When Wives Cheat (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
The future is female. Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage and why it s bad for men to get married. A dozen women being asked the question, Do we need men? Most answered, No, because men are useless.
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A dozen women being asked the following question, do we need men?
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Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,
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and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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We tell them to put off family into marriage.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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If you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally,
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the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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Women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when
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I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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They think, well, men have all the rights.
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among
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What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get-
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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And today we are going to be talking about when modern wives cheat.
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But before we get into today's topic, I want to send a thank you to Aaron Lev.
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I'm not going to say the ad because I don't want to dox anybody.
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Guys, we are 500 bucks away from raising $30,000 for the divorce documentary.
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I want to first say thank you guys all so much.
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It really means a lot to me if we get to roughly $100,000.
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I can hire a full-time editor on site to get this done.
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So anyways, I wanted to first say thank you guys so much.
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And, um, if you do want to donate, it's the second link in the description.
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Otherwise, we are starting a members only community where you can improve your fitness,
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your money, and also it teaches you how to use the court system against your ex.
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Not immoral, not illegal, slightly immoral, but it's in the, it's in the, um,
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I kind of want to just start off the show telling you guys about a conversation I had
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and just some of my general thoughts before we get into the topic.
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So there was somebody that I had a conversation with that was like, person C was pissed off
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Some woman watches your show and they just feel the need to nag you or send men that are
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So this person comes up to me and they're like, all right, what is your platform about?
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And I was trying to think of how I could give an overview of what I'm trying to say and like
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Are you trying to, and I'm like, I'd love to see change, but I don't really, I don't
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And this person was like, well, things change all the time.
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And the best way I could describe it to somebody that doesn't follow the content is women make
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And what we're seeing going on is society is trying to give women as much money as possible
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in order to give us the power to make them money.
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So plastic surgeons benefit if women spend money on plastic surgery.
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Um, restaurants benefit if women are going out to the restaurants with their friends.
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And the reason academia is so messed up is because any study that says anything negative about
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women, isn't going to be funded because women are behind everything.
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I'm like, look, all of society is catering to women.
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They give women easier grades in high school, not all, but a lot.
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They give women easier jobs after college and they give, they pay women more for doing less
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and they bail women out of debt and men end up paying for it either through marriage or
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through our taxes or through some government bailout program.
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And, um, um, now that women have all this power and freedom, we're finding out that women's
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true nature is that they don't want to be moms and they're whores.
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They're like sleeping with middle schoolers and killing kids every other week.
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Women's true nature is not nice, special, and awesome.
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And this person was like, well, isn't that kind of bleak?
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And I'm like, yeah, but why do I have to be, and some of your comments from yesterday's
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show, a lot of them were saying, I've watched you forever, Pearl.
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You know, I've, I've poured so much into this channel, but.
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You know, your new messaging is just, um, it's so sad.
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I had to think about how did I get to this point?
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Why do I, why was I so much more hopeful two or three years ago than I am now?
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And I would say it's because when I started seeing men's point of view and kind of arguing
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more on the side of men, people started treating me like a man.
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Calling out female sin, you get treated just like men.
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Because you, you might say, like, if I say women are whores, I have to deal with 10 women
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screaming at me that they're not in fact whores before I can even get to my point that you
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just start to be like, do I really want to go into this today?
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And I think that's what men go through is they realize if they're honest with women,
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women, they either lose money or they get screamed at and it's just not worth the hassle.
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Like I saw Jesse Lee Peterson and I'm a big fan of him, but he had something, he said,
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They have the state on their side, the police on their side, the media on their side.
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I'm even afraid to be honest about things that have gone on the last few years.
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Because if I'm honest, these women retaliate.
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But when somebody's blue-pilled, it is so difficult to explain this to them because this person
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And I always respect someone's right to have a difference of opinion or not agree with me or whatever.
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But I was trying to explain to this person that men literally produce 80% of the world's stuff.
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How the hell are we even close to making the same amount of money?
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Anyways, I just kind of wanted to give you guys that rant.
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I haven't decided if I'm going to stream tomorrow or not.
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But we're going to do a show tomorrow where you guys can call in the people that maybe have
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changed their opinion about me or feel as though I've changed.
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You know, it's really going to ask the question, why should we have hope?
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Let me know if you have any thoughts in the comments.
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But we are going to get into today's show topic.
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Now, I've said for years that marriage is a bad deal for men.
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Now, when I first started my platform, I was very naive.
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I thought that there was a reason for men to get married.
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I didn't understand why men didn't want to get married.
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Even if they divorced, it didn't seem that bad on paper.
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When you start getting red-pilled, and I'll tell you what.
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I'll give you an example of something that red-pilled me.
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So, when I interviewed the 1,000 women, and I realized how often women lied about abuse.
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Because I would ask, the women would say they were abused.
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And they would just, their story would fall apart.
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Now, if these women are all lying about this, what does that mean about, like, the general population?
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Like, that has to extrapolate to, like, my childhood.
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And there was one man who was a soldier in my hometown, but he was deployed.
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And his wife, that was the story, that he was abusive.
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And so, years later, because you hear these stories, and you're just like, oh, he must have been abusive.
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And years later, retrospectively, you realize that the guy wasn't.
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Like, it probably took him a decade to clear his reputation.
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Because from my perspective, you know, men are often silent about what they're going through in marriage.
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There were so many benefits for men, I used to think.
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But after doing my show in London, filming a divorce documentary, and just observing modern women in society, I realized how wrong I was.
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And the risk you take from getting married is not worth the cost of getting divorced.
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He's going to have to marry one of these modern women, who value their happiness and their selfish desires more than anything.
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It's estimated that 24% of women cheat on their boyfriends and their husbands.
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Meaning, we all know that women rarely say anything to make themselves or other women look bad.
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The average man has to have a plan for, not if, but when, their girlfriend cheats on them.
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So, as I go through these clips, I want you to get ready to call in and talk about if you caught your wife or your girlfriend cheating on you, how did you find out?
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I also want to know if she gaslit as hard as these women do in these videos.
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This is what she turned Jehovah's Witness for.
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She, she, like, if you see my daughter, my daughter's on the ground, bro.
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Next, we got wife catches, or man catches his wife in Walmart with another man.
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There is nothing sadder than a guy catching a girl cheating and still trying to order his wife
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We got a man catching his wife at the pool with another man.
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So if you're so good, you've got to tell you what.
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If I'm at work, how did you know I was doing it?
