 i mean can you

01:18:34.020 give me an

01:18:34.420 example of one

01:18:35.260 thing that she

01:18:35.920 said um and

01:18:37.200 tell me how you

01:18:38.080 would tell the

01:18:38.820 story and how

01:18:39.960 she would tell

01:18:40.700 it not like

01:18:41.320 everything but

01:18:42.060 just like one

01:18:42.840 specific example

01:18:43.900 that she told

01:18:44.720 oh yeah

01:18:46.680 definitely let's

01:18:47.620 see so uh

01:18:49.420 okay so i live

01:18:51.620 in san diego

01:18:52.460 go padres right

01:18:53.820 so we had this

01:18:55.840 uh pool party

01:18:57.100 at one of the

01:18:57.900 places where you

01:18:59.100 know me and my

01:18:59.620 my housemates were

01:19:00.600 renting it was a

01:19:01.540 it was like a

01:19:02.080 five-bedroom house

01:19:02.960 nice size pool

01:19:04.680 hot jacuzzi and

01:19:05.820 everything so we

01:19:07.000 had it was

01:19:07.740 summertime and we

01:19:08.380 had this huge

01:19:08.920 party and uh

01:19:10.880 so i invite her

01:19:12.020 and i invite some

01:19:12.620 of her friends and

01:19:14.080 my my the main

01:19:15.980 housemate is a 0.60

01:19:16.760 personal trainer and

01:19:17.700 he has his own

01:19:18.260 gym his crossfit 0.83

01:19:19.220 gym so of course 1.00

01:19:20.220 he would bring his

01:19:20.880 clients and his

01:19:21.760 coaches and it was

01:19:23.180 just you know it

01:19:24.900 wasn't as bad as

01:19:25.960 girls gone wild but 1.00

01:19:26.980 it was pretty close

01:19:27.640 enough because all

01:19:28.440 the the hot coaches

01:19:29.740 and the clients were

01:19:30.840 wearing you know

01:19:31.460 they were super fit

01:19:32.220 wearing their best

01:19:33.160 bathing suits outfits

01:19:34.440 and you know

01:19:35.980 obviously i wasn't

01:19:36.880 going to hide

01:19:37.240 anything from my

01:19:37.960 fiancee at the

01:19:38.600 time so i said

01:19:39.040 you know what come

01:19:39.600 on down let's have 0.95

01:19:40.340 a good time you

01:19:40.940 know it's going to

01:19:41.400 be it's going to be a

01:19:42.280 great time so she

01:19:43.400 gets there she

01:19:44.540 doesn't like what

01:19:45.280 she sees she looks

01:19:46.440 at me like hey

01:19:47.380 what's going on

01:19:48.160 here so i'm like

01:19:49.320 okay well you know

01:19:50.320 just relax you know

01:19:51.640 just have to have

01:19:52.360 some drinks and

01:19:53.140 enjoy the views and

01:19:54.680 enjoy the music so

01:19:56.240 as soon as she gets

01:19:56.920 home she tells like

01:19:58.060 her friends and

01:19:58.580 family members oh

01:19:59.380 my god you know

01:20:00.760 this you know he

01:20:02.180 invited me to like

01:20:02.980 this like you know

01:20:04.500 almost like a like a

01:20:05.580 ditty party or

01:20:06.400 something like that

01:20:07.560 you know half

01:20:08.780 naked

01:20:09.060 and you're and

01:20:12.180 you're trying to be

01:20:12.840 like honest and

01:20:13.880 like transparent

01:20:14.800 about it

01:20:15.600 it was ridiculous

01:20:23.060 you know i mean

01:20:23.900 she went she went

01:20:25.120 as far as

01:20:25.780 contacting my mother

01:20:38.580 to tell her what i

01:20:40.200 was up to with

01:20:41.360 these guys that i'm

01:20:42.180 living with i'm like

01:20:43.000 it's not that wasn't

01:20:43.860 even the case i'm like

01:20:45.260 and how dare you go

01:20:46.360 behind my back you

01:20:47.400 know these these

01:20:48.400 issues are between

01:20:49.620 you and i i mean

01:20:50.480 don't bring my family

01:20:51.300 into it

01:20:52.020 um so how did

01:20:56.960 she take the so 0.99

01:20:57.900 she went on a pot

01:20:58.800 like when you broke

01:20:59.720 up with her and

01:21:00.440 dumped her was she 1.00

01:21:01.220 like bawling and

01:21:02.060 stuff or how did

01:21:03.200 she react when you

01:21:03.900 actually broke up

01:21:04.600 with her oh yeah

01:21:06.040 she was just crying

01:21:07.320 you know and you

01:21:08.420 know i think i heard

01:21:09.260 another uh guest

01:21:10.540 mentioned something

01:21:11.260 about you know or

01:21:12.160 maybe those are the

01:21:12.780 videos that you were

01:21:13.400 putting on earlier

01:21:14.060 how you know oh my

01:21:15.860 god you know you're

01:21:17.740 my life you know

01:21:18.800 take me back you

01:21:19.900 know i i can change

01:21:21.040 and i said listen

01:21:21.560 you're never gonna

01:21:22.220 change you know it's

01:21:23.220 like i saw the red

01:21:24.860 flags and i thought

01:21:26.240 once we got engaged

01:21:27.620 that she would change

01:21:29.320 and knowing that this

01:21:30.880 was going to be a

01:21:31.440 serious thing and

01:21:32.740 we're moving forward

01:21:33.680 but she just got even

01:21:34.640 worse and i'm like you 0.90

01:21:35.840 know what you can't

01:21:36.560 change a zebra stripes

01:21:39.000 right i mean you're

01:21:39.640 never going to change

01:21:40.320 you are who you are

01:21:41.160 you're super jealous

01:21:42.120 you're super controlling

01:21:43.560 it's like and i don't

01:21:44.680 deserve this so i

01:21:45.820 treated you nothing like

01:21:46.720 a queen so it's time

01:21:47.940 for me to move on

01:21:48.720 okay well good for

01:21:50.480 you and so after you

01:21:52.840 said all that that's

01:21:54.520 when she went on the

01:21:55.060 podcast uh yeah maybe

