JustPearlyThings - When Wives Cheat (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 A dozen women being asked the following question, do we need men? 1.00

00:00:05.620 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. 0.99

00:00:11.280 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. 0.98

00:00:14.200 Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:17.220 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:21.920 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:25.720 The future is female. 1.00

00:00:27.780 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. 0.99

00:00:36.080 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:39.000 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:41.700 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:45.260 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:49.340 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:51.940 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:54.940 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married. 0.99

00:00:59.880 It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:03.600 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:07.260 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:10.060 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:15.220 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:16.560 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:01:21.000 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:01:23.880 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:01:26.560 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:31.500 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:34.700 You need no evidence.

00:01:35.560 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:39.540 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:42.880 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:45.440 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:47.860 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:49.920 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:52.320 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:53.720 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:55.620 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:01:58.060 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:02.280 Family is a foundation of society.

00:02:03.880 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:02:07.160 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:02:11.500 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

00:02:13.420 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:15.240 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 0.99

00:02:17.000 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:19.760 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend. 0.99

00:02:24.260 Oh, freeze your eggs, have an abortion. 1.00

00:02:26.060 What? 1.00

00:02:26.480 You're evil.

00:02:27.320 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail. 0.65

00:02:30.960 If you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally,

00:02:35.780 the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:37.980 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:38.880 That's the thing.

00:02:39.460 Women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00

00:02:42.640 This is not about happiness.

00:02:44.440 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:46.780 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when

00:02:51.580 I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:54.340 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:59.160 They think, well, men have all the rights. 0.95

00:03:00.680 They have all the power.

00:03:02.020 Privileged patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:04.280 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.99

00:03:06.900 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:10.080 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:12.020 Men are homeless.

00:03:12.980 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:14.700 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:18.960 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:24.540 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:28.440 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.99

00:03:31.060 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among

00:03:36.900 men than among women. 0.87

00:03:38.160 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:40.000 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:41.240 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:42.860 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:44.120 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 1.00

00:03:46.040 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.66

00:03:48.480 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:52.380 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get- 0.99

00:03:54.620 500K.

00:03:55.400 500K.

00:03:55.800 300K.

00:03:56.340 300K.

00:03:56.800 200K.

00:03:57.220 Am I crazy?

00:03:57.900 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:04:00.140 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them. 1.00

00:04:03.680 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:07.560 Women. 0.81

00:04:09.180 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:11.220 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:13.480 I'm over it.

00:04:14.580 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:15.860 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:17.660 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:20.460 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:21.780 You simp for men. 0.99

00:04:22.180 No, I think you simp for women. 1.00

00:04:23.800 She's a provocateur. 1.00

00:04:24.780 She says stupid stuff. 1.00

00:04:25.960 But Pearl is right about this thing. 1.00

00:04:27.280 It's already happening.

00:04:28.360 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:29.820 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want 0.99

00:04:33.440 a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00

00:04:35.240 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:39.760 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:43.680 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:45.420 The American story does not end well.

00:04:47.960 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:50.920 What up, guys?

00:04:59.400 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:05:01.900 I am your host, Pearl.

00:05:02.780 And today we are going to be talking about when modern wives cheat. 1.00

00:05:08.980 But before we get into today's topic, I want to send a thank you to Aaron Lev.

00:05:15.620 I'm not going to say the ad because I don't want to dox anybody.

00:05:18.360 But thank you so much for the donation.

00:05:20.680 He donated $1,000.

00:05:22.180 Guys, we are 500 bucks away from raising $30,000 for the divorce documentary.

00:05:27.720 I want to first say thank you guys all so much.

00:05:30.580 It really means a lot to me if we get to roughly $100,000.

00:05:34.320 I can hire a full-time editor on site to get this done.

00:05:38.120 Um, that's like for like the next year.

00:05:42.600 Okay.

00:05:43.420 So anyways, I wanted to first say thank you guys so much.

00:05:47.340 I really appreciate it.

00:05:48.780 And, um, if you do want to donate, it's the second link in the description.

00:05:53.020 Otherwise, we are starting a members only community where you can improve your fitness,

00:05:58.660 your money, and also it teaches you how to use the court system against your ex.

00:06:02.560 Not immoral, not illegal, slightly immoral, but it's in the, it's in the, um,

00:06:07.220 it's in the community.

00:06:08.440 You do have to apply for it.

00:06:09.840 So anyways, that's my sales pitch for the day.

00:06:13.380 So I was talking to someone.

00:06:15.840 I kind of want to just start off the show telling you guys about a conversation I had

00:06:22.800 and just some of my general thoughts before we get into the topic.

00:06:27.000 So there was somebody that I had a conversation with that was like, person C was pissed off

00:06:36.320 about something.

00:06:37.040 I said, this happens to me a lot.

00:06:39.880 You know, you talk for three hours straight.

00:06:42.680 Some woman watches your show and they just feel the need to nag you or send men that are 1.00

00:06:50.640 easily manipulated to nag you about whatever.

00:06:53.880 So this person comes up to me and they're like, all right, what is your platform about?

00:06:59.860 And I was trying to think of how I could give an overview of what I'm trying to say and like

00:07:05.360 what I believe.

00:07:07.240 And he's like, are you pushing for change?

00:07:09.320 Are you trying to, and I'm like, I'd love to see change, but I don't really, I don't

00:07:14.620 want to sell hope.

00:07:15.680 I think that's kind of dishonest.

00:07:17.320 Um, and I don't think it's going to happen.

00:07:19.080 And this person was like, well, things change all the time.

00:07:22.760 And why don't you think it's going to happen?

00:07:25.420 And the best way I could describe it to somebody that doesn't follow the content is women make 1.00

00:07:32.440 80% of consumer buying decisions.

00:07:35.680 Women spend, men don't. 1.00

00:07:37.980 And what we're seeing going on is society is trying to give women as much money as possible 0.64

00:07:44.580 in order to give us the power to make them money.

00:07:50.920 So plastic surgeons benefit if women spend money on plastic surgery. 1.00

00:07:57.720 Um, restaurants benefit if women are going out to the restaurants with their friends. 0.99

00:08:02.580 And the reason academia is so messed up is because any study that says anything negative about

00:08:12.200 women, isn't going to be funded because women are behind everything. 1.00

00:08:18.620 And, um, I was just trying to explain that.

00:08:24.280 And I was trying to give this rough overview.

00:08:26.420 I'm like, look, all of society is catering to women. 1.00

00:08:30.420 They give women easier grades in high school, not all, but a lot. 1.00

00:08:36.420 They give women easier jobs after college and they give, they pay women more for doing less 0.99

00:08:42.620 and they bail women out of debt and men end up paying for it either through marriage or

00:08:48.160 through our taxes or through some government bailout program.

00:08:51.360 And, um, um, now that women have all this power and freedom, we're finding out that women's 1.00

00:09:08.040 true nature is that they don't want to be moms and they're whores. 1.00

00:09:10.640 And they're not as nurturing as we thought. 1.00

00:09:17.900 They're like sleeping with middle schoolers and killing kids every other week.

00:09:22.800 Women's true nature is not nice, special, and awesome. 1.00

00:09:26.600 And this person was like, well, isn't that kind of bleak?

00:09:29.300 And I'm like, yeah, but why do I have to be, and some of your comments from yesterday's

00:09:37.340 show, a lot of them were saying, I've watched you forever, Pearl.

00:09:41.980 You know, I've, I've poured so much into this channel, but.

00:09:49.500 You know, your new messaging is just, um, it's so sad.

00:09:53.540 And I had to think about it.

00:09:55.900 I had to think about how did I get to this point?

00:09:58.780 Why do I, why was I so much more hopeful two or three years ago than I am now?

00:10:05.280 And I would say it's because when I started seeing men's point of view and kind of arguing 0.97

00:10:11.420 more on the side of men, people started treating me like a man.

00:10:17.740 Calling out female sin, you get treated just like men. 0.99

00:10:21.680 And it's so depleting and exhausting. 0.99

00:10:27.620 Because you, you might say, like, if I say women are whores, I have to deal with 10 women 0.99

00:10:33.740 screaming at me that they're not in fact whores before I can even get to my point that you 1.00

00:10:40.660 just start to be like, do I really want to go into this today?

00:10:44.860 Do I really?

00:10:47.740 And I think that's what men go through is they realize if they're honest with women,

00:10:51.680 women, they either lose money or they get screamed at and it's just not worth the hassle. 1.00

00:10:58.420 Like I saw Jesse Lee Peterson and I'm a big fan of him, but he had something, he said,

00:11:02.080 why are men afraid of women?

00:11:03.220 I'm like, I'm kind of afraid of women. 1.00

00:11:06.480 They have so much power.

00:11:07.860 They have the state on their side, the police on their side, the media on their side.

00:11:12.880 They kind of scare me.

00:11:17.660 I'm even afraid to be honest about things that have gone on the last few years.

00:11:22.620 Because if I'm honest, these women retaliate. 1.00

00:11:29.220 They retaliate times 10.

00:11:31.440 But when somebody's blue-pilled, it is so difficult to explain this to them because this person

00:11:38.100 was like, that's just not what I've seen.

00:11:41.740 And I always respect someone's right to have a difference of opinion or not agree with me or whatever.

00:11:47.120 But I was trying to explain to this person that men literally produce 80% of the world's stuff.

00:12:00.860 How the hell are we even close to making the same amount of money?

00:12:07.340 Women get control of 100% of who's born. 1.00

00:12:11.220 Women have all the power. 1.00

00:12:13.280 We're in a matriarchy now. 1.00

00:12:16.640 Anyways, I just kind of wanted to give you guys that rant.

00:12:20.060 We're going to do a show tomorrow.

00:12:21.780 Or maybe not tomorrow.

00:12:22.980 Tomorrow or Monday.

00:12:25.040 I haven't decided if I'm going to stream tomorrow or not.

00:12:27.120 But we're going to do a show tomorrow where you guys can call in the people that maybe have

00:12:31.980 changed their opinion about me or feel as though I've changed.

00:12:36.800 You know, it's really going to ask the question, why should we have hope?

00:12:41.680 Why?

00:12:43.280 What is the purpose?

00:12:45.580 Okay, so I'm done with that riff.

00:12:50.400 Let me know if you have any thoughts in the comments.

00:12:53.620 But we are going to get into today's show topic.

00:12:57.480 So, all right.

00:12:59.560 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:13:03.240 Now, I've said for years that marriage is a bad deal for men.

00:13:07.260 Why would a man get married in 2025?

00:13:09.400 Now, when I first started my platform, I was very naive.

00:13:14.480 I thought that there was a reason for men to get married.

00:13:18.400 I didn't understand why men didn't want to get married.

00:13:22.880 I didn't.

00:13:23.660 People around me were married.

00:13:24.960 It didn't.

00:13:25.700 Even if they divorced, it didn't seem that bad on paper.

00:13:30.900 But a crazy thing happens.

00:13:32.420 When you start getting red-pilled, and I'll tell you what.

00:13:34.900 I'll give you an example of something that red-pilled me.

00:13:37.340 So, when I interviewed the 1,000 women, and I realized how often women lied about abuse.

00:13:47.340 Because I would ask, the women would say they were abused. 1.00

00:13:51.100 And I would say, okay, how were you abused?

00:13:53.320 And I would ask them like 10 questions.

00:13:55.840 And they would just, their story would fall apart.

00:13:57.940 And I thought, okay.

00:13:59.100 Now, if these women are all lying about this, what does that mean about, like, the general population? 0.90

00:14:07.540 Like, that has to extrapolate to, like, my childhood.

00:14:10.600 And there was one man who was a soldier in my hometown, but he was deployed.

00:14:17.200 And his wife, that was the story, that he was abusive.

00:14:19.680 And so, years later, because you hear these stories, and you're just like, oh, he must have been abusive.

