JustPearlyThings - August 16, 2023


Why Men Watch Pr0n


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8 minutes

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227.7499

Word count

1,996

Sentence count

226

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Hate speech

16

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On this episode of the podcast, the guys discuss the difference between a high value woman and a low value woman. They also discuss why a woman of high value is better than a woman who is not high value.

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00:00:00.000 Women of today's market know that the thing of women shouldn't vote. 1.00
00:00:04.900 Our whole system is rigged to fucking begin with anyway.
00:00:08.320 And any woman of value is going to go, it doesn't even matter anyway. 1.00
00:00:12.620 What's a woman of value? 1.00
00:00:14.540 A woman of value knows... 0.98
00:00:17.180 Carries one of these, right?
00:00:18.220 Virgin.
00:00:20.020 That's a high quality woman. 1.00
00:00:22.640 I'd say high value is a virgin.
00:00:25.000 Everyone else may be somewhere a medium value.
00:00:26.940 But there's no such thing as a high valued woman. 1.00
00:00:28.620 Well, I think nowadays a 22 year old virgin...
00:00:33.060 Well, that's a quality woman. 1.00
00:00:34.280 I think it's an energy that you give off.
00:00:36.440 I think if you value yourself, and you're probably going to go,
00:00:41.020 oh, here she goes again saying as she gets older, she gets more beautiful. 0.97
00:00:45.280 And that's bullshit.
00:00:46.380 But if you have an energy about you, and you present yourself to the world,
00:00:53.340 like I am a high value woman, not in a fake way.
00:00:57.280 What if you're 300 pounds?
00:00:58.660 And you have less energy about you?
00:00:59.860 Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.
00:01:00.940 I don't think that you will have that energy about you,
00:01:03.300 because you are 300 pounds.
00:01:04.980 Why are they 300 pounds?
00:01:06.280 That's the question.
00:01:07.180 Why are we deciding so many?
00:01:08.820 I have that energy because I am in better shape than I was when I was 24.
00:01:13.900 So I have that energy about me at 37,
00:01:16.440 because I'm in better shape than I was in 24.
00:01:18.060 Do you consider yourself like the top 10, 20% of women?
00:01:22.560 I would say the top 30.
00:01:25.860 Okay, top 30.
00:01:26.920 Because when I think of like high, I mean, we could say quality women,
00:01:29.660 high value women, whatever. 0.99
00:01:30.300 And I don't even like even doing that.
00:01:33.000 But some women are better than others, right? 1.00
00:01:35.100 Yeah.
00:01:35.300 But I think a lot of that has to do with my intellect, too.
00:01:38.680 But that's not your looks.
00:01:40.540 Yeah, but guys don't care. 0.96
00:01:41.560 They don't care about intellect.
00:01:43.700 I think they don't care.
00:01:44.280 And there's a rule in the exception, right?
00:01:46.300 So the looks, and this is what...
00:01:47.540 Yeah.
00:01:47.680 Well, I saw you respond to that post, and I get it.
00:01:49.980 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:50.300 When I said feelings, it's like if I ask a woman how she rates herself, 0.89
00:01:54.180 it's like, well, I...
00:01:54.500 And I didn't even write myself out.
00:01:55.460 No, no, no, no, I know.
00:01:56.400 But I feel I'm an 8 or a 9 or a 10.
00:01:59.660 Which I didn't.
00:02:00.440 Because this or that.
00:02:01.360 And it's like, no, your looks.
00:02:02.720 Just your looks.
00:02:03.420 Yeah.
00:02:03.980 And then they start giving you this long answer.
00:02:05.640 I didn't give you a long answer.
00:02:07.160 I'm not talking about you.
00:02:07.980 The group of girls are...
00:02:08.940 Or I didn't give myself an 8 or 9 or 10.
00:02:11.660 Or in the top 25, 30%.
00:02:14.580 That's like 7.
00:02:15.160 I didn't even do that.
00:02:16.160 All I'm saying is I gained knowledge as I got older,
00:02:20.000 and that benefited my relationship.
00:02:22.180 No, guys, I just want you dumber.
00:02:23.220 They love you dumb.
00:02:24.640 It's like, no, I'm serious.
