JustPearlyThings - Why Men Are BETTER Than Women @vtsoscast

00:00:00.880 Segway to that, so you've made some comments that some people deem controversial, right?

00:00:05.200 You've talked about gender, you've talked about women, you've talked about fat shaming necessarily, society, religion.

00:00:13.080 There's some things that you've said that people have vehemently disagreed with.

00:00:17.400 And then some people, they're like, hell yeah, Pearl nailed it.

00:00:20.920 Someone needed to say it.

00:00:22.580 That's kind of how the way it works is when you take a stance on something,

00:00:25.980 you're going to have allies and then you're going to have people basically forming sort of in the enemy camp.

00:00:30.620 But we also know, especially with social media and YouTube and long form content,

00:00:37.640 that short clips and little reels and clips can be taken out of context, right?

00:00:42.520 So you've said a lot of things.

00:00:44.400 Out of everything you've said, what do you think has been the most misconstrued about you?

00:00:49.980 And if there's anything you would walk back, what would it be?

00:00:53.400 If there's anything I'd walk back, I don't, I can't really think of much.

00:00:58.780 You stand by all your statements.

00:01:01.680 Um, I don't know.

00:01:02.940 It's tough because I've said so many things, but there's nothing that really comes to the top of my head, you know?

00:01:09.960 Um, hmm.

00:01:13.220 I would say one of the most misconstrued things is people think I hate women. 0.99

00:01:17.160 That's like something I get 24 seven, but I, I think, you know, we can't really have progress if we're not honest.

00:01:24.880 So I just, I'm all about honesty.

00:01:27.220 Got it.

00:01:27.680 So why do you think people think you hate women? 1.00

00:01:30.700 Oh, cause I say things like women are dumber than men. 1.00

00:01:33.440 Um, yeah. 1.00

00:01:35.780 And you stand by that.

00:01:37.040 Oh yeah.

00:01:37.640 So, okay.

00:01:38.920 So women are. 1.00

00:01:39.600 I just look at, I just look at the top women and the top men.

00:01:42.020 It's like Kim Kardashian or Elon Musk.

00:01:44.360 Right.

00:01:44.840 Like what conclusion am I supposed to come to when literally all the female billionaires, um, like tend to be billionaires through sex work. 0.97

00:01:53.080 Or through divorce.

00:01:54.260 Exactly.

00:01:54.880 Yeah.

00:01:54.960 Mackenzie Bezos, um, Steve jobs, wife, the list goes on and on and on. 0.92

00:02:00.820 Yeah.

00:02:00.960 So, um, you know, some people take that offensively.

00:02:04.140 Um, and I mean it, so yeah, you can be mad.

00:02:07.220 So nothing, you're not walking anything back.

00:02:09.960 Stand by your statements.

00:02:11.060 That's how you know you're a true believer.

00:02:12.320 You're like, ah, I wish I can have a mulligan and take that thing back.

00:02:15.100 But the miss, the biggest, there is something I talk so much.

00:02:18.260 I just can't think of it now.

00:02:19.760 No doubt.

00:02:20.300 I mean, but the biggest misconception is that you hate women, but you're saying that you don't.

00:02:24.960 But how do you feel about women?

00:02:28.080 I just think the last hundred years, you know, we've been given more freedom than ever and we've made terrible choices as a group.

00:02:34.600 You know, I just think when you look at the numbers, you can't really dispute that.

00:02:38.080 Right.

00:02:38.300 So a hundred years ago, 85% of women are virgins. 0.90

00:02:41.800 Now we have more OnlyFans models than teachers.

00:02:45.200 Like, you know what I mean?

00:02:48.120 Like what, what conclusion am I supposed to come to when I look at these numbers?

00:02:51.740 Got it.

00:02:51.860 What else do you think are women getting terribly wrong in modern society? 1.00

00:02:56.440 Um, I would just say women typically want a lot of freedom without the responsibility that comes with it. 1.00

00:03:02.340 I don't have any problem with, you know, women having freedom, but you should also have the responsibility that comes with it. 1.00

00:03:09.440 That's why women shouldn't vote because they don't want to do the infrastructure jobs. 1.00

00:03:13.180 They don't want to be net taxpayers and they want to take money from men through divorce and alimony. 0.98

00:03:18.480 And I think if you're going to do that, most women do. 0.99

00:03:21.200 I think you should not be able to vote.

