When Women Compete For Each Other's Men (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily
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1 hour and 52 minutes
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175.4856
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118
Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men and why it s bad for men to get married. The future is female. Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
Transcript
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Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America for the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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Seventy-four percent or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,
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and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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Before you know it, you're homeless. You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
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naturally, the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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And that's the thing, like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings,
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leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol,
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man.
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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That is the trailer for our divorce documentary.
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If you donate 20K, you get a personalized message to your ex-wife that you can either put in
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So if you have anything funny you want to put in 20K, we're at about $31,000.
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Thank you to the people that donated yesterday.
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We got a couple hundred dollar donations, so I really appreciate it.
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So today we are talking about women stealing men from each other.
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I always say that women can't stand each other.
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The only time women unite against men is in the patriarchy.
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80% of workplace bullying is women bullying other women.
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50% of women say they would rather work for a male boss than a female boss.
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There have been stories where a girl's friend will lure her into the woods and literally try
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Women in the modern day hate men so much that they will let women with nefarious intentions
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close to them and won't realize it until it's too late.
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I'm bringing this up because I was scrolling through social media the other day and I started
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to see stories about women who had their husbands stolen from them by other women.
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These are married women who had decent men but ended up losing their husband to someone
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else and most of the time that someone was somebody that the wife knew.
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The first thing I would ask in this situation would be, what wasn't the wife doing?
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Why was her husband so unsatisfied that he left for another woman?
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We all know that over a quarter of marriages are sexless and in almost all marriages the wife
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Ladies, you have to satisfy your man and keep your eyes on him at all times.
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Single women will come for your husband because he married you.
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Men that are fours and fives receives a point, maybe two to single women because they are
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The women who had their husbands stolen by another woman.
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Get ready with us while I tell a story about when one of my best friends tried to steal my
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So the other night I had my friends over, Mary was there and we were all just like playing
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games, sitting on the couch, you know, and then one of my friends, we'll call her Jennifer.
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She just, she was just a little bit off the entire time.
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Yeah, she wasn't really talking to us and she was like sitting with the boys when all the
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girls were hanging out, which we thought was really weird.
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And then a couple of things happened that night that just rubbed me the wrong way.
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But the first thing that happened was we were all sitting on the couch and my husband's
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And Jennifer just like, just like starts complaining about her spot and basically demanded to be
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And all of us girls were like sitting on the other side of the living room.
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So it made no sense for her to be like demanding to sit over there because we were all talking
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over here while the boys were like hanging out.
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A funny thing about my friend Jennifer, though, is that we used to be a lot closer back in the
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But recently, I don't know, she, she doesn't live as close as she used to.
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And so we just haven't been seeing each other much.
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So here's where it gets really crazy because they didn't see this happening when it happened.
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But I saw Jennifer go sit over next to her husband and then start whispering something
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in his ear, like while everybody was hanging out.
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Yeah, she was not, but she was, she was definitely very close to him.
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And so Mary pulls me aside and she tells me all this stuff that happens after I get out
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And basically we both walk out together only to find that Jennifer is like doing that stupid
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pygmy thing where she's like, Oh, so fast forward to later in the night, everybody's like kind
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of drunk and she was really, really drunk and we're all like, okay, bathroom break.
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And so obviously, since I'm not trying to like read into anything, anything too quickly,
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I go and I ask her, Jennifer, like what's wrong?
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But then, Oh, but then, then Jennifer texts me while we're all in the room hanging out
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And I text her back and I'm like, what do you mean you can't do this anymore?
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And she was like, I can't stand being in a room with say, and her husband, because I'm
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But then this, this part really made me the most angry is she's back on the couch.
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And she basically just starts trying to sit like as close as she can to my husband.
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And I'm like, just like subtly trying to, you know, sit on my husband's lab, trying to,
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you know, mark my territory saying, Hey, like back off.
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And then I decided to get up in front of everybody and say, Hey, and show everybody the text and
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say, Jennifer's in love with say's husband and everybody was super awkward and nobody
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And needless to say, we don't talk to Jennifer anymore.
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And this was a story about Mary in my dream the other night.
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So me and my husband or ex-husband recently got married.
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We had been dating for about a year and then we got engaged and we got married within the
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So we had officially been dating for two years when we got married.
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And it only took my sister a whole five months to steal him from me.
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However, there is a little bit of a backstory on me and my husband.
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So let's call my husband, Mark, and my sister, Natalie.
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Now, once upon a time, five years ago, they dated.
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Like he obviously liked her and he cared for her.
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But the relationship in itself wasn't like his priority.
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So you can kind of imagine the reaction they all had when me and Mark started.
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It was always strange to me that she went for Mark because I always had a crush on Mark
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But I guess I did technically steal her boyfriend.
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She absolutely despised it and she hated it even more when we got engaged.
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We did have grown-up conversations and she told me eventually that she forgave me.
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And that she's actually really, really happy that me and Mark were engaged at the time.
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The one thing I should mention is that Mark had pre-wedding nerves.
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By this, he went into an absolute state of distress.
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I wasn't sure if he even wanted to go ahead with the wedding.
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I thought it was just because he was nervous, which is completely fine and normal.
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But that he has literally yesterday just admitted to me that he had these feelings
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I found out about the affair in quite like a typical way.
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Like it was like a normal way to catch a cheetah.
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You can best believe I left the same day, the same minute I was out of that house.
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Anyway, I have obviously filed for divorce and never speaking to my sister ever again.
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I keep seeing these videos where friends are taking your spouse or marrying your husband and your ex-husband and all that stuff.
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I want y'all to know that my mom taught me and always taught me.
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I don't have too many people around that good man.
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I don't have too many friends coming to your house and you invited.
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And I think that as my mom is a black mother, of course, and she just raised me well, where you got to be wise.
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You can trust, but sometimes you got to be cautious and you just got to protect that home of yours.
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If you're in a good home, don't have too many friends around your spouse, honey.
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But every day and then your friends should not have your husband's phone number at all.
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They can have your mother's phone number and your daddy's phone number,
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but they should not have your husband's phone number.
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My best friend who was my maid of honor at my wedding stole my husband.
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because sometimes I'll go out places and people think I'm a little odd because I go somewhere.
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don't you have a lot of female friends and some like I do,
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there's just such a low ROI on female friendship in my head,
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they're the ones that are going to like tell your business to everybody.
