JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


When THEY SAY ＂I DON'T Need a MAN＂


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

240.25026

Word count

2,688

Sentence count

336

Harmful content

Misogyny

30

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Hate speech

12

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about feminism and why we need men in society. We also talk about the fact that women are not as strong as men in the physical world as they are in the mental world, and why it's not a bad thing.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What would you do if one of these security guards broke into your door?
00:00:04.640 What would I do?
00:00:05.980 Okay, I'll tell you.
00:00:07.460 What would you do?
00:00:08.180 What would you do?
00:00:08.700 No, no, seriously, there's no guns here.
00:00:09.920 She's a feminist. 1.00
00:00:10.480 I'll tell you.
00:00:11.160 No, I'm not a feminist. 1.00
00:00:12.020 She was straight, as they tell me.
00:00:13.660 I'm not a feminist. 0.96
00:00:15.240 I'm a bit smarter.
00:00:17.340 Either I'd play dead, one.
00:00:20.440 Okay, they see you're not dead.
00:00:22.160 It's okay.
00:00:23.040 No, I'd be like this.
00:00:24.380 And then if not, maybe I would kind of like be very gentle and comply to find a way to
00:00:28.780 get out of it.
00:00:29.320 If they want to come and kill me, there's not much that many people can do.
00:00:32.700 But let's make an important point.
00:00:33.480 You're talking about equality equaling respect.
00:00:35.380 The way you get respect as a woman is by being feminine. 1.00
00:00:38.000 There's nothing.
00:00:39.080 We can be equal and very, very different.
00:00:41.180 I'm not saying that when there's not equality, but you've confused equality with the same.
00:00:44.960 You can be equal with completely different things.
00:00:46.680 You can have a bishop and a knight on a chessboard.
00:00:48.660 They're equal in terms of points, but they do different things, right?
00:00:51.160 A woman can have equal respect to a man if she is very good at being a woman. 1.00
00:00:54.600 And a man gets respect for being very good at being a man.
00:00:56.620 When a woman decides she wants to act like a man or a man wants to act like a woman, that's 0.99
00:00:59.720 where all gets fucked up. 0.97
00:01:00.480 We try and pretend it's all the same.
00:01:01.560 It's not the same.
00:01:02.740 Men and women are good at different things.
00:01:04.300 We have different strengths, different weaknesses.
00:01:05.840 There's nothing wrong with accepting that.
00:01:07.400 There's nothing wrong with saying, I'm a woman.
00:01:08.540 I'm good at X.
00:01:09.100 He's a man.
00:01:09.540 He's good at Y.
00:01:10.360 Then we work together as a team.
00:01:11.480 We have a beautiful family.
00:01:12.280 We're happy forever.
00:01:12.880 It's only confused where you have women who sit and go, no, because in the name of equality, 1.00
00:01:17.420 we can fight in war.
00:01:18.420 There's no fucking women on the front line in Ukraine. 1.00
00:01:20.820 That is silent bullshit.
00:01:22.360 They put some chick there dancing around with Pokemon dances to try and convince men to 1.00
00:01:25.700 go fucking die in a ditch. 0.97
00:01:27.040 It's garbage.
00:01:27.600 If you go to the front line in Ukraine right now, you do not see women in their makeup
00:01:30.220 and their manicures.
00:01:30.900 You see fucking men in the freezing cold dying.
00:01:33.580 You know where the women are? 1.00
00:01:34.700 Dubai.
00:01:35.420 Chilling.
00:01:36.060 That's where the women are. 1.00
00:01:36.820 So to sit and pretend that women are just as capable physically as men is a fucking 1.00
00:01:41.000 lie.
00:01:41.400 It's delusion.
00:01:42.260 To say that you're as strong as men is delusion.
00:01:44.480 You are good at other things.
00:01:45.920 You're better than men at a lot of things, but it's not the physical world.