00:03:23.220 Yes.

00:03:23.740 Got it.

00:03:24.380 Which is also something we're going to discuss today.

00:03:26.660 Yeah.

00:03:27.000 So Nat.

00:03:27.840 Yes.

00:03:28.400 Uh, newsflash.

00:03:30.380 You're a woman.

00:03:31.300 Yes.

00:03:31.620 I am.

00:03:31.980 Okay.

00:03:32.480 So, um, we're going to get into a lot of stuff today. 0.99

00:03:35.500 When Pearl says things like, look, you're just, you're dumber than me, Nat. 0.96

00:03:39.640 I mean, that's not a crazy controversial topic, to be honest with you. 0.96

00:03:43.060 She also says someone like you shouldn't vote.

00:03:45.300 How do you process that as a woman?

00:03:46.920 I think she's smarter than some guys though.

00:03:49.060 Yeah.

00:03:49.600 Okay.

00:03:49.980 Here's my thing is that I'm not going to compare a man to a woman. 0.95

00:03:54.020 You know, they're meant to be doing different things.

00:03:57.180 So for you to say, oh, a man is stronger than a woman or a man is smarter than a woman and, 0.86

00:04:01.740 you know, as essentially a man's resources and the things they have to do, it does give

00:04:07.300 them the skills to be smarter.

00:04:08.780 They're supposed to be smarter.

00:04:10.060 They're, they're leading, they're guiding.

00:04:11.560 So like things like that, I'm also considering like things, certain things don't trigger me

00:04:15.540 because I may not feel like I'm in that boat of like, I'm arguing with a man, like

00:04:20.580 if they're smarter with me.

00:04:21.740 Now men are more resourceful for sure.

00:04:24.040 There's, there's, there's a, there's a point of truth, which is, which is supposed to be

00:04:28.760 like biologically, but at the end of the day, a woman's role is completely different 1.00

00:04:32.160 than a man.

00:04:32.700 So for me, it's like, you know, that's kind of just, have you ever seen that, have you

00:04:36.000 ever seen that episode of Survivor where they put like a bunch of women on an island 1.00

00:04:40.520 and a bunch of men on an island and the men are like, they have like a whole system

00:04:45.300 running within a day.

00:04:46.080 Yeah, they're like, yeah, there's like a fire going, like they're resourceful.

00:04:49.540 And the women basically had to be rescued. 0.97

00:04:51.360 Yeah, but here's the thing though, I mean, as it should, like I wouldn't, I mean, what

00:04:56.920 is a woman supposed to do? 1.00

00:04:58.020 Like go and, and be good at those things and not, not have that nurture side as well.

00:05:02.420 So there's strengths and there's weaknesses.

00:05:04.100 Well, women aren't even more nurturing. 1.00

00:05:05.520 Yeah, I disagree with that.

00:05:06.900 Well, I disagree completely.

00:05:08.260 I think if you want to look at nurturing, who is the most likely one to kill infants and

00:05:12.240 the elderly women?

00:05:13.860 So I actually think we have all this propaganda saying like women are so nurturing and all this

00:05:17.980 stuff.

00:05:18.220 When you say, hold on, let me say that for a second.

00:05:20.480 When you say the infants and the elderly, you're saying abortion?

00:05:23.180 No, both.

00:05:24.200 So even like, so they're more likely to kill the elderly.

00:05:28.340 In what regard? 0.81

00:05:29.160 Like they're more likely to kill an elderly person.

00:05:31.540 Like euthanasia?

00:05:32.780 No, like, like violent, like in nursing homes, that sort of thing.

00:05:36.240 Like you'll see the, you'll see the cases pop up in the news where these female nurses, 1.00

00:05:40.900 but that's even more of mental health.

00:05:43.540 That's where a woman's mentality maybe is not as strong enough as a man. 1.00

00:05:47.260 So again, it kind of goes back to what you're comparing.

00:05:49.840 You're comparing apples to apples.

00:05:50.740 No, I actually, I think, no, I think women are more violent than men. 1.00

00:05:53.580 And if you look at one-sided abuse, 70% of the time it's women hitting the men and not

00:05:59.500 men hitting the women.