01:21:57.720 six months later she

01:21:59.460 she got into this

01:22:00.460 podcast religious

01:22:01.580 christian podcast and

01:22:03.520 it's just pain

01:22:04.560 over here you know

01:22:07.080 look women are 1.00

01:22:08.040 whores women are 1.00

01:22:08.920 single mothers but

01:22:10.320 the worst thing about

01:22:11.880 modern women is that 1.00

01:22:12.840 they can't they

01:22:14.560 overshare too much

01:22:15.580 britney renner

01:22:16.780 britney renner she

01:22:18.300 she could have won if

01:22:19.600 she would have made a 0.77

01:22:20.280 couple of different

01:22:20.800 decisions and the

01:22:22.440 worst part about

01:22:23.140 britney renner isn't 0.99

01:22:24.820 the fact that she's a 0.70

01:22:25.700 waste of a pretty

01:22:26.620 isn't the fact that

01:22:27.420 she's a whore isn't a 1.00

01:22:28.440 fact that she freaking 0.99

01:22:29.280 groomed some young

01:22:31.180 18 year old and had

01:22:33.020 his kid is the fact

01:22:34.260 that she can't keep

01:22:34.960 her mouth shut if you 1.00

01:22:36.020 get with a britney 0.99

01:22:36.860 renner she will write

01:22:38.640 a book about you

01:22:39.480 you your ex any guy

01:22:41.900 that gets with her 1.00

01:22:42.740 is going to be fodder

01:22:44.860 for a podcast

01:22:45.780 afterwards

01:22:46.400 i agree 100%

01:22:50.620 britney renner's made

01:22:52.040 a comeback this year

01:22:53.160 let's see if she pulls 1.00

01:22:54.100 off kevin gates you

01:22:55.500 know

01:22:56.020 she's she made

01:22:58.640 one of his wives

01:22:59.640 yeah she's doing that

01:23:00.920 um like the buzzer

01:23:02.520 beater like the kobe

01:23:03.620 at the end

01:23:04.300 let's see if it goes

01:23:08.800 in we'll see

01:23:09.880 yep

01:23:10.940 all right thanks for

01:23:12.320 calling in okay

01:23:13.180 calling anytime

01:23:14.160 thanks pearl

01:23:15.540 okay

01:23:17.620 then we have a return

01:23:19.500 guest we have

01:23:20.540 detox is back on

01:23:24.000 let me get him in

01:23:25.040 here

01:23:25.520 detox how you doing

01:23:26.860 buddy

01:23:27.140 what's going on buddy

01:23:28.500 how you doing

01:23:28.920 doing good

01:23:30.060 how's it going detox

01:23:32.020 just terrible just

01:23:34.000 terrible how you

01:23:34.800 doing pearl

01:23:35.200 why what's bad

01:23:36.840 it's a joke it's a

01:23:38.620 joke i'm doing great

01:23:39.400 how you guys doing

01:23:40.040 tonight

01:23:40.320 good so what's the

01:23:42.420 worst way a woman's 1.00

01:23:43.560 reacted when you've

01:23:44.660 dumped her 0.97

01:23:45.200 um i i got a few of

01:23:49.480 them because i've

01:23:50.260 dumped quite a few

01:23:50.900 chicks in my days 1.00

01:23:51.880 um but the most

01:23:53.500 recent one

01:23:54.480 we were like on

01:23:56.340 again off again but

01:23:57.120 i'll start out just

01:23:58.400 to give her some

01:23:59.000 credit she wasn't

01:24:00.220 always like this it

01:24:01.300 didn't it didn't

01:24:02.000 start out this way

01:24:03.060 but okay

01:24:03.620 oh um i had i had

01:24:06.760 brought her and

01:24:07.560 believe it or not

01:24:08.080 this is a traditional

01:24:08.940 woman she she was 0.99

01:24:10.240 from another country i

01:24:11.580 brought her over to

01:24:12.180 the states um we

01:24:13.500 were sharing a place

01:24:14.400 what continent

01:24:15.280 uh i don't want to

01:24:17.700 say because if i say

01:24:18.520 that like uh people

01:24:19.900 know my profile

01:24:20.500 myself okay okay

01:24:21.540 sorry let's say not

01:24:23.140 from the united states

01:24:24.140 but i'm down

01:24:24.960 south all right

01:24:25.900 cool okay

01:24:27.320 she was staying in

01:24:28.740 my in in my

01:24:30.320 apartment and then

01:24:31.720 like little by little

01:24:32.680 the the modern

01:24:33.720 woman started 1.00

01:24:34.300 creeping out

01:24:34.960 right so um one

01:24:39.720 one night we got

01:24:40.560 in this argument and

01:24:42.020 the argument was

01:24:43.020 unresolved in the

01:24:44.040 nighttime we both went

01:24:45.020 to bed pissed off and 0.88

01:24:46.400 then the next day

01:24:47.380 the next day i was

01:24:51.280 like i slept on the

01:24:52.260 couch and she slept in

01:24:53.260 the bed i went in

01:24:54.680 there to wake her up

01:24:55.320 and i gave her a kiss

01:24:55.980 on the forehead and

01:24:56.680 she jumped up and she's

01:24:57.660 like i was sleeping i

01:24:59.100 was sleeping why did

01:25:00.240 wake me up and she 0.87

01:25:01.560 just started wigging

01:25:02.460 out so i went like i

01:25:05.380 left the situation i

01:25:06.420 went into the living

01:25:07.080 room and that pissed

01:25:07.780 her off even more

01:25:08.560 right she runs into the 0.83

01:25:10.580 living room she's she's

01:25:12.460 like yelling at me

01:25:13.260 because obviously in her 0.94

01:25:14.520 head she thinks she's 1.00

01:25:15.440 doing the best she can

01:25:16.560 do to result the

01:25:17.180 situation and i just

01:25:18.120 didn't like the way she

01:25:18.680 was talking to me it

01:25:19.480 was like she was

01:25:20.380 standing over me

01:25:21.180 putting her fingers in 0.93

01:25:22.040 my face and i was like

01:25:24.040 i'm not gonna talk to

01:25:25.060 you when you're pissed

01:25:25.520 off like this right

01:25:26.400 and she goes if you

01:25:28.040 walk out that door we