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And then eventually they'll crash out on you or steal your husband.
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And so I would speak to him about it and I'll say,
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And he'll just kind of brush it off and be like,
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to cut the long story short and to avoid the confusion,
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I actually found out that the main reason he actually wanted a divorce is
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because he was having an affair with my best friend.
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I can't think of anything worse other than a sister.
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the heartbreak and the loss was not just from the perspective of the marriage.
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all these stories are going to be the female friendly version of the story,
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don't you think that my husband is acting strange?
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how could you think such a thing that I would ever lie to about anything?
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You imagine she probably is more pleasant to be around.
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What did her best friend's husband have to do with it?
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I don't want to go into details of that because I don't think it's,
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And then Shania Twain started dating her best friend's husband.
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This tells me that Shania was probably awful to be with and her friend was
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So I want you guys to call in and tell me your stories today.
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Were you ever propositioned by your wife's wife's friends or girlfriend's
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And did you tell her or if you knew somebody that had an affair with the
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some of the most beautiful women are just awful to be awful to be around.
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the nanny literally looks like Andre the giant.
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It's because I guarantee you Maria Shriver was just awful to be around.
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I'm married and divorced and my ex-wife was very attractive.
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the best cologne that you can wear to attract women is wife.
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especially if your wife is attractive because women can tell if you're married
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But if your wife is attractive and they meet your wife,
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pretty much every time that my ex-wife would come to my work and meet my
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I'm talking all of a sudden your female coworkers want to go out to lunch
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but before M2 female coworkers would try to line up work travel with you.
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have you ever been like really close to doing it?
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Like your wife was being a bitch that day or something like that.
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I had a couple of instances where I saw how traumatic that cheating can affect a man and a woman.
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So I've never cheated on a spouse or in like a serious relationship.
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but I've never cheated on a girlfriend or a spouse only cause once again,
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I saw how bad cheating can affect men and women.
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what was the biggest opportunity you turned down?
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who was in her early thirties and she w cause I worked in Vegas for a while
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and I worked for the government and a lot of government jobs are women who were hard enough
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but then figured out that they're not going to get there.
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She had been in a couple of small time magazines and,
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she was in her late twenties and was giving up on,
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I saw her social media and she was a single mama too.
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but if you do women are going to be all over you.
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I had friends growing up pro where they were single guys and if they were striking out at the bar,
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like they'll try to sell their religion and say their women are different.
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tell me what you think about this pro because everyone's going back and forth about anal in the,
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Cause she's staring down the barrel of being the rest of being single for the rest of her life.
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a woman showed interest by sleeping with the man,
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But now modern women hand out sex so much and regular sex.
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How are you supposed to know if she's really interested in you?
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I'm going to bring up Cubby first because he put something.
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We have to make sure to like the video subscribe.
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And it's always good to see all the regulars and the YouTube chat and the
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How was like the first time you guys hooked up?
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I hear some of these like bodybuilding gyms are wild.
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I wasn't like in a bodybuilding gym or anything,
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the only place I felt submit is in the bedroom.
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Would you rate yourself like as better looking than,
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A lot of shit happened over the coof coof time.
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what was the ship called on the Pirates of the Caribbean?
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it's kind of how I view society and like a lot of these causes,
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like it's a sinking ship and you can either like stay on the Titanic,
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she was straight Filipina and I actually left a really good Filipina for this
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One was like in head over heels with love with me.
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but the other one was like just sluttier and hotter to me.
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The other one was like head over heels and she wasn't in,
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They'll have the badge out and they'll hand out the glutton.
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I would have went back Doug and fuck that girl,
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I ain't having kids with these trifling bitches.
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did you ever get caught or did they ever snitch?
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we always talk about how trifling men are when they're in the power position
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Turns out he got remarried or something and he had a kid.
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are you like very careful that you don't tell anybody about it?
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are you ever nervous that it'll get through the grapevine because people talk?
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I don't think anybody knew that she was married when I started messing with her.
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I'd say I have a boyfriend that clearly doesn't stop.
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make sure that the YouTube is off in the background,
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modifications to her body for like plastic surgery for like C cups or D cups.
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you're the best that they could possibly hope for or get.
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And they feel like they're competing against other girls.
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They will absolutely say yes to all of that stuff.
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or they normally would have objections for most men.
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they will absolutely give you the green light for all that stuff.
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like we dated for a year and a half and then we lived together for a year and a half.
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She had kind of like borderline personality disorder,
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So I kind of had to like separate it from her and kind of cut it off actually in the last week.
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I think that anal comes along with the bipolar package,
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I'd be mad if I didn't get anal from a bipolar chick.
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like girls who like have a euphoria towards you,
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they pretty much will change themselves to be what you want.
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And if they're not changing and getting aligned with what you want,
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it's because they want someone else and they're kind of like settling for you.
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everyone around that they wanted is kind of taken.
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So they'll settle with you as long as they have things their way.
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And I think a lot of guys kind of need to like push back against that and go for,
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We're going back and forth about the whole sleeping on the first date,
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if a woman sleeps with a guy on the first date,
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but then you don't want to be the guy that she doesn't want to sleep with on the first date.
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Is she a whore for sleeping with you on the first date or,
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there's someone that she's going to sleep with on the first date.
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You're telling me if she was on a date with her celebrity crush,
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but if she's not doing it within the first two or three,
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So if she's not putting out for you relatively fast,
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maybe she's trying to kind of convince you she's not,
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to Pearl's point and kind of like past segments,
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A lot of girls want to change their image as they get older and they
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don't want the new guys that they're trying to settle down with to
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They'll make you wake longer and see if you're taking them out and
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So they try to like sell you this Christian image or this,
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It's there's too many guys that will fall for it.
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finally I found the one not like all the others.
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there's too many naive guys who once they feel like they finally got the
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So when you were in the relationship or married,
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were other women hitting on you more like her friends?
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but I kind of cut it off when I saw a lot of the crazy,
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I saw extreme jealousy whenever I would like get compliments from other
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or I would talk about like past girls who've complimented to me even
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And you just see like very extreme jealousy on her face.
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but you can kind of tell like there's almost like an obsession component
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where she feels like she's competing against past girls you slept with
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So they will absolutely change their behavior for guys who else they,
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either they are madly in love with or obsessed with or view as the best
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Cause she ran back to me like the next day and she was like,
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like sent me some screenshots and he's like in the dating market.
