JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


Who is More Narcissistic Gender？


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Length

18 minutes

Words per minute

148.39

Word count

2,769

Sentence count

384

Harmful content

Misogyny

65

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Toxicity

61

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Hate speech

40

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Summary

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In this episode, Myron and I discuss the differences between women and men and how to deal with them. We also talk about how women are more narcissistic than men and the difference between being a narcissist and being a compulsive narcissist.

Transcript

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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 We don't want to.
00:00:02.120 Wait, we don't categorize.
00:00:04.040 Friendzone, Orbiter, Chad, husband, foodie date.
00:00:09.120 Fighting for a man if he's going to treat you like an option.
00:00:12.000 See, here's the thing.
00:00:12.700 We can say that women are changing, whatever, but we're all slaves to our biology. 1.00
00:00:16.540 Women are 100% okay with sharing men.
00:00:18.340 It's been that way since the beginning of time.
00:00:19.900 I would say it's even more apparent now.
00:00:22.420 With Instagram, dating apps, etc., a minority of men are getting a majority of the women.
00:00:27.020 And women are okay with that. 1.00
00:00:27.900 I mean, walk into a nightclub.
00:00:29.580 Walk into a nightclub.
00:00:30.400 It's probably one of the most carnal representations of human nature.
00:00:33.540 All the women are sitting in one section with a bunch of the guys that have the highest perceived status in that social setting
00:00:40.380 versus all the other guys who are out there in general admission struggling.
00:00:43.780 Women always gravitate towards the best guys, and they're willing to share those guys. 0.96
00:00:47.080 So what's your type?
00:00:48.340 My type.
00:00:49.420 Fit, feminine, friendly.
00:00:52.200 Submissive.
00:00:53.280 And coachable.
00:00:54.440 Oh, come on, Myron. 1.00
00:00:55.840 You're not going to add in with the fat ass. 1.00
00:00:57.900 Boobs, ass, like, come on. 1.00
00:01:03.320 You got to, I'm just, let's just be real here. 1.00
00:01:05.940 You guys are like, I have no type.
00:01:08.180 They usually have a little bit of a type.
00:01:10.500 A little bit.
00:01:11.440 Like, there's something.
00:01:13.240 To be trained.
00:01:15.280 You got to train women, man. 1.00
00:01:16.680 I know that sounds terrible.
00:01:18.660 He's still talking. 1.00
00:01:19.900 Fucking hell. 0.99
00:01:21.460 She's like, I thought this was a date. 1.00
00:01:26.380 Women don't like it when they get criticized. 1.00
00:01:31.600 If I go on a podcast and I say, you know what, guys, you need to stop being bums. 1.00
00:01:35.300 You need to get your money on point. 0.98
00:01:36.180 Stop being fat POSs, et cetera. 1.00
00:01:38.060 They actually admire and respect that. 0.95
00:01:40.020 People are in the chat, flame emojis, whatever.
00:01:42.220 I go on rants on the guys all the time.
00:01:44.280 I'm sweating, going crazy.
00:01:45.680 It's like I'm...
00:01:46.100 Hey, Pearl, I know you like to chit chat, and I do, too.
00:01:48.460 I really need like-minded female friends, but don't know how to find them. 1.00
00:01:53.760 Can you help me out?
00:01:54.820 Oh, girl, I don't know.
00:01:57.080 You think I know?
00:02:00.560 I wish.
