Why Men Are More Likely To Remarry Than Women (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily
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1 hour and 42 minutes
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Summary
Why are men more likely to remarry than women? And why is it that women like to get naked in front of Jesus in order to get attention? Today's episode of Pearl Daily dives into this and more.
Transcript
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Good afternoon, good evening, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another episode of Pearl
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Daily here on the Audacity Network. Today, we are going to be talking about why are men
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more likely to remarry than women? But before we get into today's episode, I want to talk
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about a little pre-story that's going on on Twitter. Now, normally I try to stick to one
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topic, but this was too good to not cover. Now, as you guys know, women have a tendency
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to die on the hill of being naked. Now, this isn't just liberal women. It's also conservative
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women. They love getting naked, and they also love shaming you for calling them a whore.
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So there's a tweet yesterday that was going viral from Danielle Franz, and she had this
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trad lady. Well, trad LARP. You guys know how I feel about this, but you know it's a LARP.
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It's a LARP. Versus our favorite crazy lady character on this show, the red-headed libertarian
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who likes to thirst trap with a Jesus cross in the background.
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Now, women that are thirst trapping, but they want to pretend they're not thirst trapping,
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have a tendency to do, is they have a tendency to do a couple of things. They shame the male
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sex drive. So she'll put on some high heels, put on a tiny dress, and then say, you guys
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are disgusting for even thinking about sex. So she said, pornification of conservatism is
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so icky. The crime isn't wanting to make art, of course. The crime is making art that's so
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on the nose it becomes vulgar and desperate. This desperation for sex appeal results is cheap,
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cartoonish product void of meeting. Both of these images communicate trad values with beautiful
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women, but only one of them is giving fetish content. Spoiler, it's the one being sold under
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the conservative dad's brand. Now, as you guys know, personally, I have seen too much.
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I'm not really going to be offended by a woman in a short dress. I'm not going to pretend to
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be a Puritan out here. If I saw that on the street, I really wouldn't look twice. However,
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what I don't like is women doing something and pretending they don't know what they're doing.
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It drives me crazy. If you're going to thirst trap, then thirst trap. But don't thirst trap
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one in front of a Jesus cross. Leave Jesus out of this, okay? If you're going to thirst trap,
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there's Instagram for a reason, okay? You can just put your boobs out, put your legs out,
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but go on Instagram. Why do you have to bring God into this? It's so... But they want the attention
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and the being a good person, the looking bad part of thirst strapping. And when I saw this, I just
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knew, now I'm fairly certain, and I got a lot of heat for this take, this woman has to be mentally
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ill. I see no other way about it because the way she reacts and patterns, trends, there are very few
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that react as insane as she does. But guys, before we get to that, are you loving all of this wonderful
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That's www.theaudacitynetwork.com. My name is Pearl, and I'll see you there.
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So, you know, back to this crazy lady. When I did reply, and I said, and I was very excited
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for this yesterday, I said, I can't wait to watch the red-headed libertarian have a mental
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breakdown over this. Now, Danielle says, I posted one time, didn't name her, didn't tag her,
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didn't even, even called her a beautiful woman. And that's my next problem here, but we're going
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to get to this. She, quote, tweeted, replied, and posted several times to her audience of nearly a
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million, shared photos from my personal Instagram, then accused me of putting a target on her back
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despite the fact that her own followers spent the day harassing me. Now, again, Danielle, I'm sorry,
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I got no sympathy for you either. If you poke the bear on a crazy woman, expect crazy results,
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okay? You know this woman's crazy, and so do I, but I don't care. She can keep going, bitch.
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You know, and the reason I like bringing her up is because she's just such a perfect example
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of what happens with these trad influencers. Now, guys, look, most of my life I've known I'm a normal
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looking woman, and most people think of that as an insult. I don't really see it that way. I think
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most men, most women are average, and if you don't think you're average, I expect you to
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have above-average results. I expect you to have done some high-end modeling. Maybe you're a UFC
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ring girl. You know, one time I went to, my whole team got invited to, it was like the weekend,
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their concert, and they allowed us all to go backstage, and when I was back, it was in the
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future, I'm going to, I'm going to, it's too late, it's live. You know, in the future, I might just say
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A-level celebrities, but anyways, it was backstage before the show, and I'm like, duh, I might shoot
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myself in the foot in the future, but it's okay. So anyways, there were women there that are, were
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literally paid to be hot. Now, these are women that they just, I'm following, if you saw her, this is
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a blue-pilled guy would meet a woman like this at a coffee shop and think,
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wow, she's got no Instagram following. Green flag. She's got like nothing on there. No, these women
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know the game. They are predators. They are apex predators. They will, until in their 20s, get
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invited to all the high-level parties and know you got to leave zero digital footprint so I can marry
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a doctor at 35. They know, they know this game. So, but because they're so beautiful, high-level men
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will find them. You know, there's people that work for these high-level men that their job, I have a
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friend, and her job was, she was friends with like a billionaire who had a private jet, and her job was
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to fill that private jet with hot women, and she knew where to find them. She knew what age they had to be
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under. She knew how attractive they had to be, and it doesn't even, they're so good-looking guys. They live
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in such a different world. They don't even have to sleep with the guys. Now, don't get me wrong.
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These women get offers, but, you know, I talked to a private investigator, and he said that mids
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have a tendency to, they can't get as much resources for free with their beauty. They got to put out more.
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You know what I mean? So he said that mids do prostitution more than beautiful women. Kind of
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make sense. If you can like sell a nude and get a hundred K, why, you know why, I mean, why wouldn't
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you? I mean, I know you guys are thinking morals, but on this show, we deal in reality, what people
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are probably going to do. We don't deal in how I wish the world's going to be. But when I met these
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women, I had a chance to see the high level of beauty that men in the country, men in the suburbs
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are completely, they don't even see it. And the way it works is there are A-level cities. Now,
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A-level cities are where rich men are, or there is an industry where the women can monetize their
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beauty, like modeling, modeling, I don't know, acting, that, you know, some sort of media, right,
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or modeling. Now, I know you're thinking conservative commentators. We're going to wait. We're going
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to get there. Now, I know what an eight plus looks like, ballpark. And the problem we have
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is in conservative media, there's a little bit of a bubble. Now, remember, Christian conservative
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men tend to be the countrymen. And the hottest women, even if they're from the country, generally
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have a tendency to go to the city, the most popping part of town. It's like, if you go
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downtown Miami, there are so many attractive women, you go 30 minutes out, it's single mothers
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and fat women. And usually these women go to the cities, make bad decisions, get a little
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uglier, and they make it out to the country. The country guys often don't even know the level
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of beauty, or they've rarely seen the level of beauty that's in the city. Because in all
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honesty, guys, I mean, sure, there might be one pretty girl at a small high school, but
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usually they go to an A-level city pretty quick. But what happens in these conservative
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spaces is the women have a tendency to think they're hotter than they are. Now, I've done
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casting. So when I used to recruit for the shows, I would literally think that woman could
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go on my thumbnail, she's going to get me an increase of a 2% click rate. I would see another
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woman and think, she's got a great body, we need to do a full, like, you start to think
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a little bit more practically. And the way I divide women is mids, which is like four to
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six. That's a mid. Like a four I'd put as a cute face, but chubby. That's a four. Five
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is like normal, not fat, just normal looking. Six is cute. Seven, I don't like giving, I'm
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kind of like Kevin Samuels, right? I mean, I took this, I'd like to give credit where
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it's due. I took this rating from Kevin Samuels, but it's a great way to, like, divide people.
