When Modern Women Get Dumped (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage and why it s bad for men to get married. Hannah Pearl Davis is one of the most controversial faces in all of the internet and she says that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
Transcript
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
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And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally,
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the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when
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I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
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I have seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get...
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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Welcome to another episode here of Pearl Daily.
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And today we are talking about female breakups.
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So anyways, guys, as you guys know, I do go to war with these trad cons.
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And there was a particular trad con that we really saw get red pilled in front of our own
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So to start the show, I want to talk about how Crowder has actually joined us in the women
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Do you guys don't mind making this full screen when I play this?
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Cause I got to, I'm going to fix the lighting thing.
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And that's how you get to the point of being because you weren't giving her enough attention.
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If a guy cheats, no matter what, he is a piece of crap societally.
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There are now people on the right who are still telling you, no, no, young men.
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It's not that the agenda that's been driven home and that has been thrust upon you as a
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You are still, even though you make up 94% of workplace deaths, even though you make up
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Did you, you guys see the contrast between that and the clip from earlier?
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Crowder had a very different tune a decade ago.
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A decade ago, he was telling men to man up and now he's saying, holy shit, he got zeroed
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Besides, you are the problem, at least according to Tommy Lauren.
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And, you know, Speaker Johnson has been talking about those maybe deadbeat folks that are on
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Medicaid and maybe some of those folks are the stay-at-home sons.
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Leave it to Gen Z to rebrand laziness and social awkwardness as something cutesy, like a stay-at-home
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They did much the same thing with quiet quitting, where you can go to work and do less.
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And if you call it quiet quitting, it's somehow better.
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But Laura, I got to tell you, this is also a big problem when it comes to, I think, declining
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People not getting married and having children.
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Well, look at what young women have to choose from.
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Yes, we might have a feminism problem in America.
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Yeah, but what are women bringing to the table?
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There are a lot of young women out there that want to get married.
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But there are a lot of young men out there who want to live in mama's basement and order
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You know, I know a lot of men, actually, that live at home with their parents.
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And it's not, they're all working, to be honest.
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I know probably three different men that have money for a house and they just live at home.
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And it's not because they can't buy a house, but they don't really have a reason to.
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And by the way, I understand this idea of dealing with the work ethic of young people in some
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And I just heard Tommy Loren list a bunch of things that she wants and expects from men.
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So men are the ones who are living at mom's home and ordering DoorDash.
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Um, here's the thing you need to understand around the 20 year old, like Gen Z women, they're
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More likely to be depressed and to be on psychiatric medication.
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Uh, this is so, so young men who, by the way, are in many ways, becoming more fit.
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Young men who are often in many ways, certainly young conservative men who are focusing on self-improvement.
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That's the message that you hear from people like Dr.
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That's the message you hear from a lot of people, whether you like them or not.
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That's the message you're hearing from people like Andrew Wilson out there.
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You can argue until you're blue in the face, but the message to young men right now, where
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Young men get your house in order, make yourself valuable, make yourself desirable so you can
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They're more independent and women still blame young men.
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Let me tell you, can anyone out there, can anyone out there name me one fat pride male
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Hey, can anyone name me an equivalent to only fans for young men?
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I've heard you've read numbers as high as 25% of young women have an only fans or have
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That doesn't include women that do sugar baby, escort, or just ran through Tinder, right?
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There are young gay men that are fat, gross potato sex symbols.
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I'm sure they have only fans, but as far as like the test holidays of the world, as far
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as take your pick, the entire Victoria's Secret lineup where they did plus size.
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Look, this is the, you cannot continue to blame men while women are being told that they are
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beautiful at any size, that they can have an abortion at any time, that all of their
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decisions are valid and none are valid for men.
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To the point now where we've invalidated young men's decisions to not engage.
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I will make the, I would argue young men have far fewer prospects when they're looking at
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And you know how, you know, the dialogue reflects that?
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She lists a bunch of expectations of men and none from herself.
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Andrew Wilson asked her, we, that's why we had him on the show on Pierce Morgan.
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He said, there are many women who would love to be feminine, who would love to have a man
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take care of them, who would love to have, who would love to have a family and be able
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And having herpes and being on antidepressants.
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It's not the same message that young men are being bombarded with.
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Young men right now, and I have a son, I have a daughter.
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I'm going to have to protect her from predators.
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They, you'll see me on the nightly news with cuffs behind my back.
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I have to protect him from false accusations of him being a predator.
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I've had to think about this when you have a boy, girl, twin.
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I have to teach my daughter that she is not perfect, just the way she is.
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Also, you're not a piece of garbage because you were born a young white male.
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You are both fearfully and wonderfully created in the image of God.
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Society says, man at fault, woman, beautiful at any size, brave, no matter what you do.
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And then you see it from conservative, so-called conservative women.
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Then enjoy 60% of women being single and unmarried by the year 2035.
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Yeah, I mean, what's happening is women are delaying marriage.
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So if you do like women and childbearing, it's just the age of first birth and first marriage is going to get older and older.
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We're going to spend as much of our youth and fertility on ourselves.
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Women don't, because he's still under the idea, and I went through this too, that women want to be in relationships.
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Because if we wanted to, we would make choices to reflect that.
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I'm sorry, what she just said is flat out wrong and sounds really shrill and naggy.
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And there's hypocrisy in what she said, her fake, her fake little scenario that she presented.
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A woman wants this, a woman wants that, a woman wants this.
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And the man just wants to sit at home in his mom's basement.
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Well, let's think about that little analogy just made up there.
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And I think most of the guys are just doing this to save rent.
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Pretty much every guy I know that's living at home, under 35 or even under 40, they can afford a house.
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You know, it's easier to just live here and not pay rent.
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Like, I know a lot of guys with the money for a house, but they just don't see the point.
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Her marriage, when it was convenient for her, and then leave him, take the house.
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And now dad's in an apartment, can't afford to provide for his son.
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So now he's living at home with a mom who left his dad at a convenient time and put him out.
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No, she's making it sound like young men just put in no effort and live at home.
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Who was it who spearheaded an entire movement to make sure that you wouldn't have to pay for your own birth control?
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What was it- or no, it was- that's right, Sandra Fluke, remember that?
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Where it should all be taxpayer-funded, on-demand, period.
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It was a violation of your rights to not have abortion or abortificance, as they believe it.
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16 out of 21 birth control methods were paid for by Hobby Lobby Health Insurance, but it was a violation of your-
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So who was the one who wants free birth control?
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Who's the one- which group wants free extended maternity leave, free childcare, rearing, raising so you can out-
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How many young women are checking out and going to trade schools?
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The trend that we see- how many are becoming carpenters, electricians, working in a foundry?
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No, we're just getting jobs in human resources and basket study weaving programs.
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Sure, there are plenty of lazy young men in type-
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Matt says, I'm 40 and I still live with my mom and dad.