00:02:03.340 Yeah, I got no advice.
00:02:12.880 Sorry.
00:02:13.280 Some questions I have good answers, too.
00:02:16.520 Because some of my friends really don't agree with me.
00:02:19.440 Or even know what this red pill stuff is.
00:02:21.620 I don't...
00:02:23.000 DM me.
00:02:26.060 Preach.
00:02:26.500 I think she's trying to grow me, but what she doesn't know is I'm a black belt in this.
00:02:29.580 I've dealt with 10 girls like her at the same time on my podcast, so. 1.00
00:02:33.780 She's going to take an L.
00:02:34.960 Women rarely get held accountable for their poor decisions. 1.00
00:02:38.200 Men do, though.
00:02:39.100 Men have to live in reality. 1.00
00:02:40.360 Women are afforded the privilege of being delusional. 1.00
00:02:42.620 So when a guy criticizes a woman, oh, my God.
00:02:45.340 Right?
00:02:45.740 If you don't believe me, think about it. 0.91
00:02:47.200 If a dude's fat, we just call him fat. 1.00
00:02:48.700 You're a loser, huh? 1.00
00:02:49.780 If a woman's fat, love your curves, girl. 1.00
00:02:51.940 You go. 1.00
00:02:52.980 She's rude and obnoxious. 1.00
00:02:54.540 Oh, you know what? 0.86
00:02:55.640 They just can't handle you.
00:02:56.500 You're strong and independent.
00:02:57.720 Fierce.
00:02:58.840 We have all these terms to cover up female inadequacies, but we don't have these same terms for men.
00:03:05.620 I think a lot of it comes from narcissistic behavior from men and misogynistic views. 0.95
00:03:09.600 Women are far more narcissistic than men. 1.00
00:03:11.480 True. 1.00
00:03:12.540 Yeah, okay.
00:03:13.360 And you can answer this question so easy.
00:03:15.220 Who's the more narcissistic gender? 1.00
00:03:17.340 Who is more addicted to social media? 0.89
00:03:19.520 Social media damn near is narcissism. 0.96
00:03:22.580 Damn near. 0.95
00:03:22.960 Who's more addicted? 0.99
00:03:23.680 Women. 0.81
00:03:24.720 Women. 0.81
00:03:25.020 Who posts more selfies?
00:03:26.100 Women. 1.00
00:03:26.840 Who posts more ass shots? 1.00
00:03:28.940 Women. 1.00
00:03:30.340 Women. 0.81
00:03:32.620 I don't know.
00:03:34.220 Women can be, so I'm not disputing that. 0.96
00:03:36.500 Far more narcissistic. 0.70
00:03:37.180 But I kind of feel like with men that attain a certain level of...
00:03:41.260 I'll tell you, Cheyenne, men have to live in reality.
00:03:45.080 They have to live in reality. 0.99
00:03:47.000 Like men will get made fun of from a young age and told that they ain't shit. 0.99
00:03:50.560 Some of y'all didn't have brothers to bully you and it shows. 0.99
00:03:53.260 It shows.
00:03:55.300 And power, it gives you the opportunity to try and to dominate.
00:04:00.060 Big difference though.
00:04:00.780 No, but this is men... 0.97
00:04:01.640 Men earn narcissism. 0.91
00:04:02.760 Men do not earn a right to be narcissistic. 1.00
00:04:05.640 Like, just shut up. 1.00
00:04:07.980 Men earn confidence and arrogance. 1.00
00:04:10.560 Women don't. 1.00
00:04:11.400 Women are born with their value. 0.99
00:04:12.700 That's true.
00:04:13.760 What are you...
00:04:14.040 I'm curious.
00:04:16.400 He's going to make the box bigger on the live.
00:04:18.380 Are you here, Blessing?
00:04:20.980 Are you here?
00:04:21.880 Don't...
00:04:22.260 Don't scare me.
00:04:27.940 You'll control it from here.
00:04:30.080 Oh, wow.
00:04:31.300 He can control it?
00:04:32.620 Guys, Blessing's not here and he's going to control the box.
00:04:36.840 All right, wait for it.
00:04:37.760 This is exciting.
00:04:40.540 It's like, I swear to God, if you run up on me, I'm going to...
00:04:45.220 Oh, look it.
