JustPearlyThings - July 20, 2023


When She Heard Modern Women Don't DESERVE Courting.


Episode Stats

Length

53 minutes

Words per Minute

202.10738

Word Count

10,850

Sentence Count

978

Misogynist Sentences

179

Hate Speech Sentences

140


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Coming up next.
00:00:00.940 If I'm having to call her essentially no sex,
00:00:03.120 but the dating aspect,
00:00:04.120 but I know that she's given it up to men in the past.
00:00:07.480 Why the fuck am I,
00:00:09.240 why the fuck am I spending my time,
00:00:11.800 money,
00:00:12.200 energy on you?
00:00:14.400 If you've just handed it out to people in the past.
00:00:16.920 It's like a,
00:00:17.120 it's like a used Honda Civic for BMW.
00:00:19.680 I don't really feel like traditional women,
00:00:22.280 sorry,
00:00:22.460 modern women deserve the traditional type of courtship that they did back
00:00:25.820 then.
00:00:26.200 But if you are deserving of it,
00:00:28.360 you better be feminine.
00:00:29.300 You better be loyal.
00:00:31.240 You better have all of these things in place because if,
00:00:34.540 like I said,
00:00:35.240 if I'm,
00:00:35.660 if I'm having to treat you the way a traditional man would,
00:00:38.800 yet you're exhibiting nothing traditional as they did back then.
00:00:41.660 And you have a shit sexual history.
00:00:43.960 I'm fucking gone.
00:00:45.260 I just feel like it's really not that deep.
00:00:48.100 Okay.
00:00:48.560 Do you know what I mean?
00:00:49.340 Like.
00:00:50.500 No.
00:00:53.100 Not that deep for you,
00:00:54.440 but someone's having to take you out.
00:00:56.260 Like deep for the guy.
00:00:57.440 So today's topic is do modern women deserve to be courted?
00:01:04.160 So I'm going to be showing you guys a clip,
00:01:07.220 um,
00:01:08.040 from Kevin Samuels,
00:01:09.900 rip,
00:01:10.380 happy,
00:01:10.960 um,
00:01:12.460 and where he talks about red flags to look for in women.
00:01:15.600 So I am just going to get you guys's reaction to it.
00:01:19.160 So here's some things that guys need to watch out for.
00:01:33.760 When they're dating,
00:01:35.220 regardless of the size of your pocketbook or your dreams or aspirations,
00:01:39.840 ignore these things at your peril,
00:01:41.880 because just like all the great men of antiquity,
00:01:44.580 the Bible,
00:01:45.000 and in the past,
00:01:46.400 a woman can need the help.
00:01:48.320 But oftentimes the wrong woman can throw a man completely into chaos.
00:01:52.980 Start off with this one.
00:01:53.860 She wants to be courted.
00:01:55.320 Yep.
00:01:55.680 She wants to be courted.
00:01:56.800 Now I know that some guys are probably thinking,
00:01:58.360 Hey,
00:01:58.480 Kevin,
00:01:59.100 you kind of talk like a traditional man.
00:02:00.800 What's wrong with her wanting to be courted?
00:02:03.240 Nothing.
00:02:03.740 If she's truly a traditional woman,
00:02:05.480 but typically women want to be courted because they want all the benefits of
00:02:09.640 traditional femininity in general,
00:02:11.900 but they bring a none of that stuff to the table.
00:02:14.040 This is just another way of asking you to simp.
00:02:16.640 Very few Westernized women deserve to be courted.
00:02:19.900 I say it again.
00:02:21.100 Very few Westernized women deserve to be courted.
00:02:24.080 You guys fought for equality.
00:02:25.760 You're my equal.
00:02:26.660 You wanted equal pay.
00:02:27.760 You wanted equal rights or you need to get equal lefts.
00:02:30.540 You wanted to be courted.
00:02:31.960 That ain't going to happen.
00:02:33.540 We are equals.
00:02:34.760 Deal with it.
00:02:35.740 Thank feminism one-on-one.
00:02:37.320 Your mamas and your grandmamas.
00:02:38.800 This is the world.
00:02:40.060 Ladies,
00:02:40.500 if you're watching,
00:02:41.260 understand this is what men are on the lookout for.
00:02:43.320 So if you're asking some guy to court you,
00:02:45.380 what do you bring into the table other than sex and debt?
00:02:49.260 She's got a 90 day rule or any kind of rule like this.
00:02:52.440 In my opinion,
00:02:53.280 the first time I hear a woman say she's got a 90 day rule,
00:02:56.140 I'm out.
00:02:56.580 The first time I hear a woman talk about this rule or any other kind of rule like that,
00:03:00.380 I'm out.
00:03:01.200 Just like the United States had a policy,
00:03:03.200 we do not negotiate with terrorists.
00:03:05.220 Women can be emotional terrorists.
00:03:07.080 I do not negotiate with them because if you give a mouse a cookie,
00:03:10.820 kill her ass for a glass of milk.
00:03:12.620 She has a 90 day rule.
00:03:13.800 That automatically implies to me that she thinks her vagina is gold.
00:03:18.080 That it's something that that gum important that I have to work,
00:03:21.120 strive and earn for.
00:03:22.160 I don't work that hard for anything that doesn't benefit me.
00:03:25.260 Her vagina ain't it.
00:03:26.920 If you have these 90 day rules,
00:03:28.700 go out and blame all these Steve Harvey type guys who told you guys this foolishness.
00:03:32.800 And that is man repellent rule on day one.
00:03:36.300 In the other 89 days,
00:03:37.720 it'll be you playing with your cat by yourself.
00:03:40.120 Next,
00:03:40.420 she's a single mother.
00:03:41.340 I'm not going to ban single mothers or anything like that.
00:03:44.120 But bottom line,
00:03:45.400 there used to be a time when a woman had a baby out of wedlock.
00:03:48.580 It was few and far between.
00:03:50.860 And there was some shame that went along with it enough to where they didn't keep going out and doing it over and over again.
00:03:56.800 Now it's a badge of honor.
00:03:58.680 You as a man are worth too much and too valuable.
00:04:01.660 If you've got your head on straight,
00:04:03.060 you're out doing your thing,
00:04:04.700 working your business,
00:04:05.860 taking care of your business,
00:04:07.200 you should not be forced to pick from a crop of women who already had another man's children.
00:04:13.100 You should not have to go out here and fight the world,
00:04:15.600 build such and so forth to come home to a woman that you will at best be the fourth or fifth most important thing in her life.
00:04:22.520 You deserve better than that.
00:04:24.040 I am sorry,
00:04:24.840 ladies,
00:04:25.080 if you've had a child,
00:04:26.700 that is your responsibility.
00:04:28.860 Own it.
00:04:29.400 And as far as I'm concerned,
00:04:30.660 stay out of the dating scene until your kids are out of the house.
00:04:34.460 You made the choice to have those children,
00:04:36.660 especially if you did it outside a wedlock.
00:04:39.300 If you made that choice,
00:04:40.700 then you make the choice to wear that scarlet letter.
00:04:43.940 It's not our problem.
00:04:45.360 It's yours.
00:04:46.340 Guys,
00:04:46.880 do not date single mothers.
00:04:48.820 Do it at your peril.
00:04:50.540 Next,
00:04:50.840 she's a strong,
00:04:51.620 independent,
00:04:52.400 fill-in-the-blank woman.
00:04:53.560 For me,
00:04:54.760 you have three times to say that.
00:04:56.580 I'm a strong,
00:04:57.100 independent,
00:04:57.700 blank woman.
00:04:58.400 I'm a strong,
00:04:59.020 independent,
00:04:59.600 blank woman.
00:05:00.340 I'm a strong,
00:05:01.100 independent.
00:05:01.640 Check,
00:05:01.940 please.
00:05:02.300 I'm gone.
00:05:03.040 Anytime that comes out of their mouth,
00:05:05.680 non-negotiable in the sense,
00:05:07.420 whether it's day one or day 300,
00:05:09.560 because to me,
00:05:11.240 that's an underlying issue that's waiting to burst through.
00:05:15.440 A person who has to say,
00:05:16.900 I'm a strong,
00:05:17.480 independent,
00:05:18.040 anything is none of the things she says.
00:05:20.520 It's like if you find yourself having to come into your house saying,
00:05:23.340 I'm the man of this house.
00:05:24.940 You got to say you're the man of the house.
00:05:26.740 There's a problem.
00:05:27.460 You watch Game of Thrones when Joffrey says,
00:05:29.780 I'm the king.
00:05:31.240 And Tywin told him,
00:05:32.160 any man who has to say he's the king is not the king.
00:05:36.540 Strong,
00:05:36.980 independent,
00:05:37.580 blank,
00:05:37.920 anything needs to be strong,
00:05:39.600 independent,
00:05:40.200 and alone.
00:05:40.940 She believes that men and women are equal.
00:05:42.880 We are not equal.
00:05:44.380 No male and female of any species on the planet are equal.
00:05:48.940 We are different for a reason.
00:05:50.940 I am not going to negotiate your role and my role.
00:05:54.200 If you come into this saying that we're equal,
00:05:56.680 we're automatically at loggerheads because you're not a woman in my opinion.
00:06:00.600 You're a female.
00:06:02.160 I don't date females.
00:06:03.780 I date women.
00:06:05.260 Just like the men will hear what I'm saying,
00:06:08.180 the males will probably throw shade.
00:06:10.520 If you want a woman that you're equal,
00:06:12.960 you're really giving your manhood up and I can't help you.
00:06:16.140 For the guys out there who are trying to hear me,
00:06:18.840 equality is not what it's cracked up to be.
00:06:21.980 Typically,
00:06:22.480 women want equality when it benefits them and they want to be ladies when it suits them.
00:06:27.040 I don't have time for all the back and forth because I'm trying to do what I'm doing.