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The eight pluses live a life that mids could not dream. This is, she could not dream. So
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what happened? She wants to do a thirst trap, but it's a little bit sad because she's a mid,
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right? She's a mid, she's trying to get above mid results. But the conservative simps and
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conservative commentators tend to be women that couldn't make it in Hollywood or whatever
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big city they went to, they can't get the attention there. They go to conservative because, again,
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it's more country guys. Country guys tend to have lower standards of beauty because they
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don't see the top talent. Now, I said, I can't wait to watch the redheaded libertarian have
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a meltdown over this. So funny. Now, the first thing she does is, you know, I say, please,
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please, please tell the trad wives to stop thirst trapping on X and watch their kids.
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Now, there's a certain level of tweeting. Now, disclaimer, I know everyone runs me through
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the coals for this. I know, I know, I don't have kids. I don't. But I expect, you know,
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kids take a lot of time. So if I see a woman that's constantly tweeting and has the time to,
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like, how many times have I talked about Candace Owens on the show? That woman probably ish watches
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her kids ish. I mean, her level of production is a little too high to be, I know what it takes to do
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media, right? I could, I could ballpark how much time you're spending away. If you have the time
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to do a whole rant after I say something, I get it. I say something. I don't mind having
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I know you're not, I know you're not an involved parent, right?
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You know, so I did tweet this. Now, maybe this wasn't, maybe this was a little too honest. I
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said, I think she's mentally ill. And the next thing she did was call me a pedophile again.
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Now, I want to, I want to reiterate, and I want to be honest with you guys. I got to go through some
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of my former controversies, even though I don't, I don't like bringing attention to them. There was a
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time where these women were tweeting at me their selfies, right? So I had a tweet, 25 year old women
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are hotter than 35 year old women. And, um, I thought it would be funny. I was in England at the
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time. I Googled the age of consent in England or like wherever the hell I was at the time. And I was
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16. So I tweet that 16 year old women are hotter than 26. Now I'm not, I'm not even attracted to
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women. I'm straight. It was a straight troll, right? And anyone that's watched my show, anyone
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knows, they know I'm just trolling. It was because the women were sending me the selfies and I want
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it. I want them to enrage, right? But what women have a tendency to do is they have a tendency to
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take anything, even a joke, a troll, something you're, you could say, Pearl, that was a bad joke.
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Fine. Fine. It could be a bad joke. We can agree. But you know, there's no police report.
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There's no evidence of me going after these underage girls that they're, they seem to be
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trying to pin on me. Right. And that's when I realized when women don't like someone, what they
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want to do is call him a creep or a pedophile. And the way that women react to me is exactly how they
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will react to the men in their lives that they are done with. So now what was interesting
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is then, so the, the tendencies that crazy women tend to do, there's a couple like copes they do.
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One, I'm obsessed with the ring girl from the Jake Paul fight. Okay. Like I'm jealous of her.
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If you got like, I think they get off on thinking people are obsessed or stalking them
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because that's their first line of attack. You're, and this is what these women do. They say,
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I want to be worshiped and get easy internet money. But if anybody criticizes me, they're obsessed.
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And again, this is an example of women going into a man's world and saying, treat me like a woman,
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bitch. Now she also thinks that my shows are about her. You haven't even made a thumbnail yet. One,
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cause you're not good looking enough. We'll start there. If I'm going to use a conservative
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commentator, one, you need to be more famous than you are and you need to be better looking.
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Neither. You, you could get a little segment though, like catfish of the year,
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but you know, I've talked about Lily Phillips like 10 times too.
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You guys keep me employed. Thank you. And then she also thinks, you know, men know when they come
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on the internet, have you guys ever done a call of duty or I don't know, my brother would play these
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games. Right. And when my brother would play these games, I would hear him say racist things,
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homophobic, not him, but like his friend, like they attack each other. Right. Because they know this is
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the internet. You don't get kid gloves on the internet. So I don't know, maybe next time I'll do
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a full end. Maybe I'll do a, and the other thing I get annoyed with is she keeps replying to me. She
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blocked me. Right. Which is totally fine. I don't mind getting blocked. That's totally great. But you
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can't reply to me. And then I can't, this is my, my, my plead, Elon, Elon, if people that blocked me
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reply to my tweets, I should be able to reply back anyways. Um, but I wanted to show that she does
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falsely accuse you as a way to attack you. And then, um, yeah, I think that's, that's all I got
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on that today, but you know, I'll, I'll follow up with that later. Now I'm going to read the website
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guys. Remember we are demonetized. So every membership signup counts, which I do want to
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do a couple thank yous in the chat for the people that signed up in the last 24 hours. I'm not going
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to read last names because I want to keep people's privacy, but thank you to van. Oh shoot. Oh wait,
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I did the wrong thing. Thank you to van. Thank you to Charlene. Thank you to Doug. You did a yearly
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membership. Thank you so much, George. Thank you. I really couldn't do it without you guys. You know,
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women like her, what she's going to do when she does this as reputation destruction.
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So what they do is they lie about me, you know, they'll take things out of content,
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like the pedophile thing, zero evidence, no police report, just one tweet a year ago,
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pearls of pedo. And they think it's perfectly okay. What they also do is they flag your account
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because I reveal their crazy behavior. They try to make my life hell. They really, this is like the
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third time I've been called a pedo for no reason. They just throw that. They, they know how bad that
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insult is and how that can ruin someone's career. So they throw it at anyone. They can. Jesse, thank
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you so much. Yearly membership. Uh, Brian, thank you so much. Yearly membership. Tom, thank you so
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much. Yearly membership. Appreciate you, Rob. Thank you again. I get, I literally, I couldn't do it
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without you guys. And you know, one day I'll tell you guys the story of how these crazy ladies got me
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demonetized, sort of. I'll go an in-depth demonetization story. Um, hey Pearl, when are we gonna see the
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new uncensored content on your site? Which one are you looking for? Pearl, that takes money to get a show
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like that. Produce the other creators. Sometimes the random guests often charge an appearance fee.