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all right next we got a man surprises a woman with a video of her cheating
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that's you cheating on me so get the fuck my house right now all right sit on the street
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you're punching over I know okay you ready okay
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I made a card for you remove the blindfold yeah that's you cheating on me so get the
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fuck out of my house right now I'm glad you drove an hour for no reason and this is going
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on YouTube sweetheart I know you don't care get the fuck out get out get out of my house
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right now leave hey YouTube you're gonna be famous sweetheart yeah she had a good reaction
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now I'm just if I was to advise a cheater I'd just say to stay calm because this guy like
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he's trying to exert authority he doesn't have anymore so trying to make her sad she doesn't
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leave leave leave and leave okay um all right apparently someone else caught his wife cheating
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he said that's not what it looks like oh that's hilarious oh and I want to see this one
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actually my wife for 10 years yeah 10 years boy
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well looks like both of you are in real big trouble but you know what
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I'm gonna let you go just for this one time 10 miles usually I pull people over giving really
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big tickets but you didn't know this is my wife you don't know so you lied to him you never told him
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me and you were married never asked I mean like I like perfect work like it's all the things
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like we say barriers like that's basic you don't have them help you know I mean you didn't ask
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well I mean like you're on my tenders like what are you doing okay well sir
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women gaslight to the end of time we say why do you enjoy watching the men getting crushed
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there are times when it's just go don't go out sad do you know what I mean
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if a girl tells you she doesn't want you through her actions or her words
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just let her go um sir I've had enough of this you are good to go
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I don't I'm not shaking your head don't let me see you again
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we're gonna make it full screen here you mean what I'm doing it's my house
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no hell yeah we together 23 years what the phone is too much what is going I mean the phone is too
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much no we're not separated man we got two kids together you ain't telling that
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I'm putting out nothing this is going on Facebook live
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are you filming this yes I'm filming this look what we got here we got campaign
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strawberry orange juice oh look over here Facebook we got some bacon grits yeah it's
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pretty nice pretty nice pretty nice food we got some bacon grits
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pancakes yeah I'm filming this why we're not doing this I'm gonna post it Facebook live let's go live everybody
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you think I found out 23 years at the house the neighbors told me
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dude the comments are saying with Bart Simpson with him you can't film this I
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have a guy wife and kids well so did the guy filming it's not his fault for
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thinking that the wife was separated but it is his fault for stepping out of his
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own marriage yeah all right he was helping her out with groceries let's see
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this next one oh wait we saw this one oh we know okay
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I was just about to help her with her groceries
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i was just about to help her with her groceries
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i was about to help her with her grocery bro stop here bro
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what's up playing with me bro bro why are you going to the pool bro why are you coming at me
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bro we just saw y'all cuddled up and talking and laughing like
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groceries bro he was talking about going to get the groceries why are you pressing me for like
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this is my cousin uh it's y'all cousins yes my cousin was helping me bring the groceries
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he's black and you're mexican doing that again and black so y'all won't do nothing
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they're like what's going on yeah i can't decide who's the guy getting cheated on if it's the big
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guy you kind of did that to yourself a girl that thin she's gonna cheat after so long
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you're up here by yourself and why you want to answer his phone cause he calls you
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so cooked all right next we got a woman cheated with her co-worker
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i don't know so you stop playing that the dude already showed me the message i'm i'm on it
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what are you talking about you don't know so if i hit him up you you're not gonna know him
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you know him you know you've been around so that's my co-worker that's like my friend that's
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like my partner i know his girlfriend yeah well his girlfriend know that you
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did you definitely put your your partner hold on cool we my brother like my bro
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doesn't see i know how that game just look just it's cool i'm not tripping get your and get out
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i like this guy's reaction he's not saying oh you're gonna be youtube famous
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he said it's cool i'm not tripping get your and get out that's it i'm not sure you just get up
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you're gonna go about with somebody get your things and get the out please
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you're gonna do this on christmas eve it's not it's not
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if you yep yes he is okay next husband catches wife cheating we got the last one let's put the
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zoom link in the chat and you guys can tell me if you've caught someone cheating how it happened
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what are you doing why are you recording me say hi hi hello what you doing here
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oh tiffany yeah i'm gonna ask you one more time what are you doing here i already told you i'm going
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to meet tiffany so um what about mitchell the personal trainer you don't know
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anyone else got got by a personal trainer that'll do it and the jujitsu instructors
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you don't know i'm talking about no you know the one you sent your list to you don't remember that
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one so you've been going through my phone no i mentioned i can't get your ass to catch you
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what i i tried to touch you i knew yeah i knew why do some like that
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i can't believe this how the you're gonna do this this is wild man it's a thing i'm about to make you
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my wife oh yeah right it's been three years oh three years so what's this baby what's this
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what's this huh what's that what's that huh what's that oh uh uh she's like damn
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don't touch me you're a five dollar what she's going to do meet up with them suckers they'll come
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back and kiss me in the mall and i get more you're just talking do you not know that that's in your lips
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all right guys call in i want to hear from you have you caught your ex cheating and if so how
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what type of guys was she cheating with we got doug mpa on the line hey how are you
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i'm fantastic so tell me what are your thoughts on the show so i um i waited tables uh at this
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restaurant in my hometown and this waitress she was out for a couple of weeks and then she came
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back and she was like half limping and i'm like what happened to you she's like yeah you know i got in
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a car accident well you know i come from a town that's big it's a big town but a small town socially
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and so you know i i did i researched my sources and i found out that um
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her and her baby's father they were breaking up and getting back together breaking up and getting
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back together right and so they were they were in an in-between period and she was at target
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and she saw her baby's father with another woman
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and no it's funny because yeah i know this girl since um i've known this girl since ellen mitchie
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school she's one of those light-skinned black girls but a lot of the light-skinned black girls
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they overcompensate in the ratchet to to try to prove how black they are you know i'm saying okay
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so anyway so she's one of those so she's yelling and screaming in target she's running after them so
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her baby's father grabs his girlfriend's hand and they're running through target and she's running
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after him they jump in the girl's car and take off she takes off in her car and she's ramming them
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off the road like she she's driving she's driving after him catches up to him rams him off the road
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into a light pole yeah yep and so she did they get back together uh i don't even i didn't even ask
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back then i don't even know but i just know that she had to go to the hospital because of the car
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accident and she was on muscle relaxers and had to go through physical therapy because of the car
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accident but she chased him in her car and then ran him off the road and hit a light pole
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pearl reed um i showed 10 seconds of nala ray to my girlfriend and she agreed with you completely um
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that's after 30 stop asking why i don't get why men have to record but i guess it's to show proof
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that they weren't abusive when they exposed the cheater here's the thing guys women record everything
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so men should do it's always better to have a camera out and catch things on camera you don't
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know why men have to record what kind of what is that about always work especially as a man if a woman's
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in your house and does anything whip out your phone and record it it's your best chance when the police
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come and stop trying to hold men to this higher standard men used to hold themselves to a higher
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standard but women called that patriarchy so don't you know fight fire with fire if women record everything
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you should too is there anyone on the line yeah uh-huh trying to think there's oh actually i do have
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a cheating story this wasn't me but this was someone i knew in school how she caught her boyfriend cheating
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she had he she had his location so i don't know why um he would like do it so openly when you know
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like it's kind of normal in the younger generations people just share each other's location dumbest thing
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i've ever heard what it's the dumbest thing i ever heard but but that's how i caught my ex-wife cheating
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could you better okay you can tell the story next but this guy but i kind of knew because
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i warned her before she dated him i'm like look this guy he's do what you want but i'm just letting
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you know he's always cheated she kept going i'm like okay because she was like a young freshman girl
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right and long story short she finds his location is at his ex-girlfriend's dorm that was that was at
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a school nearby like 30 minutes but on the phone it was kind of crazy because he like had this whole
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elaborate story and he was like oh my like he kept saying that people were suicidal
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so because i was there when he she was on the phone with him and he was like oh she was threatening
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to commit suicide so i had to come there's all these like cops here and whatever and there was
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another girl there and she was like could you just go check this dorm because she knew someone at that
