JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


When THEY SAY ＂I DON'T Need a MAN＂


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

240.25026

Word Count

2,688

Sentence Count

336

Misogynist Sentences

30

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What would you do if one of these security guards broke into your door?
00:00:04.640 What would I do?
00:00:05.980 Okay, I'll tell you.
00:00:07.460 What would you do?
00:00:08.180 What would you do?
00:00:08.700 No, no, seriously, there's no guns here.
00:00:09.920 She's a feminist.
00:00:10.480 I'll tell you.
00:00:11.160 No, I'm not a feminist.
00:00:12.020 She was straight, as they tell me.
00:00:13.660 I'm not a feminist.
00:00:15.240 I'm a bit smarter.
00:00:17.340 Either I'd play dead, one.
00:00:20.440 Okay, they see you're not dead.
00:00:22.160 It's okay.
00:00:23.040 No, I'd be like this.
00:00:24.380 And then if not, maybe I would kind of like be very gentle and comply to find a way to
00:00:28.780 get out of it.
00:00:29.320 If they want to come and kill me, there's not much that many people can do.
00:00:32.700 But let's make an important point.
00:00:33.480 You're talking about equality equaling respect.
00:00:35.380 The way you get respect as a woman is by being feminine.
00:00:38.000 There's nothing.
00:00:39.080 We can be equal and very, very different.
00:00:41.180 I'm not saying that when there's not equality, but you've confused equality with the same.
00:00:44.960 You can be equal with completely different things.
00:00:46.680 You can have a bishop and a knight on a chessboard.
00:00:48.660 They're equal in terms of points, but they do different things, right?
00:00:51.160 A woman can have equal respect to a man if she is very good at being a woman.
00:00:54.600 And a man gets respect for being very good at being a man.
00:00:56.620 When a woman decides she wants to act like a man or a man wants to act like a woman, that's
00:00:59.720 where all gets fucked up.
00:01:00.480 We try and pretend it's all the same.
00:01:01.560 It's not the same.
00:01:02.740 Men and women are good at different things.
00:01:04.300 We have different strengths, different weaknesses.
00:01:05.840 There's nothing wrong with accepting that.
00:01:07.400 There's nothing wrong with saying, I'm a woman.
00:01:08.540 I'm good at X.
00:01:09.100 He's a man.
00:01:09.540 He's good at Y.
00:01:10.360 Then we work together as a team.
00:01:11.480 We have a beautiful family.
00:01:12.280 We're happy forever.
00:01:12.880 It's only confused where you have women who sit and go, no, because in the name of equality,
00:01:17.420 we can fight in war.
00:01:18.420 There's no fucking women on the front line in Ukraine.
00:01:20.820 That is silent bullshit.
00:01:22.360 They put some chick there dancing around with Pokemon dances to try and convince men to
00:01:25.700 go fucking die in a ditch.
00:01:27.040 It's garbage.
00:01:27.600 If you go to the front line in Ukraine right now, you do not see women in their makeup
00:01:30.220 and their manicures.
00:01:30.900 You see fucking men in the freezing cold dying.
00:01:33.580 You know where the women are?
00:01:34.700 Dubai.
00:01:35.420 Chilling.
00:01:36.060 That's where the women are.
00:01:36.820 So to sit and pretend that women are just as capable physically as men is a fucking
00:01:41.000 lie.
00:01:41.400 It's delusion.
00:01:42.260 To say that you're as strong as men is delusion.
00:01:44.480 You are good at other things.
00:01:45.920 You're better than men at a lot of things, but it's not the physical world.
00:01:49.760 And the unfortunate reality about life, this is what we're saying when I was saying earlier
00:01:53.000 that feminism goes out the window when things get hard.
00:01:55.020 The harder the world gets, the closer it gets to the baseline of humanity, the unfortunate