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she's going to get under someone to get over someone.
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you have a girl says she's just out of a relationship.
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And so I called her up like the next day just to check on her,
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Cause I could tell she's like feeling abandoned and things like that.
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And I talked with her and just kind of like calmed her down and just said,
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And then like my friend texted me like immediately the next day,
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sometimes girls feel they don't like rejection.
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And some girls feel like they have to swing from one guy to another to feel
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You gave her closure and you never give a woman closure ever,
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But if you want that girl to come back for like,
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You kind of always have to kind of like keep her around enough.
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what are phrases you would say to make her feel comfortable to come back?
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but like not stay just like kind of go back to dating.
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whatever you want to call it kind of after you guys have split,
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they'll ignore a lot of nice guys who are asking them out day to day
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because they're so obsessed with one guy who they really like,
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They'll just ignore all the nice guys around their area.
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Even if a girl is in a relationship or broken up or,
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I've seen more guys get got with sex on the way out the door,
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I never hit a rock cause I don't trust any of these girls.
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I never even allow girls to tempt me with that.
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we don't need to use condoms or anything like that.
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have you ever been propositioned by your wife or girlfriend's friends?
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So we actually went to two different basic trainings and,
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I had one and they knew I was married and she just wouldn't leave me alone.
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We went to medic school was down in San Antonio.
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my wife was in the same training unit I was in,
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And there was the females in my platoon who knew I was married and knew who she was.
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even though they knew I was married and knew my wife was in the same company.
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There was one that actually came up and asked me,
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And that was a pretty big thing when it came to a lot of females in the military.
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Like she was getting taken out of the army because they found she had a heart murmur.
00:49:31.000
And I was going to a different training when I finished my time with the medics.
00:49:38.040
it was one of those where I had a chance and I really wish I did it because find out she cheated on me.
00:49:46.440
Where I was in a different unit that was in Missouri.
00:49:51.540
And I was taking a taxi and this other female that I didn't know at all.
00:49:56.960
We were in the same taxi together and we got really,
00:50:14.060
the story with this is that because she stayed in San Antonio and she was put into the health company where they,
00:50:24.820
There was a hotel that was on base where they put all like the,
00:50:29.800
like people that prior service are switching their jobs.
00:50:45.160
she had told me that she went to a hotel party.
00:50:53.980
she woke up in bed with a guy who I knew who he was.
00:51:11.740
Because like I knew people that were there and they were going to tell me one way
00:51:18.440
and so her way out was to say she slept in the same bed,
00:51:22.980
Like she woke up in bed and the guy was there with her.
00:51:37.760
You got any other stories for our questions for him,
00:51:44.720
I said earlier that I wish I would have cheated because my ex cheated on me.
00:51:50.300
Was there one that you wish you would have got back?
00:52:09.580
And her and her buddy were getting it like trying to go to the same place.
00:52:15.460
like joined us and me and her were sitting in the backseat talking.
00:52:31.320
she looked great for somebody that was in a military uniform.
00:52:35.220
And this is like early 2010s when you couldn't do all that extra stuff.
00:54:00.560
I've been just mostly just watching your shorts on and off.
00:54:03.400
I haven't really gotten a chance to see the podcast,
00:54:27.200
I've got your video going on in the background.
00:54:36.660
something that I actually just recently got out of an engagement of all things.
00:54:52.160
and she never wanted me to give it back to her.
00:55:24.820
I heard about this phenomenon where you have a fake ring or whatever,
00:55:38.060
it's like Lord of the Rings where you put it on and you turn invisible.
00:55:55.300
the last week before the engagement got called off,
00:56:06.740
friendly and lovey-dovey with my fiance at the time.
00:56:16.720
cafeteria to get like my dog or pizza or something.
00:56:19.580
And this woman just straight up comes to our table,
00:56:53.620
the older women are the most likely to be side chicks,
00:57:22.940
I think just the cart of all of the kitchen appliances was like,
00:57:55.740
And in a way it's kind of like being a bit of a passport bro.
00:58:02.220
But she'd been living in the U S for five years.
00:58:12.520
but I got a text message about three or four days after things were called off.
00:58:28.700
Cause I thought she was like going to chew me out because,
00:58:59.220
you don't want to be that guy that messes around with some girl's sister,
01:00:02.500
we were going pretty good for about six months.
01:00:13.120
I'm not contributing to America's single problem.
01:00:36.140
they say that the faucet turns off after you get married.
01:00:40.060
The faucet turns off when you get fucking engaged,
01:01:08.180
I met her in September and she invited me to stay a few times throughout the
01:01:14.280
holidays at her apartment and which we did things about three or four
01:01:29.000
that's part of the reason why we ended up cutting it off because of all
01:01:35.680
I'll tell you that the story of the story of why she cut it off is the
01:01:41.840
I stood up to a Karen and apparently her extended family didn't like that.
01:01:50.280
My fiance invited me over for lunch at her aunt's like duplex thing.
01:02:02.960
I'm sitting there after we're done eating doorbell rings and I answered and
01:02:09.520
Cause we have like seven more people on the line.
01:02:25.280
But it turns out she tried to like get my fiance's aunt in trouble and call the
01:02:32.260
realtor and the landlord and stuff like that for me complying.
01:02:36.800
So I went back and I decided to park on that street,
01:02:45.860
And I give the bitch a piece of my mind and her aunt comes out and gives me
01:02:58.880
she had stopped wearing the ring as a result of that.
01:03:16.880
just word of warning for the people who want to go down the passport bro route.
01:03:55.060
you got to turn the YouTube off once you hit the zoom link,
01:04:13.340
I was dating a girl for a long period of time and she had a girlfriend that she would,
01:04:37.420
I broke up with this chick and then I started smashing on her.
01:04:55.520
She wanted to have a child with me right after that.
01:05:02.600
The funniest thing in the world is you have to have a sob story.
01:05:14.320
I always say that I had two kids and a wife and they died in a car accident.
01:05:18.700
And I'm out here celebrating the anniversary that I dated her or married her.
01:05:53.580
And you have to fucking pin it down by days and you have to go backtracking,
01:06:03.360
I was newly married and my kids burned up and she burned up.
01:06:18.720
what I'm saying is this fucking podcast is off the goddamn rails.