00:01:49.760 And the unfortunate reality about life, this is what we're saying when I was saying earlier
00:01:53.000 that feminism goes out the window when things get hard. 1.00
00:01:55.020 The harder the world gets, the closer it gets to the baseline of humanity, the unfortunate
00:01:59.560 baseline of humanity is violence.
00:02:02.340 That's what happens.
00:02:03.080 Because of all the electricity were to go out and all the police sort of quit, this
00:02:06.580 would become a violent place very quickly and there would be fucking zero feminists 1.00
00:02:09.980 left.
00:02:10.620 Zero.
00:02:11.120 You would all need men.
00:02:12.640 That's the bottom line of reality.
00:02:14.200 That's the bottom line.
00:02:15.140 So you have to understand as a woman and say, okay, I need a man who's good at being a man. 0.79
00:02:18.640 But no one's saying that we don't need men in society.
00:02:21.120 Of course we do.
00:02:22.000 We're talking about relationships.
00:02:23.720 Yeah, you're strong.
00:02:24.680 But the thing is, I can live my life as a woman and not need a man.
00:02:28.600 What's a woman? 1.00
00:02:29.140 Oh, Pearl, stop it for me.
00:02:33.960 In my day-to-day life, I don't need a man to fix my car.
00:02:37.120 I'll just go to the mechanic.
00:02:37.900 But this one, right?
00:02:38.740 But is the mechanic a man or a woman?
00:02:40.960 No, no.
00:02:41.400 I'm saying, yes, we need men in society.
00:02:43.580 But in relationship, the only reason I actually need you is because I want you.
00:02:47.360 I don't actually need you.
00:02:48.760 Do you know what?
00:02:49.240 To have babies.
00:02:50.160 I need you to procreate.
00:02:52.220 Yes, I agree.
00:02:53.280 But the things, I don't need you in my day-to-day life.
00:02:55.640 But wait, what if someone breaks into your house?
00:02:58.100 I'll just call the police.
00:02:59.700 Okay, what if they don't come?
00:03:01.360 What if the average is...
00:03:02.260 Play beds.
00:03:03.180 In the US, it takes like 15 minutes.
00:03:04.400 And give them everything.
00:03:05.640 In the US, it takes like 15 minutes for them to get there.
00:03:08.520 But that's not realistic.
00:03:09.600 That doesn't happen on a day-to-day life.
00:03:11.760 These two guys in your house, what are you doing?
00:03:14.480 But that's not realistic.
00:03:15.820 I've not had any man break into my house on a day-to-day.
00:03:18.720 It doesn't happen.
00:03:19.920 The point is...
00:03:20.440 So let's be realistic now.
00:03:21.700 I know what you're saying, but the point is this.
00:03:23.680 The point is, when we're talking about feminism as a whole, feminism as a whole demonizes men.
00:03:28.660 And you just sat and said, besides procreation, I don't need a man in my life.
00:03:32.500 I can go to a male mechanic or call a male police officer. 0.67
00:03:35.100 They're men.
00:03:35.840 So it's...
00:03:36.400 In society, you are needed.
00:03:38.380 I agree.
00:03:38.960 I agree.
00:03:39.600 Of course.
00:03:40.140 We need you.
00:03:40.780 Of course.
00:03:41.320 So you're talking about being with a man because you want to.
00:03:44.700 So my question to you is, why would you want to be with a man? 0.50
00:03:47.440 Why would a man want to be with you? 0.70
00:03:48.860 Because they're sexy.
00:03:49.780 Like, obviously...
00:03:50.780 I feel like because of the combination that got something in between their legs.
00:03:54.180 Sorry, I love men.
00:03:55.740 I love dick, okay?
00:03:56.480 We don't say like it, but it's not all about dick.
00:03:58.360 What I'm trying to say is that in a good relationship, right, one that works, there's blue jobs and there's pink jobs, right?
00:04:05.340 And that's the problem that women have got. 1.00
00:04:06.960 Oh, jeez.
00:04:07.360 They don't want to be doing no pink jobs. 1.00
00:04:09.040 But that's not what we're talking about.
00:04:10.460 I don't even think that's what we're talking about.