01:25:29.380 are finished we are

01:25:30.640 done and i'm like

01:25:31.920 whatever so i take out

01:25:34.060 my phone and i start

01:25:34.940 like just ignoring her

01:25:36.120 and looking at youtube or

01:25:37.440 whatever just trying to

01:25:38.140 like tell her like i'm

01:25:40.200 not gonna engage with

01:25:41.080 you while you're all

01:25:41.740 pissed off like this

01:25:42.500 she snatches the phone 0.96

01:25:44.200 out of my hand right

01:25:45.660 and i'm like i got

01:25:47.420 really fucking pissed but 0.94

01:25:48.740 i held my temper i'm

01:25:49.540 like don't fucking do 0.89

01:25:50.760 that i take my phone

01:25:52.420 back from her she 0.97

01:25:53.320 snatches it out of my

01:25:54.440 hand again but to the

01:25:55.380 point where it like

01:25:55.880 hits my hand and my 0.53

01:25:57.040 phone falls right

01:25:58.340 so at that point she's

01:26:00.620 like she's like cocking 0.96

01:26:01.880 back like she's ready to

01:26:02.820 swing on me and i grabbed

01:26:04.360 her hands and uh like i

01:26:06.200 pushed her back right 1.00

01:26:07.520 so after that argument we

01:26:10.680 pretty much broke up the

01:26:11.660 next day i had to kick

01:26:12.640 her out and like it it

01:26:13.800 was like a super super

01:26:14.980 duper dramatic scene

01:26:16.020 right so at this point

01:26:19.500 we're broken up like i

01:26:21.160 kicked her out i'm like i 0.70

01:26:21.980 don't want to see you

01:26:22.560 again she she she took an

01:26:25.080 uber all the way to the

01:26:25.840 airport and flew back to

01:26:26.640 her country um then later

01:26:30.540 on like a couple weeks

01:26:32.060 later i find out that she's

01:26:34.740 telling my mom like oh he

01:26:36.740 put his hands on me and he

01:26:38.620 was very aggressive and

01:26:40.180 violent and she was basically

01:26:42.300 saying like all the stuff

01:26:43.700 that she did to me that i did

01:26:45.900 to her and that it was so

01:26:47.480 messed up of so messed up of

01:26:49.120 me to kick her out at 2 a.m 1.00

01:26:50.880 in the morning like she

01:26:52.200 was just something like i

01:26:53.020 like i just started this

01:26:53.880 whole shit for no reason

01:26:54.780 right it was insane all

01:26:57.460 right so then we started

01:26:58.800 talking again like to fix

01:27:01.020 her like it was it was like

01:27:02.360 on and off again for like

01:27:03.460 two years right we started

01:27:05.620 talking again to like fix

01:27:07.620 the relationship i missed

01:27:08.620 her she missed me we were

01:27:09.680 like working through all of

01:27:10.740 our issues right and so i'm

01:27:12.720 getting ready to go fly down

01:27:13.900 to her country to meet her

01:27:15.060 and then me and my mom are

01:27:17.400 having this conversation

01:27:17.960 so whenever your girlfriend

01:27:19.480 becomes like best friends

01:27:20.580 with your mom and you don't

01:27:21.760 like your mom that is a huge

01:27:23.420 red flag because if they get

01:27:24.940 along and and your mom is

01:27:26.560 crazy most likely the

01:27:27.860 girlfriend is going to be 1.00

01:27:28.520 crazy too because they think

01:27:29.880 alike so um she i'm getting

01:27:33.880 ready to go fly down and me

01:27:35.040 my mom is like why are you

01:27:36.320 going to go see that girl my

01:27:38.040 mom had this thing where she 1.00

01:27:38.920 would like play both sides

01:27:40.040 right she would be like my 0.96

01:27:42.000 girl's best friend when i

01:27:43.240 wasn't around and when my

01:27:45.020 when my girl wasn't around

01:27:46.020 she'd be like my best

01:27:46.960 friend and like say bad

01:27:47.880 stuff about her right so my

01:27:50.720 mom is like you shouldn't be

01:27:51.920 wasting time going to go see

01:27:53.060 that girl i don't know why 0.98

01:27:54.160 she she basically starts 1.00

01:27:56.120 explaining to me that um this

01:27:58.900 girl told her so she was in 0.55

01:28:02.560 the process of reapplying to

01:28:03.760 get her visa to come back to 0.97

01:28:04.880 the states right she told my

01:28:07.800 mom that i called the the

01:28:11.300 american embassy or whoever

01:28:13.520 does that that all that um

01:28:15.360 that hands out the visas that

01:28:17.540 i called them and ruined her 1.00

01:28:19.360 visa and that's why she failed

01:28:21.060 her visa test and i could not

01:28:23.220 believe what i was hearing

01:28:24.180 right so then she she um i was

01:28:27.520 like fuck that i'm not going 0.99

01:28:28.380 down there right like why would

01:28:30.700 you say something like that

01:28:31.680 with zero proof and then just

01:28:33.200 because you felt like i did that

01:28:35.160 it was completely ask my back

01:28:37.280 shit backwards like you just 1.00

01:28:38.760 you're just making shit up at

01:28:39.840 this point to make me look

01:28:40.720 bad and then saying that

01:28:42.120 behind my back like people we

01:28:43.460 know right so then she so we 1.00

01:28:47.200 hadn't talked for like at that

01:28:48.380 point i just stopped

01:28:49.100 responding to her so then it i

01:28:51.020 think it had been like maybe

01:28:52.040 20 something days like 21 or

01:28:55.320 22 days later i just got back

01:28:57.160 from a work trip she's she

01:28:59.240 calls me and i'm like i'm on

01:29:00.840 the phone with the client like

01:29:02.020 let me call you back she calls