01:06:53.140
I literally went to the parking lot with her and we started to try to open up doors
01:07:00.700
And it actually freaking happened where there was a Ford Explorer.
01:07:07.400
And I put her in there and we had sex in a random car of a random person that I never
01:07:14.900
That is the truth that any guy that gets married,
01:07:19.660
I don't know what the hell these guys are up to,
01:07:36.220
have you ever been in a relationship and the girl's friends try to sleep with you?
01:07:44.200
And then of course I sent my ex-girlfriend pictures and videos this many years ago.
01:07:48.560
And then of course that's when she got baby rabies.
01:08:00.140
Now I think that I really contributed to her downfall in terms of her alcoholism.
01:09:37.220
your daughter and your son and your wife burned up in a car accident.
01:11:01.360
What are you going to go on the microfiche in the library and
01:11:04.660
fucking look up what happened in 2007 and off of fucking Las Cruces,
01:11:12.800
this motherfucker was married and he's been single.
01:11:34.660
I just think this is like one of the best podcasts,
01:12:15.540
you better be ready because you weren't ready last time.
01:12:17.780
You put in the chat for me to bring you back up and I'm bringing you back up.
01:12:33.380
i'm giving you gold can we can we like this video you know it's subscribe if you haven't already
01:12:41.920
brad it says he's joining hope he doesn't have a struggle internet out here brad it says he's
01:12:50.720
joining well we will let huh it's just saying joining so we're gonna try
01:13:00.040
have a talk to him in a little bit so we'll what we'll let let's will lisa in and let's how you
01:13:09.700
doing hi can you hear me yep how you doing buddy hey thanks for having me on again hey so what do
01:13:18.100
you what are your thoughts on the topic have you ever had um a wife or a girlfriend's friend
01:13:24.140
try to hook up with you while you're dating or married to her yeah so i think it's a matter of
01:13:32.140
validation 40 women where um they want to feel like they're so great that they can get any guy
01:13:42.720
and not just any guy like they can get any guy to abandon their life abandon their partner for
01:13:49.200
the woman that's why um a man that's uh taken is just a lot more attractive um so i um with capital
01:14:00.960
of one exception i've never had um my girlfriend's friends tell me while we were dating but after we
01:14:10.640
immediately broke up there were a few proposals but i think throughout my life like during the time i was
01:14:17.040
in a relationship compared to when i was single i would get hit on a lot more when i was in a
01:14:22.560
relationship um like significantly more and i think um i didn't have a ring or anything they were
01:14:30.000
just my girlfriends um but i think it's also a matter of demeanor where um i'm approaching them
01:14:36.720
from a sense where like i'm clearly taking i'm not interested and because of that they're a lot more
01:14:41.840
intrigued um so like a interesting story yeah so uh interesting story is uh when i was in college
01:14:52.640
there was um um uh brunettes um that i was hooking up with um and she had a boyfriend at the time um but
01:15:05.200
she would uh i think like the trick to it is i would just tell her whatever she's doing she's
01:15:12.080
like absolutely right so she would say like oh man my boyfriend he's emotionally abusive like i would
01:15:18.160
tell him that you and i uh like we're just friends um and we're not hooking up there's nothing to worry
01:15:25.200
about and i would tell her it's like yeah i know you're completely right he's being emotionally abusive
01:15:29.440
here um even though like i've been here throughout this entire story i know what's actually going on we
01:15:34.720
are hooking up um so i think like it just um when reality distorts from their world view you have
01:15:42.240
to tell them that it's the world that's wrong and you're completely in the right here yeah that's
01:15:48.880
funny thanks for calling in calling anytime okay yeah thanks for having me on have a good one buddy
01:15:56.400
i know we have a good amount of callers so i'm trying to red i'm going to try you one more time
01:16:01.520
buddy i saw you click on and click click off and click back on uh i don't know if it's like your
01:16:09.520
struggle wi-fi or something i don't know but this is the last time
01:16:14.720
uh your call better be interesting you better get right to the point it says joining
01:16:21.920
i don't know what's going on with you brad uh well i'll tell brian one more time how many people are
01:16:37.120
how many people are on the line uh there's one more person okay so let me see brian's not responding and
01:16:47.920
so i'm gonna kick him out because i don't know why if you are not going to be here um
01:17:03.920
i think his name is actually daquan i use that sometimes chad tyrone daquan
01:17:10.000
that's why are you there yeah daquan would you consider yourself a tyrone
01:17:20.480
no i mean i mean not really i'm just a regular um
01:17:27.120
regular young 34 year old black man from trenton new jersey you heard
01:17:30.960
yeah i use your name sometimes for um a guy that like runs through a lot of women and i was just
01:17:36.480
curious if if the shoe fits or no that's what i did that's what i did in oklahoma city but like
01:17:42.240
what i was telling my girl earlier when i um i had a friend when i was in oklahoma city
01:17:48.320
i had moved in from trenton new jersey about like probably 2021 and um
01:17:54.640
i had moved back this year whatever so she was asking me she was like okay when you was back home
01:18:00.160
in jersey on the east coast jersey philly new york was the you know how was the girls and i was like
01:18:06.720
it's hard because you know there were you on the east coast trying to talk to a girl or going home to
01:18:12.960
the club or whatever they just like no so when i had moved to oklahoma city or whatever i was thinking
01:18:19.280
like um i went to the club and i found out you could actually go home with a chick i'm like i thought
01:18:25.120
that was only in movies so um my friend you had a good time huh well yeah well yeah my friend um
01:18:37.040
yeah actually she was like you think you got more confidence now when you go back home on the east coast
01:18:44.320
you think you know because you got more confidence or something like that the little trickle off when
01:18:48.800
you get over there and rub off i said probably not but i'll let you know so she asked me this in 2022
01:18:54.400
right so when i got back this year i had called her and said remember when you asked me this i said
01:18:59.840
the answer is no it's the same way depending on where you go small town big city whatever it's going
01:19:06.640
to be you know you can have different experiences and dating you know so tell me have you ever had
01:19:12.800
been in a relationship or married and had a girl's friend try to hook up with you
01:19:16.880
the answer is no not at all nope i know people try to make up different stories and stuff but i'm like
01:19:28.400
no now it's probably a couple friends i wish i could have hit you heard
01:19:33.440
but you so your girlfriend's friends have always been loyal they've never done it oh yeah a couple of
01:19:40.800
one was looking good but they wasn't trying to do it don't do nothing you know i asked one of my
01:19:46.640
friends x first for four threesome or whatever my girl would have did it but she was like nah she was
01:19:52.160
kind of you know what i'm saying yeah okay it was kind of like it was kind of like that or whatever