00:14:26.460 And years later, retrospectively, you realize that the guy wasn't.

00:14:31.560 But he had to go through all of that pain.

00:14:33.940 Like, it probably took him a decade to clear his reputation.

00:14:38.660 So, again, I was naive.

00:14:41.700 Because from my perspective, you know, men are often silent about what they're going through in marriage.

00:14:47.120 You don't realize it.

00:14:47.960 There were so many benefits for men, I used to think.

00:14:52.260 But after doing my show in London, filming a divorce documentary, and just observing modern women in society, I realized how wrong I was.

00:15:01.140 Men get nothing from marriage. 0.93

00:15:02.720 Absolutely nothing.

00:15:03.740 And the risk you take from getting married is not worth the cost of getting divorced.

00:15:10.020 So, let's say a man does get married.

00:15:12.240 He's going to have to marry one of these modern women, who value their happiness and their selfish desires more than anything. 1.00

00:15:20.420 And what do selfish women do? 1.00

00:15:22.020 They cheat.

00:15:23.000 It's estimated that 24% of women cheat on their boyfriends and their husbands.

00:15:27.340 And that is a self-reported stat.

00:15:30.420 Meaning, we all know that women rarely say anything to make themselves or other women look bad. 0.99

00:15:36.340 So, I would doubt that number.

00:15:38.940 The average man has to have a plan for, not if, but when, their girlfriend cheats on them.

00:15:44.340 And that's the sad reality.

00:15:45.900 It's the current times that we are living in.

00:15:48.640 That is what we're going to talk about today.

00:15:51.220 Wives that cheat on their husbands. 1.00

00:15:53.080 So, this is going to be a call-in show.

00:15:55.300 So, as I go through these clips, I want you to get ready to call in and talk about if you caught your wife or your girlfriend cheating on you, how did you find out?

00:16:04.220 Why did she say she cheated? 1.00

00:16:06.120 And what type of guy did she cheat with? 1.00

00:16:08.300 I also want to know if she gaslit as hard as these women do in these videos. 1.00

00:16:15.040 Because these are pretty insane.

00:16:17.680 Okay, so we're going to watch.

00:16:20.280 What's she got going on?

00:16:21.680 What?

00:16:23.000 This is all a friend.

00:16:24.920 All right, so.

00:16:29.240 Yo, Elena, what you got going on?

00:16:31.480 What?

00:16:32.700 This is all a friend.

00:16:35.000 This is what she turned Jehovah's Witness for. 1.00

00:16:37.260 So, she's dying on this lie.

00:16:41.300 She's dying on the lie.

00:16:45.140 Yep, she's like, I'm dying by this.

00:16:48.960 I'm dying on this sword.

00:16:50.040 He's a friend.

00:16:55.760 Bro, and you got my kids on the ground.

00:17:00.260 Bro, you got my kids on the ground, bro.

00:17:07.260 My daughter's on the ground.

00:17:13.220 What's her? 1.00

00:17:14.560 A grown-ass nigga like this. 1.00

00:17:16.340 I'm not even mad, bro. 0.99

00:17:21.380 But she got a goal, bro.

00:17:22.760 I mean, she got DCF problems.

00:17:24.220 She got all types of stuff, bro.

00:17:25.940 This is crazy.

00:17:26.800 This is crazy.

00:17:28.820 This is really crazy.

00:17:30.280 This is crazy, bro.

00:17:33.300 I don't know.

00:17:34.240 I don't know.

00:17:34.820 Well, you know, it's all.

00:17:35.740 I don't know.

00:17:36.040 That don't even matter, bro.

00:17:37.600 But, dude, she got two kids, bro.

00:17:40.520 She, she, like, if you see my daughter, my daughter's on the ground, bro.

00:17:43.360 Like, no, no, seriously.

00:17:46.540 She's on the ground, bro.

00:17:49.860 Okay.

00:17:50.960 So, how do we rate her lying?

00:17:54.740 What do we think?

00:17:55.780 All right.

00:17:56.080 Next, we got wife catches, or man catches his wife in Walmart with another man.

00:18:01.200 That looks pretty, that looks pretty good.

00:18:09.660 That looks pretty good.

00:18:11.100 What are you doing here?

00:18:12.540 What am I doing here?

00:18:14.140 No, I don't know this guy.

00:18:15.400 What are you doing here?

00:18:16.460 What am I doing here?

00:18:17.140 Really?

00:18:17.400 Stop.

00:18:18.580 Really?

00:18:19.160 Stop filming.

00:18:20.220 What are you doing?

00:18:20.960 Who's this guy?

00:18:21.880 Oh, my.

00:18:22.420 I'm sorry.

00:18:23.760 Dude, hold on.

00:18:24.460 No, everything's not okay.

00:18:25.960 What are you doing filming?

00:18:26.900 Stop.

00:18:27.240 Turn it off.

00:18:27.700 Why are you her boss?

00:18:28.420 Is there even that your boss?

00:18:29.520 Oh, my God.

00:18:30.420 I don't.

00:18:31.200 Are you guys in work hours right now?

00:18:33.620 Yeah, we're working.

00:18:34.480 Stop.

00:18:34.940 Are you guys working by injury?

00:18:36.520 Seriously?

00:18:37.460 Why are you even here?

00:18:38.460 By injury?

00:18:39.220 Really?

00:18:40.700 Really?

00:18:41.220 Oh, my God.

00:18:41.900 Upside.

00:18:42.600 Upside.

00:18:43.120 No, we're not going outside.

00:18:44.660 There is nothing sadder than a guy catching a girl cheating and still trying to order his wife

00:18:50.400 around, bro.

00:18:52.180 She's gone.

00:18:53.700 Get your video.

00:18:54.880 Go to court.

00:18:55.920 File the papers.

00:18:57.540 Upside.

00:18:58.920 Upside.

00:18:59.440 No, we're not going outside.

00:19:00.580 We're not going outside.

00:19:03.700 Really?

00:19:04.600 Really?

00:19:05.000 You're cheating on me? 0.86

00:19:09.360 Really?

00:19:11.560 Really?

00:19:12.800 What are you doing?

00:19:15.420 You don't have to pay for that.

00:19:17.160 Just put it here for now.

00:19:18.200 Really?

00:19:19.720 Why are you following us?

00:19:21.920 Why are you following us?

00:19:22.780 Wait, seriously.

00:19:23.540 Stop.

00:19:23.800 No, really?

00:19:24.720 We're cheating.

00:19:27.260 Ah.

00:19:29.760 Going out sad.

00:19:32.060 All right.

00:19:32.580 We got a man catching his wife at the pool with another man.

00:19:35.800 Yeah.

00:19:40.860 Yeah.

00:19:42.040 Mm-hmm.

00:19:43.240 Yeah.

00:19:44.580 Yeah.

00:19:45.180 Yeah.

00:19:46.060 All right.

00:19:46.340 It's going to make you sleep.

00:19:48.060 Huh?

00:19:50.280 Oh, yeah.

00:19:51.340 So we're rubbing our toes, huh?

00:19:52.840 That's what we doing?

00:19:54.160 That's what we doing?

00:19:55.500 That's what we doing?

00:19:56.360 My man, what are you doing?

00:19:57.200 That's what we doing?

00:19:58.360 Huh?

00:19:58.740 Oh, you're stuck.

00:19:59.580 You're stuck now. 1.00

00:20:00.540 You think I'm stupid, huh? 1.00

00:20:02.040 I think I'm stupid. 1.00

00:20:02.680 What's up? 1.00

00:20:05.040 Talk to me.

00:20:05.640 What's this?

00:20:06.580 Oh, so you can't.

00:20:07.320 You mute now.

00:20:08.200 Now you're turned to a mute.

00:20:09.700 Let the whole world see you.

00:20:11.000 Thank you.

00:20:11.600 Yeah, there you go.

00:20:13.180 What's up?

00:20:13.720 Talk to me.

00:20:14.240 What's this?

00:20:17.000 Oh, you can't talk?

00:20:18.640 You can't talk now?

00:20:20.920 Really?

00:20:21.520 Wow.

00:20:22.560 You can't talk.

00:20:23.180 So he didn't abandon you.

00:20:24.660 You can't talk now?

00:20:26.140 Huh?

00:20:27.640 Huh?

00:20:28.260 Now, my man, come get back on them toes.

00:20:30.160 Get back.

00:20:30.940 No, you get back, huh?

00:20:32.680 So you bought a pool, so you at work.

00:20:35.420 So far, I think she's done the best reaction. 0.99

00:20:38.060 You got to just shut up. 0.98

00:20:40.380 Don't defend yourself. 1.00

00:20:41.680 Just shut up. 1.00

00:20:43.380 So you bought a pool, so you at work? 1.00

00:20:45.140 How did you know I was doing it?

00:20:46.440 How did you know I was doing it?

00:20:47.020 You at work, though?

00:20:48.500 Work?

00:20:49.460 Is this what you're doing at work?

00:20:50.560 So if I'm at work, how did you?

00:20:51.700 So if you're so good, you've got to tell you what.

00:20:53.260 Is what you're doing at work?

00:20:54.180 If I'm at work, how did you know I was doing it?

00:20:55.260 Come here, what you're working.

00:20:56.520 Why you're not at work?

00:20:56.840 Come here, come here, man. 1.00

00:20:58.100 So why you're not at work?

00:20:58.900 Are you recording?

00:20:59.720 I is.

00:21:00.360 yeah

00:21:04.060 all right next we got a man surprises a woman with a video of her cheating

00:21:11.400 that's you cheating on me 1.00

00:21:17.220 that's you cheating on me so get the fuck my house right now all right sit on the street 1.00

00:21:26.200 you're punching over I know okay you ready okay 1.00

00:21:41.820 I made a card for you remove the blindfold yeah that's you cheating on me so get the 1.00

00:21:56.200 fuck out of my house right now I'm glad you drove an hour for no reason and this is going 1.00

00:22:02.160 on YouTube sweetheart I know you don't care get the fuck out get out get out of my house 1.00

00:22:10.040 right now leave hey YouTube you're gonna be famous sweetheart yeah she had a good reaction 0.98

00:22:22.440 now I'm just if I was to advise a cheater I'd just say to stay calm because this guy like

00:22:30.400 he's trying to exert authority he doesn't have anymore so trying to make her sad she doesn't

00:22:35.340 leave leave leave and leave okay um all right apparently someone else caught his wife cheating 0.98

00:22:53.040 on valentine's day

00:22:54.420 all right full screen

00:22:59.000 he said that's not what it looks like oh that's hilarious oh and I want to see this one

00:23:27.660 actually my wife for 10 years yeah 10 years boy

00:23:33.840 Eileen is there anything you want to say

00:23:39.620 well looks like both of you are in real big trouble but you know what

00:23:52.560 I'm gonna let you go just for this one time 10 miles usually I pull people over giving really

00:24:02.280 big tickets but you didn't know this is my wife you don't know so you lied to him you never told him 0.52

00:24:09.040 me and you were married never asked I mean like I like perfect work like it's all the things

00:24:16.720 like we say barriers like that's basic you don't have them help you know I mean you didn't ask

00:24:22.720 well I mean like you're on my tenders like what are you doing okay well sir

00:24:26.140 women gaslight to the end of time we say why do you enjoy watching the men getting crushed 0.93

00:24:33.940 I don't enjoy it but

00:24:36.580 there are times when it's just go don't go out sad do you know what I mean

00:24:46.720 if a girl tells you she doesn't want you through her actions or her words 0.90

00:24:50.440 just let her go um sir I've had enough of this you are good to go

00:24:56.760 I don't I'm not shaking your head don't let me see you again

00:24:59.980 okay let's see the next one

00:25:11.620 we're gonna make it full screen here you mean what I'm doing it's my house