00:04:47.860 I'm moving.
00:04:48.460 I'm bigger.
00:04:50.960 Woo-hoo. 0.65
00:04:51.560 You must earn their value.
00:04:54.740 Oh, but sorry.
00:04:55.840 My question is, do you think that a woman that's a 10, like 9, 10, has the right to be cocky? 1.00
00:05:03.060 Because that's like what women are more judged on is like their beauty and their youth. 1.00
00:05:06.600 So if a girl's a 22 and hot, does she have a right to be cocky? 1.00
00:05:10.520 Because a lot of times they'll be like, oh, you haven't accomplished shit or you haven't done shit. 0.99
00:05:14.300 Like, why would you be cocky? 0.98
00:05:15.440 But then they'll say your accomplishments don't matter, which I totally understand what they're saying.
00:05:19.340 I would just, my question is, does the 22-year-old hot chick have a right to be cocky? 1.00
00:05:24.800 Oh, my God, that's so cool.
00:05:26.120 Blessings of moving it on screen.
00:05:27.820 Wow.
00:05:28.360 And arrogance, more than likely he's probably accomplished something.
00:05:31.680 When a woman's arrogant, 9 out of 10 times, she hasn't accomplished anything. 1.00
00:05:34.520 She just has a bunch of DMs. 1.00
00:05:35.420 Oh, thanks for the content, Pearl.
00:05:37.000 You are so pretty.
00:05:38.240 Thank you.
00:05:40.240 So tired of y'all calling me average in the chat.
00:05:42.280 Look it, it might be true, but we don't need to tell him every single day.
00:05:46.640 Okay, I get it.
00:05:47.940 I get it.
00:05:48.500 Average-looking, I get it.
00:05:50.200 Y'all have told me again and again and again.
00:05:52.520 But it's like, I know.
00:05:55.580 I know.
00:05:55.840 Can we just, can we just, I know.
00:06:00.180 Anyway, sorry.
00:06:02.500 I'm still a woman, okay?
00:06:08.600 See, this is the-
00:06:09.540 Anyway, what does the chat say?
00:06:10.580 She has the right to be cocky, but women that are sixes to eights all say that they're tens. 1.00
00:06:17.020 Where does the confidence come from?
00:06:18.620 A nine can be cocky, but that drops them to a six, so they should stop. 1.00
00:06:22.940 I was just, that's my question.
00:06:29.020 Okay, so we don't need to, we don't need to argue in the chat about whether or not I'm average.
00:06:32.940 Please, leave me alone.
00:06:35.040 Leave me alone.
00:06:35.960 I can't take any more of the internet.
00:06:42.820 A lot of modern-day women have. 1.00
00:06:44.760 They lack-
00:06:45.220 I know, I know.
00:06:46.200 I have my cut on my nose.
00:06:48.460 I hit, yeah.
00:06:49.420 I didn't get beat up.
00:06:51.560 Some people, I saw this thing in the chat that was like, she's covering for her, her Tyrone
00:06:57.640 or her, whatever, and like, he hit her, like, she's a real woman.
00:07:01.800 I'm like, what? 0.65
00:07:03.540 How the hell?
00:07:04.640 This is like a scratch.
00:07:05.980 It's not a hit.
00:07:07.140 There would be a bruise.
00:07:08.440 Like, my face would be, if I got hit by a dude, second, second.
00:07:12.420 I don't know if that would make, okay, I'm just going to continue.
00:07:19.440 Thinking skills.
00:07:23.220 Women tend to go off of their feelings versus what's real. 1.00
00:07:26.480 They go off-
00:07:26.720 I had lamb.
00:07:27.800 I'm kind of hungry.
00:07:29.900 Can I get lamb, guys?
00:07:33.020 Can I get lamb?
00:07:36.000 Okay, I'm going to watch for two more minutes.
00:07:38.240 I'm going to go get my lamb in a second.
00:07:40.100 Skills are not the reals.
00:07:40.940 What a girl is supposed to do is come into a man's life, see where he's deficient. 1.00
00:07:45.580 Okay, I noticed that you like to go to the gym at this time.
