JustPearlyThings - Why The Modern Churches Love The PERPETUALLY SINGLE VIRGINS

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00:03:46.180 But I like to give a picture of what is going on in society. So there's always exceptions. And if you relate to what I'm going to talk about, feel free to call in or you have experience on this subject. Feel free to call in at the end of the show. This is a call in show.

00:04:04.580 So people that have sex before they are married are two to three times more likely to divorce than those who don't. By their fifth wedding anniversary, only eight to 10% of virgin couples will divorce. Does that mean that the couples are happy? No. Really? It just shows that the couple isn't divorced. Now, this article was written by a woman.

00:04:28.080 So, you know, this means that marriage is about happiness. A different study showed that sex before marriage decreased the quality of marriage for women, but not for men. Another study from 2010 showed that women's psychological and emotional satisfaction was increased by the lowered level of guilt that came in part from losing their virginity to someone they're emotionally involved with.

00:04:57.140 A 2016 study sought to answer this awkward question. How much sex before marriage is too much? The answers of 200 internet participants between the age of 18 and 22 were clear. Both men and women found it less attractive when their potential partner had previously had sex with more than 10 partners. Two or three previous partners was highly preferred. Now, we all know we don't watch what women say. We watch what they do on this channel.

00:05:24.900 So, a lot of times what women do is when there's a double standard that doesn't benefit us. So, body count is obviously a high body count for men women don't really care about. A high body count for women men care about. They will not date you. They will not wife you if you've had sex with too many people and he finds out about it.

00:05:46.900 Unless you're like Adam 22. Then I don't know. But what feminists have a tendency to do is they try to make the double standard the same. And you're going to see this from Christian feminists, from left feminists as they try to make it the same. We all know it's not.

00:06:07.300 I don't even need to study to tell you that it's not. I just need to see women throwing themselves at Drake every single concert he has.

00:06:15.000 And then there's some idea that this just is a special type of ratchet woman. Not true. This is across socioeconomic class, culture, and race.

00:06:26.160 Individuals of both genders were more receptive to higher body counts if they had a higher body count of their own.

00:06:34.160 However, with high numbers of previous sexual encounters were less tolerant of partners whose number was too small.

00:06:43.080 So that's what the studies say. So let's have a conversation about virgins. Now, it's my belief that both men and women virgins get eaten alive in the modern dating market.

00:06:58.660 Let's talk about adult virgin women. You might think, based on all these stats, that men would want a virgin.

00:07:05.120 I would put an age limit on that. I would say that most adult female virgins are strange to say the least.

00:07:14.180 Guys, you know what I'm talking about. Think about adult women that are virgins that you know.

00:07:20.680 I've met enough in my life that I can narrow it down to a couple different archetypes of virgin women over, I'm going to be generous,

00:07:30.260 I think you age out at like 21, 22. If you don't meet your high school or your college person that you're going to wait till marriage with,

00:07:38.820 it's probably not going to happen for you, but I'm going to be generous and say 24.

00:07:44.800 Generally, if women are virgins over the age of 24, they like the attention of being a virgin.

00:07:51.560 Attention is currency.

00:07:52.860 If they were serious that they wanted to get married, they would go ahead and do it,

00:07:59.320 but they will reject all of the suitable candidates except the ones who make six figures, they're not tall enough.

00:08:09.400 They will say that he does not lead me to God, even though that is your own problem.

00:08:15.760 Your religion, what are you going to do if you get married and your husband passes away?

00:08:22.860 Wouldn't it then be your responsibility to lead yourself to God?

00:08:27.720 Anyways, they will keep saying that he is not holy enough and they will shame any man that even tries.

00:08:34.460 Shaming the male sex drive is super common in church culture, which is why you see a lot of men leaving the church.

00:08:41.180 They do not put up with that BS.

00:08:44.520 The adult virgin woman tends to spend their time with other single women in the church.

00:08:50.200 They will pray to God that their husband will magically come.

00:08:54.340 No work, no putting themselves in social situations, just magic.

00:08:59.620 One example that I think of is Lolo Jones, and we're going to talk about that in a little bit.

00:09:05.160 Instead of submitting to their husbands, they submit to the church elders.

00:09:08.880 What happens when you interpret the Bible one way and your husband interprets the Bible another way?

00:09:14.520 And the church elders interpret the Bible another way.

00:09:18.500 Do you trust your husband or do you listen to the church elders?

00:09:21.800 If he converts to a different religion, are you going with him?

00:09:25.200 If he decides to leave the church, will you follow him?

00:09:29.440 More often than not, especially in Protestant churches, the answer is no.

00:09:35.120 The pastor is who they are actually submitting to, or the doctrine, not the man.

00:09:39.840 No man with options is going to sit and wait.

00:09:44.300 So generally, they will have little to no option.

00:09:49.200 Do you see Brad Pitt waiting till marriage?

00:09:51.160 The answer is no.

00:09:52.740 In general, most guys that have the option to not wait are not going to.

00:09:58.020 They have nothing else to bring to a man, skill-wise,

00:10:01.860 and they think their virginity makes up for their attitude problem.

00:10:05.960 They bring their virginity, and that is it.

00:10:08.320 Most of the virgins do not have wifey skills and a bad attitude if they are over a certain age.

00:10:15.620 They have too much anxiety around sex and what could go wrong after they lose their virginity.

00:10:20.620 They're rooted in fear.

00:10:21.780 They want to use marriage as an escape for their relationship burden of performance.

00:10:26.980 They want the guarantee of him not leaving when in life nothing is guaranteed.

00:10:31.860 The act of giving up your virginity guarantees nothing even if it's on your wedding night.

00:10:37.300 Christians divorce too.

00:10:39.260 Everybody has a burden of performance in marriage.

00:10:42.820 The other type of virgin that I see is asexual and socially awkward.

00:10:48.320 The next type of female virgin I see is lying.

00:10:52.100 They are not telling the truth.

00:10:53.260 They're not actually virgins.

00:10:54.380 They get around this by maybe technically being a virgin, but they've blown like five guys.

00:11:01.320 They did anal.

00:11:03.600 They were fingered.

00:11:05.460 I mean, does it really count if you gave three guys blowjobs?

00:11:10.180 Let me know in the chat.

00:11:11.280 You know, smart men are not going to believe you over a certain age.

00:11:15.760 Only naive men will.

00:11:17.100 No woman wants a naive guy.

00:11:19.600 I went to Catholic school, and believe me, I have seen women do their workarounds firsthand.

00:11:24.960 They will do everything else and still call themselves a virgin.

00:11:29.840 I'm not saying that's right or wrong.

00:11:31.780 Everyone has a right to do what they want with their body.

00:11:35.380 However, over a certain age, the purity doesn't really count like it used to because there's no guarantee.

00:11:43.680 They have no relationship skills, and they don't have the talent to keep an attractive man interested.

00:11:49.980 Women that are virgins have never had to deal with phase two of a relationship that happens after sex and where it is important that you are likable.

00:12:04.720 Virgins think they are somehow a good person simply by the fact that they are virgins.

00:12:09.400 They don't put in the work to be a likable girlfriend.

00:12:13.400 What's better, a bitchy virgin or a nice whore?

00:12:17.500 Twelve, they are fat or ugly.

00:12:24.900 The next, they think they're traditional because they're a virgin, but you can't be traditional in this culture because the woman will always have the upper hand.

00:12:34.960 They want the benefit of a traditional marriage without the responsibility of being obedient to their husbands.

00:12:40.460 There's the Instagram virgins, which will settle for nothing less than a millionaire or billionaire.

00:12:46.420 They use God for clout, to build a brand, and to marry rich.

00:12:51.420 They have no interest in serving a man.

00:12:53.240 They would rather have a man as an accessory, not somebody to obey and start a family with.

00:13:00.580 Okay, so I pulled up some TikToks, and I'm going to go through which type of virgin they are.

00:13:09.980 Here we go.