00:01:59.560 baseline of humanity is violence.
00:02:02.340 That's what happens.
00:02:03.080 Because of all the electricity were to go out and all the police sort of quit, this
00:02:06.580 would become a violent place very quickly and there would be fucking zero feminists
00:02:09.980 left.
00:02:10.620 Zero.
00:02:11.120 You would all need men.
00:02:12.640 That's the bottom line of reality.
00:02:14.200 That's the bottom line.
00:02:15.140 So you have to understand as a woman and say, okay, I need a man who's good at being a man.
00:02:18.640 But no one's saying that we don't need men in society.
00:02:21.120 Of course we do.
00:02:22.000 We're talking about relationships.
00:02:23.720 Yeah, you're strong.
00:02:24.680 But the thing is, I can live my life as a woman and not need a man.
00:02:28.600 What's a woman?
00:02:29.140 Oh, Pearl, stop it for me.
00:02:33.960 In my day-to-day life, I don't need a man to fix my car.
00:02:37.120 I'll just go to the mechanic.
00:02:37.900 But this one, right?
00:02:38.740 But is the mechanic a man or a woman?
00:02:40.960 No, no.
00:02:41.400 I'm saying, yes, we need men in society.
00:02:43.580 But in relationship, the only reason I actually need you is because I want you.
00:02:47.360 I don't actually need you.
00:02:48.760 Do you know what?
00:02:49.240 To have babies.
00:02:50.160 I need you to procreate.
00:02:52.220 Yes, I agree.
00:02:53.280 But the things, I don't need you in my day-to-day life.
00:02:55.640 But wait, what if someone breaks into your house?
00:02:58.100 I'll just call the police.
00:02:59.700 Okay, what if they don't come?
00:03:01.360 What if the average is...
00:03:02.260 Play beds.
00:03:03.180 In the US, it takes like 15 minutes.
00:03:04.400 And give them everything.
00:03:05.640 In the US, it takes like 15 minutes for them to get there.
00:03:08.520 But that's not realistic.
00:03:09.600 That doesn't happen on a day-to-day life.
00:03:11.760 These two guys in your house, what are you doing?
00:03:14.480 But that's not realistic.
00:03:15.820 I've not had any man break into my house on a day-to-day.
00:03:18.720 It doesn't happen.
00:03:19.920 The point is...
00:03:20.440 So let's be realistic now.
00:03:21.700 I know what you're saying, but the point is this.
00:03:23.680 The point is, when we're talking about feminism as a whole, feminism as a whole demonizes men.
00:03:28.660 And you just sat and said, besides procreation, I don't need a man in my life.
00:03:32.500 I can go to a male mechanic or call a male police officer.
00:03:35.100 They're men.
00:03:35.840 So it's...
00:03:36.400 In society, you are needed.
00:03:38.380 I agree.
00:03:38.960 I agree.
00:03:39.600 Of course.
00:03:40.140 We need you.
00:03:40.780 Of course.
00:03:41.320 So you're talking about being with a man because you want to.
00:03:44.700 So my question to you is, why would you want to be with a man?
00:03:47.440 Why would a man want to be with you?
00:03:48.860 Because they're sexy.
00:03:49.780 Like, obviously...
00:03:50.780 I feel like because of the combination that got something in between their legs.
00:03:54.180 Sorry, I love men.
00:03:55.740 I love dick, okay?
00:03:56.480 We don't say like it, but it's not all about dick.
00:03:58.360 What I'm trying to say is that in a good relationship, right, one that works, there's blue jobs and there's pink jobs, right?
00:04:05.340 And that's the problem that women have got.
00:04:06.960 Oh, jeez.
00:04:07.360 They don't want to be doing no pink jobs.
00:04:09.040 But that's not what we're talking about.
00:04:10.460 I don't even think that's what we're talking about.
00:04:11.420 We're talking about relationships.
00:04:12.880 Why do you need a man in a relationship?
00:04:14.820 Because you want a partner.
00:04:16.160 Companionship, friendship, romantic love, things that you can't get by yourself.