00:02:26.380 I'm serious.
00:02:26.860 They...
00:02:27.220 Like, think about this.
00:02:28.260 I want a girl that knows a lot.
00:02:29.900 I just...
00:02:30.620 I don't think that I would have thought that if I was dumb.
00:02:34.920 If I meet a girl who knows a lot, I'm like,
00:02:37.020 fuck you, red flag, man. 0.99
00:02:38.100 I just like, scratch that one.
00:02:39.140 Scratch that one off.
00:02:40.200 Well, my thing is...
00:02:40.880 Yeah, but would you be...
00:02:42.060 Would long term...
00:02:43.600 What's long term?
00:02:44.660 Exactly.
00:02:46.560 That's where men think.
00:02:48.280 That's what men think.
00:02:49.600 Exactly.
00:02:50.140 Go ahead, Lana.
00:02:50.540 What were we going to say, Lana?
00:02:51.340 Yeah.
00:02:51.560 You want somebody dumb for the short term? 0.98
00:02:53.240 Well, because I'm saying you think you're smarter,
00:02:57.260 or you think you're wiser as the time has gone on.
00:03:01.120 Oh, yes.
00:03:01.500 As you've gotten older, you think you're worth it.
00:03:04.800 Guys aren't going to think...
00:03:06.180 Like, why would a guy think you're worth it?
00:03:08.780 Without your opinion.
00:03:10.080 But that's an exception.
00:03:11.000 Without your opinion.
00:03:12.160 Because your opinion of yourself is one thing,
00:03:14.820 a guy's opinion of someone else.
00:03:16.800 So clearly something is working.
00:03:19.000 Look at the ring as well.
00:03:20.440 No, but...
00:03:21.440 But that's also subjective to each individual man.
00:03:25.280 They all have things that they value differently.
00:03:26.540 My thing is that's subjective in a sense
00:03:28.160 where divorce rates are still high.
00:03:30.020 Of course.
00:03:30.640 So, Troy, I got a question.
00:03:31.840 Of course.
00:03:32.620 When you're coaching men that are...
00:03:34.180 Oh, go ahead.
00:03:34.800 Oh, and I was going to say,
00:03:35.520 over the age of 35,
00:03:36.660 you only have like a 15% chance
00:03:38.580 of getting down the aisle.
00:03:40.160 Yeah.
00:03:40.280 So, like, you could be the exception,
00:03:42.080 but you're not the rule.
00:03:43.340 I totally understand that.
00:03:45.440 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:45.860 And I agree with that.
00:03:47.260 So, Troy, when you're coaching
00:03:48.300 and mentoring these guys and dating,
00:03:50.460 do you run into this a lot
00:03:51.860 with these guys looking for these pretty women
00:03:53.880 and the challenges they're having
00:03:55.120 and what they're running into?
00:03:56.240 Because what I'm seeing now...
00:03:57.540 No, no.
00:03:58.180 What I'm seeing now
00:03:59.160 is the scale is adjusted with time.
00:04:01.540 Now, because of all the attention
00:04:03.140 from the social media
00:04:04.480 that we're seeing, right?
00:04:05.920 The female attention necessity disorder, 0.98
00:04:07.700 that coin phrase, right?
00:04:09.120 That none of the psychologists will take.
00:04:11.660 But all the attention they're getting,
00:04:13.240 they're so used to attention.
00:04:14.420 When the pandemic hit,
00:04:15.820 everybody had these mental disorders 0.68
00:04:17.380 because they weren't getting
00:04:18.040 the attention outside.
00:04:19.480 So, they got them online.
00:04:20.440 Exactly.
00:04:20.660 And I'm an 8, I'm a 10, I'm a 10.
00:04:22.800 Yeah.
00:04:23.000 And then they don't date anybody
00:04:24.140 because there's only a few percentage
00:04:26.000 of guys that have that ability.
00:04:27.220 I think there's a few things.
00:04:28.440 I think, yeah, overall,
00:04:29.580 I think it's become tougher.
00:04:31.460 I think it's become flakier.
00:04:32.920 You know, even if you're talking
00:04:33.700 to a girl on a dating app
00:04:35.040 or you meet her in the coffee shop
00:04:36.480 or whatever,
00:04:37.120 then, yeah, you know,
00:04:38.480 is she definitely going to come out
00:04:39.700 and meet you?
00:04:40.140 Or maybe she, you know,
00:04:41.200 the next bright, shiny object
00:04:42.420 comes along.
00:04:43.440 But, on the other hand,
00:04:44.880 these girls still want to meet people. 1.00
00:04:46.140 They still want to get laid. 1.00