00:06:30.980 I'm leading.
00:06:31.820 She's going to follow.
00:06:33.120 There can't be two captains.
00:06:34.640 Pick your poison.
00:06:35.540 If you pick equality,
00:06:36.820 you'll die a slow death.
00:06:37.860 She's a big time church girl.
00:06:39.200 I'm a Christian.
00:06:40.000 I was born and raised in the church.
00:06:41.640 I attend regularly,
00:06:43.160 but big time church girls tend to come with big time church problems.
00:06:47.380 There's no more hypocrisy in dating than in the church
00:06:50.320 because unless she's a big time church girl and a virgin,
00:06:54.140 you're already going to have issues.
00:06:56.580 Oftentimes,
00:06:57.540 big time church girls try to use the Bible as a weapon against the men that they date
00:07:03.300 to hold you biblically accountable for everything that it says a man should be,
00:07:07.880 but yet not hold themselves biblically, morally, or ethically accountable to anything that it
00:07:13.140 says a woman should be.
00:07:14.340 They'll tend to take scriptures out of context,
00:07:16.940 use biblical stories for their own selfish and manipulative ends,
00:07:21.180 and hit you in a place to where you really can't defend your spirituality.
00:07:25.060 That is the height of manipulative, deceptive, bad behavior.
00:07:30.360 I don't roll with big time church Bible thumpers for these primary reasons.
00:07:34.780 If it doesn't suit you, move on.
00:07:37.540 But you know the kind of person I'm talking about.
00:07:39.640 She's got lots of single girlfriends.
00:07:40.640 Blessing, you can cut it out.
00:07:41.920 You ever see a pack of animals roaming?
00:07:47.300 Jesus.
00:07:48.720 Boss.
00:07:49.980 Oh, Jesus.
00:07:52.040 All right.
00:07:52.860 Blessing, I still hear it a little bit.
00:07:55.060 I can still hear it.
00:07:59.700 I don't know why.
00:08:07.840 Did you pause it?
00:08:09.220 Did you pause it, Blessing?
00:08:21.200 Sounds like Charlie Brown.
00:08:22.440 I think you have to exit the tab on the screen, Blessing.
00:08:29.800 Do you guys have Charlie Brown out here in the UK?
00:08:32.360 Who's that?
00:08:33.180 Yeah.
00:08:33.680 You know Charlie Brown.
00:08:34.720 Yeah, we have Charlie Brown.
00:08:35.640 You know Charlie Brown.
00:08:36.380 What is that?
00:08:37.400 Is that a hash brown?
00:08:38.660 Yeah.
00:08:39.160 Shut up.
00:08:39.460 The man's got KFC on his line.
00:08:42.820 That's why he's talking about hash brown.
00:08:45.620 Yeah, you just got to exit off the tab.
00:08:48.260 Just pause it.
00:08:48.840 There you go.
00:08:49.320 Okay.
00:08:49.480 Okay, so I wanted to get you guys' thoughts on that clip.
00:08:55.960 Agree or disagree?
00:08:57.500 The whole thing.
00:08:58.340 So I want to focus mostly on the beginning when he said the courting.
00:09:02.020 I thought the church girl was funny.
00:09:03.860 That was why I got to tell that.
00:09:06.020 I love Jesus.
00:09:07.100 It's so true.
00:09:07.640 It's funny, but it's true.
00:09:11.680 So do you think he was accurate or do you think it wasn't what he was talking about and talking to your mic?
00:09:21.560 With the courting thing, I definitely don't agree.
00:09:26.280 Definitely, I don't understand how you're meant to get to know somebody if it's not through courting.
00:09:33.400 But I said before, like, what exactly would one define courting as?
00:09:39.300 Right.
00:09:39.620 So actually, I forgot to say this, but yeah.
00:09:42.300 So the definition of courting, courting is the time before a relationship starts when the couple gets to know one another, exchange gifts, and generally keep a respectful distance with little to no intimacy.
00:09:53.340 So the way I understood it is courting is like no sex.
00:09:56.500 Yeah, I definitely agree.
00:09:58.640 Yeah, I definitely think that women, like, there has to be a period of courting.
00:10:03.400 I don't understand other people, they might not, they might feel like, oh, they don't want to do courting or dating, but that's fine.
00:10:11.040 Go find the people that you don't want to do it with me.
00:10:13.320 I can only be with somebody who is willing to take that time without sex as well and get to know me on a me level.
00:10:23.540 And yes, go out and spend money on me as well.
00:10:25.980 Yes.
00:10:26.660 Okay.
00:10:27.040 What do you think?
00:10:27.600 Like, I'll be honest, like, courting, it doesn't have to be, in my opinion, like, actually going out, going out for drinks, taking me out, buying me fancy stuff.
00:10:36.720 Courting, again, I do agree that there's certain level of, like, women that should be courted that, again, deserve to be courted.
00:10:43.540 And, again, it just depends on how you want to get to know that person, but do I think you need to not have sexual intercourse?
00:10:51.060 Yeah, at first.
00:10:53.220 What do you think?
00:10:54.260 Absolutely not.
00:10:56.840 What the hell does that make any sense?
00:10:59.020 She can court me.
00:10:59.900 We're both equal.
00:11:01.520 Why am I the one doing the courting?
00:11:03.180 Like, I will say yes, when a woman takes me out on a date.
00:11:06.960 Then I'll be like, yeah, yeah, but until then, you're on my time.
00:11:10.440 So, nah.
00:11:12.920 Okay.
00:11:16.360 I agree with what Kevin Samuel says, because nowadays, what's courting?
00:11:20.840 You talk to somebody for maybe one to two weeks, and then you have sex with them, or you meet them, have sex with them on the first date.
00:11:26.200 Like, what is courting nowadays?
00:11:29.000 When does it go from courting to talking to dating?
00:11:32.100 It's just like, nowadays, there's really no such thing as courting.
00:11:36.700 Like, traditional courting.
00:11:37.940 Yeah.
00:11:38.140 Do you think it's because the women now don't typically deserve it?
00:11:41.220 Oh, God.
00:11:41.640 Yeah.
00:11:41.860 Because they're not the things that men value anymore?
00:11:44.320 Uh-oh.
00:11:45.960 I mean, essentially, yes, if we're going off of the things that men value in women, it's like, not saying that.
00:11:54.740 I mean, yeah.
00:11:56.480 Essentially, if men want this, and it would be on the flip side, if women wanted this, and they're expecting a man to have this, they would court them.
00:12:05.740 But it's like, men want this, and it's like, a lot of women aren't having, or don't have what men want.
00:12:11.800 And so, it's like, why would you, if you're going to buy a car, you want everything, you want it souped up, everything, everything, like, great in it.
00:12:20.240 You're not going to buy it if it's not exactly what you want.
00:12:22.880 Yeah.
00:12:23.660 Okay.
00:12:24.100 What do you think, Kit?
00:12:24.780 So, can we just establish, you're saying courting is the non-sexually intimate period before you start being, you start having sex, or just into a relationship?
00:12:35.420 So, he said, courted like a traditional woman.
00:12:38.520 So, like, in the clip.
00:12:40.680 So, what I was thinking is the same way, like, they courted in the 1950s, 40s, 30s.
00:12:44.920 I mean, that's not happening now.
00:12:46.140 And so, it says, courting is the time before a relationship starts, when the couple gets to know one another, exchange gifts, and generally keep a respectful distance with little to no intimacy.
00:12:55.720 So, I'd say courting is definitely the case, aside from that last part.
00:13:00.240 Okay.
00:13:00.760 As in, in terms of, to zero to sexual intimacy before a relationship.
00:13:04.300 Because nowadays, like, and even girls as well, nowadays, people want to have sex before they get into a relationship with someone.
00:13:10.660 So, they know that they like it.
00:13:12.520 Yeah.
00:13:12.920 So, if courting is only all of that, plus no sexual intimacy, until the relationship is established.
00:13:19.840 I think that's the difference between courting and dating.
00:13:21.200 Yeah, then, no, that's not.
00:13:23.460 I would agree.
00:13:24.340 Yeah, so, courting is, like, without sex, and then dating is with sex.
00:13:27.560 No, that's not.
00:13:28.180 I don't think that happens.
00:13:29.200 Yeah, so, you don't, you don't think modern women deserve it?
00:13:31.900 What, courting for one?
00:13:32.960 Oh.
00:13:35.720 I mean, if, if, unless she's, like, unless she's the.
00:13:40.480 I said modern woman.
00:13:41.940 The average.
00:13:44.420 Just say it, bro.
00:13:46.660 I know what you're thinking.
00:13:47.280 Just say it.
00:13:47.800 It's a no.
00:13:49.800 Like, no sex in this time?
00:13:51.440 Nah, it's not happening.
00:13:52.600 Okay, go ahead.
00:13:53.420 Well, I'm, I'm okay courting a woman, but she has to display traditional traits.
00:13:58.840 Okay.
00:13:59.160 Facts, yeah.
00:13:59.780 Like, so, if she's a modern woman, I'm going to want to know, just given the, given the
00:14:04.540 hookup culture state of society that we're in, I want to know her history.
00:14:09.420 I want to know her sexual history.
00:14:10.640 It might be too much to ask off the bat, but personally, given the, given the time we live
00:14:14.380 in, I want to know what her sexual history is.
00:14:16.740 Because if, if I'm having to call her essentially no sex, but the dating aspect, but I know that
00:14:23.460 she's given it up to men in the past.
00:14:24.980 Why the fuck am I, why, why, why the fuck am I spending my time, money, energy on you