01:19:58.640
i had did um you know i don't you know i you know i just basically you know probably just been dealing
01:20:07.680
with chicks with good friends or whatever like that cool well it's good it's good to hear a different um
01:20:14.480
story than the normal ones so thanks for calling in calling anytime all right you already know um i
01:20:21.120
mentioned i name dropped you on my comedy uh session in new york last week oh really yeah is there a video
01:20:29.600
yeah well yeah i'll react to it i'll react to it if it's live can you dm it to me
01:20:36.240
yeah but i i have to um i'm waiting on them to i have um once i pay the 30 or whatever they're gonna
01:20:43.040
um email it to me and probably i'll probably get it like next week or whatever and then i could dm it
01:20:48.240
to you uh when i get it sure what was the bit can i get like an idea of what it's about okay so it's
01:20:55.600
about like this you're gonna love it it was about when you was talking about every chick loves bad
01:21:01.040
boys and i put every chick loves bad boys but i put i name dropped probably three different races or
01:21:08.640
whatever and what a bad boy is for each race of woman and we all know i mean come on now like
01:21:15.040
when i got to the black part i was like yeah that's the one you all been looking for
01:21:19.440
okay i'm gonna yeah so i basically you know what i'm saying i described what a bad boy is to all of
01:21:25.920
them different um you know races it was inspired by you you know what i'm saying you're my favorite
01:21:31.760
white girl on on youtube matter of fact in the world matter of fact thank you well i appreciate
01:21:37.840
the name drop so send it to me and i'll react to it okay yeah how would i send it to you um you
01:21:44.480
can just do it on twitter pearly things with a z um my i usually check dms so
01:21:49.520
or email you can email it to me just pearly things at gmail it's fine just probably yeah if
01:21:58.720
you put comedy thing in like the like name drop i'll see and i'll react to it in daquan in new
01:22:04.560
jersey and i bet you remember me all right i will thank you very much for calling in
01:22:09.200
thank you very much bye bye bye oh we're gonna bring up eric
01:22:21.520
eric is coming up always good to talk to him eric what's up buddy
01:22:28.000
hello hey eric how's it going yeah what's all the hubbub bub
01:22:34.400
i don't really know what that means but okay you're too young yeah that's an old bugs bunny line
01:22:44.640
but uh yeah the um it's a good topic because uh you know like a i think that uh you know i've been
01:22:55.840
married twice um and of course you know i'm a cusp you know like boomer gen x guy you know i own
01:23:04.320
almost made it into gen x but uh so you know most of my dating experience is from like the
01:23:11.360
late 70s through the 90s and then of course i wound up married and stuff uh i can tell you for a
01:23:18.800
at least in my experience um the uh the most the the most you know how do you word this i mean i
01:23:30.480
frequently got the you know the the batting eyes and the flirting when i had a wedding ring on my finger
01:23:40.720
and uh it didn't matter whether i was deployed overseas or you know out of town for training or
01:23:48.080
or even like you know with my wife and our friends um in some local tavern uh it's almost like uh
01:23:59.200
it's almost like women have a magnetic attraction for you know men who demonstrate that they can uh
01:24:08.320
yeah and if you cheat and if you cheat with her it's like a double whammy because not only can you commit
01:24:16.960
but you can also cheat and we love both yeah yeah okay well the thing is here's the funny thing is
01:24:25.760
is you know and this is what always used to strike me was i was like well if you think that
01:24:31.440
i would cheat with you what makes you think that i wouldn't cheat on you but it's like an ego thing
01:24:38.240
we want to feel like we're better and we're doing yeah yeah that was that was mentioned earlier from
01:24:43.600
one of the other dollars yeah you know my you know i've like i said in my super chat i've cheated
01:24:49.840
i've been cheated on um and i've had like other like in my first marriage um which was from uh 1992
01:25:01.440
to 1996 um i divorced her because she was financially irresponsible i never divorced her simply because
01:25:13.840
you know she was banging one of my buddies right because you know like
01:25:20.880
uh one of the guys i was stationed with down there in new orleans um i respected him i liked him he
01:25:27.920
was a he was an amazing male specimen and uh his wife was similar and i wanted to get in her pants
01:25:36.880
he took a shining to my wife and uh you know we were drinking in the french quarter one night
01:25:43.520
oh and we decided to go back home and sort of have a foursome except it didn't really wind up being a
01:25:49.520
foursome it was just really wife swapping or husband swapping whatever and uh so what used to happen
01:25:57.920
uh for a while was like if i was on 24-hour duty i could pretty much count on the idea that
01:26:05.040
him his wife and my wife were having a threesome and if he had the duty it was going to be me
01:26:12.400
you know having the threesome with them and uh you know so like it wasn't the sex that broke us up
01:26:19.600
and we were secure in our relationships it's not like we were going to leave each other for the others
01:26:23.920
um but uh yeah it is interesting um did it like it didn't bother you seeing your wife get like banged
01:26:32.960
out by another dude well that's the thing i never actually saw it um i don't know how i would you know
01:26:41.920
i don't know how i would have reacted if we'd have actually done a in the same room foursome situation
01:26:48.480
but uh when it comes down to it i really didn't you know i mean honestly when it comes down to male
01:26:55.120
instincts and all the testosterone i just didn't care about her that much you know i mean i wanted
01:27:01.040
to bang his wife as much as uh i you know cared about her i guess you know so you know we're like
01:27:10.320
she's expensive anyway if she wants to go yeah yeah she's a financial retard so you can make my dip
01:27:19.520
dick go limp you know okay so so second marriage was it similar like no second marriage was a nightmare
01:27:29.680
actually um because uh yeah it's too long a story to tell on your show uh but yeah my uh my uh second
01:27:44.720
ex had uh apparently had quite the body count by the time she even you know like graduated high school
01:27:53.200
and uh i was 14 years older than her and uh you know so i was like in my mid-30s and she was 21
01:28:02.960
and she was like oh i'm over all that i've had my fun i want to settle down and i was like
01:28:10.160
sure you do and about you know seven year itch being what it is she uh you know she uh she pulled
01:28:19.200
the pill on the fat grenade and you know it i still loved her though but uh then what happened
01:28:26.240
was because you know it was blamed on a thyroid problem uh it always is yeah she uh a surgeon you
01:28:37.120
know gave her a gastric bypass and within about a year she lost a hundred something pounds and got
01:28:42.720
back into her five two you know five two train and other men started to notice her and she liked it
01:28:52.800
and uh you know but again with her it was the financial irresponsibility and recklessness that
01:29:00.080
caused me to divorce her because um you know i you know biologically i mean call me a sigma male but
01:29:11.760
