JustPearlyThings - November 04, 2023


Who Gave Women The Right To Vote？


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Length

8 minutes

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201.32808

Word count

1,617

Sentence count

163

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

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Hate speech

16

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In this episode, we discuss why we celebrate bitter women and why we don t celebrate amicable ex-wives. We also discuss why women should be celebrated for being amicable after a divorce and why they should not be celebrated after a breakup.

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00:00:00.000 If you do something that goes against nature, that's then when things mess up.
00:00:04.100 Yeah, and that's what the anti-suffragettes, like all the women of the time, 1.00
00:00:08.700 like there was more women that were against women voting than were for it. 0.89
00:00:11.820 I just wanted to, I know you didn't have a direct answer,
00:00:14.740 but it's kind of like if you created something, who was the creator?
00:00:18.740 Someone invented this camera, and now the camera's faulty.
00:00:22.520 Okay, so I'll tell you, the deciding vote for giving women the right to vote, 0.69
00:00:27.280 which by and large changed the court system,
00:00:30.220 it was a guy who basically did it because his mom was an anti-suffragette.
00:00:34.400 That was like the deciding vote, so he was kind of like the OG simp.
00:00:37.360 So they said, but he was still a man now, he was still a man now, isn't he?
00:00:42.700 But here's the thing, the reason why men give women the right to vote 0.99
00:00:46.740 is because by and large men are good people, and they thought,
00:00:50.140 well, women should have the right to vote. 1.00
00:00:52.660 Now, women get the right to vote, but what do they do with it? 1.00
00:00:55.200 That's the real question.
00:00:56.100 So are you saying that prior to women voting,
00:00:58.940 because the contract of marriage was completely different.
00:01:02.280 After women became... 1.00
00:01:03.280 No, family, family, well...
00:01:04.800 I'm talking about the contract of marriage.
00:01:06.020 Okay, okay.
00:01:06.580 Because we're saying that the contract benefits women. 0.97
00:01:08.620 Okay, so it's a multi...
00:01:11.340 Really, gynocentrism goes back a thousand years.
00:01:15.520 So men being discriminated against in court isn't necessarily a new thing.
00:01:21.220 I think we just have a natural...
00:01:22.720 Men just have an innate ability to want to protect women. 0.89
00:01:26.060 However, the culture was really different, and the family court...
00:01:29.400 Okay.
00:01:29.900 Yeah, the culture...
00:01:30.400 Yeah, yeah, because women respond really quickly to social shame. 1.00
00:01:34.100 Yeah.
00:01:34.540 Yeah, so when something is shamed as a culture...
00:01:38.320 That's why I say it's not good that we celebrate these things,
00:01:40.620 because when things are celebrated, women tend to do it. 1.00
00:01:42.920 When they're shamed, we tend to not.
00:01:44.040 But we're going to celebrate him when he gets a divorce,
00:01:46.440 and he looks after his ex-wife now, and his kids.
00:01:49.980 We're celebrating him because he's doing the right thing.
00:01:53.020 He is still providing.
00:01:54.720 He's not being bitter.
00:01:55.920 He's not cutting her off.
00:01:57.280 She should ultimately not want to take away.
00:02:00.000 But again, he might decide he wants that 24-year-old now because she's 35. 1.00
00:02:03.600 She's giving him the kids, and he's like,
00:02:04.880 oh, I want a bit of something different.
00:02:06.580 Again, different conversation about if a man can be with one woman
00:02:09.880 for the rest of his life.
00:02:11.100 That's a different rabbit hole.
00:02:12.180 So she might not agree to that.
00:02:15.380 So then that might be a reason as to why she decides that that's no longer for her.