00:14:32.220 if you've just handed it out to people in the past?
00:14:34.760 It's like a, it's like a used Honda Civic for BMW prices.
00:14:37.800 Exactly that.
00:14:38.420 Exactly that.
00:14:39.060 Yeah.
00:14:39.380 Yeah.
00:14:39.660 Yeah.
00:14:39.700 So I'm, I'm not, I'm not going to put, I'm not going to put work in and time and have
00:14:44.700 patience that men in the past weren't required to just because she was able to give it up
00:14:48.820 in a, in a certain state of emotion.
00:14:51.480 I'm not willing to do that.
00:14:52.440 So first things first, I don't really feel like traditional women, sorry, modern women
00:14:56.700 deserve the traditional type of courtship that they did back then.
00:14:59.640 But if you are deserving of it, you better be feminine.
00:15:03.280 You better be loyal.
00:15:04.840 You, you, you better have all of these things in place because if, like I said, if I'm,
00:15:09.280 if I'm having to treat you the way a traditional man would, yet you're exhibiting nothing traditional
00:15:14.040 as they did back then and you have a shit sexual history, I'm fucking gone.
00:15:19.140 Okay.
00:15:19.540 What do you think?
00:15:21.380 I'm just, I just feel like it's really not that deep.
00:15:25.460 Okay.
00:15:25.960 Do you know what I mean?
00:15:26.740 Like, no, not that deep for you, but someone's having to take you out.
00:15:33.700 Like deep for the guy.
00:15:35.160 Why does it matter if a woman's traditional or modern?
00:15:38.500 I just don't get why we have all these.
00:15:41.000 Go ahead.
00:15:41.480 Sorry.
00:15:41.580 No, no, no.
00:15:42.020 Carry on.
00:15:42.380 No, carry on.
00:15:42.780 No, because that's, that's what men want.
00:15:45.460 Like, I don't know what, what your type is.
00:15:47.820 They say you wanted X, Y, Z and a man.
00:15:50.100 You're not going to go for something that you don't want.
00:15:52.500 And essentially men want modern, traditional, traditional women and had that have the quality.
00:15:58.480 So they're going to look for that.
00:16:00.160 They're going to go after that.
00:16:02.000 It's like the market dictates the price.
00:16:07.020 And so if you, if you have a girl that's more traditional, more guys want her typically.
00:16:11.880 I mean, you know how everybody's been saying modern women don't necessarily deserve to be courted.
00:16:20.680 I would say that the only reason that view may be held is because women have sex too willingly.
00:16:32.940 And if women were more careful with how they had sex, the price of the value of vajayjay would go back to how it, it would be what it actually is, as opposed to, because right now vajayjay has been devalued because it's everywhere.
00:16:49.660 And that's why you men can say that women don't deserve to be courted.
00:16:55.720 When I don't, I think all women should be courted.
00:16:59.880 If you're interested in-
00:17:01.760 Even a hooker?
00:17:02.500 Yes.
00:17:03.140 Even a hooker.
00:17:03.680 Why would she deserve to be courted?
00:17:05.200 Why not?
00:17:05.680 Because she gives it to everybody.
00:17:07.260 Why on earth would you?
00:17:08.080 She's a person.
00:17:09.800 She's a human being.
00:17:11.420 Right.
00:17:11.960 Women are far more than their like vagina or their sexual status.
00:17:16.680 No, you just contradicted yourself there.
00:17:18.680 No, I said that the value of vajayjay has reduced because women give it out so much.
00:17:25.200 Yeah.
00:17:25.560 Yeah, that doesn't change the value of people though.
00:17:28.080 That kind of implies that the value of the requirement.
00:17:30.480 Right, but the world, the world doesn't owe you understanding.
00:17:33.620 So I don't, the men don't go to women and say, accept me short, accept me broke, accept me fad.
00:17:38.080 But we go to them and say, accept us ran through.
00:17:40.520 That's not, that's not a fair deal.
00:17:42.560 Some women, a lot of women do accept men that are short and broke.
00:17:47.180 No, not, not if you look at the date.
00:17:48.600 Not if you look at the date.
00:17:49.640 Men only swipe right on, or women only swipe right on dating apps 5% of the time, 5%.
00:17:53.800 On the high end, 20%.
00:17:55.300 Women do not accept.
00:17:56.700 And that's the number one place that people are meeting today.
00:17:59.800 So women actually, we do not accept men that are short, broke and fat.
00:18:02.440 Historically, even on throughout all of history, most men didn't even get to reproduce.
00:18:05.900 That's a privilege.
00:18:06.400 But can I just, okay.
00:18:07.720 So if a dude is broke, right?
00:18:09.900 If a dude is short, right?
00:18:11.860 Okay.
00:18:12.100 So if you're broke, you're less likely to be able to provide for my family.
00:18:15.720 If you're short, you're more likely to give me kids.
00:18:18.240 If a woman is ran through, her vagina still feels good.
00:18:21.920 You're still going to come.
00:18:23.080 What's your problem?
00:18:23.680 She's more likely to cheat or leave.
00:18:25.940 She's more likely to cheat.
00:18:27.560 She's more likely to cheat.
00:18:28.940 She's more likely to cheat as well.
00:18:30.640 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:18:32.280 She's, no, she's, no, she's, no, no.
00:18:35.000 Okay.
00:18:35.240 I'm not talking over the host.
00:18:37.900 If she's slept with more people, she's not, she's more likely to cheat.
00:18:41.920 And if a guy is slept with more people, it's not the same.
00:18:45.100 Okay.
00:18:45.380 Um, if a, because it's, the thing is, a dude can be broke, short and ran through as well.
00:18:53.520 Men and women are the same.
00:18:55.360 Either way.
00:18:56.160 How can a man be ran through?
00:18:57.380 But this is the thing, guys.
00:18:58.700 If you look at the other side of it, yeah, a man is, a woman, when they have sex, right?
00:19:06.640 A man is coming inside of you.
00:19:08.820 Yeah.
00:19:09.180 Like, you end up holding onto that.
00:19:10.680 Like, sperm doesn't just leave your body.
00:19:12.880 So I get there's a certain level in terms of, like, how many partners you should be with
00:19:17.060 and how accessible you are to a man and just anyone and everyone.
00:19:21.060 But I get the sense of, like, I wouldn't, if I was a man, I wouldn't want a woman that's
00:19:27.020 just been with everyone.
00:19:28.640 I wouldn't want, as a woman, I don't want a man that's been with everyone.
00:19:33.240 And, and I,
00:19:33.900 But then why do you say that a hoe deserves to be courted?
00:19:36.940 Like, why should another dude put up with that?
00:19:38.960 Because if, even if she, she may have had sex with other people, one, to be honest,
00:19:44.700 let's be very, very honest.
00:19:45.940 A hoe is probably going to make you come faster than a virgin.
00:19:48.880 So she probably will, what, what you want from her, she can probably give it to you better
00:19:52.980 than a virgin can.
00:19:54.740 A hoe will probably still be able to cook, still be able to clean, still be able to educate
00:19:58.600 your kids.
00:19:59.420 If you're broke and you're short, you won't be able to provide it.
00:20:02.880 Can I just quickly say, but the one, the one thing that you're missing is that men value
00:20:07.880 loyalty.
00:20:08.240 And the point that Pearl's trying to make is that she might be able to clean, like you
00:20:11.480 said, she might be able to cook.
00:20:12.880 She might, she might exhibit all of these traits, right?
00:20:15.320 However, and she might, she might give you good sex, but men value loyalty.
00:20:19.280 And given her sexual status, she's far less likely to be loyal.
00:20:23.040 That's what men are aiming for.
00:20:24.020 The thing is, right, like that is still, that's still like a, maybe she might be less
00:20:33.300 loyal.
00:20:33.760 It's also equally, she might.
00:20:36.140 But you said, okay, you said, you said you saw my TikTok, right?
00:20:39.880 Oh yeah.
00:20:40.520 Like you said you were, you were before the show, you said you were triggered by my TikTok.
00:20:43.660 I wasn't triggered.
00:20:44.180 You're not triggered.
00:20:45.020 You were upset.
00:20:46.120 You were, you felt something.
00:20:47.260 I felt that you have a, I felt that you have a platform and you sometimes you're
00:20:53.740 irresponsible with the things that you say.
00:20:56.600 Do you know which thing upset me?
00:20:58.980 The five body count one?
00:21:00.440 No, not that.
00:21:01.040 No, okay.
00:21:01.440 When you, when a girl said that she spent her twenties finding yourself and you said,
00:21:06.080 what does that mean?
00:21:06.720 You don't spend, but so many women have to take time finding themselves.
00:21:09.960 You were raised in a really beautiful home with a beautiful family with five older brothers
00:21:15.280 that looked after you.
00:21:17.020 Not everybody.
00:21:17.660 Not five older brothers.
00:21:18.540 I don't know.
00:21:18.940 My brothers did not look after me.
00:21:20.340 But you had siblings.
00:21:21.540 They said you're on your own.
00:21:22.740 But you had siblings that helped you build character and helped you feel comfortable
00:21:26.940 with who you are.
00:21:27.900 Not everybody has that same footing.
00:21:29.840 I understand that.
00:21:30.720 But the point is the world doesn't owe you understanding.