as long as someone doesn't bring home an std um i'm not concerned with who else they might be
01:29:19.680
fucking i never was i was you know i was raised in the 60s and early 70s and uh you know so uh
01:29:29.120
it was like uh yeah i mean would i have liked to have a wife like esme williams where every time i
01:29:35.920
come home from work there's a hot dinner on the table and she's totally you know there's total
01:29:42.560
fidelity to me sure who wouldn't want that but you know how rare someone like esme williams is
01:29:50.480
the uh you know so here's my thing about cheating it's you know would you ask yourselves if you're in a
01:30:01.520
relationship that you consider to be serious with someone would you feel any better if they offered
01:30:08.880
their bodies to other people and got rejected because as far as i'm concerned the moment they
01:30:17.120
offer their body the cheating has in fact occurred prima facie
01:30:21.200
yeah it doesn't matter whether they actually the only thing worse about catching your guy cheating
01:30:28.720
is going through his phone and watching and have seen girls put leave him on red
01:30:38.640
that's like yeah like that's what you're saying right that's like a meme
01:30:41.840
yeah yeah yeah it's yeah i mean if uh if you're really hardcore about you know uh fealty in your
01:30:52.160
relationship you know fidelity then you know you if you're a man and you know your wife has offered
01:31:00.560
her body to another man your problem is not with that other man it's with your wife and whether he
01:31:07.040
banged her or not it's the same thing i mean she offered her body to another man you can no longer
01:31:14.160
trust her yeah and it's the same for the wife you know if the husband's out trying to frickin
01:31:19.840
sow his oats all the time you know she has to decide whether it's worth it for her to stick with them
01:31:27.200
but getting back to the topic yeah i am i think that the most opportunities even when i was in my 20s and
01:31:35.200
i was a lifeguard uh you know in my teens and 20s and then uh you know being a rescue swimmer in the
01:31:42.320
coast guard and all that um you know there there were there's a certain kind of women who goes for guys
01:31:50.960
who fight fires rescue people right or uh you know and so you'd have to like suss them out and find
01:31:58.640
them um excuse me but uh yeah i'm old as a galapagos tortoise so i you know i get frogs in my throat
01:32:07.120
pretty easily the um but the thing is so i used to have to like you know i used to like zero in on
01:32:14.320
those kind of girls but uh once i had a wedding ring on my finger i mean even my wife's best friends
01:32:21.680
you know uh they'd you know they'd uh they'd flirt and i'm not talking about like you know frivolous
01:32:32.800
flirting they'd flirt like hey you know i i understand your wife's going off for three days
01:32:38.560
in florida you know so and so is going off to do some training for her job uh what are you doing
01:32:44.880
tomorrow like yeah yeah well you know i'm not doing you but uh yeah it's like unless we can
01:32:53.360
unless we can swap yeah yeah well yeah true yeah the uh well like in one case it was another coast
01:33:01.040
guard wife who lived about 300 yards up and across the street from us who we you know we were very close
01:33:07.600
with their family and uh you know her husband had been a shipmate of mine when you know we were just
01:33:14.400
getting started in the coast guard and um you know if he'd have been anybody else i would have
01:33:21.120
absolutely freaking banged her while my wife was away the guys in the chat sorry i've got limits i'm
01:33:28.240
a man i gotta i gotta i gotta ask the guys in the chat want to know about the mannequins what's going
01:33:34.640
oh in the back yeah they're not mannequins they're dolls uh i've got about thirty thousand dollars invested
01:33:41.920
in uh dolls and their clothes and their makeup um and their wigs they all have human hair wigs which
01:33:48.320
are pretty expensive but yeah in uh 2016 was and i'm an old freaking galapagos tortoise kind of guy
01:33:58.800
but 2016 was uh the last time i got involved with a biological woman and um about a year well maybe about
01:34:09.440
three three or four months after um i decided i was i was done you know trying to swim the salmon ladder
01:34:19.680
so um i had been watching a video videos that mainly covered like news and social commentary
01:34:30.000
from a creator called turf flinging monkey who uh he's not on youtube anymore because he got you know he
01:34:36.160
got yeeted from youtube after about five years of you know putting videos there but he uh started
01:34:43.280
another uh channel before he got yeeted uh showing his doll and i was like well i was like okay so
01:34:54.240
if you know if a chimpanzee uh can uh feel like they've got company with a you know a stuffed chimpanzee
01:35:03.760
i'm like well i'm a primate so maybe i'll get one of these dolls and uh so i did and i dress them and
01:35:10.480
i do their makeup and the hair and stuff it's kind of like a charlie's angels thing are they like are
01:35:16.240
they sex dolls or they're just normal dolls well they're sexually capable but you know you're not
01:35:22.160
going to get you're not going to get a whole lot of afterglow from a sex doll i mean it's like a
01:35:27.600
fleshlight with the effigy of a rubber woman attached to it you know it's it's just not a big deal
01:35:34.560
um now i don't i'll tell you what if i could have been saved a lot of frustration when i was
01:35:41.360
like a young man if i if i'd have been given one of these dolls straight out of high school as a
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graduation gift oh really yeah because the pressure would have been off you know i was like well i'm
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gonna get my post not clarity whether she wants to or not um you know so i can date this one chick
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and if she rejects me i'll just go home to my doll you know i mean but i don't uh i don't recommend
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going migtail monk or or going a hundred percent into sex dolls if you're a young fella like you know
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younger than 40 anyway yeah um but for me they're just fun you know they're like like when i was a kid
01:36:20.720
i used to love statues we'd go to like the uh the uh what do you call it the history of man in san
01:36:27.840
diego and i would just marvel over these amazing statues and that's uh you know that's uh kind of
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what i do with these yeah you know i was just i was just curious they're asking in the chat but yeah
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no i don't blame them i mean you know i got nothing to hide here um my life now uh as i as i
01:36:50.880
you know slide into my elder years um you know it's all about guitars and amplifiers and
01:37:00.000
it's nice to have a you know a representation of a feminine presence in the house and even though
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even though they can't talk they do have voices i figured out a way to give them each voices and i can
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always tell which one's talking based on their accent and like sometimes i'll walk out of my
01:37:21.360
grubbies and i'll be heading for the store and one of the dolls will say eric you are not going out
