JustPearlyThings - Why Modern Women RUINING Society with Their NUDITY in 2023

00:00:00.000 She chooses to put in all the pictures she took on a holiday. Why is it that one where she's naked that she chooses to put on the internet?

00:00:06.620 Actually, actually even further the reason I saw this picture was I

00:00:11.240 Pointed out some girl because I've been doing this fun thing on Twitter where I judge appropriate or inappropriate

00:00:16.680 They should they should thank you

00:00:18.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah

00:00:22.040 Everyone gets mad. I'm like you don't have to listen to my opinion. It's just my opinion

00:00:25.700 Anyway, so this woman decides to I said inappropriate to one chick 1.00

00:00:31.060 She starts tweeting at me your selfie to show me. I'm like and I'm gonna say inappropriate. Yeah 1.00

00:00:36.940 There's a much bigger problem with what she's posting as well

00:00:39.560 And this is one of the reasons why many women are choosing not to have children is they believe that after they have children 1.00

00:00:45.000 They're expected to have these gorgeous bodies 1.00

00:00:47.180 They're expected to look like 20 year olds and when people post things like this, they're giving people the impression

00:00:52.300 Well, I can't do that after I give birth. I can't you know, my body's not gonna look like that

00:00:57.200 I'm not gonna have kids they get terrified of it

00:00:59.400 And there needs to be a frame shift in how motherhood is done and after you give birth after you have kids 1.00

00:01:05.160 You're not expected to look like a 20 year old anymore

00:01:07.580 So the most damaging

00:01:08.620 She ain't trying to look like a 20 year old at all. I think she was she's genuinely built that way 0.96

00:01:12.660 She's trying

00:01:14.660 Wouldn't you be inspired if you saw a woman that's had a kid and she looks great 0.80

00:01:18.460 Wouldn't you be inspired to want to look like that's my only that's my only I only wonder sometimes

00:01:22.860 I wonder because when I when I some guys I follow them

00:01:25.300 They look they have great bodies and I get inspired by that, you know, and they've gone for a lot of things

00:01:29.400 So a mother she's had a baby and then she's she's just been right like I've had I've had three kids

00:01:34.420 All right, I'm not I'm not huge right, but I'm not sexualizing myself and that's what she's doing 1.00

00:01:39.340 She's posing wearing a bikini. She has her breasts out. It is a sexualized image of herself 0.52

00:01:45.480 It's the pose

00:01:49.480 If a guy was standing there with a kid

00:01:51.480 I have loads of pictures with my mom and aunties where they're in obviously bikinis at the beach

00:01:56.580 Yeah, but it's in a photo and it's not online. Yeah, that's a different generation 1.00

00:02:01.020 Yes

00:02:02.020 It's a different generation 1.00

00:02:03.520 What I'm trying to say is that we're trying to basically bring the old school ways of how modesty used to be into a new age

00:02:08.280 I think this woman is from the same generation though. Yeah, so that's your point doesn't stand 1.00

00:02:13.120 Wait, I haven't finished

00:02:15.120 Okay, sorry

00:02:17.120 I just personally feel like

00:02:19.120 What does the guy in the green suit think?

00:02:21.120 Sorry, I just personally feel like we live in 2023

00:02:25.120 This is made to seem normal to just take a picture of yourself a post online get loads of lights. It's nothing

00:02:31.120 Nothing at all. I mean

00:02:33.120 No cause, no reaction. That's just how people live these days

00:02:35.120 One thing I've noticed throughout this conversation is almost like we're not realizing that everyone in here is also a little bit vain

00:02:41.120 Naturally, we all have wool clothes today looking at ourselves. Do I look nice? Do I know?

00:02:47.120 It's just a natural thing that no matter what we do, it's gonna still be here

00:02:51.120 So when we post up we're trying to say to our followers. Oh, look look at me. Oh, I look good today

00:02:57.120 But really if you're smart or if you feel like you want to be modest in a certain way

00:03:02.120 You can put your page on private

00:03:04.120 You can also have certain people that follow you

00:03:06.120 Not the predators or people that you think that might be a little bit like looking at you in a certain way

00:03:10.120 You can try and police it

00:03:12.120 Private stories as well, yeah

00:03:13.120 There we go

00:03:14.120 There's still screenshot and they still get out there

00:03:16.120 You can't trust nothing

00:03:17.120 She could be private

00:03:18.120 Hear me out, hear me out

00:03:20.120 Or you could just take the picture

00:03:22.120 Hear me out, hear me out, hear me out, hear me out

00:03:25.120 And you could send it to your husband

00:03:27.120 That's one option

00:03:29.120 And then he'll say

00:03:30.120 He'll say that's amazing, honey

00:03:31.120 One option

00:03:32.120 Send it to the group chat with your friends

00:03:34.120 Yeah, like you got, you could text whoever you want

00:03:36.120 Like how many people got to see it?

00:03:38.120 I take acceptance of this

00:03:40.120 I'm incredibly vain

00:03:42.120 What?

00:03:43.120 I have a little vain

00:03:45.120 Thank you for saying

00:03:46.120 I think you shouldn't speak on my behalf

00:03:48.120 Okay, the next woman go next, please 1.00

00:03:53.120 I just think this is

00:03:54.120 Oh, Jesus

00:03:55.120 All right

00:03:56.120 I want the Mariah Carey one after this one 0.87

00:04:02.120 Because I got a lot of heat for that one

00:04:05.120 So this one I said inappropriate

00:04:09.120 Inappropriate for a wife 1.00

00:04:12.120 One is in the library

00:04:14.120 Oh my God

00:04:15.120 Oh my God

00:04:16.120 Did you just say that

00:04:17.120 Is there a reason why they're all being dumped?

00:04:19.120 It's like they're just

00:04:20.120 Just the hench, right?

00:04:22.120 Who's bigger than the holding?