01:29:04.640 me again i say stop calling i

01:29:06.140 had to text her like she just 0.56

01:29:07.480 kept calling over and over and

01:29:09.440 over and over and basically like

01:29:11.060 i lost a lot of money on the

01:29:12.460 sales call because i the client

01:29:14.240 just kept hearing boop boop

01:29:16.640 boop every five seconds while

01:29:18.540 they're while i'm trying to have

01:29:19.480 this business um this business

01:29:21.340 call and like the this is right

01:29:23.520 when the economy started getting

01:29:24.640 like really crappy so i really

01:29:26.100 really needed that money right i

01:29:28.940 tell her stop calling me i'll

01:29:30.700 call you in a little bit like what

01:29:32.420 is so important that you have to

01:29:33.640 talk to me right now right she

01:29:35.980 goes did did you tell these

01:29:37.660 people that they did and and

01:29:39.980 basically she started listing off

01:29:41.380 all of this crazy shit that never

01:29:42.780 happened and i was like that's why

01:29:44.460 you're blowing up my phone like you

01:29:45.740 couldn't wait to talk about this

01:29:47.000 so later so ultimately what ended

01:29:50.180 up happening what happened with

01:29:51.280 this girl nothing i just stopped

01:29:53.700 talking to her man like it it got

01:29:55.400 really bad we just got in a few

01:29:56.680 arguments and and then um so two of

01:29:59.700 the client we were running this

01:30:00.960 business together like really

01:30:02.100 successfully i gave her like my

01:30:04.320 worst clients but those clients

01:30:06.020 um a large portion of my clients

01:30:08.400 were also like friends that i knew

01:30:09.560 for a really long time she ended up

01:30:11.540 becoming like best friends with my

01:30:13.560 clients and now they don't talk to

01:30:15.720 me because of all the crazy shit

01:30:17.020 that she's put up yeah basically

01:30:19.840 poisoning so many women doing that 0.98

01:30:22.080 actually yeah they start hanging out

01:30:24.580 with all your your your best friends

01:30:27.000 and all of your family and they just

01:30:28.700 like basically manipulate them against

01:30:31.020 you like to absorb the resources it's

01:30:33.520 crazy you want to hear the old so i had

01:30:36.220 a friend um he was 20 years old

01:30:39.240 19 years old and he um he got this

01:30:44.800 girl pregnant and his mom okay his mom 0.92

01:30:50.180 was a single mom and hated his dad right

01:30:53.600 so right away the mom took his baby 0.99

01:30:57.660 mother's side so he had she had the kid

01:31:00.420 and i was working a part-time job in

01:31:03.340 retail at the time and this guy's baby

01:31:06.940 mother would come to the store and 0.68

01:31:08.620 follow him around yelling and screaming

01:31:11.620 at him you call them all sorts of names

01:31:13.880 you say he wasn't a man he wasn't a good

01:31:15.980 dad and then his mom and his baby's

01:31:19.820 mother were the same were friends so

01:31:22.420 then his mom would say the same thing

01:31:24.000 oh you you're just like your dad you

01:31:26.600 know you're you're a piece of garbage 0.83

01:31:28.000 blah blah blah right and he put up with

01:31:29.740 that for two years right well he bought

01:31:33.500 a over-the-counter a dna test he swabbed

01:31:37.320 that baby's mouth swabbed his mouth it 1.00

01:31:40.880 wasn't his kid that's wild two years of

01:31:45.500 his baby mama yell and screaming at him

01:31:47.560 and his mom yelling and screaming at him

01:31:50.240 shaming him calling him names insulting

01:31:52.320 him

01:31:52.880 no it wasn't his kid

01:31:54.400 siding with the baby mama yeah right when

01:31:56.860 he found out he packed up his stuff and

01:31:59.500 moved and moved out of state

01:32:00.700 yeah

01:32:01.620 the crazy thing is i i wish there were some

01:32:04.480 type of legal like repercussions that

01:32:06.540 would happen to people that do that like

01:32:07.980 i've heard some horror stories dude like

01:32:10.460 absolute horror stories or like dudes end

01:32:12.900 up you know that taking their own life and

01:32:16.620 eating you know stuff they shouldn't be

01:32:19.100 eating or swallowing you know chemicals

01:32:22.580 that keep cars cool like just doing all

01:32:24.780 kinds of stuff just to get out of the

01:32:26.040 situations like they're that stressed out

01:32:27.980 you know it like really wrecks their mind

01:32:30.560 and people just don't care you know like i

01:32:34.600 know this um back to the um this this one

01:32:38.700 chick that i broke up with she ended up 1.00

01:32:41.280 like becoming friends with a guy that i

01:32:43.460 make music with

01:32:44.280 and then he had to deal with her shit and 0.53

01:32:47.480 she did like even crazier stuff to him but

01:32:49.820 after i broke up with her right she so i was 0.98

01:32:53.480 already seeing somebody new and then like

01:32:54.920 we were talking about fixing the

01:32:57.020 relationship or whatever she comes over to

01:32:59.660 me and this new chick's like just to talk

01:33:03.000 or whatever and the the new chick was in 1.00

01:33:06.360 the other room sleeping and her her bedroom

01:33:08.380 door was right next to the front door

01:33:10.080 and i'm like look keep it down she's 0.95

01:33:12.180 sleeping like i don't want to argue with

01:33:13.640 you right now

01:33:14.120 and she's like she just started wigging

