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00:01:41.940 Yeah. And back then, you were a blue-haired feminist. 1.00

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00:03:58.300 Okay, so welcome to the show, Eva. So the first thing we're going to start out is a couple of

00:04:06.200 months ago, I had a tweet that Twitter was very divided about. And I will say, can you tell the

00:04:15.580 people I asked you if I could tweet it first? You did, you did, yeah, you did. They were very

00:04:21.140 concerned and I was like, no, no, no, I asked her, I asked her because I thought it was funny. So I

00:04:25.560 tweeted, we could show her, my sister is fat, so I texted her motivation, am I mean? And I had this.

00:04:33.820 You had to show up, it says where you should be. And you said, literally shoot yourself.

00:04:39.180 Now, did you want me to actually shoot myself? Every day, every day. Okay, that's rude. That's

00:04:45.380 rude. Now, they were very concerned. She said, surprisingly wholesome, but will definitely be

00:04:52.680 in a meme format. And then they said, is there any reason you'd treat your family that instead

00:04:58.640 of approaching the topic in a less insulting way? And I said, because we're not soft.

00:05:07.020 And then on top of that, I got OnlyFans women tweeting me their nakedness. 1.00

00:05:11.940 You know, so I blocked her, obviously. And since then, you've lost a lot of weight.

00:05:19.520 Yeah, I have. How much weight have you lost since then? Like 40 pounds. I lost weight too. I lost

00:05:25.240 like 15. I'm proud of you. Yeah, I'm proud of you too. See, this is why we call each other fat

00:05:29.940 people. Yeah, I mean, sometimes you got to do what you got to do. You really got to do what you got to

00:05:33.340 do. Sometimes you got, you just got to call them fat to, you know, get them on the, but then you get

00:05:38.020 on the treadmill and life gets better. Well, I have not stepped on the treadmill, but. Well,

00:05:43.660 some people eat. You want to show them your dog? Oh, can they see it? Oh, look at him. I. You just

00:05:55.800 got cozy. I feel bad. Eva got a dog this year and it was really funny because my mom texted me asking

00:06:01.980 if she got a dog. And, you know, at the time I didn't know that she had a dog, but I just knew

00:06:10.400 she got a dog. And I didn't want to like that dog, but I love him. He's Dolby. I love him. I,

00:06:19.400 because I don't, is he Chihuahua mix? Yeah. I don't love Chihuahuas, but I love that dog. Do you see

00:06:25.180 a sweater? I, he's so cute. Okay. So our first story, Eva, what do you know about Meghan Markle

00:06:33.160 and Harry? I really don't know much. I just don't think that he wanted to renounce his title and she

00:06:38.200 did. And I think she runs that marriage. Yeah. So Meghan Markle and Harry married in 2018. She was 36

00:06:45.160 at the time. And this was her second husband. She was a big name actress. And in just two short years,

00:06:53.080 she went from being a part of the Royal family to getting Harry to quit.

00:06:59.320 Imagine that royalty. So I have an interview of them when they first started

00:07:05.440 being a couple. So this is like when they first got engaged. Oh man, I got to plug this all the way in.

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00:07:20.060 Oh no, wait, go back.

00:07:23.080 No. Oh, there we go. Okay. Now we're up.

00:07:29.140 Thank you.

00:07:30.460 Can we start with the proposal and the actual moment of your engagement? When did it happen? How did it

00:07:34.720 happen?

00:07:36.480 It happened a few weeks ago, earlier this month here at our cottage. It's a standard,

00:07:44.520 typical night for us.

00:07:45.280 It's a cozy night. What were we doing? Just roasting chicken and having...

00:07:49.080 Trying to roast the chicken. Trying to roast the chicken. And it was just an amazing surprise. It was so sweet and natural and very romantic. He got on one knee.

00:08:00.720 Of course. Was it an instant yes from you? Yes. As a matter of fact, I could barely let you finish proposing. I was like, can I say yes now?

00:08:06.780 Can I say yes now? She didn't even let me finish. She said, can I say yes or can I say yes now? And then there was hugs and I had the ring in my finger and I was like, can I give you the ring?

00:08:13.840 And she goes, oh yes, the ring. So no, it was a really nice moment. It was just the two of us and I think I managed to catch it by surprise as well.

00:08:21.520 Yeah.

00:08:21.960 And this is how long after you first met?

00:08:24.660 It would be a year and a half to a little bit more than that?

00:08:27.680 No, just about a year and a half, yeah.

00:08:29.860 Which for most people would be quite a whirlwind. Is that how it's felt to you?

00:08:35.180 I don't think that I would call it a whirlwind in terms of our relationship.

00:08:39.540 What do you notice? I want to see if you pick up what I pick up on.

00:08:43.840 I mean, she's kind of leading and she's looking at him to like, like he can only respond when she looks at him.

00:08:49.620 I didn't pick up on that part.

00:08:51.420 Oh, go back. You can look at it.

00:08:53.200 She looks at him to speak.

00:08:55.320 I was going to say that she talks first.

00:08:59.060 Like they ask her instead of him.

00:09:01.500 Oh, I just noticed that whenever he's trying to talk, she'll look at him almost to give him approval.

00:09:07.540 Oh, that's good. Good pick up, E.

00:09:09.340 They said there have been layers attached to how public it has become.

00:09:13.840 After we had a good five, six months almost with just privacy, which was amazing.

00:09:19.080 But no, I think we were able to really.

00:09:23.400 It was literally, it was through her.

00:09:25.700 And then we met once and then twice back to back two dates in London last July.

00:09:32.660 Yes.

00:09:33.060 Beginning of July.

00:09:33.740 And then it was, I think, about three, maybe four weeks later that I managed to persuade her to come and join me in Botswana.

00:09:44.020 And we, and we, we, we camped out with each other under the stars and we spent coming to join me for five days out there, which was absolutely fantastic.

00:09:50.980 So then we were really by ourselves, which I, which was crucial to me to make sure that we had a chance to, to get to know each other.

00:09:58.440 Yeah.

00:09:58.860 But the friend who introduced you, was she trying to set you up?

00:10:01.420 Yes.

00:10:01.680 It was definitely a set up.

00:10:02.860 It was a blind date.

00:10:04.280 It was a blind date, for sure.

00:10:05.220 And it's so interesting because we talk about it now and even then, I, you know, because I'm from the States, you don't grow up with the same understanding of, of the royal family.

00:10:15.740 And so while I now understand very clearly there's a, a global interest there, I didn't know much about him.

00:10:23.000 And so the only.

00:10:24.380 Bullshit.

00:10:24.900 Why is it every woman that marries rich just didn't even know he had money? 0.99

00:10:37.360 Bullshit.

00:10:41.120 Yeah.

00:10:41.640 Especially if he was single, like everybody knows the single royals, especially the main, like that's princess Diana's son.

00:10:47.760 Yeah.

00:10:48.300 Yeah.

00:10:49.060 And I'm okay.

00:10:50.000 We're in America, but if your friend was going to set you up with somebody, you wouldn't Google him.

00:11:01.160 I've heard so many women say that when they marry rich. 1.00

00:11:05.700 And I just, I don't believe it for a second.

00:11:10.160 Not even a little bit.

00:11:11.460 The thing that I had asked her when she said she wanted to set us up was, I had one question.

00:11:15.560 I said, well, is he nice?

00:11:16.380 Because if he wasn't kind, it just didn't, it didn't seem like it would make sense.

00:11:20.860 And so we went.

00:11:25.400 Oh yeah.

00:11:27.080 Well, sort of.

00:11:28.100 Cause remember she was married earlier. 1.00

00:11:30.200 So I would guess her ex-husband was more of the bad boy.

00:11:33.360 Now she's a little older.

00:11:34.620 She wants something more stable.

00:11:37.920 I'm sure she still would have married him even if he wasn't kind, but I'm saying it's, it's BS that that was the first thing she asked.

00:11:44.220 Do you know what's funny?

00:11:45.020 The other brother and his, his wife, um, he met her in school and then he like dumped her and then dated all these other women and then came back.

00:11:55.060 And like, he cheated and like all this stuff.

00:11:57.840 I think I allegedly, right.

00:11:59.880 But, and it's so funny because she's still so in love.

00:12:03.060 She did not care.

00:12:04.320 She's like, I'll be here.

00:12:06.380 I'm waiting.

00:12:07.160 And, um, but she's the better one anyway. 1.00

00:12:10.760 The Kate, have you seen Kate Middleton?

00:12:12.600 Yeah.

00:12:12.920 She's such a class act. 1.00

00:12:14.460 Yeah.

00:12:14.860 She's just classy. 0.98

00:12:16.080 Had a, met for a drink.

00:12:17.640 And then I think very quickly into that, we said, well, what are we doing tomorrow?

00:12:21.840 We should, we should meet again.

00:12:23.000 What are we doing tomorrow?

00:12:23.600 Let's meet again.

00:12:24.180 And then it was like, right.

00:12:25.320 Diaries.

00:12:25.920 We need to get the diaries out and find out how we're going to make this work because I was off to Africa for a month.

00:12:30.440 Um, she was working and we just said, right, where's, where's the gap?

00:12:34.260 And the gap happened to be in the perfect place.

00:12:36.840 Um, so.

00:12:37.900 So how much did you, Prince Harry, know about Meghan?

00:12:40.720 Had you seen her on TV?

00:12:42.220 No, I, I'd never, never even heard about her until this friend said, Meghan Markle.

00:12:46.840 I was like, right.

00:12:48.140 Okay.

00:12:48.740 Give me, give me a bit of background.

00:12:51.060 Like what's going on here?

00:12:52.320 So no, I'd never, I'd, I'd never watched Suits.

00:12:54.680 I'd, I'd never heard of Meghan before.

00:12:56.720 And.

00:12:57.060 Have you seen Suits?

00:12:58.220 No.

00:12:58.760 I haven't seen it.

00:12:59.460 She seems very like.

00:13:02.240 Stiff.

00:13:03.500 I don't know.

