JustPearlyThings - November 04, 2023


Who Gave Women The Right To Vote?


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

201.32808

Word Count

1,617

Sentence Count

163

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

In this episode, we discuss why we celebrate bitter women and why we don t celebrate amicable ex-wives. We also discuss why women should be celebrated for being amicable after a divorce and why they should not be celebrated after a breakup.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 If you do something that goes against nature, that's then when things mess up.
00:00:04.100 Yeah, and that's what the anti-suffragettes, like all the women of the time,
00:00:08.700 like there was more women that were against women voting than were for it.
00:00:11.820 I just wanted to, I know you didn't have a direct answer,
00:00:14.740 but it's kind of like if you created something, who was the creator?
00:00:18.740 Someone invented this camera, and now the camera's faulty.
00:00:22.520 Okay, so I'll tell you, the deciding vote for giving women the right to vote,
00:00:27.280 which by and large changed the court system,
00:00:30.220 it was a guy who basically did it because his mom was an anti-suffragette.
00:00:34.400 That was like the deciding vote, so he was kind of like the OG simp.
00:00:37.360 So they said, but he was still a man now, he was still a man now, isn't he?
00:00:42.700 But here's the thing, the reason why men give women the right to vote
00:00:46.740 is because by and large men are good people, and they thought,
00:00:50.140 well, women should have the right to vote.
00:00:52.660 Now, women get the right to vote, but what do they do with it?
00:00:55.200 That's the real question.
00:00:56.100 So are you saying that prior to women voting,
00:00:58.940 because the contract of marriage was completely different.
00:01:02.280 After women became...
00:01:03.280 No, family, family, well...
00:01:04.800 I'm talking about the contract of marriage.
00:01:06.020 Okay, okay.
00:01:06.580 Because we're saying that the contract benefits women.
00:01:08.620 Okay, so it's a multi...
00:01:11.340 Really, gynocentrism goes back a thousand years.
00:01:15.520 So men being discriminated against in court isn't necessarily a new thing.
00:01:21.220 I think we just have a natural...
00:01:22.720 Men just have an innate ability to want to protect women.
00:01:26.060 However, the culture was really different, and the family court...
00:01:29.400 Okay.
00:01:29.900 Yeah, the culture...
00:01:30.400 Yeah, yeah, because women respond really quickly to social shame.
00:01:34.100 Yeah.
00:01:34.540 Yeah, so when something is shamed as a culture...
00:01:38.320 That's why I say it's not good that we celebrate these things,
00:01:40.620 because when things are celebrated, women tend to do it.
00:01:42.920 When they're shamed, we tend to not.
00:01:44.040 But we're going to celebrate him when he gets a divorce,
00:01:46.440 and he looks after his ex-wife now, and his kids.
00:01:49.980 We're celebrating him because he's doing the right thing.
00:01:53.020 He is still providing.
00:01:54.720 He's not being bitter.
00:01:55.920 He's not cutting her off.
00:01:57.280 She should ultimately not want to take away.
00:02:00.000 But again, he might decide he wants that 24-year-old now because she's 35.
00:02:03.600 She's giving him the kids, and he's like,
00:02:04.880 oh, I want a bit of something different.
00:02:06.580 Again, different conversation about if a man can be with one woman
00:02:09.880 for the rest of his life.
00:02:11.100 That's a different rabbit hole.
00:02:12.180 So she might not agree to that.
00:02:15.380 So then that might be a reason as to why she decides that that's no longer for her.
00:02:20.160 Right, but the problem is we don't celebrate women being amicable after divorce.
00:02:25.500 We do not celebrate and say...
00:02:27.740 We don't celebrate bitter women.
00:02:29.340 I would say we do celebrate bitter women.
00:02:32.300 Yeah, I know, we shouldn't.
00:02:33.120 But I'll give you an example.
00:02:34.740 Like, anyone Carrie Underwood fan?
00:02:36.760 Anyone?
00:02:37.580 No one?
00:02:38.220 No, you guys don't listen to country here.
00:02:40.400 But there was a big...
00:02:42.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:43.120 And there's other examples, but one that comes to my head
00:02:46.000 is there was a top country song about a woman keying a guy's car after he cheated.
00:02:50.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:51.420 A couple of them in the pop culture too.
00:02:53.120 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:53.740 The one I'm...
00:02:54.500 We key them.
00:02:55.180 We do a lot of...
00:02:55.700 What about that song, I Might Kill My Ex, that is literally in the charts?
00:03:01.020 I Might Kill My Ex.
00:03:02.460 Can you imagine if that was a man singing that song?
00:03:06.220 I Might Kill My Ex.
00:03:07.880 Not the best idea.
00:03:09.040 And everyone's like,
00:03:10.640 Ah, haha, it's funny because she's just a woman and she's crazy.
00:03:13.220 If a man made the same song in a rap song, in a rock song, I don't care what it is.
00:03:17.940 If a man said the same thing, the media would be going nuts.
00:03:22.060 But it is absolutely glorified in our culture.
00:03:23.960 There's another one as well.
00:03:25.400 It's Meghan Trainor.
00:03:26.580 I did an episode on this.
00:03:27.900 So I spent a long, long time researching the charts and how things have changed over the years.
00:03:32.700 How music and television, what they show us, right?
00:03:35.020 Even in soaps, you never hear in soaps anymore of, you know, on EastEnders.
00:03:39.480 No one's been together for 30 years.
00:03:41.320 Someone's having it off with someone.
00:03:42.800 Everything's chaotic.