01:33:17.920 out she slams the door so hard that like 1.00

01:33:20.840 the the foundation of the house was like

01:33:23.020 shaking and it cracked and of course my

01:33:25.340 roommate woke up

01:33:26.080 right then she starts hanging out with all

01:33:29.340 of all of my friends like showing up to

01:33:31.460 places that she did she had zero idea that

01:33:34.280 we would be she just magically found out

01:33:37.200 we were there like um in the city that i

01:33:39.840 live in we do this thing called the drum

01:33:41.140 circle where like a few hundred people go

01:33:42.800 to the beach and you know we go out there

01:33:45.140 and have a few drinks and so she would just

01:33:48.140 show up and find us like she had gps on us 1.00

01:33:50.760 bro why would you want to be around someone

01:33:53.140 that you like aren't together with anymore do

01:33:57.560 you know what i mean like don't you want to

01:33:58.880 find a new boyfriend yeah exactly well she

01:34:01.900 did find a new she did find a new boyfriend which

01:34:04.400 was like one of my one of my best friends and

01:34:06.800 then he drove her crazy and she did the same

01:34:09.160 thing to to him that she did to me you know 1.00

01:34:11.500 so she dated one of your best friends like

01:34:13.800 were you mad at him no i didn't care i wasn't

01:34:16.940 like super in love with this girl i was kind of

01:34:18.600 just banging her and like we ended up living 0.51

01:34:20.600 together and like producing music together but

01:34:22.600 i wasn't like i wasn't like super into her

01:34:24.700 you know like we were just kind of like

01:34:26.580 hooking up and i called her my girlfriend but 1.00

01:34:28.600 i didn't like actually do you date a bunch of

01:34:30.300 these creative music artist type i mean i have

01:34:35.640 dated a few not not like a ton maybe like four

01:34:38.800 or five because you know all of them are crazy

01:34:40.940 you know that right don't don't talk about us

01:34:45.240 creative like that no no no no no i'm talking

01:34:47.900 about the women not not the men no i've dated

01:34:51.980 some pretty awesome creative women man they're 1.00

01:34:53.740 not all bad trust me there's a lot of amazing

01:34:56.100 women out there but um to finalize that story um 1.00

01:34:59.320 one of the things she would do right is so she

01:35:03.020 was also my sister's best friend for a while

01:35:05.040 up until the point where you know i broke up

01:35:07.200 with her oh she stopped she stopped talking to my 0.80

01:35:10.000 sister all of a sudden like my sister was evil

01:35:11.640 and they never had a problem in like their 20

01:35:14.380 25 years of friendship until i like until we

01:35:17.900 broke up right she started so i had moved in

01:35:21.880 with so the same girl that i was living with

01:35:24.680 well we ended up not becoming a thing and

01:35:27.860 then but we were like still really good friends

01:35:29.720 so her and her boyfriend had this place and they

01:35:32.480 invited me to come stay or come visit or wherever i

01:35:34.520 ended up moving in with them because they were

01:35:35.800 like awesome people you know and this chick would 1.00

01:35:39.440 come over to the house and when she found out i 1.00

01:35:41.720 lived there she's like you guys need to tell him

01:35:43.400 to leave and they're like we're not gonna kick him

01:35:46.240 out this is his this is his house too what are you

01:35:48.380 talking about she would like talk shit to all of 1.00

01:35:53.360 my friends about how terrible of a guy i was and how

01:35:56.360 mean i was to her and he's such a bad guy and blah blah

01:35:59.240 blah blah blah and then so she formed like this whole

01:36:01.740 little online community where all they do is like talk

01:36:06.300 about me it's insane you know how i realized what the

01:36:08.660 men go through is because when i started thinking or i

01:36:11.780 guess talking like a guy in some

01:36:14.040 retrospects they started treating me like you guys i

01:36:17.380 mean i got whole coalitions of women that try to take me 1.00

01:36:20.080 down so i call i call it the facebook fan clubs

01:36:23.960 right i mean that one woman probably cost me two million 0.99

01:36:27.580 dollars one scorned woman 1.00

01:36:29.380 that's insane it's you know i kind of understand when men

01:36:33.320 don't fight they're just like look you win

01:36:35.240 lady look you win just take whatever the fuck you want to 1.00

01:36:39.080 take i mean those groups those groups took me to some

01:36:43.420 pretty dark and like depressing places but like over time like

01:36:47.020 after 10 years i'm just like you know what whatever these people

01:36:50.040 are going to say whatever they want to say about me like i just

01:36:52.300 don't give a shit about it anymore so after a while it's more amusing

01:36:55.600 than anything like these people are still talking about me

01:36:58.240 because we broke up like 10 years ago

01:37:00.140 they're still in the facebook group about you

01:37:03.160 every like every day and they and they track my location too

01:37:07.700 so whenever they figure out what city i'm in

01:37:09.760 they put it in the group are you like a dj or something

01:37:13.780 they i don't how do they know what location you're in

01:37:16.740 because somebody somebody that they know will see me or like an old friend