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Pearl's right, there's no point in buying a property when I can build with my family.
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They appreciate my resources and anytime I build with them.
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Yeah, like some of the guys I know, it's just their parents are getting older.
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Sometimes it's their mother, like they- maybe their dad died and like their mom just needs help.
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Is Tommy Lauren- is she- is she married to like a, um, like a-
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I'm sure there were no tradesmen around who were working really hard-
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Who do you think's putting up the frickin' electric poles?
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More construction than ever in history in this country.
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Fake nose makeup chicks, you think that's who's doing it?
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My problem is it's just like Tommy Lauren is sounding just like
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And that's my issue with her specifically on this, is that
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she doesn't look at what caused men to be in that state.
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She doesn't look at that and say, hey, what are we telling young men right now?
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What are we doing to them as women, as society in general?
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Because that's what we're really talking about is young men are checking out.
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Even if you disagree with what's causing it, you don't go,
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men are being lazy right now and living in mom's basement, stupid men.
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We have enough men telling other men that they're stupid men.
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We have enough self kind of regulation amongst men.
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What we don't have enough of is looking at how are we training society?
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Try to figure out what the root of the problem is.
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Well, there are two, there are two solutions to this.
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The young male solution, statistically, and we've talked about this,
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I don't like the choices that I'm looking at before me as far as women.
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Young women like Tommy Loren, their solution is to blame men more for checking out.
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What about a young man who's just planning his life?
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I'm working 10 hours, 12 hours a day, five to six days a week.
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I hate that because it implies that the mom just leaves and takes everything,
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But he's just this young guy, he's living at home with his parents,
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saving up money so that someday he can, when he's ready to propose to a woman,
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when he's ready to start a family, when he's ready to suggest that to a woman,
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Because he lived at home with his parents until he was 25.
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Took advantage of the opportunity he had because he came up kind of,
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First off, let me give you a very clear example.
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If you're a woman, a young woman than a young man, that's just a fact.
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And young men don't typically like obese women.
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You know what not one of your male friends says?
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The best you can hope for is, hey, man, you're in a rough spot.
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We don't tell them that you're beautiful and brave in your state of disarray.
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Every single woman, by the way, who are twice as likely to be obese as young men
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has friends going, no, Becky, you're beautiful.
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I had a scenario where I was roped in by my then lady to console her friend
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Whereas if a guy cheats on a woman, we all go, even the bad guys,
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And that's how you get to the point of being Coney Lorette.
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She only cheated because you weren't giving her enough attention.
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If a guy cheats no matter what, he is a piece of crap societally.
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But I remember going through that going, wow, I guess there is no wrong
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that can be committed here that is impermissible.
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Hey, I think she's really, I think that woman's really, you know what?
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Oh wait, according to Gillette, I can't even go up and hit on a woman.
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So if everything is consensual, but she doesn't like me later on and I break up,
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she could still go out and falsely accuse me of rape.
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And I lose everything as we saw with Aziz Ansari, as we saw with Chris Hardwick,
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as we saw with plenty of, as we saw with Trevor Bauer.
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I do, I don't incur student debt and I finally find a right woman.
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I want, oh, well, if she doesn't want to work it.
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Oh, I guess I have to outsource the raising of my children,
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I guess I'm going to, you know, I'm going to work extra.
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He got a white woman, white women love nannies.
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Who else for hearts that we can get the best nanny and oh,
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now I'm not present enough at home and she's gone.
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And the law says that even if she never made as much as me,
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Considering the caliber of women out there in the young generations,
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Especially if it's a young man and their mom is that woman.
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In that scenario, you just, you just played out.
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And by the way, you also hear, by the way, if he loves you,
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I know Crowder's nanny was working 50 plus hours a week.
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You with him, you know, the pet project that you treat him as.
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You just heard not one, two, three, but four or five.
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Man has to lead until he starts leading in a way that you don't like.
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Who's working his ass off and making a good living, but isn't rich.
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And young women are fatter, more depressed, less mentally stable.
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I want to see a return to traditional relationships.
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Because it's the most fulfilling thing that you can find in your life.
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And women, if you find a man who is a leader and submit to him as in any other
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subordinate role to a leader, you will too find what is good.
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You can scream until you're blue in the face and blame.
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You can continue to blame men and you will die alone.
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I hate to say it, but there's always a guy that'll do it.
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Number two, until you start taking, taking that lens
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So everybody, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
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Today, we're going to talk about women getting dumped.
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So we all know that women end 70 to 80% of relationships and marriage.
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And there's a social infrastructure in place to encourage women leaving their men.
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They leave because they think they can do better.
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They leave because they get pumped and dumped by Chad, Gavis, Tyrone.
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And all you hear about in society is women breaking up with men.
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But what happens when it's the other way around?
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Over here, we recognize that men give a lot more in relationships than women.
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They're expected to give up their hobbies and peace of mind just to have a woman in their lives.
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Men also deal with so much more than women would deal with in a relationship.
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The last girl you dated, she probably wouldn't shut up.
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She made you go do things you didn't want to do.
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She had some pet that she brought around that messed up all your stuff.
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So if a man leaves, it's usually stuff that's serious.
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We refuse to do the inner work to see how we contributed to a certain situation.
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Women and how they can't handle when men break up with them.
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So first, let's talk about the top five reasons why men leave.
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You couldn't imagine him cheating or walking out on you.
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Why did he clam up or act like everything we did was okay when it wasn't?
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He was so into you that you thought he would never leave.
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These are the things that guys keep to themselves.
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A majority of men I counsel are complimentary about their partners until I ask them how she makes
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And they begin revealing all the things that hurt them.
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When a guy feels hurt, he seldom uses words to express himself.
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When he may say he feels angry or he feels neglected, but for him to say what you really
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did hurt my feelings or you made me feel like less of a man is rare.
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Unfortunately, women expect words from men that they can't relate to.
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Therefore, they frequently overlook how their actions may be making a man feel.
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Men don't typically just walk out of a door and leave the love of their life.
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One, a guy cannot feel loved or build trust with someone who they feel disrespected by.
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He needs to feel like his opinion matters and that you have his back.
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When a man gets close to you, he understands you see his weakness.
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He needs to feel accepted even with his weakness.
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When you talk with your friends about how your partner is like another child, how much more money
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you make or all you do for the family, his natural instinct is to feel defensive and compete against
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If his masculinity is threatened, you're making all the decisions.
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He feels like he's a project instead of a partner.
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Trying to fix your partner is like pushing them out the door.
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He questions if he can ever please you or if he'll match up to your expectations.
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Instead of trying harder, he gives up and becomes apathetic and the relationship falls apart.
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The majority of men I counsel feel unloved by their partner.
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Men feel as though their partner makes excuses not to be with them.
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He compares the way you dress for work or for girls night to the way you dress around the house.