00:13:04.840 Well, all of her movements just seem contrived.

00:13:07.800 Yeah.

00:13:07.820 Like, like she's, she's very controlled where Harry's just kind of sitting there.

00:13:11.300 Yeah.

00:13:11.680 He's just chilling.

00:13:12.660 Yeah.

00:13:12.860 He's just.

00:13:13.600 Have you seen the meme?

00:13:14.460 I'm a chill guy.

00:13:15.780 I have not.

00:13:16.640 But.

00:13:17.400 I mean, he, he is just, he's just.

00:13:20.720 Sitting there.

00:13:22.600 Beautifully surprised when I, when I walked into that room and saw her and there she was sitting there.

00:13:26.860 I was like, okay, well, I'm going to have to up my game.

00:13:29.540 I'm going to sit down and have a, and make sure I've got a good chat.

00:13:34.220 I think for both of us, though, it was, it was really refreshing because given that I didn't know a lot about him, everything that I've learned about him, I learned through him.

00:13:43.300 As opposed to having grown up around different news stories or tabloids or whatever else, anything I learned about him and his family was what he.

00:13:50.660 Yeah.

00:13:51.820 Right.

00:13:53.080 Would share with me and vice versa.

00:13:54.780 So for both of us, it was just a really authentic and organic way to get to know each other.

00:14:00.120 And was that quite refreshing for you in the way that you've been brought up, you know, with a lot of people knowing a lot about you?

00:14:07.160 Was it refreshing?

00:14:07.980 Or thinking they know.

00:14:08.660 Or thinking they know.

00:14:09.540 Exactly.

00:14:10.080 Yeah.

00:14:10.320 No, it was hugely refreshing to be able to get to know someone who isn't necessarily within your circle, doesn't know much about me, I don't know much about her.

00:14:18.820 So to be able to start almost afresh right from the beginning and getting to know each other step by step and then taking that huge leap of only two dates and then going effectively on holiday together in the middle of nowhere and, you know, sharing a tent together and all that kind of stuff.

00:14:35.140 It was, you know, it was fantastic.

00:14:37.060 It was absolutely amazing to get to know her as quickly as I did.

00:14:42.420 Okay.

00:14:42.920 So that's where it started.

00:14:44.360 We're not going to, it's like a 20 minute interview.

00:14:46.220 You get the idea.

00:14:48.140 You get the idea of it.

00:14:48.940 You know, she didn't, she didn't know anything.

00:14:52.680 He's a target.

00:14:53.800 He's a target.

00:14:54.960 Mm-hmm.

00:14:55.500 She's the gingers. 1.00

00:14:56.400 We always get targeted.

00:14:57.340 She, she takes him out to the woods.

00:15:00.040 She's like, honey, let's go to the woods, you know, makes him fall in love, whatever.

00:15:05.580 She should sell a book because it's very impressive.

00:15:08.240 Doesn't she have a book?

00:15:09.160 I'm sure she does.

00:15:09.900 I'm pretty sure she does.

00:15:11.120 Anyways, so now they get married and they have some kids.

00:15:17.240 And she decides she's going to go.

00:15:19.600 I didn't realize that there was a black history month.

00:15:21.500 And the thing is, when you go woke, you tend to go broke.

00:15:24.400 And she decides that the entire royal family, after they embraced her.

00:15:31.200 I just didn't want her.

00:15:32.180 She has a bad relationship with her dad.

00:15:34.120 So his dad walked her down the aisle.

00:15:36.480 Have you looked into the relationship with her dad?

00:15:38.540 I've seen a little bit, but I think he says that she's crazy.

00:15:42.120 Yeah.

00:15:42.380 No, his, her dad basically, like, I just watched the interview with her dad and her, like, her

00:15:47.140 sibling and somebody else or, like, her stepmom or something like that.

00:15:50.440 And it was like, her dad reminds me a lot of our dad.

00:15:53.700 Let me see.

00:15:55.000 Like, he loves her.

00:15:56.500 And he did this interview basically calling her, being like, hey, you're crazy, but I

00:16:00.100 still love you.

00:16:00.720 I still miss you.

00:16:02.060 And then her dad had a stroke right before their wedding and she didn't even call.

00:16:06.160 Was it this one?

00:16:10.840 Was it this one?

00:16:12.460 No, it was the one with all three of them.

00:16:14.420 Okay.

00:16:14.780 Let me see if I can find it.

00:16:16.100 With who else?

00:16:17.200 Like, her sister.

00:16:19.080 I'm pretty sure her sister sued her. 0.99

00:16:20.620 Oh, yeah, that one on the top.

00:16:25.100 Let me see.

00:16:28.440 I can't watch this whole thing.

00:16:31.300 This is like an hour, but let me see if there's.

00:16:38.420 Long before she was a duchess, Meghan Markle was a queen.

00:16:44.920 Oh, she was prom queen?

00:16:47.020 A homecoming queen.

00:16:48.420 She says she won't.

00:16:51.280 Who people bowed to.

00:16:54.420 And cheered.

00:16:58.360 If it wasn't for his hard work and his love for her, she wouldn't be where she's at right

00:17:02.740 now.

00:17:03.440 She's dad.

00:17:05.620 The middle, Markle, is Tom Jr.

00:17:08.720 Who lives up the road from his father in Mexico.

00:17:12.420 Get in.

00:17:13.080 And across the continent, from his sister, Shpress. 1.00

00:17:27.940 The letter, I gave part of the letter to the Daily Mail.

00:17:34.640 The mail on Sunday had printed the private letter Meg had written to her.

00:17:37.480 To a letter and the queen said that's a good idea.

00:17:39.140 Yes, the queen never read this letter because it was a horrible letter.

00:17:46.720 Very insulting and cruel.

00:17:51.580 But, Thomas, why did you give it to the Daily Mail, part of it?

00:17:55.720 Because at the same time, the People magazine were coming out with it.

00:18:00.600 The fact that Megan had shared with six other people, right?

00:18:06.580 So you didn't think it was any big deal?

00:18:08.660 No, that's not the point.

00:18:10.220 I thought I have to get my side into this, too.

00:18:19.200 And I put out a little part of it.

00:18:23.740 The other things in the letter are so hateful and so cruel that I wouldn't put it out.

00:18:30.440 And that's a more protecting hero than myself.

00:18:34.840 There was nothing in that letter to be ashamed about.

00:18:37.600 A daughter pleading with her father to behave decently.

00:18:41.000 Meg stood by every word.

00:18:42.740 It was a mean letter, was it?

00:18:44.120 Yeah, I have a letter.

00:18:47.780 I don't know what I can deal with it.

00:18:51.200 I've got a lot of money for the letter.

00:18:55.000 They're saying he's an alcoholic in the chat.

00:18:57.920 The dad.

00:18:58.940 He might be, but he still raised her.

00:19:00.860 Yeah.

00:19:01.240 And the mom left.

00:19:02.040 I think the mom was gone for like...

00:19:03.880 Oh, really?

00:19:04.820 I don't know as much about her backstory because I kind of started researching after they dated.

00:19:09.380 I watched a version of this interview that was cut down a little bit, but...

00:19:16.120 I want to see if there's like a shorter one.

00:19:17.820 I want to see the original one.

00:19:22.620 I want to see what he says here.

00:19:25.340 Great.

00:19:25.800 He's an interesting guy.

00:19:26.880 He's a prince, but my daughter's been a princess since the day she was born.

00:19:30.540 Meghan Markle's father, Thomas Markle, breaks his silence in his first TV interview.

00:19:35.840 After he missed the royal wedding due to heart surgery.

00:19:39.400 He opened up on Monday's Good Morning Britain with Pierce Morgan and Susanna Reed.

00:19:44.540 Daddy, I have a new boyfriend.

00:19:47.320 And I said, that's really nice.

00:19:51.040 And then the next call was like, he's British.

00:19:54.280 And I said, that's really nice.

00:19:55.780 And then eventually the third time around, it was like, he's a prince.

00:19:59.760 Thomas sharing his side of the story on how Prince Harry and Meghan's courtship turned into a happily ever after.

00:20:07.960 Before news broke of their engagement, Harry stayed true to tradition, asking for Meghan's hand in marriage.

00:20:14.460 They called me together and Harry asked for her hand over the phone.

00:20:20.020 And I said, you're a gentleman.

00:20:23.860 Promise me you'll never raise your hand against my daughter.

00:20:26.860 And of course, I give you my permission.

00:20:28.360 Thomas also apologized for staging paparazzi photos, calling it a serious mistake.

00:20:35.560 I absolutely wanted to walk my daughter down the aisle.

00:20:38.440 And also expressed his feelings about Meghan being walked down the aisle by Prince Charles instead of him.

00:20:44.440 How can I ask for a better replacement than Charles?

00:20:46.820 I was thrilled to tears that he was doing that for me.

00:20:49.620 I just wish it had been my hand holding, my daughter not his.

00:20:52.940 But he was wonderful for doing it.

00:20:55.200 Yeah, he seems nice.

00:20:56.520 She seems crazy. 0.67

00:20:57.420 I don't know if it was him who wasn't invited to the wedding.

00:21:01.020 I know he had his stroke days before the wedding, but her siblings and the rest of her family weren't invited.

00:21:05.380 I know it was just her mom.

00:21:06.380 I don't remember if the dad was invited or not either.

00:21:08.060 Okay, so then they get married and she just starts introducing all this woke stuff.

00:21:18.880 He looks so over it.

00:21:20.520 Yeah, I know.

00:21:21.080 And the queen embraced her.

00:21:23.460 The queen was totally super nice to her. 1.00

00:21:27.460 And she even says that, like, she embraced her.

00:21:31.100 And the problem with a lot of modern women is, you know, they just talk too much. 1.00

00:21:35.060 So she decided to air all of her grievances, you know, every fight that happened in the family publicly on Oprah.

00:21:43.340 Oh, so this is the first one where she's talking about her woke stuff.

00:21:49.380 Oh, wait, is it going?