00:06:00.600 So I actually would argue that women are more violent than men. 1.00

00:06:03.020 They just can't be.

00:06:04.320 And I also think that.

00:06:05.340 And so infant side, so a woman killing or someone killing a baby within the first 24 0.77

00:06:09.920 hours of life is very rare for a male to do that.

00:06:12.660 Like it's like almost unheard of.

00:06:14.080 So then, but how many males are in that division to be comparing how many women?

00:06:20.080 What do you mean?

00:06:20.580 How are they measuring that?

00:06:21.680 Like the amount of women in that field, right? 1.00

00:06:24.980 There's a lot more women in that field than men. 1.00

00:06:26.840 Are you talking about nursing?

00:06:28.580 Well, I mean, parenting, there's usually a dad and a mom.

00:06:31.320 Right, but I'm talking about like nursing, for example, right?

00:06:33.780 You see more women nurses there. 0.99

00:06:35.920 So those numbers make sense.

00:06:37.260 No, but it's not new.

00:06:38.620 So, and this is, this is the thing.

00:06:39.900 Like a lot of times the stuff you see today you think is new.

00:06:42.160 It's not new.

00:06:42.700 In the 1800s, women were also more likely to kill infants, even before abortion, before 1.00

00:06:48.220 nursing, before all this stuff.

00:06:49.400 Interesting.

00:06:49.840 Malik, run a poll.

00:06:50.600 Who's more nurturing, men or women?

00:06:52.000 Listen, we're going to have a wild array of conversations.

00:06:55.120 We're going to talk about, hold on that.

00:06:57.220 We're going to talk about an array of topics.

00:06:59.340 I've never heard in my life that, that men are more nurturing than women.

00:07:06.500 So what made you come to that?

00:07:08.340 Well, I just, the conclusion I came to was, you know, when I think of nurturing, I think

00:07:14.340 of how do you interact with the innocent?

00:07:16.460 And I guess more of my point is that women are more violent than men, I would argue, because 1.00

00:07:21.120 I think women are more likely to kill the innocent where men are not. 1.00

00:07:24.980 I think men just tend to be better people in general.

00:07:29.180 Yes.

00:07:29.740 So men are better people.

00:07:31.740 Yeah.

00:07:32.080 And I'll tell you why.

00:07:32.840 I think there's reasons for that.

00:07:33.980 Because typically if one guy is being too bad of a person, another guy will come and check

00:07:38.660 him where women don't necessarily have that. 0.96

00:07:40.940 Even if you look at prison sentences, you see these women that constantly get bailed out 1.00

00:07:45.140 of bad decisions.

00:07:45.920 So like Casey Anthony got let out of jail, right?

00:07:48.920 She isn't, she's remarried now. 1.00

00:07:50.180 And you'll see cases like that all the time.

00:07:52.060 Women don't get the same sentences that men get when it comes to prison sentences as well. 1.00

00:07:57.440 I just, I don't see women having the same consequences in society. 1.00

00:08:01.600 And I just, I think women have a harder time regulating emotions. 1.00

00:08:04.580 So I, that's why I think they're more violent personally.

00:08:07.300 Well, it also comes down to the amount of freedom that has been given too, because women 1.00

00:08:11.100 have gotten, numbers have gotten to this point as well, based on the eligibility that

00:08:16.020 women can do certain things now. 1.00

00:08:17.480 So now that they have more freedom to do the things, maybe they don't know how to handle

00:08:21.400 certain emotions, behaviors.

00:08:23.160 Maybe they shouldn't be part of certain things as well.

00:08:24.060 No, but again, I said this isn't, this isn't new.

00:08:26.380 That's, that was what I said before.

00:08:27.740 So even before they had the freedom of the right to vote, women were still more likely 1.00

00:08:32.060 to kill infants in the 1800s, 1700s, 1600s.

00:08:35.260 This is not new.

00:08:35.900 So can it be attributed to the fact that men are more hierarchical, women are more egalitarian.

