JustPearlyThings - June 29, 2023


Why Modern Women Are Miserable


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

210.85167

Word Count

2,399

Sentence Count

219

Misogynist Sentences

2

Hate Speech Sentences

8


Summary

In this episode, we talk about how to turn your life around when you re 33 years old, how to lose weight, and how to become a better version of yourself. We also talk about the importance of being honest with yourself and taking accountability for your actions.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 And I just hate that we, I just hate that they lie.
00:00:02.600 I don't even care if that's what they want to do.
00:00:04.880 But even like Denalva on the show yesterday, I'm like, stop lying to the next generation of women.
00:00:09.680 Like, it's not, it's not cute.
00:00:11.320 It's not fun.
00:00:11.960 And we all see it.
00:00:13.000 We all see what you're doing.
00:00:15.720 Cause I just think it's an ego investment.
00:00:17.680 Like you're, it, it takes a real strong person to be like, you know what?
00:00:22.840 I was wrong.
00:00:23.760 Yeah.
00:00:24.600 It takes a real strong person.
00:00:26.240 And I think people are weaker now more than ever, you know, but this, to look in the
00:00:29.980 mirror, because like when I turned my entire life around, I was 33.
00:00:34.100 It just turned over to 2019.
00:00:37.360 Everybody was, you know, busted fireworks and eating food, having a good time.
00:00:41.460 And I had a conversation with myself.
00:00:43.840 I was like, dude, you are a 33 year old loser English teacher who's talked all this shit.
00:00:50.700 You're an English teacher?
00:00:51.660 Oh, I didn't know that.
00:00:52.600 In Japan.
00:00:53.340 I was at the time.
00:00:54.020 Oh, no way.
00:00:54.240 Okay.
00:00:55.140 And I was like, you're a 33 year old loser English teacher.
00:00:58.240 And you talked all this shit.
00:00:59.540 You're going to do all this fucking great things in YouTube and you have put in a fraction
00:01:03.620 of the effort necessary to do it.
00:01:05.720 And if you don't turn this around, this is your life.
00:01:08.780 You will be a 34 year old English loser teacher.
00:01:11.280 You will be a 35 year old loser English teacher.
00:01:13.680 You'll be 36 year old loser English teacher.
00:01:15.380 So you better turn this fucking franchise around.
00:01:17.360 And that's when I bought, like, I had like a little bit of Bitcoin left over and I bought
00:01:23.520 a computer.
00:01:24.280 I bought, cause you can buy stuff with Bitcoin in Japan.
00:01:26.680 And so I bought a computer.
00:01:28.540 I bought a laptop.
00:01:29.220 I bought a fucking microphone and a HD, uh, camera and started live streaming.
00:01:38.740 And then I turned my entire life around, you know, that was, that was the beginning of
00:01:44.040 like, you know, multi-million dollar earning company.
00:01:47.240 And, um, but it all started with me being extremely real with myself, being, being honest about
00:01:55.300 the reality of where I was, you know?
00:01:59.120 And I think a lot of people right now, they don't, I guess I going back to what I was saying
00:02:02.480 earlier, a lot of people just don't take accountability.
00:02:04.320 A lot of people are just like, no, I'm great.
00:02:06.060 I'm the best.
00:02:06.700 Like I, I'm, they, they, they, they lie to themselves.
00:02:11.220 Their friends lie to them.
00:02:12.960 You know, I mean, how many girls stay single because all their girlfriends lie to them?
00:02:16.960 Like, oh, it's never your fault, girls.
00:02:18.920 You know, you just, you gotta find the right guy.
00:02:20.780 You know, when I, when I finished, um, playing sports in college, um, I gained weight really
00:02:25.600 fast because I, I just, I was so used to, like, imagine I'd been, I'd been working out
00:02:31.600 for four hours a day for, I was, uh, I don't know, 22 when I grew up.
00:02:36.700 I graduated college.
00:02:38.020 So, or the master's thing.
00:02:40.560 So since I was 12, so for 10 years, I didn't really have to eat very good.