00:21:54.340 In Britain.

00:21:55.600 And so to have, I didn't realize that there was the Black History Month in Britain.

00:21:59.520 And so to have that brought to our attention was really exciting, I think, from a standpoint of everything that's going on in the world, but mostly just because it's about celebrating community.

00:22:09.940 So she knows that the royal family, I mean, for her to say she doesn't know about the history of colonization and the royal family, that's BS.

00:22:19.880 Google.

00:22:20.600 You can Google it.

00:22:22.000 Yeah.

00:22:22.320 It's very, you can do all that.

00:22:23.260 I feel like if I was to join the royal family, I would Google everything I possibly could before I would get married.

00:22:27.480 Yeah, and if you didn't, that's on you.

00:22:29.900 So now she's bringing up Black History Month, all this woke stuff.

00:22:35.660 And really, if you're celebrating all of the individuals who are making an incredible impact within our community, then what a great thing to be a part of.

00:22:43.520 Not only highlight those people that we either know personally and really find their work to be notable, but also to ask them to highlight who that next generation is, who those other people are.

00:22:54.180 Or what it does is just really broaden the list of role models for young British people and people abroad, Black or white, or any other color for that matter.

00:23:04.140 I've had an awakening as such of my own because I wasn't aware of so many of the issues and so many of the problems within the UK, but also globally as well.

00:23:13.400 I thought I did, but I didn't.

00:23:14.400 Yeah.

00:23:15.400 So, you know, he is from literal royalty and he decides, let me listen to this woke woman I married.

00:23:23.400 And it's kind of on him, or he could have had anybody.

00:23:27.320 Why did you pick this woke, crazy lady? 1.00

00:23:30.240 Yeah.

00:23:30.560 I understand, you know, you could get bamboozled and he probably did, but let's not pretend a prince didn't have choice.

00:23:40.660 What was the, why would you, okay.

00:23:44.420 And this isn't about pointing the finger, this isn't about blaming anybody, this is just about using this opportunity this month, as I said, to introduce Brits to other Brits that they might not know about or they might not have heard about.

00:23:58.060 And I think the power of community that comes from that is absolutely vast.

00:24:04.000 Okay.

00:24:04.500 There is one woke stuff.

00:24:06.340 Now, let me, then they decide, she decides to go on Oprah and do a tell all. 1.00

00:24:12.620 Now, maybe I get it.

00:24:14.380 I remember people freaking out over the Oprah.

00:24:16.660 I think I, I feel like I remember that.

00:24:18.440 Wait, let me go.

00:24:20.360 Yeah.

00:24:20.620 I mean, look, I guess it's Oprah, so maybe it was worth it to her, but I don't know.

00:24:25.540 You, you could have, let me get this straight.

00:24:27.220 You could have had royalty.

00:24:28.920 You could have been a princess or you could have done an Oprah tell all.

00:24:34.200 I feel like she knew that it was too far away for her to actually be like, you know, cause like Harry was what?

00:24:40.640 Third and nine to the throne when she married him.

00:24:43.560 And she knew that the likelihood of her staying with Harry that long and becoming an actual princess was, it would take too long.

00:24:50.600 So she just decided to take him out of the running.

00:24:53.440 Doesn't she get to be a princess anyway? 1.00

00:24:55.420 Like she can't be the queen, but she, she would be, she's duchess.

00:24:59.860 Oh gosh.

00:25:00.520 You know more about this British than I lived there.

00:25:02.720 I don't actually know, but I just mean that like the chances of her husband becoming king and her managing to stay married to him that long was too low.

00:25:12.160 So she decided to get the fame by causing him to renounce his title rather than getting the title. 0.69

00:25:16.380 It does make you pretty notorious.

00:25:18.620 Be alive anymore.

00:25:19.480 The pressure cooker of palace life pushed Meghan Markle to the brink of contemplating suicide. 1.00

00:25:24.920 I do remember this interview actually.

00:25:27.180 I'm like suicide, really?

00:25:28.860 Yeah.

00:25:29.080 She said that she was squeezing Harry's hand so tight because she was, I don't know, going to kill herself right there or something like that when she was pregnant with her kid.

00:25:36.300 I mean, there's kids that are like, there's people that are.

00:25:41.880 There's people dying.

00:25:43.220 Yeah, I know.

00:25:43.720 I'm like really suicide over.

00:25:47.480 Let's see what happens.

00:25:48.560 I don't know how they could expect that after all of this time, we would still just be silent if there is an active role that the firm is playing in perpetuating falsehoods about us.

00:26:12.840 And when Meghan was pregnant, she said there were questions about her son's color.

00:26:17.340 Meghan's mother is black and her father white.

00:26:20.480 So we have in tandem the conversation of he won't be given security.

00:26:24.980 He's not going to be given a title.

00:26:29.440 And also concerns and conversations about how dark his skin might be when he's born.

00:26:34.940 I feel really let down.

00:26:35.900 Also in the spotlight, Prince...

00:26:38.620 Why would he believe her?

00:26:42.480 That's your first mistake.

00:26:44.260 Harry's relationship with his father, Prince Charles.

00:26:47.040 And what I was seeing was history repeating itself, but more perhaps or definitely far more dangerous because then you add race in and you add social media in.

00:26:55.600 There were echoes of the 1995 TV tell-all with Prince Harry's mother, Princess Diana, when she revealed details about her and Prince Charles's marital affairs and her mental health crisis.

00:27:07.700 Diana died in a car crash in 1990.

00:27:10.220 Let me go to the next one, actually.

00:27:11.680 Then, you know, she's telling Oprah that her life is so hard because her and her sister-in-law had a fight.

00:27:24.360 Welcome to in-laws.

00:27:30.160 Duh.

00:27:31.100 Like, what did you expect?

00:27:32.280 What was hard to get over was being blamed for something that not only I didn't do, but that happened to me.

00:27:41.340 Meghan Markle is setting the record straight, telling Oprah the real story behind the infamous tabloid tale that she made her sister-in-law, Kate Middleton, cry in 2018.

00:27:52.220 The reverse happened.

00:27:53.680 Meghan says during the preparation of her wedding to Prince Harry, there was a confrontation between she and Kate over flower girl dresses.

00:28:00.900 It made me cry.

00:28:02.280 And it really hurt.

00:28:03.280 Flower girl dresses.

00:28:04.540 Boo-hoo. 1.00

00:28:05.320 Oh.

00:28:06.040 Boo-hoo my multi-million dollar wedding.

00:28:07.760 The dresses are wrong.

00:28:10.460 How will you survive?

00:28:12.280 My feelings.

00:28:13.260 And I thought in the context of everything else that was going on in those days leading to the wedding, that it didn't make sense to not be just doing whatever, what everyone else was doing, which was trying to be supportive, knowing what was going on with my dad and whatnot.

00:28:30.800 Meghan went on to clarify that she didn't tell the story to disparage Kate.

00:28:35.180 That she cared.

00:28:36.180 She said knowing what was going on with her.

00:28:38.660 She didn't even call him after he had a stroke.

00:28:41.500 That's what her dad was talking about in the interview.

00:28:44.180 Dang, she's using the stroke for attention. 1.00

00:28:48.180 What a gal. 1.00

00:28:49.160 But to make a point that she didn't feel protected by the royal institution.

00:28:53.420 It was a really hard week of the wedding and she was upset about something, but she owned it and she apologized and she brought me flowers and a note apologizing.

00:29:03.420 What was hard to get over was being blamed for something that not only I didn't do, but that happened to me and the people who were part of our wedding going to our comms team and saying, I know this didn't happen.

00:29:18.300 The Duchess of Sussex.

00:29:19.060 What is she saying she's blamed for?

00:29:21.120 Something with a flower girl dress.

00:29:23.020 Do you see Oprah pretending?

00:29:24.460 She's like, I have interviewed the worst people in America with real problems and I just can't imagine Oprah has that rich of a background.

00:29:36.700 I don't know what her background is, but no, I have no idea about anything about Oprah, but I don't think it was royalty.

00:29:44.340 Also revealed that she was always told to stay silent.

00:29:48.200 A similar sentiment, royal expert Katie Nichol shared with E.T.

00:29:52.240 I would tell her to stay silent too.

00:29:54.800 The royals grew up in the environment.

00:29:56.600 They know how to speak properly, how to act.

00:29:59.240 She grew up in America.

00:30:01.380 I know, they do view us as kind of trashy over there.

00:30:04.280 We are, have you seen us?

00:30:06.620 Megan wasn't allowed to do this interview two years ago. 0.99

00:30:10.220 They even speak fancy.

00:30:11.560 They do, they speak very properly.

00:30:13.020 She was certainly being courted by many high profile members of the media, reports that Gayle King wanted to do a sit down and Megan was told she wasn't allowed to do that. 0.99

00:30:21.720 I think we're going to hear much more from Megan in the opening.

00:30:25.400 Okay.

00:30:25.740 So she wants to do all these media appearances and they're like, that's for the men. 0.82

00:30:31.480 The royal family's like, ah, we've had thousands of years.

00:30:36.320 We don't need women in the front light. 1.00

00:30:38.760 Like the men are in the front.

00:30:40.760 You guys stay quiet in the back.

00:30:42.860 That's, that's Hollywood.

00:30:44.560 This is royalty.

00:30:46.320 Yeah.

00:30:46.660 And she says, ah, but, but I want to, but I want my book.

00:30:51.940 They're like Megan.

00:30:54.220 She didn't Google it.

00:30:56.140 So, okay.

00:30:57.420 Now, and apparently they did a Netflix docu-series.

00:31:01.180 I did see that too.

00:31:02.280 So, and now there's a latest report saying Megan Markle releases a statement after solo Thanksgiving appearance amid professional separation from Prince Harry.

00:31:13.600 Megan Markle has released a statement following her appearance at a Thanksgiving event last week since Sam's husband, Prince Harry.

00:31:25.520 The Duke and Duchess of Sussex are reportedly amidst a professional separation, which reports suggesting that their work is in, their work relationship is in a very bad state.