00:07:50.000 I'm going to make sure that you have a protein shake with as many grams of protein as you need.
00:07:53.780 Just get a PA.
00:07:55.280 I'm going to-
00:07:56.040 Okay, but a PA doesn't like-
00:07:58.080 A wife makes a house a home. 1.00
00:08:00.200 And this is the thing, like a personal assistant, yeah, it's just not the same. 0.99
00:08:04.880 It's just, it's different when your personal assistant's doing shit for you. 0.97
00:08:09.320 Okay, I'm going to go get food. 0.99
00:08:10.460 Hold on.
00:08:10.940 I'm going to go get food.
00:08:11.940 I'll be right back.
00:08:12.540 Okay.
00:08:42.540 Thank you.
00:09:12.540 Thank you.
00:09:42.540 Thank you.
00:10:12.540 I'm back.
00:10:30.540 All right.
00:10:31.240 I need a little more seasoning on this.
00:10:35.680 I'm sorry, guys.
00:10:36.520 I'm sorry.
00:10:37.520 I'm sorry.
00:10:38.260 I'm sorry.
00:11:08.260 I'm sorry.
00:11:09.260 I need a little more seasoning on this.
00:11:15.260 Okay.
00:11:16.420 Okay.
00:11:17.420 Okay.
00:11:18.420 Back.
00:11:19.420 Okay.
00:11:20.420 I like spicy.
00:11:23.420 Okay.
00:11:24.420 Okay.
00:11:25.420 Back.
00:11:26.420 Okay.
00:11:27.420 Back.
00:11:28.420 Okay.
00:11:29.420 I like spicy.
00:11:32.420 Okay.
00:11:33.420 Okay.
00:11:34.420 I like spicy.
00:11:35.420 Okay.
00:11:36.420 Okay.
00:11:37.420 Okay.
00:11:38.420 Okay.
00:11:39.420 Okay.
00:11:40.420 Okay.
00:11:41.420 Okay.
00:11:42.420 Okay.
00:11:43.420 Okay.
00:11:44.420 Okay.
00:11:45.420 Okay.
00:11:46.420 Okay.
00:11:47.420 Okay.
00:11:48.420 Okay.
00:11:49.420 Okay.
00:11:50.420 Okay.
00:11:51.420 Okay.
00:11:52.420 Okay.
00:11:53.420 It's never sexist when a guy mentions something about a woman that's positive.
00:11:57.420 So a woman's job is to use that social calibration that they have that they're superior to men 1.00
00:12:01.020 and be able to be like, okay, this guy's deficient in this and deficient in this, et cetera.
00:12:05.020 Let me come in, compliment, make this guy operate.
00:12:07.220 He's already operating at 95%.
00:12:08.420 I'm going to get him to 102.
00:12:09.420 And when you're at a high level already, that extra two, three, four, 5% is what helps
00:12:13.880 you beat the competition.
00:12:14.880 This guy's dangerous.
00:12:15.880 Women will do that. 1.00
00:12:16.880 A lot of women will give you that life. 1.00
00:12:18.880 They will give you that balance.
00:12:19.880 They will compliment you.
00:12:20.880 But they're not going to just do it until you're...
00:12:23.880 Question.
00:12:24.880 Am I socially superior?
00:12:26.880 On the podcast?
00:12:28.880 I'm just asking.
00:12:29.880 I'm just asking.
00:12:30.880 Serious.
00:12:31.880 You know, because men like to play the field for a very long time.
00:12:36.180 When you're with a guy of value, you got to understand that he has the leverage, not
00:12:39.640 you.
00:12:40.640 You're applying to be his girlfriend.
00:12:41.640 I wear the highway, baby, because at the end of the day, when you can replace a girl, 1.00
00:12:44.980 that's when she respects you.
00:12:46.220 It's on the woman to prove to me that she's worthy of a relationship. 1.00
00:12:49.580 That's where a lot of girls make a mistake. 1.00
00:12:50.880 They'll sit there and say, I'm good.
00:12:51.880 I'm loyal.
00:12:52.880 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:12:53.880 I want to, you know, see how you do before you get promoted.
00:12:56.640 I'm not going to give a girl the position of secretary or underboss, right? 1.00
00:13:01.640 Or second in charge of my company unless she's been vetted.