00:21:32.980 So yeah, no, but you are, when you're saying that, like you deserve to be courted by someone
00:21:36.800 like the keyword is deserve.
00:21:38.280 Nobody deserves anything.
00:21:39.320 Can I, can I ask a question?
00:21:40.360 Can I ask a question?
00:21:41.100 Sorry.
00:21:41.720 Oh, go ahead.
00:21:42.720 Um, so imagine you've got two guys, right?
00:21:45.500 You've got one guy, average height, average looks, average income, right?
00:21:48.780 You've got the second guy, right?
00:21:51.220 Tall, good looking, confident, intelligent.
00:21:54.040 Clearly there's one guy you would, you want more.
00:21:56.460 And there's one guy who's seen as more valuable to you because of what you look for than the
00:21:59.900 other, right?
00:22:00.740 So would you be expected, right?
00:22:02.780 Because it's going to be harder to get him.
00:22:04.520 Yeah.
00:22:04.680 Would you be expected to the same degree, the same level of effort that you put in to
00:22:10.700 get his attention, to connect with him, right?
00:22:13.660 Would you expect to have the same level of effort for the guy that you find less valuable?
00:22:17.960 You're going to have to redirect the question because I don't chase.
00:22:22.000 Yeah.
00:22:22.340 It's not about chasing, but you make an effort.
00:22:24.800 No, hold on.
00:22:25.260 Wait, wait, hold on.
00:22:25.740 Hold on.
00:22:25.920 You don't put effort in with guys at all.
00:22:27.540 No.
00:22:27.920 Can I just ask what's your relationship status?
00:22:29.960 Have you read, have you read, have you read, I love bitches?
00:22:32.620 No.
00:22:32.840 I was going to say, if you had a boyfriend, you would have said that.
00:22:35.480 It's like the same arc of age.
00:22:35.980 Who hurt you?
00:22:36.880 Like, who's, what was?
00:22:38.440 So basically, if I just put in a mutual amount of effort.
00:22:42.860 So if that, so that intelligent, whatever guy that's there, he can be there and they
00:22:47.820 can be the average guy.
00:22:48.900 If the average guy is building more of a relationship with me or making more effort with me, that's
00:22:53.280 who I'm going to.
00:22:53.500 So you don't, you don't reciprocate in dating?
00:22:55.420 No, I only reciprocate.
00:22:57.200 I don't, I'm not going to.
00:22:59.360 So how are you supposed to let him know you're interested?
00:23:01.440 You don't instigate, basically.
00:23:03.220 Yeah, exactly.
00:23:03.840 I don't instigate.
00:23:04.520 I only reciprocate.
00:23:05.700 Because that's what he's saying.
00:23:06.700 If you had two men in front of you, how would you, like, how are you going to choose?
00:23:09.800 You're automatically going to choose.
00:23:11.120 I'm not going to want a guy that wants me to chase him.
00:23:13.840 Okay.
00:23:14.040 So it's not about chasing.
00:23:15.520 That's my point.
00:23:16.120 If you have two opportunities, like both of them don't know about each other and you're
00:23:19.840 speaking to them both, you're automatically going to choose the one that is more suited
00:23:23.540 to you.
00:23:23.940 Like, you're not going to choose the one just because of, well, unless you care more about
00:23:27.760 personality, depending on what your values are.
00:23:29.560 I do care more about personality.
00:23:30.760 Well, that's what I'm saying.
00:23:31.740 So how do you choose?
00:23:33.300 And he's saying, like, how would you do that?
00:23:35.420 So if you're the last woman on earth, you decipher the value.
00:23:39.640 But let me quickly ask you a question.
00:23:41.160 So just a little look into a man's brain, right?
00:23:44.560 Regardless what any man wants to say, men, off the bat, we want to have sex, right?
00:23:49.340 So you said previously that every single woman should be caught with the same, okay?
00:23:54.220 Every woman should be caught with the same.
00:23:55.640 So if a man was to caught a woman, say, over three months, hypothetically, right?
00:23:59.820 If a man was to caught a woman over three months, he spent his time, money, resources,
00:24:04.100 all of his energy on you, do you believe once he's done that, you owe him sex?
00:24:10.320 No, I don't believe I owe him anything.
00:24:11.920 But if I want to have sex with him, I'll have sex with him.
00:24:14.980 But he has to do all this stuff for you.
00:24:18.940 That's the biggest problem.
00:24:19.620 And you're not doing anything for him.
00:24:22.680 I didn't say I'm not going to do anything for him.
00:24:26.340 I said that women deserve to be courted.
00:24:30.020 So I think that all women deserve, especially, and I think as well, it's the intention that
00:24:35.980 you have for the woman.
00:24:37.220 So if you're dating women to find your life partner, then yeah, then definitely you should
00:24:44.540 take time to court them properly.
00:24:46.740 If you're dating women to fuck, then cool.
00:24:50.200 Date women to fuck.
00:24:51.760 So even the women that say, oh, men are trash, men are X, Y, Z, men don't deserve this from
00:24:59.280 me, men don't need this from me.
00:25:01.160 I'm a, like Kevin Samuel says, I'm a independent woman.
00:25:05.060 I can do things on my own.
00:25:06.660 Like, why do they need to be courted if they can do it on their own?
00:25:11.140 They can take their self-taught to them.
00:25:12.400 They can take their self, they can court themselves, essentially.
00:25:15.160 Why do they, why do they deserve to be courted if they're not essentially going to give, reciprocate
00:25:21.420 the, reciprocate it for the man?
00:25:23.600 So the thing is for me, right?
00:25:25.040 I feel that relationships and you're probably all going to attack me for this, but it's what
00:25:31.120 I feel and what I believe.
00:25:33.060 I feel relationships, marriage is more advantageous for men than it is for women.
00:25:39.260 I feel that men need women more than women need men.
00:25:44.120 And because of that, men should make more efforts.
00:25:50.040 And like, yeah, even if those women that feel that men are trash, men are this, or all of
00:25:56.120 those types of women, they can either choose to be single and they'll be happy.
00:26:00.040 Or if a man wants them, that man should work to prove them wrong and work to have them on
00:26:06.680 their side.
00:26:07.180 Okay, I have a question.
00:26:09.080 So how do, how do.
00:26:11.840 Everyone's like, wait a minute.
00:26:14.120 How do women, how do men, you said women or men need women more than women need men.
00:26:19.740 Yeah.
00:26:20.040 How is that true?
00:26:20.660 When they want everything that in society, what do you mean?
00:26:23.420 Everything, the power supply, the entire infrastructure of society.
00:26:27.380 Oh, it's, it's very simple.
00:26:29.180 It's because construction needs sex more than women need sex.
00:26:32.880 But can I just quickly say, that's all you offer.
00:26:35.340 God damn.
00:26:35.640 Who offers?
00:26:36.360 That's all you offer.
00:26:37.020 That's all women offer.
00:26:37.600 That's all we offer.
00:26:38.400 Okay.
00:26:38.440 Not all I offer because I, I mean, you just said, you just said you would do nothing for
00:26:43.940 a guy.
00:26:44.320 You said that.
00:26:45.400 I don't have to.
00:26:46.560 So when, when you say that's not, that's not all you offer.
00:26:49.080 Generally speaking, the things that you believe you offer a man, we point blank, don't give
00:26:52.980 a shit about.
00:26:53.620 Yeah.
00:26:53.840 You can offer personality.
00:26:55.220 You can offer the ability to clean the house unless you're loyal and the pussy's good.
00:27:00.260 We genuinely don't give a shit.
00:27:01.760 So basically I know all men really care about is sex basically is what you're saying.
00:27:07.800 In the beginning.
00:27:08.460 Yeah.
00:27:08.660 All men care about is sex.
00:27:10.200 And every woman has the ability to give a man sex basically.
00:27:15.080 And so what do women need from men?
00:27:19.360 Protection, protection, provisioning, sustainability, suitability.
00:27:25.180 Wait, wait, pause.
00:27:25.960 Protection from what?
00:27:27.220 If someone breaks into your house, who, who, who protects you?
00:27:31.140 The police.
00:27:32.120 Wait, wait, wait.
00:27:32.740 A men, a men, a men, a men, a men, a men, do men not, do men not run the police department,
00:27:38.460 the fire department?
00:27:39.360 Those, no, no.
00:27:40.040 Those are, those are men in society.
00:27:41.800 I'm talking about men in your relationship.
00:27:43.560 So.
00:27:43.620 I'm talking about in a relationship, not in society.
00:27:46.180 Okay.
00:27:46.500 So then, okay.
00:27:47.260 So then in regards to that, right?
00:27:48.640 Right.
00:27:48.800 Because it's important to distinguish the difference between the two.
00:27:52.300 Men don't need women for a relationship either.
00:27:54.660 We don't need each other today.
00:27:56.540 The whole reason people paired up back in the day was for survival.
00:28:00.440 Right.
00:28:00.800 But we live in a modernized society now where we don't need each other for survival.
00:28:04.640 Right.
00:28:04.960 It's not like, oh, like you said, if a burglar comes in, you're calling the police.
00:28:09.020 Right.
00:28:09.600 And all of this.
00:28:10.640 Men need women.
00:28:11.520 I just.
00:28:12.520 Wait.
00:28:12.840 Wait, actually, I have a question.
00:28:14.400 I have a question.