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school so she's like is there an ambulance there is there which we all knew was kind of bs but this guy
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just like it was weird listening to him because he just was like dying on this lie and then it got
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even weirder because then she like broke up with him and then he was threatening to kill himself
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like he was like oh i'll kill myself and then we got on the phone like she was like calling his family
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to make sure he did it this is wrong this is when we were like 20 or 21 and it was so weird because
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the sister like did not care like i think he did this on the regular with his girlfriends because
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she was like really concerned on the phone and like talking to the sister and the mom like oh he's
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threatening to kill himself and they're just like uh-huh and i'm sitting there like why are you buying this so
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we took this one step further the girl so the girl that i'm talking about she was like a light-skinned
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like black girl and basically he he like transferred or something but he went to a different school but
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it was like pretty close because where i went there was like a lot of small schools like right next to
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each other and i figured like they're mostly white schools so i figured he had a type he probably liked
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light-skinned like black girls so um i basically i knew like it's such a small school that everyone
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knows someone at one of these schools and they ended up getting like screenshots from one of the girls
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like we just looked at the rosters on um on like the volleyball and basketball pages and so it's like if
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you look up like the light-skinned black girls at like a white school there's only going to be so
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many do you know what i'm saying like there's like five girls to ask and yeah they found a side chick
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in like a day so it wasn't that hard but i'll be honest though they stayed together i've talked about
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this before that was the last time i ever involved myself in something like that because it was very
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awkward for me because they stayed together ugh i know they stayed together after all that and he
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like hated me and this other because it was like the freshman girl and then me and this other girl
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that were like there and he hated it was so awkward after that he was like so pissed and i was like you
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know what hindsight 2020 i should just never have gotten involved never okay i was like i learned the
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lesson i was like because i think i took it too far but i shouldn't have um messaged the girls at the
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other schools but i'm like it's so easy like just ask and hindsight 2020 maybe i but we did get
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screenshots of him like dming them in like a day it wasn't that hard i told you guys the story about
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my relationship with my mom most of my life she was awful but she did give me some good advice she
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told you when i was young if a girl tries to do that i'm gonna kill myself don't fall for it and you
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know it's a good response if someone tries to say that to you and you're in a relationship with her
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are you breaking up with them she said you know you you know what you should say say go ahead
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i know go ahead do it yeah don't let anyone hold you emotionally hot just like that why no don't
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let them do it and and i can say so i'm not gonna tell the whole story but i got to the point where
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i had my ex-wife's location and she was at a restaurant with another guy and i was outside
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and i was like should i go in and i didn't go in you didn't i didn't know why i actually called my
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family and well i called my i called my father actually and he's like what are you what are you
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gonna go in there for nothing good can happen if you go in there oh because it could have been a fight
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or like yep you're my son i don't want to see you go to jail or anything so don't go in there and he was
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right i didn't go in there so it was did you see the guy or no no i left so how did you know that
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she was there with a guy and not like a girl uh i mean you just know yeah you know so where did she
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say she was uh well it was a thing where um i was working overtime because she was looking for we had
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just moved to a new city and she was looking for a job but she was all stressed out because she
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couldn't find a job now i have no idea why because i wasn't putting the expectation on it but she was
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putting on herself and so she was mad at me because she didn't have a job and it was a new city and she's
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blaming everything on me because moving to that city was was my fault and my idea and so i would come
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home and we i would i was working 50 to 60 hours a week paying the bills and then she was mad at me
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for being able to work but i had to work a lot to pay the bills and she's just one of those where
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you know i guess when she gets mad at her whoever she's with she goes to cheat i guess but oh so she
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was mad at you and like cheating spitefully yeah was she sleeping with them or going on dates do you
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know how far she took you don't know but it was i know i know it was dates i mean i i'm assuming the
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worst it was it was everything yeah so but yeah you know that's what happens when you're you know
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that's why i keep telling you guys never trust a guy who says he he's never simped this is the west
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90 of us have simped it's just a matter of how bad and how long and um remember the red pill
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you don't take it orally most of the time it gets shoved up your ass
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yes lucky leo says hi pearl i wanted to call him but i'll i'll just add a text my wife cheated
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on me with a divorce lawyer we had three little kids then she filed had to sell the house and was
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forced to move back home um damn i don't think your message is bleak or black filled the bible says this
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life is the valley of tears and jesus says that the devil is prince of the world trad cons romanticize the
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past oh actually i want to read a comment i saw on twitter i asked the question um what's the worst
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guy that's stolen your girl or something like that um or who has stolen your girl that i don't know
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it was just like really bad and it said i've had six pack abs for 20 years i make 150k year a year
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i'm an amazing dad who is awarded majority custody after a divorce i don't gamble i don't drink
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and i took care of all the finances and all the regular household duties my ex-wife cheated on me
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with a hospital security guard sorry guys i gotta laugh a little bit because we're insane
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and also hey so pearl and i got into this discussion what does it mean that a guy took your girl does the
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girl have to leave you for him or just a guy that smashed your chick took your girl because i was
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saying could you consider it your girl being taken by another guy if she's just trying to be a and cheat
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it's almost worse than getting your girl taken though because you're paying all the bills
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he is getting the hot like he's getting the best part of her he's getting like the hot sex and
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whatever i mean it's all bad but like at least if he took her she's not your problem anymore that's you
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i guess she's up for a shot what's up my friend how's it going let's go
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what's good doug what's good pearl how y'all doing good how are you i can't complain life is good
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shout out to all you guys man y'all i have been a ball out here laughing and having fun so shout
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out to you guys i've been surviving after our breakup it's been tough but you know i've been making it
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through oh this real fast how are you how are you emotionally and spiritually right now just so fast
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hold on hold on yes everyone uh uh in the chat i i'm one of those 90s raised men most the guys raised
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in the 90s with the r b boys to men music and then the the the roman the the sitcoms with urkel chasing
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laura and roger chasing the sister sister twins the guys raised in the 90s we were the biggest most
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romantic simps ever born into the united states and we all had to learn the hard way all of us
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every single one of us so the that's why most of your red pill content creators are between the
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ages of what like 43 and like 50 or something like that because we had at the war we had the
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biggest wake-up call of any generation i'm sorry go ahead sean no shout out to you doug you remind me
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you of my jeep i know right yeah we had those simp songs that yeah 100 man i'll make love to you
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ain't what you want oh come on man all of it how are you emotionally and spiritually have you been able
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to what's up with your life is everything okay yeah break up yeah you know i've been um it's been tough
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you know but i think it was the best decision you know we were just two puzzle pieces that didn't fit
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and and it was really about you just finding yourself you know being there for yourself and
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developing and i'm glad that you're happy because that's the most important thing for you
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i'm glad so of course i had situations where i caught somebody cheating but it really wasn't
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a situation where i caught them cheating they told me they were cheating and i think i already shared it
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with you guys the one that was on my birthday um if you want to yeah go ahead all right all right so
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i'm chilling right just relaxing you know it's my birthday so i'm relaxing and it was my recent
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birthday that just passed a couple of months ago and so one of my ling-lings you know she comes over
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she has this fruit cake she went out with her mom and she made it and you know i don't eat like cake so
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she made it just a fruit right they put it together they bring it and you know she comes up by herself
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and we're sitting around and she lights the candles on secret and boom she brings it in
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and then i'm like oh snaps okay cool don't care but anyways she brings it i blow out the candles make
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my wish boom and then i look to her and say how are you doing everything's good and she's like yeah yeah
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yeah i'm just so excited that you know i made this cake me and my mom took the time and i said i
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appreciate it i was like everything's good in the relationship right any problems any complaints any
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i lean in i hold her hand and i say you sure you could tell me anything you know i always have
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an open door policy this is what my commanding officer used to tell us yeah you always get
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troops that will come and tell you they did something if you always have an open door policy so
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she sat there for a long time contemplating am i going to tell him this so a little bit later she
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comes down she's like one time and then she starts crying of course i'm like it's okay get it out i'm
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like tell the truth you know help yourself of all this pain and secret and lies so she ends up telling
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yeah she slept with a guy she met him at the mall something where she works blah blah blah and i was like
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it's completely fine and i said hey why do you think you've done that like what was going on and of