00:04:23.120 Raise them

00:04:24.120 All right, all right

00:04:25.120 We're going to try to get through these

00:04:26.120 So raise your hand

00:04:27.120 Inappropriate

00:04:28.120 Raise your hand

00:04:29.120 If you think it's until appropriate

00:04:30.120 is she a mother and a wife? 0.98

00:04:32.120 because of the second picture

00:04:34.120 as a mother and a wife

00:04:36.120 inappropriate most say

00:04:38.120 go to the next one please

00:04:40.120 yes

00:04:42.120 alright this is

00:04:44.120 this is Hayley Bieber

00:04:46.120 I knew her, I was going to say

00:04:48.120 but she's not a mother, she's just a wife 1.00

00:04:50.120 and she is a social media influencer

00:04:52.120 and she's a model 1.00

00:04:54.120 so she has an expectation

00:04:56.120 ok so I think, here's my thought

00:04:58.120 alright, I think that

00:05:00.120 you can have one but you can't have

00:05:02.120 both, if your job 1.00

00:05:04.120 is to be a whore 1.00

00:05:10.120 I think alright, which I mean 0.99

00:05:12.120 I'm being funny

00:05:14.120 I know she did modeling, I know she did 1.00

00:05:16.120 but if your job is to act

00:05:18.120 sexual or whatever 0.91

00:05:20.120 I say do that

00:05:22.120 but once you get married

00:05:24.120 now is the time to be a wife 0.52

00:05:26.120 I don't really advise it before but

00:05:28.120 my point is more

00:05:30.120 even if you get paid for it

00:05:32.120 you should put it away

00:05:34.120 especially in her position

00:05:36.120 because she's married to a world-renowned superstar

00:05:38.120 what does she need her career for? 1.00

00:05:40.120 that makes it less worse

00:05:42.120 because the rules are different

00:05:44.120 because like good

00:05:46.120 if she's hypergamous and she's putting that out 1.00

00:05:48.120 to get the kind of attention that regular women put that out 1.00

00:05:50.120 good luck displacing Justin Bieber

00:05:52.120 in the hierarchy of men right now

00:05:54.120 she's speaking like you might say whatever

00:05:56.120 but really like who's gonna

00:05:58.120 who's gonna pop up on her feet 1.00

00:06:00.120 that's gonna like outplay him the game

00:06:02.120 he's not getting game

00:06:04.120 what?

00:06:06.120 did she?

00:06:08.120 yeah because Justin Bieber

00:06:10.120 yeah there was a whole beef thing

00:06:12.120 yeah there was a whole beef like Justin Bieber was dating her

00:06:14.120 and then she went to Drake

00:06:16.120 but then she came back to Justin 0.97

00:06:18.120 I don't follow the relationship

00:06:20.120 but seriously though the celebrity rules

00:06:22.120 like hypergamy are like super different

00:06:24.120 because like the amount of men that have access to her 0.55

00:06:26.120 on any sort of relative sexual plane

00:06:28.120 is like almost non-existent

00:06:30.120 it's just how it is

00:06:32.120 I don't know you know because her DMs would be crazy 1.00

00:06:34.120 she would have some very very serious people there

00:06:36.120 she would get a million DMs but it wouldn't matter

00:06:38.120 because all men to her would just look like the exact same person

00:06:40.120 right?

00:06:42.120 I don't know Dimitri I think if that were true

00:06:44.120 you'd see more celebrity relationships work out

00:06:46.120 exactly

00:06:48.120 right right right

00:06:50.120 but celebrity relationships were failing long before Instagram right?

00:06:52.120 right but I would argue it's for the same reason

00:06:54.120 because they could

00:06:56.120 because women kept advertising themselves 1.00

00:06:58.120 yes partially

00:07:00.120 and because they have all these

00:07:02.120 they have access to all these high status men 0.86

00:07:04.120 well actually quite the opposite

00:07:06.120 we know that the propensity to cheat goes

00:07:08.120 down for a woman as the man's income 1.00

00:07:10.120 fame status go up and they go up for a man

00:07:12.120 so in celebrity relationships the dynamics are reversed

00:07:14.120 because it's usually the men that leave the relationships or cheat

00:07:16.120 versus if you have an income that's quite like you know

00:07:18.120 that we had this conversation literally earlier today

00:07:20.120 right but the reverse dynamics

00:07:22.120 you're telling me that the divorce rate

00:07:24.120 because I could see that for high income

00:07:26.120 that includes celebrities?

00:07:28.120 it's not about the divorce rate it's about

00:07:30.120 it's about who's leaving the relationships

00:07:32.120 so it's like statistically you know that 90% of relationships

00:07:34.120 are ended by college educated women 1.00

00:07:36.120 if the woman's not college educated it's like 80% 1.00

00:07:38.120 those statistics are reversed it's the men that leave the relationships

00:07:40.120 oh the men leave more

00:07:42.120 yes because men like very high value men

00:07:44.120 very rich men basically act like women

00:07:46.120 because they're the ones that the market is now

00:07:48.120 they're the ones that are being pursued

00:07:50.120 not the women 0.99

00:07:52.120 there's no hope

00:07:54.120 there's no hope for you to marry a celebrity

00:07:56.120 no I just mean that you said high value

00:07:58.120 when I class as high value it's just like a really awesome

00:08:00.120 what I mean by that sorry I'll clarify

00:08:02.120 that's a really good nuance point

00:08:04.120 not celebrities

00:08:08.120 I just want to clarify when people say high value

00:08:10.120 and people get like oh you mean this and that

00:08:12.120 and these what I mean is just who the market chooses right

00:08:14.120 basically a high value woman just means that men are offering you marriage 1.00

00:08:16.120 that's it and a high value

00:08:18.120 a high value man just means that women are offering you their bodies 0.96