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He feels used in questions if you love him or your lifestyle more.
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Moms often become more emotionally attached to their children than their husband.
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He begins feeling rejected emotionally and sexually.
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A man will do almost anything for a woman he loves as long as he feels appreciated.
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He needs to be recognized by his partner as satisfying her the most.
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Men may seem unemotional, detached, and focused on other things,
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but they hear everything you say about them when it involves appreciation.
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It loses its significance when they're walking out the door.
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A relationship involves two different people, and that means men and women must think about what
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they say and do, how what they say and do affects their partners.
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Women have permission in society to feel pain and hurt, but men find that more difficult and usually
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only share how they feel with their significant other.
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If you're the person who holds your man's feelings, hold your man's hidden feelings,
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take extra care to treat him with respect and appreciation.
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If you've ever dumped a woman for any of those reasons, make sure you like the video while you're
00:30:05.680
here. There's 650 of you in the chat. It would be great to get 600 likes. A like is free.
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Okay. Why men quit relationships. Women says the three reasons why men leave relationships.
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Here are the top three reasons why some men leave relationships. I've done some research.
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Let's get into it family. Number one, their needs are not being met and have not been met for a period
00:30:30.800
of time. And therefore they have given up on the idea that their needs will be met in this relationship.
00:30:35.840
Number two, he feels unappreciated and like he's being taken for granted.
00:30:40.560
Number three, there is a lack of connection and intimacy.
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This lack of connection can cause a man to disconnect completely.
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I mean, completely. And it creates a desire within him to move on.
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All right, there we go. Number one, crazy girl won't leave her ex-boyfriend alone.
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Can I keep knocking on that door? Okay. Well, I need you to come over here and wait for the door.
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All right, go inside. I don't want her here. She's been asked to leave many, many times.
00:31:13.360
She doesn't want to leave. I don't want her hurt. I don't want her arrested. I just want her out of
00:31:17.440
here, please. And I want it noted. I want to report. You can see she's been doing this forever. I've
00:31:22.560
been waiting for my glass to come in and break. She dated my son. They're not together anymore.
00:31:27.040
And I don't want her on my premises. This is my home. I don't want her here. And this is my son.
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And I don't want him coming out of here because I don't feel safe with her, with him.
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I don't want her in trouble. I just want her to understand she's not welcome here.
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I bet he had that good D. That is the only way you have a girl acting that nuts.
00:32:02.240
Have your driver's license. You're an ID with you.
00:32:05.200
Okay. This is going to last for a couple more minutes until my other deputy gets here. And then
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she's going to have two routes. One, she's going to answer me or she's going to go to jail.
00:32:13.440
You have two routes. Can you answer him or are you going to leave?
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I don't have it with me. You still need to leave.
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I can understand how relationships and stuff like that can be very, very volatile.
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But this is not the way to act like it because I'm assuming you're an adult.
00:32:42.560
Samantha, if you keep instructing him, he is going to-
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Samantha, you're currently trespassing. Do you have ID on you?
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You brought that in your car right now, that car.
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Are you going to leave right now off this property?
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We just want you to leave our home. We don't wish you any ill will. You're just not welcome.
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You can't logic with crazy mother. Tell her to arrest them. Tell her to arrest her.
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Why would you want to go and obstruct justice and get yourself into trouble
00:33:34.240
when you're being given the chance by three officers to leave here who are being very
00:33:39.200
respectful and calm with you and giving you the chance to go to your home and deal with whatever
00:33:43.920
it is that you need to deal with. Brutal. Brutal. Okay. Part two. Let's see what she does next.
00:33:53.280
I love police cam justice and get yourself into trouble when you're being given the chance by
00:33:58.480
three officers to leave here who are being very respectful and calm with you and giving you the
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chance to go to your home and deal with whatever it is that you need to deal with today
00:34:09.200
and not be here and get yourself in trouble. It's not worth it.
00:34:13.920
You just can't stay here. That's going to cause your problems later.
00:34:18.640
If you get arrested, then you got to go back to court. Then you're considered a stalker.
00:34:23.280
Then you're obstructions of justice. Now listening to a police officer.
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Are you going to leave right now? Please leave and do not come back.
00:34:31.920
Yes or no. Okay. So you heard her. She wants you to trespass from this point.
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It's on camera. If you come back on this property and we catch you here, you go to jail.
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Do you understand? All right. Thank you. I don't know.
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All right. Like I said, if she comes back on your property, you call us.
00:35:13.360
They think they're going to have no consequences.
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And by the way, guys, we want you to call in later and tell us your breakup stories.
00:35:29.760
So get ready. There's going to be a link in the chat in a bit.
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The suspect passed seven business parking lots, multiple side streets,
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Turn the car off. Turn it off. Turn the car off. Turn it off. Turn the car off.
00:35:57.040
Get out of the car off. Turn the car off. That girl's going to get shot or something.
00:36:04.560
Okay. A woman cheats on a man and also will not leave his doorstep.
00:36:10.960
Open the door. I'm not letting you be with nobody else. I'm not playing.
00:36:15.680
Well, you did what you did. I'm not playing that on me.
00:36:18.480
Check this out, man. I'm going to make this last screen.
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Eight years. Eight years you want to let it go.
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You should have thought about that when you did what you did.
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You've thought about that when you did what you did.
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I've been coming by this hell for three days, and you ain't been you never .
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You're going somewhere like you're not in here.
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I'm not going nowhere when you close the door on me.
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Man, if you need a seat in a blanket, you can cap out right now.
00:37:09.920
One of the comments says, I think he should forgive her and take her back and then treat her like Cassie.
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Girl gets rejected and looks like a psychopath.
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I was wondering if it's Sophia, if you want to come grab dinner with me and I'll buy.
00:38:57.280
I just want to talk to you about everything and say sorry.
00:38:59.280
I literally am just like, I was in the area just by Riley's.