00:13:33.480 my sister

00:13:46.980 my sister's really mean to me

00:13:54.020 she says I'm a loser

00:13:56.860 and I'm

00:13:58.480 gross

00:13:59.540 and I'm gonna die

00:14:02.600 I mean it's true

00:14:05.740 I don't have a boyfriend

00:14:07.440 and I don't want one

00:14:09.660 all I want to do is play video games all day

00:14:15.800 that doesn't make me a loser

00:14:21.000 let me play my games

00:14:25.340 okay so this is a 30 year old

00:14:29.920 virgin woman who's extremely

00:14:31.900 socially awkward

00:14:32.940 there's no virtue

00:14:35.600 in staying in your apartment

00:14:36.860 playing video games

00:14:38.920 and socializing with nobody

00:14:40.740 God will not

00:14:43.520 send you I don't know if hers is religious

00:14:45.760 right but God isn't gonna send you

00:14:48.120 a husband

00:14:48.660 to your doorstep with doing no work

00:14:51.640 and so what if I'm a

00:14:56.140 that just means

00:14:57.100 that my goal of not getting a boyfriend

00:15:00.920 will work

00:15:01.860 because

00:15:02.300 then I'll be free to just continue playing video

00:15:04.940 you know

00:15:05.480 like who cares if I'm a 29 year old virgin

00:15:11.520 I just don't like sex

00:15:15.180 I'm asexual

00:15:17.980 so you guys can guess in the chat

00:15:22.880 lying

00:15:23.520 asexual

00:15:25.220 super awkward

00:15:26.400 I'd put her as a socially awkward virgin

00:15:28.500 now there will be

00:15:30.580 a simp to wife her up someday

00:15:33.340 now as most of you know

00:15:34.480 I have been fighting on the front lines

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00:17:12.460 now the next one