00:04:11.420 We're talking about relationships.
00:04:12.880 Why do you need a man in a relationship? 0.99
00:04:14.820 Because you want a partner.
00:04:16.160 Companionship, friendship, romantic love, things that you can't get by yourself.
00:04:21.200 Like, you want to go on dates with him?
00:04:23.280 It's not about, I need someone to fix my car.
00:04:25.600 Like, go to a mechanic.
00:04:27.640 You're not safe.
00:04:28.620 Call the police.
00:04:29.540 Like, it's not that deep.
00:04:31.020 Wait, wait.
00:04:31.680 What about a father to your kids?
00:04:33.380 You don't think your kids need a dad.
00:04:33.880 Exactly.
00:04:34.700 You can be around.
00:04:35.460 I definitely want that.
00:04:36.600 These are the stuff.
00:04:37.220 This is the reason why you need a man.
00:04:38.600 No, you need that.
00:04:38.980 And I agree.
00:04:40.080 Wait, wait, wait.
00:04:41.040 It's not that you want it.
00:04:42.180 You need it.
00:04:42.800 I agree.
00:04:43.620 And these are the stuff that I need in a man.
00:04:45.440 But it's like, at the end of the day, it's not like I completely need you.
00:04:49.420 It's like, I love you.
00:04:50.500 But the whole point is if the lights went out tomorrow, you would need a man.
00:04:54.240 In society, agreed.
00:04:55.540 Why do we add like women are so useless? 1.00
00:04:58.520 I'm not that easy.
00:04:59.140 I can change a tie.
00:04:59.960 I'm saying if the lights went out tomorrow, you would need someone to protect you.
00:05:05.260 You would.
00:05:05.620 Of course.
00:05:06.220 In society.
00:05:07.140 Not my boyfriend.
00:05:07.720 I'll go underground.
00:05:08.460 I'll go on the ground.
00:05:08.560 I'll go on the ground.
00:05:08.840 Half of my exes can't even do anything.
00:05:11.640 That's actually another problem.
00:05:13.020 A lot of men can't do much.
00:05:13.940 Do you know what I mean?
00:05:14.580 Not everybody is strong.
00:05:16.080 In this day and age, guys can't even fit a tie on.
00:05:18.580 You cannot.
00:05:19.260 It's actually ridiculous.
00:05:20.460 No, no, no.
00:05:20.880 A woman can't cook. 1.00
00:05:21.620 Not you, my sister.
00:05:22.440 But I can cook.
00:05:23.320 I can cook.
00:05:23.920 Speak to your brothers.
00:05:24.520 And the thing is, I'm not even.
00:05:26.000 Speak to your brothers.
00:05:26.540 They don't know how to do nothing.
00:05:27.380 I'm not even saying.
00:05:28.520 Guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:05:29.300 We have to do one at a time.
00:05:30.980 Can I just say something?
00:05:32.640 This is why you can't blame all men for your poor choices.
00:05:37.520 You can't say, I'm talking to both of you because you're saying, yeah, my man can't do this.
00:05:42.200 My man can't do that.
00:05:43.480 And you want to settle down.
00:05:44.820 Why would you go and choose a man that can't do these things that you wanted them to do?
00:05:49.780 Because my man could do all the blue jobs.
00:05:51.280 I need a man.
00:05:51.880 Because most men grow up with a PlayStation instead. 0.81
00:05:54.800 Most men grow up with a PlayStation and porn and things.
00:05:58.540 No, that's the truth.
00:06:00.040 Speak for yourself.
00:06:01.460 Speak for yourself.
00:06:02.160 I'm sorry, I don't need a mechanic and my boyfriend.
00:06:06.160 I need a father to my children.
00:06:08.520 I don't need a police officer.
00:06:11.360 She needs a father for her children, right? 0.98
00:06:13.000 So she's going to go out there and you're going to buy your child an electric car. 0.91
00:06:16.320 You're going to go and buy your child a bicycle.
00:06:18.400 Who the hell is going to put out the bicycle and fix the electric car?
00:06:20.980 Who's going to do it?
00:06:21.740 You've got YouTube.
00:06:22.600 I know how to do these things.
00:06:23.700 I fixed a Bentley before.
00:06:25.660 I fixed a Bentley.
00:06:27.120 And you can do everything yourself.