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he was easy to talk to but towards the end that's when we started getting into
00:40:21.660
like the more serious questions I try to keep first dates like 90 to 95 percent
00:40:27.000
fun and light-hearted and just like a vibe and only like 5 to 10 percent more
00:40:32.280
serious deep conversation so we got to like the question of like what are you
00:40:36.240
looking for long term and I was honest I said you know I see myself being a
00:40:40.560
stay-at-home mom one day I don't know how to work this oh I see trying out this
00:40:45.900
new concealer by me she's not hot enough for a doctor unless he's kind of simpy
00:40:50.340
and anyway the doctor was super honest with me about he sees himself with a
00:40:55.020
partner who works full-time like long term like even when they have kids and he
00:41:00.180
was really honest you know he says that you know he's a family practice medicine
00:41:04.740
or something like that and he has so many student debts he can't financially
00:41:10.140
provide for a family for like 10 to 15 years I feel like I put on way too much
00:41:14.580
concealer like what's the point of the ball and listen I do want to be a
00:41:18.240
stay-at-home mom but what he said is not a deal-breaker for me because you have to
00:41:22.680
put it into perspective we live in California we live in one of the most
00:41:25.860
expensive places to live so yeah him as a family doctor with you know hundreds of
00:41:31.740
thousand dollars of debt probably for medical school yeah he can't afford a
00:41:35.160
family here but if we were to fall in love and you know date seriously we could
00:41:40.740
just move right that's why in my mind I'm like this this isn't a deal-breaker for
00:41:45.960
me I didn't say that to him but that's what I was thinking I feel like I can
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still see my pimple so far I like this concealer so we finished dinner and it's
00:41:54.060
when he's dropping me off that he was really honest with me remember we met on
00:41:58.740
delight where you have to unmatch your match in order to keep swiping to get a
00:42:03.120
new match so he told me that he didn't think our ideal future lifestyles were
00:42:07.140
compatible and look at I could have disagreed with him but what's the point
00:42:11.160
because he doesn't really like me he's just not that into me so I agreed with
00:42:15.060
them thanked him for dinner and by the time I made it back to my apartment he
00:42:18.900
had unmatched me on delight but here's the best part I got rematched with a guy
00:42:23.520
who I had previously swiped right on before I matched with the doctor and we
00:42:27.780
talked a bit last night and guess what I'm getting ready for right now she took
00:42:33.120
the L okay this was a this was an all right that's right your girl already has
00:42:38.040
another dinner date for 5 p.m. tonight ladies don't let rejection get to you
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final makeup look now I just need to do my hair wish me luck yeah he probably
00:42:50.000
found her tick-tock all right crazy ex-girlfriend comes over to a
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do you know what day it was yesterday day yesterday I don't know it's Monday my
00:43:06.420
birthday okay happy birthday right now but I'm sure she didn't actually message me
00:43:13.540
yesterday to be honest sorry what I'm sure she didn't message me yesterday
00:43:18.880
okay but you blocked me okay but you blocked me no I haven't blocked you on
00:43:27.520
Instagram yes you have you blocked my you blocked my number you blocked me off
00:43:32.440
Instagram like we've broken up like I'm like like a month ago yeah but you know
00:43:38.080
you can email me you can wish me happy birthday it's just the least that you
00:43:43.540
could do even though you've just broken up not that long ago I still I still care about
00:43:47.740
you in it but hopefully you care about me but clearly you don't wish me happy
00:43:51.220
birthday okay but okay but you broke up with me like how am I supposed to say
00:43:54.100
happy birthday I feel like this might be a scare to you how am I supposed to
00:43:57.040
happy birthday to you if you blocked me because there's so many ways you can
00:44:01.740
you've got my email you could email me you could even you can even bank
00:44:04.840
transfer me a penny doesn't even have to break the bank for it transfer me a
00:44:08.560
penny put reference happy birthday there's so many people that do that
00:44:11.680
nowadays like why am I gonna bank transfer you money or like even a
00:44:16.360
penny when like you blocked me and you're the one who broke up with me I
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just don't think it's a bit unfair that you're not even wishing me happy but if
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it was your birthday yeah I'd have 100% to wish my birthday oh my gosh okay I had
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four guys break oh okay now we can watch the breakups last week so guys last week I
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decided I wanted you guys to give give you guys a chance to dump me obviously we
00:44:49.480
could see how well I took these um breakups so I had a great breakup guy
00:44:55.540
number five or four I think it was Sean he calls in a lot he had a great
00:45:01.420
breakup so let's react to these wait wait I can change I can change I'll do
00:45:06.700
better you've had three months to do it I haven't seen any change sorry yeah can
00:45:13.240
you guys can you guys um dump me on stream I want to see how you guys would
00:45:16.840
do it all right can I get like you guys is dumping speeches scenario you gotta give
00:45:23.440
us a scenario of how why are we dumping okay so the scenario is it's just not
00:45:29.500
like um I don't know what's the not cheating she's just not putting out no no putting out
00:45:37.240
not cheating but you're just like over it it's who I am as a person go ahead how about this how
00:45:42.580
about this she wants she's spending too much time at your house and she's like she's putting too much time at
00:45:51.580
your house and she doesn't like your interest so she's starting to put herself at odds with
00:45:57.100
your with your business time and your hobbies how about that okay yeah let's do it Shiv you
00:46:03.100
want to go Shiv you want to go first yeah so for me I I just don't give women reasons I just break
00:46:08.420
up with them so I just be like hey like I found out like my grandma's really sick I might have to go
00:46:14.000
to India for four months oh don't worry wait wait but but I'll wait for you I'll wait for you
00:46:20.340
no you don't understand like you deserve so much better I don't you're the no you're the
00:46:26.320
you're the one for me don't worry I'll be there for you girl I'm gay I'm gay
00:46:31.980
get the fuck out i'm having i did i'm asexual i identify as that's okay
00:46:44.400
okay then can we just be can we just be friends and still hang out it's against my religion i
00:46:54.500
changed so i'm a scientologist now okay all right glenn you're next tell me i'm ready
00:47:02.300
i'm like let's say i want to say that once again she she's she insists on coming to your house
00:47:09.220
so you you haven't had alone time in like a month a month and a half because she wants to spend
00:47:14.200
every waking second with you and when she comes over she doesn't like you on your computer she
00:47:19.820
doesn't like you watching football i want to do something glenn yeah what do you want to do
00:47:25.080
and then you're naming these offices i don't want to do that why do we have to do what you want to do
00:47:28.460
if you okay this is how would you come here come here let me show you something i'm gonna show you
00:47:32.720
something in the bedroom um oh wow i'm excited do you see um what's next to the bed is that one night
00:47:40.300
stand yeah you are supposed to be just like that one night stand okay okay but it worked out i'm so
00:47:48.800
happy yeah so one night stand you have turned into a 30 day stand and um yeah it's not gonna work
00:47:58.880
out like it's just it's just doesn't why but why um i fucked your sister
00:48:05.500