00:25:19.960 no hell yeah we together 23 years what the phone is too much what is going I mean the phone is too

00:25:29.200 much no we're not separated man we got two kids together you ain't telling that

00:25:35.320 I'm putting out nothing this is going on Facebook live

00:25:38.620 where do you need to go

00:25:39.940 are you filming this yes I'm filming this look what we got here we got campaign

00:25:47.560 strawberry orange juice oh look over here Facebook we got some bacon grits yeah it's

00:25:54.600 pretty nice pretty nice pretty nice food we got some bacon grits

00:26:01.600 pancakes yeah I'm filming this why we're not doing this I'm gonna post it Facebook live let's go live everybody

00:26:15.120 you think I found out 23 years at the house the neighbors told me

00:26:21.360 hey man that's not like a personal problem

00:26:27.120 hey man that's not like a personal problem

00:26:34.120 dude the comments are saying with Bart Simpson with him you can't film this I

00:26:43.840 have a guy wife and kids well so did the guy filming it's not his fault for

00:26:48.820 thinking that the wife was separated but it is his fault for stepping out of his

00:26:52.180 own marriage yeah all right he was helping her out with groceries let's see

00:27:01.660 this next one oh wait we saw this one oh we know okay

00:27:10.180 I was just about to help her with her groceries

00:27:29.180 i was just about to help her with her groceries

00:27:34.860 i was about to help her with her grocery bro stop here bro 0.98

00:27:38.700 what's up playing with me bro bro why are you going to the pool bro why are you coming at me

00:27:48.620 bro we just saw y'all cuddled up and talking and laughing like

00:27:53.420 groceries bro he was talking about going to get the groceries why are you pressing me for like

00:28:01.020 this is my cousin uh it's y'all cousins yes my cousin was helping me bring the groceries

00:28:09.500 press her so y'all cousins my cousin so y'all 0.98

00:28:14.700 he's black and you're mexican doing that again and black so y'all won't do nothing 1.00

00:28:18.860 they're like what's going on yeah i can't decide who's the guy getting cheated on if it's the big 0.99

00:28:23.260 guy you kind of did that to yourself a girl that thin she's gonna cheat after so long 1.00

00:28:30.540 you're up here by yourself and why you want to answer his phone cause he calls you

00:28:41.180 so cooked all right next we got a woman cheated with her co-worker

00:28:48.860 i don't know

00:28:56.540 what's going on cause this messed up

00:29:00.380 get get your and get the out

00:29:04.380 what get the out get your and get the out

00:29:08.940 but what get the nah who who is up

00:29:13.900 who so

00:29:14.620 i don't know so you stop playing that the dude already showed me the message i'm i'm on it

00:29:21.180 what are you talking about you don't know so if i hit him up you you're not gonna know him

00:29:24.620 my co-worker oh yeah now you remember

00:29:28.620 you know him you know you've been around so that's my co-worker that's like my friend that's

00:29:31.900 like my partner i know his girlfriend yeah well his girlfriend know that you

00:29:34.620 did you definitely put your your partner hold on cool we my brother like my bro

00:29:42.220 doesn't see i know how that game just look just it's cool i'm not tripping get your and get out

00:29:47.180 i like this guy's reaction he's not saying oh you're gonna be youtube famous

00:29:52.380 he said it's cool i'm not tripping get your and get out that's it i'm not sure you just get up

00:30:04.780 you're gonna go about with somebody get your things and get the out please

00:30:09.820 you're gonna do this on christmas eve it's not it's not

00:30:11.900 if you yep yes he is okay next husband catches wife cheating we got the last one let's put the

00:30:21.180 zoom link in the chat and you guys can tell me if you've caught someone cheating how it happened

00:30:27.260 men or women feel free

00:30:28.700 what are you doing why are you recording me say hi hi hello what you doing here

00:30:46.540 oh tiffany yeah i'm gonna ask you one more time what are you doing here i already told you i'm going

00:30:52.940 to meet tiffany so um what about mitchell the personal trainer you don't know

00:31:02.940 anyone else got got by a personal trainer that'll do it and the jujitsu instructors

00:31:11.900 you don't know i'm talking about no you know the one you sent your list to you don't remember that 0.98

00:31:18.460 one so you've been going through my phone no i mentioned i can't get your ass to catch you 0.96

00:31:26.780 what i i tried to touch you i knew yeah i knew why do some like that 0.93

00:31:33.340 i can't believe this how the you're gonna do this this is wild man it's a thing i'm about to make you

00:31:39.020 my wife oh yeah right it's been three years oh three years so what's this baby what's this 0.99

00:31:45.820 what's this huh what's that what's that huh what's that oh uh uh she's like damn 0.99

00:31:57.180 don't touch me you're a five dollar what she's going to do meet up with them suckers they'll come 1.00

00:32:02.620 back and kiss me in the mall and i get more you're just talking do you not know that that's in your lips 1.00

00:32:14.540 yep

00:32:17.340 all right guys call in i want to hear from you have you caught your ex cheating and if so how

00:32:24.460 what type of guys was she cheating with we got doug mpa on the line hey how are you

00:32:33.260 i'm fantastic so tell me what are your thoughts on the show so i um i waited tables uh at this

00:32:44.780 restaurant in my hometown and this waitress she was out for a couple of weeks and then she came 1.00

00:32:51.020 back and she was like half limping and i'm like what happened to you she's like yeah you know i got in

00:32:57.500 a car accident well you know i come from a town that's big it's a big town but a small town socially

00:33:04.780 and so you know i i did i researched my sources and i found out that um

00:33:10.540 her and her baby's father they were breaking up and getting back together breaking up and getting

00:33:14.540 back together right and so they were they were in an in-between period and she was at target

00:33:24.460 and she saw her baby's father with another woman

00:33:27.500 and no it's funny because yeah i know this girl since um i've known this girl since ellen mitchie

00:33:37.180 school she's one of those light-skinned black girls but a lot of the light-skinned black girls 1.00

00:33:42.140 they overcompensate in the ratchet to to try to prove how black they are you know i'm saying okay 1.00

00:33:49.660 so anyway so she's one of those so she's yelling and screaming in target she's running after them so 0.98

00:33:57.580 her baby's father grabs his girlfriend's hand and they're running through target and she's running

00:34:02.860 after him they jump in the girl's car and take off she takes off in her car and she's ramming them 0.53

00:34:11.420 off the road like she she's driving she's driving after him catches up to him rams him off the road

00:34:17.740 into a light pole yeah yep and so she did they get back together uh i don't even i didn't even ask

00:34:31.420 back then i don't even know but i just know that she had to go to the hospital because of the car

00:34:35.900 accident and she was on muscle relaxers and had to go through physical therapy because of the car

00:34:41.100 accident but she chased him in her car and then ran him off the road and hit a light pole 0.83

00:34:49.260 pearl reed um i showed 10 seconds of nala ray to my girlfriend and she agreed with you completely um

00:34:59.420 that's after 30 stop asking why i don't get why men have to record but i guess it's to show proof

00:35:06.540 that they weren't abusive when they exposed the cheater here's the thing guys women record everything 1.00

00:35:14.940 so men should do it's always better to have a camera out and catch things on camera you don't

00:35:20.300 know why men have to record what kind of what is that about always work especially as a man if a woman's

00:35:27.340 in your house and does anything whip out your phone and record it it's your best chance when the police

00:35:35.020 come and stop trying to hold men to this higher standard men used to hold themselves to a higher

00:35:41.580 standard but women called that patriarchy so don't you know fight fire with fire if women record everything 1.00

00:35:48.220 you should too is there anyone on the line yeah uh-huh trying to think there's oh actually i do have

00:35:58.620 a cheating story this wasn't me but this was someone i knew in school how she caught her boyfriend cheating 0.66

00:36:06.940 she had he she had his location so i don't know why um he would like do it so openly when you know 0.69

00:36:14.460 like it's kind of normal in the younger generations people just share each other's location dumbest thing 0.89

00:36:20.140 i've ever heard what it's the dumbest thing i ever heard but but that's how i caught my ex-wife cheating 1.00

00:36:27.980 could you better okay you can tell the story next but this guy but i kind of knew because 0.80

00:36:33.980 i warned her before she dated him i'm like look this guy he's do what you want but i'm just letting

00:36:43.420 you know he's always cheated she kept going i'm like okay because she was like a young freshman girl

00:36:48.140 right and long story short she finds his location is at his ex-girlfriend's dorm that was that was at

00:36:57.020 a school nearby like 30 minutes but on the phone it was kind of crazy because he like had this whole

00:37:03.580 elaborate story and he was like oh my like he kept saying that people were suicidal

00:37:11.100 so because i was there when he she was on the phone with him and he was like oh she was threatening

00:37:17.340 to commit suicide so i had to come there's all these like cops here and whatever and there was

00:37:22.780 another girl there and she was like could you just go check this dorm because she knew someone at that

00:37:27.980 school so she's like is there an ambulance there is there which we all knew was kind of bs but this guy

00:37:34.220 just like it was weird listening to him because he just was like dying on this lie and then it got

00:37:40.540 even weirder because then she like broke up with him and then he was threatening to kill himself

00:37:46.140 like he was like oh i'll kill myself and then we got on the phone like she was like calling his family

00:37:51.340 to make sure he did it this is wrong this is when we were like 20 or 21 and it was so weird because

00:37:59.020 the sister like did not care like i think he did this on the regular with his girlfriends because

00:38:06.380 she was like really concerned on the phone and like talking to the sister and the mom like oh he's

00:38:11.900 threatening to kill himself and they're just like uh-huh and i'm sitting there like why are you buying this so

00:38:22.620 we took this one step further the girl so the girl that i'm talking about she was like a light-skinned 0.99

00:38:29.580 like black girl and basically he he like transferred or something but he went to a different school but

00:38:42.780 it was like pretty close because where i went there was like a lot of small schools like right next to

00:38:46.780 each other and i figured like they're mostly white schools so i figured he had a type he probably liked

00:38:53.020 light-skinned like black girls so um i basically i knew like it's such a small school that everyone

00:39:02.300 knows someone at one of these schools and they ended up getting like screenshots from one of the girls 0.82

00:39:08.540 like we just looked at the rosters on um on like the volleyball and basketball pages and so it's like if

00:39:16.060 you look up like the light-skinned black girls at like a white school there's only going to be so 1.00

00:39:20.620 many do you know what i'm saying like there's like five girls to ask and yeah they found a side chick

00:39:25.740 in like a day so it wasn't that hard but i'll be honest though they stayed together i've talked about

00:39:32.540 this before that was the last time i ever involved myself in something like that because it was very

00:39:37.820 awkward for me because they stayed together ugh i know they stayed together after all that and he

00:39:45.980 like hated me and this other because it was like the freshman girl and then me and this other girl

00:39:52.220 that were like there and he hated it was so awkward after that he was like so pissed and i was like you

00:39:59.820 know what hindsight 2020 i should just never have gotten involved never okay i was like i learned the

00:40:08.220 lesson i was like because i think i took it too far but i shouldn't have um messaged the girls at the

00:40:16.380 other schools but i'm like it's so easy like just ask and hindsight 2020 maybe i but we did get

00:40:24.780 screenshots of him like dming them in like a day it wasn't that hard i told you guys the story about

00:40:32.540 my relationship with my mom most of my life she was awful but she did give me some good advice she

00:40:37.260 told you when i was young if a girl tries to do that i'm gonna kill myself don't fall for it and you

00:40:42.540 know it's a good response if someone tries to say that to you and you're in a relationship with her

00:40:47.740 are you breaking up with them she said you know you you know what you should say say go ahead

00:40:52.620 i know go ahead do it yeah don't let anyone hold you emotionally hot just like that why no don't

00:41:03.660 let them do it and and i can say so i'm not gonna tell the whole story but i got to the point where