00:31:38.000 Indeed, over the first few months, both the Suits alum, 43, oh, she's older than Harry.

00:31:45.180 They're older than I thought they were.

00:31:46.980 She's 43. 0.65

00:31:47.860 Well, yeah, they're like, I mean, she's a model.

00:31:51.020 So, I mean, she's an actress, so they're like top 10% of beauty. 1.00

00:31:55.040 So they'll like, you know.

00:31:57.320 Harry, 40, have been attending various events.

00:32:00.600 Markle recently hosted an intimate dinner for Southern California welcome project through the Archwell Foundation.

00:32:06.740 Her husband did not attend the event.

00:32:09.400 The former actress has shared a statement on the Archwell website following the Thanksgiving event in which she opened about the heartfelt dinner she threw for Afghan women with their partner organization Mina's list.

00:32:22.000 I think this just adds to my theory that she just married him to get the publicity because, like, he didn't say anything.

00:32:28.640 He knows better.

00:32:29.500 He knows how to hold his tongue, not to spill his business everywhere.

00:32:32.900 And she's just like, Oprah.

00:32:35.720 Yeah.

00:32:38.260 The initiative has spent the past year building community through storytelling and creating a safe space for women who have resettled in the U.S. from Afghanistan.

00:32:47.640 And this is a common thing that people view Muslim women as oppressed, and I don't see them that way.

00:32:56.220 They just have a different culture.

00:32:58.400 And it's like the women here just want to impose our culture on them and tell them that they're victims. 1.00

00:33:04.720 And it's like, no, they just have a different culture.

00:33:07.720 Yeah, no, I did notice that because you see flyers about women getting married young. 1.00

00:33:10.880 And don't get me wrong, I don't think that children should be married.

00:33:13.280 But I'm like, it's also, like, Chinese kids working in factories, although we don't do that here. 0.90

00:33:17.660 It's still, that's how they live.

00:33:19.400 Yeah.

00:33:19.700 And it was kind of like when we went to India, they have, like, a caste system there.

00:33:24.020 A what system?

00:33:24.800 A caste system.

00:33:26.820 A caste system? 0.72

00:33:27.940 It's basically, like, they're born into, we have social class here.

00:33:32.720 They have a caste system.

00:33:34.400 A caste. 0.96

00:33:35.240 Yeah, it's like basically they're born into a certain, I'm butchering it, guys, so don't.

00:33:39.640 But, but they're born into a certain caste and they, they have to, like, marry within or it's very frowned upon to not.

00:33:48.380 Yeah, and they like dowries and stuff there, too, like, which we don't do here.

00:33:51.700 Yeah, and that's weird, but like to us, but it's a different culture.

00:33:54.760 So, but, you know, they, liberal white women, and she's mixed, but they just have a, they just have a tendency to, like, impose, like, think that our culture is the best and that it needs to be imposed on everyone. 1.00

00:34:11.320 Like, like, when I went to this abortion event, they were talking about, no, I went to this event.

00:34:18.400 It was unfortunate because our camera didn't work, but I did undercover where I just went to this, like, feminist event. 1.00

00:34:24.440 I think you told me you were going to go.

00:34:25.740 I didn't know you actually went.

00:34:26.540 No, I did.

00:34:27.000 I did go.

00:34:27.740 I did.

00:34:28.320 And one of the, they were talking about one of their initiatives was to send abortion pills by mail, so people in places where it's banned.

00:34:35.240 I did see that.

00:34:35.900 I did, I did hear about people doing that.

00:34:37.760 Yeah, and I'm thinking, you guys are crazy.

00:34:40.180 You want them to kill their kids so bad.

00:34:44.720 Oh, you are crazy.

00:34:46.340 We have an income caste system. 0.91

00:34:49.580 Yeah, okay.

00:34:50.740 And it's not income alone, though, because if you see, like, streamers, they're really trashy, you know?

00:34:57.360 So it's not like they're in the same social class.

00:35:00.420 But anyway, so they're separated.

00:35:03.000 I've seen this coming.

00:35:06.240 And let's see how old their kids are.

00:35:09.920 I'm going to Google.

00:35:10.680 Because usually when people get divorced, it's after the youngest kid hits preschool.

00:35:16.220 I think that should be about right.

00:35:17.260 I think their youngest kid is four.

00:35:18.520 It's their youngest kid.

00:35:23.780 Megan and Harry.

00:35:28.260 I was right, five.

00:35:29.440 Three.

00:35:29.940 Three-year-old daughter.

00:35:31.960 Yeah.

00:35:32.300 So five is their older one.

00:35:33.360 Yeah, because that's typically how it goes.

00:35:35.500 The wife gets the second kid. 0.54

00:35:37.600 Or if she wants one, like, whatever, however many kids she wants, stops sleeping with the husband and divorces him. 1.00

00:35:43.320 Starts cheating a lot of times and then divorces him.

00:35:45.700 I don't know who in Hollywood she's sleeping with, but I'm sure it's somebody. 0.99

00:35:49.700 Okay, so the next story we're going to talk about is there is a woman named Riley Gaines. 0.86

00:35:57.500 And Riley Gaines, I really do like her as a YouTuber, but she was the woman who got second to that male swimmer, Leah Thomas or whatever. 0.55

00:36:09.600 I do remember Leah Thomas.

00:36:10.540 She's like a blonde. 1.00

00:36:11.660 She's really fit, really, really manly.

00:36:15.220 No, no, no.

00:36:16.040 She's, I mean, she's beautiful.

00:36:18.040 Riley Gaines.

00:36:18.920 I mean, I can show you.

00:36:19.780 It's this girl.

00:36:21.280 I thought you were talking about Leah Thomas.

00:36:22.480 Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:36:23.020 Leah Thomas.

00:36:23.660 That's right.

00:36:24.140 That's Riley Gaines on the screen.

00:36:25.580 So she's a really good swimmer, and she got second because of the man competing.

00:36:32.280 So she tweets, last week, a Biden-appointed federal judge held a hearing for the volleyball players suing the Mountain West Conference.

00:36:41.100 He barred the female athletes from testifying.

00:36:44.020 Today, he ruled in favor of the less than mediocre men.

00:36:47.200 The girls plan to appeal the ruling.

00:36:50.040 So now we're in a situation where men are competing in women's sports. 0.63

00:36:55.580 And I have a really unpopular opinion, as you know.

00:36:59.120 Played volleyball for 16 years.

00:37:00.920 Played overseas.

00:37:02.380 And I don't feel bad for them in the slightest.

00:37:08.920 And I'll tell you why.

00:37:10.420 I'll tell you why.

00:37:11.520 So this spring, like a year ago, there was a spring tournament.

00:37:15.840 And the England Volleyball League allowed men to play in the women's division.

00:37:21.840 It was like a guy.

00:37:23.300 It was all nations tournament.

00:37:24.840 And there was literally a man with a boob job playing.

00:37:28.420 No, I swear.

00:37:29.600 I'm not even.

00:37:30.420 I don't know what's going on in Brazil and Thailand.

00:37:33.240 But those two teams, they.

00:37:36.360 I was playing for Poland, okay.

00:37:38.940 I don't know.

00:37:39.740 They said America was full.

00:37:41.060 And I'm a little Polish.

00:37:42.020 So they put me on that team.

00:37:45.180 Anyways.

00:37:45.620 And I'm going around being like, does anyone want to complain?

00:37:49.720 No.

00:37:51.000 They, the guys were in our locker rooms.

00:37:53.160 And I, and I'm like, guys, does anyone want to, anybody want to come?

00:37:58.400 I go to the tournament director.

00:37:59.880 Ladies.

00:38:00.580 Hey, you know, this is wrong.

00:38:02.760 I bring my camera.

00:38:04.020 Anyone want to give interviews?

00:38:07.180 They didn't care.

00:38:08.280 They all.

00:38:08.920 And in fact, a bunch of them, when I interviewed them, said they supported it.

00:38:14.980 So we can't, you know what?

00:38:16.500 They can't help us if we can't even help ourselves.

00:38:18.500 So, you know, and I saw this thing on Twitter and this perfectly showed what I experienced.

00:38:29.280 And so my unpopular opinion is I don't care if women get beat up in women's sports, because

00:38:35.740 we have BS like this, that women clap and support.

00:38:39.700 And at this point, ladies, we bring it upon themselves for ourselves, for every one woman

00:38:44.360 that speaks out, there's 10 that either support it or do not care.

00:38:49.820 Look at this.

00:38:51.440 She's smiling.

00:38:53.300 Hello, Barbara.

00:38:55.180 I'm sorry to interrupt your team meeting, everyone.

00:38:57.280 But Barbara, we just wanted to deliver a special award for you.

00:39:01.800 You are the BBC Women's Footballer of the Year 2024.

00:39:07.600 Okay, so that's, that's, that's a trans person.

00:39:10.700 All right.

00:39:11.420 And look at, she's smiling and laughing.

00:39:13.620 Or like, clapping.

00:39:16.380 She's smiling and clapping.

00:39:18.620 She's smiling.

00:39:19.340 Look at, the whole room.

00:39:21.040 There you go, man.

00:39:21.960 That's like when they appointed, what's his, his name, Dylan, the woman of the year that

00:39:26.840 one year.

00:39:28.200 Yeah.

00:39:28.520 I was like, what are we doing, guys?

00:39:29.620 So at this, yeah, at this point, we're just eating ourselves that I have no sympathy.

00:39:34.300 And I think that's why the men are just allowing it now, because they said, you know what?

00:39:40.480 I have tried to help you ladies for years.

00:39:42.940 I have tried, we have tried to say, hey, ladies, are you sure you want to play with

00:39:46.600 men?

00:39:47.820 Are you sure?

00:39:50.160 And look at, so now we have a guy being like, you know what, ladies, eat yourselves. 1.00

00:39:58.040 Look at him.

00:39:58.720 He's like, you know what?

00:39:59.440 You guys want this BS.

00:40:02.020 What do you think?

