Why Simps Think Women Are The Prize
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss confidence and how it relates to women. We discuss how men lack it and how to develop it. We also talk about why women find 80% of men unattractive and only 10% of women find them attractive.
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I think for most men, so like the average men, I think women are the prize because supposedly a
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lot of men don't get women. So I think women would be the prize. However, I think the highest
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or like the most optimal prize would be a man because most, like they tend to skew the market
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a bit more because like Kevin Samuels, his like version of a high value man or what have you,
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they seem to be the biggest prize that you could possibly get in dating. However, I think for most
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men, women are the prize because they don't get women anyway. If that makes sense. Well, wouldn't
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you say those guys don't ever get a woman? Like cause one out of three men are virgins or haven't
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had sex in the past year. Yeah. So that's why I would say like, if those type of guys got a woman,
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they would feel like they got a prize. Yeah. But I don't really think they ever get into
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relationships. Like to me, it's like there's two types of guys. There's a guy that's always getting
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girls. And then there's a second one that gets their leftovers at 30.
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Well, I think also it's about confidence from the man's perspective. I think a lot of men
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in this society are not empowered and given confidence to step forth as men. They're kind
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of, they're battened down to the female perspective of, you know, I feel and because I feel this,
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you must basically accommodate those feelings. And so, sorry, finish this. What you're saying
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men were allowed to have the confidence as men in their masculinity, there would be more
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space for them to actually pursue women. A lot of men don't know how to talk to women.
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They don't know how to approach women because everything's offensive. Oh, you know, why are
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you looking at me? Well, you dress a certain way. I want to look nice. I want guys to look
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at me. When the guy looks at you, why are you looking at me? Do you get what I mean?
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So how are men supposed to feel confident when women find 80% of men is unattractive? Not
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okay or whatever. They literally think they're unattractive. And then there's another 10% that
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they find, okay, maybe here or there in the last 10% that they'd go first.
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Well, it's not first of all, biology, natural selection. The problem.
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Yeah. But like if, how would you feel if they found 80% of women unattractive, it'd be kind
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of hard to, you know, feel confident in yourself.
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I guess if you have externalized where your confidence comes from, I think when you build
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confidence within yourself and you know who you are and you step out into the world as
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a confident man, EG, I'll give you an example. And let's say, I don't like to give this example,
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for example, future to me, he's not a confident man, but he projects confidence into the space
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Are you sure? He's made some bold moves, some bold moves.
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Wouldn't you have to be confident to project confidence?
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Like, wouldn't you have to be confident to project confidence?
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No, no, no. You can use that. So projecting confidence to attract women's attention and
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actually getting women are two different things.
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Yeah. But what is self-esteem? Self-esteem doesn't exist.
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Like, there's no way to measure it. There's no, like self-esteem isn't real. It's just
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No, there's no, there's no statistical way to measure self-esteem.
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Okay. There's no way to measure self-esteem, but there's a way to measure, measure behaviors,
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And behaviors coming from men with low self-esteem, EG, we call them simps, we call them all kind
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of funny names. Now, if you're in an arena where women are dominant and they're allowed to say,
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and do as they wish, which we have right now, we have platforms, social media, etc. A lot
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of men will shy away from their true self just to appease the women in the arena because
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as a man, you want women to attract to you. It's a natural thing. It's a biological thing.
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Do you get what I mean? So a lot of guys don't have, they don't know how to talk to women.
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But I think it's hard for men because when you think about it, like they're told if they
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approach a girl the wrong way, the girl can cry SA. And so how are they going to be confident
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when they're told men ain't shit from the time they're 12?
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How do the other men do it? How do the confident men do it?
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Well, because we have a smaller and smaller percentage of men screwing all the girls.
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So again, women find 80% of men is unattractive and they only swipe right 5% of the time on
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dating apps. So the reason the dating market's kind of effed up right now is because girls
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that are 4s, 5s, 6s and 7s are sleeping with the 8s, 9s and 10s and they think they're
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on that level and they're not and they're rejecting the guys that are on their level
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because a guy is willing to sleep with anyone, right?