00:06:29.060 Go and get some sperm donor or something. 1.00
00:06:31.000 Because you obviously don't need a man. 0.97
00:06:32.800 That's the future, I think.
00:06:33.820 And the thing is, no, it's not a future for who?
00:06:35.580 No, of our society.
00:06:36.980 Because at the end of the day, right?
00:06:37.800 What year are you living in?
00:06:39.320 The year that you're supposed to live in.
00:06:41.380 Because, hang on a minute, when you are in the storage.
00:06:44.360 Let me finish talking.
00:06:45.340 Let me finish talking, right?
00:06:47.080 Now, you've got a man, right?
00:06:49.400 And you've been busy all day, right?
00:06:51.920 And you're in your bed at 1 o'clock in the morning.
00:06:54.200 And your man comes in with all of his friends.
00:06:57.180 And said, oh, babes, all the friends are here.
00:06:58.960 They're hungry.
00:06:59.340 What are you going to do?
00:07:00.540 Yeah, I cook for my man.
00:07:02.180 I'm a traditional woman in that aspect.
00:07:04.180 I love to cook for my man.
00:07:05.420 Why is it that when people start cooking, they think that cooking is traditional.
00:07:09.500 It's everything.
00:07:10.440 It's not just about cooking.
00:07:11.760 They always say, oh, I cook for my man, so I'm traditional.
00:07:14.360 I have a question.
00:07:14.840 No, no, no.
00:07:15.140 What the point is?
00:07:15.680 Wait, wait, wait.
00:07:16.740 I have a question.
00:07:17.620 Are you a virgin?
00:07:18.880 You're traditional or you're virgin?
00:07:19.900 Are you a virgin?
00:07:21.160 No, I said in that aspect.
00:07:23.960 I'm not going to comment on me being a virgin or not.
00:07:26.820 But what I'm going to say is every human being should be able to cook.
00:07:30.800 She's a hybrid of tradition and modernization.
00:07:33.680 I'm a person that survives.
00:07:34.580 You know, I need to cook to survive.
00:07:36.720 Can I ask Mr. Tate something, right?
00:07:39.020 I'm going to ask you something.
00:07:40.100 Sure.
00:07:41.220 Right, because I don't like bullshit, right?
00:07:44.220 And there's not certain people that I can't even be.
00:07:46.000 Why are you so excited?
00:07:46.360 Right, so I'm going to talk to him because so far, he's talking sense.
00:07:50.980 Thank you very much.
00:07:51.940 Thank you.
00:07:52.360 It's giving pick me.
00:07:53.620 Right.
00:07:54.460 Who said pick me?
00:07:56.220 Listen, who just said pick me?
00:07:57.400 They want me.
00:07:58.040 Don't look at me.
00:07:58.620 I said it.
00:07:59.340 I said it.
00:07:59.860 Give him pick me.
00:08:01.540 Give him.
00:08:01.780 Because he's having a whole conversation.
00:08:03.800 I don't want to talk to you.
00:08:05.240 I want to talk to Mr. Tate.
00:08:06.380 Hang on a minute.
00:08:06.780 Hang on a minute.
00:08:07.360 I've been with my man for 32 years.
00:08:09.760 Clap for yourself.
00:08:10.560 32 years.
00:08:11.380 I don't need to clap for myself because I'm happy.
00:08:13.740 I'm not here.
00:08:14.460 And what I was going to ask him, right, is how would you think a woman?
00:08:17.400 Would you think that woman? 1.00
00:08:18.620 Why are you shouting?
00:08:18.760 Can you calm down?
00:08:19.800 Just calm down.
00:08:20.780 I'm loud.
00:08:21.500 You don't want to hear me shout.
00:08:23.120 Anyway, Mr. Tate, like I was saying before, we got rudely interrupted, right?
00:08:26.420 Now, is this your idea of a woman that you think deserves a man? 1.00
00:08:31.780 I'm here.
00:08:33.660 Single.
00:08:34.840 But I'm looking.
00:08:36.700 I'm here.
00:08:37.280 I'm like taking, you know, if you want to hook me up, let me know.
00:08:40.140 And I just want anybody but choose.
00:08:42.500 How does that make you feel?
00:08:43.800 What is that kind of woman that you think deserves a man? 1.00
00:08:45.560 Well, he's a top G.
00:08:46.660 You can't be asking him this question.
00:08:47.540 But you don't want top G, isn't it?
00:08:49.040 We're mere mortals, auntie.
00:08:50.320 Speak for yourself.