00:02:45.640 You know, who, who, who needs to, and you're burning thousands.
00:02:48.560 Like I would do a two hour volleyball and two hour basketball practice.
00:02:51.680 That is so much cardio.
00:02:52.780 A lot of calories.
00:02:53.400 Yeah.
00:02:53.620 Yeah.
00:02:53.960 And so I finished it.
00:02:55.920 I just ate like the, like normal, right.
00:02:59.000 And I got a job.
00:03:00.120 And then what happens is a lot of us get really fat after because we just have no nutrition skills.
00:03:06.200 And it was funny because I was at work and all the guys were like making fun of, like
00:03:13.600 they would never, they didn't know I was at the time, but I was over like 200 pounds.
00:03:17.840 I was like 210 and I was, it was bad.
00:03:20.500 I gained it so fast too.
00:03:21.920 I wasn't that big for that long, but I didn't look that big because I'm so tall.
00:03:25.660 Right.
00:03:25.940 Right.
00:03:26.060 So, but they were saying, I would never date a girl over 200.
00:03:28.880 And that, that was like the most, I remember I'd weighed myself that morning and that was,
00:03:33.560 that was like, and I just like, I didn't know I'd gain that much weight.
00:03:36.360 And have you ever like weighed yourself after?
00:03:38.300 And you're like, you're like, you can't even believe you're that heavy.
00:03:41.700 And so I was just like, no.
00:03:43.760 And I ended up like, I ended up losing a bunch of weight because of it.
00:03:46.680 Um, and I'm glad that that was like a wake up call.
00:03:51.080 I'm glad there may, I mean, it wasn't me.
00:03:52.640 They didn't know it was me, but like, I'm glad I had that wake up call.
00:03:56.860 And a lot of people would get on the scale and they'd be like, nah, the scale is broken.
00:04:02.300 I'd be like, oh, it's a bad angle in the mirror, you know?
00:04:05.040 But again, taking accountability, taking responsibility and just trying to do better,
00:04:11.060 living a life of self-improvement.
00:04:13.220 I think it's just the answer for everybody.
00:04:14.760 Cause again, like I told you yesterday, like, I don't feel like the earth is overpopulated.
00:04:21.100 I feel like the earth is undereducated and I don't know if this is true, but I think it
00:04:28.040 is, but I feel like people are getting dumber.
00:04:31.740 Oh yeah.
00:04:32.300 We have a whole generation of people that don't know how to do things.
00:04:35.200 I mean, like our great grandmothers, they knew how to sew, they knew how to cook all these
00:04:39.060 meals from scratch.
00:04:40.160 And even on the guy's side, like what percent of guys know how to build a house?
00:04:43.240 Right.
00:04:43.540 Our great grandfathers like literally built their houses.
00:04:46.320 Like, and I mean, we have different skills, right?
00:04:49.700 Like internet skills, but it's just interesting because there's a whole generation of people
00:04:53.800 that don't have like basic life skills.
00:04:56.020 Yeah.
00:04:56.240 Well, I mean, think about how many people have become dependent on these apps to live.
00:05:02.760 Yeah.
00:05:03.620 I mean, even me, like Uber Eats and all that stuff.
00:05:05.820 No, even me growing up, I didn't cook.
00:05:08.200 When was I going to cook?
00:05:09.760 I went to practice four out, like, you know what I mean?
00:05:12.160 So you get out of school at, I don't know, two, you wait an hour for practice to start.
00:05:16.820 You do a two hour practice and you drive an hour, do your other two hour practice.
00:05:20.480 It's like 1030 at night.
00:05:22.520 By the time I get home, when was I going to cook?
00:05:24.860 I didn't have any, I didn't have any time.
00:05:27.120 And so, um, I, I, do you know how to cook now?
00:05:30.580 Yeah, I'm, I'm pretty good.
00:05:32.020 I'm D I wouldn't say great, but like I have way better than I was like two, three years
00:05:36.580 ago.
00:05:36.760 What's your, what's your go-to dish?
00:05:38.320 My favorite, I like to make sushi bowls.
00:05:40.560 Okay.
00:05:41.020 So I, I don't make this that often, but that's like my favorite.
00:05:44.320 I'm trying to like impress somebody.
