JustPearlyThings - June 29, 2023


Why Modern Women Are Miserable

Topics
basic life skills
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
XYZ Neuralink Andrew Tate Uber Eats Elon Musk Blessing Denalva Bitcoin Poke King John Dude
Pearl's CRAZIEST First Date EVER Pearl Pulls The Delusional Calculator On THEM

Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

210.85

Word count

2,399

Sentence count

251

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

sentences flagged

Toxicity

34

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how to turn your life around when you re 33 years old, how to lose weight, and how to become a better version of yourself. We also talk about the importance of being honest with yourself and taking accountability for your actions.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And I just hate that we, I just hate that they lie.
00:00:02.600 I don't even care if that's what they want to do.
00:00:04.880 But even like Denalva on the show yesterday, I'm like, stop lying to the next generation of women. 0.99
00:00:09.680 Like, it's not, it's not cute.
00:00:11.320 It's not fun.
00:00:11.960 And we all see it.
00:00:13.000 We all see what you're doing.
00:00:15.720 Cause I just think it's an ego investment.
00:00:17.680 Like you're, it, it takes a real strong person to be like, you know what?
00:00:22.840 I was wrong.
00:00:23.760 Yeah.
00:00:24.600 It takes a real strong person.
00:00:26.240 And I think people are weaker now more than ever, you know, but this, to look in the
00:00:29.980 mirror, because like when I turned my entire life around, I was 33.
00:00:34.100 It just turned over to 2019.
00:00:37.360 Everybody was, you know, busted fireworks and eating food, having a good time.
00:00:41.460 And I had a conversation with myself. 1.00
00:00:43.840 I was like, dude, you are a 33 year old loser English teacher who's talked all this shit. 1.00
00:00:50.700 You're an English teacher? 1.00
00:00:51.660 Oh, I didn't know that.
00:00:52.600 In Japan.
00:00:53.340 I was at the time.
00:00:54.020 Oh, no way.
00:00:54.240 Okay. 0.99
00:00:55.140 And I was like, you're a 33 year old loser English teacher. 1.00
00:00:58.240 And you talked all this shit. 1.00
00:00:59.540 You're going to do all this fucking great things in YouTube and you have put in a fraction 1.00
00:01:03.620 of the effort necessary to do it. 0.99
00:01:05.720 And if you don't turn this around, this is your life. 0.99
00:01:08.780 You will be a 34 year old English loser teacher. 0.99
00:01:11.280 You will be a 35 year old loser English teacher. 0.99
00:01:13.680 You'll be 36 year old loser English teacher. 1.00
00:01:15.380 So you better turn this fucking franchise around. 1.00
00:01:17.360 And that's when I bought, like, I had like a little bit of Bitcoin left over and I bought 0.99
00:01:23.520 a computer.
00:01:24.280 I bought, cause you can buy stuff with Bitcoin in Japan.
00:01:26.680 And so I bought a computer.
00:01:28.540 I bought a laptop. 0.99
00:01:29.220 I bought a fucking microphone and a HD, uh, camera and started live streaming. 0.99
00:01:38.740 And then I turned my entire life around, you know, that was, that was the beginning of 0.99
00:01:44.040 like, you know, multi-million dollar earning company.
00:01:47.240 And, um, but it all started with me being extremely real with myself, being, being honest about
00:01:55.300 the reality of where I was, you know?
00:01:59.120 And I think a lot of people right now, they don't, I guess I going back to what I was saying
00:02:02.480 earlier, a lot of people just don't take accountability.
00:02:04.320 A lot of people are just like, no, I'm great.
00:02:06.060 I'm the best.
00:02:06.700 Like I, I'm, they, they, they, they lie to themselves.
00:02:11.220 Their friends lie to them.
00:02:12.960 You know, I mean, how many girls stay single because all their girlfriends lie to them? 0.99
00:02:16.960 Like, oh, it's never your fault, girls.
00:02:18.920 You know, you just, you gotta find the right guy.
00:02:20.780 You know, when I, when I finished, um, playing sports in college, um, I gained weight really
00:02:25.600 fast because I, I just, I was so used to, like, imagine I'd been, I'd been working out