she's 15. i don't know what to tell you i'm just kidding i'm just kidding
00:48:16.220
oh god it's just like i i'm i'm going all right you know i think my favorite
00:48:24.940
i think glenn he got right to the point i did enjoy that but the best one oh doug your mom okay like
00:48:33.500
your mom is the business like she makes the biscuits okay you you burnt the biscuits you know
00:48:40.460
it was one time i'm getting dumped over one time i'm sorry could you tell me could you just tell me
00:48:48.440
why what did i do can you tell me please your mom uses no teeth okay i told you the teeth thing is a
00:48:54.580
problem okay well can we can i just get some closure yes the door will close on the way
00:49:04.160
sean you're next how are you gonna do it this was a masterpiece
00:49:12.580
hey can i talk to you for a second yeah what's going on so you know and this is an open conversation
00:49:25.240
it's a two-way street as we always have communication and conversations it's not only my opinions it's
00:49:32.520
yours too and so i would like for you to say anything there'll be no consequences no negative
00:49:37.740
things it's opening discussion i was looking on the internet and i found these clips of you being
00:49:46.000
a colonizer and i wanted to ask you about that because you know i'm pro-black you know and i'm
00:49:52.740
i'm for the community and uh you know what do you have to say about these things i'm gonna have to break
00:49:59.960
up with you actually because i get it i get it and that's where we just have to separate you know
00:50:07.280
and i get it you know i still care about you and still be friend will still be close friends i wish
00:50:15.080
you the best this is the best breakup i've ever had no i don't want it to be negative i don't we had
00:50:23.680
80 percent of our time together it was great yeah you know and the last guy shut the door in my face
00:50:30.080
so this is great no the door closed on itself self-closing doors i wouldn't i wouldn't do that
00:50:37.600
yeah the other guys look i'm not gonna do that to you probably i'm not gonna lie to you oh you're so
00:50:44.420
nice i'm gonna miss you okay yeah i'll miss you you rather you hate to see a go but you love to
00:50:50.540
watch a leave already i asked him to do another well i'm sorry my colon i'm sorry my colonization
00:51:02.680
was a problem it's cool some people needed to be colonized sometimes yeah it's okay yeah so you
00:51:09.500
didn't do it i just have to stand with the community yeah i understand doug mpa you're next are you gonna
00:51:17.560
dump me so so i would set it up where so example i i'm a punctual person pearl and i work together
00:51:26.640
and she knows how much i can't stand it when she's late to calls and stuff like that so but when i'm
00:51:31.360
with somebody i i'll do something like if we're supposed to be somewhere at two and another person
00:51:36.940
is always late i'll tell her like 1 15 right and so there are things i will do to mitigate the
00:51:44.560
things that she does to piss me off right and what i'll do is i'll stop doing those things
00:51:50.100
so she's doing things that annoy me so i'll say you know the last couple of last month or two you're
00:52:00.240
always late always it's because you don't respect me do you i don't think you do and and and so i'll
00:52:10.420
start keep you're not supposed to keep um keep tally or keep track but i'll change certain behaviors
00:52:16.040
and start keeping tally and track of where she's deficient and then use that to break up with her
00:52:20.360
you're always late you i i'll pay for all the days and all the food and then i'll say you
00:52:27.000
you never pay for a date you just want me for my money i thought i thought it was especially funny
00:52:34.080
because i know doug mpa hates when girls that pay you told me you wanted to pay yeah but you know
00:52:41.620
what you should at least offer but you hate it when people offer yeah i you know what i i would set
00:52:52.340
up like that where i would find reasons where she's deficient and use those to break up with her
00:52:58.500
like you know what you you you're late all the time okay but wait wait i can change i can change
00:53:06.460
i'll do better you've had three months to do it i haven't seen any change sorry here's my question
00:53:13.840
have you guys ever used like pointing out other chicks to make her feel like she's like you're like
00:53:20.040
you're not even into her like she's not your type
00:53:23.000
i did that she made she broke up yeah i don't i mean i really liked my colonizer breakup the best
00:53:31.960
get one more and i'll get to it no problem man i've been doing it for a while
00:53:36.880
he's like the professional breakup you know like yeah that was great like h still at the end can we
00:53:45.840
give him another business here can we give him another scenario i want another one yeah okay
00:53:52.040
okay i got i got one i got one let's say she's insecure and she's accusing you of leaving dick
00:54:02.320
imprint on the counter okay i.e she thinks you're cheating on her and she thinks that she sees your
00:54:12.120
dick imprint on the counter and you know you're following all these girls um i'm not doing that
00:54:19.240
but you're liking all these pictures and i'm just i'm freaking out and she knows your instagram dms
00:54:26.660
are full of titties yeah i need you to follow uglier women please
00:54:32.320
yeah right no i understand that one all right hey pearl can we have a conversation yeah let's go
00:54:46.100
communication with your girl that's more superior than her ability to communicate so you have to make
00:54:52.140
time for it so pearl um i know you've been having issues or speaking about ig
00:55:01.300
and first first of all i don't want to get it wrong so tell me if there are any issues or
00:55:10.480
things you want to talk about what is it what's the well you're just you're always like you you're
00:55:16.560
always following these girls and liking their picture like you never follow men it's always just
00:55:21.700
women on instagram always you know and your friend she wants to sleep with you i can just tell
00:55:36.260
it's on the counter as far as the girl in particular right
00:55:43.980
we're friends and we've been friends for a while and pearl i never lie i'm not going to lie to you
00:55:50.720
i'm too old to be doing that i went to war i've been in combat i'm not scared of you i'm going to tell
00:55:57.600
you the truth i'm going to tell you what you need to hear even if you don't like it have i not done
00:56:02.100
that in our relationship already yeah you have i guess i was overblowing it
00:56:08.280
no that's okay people get their ideas and the number one most important part is you communicated
00:56:16.720
to me and we had the time to talk about it if you didn't then that would be a problem right
00:56:21.380
because possibly it would build resentment and other things like that so i appreciate you
00:56:26.220
bringing that to me is there anything else that you had issues with no you're the best i'm so glad
00:56:38.920
about it really working out i think it would work out if we transition this relationship
00:56:45.500
i'm serious bro because i think i mean it does it was such a straight thing
00:56:52.480
at the end of the day i might not be the guy that you need i could be a great friend for you i think
00:56:59.580
we know no i need you but like we're i've never been with anyone better what you need yourself that's
00:57:09.640
number one i can't you know that's inside you you have those feelings right you believe i'm cheating
00:57:18.000
you believe that this ig is right or wrong so he takes the problems he opened me up to say
00:57:31.360
but you so you don't you don't want to be with me anymore
00:57:43.980
most of our relationship was good pearl it's not a bad thing but everything in life doesn't last forever
00:57:53.740
and you said that you have an issue with these things and we don't want that in a marriage imagine
00:57:59.940
our kids having to deal with this if we had kids that was such a beautiful line
00:58:04.620
would you want that for your children i don't think you would
00:58:10.500
and i think you need someone who won't give you those type of issues that don't follow women on instagram i get
00:58:16.680
it and it's not a cool thing for your perspective and i respect your perspective it's important