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It looks casual and organic, but it all costs. Yeah. I, I used to pay recruiters to get the women,
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but they would get a bonus if they were better. Look, look. I don't, and I said, I don't care if
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you pay the girls to come, you know, do what you want. This is the fee. You get them. Um, Pearl,
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this is why she's trying to promote website membership so much. She could also use some direct
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advertisement like her testosterone supplement advertisers. You can help by sharing the show,
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promoting the audacity network, then gift memberships available. You can buy gifts. I
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don't know much about women's attire. How I can tell that your shirt is off as hell. What's wrong
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with my shirt? What the? All right. All right. You win. You win. I'll even read the ones roasting me.
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Okay. Oh, I see what you mean. It's up. You know, sometimes it happens. Sorry guys. Okay. So
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divorce. Now on my channel, I say that it's not in a man's best interest to get married. As you guys
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know, I went into the red pill thinking that marriage was a good deal for men. I didn't really
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understand why men, you know, I would hear like marriage is a bad deal. I would hear,
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I would hear all these things that, and the red pill is kind of interesting because before you see it,
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you, you kind of, some of the stuff sounds far off or weird, but then you get older and you live a
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little more and you realize the red pill's right. It is 100% correct. And most of the people that
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criticize the red pill actually are representations of why, you know, like destiny right now. He said
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the red pill was wrong. And then his wife left him for a streamer who was like very skinny. Like
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he wasn't even good looking. Now the divorce rate in the United States is standing at just over 50%.
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This means you have a coin flip chance of staying married. If the coin lands on heads, you stay
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married and you're probably going to end up staying with a woman that bosses you around and refuses to
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sleep with you. Your chance of your wife gaining 20 pounds or more in the first five years of marriage
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are 80%. And remember that's only five years. It goes up as they get older. If the coin lands on tails,
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you're getting divorced because you will end up in divorce court. Your kids get taken away. You pay
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child support. And in some cases you'll pay alimony. You'll have to start all over. Now let's paint the
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picture. We have Robert. He's a plumber. He graduated high school, chose to go into the trades and started
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his career as an apprentice plumber. Worked his way up to a journeyman and meets a woman right around the
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age of 25. He marries a girl at 27 and has two kids with her. The marriage slowly deteriorates over the
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course of seven to eight years. His wife gained weight. He doesn't get sex. There's no food on the table for
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him to eat and he's forced to do things he doesn't want to do on the weekends to make some woman happy
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that doesn't even love him anymore. So 35 comes around and Robert comes home from a long day of
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work to get divorce papers shoved in his face. The wife decides to leave and take the kids. There's
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nothing he can do about paternity court, divorce court, rips Robert's life apart and he has to get
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alimony and child support. But despite all this, Robert wants to get married again. 35% of men will
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remarry after getting divorced. That's right. After getting screwed in a divorce court and paternity
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court by their wife, who decided to leave to go find herself or sleep with Gavin, the bartender,
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Tyrone, the personal trainer, one out of three men will choose to get married again. Now let's look at
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the stats when it comes to second marriage. Women initiate two thirds of divorce and first and second
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marriages. 90% is the risk of getting divorced in a second marriage compared if it had been the first
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marriage for that couple. Two out of three marriages will make it to their 10th anniversary,
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but only one out of three marriages will make it to their 25th anniversary. After a first marriage,
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it generally takes someone four years to get married a second time. And after five years,
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if a sibling goes through a second marriage and divorce, then the person is 22% more likely to
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get divorced themselves. For a second marriage, the average age for a woman is 37. For men in a
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second marriage, it's 39.3 years old. About 6% of American couples divorce, marry, and then remarry each
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other. Half of all Americans' kids will see their parents divorced and half of those kids will see their
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parents get a second divorce. Now let's look at the reasons that men get married again.
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In this blog post, we will explore the various reasons why men opt for second marriages. While
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second marriages are stigmatized in society, it is important to understand the different perspectives
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and circumstances that lead men to make this choice. One of the reasons why some men choose to get
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married for a second time is financial stability. Many men believe that marrying a wealthy woman can
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improve their financial status and provide them a comfortable lifestyle. They see second marriage as
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an opportunity to elevate their social status and gain access to a higher circle. On the other hand,
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some men are financially stable but still opt for second marriages. For them, it is often a marriage
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or a matter of personal preference or habit. These men may have a desire to experience the thrill of a
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new relationship or simply enjoy the companionship of multiple partners. Emotional connection and romance.
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Another reason why men pursue second marriages is the need for emotional connection and romance.
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Some men feel that their first marriages lack the passion and excitement that they desire and they
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believe that a second marriage can fulfill their emotional needs. These men can find themselves
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attracted to women who are more expressive and romantic. They appreciate the affection and attention
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they receive from their second wives, which they may not have experienced from a previous partner.
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For many men, second marriages come later in life when they have achieved personal growth and success.
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These men have focused on their careers or other priorities during their first marriage and now
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seek a partner who can match their level of achievement. As these men become more successful,
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they often attract women who are equally accomplished. They appreciate the intellectual stimulation
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and shared goals that come from being in a relationship with someone who's on their level. This
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Okay, but I'll go with it. In some cases, men opt for a second marriage due to unfulfilled
00:27:18.060
expectations or compatibility issues in their first marriage. They may believe that their first wife
00:27:23.380
does not meet their emotional and physical needs and they believe finding a new partner will provide
00:27:27.600
them with the satisfaction they seek. The conclusion is that while second marriages are often met
00:27:33.560
with judgment and skepticism, it is important to recognize each individual's circumstances and motivations
00:27:39.700
are unique. The reasons behind why men provide or the reasons behind men choosing to pursue second
00:27:48.040
marriages vary widely from financial stability to personal growth to emotional fulfillment.
00:27:55.440
Now, um, this woman is talking about first and second marriage problems.
00:28:02.880
Divorce. Has everybody seen that clip of the divorce lawyer talking about second marriage divorces and
00:28:13.100
how he's actually observed moms getting sick of doing everything and divorcing? He just kind of skirts
00:28:18.460
the second marriage question. Typically, first and second marriages have different requirements to
00:28:23.240
them. First marriages usually happen a little bit younger. They're to establish a family home and a family,
00:28:28.900
usually often to have children, which increases the overall responsibilities, the load, all of that
00:28:36.120
kind of stuff. Second marriages, however, a lot of the child kind of rearing is mostly done, if not all the
00:28:43.080
way done. Second marriages, a lot of times the children are already out of the home. And in here, the second
00:28:49.380
marriages that come in to see me, the goal or desire, I guess, of having a partner for one another.