00:08:20.120 that's all it means it's not

00:08:22.120 there's no metric there are metric statistics you can determine it

00:08:24.120 but it's just the market

00:08:26.120 obviously the more high value they are the more they're like

00:08:28.120 B-I-T-C-H isn't it

00:08:30.120 so obviously B-I-T-C-H-E-S 1.00

00:08:34.120 I didn't use that word so I don't understand

00:08:36.120 sorry

00:08:38.120 I understand what the word spells

00:08:40.120 but I never said that word

00:08:42.120 I was gonna say the reason why we wrote about this

00:08:44.120 in our relationship book why celebrity relationships

00:08:46.120 are so unstable

00:08:48.120 and our sort of equation

00:08:50.120 for the stability of a relationship

00:08:52.120 is your partner's value to you

00:08:54.120 like your perceived value from your partner

00:08:56.120 divided by

00:08:58.120 the potential partner

00:09:00.120 you think you could get on an open marketplace

00:09:02.120 the problem with celebrity relationships

00:09:04.120 is because both partners are typically

00:09:06.120 near the perceived top

00:09:08.120 that once they get to know each other

00:09:10.120 their relationship is always lower quality

00:09:12.120 than what they think they can get on the marketplace

00:09:14.120 so their relationships are always gonna be unstable

00:09:16.120 options

00:09:18.120 so can I ask one last question

00:09:20.120 so did you say the high valued men

00:09:22.120 or did you mean the high valued celebrity guys

00:09:24.120 like they turn into more like

00:09:26.120 girly when they're

00:09:28.120 not girly what I'm saying is that

00:09:30.120 as a man grows in his

00:09:32.120 so basically here is how it is

00:09:34.120 the formula is very simple

00:09:36.120 a value of a woman in the sexual marketplace 0.74

00:09:37.120 again I know this is getting like

00:09:38.120 very like objectifying people

00:09:40.120 just bear with it

00:09:41.120 the value of a woman in the sexual marketplace 0.95

00:09:42.120 is her present minus her past

00:09:44.120 the value of a man in the sexual marketplace

00:09:46.120 is his present plus his future

00:09:48.120 does that make sense?

00:09:49.120 so as men age and acquire more wealth

00:09:51.120 and status they grow in value

00:09:53.120 and as women age and gain more sexual experience

00:09:55.120 they lose value

00:09:56.120 that's just that's just how it is

00:09:57.120 in the sexual marketplace right?

00:09:58.120 so what happens is

00:09:59.120 they just there's just like a crossover

00:10:01.120 where eventually men that become more and more successful

00:10:03.120 just turn into women in the sexual marketplace 1.00

00:10:05.120 so the value of 50 year old 0.81

00:10:07.120 I don't know Tom Cruise

00:10:08.120 is like roughly the same as the value of the hottest

00:10:11.120 23 year old chick on the planet 0.98

00:10:12.120 but then who are we to say that?

00:10:14.120 I'm sorry?

00:10:16.120 but who are we to say that?

00:10:18.120 it's supply and demand

00:10:19.120 it's market dynamics

00:10:20.120 this is just literal science

00:10:21.120 like there's like this is just like

00:10:22.120 I'm not

00:10:23.120 well who are you to

00:10:24.120 so it's just basically saying that hot

00:10:26.120 it's just basically saying that hot

00:10:28.120 tall rich men have more women throwing themselves at them 0.97

00:10:31.120 and then they're more likely to

00:10:33.120 cheers

00:10:34.120 like people like Kanye

00:10:36.120 yeah you know what's crazy about Kanye?

00:10:38.120 I'll give you a really good example right? 0.98

00:10:40.120 like he's insane and he still has women 0.94

00:10:42.120 like he used the example of serial killers right?

00:10:44.120 just fame in itself is such a marker of value for a man

00:10:47.120 because it's a high level of pre-selection

00:10:49.120 and women generally operate in pre-selection as a mating mechanism 1.00

00:10:51.120 just fame for a man

00:10:53.120 you can literally be a serial killer

00:10:55.120 and women are lining up and sending you letters to try to get with you 1.00

00:10:57.120 they had to

00:10:58.120 it was a crazy story

00:10:59.120 there was a story about a serial killer

00:11:00.120 where they had to change the conjugal visit rights

00:11:03.120 because so many women were showing up 0.99

00:11:04.120 and he literally said

00:11:05.120 he slept with like 300 women in the course of a couple of months

00:11:07.120 because so many women were 1.00

00:11:09.120 like the women showing up for the conjugal visits 0.98

00:11:11.120 he's like I have no idea who this is

00:11:12.120 but this woman just showed up to sleep with me right? 1.00

00:11:14.120 so fame is like fame is a really crazy

00:11:16.120 you can really gamify fame right?

00:11:18.120 but the point is as men grow

00:11:20.120 they basically start to become more and more like women 0.99

00:11:23.120 just because their choices go up

00:11:24.120 they have more opportunities that's all

00:11:26.120 that's all

00:11:27.120 okay then I understand

00:11:28.120 all right

00:11:29.120 so I got a lot of heat for this one guys

00:11:31.120 yeah

00:11:32.120 bring on Lelaya 1.00

00:11:33.120 I came for

00:11:34.120 no

00:11:35.120 well she's in the snacks 1.00

00:11:36.120 but

00:11:37.120 but I came for the one and only

00:11:39.120 JLo

00:11:41.120 JLo it's time

00:11:42.120 I know you look good

00:11:44.120 but it's time

00:11:45.120 but it's time

00:11:46.120 but it's time

00:11:47.120 to put it away

00:11:48.120 you're like 50 something

00:11:49.120 what?

00:11:50.120 she looks good

00:11:51.120 she looks good

00:11:52.120 she looks good

00:11:53.120 she looks good

00:11:54.120 girl 0.91

00:11:55.120 look at look at look at

00:11:56.120 I didn't say she didn't look good 0.65

00:11:57.120 but she's married 0.99

00:11:58.120 she's got a kid

00:11:59.120 but what is

00:12:00.120 what does she have out?