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But that doesn't mean, that doesn't, that doesn't mean you're that hot.
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But to add to that as well, you have to remember that women are also breaking up the homes.
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So the men that would traditionally raise other men to become men are no longer there
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because as we know, about 80 to 90% of women did leave or divorce their husband for the
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primary reason being financial reasons and the second being infidelity.
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But infidelity doesn't matter because we cheat a similar race.
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So most women are leaving the men because of financial reasons and then these men are
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now raised by women and then they try to chase women but women don't know how to court women.
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So then these men are left thinking, okay, my mum told me to be nice and buy her flowers
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and then she looks at, and then he tries to do that for the girl and she's like,
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And how are they supposed to feel confident if they didn't have a man to like raise them?
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I do agree with you as you know, when it comes to masculine confidence, it's best,
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it comes from a man, be it your dad, be it your uncle, whoever's available to you.
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And as a woman who has had a strong relationship with her dad, it makes you a different type of
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woman on the market, you have a different level of confidence.
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You have more realistic expectations towards men.
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You know, there's certain things that my dad helped me understand as a woman.
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When it comes to, not forgiving, that's the wrong word, but I have a better understanding
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of the hardships that men face and I have a bit more empathy towards their position.
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But at the same time, having that understanding with a group of men who haven't had that nurturing
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A simp wouldn't have the confidence to approach me.
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But you're sympathetic of their position and obviously being raised by your father,
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Well, first of all, in my opinion, a simp is not a man.
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If you don't have certain attributes, then you're not on my radar.
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So for example, I'm not a materialistic person.
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I don't look for someone with nice clothes, nice things, blah, blah, blah.
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But I do look for a man who has logic, direction, knows how to...
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But like, if you're sympathetic to the plight of man...
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For me, I know that a man with logic, provisions, knows what he's about,
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So, how can we say women are the prize if they date up and men date down?
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I feel like the generation we're in now, I feel like everybody just has to date up because...
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Every relationship, someone likes the other more.
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Personally, I genuinely feel like where we are in this life here, everything is so difficult.
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I feel like a lot of my guy friends are compatible as friends, and I don't want to lose that.
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No, I think I'm definitely attracted to some of my guy friends.
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However, I just know that the boundaries, and I treasure the friendship.
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Because more time, if a relationship ends up bad, I've lost you as a friend.
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Do you really see yourself having a lot of male friends once you get married?
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No, but I just feel like in this day and age, I feel like a lot of people are mad.
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So what do you see as the problems in the dating market?
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The problems in the dating market, I feel like everything has become so...
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And I feel like people aren't looking at character anymore.
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I feel like women have become this, which means that the men don't even care anymore.
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It's like you want me for maybe materialistic things.
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So it's kind of like, if that's all you look at me for, then all right, cool.
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I'll take you, your sister, your auntie, and then...
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What I mean by that is there's a lot of guys who, let's say, faithfulness was something
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Right now, in this generation, it's like nobody cares.
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Quite a few people don't care if the guy's faithful or not, as long as he's looking after
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So you've got a lot of men who maybe they were faithful growing up.
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Now it's like, I don't even need to be faithful because I can get the 10 or the 12.
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I genuinely believe it's the fault of the women.
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It's like if you hand them a silver platter, why would they not take it?
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And why do I need to be faithful, spiritual, this, this, and that, if you're not even requiring
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So I feel like when you're growing up, like I said, from a young age, you're pretty, you're
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I think when you get to a certain age, you need to understand, you need to understand the
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When it's finished, darling, understand it's finished.
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However, I feel like naturally you're taught to date up because I just feel like he just
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needs to be the head of the household, if that makes sense.
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My answer was when you get to a certain age, I feel like it flips.
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I think after high school, Robbie, I'll be honest.
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I think men are always the prize because the women that men want, like 50% of women that
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But do you think men understand they're the prize from young?
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I think the small percentage of men do when they have at their doorstep.
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Like, from the time they're a kid, you know, because it's only a very small percentage
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And then, you know, the women, like the women that won't settle.
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No, seriously, because, yeah, and they won't have kids and fulfill their biological...
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