00:28:56.380
They want someone to travel with, go out with, and yeah, have a lot of really hot schmexy time with.
00:29:02.920
The first marriages I see, yeah, we'll spend time on the couch debating who's doing what in the
00:29:07.980
household. But the second marriages I see, we don't do that. We spend time trying to figure out why we
00:29:14.820
aren't enjoying each other as much as we want to.
00:29:17.760
Okay, so the first marriage was for children, and the second marriages for fun. Okay. A woman talks about
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Marriage is hard. But you know what's even harder? The odds are stacked against you. There's the
00:29:47.100
negative stereotypes, the non-traditional family structure and holidays, the scars it leaves behind
00:29:53.940
and the emotional triggers. A lot of times the second spouse is guilty until proven innocent,
00:30:00.940
where the first spouse didn't really have that problem. They were the ones who whittled away the
00:30:06.060
trust, hence the divorce. But there are some distinct advantages. It's a chance to start over,
00:30:13.700
to start fresh. It's finding love again. You're more aware of the pitfalls. You're more willing to work
00:30:21.000
harder on your marriage and avoid complacency. You're really determined to do it right this time.
00:30:26.820
And you usually have more in common. You share a lot more of the same goals in the bigger picture.
00:30:33.160
You value your time together more. Generally, you learn to compromise better, and you're more
00:30:38.280
self-aware. And studies show you have more and better sex. You can't deny your past hurts or your
00:30:46.100
triggers. The key is to learn to work on them together to improve in your marriage as a team.
00:30:53.040
What you really don't want to do, and this can be hard, is you don't want to show up less than you did
00:30:59.460
the first time. You shouldn't trust less. You shouldn't give less. You try not to repeat the same
00:31:05.420
habits. The communication is fucking key. You have to be determined.
00:31:11.320
Has talking to women more made them argue with you less?
00:31:20.240
Or does it just give them more things to pick apart?
00:31:25.020
Guys, women that say that communication is key,
00:31:32.960
there are men that listen to women and what they say.
00:31:35.620
And women that say that communication is key, either A, have no emotional control and need
00:31:42.180
to tell the guy every single emotion, or B, they like to fight.
00:31:49.100
Permit to communicate so that you can work past all that stuff. And then your bond is even stronger.
00:31:56.960
And it's scary, but you have to be vulnerable. You have to have realistic expectations.
00:32:02.200
You got to catch yourself and check yourself when you might be treating somebody differently
00:32:08.020
because of something that has nothing to do with them. And that's not easy. But acknowledging it,
00:32:14.820
that's the first step. Dealing with it, that's the next step. But it's this kind of growth that
00:32:21.280
really makes that second marriage so special and so much more fulfilling. The Gottman Institute
00:32:28.740
talks a lot about this stuff, about trust and intimate relationships. And one of their famous
00:32:34.780
quotes from their research and interviewing people, writing books, blogs, you name it.
00:32:41.240
Life gets better for those who have the courage to trust.
00:32:48.640
Women talking about second marriage like it's a joke.
00:32:51.840
Listen, I'm second marriage material. Go have your starter marriage, learn all the lessons,
00:33:01.840
and then come and see me and we will live like sexy, responsible adults who split bills,
00:33:06.280
communicate, and leave each other alone most of the time.
00:33:10.940
Fellas, who's going to do it? I know it's one of you.
00:33:16.580
Put a one in the chat if you do it. Just be honest, guys. They say barf, cap. You're telling
00:33:29.540
me there's 600 people in here right now. Imagine if I had a room full of 600 mostly men watching.
00:33:37.500
And you expect me to believe that none of you are going to do it.
00:33:57.760
Not even on a slow Tuesday. Get out of here. Don't believe you.
00:34:02.360
Okay. DM on the website says theaudacitynetwork.com. We've been demonetized. Feel free.
00:34:10.960
Yearly and monthly memberships, 80 bucks a year. One yearly membership sponsors the show if we get
00:34:17.480
one yearly membership a show. I love your commentary. I'd love to see you debate again.
00:34:23.560
You know, DM, I was traumatized a little bit. I know women, we use traumatized for everything,
00:34:28.900
but I am a modern woman, so I, you know, it is what it is. But when I've argued with enough crazy
00:34:37.320
people, the lengths they're willing to go is just incredible to me. So, well, you know,
00:34:50.280
there might be some coming soon. I'm not opposed. Elliot says do what, Pearl? Elliot, I'm saying
00:35:01.900
somebody would do her. I don't know who, but it's one of you. Pearl, are you calling out stamps? I call
00:35:09.220
out... Yeah, they said, they said, um, Fernando's capping in the chat. I know, Fernando. I know he is,
00:35:18.300
he is capping. He is. I don't need the cap. You know what we should do? We should do a cap of the
00:35:25.920
year on this channel. Like whoever a woman is that everyone says they wouldn't, but everyone knows
00:35:34.240
they would. Now here's another one is a woman who has remarried and husband adopted her two kids
00:35:42.640
says has a big wedding. So if you've followed me for a bit, you know that I am married again. This
00:35:54.120
is my second marriage. And, um, I came into our marriage with two kids. My husband came in with
00:36:00.780
three, so we have five together. Um, he actually has adopted my kids. So I have two kids and three
00:36:07.560
stepkids and he has five kids. So anyhow, I want to say this. Shout out to Ronald Rodolfo
00:36:18.000
for the 10th to, for the monthly membership on the website. Thank you so much. He says,
00:36:25.400
I don't understand how women want communication, but then tone police, double talk, change word
00:36:30.780
definitions, et cetera. Women just, we like to fight. That's it. They want, they say communicate
00:36:41.460
so we can fight and then be entertained for the day. Guys, if we get seven more memberships
00:36:49.500
this show and there is an app, we are on the app store, so you can download it. Um, and I
00:36:56.460
have some ideas. Maybe I'll go with where I'd like to see the app go. I got to get the
00:37:01.640
memberships to a certain point, but I really have some really good ideas of what I want
00:37:06.140
to put on there. Maybe, maybe I'll, I'll throw them at you later.