00:12:01.120 okay let

00:12:02.120 I will answer okay

00:12:03.120 that Janet Jackson

00:12:04.120 serious question

00:12:05.120 so I

00:12:06.120 what happened to her?

00:12:07.120 did JLo turn into Janet Jackson?

00:12:09.120 I don't know

00:12:11.120 but she looks great man

00:12:12.120 she looks great

00:12:13.120 okay so

00:12:14.120 this chick 1.00

00:12:15.120 has got

00:12:16.120 yes Romeo

00:12:19.120 one it's a skin tight dress

00:12:21.120 I really think over

00:12:23.120 roughly

00:12:24.120 I'm going to give women 0.99

00:12:25.120 in Pearl's world

00:12:26.120 what am I going to give us?

00:12:27.120 I'll give you

00:12:28.120 I was going to say 30

00:12:29.120 but I'm going to say until 32

00:12:31.120 I'm going to give us an extra two years

00:12:33.120 it's time to change your fashion

00:12:35.120 to be a bit more modest

00:12:37.120 I actually would actually say a little sooner

00:12:40.120 but you know

00:12:41.120 I'm just I'm going to be super generous today

00:12:43.120 a skin tight dress

00:12:44.120 so what should she wear?

00:12:45.120 I think

00:12:46.120 wait go back

00:12:47.120 go back

00:12:48.120 yeah so this is a perfect example of an outfit

00:12:50.120 you know she looks

00:12:51.120 she looks cute

00:12:52.120 that's very skin tight

00:12:53.120 she looks cute

00:12:54.120 definitely skin tight

00:12:55.120 she's wearing skinny jeans

00:12:56.120 you look gorgeous by the way

00:12:57.120 but it's definitely skin tight

00:12:58.120 let me

00:12:59.120 let me

00:13:00.120 let me get this straight

00:13:01.120 you guys think

00:13:02.120 let's pull this up

00:13:03.120 we're really going to make the argument

00:13:04.120 that what she's wearing

00:13:05.120 and what JLo is wearing

00:13:06.120 is the same

00:13:07.120 but this is two completely different occasions

00:13:09.120 she's going out first of all

00:13:10.120 okay okay

00:13:11.120 we're on a podcast

00:13:12.120 no so

00:13:13.120 but what does she have out though?

00:13:14.120 I okay 0.99

00:13:15.120 her boobs 1.00

00:13:16.120 it's just a cleavage 1.00

00:13:19.120 I would say 0.98

00:13:20.120 I would say boobs 1.00

00:13:21.120 but we have them 0.98

00:13:22.120 and a very skin tight dress

00:13:24.120 it's like very fitting

00:13:26.120 I think that's pretty embarrassing

00:13:28.120 when you're a mom

00:13:29.120 yeah I think it's pretty

00:13:30.120 you are embarrassing your children 0.88

00:13:32.120 when you're walking around naked 1.00

00:13:34.120 trying to be a sex object 0.99

00:13:35.120 but this is not naked 0.98

00:13:36.120 so you don't think it's embarrassing

00:13:37.120 she doesn't look like a granny 1.00

00:13:38.120 before your time

00:13:39.120 she's not naked

00:13:40.120 I think it's embarrassing

00:13:42.120 I think it's more embarrassing

00:13:43.120 to try to look 20 when you're 50

00:13:45.120 she doesn't look 20 though

00:13:46.120 she doesn't look like she's trying to look 20

00:13:47.120 she doesn't look like she's trying to look 20

00:13:48.120 at the age of 50 she looks better than a lot of 20 years old

00:13:50.120 I'm saying that she is

00:13:52.120 she is attempting to look 20

00:13:54.120 by the botox in her forehead

00:13:57.120 the fake hair

00:13:58.120 the pound of makeup 1.00

00:13:59.120 and her tits out 1.00

00:14:00.120 I think at some point as a woman 0.99

00:14:03.120 even if you're a super attractive a woman

00:14:05.120 it's time to put it away and be modest

00:14:08.120 typically that's when you get married

00:14:10.120 and have children

00:14:11.120 some women 1.00

00:14:12.120 I think it's even more ideal for women 0.79

00:14:14.120 to have that value from a super young age

00:14:16.120 but I'm saying a wife is a role 0.99

00:14:18.120 and part of that role I think is to be modest

00:14:20.120 but she's more

00:14:21.120 I hear what you're saying

00:14:22.120 to a certain degree

00:14:23.120 but out of all the pictures that we've seen

00:14:26.120 she's more covered up than anybody else

00:14:29.120 even though it's skin tight and everything

00:14:31.120 I mean I think she looks great anyway

00:14:32.120 I'm biased

00:14:33.120 but anyway

00:14:34.120 but my thing is that she's still more covered up

00:14:36.120 than any of the other photos that we've seen

00:14:38.120 so why is what she's wearing an issue 1.00

00:14:40.120 okay okay so

00:14:41.120 so you know 1.00

00:14:42.120 I think this logic is kind of stupid 1.00

00:14:44.120 okay 0.99

00:14:45.120 and the reason I think you know

00:14:46.120 is an OnlyFans model pure 0.99

00:14:48.120 because porn stars are worse 0.99

00:14:50.120 like okay 1.00

00:14:54.120 okay we're in a

00:14:55.120 I hear it

00:14:56.120 I hear it

00:14:57.120 okay yeah yeah

00:14:58.120 I think so

00:14:59.120 like it looks like a woman 0.98

00:15:00.120 who's desperately trying to cling to her youth 0.98

00:15:02.120 oh this is one day of the year guys

00:15:03.120 that's just basically what this woman represents 1.00

00:15:06.120 so that's why it kind of just seems to be

00:15:08.120 I don't see

00:15:09.120 she has an age naturally

00:15:11.120 now wait wait

00:15:12.120 so you said this is one day

00:15:13.120 why she has to look like an old woman 1.00

00:15:14.120 so now I'm gonna get there

00:15:15.120 but you said this is one day a year

00:15:17.120 she just partook in a movie where she played a stripper 0.95

00:15:21.120 this was very recent

00:15:22.120 I stand corrected

00:15:24.120 and the second question

00:15:26.120 the second question you had is

00:15:28.120 why does she have to look like a grandma 1.00

00:15:30.120 was that your question

00:15:31.120 yes

00:15:32.120 yeah I think at some point

00:15:33.120 it's time to not be known for your sexuality

00:15:36.120 I think that's a young woman's game 1.00

00:15:38.120 roughly 30

00:15:40.120 really 27

00:15:42.120 what?

