Why Men Are BETTER Than Women @vtsoscast
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In this episode, we have a special guest, Pearl Jam, join us as we discuss controversial topics such as women, fat shaming, society, religion, and much more. Pearl Jam is a comedian, writer, podcaster, and podcaster. She has been around for a long time and is a true believer in many controversial topics.
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Segway to that, so you've made some comments that some people deem controversial, right?
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You've talked about gender, you've talked about women, you've talked about fat shaming necessarily, society, religion.
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There's some things that you've said that people have vehemently disagreed with.
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And then some people, they're like, hell yeah, Pearl nailed it.
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That's kind of how the way it works is when you take a stance on something,
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you're going to have allies and then you're going to have people basically forming sort of in the enemy camp.
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But we also know, especially with social media and YouTube and long form content,
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that short clips and little reels and clips can be taken out of context, right?
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Out of everything you've said, what do you think has been the most misconstrued about you?
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And if there's anything you would walk back, what would it be?
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If there's anything I'd walk back, I don't, I can't really think of much.
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It's tough because I've said so many things, but there's nothing that really comes to the top of my head, you know?
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I would say one of the most misconstrued things is people think I hate women.
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That's like something I get 24 seven, but I, I think, you know, we can't really have progress if we're not honest.
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So why do you think people think you hate women?
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Oh, cause I say things like women are dumber than men.
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I just look at, I just look at the top women and the top men.
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Like what conclusion am I supposed to come to when literally all the female billionaires, um, like tend to be billionaires through sex work.
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Mackenzie Bezos, um, Steve jobs, wife, the list goes on and on and on.
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So, um, you know, some people take that offensively.
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You're like, ah, I wish I can have a mulligan and take that thing back.
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But the miss, the biggest, there is something I talk so much.
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I mean, but the biggest misconception is that you hate women, but you're saying that you don't.
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I just think the last hundred years, you know, we've been given more freedom than ever and we've made terrible choices as a group.
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You know, I just think when you look at the numbers, you can't really dispute that.
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So a hundred years ago, 85% of women are virgins.
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Now we have more OnlyFans models than teachers.
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Like what, what conclusion am I supposed to come to when I look at these numbers?
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What else do you think are women getting terribly wrong in modern society?
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Um, I would just say women typically want a lot of freedom without the responsibility that comes with it.
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I don't have any problem with, you know, women having freedom, but you should also have the responsibility that comes with it.
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That's why women shouldn't vote because they don't want to do the infrastructure jobs.
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They don't want to be net taxpayers and they want to take money from men through divorce and alimony.
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And I think if you're going to do that, most women do.
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Which is also something we're going to discuss today.
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So, um, we're going to get into a lot of stuff today.
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When Pearl says things like, look, you're just, you're dumber than me, Nat.
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I mean, that's not a crazy controversial topic, to be honest with you.
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Here's my thing is that I'm not going to compare a man to a woman.
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You know, they're meant to be doing different things.
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So for you to say, oh, a man is stronger than a woman or a man is smarter than a woman and,
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you know, as essentially a man's resources and the things they have to do, it does give
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So like things like that, I'm also considering like things, certain things don't trigger me
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because I may not feel like I'm in that boat of like, I'm arguing with a man, like
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There's, there's, there's a, there's a point of truth, which is, which is supposed to be
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like biologically, but at the end of the day, a woman's role is completely different
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So for me, it's like, you know, that's kind of just, have you ever seen that, have you
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ever seen that episode of Survivor where they put like a bunch of women on an island
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and a bunch of men on an island and the men are like, they have like a whole system
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Yeah, they're like, yeah, there's like a fire going, like they're resourceful.
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And the women basically had to be rescued.
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Yeah, but here's the thing though, I mean, as it should, like I wouldn't, I mean, what
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Like go and, and be good at those things and not, not have that nurture side as well.
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I think if you want to look at nurturing, who is the most likely one to kill infants and
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So I actually think we have all this propaganda saying like women are so nurturing and all this
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When you say, hold on, let me say that for a second.
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When you say the infants and the elderly, you're saying abortion?
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So even like, so they're more likely to kill the elderly.
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Like they're more likely to kill an elderly person.
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No, like, like violent, like in nursing homes, that sort of thing.
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Like you'll see the, you'll see the cases pop up in the news where these female nurses,
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That's where a woman's mentality maybe is not as strong enough as a man.
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So again, it kind of goes back to what you're comparing.
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No, I actually, I think, no, I think women are more violent than men.
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And if you look at one-sided abuse, 70% of the time it's women hitting the men and not
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So I actually would argue that women are more violent than men.
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And so infant side, so a woman killing or someone killing a baby within the first 24
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hours of life is very rare for a male to do that.
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So then, but how many males are in that division to be comparing how many women?
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Like the amount of women in that field, right?
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There's a lot more women in that field than men.
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Well, I mean, parenting, there's usually a dad and a mom.
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Right, but I'm talking about like nursing, for example, right?
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Like a lot of times the stuff you see today you think is new.