00:40:04.260 About the award?

00:40:05.700 Or just men being in women's sports?

00:40:07.260 Yeah.

00:40:07.480 What do you think?

00:40:08.260 I mean, we do it to ourselves.

00:40:09.180 I don't disagree with that.

00:40:10.760 I don't think men should be in women's sports, but I mean, if we're going to clap it on. 0.96

00:40:14.860 We're going to clap it on, like.

00:40:17.920 Yeah.

00:40:18.360 And I guarantee, I would bet money that this ruling, there are women supporting it. 1.00

00:40:25.620 Yeah.

00:40:26.060 I would guarantee.

00:40:27.680 And it was funny, in that tournament, one of my, one of you, I'm not going to say her

00:40:31.600 name, but you know the woman that I was friends with? 1.00

00:40:33.920 She got her finger, like, smashed from the guy.

00:40:37.800 And I'm like, do you want to complain?

00:40:39.200 No.

00:40:40.040 No.

00:40:40.380 Okay.

00:40:42.740 Okay.

00:40:45.840 Because this was the second year.

00:40:47.320 I don't think I actually played in that one.

00:40:49.340 I was just, like, there.

00:40:50.960 So I didn't really care, but I was like, they didn't let me in the next year, so I think

00:40:55.640 this got me banned.

00:40:57.100 Yeah.

00:40:57.360 And they sent me, I got reprimanded because I tweeted.

00:41:00.060 I can't say it on YouTube because of hate speech, but I'll just,

00:41:03.920 I'll let you put two in two.

00:41:04.740 I think I know what word you're already saying.

00:41:06.640 No, no, no.

00:41:07.140 But it was, I said, I'm afraid of, because they do kind of scare me a little bit.

00:41:13.520 Oh, Hannah.

00:41:13.940 And so the England Volleyball Association, they emailed me and said that I was under, like,

00:41:20.840 a review or something and that they were going to, and I asked, like, that there was some

00:41:25.940 council that was reviewing my tweets that was, I guess they, all the minorities or whatever, 0.65

00:41:32.440 like, they had representatives that represented it.

00:41:34.840 And I just said, well, I identify as a man and I would like to join it.

00:41:40.300 And I never heard from them again.

00:41:42.480 I don't know.

00:41:43.540 I never got reprimanded or anything.

00:41:45.640 They just threatened it too.

00:41:47.320 So I don't know.

00:41:49.260 I'm like, well, I identify as it.

00:41:52.120 Let me join.

00:41:52.940 I could probably find the email if I wanted to, but.

00:41:56.020 Okay, so the next thing I want to talk about is, have you ever seen The View, Eva?

00:42:03.440 You know what The View is?

00:42:04.760 I've heard of it.

00:42:05.360 I don't think I've ever actually seen anything on it.

00:42:07.300 So there's a woman from The View that's named Sunny.

00:42:10.440 And she constantly talks about how racist America is.

00:42:14.980 And the funniest thing happened ever.

00:42:17.040 She found out, because if you look at her, she's a Hispanic woman. 0.73

00:42:22.400 And she found out that she descended from slave owners.

00:42:27.720 That's really embarrassing.

00:42:29.260 Yeah, let me pull this up.

00:42:31.720 Wow.

00:42:33.880 I'm a little bit in shock.

00:42:36.160 I just always thought of myself as Puerto Rican, you know, half Puerto Rican.

00:42:39.520 And I didn't think I was, my family was originally from Spain and slaveholders.

00:42:47.060 Yeah.

00:42:47.760 So how are you feeling, my friend?

00:42:54.460 You can tell that man's over the bullshit.

00:42:56.360 He's just like.

00:42:58.080 No, because I think what happens to men is they go through life and they realize that if they're too rational, they lose their job or like get reprimanded in some way.

00:43:09.340 So they just start going along with it.

00:43:11.020 They're like, all right.

00:43:12.400 All right, ladies. 0.98

00:43:14.600 Pretty interesting that my husband and I have shared roots.

00:43:19.640 Yeah.

00:43:20.340 So I do appreciate that.

00:43:23.740 I don't know.

00:43:24.480 I think they both came from slave, like the same.

00:43:26.920 Like, I think they're related.

00:43:28.120 It would have been really funny if her family owned her husband's family.

00:43:31.940 And I think it's great for our children to know this information.

00:43:35.740 And I guess it's a fact of life that this is how some people made their living.

00:43:43.300 You know, I remember I had to explain to someone once that the majority of white people did not own slaves.

00:43:51.220 I'm pretty sure that right now in the world there's more white slaves. 1.00

00:43:53.700 Don't quote me on that, but I'm pretty sure I heard that somewhere.

00:43:56.040 Well, the word slave came from Slavic.

00:43:59.060 Yeah.

00:43:59.460 But in the U.S., it's less than 2% of white people owned slaves.

00:44:05.240 Yeah.

00:44:05.720 I don't want to say.

00:44:07.200 White people also didn't invent slavery.

00:44:09.200 Yeah, I know.

00:44:10.180 I know.

00:44:10.560 We just get blamed for it.

00:44:11.960 We really do.

00:44:13.800 Be careful.

00:44:14.760 You're in school.

00:44:16.500 Be careful.

00:44:17.560 You're in school still.

00:44:19.120 Okay.

00:44:19.780 So the next topic we're going to talk about is, okay, so you've heard me talk about how American households are changing.

00:44:30.240 So when we were kids, I mean, I would say the majority when I was a kid of people I knew were married.

00:44:37.020 Like all of my friends' parents were married.

00:44:39.240 You're almost a decade younger than me.

00:44:41.380 Would you say that was true when you were growing up?

00:44:44.000 I would say yes for the people I knew who had parents in Catholic schools.

00:44:47.820 Okay.

00:44:48.420 But not the parents who were genuinely, like, in, like, they were slightly religious at least.

00:44:54.860 Yeah.

00:44:54.960 But, like, because I knew some people whose parents just sent them there because they lived in a bad school district.

00:44:59.100 And it was not those.

00:45:00.460 Once I got to high school, because our middle school was really small, and there I didn't really, we had, like, two people in our whole grade that got, for me, that got divorced.

00:45:10.280 I don't think we had, I think that my middle school, I don't think anybody was.

00:45:16.620 Once I got to high school, that was when I personally started meeting more people that were divorced or got divorced.

00:45:24.540 I think I just knew a lot of people who had unhappy marriages in their family rather than divorced.

00:45:30.280 Like, I'm trying to think if anybody was actually, like, I don't think that anybody was actually divorced.

00:45:35.420 I think some of them are now, but.

00:45:37.500 What's interesting is how different everything's becoming in such a short period of time.

00:45:43.800 So they are talking about how American households have changed over time.

00:45:48.780 And so this was taken in 2023.

00:45:52.540 30% of people are married, no kids.

00:45:56.940 13% of people single, no kids.

00:46:00.540 17% married parents.

00:46:04.080 7% single parents.

00:46:06.720 And 16% households with unmarried partners, roommates, or adult relatives.

00:46:10.860 So this was, okay, wait.

00:46:18.340 The composition of American households has shifted significantly since 1960.

00:46:23.240 As fewer people have kids and the scale of economic resources has declined.

00:46:27.940 Today, the number of households without kids exceeds those with kids.

00:46:31.220 A trend that first emerged in 2014.

00:46:34.720 In addition, single-person households have broadly continued to incline, reaching 30% of the total last year.

00:46:42.060 This figure has more than doubled the past six decades.

00:46:45.340 The graphic shows the composition of American households over time, based on data from the Census Bureau.

00:46:52.040 Below, we show the makeup of American households from 1960 at a time of rising costs, record home prices, and low fertility rates.

00:47:00.760 In 1960, the share of U.S. households that contained married parents was 44%, which has dropped by half in 2023.

00:47:09.280 I wonder if the correlation to this is based off crime.

00:47:12.380 Because I feel like they talk about crime a lot nowadays, too.

00:47:14.600 I feel like that has a lot to do with the breakdown of the American family or the modern, not the modern, that's the word.

00:47:20.500 The traditional family, right?

00:47:21.700 Yeah.

00:47:21.840 Yeah, I'm sure.

00:47:22.560 Most Americans today are delaying or foregoing marriage altogether, with just 20% of women and 23% of men aged 25 being married, the lowest number on record.

00:47:34.760 Projections indicate that by 2050, one-third of Americans aged 45 may remain unmarried.

00:47:40.860 Meanwhile, households consuming of single parents or individuals living alone have doubled over the period, coinciding with the U.S. fertility rate, falling to a historic low of 1.6 children per woman in 2023, well below the 2.1 replacement level needed for population stability.

00:47:59.600 Personal preference plays a significant role in changing attitudes towards parenthood.

00:48:04.160 Amongst Americans under 50 without children, almost 60% said they didn't want kids, while 44% preferred to focus on other priorities.

00:48:14.280 Financial concerns also weighed heavily, with 36% citing the cost of raising children, three times the rate amongst childless people over 50.

00:48:23.380 Last year, just 16% of homes in America were considered affordable, as mortgage rates more than doubled since 2021.

00:48:32.440 This represents a sharp decline from 2013, where 50% of homes were affordable, a shift that is likely shaping household dynamics as rising.

00:48:41.780 So what's interesting is we, I don't know, you're, because again, you're a decade younger than me almost, so it's a little different.

00:48:50.480 But when I was growing up, because we, when I was growing up, we were one of six.

00:48:55.940 And I know there's the later, but that's, you know, but we're just going to start with the sixth.

00:49:01.540 But I wasn't abnormal for me to meet families that had three or four.

00:49:05.780 I'd say over four would be pretty, like four was a lot, but like two to three was normal, maybe.

00:49:11.920 And then four was not abnormal.

00:49:14.540 Like I could think of a decent amount of families that had four.

00:49:18.540 But it's interesting because if right now only 20%, or it's even less, 17% are married parents, we can assume that half of those will fail, right?

00:49:30.540 Because half have failed in the past, that's the future.