00:04:21.200 Like, you want to go on dates with him?
00:04:23.280 It's not about, I need someone to fix my car.
00:04:25.600 Like, go to a mechanic.
00:04:27.640 You're not safe.
00:04:28.620 Call the police.
00:04:29.540 Like, it's not that deep.
00:04:31.020 Wait, wait.
00:04:31.680 What about a father to your kids?
00:04:33.380 You don't think your kids need a dad.
00:04:33.880 Exactly.
00:04:34.700 You can be around.
00:04:35.460 I definitely want that.
00:04:36.600 These are the stuff.
00:04:37.220 This is the reason why you need a man.
00:04:38.600 No, you need that.
00:04:38.980 And I agree.
00:04:40.080 Wait, wait, wait.
00:04:41.040 It's not that you want it.
00:04:42.180 You need it.
00:04:42.800 I agree.
00:04:43.620 And these are the stuff that I need in a man.
00:04:45.440 But it's like, at the end of the day, it's not like I completely need you.
00:04:49.420 It's like, I love you.
00:04:50.500 But the whole point is if the lights went out tomorrow, you would need a man.
00:04:54.240 In society, agreed.
00:04:55.540 Why do we add like women are so useless?
00:04:58.520 I'm not that easy.
00:04:59.140 I can change a tie.
00:04:59.960 I'm saying if the lights went out tomorrow, you would need someone to protect you.
00:05:05.260 You would.
00:05:05.620 Of course.
00:05:06.220 In society.
00:05:07.140 Not my boyfriend.
00:05:07.720 I'll go underground.
00:05:08.460 I'll go on the ground.
00:05:08.560 I'll go on the ground.
00:05:08.840 Half of my exes can't even do anything.
00:05:11.640 That's actually another problem.
00:05:13.020 A lot of men can't do much.
00:05:13.940 Do you know what I mean?
00:05:14.580 Not everybody is strong.
00:05:16.080 In this day and age, guys can't even fit a tie on.
00:05:18.580 You cannot.
00:05:19.260 It's actually ridiculous.
00:05:20.460 No, no, no.
00:05:20.880 A woman can't cook.
00:05:21.620 Not you, my sister.
00:05:22.440 But I can cook.
00:05:23.320 I can cook.
00:05:23.920 Speak to your brothers.
00:05:24.520 And the thing is, I'm not even.
00:05:26.000 Speak to your brothers.
00:05:26.540 They don't know how to do nothing.
00:05:27.380 I'm not even saying.
00:05:28.520 Guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:05:29.300 We have to do one at a time.
00:05:30.980 Can I just say something?
00:05:32.640 This is why you can't blame all men for your poor choices.
00:05:37.520 You can't say, I'm talking to both of you because you're saying, yeah, my man can't do this.
00:05:42.200 My man can't do that.
00:05:43.480 And you want to settle down.
00:05:44.820 Why would you go and choose a man that can't do these things that you wanted them to do?
00:05:49.780 Because my man could do all the blue jobs.
00:05:51.280 I need a man.
00:05:51.880 Because most men grow up with a PlayStation instead.
00:05:54.800 Most men grow up with a PlayStation and porn and things.
00:05:58.540 No, that's the truth.
00:06:00.040 Speak for yourself.
00:06:01.460 Speak for yourself.
00:06:02.160 I'm sorry, I don't need a mechanic and my boyfriend.
00:06:06.160 I need a father to my children.
00:06:08.520 I don't need a police officer.
00:06:11.360 She needs a father for her children, right?
00:06:13.000 So she's going to go out there and you're going to buy your child an electric car.
00:06:16.320 You're going to go and buy your child a bicycle.
00:06:18.400 Who the hell is going to put out the bicycle and fix the electric car?
00:06:20.980 Who's going to do it?
00:06:21.740 You've got YouTube.
00:06:22.600 I know how to do these things.
00:06:23.700 I fixed a Bentley before.
00:06:25.660 I fixed a Bentley.
00:06:27.120 And you can do everything yourself.
00:06:29.060 Go and get some sperm donor or something.
00:06:31.000 Because you obviously don't need a man.
00:06:32.800 That's the future, I think.
00:06:33.820 And the thing is, no, it's not a future for who?