00:15:43.120 you're offending me

00:15:44.120 no

00:15:45.120 science is getting better

00:15:47.120 people are looking better

00:15:49.120 I think most women look good in the cameras 1.00

00:15:54.120 now listen

00:15:55.120 I think women will put the Botox in their forehead 1.00

00:15:57.120 the makeup

00:15:58.120 and on camera

00:15:59.120 and I see the difference

00:16:00.120 because on camera it looks amazing

00:16:01.120 I produce all the content

00:16:03.120 you know amazing

00:16:04.120 and like we put it out here

00:16:05.120 but it's like in real life

00:16:07.120 I could see everyone's foreheads not moving

00:16:09.120 I can see your lip fillers

00:16:11.120 I can see all of it 0.82

00:16:13.120 and it looks silly in my estimation

00:16:16.120 and I think in person 0.71

00:16:18.120 and I think it looks like

00:16:19.120 you know

00:16:20.120 kinda good in the picture

00:16:21.120 sure

00:16:22.120 but in real life

00:16:23.120 she just looks like a woman 0.99

00:16:25.120 that's focused on her looks 0.80

00:16:26.120 instead of her kid 0.78

00:16:27.120 I

00:16:28.120 I want to

00:16:29.120 word what you said

00:16:30.120 in a slightly different way

00:16:31.120 because I think it could help

00:16:32.120 earlier you were saying

00:16:33.120 that every man prefers a 23 year old woman

00:16:35.120 like if you look at men

00:16:36.120 you know women 1.00

00:16:37.120 I mean obviously not every man

00:16:38.120 but over the course of the averages

00:16:40.120 this is because

00:16:41.120 if I'm a man

00:16:42.120 and I'm 50

00:16:43.120 and like I'm just talking like

00:16:44.120 evolutionarily or whatever

00:16:45.120 right

00:16:46.120 like if my wife had died

00:16:47.120 and I want to marry a new woman 1.00

00:16:48.120 who's gonna have like maximum fertility 1.00

00:16:50.120 you know I'm gonna marry a young woman 0.93

00:16:51.120 with a large fertility window

00:16:53.120 and so men sort of biologically

00:16:54.120 they're drawn to that

00:16:55.120 this means that if I'm an advertising company

00:16:57.120 or I'm a movie executive

00:16:59.120 and I want to put a woman in something 1.00

00:17:01.120 that's gonna cause guys

00:17:02.120 to subconsciously value that thing

00:17:04.120 more than they should

00:17:05.120 then I am going to put a woman in that 1.00

00:17:07.120 who looks like

00:17:08.120 they are still in their

00:17:10.120 their like reproductive years

00:17:11.120 right

00:17:12.120 and so they dress in a set

00:17:14.120 like it might not be that she looks 20 or something

00:17:17.120 but she's dressed in a way that's meant to evoke

00:17:19.120 sort of tropes

00:17:20.120 that we associate

00:17:21.120 with this high fertility woman 0.98

00:17:24.120 whereas if you look at traditional cultures

00:17:26.120 that have had to survive intergenerationally

00:17:28.120 they are able to

00:17:30.120 and they are rewarded for

00:17:31.120 because you are rewarded for this

00:17:33.120 at the intergenerational level

00:17:34.120 glorifying the mother

00:17:36.120 and the position of motherhood 0.69

00:17:38.120 even above the position of the woman 0.92

00:17:40.120 who is sexualizing herself 0.65

00:17:42.120 and I think that we can talk about

00:17:43.120 like what women owe or whatever 0.94

00:17:44.120 right

00:17:45.120 but I think sometimes it's easier

00:17:47.120 just like with kids when I'm like

00:17:48.120 look if you don't have kids

00:17:49.120 then you won't exist in the future

00:17:50.120 right

00:17:51.120 if you as a woman

00:17:52.120 dress in a revealing way

00:17:54.120 there are a portion of men

00:17:56.120 not every man on the marketplace

00:17:57.120 but there are a portion of men

00:17:59.120 who will hold that against you

00:18:01.120 in choosing who they're going to marry

00:18:02.120 which will make it harder for you

00:18:04.120 to find that lifelong partner

00:18:06.120 and that lifelong partner

00:18:07.120 is the most important thing

00:18:09.120 and I hate to say this

00:18:10.120 as a husband

00:18:11.120 my wife

00:18:12.120 is the most important thing

00:18:13.120 I could ever achieve

00:18:14.120 because I have to deal with

00:18:15.120 like every single day

00:18:16.120 she determines my happiness

00:18:18.120 and my success

00:18:19.120 more than anything else

00:18:20.120 I have ever done in my life

00:18:22.120 and so when you make those costs

00:18:24.120 I think we just don't properly

00:18:26.120 tell young women

00:18:28.120 or communicate to them

00:18:29.120 because it's seen as so negative