00:49:33.820 So if, like, once we have kids, what's interesting is all of our kids' friends will be single children, basically.

00:49:44.700 Yeah.

00:49:45.540 Isn't that weird?

00:49:46.220 I think that especially right now, I've noticed a lot more, you don't see many families with more than, like, like even at daycares, like they have two kids.

00:49:56.400 The only family that I know that has more than two kids is because they had twins.

00:49:59.980 Yeah.

00:50:00.380 And I bet the mom was older. 1.00

00:50:02.000 I bet it was IVF.

00:50:03.560 It actually was not.

00:50:04.700 Really?

00:50:05.480 Really?

00:50:06.280 Yeah.

00:50:06.840 Oh, because you have first guys, she works at a daycare, and she's worked at a daycare for a while. 0.98

00:50:11.860 So you can see the kids firsthand.

00:50:14.580 Yeah.

00:50:14.980 And so you'd say that's true, it's mostly.

00:50:17.840 I'd say for the most part, if they have more than three kids, it's either they had twins accidentally trying for their second kid, or it's because they wanted the other gender.

00:50:26.720 So out of every 10 kids that come in, how many are only children?

00:50:31.380 It depends on where you're looking at.

00:50:32.940 In Illinois, I would say probably five or six out of 10 would be only children.

00:50:40.520 But in Colorado, I'd say it's a higher number.

00:50:43.520 I'd say seven or eight.

00:50:45.280 Because most of those parents aren't married.

00:50:47.540 They, I'm guessing, just had a child.

00:50:49.080 A lot of them are divorced.

00:50:49.980 A lot of them aren't together.

00:50:51.180 A lot of them are just single moms. 1.00

00:50:53.300 Because the one thing is, when you look at data, they're, because they want, they want men to keep getting married, even though the system is really bad for them.

00:51:04.240 So they, they will always hide statistics that make marriage look bad.

00:51:10.180 Yeah.

00:51:10.880 Because they don't, they're like, no, no, no, guys, don't worry about the legal system and child support and alimony.

00:51:15.840 Sign up.

00:51:16.540 Don't just forget about that.

00:51:18.900 No, no, no, it'll totally work out.

00:51:21.100 So what percent of kids would you say in the daycare are from married parents versus, in relationships versus single?

00:51:31.340 In Illinois, I would say the majority of the parents are married.

00:51:35.720 But we're also not as close to Chicago and all the, whatever people.

00:51:40.080 I'd say in Colorado, which is really close to Denver, I would say probably, I don't know, a fourth of the parents are married.

00:51:47.880 So a quarter, really?

00:51:49.340 Yeah.

00:51:49.960 Because the way it starts is the cities start with the trends.

00:51:53.300 And then, you know what else I'm curious?

00:51:54.980 Do you know any women that have done sugar dating or any sort of OnlyFans?

00:52:02.820 Like personally, not through like me or my show or any of that.

00:52:08.160 No, but I don't really.

00:52:09.880 Yeah.

00:52:10.560 I was thinking, I don't think it's hit the suburbs yet.

00:52:14.260 But the weird thing is once you get into a city, it's like crazy how many there are.

00:52:20.440 I've heard people on campus talking about it, so I'm sure people on campus do it.

00:52:25.260 But I don't personally know anybody that does.

00:52:28.240 Yeah.

00:52:30.680 Okay.

00:52:31.600 So.

00:52:34.120 Interesting.

00:52:36.120 So you would attribute Illinois being more married because we're further from the city?

00:52:41.380 And because we're just like, in general, like I know we're still a blue state, but where we are, it's not.

00:52:46.780 Yeah, it's pretty conservative.

00:52:47.940 Yeah, like it's only really conservative in the city or non.

00:52:50.960 It's only Democrat in the cities, really.

00:52:53.440 And what ages were the kids?

00:52:56.040 Huh?

00:52:56.600 Like the kids at the daycare.

00:52:58.140 They go from six weeks to six years.

00:53:00.600 Okay.

00:53:00.840 So it's and because the other thing is, if it's under six, if they get divorced, I'm guessing it would be when the kids like four to six.

00:53:11.320 Yeah, that's right.

00:53:12.900 That's what's happening at the.

00:53:14.320 Remember that family I told you about when you're in Amsterdam and you guessed the dad's job?

00:53:17.840 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:53:18.280 They're getting divorced right now and their youngest just turned four.

00:53:22.860 Yeah, that's usually.

00:53:24.180 Or not three.

00:53:25.380 Yeah, that's generally.

00:53:26.720 That's the first round of divorces. 1.00

00:53:28.660 The second round, I think, are it's either when the kids become teenagers or they get out of the house.

00:53:34.700 Yeah.

00:53:35.240 Yeah.

00:53:35.460 So, okay.

00:53:37.840 So the next topic that we're going to go.

00:53:42.740 Yes, she's my.

00:53:44.340 Oh, the other question I had.

00:53:45.940 So you want to be a housewife. 0.99

00:53:47.700 I do.

00:53:48.320 Very badly.

00:53:49.520 And how many women your age would you say out of your friend group? 0.78

00:53:53.660 Is there anyone else that wants to be a housewife? 1.00

00:53:56.400 Yeah, but I also have a very conservative friend group.

00:53:58.900 Okay.

00:53:59.220 I think the people on campus that I've told about my hopes and desires and my dreams really, really look down upon me.

00:54:07.100 So at college, that's where you've kind of heard of people doing OnlyFans or you've heard of it.

00:54:15.060 Yeah.

00:54:15.980 That's where you've heard.

00:54:16.940 That's where people kind of laugh at you for wanting to be a housewife. 1.00

00:54:19.720 Yeah.

00:54:19.900 Somebody the other day, I was telling them, I don't think Ballerina Farm is oppressed.

00:54:23.660 I think that she's actually very happy and she's living the life she wants.

00:54:27.240 And they said, you're crazy.

00:54:29.280 And I was like, she's living in a multi-acre property with a multi-millionaire, with her multiple kids, with her own business and a loving husband.

00:54:37.980 I'm like, what are you talking about?

00:54:39.200 What more does she want? 1.00

00:54:40.320 Like, what else?

00:54:41.180 Like, they grow everything themselves.

00:54:42.960 They have the animal.

00:54:43.540 I'm like, what?

00:54:44.720 So oppressed.

00:54:46.100 Yeah.

00:54:46.480 They're like, oh, but she could have been a ballerina. 1.00

00:54:49.920 I mean, I don't know.

00:54:50.900 She was a ballerina. 0.52

00:54:52.120 She danced through her first, like, two kids.

00:54:54.580 Oh, really?

00:54:55.280 Yeah.

00:54:55.500 Like, there's videos of her dancing at Jilliard pregnant.

00:54:58.980 No way.

00:54:59.660 So it's like, I don't know why people are saying he forced her out of that life.

00:55:02.840 She. 0.93

00:55:03.500 I mean, I do think the farm was his idea, but I mean, she opts in.

00:55:08.100 Yeah.

00:55:08.380 She said, sounds fun.

00:55:09.980 Yeah.

00:55:10.720 And she still dances.

00:55:11.920 Maybe not professionally, but.

00:55:15.000 Yeah.

00:55:15.800 They're so crazy.

00:55:17.620 I don't know.

00:55:17.920 That woman's my dream life. 1.00

00:55:21.480 She's like, us and our eight kids, I'm cooking them sourdough bread tonight.

00:55:24.680 I'm like, oh, invite me over.

00:55:26.640 I know.

00:55:27.020 You know how to make sourdough, don't you?

00:55:29.260 I've been learning.

00:55:30.160 I tried to make a starter and I failed miserably.

00:55:32.080 So I bought one.

00:55:33.180 I bought a dehydrated starter, but I haven't actually started it yet because I've been gone.

00:55:37.980 The breads.

00:55:38.820 I have not done really well.

00:55:41.020 I kind of.

00:55:42.220 I've been getting into the breads for Adam recently.

00:55:44.380 I don't know.

00:55:44.880 You see, I don't know.

00:55:46.300 Maybe you are quicker at it, but I did it a couple of times and I just felt like it takes

00:55:51.700 so long to knead the bread.

00:55:53.560 Well, you can use a KitchenAid to knead it for you.

00:55:56.160 I mean, I prefer kneading it by hand because I feel like you can get a better feel of it.

00:55:59.980 Oh, I should do that.

00:56:01.680 Like you can at least start it with the KitchenAid.

00:56:03.360 I didn't have one at the time.

00:56:04.860 I do now, though.

00:56:05.780 I love my KitchenAid.

00:56:06.820 I love it so much.

00:56:07.860 I don't use it too much because I'm usually just cooking for like four people at most.

00:56:13.200 I'm just cooking for Adam and he's four people in himself.

00:56:15.500 Okay, so the next story we're going to talk about, and actually I'm curious about this.

00:56:24.220 So you are 20, right?

00:56:27.520 You're 20?

00:56:28.040 Yeah.

00:56:28.140 Yeah, you're 20.

00:56:28.620 Okay, that's what I thought.

00:56:30.060 Your friends, would you say, what's your oldest friend?

00:56:35.700 I mean, that's kind of hard because a lot of the people I work with I still talk to consistently.

00:56:40.640 Like I'm going to go see one of them this weekend and she's, I think, 50.

00:56:45.500 So, I love her.

00:56:48.240 I love her so much.

00:56:49.520 But my oldest friend that I talk to consistently is probably, I think she's 26.

00:56:54.200 Okay, so 26, like maybe 18 to 26 your friends range from?

00:56:59.320 Yeah.

00:56:59.980 I mean, now, does anyone you know from your friend group, have they gotten plastic surgery?

00:57:10.840 I don't think so, no.

00:57:12.100 So now there's this trend of women, and we both know people, it tends to start plastic 1.00

00:57:21.580 surgery when women are a bit older, so you're a bit young, but the trend is getting older 1.00

00:57:26.740 and older, and now, you know, it begs the question, if a man meets a woman and she's gotten a bunch

00:57:35.900 of surgery, what will the kids look like?