00:37:09.740
Third time, whatever your situation is, if you want to have a big blitz of a wedding and party,
00:37:18.100
do it. Um, this might not be your, if you want to see if a girl likes you, if she says she
00:37:25.660
wants to get married, courthouse, let's go to the courthouse. If she hesitates and argues
00:37:33.480
with you, hate to break it to you. The wedding is attention central for women. Remember we get
00:37:41.260
off on attention. So if women want a big wedding, usually they want the wedding, the attention
00:37:48.420
of the wedding. They don't really want the man. The best men really have is to take away
00:37:53.700
more of the things that they get and see if they stick around. First wedding, your first
00:38:00.360
marriage, but it's your first marriage to each other. So why shouldn't you celebrate?
00:38:05.400
Why do we often think like, Oh, well, it's your second marriage or your third, whatever
00:38:11.360
it is that you shouldn't have, that you should only have the big celebration for your, if it's
00:38:16.980
your first marriage. Because when we do that, we immediately downgrade that subsequent marriage
00:38:22.480
and we should be lifting up and celebrating every marriage. So whether you want to elope,
00:38:30.000
just get married, just the two of you or have a big extravaganza, do it because every marriage
00:38:37.600
is one to be celebrated. Start off your marriage knowing that this is huge. It's big. It's important.
00:38:44.740
And it's definitely a lot less important than your first marriage.
00:38:50.800
My opinion is second marriages are less important than your first marriage. Look at first marriage,
00:38:56.380
you at least sort of have a clean track record where we can say they might promise and mean it.
00:39:02.580
Second marriage. I mean, at that point, you already broke your first promise.
00:39:09.000
Why am I supposed to believe your second promise? Like, what does your word mean?
00:39:16.760
Spoiler alert, true Christians don't remarry. So there's no biblical justification for doing so.
00:39:32.340
Woman saying her second marriage is a great thing.
00:39:34.960
Woman saying her second marriage isn't as special the second time around.
00:39:44.840
Wrong-o. Let me tell you why that is absolutely not true for me.
00:39:50.560
I was married from 2014 to the end of 2016, divorced over the course of the end.
00:39:56.980
Look, your second marriage by definition cannot be as special.
00:40:11.620
I know what it means, but sometimes I can't say.
00:40:24.860
Better, greater, otherwise different than usual.
00:40:34.280
Over and over again and divorcing, that's kind of usual.
00:40:43.460
So, in my opinion, the only thing men can get in 2024 is genuine desire from women.
00:40:52.200
And the red pill talks about this because, you know, I have a friend and he's a total player.
00:40:58.700
And his experience is he's the type that as women approach him.
00:41:03.420
But to his surprise, he took a couple women's virginities and he said he couldn't believe how little it meant to them.
00:41:10.780
They were ready to go off into the world and be a whore.
00:41:14.000
And I thought about it and I thought, okay, so if now women...
00:41:18.500
And that kind of matches with what the stats say and, you know, what I've seen in life.
00:41:23.860
Because if women really thought their virginity was something special and marriage was special, they wouldn't leave, right?
00:41:33.220
The only thing I really see that men can get is genuine desire from a woman.
00:41:38.520
So, you know those women that completely destroy their families for, like, one guy?
00:41:55.000
Clearly, a woman that does that's mentally ill.
00:41:57.500
But that's the most unique thing you're going to get.
00:42:01.620
A woman that destroyed her family to be with...
00:42:09.300
You find out she left her whole family to be with you.
00:42:13.160
That's honestly more special than most marriages these days.
00:42:24.440
I'm going to be annoyed because I'm still flushing out that idea.
00:42:53.800
Divorced over the course of the end of 2016-2017.
00:43:00.580
Let me tell you why it was so much more special the second time around.
00:43:08.200
I had gut feelings telling me that it was the wrong thing.
00:43:12.460
Because I listened to all the people around me telling me that it was wedding jitters.
00:43:18.160
The second time around, I was as confident as I've ever been in my entire life.
00:43:23.260
Not only that, but I had the knowledge of all of the things that I did in my first wedding
00:43:27.920
that I knew that I either did or did not want to do again.
00:43:34.640
In my opinion, second marriage is courthouse only.
00:43:49.380
And so on my second wedding day, I was able to be fully present all day.
00:43:53.620
I took the time to stop throughout the day, recognize what was going on around me, and
00:44:00.320
In doing this, I have way more long-term memories of my wedding day the second time around than
00:44:06.440
I also learned that all of the things I regretted from my first wedding were the things that
00:44:15.140
And he and I eloped on the beach with 30 people, the closest 30 people.
00:44:19.980
I did everything the way that we wanted to for us.
00:44:38.020
On Monday, I'm going to make it easier for you guys to search your favorite old show guests.
00:44:45.100
If there's any that you want to search just because they're really funny, I'm going to
00:44:48.520
put tags for each of the like Denalva, all the Denalva videos.
00:44:52.720
Feel free to put them in the comments and I'm going to put tags next Monday or on Monday.
00:45:00.380
I did everything to honor our relationship and our love story.
00:45:05.680
You want to know another reason why it was more special?
00:45:09.460
Our speeches were better because they were genuine and when people were speaking from
00:45:14.360
the heart saying how happy they were, they meant it versus the first time around when
00:45:18.780
my entire family didn't actually agree with the marriage and they gave speeches because
00:45:25.040
Not only that, but I cannot tell you how different it is to walk down an aisle towards your soulmate
00:45:30.860
than it is to walk down the aisle towards someone who isn't right for you.
00:45:34.520
Of course, during my first marriage, I didn't know that.
00:45:37.420
I didn't know I was walking down the aisle to the wrong person and I loved my first wedding.
00:45:41.480
But then there's hindsight and then I learned and then I met my soulmate and felt how different
00:45:47.860
Walking down the aisle to him is worlds different.
00:46:11.120
So maybe if you've been married multiple times, it wasn't as special for you, but it sure
00:46:43.720
The divorce lawyer talking to your new partner.
00:47:00.540
Thank you, Nuff said, for at least being honest.
00:47:17.800
Is it the Hispanics that are like, that are the cap pulling, that are like the kings of
00:47:28.140
Because Fernando and Carlos are the ones saying, no, never.
00:47:42.120
So men tend to over exaggerate how much they get laid.
00:47:48.280
So if I'm looking at stats that says, I think it's 40% of men and you thought no one would
00:48:20.140
Well, while she is talking, there's a guy in the background playing a video game, just
00:48:28.180
I think that's why women get so many TikTok accounts, because the men just want their wives
00:48:35.580
And so what they do is they're like, go play, you'll leave me alone for four hours a day
00:48:49.060
And they're not really on social media, so they're not really looking, right?
00:48:54.320
And their wife is telling all of the family's most intimate secrets on TikTok.
00:49:06.580
Crazy Kyle says, this whole thing sounded so genuine until the ending when she said,
00:49:27.140
OK, attorney warns stepmoms about putting their name on the deed in case their new husband's
00:49:51.660
You know, to get really good insights on what I talk about, I talk to guys that coach men
00:50:02.420
And really, you're not going to get a better insight into what's going on.