00:02:31.600 for four hours a day for, I was, uh, I don't know, 22 when I grew up.
00:02:36.700 I graduated college.
00:02:38.020 So, or the master's thing.
00:02:40.560 So since I was 12, so for 10 years, I didn't really have to eat very good.
00:02:45.640 You know, who, who, who needs to, and you're burning thousands.
00:02:48.560 Like I would do a two hour volleyball and two hour basketball practice.
00:02:51.680 That is so much cardio.
00:02:52.780 A lot of calories.
00:02:53.400 Yeah.
00:02:53.620 Yeah.
00:02:53.960 And so I finished it.
00:02:55.920 I just ate like the, like normal, right.
00:02:59.000 And I got a job.
00:03:00.120 And then what happens is a lot of us get really fat after because we just have no nutrition skills.
00:03:06.200 And it was funny because I was at work and all the guys were like making fun of, like
00:03:13.600 they would never, they didn't know I was at the time, but I was over like 200 pounds.
00:03:17.840 I was like 210 and I was, it was bad.
00:03:20.500 I gained it so fast too.
00:03:21.920 I wasn't that big for that long, but I didn't look that big because I'm so tall.
00:03:25.660 Right.
00:03:25.940 Right.
00:03:26.060 So, but they were saying, I would never date a girl over 200.
00:03:28.880 And that, that was like the most, I remember I'd weighed myself that morning and that was,
00:03:33.560 that was like, and I just like, I didn't know I'd gain that much weight.
00:03:36.360 And have you ever like weighed yourself after?
00:03:38.300 And you're like, you're like, you can't even believe you're that heavy.
00:03:41.700 And so I was just like, no.
00:03:43.760 And I ended up like, I ended up losing a bunch of weight because of it.
00:03:46.680 Um, and I'm glad that that was like a wake up call.
00:03:51.080 I'm glad there may, I mean, it wasn't me.
00:03:52.640 They didn't know it was me, but like, I'm glad I had that wake up call.
00:03:56.860 And a lot of people would get on the scale and they'd be like, nah, the scale is broken.
00:04:02.300 I'd be like, oh, it's a bad angle in the mirror, you know?
00:04:05.040 But again, taking accountability, taking responsibility and just trying to do better,
00:04:11.060 living a life of self-improvement.
00:04:13.220 I think it's just the answer for everybody.
00:04:14.760 Cause again, like I told you yesterday, like, I don't feel like the earth is overpopulated.
00:04:21.100 I feel like the earth is undereducated and I don't know if this is true, but I think it 0.98
00:04:28.040 is, but I feel like people are getting dumber. 0.99
00:04:31.740 Oh yeah. 0.99
00:04:32.300 We have a whole generation of people that don't know how to do things.
00:04:35.200 I mean, like our great grandmothers, they knew how to sew, they knew how to cook all these
00:04:39.060 meals from scratch.
00:04:40.160 And even on the guy's side, like what percent of guys know how to build a house?
00:04:43.240 Right.
00:04:43.540 Our great grandfathers like literally built their houses.
00:04:46.320 Like, and I mean, we have different skills, right?
00:04:49.700 Like internet skills, but it's just interesting because there's a whole generation of people
00:04:53.800 that don't have like basic life skills.
00:04:56.020 Yeah.
00:04:56.240 Well, I mean, think about how many people have become dependent on these apps to live.
00:05:02.760 Yeah.
00:05:03.620 I mean, even me, like Uber Eats and all that stuff.
00:05:05.820 No, even me growing up, I didn't cook.
00:05:08.200 When was I going to cook?
00:05:09.760 I went to practice four out, like, you know what I mean?
00:05:12.160 So you get out of school at, I don't know, two, you wait an hour for practice to start.
00:05:16.820 You do a two hour practice and you drive an hour, do your other two hour practice.
00:05:20.480 It's like 1030 at night.
00:05:22.520 By the time I get home, when was I going to cook?
00:05:24.860 I didn't have any, I didn't have any time.
00:05:27.120 And so, um, I, I, do you know how to cook now?
00:05:30.580 Yeah, I'm, I'm pretty good.
00:05:32.020 I'm D I wouldn't say great, but like I have way better than I was like two, three years
00:05:36.580 ago.
00:05:36.760 What's your, what's your go-to dish?