00:18:31.120 in our society to do this

00:18:32.120 the scale of what they're sacrificing

00:18:35.120 when they look for this kind of validity

00:18:38.120 mm-hmm

00:18:39.120 yeah well

00:18:40.120 I yeah because

00:18:41.120 you know you'll see these beautiful

00:18:43.120 21 year old chicks starting in OnlyFans

00:18:45.120 and what did you sacrifice

00:18:47.120 a lifetime of happiness

00:18:48.120 for most of them are terrible at business

00:18:50.120 so you get what 500 bucks a month

00:18:54.120 cause and effect

00:18:55.120 and now your kids have to see

00:18:57.120 and that's more my point is

00:18:58.120 these women are more concerned 1.00

00:19:00.120 about their sexuality

00:19:01.120 than their children

00:19:02.120 that's my point

00:19:03.120 um I you know they're more

00:19:05.120 they're

00:19:06.120 and they think more about themselves

00:19:07.120 than their husbands 0.57

00:19:08.120 and their family

00:19:09.120 and we used to be in a society

00:19:10.120 where family was more important

00:19:12.120 and bringing shame upon your family

00:19:14.120 was the like that

00:19:16.120 that was looked down upon

00:19:18.120 but now it's like 0.99

00:19:19.120 I can't even say put your boobs away 1.00

00:19:21.120 but these people who aren't doing this 0.98

00:19:23.120 we will be in that society again

00:19:25.120 yeah eventually this big urban monoculture

00:19:27.120 this this mimetic virus

00:19:29.120 which is telling everyone to look young 0.97

00:19:31.120 and sexualize yourself 1.00

00:19:32.120 these aren't people who are having 0.97

00:19:33.120 above replacement fertility rates

00:19:34.120 right

00:19:35.120 the people who are above replacement fertility rates

00:19:36.120 are the ones that are still in these cultures

00:19:38.120 like the ones you're talking about

00:19:39.120 so long as we can protect these people

00:19:41.120 from the school system

00:19:42.120 which often aims to erase their culture

00:19:44.120 yeah it totally does

00:19:45.120 then the future goes back to the past

00:19:46.120 well the very fact that we're having this conversation

00:19:48.120 gives me hope

00:19:49.120 the very fact that you're talking about this

00:19:50.120 and people are excited about this

00:19:52.120 shows that there's a backlash

00:19:53.120 right

00:19:54.120 we're not okay with this anymore

00:19:55.120 next one

00:19:57.120 now this one I also got a lot of backlash

00:19:59.120 for

00:20:00.120 oh gosh

00:20:01.120 oh Pearl

00:20:02.120 I came for Mariah Carey

00:20:04.120 alright

00:20:05.120 I came for Mariah Carey

00:20:07.120 around the Christmas season

00:20:08.120 oh my god

00:20:09.120 I said now I know

00:20:10.120 I know Christmas

00:20:11.120 oh

00:20:12.120 Mariah

00:20:13.120 don't you got twins

00:20:15.120 but what's wrong with those pictures

00:20:16.120 you got twins on there

00:20:17.120 I think it's because of the 0.98

00:20:18.120 it's showing the boobs 0.99

00:20:19.120 what the cleavage 1.00

00:20:20.120 are you having a laugh

00:20:21.120 I think Pearl's a Rastafarian as well

00:20:23.120 you know

00:20:24.120 oh my gosh

00:20:25.120 no I'm

00:20:26.120 I'm a hundred percent serious

00:20:27.120 you think I'm kidding

00:20:28.120 no I know

00:20:29.120 I'm about

00:20:30.120 I'm about to turn 27

00:20:31.120 I have my turtleneck

00:20:32.120 do your thing man

00:20:34.120 do your thing

00:20:35.120 do your thing

00:20:36.120 oh god

00:20:37.120 yeah I think it's time 0.98

00:20:39.120 to put the boobs away 1.00

00:20:40.120 who thinks this is inappropriate 0.95

00:20:42.120 raise your hand

00:20:43.120 oh it's just me and King

00:20:45.120 I think it's borderline tacky

00:20:47.120 as in

00:20:48.120 not inappropriate

00:20:49.120 I think it's tacky

00:20:50.120 she's just like

00:20:51.120 Henry

00:20:52.120 I wouldn't say it's tacky

00:20:53.120 I'd say it's her image

00:20:54.120 thank you

00:20:55.120 and she's giving the people her image 0.56

00:20:58.120 she still looks like her image

00:20:59.120 the glitz

00:21:00.120 the little bit of cleavage

00:21:02.120 that is her image

00:21:03.120 and she's giving the people her image 0.56

00:21:05.120 do you know what I mean

00:21:06.120 she's literally like her aunt

00:21:07.120 like

00:21:08.120 so

00:21:09.120 would it still be her image

00:21:10.120 so literally what you're saying is

00:21:12.120 and that's exactly what's happening to someone like Madonna

00:21:14.120 so by the time she's 70 she should still keep giving us this image right