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in public wearing that shirt and i'm like wow she's so woman-like you know all right well thanks for
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calling in calling anytime all right yeah sure thing uh enjoy enjoy the rest of the shoe all right
01:37:46.240
have a good one uh what um hey you know everybody's got this something so um you know and eric's been a
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good supporter of the show he drops super chats so i've just never i've that's the first i wasn't
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expecting that yeah you know i i wasn't expecting either you know i i don't have an opinion on it on
01:38:11.920
it either way i'm just gonna say everybody's got there something okay um do we have anyone else we
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can maybe do one more caller yeah uh you guys hit that like button where 275 likes um and shred cloud
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you're up you have the youtube in the background you gotta turn the youtube off okay did he make it now
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he yeah yeah yeah okay all right sorry i was still uh catching up with the bald guy man i getting
01:38:49.760
a little ptsd over here you got dolls too no i don't have dolls i mean i had some old gi joe's when
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i sold them during uh the lockdowns and whatnot but those just started collecting dust in the basement
01:39:04.000
yeah no no uh no bedroom fun with any of those i was just i was just wondering so um tell me about
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cheating have you ever had a girlfriend or wife's friend proposition you while in a relationship
01:39:18.640
okay so that's a bit nuanced and i i guess the the short answer is yes definitely uh what the way that
01:39:26.560
it happened it was like intentionally a little bit subtle like uh one of her friends who i actually was
01:39:35.200
pretty adamant about her kind of distancing herself from because i could just tell she was a 304
01:39:41.120
and she was just like make a lot of comments and uh be really touchy with me when we were around and
01:39:48.000
one thing i found really kind of off-putting is that she would actually kind of like mimic some of my
01:39:54.720
girlfriend's like mannerisms and stuff when we hung out with each other almost like she was like
01:40:00.640
preparing to take her place or something and i would tell i would tell my girlfriend that i just thought
01:40:06.240
she was weird but then on top of that like she she literally started like she started mentioning
01:40:14.080
things to me that were like they were like intimate details between me and my girl so it's almost like
01:40:18.880
bedroom or like pillow talk type stuff it was clear that my girlfriend had shared it with her and then
01:40:24.560
it's like she wanted me to know that she knew oh you got a good review huh yeah exactly and then this
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that's what it turned out to be so again i never i've never slept with any of my girls friends while
01:40:41.280
we were together but the fact is that that became a huge point of contention and we started fighting
01:40:47.520
about just like her relationship with her friends and again i'm not i've never been controlled i really
01:40:52.400
don't care uh who my girl hangs out with and even honestly if my girl has friends that are are kind of
01:40:57.360
trashed and i just kind of uh i take it into account and then i gauge how serious i'm going to take that
01:41:03.440
girl based on her friends so i'm not trying to get married i always tell girls that right away so
01:41:07.840
there's just different degrees of girlfriend that happens anyway so if a girl really has a bunch of bad
01:41:14.240
influences then i'm really not taking her serious but we ended up having a lot of arguments about
01:41:19.600
uh her friends and then uh one of our biggest arguments we just broke up because i was like i
01:41:24.320
i'm done i don't i'm like i'm not here to try to take your freedom away or or like force you to act
01:41:29.920
in a way you don't want to you want to have these kind of friends go ahead and then like a week later
01:41:34.400
that chick showed up at my place so i got it and then did you smash i did smash yeah
01:41:41.520
i was cheating at that point plus i plus i got to prove my point i was like i told you your girl's
01:41:49.520
a hoe so did you did you tell her i didn't i did it because honestly me and uh my ex we ended on
01:41:56.960
decent terms but i i'd be surprised if at some point it doesn't come up like her friends the type
01:42:02.640
that i think the smallest argument she'll probably bring it up to her but i always go no contact so
01:42:07.440
i have no idea uh what happened after damn so she just showed up at your house yeah yeah showed up
01:42:15.520
and she's like oh uh she she just like weaves some story uh trying to tell me that my ex thought she
01:42:22.640
might have left something there and then i was like there's no way because me and my ex actually like
01:42:27.600
we had been talking that whole week and like we had hooked up a couple of times
01:42:31.840
and like i was 100 sure there was nothing there i double checked she had checked her place for all
01:42:36.720
my stuff and i was just like yeah uh there's nothing here but like do you want to come inside
01:42:43.440
for a second and then she was like yeah and then by the excitement that she said yes i was like okay
01:42:47.920
well i'm going to smash and then i'm not talking to any of these chicks again and did you like initiate
01:42:54.080
like what when she got into the house like did you guys just start hooking up or did she need like
01:42:58.320
plausible deniability what well they always want plausible deniability right so she came in and she
01:43:06.480
was like oh well uh she started like complimenting different stuff in my apartment because i actually
01:43:12.720
had re like uh like i redesigned stuff after my girl left because some of her stuff was in there and
01:43:19.840
i i like had gaps in my furniture and that kind of stuff so she started complimenting all my new stuff
01:43:25.360
and then she was like oh you know i've never seen your bedroom and i was like yeah do you want to
01:43:30.240
and she was like yeah i i'd love to check it out you're such good style right so we went in there
01:43:36.400
and yeah basically it just happened as soon as we went in the bedroom she was just like wow this is
01:43:40.560
super nice and then got on my bed and then i basically initiated after that yeah the and then
01:43:48.080
she'd probably if she ever tells a story she's like he was all over me yeah exactly he like uh
01:43:55.440
called me over even like they'll they'll change little details but uh the thing that i think about
01:44:01.920
sorry go ahead no no no go ahead go ahead the thing i think about a lot because i like i feel like i was
01:44:07.760
red pill before i ever knew what red pill was like i i switched high schools a bunch of times uh when i was
01:44:13.680
younger sorry i switched elementary schools high school i went to one place but i switched schools
01:44:17.680
multiple times i really i got used to having like different reactions from people so like i i had
01:44:23.600
had uh experience where i showed up at school and it's like everybody just hated me because i i guess i
01:44:30.080
like somehow crossed one of the popular kids and suddenly everybody like they just turned everybody
01:44:36.720