00:41:11.340 i had my ex-wife's location and she was at a restaurant with another guy and i was outside

00:41:18.540 and i was like should i go in and i didn't go in you didn't i didn't know why i actually called my

00:41:26.540 family and well i called my i called my father actually and he's like what are you what are you

00:41:34.220 gonna go in there for nothing good can happen if you go in there oh because it could have been a fight

00:41:39.900 or like yep you're my son i don't want to see you go to jail or anything so don't go in there and he was

00:41:44.220 right i didn't go in there so it was did you see the guy or no no i left so how did you know that

00:41:53.100 she was there with a guy and not like a girl uh i mean you just know yeah you know so where did she 1.00

00:42:01.740 say she was uh well it was a thing where um i was working overtime because she was looking for we had

00:42:09.740 just moved to a new city and she was looking for a job but she was all stressed out because she

00:42:14.220 couldn't find a job now i have no idea why because i wasn't putting the expectation on it but she was 0.99

00:42:18.620 putting on herself and so she was mad at me because she didn't have a job and it was a new city and she's

00:42:24.780 blaming everything on me because moving to that city was was my fault and my idea and so i would come

00:42:31.100 home and we i would i was working 50 to 60 hours a week paying the bills and then she was mad at me 0.99

00:42:38.700 for being able to work but i had to work a lot to pay the bills and she's just one of those where

00:42:44.860 you know i guess when she gets mad at her whoever she's with she goes to cheat i guess but oh so she 1.00

00:42:52.860 was mad at you and like cheating spitefully yeah was she sleeping with them or going on dates do you

00:42:58.860 know how far she took you don't know but it was i know i know it was dates i mean i i'm assuming the

00:43:04.940 worst it was it was everything yeah so but yeah you know that's what happens when you're you know

00:43:11.340 that's why i keep telling you guys never trust a guy who says he he's never simped this is the west

00:43:17.180 90 of us have simped it's just a matter of how bad and how long and um remember the red pill 0.99

00:43:26.300 you don't take it orally most of the time it gets shoved up your ass 0.99

00:43:29.500 yes lucky leo says hi pearl i wanted to call him but i'll i'll just add a text my wife cheated 1.00

00:43:37.580 on me with a divorce lawyer we had three little kids then she filed had to sell the house and was 1.00

00:43:43.180 forced to move back home um damn i don't think your message is bleak or black filled the bible says this 0.91

00:43:51.900 life is the valley of tears and jesus says that the devil is prince of the world trad cons romanticize the 0.97

00:43:58.300 past oh actually i want to read a comment i saw on twitter i asked the question um what's the worst

00:44:06.540 guy that's stolen your girl or something like that um or who has stolen your girl that i don't know

00:44:14.220 it was just like really bad and it said i've had six pack abs for 20 years i make 150k year a year

00:44:21.420 i'm an amazing dad who is awarded majority custody after a divorce i don't gamble i don't drink

00:44:26.220 and i took care of all the finances and all the regular household duties my ex-wife cheated on me

00:44:31.580 with a hospital security guard sorry guys i gotta laugh a little bit because we're insane

00:44:39.900 and also hey so pearl and i got into this discussion what does it mean that a guy took your girl does the

00:44:50.060 girl have to leave you for him or just a guy that smashed your chick took your girl because i was 1.00

00:44:58.780 saying could you consider it your girl being taken by another guy if she's just trying to be a and cheat

00:45:09.020 it's almost worse than getting your girl taken though because you're paying all the bills 0.99

00:45:14.380 he is getting the hot like he's getting the best part of her he's getting like the hot sex and 0.99

00:45:20.780 whatever i mean it's all bad but like at least if he took her she's not your problem anymore that's you 0.99

00:45:33.180 i guess she's up for a shot what's up my friend how's it going let's go

00:45:37.740 what's good doug what's good pearl how y'all doing good how are you i can't complain life is good

00:45:45.980 shout out to all you guys man y'all i have been a ball out here laughing and having fun so shout

00:45:51.500 out to you guys i've been surviving after our breakup it's been tough but you know i've been making it

00:45:56.700 through oh this real fast how are you how are you emotionally and spiritually right now just so fast

00:46:03.740 hold on hold on yes everyone uh uh in the chat i i'm one of those 90s raised men most the guys raised

00:46:13.420 in the 90s with the r b boys to men music and then the the the roman the the sitcoms with urkel chasing

00:46:21.100 laura and roger chasing the sister sister twins the guys raised in the 90s we were the biggest most

00:46:26.700 romantic simps ever born into the united states and we all had to learn the hard way all of us

00:46:33.420 every single one of us so the that's why most of your red pill content creators are between the

00:46:40.220 ages of what like 43 and like 50 or something like that because we had at the war we had the

00:46:45.500 biggest wake-up call of any generation i'm sorry go ahead sean no shout out to you doug you remind me

00:46:52.860 you of my jeep i know right yeah we had those simp songs that yeah 100 man i'll make love to you

00:47:01.660 ain't what you want oh come on man all of it how are you emotionally and spiritually have you been able

00:47:08.700 to what's up with your life is everything okay yeah break up yeah you know i've been um it's been tough

00:47:15.660 you know but i think it was the best decision you know we were just two puzzle pieces that didn't fit

00:47:22.380 and and it was really about you just finding yourself you know being there for yourself and

00:47:29.180 developing and i'm glad that you're happy because that's the most important thing for you

00:47:34.700 i'm glad so of course i had situations where i caught somebody cheating but it really wasn't

00:47:47.580 a situation where i caught them cheating they told me they were cheating and i think i already shared it

00:47:52.940 with you guys the one that was on my birthday um if you want to yeah go ahead all right all right so

00:48:01.420 i'm chilling right just relaxing you know it's my birthday so i'm relaxing and it was my recent

00:48:07.580 birthday that just passed a couple of months ago and so one of my ling-lings you know she comes over 1.00

00:48:12.700 she has this fruit cake she went out with her mom and she made it and you know i don't eat like cake so

00:48:17.900 she made it just a fruit right they put it together they bring it and you know she comes up by herself

00:48:25.340 and we're sitting around and she lights the candles on secret and boom she brings it in

00:48:31.420 and then i'm like oh snaps okay cool don't care but anyways she brings it i blow out the candles make

00:48:38.620 my wish boom and then i look to her and say how are you doing everything's good and she's like yeah yeah

00:48:47.260 yeah i'm just so excited that you know i made this cake me and my mom took the time and i said i

00:48:52.940 appreciate it i was like everything's good in the relationship right any problems any complaints any

00:49:00.300 issues she gets dead quiet right

00:49:07.020 i lean in i hold her hand and i say you sure you could tell me anything you know i always have

00:49:16.140 an open door policy this is what my commanding officer used to tell us yeah you always get

00:49:20.940 troops that will come and tell you they did something if you always have an open door policy so

00:49:29.340 she sat there for a long time contemplating am i going to tell him this so a little bit later she

00:49:37.820 comes down she's like one time and then she starts crying of course i'm like it's okay get it out i'm

00:49:50.620 like tell the truth you know help yourself of all this pain and secret and lies so she ends up telling

00:49:58.940 yeah she slept with a guy she met him at the mall something where she works blah blah blah and i was like

00:50:06.620 it's completely fine and i said hey why do you think you've done that like what was going on and of

00:50:14.140 course it was me um but net net i was like okay but it's never me it's always you you did it for a

00:50:23.100 specific reason you have to explore that reason you have to figure out why do you love this guy

00:50:28.380 no i love you i love you you know all that garbage and then that as i told you guys after an advanced

00:50:36.460 conversation i put her on a motorbike kissed her on the forehead and she drove off into the sunset 0.63

00:50:42.780 you're still cool to this day but uh she has been categorized differently she was always categorized 1.00

00:50:49.660 differently but net net you just move on that's been hard to recover no i'm just kidding so that's

00:51:01.180 how i went down yeah you're dangerous they would they you would get a girl to admit that's awesome so

00:51:09.180 was there something that like made you like was she acting different or what or did you was she just

00:51:14.380 that type of person man bro i really didn't know really didn't care uh and plus she gave me her

00:51:20.300 track so i knew where she was i really check it all the time but net net you know cga says it only

00:51:26.140 takes 10 minutes for a girl to cheat five minutes at that you know so it's no tracking that you could 0.78

00:51:30.620 actually do that actually we'll figure it out but no i just had opening conversations always said truth

00:51:37.340 was the most important thing in a relationship and so always had that narrative and so she felt like

00:51:43.260 she was you know liberated and free enough to tell me the truth and so like i said if you tell me the

00:51:49.980 truth i won't punish you for it and so i wasn't like one of those guys that you said pearl are you

00:51:54.940 going on the internet oh yeah we about to shame you i'm about to nobody cares bro i just want the truth

00:52:02.860 and so i guess she said she felt as though it was my birthday and i deserved the truth other people

00:52:07.740 will say it's poor timing but what i would say is i don't care when the truth comes on my birthday

00:52:13.100 after my birthday when people want to say it they it might be the only time that they say it so you

00:52:18.860 know emotions go here and there so you better get the truth when you get it and so it really was

00:52:24.780 nothing she just came out and just said it how long were you guys dating about two years oh wow

00:52:35.740 do you just everybody has their reasons do you just assume after a certain amount of time

00:52:40.700 that they're just gonna i just assumed from the beginning humans are humans and they're gonna you

00:52:46.460 know like doug got a story guys are gonna call up everybody's got a story one of the things i said is

00:52:52.700 you got to be indifferent don't put your ego into what a girl does with her box that's gonna be the 1.00

00:52:58.460 destruction of you so when somebody comes to you and says i gave my box away it's your loss it really is

00:53:05.020 what did i lose nothing but i guess when you're married with seven kids and she getting half of 0.99

00:53:12.140 your assets that that's a little bit different but if you're just dating a girl that's why you don't

00:53:17.660 over commit yeah some of the videos the guys are like crashing out and my guys she does not care

00:53:25.500 i thought the best one i thought the best one was when the guy just said get out like we're done get

00:53:32.860 out that's it yeah and i don't even use curse words but they're nothing like that i don't say get out

00:53:39.340 because that stuff could be taken over somewhere you know that pearl yeah so a judge or somebody who's

00:53:45.020 stellar sent right blue pill rage and they're gonna be like oh you can't talk to her like that 0.94

00:53:49.820 and so i'll just be like oh okay pearl we were talking about this before the call and uh she's

00:53:56.060 like what would you do if you got caught cheating and your girl put a camera in your face and we were

00:54:03.340 going back and forth a little bit and i said i think the best thing to do is just to say nothing

00:54:07.500 say nothing and just leave because anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of

00:54:14.140 public opinion on that video don't say anything just leave facts what would you do if you were

00:54:24.140 if you were wrong and out there you got caught you go pull out a camera you get caught red-handed

00:54:31.260 what would you do well pearl i don't know what she was about to say but what i was going to say is i

00:54:38.380 always tell girls i'm never going to be monogamous so i i wouldn't get caught cheating i'll be doing

00:54:44.460 what i'm doing now of course they'll they can still put the camera in my face right and be like oh my

00:54:48.620 gosh i can't believe you actually did it and i'd be like well that's what i told you but i wouldn't

00:54:54.060 say nothing neither like you said what's the point of saying something it's not going to get me in the

00:54:57.580 way like you made a smart decision don't go in the restaurant i mean what are you about to do crash out

00:55:02.380 like people trying to eat you cheated on me shonequa with this guy and then everybody be looking at

00:55:08.620 you like what the hell so it's not going to help you to go in there and confront anybody that could

00:55:15.580 be a crash out guy too you don't want to do that he might pull out a burner so i could see you just 0.70

00:55:22.220 being like so how does the cheating make you feel are you okay for real for real that's all i can see