00:21:17.120 but

00:21:18.120 will she still continue to be an artist

00:21:21.120 she's 50

00:21:22.120 by the age of 70

00:21:23.120 take the career out though

00:21:24.120 that's what I'm saying

00:21:25.120 so Madonna right now

00:21:26.120 literally just keeps walking about

00:21:28.120 naked half naked

00:21:29.120 doing all the whole crazy stuff 0.68

00:21:30.120 but she's still an artist 0.87

00:21:31.120 yes

00:21:32.120 but she's 70 0.51

00:21:33.120 but as a wife though 0.75

00:21:34.120 so the point is like

00:21:35.120 even at 70

00:21:36.120 why are you still making sexualized music at 70

00:21:39.120 and underneath the bed with her thong on 1.00

00:21:41.120 like she's 0.64

00:21:42.120 to create controversy

00:21:43.120 how are you

00:21:44.120 how are you human beings supposed to grow

00:21:46.120 so at 20

00:21:47.120 at 18

00:21:48.120 you are making sexualized music

00:21:49.120 at 30 you are making sexualized music

00:21:50.120 at 50 you are still making sexualized music

00:21:52.120 at 70

00:21:54.120 you're still making sexualized music

00:21:55.120 these are

00:21:56.120 hold on hold on hold on

00:21:58.120 hold on a second

00:21:59.120 can you please pull up a picture of Madonna please

00:22:01.120 that's two completely different extremes

00:22:03.120 we were just looking at a gorgeous picture of Mariah Carey

00:22:07.120 and all she had was a little bit of cleavage 1.00

00:22:09.120 and I was talking about thongs under the bed

00:22:11.120 we're talking about that

00:22:12.120 no no no we're talking about image

00:22:13.120 she said something about image

00:22:14.120 but it's two completely different extremes

00:22:15.120 like how is that

00:22:16.120 no so if she's 70

00:22:17.120 she still keep putting her books out

00:22:19.120 can I say something

00:22:21.120 can I say something

00:22:22.120 okay if these people were not artists

00:22:25.120 and these posts were not relevant

00:22:28.120 to their artistry

00:22:29.120 which it is

00:22:31.120 it is relevant to their artistry

00:22:33.120 well because I've done posts relevant to my artistry

00:22:36.120 which wouldn't be posts that I wouldn't usually post

00:22:38.120 well you see this is the point I'm trying to make

00:22:40.120 you're not even realizing how bad what you're saying sounds

00:22:43.120 because the fact is that

00:22:44.120 what you're saying is

00:22:45.120 she's such a terrible artist 1.00

00:22:47.120 that she needs to use her body to sell her art 0.96

00:22:49.120 no

00:22:50.120 no

00:22:51.120 yes

00:22:52.120 no

00:22:53.120 wait guys guys guys guys guys

00:22:55.120 what about Adele

00:22:56.120 she's never put her body out there like that

00:22:58.120 she definitely has her beads out 1.00

00:22:59.120 no

00:23:00.120 she has

00:23:01.120 she has

00:23:02.120 I've seen her

00:23:03.120 I can pull up phone

00:23:04.120 pull up the phone

00:23:05.120 pull up the phone

00:23:06.120 she definitely look good 0.97

00:23:07.120 so she definitely does do that 1.00

00:23:08.120 look they cut out

00:23:09.120 back in the day she did it

00:23:10.120 she does now but back in the day she didn't

00:23:11.120 that is not what Mariah was doing 0.99

00:23:12.120 no it's not

00:23:13.120 don't don't don't don't just go for the bad picture you've seen

00:23:15.120 I'll find it

00:23:16.120 I promise you

00:23:17.120 I know but the point

00:23:18.120 the point is one

00:23:19.120 okay you can find a bad picture of anybody

00:23:22.120 but the point is some of these artists

00:23:24.120 that's what they lead with

00:23:25.120 that is what all of their pictures with

00:23:27.120 the fact that you have to find the picture of Adele

00:23:30.120 shows that that is not what she leads with

00:23:32.120 she leads with her talent

00:23:34.120 they're both different

00:23:35.120 because she is talented

00:23:36.120 and that is the that is the best thing about her

00:23:39.120 but he's right what he's saying

00:23:40.120 if you have to post sexuality in order to sell

00:23:44.120 that you're just not that talented

00:23:46.120 you're not that talented

00:23:47.120 you're not that talented

00:23:48.120 you're not that talented

00:23:49.120 you're not that talented

00:23:50.120 you're not that talented

00:23:51.120 Adele didn't make sexy music 1.00

00:23:52.120 she made sad songs about heartbreak

00:23:54.120 Mariah Carey did sexy promiscuous music 0.78

00:23:57.120 that's why she was branded the way that she was

00:23:59.120 didn't she

00:24:00.120 but her top song is about Christmas 0.98

00:24:03.120 put the boobs away 1.00

00:24:08.120 like why do I have to fight so hard to say 0.98

00:24:10.120 put the boobs away 1.00

00:24:12.120 and she's 0.99

00:24:13.120 here's that

00:24:14.120 she's 50

00:24:15.120 she's 54

00:24:16.120 it's time

00:24:17.120 it is time

00:24:18.120 you're almost 60

00:24:19.120 I think she looks tacky

00:24:20.120 I think

00:24:21.120 I think she looks tacky

00:24:22.120 great thing to remember here

00:24:24.120 and one of the blessings of our biology

00:24:26.120 is that as you age

00:24:27.120 and I think this is one of the big problems in our society

00:24:29.120 is the things that will give you happiness

00:24:31.120 happiness and fulfillment will change

00:24:33.120 and one of the biggest problems I think we have

00:24:35.120 is people in their 30s

00:24:36.120 will try to get happiness from the stuff

00:24:38.120 that would have given them happiness in their 20s

00:24:40.120 and fulfillment in their 20s

00:24:41.120 and they don't find it

00:24:42.120 and so then they just go further

00:24:43.120 and further

00:24:44.120 and further

00:24:45.120 and they feel hollower

00:24:46.120 and hollower

00:24:47.120 and hollower

00:24:48.120 and I don't know if it's the same way with women

00:24:49.120 you know I haven't experienced being a woman

00:24:50.120 so I don't know if in my 30s as a woman

00:24:52.120 like trying to find happiness in my sexuality

00:24:54.120 and validation for men

00:24:56.120 lessons

00:24:57.120 but I suspect it does

00:24:58.120 and what I can say is kids

00:24:59.120 the happiness I get from them in my 30s

00:25:02.120 is incomparable

00:25:04.120 to the happiness I can get from things like video games

00:25:06.120 which I used to love when I was young

00:25:07.120 I mean I still like them

00:25:08.120 but it's like not the same

00:25:10.120 so someone super chatted a question

00:25:13.120 for the ladies

00:25:15.120 and I'm going to ask the men the same question

00:25:17.120 but I want the women to go first 1.00

00:25:19.120 what do you owe

00:25:21.120 wait who here wants to be married? 1.00

00:25:23.120 okay

00:25:24.120 okay

00:25:25.120 all right

00:25:26.120 all right

00:25:27.120 what do you owe the man that marries you?