00:58:22.680
i'll always be here for you pearl that's for sure for sure really
00:58:31.400
anyways guys i got a i know a standing ovation from the panel
00:58:45.000
okay so i want you guys to call in the links in the chat
00:58:49.460
and what is the worst way a woman responded to you breaking up with her
00:58:54.460
what caused the breakup and if you divorced your ex-wife how did she handle it
00:59:01.700
is he here yet no maybe he's not he's coming soon if he's not
00:59:08.220
oh it's telling me my battery's low let me check the website really quick by the way guys you do
00:59:17.520
the let me see let me go back you get so if you do have a super chat put it on the website
00:59:27.180
and i will read it okay i'm charging this hey sorry about that okay how's it going doug mpa
00:59:39.240
going good i was just reminiscing from that beautiful breakup
00:59:43.880
yeah yeah that that breakup um show that we had and sean's beautiful two beautiful breakups yeah that's a talent right there it's great because he gets the girl to open up do you have any other problems and then she's like yes this this this and this well we can't bring that into a marriage
01:00:05.880
so um what was the worst way a woman responded to you dumping her hold on one second one second one second one second okay one second
01:00:18.740
one second one second okay yeah there are people in the uh actually on the show already ask the question again
01:00:33.080
um what's the worst way a woman responded to you breaking up with her
01:00:37.960
well um so i've never been broken up with i just had women
01:00:44.940
on date you know we're dating and they're like yeah
01:00:47.960
you're not really my speed but out of a relationship i've never
01:01:00.660
guys guys ghost these women because women feel entitled to your time
01:01:05.420
to your resources and to closure don't give them any of those
01:01:27.800
uh was like is this you i'm part of this group and i'm like what and it was a picture of me and i'm like what the heck
01:01:37.260
is going on here so that's probably i've never really been broken up with out of a relationship but i've had some crazy stuff happen
01:01:43.840
in dating where you know i've ghosted a woman or i just didn't want to see her
01:01:48.240
uh anymore and she's you know does something like that
01:02:01.980
they'll do the thing where you'll break up with them
01:02:14.240
so i've had that happen but i've never really been broken up with
01:02:17.240
did a girl ever crash out on you when you dumped her
01:02:40.420
so most of them took it okay and just accepted it
01:03:00.420
you know i think he's about to break up with me and i really blah blah blah
01:03:17.720
but that's probably the craziest thing that happened
01:04:01.760
uh it's like if i'm not interested in them anymore
01:05:20.400
women still try to hold men to a higher standard
01:34:01.900
did find a new she did find a new boyfriend which
01:34:16.940
like super in love with this girl i was kind of
01:34:56.100
women out there but um to finalize that story um
01:35:07.200
with her oh she stopped she stopped talking to my
01:35:27.860
then but we were like still really good friends
01:35:29.720
so her and her boyfriend had this place and they
01:35:32.480
invited me to come stay or come visit or wherever i
01:35:35.800
like awesome people you know and this chick would
01:35:39.440
come over to the house and when she found out i
01:35:41.720
lived there she's like you guys need to tell him
01:35:43.400
to leave and they're like we're not gonna kick him
01:35:46.240
out this is his this is his house too what are you
01:35:48.380
talking about she would like talk shit to all of
01:35:53.360
my friends about how terrible of a guy i was and how
01:35:56.360
mean i was to her and he's such a bad guy and blah blah
01:35:59.240
blah blah blah and then so she formed like this whole
01:36:01.740
little online community where all they do is like talk
01:36:06.300
about me it's insane you know how i realized what the
01:36:08.660
men go through is because when i started thinking or i
01:36:14.040
retrospects they started treating me like you guys i
01:36:17.380
mean i got whole coalitions of women that try to take me
01:36:20.080
down so i call i call it the facebook fan clubs
01:36:23.960
right i mean that one woman probably cost me two million
01:36:29.380
that's insane it's you know i kind of understand when men
01:36:35.240
lady look you win just take whatever the fuck you want to
01:36:39.080
take i mean those groups those groups took me to some
01:36:43.420
pretty dark and like depressing places but like over time like
01:36:47.020
after 10 years i'm just like you know what whatever these people
01:36:50.040
are going to say whatever they want to say about me like i just
01:36:52.300
don't give a shit about it anymore so after a while it's more amusing
01:36:55.600
than anything like these people are still talking about me
01:37:03.160
every like every day and they and they track my location too
01:37:09.760
they put it in the group are you like a dj or something
01:37:13.780
they i don't how do they know what location you're in
01:37:16.740
because somebody somebody that they know will see me or like an old friend
01:37:21.880
that i definitely don't talk to anymore will call me up and like start a
01:37:25.240
conversation or say they have work and then they'll be like oh by the way
01:37:28.300
where are you and then they just disappear and then i'll notice that
01:37:32.140
whenever i'm in that city like at certain locations like people start
01:37:35.980
treating me different like i've had places where people were like super
01:37:39.300
friendly to me now they're like spitting in my coffee oh my gosh that's the worst
01:37:44.580
it's the worst one when you know they're doing it but you can't prove it but you
01:37:50.340
can just tell yeah i mean yeah they give you the look they give you the
01:37:55.780
i call it the look like once you see that look you know they they know they
01:37:59.300
recognize you before you recognize them yeah it says um crx joe says 49 and tired of
01:38:06.980
dealing with all this bs the ex-wife screwed three different guys and handed
01:38:10.260
me divorce papers and she told me what she did women are evil like why didn't
01:38:14.580
she just if you didn't know about the cheating why didn't why did she tell you
01:38:19.140
you know what i mean like she could have she could have divorced you and like made
01:38:22.340
up some you know sob story or said you don't appreciate it would have been better
01:38:27.460
than like i just what's what's the purpose of saying that you know what i mean
01:38:33.380
like imagine if a guy's gonna like dump you and he's like oh and i effed her her i've
01:38:37.780
effed your friend it's like for why why would you do that yeah they just do that it's because
01:38:43.460
i mean they don't want to punch you physically or fight you so they're just trying like get at you
01:38:47.780
you know emotionally but i'm gonna run thanks for having me on guys thanks for coming
01:38:51.780
i was gonna talk to you all right later okay we have uh one more person on this will be the last
01:38:59.380
call of the night cool let bucky in bucky are you there
01:39:09.940
bucky are you there yes bucky how's it going how's it going how's it going
01:39:17.540
where are you calling out of have you called him before that name sounds familiar i've called
01:39:22.820
him one time before okay what part of the country were you midwest uh yeah i'm in georgia cool okay
01:39:29.700
well that's a little south but can you hear me yeah i can hear you so okay tell me your breakup story
01:39:36.500
what's the worst way a woman's broken or um you've broken a woman's reacted when you've broken up with her
01:39:41.860
yes yes i can tell you i had a breakup story um i'm an older guy i'm in my early 50s never been married
01:39:51.300
and um i lived in china for about 20 years so i had a girlfriend there she was very nice in the
01:39:58.180
beginning but later on as we started to um there were some things between us that you know i felt that
01:40:09.220
were her character and mine were a little different she wasn't like cheating on me or anything like
01:40:14.900
that but um we didn't like the same outside of sex we didn't have nothing in common so i broke um
01:40:22.740