01:37:21.880 that i definitely don't talk to anymore will call me up and like start a

01:37:25.240 conversation or say they have work and then they'll be like oh by the way

01:37:28.300 where are you and then they just disappear and then i'll notice that

01:37:32.140 whenever i'm in that city like at certain locations like people start

01:37:35.980 treating me different like i've had places where people were like super

01:37:39.300 friendly to me now they're like spitting in my coffee oh my gosh that's the worst

01:37:44.580 it's the worst one when you know they're doing it but you can't prove it but you

01:37:50.340 can just tell yeah i mean yeah they give you the look they give you the

01:37:55.780 i call it the look like once you see that look you know they they know they

01:37:59.300 recognize you before you recognize them yeah it says um crx joe says 49 and tired of

01:38:06.980 dealing with all this bs the ex-wife screwed three different guys and handed 1.00

01:38:10.260 me divorce papers and she told me what she did women are evil like why didn't 1.00

01:38:14.580 she just if you didn't know about the cheating why didn't why did she tell you 1.00

01:38:19.140 you know what i mean like she could have she could have divorced you and like made 1.00

01:38:22.340 up some you know sob story or said you don't appreciate it would have been better

01:38:27.460 than like i just what's what's the purpose of saying that you know what i mean

01:38:33.380 like imagine if a guy's gonna like dump you and he's like oh and i effed her her i've

01:38:37.780 effed your friend it's like for why why would you do that yeah they just do that it's because

01:38:43.460 i mean they don't want to punch you physically or fight you so they're just trying like get at you

01:38:47.780 you know emotionally but i'm gonna run thanks for having me on guys thanks for coming

01:38:51.780 i was gonna talk to you all right later okay we have uh one more person on this will be the last

01:38:59.380 call of the night cool let bucky in bucky are you there

01:39:09.940 bucky are you there yes bucky how's it going how's it going how's it going

01:39:17.540 where are you calling out of have you called him before that name sounds familiar i've called

01:39:22.820 him one time before okay what part of the country were you midwest uh yeah i'm in georgia cool okay

01:39:29.700 well that's a little south but can you hear me yeah i can hear you so okay tell me your breakup story

01:39:36.500 what's the worst way a woman's broken or um you've broken a woman's reacted when you've broken up with her

01:39:41.860 yes yes i can tell you i had a breakup story um i'm an older guy i'm in my early 50s never been married

01:39:51.300 and um i lived in china for about 20 years so i had a girlfriend there she was very nice in the

01:39:58.180 beginning but later on as we started to um there were some things between us that you know i felt that

01:40:09.220 were her character and mine were a little different she wasn't like cheating on me or anything like

01:40:14.900 that but um we didn't like the same outside of sex we didn't have nothing in common so i broke um

01:40:22.740 i told her you know that and um i had been with her for about six months after i told her that she told

01:40:31.060 me in the chinese tradition that if you um break up with the girl you got to give them a

01:40:36.260 uh um what do you call it uh money because like i was in my late 40s late 40s at the time she was 1.00

01:40:44.340 in her late 20s and um they said you wasted their youth because she was with me for about six months

01:40:51.380 so okay that's not that much use like come on yeah yeah she's not that yeah i don't know why but she 0.96

01:40:57.380 a lot of chinese men do that that's very common like if they did a younger girl um if they break up

01:41:03.380 they have to pay the family some sort of fee okay because uh you know that's what they do okay so

01:41:09.860 i told her basically no i'm not paying that up and um so she got her family to come down harass me at 0.98

01:41:17.140 at work and um her family and some other people she had they would come by and try to you know demand

01:41:25.540 some money out of me so um things got things got a little worse after that and um i basically had to

01:41:35.780 hire someone to go down and pay her family a visit not violently but to let them know things could

01:41:42.980 escalate if you keep on bothering me and they kind of backed down once they saw that you you know that

01:41:49.380 i you know was going to do what i was going to do but she turned into a complete monster after that 1.00

01:41:54.580 because she said um i told her it was this in china i'm sorry what did you say you said she was

01:42:02.500 chinese was this in china okay yeah this was yeah because i don't know she wouldn't have gotten away 0.98

01:42:06.740 with that here in the states but in china there's a lot of men that do do that like if they're wealthy

01:42:13.060 and they're rich and they you know marry or they're with a girl who's like in their 20s they got to pay for

01:42:18.260 living expenses and all this other stuff and if they break up the family will want like a fee for that

01:42:24.740 because they say you wasted her youth so in china it's called chinchuanfei so um that was a crazy

01:42:33.060 situation but you know that was that was the craziest one i had been to and i still don't know

01:42:40.340 why she was like that that's insane we got another super chat uh wait hold on i want to read it really

01:42:46.820 quick she was evil claimed to be christian thank you for the super chat guys wow so it's common there

01:42:53.460 for like um boyfriends to get harassed for wasting women's youth essentially if they break up with them

01:43:00.100 no i i won't i don't want to give china bad news because a lot of very nice chinese women and women 1.00

01:43:05.300 of all races so i'm not saying that but it is common but here's the thing most chinese guys will pay that up 1.00

01:43:10.980 if they have like if they i don't know like they're what i call cultural tricks so they automatically

01:43:19.540 know that it's going to cost money just to especially she's attracted to be with this girl

01:43:24.260 so if he if he's an older guy like myself in his 40s and the girl he had what she he had was in her 20s

01:43:32.420 then yeah it's common for them to do that but most people are not wealthy they don't have that much

01:43:38.980 money so most times like it's not like that it's like both people in high school yeah how was it

01:43:45.220 being a passport bro there did you get like a lot more female attention like going from america you have 0.55