00:50:06.420
There's people you can talk to that will give you more information than ever.
00:50:10.620
One is people that live in the front of apartment complexes.
00:50:24.300
So, you know, my old door lady, she would tell me, she would tell me like, oh, that woman
00:50:37.500
Another one to get really good information is men that coach men in dating.
00:50:43.920
Because they deal with men that are married having problems, men that are young and just
00:50:52.080
He gets guys laid within three weeks from virgins.
00:51:00.520
Now, they like, and I ask very specific questions.
00:51:06.180
So I'll ask like, okay, a guy that's getting laid, how many are in its harem on average?
00:51:15.160
I ask very specific questions to figure out the frequency of things and like who they're
00:51:20.740
like, anyways, I'm, I'm, all I'm saying is, yes, I'm going to keep spilling the tea.
00:51:39.160
Thanos says, husband, bedtime is my favorite time of day.
00:51:44.560
Husband, no, it's the only time you go to sleep and stop nagging me.
00:51:49.220
Fizel, as a divorced individual, I want to have kids without getting married again.
00:51:53.700
I'd be happy to paying child support as long as it's 5K.
00:52:02.020
This has just got to be said because I can't take it anymore.
00:52:06.400
Imagine being your second marriage and you've been married for 30 years and y'all have had
00:52:12.860
a loving relationship and you have children from another marriage and he has children from
00:52:20.380
And for God's sake, what happens next is just traumatic.
00:52:24.320
Your husband passed away, but the house that you are living in is in his name and your name
00:52:33.500
was never put on a deed and the children make you leave the house as soon as that funeral
00:52:45.540
It is very important that in your lifetime, if you're in a second marriage and y'all have
00:52:50.520
been together for a long time, you change the deed.
00:52:53.840
Joint tenant with writer survivorship with both names on it.
00:52:57.040
And that way, if something were to happen to him, the house automatically goes to you.
00:53:01.100
If something happens to you, it automatically goes to him.
00:53:03.720
Because I always tell people, the worst comes out of individuals at weddings and deaths.
00:53:24.120
Men actually learn from relationships and they get better every time.
00:53:33.720
As someone who has dated men that come from divorce, despite the stigma attached to people
00:53:40.700
having failed marriages, I can honestly testify to the fact that there are advantages
00:53:47.940
In the few cases that I can recall, there was one in particular where the man was the one
00:53:54.420
And as I've mentioned on my channel before, 69% of divorces are initiated by women.
00:53:59.800
So I was really intrigued to see what made him want to walk away from his marriage.
00:54:04.040
The marriage that he described to me was one where his partner was not very supportive.
00:54:15.480
And they did not have sex as much as he felt they needed to in order to foster that intimacy.
00:54:23.720
But based on what he told me, I really did understand why he felt compelled to walk away
00:54:32.520
In the other instance I can think of, it was the opposite.
00:54:35.980
This couple had been together for a really long time.
00:54:38.320
And she felt like she didn't have her own identity in their marriage.
00:54:45.560
And he was very emotionally and physically unavailable and didn't really make a lot of time
00:54:50.880
for her and to foster their own form of intimacy mentally and physically.
00:54:58.560
And again, it's the same kind of feeling as, you know, the first one where you can understand
00:55:03.140
why someone would feel the need to walk away from something after enduring years and years of that.
00:55:09.780
In both cases, though, I did find both men to be incredibly self-aware, incredibly reflective
00:55:18.080
about how they contributed to the demise of their marriage
00:55:22.880
and things that they wish that their partner did differently.
00:55:27.740
Ultimately, I felt like these men had a perspective that you can really only have
00:55:32.200
if you've gone through a really monumental breakup or, in their cases, a divorce.
00:55:38.700
I think the biggest advantage of being a second wife or of dating someone who comes from a failed marriage
00:55:44.720
is the perspective that they have, is their ability to look back at something and say,
00:55:53.520
For a lot of people, not just men and not just divorcees, but women and people at any stage of their life,
00:55:59.520
there are certain lessons that are learned with time and with retrospect.
00:56:04.560
And there are a lot of things that as we go through, we don't really know what is happening
00:56:10.960
until we've had time to kind of stop and assess everything.
00:56:15.420
For me personally, I don't want to be with a man who is learning lessons that I feel should be very obvious.
00:56:24.880
Because, like, not being physically or emotionally unavailable for me just sounds like absolute hell.
00:56:32.820
And so if this person really did not understand how important that is until his wife ended his marriage,
00:56:41.920
and that is now a lesson that he has, one that I will benefit directly from,
00:56:49.720
I mean, it makes a lot of sense if you think about it, right?
00:56:51.980
Like, think about the first couple people that you dated when you first got into the dating scene.
00:56:56.900
You don't really have the best idea of what you're looking for, what you want, or of who you are.
00:57:12.520
there are so many people that have given me anecdotal stories about the circumstances under which they married.
00:57:25.780
Well, my parents were pushing me to pop the question.
00:57:28.760
It's not uncommon for people to marry because they feel like they have to.
00:57:42.180
especially if he is expressing interest in marrying again,
00:57:47.200
know that he is going to devote so much more of himself to that second marriage than he did the first time around.
00:57:55.740
Because he's experienced the heartbreak of a divorce.
00:58:00.100
Men and women experience heartbreak totally different.
00:58:10.600
even the man that initiated the divorce had his own heartbreak in having to walk away from his marriage.
00:58:18.300
So the chances of him going into something else all willy-nilly
00:58:23.300
and wanting to experience that all over again are slim to none.
00:58:31.940
if you are dating and you come across men that have,
00:58:36.160
a failed marriage or they're coming from a divorce,
00:58:43.240
and try and find out what happened in that relationship that caused it to fail.
00:58:49.260
And if you find that this man is reflective and analytical and open and honest,
00:58:55.280
and more importantly determined to be different in,
00:59:00.000
in the relationship that you are building with him than he was in his marriage,
00:59:04.160
you might want to just hold on tight because he wasn't his marriage wasn't his marriage.
00:59:13.980
You might want to just hold on tight because he's looking for a happy ending too.
00:59:19.280
Right now she's just teaching women how to manipulate their second marriage.
00:59:31.640
if women had to pay for weddings and marriages like men,
00:59:34.340
they would not think about second marriages as so cool and trendy.
00:59:46.600
do you think men should get remarried after they divorce?
00:59:50.940
If you had a friend going through a terrible divorce and said to you,
01:00:39.020
So if you had a friend that went through a terrible,
01:00:52.800
I'm going to go through our rules for calling in one.