00:17:16.240 we're gonna go over

00:17:17.360 now this woman

00:17:21.500 I would put as either lying

00:17:23.720 because she's saying

00:17:26.200 she's a virgin

00:17:27.340 but her boobs are out

00:17:29.140 and she has really heavy makeup

00:17:30.720 I just don't really get

00:17:33.440 modesty vibes from her

00:17:35.440 call me crazy

00:17:37.920 but that is

00:17:39.060 that's my guess

00:17:39.900 on this one

00:17:40.600 the origin has proven

00:17:41.920 to be very difficult

00:17:42.860 in terms of dating

00:17:43.760 men get scared off

00:17:45.260 when they learn my truth

00:17:46.540 they pursue me

00:17:47.620 based on my physical appearance

00:17:49.020 right

00:17:49.360 but then when they find out

00:17:50.800 more about me

00:17:51.480 they go poof

00:17:52.940 they dart the

00:17:53.560 they go in the other direction

00:17:54.980 right

00:17:55.380 they're scared

00:17:56.140 because like you said

00:17:57.480 we live in a hookup culture

00:17:58.540 we do

00:17:59.040 instant gratification

00:18:00.080 yeah

00:18:00.620 our generation is just

00:18:01.900 you know

00:18:02.160 one night stands

00:18:02.940 friends with benefits

00:18:03.860 no strings attached

00:18:04.780 relationships

00:18:05.360 yeah

00:18:05.740 but I've held my ground

00:18:06.940 a one night stand

00:18:08.600 will devastate me

00:18:09.300 yeah

00:18:10.020 it will

00:18:10.440 I need a man who will be there

00:18:11.580 for me long term

00:18:12.240 yeah

00:18:12.680 I'm not desperate for marriage

00:18:14.400 I'm not desperate for a husband

00:18:15.900 but I am looking for my soulmate

00:18:17.540 for companionship

00:18:18.420 yeah

00:18:18.780 soulmates or bust

00:18:20.400 is what I always say

00:18:21.500 and to those out there

00:18:24.760 who say

00:18:25.160 you know

00:18:25.660 there's sayings out there

00:18:26.380 like oh

00:18:26.740 don't drive a car

00:18:27.460 before test driving it

00:18:28.440 all that stuff

00:18:29.200 yeah don't buy it

00:18:29.820 before test driving it

00:18:30.400 exactly right

00:18:31.240 you know

00:18:31.560 look at my social media

00:18:33.080 I'm a dancer

00:18:33.880 I grew up dancing

00:18:34.620 as I mentioned

00:18:35.160 and those who dance well

00:18:36.560 you know

00:18:38.000 they know what they're doing

00:18:38.760 exactly

00:18:39.160 it indicates their

00:18:40.020 love making abilities

00:18:41.000 so you want to wait

00:18:43.000 until marriage

00:18:43.520 now we got to think about this

00:18:47.360 from the guy's point of view

00:18:48.500 one in the chat

00:18:50.240 if you believe

00:18:50.960 that woman

00:18:51.620 has done nothing

00:18:52.860 that she's a hundred percent pure

00:18:55.000 let me know in the chat

00:18:57.900 I'm going to read

00:18:58.660 I'm going to read

00:18:59.520 the chat right now

00:19:01.180 it said

00:19:01.520 Dane says

00:19:02.660 Pearl

00:19:02.940 no such thing as a male virgin

00:19:04.420 the idea

00:19:05.020 is a product of egalitarianism

00:19:07.920 to say that men

00:19:08.720 who have sex

00:19:09.440 the first time

00:19:10.600 is giving something

00:19:11.400 to a woman

00:19:11.980 or that he loses something

00:19:13.340 think about it logically

00:19:14.660 if a male gives

00:19:15.680 gives his virginity to her

00:19:17.840 and she gives her virginity to him

00:19:20.540 do they both still have their virginity

00:19:22.640 does one

00:19:23.280 do they cancel the other out

00:19:24.660 virginity is valued by men

00:19:27.040 because of paternity

00:19:28.100 and because men are territorial

00:19:29.460 and protective of property

00:19:31.280 that gives virginity value

00:19:33.140 beyond simply a physical act

00:19:35.000 like sneezing

00:19:35.720 male virginity is a creation

00:19:37.660 of feminists

00:19:38.520 in the protestant churches

00:19:39.660 that's not to say

00:19:41.000 that premarital sex for men

00:19:42.360 before marriage

00:19:43.480 isn't a sin

00:19:44.200 but he's not losing

00:19:45.220 his virginity

00:19:46.200 what I taught my daughters

00:19:48.040 was that purity

00:19:49.500 and virtue

00:19:50.300 were more important

00:19:51.680 than the concepts

00:19:52.520 of virginity

00:19:53.260 and that merely

00:19:53.880 abstaining from intercourse

00:19:55.160 didn't really do

00:19:56.380 what scripture

00:19:56.980 called women to do

00:19:58.180 old virgin 100%

00:19:59.600 but covered in tattoos

00:20:00.680 drinking

00:20:01.080 dressing provocatively

00:20:02.200 cussing more than a redneck

00:20:04.060 who finds someone

00:20:05.160 in his dear stand

00:20:06.500 and they aren't doing it

00:20:07.820 okay the next one

00:20:10.400 we have

00:20:10.980 is a 30 year old woman

00:20:13.920 now this

00:20:14.400 I would put

00:20:15.020 in the socially awkward

00:20:16.240 category of virgin

00:20:17.380 let's make sure

00:20:18.820 the sound is up

00:20:19.560 how to

00:20:20.860 find someone

00:20:22.080 because

00:20:22.460 I'm almost 30 years old

00:20:24.340 and

00:20:24.740 I never had sexual experience

00:20:26.580 or anything

00:20:27.300 with a man

00:20:27.980 and

00:20:28.480 people tell me

00:20:29.080 that I have

00:20:29.960 this masculine energy

00:20:31.800 and I want to know

00:20:32.760 how to get out of it

00:20:33.980 so here's what

00:20:35.140 I always tell women

00:20:36.240 how you can start small

00:20:37.800 especially

00:20:38.280 my women

00:20:39.220 who are hyper independent

00:20:40.520 you grew up

00:20:41.840 in an environment

00:20:42.640 where you had

00:20:43.320 to take care of yourself

00:20:44.420 there was no one

00:20:45.720 there for you

00:20:46.960 to care for you

00:20:47.880 so you had to survive

00:20:49.220 right

00:20:49.600 so you're living

00:20:51.500 in that survival mode

00:20:52.660 so I say

00:20:53.840 start simple

00:20:54.680 if a man

00:20:55.800 you're going

00:20:56.240 into a building

00:20:57.020 wants to open a door

00:20:58.280 let him

00:20:59.180 okay

00:21:00.060 okay

00:21:00.920 it's gonna be

00:21:01.980 very hard for me

00:21:03.220 no no no

00:21:04.240 don't let it be hard

00:21:05.640 let it be simple

00:21:06.740 if you are going

00:21:08.060 into a department store

00:21:09.380 if you're going

00:21:09.780 to a clothing shop

00:21:10.660 you can't reach something

00:21:12.200 or a guy says

00:21:12.960 I'll help you

00:21:13.580 with that to your car

00:21:14.620 and he works in a store

00:21:16.080 allow him to

00:21:17.440 start small

00:21:19.360 work on little things

00:21:20.540 wear a little bit

00:21:21.220 of lip gloss

00:21:21.820 some days

00:21:22.480 put on mascara

00:21:23.260 you don't need

00:21:24.140 a full face of makeup

00:21:25.220 wear your hair down

00:21:27.020 put a little something

00:21:28.180 so I've noticed

00:21:29.280 with feminine

00:21:29.860 let him do things

00:21:30.820 for you

00:21:31.300 and put on

00:21:32.140 makeup and hair

00:21:33.140 it's never

00:21:34.400 about

00:21:35.440 you know

00:21:35.740 because

00:21:35.960 when you think

00:21:36.920 of really feminine

00:21:37.880 women

00:21:38.320 like when I think

00:21:40.240 of the women

00:21:40.660 I knew growing up

00:21:41.660 that were the most

00:21:43.400 feminine

00:21:43.860 none really

00:21:46.080 cared about makeup

00:21:47.180 none really cared

00:21:48.020 about hair

00:21:48.660 and none

00:21:50.780 were really focused

00:21:51.960 on

00:21:52.640 what

00:21:54.780 men could do

00:21:56.020 for them

00:21:56.540 they were focused

00:21:58.120 on serving

00:21:58.860 their community