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In the 1800s, women were also more likely to kill infants, even before abortion, before
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Listen, we're going to have a wild array of conversations.
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I've never heard in my life that, that men are more nurturing than women.
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Well, I just, the conclusion I came to was, you know, when I think of nurturing, I think
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And I guess more of my point is that women are more violent than men, I would argue, because
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I think women are more likely to kill the innocent where men are not.
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I think men just tend to be better people in general.
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Because typically if one guy is being too bad of a person, another guy will come and check
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him where women don't necessarily have that.
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Even if you look at prison sentences, you see these women that constantly get bailed out
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So like Casey Anthony got let out of jail, right?
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Women don't get the same sentences that men get when it comes to prison sentences as well.
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I just, I don't see women having the same consequences in society.
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And I just, I think women have a harder time regulating emotions.
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So I, that's why I think they're more violent personally.
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Well, it also comes down to the amount of freedom that has been given too, because women
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have gotten, numbers have gotten to this point as well, based on the eligibility that
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So now that they have more freedom to do the things, maybe they don't know how to handle
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Maybe they shouldn't be part of certain things as well.
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No, but again, I said this isn't, this isn't new.
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So even before they had the freedom of the right to vote, women were still more likely
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So can it be attributed to the fact that men are more hierarchical, women are more egalitarian.
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So if you look at a spectrum of things, men by a wide margin are going to be smarter,
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stronger, wealthier, more, uh, in, in your regard, more, uh, nurturing, more protective,
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where women sort of associate in the middle of the spectrum, more egalitarian.
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And then all the way to the left, more men are psychopaths, murderers, absolute idiots.
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More men are homeless, uh, and just don't win in life.
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So it's more like men are on the opposite sides of the spectrum, whereas men, women sort
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We would have to go through each and every one of those.
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So if you wanted to go through homeless, I would argue that more women would be homeless
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if they actually face consequences for their decisions.
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Um, if you want to go based on what was the other things you said, homeless, um, barbaric,
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That's like, like women cannot murder in the same way men can murder.
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I don't think they're smart enough to pull it off.
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I don't think you're going to get women Ted Bundy the same way you're not going to get
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There's some out there, but not as many as men.
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I think men are more likely to get away with it for longer.
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Um, but the second thing I would say is that, um, I, I would argue that, wait, sorry.
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Again, you have to look at abuse and who murders the innocent.
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Women cannot be violent in the same way men can be violent.
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They can't, but when they can be violent, they're more likely to kill the innocent.
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So when women have the opportunity to be violent towards the infants and the elderly, they
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And is that kind of to Nat's question, is that just sort of a circumstantial meaning
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They're the ones dealing with actual babies, daycares, nurseries, or even women are way
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more inclined to go into nursing and healthcare.
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So by the law of large numbers, they're going to be more likely.
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That's like saying men are more likely to kill other people at war.
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It's like whenever there's a bad stat about women, we always have this like gut reaction
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Women were always more likely to kill the infants and the elderly.
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So look, I'm here to have an actual conversation.
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I've never, you know, you said that you think that men are more nurturing than women.
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That's the first time I've ever heard that, right?
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I think that men will do more, right, out of unconditional love for a woman, whereas a lot
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of women will have conditions in order to give love, right?
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Like a man must be this, this, this, this, this, and this, whereas a guy, I'm all just
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like, yeah, she's hot, she's cool, and she's a loyal girl, I'll give her the world, whereas
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a woman wants six foot, six pack, six figures, this, that, funny, crazy, this, all that stuff.
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So there's a longer checklist of what a man, uh, that a woman is looking for versus what
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Yeah, but that, that we were talking about like nurturing kids, I thought.
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I'm saying in general, women would be considered more nurturing, but also have.
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I just, I just think like we have to like, whenever women have a, like something that describes
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women, that makes them so special and awesome, it's always something that can't be measured.
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And whenever you measure it, the stats never line up.
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And so that's, that's an example I'm giving where it's like, if we were more nurturing,
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wouldn't we be less likely to kill our children?
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So just to kind of put a ribbon on this, um, you know, I, I said, what's the biggest misconception
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You said, well, people think I hate women.
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But it doesn't seem like you speak fondly of women.
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So what would you describe your relationship with women?
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If you can sum it up, what's my relationship like with women?
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I mean, it's not, no, there's no doubt that you don't, I just don't think like, I think
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there's a lot of propaganda that says women are these special, amazing, like, I just
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think that there's all of this propaganda that always says women are so special and amazing
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And I just think women are people the same way men are people.
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They're special men, you know, but I just think as a group, you know, they're just normal
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Every time I've been attacked, like physically, like threatened, always a woman.
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I think most people aren't special, but the difference is men know that women, not as
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I don't see men running around being like, I'm a king.
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Whereas women, they're all Queens, no matter what their situation is.
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When I came to this conclusion, I came to this conclusion was I literally couldn't think
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I couldn't because every time I had to measure it and put a number to it.
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If men could figure out a way to do it, I would argue they'd figure out a way to do it.
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Well, let's hope they don't because they're trying to have that happen, Pearl.