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course it was me um but net net i was like okay but it's never me it's always you you did it for a
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specific reason you have to explore that reason you have to figure out why do you love this guy
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no i love you i love you you know all that garbage and then that as i told you guys after an advanced
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conversation i put her on a motorbike kissed her on the forehead and she drove off into the sunset
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you're still cool to this day but uh she has been categorized differently she was always categorized
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differently but net net you just move on that's been hard to recover no i'm just kidding so that's
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how i went down yeah you're dangerous they would they you would get a girl to admit that's awesome so
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was there something that like made you like was she acting different or what or did you was she just
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that type of person man bro i really didn't know really didn't care uh and plus she gave me her
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track so i knew where she was i really check it all the time but net net you know cga says it only
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takes 10 minutes for a girl to cheat five minutes at that you know so it's no tracking that you could
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actually do that actually we'll figure it out but no i just had opening conversations always said truth
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was the most important thing in a relationship and so always had that narrative and so she felt like
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she was you know liberated and free enough to tell me the truth and so like i said if you tell me the
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truth i won't punish you for it and so i wasn't like one of those guys that you said pearl are you
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going on the internet oh yeah we about to shame you i'm about to nobody cares bro i just want the truth
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and so i guess she said she felt as though it was my birthday and i deserved the truth other people
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will say it's poor timing but what i would say is i don't care when the truth comes on my birthday
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after my birthday when people want to say it they it might be the only time that they say it so you
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know emotions go here and there so you better get the truth when you get it and so it really was
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nothing she just came out and just said it how long were you guys dating about two years oh wow
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do you just everybody has their reasons do you just assume after a certain amount of time
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that they're just gonna i just assumed from the beginning humans are humans and they're gonna you
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know like doug got a story guys are gonna call up everybody's got a story one of the things i said is
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you got to be indifferent don't put your ego into what a girl does with her box that's gonna be the
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destruction of you so when somebody comes to you and says i gave my box away it's your loss it really is
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what did i lose nothing but i guess when you're married with seven kids and she getting half of
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your assets that that's a little bit different but if you're just dating a girl that's why you don't
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over commit yeah some of the videos the guys are like crashing out and my guys she does not care
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i thought the best one i thought the best one was when the guy just said get out like we're done get
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out that's it yeah and i don't even use curse words but they're nothing like that i don't say get out
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because that stuff could be taken over somewhere you know that pearl yeah so a judge or somebody who's
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stellar sent right blue pill rage and they're gonna be like oh you can't talk to her like that
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and so i'll just be like oh okay pearl we were talking about this before the call and uh she's
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like what would you do if you got caught cheating and your girl put a camera in your face and we were
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going back and forth a little bit and i said i think the best thing to do is just to say nothing
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say nothing and just leave because anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of
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public opinion on that video don't say anything just leave facts what would you do if you were
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if you were wrong and out there you got caught you go pull out a camera you get caught red-handed
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what would you do well pearl i don't know what she was about to say but what i was going to say is i
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always tell girls i'm never going to be monogamous so i i wouldn't get caught cheating i'll be doing
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what i'm doing now of course they'll they can still put the camera in my face right and be like oh my
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gosh i can't believe you actually did it and i'd be like well that's what i told you but i wouldn't
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say nothing neither like you said what's the point of saying something it's not going to get me in the
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way like you made a smart decision don't go in the restaurant i mean what are you about to do crash out
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like people trying to eat you cheated on me shonequa with this guy and then everybody be looking at
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you like what the hell so it's not going to help you to go in there and confront anybody that could
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be a crash out guy too you don't want to do that he might pull out a burner so i could see you just
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being like so how does the cheating make you feel are you okay for real for real that's all i can see
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shot you know honey sit down let's talk about this and then the other girl i think i should leave
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oh no you should stay too we should all talk about how we're feeling yeah how are you guys feeling let's
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figure out a little bit i don't know you met her she met you you know how do you feel about meeting
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each other is this the type of girl that you'd want to hang out with yeah i think you two might have a
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lot in common aftercare man i'm trying to hook it up man hey look you got her it's yours best of luck
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you know i i really don't care long as your life is good in itself then it is what it is i mean people
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cheat all day every day around the world and so and they cheat at the same rate so it's just a reality
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you got to deal with it's not gonna do you think it's not gonna destroy me do you think women always
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cheat to leave because i don't think like they always say when women cheat with a guy they always
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like him i'm like i don't i think that's false yeah that's super false that's some red pill talking
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point yeah no that's crazy girls cheat because girls sleep with guys just because they want to try them
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out we talked about that before yeah like it's all sorts of reasons but guys like to give them this sweet
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and spice and everything nice image which is you know no girls they gotta have some emotion with you
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you know us guys we don't have to have emotions that's a lie most guys are running around here with
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more emotions than anybody else and most of the girls well they can do it for whatever sorts of reasons
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you know what i'm saying like i think i sum it up this way sean right i sum it this way what do what do i
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nothing is more important to modern women than their own selfish desires
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and cheating is just another form of them pursuing their own selfish desires uh why did she sleep with
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that guy because she wanted to and what are you going to do about it what are you gonna do because
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she wanted to that's why i sum it up to that yeah she wanted to and then she could give you a reason
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like the girl gave me a reason like oh because i don't remember the reason but it was something of the
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sorts like oh he understood my pain i was like i bet he said he did what i understand you girl i would
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never do that to you you know like you know i get it and boy okay cool whatever your reason is
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everybody's got a reason and some could be reason with hey i liked him he looked good and i wanted to
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hook up with him hey i did it now i look back oh i messed up it doesn't matter you know what i'm saying
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at the end of the day that's their reason they're going to do what they want to do you're going to have to
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let that go like women decide to categorize people like tate said in that interview you categorize
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people and then just say okay roger that women cheat with men they hate and like don't even like
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them do you know what i mean like they don't like them as people like i'm like there are times some
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women like do you think the guy i read earlier she was really trying to leave with the hospital security guard
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come on she was not you know leave come on no she just categorized them and used them for a specific
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thing and then took it there with them yeah and that's just that yeah and they got massive amounts
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of options i'd say you know often when they say like it's a problem with social networking i'm like
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bro it's giving you guys the truth this used to be in the dark you know what i'm saying so the slave
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master he was a slave master and his wife was still cheating with slaves like come on you know
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what i'm saying he was a slave master i'm pretty sure he was the top one percent but it didn't matter
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you know she was like i want to sleep with a slave i'm going to try him or whatever the case may be
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so at the end of the day some shorties ran off with a slave like what the heck or they just get bored
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like women will have like the best sex of their life and then they're bored after a year or two years five
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years facts go back so the appetite is go ahead what do you say to all these guys are like oh yeah
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i'm just going to go to a different country because women women they won't cheat and they're better
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there and what would you say to those guys there's differences my guys i'm not going to say there's
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no difference but to say that they don't cheat is crazy i forgot pearl when you did that with the
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president the french president when he got slapped right remember he got slapped yeah yeah by his wife
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yeah so vm and these men came out and said hey you get slapped by your wife too because they were
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saying we get slapped by our wives so in asia passive submissive asian girls slapped their husbands too
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like ladies are ladies man they cheat out here too bro like india is very bad but i think they did a
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study it was seven out of ten women in india were cheating on their husbands because they were bored
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in india you can get you can get some issues let's just say that yeah like and you don't take that
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seriously and they still did it and then we'll have all these ideas to get women to not cheat they'll
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think oh if she just doesn't work and she's a housewife the neighbor that's the worst the pool boy
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like do you know exactly milkman what are you gonna lock her in the house like she goes to the grocery
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store come on like that's why they had the chastity belt pearl it was that bad do you know what i mean
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i decided i think the best job for a girl to have is an engineer a female engineer where they'd be
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the least likely to cheat now i'm this is me spitballing here but i was thinking about it i'm like
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engineers the archetype is that they're pretty dorky guys so maybe she'd be like less likely to find
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a guy at work if she's an engineer that was then also that was my that was my spitball but it's no
