When Modern Women Hold Each Other Accountable
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Summary
In this week's episode, we're talking about cheating, cheating on a partner, cheating in a relationship and cheating on friends and family. We also hear about a woman who cheats on her partner and her friends, and how she deals with it.
Transcript
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We always do this at the end of Pal Daily, there is a surprise Reddit story, we were
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just having a conversation before the show, Nazrin didn't know what Reddit is, so I think
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I've now got you up to date, it's just a forum, people tell their stories, and yeah, we get
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a decade, and I genuinely love him.
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He is the nicest person I know, but due to some differences between us during the past
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two months, I used sex with other people as an outlet and cheated on him, he found out
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and broke up with me, and I fully understand and respect his decision, I'm seriously not
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this type of person, and I'm a good human being, I just happen to do something bad.
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His mother and I have been close for a long time, she absolutely adores me and I love her
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too, we have a very close relationship, she has taught me how to knit, and I have taught
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her how to make presentations and stuff, we bond really well, we are really close, and
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I asked my ex if he could hide my cheating, it is something between me and him, and no
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one else needs to know about it, thankfully he agreed and told his mum that we had an
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amicable breakup due to mutual differences, I still visit his mum at times, and he ignores
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me, which hurts a lot, but he is friendly enough at times and even smiles at me when I am around
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his mother, I explained to my friend the complex situation I am in and she told me that I am
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being an arsehole by letting my ex not have any room to vent, since he has told everyone
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that it was an amicable breakup and we are still friends. Honestly, it was a mutual decision
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and he agreed to it, so I do not think I have done anything wrong when it comes to keeping
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it between ourselves. Would love a fresh perspective, thanks.
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This is crazy. I feel like when someone really needs to justify that they are a good person,
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chances are they are probably not. If you have to constantly say, I promise I am good, chances
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are you have done a lot of stuff that would suggest that you are not. Now we don't know
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this lady, really and truly, this is all we know, but from this, I would not class her as
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a good person. And I actually think that she is surrounded by amazing friends, because the
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friends have told her the truth. The friends have said, you are being a dick. You have put
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him in a position where he has to lie to everyone about what has actually happened, he can't
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get the emotional support that he probably needs during this very distressing time, and
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you are being out of order. And what a great friend to tell her that, because how many friends
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in this day and age would actually be that brutal and honest with you.
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Usually it's like, you go girl, well done for cheating.
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Whoever this girl is, you've got an amazing friend. The friend who said this to you is
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Keep her around, because that is a very good friend.
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I'm sorry, this isn't an accident, because it wasn't just once.
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So, it wasn't an accident, it's not a mistake. Like if it just happened once, I would
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be much more, I mean not understanding, because I still don't understand it, but
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I'd be a little bit more understanding. But the fact that it's like multiple people, I
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Also, this whole thing is about her. You know, there is nothing about him. So, the
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only thing that she actually mentions as to why this happened, because I think we
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all know, like if a woman cheats, chances are that that's because something was going
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wrong for well down the line. And then she's, instead of being an adult about it and bringing
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it up, she's gone and cheated on him because she's not able to have a conversation about
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things. But, you know, she just seems to be overcompensating for a lot. He is the nicest
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person I know, but due to some differences between us during the past few months, she
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doesn't then go to clarify what those differences are. She doesn't tell us what's actually happened.
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She wants a fresh perspective. Actually, what I think she wants is to be reinforced that,
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don't worry, you're a good person, because she didn't get that from the friend. So now
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she's come on the internet and aired out her dirty laundry. Gross. Because she wants someone
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online to do it for her instead of just accepting, no, I messed up. I've been awful.
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I'm very ashamed of myself. I should probably fix myself to make sure I don't hurt someone
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like this in the future. And again, the whole middle section is just about her relationship
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with his mum. She's not even recognising what her friend is saying. She's literally come
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online and told the internet what her friend is saying. And she can't even say, do you know
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what? I see, I do see what she's saying. There's no acknowledgement or responsibility here.
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No, but also if you love him and you love his mum and you love being around his family, why
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did you cheat on him? Because, you know, I mean, you would know that he's going to air
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that to them if you have that much respect. But he hasn't even been able to do that.
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I know, exactly. But he probably would have if she didn't tell him not to. Like it's so,
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there's something not right there. She's put her own relationship with a guy's mother
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before his relationship with his mother. But also he's not being strong enough to be like,
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no. Yeah, I completely agree. F off. You did this to me. I'm now going to cut you out of my life
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and my son's life and I'm going to tell her what you did because, you know, people deserve to know
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what you're really like. Why is he even allowing her around his mum knowing that she's got the
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capability to hurt people like that? No, that's very true. Manipulate people. That's very true.
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No, he needs to completely get this girl out of his life completely. It's like they're both in the wrong.
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Yeah, they are both in the wrong. It's just, I guess my heart just goes out to him because he's
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already been through so much. But no, you are completely right. He needs to completely
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bin this girl off and get her out of his life. Just straight up tell the mum because I can guarantee you
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the mum would not be having this relationship with her if she knew what actually happened.
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So it's almost like he's joining in on the manipulating side as well. Yeah, he's almost hurting himself further
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by allowing this to happen and his mum because it's ultimately a lie, isn't it?
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Yeah. Anyway, we have an edit on this story. So she's come back to give us all an update.
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I feel like a lot of you are calling me a bad person because I cheated.
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Oh my God. What? People are calling you a bad person because you cheated.
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If my boyfriend broke up with me, I think I have suffered the consequences.
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I am a good person and I try to be a better one each day. It's complicated.
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I genuinely want opinions on the mutual decision my boyfriend and I made not to tell his mother.
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I did beg and plead. In the end, it was an agreement from both sides.
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So I did use my tactics of feminine manipulation, which we all know are the tears and I'm just a weak, frail little girl that doesn't know any better.
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So not only have I manipulated him into a situation, but I'm also going to sit here and say that it was mutual.
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What? Look, Guy, if you happen to come across this and see us reading this story, please get rid of her.
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Tell your mum. Please tell your mum. And she'll get rid of her for you.
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If you are not in the position to be a man right now, that is what your mum is for.
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It's just like I understand people are flawed. Like, yeah, we sin, we make mistakes, but not multiple times.
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Like it's multiple people she's cheated with. It's not that.
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And she says everyone has come back and said that she's a bad person.
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And instead of listening to everyone, this is how you know that that a lot of modern women are narcissistic,
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because if loads of people are screaming something at you, chances are it's true.
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So instead of coming back to edit and try and justify again, I'm still a good person.
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Why are you all saying I'm not? Maybe you should look and go, oh, shit.
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Yeah, so much delusion. It's actually hard to, it's hard to live in this society when everyone's just like, it seems like everyone's crazy, but you sometimes.
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Yeah. Yeah. And that's why it's great to have you here, Nazarene, because you remind me that there are other people who are not completely bewildered with delusion.
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Delusion. So, yeah. What did you guys think of that? Why don't you let us know in the comments below?
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Nazarene, thank you so much for joining me here today.
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Obviously, I'm covering for Pell, so it's always great to have someone else along by my side.
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So I'm on Twitter and Instagram and YouTube as well, but I don't really use that as much.
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Yeah. Go check her out. She's definitely got some interesting things.
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I'll say no more. Go check it out for yourselves.
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