01:43:51.300 an american accent so i'm going to assume you're american yeah yeah i got a lot more yeah it's this if

01:43:58.100 you go to china there's not too many uh black well i'm african-american there's not too many black

01:44:03.700 people there and although there is sort of a bad stigma um but you get a lot you get a lot more

01:44:11.060 attention from people in general yeah and i like petite skinny women so they're right up my alley yeah 1.00

01:44:17.620 so um go ahead okay was it like 10x or just a little bit but like i'm just curious the difference

01:44:24.740 in dating like american women versus chinese okay that's a good question here's the thing 0.68

01:44:30.660 i think if you're good with women here in the states like you just you know how to talk you know 1.00

01:44:36.100 how to interact you know some guys are just good at it they're better at it you'll get like tenfold

01:44:41.460 there like you will you know you'll get better if you're like me i i wouldn't say i was socially

01:44:47.780 awkward but i don't really go out that much and talk to a lot of women but i could i could still 1.00

01:44:52.740 you know talk to a girl and get her interested um that's like 5x but i noticed the difference like

01:44:59.380 guys you see who normally might be losers here they'll they'll pick up a lot of women there even 1.00

01:45:04.900 if they're socially awkward they'll get more women but if you're already good with women it's like 1.00

01:45:10.260 tenfold and are the women of a higher quality there like are they more feminine or i mean clearly 0.97

01:45:16.660 at least that one was more at least just as crazy as american crazy yeah yeah um but i'm just curious

01:45:23.940 overall did you like well like pros and cons of chinese versus american i just like to get that's

01:45:31.140 a unique experience so i think it's interesting and you live there for 20 years too yeah so tell us

01:45:37.780 yeah i went there in the late 90s um and it was completely different by the time i left which was like in

01:45:44.180 2021 i came back here so in the late 90s china was um was much more conservative but behind behind

01:45:53.460 closed doors i noticed like people would say like oh everybody like the chinese moon will tell you

01:45:58.900 oh yeah we chinese are conservative and you americans are like open and they are right because just to a

01:46:05.860 bigger degree because chinese are more traditional but i discovered like behind closed doors like when you got to 0.88

01:46:12.340 know people so and so was sleeping with this person or i was a teacher at the time and so and so was

01:46:18.340 sleeping around with the with the professor and so you did it but they kind of kept it in wraps now

01:46:26.820 things started to change like in the 2010s like 2010 2012 and it became more like open you know to to be

01:46:34.580 permissive but they're not um they're still not like it's here like you can't really just go out and

01:46:42.180 you know with your butt out and hang out in the strip club or they don't have that type of thing there 1.00

01:46:46.980 no they they the government does crack down on open displays of sexuality i've heard you need a lot more

01:46:53.860 money to get married there is that true yeah there's a thing they called hong bao hong bao is um

01:47:02.660 it's a red package so if you get married there and you know um you think oh what's the word dowry you

01:47:10.660 you give like the wife a dowry so some people give a lot some people give a little but it's customary for

01:47:16.420 the man to give something to the woman's family um now some oh another thing too in china if you get

01:47:23.220 married and you're a guy you better have a home or at least an apartment and a car uh if you don't

01:47:29.700 have that it's a little more difficult because the parents won't won't think you have anything

01:47:34.980 for their daughter so a lot of guys make sure they have that before they even think about marriage got

01:47:40.580 it um one second crx joe says thank you for the support of men i've been watching your channel for a

01:47:47.220 while now keep doing what you're doing thank you for the super chat guys it's very helpful when you guys

01:47:52.420 send them um because we are monetized on youtube now so thank you so much i'm sorry continue

01:47:59.860 um i'm sorry what else did you ask me and i think i was just um the pros and cons of um

01:48:05.780 was there anything better about american women that you like missed when you went there

01:48:10.100 um i like petite women but i do like not fat but i like you know okay like you know 1.00

01:48:23.300 yeah you you like step in the right places yeah that's it that's it yeah so chinese are a little 1.00

01:48:30.100 skinny but once they take off you know once it comes off i don't get too graphic here but you know

01:48:35.140 okay some people they just hide it better like how they dress but in terms of like um

01:48:42.900 here's the thing when i was here in the states i really i was going to college this was a long time

01:48:48.020 it's like in the 90s and i really didn't um i was a guy in my early 20s i didn't really start

01:48:53.460 exploring women till i got there so i really don't know much about american women i know a lot about chinese

01:48:58.500 and asian women so um i mean chinese and asian women from that part of the country not the ones 0.91

01:49:04.900 living here so so yeah there is a difference um as i said before they're they're more conservative

01:49:15.380 but uh if you get one girl that's very honest about like her sexuality which that people started

01:49:21.220 to come out more like in the 2010 i noticed things changed so that's when you started uh

01:49:28.100 seeing more people be honest about their sexuality and and what what they try to do in china is they

01:49:33.380 tell foreigners that um oh yeah chinese people they'll still say this today like chinese are very 1.00

01:49:39.220 conservative and the west is like you know really corrupt when in reality like behind those doors you're

01:49:45.060 doing all the same type of stuff it's just more secret yeah women are women but yeah if they like 1.00

01:49:51.940 you you know you know i could tell you story after story of um you know when i first got there i was

01:49:58.420 this woman she she was married she was an older woman she i was like in my late 20s she was an older woman 1.00

01:50:04.900 and she was married and she didn't tell me but she was giving me this guy's credit card and i was driving

01:50:11.460 around in the car that he brought her and all this crazy stuff then later i found out that she was married 0.68

01:50:16.500 but she didn't tell me so i got pimped big time but um yeah yeah so you still hit though right yeah

01:50:28.260 you didn't die and you still hit sounds like a win for you it was a win but if that guy ever found out