against me and this is like day two of me at a new school and then there's like a another year i go to
01:44:41.920
a school and i guess somebody like my t-shirt and all of a sudden i'm the cool new kid and everybody
01:44:47.520
loved me so i really always like was very much about taking my own perspective on stuff i never took
01:44:53.200
other people's opinions to heart too much so uh when i got to high school it just became obvious to me
01:44:59.760
right away where like all of the girls would like if you ask or if you heard which guys girls have a
01:45:05.360
crush on they're all naming like 10 guys right like it's not it's not it's not somebody for
01:45:11.440
everybody like people could say that to me a million times i'll never buy that because the
01:45:15.440
stats proved otherwise from the moment i started like thinking about it at all like all these girls
01:45:21.440
want either the captain of one of the teams or the guy who's in the band or somebody that's like
01:45:28.480
prominent in our in our like social hierarchy in high school and then i had a buddy uh who like we
01:45:37.440
became friends in our our junior and senior years my first two years i was kind of kind of a nerd i
01:45:42.320
played a lot of sports but then in the last two years i ended up being friends with probably the
01:45:48.080
most popular guy in the grade and this guy used to run through whole groups of of girlfriends and like
01:45:55.280
he was the only guy that i knew that would date girls older than us which was a big thing in high
01:45:58.880
school and he was always getting the referral and i and just me seeing that i was like i i i couldn't even
01:46:05.200
have imagined how trifling girls could be until i could just see that once he had one girl give him
01:46:10.880
a good review he would week after week go through the entire friend group and then typically they would
01:46:16.560
just not be friends anymore after he was done well that'll do it yeah yeah and then and then as i got
01:46:24.800
older i was still i still had some nice guy tendencies so like i was reptile in the sense that i figured most
01:46:30.080
women and and like i understood that like most people are gonna do what they they feel like
01:46:34.480
instinctually which is not the best for everybody overall but i figured there were like like we call
01:46:40.080
them unicorns now but i figured there was probably a decent amount like maybe like 10 of women were
01:46:46.000
really good and that if i just kind of like was a really nice guy myself that eventually i'll just
01:46:51.040
stumble on the really nice ones as much as i knew that the majority luckily your friend could go test them
01:46:56.960
for you if you wanted exactly what i had new friends because i went to college in a different
01:47:06.080
state my i didn't hang out as much with that same buddy he stayed in our hometown and like i would be
01:47:11.040
telling new guys that i knew kind of my perspective they're like oh man you're so negative like i can't
01:47:17.360
believe you think that way and then now i'm circling back to the original topic is that i kind of like
01:47:23.440
i recognized that i had good social skills i could talk to girls and like i could create uh interest
01:47:28.880
or whatever but i wasn't good at closing just because i i always tried to give girls the benefit
01:47:32.640
of the doubt so a lot of times there'd be openings where i probably could take them home but i just i
01:47:37.440
i just wasn't even reading the signs so i i kind of got into the online red pill thing with the pickup and
01:47:43.680
kind of just listening to guys talk about how they kind of went from conversation to bringing a
01:47:48.960
girl back to their house yeah and once i once i kind of got a little bit of experience doing that
01:47:54.720
i just found that married women were the easiest to pick up yeah because they probably it probably
01:48:01.280
been the longest since they've like smashed someone else yeah and honestly the biggest um
01:48:08.720
the biggest signifier is the fact that when we go out i'm only going to try to approach women that are
01:48:13.760
just out with other women not with other guys and are clearly acting like they came out to
01:48:20.400
have a good time right in the way that we as men are looking for so what would you even be doing there
01:48:25.440
as a married woman unless you were you wanted some male attention right at the very least if not to also
01:48:31.920
right guy right place right time right go home with something right so i i just found that like
01:48:38.880
it was disturbing to me how much easier it was a lot of times for me to kind of progress things
01:48:44.880
with a married woman than with a a single and i honestly i only one time hooked up with a married
01:48:52.080
woman and it was um without my knowledge like she put her ring on uh the next morning but there's
01:48:58.720
just so many times where it would end up coming up in conversation as i was trying to pick them up and
01:49:03.280
i'll just like damn like not only does it suck that this is true but it's like a major inconvenience
01:49:09.040
so i'm wasting all this time talking about married yeah yeah well thanks for calling in calling anytime
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okay okay i appreciate you guys have a good day all right see you everyone and that is everybody
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um just caught up with the chat i understand why people would recoil at the sight of my dolls and i'm
01:49:27.200
cool with that it's a two billion dollar industry annually industry annually so i know i'm not alone
01:49:32.400
i actually might go um i have a friend of mine said i could interview the the guy who's making the
01:49:39.440
dolls and stuff if you guys are interested we could like deep dive into that i could probably interview
01:49:45.440
people that are buying them um okay you know you know whatever because it's just like the whole corn
01:49:53.520
thing i know people in the red pill say oh yeah i mentioned stay away from corn but really think about it
01:49:58.560
um if you're a young guy you you want to stay away from these money-grubbing whores right and and then
01:50:07.600
they say women are a distraction that'll take you off of your purpose you're supposed to be grinding in
01:50:13.040
your 20s but men still have sexual urges so what are they supposed to do like not watch corn are you
01:50:18.800
serious i mean i wouldn't say i mean if it's an unhealthy amount but come on expecting like a
01:50:24.320
a guy through his 20s that's trying to avoid women because they're going to be a distraction to not
01:50:28.720
watch corn come on now yeah all right guys um you got any final thoughts dug mpa uh yeah the best cologne
01:50:38.160
you can wear to get women is wife or girlfriend they can smell it on you and and it's funny because if
01:50:46.080
you're in a especially if you're in a happy i mean it's rare but if you're in a happy relationship or a
01:50:51.760
happy marriage and it's funny because it happens to you the happier you are but then you're so happy
01:50:56.720
that you don't really see the signs but your wife will though all right that's all i got yeah um i
01:51:05.440
personally when i'm dating someone i just don't try to have my friends spend a lot of time around them
01:51:13.920
because i just even good friends that i like and don't think would do that i don't really want to
01:51:19.120
test the water so that's you know that's i always just try to not mix that if i can you know i'm not
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