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no guarantees feel free to spitball if you have like a profession or a place that women are better
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or worse no guarantees well also i can tell you so it takes a certain type to be an engineer because
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even like when you're young you know the type of guys that are going to be engineers and you know
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the type of girls that are going to be engineers too because even the girls are kind of socially
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awkward and quiet and stuff so i think just by that alone they're less likely to cheat because
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women pay severely for being the the engineering type because they exhibit traits that men don't
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like and then then women make them pay severely for not um being able to adhere to the social cues and
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social rules of female circles so i just think that female engineers are less likely to cheat because
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they just don't that quiet kind of mousy nerdy type not a lot of guys like that you know what i'm saying
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yeah what do you think yeah well i i say this look at the end of the day i think the best strategy is
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insulate yourself from what cheating can do to you versus trying to stop cheating yeah like it's you
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can't like oh man how do i stop a girl from cheating figure out how to insulate you from being affected
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by someone cheating that's the best strategy that's within your control you get what i'm saying
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so for me even like when like when she was crying and like oh man you're not sad i'm like nah i lost
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brothers in arms in combat like that's more hard for me to get over versus you deciding to go cheat like
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whatever man balance and it's not in an evil way it's just like i get it you know do you whatever
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people do that life has been harsher to me than that so that's that's a minor thing but that's
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because my mindset is not tied into it so much like oh my god she's my girl she's supposed to stay
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faithful only me that's a lie r kelly a genuine all them guys lied that stuff ain't real man like it is
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it is what it is yeah you don't want to be oj simpson right i was i was i don't know about the whole
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i didn't realize that she cheated i did not know that part of the story
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can you bring up that video of hulk hogan's wife crashing out oh hulk hogan's yeah sure yeah so so
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um remember hulk hogan's wife left uh started sleeping with her son's best friend so he was 28
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and she was 50 at the time and she put a charge on hulk hogan he had to leave his house and i remember
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hulk hogan was like um i don't condone what oj did but i understand because i got this 28 year
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old kid living in my house banging my wife and driving the ferrari that that i bought for like
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i'm not saying what he did was right but i understand well now that guy finally broke up
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with her eight years later and she's crashing out like oh my life is so terrible and then i guess
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brooke hogan won't talk to the mom anymore hasn't talked to her since and she's trying to say that
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it was all hook hogan's about and that she's tried her best to try to get back with him but he's
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he's a narcissist you left him for a 28 year old for your son's best friend and so um and the pro
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i had no idea the oj samson case i had to run into the case i didn't know that the the guy died too
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yeah yeah yeah there was a guy there that i guess she was cheating with that died too
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i don't know he was crashing out based off that day well i just can't believe he got away with
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it if the personal trainer died too yeah yep you had some good lawyers yeah this is my crying face
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i have to be honest about what i went through in my marriage with terry as hulk hogan and what
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what it entailed and what has it has caused over the years and everything else he's a complete liar he's a
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sex addict your face out there and know that all these horrible things are going on behind the
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scenes yet he marches on he marches on like yeah oh i'm promoting my own beer real american beer yeah
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look at me yeah he's such a hero right not okay i'm gonna give you my thumbs down i've given him more
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opportunities to come back and make us a family do you hear that and try to i'm sorry
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i can't hear if it's still going no it ended yeah did you hear she said i've given him opportunities
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to come back to to put the family back together but he won't do it because he's a narcissist you
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left him for a 28 year old see and then that's his new that's hulk hogan's new girlfriend if you can
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see it i think she's let's see how old how old is hulk hogan's hogan's new girlfriend
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just take the l yeah it's not it's not if your ex is gonna do better it's when he's gonna do better
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just accept it ladies it's not if it's when if he can get you congrats you're the floor of what he
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could officially get you can now get women hotter than you pete davidson effect just take the l you
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know but she can't now she's crashing out well guys make sure to hit that like button and subscribe
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cheat on their husbands hit that zoom link and call in i know someone that got cheated on with a
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mechanic and this was like an alcoholic mechanic she she actually left him for the mechanic he was a
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farmer too he's a good farmer had a whole farm good since i had a lot of ladies i did have another
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woman cheated on me it went down differently though she crashed out or what no this is funny actually
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oh i think it's funny but that net we were in a relationship this one was eight years this
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relationship and anyways we don't usually see them because i'm always a tour going to embassies and
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working so it was more of a long distance relationship but anyways she worked remotely at this point in
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her career so she was working remotely and it was after the pandemic so you know everything was on
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lockdown i was in israel she was in poland and it was hard for her to get to me finally we were able
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to link in turkey after the pandemic right so boom fast forward she's there she's like staying with me
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long term because usually i don't be trying to live with girls every day so net net she was there for
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long term about two months right and she was planning to stay so anyways she's like oh i have a trip
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to do do dubai so she had a trip to dubai for her work right yeah she works online pharmaceutical
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company said hey we're gonna all have a company trip i was like wait hold on you know if you go there
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and they close the borders again we ain't gonna see each other for a while again and she was very
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adamant before about like us meeting up and you know the pandemic and etc so i said this is you know kind
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of contradictory so i was like all right cool but net net in my head i'm like that's suspect why are you
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trying to go to a business meeting that bad right so anyways she goes she comes back
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and then so net net she was sleeping i was like in the iphone i don't be caring i go i ain't one of
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those guys don't if you go on your girlfriend you a punk whatever so anyways i'm in the phone i see
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pictures of her and a guy like out on a dinner date right solo brunch they on a date like solo right so
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anyways i get out the phone and they close they like taking pictures like this like yeah so they
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super close so i was like all right that's the guy that's the guy right and so anyways later on i
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actually i'm like yo how was the dubai trip and stuff like that she's like oh it was good you know
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i was only only out with us and employees you know i didn't out and then when i went out i went
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by myself to this place in that place that was it so i said okay and then uh i was on the phone
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doing something else one day looking for a photo she gave me the phone and i was like hey uh
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what happened to the photo with you and the guy she said huh what guy and i'm like you had photo
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with you and a guy in dubai i think he was your you know co-worker oh um no uh i uh i deleted it
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i said would you delete that for and she was like oh well i just you know i didn't want you to get mad
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i didn't want you to you know get angry and of course me i was like all right i know what it is
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you know y'all clap cheeks it is what it is right so my homie was like what you gonna do about it i was
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like nothing man she's still at the house cooking for me so i was like you know as long as i was in
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turkey she was gonna stay there she was gonna cook i wasn't gonna make her my wife though you
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get me so i think like you gotta categorize people and so at that time i just categorized the
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relationship like yeah it's cool but you're not gonna make anyone your wife right because aren't
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you coach cga the i forgot that i forgot what exactly so who cares exactly who cares but at the
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end of the day even if i clad you know categorized a girl like ride or die you know it wouldn't be
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marriage but it would be like ride or die i still would put that on her like you know she's able to
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cheat man like and so you just gotta have that assumption she's a human nobody's perfect and so and
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they all have different perspectives you get me and so they consider like they literally like that
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hulk hogan lady did she feel like she she felt like she was in the right dub after she cheated and
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everything she was like and he won't get the family back together it's his fault
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yep it's modern women i'm gonna bring in brian that's that's that's women historically that's not
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modern it's been like that for ages marcus aurelius white white cheated on him
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let me bring in brian patrice o'neill said you can't control a woman's body but her mind
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being different to women and you won't be a slave to them um there's one more i thought i was supposed to
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read i think at the end even this brian is talking dude gets cheated on hey brian how's it going brian
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you're on mute brian you're on mute brian on mute brian going once brian going twice i'm here i'm here
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oh there you go how's it going brian hey what's up i was on your live i think uh make sure you turn
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off the i hear an echo and they usually mean i'm sorry it's you're right you're going in the background
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can you hear me yeah i can hear you so um who did you catch cheating and who were they cheating with
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okay very good question i called in this live because i had a story i wanted to uh share as you
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know last time i told you i was in uh china and i had a girlfriend there when i oh yeah yeah yeah
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yeah the guy in china yeah that was a great call good good good to hear from you again buddy well thank
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you guys thank you i wanted to share another not so um flattering story but it uh it happened um i just
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got to china about five years ago this was a long time ago in the beginning in early 2000s and i had a
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girlfriend there and um she was in a place called um shenzhen now my story's a little different uh i met
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her she was an older woman i was like in my early i was in like my late 20s and she was like uh she was