00:13:04.640 She's got to work her way up. 0.99
00:13:06.100 The problem is that we give women CEO jobs when they haven't proven themselves and they 1.00
00:13:09.640 don't respect the job.
00:13:10.640 Who's listening to this man?
00:13:12.640 So you're, here's the thing.
00:13:13.640 You're looking at equality from a human perspective.
00:13:15.640 I'm not saying that men are better than women from a human perspective.
00:13:18.640 I'm saying that men are leaders.
00:13:21.640 He's right.
00:13:23.100 Let's say, I just use NBA players because I just feel like those are guys, entertainers,
00:13:28.640 athletes.
00:13:29.640 They just have women on tap. 1.00
00:13:31.640 I'm sorry.
00:13:32.640 Those, the wives are all getting cheated on. 1.00
00:13:36.640 They know it.
00:13:37.640 We don't, I don't say right or wrong.
00:13:39.640 I can't tell the world how to be.
00:13:41.640 That's my opinion on it.
00:13:42.640 I can't.
00:13:43.640 Ali, I'm eating.
00:13:48.640 I'm eating.
00:13:49.640 Therefore, we cannot be equal.
00:13:50.640 When you're on the battlefield, right, and the lieutenant or whoever the commanding officer
00:13:55.640 is on the battlefield, you're not equal to him as, you know, a regular soldier.
00:14:00.640 He is the leader.
00:14:01.640 You're not equal.
00:14:02.640 But there's a reason.
00:14:03.640 There's a hierarchy to dictate order.
00:14:05.640 If the woman is equal to the guy, well, who's going to make the final decision? 0.95
00:14:09.640 Nothing gets done by a committee.
00:14:11.640 There always has to be.
00:14:12.640 Pearl was born a bit ugly. 0.96
00:14:13.640 It's unfortunate.
00:14:14.640 What?
00:14:15.640 Rude.
00:14:16.640 Rude.
00:14:17.640 Rude.
00:14:18.640 But hitting the gym, styling hair, and clothing can up her game. 0.97
00:14:23.640 Guys, look, I can't really help how my face looks.
00:14:31.640 I was just born like that.
00:14:33.640 Could we just not call me ugly anymore?
00:14:35.640 Could we just not?
00:14:36.640 I just appreciate it.
00:14:38.640 Could we talk about, I'm just getting old.
00:14:41.640 I'm just tired of this.
00:14:43.640 One leader in charge.
00:14:44.640 There's a reason why there's a president, there's a CEO, et cetera.
00:14:46.640 Both people can't be alphas, as they say.
00:14:49.640 The problem is this.
00:14:50.640 Women are confused about what men actually want. 1.00
00:14:51.640 They think a CEO, a boss, a business owner, an ambitious, competitive woman. 0.99
00:14:57.640 We don't give a shit about none of that stuff. 0.99
00:14:59.640 Men don't care about that. 1.00
00:15:00.640 And I would argue the more money a man makes, the less he cares about his woman's ability
00:15:04.640 to earn money.
00:15:05.640 Men and women are not the same. 0.99
00:15:06.640 Women basically become the very men that they want to attract. 0.99
00:15:09.640 Yeah, but the thing is, right?
00:15:10.640 So, men, like, I find that men will say that they...
00:15:15.640 Do you guys think you are what you attract?
00:15:17.640 Yes or no?
00:15:19.640 Because I feel like that was a bad piece of dating advice that I got.
00:15:22.640 Like, become what you want to attract.
00:15:24.640 Ellie! 1.00
00:15:25.640 Can you chill the F out? 1.00
00:15:27.640 You're gonna get kicked... 0.99
00:15:28.640 You're getting kicked out. 0.99
00:15:30.640 You're getting kicked out.
00:15:33.640 Um...
00:15:35.640 Alright. 0.67
00:15:36.640 I'm gonna give you a little piece of meat to leave me the hell alone. 1.00
00:15:40.640 Okay? 0.70
00:15:41.640 That's what I'm gonna do.