00:21:59.840 and serving

00:22:01.600 the people

00:22:02.120 around them

00:22:02.740 so you guys

00:22:03.460 know the feeling

00:22:04.140 like when you go

00:22:04.680 to your grandma's

00:22:05.280 house

00:22:05.420 she's got food

00:22:06.140 ready

00:22:06.520 ours had some

00:22:08.700 cookies

00:22:09.100 it was real nice

00:22:09.980 you know

00:22:16.960 but that's what

00:22:17.740 but it's interesting

00:22:19.200 because

00:22:19.760 the femininity

00:22:21.160 coaches

00:22:21.680 I would say

00:22:22.440 femininity

00:22:23.060 at its core

00:22:23.720 is selflessness

00:22:24.480 right

00:22:25.640 it's giving up

00:22:26.540 your youth

00:22:27.060 for the family

00:22:27.780 it's giving up

00:22:28.740 your body

00:22:29.240 for the kids

00:22:30.180 it's giving up

00:22:32.040 your free time

00:22:32.860 for others

00:22:33.840 right

00:22:35.140 and this is why

00:22:35.800 I say look

00:22:36.380 I'm not

00:22:36.860 I'm not saying

00:22:37.560 I'm a spitting

00:22:38.140 example of what

00:22:39.040 that should be

00:22:39.720 but you can find

00:22:41.160 examples of women

00:22:42.420 that did that

00:22:43.400 and you can tell

00:22:45.800 by the way

00:22:46.200 they carry themselves

00:22:47.400 that

00:22:48.700 it's not about

00:22:50.260 makeup

00:22:50.620 it's not about

00:22:51.160 hair

00:22:51.600 it's about

00:22:52.820 giving to

00:22:53.880 everyone else

00:22:54.640 and so that's why

00:22:55.480 you know

00:22:55.840 how many

00:22:58.860 commentators

00:22:59.840 that

00:23:00.820 you know

00:23:01.660 virtue

00:23:03.740 signal

00:23:04.320 traditionalism

00:23:05.420 give up

00:23:06.000 their career

00:23:06.740 after they

00:23:07.980 have kids

00:23:08.620 I couldn't

00:23:10.100 find one

00:23:10.920 and so again

00:23:12.340 that's why

00:23:12.960 most traditionalism

00:23:14.820 especially on the

00:23:15.800 internet

00:23:16.060 it's all cosplay

00:23:16.920 you know

00:23:18.260 the real

00:23:18.660 traditional women

00:23:19.520 aren't really

00:23:20.320 online

00:23:20.760 and they're

00:23:24.540 pretty rare

00:23:25.100 most are over

00:23:25.880 40

00:23:26.280 you're not

00:23:26.680 going to find

00:23:27.020 many under

00:23:27.560 40

00:23:27.960 those are

00:23:29.100 unicorns

00:23:29.800 shiny on the

00:23:30.720 lip

00:23:30.940 put a little

00:23:31.500 mascara

00:23:32.120 okay

00:23:32.660 wear bright

00:23:33.620 colors

00:23:34.140 smile when

00:23:35.440 you go out

00:23:36.020 talk a little

00:23:37.400 bit softer

00:23:38.160 listen a little

00:23:39.460 bit you know

00:23:40.160 and allow them

00:23:41.660 to do it

00:23:42.340 what we know

00:23:43.380 you're in the

00:23:43.880 but think

00:23:44.540 think about

00:23:44.780 what this

00:23:45.100 woman's

00:23:45.460 going to

00:23:45.640 be like

00:23:46.060 in a

00:23:46.260 relationship

00:23:46.780 so she

00:23:47.220 said

00:23:47.460 no

00:23:50.260 relationship

00:23:51.100 experience

00:23:52.080 it

00:23:53.560 is she

00:23:55.780 going to

00:23:56.100 know

00:23:56.660 how

00:23:57.940 to be

00:23:58.840 a

00:23:58.980 girlfriend

00:23:59.300 and

00:24:03.760 why

00:24:05.320 would

00:24:05.580 a

00:24:05.720 guy

00:24:06.020 you know

00:24:06.480 that

00:24:06.860 you know

00:24:07.160 there's a

00:24:07.620 certain age

00:24:08.340 where

00:24:08.940 it's really

00:24:09.960 better for

00:24:10.540 women to

00:24:10.960 give it

00:24:11.240 up

00:24:11.360 you know

00:24:11.880 what

00:24:12.100 because

00:24:13.220 how else

00:24:15.420 are they

00:24:15.680 going to

00:24:15.880 get

00:24:16.040 experience

00:24:16.600 and

00:24:17.060 I wish

00:24:17.840 I could

00:24:18.180 just

00:24:18.380 virtue

00:24:18.780 signal

00:24:19.400 right

00:24:19.920 I wish

00:24:20.280 I wish

00:24:20.920 I could

00:24:21.200 just

00:24:21.420 virtue

00:24:21.760 signal

00:24:22.220 like

00:24:22.460 everyone

00:24:22.760 else

00:24:23.080 and say

00:24:23.360 just wait

00:24:23.800 till

00:24:24.000 you're

00:24:24.200 married

00:24:24.480 well

00:24:24.820 if

00:24:25.780 you're

00:24:26.000 30

00:24:26.400 that

00:24:26.780 is

00:24:26.920 not

00:24:27.160 going

00:24:27.340 to

00:24:27.420 work

00:24:27.800 oh

00:24:29.120 my

00:24:29.300 god

00:24:29.560 that

00:24:29.740 is

00:24:29.860 not

00:24:30.060 going

00:24:30.200 to

00:24:30.280 work

00:24:30.580 sorry

00:24:31.160 like

00:24:31.620 do

00:24:32.200 I

00:24:32.340 want

00:24:32.480 to

00:24:32.580 talk

00:24:32.820 about

00:24:33.240 what

00:24:34.260 would

00:24:34.460 be

00:24:34.620 ideal

00:24:35.160 or

00:24:36.140 what

00:24:36.400 is

00:24:36.640 going

00:24:36.860 to

00:24:37.100 work

00:24:37.420 in

00:24:37.600 2024

00:24:38.200 no

00:24:41.520 guy

00:24:41.920 is

00:24:42.120 going

00:24:42.260 to

00:24:42.420 risk

00:24:42.820 he's

00:24:43.220 not

00:24:43.400 going

00:24:43.520 to

00:24:43.640 think

00:24:44.000 you

00:24:44.820 know

00:24:44.900 what

00:24:45.020 let

00:24:45.240 me

00:24:45.400 risk

00:24:45.800 this

00:24:46.100 whole

00:24:46.380 the

00:24:46.660 state

00:24:47.100 taking

00:24:47.540 away

00:24:47.840 everything

00:24:48.380 giving

00:24:49.760 you

00:24:50.000 the

00:24:50.260 ultimate

00:24:50.720 authority

00:24:51.480 and

00:24:53.960 taking

00:24:55.260 your

00:24:55.540 word

00:24:56.020 that

00:24:56.420 you're

00:24:56.620 30

00:24:57.040 and

00:24:57.500 a

00:24:57.640 virgin

00:24:57.880 now

00:24:58.260 maybe

00:24:59.180 you've

00:24:59.420 known

00:24:59.600 him

00:24:59.720 your

00:24:59.860 whole

00:25:00.040 life

00:25:00.420 okay

00:25:00.700 that's

00:25:01.120 a little

00:25:01.360 different

00:25:01.900 are there

00:25:03.240 exceptions

00:25:03.800 sure

00:25:04.220 but

00:25:04.600 I

00:25:05.320 would

00:25:05.880 say

00:25:06.260 that

00:25:06.920 any

00:25:07.100 guy

00:25:07.280 that

00:25:07.460 signs

00:25:07.720 up

00:25:07.920 for

00:25:08.040 that

00:25:08.200 is

00:25:08.320 foolish

00:25:08.760 he's

00:25:10.740 an

00:25:10.860 idiot

00:25:11.160 and

00:25:13.140 the

00:25:14.140 the

00:25:14.360 trad

00:25:14.680 cons

00:25:15.020 can

00:25:15.260 virtue

00:25:15.600 signal

00:25:16.080 all

00:25:16.340 they

00:25:16.520 want

00:25:16.960 but

00:25:18.340 you know

00:25:19.460 I'm

00:25:19.660 the one

00:25:19.900 being

00:25:20.100 honest

00:25:20.480 the guys

00:25:20.840 in

00:25:20.960 the

00:25:21.080 red

00:25:21.260 pill

00:25:21.480 they're

00:25:21.680 the

00:25:21.800 ones

00:25:22.000 being

00:25:22.180 honest

00:25:22.760 this

00:25:24.340 woman

00:25:24.700 she

00:25:25.120 she

00:25:25.760 would

00:25:25.940 be

00:25:26.060 better

00:25:26.340 she

00:25:26.560 would

00:25:26.720 get

00:25:26.880 closer

00:25:27.300 if

00:25:27.460 her

00:25:27.620 outcome

00:25:28.100 is

00:25:28.260 she

00:25:28.380 wants

00:25:28.580 to

00:25:28.720 be

00:25:28.840 married

00:25:29.120 with

00:25:29.340 children

00:25:29.780 she's

00:25:30.580 got

00:25:30.720 to

00:25:30.820 go

00:25:30.920 get

00:25:31.100 some

00:25:31.280 experience

00:25:31.900 she

00:25:33.300 has

00:25:33.960 to

00:25:34.240 you know

00:25:34.560 hopefully

00:25:34.980 with

00:25:35.240 someone

00:25:35.520 within

00:25:35.960 a

00:25:36.140 point

00:25:36.360 of

00:25:36.480 her

00:25:36.640 league

00:25:37.140 but

00:25:38.440 yeah

00:25:38.700 let me

00:25:39.060 keep

00:25:39.220 going

00:25:39.520 we

00:25:40.360 know

00:25:40.740 you

00:25:40.940 can

00:25:41.100 do