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like uh 23 i'm sorry no she was younger than me i was a little older but she was but she was um she was a
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little she was younger than me so she was um i was with her and we were going out and she would you
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know help me out uh maybe like you know at that time i was a little bit i didn't have a whole bunch
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of money so she wouldn't give me money but she would help me buy some stuff and i pay her back
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because i was just something happened and i had a hard time getting settled there it's a long story
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so anyway what i found out later on is that um she actually had a husband and was didn't tell me
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and got me involved in the relationship so she would have me for example when i would go to the
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store she would drive around and she would help me you know she had a car but her husband was paying
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up for everything and um what they what they do in china is that many people while i lived in china
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it was called shenzhen many people they would many chinese would have like boyfriends who are rich from
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hong kong and then they would finance their wives in shenzhen so there was a lot of mistresses that's
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the word mistresses there and this girl actually ended up being a mistress and she or i she was um
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she was a mistress of this other guy i'm sorry i got that wrong she was actually married because
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that was so long ago and didn't tell me and um her husband actually you know was away and then she
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would give me all this stuff so then by the time she told me all this that she was actually married
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um it was too late for me because i got i already you know kind of fallen in love with the girl
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so she uh i went out with her continuously for about three months and then after that i cut it off
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okay so when i basically that's the story so when i found out from that is that you have to be careful
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and ask women you know who they're actually seeing or if they have a boyfriend because i always assumed
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back then that if if you had a boyfriend you would tell or if you're married that you would you know you
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would tell somebody got it got it just real fast can you sum up the um because last time you were
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on the show you you dispelled a lot of myths that people have about chinese women so just like take
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20 30 seconds to to any any western guy that has a misconception that chinese women are are you know
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super conservative and don't cheat and stuff can you give you know like a quick two three points to
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to dispel with the misconception about chinese women yeah this is the biggest misconception that chinese
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women tell everybody that american culture is they have a word in china and they always say it's called
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kaifang kaifang means open you hear this a lot like americans are very kaifang and chinese are very
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baosho baosho means like conservative in chinese you hear this all the time let's say well americans
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don't understand china because you know chinese are very conservative we have an ancient confucius culture
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and um you know we're just very conservative now back then that was a little more true because people
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just did things under the closet but today is more on the open but chinese still say that like this girl
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you know she told me that she was very conservative and you know and all this stuff but later on um
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actually i met her husband and she acted all cool like we didn't we really didn't know each other we
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just met each other and i don't want to go into it now but there's a lot of women are very um
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sneaky about how they like plan their their their their affairs and so the first thing you know she did
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was not tell me but she to answer your question yeah that was a big myth because i i thought you
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know china was much more conservative and people didn't go out and do that compared to the west here
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but you know they do stuff under the under the sheets uh behind the closet behind closed doors and uh
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and another thing too you'd be surprised because this lady she was like a banker you know she had a lot of
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prestige and stuff like that and uh you wouldn't yeah i don't know you wouldn't think that that would
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be happening at least me back then i remember i was in my late 20s back then i'm 50 almost i'm over 50
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now but back then i was in my late 20s so i was kind of naive so um that's the thing that i think they
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fool a lot of foreigners into thinking that uh asian culture is very conservative but you know all the
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rest of the world and these kind of things so yeah cool so that was my story pearl and uh yeah i can
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share with you a lot of stories but i don't want to take up everybody else's time but there's a lot
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of most of my experience has been with china and in asian women so i have a lot of yeah cool in the
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future and there's other topics i can share sure please call in any time okay yeah i don't want to
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bore you but yeah thank you for having me again and uh yeah i'll i'll i'll come on again later on
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let's see there hi can you hear me yep hey thanks for having me on how are you
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hey i'm doing well um so i have a story about when i was she on um i think on this you guys will
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probably fight me on this because it's pretty sim behavior that's all right it happens it happens to
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the best of us yep we've all seen i've told stories of my sipping many times on this this is a safe space
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place well thank you um so a girl i dated recently um i'm gonna call her uh uh helen not her real name
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so um we dated for about two years we were pretty close um and she went on a
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uh like backpacking trip for a couple months uh throughout um europe for like a hacker hostile
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type of program um and throughout this process she uh was also going through a lot of like personal
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stuff with her family and that made her feel like very uh unsure of herself and very anxious and because
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of that like she cheated on me with a bunch of people like i'm not even sure how many i want to
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guess like 40 or so um or so in what time period uh three months she cheated on you with 40 people in
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three months yeah that's right how did you find out uh so she so she came back um to where we live
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together in new york and we talked about it uh she initially just said hey um i don't think this is
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working i want to break up and then i kept asking her why and the reason she giving she was giving just
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doesn't make sense i kept pressing on and then slowly like information started trickling through
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um what she's the story she's saying now is that um our interests don't lie meaning i want to like
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have a normal life um like work a normal career like have a family um whereas she wants to constantly
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travel um so she's dating someone who is um like taking her on vacations constantly um uh like so
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currently she's in france seeing a vineyard or something like that um and um yeah it's it's
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interesting because uh my understanding is for the first couple months of her seeing this new guy
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um she was also cheating on him with other guys like just whoever would take her out on trips to
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dubai were where the power anywhere else um but how attractive was she one to ten how attractive um
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probably about the same as you bro oh so like mid six five five six oh i would okay 6.5 okay thank you
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thank you okay so it's it's interesting because i feel like on one hand it's um fairly impressive
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that she's able to consistently get guys to take her out on fancy trips like this like not just one or
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two guys like consistently get new guys like she's not a supermodel so this is uh yeah this is an
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interesting thing to see and she's getting trips to like dubai and stuff is she on like an escort
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website she is not she she is literally just like going on bumble and then just matching with
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whichever successful guy she meets for at whatever hotel at any fancy place she just talks to a guy
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it just works does her reputation does her reputation not like start to proceed her
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like doesn't she start to get a bad reputation god
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yeah so that's the other thing i don't think she has a reputation because she's been able to keep
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it under wraps um so as far as i understand the first couple months of um her dating this new guy
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um hank um she was ching on him with a bunch of other people and then really she only told her
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sisters and maybe some close friends and nobody else and then she either has stopped doing that now
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or is still doing that and it's just much more secretive um either it's possible it's not clear
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okay yeah cool um so the the same part of this is on one hand like i recognize this but i also like
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feel bad for her like i think she's trying to she's someone who's not sure of herself and has
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low self-confidence i still care about her like i want to support and tell her like hey it's not
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uh your fault i don't blame you and i don't hate you i want i care about you and i want to be your
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friend but i'm not i'm not sure how to go about that why even bother why would you want to be your
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friend well this is someone i um have a long history with i think like at her core she wants to
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she's got a history with a lot of people okay okay she's got a history with everybody i know right
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so so here's what you can do for me my friend every so often you got to put a t-chart on a piece of
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paper like you did in in school like you know one line down one line across and you got to put my pro
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you got to put my problem on one side and not your problem on the other side and out all the issues in
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your life and make sure that that the issues in your life are either you got to recognize which
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ones are your problem and which ones aren't your problem okay this girl is not your problem dude
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it's not and also men we only have a certain amount of romantic energy that we can give out
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especially if you're trying to be successful don't give relationship energy to some chick
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or to a friend that's a girl or some girl that's done you wrong you you gotta get if a girl does
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you wrong some of the best advice i ever got was consider yourself lucky when someone does something
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when someone some organization or something tells you everything that you need to know if a woman cheats
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on you she told you everything that she need to know man what are you talking to her for it's not
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your problem about her yeah why i care about her so this is um you guys will probably fight me on
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this this is ultra simple of me but um i if she were to be willing to go to therapy um and willing to
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go to like some ultra expensive rehab and i found like one that's really good and costs seventy thousand
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dollars i'd be willing to pay for it she's uh she's going to tell back she's she's not willing to have
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the conversation okay okay oh my god pro what do you got i have no words what come on man all right
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have you gone on a date with anybody else like have you dated since