00:02:20.160 Right, but the problem is we don't celebrate women being amicable after divorce.
00:02:25.500 We do not celebrate and say...
00:02:27.740 We don't celebrate bitter women.
00:02:29.340 I would say we do celebrate bitter women. 1.00
00:02:32.300 Yeah, I know, we shouldn't.
00:02:33.120 But I'll give you an example.
00:02:34.740 Like, anyone Carrie Underwood fan?
00:02:36.760 Anyone?
00:02:37.580 No one?
00:02:38.220 No, you guys don't listen to country here.
00:02:40.400 But there was a big...
00:02:42.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:43.120 And there's other examples, but one that comes to my head
00:02:46.000 is there was a top country song about a woman keying a guy's car after he cheated.
00:02:50.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:51.420 A couple of them in the pop culture too.
00:02:53.120 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:53.740 The one I'm...
00:02:54.500 We key them.
00:02:55.180 We do a lot of...
00:02:55.700 What about that song, I Might Kill My Ex, that is literally in the charts?
00:03:01.020 I Might Kill My Ex.
00:03:02.460 Can you imagine if that was a man singing that song?
00:03:06.220 I Might Kill My Ex.
00:03:07.880 Not the best idea.
00:03:09.040 And everyone's like,
00:03:10.640 Ah, haha, it's funny because she's just a woman and she's crazy. 1.00
00:03:13.220 If a man made the same song in a rap song, in a rock song, I don't care what it is.
00:03:17.940 If a man said the same thing, the media would be going nuts.
00:03:22.060 But it is absolutely glorified in our culture.
00:03:23.960 There's another one as well.
00:03:25.400 It's Meghan Trainor.
00:03:26.580 I did an episode on this.
00:03:27.900 So I spent a long, long time researching the charts and how things have changed over the years.
00:03:32.700 How music and television, what they show us, right?
00:03:35.020 Even in soaps, you never hear in soaps anymore of, you know, on EastEnders.
00:03:39.480 No one's been together for 30 years.
00:03:41.320 Someone's having it off with someone.
00:03:42.800 Everything's chaotic.
00:03:43.840 In music, again, Meghan Trainor, there's this song and she says,
00:03:46.760 She says, I am your mother.
00:03:50.580 You listen to me.
00:03:51.740 I don't want to hear none of that mansplaining.
00:03:54.100 And the whole song is basically composed in such a way of this gynocentric society. 0.85
00:04:01.400 So you have this queen kind of in a dictatorship figure. 1.00
00:04:06.300 And it's basically the whole song is just putting down men.
00:04:09.240 Lots of women's music that is in the charts. 0.99
00:04:12.540 If you read the lyrics, you would be absolutely appalled and you would only be appalled when you apply it to the men.
00:04:18.940 Because that I might kill my ex song.
00:04:21.160 Another one.
00:04:22.180 Oh, she's sweet, but a psycho. 1.00
00:04:23.840 Can we imagine if we had a song about a dude where he said, oh, he's a gentleman, but he's also a narcissistic abuser.
00:04:31.680 We celebrate these things in women. 0.94
00:04:34.440 But if you heard it as a man, I heard the other song when I was selling photocopiers before this job.
00:04:40.240 I heard this song and it was like, I might kill my ex.
00:04:44.240 And it's like a really like creepy song.
00:04:46.500 Catchy.
00:04:47.140 And it gets in people's heads.
00:04:48.660 And we don't know what kind of subliminal messaging that's doing to the unconscious minds of people.
00:04:52.560 Programming.
00:04:53.100 Exactly.
00:04:54.220 Back to, again, gender. 0.73
00:04:56.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:04:57.960 But like basically there was a small percentage of, you know, I would say simp, beta men that decided to give women all of this power. 0.51
00:05:06.920 And then all of men had to pay for it.
00:05:08.940 Are those the same?
00:05:09.900 And would you put them and the women of that they call the pick me's woman and the simp? 0.90
00:05:14.460 Is that like mirror, like the men version of the pick me's? 0.59