00:25:41.280 all

00:25:41.500 of

00:25:41.620 the

00:25:41.720 things

00:25:42.080 you

00:25:42.560 do

00:25:42.800 enough

00:25:43.200 of

00:25:43.380 that

00:25:43.580 at

00:25:43.840 work

00:25:44.240 don't

00:25:45.120 you

00:25:45.260 want

00:25:45.400 to

00:25:45.500 leave

00:25:45.680 a

00:25:45.800 little

00:25:45.960 bit

00:25:46.140 of

00:25:46.260 room

00:25:46.400 for

00:25:46.580 someone

00:25:46.880 else

00:25:47.120 to

00:25:47.260 pick

00:25:47.440 up

00:25:47.580 that

00:25:47.800 slack

00:25:48.160 or

00:25:48.400 do

00:25:48.660 those

00:25:48.940 little

00:25:49.120 right

00:25:50.320 exactly

00:25:53.200 exactly

00:25:54.600 when you

00:25:55.500 go out

00:25:55.960 even if

00:25:56.560 you are

00:25:56.800 going to

00:25:57.180 the

00:25:57.380 store

00:25:57.820 the

00:25:58.360 grocery

00:25:58.920 wear

00:25:59.440 your

00:25:59.640 hair

00:25:59.820 down

00:26:00.240 put a

00:26:00.620 little

00:26:00.780 gloss

00:26:01.200 on

00:26:01.440 wear

00:26:01.620 bright

00:26:01.940 color

00:26:02.320 say

00:26:03.120 hello

00:26:03.560 if

00:26:03.860 you

00:26:04.000 see

00:26:04.220 someone

00:26:04.600 hello

00:26:04.980 how

00:26:05.280 are

00:26:05.420 you

00:26:05.540 how's

00:26:05.840 your

00:26:05.960 day

00:26:06.160 that

00:26:06.660 is

00:26:06.820 wonderful

00:26:07.200 this

00:26:07.460 could

00:26:07.620 be

00:26:07.780 men

00:26:08.020 or

00:26:08.260 women

00:26:08.620 start

00:26:09.920 there

00:26:10.280 okay

00:26:12.540 let me

00:26:12.900 keep

00:26:13.140 going

00:26:13.480 the

00:26:14.100 next

00:26:14.480 one

00:26:14.780 we

00:26:14.940 got

00:26:15.360 I

00:26:19.820 would

00:26:20.000 put

00:26:20.160 this

00:26:20.380 woman

00:26:20.640 as

00:26:20.920 lying

00:26:21.400 don't

00:26:22.200 believe

00:26:22.480 it

00:26:22.760 do

00:26:24.120 not

00:26:24.340 believe

00:26:24.560 oh

00:26:24.880 my

00:26:25.120 god

00:26:25.400 I

00:26:25.540 love

00:26:26.080 this

00:26:26.240 you

00:26:26.440 gotta

00:26:26.580 also

00:26:26.980 look

00:26:27.260 at

00:26:27.360 who

00:26:27.540 is

00:26:27.700 the

00:26:27.840 woman

00:26:28.060 better

00:26:28.340 out

00:26:28.680 now

00:26:30.920 if

00:26:31.120 the

00:26:31.240 woman's

00:26:31.560 been

00:26:31.700 in

00:26:31.820 a

00:26:31.960 protestant

00:26:32.620 church

00:26:33.220 where

00:26:34.600 90%

00:26:35.380 of the

00:26:35.620 guys

00:26:35.840 are

00:26:36.020 simps

00:26:36.500 I've

00:26:36.780 been

00:26:36.920 in

00:26:37.040 one

00:26:37.340 90%

00:26:39.940 of the

00:26:40.200 men

00:26:40.360 their

00:26:40.540 wives

00:26:40.820 run

00:26:41.020 the

00:26:41.160 relationship

00:26:41.720 you

00:26:42.040 ask

00:26:42.400 where

00:26:43.040 do

00:26:43.140 the

00:26:43.260 kids

00:26:43.500 go

00:26:43.700 to

00:26:43.840 school

00:26:44.140 where

00:26:44.400 she

00:26:44.660 wants

00:26:45.100 do

00:26:46.900 they

00:26:47.060 interpret

00:26:47.440 the

00:26:47.660 bible

00:26:47.940 how

00:26:48.320 he

00:26:48.540 wants

00:26:48.880 or

00:26:49.020 how

00:26:49.160 she

00:26:49.380 wants

00:26:49.660 yeah

00:26:49.840 they're

00:26:51.560 nice

00:26:51.860 people

00:26:52.340 but

00:26:54.120 I've

00:26:55.220 lived

00:26:55.500 this

00:26:55.760 nobody

00:26:56.040 can

00:26:56.300 nobody

00:26:56.740 can

00:26:57.540 convince

00:26:57.880 me

00:26:58.100 otherwise

00:26:58.440 now

00:26:58.920 this

00:27:00.400 woman

00:27:00.700 was

00:27:00.980 in

00:27:01.160 Hollywood

00:27:01.680 you're

00:27:04.980 telling

00:27:05.160 me

00:27:05.340 nobody

00:27:05.820 in

00:27:06.180 Hollywood

00:27:06.680 had

00:27:14.280 sex

00:27:14.600 with

00:27:14.780 this

00:27:14.960 woman

00:27:15.220 okay

00:27:15.640 this

00:27:17.000 this

00:27:17.340 is

00:27:17.560 the

00:27:17.940 most

00:27:18.320 original

00:27:18.920 guest

00:27:19.360 we've

00:27:19.640 ever

00:27:19.900 had

00:27:20.200 on

00:27:20.740 and

00:27:21.540 what

00:27:21.800 are

00:27:21.900 you

00:27:22.000 39

00:27:22.360 I

00:27:23.200 am

00:27:23.800 oh

00:27:24.280 my

00:27:24.540 god

00:27:25.340 that

00:27:25.760 dam

00:27:26.100 is

00:27:26.260 gonna

00:27:26.460 break

00:27:26.900 one

00:27:27.180 day

00:27:27.420 baby

00:27:27.860 and

00:27:28.080 let me

00:27:28.580 play

00:27:28.740 right

00:27:28.980 down

00:27:29.360 I

00:27:29.740 like

00:27:30.020 you

00:27:30.160 were

00:27:30.300 like

00:27:30.520 oh

00:27:30.960 you

00:27:31.200 know

00:27:31.380 I

00:27:31.680 was

00:27:32.280 like

00:27:32.380 pray

00:27:32.600 for

00:27:32.820 him

00:27:33.100 whoever

00:27:33.520 he

00:27:33.820 is

00:27:34.140 a lot

00:27:36.600 of

00:27:36.740 pet

00:27:36.960 up

00:27:37.120 energy

00:27:37.480 up

00:27:37.660 in

00:27:37.780 here

00:27:37.980 oh

00:27:39.100 my

00:27:39.300 god

00:27:39.440 again

00:27:39.800 okay

00:27:40.220 40

00:27:40.720 I

00:27:41.080 don't

00:27:41.200 know

00:27:41.360 what

00:27:41.620 age

00:27:42.040 like

00:27:42.280 we

00:27:42.460 can

00:27:42.640 all

00:27:42.860 disagree

00:27:43.260 at

00:27:43.520 what

00:27:43.740 age

00:27:44.040 it

00:27:44.180 is

00:27:44.520 but

00:27:45.780 there

00:27:46.060 is

00:27:46.260 an

00:27:46.400 age

00:27:46.840 where

00:27:48.680 you

00:27:49.300 will

00:27:49.500 have

00:27:49.700 better

00:27:49.980 results

00:27:50.740 if

00:27:51.040 you

00:27:51.180 give

00:27:51.400 it

00:27:51.520 up

00:27:51.760 we

00:27:52.520 could

00:27:52.700 disagree

00:27:53.140 on

00:27:53.700 what

00:27:53.920 age

00:27:54.360 at

00:27:56.060 40

00:27:56.460 no

00:27:56.720 guy

00:27:57.000 is

00:27:57.160 going

00:27:57.260 to

00:27:57.320 give

00:27:57.480 you

00:27:57.560 the

00:27:57.680 benefit

00:27:58.000 of

00:27:58.220 the

00:27:58.300 doubt

00:27:58.660 zero

00:27:59.900 zero

00:28:01.340 men

00:28:01.920 that

00:28:02.860 have

00:28:03.200 no

00:28:03.820 other

00:28:04.140 choice

00:28:04.580 that

00:28:04.820 is

00:28:04.940 the

00:28:05.080 only

00:28:05.380 guy

00:28:05.680 he

00:28:05.860 has

00:28:06.060 to

00:28:06.140 have

00:28:06.280 zero

00:28:07.000 other

00:28:07.380 choices

00:28:08.060 god

00:28:08.580 and

00:28:08.740 you're

00:28:08.880 going

00:28:08.960 to

00:28:09.040 hit

00:28:09.200 your

00:28:09.340 sexual

00:28:09.760 peak

00:28:10.220 when

00:28:10.500 you

00:28:10.700 start

00:28:10.980 having

00:28:11.280 sex

00:28:11.760 so

00:28:12.220 yeah

00:28:12.460 now

00:28:12.800 remember

00:28:13.260 there's

00:28:13.640 one

00:28:14.000 caveat

00:28:14.520 I

00:28:14.780 want

00:28:14.940 to

00:28:15.040 make

00:28:15.360 a

00:28:19.180 couple

00:28:19.500 women

00:28:19.860 get

00:28:20.080 away

00:28:20.320 with

00:28:20.520 it

00:28:20.660 because

00:28:20.900 they're

00:28:21.140 hot

00:28:21.400 enough

00:28:21.720 but

00:28:22.040 if

00:28:22.160 you're

00:28:22.300 not

00:28:22.540 an

00:28:22.680 eight

00:28:22.880 or

00:28:23.000 higher

00:28:23.300 it's

00:28:23.600 not

00:28:23.900 for

00:28:24.160 you

00:28:24.600 ladies

00:28:25.300 you're

00:28:25.840 gonna

00:28:25.940 need

00:28:26.140 a

00:28:26.260 couple

00:28:26.540 of

00:28:26.700 men

00:28:26.860 probably

00:28:27.480 you

00:28:30.040 want

00:28:30.260 for

00:28:30.580 me

00:28:30.740 the

00:28:31.600 virgin

00:28:31.860 to

00:28:32.080 polyethylene

00:28:32.720 okay

00:28:34.320 let me

00:28:34.680 get the

00:28:35.100 last

00:28:35.640 one

00:28:36.120 oh

00:28:39.060 wait

00:28:39.220 I did