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no i've gone out with girls and trans but i haven't gone yeah it's time to find some new hoes
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is this girl the only girl that you slept with or something no um my body counts low but not that low
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the only reason you're thinking like you gotta find some more girls um sean you got anything yeah yeah
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no um i get it you know you really care about the individual so i don't think you got to be f her
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you know you want to see her do well so what i would just also say is it's her journey you know you can
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only help so much but it's her choice to get better right now at the end of the day there's a lot of
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people out here hurting in the world going through real problems like massively worse problems than
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what she's going through which is all a lot of self-created problems and internal problems but
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she has to do the work and you can't do it for her and so net net you can do the best of what you have
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done which is give her the proper avenues to take right but you can't make a horse drink the water
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so if you've done your duty in your mind to be good to somebody who's meant something to you
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you get what i'm saying and so therefore that's it right there you've done it now you have to move on
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and pursue other opportunities you can still care for that person i'm not saying what you're doing
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is wrong and don't do it but you've already set it up so they can benefit from it and it's their choice
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to do it don't hang your hat on it because it's their journey to take and i'm gonna say situations
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like this dealing with the wrong woman being in a bad relationship it's kind of like weight loss
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okay um you see people that oh yeah i'm big like the lizzo's oh yeah i'm big and i'm proud stuff
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whatever but then they lose the weight and people think that losing the weight is the hardest part it's
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not it's when you get the quality of life that you've been wanting and then you look back on all
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the time that you wasted not putting in the work to lose the weight a bad relationship or dealing with
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a toxic woman is like that let's hear you're if you do the right work and focus on yourself you will
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find the woman for you all you doing right now is making the the regret when that happens even worse
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by dealing with this woman you're giving this woman time and resources that you could be given
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to yourself first and then a woman that's actually healthy and one day you're going to realize that
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there's nothing special about this girl i'm hoping is sooner rather than later and just the more you do
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for this woman the more you're going to be angry at yourself when you finally get the quality of life
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that she wants so take that into consideration there's nothing special about this girl nothing
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once you build enough women you realize too many of them are all the same
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i think the challenge here is uh there were two years where we were together where she was mentally
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well where she wasn't like this um there was a brief period like before she met me when she did
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one while briefly but i have seen her when she was um stable and normal and i'm hoping like that
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uh she can go back to that and like what it was almost as though like somebody snapped in her and she's
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now in this type of year and i um for one it's even though we're not together and it's just me caring
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about her there's still like uh that degree of care where like this is um when i dated her i committed
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to be as closely perfect as possible for her and i think being true to that would mean like now that
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even we're breaking up i should still commit to try to support her and help her because this issue arose
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when we were together not your problem man it's just not here's the thing just just do me a favor
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if you can just disengage you don't have to make a big scene out of it you don't have to be
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predictive just disengage stop picking up the phone we currently aren't really contacting each other
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okay good stay on that because like sean says she's gonna have to figure it out
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herself and you don't have any justifiable reason to talk to this woman that doesn't involve emotions
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so yeah and most of the time your your emotions are you problem but you you got to get away from
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this girl once again you're gonna find the quality of life that you want but just
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just just you got to get there man yeah man thanks for your thoughts thanks for calling in okay
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yeah but you know i'd want to go out my guy because he calls in a lot he's he's a really good caller and
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you know he just he sounds like he's young and you know i'm sorry guys a lot of us sometimes you
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gotta make them you can't stop a guy from making those mistakes they just gotta learn the hard way
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a lot of us have simped a lot of us have just like so there's stuff women have to go through there's
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stuff men have to go through it's just part of life guys like the stream please subscribe if you
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haven't already we are on our way to three million and um i'm gonna let in charles because he was in
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the audacity chat asked for the link charles how you doing buddy
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how's it going hey charles how are you i'm good how are you guys um good good this is a great topic
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and and i really feel for the guy you know what can you hear me yeah i can hear you i'm listening i i
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look at the chat this way so if i don't look at the camera it's just because i just look at it there's
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chats but go ahead i'm good i'm good so go ahead what's the what did you have
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go ahead charles go ahead i i feel for the guy pearl i feel for the guy doug
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oh something is doubling here you probably have the youtube open on a different screen
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oh i do actually hold on one second sorry about that because there's there's a delay i gotta close
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the youtube there we go there we go sorry about that go ahead so i feel for that guy you know i've been
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there you we've talked before and you know me i'm i'm 60 i've i i talked to young guys like like much
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and sean um you know my divorce was brutal my my ex-wife cheated on me um when i got injured in the
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line of duty uh you know she fell into being an alcoholic and she started cheating with a co-worker and
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then a yoga instructor and um you know i ended up finding out about it when i i was doing some simp
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behavior i i tried to to fix my marriage i did the counseling thing um and and the counseling thing's
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a racket for simping um it's a total racket for simping you know was your counselor a woman or a man
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uh it was a man oh okay so it's most of the time it's a woman but go ahead um and it's still a racket
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for simping i took her to new york took her to shows and you know it's funny we i used to live in
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math so we flew into tf green airport in providence and the night we got back she fell asleep in the car
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and she started getting texts from the dude while we were driving back how did it go with your husband
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i miss you i love you and god man she's asleep and i'm hearing all these messages coming through
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the through the car and i'm like so i filed for divorce a few days later but um you know we all
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do that but that guy i'm sorry you know i'm gonna tell you something feminism is a form of mental
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illness and and the the women that are out there they're not jobs just flat out not jobs and um
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people like you pearl people who who are who are red pilled and and standing up for men the brunt of
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what you have to face is unbelievable um and i love what sean was saying about his commanding officers
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right if you have an open door policy they're going to tell you um their their guilt whatever
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it is their self-righteousness they're going to come to you and they're going to think it's going to
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be okay and sean is dead on balls accurate about is that what happened to you cook my meals but the day
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you stop you're out you know like see ya i got nothing is that what happened to you did you have
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like an open door policy or how did you originally catch her oh i caught her um just because she
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started drinking and she was just making mistakes like you know and um and it was interesting i you
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know i lost my identity i i i had brothers in arms like sean my my my uh job was my identity i was tip
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of the i was a tip of the spear guy when i lost it i was angry i was pissed off i gained weight i drank i i
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had you know ptsd the whole nine yards so god love her she she went somewhere else but you know these young
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guys have to realize if they find out before they're married or in a situation before they
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end up in a in a you know common law situation or living together for a year or whatever it's a gift
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from god it is a gift from god cut your losses and run what's what's um what's jocko willock say
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discipline equals freedom have the discipline to to let them go and and let the sun shine
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on you know it's gonna suck is it gonna suck yeah it does i when i went through my divorce
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i had planned and i i filed and i still ended up with supervised visits for four years
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that i had to pay for the for the for the um department of youth worker to be there
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and it was like 30 grand a year i was screwed um eventually i got a good lawyer who got me out
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of that situation um but you know these young guys that the last caller and i'm not i'm not trying to
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to harp on him he's what is going on in the world right now and i don't know how old sean is but um
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um doug you know guys my age your age we have to take these guys under our wing and say don't fall
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into these traps man because um you know we got to take care of our brothers and if we're not taking
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care of our brothers they're just going to get taken advantage of and the red pill community
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is fantastic you know um it's funny um you know you guys know i have a younger girlfriend
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and i'm gonna tell you so happy i see the smile yeah that's not a way you know um the smile is always
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there but the thing is am you know sean said it have the have the the strength of character to be
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prepared for the worst because as happy as i am the worst can come one day you know who knows and and
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it's going to be the yep okay fine great i had a great time time to move on um and there you don't
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have to be hateful about it but these guys posting on youtube like those those videos at the beginning
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were blowing my mind and i'm sorry i'm gonna say something so i don't know if i can say it on youtube
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or not but you know you can stick your dick in crazy but don't marry crazy because you're gonna pay
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the price you know carl i have a i have a question for you for from the chat steven one of the moderator
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says ask sakala if she tried to get his military retirement and the divorce oh so my government
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retirement all day long tried tried tried and failed miserably at it because thank god now listen