00:06:35.580 No, of our society.
00:06:36.980 Because at the end of the day, right?
00:06:37.800 What year are you living in?
00:06:39.320 The year that you're supposed to live in.
00:06:41.380 Because, hang on a minute, when you are in the storage.
00:06:44.360 Let me finish talking.
00:06:45.340 Let me finish talking, right?
00:06:47.080 Now, you've got a man, right?
00:06:49.400 And you've been busy all day, right?
00:06:51.920 And you're in your bed at 1 o'clock in the morning.
00:06:54.200 And your man comes in with all of his friends.
00:06:57.180 And said, oh, babes, all the friends are here.
00:06:58.960 They're hungry.
00:06:59.340 What are you going to do?
00:07:00.540 Yeah, I cook for my man.
00:07:02.180 I'm a traditional woman in that aspect.
00:07:04.180 I love to cook for my man.
00:07:05.420 Why is it that when people start cooking, they think that cooking is traditional.
00:07:09.500 It's everything.
00:07:10.440 It's not just about cooking.
00:07:11.760 They always say, oh, I cook for my man, so I'm traditional.
00:07:14.360 I have a question.
00:07:14.840 No, no, no.
00:07:15.140 What the point is?
00:07:15.680 Wait, wait, wait.
00:07:16.740 I have a question.
00:07:17.620 Are you a virgin?
00:07:18.880 You're traditional or you're virgin?
00:07:19.900 Are you a virgin?
00:07:21.160 No, I said in that aspect.
00:07:23.960 I'm not going to comment on me being a virgin or not.
00:07:26.820 But what I'm going to say is every human being should be able to cook.
00:07:30.800 She's a hybrid of tradition and modernization.
00:07:33.680 I'm a person that survives.
00:07:34.580 You know, I need to cook to survive.
00:07:36.720 Can I ask Mr. Tate something, right?
00:07:39.020 I'm going to ask you something.
00:07:40.100 Sure.
00:07:41.220 Right, because I don't like bullshit, right?
00:07:44.220 And there's not certain people that I can't even be.
00:07:46.000 Why are you so excited?
00:07:46.360 Right, so I'm going to talk to him because so far, he's talking sense.
00:07:50.980 Thank you very much.
00:07:51.940 Thank you.
00:07:52.360 It's giving pick me.
00:07:53.620 Right.
00:07:54.460 Who said pick me?
00:07:56.220 Listen, who just said pick me?
00:07:57.400 They want me.
00:07:58.040 Don't look at me.
00:07:58.620 I said it.
00:07:59.340 I said it.
00:07:59.860 Give him pick me.
00:08:01.540 Give him.
00:08:01.780 Because he's having a whole conversation.
00:08:03.800 I don't want to talk to you.
00:08:05.240 I want to talk to Mr. Tate.
00:08:06.380 Hang on a minute.
00:08:06.780 Hang on a minute.
00:08:07.360 I've been with my man for 32 years.
00:08:09.760 Clap for yourself.
00:08:10.560 32 years.
00:08:11.380 I don't need to clap for myself because I'm happy.
00:08:13.740 I'm not here.
00:08:14.460 And what I was going to ask him, right, is how would you think a woman?
00:08:17.400 Would you think that woman?
00:08:18.620 Why are you shouting?
00:08:18.760 Can you calm down?
00:08:19.800 Just calm down.
00:08:20.780 I'm loud.
00:08:21.500 You don't want to hear me shout.
00:08:23.120 Anyway, Mr. Tate, like I was saying before, we got rudely interrupted, right?
00:08:26.420 Now, is this your idea of a woman that you think deserves a man?
00:08:31.780 I'm here.
00:08:33.660 Single.
00:08:34.840 But I'm looking.
00:08:36.700 I'm here.
00:08:37.280 I'm like taking, you know, if you want to hook me up, let me know.
00:08:40.140 And I just want anybody but choose.
00:08:42.500 How does that make you feel?
00:08:43.800 What is that kind of woman that you think deserves a man?
00:08:45.560 Well, he's a top G.
00:08:46.660 You can't be asking him this question.
00:08:47.540 But you don't want top G, isn't it?
00:08:49.040 We're mere mortals, auntie.
00:08:50.320 Speak for yourself.
00:08:50.880 I'm not mere mortal.
00:08:51.800 I'm a mere mortal in his presence.