00:03:43.840 In music, again, Meghan Trainor, there's this song and she says,
00:03:46.760 She says, I am your mother.
00:03:50.580 You listen to me.
00:03:51.740 I don't want to hear none of that mansplaining.
00:03:54.100 And the whole song is basically composed in such a way of this gynocentric society.
00:04:01.400 So you have this queen kind of in a dictatorship figure.
00:04:06.300 And it's basically the whole song is just putting down men.
00:04:09.240 Lots of women's music that is in the charts.
00:04:12.540 If you read the lyrics, you would be absolutely appalled and you would only be appalled when you apply it to the men.
00:04:18.940 Because that I might kill my ex song.
00:04:21.160 Another one.
00:04:22.180 Oh, she's sweet, but a psycho.
00:04:23.840 Can we imagine if we had a song about a dude where he said, oh, he's a gentleman, but he's also a narcissistic abuser.
00:04:31.680 We celebrate these things in women.
00:04:34.440 But if you heard it as a man, I heard the other song when I was selling photocopiers before this job.
00:04:40.240 I heard this song and it was like, I might kill my ex.
00:04:44.240 And it's like a really like creepy song.
00:04:46.500 Catchy.
00:04:47.140 And it gets in people's heads.
00:04:48.660 And we don't know what kind of subliminal messaging that's doing to the unconscious minds of people.
00:04:52.560 Programming.
00:04:53.100 Exactly.
00:04:54.220 Back to, again, gender.
00:04:56.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:04:57.960 But like basically there was a small percentage of, you know, I would say simp, beta men that decided to give women all of this power.
00:05:06.920 And then all of men had to pay for it.
00:05:08.940 Are those the same?
00:05:09.900 And would you put them and the women of that they call the pick me's woman and the simp?
00:05:14.460 Is that like mirror, like the men version of the pick me's?
00:05:17.720 The girls that they say they, oh, she's a pick me.
00:05:19.980 Like she's going to agree that she wants to be a traditionalist and she just wants, because she just wants to agree.
00:05:25.620 When I, when I think of simps, I think of a woman.
00:05:28.920 Right.
00:05:30.640 I just think it's like a woman in a guy's body.
00:05:33.200 That's what I think of.
00:05:34.020 So he just agrees to everything for women's benefit.
00:05:36.720 No, I think simps will tell you what you want to hear.
00:05:40.000 Yeah, they tell you what they want to hear.
00:05:41.500 That's what I'm saying.
00:05:42.040 And then, and then, and then, well, but they call a pick me.
00:05:44.780 Anyone that like listens to her husband, they call a pick me.
00:05:48.640 They kind of.
00:05:49.300 I hear you.
00:05:49.720 Yeah.
00:05:50.240 Okay.
00:05:50.560 The difference is women should absolutely be pick me's and men should absolutely not be simps.
00:05:54.800 That's the difference.
00:05:55.640 One, one is bad for society and one is actually good for society.
00:05:58.100 Not everybody wants to get chose.
00:06:02.660 All right.
00:06:03.240 That's what they get to do.
00:06:03.820 They can happily live alone.
00:06:05.460 They can happily live alone.
00:06:06.140 I'm not the money.
00:06:07.200 I can't believe it.
00:06:08.220 Okay.
00:06:08.820 What do you think of the song?
00:06:11.260 Oh, with the chubby girl.
00:06:13.760 Oh, God.
00:06:14.760 I shouldn't say that, should I?
00:06:16.420 I don't want to offend the ladies, you know?
00:06:18.120 What?
00:06:18.420 I feel like she's just lazy, but the song itself was a little bit, it sounded like she
00:06:23.580 just went to cry about life.
00:06:25.960 She just sounds like the traditional person that would just continuously moan all the time.
00:06:30.280 Like, my mom didn't appreciate the way I look.
00:06:32.240 She told me to do this.
00:06:33.260 I didn't, I tried to do it.
00:06:34.440 I couldn't do it and all that kind of stuff.
00:06:35.820 It just sounds lazy to me.
00:06:37.400 And where everybody was talking about eating certain things and that you don't really have
00:06:40.620 to do that.
00:06:41.040 You just have to wake up in the morning, walk down the stairs instead of taking the elevator,
00:06:45.100 walk to the gym instead of driving there.
00:06:47.140 Just simple stuff that you could just do to lose weight without even changing your diet.
00:06:50.980 It's not hard.
00:06:52.040 What do you think?
00:06:53.260 I think her voice was amazing.
00:06:54.960 As a singer, I think she's incredible.
00:06:56.580 I know, her voice was good.
00:06:57.720 I was like, the song kind of slaps a little bit.
00:07:02.180 I was like, I don't like the lyrics, but it's kind of high.
00:07:07.300 Was it?
00:07:07.980 No, I just think that her voice was good, but her mental space was in a bad place.
00:07:13.360 Yeah, so her delivery was very up and down.
00:07:17.140 Regarding what she wants as to most, so what she doesn't want.
00:07:20.480 That's it, really.
00:07:22.200 Well, thank you guys all for coming.
00:07:24.760 I think we're going to do final thoughts.
00:07:27.280 So I'm going to read the super chats really quick.
00:07:30.260 And then you guys can give any final thoughts you have on what we learned today or the show
00:07:34.920 or anything.
00:07:36.500 Okay, guys.
00:07:38.460 Make sure you like the video.
00:07:40.200 That's the most important metric that YouTube uses.
00:07:44.800 Also, okay, Chris, hoodie girl claims to be traditional, LOL, boundless guardian.
00:07:50.680 It's cold outside.
00:07:51.260 No, no, okay.
00:07:52.260 I'll let you, I'll let you, I'll let you know who we are.
00:07:57.260 Okay, I'm boundless.
00:07:58.840 Don't stop.
00:07:58.880 It's crazy.
00:07:59.500 Yes.
00:07:59.880 Yes.
00:08:00.480 Thank you, Chris.
00:08:00.900 Um...
00:08:01.260 Um...
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