00:57:38.620 And this is a woman detailing, can I make this full screen?

00:57:43.060 Let me just zoom in.

00:57:44.320 So this was her now, and that's her before. 0.85

00:57:46.520 Those poor kids.

00:57:50.780 I know.

00:57:51.680 Okay, I'm going to give you the rundown.

00:57:53.420 And it's not like she was completely ugly before.

00:57:56.000 I think it's mostly her hair.

00:57:57.140 I feel bad for the kids, because they're going to get blamed for them being ugly, and it's

00:58:00.720 not, because their mom is gorgeous.

00:58:02.040 The procedure I've had done to go from that and that, in order, with the cost on the ones

00:58:08.540 that I can remember, and who performed it.

00:58:11.520 Also, disclaimer, I have to say, I do not.

00:58:14.000 Oh, sorry.

00:58:15.240 Suri can come with serious complications, consequences.

00:58:18.920 It is not a walk in the park.

00:58:20.200 Okay, I want to say, at 20 years old, I might have been 21, I got my nose done by Jonathan

00:58:28.120 Pontel in Wayne, PA.

00:58:30.780 I believe the cost was about 9K.

00:58:33.900 These were the results.

00:58:35.200 I know, then that begs the question, how do you have the money?

00:58:38.200 That's the other question.

00:58:39.140 I don't have $9,000.

00:58:41.200 That's why there's an explosion in sugar dating. 1.00

00:58:46.500 Oh, God.

00:58:47.820 And that's just one of them, she said?

00:58:49.500 She's like, if I can remember.

00:58:51.320 It was about 9K.

00:58:53.160 These were the results.

00:58:54.440 Overall, it wasn't my dream nose.

00:58:56.500 Okay, these were rough times in my life, so.

00:58:59.340 The next thing I did was get a lip lift, and the reason that I got a lip lift was because

00:59:04.020 they had lifted my septum up so much that I now was seeing all the space that I wasn't

00:59:09.220 used to.

00:59:10.100 Unfortunately, I don't know how to zoom in the picture, but my scar on this lip lift was not

00:59:14.440 great.

00:59:15.320 Also compounded with, I was blowing my lips up with filler.

00:59:19.500 Which essentially pulls down on your upper lip.

00:59:22.340 And I don't know if you've been to LA recently, but if you go to LA, all the women have this. 0.98

00:59:27.680 Same with Miami.

00:59:28.700 It's so common.

00:59:30.540 Yeah, I'm not, I'm not, because filler is really easy to get.

00:59:32.760 It's just like a needle.

00:59:33.840 Yeah.

00:59:34.280 And like healing is like nothing.

00:59:35.600 And you can get it at a med spa in like a day.

00:59:37.720 Yeah, like.

00:59:40.560 And I ended up going to, in Baltimore, Maryland.

00:59:44.100 I want to say, I mean, she goes through these.

00:59:45.760 I had to do fat grafting in this area as well.

00:59:47.500 I didn't love the results of fat grafting from him, fat grafting from around.

00:59:51.840 Did she say the total?

00:59:53.780 Uh, I think it was like 20 to 30.

00:59:56.060 Well, but I did an upper bleph on me.

00:59:57.200 So that's basically where you can see the difference in my eyes now and then.

01:00:02.020 They're just much more open now.

01:00:04.060 Genetically, I had a slight hooding.

01:00:05.900 And, you know, as we age, that area tends to drop a little bit.

01:00:09.500 And I wanted to look rejuvenated.

01:00:11.840 But yeah, I believe that's everything I've done.

01:00:13.960 And, um, outside of, I've had fillers here, there, removed.

01:00:18.900 I get Botox regularly.

01:00:20.700 This is me at age 19.

01:00:22.080 This is me now at 30.

01:00:24.940 Isn't that crazy?

01:00:26.460 This is me at age 19.

01:00:28.760 Wait, hold on.

01:00:29.780 I want to pause.

01:00:30.880 Also, she's using like one of the worst possible photos of herself.

01:00:33.780 I feel like.

01:00:35.160 I don't know anybody who has a good passport photo.

01:00:40.160 Like, it's just people trying to encourage this plastic surgery.

01:00:43.500 So they don't, it's trying to normalize it.

01:00:44.960 So they don't feel bad about doing it.

01:00:46.980 Then.

01:00:48.160 Let me see.

01:00:48.960 There's so many of these.

01:00:50.740 Like.

01:00:52.680 Let me see.

01:00:53.820 Lindsay Lohan recently.

01:00:55.520 I have heard about Lindsay Lohan.

01:00:58.580 Yeah.

01:00:59.200 So, I mean.

01:01:02.740 Lindsay Lohan go from this to this.

01:01:06.380 Hi, guys.

01:01:07.120 My name is Revian.

01:01:07.840 I am a New York City cosmetic injector.

01:01:10.360 I've been working aesthetics for 10 years.

01:01:12.540 Okay.

01:01:13.500 I'm not going to go through the whole video.

01:01:16.460 But then let me pull up one more.

01:01:22.800 This is.

01:01:23.660 This is everything I've had done to my face.

01:01:26.100 For reference, I'm 29.

01:01:27.620 I do get some comments of people thinking that I'm a lot younger.

01:01:31.060 I don't think that's because of anything I've had done.

01:01:33.460 I think I do just have a baby face.

01:01:36.200 Does that make sense?

01:01:36.820 The first thing I ever had done.

01:01:38.660 Which is quite niche.

01:01:39.500 I feel like not a lot of people have this at my age.

01:01:42.080 Is I got my smile lines filled when I was 25.

01:01:46.740 That was the first thing I ever got.

01:01:48.480 And I got 0.5 in my lips at the same time.

01:01:51.080 And I got that done in Harley Street.

01:01:52.860 I was 25.

01:01:53.700 I'd never had anything done.

01:01:55.040 And I'd seen so many bad filler jobs.

01:01:58.960 I was like, I want to go to someone who's going to know what they're doing and be really good.

01:02:03.520 It's actually like a qualified doctor.

01:02:06.460 When you have your smile lines filled, they make a little hole here.

01:02:08.880 And they just fill this.

01:02:10.860 And I liked it.

01:02:12.000 But I had one side deeper than the other.

01:02:14.420 So I got it done again.

01:02:15.660 Not in Harley Street.

01:02:16.840 Still somewhere quite good.

01:02:17.940 And I haven't had that done since.

01:02:20.200 And that was four years ago.

01:02:22.280 And I honestly feel like that's made the most difference to my face out of anything I've ever had.

01:02:26.640 Then when I was 25 again, about six months later, I got Botox for the first time.

01:02:32.480 I don't have any Botox right now, by the way.

01:02:34.160 Like, I promise you.

01:02:36.760 I don't have Botox now.

01:02:38.000 And I got that done consistently, like, every three to four months up until I got pregnant, which was when I was 27.

01:02:45.500 So, like, two years.

01:02:46.920 And I absolutely love Botox.

01:02:50.440 I'm a Botox stan.

01:02:52.440 Between being pregnant and breastfeeding, I've not had Botox since.

01:02:55.960 I have a hot take on Botox.

01:02:57.600 As much as I love it, people definitely think I look younger without it.

01:03:01.900 So I don't know if it makes you look younger.

01:03:04.320 And I offer most of those interviews for free.

01:03:07.040 So all you have to do is type in your email.

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01:03:10.940 Okay.

01:03:12.040 So now there's been another trend going on.

01:03:15.940 And this is the we listen, don't judge.

01:03:19.000 And so basically what happens is women are putting men through humiliation rituals. 0.99

01:03:24.380 So men value privacy. 0.87

01:03:27.020 Women like attention. 1.00

01:03:28.360 So generally when there's couples content, it's the woman running the relationship because men don't like the public stuff.

01:03:35.260 And they do it because most men, in terms of sex, are in a state of scarcity.

01:03:41.860 So they're like, she might leave if I don't do this content.

01:03:46.860 It's going to take me this amount of time to get another woman. 1.00

01:03:50.120 And it kind of, I like these because it shows the state of relationships in America.

01:04:01.780 And you can just kind of see how the women are like subtly embarrassing their husbands in public through bees. 1.00

01:04:09.340 Like how embarrassing is that?

01:04:22.580 Your wife just publicly said she doesn't sleep with you and she pretends to have a headache. 1.00

01:04:27.520 Like listen and we listen and we don't judge.

01:04:33.920 Sometimes I go in the bathroom and hide and pretend to go to the bathroom when I hear the chaos in the house.

01:04:39.440 Just so you have to handle it, not me.

01:04:42.900 I'm not judging.

01:04:43.920 I'm not judging.

01:04:45.520 We listen and we don't judge.

01:04:48.920 When sometimes I tell you I'm going to get a facial, but I'm really going to get Botox.

01:04:53.260 So if he doesn't want Botox, why is she getting it?

01:05:06.020 Yeah, I was going to say who paid for the house that they're in because it looks really nice.

01:05:09.720 Yeah, but if she's getting a cosmetic procedure and the man doesn't want it, it's for other men. 1.00

01:05:16.300 Yeah.

01:05:16.940 So why is she getting it?

01:05:22.120 We listen.

01:05:23.260 We listen and we don't judge.

01:05:25.020 Like look at this couple.

01:05:26.380 Who wants to be doing this trend?

01:05:28.760 Yeah.

01:05:29.320 Yeah.

01:05:30.160 See, I haven't seen these ones.

01:05:31.180 I've seen the ones that are like funny.

01:05:34.880 Being like, I broke a hole in the wall.

01:05:37.980 They're all like this if you pay attention.

01:05:40.780 Maybe.

01:05:41.280 But this one's like very clearly like.

01:05:43.600 Yeah.

01:05:43.920 Fix something downstairs just so I can play video games and have some peace.

01:05:49.560 We're not judging.

01:05:50.900 Wait, what did he say?

01:05:51.480 I can play video games and I pretend to have to fix something downstairs just so I can play video games and have some peace.