00:05:46.080 That's what, but there's no cooking involved with sushi.
00:05:49.440 No, no.
00:05:50.080 I cook the salmon.
00:05:51.760 Okay.
00:05:52.320 Is that sushi if you cook it?
00:05:53.900 Well, it's like a poke bowl.
00:05:55.620 Poke bowl.
00:05:55.960 Okay.
00:05:56.240 Poke's raw too.
00:05:57.660 Well, I guess it's like a cheap poke bowl.
00:05:59.940 Okay.
00:06:00.140 I usually do that.
00:06:01.220 I'll make cookies from scratch.
00:06:02.780 Cookies from scratch is good.
00:06:03.780 I'll do.
00:06:04.820 What about a high protein, low calorie, nutritious meal?
00:06:08.420 Um, I like to make like, I don't know, drumsticks.
00:06:12.420 Okay.
00:06:12.760 Like chicken.
00:06:13.460 In the air fryer?
00:06:14.800 Sometimes.
00:06:15.400 I like the oven.
00:06:16.120 That's my favorite.
00:06:17.040 Ovens are good.
00:06:17.600 Yeah.
00:06:18.100 Sometimes I'll do air fryer if I'm in a hurry.
00:06:20.060 You know, there's in the average chef.
00:06:21.420 Kings ate my food, King.
00:06:22.940 Rate it one to, I, one to, one to five, be honest.
00:06:28.800 Yeah, one to five.
00:06:29.680 Five being the best.
00:06:30.380 Yeah, five being the best.
00:06:33.400 It's okay.
00:06:34.100 It's okay.
00:06:34.480 You can, I used to be like a zero, so you can be honest.
00:06:38.400 I'll say 3.5.
00:06:40.160 See, it's, it's above average.
00:06:41.820 It's improving.
00:06:42.780 It's above average.
00:06:43.340 I don't say great, but I'm like, I'm getting better.
00:06:45.540 Where, where is the chicken flawed, King?
00:06:47.540 Yeah.
00:06:47.780 Tell me, how can I improve the chicken?
00:06:49.380 No, today's chicken was actually very good though.
00:06:51.460 Oh, it's today's rating.
00:06:52.420 I, I season it too much, right?
00:06:54.640 That's my problem.
00:06:55.660 That's what Blessing says.
00:06:56.940 Maybe she just, I'll just say you don't have like a consistent like flavor.
00:07:02.680 So sometimes you can over season it, sometimes maybe not.
00:07:05.240 Like, yeah.
00:07:06.940 Maybe it depends on your mood.
00:07:08.100 I don't know.
00:07:09.460 I like the honesty.
00:07:10.900 Yeah.
00:07:11.220 Why did you cook me chicken?
00:07:13.660 Um, cause you weren't here when we were eating dinner.
00:07:15.520 I want chicken next time.
00:07:16.320 If you're here.
00:07:16.900 I want dinner tomorrow.
00:07:17.840 By now, so much to even protect yourself.
00:07:21.140 The idea that you can just be a law abiding citizen in a country and just work your job
00:07:25.400 and be okay is gone.
00:07:27.240 It's gone.
00:07:28.060 If COVID doesn't prove that, I don't know what will.
00:07:30.320 Look at my situation.
00:07:31.500 You have to diversify.
00:07:32.420 You have to be smart enough that you have assets and friends and, and, and capability
00:07:37.020 and lawyers and whatever all over the world.
00:07:39.560 Now that's the only way to protect yourself.
00:07:40.960 You can't just sit within one jurisdiction and go, oh, well, but I don't speed.
00:07:44.380 So it's going to be okay.
00:07:45.140 I don't think it is.
00:07:45.900 I think it's coming to a point where it's not going to be okay.
00:07:48.780 And AI is going to make it harder and harder again for those average men.
00:07:52.580 It's going to be harder and harder.
00:07:53.520 I don't think the exceptional men are ever going to suffer from AI.
00:07:56.320 I think we're going to use AI.
00:07:57.500 Yeah.
00:07:57.900 You think this whole neural link that Elon Musk just got the approval for, for the patent.
00:08:02.740 So now the sale is going to be, look, no matter what you do, John, you will never
00:08:07.880 be like Andrew Tate.
00:08:08.940 But if you take this neural link GT 500 slash Tate, you're able to get upgraded to his levels
00:08:20.700 and think like him.
00:08:21.780 And I'll think and do this and do that for only $49,000.
00:08:25.460 It's scary.
00:08:26.040 It's going to put this chip in your head when you're going to offer this to you.
00:08:27.740 My mother always says to me, I'm glad I'm not young.