00:28:15.520 What, what does a guy get from a woman that he couldn't get from a cook, a cleaner, and
00:28:19.260 a hooker?
00:28:21.060 Fuck off.
00:28:22.680 No, no, no.
00:28:23.440 You're right.
00:28:23.980 Probably.
00:28:24.560 And if it's just a woman with relationship, definitely it would be loyalty and the stability
00:28:28.680 of that woman.
00:28:29.980 Your cook could leave.
00:28:31.340 She might say, oh, she needs all of those people.
00:28:34.080 There's no, it would be the stability and the loyalty.
00:28:37.740 Definitely.
00:28:38.260 Right.
00:28:38.320 I'm not saying that that's not wrong.
00:28:40.520 Right.
00:28:40.780 And that's, but that goes back to like why it's better to date girls with lower body counts
00:28:44.880 because they're more loyal.
00:28:47.260 Yeah, but that's, I don't, I don't know about all of that.
00:28:49.800 So if a girl, if a girl's, if a girl's a virgin, if a girl's a virgin on her wedding
00:28:53.240 night, she has an 80% chance of a happy marriage.
00:28:55.180 If she sleeps with more than five people, it drops down to 30%.
00:28:58.160 But that doesn't mean the man's going to stay though.
00:29:01.240 How many men have?
00:29:01.940 Women leave most of the time.
00:29:03.420 It's 70 to 80% of the time.
00:29:05.080 If you're college educated, it's 90 and they cheat at similar rates.
00:29:08.540 And there's actually studies that have come out recently saying that women cheat more
00:29:11.120 than men, because think about it.
00:29:12.160 We have way more opportunity.
00:29:13.240 We walk down the street, say hello to a man.
00:29:15.280 He's down.
00:29:15.680 It's a woman's choice to be single and it's a man's choice to be in a relationship 100%.
00:29:22.960 However, if a man cheats, yes, that's like maybe that the females obviously cheat more.
00:29:28.220 Society is changing.
00:29:29.200 Things are changing.
00:29:30.280 Women want to show that we're the masculine ones, which is why we're demasculating the
00:29:34.700 man.
00:29:35.240 Who cares?
00:29:35.980 Yeah, but you're talking about actual.
00:29:37.080 But I'm saying like, why are you giving them an excuse?
00:29:39.900 It's not an excuse.
00:29:40.480 It's not an excuse.
00:29:41.460 It's facts in my opinion.
00:29:42.880 So if women want to become this masculine power.
00:29:45.680 But I'm saying you just said, you said a statement, you said that like men are the ones cheating.
00:29:49.460 And I said, no, recent studies have said that women are the ones cheating.
00:29:52.960 And now you're changing the subject.
00:29:54.340 No, but I'm talking about specifically if, for example, a virgin, she doesn't know any
00:29:58.600 much different depending on her loyalty.
00:30:00.800 Right.
00:30:01.180 So she's stuck with loyalty.
00:30:02.820 And I'm saying that doesn't mean they'll have a happy marriage going back to your specific
00:30:06.200 point, which is why I point out men cheat.
00:30:08.040 I'm not saying that every single one, but I think like as adults in a conversation, but
00:30:13.960 I'm saying like as adults in a conversation, like, yes, they're going to be exceptions.
00:30:17.740 But if you have an 80% chance, isn't that better than a 30% chance?
00:30:21.260 And if you were a dude, you pick the, you pick the 80% chance.
00:30:24.820 And second off, the other problem is like a lot of times what girls will do is they'll,
00:30:29.700 they'll give it to the last guys for free and then try to like, they're a used Honda
00:30:32.880 Civic and trying to require BMW prices, but you can't go back to being a new BMW.
00:30:36.880 I do agree.
00:30:37.760 After a certain period of time, sex means nothing to people.
00:30:40.920 Like sex doesn't mean anything.
00:30:42.020 It's not valued.
00:30:42.740 I do agree.
00:30:43.320 But that's why I mentioned earlier, if a woman is going to be valued to be courted, she needs
00:30:48.580 to be like, she can't just be accessible to anyone.
00:30:51.880 You have to have a high press value on yourself, a hundred percent in this society, because
00:30:55.140 things are not the same, right?
00:30:56.260 You know, the funny thing is, it's 14% of our girls are virgins at the age of 25.
00:31:03.120 If you're wondering, I want to go back to something you said earlier.
00:31:06.640 So you said, um, men, men need women and women don't need men.
00:31:13.240 Earlier, you were talking, you're aware when Pearl was asking us about Kevin Samuels and
00:31:17.900 courting, you had said, oh yes, I do think women should be courted because I want a man
00:31:23.480 to buy me nice things, a man to treat me like this.
00:31:25.760 But if you don't, if men don't need, if women don't need men, then why would you need a man?
00:31:30.980 So there's a big difference between need and wants.
00:31:33.680 I don't need a dude, but yeah, I would want somebody to buy things that I don't want to
00:31:38.440 buy for myself.
00:31:39.480 Definitely.
00:31:39.840 And, um, well, why, you know, you know, why don't you want to buy it for yourself?
00:31:45.300 I, I, well, it depends.
00:31:48.540 You see, that mentality, like, why do you want someone, where's the desire developed that
00:31:53.440 you actually want someone to buy something for you though?
00:31:55.540 If you can get it for yourself.
00:31:56.380 It's not just, it's not just buying things.
00:31:58.520 That's really superficial.
00:31:59.920 It's not just buying things like, but there's, there's a difference between wanting a partner
00:32:05.000 and needing a partner and most women want a partner for various different reasons, like
00:32:10.880 to be bought things, but that's, to be bought things.
00:32:13.160 Yeah.
00:32:13.580 To, to have somebody to cuddle at night, to have somebody to talk to, to have somebody
00:32:17.480 to build things with.
00:32:18.600 And men don't need that.
00:32:20.760 No, no, no.
00:32:21.660 But men need women.
00:32:23.500 Men need women to build legacies.
00:32:25.400 Men need women to have stable partnerships with men need women to have sex with women.
00:32:31.260 No, they don't.
00:32:31.720 Okay.
00:32:31.940 But all, that's not true.
00:32:33.600 Men can not be without sex.
00:32:35.700 Okay.
00:32:36.020 If that's, if that's true, if what you're, if what, if what you're, if what you're saying
00:32:41.820 is correct, then why did only 40% of men reproduce historically and 80% of women did.
00:32:48.220 Wait.
00:32:48.780 So I'm saying 40% of men reproduced historically, 80% of women did.
00:32:55.420 So who needs who more?
00:32:56.940 Because men, men, men, men, men, men, historically, more men have lived without women than women
00:33:01.900 have lived without men.
00:33:02.920 Yeah.
00:33:03.100 Not in my own, in, not in my world.
00:33:05.900 So.
00:33:06.000 Yeah, but your world is not really close to reality.
00:33:08.500 So, so I, yeah, but from, in my.
00:33:11.780 Can anybody hear my mic?
00:33:12.900 Yeah.
00:33:13.480 I'm not going to lie.
00:33:14.100 This is all sounding like it's in your world.
00:33:15.620 Yeah.
00:33:16.880 That's fine.
00:33:17.620 I want to, I want to ask you a question.
00:33:18.840 Going back to what you said previously.
00:33:19.840 So you said every single woman deserves to be courted.
00:33:22.500 Yeah.
00:33:22.680 But then you also said that if a man and a woman want to date and have sex, which is different,
00:33:26.640 they can.
00:33:27.280 Right.
00:33:27.420 Do you believe dating can lead to a relationship and sustainability?
00:33:30.580 Yeah.
00:33:30.840 So why the fuck is a man courting you if he can fucking date you and then get into a
00:33:33.520 relationship long term anyway?
00:33:34.360 Well, I think it's part of a man, like, putting in the effort that needs to be put in.
00:33:42.640 But he can do that through dating.
00:33:43.660 To acquire some women.
00:33:44.360 He can do that.
00:33:45.220 Yeah, I mean.
00:33:45.760 He can do that.
00:33:46.040 Yeah, I mean.
00:33:46.160 He's just courtship with sex.
00:33:46.900 We've established that.
00:33:47.460 So if a man can date you, i.e. courtship and have sex and can lead to a relationship, why
00:33:52.580 is a man going to spend all of his emotion, time and resources?
00:33:54.940 So for me as a woman, right?
00:33:56.480 So for me as a woman, literally only 50% of women have ever orgasmed, right?
00:34:02.440 It's for men.
00:34:04.000 Google it.
00:34:05.160 You talking about orgasms?
00:34:06.420 It's like he asked you one question.
00:34:08.560 Because I'm getting back to his question.
00:34:10.980 Because, okay, for me as a woman, I'm not going to just start dating and sleeping with
00:34:15.460 a guy because, one, like, the sex on my half is more for you, more for the guy than it
00:34:23.280 is for the woman.
00:34:24.240 You're definitely going to come.
00:34:26.180 I might not.
00:34:27.520 I'm sorry.
00:34:27.960 You think a lot of yourself, are you?
00:34:29.640 I'm sorry.
00:34:29.980 I do.
00:34:30.520 Yes, I do.
00:34:31.200 I'm sorry.
00:34:31.640 I understand on a personal level that's how you feel.
00:34:33.680 But the truth of the matter is overall, that's irrelevant.
00:34:36.160 Get back to the question.
00:34:37.380 I said, if a man, that's what you said.
00:34:39.260 I'm going back on your statement, right?
00:34:40.980 If a man can date you, i.e. have sex and caught you, separate to just a woman,