00:04:47.140 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:47.600 I think it also gets a little...
00:04:48.820 Hell yeah.
00:04:48.920 I think it'll...
00:04:49.560 Hell yeah.
00:04:51.260 I think it gets a little bit
00:04:52.560 overstated as well.
00:04:53.860 I mean, you can still go out there
00:04:54.740 and make things happen.
00:04:55.740 But, equally,
00:04:57.320 there's a lot of distractions
00:04:58.120 for these women.
00:04:58.860 And, you know,
00:04:59.280 there is an element
00:05:00.160 of this stuff happening, for sure.
00:05:01.580 You know, if she's getting hit up
00:05:02.460 by, you know,
00:05:03.580 the bloke with the yacht in Miami...
00:05:06.160 The bloke.
00:05:06.900 The gazer with the yacht in Miami.
00:05:08.540 The gazer with the yacht.
00:05:10.200 Well, and she's, you know,
00:05:11.540 that's going to color her sense 0.99
00:05:12.920 of her own value, isn't it?
00:05:14.220 Well, and I realized, too,
00:05:15.440 that, like, we're basically, like,
00:05:17.280 men addicted to porn,
00:05:18.640 all of us with social media.
00:05:19.940 I'm addicted to porn.
00:05:20.420 Hey, that is a big deal right there,
00:05:23.040 what you just touched on.
00:05:23.720 The porn thing.
00:05:24.380 Yeah.
00:05:25.020 No, but I'm saying, like,
00:05:26.340 I'm saying, like,
00:05:27.420 women are basically 1.00
00:05:28.880 also addicted to social media.
00:05:30.760 It's, like, the equivalent
00:05:31.400 one of a guy addicted to porn.
00:05:33.140 And I know this
00:05:33.700 because it's, like...
00:05:34.460 And I see the propaganda
00:05:35.680 working firsthand
00:05:36.820 because I, like,
00:05:37.200 talk to girls on my show
00:05:38.420 and it's, like,
00:05:39.220 they all say the same thing.
00:05:40.200 They don't even know
00:05:40.500 what they're saying.
00:05:41.100 Yeah.
00:05:41.620 Like, even, like,
00:05:43.460 when I think of horoscopes,
00:05:44.640 it's, like, what are we...
00:05:45.200 Why are we talking about horoscopes?
00:05:45.840 It's funny, too,
00:05:46.600 because I found myself
00:05:48.040 desensitized to Instagram.
00:05:51.380 When Instagram first came out,
00:05:52.720 it was, like,
00:05:53.440 way back in 07 or something
00:05:55.000 or 05,
00:05:55.680 and it was, like,
00:05:56.320 a few pictures,
00:05:57.040 09, I think it was.
00:05:57.940 I remember seeing,
00:05:58.520 I posted a picture
00:05:59.400 and now it became
00:06:00.620 this reel thing,
00:06:01.520 but I remember
00:06:02.300 when the reels kicked off,
00:06:03.800 you'd go to your search bar.
00:06:05.340 If you go to all your search bars,
00:06:06.680 you're like,
00:06:07.740 whoa, look at this chick, 1.00
00:06:09.060 look at this chick. 1.00
00:06:09.560 Now I see it,
00:06:10.200 I'm like, oh, my God.
00:06:11.260 You're so desensitized to it.
00:06:12.920 Yeah.
00:06:13.100 Whereas in 10 years ago,
00:06:14.700 you'd have been
00:06:15.260 popping a party
00:06:16.460 in two seconds to it, right?
00:06:18.640 Yeah.
00:06:19.260 But we...
00:06:20.520 It's all done on purpose, though,
00:06:22.520 and that's to depopulate us.
00:06:23.800 With all due respect, though,
00:06:24.720 we're taking...
00:06:25.200 It's to depopulate us.
00:06:26.500 There's a depopulation agenda
00:06:28.100 happening,
00:06:28.920 and they do not want people
00:06:30.920 procreating with one another.
00:06:32.400 That was the abortions. 0.99
00:06:34.360 That's part of what
00:06:35.140 the abortion industry is.
00:06:36.000 Go ahead.
00:06:36.580 Go ahead.
00:06:36.920 That has to do with social media.
00:06:38.160 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:06:39.020 We're also 10 years older, though.
00:06:40.520 We're also 10...
00:06:41.080 Because they want...
00:06:42.020 We're also 10 years older, though.
00:06:42.260 They're going to want
00:06:42.680 the AI girls soon.
00:06:44.320 The tits are going to be 1.00
00:06:45.560 so good,
00:06:46.280 and that waist is going 1.00
00:06:47.840 to be so small
00:06:48.880 that they're not going
00:06:50.320 to want real women.
00:06:51.600 Okay, hold on, hold on.
00:06:52.220 Oh, my God.
00:06:52.980 You don't think men 0.94
00:06:54.220 are going to take pussy? 1.00
00:06:56.120 Yes.