01:05:59.260 We're not judging.

01:06:00.100 No, but the men find their wives so exhausting that they like hide from them. 1.00

01:06:11.440 We listen and we don't judge.

01:06:13.900 Sometimes I move your keys on purpose just to drive you crazy when you say you can't find them.

01:06:21.600 Yes.

01:06:21.880 Yeah.

01:06:21.980 I don't know why.

01:06:24.360 We listen and we don't judge.

01:06:29.520 Sometimes I go in our bedroom at night and pretend to fold laundry while you're downstairs just so I don't have to help you clean up.

01:06:37.720 We listen, we listen.

01:06:41.500 We listen.

01:06:42.660 You know what I realized?

01:06:44.080 Hmm.

01:06:44.720 Men would rather have a messy house than a nagging wife. 1.00

01:06:48.720 Yeah.

01:06:49.300 Like they would rather it just be a little messy.

01:06:51.340 It's fine.

01:06:52.460 Than having a woman nagging at them to pick up all the time.

01:06:56.080 Yeah.

01:06:56.360 I wouldn't blame them either.

01:06:57.720 Yeah.

01:06:58.340 And we don't judge.

01:06:59.820 We don't judge.

01:07:00.500 Sometimes I tell you I have to go run errands, but I'm really just eating Chick-fil-A in my car and go shopping.

01:07:12.920 We listen and we don't judge.

01:07:19.160 Sometimes I ignore you and pretend like I can't hear you in hopes that.

01:07:24.980 She is admitting to spending without asking him.

01:07:29.380 He's admitting.

01:07:29.920 So the next one on here, let me see, is going to be this one.

01:07:39.080 And we don't judge.

01:07:41.200 We were dating and I checked your location and you said you were home and I wasn't quite sure if that was true.

01:07:46.060 So I decided to go follow your location and I stayed at your house until I saw you in your room to confirm that you were at home and had no plans.

01:07:56.720 We listen and we don't.

01:07:59.220 We listen and we don't judge.

01:08:03.560 Sometimes on the way back from my haircut, I'll just get food and I'll like park in a parking lot and I'll eat it.

01:08:09.560 And then I'll come home and I'll act like I didn't like eat anything.

01:08:14.780 We listen and we don't judge.

01:08:17.720 Sometimes in an argument, I'll get even more upset when I come to realize that some of your points are actually like logical and make sense.

01:08:24.720 How do you get more mad that what I'm saying is correct, though?

01:08:35.920 She just admitted she's going to get mad either way.

01:08:38.540 Because why are you being valentineous here?

01:08:41.100 Why would you want to argue with a dumb nigga? 1.00

01:08:44.340 We listen and we don't judge.

01:08:47.260 Some guy said in the comments that depends on what the nagging wife looks like as she picks things up or if she's nagging while naked. 1.00

01:08:53.720 That one green dress that you bought off Fashion Nova like last month, I threw it in the trash.

01:09:02.160 Like crazy.

01:09:03.080 Yeah.

01:09:03.820 Wait, hold on.

01:09:04.560 Let me go back.

01:09:05.640 Because why are you bringing valid points here?

01:09:08.580 Why would you want to argue with a dumb nigga? 1.00

01:09:11.300 We listen and we don't judge.

01:09:15.160 That one green dress that you bought off Fashion Nova like last month, I threw it in the trash last Tuesday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Tuesday.

01:09:21.880 Because I didn't, it just wasn't, I didn't like, I didn't, yeah, you tried it on, I had a bunch of stuff coming off of it and everything like that and I didn't like that.

01:09:34.240 Like, yeah, so this is an interesting trend where they're just humiliating men in public. 1.00

01:09:44.020 Yeah.

01:09:46.460 Do you know what I mean though?

01:09:47.660 Yeah.

01:09:47.800 Because no guy wants their relationship on social media.

01:09:51.820 Yeah.

01:09:52.520 So the women that are doing it, it's like most likely, unless he's a social media guy, the relationship's on her terms. 0.50

01:10:00.200 Yeah.

01:10:00.540 And if you watch these, it's all the same complaints.

01:10:02.780 It's the men just want to be left alone.

01:10:04.860 Yeah.

01:10:06.220 And the women, it's like they back, like they, they don't really say anything bad.

01:10:12.520 They just want to be left alone.

01:10:13.740 And the women are kind of just, yeah, they're just like, I'm gonna go hide in the basement. 1.00

01:10:16.780 And she's like, you can't get it up anymore.

01:10:22.520 Okay.

01:10:22.880 So I'm going to continue to, this one I thought was hilarious.

01:10:30.780 And I, we're going to end the show on something funny that reminded me of our dad.

01:10:37.660 Oh.

01:10:40.000 Okay.

01:10:40.800 To admit that his backyard rink, Martin Ross is the first to admit that his backyard rink is a cut above the standard shinny shanty.

01:10:48.320 It's a beautiful outdoor rink that's kind of done properly.

01:10:50.740 It's not your typical, you know, two by four boards with a tarp thrown down.

01:10:54.600 A hockey haven in the back half of his massive backyard that has become the subject of a years-long dispute with both neighbours and the city.

01:11:02.560 Nightmare.

01:11:03.760 Ross lives in Markham's scenic Unionville and his home has heritage designation.

01:11:07.720 And so when he put up the rink during the pandemic without permission.

01:11:12.100 I did this for my kids.

01:11:13.740 It wasn't long before the city stepped in.

01:11:15.960 They are indeed the 600-pound gorilla to fight against.

01:11:18.780 Some neighbours incensed about Ross's overhaul of the heritage property, along with the noise and all the errant pucks that they say has come with the rink.

01:11:26.420 This gentleman has completely destroyed what was a gorgeous backyard full of greenery that supported privacy and quiet for the surrounding neighbours.

01:11:36.920 And without permits, he went ahead and tore down massive 100-year-old trees and has turned it into a parking lot.

01:11:45.380 Ross admits he was wrong to cut down the trees, but has been fighting for his right to the rink.

01:11:50.360 Two years ago, a superior court ruled that the city of Markham can legally step in to remove it.

01:11:55.060 But Ross's recent attempt at an injunction was dismissed.

01:11:58.640 Mr. Ross feels, has felt all the way along that he's above the law, that bylaws don't apply to him.

01:12:03.720 It's stressful on me, it's been stressful on my kids.

01:12:06.460 The city of Markham telling CTV News...

01:12:08.420 The poor man just wants his rink.

01:12:10.700 He just wants his kids to have something to do.

01:12:13.280 I know.

01:12:13.940 ...in a statement that its lawyers and Ross have reached an agreement to restore the property to pre-2021 conditions.

01:12:20.180 Their remediation work will be carried out by the homeowner.

01:12:22.820 Ross says he's preparing to reluctantly remove the rink.

01:12:26.740 Would we have Wayne Gretzky today if, you know, if Walter Gretzky didn't build the backyard rink that he built?

01:12:34.500 I don't know who that is.

01:12:35.720 That's funny.

01:12:36.840 It reminded me of the water slide Dad put up.

01:12:39.900 And how the city was like, no, you can't have a structure taller than your house.

01:12:45.640 He was like, it's connected to my, that's my house right there.

01:12:47.760 I know, I don't understand why people are so lame.

01:12:51.260 I would want to get invited to the rink.

01:12:54.340 So if my neighbor had an ice skating rink, I would want to ice skate.

01:12:58.780 You feel like I'm going to bring the hot cocoa, you bring the skates?

01:13:00.880 I would make brownies or something to get my foot in the door.

01:13:04.120 I'd be like, guys, fellas, I see you got a rink there.

01:13:08.400 Yeah, people are dramatic when it comes to the look of those things.

01:13:11.500 You show up with cookies and then you just like casually have ice skates with you.

01:13:18.220 The poor guy.

01:13:19.200 Okay.

01:13:19.660 I saw this one too and I just thought it was, have you seen this?

01:13:23.780 No.

01:13:24.540 For a million, I do, I do have an attempt to take her last name and make it mine.

01:13:29.300 In marriage.

01:13:30.780 Yeah, that's easy.

01:13:32.580 Yes, I would.

01:13:33.560 Hell yeah, I'd take it.

01:13:34.620 For a million dollars, yeah.

01:13:36.360 You brought the money.

01:13:37.020 I would even give you my first name even.

01:13:39.120 You want to change that one also.

01:13:41.500 Not me.

01:13:42.720 Your wife, you know, would you take her last name?

01:13:46.420 I'm telling you yes, I will now.

01:13:47.960 Okay, how about for 500K?

01:13:50.200 You're pricing too high even.

01:13:52.040 You start from 2000.

01:13:53.940 Let's start with it.

01:13:55.200 How about 500K?

01:13:57.260 Yeah.

01:13:58.200 Yeah.

01:13:58.660 I would change my whole, everything.

01:14:01.080 You want me, change my, everything you want me to change, I change.

01:14:03.960 So for $2,000, you would take her last name?

01:14:06.460 Give me $1,500.

01:14:09.240 I'm not even pricing too high.

01:14:11.560 I don't want to play hard to get.

01:14:13.020 So you had the opportunity, so you're going to miss out on $1 million.

01:14:16.200 You just better take $500.

01:14:17.600 No, I would take the $1 million.

01:14:18.680 Are you giving me $1 million?

01:14:20.240 I would take, I'm just telling you that I would give you more too.

01:14:23.060 What else do you want?

01:14:23.900 I'm welcome.

01:14:24.300 How about $2 million?

01:14:25.420 How about $2 million?

01:14:27.040 I would take $2 million.

01:14:28.060 How about $3 million?

01:14:28.800 Why?

01:14:29.220 Why?

01:14:29.660 How about $3 million?

01:14:30.600 I would, I would have $4 million.

01:14:31.020 I would definitely we'd eat that.

01:14:32.540 I would show up for $7.

JustPearlyThings - November 26, 2024

Why MODERN WOMEN Keep REJECTING The Redpill! ｜ Pearl Daily

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