00:34:45.460 I'm telling you, because why am I going to just be having sex with you when it could
00:34:50.440 not, when it might not go anywhere?
00:34:52.540 And then you're going to complain on the other hand that, oh, your body count is high.
00:34:55.920 I don't want you.
00:34:56.580 Why am I going to have sex with you?
00:34:58.460 But the point is, you're looking at it from a woman's point of view.
00:35:01.640 Yeah, I'm a woman.
00:35:02.640 Yeah, but like the problem is you don't look at things from men's point of view.
00:35:06.380 I don't want to.
00:35:07.060 I don't need to.
00:35:07.800 I know.
00:35:08.040 So how are you?
00:35:08.980 That's, that's, that's like, I think that's the issue.
00:35:10.620 That's the full stop.
00:35:11.260 I think, I think in your world, two plus two is five.
00:35:14.120 I understand that you have like infinite value based on infinite things.
00:35:17.940 I'm going to, I'm going to read a hundred dollar super chats guys.
00:35:20.860 I read faster.
00:35:21.900 So I'm just, yeah, yeah.
00:35:22.680 Okay.
00:35:23.920 But traditionalism is valued in women because it shows how she values herself and her body.
00:35:28.720 If you indiscriminately give your body away to everyone, it's not special anymore.
00:35:32.140 What makes anyone think a hoe would make moral or sound choices for their man and their kids
00:35:35.680 or not divorce him?
00:35:37.060 That's true.
00:35:37.560 Can I ask you a question?
00:35:39.320 Wait, so if that's true, then why would he quote her?
00:35:41.880 No, but then do you know the funny thing is, right?
00:35:44.560 One, hoes can be very smart.
00:35:47.280 A lot of hoes are very intelligent.
00:35:49.080 You don't give a shit.
00:35:49.900 Yeah, that's good.
00:35:50.900 I know you don't give a shit.
00:35:52.060 All you give a shit is, is sex and loyalty and the hoe will probably give you sex and she
00:35:57.320 can lie about being loyal.
00:35:58.560 If a woman tells you her body count is zero and she's a virgin, that's, that's what you're
00:36:03.200 going to believe.
00:36:03.780 Um, so no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:36:07.540 It's stupid.
00:36:07.920 They know if you've been single a long time, they know if you're over a certain age, like,
00:36:13.320 I mean, I, I hear, I hear, I hear guys like that.
00:36:15.880 They like, I'm friends with a lot of guys in these spaces that give dating advice to men.
00:36:19.620 And they said, yeah, if a girl says she's over 25 and a virgin, don't believe her.
00:36:22.440 Or if she's been single, I know 25 year olds that are virgins.
00:36:25.940 Okay.
00:36:26.380 Okay.
00:36:26.780 Well, they could say that, but I don't, I don't, what type of virgins, you know,
00:36:31.680 I really want to know what vibrator you recommend to your friends and like the group of people
00:36:47.480 that subscribe to this because I know there's a favorite brand, I know they have a group
00:36:53.940 chat and they're like, yo, the, the maestro Pussy Master 3000 is fucking way better than
00:36:59.040 these men.
00:37:00.140 Yeah, that's true.
00:37:01.140 Can I ask a question back to courting, right?
00:37:05.120 In your eyes, right outside of personality, do you see men having different value in terms
00:37:10.580 of their romantic potential to you?
00:37:12.420 So do you see some that have higher, some have lower, you don't know them personally, but
00:37:15.800 you see some is higher and lower, but not every, not every man is seen as equal in your
00:37:21.040 eyes, are they?
00:37:22.380 Um, to be honest, I am somebody who really just, I can, it's mainly just personality.
00:37:30.080 No, no, I'm saying outside of personality.
00:37:32.000 So I'm like, for example, like if, if a matchmaker came to you and said, we've got 10 guys, this
00:37:36.140 is what it is on paper.
00:37:37.440 Some you would rate higher than others, wouldn't you?
00:37:39.940 Based on what you're looking for.
00:37:40.700 I would probably rate bums low.
00:37:42.640 Okay.
00:37:42.900 Yeah, exactly.
00:37:43.480 Okay.
00:37:44.140 So you rate guys at different values, right?
00:37:46.080 Do you understand that men do the same for women?
00:37:47.660 Yeah, of course.
00:37:48.460 Okay.
00:37:48.980 So do you think courting is deserving of the highest value woman or the higher value he
00:37:54.920 sees her, the more he courts her?
00:37:57.060 I'm just asking a question.
00:37:58.240 No.
00:37:58.560 Yeah.
00:37:58.840 I can.
00:37:59.220 Do you think the higher value he sees a woman, the more he should court her?
00:38:03.320 Probably.
00:38:04.020 Yeah.
00:38:04.280 Okay.
00:38:04.640 But the funny thing is, so there's some women to a guy's eyes, right?
00:38:08.480 If he sees courting is reserved for the highest value woman in his eyes, there'll be some
00:38:13.220 women that he sees that's not worth courting.
00:38:15.140 Yeah, definitely.
00:38:15.880 Of course.
00:38:16.500 Okay.
00:38:17.260 That's all we're saying.
00:38:18.480 No, I know when people say she's for the streets, they don't want her.
00:38:23.300 Exactly.
00:38:23.620 No, but I hear, I hear everything you guys are saying, but it doesn't change the fact
00:38:28.440 that a hoe, whatever you define as a hoe, is deserving of courting and she will be courted
00:38:36.380 by someone.
00:38:37.240 She might not be courted by you, but trust me, that hoe is getting taken out.
00:38:42.820 Yeah, but she's probably more premium men than most virgins.
00:38:45.620 No, no, no, no, probably more premium men than most virgins.
00:38:49.700 Okay, okay, okay.
00:38:50.560 So, so you're right on some level, hoes do a very good job of hiding it a lot of the time
00:38:56.560 and they do end up getting married a lot of the time, but the issue, and I've asked a lot
00:39:01.520 of older people this, like I've asked people like in their forties, fifties, like what
00:39:05.540 happens to the hoes?
00:39:06.400 They get married eventually.
00:39:07.300 They say, yeah, but they're the first divorced.
00:39:10.680 So, so they leave.
00:39:12.880 It's not so quick, I want to go back to like what you said about how virgins are 80% more
00:39:19.300 likely to stay married.
00:39:21.460 Yeah, well, they're more likely to rate their marriage as happy after 10 years.
00:39:24.800 Oh, so it's actually happy because that's, that's a big question.
00:39:28.160 Are they actually even happily married?
00:39:30.580 Well, all you can do, you know, they say believe women.
00:39:32.760 So if we ask them and they say they're happy, do you not believe women?
00:39:38.840 So this is false.
00:39:39.600 No, my question would be seriously, are they actually happy after so many years?
00:39:44.140 But we believe women here.
00:39:45.700 Yeah, if they say they're happy, that's really good.
00:39:47.280 So just to go back, I still don't think I've got an answer to the question though.
00:39:50.440 Which question were you asking?
00:39:51.580 So it sounds, it sounds to me at this stage that I know you're speaking on behalf of women,
00:39:56.300 but it sounds, that's what you said, but it sounds like.
00:39:58.360 Am I?
00:39:58.780 Did I say that?
00:39:59.180 No, she's not.
00:39:59.800 I'm speaking on behalf of myself.
00:40:01.420 I don't think like a lot of women do.
00:40:05.120 You've said that you're speaking on behalf of women.
00:40:06.600 It sounds to me like you're speaking more on behalf of yourself.
00:40:08.840 I am.
00:40:09.480 I've never said I was speaking on behalf of women.
00:40:10.760 Well, that's fine.
00:40:11.440 But so let's go back to my original question.
00:40:13.220 Okay.
00:40:13.520 You said every woman deserves to be courted.
00:40:15.220 Okay.
00:40:15.520 Yes.
00:40:16.400 Now, if a man.
00:40:17.260 My own opinion.
00:40:18.200 Right.
00:40:18.360 But if a man, but you've also said courtship, obviously being dating without sex, but you've
00:40:23.280 also said that women and men can date and you've, you just agreed recently that a man and a
00:40:28.580 woman can, it can lead to a relationship if a man and a woman has sex while they're dating.
00:40:33.400 So why the fuck is a man going to waste all of it?
00:40:35.820 Why is a man going to waste all of those, all of those resources, that time and energy
00:40:39.920 on courting you with no guarantee of sex at the end when he can just date you, have sex
00:40:43.220 at the same time and get the same loyalty and sustainability at the end.
00:40:45.680 So he can date someone else and have sex because if you're going to court me, we're
00:40:50.380 not going to have sex because I'm not going to just sleep with you.
00:40:53.840 You've just gone back on your statement.
00:40:55.180 Yeah.
00:40:55.300 But then like, why wouldn't he just, I'm trying to answer your question.
00:40:57.840 He's saying, why have you gone back earlier?
00:40:59.800 Because you said that someone who can date you and have sex, but you're saying, I'm not
00:41:03.640 saying, I'm not saying me, but that's what I'm saying in general.
00:41:06.780 Okay.
00:41:07.700 You can't date me and just have sex and I will hope that one day it releases to a relationship.
00:41:13.900 Right.
00:41:14.260 That can't happen to me.
00:41:15.400 Respectfully, respectfully, forget you for a second.