01:50:34.260 i don't know what i cut i cut that off but it's one i want to say one last thing okay there's a place

01:50:41.060 in china called on fujian province and a lot of african people go there like a lot of for some

01:50:46.900 reason a lot of africans do business and the women there are what they call shung you i don't know if 0.86

01:50:52.900 you've heard this before shungi leftover women yeah very good it's very popular on youtube now so

01:50:58.580 there's a old chinese women who are like older and they are fine as hell they're not like some of 1.00

01:51:05.620 these fat but you asked me what was different about america in america you get an older woman 1.00

01:51:09.700 she don't really take care of herself but you got women there who are like 40 50 who look like in 1.00

01:51:14.980 there in their late 20s oh my gosh they don't i i've never been to china but in japan they don't age

01:51:20.980 yeah i know i know exactly like like 20 years i i i could misinterpret their age go ahead yeah yeah

01:51:31.780 you've noticed that you were in japan so yeah it's the same thing in china so you got a lot of women 1.00

01:51:37.220 there who are older who have no children who are in chinese one thing chinese i give chinese credit for 1.00

01:51:42.900 they're very um smart when it comes to business and making money even the average person knows they're

01:51:49.940 very practical so you got a lot of these older women who you know who got bank who look good for 1.00

01:51:55.620 their age and um who can't find the guy and um there's more men in china than women china has more

01:52:03.540 men than women slightly more so you got a lot of these guys who are older who are lifeless but they

01:52:10.660 won't even talk to those women so if you go to fujin they particularly go for a lot of these african dudes 1.00

01:52:16.980 who go there and they become like a boy toy and i didn't know that someone to my friend told me

01:52:23.540 yeah i got all my friends over there and i went there with him and um yeah they were hitting big

01:52:29.060 time and some of these guys were broke but they go over there and a lot of chinese like them so yeah

01:52:36.340 that's one difference i would yeah you asked me about a difference i would say the women who are older 1.00

01:52:40.900 actually they're actually i think well it depends on what standards you have but they take care of

01:52:48.980 themselves they age better i've seen that with like um someone in the chat says my ex is japanese and oh

01:52:55.060 they age and get fat look i was there like a long time ago i was like 12 but i just remember that some

01:53:01.860 of the moms i couldn't believe they were moms because they looked like 20 25. um but she was like 1.00

01:53:09.620 like the kids were old like it wasn't like a young mom with a baby um okay well thanks so much for

01:53:17.300 sharing doug mpa you got any other questions for him nope thanks for bringing that perspective man

01:53:24.100 we really appreciate it yeah that was super interesting call in any time okay yeah if i have

01:53:29.620 something useful to add i'll call in you know and just shed a little light on some subjects um sure if i

01:53:34.660 don't want you want to hear from me okay all the time maybe we'll do um see um doug mpa maybe we could

01:53:41.620 do a passport bros show yeah and guys can share there because we just had two um semi passport bros

01:53:48.660 call in so you could have guys um talk about how we could get austin holliman to call in he's done

01:53:55.300 i did a show with him like a long time ago are you there yeah uh-huh i thought the sound went out

01:54:05.060 for a second yeah yeah yeah i'll have to reach out to him cool cool but yeah yeah those are all the

01:54:11.700 rest of the callers cool well guys thanks so much for calling in it's been great getting callers the

01:54:18.260 last few weeks so i really appreciate it um doug mpa any final thoughts on dumping women um women

01:54:28.020 learning how to take an l is part of being a man we all remember the first time we got our hearts

01:54:32.900 ripped out and men we just got to keep going you know you get your heart ripped out you get rejected

01:54:39.060 you got to pick yourself up because men are the ones that approach i've met some of the most

01:54:42.740 powerful women lawyers doctors surgeons and they will not approach a man says they can't handle 1.00

01:54:49.620 rejection and like the guy the caller said before women they don't know how to take rejection until 0.91

01:54:55.540 they smash into the wall a lot of times you breaking up with them is the first time that anyone

01:55:01.140 has told them no in their lives so guys just watch out when you break up with a woman you know hopefully 0.99

01:55:07.620 she's know where you live if you break up with her at your house protect that ps5

01:55:16.100 they always go for the ps5 man so watch out for that yeah but these you know but and and i just

01:55:21.860 recommend ghosting guys you know just ghost them okay that's it all right thank you doug mpa all right

01:55:29.940 guys like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel um and i'm thinking about doing the

01:55:35.620 amish video in the next like two weeks and i want to keep you guys posted so i want to go to an amish

01:55:40.740 neighborhood and interview some amish people and i have two choices for this video i can go to this

01:55:47.700 amish place that i went to when i was a kid it's like three hours from where i'm at now and i can just

01:55:52.740 see i i i could just see if any of the amish will talk to me i don't know i haven't been there since i was

01:55:59.460 like eight or if somebody watching happens to know any amish people that would do an interview or

01:56:06.980 something and ideally you're in the midwest somewhere pearly things with a z on twitter or email me um

01:56:16.180 just pearly things at gmail.com yeah so anyways just so you know the only four percent of the amish 0.99

01:56:24.580 are obese and the average amish person lives to be between 80 and 85. yeah i just think it'd be cool 0.99

01:56:32.500 to go see their thoughts on like relationships and i don't know like i want to see if any of the women's 1.00

01:56:38.900 answers are like are women women even when they're amish so i just want to see so it would kind of be a

01:56:47.940 cool video i i certainly i'm totally willing to go to this amish community by myself and just see

01:56:55.700 i'm just a little nervous i drive all the way out there and no one will talk to me

01:56:59.540 i don't know i don't know we'll see anyway

JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2025

When Modern Women Get Dumped (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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