00:15:42.640 Come here.
00:15:43.640 Yeah.
00:15:44.640 Leave me alone. 1.00
00:15:45.640 Leave me alone, you crazy dog. 1.00
00:15:47.640 It's on the ground. 1.00
00:15:48.640 Look.
00:15:49.640 Turn it...
00:15:50.640 Yeah.
00:15:51.640 Sorry.
00:15:52.640 She was driving me nuts. 0.98
00:15:56.640 Women that have ambition to start, it's what makes... 1.00
00:15:59.640 It's a lie to get laid.
00:16:00.640 No, I wouldn't say it's even a lie.
00:16:01.640 It's a lie to get laid.
00:16:02.640 Like, it's not.
00:16:03.640 Because for me, like, whenever, like, I've dated and stuff like that,
00:16:05.640 a lot of men say they like the fact that I am ambitious, that I have a career.
00:16:08.640 They want to get laid. 0.84
00:16:09.640 No, but I'm saying, in general, a lot of men get irritated, like, nowadays.
00:16:13.640 Like, so you're dating all these women and you're gonna say,
00:16:16.640 all these women do this is they do nothing and they expect. 1.00
00:16:18.640 But that's the qualities that a traditional woman would bring. 1.00
00:16:21.640 She'd want a man to do things for her, so... 1.00
00:16:23.640 But here's the thing.
00:16:24.640 She... 1.00
00:16:25.640 Look at...
00:16:28.640 I'm sorry.
00:16:29.640 Men don't care about your career. 1.00
00:16:30.640 I do well.
00:16:32.640 I would say I'm pretty successful for my age, you know? 0.99
00:16:35.640 Guys don't give a shit. 0.99
00:16:36.640 It does not make me more attractive to a guy. 0.99
00:16:38.640 They're like, yeah, cool.
00:16:39.640 And they don't care.
00:16:41.640 They just don't care.
00:16:42.640 I can't make the world.
00:16:44.640 It would be...
00:16:45.640 It would be helpful to me if they cared.
00:16:48.640 But I can't make them care.
00:16:49.640 Yeah.
00:16:50.640 Well, that's that man's life.
00:16:52.640 Hmm.
00:16:53.640 So do you want a relationship?
00:16:54.640 Monogamous?
00:16:55.640 So how many girlfriends do you want? 0.99
00:16:58.640 I mean, as many as I can.
00:17:00.640 I mean, I probably have four wives. 1.00
00:17:01.640 I think I can do four.
00:17:02.640 This man wants four wives. 1.00
00:17:04.640 He's going back 500 years.
00:17:06.640 Four wives is the way to go. 1.00
00:17:07.640 Because if one acts stupid, you can go ahead and get another one. 1.00
00:17:10.640 Really? 1.00
00:17:11.640 Yeah.
00:17:12.640 Why?
00:17:13.640 No guy wants to be monogamous.
00:17:14.640 I asked my dad about this.
00:17:15.640 Four wives. 0.99
00:17:16.640 He said, have these guys deal with one before they get four.
00:17:21.640 I said, Dad, you're too blue pill.
00:17:23.640 You're blue pill.
00:17:25.640 Most guys that are monogamous are monogamous out of force.
00:17:29.640 La, la, la.
00:17:30.640 My dad would never.
00:17:31.640 La, la, la.
00:17:32.640 If I lined up 100 dudes and I said, listen, ma'am, you can keep your girlfriend, right? 1.00
00:17:37.640 No, don't line up my dad or my brothers.
00:17:39.640 I don't want to hear it.
00:17:40.640 La, la, la.
00:17:41.640 She's not going to care.
00:17:42.640 He's going to take it.
00:17:43.640 Every time.
00:17:44.640 Most guys have to kind of concede to what their girl wants.
00:17:46.640 Should I call my brother?
00:17:47.640 I'm going to call him.
00:17:48.640 Is he going to lie to me?
00:17:49.640 Let me know in the chat.
00:17:56.640 Adam.
00:17:59.640 Okay, let's call him.
00:18:00.640 Let's call him.
00:18:02.640 Will he answer?
00:18:11.640 I've been bad for answering today.
00:18:23.640 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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