00:41:18.020 That's why I said that for people, for women in general, yeah, you can date and it can
00:41:23.320 lead to a relationship for other women.
00:41:25.460 But the reason why I don't think that's right is because that can is not a hundred percent.
00:41:31.440 So I don't think it's right.
00:41:33.300 What's that a hundred percent?
00:41:34.220 It's not a hundred percent that it's going to lead to a relationship and to marriage.
00:41:37.440 Yeah.
00:41:37.840 It's not a hundred percent that the dating is going to lead to a marriage or to anything serious.
00:41:42.040 That's fine.
00:41:42.480 So I'm not going to just let you take me out and sleep with you.
00:41:45.040 No, that's fine.
00:41:45.500 And then it's nothing.
00:41:46.840 Yeah, but I'll admit, I'll admit, I'll admit, but all right, that's fine.
00:41:49.100 But at the same time, it's also not a guarantee that a man will get a six at the end of courtship.
00:41:52.700 So it sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it.
00:41:54.660 Yeah.
00:41:56.040 That's what she's been saying for like 20 minutes.
00:41:59.600 I don't know.
00:41:59.900 I'm not like, and the thing is, right?
00:42:02.280 Yeah.
00:42:02.820 Because a man should be putting in more effort and should be risking more because men need
00:42:08.900 women, more than women need, but you know what the difference is right now.
00:42:11.840 But that's not true.
00:42:12.680 That's what I feel.
00:42:13.340 But I'm saying, you can, you can feel it, but you can, you can, you can, okay, okay.
00:42:17.980 Okay.
00:42:18.220 You got it.
00:42:18.600 You got to stop over talking me.
00:42:19.860 You can, you can feel it.
00:42:21.100 But if historically 40% of men have reproduced, so the majority of men have lived without women
00:42:26.760 always.
00:42:27.560 Can I ask?
00:42:28.400 Yeah, but let's just go back before you skip.
00:42:31.120 You just were saying that this is what you feel should be like.
00:42:35.380 You don't want to, you'll hold out from sex.
00:42:36.620 You'll hold out, you'll hold out, but you expect this, you expect this, you expect this.
00:42:40.260 But now today, like society, women just give out sex.
00:42:43.800 And that's why I said the value of sex and the value of vagina is in the ground because
00:42:48.240 women give it out too easily.
00:42:49.280 But the point of the matter is, so let me finish, yeah.
00:42:51.640 The point of the matter is you're talking about why women should be courted and the whole
00:42:55.680 debate is why women shouldn't be basically like, because we're not deserving of it.
00:43:00.000 What type of women should be?
00:43:01.900 And you're saying you want to be, and that's fine, but that we're talking about debate about
00:43:05.560 society, about women in general.
00:43:07.020 But like, why should...
00:43:08.200 But I wish women would raise their values.
00:43:10.240 But you can't...
00:43:11.120 I really wish women would raise their standards.
00:43:12.780 Speak about why women should be better for themselves.
00:43:14.480 But, okay, okay.
00:43:15.380 Not everyone can be delusional.
00:43:16.660 But the, but the, but the problem is you can't just raise your value for if you've given
00:43:21.280 it out before.
00:43:22.120 Like you want to be courted like a virgin, but if you're not a virgin, how can you ask for
00:43:25.240 virgin prices?
00:43:26.160 You can't put a high price tag on what you've given away for free.
00:43:28.340 So, so you can't just say, you can't just say I am valuable.
00:43:30.880 Like I could say I'm a billionaire.
00:43:32.300 It doesn't make me a billionaire.
00:43:33.340 So if you're not a virgin anymore, you can, you can say, give me virgin prices.
00:43:36.680 But if you're not, but if you're not a virgin, you can't just magically become one.
00:43:40.220 I think, I think, I think she actually, I think she actually agrees because you literally
00:43:43.600 just said, right.
00:43:44.200 You just like every, you wish women, you said the value of a vagina is in the ground, right?
00:43:50.280 Because sex is given out too easily for a bunch of women.
00:43:52.740 Right.
00:43:53.740 So you're saying you feel you deserve, you feel that women deserve to be courted if they
00:43:58.420 were going to raise the value of a vagina.
00:44:01.220 If they acted well.
00:44:03.060 Right.
00:44:03.340 So in actual fact, so you're actually agreeing saying that the modern woman today, right,
00:44:08.700 on average is lower value.
00:44:09.840 So then she actually doesn't deserve to be courted.
00:44:11.200 But the thing is, right, the value of vagina can never, ever go down because men will always
00:44:18.300 No, no, no.
00:44:19.900 But it's only down because it's, it's so, yeah, it's only down because it's so readily
00:44:25.000 available.
00:44:25.500 If women, all of a sudden, if the government put into place that no man can have sex until
00:44:31.900 he puts down a hundred K deposits, what do you think men would do?
00:44:36.580 So they would, uh, they would, uh, they would break the law.
00:44:44.420 And the, and the other, and you can't, and you can't make you younger.
00:44:48.960 Like you can't, you can't just raise someone's value.
00:44:51.480 You can't make you younger.
00:44:52.440 You can't make you more pure.
00:44:53.460 There's new girls turning 21 every single day.
00:44:55.740 Can I give an example?
00:44:56.700 Please guys, honestly, this is an experience of a lifetime, but when a woman, and this is
00:45:02.400 the thing is, I, this is a real life story.
00:45:03.900 Like I know the situation 40 years old.
00:45:07.060 Yeah.
00:45:07.620 Has 12 kids still single to this age, 40 years old.
00:45:11.980 Do you think any man wants her?
00:45:14.060 Yes.
00:45:15.060 She has 12 kids.
00:45:16.060 Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.
00:45:17.060 A man wants her.
00:45:18.060 No, no, no, no.
00:45:19.060 A man wants her.
00:45:20.060 No, no, no.
00:45:21.060 A man wants her.
00:45:22.060 No, you're right.
00:45:23.060 A man does want her.
00:45:24.060 Wait, wait, wait.
00:45:25.060 It's a complete simp and it's a complete person.
00:45:26.060 Yeah, cool.
00:45:27.060 But a man does want her.
00:45:28.060 But you don't want him if he is.
00:45:29.060 But wants her.
00:45:30.060 Do you think like after someone's been used that many times, had that many kids.
00:45:35.060 Those aren't even your kids.
00:45:36.060 Don't be stupid.
00:45:37.060 Of course a man wants her.
00:45:38.060 No, it's not about being stupid.
00:45:39.060 This is not that.
00:45:40.060 No, seriously.
00:45:41.060 No, it's not.
00:45:42.060 Do you want to be with a man that has 12 kids?
00:45:44.060 12 baby mamas?
00:45:45.060 That's a, that's a drama.
00:45:48.060 That's drama.
00:45:49.060 It is drama.
00:45:50.060 Yeah.
00:45:51.060 So the same goes with a man.
00:45:52.060 After a woman has put herself in so many situations.
00:45:54.060 Do you think any man's going to want her?
00:45:56.060 It's debatable.
00:45:57.060 100%.
00:45:58.060 No, no, no.
00:45:59.060 For, for sex.
00:46:00.060 Yeah.
00:46:01.060 No, no, no.
00:46:02.060 You will, you will find somebody, you will stop cutting me off.
00:46:03.060 Stop cutting.
00:46:04.060 Stop.
00:46:05.060 You will find somebody that wants to sleep with you, but marry you cooked, cooked and
00:46:17.060 you don't deserve it.
00:46:18.060 And you don't just like, why would you deserve that?
00:46:20.060 You want your brother to court a girl that has 12 kids?
00:46:23.060 Can I quickly ask?
00:46:24.060 So you said a man will date her.
00:46:26.060 I agree.
00:46:27.060 But the type of man who is going to be willing to date you is a man.
00:46:29.060 You're not going to want to stick with long term because from my, from my perspective,
00:46:33.060 only a complete fucking pussy, a complete simp is going to consider standing with you.
00:46:37.060 Even a psychopath.
00:46:38.060 Psycho, whatever you want to call it.
00:46:39.060 But long term, you're not going to want to stay with that bloke.
00:46:41.060 At the end of the day, I think you just need to stop being delusional.
00:46:44.060 Admit that you're used goods.
00:46:46.060 Point blank period.
00:46:47.060 Point blank period.
00:46:48.060 I think that's really it.
00:46:49.060 That woman would be used goods.
00:46:51.060 100%.
00:46:52.060 But her question was, would a man want her?
00:46:55.060 You know what?
00:46:56.060 Actually, you know what?
00:46:57.060 A man will always want a woman.
00:46:59.060 No matter the circumstances, a woman will always find a man to commit.
00:47:04.060 No, no, no, no.
00:47:05.060 She can find a man to even be with her.
00:47:06.060 But it's whether she's willing to now settle with that man.
00:47:07.060 No, no, no, no, no.
00:47:08.060 I'm asking you the question.
00:47:09.060 Because let's say, for example, you're right.
00:47:10.060 You lot want to accept that women don't have the power.
00:47:11.060 We have the power.
00:47:12.060 No, listen, look.
00:47:13.060 Let's say, for example, you're right.
00:47:14.060 Let's say, for example, you're right.
00:47:15.060 Let's say I agree with you and that a man will want to get with her, right?
00:47:16.060 What chance do you truly have in wanting to stick with that man long term?
00:47:33.060 Because I'm giving you a quick look into the male brain right now.