00:55:31.340 shot you know honey sit down let's talk about this and then the other girl i think i should leave 1.00

00:55:38.460 oh no you should stay too we should all talk about how we're feeling yeah how are you guys feeling let's

00:55:47.340 figure out a little bit i don't know you met her she met you you know how do you feel about meeting

00:55:53.500 each other is this the type of girl that you'd want to hang out with yeah i think you two might have a

00:55:59.340 lot in common aftercare man i'm trying to hook it up man hey look you got her it's yours best of luck

00:56:07.820 you know i i really don't care long as your life is good in itself then it is what it is i mean people

00:56:13.580 cheat all day every day around the world and so and they cheat at the same rate so it's just a reality

00:56:20.060 you got to deal with it's not gonna do you think it's not gonna destroy me do you think women always 1.00

00:56:26.460 cheat to leave because i don't think like they always say when women cheat with a guy they always 1.00

00:56:32.860 like him i'm like i don't i think that's false yeah that's super false that's some red pill talking

00:56:39.180 point yeah no that's crazy girls cheat because girls sleep with guys just because they want to try them 1.00

00:56:45.740 out we talked about that before yeah like it's all sorts of reasons but guys like to give them this sweet

00:56:51.900 and spice and everything nice image which is you know no girls they gotta have some emotion with you 1.00

00:56:57.420 you know us guys we don't have to have emotions that's a lie most guys are running around here with

00:57:01.660 more emotions than anybody else and most of the girls well they can do it for whatever sorts of reasons 1.00

00:57:07.180 you know what i'm saying like i think i sum it up this way sean right i sum it this way what do what do i

00:57:15.260 nothing is more important to modern women than their own selfish desires 1.00

00:57:18.540 and cheating is just another form of them pursuing their own selfish desires uh why did she sleep with 1.00

00:57:26.380 that guy because she wanted to and what are you going to do about it what are you gonna do because

00:57:33.660 she wanted to that's why i sum it up to that yeah she wanted to and then she could give you a reason 1.00

00:57:40.220 like the girl gave me a reason like oh because i don't remember the reason but it was something of the

00:57:45.820 sorts like oh he understood my pain i was like i bet he said he did what i understand you girl i would

00:57:52.940 never do that to you you know like you know i get it and boy okay cool whatever your reason is

00:57:58.940 everybody's got a reason and some could be reason with hey i liked him he looked good and i wanted to

00:58:04.380 hook up with him hey i did it now i look back oh i messed up it doesn't matter you know what i'm saying

00:58:10.620 at the end of the day that's their reason they're going to do what they want to do you're going to have to

00:58:13.660 let that go like women decide to categorize people like tate said in that interview you categorize 1.00

00:58:18.700 people and then just say okay roger that women cheat with men they hate and like don't even like 1.00

00:58:24.940 them do you know what i mean like they don't like them as people like i'm like there are times some

00:58:30.380 women like do you think the guy i read earlier she was really trying to leave with the hospital security guard 1.00

00:58:37.420 come on she was not you know leave come on no she just categorized them and used them for a specific

00:58:44.780 thing and then took it there with them yeah and that's just that yeah and they got massive amounts

00:58:49.900 of options i'd say you know often when they say like it's a problem with social networking i'm like

00:58:54.540 bro it's giving you guys the truth this used to be in the dark you know what i'm saying so the slave

00:59:01.900 master he was a slave master and his wife was still cheating with slaves like come on you know 1.00

00:59:08.220 what i'm saying he was a slave master i'm pretty sure he was the top one percent but it didn't matter

00:59:13.340 you know she was like i want to sleep with a slave i'm going to try him or whatever the case may be 0.99

00:59:18.060 so at the end of the day some shorties ran off with a slave like what the heck or they just get bored 0.96

00:59:23.100 like women will have like the best sex of their life and then they're bored after a year or two years five 0.99

00:59:29.100 years facts go back so the appetite is go ahead what do you say to all these guys are like oh yeah

00:59:37.500 i'm just going to go to a different country because women women they won't cheat and they're better 1.00

00:59:42.460 there and what would you say to those guys there's differences my guys i'm not going to say there's

00:59:51.900 no difference but to say that they don't cheat is crazy i forgot pearl when you did that with the

00:59:57.020 president the french president when he got slapped right remember he got slapped yeah yeah by his wife

01:00:03.260 yeah so vm and these men came out and said hey you get slapped by your wife too because they were 0.99

01:00:10.940 saying we get slapped by our wives so in asia passive submissive asian girls slapped their husbands too 1.00

01:00:18.460 like ladies are ladies man they cheat out here too bro like india is very bad but i think they did a 0.99

01:00:29.180 study it was seven out of ten women in india were cheating on their husbands because they were bored 1.00

01:00:35.740 in india you can get you can get some issues let's just say that yeah like and you don't take that

01:00:42.620 seriously and they still did it and then we'll have all these ideas to get women to not cheat they'll 1.00

01:00:47.740 think oh if she just doesn't work and she's a housewife the neighbor that's the worst the pool boy 1.00

01:00:53.900 like do you know exactly milkman what are you gonna lock her in the house like she goes to the grocery 1.00

01:00:59.900 store come on like that's why they had the chastity belt pearl it was that bad do you know what i mean

01:01:08.540 i decided i think the best job for a girl to have is an engineer a female engineer where they'd be 1.00

01:01:16.380 the least likely to cheat now i'm this is me spitballing here but i was thinking about it i'm like

01:01:21.820 engineers the archetype is that they're pretty dorky guys so maybe she'd be like less likely to find

01:01:28.780 a guy at work if she's an engineer that was then also that was my that was my spitball but it's no

01:01:35.820 no guarantees feel free to spitball if you have like a profession or a place that women are better 1.00

01:01:42.460 or worse no guarantees well also i can tell you so it takes a certain type to be an engineer because

01:01:48.380 even like when you're young you know the type of guys that are going to be engineers and you know

01:01:53.420 the type of girls that are going to be engineers too because even the girls are kind of socially 0.99

01:01:57.580 awkward and quiet and stuff so i think just by that alone they're less likely to cheat because

01:02:03.180 women pay severely for being the the engineering type because they exhibit traits that men don't 1.00

01:02:12.140 like and then then women make them pay severely for not um being able to adhere to the social cues and 1.00

01:02:19.500 social rules of female circles so i just think that female engineers are less likely to cheat because 1.00

01:02:25.900 they just don't that quiet kind of mousy nerdy type not a lot of guys like that you know what i'm saying

01:02:33.180 yeah what do you think yeah well i i say this look at the end of the day i think the best strategy is

01:02:41.100 insulate yourself from what cheating can do to you versus trying to stop cheating yeah like it's you

01:02:48.140 can't like oh man how do i stop a girl from cheating figure out how to insulate you from being affected 1.00

01:02:53.500 by someone cheating that's the best strategy that's within your control you get what i'm saying

01:03:00.140 so for me even like when like when she was crying and like oh man you're not sad i'm like nah i lost

01:03:06.380 brothers in arms in combat like that's more hard for me to get over versus you deciding to go cheat like

01:03:15.260 whatever man balance and it's not in an evil way it's just like i get it you know do you whatever

01:03:21.500 people do that life has been harsher to me than that so that's that's a minor thing but that's

01:03:28.780 because my mindset is not tied into it so much like oh my god she's my girl she's supposed to stay

01:03:34.540 faithful only me that's a lie r kelly a genuine all them guys lied that stuff ain't real man like it is

01:03:45.900 it is what it is yeah you don't want to be oj simpson right i was i was i don't know about the whole

01:03:53.740 i didn't realize that she cheated i did not know that part of the story

01:03:57.500 can you bring up that video of hulk hogan's wife crashing out oh hulk hogan's yeah sure yeah so so

01:04:11.100 um remember hulk hogan's wife left uh started sleeping with her son's best friend so he was 28

01:04:19.100 and she was 50 at the time and she put a charge on hulk hogan he had to leave his house and i remember

01:04:25.980 hulk hogan was like um i don't condone what oj did but i understand because i got this 28 year

01:04:33.180 old kid living in my house banging my wife and driving the ferrari that that i bought for like 0.67

01:04:39.740 i'm not saying what he did was right but i understand well now that guy finally broke up

01:04:44.860 with her eight years later and she's crashing out like oh my life is so terrible and then i guess

01:04:50.940 brooke hogan won't talk to the mom anymore hasn't talked to her since and she's trying to say that

01:04:56.140 it was all hook hogan's about and that she's tried her best to try to get back with him but he's

01:05:01.900 he's a narcissist you left him for a 28 year old for your son's best friend and so um and the pro

01:05:10.220 i had no idea the oj samson case i had to run into the case i didn't know that the the guy died too

01:05:18.540 yeah yeah yeah there was a guy there that i guess she was cheating with that died too

01:05:23.900 a personal trainer

01:05:27.660 i don't know he was crashing out based off that day well i just can't believe he got away with

01:05:31.660 it if the personal trainer died too yeah yep you had some good lawyers yeah this is my crying face

01:05:41.820 i have to be honest about what i went through in my marriage with terry as hulk hogan and what 0.99

01:05:52.700 what it entailed and what has it has caused over the years and everything else he's a complete liar he's a 0.99

01:06:00.860 sex addict your face out there and know that all these horrible things are going on behind the 0.99

01:06:06.300 scenes yet he marches on he marches on like yeah oh i'm promoting my own beer real american beer yeah 0.97

01:06:14.220 look at me yeah he's such a hero right not okay i'm gonna give you my thumbs down i've given him more

01:06:24.620 opportunities to come back and make us a family do you hear that and try to i'm sorry

01:06:45.340 okay

01:06:45.660 i can't hear if it's still going no it ended yeah did you hear she said i've given him opportunities 0.67

01:06:55.500 to come back to to put the family back together but he won't do it because he's a narcissist you

01:07:01.180 left him for a 28 year old see and then that's his new that's hulk hogan's new girlfriend if you can 1.00

01:07:09.100 see it i think she's let's see how old how old is hulk hogan's hogan's new girlfriend 1.00

01:07:23.900 okay uh he's 71 and she's 45.

01:07:27.980 so there's a 26 year age gap

01:07:35.020 and she's 58 almost 60.