00:05:38.320 My favorite, I like to make sushi bowls.
00:05:40.560 Okay.
00:05:41.020 So I, I don't make this that often, but that's like my favorite.
00:05:44.320 I'm trying to like impress somebody.
00:05:46.080 That's what, but there's no cooking involved with sushi.
00:05:49.440 No, no.
00:05:50.080 I cook the salmon.
00:05:51.760 Okay.
00:05:52.320 Is that sushi if you cook it?
00:05:53.900 Well, it's like a poke bowl.
00:05:55.620 Poke bowl. 0.99
00:05:55.960 Okay.
00:05:56.240 Poke's raw too.
00:05:57.660 Well, I guess it's like a cheap poke bowl.
00:05:59.940 Okay.
00:06:00.140 I usually do that.
00:06:01.220 I'll make cookies from scratch.
00:06:02.780 Cookies from scratch is good.
00:06:03.780 I'll do.
00:06:04.820 What about a high protein, low calorie, nutritious meal?
00:06:08.420 Um, I like to make like, I don't know, drumsticks.
00:06:12.420 Okay.
00:06:12.760 Like chicken.
00:06:13.460 In the air fryer?
00:06:14.800 Sometimes.
00:06:15.400 I like the oven.
00:06:16.120 That's my favorite.
00:06:17.040 Ovens are good.
00:06:17.600 Yeah.
00:06:18.100 Sometimes I'll do air fryer if I'm in a hurry.
00:06:20.060 You know, there's in the average chef.
00:06:21.420 Kings ate my food, King.
00:06:22.940 Rate it one to, I, one to, one to five, be honest.
00:06:28.800 Yeah, one to five.
00:06:29.680 Five being the best.
00:06:30.380 Yeah, five being the best.
00:06:33.400 It's okay.
00:06:34.100 It's okay.
00:06:34.480 You can, I used to be like a zero, so you can be honest.
00:06:38.400 I'll say 3.5.
00:06:40.160 See, it's, it's above average.
00:06:41.820 It's improving.
00:06:42.780 It's above average.
00:06:43.340 I don't say great, but I'm like, I'm getting better.
00:06:45.540 Where, where is the chicken flawed, King?
00:06:47.540 Yeah.
00:06:47.780 Tell me, how can I improve the chicken?
00:06:49.380 No, today's chicken was actually very good though.
00:06:51.460 Oh, it's today's rating.
00:06:52.420 I, I season it too much, right?
00:06:54.640 That's my problem.
00:06:55.660 That's what Blessing says.
00:06:56.940 Maybe she just, I'll just say you don't have like a consistent like flavor.
00:07:02.680 So sometimes you can over season it, sometimes maybe not.
00:07:05.240 Like, yeah.
00:07:06.940 Maybe it depends on your mood.
00:07:08.100 I don't know.
00:07:09.460 I like the honesty.
00:07:10.900 Yeah.
00:07:11.220 Why did you cook me chicken?
00:07:13.660 Um, cause you weren't here when we were eating dinner.
00:07:15.520 I want chicken next time.
00:07:16.320 If you're here.
00:07:16.900 I want dinner tomorrow.
00:07:17.840 By now, so much to even protect yourself.
00:07:21.140 The idea that you can just be a law abiding citizen in a country and just work your job
00:07:25.400 and be okay is gone.
00:07:27.240 It's gone.
00:07:28.060 If COVID doesn't prove that, I don't know what will.
00:07:30.320 Look at my situation.
00:07:31.500 You have to diversify.
00:07:32.420 You have to be smart enough that you have assets and friends and, and, and capability
00:07:37.020 and lawyers and whatever all over the world.
00:07:39.560 Now that's the only way to protect yourself.
00:07:40.960 You can't just sit within one jurisdiction and go, oh, well, but I don't speed.
00:07:44.380 So it's going to be okay.
00:07:45.140 I don't think it is.
00:07:45.900 I think it's coming to a point where it's not going to be okay.
00:07:48.780 And AI is going to make it harder and harder again for those average men.
00:07:52.580 It's going to be harder and harder.
00:07:53.520 I don't think the exceptional men are ever going to suffer from AI.
00:07:56.320 I think we're going to use AI.
00:07:57.500 Yeah.
00:07:57.900 You think this whole neural link that Elon Musk just got the approval for, for the patent.
00:08:02.740 So now the sale is going to be, look, no matter what you do, John, you will never
00:08:07.880 be like Andrew Tate.
00:08:08.940 But if you take this neural link GT 500 slash Tate, you're able to get upgraded to his levels
00:08:20.700 and think like him.
00:08:21.780 And I'll think and do this and do that for only $49,000.
00:08:25.460 It's scary.
00:08:26.040 It's going to put this chip in your head when you're going to offer this to you.