00:47:37.060 I'm telling you now, a man is not going to want to be with a woman who's 40 years old with 12 kids.
00:47:44.060 If he does want to date you long term, I'm telling you now, he is a fucking pussy.
00:47:48.060 He's got no back.
00:47:49.060 But you're not going to want to be with him.
00:47:50.060 So what's the point to get into a relationship if it ain't going to be sustained?
00:47:53.060 We have a $50 super chat.
00:47:56.060 I read these right away.
00:47:57.060 I read these right away.
00:47:58.060 The value of vagina can never go down.
00:48:00.060 But it's only down today because it's given away so readily.
00:48:04.060 Hoes can be educated.
00:48:06.060 Hoes can be educated, but that doesn't mean she's smart.
00:48:09.060 The contradiction shows it's very evident.
00:48:11.060 The ho in blue is educated, but lacks common sense.
00:48:14.060 Goddamn.
00:48:15.060 I would say, you know what?
00:48:16.060 Actually, you know what?
00:48:17.060 I agree with her.
00:48:18.060 I agree with her, right?
00:48:19.060 And the reason I agree with her, yeah, is because there are way more desperate men out there.
00:48:24.060 I agree.
00:48:25.060 He's completely right.
00:48:26.060 He's completely right.
00:48:27.060 The guy who's actually going to go for that kind of woman is not going to be any man any
00:48:32.060 woman wants.
00:48:33.060 But she will always have an option.
00:48:35.060 Can we talk about a different side of it, right?
00:48:37.060 We want to talk about sex, sex, sex, vagina, vagina.
00:48:40.060 Do you know how much trauma that woman has?
00:48:43.060 That's true.
00:48:44.060 That's what I'm saying.
00:48:45.060 Do you think anyone wants her?
00:48:47.060 That type of woman has been through abandonment, abandonment, abandonment.
00:48:50.060 And you need to understand how much men will always want.
00:48:53.060 Yeah.
00:48:54.060 But there's a difference, right?
00:48:55.060 The type of man you're going to get.
00:48:56.060 Someone who's very manipulative, controlling, or is messed up ahead.
00:48:59.060 He's tapped.
00:49:00.060 He's actually tapped.
00:49:01.060 And why wouldn't he just go somewhere else?
00:49:03.060 Where he wants peace.
00:49:04.060 No more peace.
00:49:05.060 Yeah.
00:49:06.060 There's other girls that can give him sex.
00:49:07.060 So you can say-
00:49:08.060 There's only one 40 year old with 12 kids.
00:49:11.060 Okay.
00:49:12.060 Why would I do that?
00:49:13.060 Because that's the number of women you've been going for.
00:49:15.060 It's different.
00:49:16.060 No, but her mentality is excellent for someone who can motivate three or fours.
00:49:21.060 Because imagine the kind of motivation she can give people.
00:49:24.060 If she was on the street corner, just motivating hoes, telling them,
00:49:27.060 no, listen, you got a pussy.
00:49:28.060 Someone's going to want you.
00:49:29.060 No.
00:49:30.060 The thing is-
00:49:31.060 She's like the Steve Harvey of hoes, bro.
00:49:32.060 I'm sorry, right?
00:49:33.060 Should I tell you the truth, right?
00:49:34.060 I read it.
00:49:35.060 Let him finish.
00:49:36.060 Let him finish.
00:49:37.060 Let him finish.
00:49:38.060 I love your idea of women have this infinite value, but you're also
00:49:42.060 defined by the fact that they have a pussy and that value isn't kind of shaken by anything
00:49:47.060 and everything was deserved.
00:49:48.060 Why do we want to be valued by a pussy?
00:49:49.060 An ode.
00:49:50.060 No, sorry.
00:49:51.060 That is how men-
00:49:52.060 Did you not hear what you said?
00:49:53.060 Talking to your mic.
00:49:54.060 Did you not hear what you said?
00:49:55.060 Talking to your mic.
00:49:56.060 When you talk about-
00:49:57.060 Yes, but say for example, that's all you've been talking about anyways.
00:50:00.060 You've not mentioned anything else anyways.
00:50:01.060 Talking to your mic, come on.
00:50:02.060 No, because the only reason I don't think because-
00:50:04.060 So mention something else.
00:50:06.060 I know that sex, right, is probably the last thing on the list.
00:50:10.060 That's why I don't need to-
00:50:11.060 That's why I will insist on courting before anything else.
00:50:15.060 From your perspective?
00:50:16.060 Yeah, I'm talking-
00:50:17.060 I can only talk from my perspective.
00:50:18.060 I can't talk from anyone else's perspective.
00:50:20.060 But men, right?
00:50:23.060 All men care about is sex.
00:50:26.060 The men you know.
00:50:27.060 He's the one that said it.
00:50:29.060 No, I disagree.
00:50:30.060 He's the one that said it.
00:50:31.060 Men on the top of-
00:50:33.060 You've said it multiple times.
00:50:34.060 Look at-
00:50:35.060 Hey, stop cutting me off.
00:50:37.060 Stop cutting me off.
00:50:39.060 The men you know only care about sex.
00:50:42.060 But men want wives.
00:50:44.060 They want people to raise their children.
00:50:46.060 It's not only sex.
00:50:47.060 We want sex, but we want purity and we want loyalty.
00:50:49.060 And we want loyalty at the same time.
00:50:50.060 In youth, right?
00:50:51.060 In youth.
00:50:52.060 You know what's funny?
00:50:53.060 I've always been told a man can tell if a woman is wife material.
00:50:56.060 And you can't-
00:50:57.060 100%.
00:50:58.060 I can see if a woman is wife material.
00:50:59.060 You can tell-
00:51:00.060 100%.
00:51:01.060 How she carries herself for her values.
00:51:02.060 And that's why some women, I don't think they deserve to be courted.
00:51:05.060 Because I'm like, you're just giving yourself out there.
00:51:07.060 You're disrespecting yourself.
00:51:08.060 Why do you expect anyone to respect you?
00:51:10.060 Right, but see what you just said?
00:51:12.060 Men can tell when a woman's wife material-
00:51:14.060 100%.
00:51:15.060 That's why they disrespect you.
00:51:16.060 Because you disrespect yourself.
00:51:17.060 Men also have a radar for hoes.
00:51:18.060 100%.
00:51:19.060 I know when a hoes up.
00:51:20.060 You can tell when she's slept around.
00:51:21.060 It's a spotty sense.
00:51:22.060 It's a spotty sense, bro.
00:51:23.060 It is, it is.
00:51:24.060 People move themselves.
00:51:25.060 See them girls in the clubs that are always trying to be around the man.
00:51:27.060 Always trying to be doing this.
00:51:28.060 Trying to get their attention.
00:51:29.060 Just chill.
00:51:30.060 Like the man will come to you, but you're just trying to go near them.
00:51:33.060 Because you're dying for the attention.
00:51:35.060 Men don't find that attractive.
00:51:36.060 They don't.
00:51:37.060 Smart men don't find that attractive.
00:51:38.060 Smart men.
00:51:39.060 I feel like we're beating the dead horse at this point.
00:51:41.060 Yeah, true.
00:51:42.060 I just want to know what your routine of self-worship is.
00:51:44.060 Do you look at yourself in the mirror and light a candle?
00:51:46.060 Should I tell you the truth, right?
00:51:47.060 Okay, hold on.
00:51:48.060 Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:51:49.060 Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:51:50.060 You just said, hold on.
00:51:51.060 Wait, wait, wait.
00:51:52.060 Did you just say every woman here is a pick me?
00:51:55.060 More or less.
00:51:56.060 Not you probably.
00:51:57.060 No, no, no.
00:51:58.060 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:51:59.060 Wait, wait, wait.
00:52:00.060 How is understanding how the other species operates and what they value, what they want,
00:52:09.060 how is understanding them a pick me?
00:52:11.060 When we always say that they need to understand women, they need to understand women.
00:52:16.060 It's like, how are you supposed to be in a relationship with someone?
00:52:21.060 When you get in a relationship with friends, you try to understand your friends and you
00:52:25.060 want them to understand you so you can grow that relationship, so you can be the best
00:52:29.060 friend they have in that relationship.
00:52:30.060 How are you going to be one-sided and say, oh, we don't need to understand men.
00:52:34.060 We don't need to know this about men.
00:52:36.060 They need to understand us and how we operate.
00:52:38.060 And that's a pick me if we try to understand how they operate to be able to have a good
00:52:43.060 relationship, to not be single at 40 with 12 kids, to not die alone with a dog.
00:52:48.060 How is that a pick me?
00:52:49.060 Well fucking said.
00:52:50.060 Because you think that they're understanding or they're like...
00:52:55.060 Are they not human?
00:52:56.060 No, no.
00:52:57.060 Of course they're human.
00:52:58.060 But you think that it is like, it's truth.
00:53:02.060 It's gospel.
00:53:03.060 It's like determining the facts.
00:53:05.060 Like, I cannot accept that those things determine a woman's value.
00:53:11.060 What's truth?
00:53:12.060 What's gospel?
00:53:13.060 You're saying that certain women don't deserve certain things.
00:53:18.060 Like, because that's their perspective and their understanding, we all must now accept
00:53:24.060 that as the truth.
00:53:26.060 It's choice.
00:53:27.060 It's choices have consequences.
00:53:28.060 And if you choose to make certain decisions, the consequences that most men will not want
00:53:33.060 to court you.
00:53:34.060 And the ones that do, you will not like.
00:53:36.060 Like.
00:53:37.060 Like.
00:53:38.060 Like.
00:53:39.060 Like.