01:00:59.920
if you don't want to talk about your personal stories,
01:01:09.660
don't call into the show where we talk about what's going on in society based on people's stories.
01:01:31.020
we're not going to bring you guys up right away.
01:01:33.940
but make sure that's the first thing you say if you don't want to be on camera.
01:01:56.240
what is the personal stories or what's the reason you think that?
01:02:06.020
sometimes people do bring in pretty cool stories.
01:02:28.140
now I wanted to talk about a couple ideas I have for the audacity network.
01:02:39.400
give me a thumbs up when somebody's on the line,
01:02:52.560
So there are people that have been in the red pill for like 10,
01:02:56.480
And it was men coming together to solve their problems.
01:03:00.000
The great thing about RP content is it does have solutions for men.
01:03:05.760
There have been men that created solutions to potentially fix your marriage.
01:03:11.360
if your wife never liked you in the first place,
01:03:28.480
Like there's courses that I found that are really are legit.
01:03:32.400
And I was thinking about getting some sort of group membership.
01:03:42.600
And I know from people that have worked with these guys that are good where you
01:03:49.320
A lot of these courses are like a couple hundred bucks each,
01:03:52.600
but maybe you could pay like 200 bucks and get access to like 10 courses.
01:03:57.740
there's courses on how to like make six figures as a power lineman.
01:04:11.580
but they initially got into this to fix their problems.
01:04:26.500
So I like to take people that are already successful,
01:04:34.580
Do you have time to be worried about learning equipment?
01:04:41.700
I just think there aren't enough smart people on the internet.
01:04:45.760
I think I want to raise the overall IQ of people online.
01:04:54.660
all they do is upload their video into a drive.
01:05:03.500
I was thinking of doing an audacity Academy where we can teach you guys how to do all the stuff.
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Would you recommend a man that's been through a terrible divorce marry again?
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I feel as though it's kind of a green flag for the women,
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because they know that he's been manipulated once before.
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So it just kind of gives them that green flag to do it again.
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And have you seen any men that you were friends with or like new marry twice?
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actually a coworker I'm working with at the moment.
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And that was kind of the reason that they decided to get married again.
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what he's telling me is basically the conversation today was,
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is she's taking a trip to Disneyland with a female friend of hers.
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he's just kind of going off about how he feels as though he's just getting,
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And he kind of like what you were talking about before he felt obligated.
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So I'm not sure where that expectation came from or why that preyed so heavily on him.
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it seems to just be worse the second time around.
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they just expect men to just throw themselves on the,
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A lot of people think I'm hating on religion when I say that Christians are,
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And I know this because I've talked to OnlyFans models about this.
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because again they use men's sense of morality against them.
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If you have sex or have a kid outside of marriage,
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even if the state is putting a gun to your head,
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me and my friend are trying to make a podcast called Father's Day.
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sometimes we're going to talk about ex-girlfriends.
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I do for the outsourcing of the clips and like that and the YouTube outsourcing.
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I don't have the capacity to take on like 10 clients.
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we only have the capacity for maybe four or five.
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I don't know enough Buddhist men to look at generalities from it.
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Should men that have gone through a bad divorce remarry?
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When it comes down to just diving deep into the details and figuring out
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And so they just continue to move in the same destructive manner
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as we had a conversation last time I was on about just even in Asia,
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I want to do whatever I want to do when I want to do it.
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I didn't even recognize you with the hat on and the glasses this time.
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you're the one that was dating in Japan and like Asia.
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So have you seen anyone go through a second marriage and how did it
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of course they say they learn things and it will change,
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And then of course they have a completely different timetable about the
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And then you go into the second one and the other person could not be
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Or maybe they just decided to change their mind.
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I don't think people would want to get married that much.
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I don't understand why people don't just live together.
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why would you take an extra layer of insecurity?
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like an extra way the state can F you when you can have the same exact
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I have friends that are common law married and they did a ceremony.
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It was working longer when they were just a couple than it was when
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we were together eight years and then it's like,
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And then y'all got married for three and y'all were divorced.
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but I just think it changes the power dynamics.
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I will call the cops and they will let you know real quick.
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The only power you men have is not getting married.
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the Christians will come in and say they're immoral for using.
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like that gives him power because then he has options.
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if one woman takes away his supply of sex with marriage,
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And then the Christians say you're a bad person for doing it.
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like people just won't acknowledge it and just cast you as a weirdo or incel.
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because even the girls who are Christian don't prefer that.
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they use the moral argument and they act like they stand on morality with that
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But definitely you're leading people astray with that type of advice.
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some of them are just waiting to get it over with.
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Cause guys don't think they're like immune if they find like a virgin homeschooled girl.
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I've literally met those that are on only fans.
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with my girl and we're walking down the street and some older Thai ladies looking like,
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I didn't live in a time with GI soldiers and Americanos coming through.
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Like that would be the most common thing I'd hear from women from more traditional
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countries is that their moms told them to go be whores essentially.
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If that woman gets in the wrong friend group at school,
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But you got to worry about your wife telling her these things.
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it's going to be that type of stuff going on in the background.
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I think that the final stage of red pill is when guys realize they have no
01:18:51.900
Because he just like shows you like there's life after this guys.
01:18:56.120
But I talk to guys and guys talk to me and it's like doomsday,
01:19:00.160
If they don't get what they thought it was supposed to be,
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at least you're winning on YouTube and go sign up for the audacity.
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I'm not going to make it into a false equivalency.
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there are women that were good wives to a man who changed his mind and said,
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I don't necessarily want to say for or against what,
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I think ultimately you should find who you can have a good,
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you should be able to have peace and happiness and forgiveness.
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those are things you're going to have regardless things that can't be taken
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and I've been in positions where I've essentially lost nearly everything.
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retired active duty military with more than two decades,
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it doesn't really matter how long you're here on this planet.
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the eternity exists before you get here and the eternity after you're
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And so invariably everybody's got difficulties in life,
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you're not going to be taking much with you anyhow.
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the whole planet could do with a lot more love and forgiveness.
01:23:03.580
I don't really have all the answers for everything.
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what made you get married the second time and why was it different?
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So what made me get married the second time is I truly felt,
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you can't try to make it work because it won't.
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And so that's essentially what I did my best to do.
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I hope I answered that question or your question.
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I'm assuming the first wife went for more of your assets.
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Are you still on child support or like alimony from the first one?
01:24:58.900
it's just been very difficult just to maintain contact with my children.
01:25:04.640
I've told them many times actually that I love them more than anybody else on the planet.
01:25:09.460
having daily communication with them has been very difficult.