00:28:39.340 this one

00:28:39.960 okay

00:28:42.220 so

00:28:42.640 let's

00:28:43.160 look

00:28:43.440 at

00:28:43.700 an

00:28:43.840 example

00:28:44.220 is

00:28:44.460 a

00:28:44.600 track

00:28:44.940 star

00:28:45.260 an

00:28:45.420 olympic

00:28:45.960 athlete

00:28:46.500 that

00:28:46.840 is

00:28:46.960 holding

00:28:47.360 off

00:28:47.820 on

00:28:48.700 giving

00:28:49.000 her

00:28:49.280 virginity

00:28:49.840 to

00:28:50.060 her

00:28:50.220 husband

00:28:50.540 she's

00:28:51.440 still

00:28:51.620 not

00:28:51.860 married

00:28:52.180 and

00:28:52.420 has

00:28:52.620 no

00:28:52.820 prospects

00:28:53.480 as far

00:28:53.920 as

00:28:54.100 anyone

00:28:54.640 knows

00:28:55.300 Olympian

00:28:57.420 Lolo

00:28:57.840 Jones

00:28:58.320 says

00:28:58.580 being

00:28:58.800 a

00:28:58.980 48

00:28:59.340 year

00:28:59.600 old

00:28:59.860 virgin

00:29:00.420 has

00:29:00.800 killed

00:29:01.120 her

00:29:01.320 love

00:29:01.620 life

00:29:01.900 now

00:29:02.120 she's

00:29:02.420 turning

00:29:02.720 to

00:29:03.020 IVF

00:29:03.620 to

00:29:03.800 become

00:29:04.080 a

00:29:04.260 mom

00:29:04.520 Olympian

00:29:05.860 Lolo

00:29:06.300 Jones

00:29:06.720 you know

00:29:07.000 you guys

00:29:07.260 think

00:29:07.440 I'm

00:29:07.560 making

00:29:09.960 I'm

00:29:10.680 telling

00:29:10.880 you

00:29:11.020 I

00:29:11.120 would

00:29:11.220 see

00:29:11.400 these

00:29:11.660 ladies

00:29:12.220 in

00:29:12.480 protestant

00:29:13.060 churches

00:29:13.420 that

00:29:13.720 were

00:29:13.860 like

00:29:14.260 35

00:29:15.140 year

00:29:15.520 old

00:29:15.700 virgins

00:29:16.140 40

00:29:16.520 year

00:29:16.700 old

00:29:16.860 virgins

00:29:17.240 the

00:29:17.440 challenges

00:29:17.880 in

00:29:18.140 church

00:29:18.500 the

00:29:19.060 only

00:29:19.220 guys

00:29:19.460 signing

00:29:19.740 up

00:29:20.000 they're

00:29:20.160 not

00:29:20.320 going

00:29:20.420 to

00:29:20.460 be

00:29:20.560 attracted

00:29:21.000 to

00:29:21.340 they're

00:29:22.660 not

00:29:23.020 I

00:29:23.340 mean

00:29:23.620 especially

00:29:24.940 at the

00:29:25.260 protestant

00:29:25.820 churches

00:29:26.400 I

00:29:27.520 mean

00:29:27.640 you

00:29:27.760 have

00:29:27.940 like

00:29:28.140 the

00:29:28.320 Nala's

00:29:28.760 husbands

00:29:29.120 of the

00:29:29.700 of the

00:29:30.120 protestant

00:29:30.660 churches

00:29:31.160 they'll

00:29:32.160 take

00:29:32.380 anything

00:29:32.820 they're

00:29:33.160 desperate

00:29:33.620 you know

00:29:34.820 Olympian

00:29:37.680 Lolo

00:29:38.080 Jones

00:29:38.520 revealed

00:29:39.960 this is

00:29:52.080 the other

00:29:52.440 challenge

00:29:52.980 again

00:29:55.220 when they're

00:29:55.660 vocal about

00:29:56.300 their virginity

00:29:57.040 they're asking

00:29:57.620 for attention

00:29:58.380 for it

00:29:59.020 it's not

00:30:00.020 a private

00:30:00.640 thing between

00:30:02.320 them and

00:30:02.720 God and

00:30:03.000 their husband

00:30:03.540 it's a

00:30:05.060 marketing

00:30:05.480 tool

00:30:05.920 and the

00:30:08.280 challenge

00:30:08.700 is once

00:30:09.140 they get

00:30:09.520 that

00:30:09.780 attention

00:30:10.380 you know

00:30:10.740 everyone

00:30:11.040 clapping

00:30:11.560 good

00:30:11.880 job

00:30:12.320 not

00:30:13.380 saying

00:30:13.620 it's

00:30:13.760 a bad

00:30:14.040 thing

00:30:14.280 it's

00:30:14.980 tough

00:30:15.260 for them

00:30:15.580 to give

00:30:15.860 it up

00:30:16.280 it's

00:30:17.220 tough

00:30:17.540 I mean

00:30:19.200 they have

00:30:19.460 to say

00:30:19.780 average

00:30:21.420 guy over

00:30:22.260 all this

00:30:22.720 attention

00:30:23.200 I get

00:30:23.800 nah

00:30:25.040 nah

00:30:25.860 the star

00:30:26.920 athlete

00:30:27.340 told the

00:30:27.780 daily

00:30:28.060 mail

00:30:28.620 she's

00:30:29.040 now

00:30:29.300 turning

00:30:29.700 to IVF

00:30:30.440 in hopes

00:30:30.780 to become

00:30:31.120 a mother

00:30:31.440 one day

00:30:31.860 Jones

00:30:33.100 has been

00:30:33.480 canceled

00:30:34.080 candid

00:30:34.940 about her

00:30:35.600 fertility

00:30:36.300 journey

00:30:36.780 on

00:30:36.980 Instagram

00:30:37.400 documenting

00:30:38.160 what it's

00:30:38.720 like to

00:30:39.120 freeze your

00:30:39.600 eggs

00:30:39.960 so here

00:30:40.780 we go

00:30:41.360 for my

00:30:44.820 husband

00:30:45.180 for so

00:30:45.720 many years

00:30:46.440 and I'm

00:30:47.620 just getting

00:30:48.100 mad

00:30:48.740 and I'm about to

00:30:49.960 turn 40

00:30:50.640 there's a lot of

00:30:51.840 stress on me

00:30:52.480 this is

00:30:53.060 insanity

00:30:53.680 I'm gonna give

00:31:00.860 my thoughts

00:31:01.540 on if

00:31:02.100 you're gonna

00:31:02.460 be a

00:31:02.860 virgin

00:31:03.200 and you

00:31:03.960 want to

00:31:04.220 wait till

00:31:04.560 you're

00:31:04.780 married

00:31:05.040 how I

00:31:05.500 would do

00:31:05.880 it

00:31:06.100 but there's

00:31:08.080 a time

00:31:08.500 clock

00:31:08.960 and remember

00:31:10.780 there's guys

00:31:11.300 that'll sign

00:31:11.860 up

00:31:12.160 but you

00:31:12.820 will not

00:31:13.180 be attracted

00:31:13.760 to them

00:31:14.180 I've seen

00:31:14.760 the men

00:31:15.060 that sign

00:31:15.500 up

00:31:15.880 you

00:31:17.380 which is

00:31:19.900 totally fine

00:31:20.600 I'm not

00:31:20.940 just don't

00:31:23.080 divorce him

00:31:23.660 later

00:31:24.020 because you're

00:31:24.440 bored

00:31:24.700 I mean

00:31:25.220 that's fine

00:31:25.700 sign up

00:31:26.260 do not

00:31:27.960 divorce him

00:31:28.480 later

00:31:28.860 because you're

00:31:29.840 okay let me

00:31:30.480 keep going

00:31:30.880 let me keep

00:31:31.380 going

00:31:31.740 I'm the only

00:31:33.240 one that's

00:31:33.620 gonna be

00:31:33.920 honest about

00:31:34.580 this because

00:31:35.340 everyone else

00:31:36.580 is gonna

00:31:36.900 virtue signal

00:31:37.880 and it's a lot

00:31:40.760 easier to

00:31:41.220 virtue signal

00:31:41.920 it's way

00:31:42.740 it's so much

00:31:43.400 easier to just

00:31:44.280 say you know

00:31:44.700 what wait

00:31:45.560 till you're

00:31:45.960 married

00:31:46.400 young

00:31:47.660 under the

00:31:49.880 age of

00:31:50.260 22

00:31:50.760 after 22

00:31:52.220 you might

00:31:54.300 get a church

00:31:54.880 simp to

00:31:55.360 give you

00:31:55.600 the benefit

00:31:56.040 of the

00:31:56.340 doubt

00:31:56.660 but I've

00:31:58.320 seen how

00:31:58.660 this plays

00:31:59.160 out

00:31:59.740 I know

00:32:02.340 it's all

00:32:02.860 you've got

00:32:03.300 to just

00:32:03.980 be

00:32:04.540 strong

00:32:05.560 and it's

00:32:09.720 a fight

00:32:10.200 just to

00:32:10.720 keep it

00:32:11.440 together

00:32:11.860 doing your

00:32:12.720 pre-treatment

00:32:13.340 take it

00:32:14.320 you know

00:32:14.340 I know

00:32:16.800 you think

00:32:17.360 that you

00:32:17.800 are too

00:32:18.340 far

00:32:19.040 but we're

00:32:19.380 came back

00:32:19.820 normal

00:32:20.280 hormone levels

00:32:21.320 are normal

00:32:21.800 so we're

00:32:23.980 gonna proceed

00:32:24.580 with the

00:32:27.060 process of

00:32:28.120 aren't

00:32:28.880 Christians

00:32:29.300 against

00:32:29.940 IVF

00:32:30.580 yeah I

00:32:34.640 know

00:32:34.860 I know

00:32:35.160 it's like

00:32:36.620 the

00:32:36.820 it's like

00:32:37.260 pick and

00:32:37.800 choose

00:32:38.180 this is

00:32:38.800 how the

00:32:39.280 let me

00:32:40.280 at this