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this was a i think the i i'm gonna say that i think the um the uh how do i want to say it
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the norm is they get part of it um unfortunately for my ex she made more money standing on her head
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than i ever did um you know and and that played against her um now i didn't get i didn't get alimony
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or anything like that but but you should have been huge i should have you're right i should have but i
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lived in i lived in in communist massachusetts i'm lucky i wasn't put in prison so i mean i made it out
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you know uh but yeah watch the pensions guys because i'll tell you something
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um the badge bunnies and the base hoes and the base 304s they're playing that game and if you if you're
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if you're if you're an officer or or or a senior nco yep they're gonna come after you great guns um
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just like the hulk hogan thing which you guys played earlier you know i'm gonna say it again guys
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until you're 35 or 40 concentrate on making money and i think you did a call you did a show the other
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night where the guy said the same thing um what was it the um real estate guy doug that you guys he
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was awesome um the real estate guy that pearl knows from back in the day and he's he's a he's a uh content
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guy um he's right make money focus on that and i'm gonna say don't do it you know wait to your 40 and
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then wait to your 40 and you can start dating women 20 years younger than you and be in the driver's
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seat um so that's what i got but i'll tell you something you know the cheating thing every guy
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just like every guy simps um if the opportunity is there i think every women every woman in this
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society is gonna is gonna cheat if she's got the penchant for it um no matter what relationship
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she's in yeah so cool if you ever hear oh you know i i i want to like date someone else or maybe we
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should take a break yeah just cut your losses and run you know date a mid get laid every day
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keep them happy and they keep you happy and they're 20 years younger than you you've got it knocked
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you know you're all set just like sean said be prepared because one day you know that next guy's
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going to come along if you're not getting married like i never intend to get married again yeah so
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cool well thanks for calling in great great contribution as normal so feel free to call
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in any time okay well thank you for having me again great great shows guys and you're doing you're
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chicken butt have a good one my friend all right we're gonna bring up daniel
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guys make sure you hit that like button subscribe if you haven't already thank you for all the super
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chats thank you for everyone and the audacity chat and thank you to all the regulars on the youtube chat i
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really appreciate it daniel are you there yes i am how's it going daniel
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it's going good so who cheated on you what you got for me
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um i'm going to completely invert it on you okay if they are a complete ice princess
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that it is can you hear me yeah we can hear you okay what if what if it's 180 percent flipped
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to a complete ice princess from frozen to where the person that you married
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is ashamed of kissing you at the wedding ceremony
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uh oh um i think we're having technical difficulties oh we can still hear you
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oh go ahead so your wife your ex-wife didn't want to kiss you
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at the wedding ceremony yes oh wow and you why and you accepted that
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what well what am i supposed to do at the time uh i'm the most beta male possible she tricked me into
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having the kids didn't want to take care of them like etc but i'm just saying not every woman is a hoe
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okay okay um some people they're doing a pretty bad job of convincing us yes
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i'm sorry i can't that was change yeah last time you called him he don't say you're doing a bad job
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i hate it when guys like it's like oh it's like not all women are like that i'm like who are you white
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knighting for like leave me alone yeah and you know that guy he called in before you know
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he was he was in the military he's done some good things in his life you know i know he he has issues
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from his military service so thank you for your service but that that was just falling apart sorry
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about that yeah i mean you can call in again a different time it's just got to be more concise
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um those are all the colors oh cool it's good timing we're almost at the two hour mark
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um i want to see actually i want to read a few more from i had a twitter thing the other day that i want
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to read where it was like i tweet too much who stolen i know your girl pearly things the replies were kind
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of funny and guys make sure to follow pearl on x because she is off the chain on x she gets people upset
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i know are there any uh where is it i need to scroll for a second you don't see if there's any and you
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can read them i'm just gonna scroll and find it oh yeah i said imagine being a man who makes six
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figures and his good shape is in good shape and has their girls stolen by a literal criminal can you
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imagine the stress okay um ridolfo says whatever that uh the last guy was smoking make sure to give it
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give it to all of us i'm not that's me come on guys okay we have we'll take one more because this person
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just came in oh okay never mind fell out but yeah guys you know good timing we're almost at the two
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hour mark there's a camps are you there camps yeah i'm here the youtube's on turn the youtube off
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okay okay we're good how's it going hi pearl how's it going good how are you i'm good i'm a long time
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worker so cool uh i've never been cheated on but me and my ex-wife we did the whole open relationship
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thing that didn't necessarily work out the best way if you know what i mean why not well
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what happens is sorry i'm a little nervous uh what happens is uh you know the respect went down
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and as the respect went down you know i started having to pull my weight around the house a lot more
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and uh and then it just kind of got cold of course right after we we got married like a year before
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covid so it got pretty terrible after that so did you get jealous when she would go on other dates
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with other guys or like no no i'm not a jealous person like we both had our fun we uh we both
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slept other people we both slept with the same people around and it was pretty good for a while but
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then when we were stuck together it's pretty rough when you were stuck together what do you mean yeah we
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had a we had a one and a half year old we were all closed down and uh stuck in the house together
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and then it got pretty toxic pretty quick like what was she fighting you or yeah yeah you know how it
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is the nagging all that other stuff you know i couldn't go into work you know i was stuck there
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the entire time i'd be working she like bring uh bring my beautiful boy just hand him off to me even
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though i was like right in the middle of it so uh but yeah yeah that's it for me but what i learned is
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that like one day i just woke up and i just realized that there was like no respect like it was all gone
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like she didn't care got toxic and everything and i just got up at five o'clock in the morning and i
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walked over to my parents house i slept there and then i came back and i was like hey uh this isn't
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working out was she relieved or did she crash out she crashed out pretty hard she begged for me it was
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it was it was interesting she she begged for me to to say no and i was like why you're miserable
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and i'm miserable so like um i think that like if i could give any advice to our younger callers is
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that i've learned that men have two types of power right uh we certainly have power in the in the
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violence arena arena but that's not acceptable nowadays like not even at all uh and that's okay
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but another thing that i've learned at is that another power is that you can remove your energy
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and attention and resources and uh and that's like vital if you want to grow up in today's world and date
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got it yeah i agree uh doug mp you got any comments for him no man you know um respect
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it's easier to get love back than respect once a woman has lots of respect for you it's over man
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amen yeah you're totally right absolutely over yep we should do a show on open relationships and have
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people call in with their experience so it's kind of interesting i'd ask you more about it but it's
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a little too off topic but that's fine i think a different day maybe if you should call in again if
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we do that topic yeah sure sure yeah let me know we'll talk about it cool yeah but that's it for me
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thank you so much i've been watching you for a while it's first time calling in yeah thanks so much for
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calling and i love you i love hearing from you guys so i appreciate it all right take care bye
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a good one i do you know what i think i didn't tweet it i think i thought i tweeted it and i didn't so
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um but i was i'm i was gonna tweet like what's the craziest girl that's stolen or what's the craziest
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way a guy has stolen your girl like if it was like um just someone you wouldn't expect like fat old ugly
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you know etc so let's have everybody on on the phone line cool well um
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thanks so much for watching and um doug mpa sean you guys have any final thoughts today
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john um man no i mean charles said a lot of good stuff so definitely hey guys you know focus on your
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life focus on what you can control which is not the woman and what she does but how you react to it
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and other than that man life is good shout outs to pearl shout out to doug mpa and pearl i want you to
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be happy if you need anything i'm always here thank you sean
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yeah and just like i said before man it's like if you find out my i asked my dad when i was young i
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um because i watched a lot of movies when i was young and like in the movies guys crash out so i
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asked my dad what would you do if you came home and you found mom cheating he's just i just packed
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my stuff and i'd leave and i thought he'd say oh you know i thought i did so you should crash out
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and no he's like why would i risk my freedom for something like that no i packed myself and i'd leave
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my dad told me that when i was young and that's exactly what i do guys if you get you're cheating just
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leave don't do anything crazy that'll put you in jail or you lose your freedom or anything like that
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just move on with life that's it yeah you can take a video though but don't crash out on the video
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just take it for court be like thank you all right all right guys thank you so much for watching again
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appreciate it um please like the video on your way out please subscribe to the channel if you can
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and um i will see you guys maybe tomorrow probably monday but i'll see you bye