00:08:43.260 So if you look at a spectrum of things, men by a wide margin are going to be smarter,

00:08:48.980 stronger, wealthier, more, uh, in, in your regard, more, uh, nurturing, more protective,

00:08:55.880 where women sort of associate in the middle of the spectrum, more egalitarian. 1.00

00:09:00.380 And then all the way to the left, more men are psychopaths, murderers, absolute idiots. 1.00

00:09:08.260 More men are homeless, uh, and just don't win in life. 1.00

00:09:11.700 So it's more like men are on the opposite sides of the spectrum, whereas men, women sort

00:09:15.940 of stay in the middle.

00:09:17.020 We would have to go through each and every one of those.

00:09:19.060 So if you wanted to go through homeless, I would argue that more women would be homeless 1.00

00:09:21.980 if they actually face consequences for their decisions.

00:09:24.380 Um, if you want to go based on what was the other things you said, homeless, um, barbaric,

00:09:29.800 murderers, vicious, manslaughter, homicide. 0.76

00:09:33.240 That's like, like women cannot murder in the same way men can murder. 0.98

00:09:36.380 I would argue one. 0.69

00:09:37.520 I don't think they're smart enough to pull it off.

00:09:39.620 I don't think you're going to get women Ted Bundy the same way you're not going to get

00:09:44.220 women. 0.81

00:09:44.400 There's some out there, but not as many as men.

00:09:46.280 Not as many.

00:09:47.080 That's my point.

00:09:48.040 I think men are more likely to get away with it for longer.

00:09:51.140 Um, but the second thing I would say is that, um, I, I would argue that, wait, sorry.

00:09:58.460 What was, what was the second one?

00:09:59.740 All the vicious crimes.

00:10:00.800 Oh, the vicious crimes.

00:10:01.780 Again, you have to look at abuse and who murders the innocent.

00:10:06.080 Women cannot be violent in the same way men can be violent. 0.88

00:10:09.740 They can't, but when they can be violent, they're more likely to kill the innocent.

00:10:13.540 So when women have the opportunity to be violent towards the infants and the elderly, they 1.00

00:10:17.580 are more likely to kill. 0.85

00:10:18.900 Got it.

00:10:19.380 And is that kind of to Nat's question, is that just sort of a circumstantial meaning

00:10:24.460 they're around more infants.

00:10:26.160 They're the ones dealing with actual babies, daycares, nurseries, or even women are way 1.00

00:10:32.040 more inclined to go into nursing and healthcare.

00:10:34.480 So they're just kind of in that situation.

00:10:37.480 So by the law of large numbers, they're going to be more likely.

00:10:41.280 That's like saying men are more likely to kill other people at war.

00:10:44.960 Yeah.

00:10:45.080 Because 95% of the military is men.

00:10:48.060 That's so interesting.

00:10:48.760 It's like whenever there's a bad stat about women, we always have this like gut reaction

00:10:52.520 to like give a reason or an excuse.

00:10:55.440 But no, this is even 1807.

00:10:59.020 These are completely different time periods.

00:11:00.860 Women were always more likely to kill the infants and the elderly. 1.00

00:11:03.700 So look, I'm here to have an actual conversation. 0.55

00:11:07.360 I've never, you know, you said that you think that men are more nurturing than women.

00:11:11.140 That's the first time I've ever heard that, right?

00:11:12.780 I think that men will do more, right, out of unconditional love for a woman, whereas a lot

00:11:19.940 of women will have conditions in order to give love, right? 1.00

00:11:23.660 Like a man must be this, this, this, this, this, and this, whereas a guy, I'm all just

00:11:28.420 like, yeah, she's hot, she's cool, and she's a loyal girl, I'll give her the world, whereas

00:11:33.540 a woman wants six foot, six pack, six figures, this, that, funny, crazy, this, all that stuff. 0.99

00:11:39.640 So there's a longer checklist of what a man, uh, that a woman is looking for versus what

00:11:45.020 a man is looking for.

00:11:47.020 Yeah, but that, that we were talking about like nurturing kids, I thought.

00:11:51.940 No, but also, but no, you just said nurturing.

00:11:54.700 Yeah.

00:11:55.160 Yeah.

00:11:55.420 You said nurturing kids.

00:11:56.380 I'm saying in general, women would be considered more nurturing, but also have.

00:12:02.380 I just, I just think like we have to like, whenever women have a, like something that describes

00:12:06.840 women, that makes them so special and awesome, it's always something that can't be measured. 1.00

00:12:10.680 And whenever you measure it, the stats never line up.