00:08:27.740 My mother always says to me, I'm glad I'm not young.
00:08:29.860 And I'm starting to say that now.
00:08:30.980 I'm glad I'm not young.
00:08:31.720 Because I'm telling you, it's going to be scary, right?
00:08:33.880 Because the world is hyper competitive.
00:08:35.980 Every single thing in the world is competition.
00:08:37.700 I don't think people realize I'm a hyper competitive person because I understand that every single
00:08:42.040 thing I want, somebody else wants.
00:08:44.680 The girl I want, other people want.
00:08:46.080 The car I want, other people want.
00:08:47.300 The house I want, other people want.
00:08:48.280 The lifestyle, the jet.
00:08:49.500 Every single thing you want, somebody else wants.
00:08:51.240 It's a massive competition.
00:08:52.460 As a man, you have two choices.
00:08:53.680 You either accept that as a massive competition and try and play the game, or you just try and
00:08:57.460 pretend it's not a competition and live in perpetual failure.
00:08:59.840 And it's going to become hyper competitive.
00:09:03.100 The world already is.
00:09:04.240 You're not going to be able to compete with a person with a computer brain.
00:09:06.560 So you're going to have to have it because you can't compete.
00:09:09.720 Once you have it, then who knows?
00:09:10.980 Can they turn it off?
00:09:11.620 I don't know.
00:09:12.160 Can they turn you off?
00:09:12.960 I don't know.
00:09:13.360 Can they inject the slave mind programming directly through the chip?
00:09:16.460 I don't know.
00:09:17.540 That's scary.
00:09:18.240 I would never want to do that.
00:09:19.580 But it's going to get to a point where you're not even a person without it.
00:09:22.420 You can't function without it.
00:09:23.460 You're a second class citizen without it.
00:09:25.000 What happens to competition then?
00:09:25.900 Right.
00:09:26.100 What happens to competition then?
00:09:27.420 It's going to be whoever has access to the best technology, whoever has the most recent
00:09:32.600 upgraded version of XYZ Neuralink chip.
00:09:35.400 Yeah.
00:09:35.560 What happens if someone hacks you?
00:09:40.400 You know?
00:09:41.240 Are you familiar with an old TV show called The Outer Limits?
00:09:46.180 No.
00:09:46.480 So they had this like future where everybody had like these brain implants like Neuralink,
00:09:52.160 right?
00:09:52.500 And there was like this one guy and he was like the dummy of society and he like couldn't
00:09:57.600 really get the implant because his brain was not compatible. 1.00
00:10:01.620 So he was like the idiot of society. 1.00
00:10:03.260 But like one by one, everybody who had that thing like started going crazy and society started 1.00
00:10:08.000 to collapse.
00:10:09.240 Dude, that's insane.
00:10:10.200 Sometimes I think the Amish had it right. 1.00
00:10:12.040 You know what the Amish are? 0.75
00:10:13.080 Dude, do you know how the Amish, they do have it right. 1.00
00:10:16.060 You know why?
00:10:16.500 Because they give their children money and stuff and they're like go out there and they
00:10:22.320 go, they party, they do drugs, they have sex, they do all the crazy stuff and you know
00:10:27.000 like a large percentage of them just come back to the Amish lifestyle.
00:10:30.100 So, you know, life is simple and I think a lot of people, you know, cause I think a lot
00:10:35.880 of guys in the red pill community think like they have like this infinite wall that men 0.70
00:10:40.100 have a wall too. 0.94
00:10:41.180 You know, I call it the loser wall. 1.00
00:10:42.960 It's like if you're a man after the age of like 35 and you really don't have your shit 1.00
00:10:47.560 sorted out, like you fucked up. 1.00
00:10:50.020 Yeah. 1.00
00:10:50.440 You fucked up. 1.00
00:10:51.100 If you're still worrying about money after the age of 35, if your career is not really 1.00
00:10:55.560 what you want it to be after the age of 35, if you're struggling after the age of 1.00
00:10:59.120 35, your fitness is shit, your finances are shit, your relationships are shit, like you 1.00
00:11:04.640 have truly fucked up. 1.00
00:11:06.400 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis 1.00
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