01:25:23.320
2023 was a very trying time for me just to be able to maintain daily contact.
01:25:30.660
there's going to be two or three days a week that you're not going to be able to talk to your kids.
01:25:35.520
I talked to them and they're just going to be too busy just scheduling me out of their lives.
01:25:39.300
And I essentially tried to reason with it and said,
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Surely there's at least one minute in a day where I can talk to our children.
01:26:02.860
But I pressed on hard to try and maintain my daily contact with my children.
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I was actually arrested and incarcerated for a small period of time,
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over a thousand miles round trip every week to another state to show that,
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the attorney represent the district attorney saying like,
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let's believe that he'll secure a weapon and seek vengeance.
01:27:06.380
court has been going on and I haven't been to trial yet.
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So it's been rescheduled once I had to get a different attorney.
01:27:42.740
And so now I'm being taken at criminal court and family court at the same time.
01:27:55.080
I couldn't pay child support how I had been doing.
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I had to record the conversation at Wells Fargo.
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we couldn't even take your money if you came and got it.
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why don't I just go ahead and pay that one too?
01:28:58.280
So I've had paid like eight months of child support or something like that
01:29:02.440
because I was blocked from doing it because of the no contact what I have to my
01:29:27.380
I haven't talked to my children close to two years and we're going on two years.
01:29:35.520
And many times when people ask if there's anything they can do,
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pray for my children and the mother of my children,
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because I don't believe I'm going to see them again in this life.
01:30:06.020
if the military believed that I was actually guilty,
01:30:08.220
there was no way that the military would have been okay with me getting out of an
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And I wouldn't have had a Colonel bail me out of the incarceration facility in
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the state and finish out my last eight months where I could get my
01:30:23.760
I was in the federal service in the military for 241 months.
01:30:29.280
There wasn't one of those months where I was ever punished for any crime.
01:30:32.280
And there's a much lower burden of proof for the military when it comes to
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So I just don't understand that it's like this,
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I don't admit to crimes I've never committed under any circumstance.
01:30:47.700
two felony counts of custody beyond visitation with intent to withhold.
01:30:58.540
Cause let's just say I was stupid enough to go ahead and admit guilt to a
01:31:09.760
they can't do that because that would have committed a crime.
01:31:13.840
it was two counts of custody on visitation with intent to withhold,
01:31:16.340
but never withhold them from the mother as can be shown just to believe that I
01:31:26.300
Cause there was like a half dozen officers that came to where I was at,
01:31:35.260
I'm going to get shot with a shot right here in front of my children.
01:31:43.800
it's all just a ruse to maintain power control and authority in which I have
01:31:48.720
So if I pled guilty to these crimes that I had not,
01:31:52.660
then I would just be tried by the federal government because due to my service,
01:31:58.720
I will be subject to the uniform code of military justice for the rest of my
01:32:04.820
And then I'll go to a federal incarceration facility for the federal government for
01:32:08.740
admitting to a crime that I never committed and never would commit.
01:32:15.060
Are the benefits in a state so powerful and amazing that they just,
01:32:18.320
they're better than anything I could ever provide as a father.
01:32:24.060
I suppose my retirement pay will have to be retroactively canceled because,
01:32:29.980
the federal government shouldn't be in the practice of providing retirements to
01:32:37.220
but here it's going on two years and I'm just waiting to see what happens.
01:32:41.920
your ex-wife said that you were withholding the kids essentially.
01:32:51.040
filed by the district attorney was two counts of felony,
01:32:54.980
custody beyond visitation with intent withhold.
01:33:02.800
the other laughable thing I don't get is that what's been submitted for
01:33:05.540
evidence was a court order that was thrown out,
01:33:18.500
that's what was submitted to the district attorney.
01:33:23.440
not done any research to find out that this is a fraudulent document.
01:33:31.580
How is this in the best instance of children either?
01:34:16.360
it's a laughable situation is what I think about my mind.
01:34:30.520
I'm not going to take a plea deal because again,
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I don't admit to crimes that I had never would ever commit.
01:34:45.400
a liar that can't be trusted in a net loss grant in society,
01:34:50.560
I was a federal officer with a career spanning more than two decades,
01:35:00.980
did you have kids in your second marriage or no,
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And she didn't go for any of your assets or anything.
01:35:20.560
if I had any inkling that it would have been anything like the first marriage,
01:35:33.820
it would only be for the fact that had children.
01:35:36.740
the last time I even remember speaking with my children,
01:35:39.520
I know I'd even talk to my children about it before.
01:35:46.960
I think I did say to remarry and have children.
01:35:53.420
And if necessary out of the continent of the United States or not in the
01:35:58.920
what bearing does a court in a state that my children were taken to
01:36:02.320
without approval of a court and without my approval,
01:36:04.380
because I had shared legal custody at the time.
01:36:06.800
if I take the children to another state and move them there without
01:36:09.540
petitioning the court and without the approval of the other parent,
01:36:17.900
it wouldn't even be that someone would just contact the military and be
01:36:31.460
so nothing I say or do really seems to make any effects.
01:36:37.320
I just have to accept what's happening and just be okay with it.
01:36:40.700
And the way I even told myself before any of this went down,
01:36:44.080
I just had a sneaking suspicion things were going to get bad this year.
01:36:59.260
He could send a receipt of one letter every six months and could have one
01:37:17.700
she's got a master's degree in social therapy with a license to practice
01:37:21.080
I'd say she's pretty well aware of what she's doing.
01:37:24.100
I just meant usually the kids kind of start to wake up around 14,
01:37:44.200
I believe they're well aware of what's going on.
01:37:58.560
I have had daily contact with them for years and now it's going on two
01:38:04.600
and I shouldn't expect to contact them before they're emancipated because
01:38:07.820
I'm dealing with a state that flat out believes everything,
01:38:17.000
victims are to be heard in their cases referred to trial.
01:38:22.980
you're expected to be heard in your case referred to trial and there's
01:38:28.860
I really would recommend contacting Terrence pop.
01:38:53.760
and he teaches guys how to use the justice system,
01:40:03.920
I try to get the best resources where I've gotten positive feedback from the people.
01:40:31.880
please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel and go to the audacity network.com.
01:40:39.480
I wanted to add in one more thing before I end of my ideas for the website.
01:40:44.820
I want to add in the most practical resources for men when it comes to improving their money,
01:41:01.240
strike some sort of partnership with other content creators where I can put them all in one place for you guys.
01:41:19.500
over the years I get feedback from guys where they say that course wasn't worth the money.
01:41:38.500
And it's something I could develop in the website,
01:41:47.960
I'm not going to go through all this work to build this part of the site just to have you guys not do it.