01:07:38.300 yeah yep

01:07:41.020 just take the l yeah it's not it's not if your ex is gonna do better it's when he's gonna do better

01:07:47.100 just accept it ladies it's not if it's when if he can get you congrats you're the floor of what he

01:07:54.540 could officially get you can now get women hotter than you pete davidson effect just take the l you 0.98

01:08:01.100 know but she can't now she's crashing out well guys make sure to hit that like button and subscribe

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01:08:29.100 cheat on their husbands hit that zoom link and call in i know someone that got cheated on with a 1.00

01:08:34.460 mechanic and this was like an alcoholic mechanic she she actually left him for the mechanic he was a

01:08:41.500 farmer too he's a good farmer had a whole farm good since i had a lot of ladies i did have another 1.00

01:08:48.620 woman cheated on me it went down differently though she crashed out or what no this is funny actually

01:08:56.940 oh i think it's funny but that net we were in a relationship this one was eight years this

01:09:01.900 relationship and anyways we don't usually see them because i'm always a tour going to embassies and

01:09:07.820 working so it was more of a long distance relationship but anyways she worked remotely at this point in

01:09:13.660 her career so she was working remotely and it was after the pandemic so you know everything was on

01:09:18.940 lockdown i was in israel she was in poland and it was hard for her to get to me finally we were able 0.75

01:09:24.620 to link in turkey after the pandemic right so boom fast forward she's there she's like staying with me

01:09:30.700 long term because usually i don't be trying to live with girls every day so net net she was there for 1.00

01:09:35.500 long term about two months right and she was planning to stay so anyways she's like oh i have a trip

01:09:44.060 to do do dubai so she had a trip to dubai for her work right yeah she works online pharmaceutical

01:09:52.380 company said hey we're gonna all have a company trip i was like wait hold on you know if you go there

01:09:59.020 and they close the borders again we ain't gonna see each other for a while again and she was very

01:10:04.380 adamant before about like us meeting up and you know the pandemic and etc so i said this is you know kind

01:10:10.940 of contradictory so i was like all right cool but net net in my head i'm like that's suspect why are you

01:10:17.100 trying to go to a business meeting that bad right so anyways she goes she comes back 1.00

01:10:23.260 and then so net net she was sleeping i was like in the iphone i don't be caring i go i ain't one of

01:10:31.900 those guys don't if you go on your girlfriend you a punk whatever so anyways i'm in the phone i see

01:10:39.740 pictures of her and a guy like out on a dinner date right solo brunch they on a date like solo right so

01:10:49.500 anyways i get out the phone and they close they like taking pictures like this like yeah so they

01:10:56.620 super close so i was like all right that's the guy that's the guy right and so anyways later on i

01:11:03.100 actually i'm like yo how was the dubai trip and stuff like that she's like oh it was good you know

01:11:07.420 i was only only out with us and employees you know i didn't out and then when i went out i went

01:11:12.620 by myself to this place in that place that was it so i said okay and then uh i was on the phone

01:11:19.260 doing something else one day looking for a photo she gave me the phone and i was like hey uh

01:11:23.580 what happened to the photo with you and the guy she said huh what guy and i'm like you had photo

01:11:31.580 with you and a guy in dubai i think he was your you know co-worker oh um no uh i uh i deleted it

01:11:41.420 i said would you delete that for and she was like oh well i just you know i didn't want you to get mad

01:11:48.060 i didn't want you to you know get angry and of course me i was like all right i know what it is

01:11:52.940 you know y'all clap cheeks it is what it is right so my homie was like what you gonna do about it i was

01:11:58.220 like nothing man she's still at the house cooking for me so i was like you know as long as i was in

01:12:03.820 turkey she was gonna stay there she was gonna cook i wasn't gonna make her my wife though you 1.00

01:12:09.740 get me so i think like you gotta categorize people and so at that time i just categorized the

01:12:14.940 relationship like yeah it's cool but you're not gonna make anyone your wife right because aren't

01:12:20.300 you coach cga the i forgot that i forgot what exactly so who cares exactly who cares but at the

01:12:30.060 end of the day even if i clad you know categorized a girl like ride or die you know it wouldn't be 1.00

01:12:35.340 marriage but it would be like ride or die i still would put that on her like you know she's able to 1.00

01:12:39.820 cheat man like and so you just gotta have that assumption she's a human nobody's perfect and so and

01:12:46.140 they all have different perspectives you get me and so they consider like they literally like that

01:12:52.220 hulk hogan lady did she feel like she she felt like she was in the right dub after she cheated and 1.00

01:12:57.900 everything she was like and he won't get the family back together it's his fault

01:13:05.180 yep it's modern women i'm gonna bring in brian that's that's that's women historically that's not

01:13:11.100 modern it's been like that for ages marcus aurelius white white cheated on him 0.72

01:13:18.140 you want to take a call at you with that shark

01:13:24.060 let me bring in brian patrice o'neill said you can't control a woman's body but her mind 0.97

01:13:28.940 being different to women and you won't be a slave to them um there's one more i thought i was supposed to

01:13:36.060 read i think at the end even this brian is talking dude gets cheated on hey brian how's it going brian

01:13:48.860 you're on mute brian you're on mute brian on mute brian going once brian going twice i'm here i'm here

01:14:01.020 oh there you go how's it going brian hey what's up i was on your live i think uh make sure you turn

01:14:08.220 off the i hear an echo and they usually mean i'm sorry it's you're right you're going in the background

01:14:14.460 can you hear me yeah i can hear you so um who did you catch cheating and who were they cheating with

01:14:21.180 okay very good question i called in this live because i had a story i wanted to uh share as you

01:14:27.980 know last time i told you i was in uh china and i had a girlfriend there when i oh yeah yeah yeah

01:14:34.460 yeah the guy in china yeah that was a great call good good good to hear from you again buddy well thank

01:14:39.740 you guys thank you i wanted to share another not so um flattering story but it uh it happened um i just

01:14:47.820 got to china about five years ago this was a long time ago in the beginning in early 2000s and i had a

01:14:53.820 girlfriend there and um she was in a place called um shenzhen now my story's a little different uh i met

01:15:03.500 her she was an older woman i was like in my early i was in like my late 20s and she was like uh she was 1.00

01:15:11.100 like uh 23 i'm sorry no she was younger than me i was a little older but she was but she was um she was a 0.96

01:15:19.020 little she was younger than me so she was um i was with her and we were going out and she would you

01:15:28.940 know help me out uh maybe like you know at that time i was a little bit i didn't have a whole bunch

01:15:35.340 of money so she wouldn't give me money but she would help me buy some stuff and i pay her back 0.82

01:15:40.300 because i was just something happened and i had a hard time getting settled there it's a long story

01:15:45.660 so anyway what i found out later on is that um she actually had a husband and was didn't tell me

01:15:56.540 and got me involved in the relationship so she would have me for example when i would go to the

01:16:02.780 store she would drive around and she would help me you know she had a car but her husband was paying 1.00

01:16:08.780 up for everything and um what they what they do in china is that many people while i lived in china

01:16:16.140 it was called shenzhen many people they would many chinese would have like boyfriends who are rich from

01:16:20.780 hong kong and then they would finance their wives in shenzhen so there was a lot of mistresses that's 1.00

01:16:27.100 the word mistresses there and this girl actually ended up being a mistress and she or i she was um 1.00

01:16:34.780 she was a mistress of this other guy i'm sorry i got that wrong she was actually married because 1.00

01:16:40.780 that was so long ago and didn't tell me and um her husband actually you know was away and then she

01:16:47.260 would give me all this stuff so then by the time she told me all this that she was actually married 1.00

01:16:53.420 um it was too late for me because i got i already you know kind of fallen in love with the girl

01:16:59.900 so she uh i went out with her continuously for about three months and then after that i cut it off

01:17:08.780 okay so when i basically that's the story so when i found out from that is that you have to be careful

01:17:14.620 and ask women you know who they're actually seeing or if they have a boyfriend because i always assumed

01:17:19.100 back then that if if you had a boyfriend you would tell or if you're married that you would you know you

01:17:25.100 would tell somebody got it got it just real fast can you sum up the um because last time you were

01:17:33.820 on the show you you dispelled a lot of myths that people have about chinese women so just like take

01:17:39.980 20 30 seconds to to any any western guy that has a misconception that chinese women are are you know 1.00

01:17:48.380 super conservative and don't cheat and stuff can you give you know like a quick two three points to

01:17:55.340 to dispel with the misconception about chinese women yeah this is the biggest misconception that chinese

01:18:02.940 women tell everybody that american culture is they have a word in china and they always say it's called 1.00

01:18:09.420 kaifang kaifang means open you hear this a lot like americans are very kaifang and chinese are very

01:18:16.460 baosho baosho means like conservative in chinese you hear this all the time let's say well americans

01:18:22.220 don't understand china because you know chinese are very conservative we have an ancient confucius culture

01:18:29.660 and um you know we're just very conservative now back then that was a little more true because people

01:18:37.900 just did things under the closet but today is more on the open but chinese still say that like this girl

01:18:44.060 you know she told me that she was very conservative and you know and all this stuff but later on um

01:18:51.260 actually i met her husband and she acted all cool like we didn't we really didn't know each other we

01:18:57.580 just met each other and i don't want to go into it now but there's a lot of women are very um 1.00

01:19:03.820 sneaky about how they like plan their their their their affairs and so the first thing you know she did 1.00

01:19:10.620 was not tell me but she to answer your question yeah that was a big myth because i i thought you

01:19:16.140 know china was much more conservative and people didn't go out and do that compared to the west here

01:19:21.980 but you know they do stuff under the under the sheets uh behind the closet behind closed doors and uh

01:19:29.980 and another thing too you'd be surprised because this lady she was like a banker you know she had a lot of 1.00

01:19:35.340 prestige and stuff like that and uh you wouldn't yeah i don't know you wouldn't think that that would

01:19:41.900 be happening at least me back then i remember i was in my late 20s back then i'm 50 almost i'm over 50

01:19:47.500 now but back then i was in my late 20s so i was kind of naive so um that's the thing that i think they

01:19:56.220 fool a lot of foreigners into thinking that uh asian culture is very conservative but you know all the

01:20:02.620 rest of the world and these kind of things so yeah cool so that was my story pearl and uh yeah i can

01:20:10.940 share with you a lot of stories but i don't want to take up everybody else's time but there's a lot

01:20:14.540 of most of my experience has been with china and in asian women so i have a lot of yeah cool in the

01:20:21.580 future and there's other topics i can share sure please call in any time okay yeah i don't want to

01:20:27.180 bore you but yeah thank you for having me again and uh yeah i'll i'll i'll come on again later on

01:20:33.740 share some more awesome cool next that we have

01:20:46.460 let's see there hi can you hear me yep hey thanks for having me on how are you

01:20:54.460 hey i'm doing well um so i have a story about when i was she on um i think on this you guys will

01:21:04.060 probably fight me on this because it's pretty sim behavior that's all right it happens it happens to

01:21:09.980 the best of us yep we've all seen i've told stories of my sipping many times on this this is a safe space

01:21:17.180 place well thank you um so a girl i dated recently um i'm gonna call her uh uh helen not her real name

01:21:29.420 so um we dated for about two years we were pretty close um and she went on a

01:21:41.660 uh like backpacking trip for a couple months uh throughout um europe for like a hacker hostile

01:21:49.180 type of program um and throughout this process she uh was also going through a lot of like personal

01:21:56.060 stuff with her family and that made her feel like very uh unsure of herself and very anxious and because

01:22:08.700 of that like she cheated on me with a bunch of people like i'm not even sure how many i want to 1.00

01:22:13.580 guess like 40 or so um or so in what time period uh three months she cheated on you with 40 people in 1.00

01:22:23.820 three months yeah that's right how did you find out uh so she so she came back um to where we live

01:22:34.060 together in new york and we talked about it uh she initially just said hey um i don't think this is

01:22:41.820 working i want to break up and then i kept asking her why and the reason she giving she was giving just 0.99

01:22:49.420 doesn't make sense i kept pressing on and then slowly like information started trickling through

01:22:53.580 um what she's the story she's saying now is that um our interests don't lie meaning i want to like

01:23:04.380 have a normal life um like work a normal career like have a family um whereas she wants to constantly

01:23:11.420 travel um so she's dating someone who is um like taking her on vacations constantly um uh like so

01:23:21.500 currently she's in france seeing a vineyard or something like that um and um yeah it's it's

01:23:29.660 interesting because uh my understanding is for the first couple months of her seeing this new guy

01:23:37.820 um she was also cheating on him with other guys like just whoever would take her out on trips to 1.00

01:23:43.500 dubai were where the power anywhere else um but how attractive was she one to ten how attractive um 1.00

01:23:52.860 uh i would say

01:23:57.020 probably about the same as you bro oh so like mid six five five six oh i would okay 6.5 okay thank you

01:24:05.100 thank you okay so it's it's interesting because i feel like on one hand it's um fairly impressive

01:24:18.700 that she's able to consistently get guys to take her out on fancy trips like this like not just one or

01:24:25.900 two guys like consistently get new guys like she's not a supermodel so this is uh yeah this is an 0.99

01:24:32.060 interesting thing to see and she's getting trips to like dubai and stuff is she on like an escort 1.00

01:24:36.940 website she is not she she is literally just like going on bumble and then just matching with