i told her you know that and um i had been with her for about six months after i told her that she told
01:40:31.060
me in the chinese tradition that if you um break up with the girl you got to give them a
01:40:36.260
uh um what do you call it uh money because like i was in my late 40s late 40s at the time she was
01:40:44.340
in her late 20s and um they said you wasted their youth because she was with me for about six months
01:40:51.380
so okay that's not that much use like come on yeah yeah she's not that yeah i don't know why but she
01:40:57.380
a lot of chinese men do that that's very common like if they did a younger girl um if they break up
01:41:03.380
they have to pay the family some sort of fee okay because uh you know that's what they do okay so
01:41:09.860
i told her basically no i'm not paying that up and um so she got her family to come down harass me at
01:41:17.140
at work and um her family and some other people she had they would come by and try to you know demand
01:41:25.540
some money out of me so um things got things got a little worse after that and um i basically had to
01:41:35.780
hire someone to go down and pay her family a visit not violently but to let them know things could
01:41:42.980
escalate if you keep on bothering me and they kind of backed down once they saw that you you know that
01:41:49.380
i you know was going to do what i was going to do but she turned into a complete monster after that
01:41:54.580
because she said um i told her it was this in china i'm sorry what did you say you said she was
01:42:02.500
chinese was this in china okay yeah this was yeah because i don't know she wouldn't have gotten away
01:42:06.740
with that here in the states but in china there's a lot of men that do do that like if they're wealthy
01:42:13.060
and they're rich and they you know marry or they're with a girl who's like in their 20s they got to pay for
01:42:18.260
living expenses and all this other stuff and if they break up the family will want like a fee for that
01:42:24.740
because they say you wasted her youth so in china it's called chinchuanfei so um that was a crazy
01:42:33.060
situation but you know that was that was the craziest one i had been to and i still don't know
01:42:40.340
why she was like that that's insane we got another super chat uh wait hold on i want to read it really
01:42:46.820
quick she was evil claimed to be christian thank you for the super chat guys wow so it's common there
01:42:53.460
for like um boyfriends to get harassed for wasting women's youth essentially if they break up with them
01:43:00.100
no i i won't i don't want to give china bad news because a lot of very nice chinese women and women
01:43:05.300
of all races so i'm not saying that but it is common but here's the thing most chinese guys will pay that up
01:43:10.980
if they have like if they i don't know like they're what i call cultural tricks so they automatically
01:43:19.540
know that it's going to cost money just to especially she's attracted to be with this girl
01:43:24.260
so if he if he's an older guy like myself in his 40s and the girl he had what she he had was in her 20s
01:43:32.420
then yeah it's common for them to do that but most people are not wealthy they don't have that much
01:43:38.980
money so most times like it's not like that it's like both people in high school yeah how was it
01:43:45.220
being a passport bro there did you get like a lot more female attention like going from america you have
01:43:51.300
an american accent so i'm going to assume you're american yeah yeah i got a lot more yeah it's this if
01:43:58.100
you go to china there's not too many uh black well i'm african-american there's not too many black
01:44:03.700
people there and although there is sort of a bad stigma um but you get a lot you get a lot more
01:44:11.060
attention from people in general yeah and i like petite skinny women so they're right up my alley yeah
01:44:17.620
so um go ahead okay was it like 10x or just a little bit but like i'm just curious the difference
01:44:24.740
in dating like american women versus chinese okay that's a good question here's the thing
01:44:30.660
i think if you're good with women here in the states like you just you know how to talk you know
01:44:36.100
how to interact you know some guys are just good at it they're better at it you'll get like tenfold
01:44:41.460
there like you will you know you'll get better if you're like me i i wouldn't say i was socially
01:44:47.780
awkward but i don't really go out that much and talk to a lot of women but i could i could still
01:44:52.740
you know talk to a girl and get her interested um that's like 5x but i noticed the difference like
01:44:59.380
guys you see who normally might be losers here they'll they'll pick up a lot of women there even
01:45:04.900
if they're socially awkward they'll get more women but if you're already good with women it's like
01:45:10.260
tenfold and are the women of a higher quality there like are they more feminine or i mean clearly
01:45:16.660
at least that one was more at least just as crazy as american crazy yeah yeah um but i'm just curious
01:45:23.940
overall did you like well like pros and cons of chinese versus american i just like to get that's
01:45:31.140
a unique experience so i think it's interesting and you live there for 20 years too yeah so tell us
01:45:37.780
yeah i went there in the late 90s um and it was completely different by the time i left which was like in
01:45:44.180
2021 i came back here so in the late 90s china was um was much more conservative but behind behind
01:45:53.460
closed doors i noticed like people would say like oh everybody like the chinese moon will tell you
01:45:58.900
oh yeah we chinese are conservative and you americans are like open and they are right because just to a
01:46:05.860
bigger degree because chinese are more traditional but i discovered like behind closed doors like when you got to
01:46:12.340
know people so and so was sleeping with this person or i was a teacher at the time and so and so was
01:46:18.340
sleeping around with the with the professor and so you did it but they kind of kept it in wraps now
01:46:26.820
things started to change like in the 2010s like 2010 2012 and it became more like open you know to to be
01:46:34.580
permissive but they're not um they're still not like it's here like you can't really just go out and
01:46:42.180
you know with your butt out and hang out in the strip club or they don't have that type of thing there
01:46:46.980
no they they the government does crack down on open displays of sexuality i've heard you need a lot more
01:46:53.860
money to get married there is that true yeah there's a thing they called hong bao hong bao is um
01:47:02.660
it's a red package so if you get married there and you know um you think oh what's the word dowry you
01:47:10.660
you give like the wife a dowry so some people give a lot some people give a little but it's customary for
01:47:16.420
the man to give something to the woman's family um now some oh another thing too in china if you get
01:47:23.220
married and you're a guy you better have a home or at least an apartment and a car uh if you don't
01:47:29.700
have that it's a little more difficult because the parents won't won't think you have anything
01:47:34.980
for their daughter so a lot of guys make sure they have that before they even think about marriage got
01:47:40.580
it um one second crx joe says thank you for the support of men i've been watching your channel for a
01:47:47.220
while now keep doing what you're doing thank you for the super chat guys it's very helpful when you guys
01:47:52.420
send them um because we are monetized on youtube now so thank you so much i'm sorry continue
01:47:59.860
um i'm sorry what else did you ask me and i think i was just um the pros and cons of um
01:48:05.780
was there anything better about american women that you like missed when you went there
01:48:10.100
um i like petite women but i do like not fat but i like you know okay like you know
01:48:23.300
yeah you you like step in the right places yeah that's it that's it yeah so chinese are a little
01:48:30.100
skinny but once they take off you know once it comes off i don't get too graphic here but you know
01:48:35.140
okay some people they just hide it better like how they dress but in terms of like um
01:48:42.900