00:08:50.880 I'm not mere mortal.
00:08:51.800 I'm a mere mortal in his presence.
00:08:53.600 Because nobody above me.
00:08:54.540 Come on now.
00:08:55.320 This kind of question be dazzle.
00:08:56.820 Auntie, unlike you, we have options.
00:08:58.500 I'm a mere mortal.
00:08:59.180 Unlike you, we have options, auntie.
00:09:01.400 If you have options, then where's your ring?
00:09:05.120 That is the most stupid thing.
00:09:06.620 Because I actually can choose.
00:09:08.260 I've not found a man that I don't want to be with.
00:09:10.160 Okay, that's the point.
00:09:11.440 I know your reality is you've got to beg a man to keep you. 0.77
00:09:15.540 Hang on a minute, hang on a minute, hang on a minute, hang on a minute, hang on a minute.
00:09:18.620 You said, unlike you, I have options.
00:09:20.820 We have options, yeah.
00:09:22.120 You're out here looking for a man.
00:09:23.760 You're out here saying that you're looking for a man.
00:09:25.160 Where did I say I was looking for a man?
00:09:26.660 Oh my gosh, you was at the advertising when we done the introductions.
00:09:30.940 That's what you said.
00:09:31.860 I said I was doing interviews.
00:09:32.640 That is what you said.
00:09:33.660 I didn't say I was going out looking for a man.
00:09:35.640 I said I'm doing interviews.
00:09:36.440 Hang on a minute.
00:09:37.080 You come to me.
00:09:38.060 I'm going to decide if I want you.
00:09:39.700 Mr. Tate, listen to this insult, right?
00:09:42.540 Listen to the insult.
00:09:43.340 I'm not insulting you.
00:09:44.460 Hang on, listen, what do you call it?
00:09:46.260 Sign language.
00:09:47.280 I'm learning.
00:09:48.260 Sign language, right?
00:09:49.640 Listen to what she just said to me.
00:09:51.260 Unlike you, I have options.
00:09:53.300 Fucking 32 years.
00:09:54.560 You think I want options?
00:09:55.520 I'm happy with my man.
00:09:56.280 It's giving, you don't really have much options though.
00:09:58.720 Because the way you're like, oh my, I'm paying.
00:10:00.700 Auntie, auntie, she meant clout.
00:10:03.520 Wait, wait.
00:10:04.000 She meant, she meant, Esther, I'm sure you didn't mean pick me.
00:10:08.060 You meant clout chaser.
00:10:09.680 Is that what it is?
00:10:10.360 It doesn't matter.
00:10:11.340 We could go with that too.
00:10:12.180 I'm sorry, I was just trying to clarify your problem.
00:10:14.460 There ain't no problem.
00:10:14.960 I was just saying.
00:10:15.820 There ain't no problem.
00:10:15.980 Okay, wait, wait, wait.
00:10:16.640 So.
00:10:16.880 You guys use that.
00:10:17.140 I've totally lost it.
00:10:18.260 I just.
00:10:18.540 Why would I want to have options when I've been in a happy relationship for 32 years?
00:10:22.200 No, clout chases his fans.
00:10:23.640 It don't make no sense.
00:10:24.440 I just, I just.
00:10:25.240 You can monetize on YouTube with clout.
00:10:26.960 Why are you calling her a pick me when you were the one advertising at the beginning of the show?
00:10:30.440 I said, I'm doing interviews.
00:10:31.980 I wasn't advertising nothing.
00:10:33.660 It's banter.
00:10:34.580 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:10:35.580 Do you guys understand what an interview means?
00:10:37.660 Okay.
00:10:38.000 All right.
00:10:38.540 All right.
00:10:38.660 She's being spicy, guys.
00:10:40.380 Stop it.
00:10:41.020 Auntie had a question for Andrew.
00:10:43.000 Oh, yeah.
00:10:43.220 What was your question?
00:10:43.800 Oh, she asked already.
00:10:44.720 He didn't answer because everybody's too busy jumping in.
00:10:46.280 Don't ask your question.
00:10:46.920 Everybody's too busy jumping in.
00:10:48.160 I already asked, but you're not too busy jumping in and being women. 1.00
00:10:51.460 He's patient.
00:10:52.080 To be listening.
00:10:52.760 He's ready to get married.
00:10:53.640 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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