01:24:43.980 whichever successful guy she meets for at whatever hotel at any fancy place she just talks to a guy

01:24:50.300 it just works does her reputation does her reputation not like start to proceed her 1.00

01:24:56.220 like doesn't she start to get a bad reputation god 1.00

01:24:58.700 yeah so that's the other thing i don't think she has a reputation because she's been able to keep 1.00

01:25:04.300 it under wraps um so as far as i understand the first couple months of um her dating this new guy

01:25:11.180 um hank um she was ching on him with a bunch of other people and then really she only told her

01:25:18.060 sisters and maybe some close friends and nobody else and then she either has stopped doing that now

01:25:24.620 or is still doing that and it's just much more secretive um either it's possible it's not clear

01:25:30.940 okay yeah cool um so the the same part of this is on one hand like i recognize this but i also like

01:25:41.020 feel bad for her like i think she's trying to she's someone who's not sure of herself and has

01:25:46.780 low self-confidence i still care about her like i want to support and tell her like hey it's not

01:25:51.980 uh your fault i don't blame you and i don't hate you i want i care about you and i want to be your

01:25:57.980 friend but i'm not i'm not sure how to go about that why even bother why would you want to be your

01:26:03.500 friend well this is someone i um have a long history with i think like at her core she wants to

01:26:13.820 she's got a history with a lot of people okay okay she's got a history with everybody i know right

01:26:22.300 so so here's what you can do for me my friend every so often you got to put a t-chart on a piece of

01:26:28.780 paper like you did in in school like you know one line down one line across and you got to put my pro

01:26:34.940 you got to put my problem on one side and not your problem on the other side and out all the issues in

01:26:40.060 your life and make sure that that the issues in your life are either you got to recognize which

01:26:44.940 ones are your problem and which ones aren't your problem okay this girl is not your problem dude 0.50

01:26:50.700 it's not and also men we only have a certain amount of romantic energy that we can give out

01:26:58.060 especially if you're trying to be successful don't give relationship energy to some chick 1.00

01:27:04.700 or to a friend that's a girl or some girl that's done you wrong you you gotta get if a girl does

01:27:12.300 you wrong some of the best advice i ever got was consider yourself lucky when someone does something

01:27:17.740 when someone some organization or something tells you everything that you need to know if a woman cheats

01:27:22.300 on you she told you everything that she need to know man what are you talking to her for it's not

01:27:29.020 your problem about her yeah why i care about her so this is um you guys will probably fight me on

01:27:34.780 this this is ultra simple of me but um i if she were to be willing to go to therapy um and willing to

01:27:42.540 go to like some ultra expensive rehab and i found like one that's really good and costs seventy thousand

01:27:48.220 dollars i'd be willing to pay for it she's uh she's going to tell back she's she's not willing to have

01:27:53.100 the conversation okay okay oh my god pro what do you got i have no words what come on man all right

01:28:11.420 have you gone on a date with anybody else like have you dated since

01:28:15.980 no i've gone out with girls and trans but i haven't gone yeah it's time to find some new hoes 0.99

01:28:24.940 is this girl the only girl that you slept with or something no um my body counts low but not that low

01:28:33.820 the only reason you're thinking like you gotta find some more girls um sean you got anything yeah yeah

01:28:42.140 no um i get it you know you really care about the individual so i don't think you got to be f her

01:28:51.980 you know you want to see her do well so what i would just also say is it's her journey you know you can

01:28:58.620 only help so much but it's her choice to get better right now at the end of the day there's a lot of

01:29:05.340 people out here hurting in the world going through real problems like massively worse problems than

01:29:12.540 what she's going through which is all a lot of self-created problems and internal problems but

01:29:18.060 she has to do the work and you can't do it for her and so net net you can do the best of what you have

01:29:24.140 done which is give her the proper avenues to take right but you can't make a horse drink the water 0.99

01:29:31.660 so if you've done your duty in your mind to be good to somebody who's meant something to you

01:29:39.660 you get what i'm saying and so therefore that's it right there you've done it now you have to move on

01:29:46.860 and pursue other opportunities you can still care for that person i'm not saying what you're doing

01:29:51.580 is wrong and don't do it but you've already set it up so they can benefit from it and it's their choice

01:29:57.100 to do it don't hang your hat on it because it's their journey to take and i'm gonna say situations

01:30:05.260 like this dealing with the wrong woman being in a bad relationship it's kind of like weight loss

01:30:11.100 okay um you see people that oh yeah i'm big like the lizzo's oh yeah i'm big and i'm proud stuff

01:30:19.180 whatever but then they lose the weight and people think that losing the weight is the hardest part it's

01:30:25.260 not it's when you get the quality of life that you've been wanting and then you look back on all

01:30:30.140 the time that you wasted not putting in the work to lose the weight a bad relationship or dealing with

01:30:35.740 a toxic woman is like that let's hear you're if you do the right work and focus on yourself you will 1.00

01:30:43.260 find the woman for you all you doing right now is making the the regret when that happens even worse

01:30:50.940 by dealing with this woman you're giving this woman time and resources that you could be given 0.99

01:30:55.980 to yourself first and then a woman that's actually healthy and one day you're going to realize that 0.83

01:31:03.340 there's nothing special about this girl i'm hoping is sooner rather than later and just the more you do

01:31:11.580 for this woman the more you're going to be angry at yourself when you finally get the quality of life

01:31:16.620 that she wants so take that into consideration there's nothing special about this girl nothing

01:31:22.940 once you build enough women you realize too many of them are all the same 1.00

01:31:30.380 yeah man i hear you i think um

01:31:34.620 i think the challenge here is uh there were two years where we were together where she was mentally

01:31:40.940 well where she wasn't like this um there was a brief period like before she met me when she did

01:31:45.660 one while briefly but i have seen her when she was um stable and normal and i'm hoping like that

01:31:53.100 uh she can go back to that and like what it was almost as though like somebody snapped in her and she's

01:32:00.220 now in this type of year and i um for one it's even though we're not together and it's just me caring

01:32:10.060 about her there's still like uh that degree of care where like this is um when i dated her i committed

01:32:21.180 to be as closely perfect as possible for her and i think being true to that would mean like now that

01:32:27.580 even we're breaking up i should still commit to try to support her and help her because this issue arose

01:32:34.380 when we were together not your problem man it's just not here's the thing just just do me a favor

01:32:44.380 if you can just disengage you don't have to make a big scene out of it you don't have to be

01:32:50.300 predictive just disengage stop picking up the phone we currently aren't really contacting each other

01:32:58.620 okay good stay on that because like sean says she's gonna have to figure it out

01:33:05.340 herself and you don't have any justifiable reason to talk to this woman that doesn't involve emotions 1.00

01:33:11.740 so yeah and most of the time your your emotions are you problem but you you got to get away from

01:33:18.540 this girl once again you're gonna find the quality of life that you want but just

01:33:23.020 just just you got to get there man yeah man thanks for your thoughts thanks for calling in okay

01:33:32.700 calling anytime thanks for having me

01:33:38.220 wow

01:33:43.980 yeah but you know i'd want to go out my guy because he calls in a lot he's he's a really good caller and

01:33:50.380 you know he just he sounds like he's young and you know i'm sorry guys a lot of us sometimes you

01:33:54.780 gotta make them you can't stop a guy from making those mistakes they just gotta learn the hard way

01:34:00.540 a lot of us have simped a lot of us have just like so there's stuff women have to go through there's 1.00

01:34:06.940 stuff men have to go through it's just part of life guys like the stream please subscribe if you

01:34:14.140 haven't already we are on our way to three million and um i'm gonna let in charles because he was in

01:34:22.460 the audacity chat asked for the link charles how you doing buddy

01:34:29.980 you're on mute charles

01:34:31.020 how's it going hey charles how are you i'm good how are you guys um good good this is a great topic

01:34:48.460 and and i really feel for the guy you know what can you hear me yeah i can hear you i'm listening i i

01:34:55.020 look at the chat this way so if i don't look at the camera it's just because i just look at it there's

01:34:59.980 chats but go ahead i'm good i'm good so go ahead what's the what did you have

01:35:15.820 go ahead charles go ahead i i feel for the guy pearl i feel for the guy doug

01:35:23.100 oh something is doubling here you probably have the youtube open on a different screen

01:35:31.980 oh i do actually hold on one second sorry about that because there's there's a delay i gotta close

01:35:38.460 the youtube there we go there we go sorry about that go ahead so i feel for that guy you know i've been

01:35:47.420 there you we've talked before and you know me i'm i'm 60 i've i i talked to young guys like like much

01:35:55.420 and sean um you know my divorce was brutal my my ex-wife cheated on me um when i got injured in the

01:36:02.860 line of duty uh you know she fell into being an alcoholic and she started cheating with a co-worker and 1.00

01:36:10.620 then a yoga instructor and um you know i ended up finding out about it when i i was doing some simp

01:36:19.580 behavior i i tried to to fix my marriage i did the counseling thing um and and the counseling thing's

01:36:27.580 a racket for simping um it's a total racket for simping you know was your counselor a woman or a man

01:36:35.820 uh it was a man oh okay so it's most of the time it's a woman but go ahead um and it's still a racket

01:36:45.500 for simping i took her to new york took her to shows and you know it's funny we i used to live in

01:36:51.260 math so we flew into tf green airport in providence and the night we got back she fell asleep in the car

01:36:59.580 and she started getting texts from the dude while we were driving back how did it go with your husband

01:37:05.340 i miss you i love you and god man she's asleep and i'm hearing all these messages coming through

01:37:13.260 the through the car and i'm like so i filed for divorce a few days later but um you know we all

01:37:22.620 do that but that guy i'm sorry you know i'm gonna tell you something feminism is a form of mental 1.00

01:37:31.260 illness and and the the women that are out there they're not jobs just flat out not jobs and um 0.99

01:37:41.340 people like you pearl people who who are who are red pilled and and standing up for men the brunt of

01:37:49.100 what you have to face is unbelievable um and i love what sean was saying about his commanding officers

01:37:57.420 right if you have an open door policy they're going to tell you um their their guilt whatever

01:38:05.020 it is their self-righteousness they're going to come to you and they're going to think it's going to

01:38:09.660 be okay and sean is dead on balls accurate about is that what happened to you cook my meals but the day

01:38:19.180 you stop you're out you know like see ya i got nothing is that what happened to you did you have

01:38:25.580 like an open door policy or how did you originally catch her oh i caught her um just because she 1.00

01:38:33.340 started drinking and she was just making mistakes like you know and um and it was interesting i you

01:38:41.740 know i lost my identity i i i had brothers in arms like sean my my my uh job was my identity i was tip

01:38:51.020 of the i was a tip of the spear guy when i lost it i was angry i was pissed off i gained weight i drank i i

01:38:57.900 had you know ptsd the whole nine yards so god love her she she went somewhere else but you know these young

01:39:07.580 guys have to realize if they find out before they're married or in a situation before they

01:39:14.380 end up in a in a you know common law situation or living together for a year or whatever it's a gift

01:39:21.100 from god it is a gift from god cut your losses and run what's what's um what's jocko willock say

01:39:28.460 discipline equals freedom have the discipline to to let them go and and let the sun shine 0.66

01:39:35.980 on you know it's gonna suck is it gonna suck yeah it does i when i went through my divorce 0.90

01:39:43.020 i had planned and i i filed and i still ended up with supervised visits for four years

01:39:50.220 that i had to pay for the for the for the um department of youth worker to be there

01:39:56.460 and it was like 30 grand a year i was screwed um eventually i got a good lawyer who got me out

01:40:03.180 of that situation um but you know these young guys that the last caller and i'm not i'm not trying to

01:40:13.020 to harp on him he's what is going on in the world right now and i don't know how old sean is but um

01:40:23.020 um doug you know guys my age your age we have to take these guys under our wing and say don't fall