00:12:13.560 Okay.

00:12:13.740 And so that's, that's an example I'm giving where it's like, if we were more nurturing,

00:12:17.260 wouldn't we be less likely to kill our children? 0.62

00:12:19.840 So just to kind of put a ribbon on this, um, you know, I, I said, what's the biggest misconception

00:12:25.960 about you?

00:12:26.980 Yeah. 0.97

00:12:27.180 You said, well, people think I hate women. 1.00

00:12:29.840 Yeah.

00:12:30.220 But it doesn't seem like you speak fondly of women.

00:12:34.140 So what would you describe your relationship with women?

00:12:36.940 If you can sum it up, what's my relationship like with women? 0.99

00:12:41.500 No, just like the concept of women. 1.00

00:12:44.520 I like women. 1.00

00:12:45.980 I like guys, you know?

00:12:47.620 Okay.

00:12:48.000 I mean, it's not, no, there's no doubt that you don't, I just don't think like, I think

00:12:51.760 there's a lot of propaganda that says women are these special, amazing, like, I just

00:12:59.180 think that there's all of this propaganda that always says women are so special and amazing

00:13:03.840 and awesome.

00:13:04.900 And I just think women are people the same way men are people.

00:13:08.020 They're special women.

00:13:09.320 They're special men, you know, but I just think as a group, you know, they're just normal

00:13:14.700 people.

00:13:15.440 Yeah.

00:13:15.880 Okay.

00:13:16.420 But I do think they're more violent than men. 0.99

00:13:18.120 I'll die on that hill. 0.97

00:13:19.100 Actually. 0.99

00:13:19.580 Every time I've been attacked, like physically, like threatened, always a woman. 1.00

00:13:23.880 I hope so.

00:13:24.780 It's not a man.

00:13:26.380 I hope not.

00:13:27.360 Okay.

00:13:28.180 So, um, you don't hate women.

00:13:30.260 You just think they're not special.

00:13:31.920 Is that fair to say?

00:13:33.260 Yeah.

00:13:33.720 Okay.

00:13:34.400 I know.

00:13:35.040 I think most people aren't special, but the difference is men know that women, not as

00:13:39.360 much.

00:13:40.580 Yeah.

00:13:40.960 I don't see men running around being like, I'm a king.

00:13:43.860 I'm the man.

00:13:44.520 No matter what you say.

00:13:45.720 It's like, buddy, you're broke.

00:13:47.000 You're homeless.

00:13:47.480 You live with your mom.

00:13:48.680 You have three socks to your name.

00:13:50.900 Whereas women, they're all Queens, no matter what their situation is. 1.00

00:13:53.780 When I came to this conclusion, I came to this conclusion was I literally couldn't think

00:13:58.060 of one thing that women are better at. 1.00

00:13:59.660 I couldn't because every time I had to measure it and put a number to it.

00:14:04.140 I have one thing.

00:14:04.980 Okay, please.

00:14:05.600 It's going to be super controversial.

00:14:06.880 Okay.

00:14:07.340 Uh, giving birth.

00:14:10.500 I hope so.

00:14:12.080 That's kind of the one thing.

00:14:14.020 Women do create life. 1.00

00:14:15.220 Hear me out.

00:14:15.500 Hear me out.

00:14:15.620 I do love my mom and my grandma.

00:14:17.100 Hear me out.

00:14:17.640 If men could figure out a way to do it, I would argue they'd figure out a way to do it. 0.83

00:14:21.660 Well, let's hope they don't because they're trying to have that happen, Pearl.

00:14:25.140 Let's let the roll up.

00:14:26.200 Malik, what do you do, by the way?

00:14:28.760 Never.

00:14:29.560 Never?

00:14:30.060 Okay, got it.

00:14:30.720 Me too.

00:14:31.520 Okay.

00:14:31.940 I hope not.

00:14:33.400 So, moving on.

00:14:36.000 Good to set the tone.

00:14:37.260 I like it.

00:14:37.800 I understand it.

00:14:38.560 Yeah.

00:14:39.020 Um,

00:14:39.420 Good to set the tone.

JustPearlyThings - October 21, 2023

Why Men Are BETTER Than Women @vtsoscast

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