00:25:30.120 um

00:25:32.120 uh

00:25:34.120 I hate being the first person

00:25:38.120 swear to God

00:25:39.120 um

00:25:40.120 okay hopefully

00:25:41.120 well a family

00:25:42.120 um

00:25:43.120 obviously when the time's right

00:25:45.120 um

00:25:46.120 uh

00:25:47.120 I don't know

00:25:49.120 hopefully

00:25:50.120 between what's

00:25:51.120 between us both

00:25:52.120 like a great future

00:25:54.120 but that's what's decided between us too

00:25:57.120 okay

00:25:58.120 and what would you decide to

00:26:00.120 um

00:26:01.120 where both our lives are heading

00:26:02.120 whether if it's like career-wise

00:26:04.120 it's like

00:26:05.120 it's choices whether if you want to bring a family in

00:26:08.120 like if we both want a family

00:26:10.120 okay

00:26:11.120 but that would be the main

00:26:13.120 main thing for me

00:26:15.120 if I'd want a family or not

00:26:16.120 kids

00:26:17.120 yeah

00:26:18.120 what do you owe the man that marries you?

00:26:20.120 um

00:26:21.120 unconditional love

00:26:22.120 kids or a family at some point

00:26:24.120 if that's what we want

00:26:26.120 um

00:26:27.120 honesty

00:26:28.120 trust

00:26:29.120 loyalty

00:26:30.120 forgiveness

00:26:31.120 this goes on

00:26:33.120 um

00:26:35.120 I say owe the man modesty

00:26:38.120 honesty integrity

00:26:39.120 basically how I move reflects on him

00:26:41.120 how he moves reflects on me

00:26:43.120 I owe him to be the backbone

00:26:45.120 that's what I was created to be

00:26:46.120 the rib

00:26:47.120 to be the one who holds it down

00:26:49.120 to be understanding

00:26:50.120 to actually have like emotional intelligence

00:26:53.120 whereby I can think logically

00:26:54.120 and think emotionally

00:26:55.120 and also have

00:26:56.120 I think is important

00:26:58.120 you need to be able to fight

00:26:59.120 sorry

00:27:00.120 you need to be able to take care of your kids

00:27:01.120 if you

00:27:02.120 if the guy goes off at work

00:27:03.120 and leaves your home with your children

00:27:04.120 and there's no popo coming around

00:27:06.120 you need to know how to have survival skills

00:27:08.120 so I think it's important to show your partner

00:27:10.120 that you're able to take care of your family

00:27:12.120 if he's not there

00:27:13.120 he needs to be able to trust you

00:27:14.120 with a lot

00:27:15.120 that's just what I think

00:27:16.120 respect

00:27:18.120 support

00:27:19.120 loyalty

00:27:20.120 honesty

00:27:21.120 and communication

00:27:22.120 I want to hear your answer

00:27:25.120 because I think everyone wants their husband to talk about them like that

00:27:28.120 yes

00:27:29.120 I know right

00:27:30.120 everything

00:27:31.120 not just everything I have now

00:27:33.120 but everything I have the potential to get

00:27:35.120 if I'm extremely ambitious

00:27:37.120 all of the things I could possibly get

00:27:39.120 he owed

00:27:40.120 I owe all of it to him

00:27:41.120 I think most wives do to their husbands 1.00

00:27:43.120 when they're truly aligned

00:27:44.120 can you explain that a little more?

00:27:46.120 well

00:27:47.120 when we got married

00:27:49.120 it's not about suddenly becoming devoted to a person

00:27:52.120 it's about becoming a new person

00:27:54.120 that is a combined entity

00:27:56.120 when we fight

00:27:57.120 there's not really a fight

00:27:58.120 what there is

00:27:59.120 is we have an ideological disagreement

00:28:01.120 about what is best for the combined entity

00:28:04.120 for the family

00:28:05.120 so it's never I want this and he wants that

00:28:07.120 it's we know we want this

00:28:09.120 but we have a disagreement about the best way to get there

00:28:12.120 so that is absolutely everything

00:28:13.120 and it's everything from him too

00:28:17.120 what about you?

00:28:18.120 everything

00:28:19.120 I like that answer

00:28:20.120 I know

00:28:24.120 well

00:28:25.120 I don't know

00:28:26.120 this will probably be not a super popular answer amongst your audience pro

00:28:29.120 but like

00:28:30.120 I think that

00:28:31.120 a woman owes a man exactly that which he has given himself 0.97

00:28:34.120 like

00:28:35.120 for example

00:28:36.120 if I was totally

00:28:37.120 if I was not

00:28:41.120 giving her an opportunity to live the life that is good for her

00:28:46.120 if I was not building myself as a man

00:28:48.120 if I was not growing as a man

00:28:49.120 I think it would be arrogant to expect my wife to be any of these things 1.00

00:28:53.120 to be submissive

00:28:54.120 to be

00:28:55.120 anything really

00:28:56.120 right?

00:28:57.120 so

00:28:58.120 I think

00:28:59.120 my

00:29:00.120 what my

00:29:01.120 if I say what my wife let's say owes me 0.96

00:29:03.120 it's to treat me

00:29:04.120 to treat me at the level to which I have kept my promises to myself

00:29:08.120 and that's all I ask for because it's not a hypocritical position

00:29:11.120 great answer 0.65

00:29:12.120 what do you owe your wife? 0.93

00:29:13.120 what do I owe my wife? 0.78

00:29:14.120 what do I owe my wife? 0.78

00:29:15.120 mhm

00:29:16.120 I owe her

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JustPearlyThings - November 06, 2023

Why Modern Women RUINING Society with Their NUDITY in 2023

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