00:32:41.060 point I

00:32:41.460 think she

00:32:41.800 should have

00:32:42.100 just been

00:32:42.440 a nun

00:32:42.820 the Catholics

00:32:43.740 have a solution

00:32:44.540 for this

00:32:45.120 look

00:32:45.460 ladies over

00:32:47.080 a certain

00:32:47.440 age it's

00:32:48.000 just not

00:32:48.360 for you

00:32:48.920 you're either

00:32:49.880 too much

00:32:50.320 of a

00:32:50.580 whore

00:32:50.940 or

00:32:52.620 it's just

00:32:54.660 not gonna

00:32:55.040 happen

00:32:55.500 cover up

00:32:56.720 forever

00:32:57.120 here you

00:32:57.540 go

00:32:57.840 but you

00:33:10.320 know it's

00:33:10.740 like for

00:33:11.120 years

00:33:11.760 she's put

00:33:13.940 all this

00:33:14.360 pressure on

00:33:15.080 finding this

00:33:15.600 perfect husband

00:33:16.480 and they

00:33:16.860 don't help

00:33:17.340 in the

00:33:17.620 church

00:33:17.920 because

00:33:18.360 look when

00:33:19.360 I was

00:33:19.660 when I

00:33:19.920 was in

00:33:20.080 high school

00:33:20.460 they would

00:33:20.740 give us

00:33:21.220 like chastity

00:33:22.200 speakers

00:33:22.720 and it's

00:33:24.540 so crazy

00:33:25.160 because if a

00:33:25.880 woman does

00:33:26.400 anything

00:33:26.720 sexual

00:33:27.200 she was

00:33:27.720 just

00:33:27.940 broken

00:33:28.320 but if a

00:33:29.220 man does

00:33:29.820 anything

00:33:30.140 sexual

00:33:30.680 it's

00:33:32.780 it's always

00:33:33.240 like he

00:33:33.980 pressured you

00:33:34.880 into doing

00:33:35.440 it

00:33:35.740 I mean

00:33:39.280 some of the

00:33:39.760 women pressure

00:33:40.400 the men

00:33:40.860 into doing

00:33:41.380 it

00:33:41.680 especially

00:33:43.680 the young

00:33:44.260 women I

00:33:44.800 mean

00:33:45.100 they get

00:33:46.500 naked

00:33:46.860 first if

00:33:47.600 you if

00:33:47.980 you see

00:33:48.380 them the

00:33:49.040 way they're

00:33:49.440 dressing

00:33:49.860 these days

00:33:51.300 okay now

00:33:55.000 the Olympian

00:33:55.820 called her

00:33:56.340 virginity

00:33:56.820 a gift

00:33:57.260 I want

00:33:57.580 to give

00:33:57.960 my husband

00:33:58.740 but she

00:33:59.600 said that

00:33:59.980 decision

00:34:00.380 has not

00:34:00.900 been an

00:34:01.220 easy one

00:34:01.740 there's

00:34:02.260 virgins

00:34:02.600 out there

00:34:03.040 I'm gonna

00:34:03.420 let them

00:34:03.780 know it's

00:34:04.080 the hardest

00:34:04.480 thing I've

00:34:04.900 ever done

00:34:05.280 in my

00:34:05.520 life

00:34:05.840 harder than

00:34:06.660 training for

00:34:07.140 the Olympics

00:34:07.600 harder than

00:34:08.120 graduating

00:34:08.520 college has

00:34:09.180 been to

00:34:09.480 stay a

00:34:09.800 virgin

00:34:10.040 until

00:34:10.340 marriage

00:34:10.660 but eight

00:34:11.640 years later

00:34:12.140 during a

00:34:12.500 January 2020

00:34:13.360 interview with

00:34:14.460 Kevin Hart on

00:34:15.140 his cold as

00:34:15.660 ball series

00:34:16.320 Jones has

00:34:17.360 said being

00:34:18.260 said being so

00:34:19.780 candid about her

00:34:20.580 virginity was a

00:34:21.520 mistake that

00:34:22.640 killed all my

00:34:23.540 dates after

00:34:24.160 that she

00:34:24.760 added you

00:34:25.640 know yeah

00:34:25.960 because you

00:34:26.520 know men

00:34:28.720 want to be

00:34:29.160 the guy that

00:34:29.880 you break the

00:34:30.480 rules for

00:34:31.100 right I was

00:34:31.800 gonna wait

00:34:32.340 then I met

00:34:32.780 this awesome

00:34:33.340 guy now

00:34:34.860 we're in love

00:34:35.380 it's amazing

00:34:36.000 you're now

00:34:38.980 telling every

00:34:39.780 not all

00:34:40.220 there's Christian

00:34:41.000 men that'll

00:34:41.520 sign up for

00:34:42.140 that and

00:34:45.060 but you're

00:34:49.580 now telling

00:34:50.140 everybody that

00:34:50.960 he's not the

00:34:51.600 guy you're

00:34:52.000 gonna break

00:34:52.400 the rules for

00:34:53.160 not only does

00:34:56.400 he have to

00:34:56.860 do it which

00:34:57.340 guys will

00:34:57.900 it could be a

00:34:58.580 private thing

00:34:59.280 between the

00:34:59.860 two of you

00:35:00.420 now it's a

00:35:01.780 public thing

00:35:02.580 for everybody

00:35:03.460 so you know

00:35:06.480 okay so that

00:35:07.140 killed all my

00:35:07.800 dates after that

00:35:08.660 before at least

00:35:09.400 I had a chance

00:35:10.200 but I'd like

00:35:10.700 tiptoe okay

00:35:11.480 when's a good

00:35:12.000 time to tell

00:35:12.980 him do I

00:35:13.740 wait until he

00:35:14.320 sees my

00:35:14.680 personality a

00:35:15.560 bit or do I

00:35:16.060 just drop the

00:35:16.660 bomb Jones

00:35:17.580 told Hart that

00:35:18.420 she believed

00:35:18.900 being a virgin

00:35:19.660 and also put

00:35:22.120 her at a

00:35:22.640 disadvantage in

00:35:23.420 sports having

00:35:24.040 sex actually

00:35:24.780 helps you as

00:35:25.280 an athlete a

00:35:26.440 female athlete so

00:35:27.320 I'm running at

00:35:27.940 a disadvantage

00:35:28.580 yes okay when

00:35:36.820 Jones has

00:35:38.020 had I wonder

00:35:40.300 if the biggest

00:35:40.860 whores in our

00:35:41.420 team were the

00:35:41.900 best okay when

00:35:44.960 Jones had an

00:35:45.820 impressive career

00:35:46.680 that now includes

00:35:48.140 three Olympic

00:35:49.200 appearances she

00:35:49.980 told the Daily

00:35:50.660 Mail she's

00:35:51.640 now focusing

00:35:52.420 on peaceful

00:35:52.980 things in her

00:35:53.600 life right now

00:35:54.660 I'm currently

00:35:55.300 gardening she

00:35:56.100 says I know

00:35:57.060 it's super weird

00:35:57.740 but I'm trying

00:35:58.300 to do things

00:35:58.840 that are peaceful

00:35:59.480 I'm I tell

00:36:00.900 everybody I'm on

00:36:01.760 a day-by-day

00:36:02.340 plan I'm on

00:36:03.080 the Tom Brady

00:36:03.980 retirement plan

00:36:04.960 before he

00:36:05.640 actually retired

00:36:06.380 so now imagine

00:36:08.620 a woman that

00:36:09.220 wants to get

00:36:09.940 married look she

00:36:13.380 is gonna do

00:36:13.920 whatever it

00:36:14.380 takes so let's

00:36:17.260 say if she

00:36:17.780 really what

00:36:18.900 she's reconciling

00:36:20.040 with is she

00:36:20.940 does not like

00:36:21.520 men that much

00:36:22.100 she doesn't she

00:36:23.760 doesn't she

00:36:24.280 wants to be

00:36:24.960 single it's the

00:36:26.760 same way a fat

00:36:27.740 you know fat

00:36:28.400 people how they

00:36:29.060 want to be fat

00:36:29.800 they do because

00:36:31.600 they like food

00:36:32.620 more than they

00:36:33.900 like working out

00:36:34.960 and eating at a

00:36:36.180 calorie deficit

00:36:37.060 their choices show

00:36:38.660 what they really

00:36:39.180 want if she

00:36:41.320 wanted to be

00:36:42.120 married your ego

00:36:44.200 goes out the

00:36:45.500 door you say

00:36:47.500 look I'm

00:36:49.960 gonna download

00:36:50.560 hinge I'm

00:36:52.140 gonna start

00:36:52.480 approaching men

00:36:53.280 in public you

00:36:54.340 know I don't

00:36:56.400 know if you've

00:36:56.820 seen like stories

00:36:57.840 of women that

00:36:58.540 have hunted down

00:36:59.340 NBA players but

00:37:00.880 there's a guy that

00:37:01.500 came on our show

00:37:02.200 that said he dated

00:37:03.060 a woman I mean

00:37:03.920 she was a major

00:37:04.500 whore but what

00:37:05.640 we can learn from

00:37:06.320 this whore is

00:37:07.420 that she went

00:37:08.160 for what she

00:37:08.700 wanted right so

00:37:09.480 she wanted to

00:37:10.280 sleep her goal

00:37:11.020 was to sleep with