00:08:29.860 And I'm starting to say that now.
00:08:30.980 I'm glad I'm not young.
00:08:31.720 Because I'm telling you, it's going to be scary, right?
00:08:33.880 Because the world is hyper competitive.
00:08:35.980 Every single thing in the world is competition.
00:08:37.700 I don't think people realize I'm a hyper competitive person because I understand that every single
00:08:42.040 thing I want, somebody else wants.
00:08:44.680 The girl I want, other people want.
00:08:46.080 The car I want, other people want.
00:08:47.300 The house I want, other people want.
00:08:48.280 The lifestyle, the jet.
00:08:49.500 Every single thing you want, somebody else wants.
00:08:51.240 It's a massive competition.
00:08:52.460 As a man, you have two choices.
00:08:53.680 You either accept that as a massive competition and try and play the game, or you just try and
00:08:57.460 pretend it's not a competition and live in perpetual failure.
00:08:59.840 And it's going to become hyper competitive.
00:09:03.100 The world already is.
00:09:04.240 You're not going to be able to compete with a person with a computer brain.
00:09:06.560 So you're going to have to have it because you can't compete.
00:09:09.720 Once you have it, then who knows?
00:09:10.980 Can they turn it off?
00:09:11.620 I don't know.
00:09:12.160 Can they turn you off?
00:09:12.960 I don't know.
00:09:13.360 Can they inject the slave mind programming directly through the chip?
00:09:16.460 I don't know.
00:09:17.540 That's scary.
00:09:18.240 I would never want to do that.
00:09:19.580 But it's going to get to a point where you're not even a person without it.
00:09:22.420 You can't function without it.
00:09:23.460 You're a second class citizen without it.
00:09:25.000 What happens to competition then?
00:09:25.900 Right.
00:09:26.100 What happens to competition then?
00:09:27.420 It's going to be whoever has access to the best technology, whoever has the most recent
00:09:32.600 upgraded version of XYZ Neuralink chip.
00:09:35.400 Yeah.
00:09:35.560 What happens if someone hacks you?
00:09:40.400 You know?
00:09:41.240 Are you familiar with an old TV show called The Outer Limits?
00:09:46.180 No.
00:09:46.480 So they had this like future where everybody had like these brain implants like Neuralink,
00:09:52.160 right?
00:09:52.500 And there was like this one guy and he was like the dummy of society and he like couldn't
00:09:57.600 really get the implant because his brain was not compatible.
00:10:01.620 So he was like the idiot of society.
00:10:03.260 But like one by one, everybody who had that thing like started going crazy and society started
00:10:08.000 to collapse.
00:10:09.240 Dude, that's insane.
00:10:10.200 Sometimes I think the Amish had it right.
00:10:12.040 You know what the Amish are?
00:10:13.080 Dude, do you know how the Amish, they do have it right.
00:10:16.060 You know why?
00:10:16.500 Because they give their children money and stuff and they're like go out there and they
00:10:22.320 go, they party, they do drugs, they have sex, they do all the crazy stuff and you know
00:10:27.000 like a large percentage of them just come back to the Amish lifestyle.
00:10:30.100 So, you know, life is simple and I think a lot of people, you know, cause I think a lot
00:10:35.880 of guys in the red pill community think like they have like this infinite wall that men
00:10:40.100 have a wall too.
00:10:41.180 You know, I call it the loser wall.
00:10:42.960 It's like if you're a man after the age of like 35 and you really don't have your shit
00:10:47.560 sorted out, like you fucked up.
00:10:50.020 Yeah.
00:10:50.440 You fucked up.
00:10:51.100 If you're still worrying about money after the age of 35, if your career is not really
00:10:55.560 what you want it to be after the age of 35, if you're struggling after the age of
00:10:59.120 35, your fitness is shit, your finances are shit, your relationships are shit, like you
00:11:04.640 have truly fucked up.
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00:11:12.560 on this platform.
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