00:06:56.500 Like, come on.
00:06:58.260 Yeah.
00:06:58.560 Like, they're going to go under...
00:07:00.040 No, no.
00:07:00.620 No, they're still stuck
00:07:01.300 with the porn thing.
00:07:02.020 That's what's going
00:07:02.380 to end right there.
00:07:02.800 No, no, no, but I'm saying
00:07:03.660 they do that as a response
00:07:05.340 because sex is a need 0.57
00:07:06.560 and our standards
00:07:07.380 go higher and higher and higher.
00:07:07.840 The number one online girl
00:07:09.300 right now that's making a horse
00:07:10.780 is an AI girl created.
00:07:12.300 Thank you.
00:07:12.700 Which is crazy, right?
00:07:13.800 Thank you.
00:07:14.060 But they will want that,
00:07:15.520 but they're also going
00:07:15.980 to probably take robots.
00:07:17.060 But my whole thing is,
00:07:18.240 like, they're doing that
00:07:19.040 because women have 1.00
00:07:20.000 these crazy high standards.
00:07:21.420 But that's all an agenda.
00:07:23.520 But I understand
00:07:24.260 it's an agenda,
00:07:25.100 but I don't...
00:07:25.820 I think, like,
00:07:26.740 we're disagreeing
00:07:27.680 on, like, how it started.
00:07:28.860 Like, I'm saying
00:07:29.340 women have these high standards. 1.00
00:07:30.620 The men are sexless,
00:07:31.400 so they go to porn.
00:07:32.340 It's a response to us.
00:07:33.620 Real quick, David,
00:07:34.300 what would you do
00:07:34.960 if you were single right now?
00:07:36.500 Single right now?
00:07:37.160 I'd focus solely
00:07:38.320 on becoming
00:07:38.640 the best version of yourself.
00:07:40.000 This is what I do
00:07:40.560 in my life.
00:07:41.480 So I'm an affiliate marketer,
00:07:42.600 but my main thing
00:07:43.400 I'm doing now
00:07:43.900 is I'm a life coach.
00:07:45.120 I get guys' discipline
00:07:46.040 with their mind,
00:07:47.080 body, and spirit.
00:07:48.360 Specifically,
00:07:48.920 like, my biggest vice
00:07:49.660 as this whole topic
00:07:50.960 was porn.
00:07:51.700 That was, like,
00:07:52.100 the one thing in my life.
00:07:52.980 I was married
00:07:53.580 and watching porn.
00:07:54.720 Wife didn't even know about it, 1.00
00:07:55.800 and there was a disconnect
00:07:56.500 in a relationship.
00:07:57.740 I stopped a year ago.
00:07:58.660 Oh.
00:07:59.100 Correct, right.
00:07:59.580 I stopped a year ago,
00:08:00.660 and I waited
00:08:01.500 three, four months
00:08:02.180 before I started coaching anybody
00:08:03.260 until I could feel myself.
00:08:04.760 Yeah.
00:08:05.100 I told my wife that,
00:08:05.900 and she said,
00:08:06.600 that's why we...
00:08:07.700 That's why...
00:08:08.120 I thought you didn't think
00:08:08.840 I was attractive.
00:08:09.840 No, she's bomb. 1.00
00:08:10.780 She's bomb as fuck, bro.
00:08:11.560 The problem was
00:08:12.220 I was desensitized,
00:08:13.360 like you said.
00:08:14.000 I saw her.
00:08:14.080 I didn't think it was bad.
00:08:15.680 I would always use it
00:08:16.220 as a crutch,
00:08:16.780 just like,
00:08:17.220 oh, I'm so busy
00:08:17.960 with business,
00:08:18.600 with work.
00:08:19.180 I'd just go, like,
00:08:19.740 rub one off,
00:08:20.220 don't even think about it.
00:08:21.100 And then I saw, like,
00:08:21.940 how messed up it was.
00:08:23.080 I was, like,
00:08:23.480 withholding in a weird way.
00:08:24.580 I was talking to Glenn
00:08:25.220 about it yesterday.
00:08:25.900 I was like,
00:08:26.420 I used it as, like,
00:08:27.020 a withholding method.
00:08:27.800 I didn't even realize it.
00:08:28.760 Yeah.
00:08:28.960 And as soon as I stopped,
00:08:30.100 officially,
00:08:30.780 like, I can walk into a room,
00:08:31.840 like, in Vegas.
00:08:32.420 I don't get swayed at all.
00:08:33.820 I feel like I'm in a certain...
00:08:35.380 It's crazy.
00:08:36.020 Certain realm of that.
00:08:36.760 It's so crazy
00:08:37.840 how you walk down
00:08:38.800 the street here.
00:08:39.400 I was like,
00:08:39.820 they're allowed
00:08:40.340 to just have their boobs out. 1.00
00:08:41.720 I don't even...
00:08:42.480 I don't even pay attention.
00:08:43.720 It's a freaking...
00:08:44.300 It's weird.
00:08:44.500 Well, we were waiting
00:08:45.060 for you to do that.