here's the thing when i was here in the states i really i was going to college this was a long time
01:48:48.020
it's like in the 90s and i really didn't um i was a guy in my early 20s i didn't really start
01:48:53.460
exploring women till i got there so i really don't know much about american women i know a lot about chinese
01:48:58.500
and asian women so um i mean chinese and asian women from that part of the country not the ones
01:49:04.900
living here so so yeah there is a difference um as i said before they're they're more conservative
01:49:15.380
but uh if you get one girl that's very honest about like her sexuality which that people started
01:49:21.220
to come out more like in the 2010 i noticed things changed so that's when you started uh
01:49:28.100
seeing more people be honest about their sexuality and and what what they try to do in china is they
01:49:33.380
tell foreigners that um oh yeah chinese people they'll still say this today like chinese are very
01:49:39.220
conservative and the west is like you know really corrupt when in reality like behind those doors you're
01:49:45.060
doing all the same type of stuff it's just more secret yeah women are women but yeah if they like
01:49:51.940
you you know you know i could tell you story after story of um you know when i first got there i was
01:49:58.420
this woman she she was married she was an older woman she i was like in my late 20s she was an older woman
01:50:04.900
and she was married and she didn't tell me but she was giving me this guy's credit card and i was driving
01:50:11.460
around in the car that he brought her and all this crazy stuff then later i found out that she was married
01:50:16.500
but she didn't tell me so i got pimped big time but um yeah yeah so you still hit though right yeah
01:50:28.260
you didn't die and you still hit sounds like a win for you it was a win but if that guy ever found out
01:50:34.260
i don't know what i cut i cut that off but it's one i want to say one last thing okay there's a place
01:50:41.060
in china called on fujian province and a lot of african people go there like a lot of for some
01:50:46.900
reason a lot of africans do business and the women there are what they call shung you i don't know if
01:50:52.900
you've heard this before shungi leftover women yeah very good it's very popular on youtube now so
01:50:58.580
there's a old chinese women who are like older and they are fine as hell they're not like some of
01:51:05.620
these fat but you asked me what was different about america in america you get an older woman
01:51:09.700
she don't really take care of herself but you got women there who are like 40 50 who look like in
01:51:14.980
there in their late 20s oh my gosh they don't i i've never been to china but in japan they don't age
01:51:20.980
yeah i know i know exactly like like 20 years i i i could misinterpret their age go ahead yeah yeah
01:51:31.780
you've noticed that you were in japan so yeah it's the same thing in china so you got a lot of women
01:51:37.220
there who are older who have no children who are in chinese one thing chinese i give chinese credit for
01:51:42.900
they're very um smart when it comes to business and making money even the average person knows they're
01:51:49.940
very practical so you got a lot of these older women who you know who got bank who look good for
01:51:55.620
their age and um who can't find the guy and um there's more men in china than women china has more
01:52:03.540
men than women slightly more so you got a lot of these guys who are older who are lifeless but they
01:52:10.660
won't even talk to those women so if you go to fujin they particularly go for a lot of these african dudes
01:52:16.980
who go there and they become like a boy toy and i didn't know that someone to my friend told me
01:52:23.540
yeah i got all my friends over there and i went there with him and um yeah they were hitting big
01:52:29.060
time and some of these guys were broke but they go over there and a lot of chinese like them so yeah
01:52:36.340
that's one difference i would yeah you asked me about a difference i would say the women who are older
01:52:40.900
actually they're actually i think well it depends on what standards you have but they take care of
01:52:48.980
themselves they age better i've seen that with like um someone in the chat says my ex is japanese and oh
01:52:55.060
they age and get fat look i was there like a long time ago i was like 12 but i just remember that some
01:53:01.860
of the moms i couldn't believe they were moms because they looked like 20 25. um but she was like
01:53:09.620
like the kids were old like it wasn't like a young mom with a baby um okay well thanks so much for
01:53:17.300
sharing doug mpa you got any other questions for him nope thanks for bringing that perspective man
01:53:24.100
we really appreciate it yeah that was super interesting call in any time okay yeah if i have
01:53:29.620
something useful to add i'll call in you know and just shed a little light on some subjects um sure if i
01:53:34.660
don't want you want to hear from me okay all the time maybe we'll do um see um doug mpa maybe we could
01:53:41.620
do a passport bros show yeah and guys can share there because we just had two um semi passport bros
01:53:48.660
call in so you could have guys um talk about how we could get austin holliman to call in he's done
01:53:55.300
i did a show with him like a long time ago are you there yeah uh-huh i thought the sound went out
01:54:05.060
for a second yeah yeah yeah i'll have to reach out to him cool cool but yeah yeah those are all the
01:54:11.700
rest of the callers cool well guys thanks so much for calling in it's been great getting callers the
01:54:18.260
last few weeks so i really appreciate it um doug mpa any final thoughts on dumping women um women
01:54:28.020
learning how to take an l is part of being a man we all remember the first time we got our hearts
01:54:32.900
ripped out and men we just got to keep going you know you get your heart ripped out you get rejected
01:54:39.060
you got to pick yourself up because men are the ones that approach i've met some of the most
01:54:42.740
powerful women lawyers doctors surgeons and they will not approach a man says they can't handle
01:54:49.620
rejection and like the guy the caller said before women they don't know how to take rejection until
01:54:55.540
they smash into the wall a lot of times you breaking up with them is the first time that anyone
01:55:01.140
has told them no in their lives so guys just watch out when you break up with a woman you know hopefully
01:55:07.620
she's know where you live if you break up with her at your house protect that ps5
01:55:16.100
they always go for the ps5 man so watch out for that yeah but these you know but and and i just
01:55:21.860
recommend ghosting guys you know just ghost them okay that's it all right thank you doug mpa all right
01:55:29.940
guys like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel um and i'm thinking about doing the
01:55:35.620
amish video in the next like two weeks and i want to keep you guys posted so i want to go to an amish
01:55:40.740
neighborhood and interview some amish people and i have two choices for this video i can go to this
01:55:47.700
amish place that i went to when i was a kid it's like three hours from where i'm at now and i can just
01:55:52.740
see i i i could just see if any of the amish will talk to me i don't know i haven't been there since i was
01:55:59.460
like eight or if somebody watching happens to know any amish people that would do an interview or
01:56:06.980
something and ideally you're in the midwest somewhere pearly things with a z on twitter or email me um
01:56:16.180
just pearly things at gmail.com yeah so anyways just so you know the only four percent of the amish
01:56:24.580
are obese and the average amish person lives to be between 80 and 85. yeah i just think it'd be cool
01:56:32.500
to go see their thoughts on like relationships and i don't know like i want to see if any of the women's
01:56:38.900
answers are like are women women even when they're amish so i just want to see so it would kind of be a
01:56:47.940
cool video i i certainly i'm totally willing to go to this amish community by myself and just see
01:56:55.700
i'm just a little nervous i drive all the way out there and no one will talk to me