00:08:53.600 Because nobody above me.
00:08:54.540 Come on now.
00:08:55.320 This kind of question be dazzle.
00:08:56.820 Auntie, unlike you, we have options.
00:08:58.500 I'm a mere mortal.
00:08:59.180 Unlike you, we have options, auntie.
00:09:01.400 If you have options, then where's your ring?
00:09:05.120 That is the most stupid thing.
00:09:06.620 Because I actually can choose.
00:09:08.260 I've not found a man that I don't want to be with.
00:09:10.160 Okay, that's the point.
00:09:11.440 I know your reality is you've got to beg a man to keep you.
00:09:15.540 Hang on a minute, hang on a minute, hang on a minute, hang on a minute, hang on a minute.
00:09:18.620 You said, unlike you, I have options.
00:09:20.820 We have options, yeah.
00:09:22.120 You're out here looking for a man.
00:09:23.760 You're out here saying that you're looking for a man.
00:09:25.160 Where did I say I was looking for a man?
00:09:26.660 Oh my gosh, you was at the advertising when we done the introductions.
00:09:30.940 That's what you said.
00:09:31.860 I said I was doing interviews.
00:09:32.640 That is what you said.
00:09:33.660 I didn't say I was going out looking for a man.
00:09:35.640 I said I'm doing interviews.
00:09:36.440 Hang on a minute.
00:09:37.080 You come to me.
00:09:38.060 I'm going to decide if I want you.
00:09:39.700 Mr. Tate, listen to this insult, right?
00:09:42.540 Listen to the insult.
00:09:43.340 I'm not insulting you.
00:09:44.460 Hang on, listen, what do you call it?
00:09:46.260 Sign language.
00:09:47.280 I'm learning.
00:09:48.260 Sign language, right?
00:09:49.640 Listen to what she just said to me.
00:09:51.260 Unlike you, I have options.
00:09:53.300 Fucking 32 years.
00:09:54.560 You think I want options?
00:09:55.520 I'm happy with my man.
00:09:56.280 It's giving, you don't really have much options though.
00:09:58.720 Because the way you're like, oh my, I'm paying.
00:10:00.700 Auntie, auntie, she meant clout.
00:10:03.520 Wait, wait.
00:10:04.000 She meant, she meant, Esther, I'm sure you didn't mean pick me.
00:10:08.060 You meant clout chaser.
00:10:09.680 Is that what it is?
00:10:10.360 It doesn't matter.
00:10:11.340 We could go with that too.
00:10:12.180 I'm sorry, I was just trying to clarify your problem.
00:10:14.460 There ain't no problem.
00:10:14.960 I was just saying.
00:10:15.820 There ain't no problem.
00:10:15.980 Okay, wait, wait, wait.
00:10:16.640 So.
00:10:16.880 You guys use that.
00:10:17.140 I've totally lost it.
00:10:18.260 I just.
00:10:18.540 Why would I want to have options when I've been in a happy relationship for 32 years?
00:10:22.200 No, clout chases his fans.
00:10:23.640 It don't make no sense.
00:10:24.440 I just, I just.
00:10:25.240 You can monetize on YouTube with clout.
00:10:26.960 Why are you calling her a pick me when you were the one advertising at the beginning of the show?
00:10:30.440 I said, I'm doing interviews.
00:10:31.980 I wasn't advertising nothing.
00:10:33.660 It's banter.
00:10:34.580 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:10:35.580 Do you guys understand what an interview means?
00:10:37.660 Okay.
00:10:38.000 All right.
00:10:38.540 All right.
00:10:38.660 She's being spicy, guys.
00:10:40.380 Stop it.
00:10:41.020 Auntie had a question for Andrew.
00:10:43.000 Oh, yeah.
00:10:43.220 What was your question?
00:10:43.800 Oh, she asked already.
00:10:44.720 He didn't answer because everybody's too busy jumping in.
00:10:46.280 Don't ask your question.
00:10:46.920 Everybody's too busy jumping in.
00:10:48.160 I already asked, but you're not too busy jumping in and being women.
00:10:51.460 He's patient.
00:10:52.080 To be listening.
00:10:52.760 He's ready to get married.
00:10:53.640 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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