01:40:31.340 into these traps man because um you know we got to take care of our brothers and if we're not taking

01:40:39.660 care of our brothers they're just going to get taken advantage of and the red pill community 1.00

01:40:44.700 is fantastic you know um it's funny um you know you guys know i have a younger girlfriend

01:40:55.340 and i'm gonna tell you so happy i see the smile yeah that's not a way you know um the smile is always

01:41:04.380 there but the thing is am you know sean said it have the have the the strength of character to be

01:41:14.700 prepared for the worst because as happy as i am the worst can come one day you know who knows and and

01:41:22.220 it's going to be the yep okay fine great i had a great time time to move on um and there you don't

01:41:30.460 have to be hateful about it but these guys posting on youtube like those those videos at the beginning

01:41:37.740 were blowing my mind and i'm sorry i'm gonna say something so i don't know if i can say it on youtube 0.99

01:41:44.540 or not but you know you can stick your dick in crazy but don't marry crazy because you're gonna pay 1.00

01:41:49.660 the price you know carl i have a i have a question for you for from the chat steven one of the moderator 1.00

01:41:56.940 says ask sakala if she tried to get his military retirement and the divorce oh so my government 0.99

01:42:04.460 retirement all day long tried tried tried and failed miserably at it because thank god now listen

01:42:13.100 this was a i think the i i'm gonna say that i think the um the uh how do i want to say it

01:42:25.020 the norm is they get part of it um unfortunately for my ex she made more money standing on her head 1.00

01:42:33.420 than i ever did um you know and and that played against her um now i didn't get i didn't get alimony 1.00

01:42:43.020 or anything like that but but you should have been huge i should have you're right i should have but i

01:42:47.500 lived in i lived in in communist massachusetts i'm lucky i wasn't put in prison so i mean i made it out

01:42:56.860 you know uh but yeah watch the pensions guys because i'll tell you something

01:43:03.100 um the badge bunnies and the base hoes and the base 304s they're playing that game and if you if you're 1.00

01:43:12.380 if you're if you're an officer or or or a senior nco yep they're gonna come after you great guns um

01:43:21.900 just like the hulk hogan thing which you guys played earlier you know i'm gonna say it again guys

01:43:29.340 until you're 35 or 40 concentrate on making money and i think you did a call you did a show the other

01:43:35.660 night where the guy said the same thing um what was it the um real estate guy doug that you guys he

01:43:42.140 was awesome um the real estate guy that pearl knows from back in the day and he's he's a he's a uh content

01:43:52.300 guy um he's right make money focus on that and i'm gonna say don't do it you know wait to your 40 and

01:44:02.940 then wait to your 40 and you can start dating women 20 years younger than you and be in the driver's

01:44:10.060 seat um so that's what i got but i'll tell you something you know the cheating thing every guy 1.00

01:44:20.060 just like every guy simps um if the opportunity is there i think every women every woman in this 0.98

01:44:27.740 society is gonna is gonna cheat if she's got the penchant for it um no matter what relationship 1.00

01:44:34.220 she's in yeah so cool if you ever hear oh you know i i i want to like date someone else or maybe we

01:44:43.180 should take a break yeah just cut your losses and run you know date a mid get laid every day 0.90

01:44:51.260 keep them happy and they keep you happy and they're 20 years younger than you you've got it knocked

01:44:57.180 you know you're all set just like sean said be prepared because one day you know that next guy's

01:45:03.340 going to come along if you're not getting married like i never intend to get married again yeah so

01:45:08.940 cool well thanks for calling in great great contribution as normal so feel free to call

01:45:14.780 in any time okay well thank you for having me again great great shows guys and you're doing you're

01:45:20.540 chicken butt have a good one my friend all right we're gonna bring up daniel

01:45:28.140 guys make sure you hit that like button subscribe if you haven't already thank you for all the super

01:45:32.540 chats thank you for everyone and the audacity chat and thank you to all the regulars on the youtube chat i

01:45:37.980 really appreciate it daniel are you there yes i am how's it going daniel

01:45:43.900 it's going good so who cheated on you what you got for me

01:45:55.260 um i'm going to completely invert it on you okay if they are a complete ice princess 1.00

01:46:07.260 that it is can you hear me yeah we can hear you okay what if what if it's 180 percent flipped

01:46:24.780 to a complete ice princess from frozen to where the person that you married

01:46:35.740 is ashamed of kissing you at the wedding ceremony

01:46:47.580 oh okay

01:46:55.740 uh can you can you expand on that

01:47:05.740 uh oh um i think we're having technical difficulties oh we can still hear you

01:47:15.820 oh go ahead so your wife your ex-wife didn't want to kiss you 1.00

01:47:20.540 at the wedding ceremony yes oh wow and you why and you accepted that

01:47:28.380 what well what am i supposed to do at the time uh i'm the most beta male possible she tricked me into

01:47:40.460 having the kids didn't want to take care of them like etc but i'm just saying not every woman is a hoe 1.00

01:47:50.700 okay okay um some people they're doing a pretty bad job of convincing us yes

01:48:09.260 okay um well thanks for calling in

01:48:12.860 i'm sorry i can't that was change yeah last time you called him he don't say you're doing a bad job

01:48:23.340 of convincing us i'm just saying um

01:48:32.700 i hate it when guys like it's like oh it's like not all women are like that i'm like who are you white 0.83

01:48:38.060 knighting for like leave me alone yeah and you know that guy he called in before you know

01:48:45.980 he was he was in the military he's done some good things in his life you know i know he he has issues

01:48:51.180 from his military service so thank you for your service but that that was just falling apart sorry

01:48:56.620 about that yeah i mean you can call in again a different time it's just got to be more concise

01:49:02.460 um those are all the colors oh cool it's good timing we're almost at the two hour mark

01:49:12.060 um i want to see actually i want to read a few more from i had a twitter thing the other day that i want

01:49:21.660 to read where it was like i tweet too much who stolen i know your girl pearly things the replies were kind

01:49:33.980 of funny and guys make sure to follow pearl on x because she is off the chain on x she gets people upset 1.00

01:49:48.380 i know are there any uh where is it i need to scroll for a second you don't see if there's any and you

01:49:59.260 can read them i'm just gonna scroll and find it oh yeah i said imagine being a man who makes six

01:50:09.100 figures and his good shape is in good shape and has their girls stolen by a literal criminal can you

01:50:15.660 imagine the stress okay um ridolfo says whatever that uh the last guy was smoking make sure to give it

01:50:30.700 give it to all of us i'm not that's me come on guys okay we have we'll take one more because this person

01:50:41.340 just came in oh okay never mind fell out but yeah guys you know good timing we're almost at the two

01:50:53.580 hour mark there's a camps are you there camps yeah i'm here the youtube's on turn the youtube off

01:51:01.900 okay okay we're good how's it going hi pearl how's it going good how are you i'm good i'm a long time

01:51:13.820 worker so cool uh i've never been cheated on but me and my ex-wife we did the whole open relationship

01:51:20.700 thing that didn't necessarily work out the best way if you know what i mean why not well

01:51:27.340 what happens is sorry i'm a little nervous uh what happens is uh you know the respect went down

01:51:35.420 and as the respect went down you know i started having to pull my weight around the house a lot more

01:51:42.540 and uh and then it just kind of got cold of course right after we we got married like a year before

01:51:51.100 covid so it got pretty terrible after that so did you get jealous when she would go on other dates

01:51:59.180 with other guys or like no no i'm not a jealous person like we both had our fun we uh we both

01:52:08.220 slept other people we both slept with the same people around and it was pretty good for a while but

01:52:14.220 then when we were stuck together it's pretty rough when you were stuck together what do you mean yeah we

01:52:20.060 had a we had a one and a half year old we were all closed down and uh stuck in the house together

01:52:25.420 and then it got pretty toxic pretty quick like what was she fighting you or yeah yeah you know how it

01:52:31.900 is the nagging all that other stuff you know i couldn't go into work you know i was stuck there

01:52:37.260 the entire time i'd be working she like bring uh bring my beautiful boy just hand him off to me even 1.00

01:52:43.180 though i was like right in the middle of it so uh but yeah yeah that's it for me but what i learned is

01:52:49.660 that like one day i just woke up and i just realized that there was like no respect like it was all gone

01:52:56.140 like she didn't care got toxic and everything and i just got up at five o'clock in the morning and i

01:53:02.860 walked over to my parents house i slept there and then i came back and i was like hey uh this isn't

01:53:07.580 working out was she relieved or did she crash out she crashed out pretty hard she begged for me it was 1.00

01:53:15.180 it was it was interesting she she begged for me to to say no and i was like why you're miserable

01:53:23.420 and i'm miserable so like um i think that like if i could give any advice to our younger callers is

01:53:31.420 that i've learned that men have two types of power right uh we certainly have power in the in the 1.00

01:53:37.660 violence arena arena but that's not acceptable nowadays like not even at all uh and that's okay

01:53:44.780 but another thing that i've learned at is that another power is that you can remove your energy

01:53:52.540 and attention and resources and uh and that's like vital if you want to grow up in today's world and date

01:54:01.340 got it yeah i agree uh doug mp you got any comments for him no man you know um respect

01:54:14.700 it's easier to get love back than respect once a woman has lots of respect for you it's over man 0.76

01:54:20.140 amen yeah you're totally right absolutely over yep we should do a show on open relationships and have

01:54:27.260 people call in with their experience so it's kind of interesting i'd ask you more about it but it's

01:54:32.460 a little too off topic but that's fine i think a different day maybe if you should call in again if

01:54:38.220 we do that topic yeah sure sure yeah let me know we'll talk about it cool yeah but that's it for me

01:54:45.180 thank you so much i've been watching you for a while it's first time calling in yeah thanks so much for

01:54:49.020 calling and i love you i love hearing from you guys so i appreciate it all right take care bye

01:54:54.460 a good one i do you know what i think i didn't tweet it i think i thought i tweeted it and i didn't so

01:55:02.780 um but i was i'm i was gonna tweet like what's the craziest girl that's stolen or what's the craziest

01:55:11.260 way a guy has stolen your girl like if it was like um just someone you wouldn't expect like fat old ugly 0.90

01:55:20.300 you know etc so let's have everybody on on the phone line cool well um 0.67

01:55:31.740 thanks so much for watching and um doug mpa sean you guys have any final thoughts today

01:55:37.740 john um man no i mean charles said a lot of good stuff so definitely hey guys you know focus on your

01:55:49.260 life focus on what you can control which is not the woman and what she does but how you react to it 0.56

01:55:56.860 and other than that man life is good shout outs to pearl shout out to doug mpa and pearl i want you to

01:56:04.620 be happy if you need anything i'm always here thank you sean

01:56:15.020 yeah and just like i said before man it's like if you find out my i asked my dad when i was young i

01:56:22.140 um because i watched a lot of movies when i was young and like in the movies guys crash out so i

01:56:26.780 asked my dad what would you do if you came home and you found mom cheating he's just i just packed

01:56:31.820 my stuff and i'd leave and i thought he'd say oh you know i thought i did so you should crash out

01:56:37.980 and no he's like why would i risk my freedom for something like that no i packed myself and i'd leave

01:56:44.220 my dad told me that when i was young and that's exactly what i do guys if you get you're cheating just

01:56:48.060 leave don't do anything crazy that'll put you in jail or you lose your freedom or anything like that

01:56:53.260 just move on with life that's it yeah you can take a video though but don't crash out on the video

01:57:01.980 just take it for court be like thank you all right all right guys thank you so much for watching again

01:57:08.620 appreciate it um please like the video on your way out please subscribe to the channel if you can

01:57:13.420 and um i will see you guys maybe tomorrow probably monday but i'll see you bye

JustPearlyThings - June 21, 2025

When Wives Cheat (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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