00:05:17.720 The girls that they say they, oh, she's a pick me. 1.00
00:05:19.980 Like she's going to agree that she wants to be a traditionalist and she just wants, because she just wants to agree.
00:05:25.620 When I, when I think of simps, I think of a woman. 0.78
00:05:28.920 Right.
00:05:30.640 I just think it's like a woman in a guy's body. 0.98
00:05:33.200 That's what I think of.
00:05:34.020 So he just agrees to everything for women's benefit. 0.92
00:05:36.720 No, I think simps will tell you what you want to hear.
00:05:40.000 Yeah, they tell you what they want to hear.
00:05:41.500 That's what I'm saying.
00:05:42.040 And then, and then, and then, well, but they call a pick me.
00:05:44.780 Anyone that like listens to her husband, they call a pick me. 0.99
00:05:48.640 They kind of.
00:05:49.300 I hear you.
00:05:49.720 Yeah.
00:05:50.240 Okay.
00:05:50.560 The difference is women should absolutely be pick me's and men should absolutely not be simps.
00:05:54.800 That's the difference.
00:05:55.640 One, one is bad for society and one is actually good for society.
00:05:58.100 Not everybody wants to get chose.
00:06:02.660 All right.
00:06:03.240 That's what they get to do.
00:06:03.820 They can happily live alone.
00:06:05.460 They can happily live alone.
00:06:06.140 I'm not the money.
00:06:07.200 I can't believe it.
00:06:08.220 Okay.
00:06:08.820 What do you think of the song?
00:06:11.260 Oh, with the chubby girl. 0.84
00:06:13.760 Oh, God.
00:06:14.760 I shouldn't say that, should I?
00:06:16.420 I don't want to offend the ladies, you know?
00:06:18.120 What?
00:06:18.420 I feel like she's just lazy, but the song itself was a little bit, it sounded like she
00:06:23.580 just went to cry about life.
00:06:25.960 She just sounds like the traditional person that would just continuously moan all the time. 1.00
00:06:30.280 Like, my mom didn't appreciate the way I look.
00:06:32.240 She told me to do this.
00:06:33.260 I didn't, I tried to do it.
00:06:34.440 I couldn't do it and all that kind of stuff.
00:06:35.820 It just sounds lazy to me.
00:06:37.400 And where everybody was talking about eating certain things and that you don't really have
00:06:40.620 to do that.
00:06:41.040 You just have to wake up in the morning, walk down the stairs instead of taking the elevator,
00:06:45.100 walk to the gym instead of driving there.
00:06:47.140 Just simple stuff that you could just do to lose weight without even changing your diet.
00:06:50.980 It's not hard.
00:06:52.040 What do you think?
00:06:53.260 I think her voice was amazing.
00:06:54.960 As a singer, I think she's incredible.
00:06:56.580 I know, her voice was good.
00:06:57.720 I was like, the song kind of slaps a little bit.
00:07:02.180 I was like, I don't like the lyrics, but it's kind of high.
00:07:07.300 Was it?
00:07:07.980 No, I just think that her voice was good, but her mental space was in a bad place.
00:07:13.360 Yeah, so her delivery was very up and down.
00:07:17.140 Regarding what she wants as to most, so what she doesn't want.
00:07:20.480 That's it, really.
00:07:22.200 Well, thank you guys all for coming.
00:07:24.760 I think we're going to do final thoughts.
00:07:27.280 So I'm going to read the super chats really quick.
00:07:30.260 And then you guys can give any final thoughts you have on what we learned today or the show
00:07:34.920 or anything.
00:07:36.500 Okay, guys.
00:07:38.460 Make sure you like the video.
00:07:40.200 That's the most important metric that YouTube uses.
00:07:44.800 Also, okay, Chris, hoodie girl claims to be traditional, LOL, boundless guardian.
00:07:50.680 It's cold outside.
00:07:51.260 No, no, okay.
00:07:52.260 I'll let you, I'll let you, I'll let you know who we are.
00:07:57.260 Okay, I'm boundless.
00:07:58.840 Don't stop.
00:07:58.880 It's crazy.
00:07:59.500 Yes.
00:07:59.880 Yes.
00:08:00.480 Thank you, Chris.
00:08:00.900 Um...
00:08:01.260 Um...
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