00:37:12.760 all the men in

00:37:13.640 the NBA I don't

00:37:14.400 know there was

00:37:14.780 some some man

00:37:16.040 she wanted to

00:37:16.800 sleep with or

00:37:17.500 probably multiple

00:37:18.640 some were married

00:37:19.380 some weren't she

00:37:20.800 would go to the

00:37:21.820 home games she

00:37:23.460 would research the

00:37:24.420 players figure out

00:37:25.380 things they like to

00:37:26.260 talk about from

00:37:27.000 interviews she would

00:37:28.580 go to the games

00:37:29.280 rent a hotel they

00:37:31.140 figured out where

00:37:32.120 the players how that

00:37:33.440 they hung out without

00:37:34.100 their wives now

00:37:36.260 this woman slept with

00:37:40.300 like half of it was

00:37:41.120 either a hockey team

00:37:42.120 or an NBA team but

00:37:43.180 she hunted the man

00:37:45.280 she wanted it but

00:37:46.780 women are willing to

00:37:47.760 hunt down men to be

00:37:48.880 whores but they're

00:37:49.480 not willing to hunt

00:37:50.360 down men to marry

00:37:52.140 isn't that crazy

00:37:52.880 like like if she

00:37:55.040 wanted to be married

00:37:55.960 okay let's say she

00:37:57.620 wants a doctor we

00:38:00.160 could do any

00:38:00.660 profession any any

00:38:01.720 profession has

00:38:02.440 groupies right

00:38:03.260 corporate America

00:38:05.600 she wants CEOs

00:38:06.660 she's attractive enough

00:38:07.940 in her youth she

00:38:08.540 probably could have

00:38:09.060 got one not now

00:38:10.540 obviously ship has

00:38:11.660 sailed but back

00:38:12.900 then she would

00:38:14.440 have you could

00:38:17.540 take a job at a

00:38:19.420 coffee shop next to

00:38:20.660 a hospital you

00:38:22.540 know I have a

00:38:22.960 friend she married

00:38:23.760 a doctor and she

00:38:26.680 worked for him and

00:38:28.540 then I mean now the

00:38:29.500 men aren't going to

00:38:30.040 do the me too stuff

00:38:31.020 at work you'd

00:38:31.920 probably be better

00:38:32.640 off working at the

00:38:34.100 coffee shop in the

00:38:35.080 hospital or something

00:38:36.160 all I'm saying is

00:38:37.440 the NBA whores

00:38:38.860 figured it out she

00:38:40.720 figured out how to

00:38:41.460 go to the Olympics if

00:38:42.380 she really wanted to

00:38:43.240 be married she

00:38:44.280 would have figured

00:38:44.720 out how to do

00:38:45.300 it now I'm going

00:38:49.960 to show again I

00:38:51.280 want to show this

00:38:51.900 pipeline the old

00:38:53.700 virgin to IVF

00:38:57.300 pipeline everyone

00:39:00.200 says I'm me and

00:39:01.180 this is why like the

00:39:03.060 conversations and the

00:39:04.880 marketing they do

00:39:05.700 where it's like God

00:39:06.440 is the answer to all

00:39:07.220 your problems that's

00:39:09.000 not a step one step

00:39:10.220 two step three like

00:39:11.480 step one she wants

00:39:13.480 to be married okay

00:39:14.420 where does she find

00:39:16.640 the single men that

00:39:17.480 would be interested

00:39:18.020 and this woman I

00:39:20.480 mean she was around

00:39:21.120 professional athletes

00:39:22.340 there wasn't any that

00:39:23.380 were good enough I

00:39:24.240 mean none but see

00:39:26.600 you know she's got a

00:39:27.560 way or risk right if

00:39:29.240 she goes for a

00:39:29.940 professional athlete her

00:39:32.500 chance of being passed

00:39:33.860 is is way higher right

00:39:35.860 I mean those getting

00:39:37.580 a professional

00:39:38.240 athlete to commit

00:39:39.240 that's a lot more

00:39:40.020 difficult they have

00:39:40.900 women throwing

00:39:41.440 themselves at them

00:39:42.300 24-7 okay she

00:39:44.160 could have went for

00:39:45.060 the personal trainers

00:39:46.800 that she was working

00:39:47.740 with or the um

00:39:48.920 sorry physical

00:39:49.740 therapists I'm sure

00:39:51.720 she worked with a lot

00:39:52.820 of smart physical

00:39:53.600 therapists they're in

00:39:54.440 good shape okay she

00:39:56.380 doesn't want to do

00:39:56.980 that I'm sure she had

00:39:57.840 injuries in her career

00:39:58.800 none of the doctors

00:39:59.760 that helped her when

00:40:01.720 she had problems that

00:40:03.140 worked with the

00:40:03.600 out none okay okay

00:40:05.980 well she did sports

00:40:07.000 broadcasting I'm sure

00:40:08.560 like she met some

00:40:09.400 broadcasters none of

00:40:10.700 the journalist men no

00:40:11.740 none of them I'm just

00:40:14.220 saying there was

00:40:14.680 someone there was

00:40:15.580 someone along the lines

00:40:16.540 if she really wanted to

00:40:17.440 be married she doesn't

00:40:18.480 know it she doesn't

00:40:19.280 like she doesn't want a

00:40:20.180 relationship she doesn't

00:40:22.180 lola you've told the

00:40:32.640 twitter sphere that

00:40:33.760 you're a virgin yeah

00:40:34.880 I yeah I was shaking

00:40:37.660 when I did that now what

00:40:39.240 would I give her you

00:40:40.280 say that why do you

00:40:41.640 want people to know

00:40:42.420 that I mean I just

00:40:43.460 don't believe my

00:40:44.300 producer says I'm harsh

00:40:45.500 with the ratings I'd

00:40:49.200 give her an eight or

00:40:49.940 higher would you agree

00:40:50.900 with that today eight

00:40:52.280 eight or higher this

00:40:54.520 see this is an eight

00:40:55.460 or higher this is an

00:40:56.940 eight or higher sorry

00:40:57.900 I just you know I

00:41:00.060 want to wait till I'm

00:41:00.860 married to have sex my

00:41:02.600 mom she was my dad

00:41:04.100 with for 20 years and

00:41:05.040 never got married and

00:41:06.520 they're not together

00:41:07.640 anymore so I just want

00:41:09.300 that see again this is

00:41:11.520 the psychology she

00:41:12.580 thinks all she has to

00:41:15.480 do is get a ring then I

00:41:16.580 will be married for life

00:41:17.940 that is a that is a if I

00:41:20.720 get the ring now he

00:41:22.960 can't leave me well

00:41:24.140 legally makes it pretty

00:41:25.620 tough but it's to get

00:41:28.460 rid of the burden of

00:41:30.060 performance I'm going to

00:41:32.140 show you guys a virgin

00:41:33.140 that pulled it off and

00:41:34.140 she pulled it off with a

00:41:35.040 billionaire some do get

00:41:36.080 the happy endings and

00:41:38.640 we'll talk about the

00:41:39.480 difference okay they said

00:41:42.280 eight or higher at 40 if

00:41:43.640 she's not 40 in this

00:41:44.820 clip all right this is

00:41:46.180 an old one I want to

00:41:48.240 have no she's not a 40

00:41:49.280 now that's all right

00:41:50.580 she's on eight now

00:41:51.540 it's just something a

00:41:52.440 gift I want to give to

00:41:53.120 my husband so wow but

00:41:56.140 please understand this

00:41:57.580 journey has been hard

00:41:58.860 okay so think about this

00:42:01.080 she's on HBO sports she's

00:42:04.100 getting these interviews

00:42:04.900 she's getting all this

00:42:09.300 attention for it is she

00:42:10.960 going to give that up

00:42:11.840 hell no no she didn't

00:42:15.980 I'm not there's virgins

00:42:19.040 out there I'm gonna let

00:42:19.820 them know it's the

00:42:20.660 hardest thing I've ever

00:42:21.520 done in my life harder

00:42:23.060 than training for the

00:42:23.840 Olympics harder than

00:42:25.520 graduating from college

00:42:26.760 has been to stay a virgin

00:42:28.160 before marriage I've been

00:42:29.200 tempted I've I've had

00:42:30.660 plenty of opportunities I

00:42:32.840 don't have that yeah well

00:42:35.020 now ask yourself I'm just

00:42:36.260 be objectively take take

00:42:38.420 religion out of this

00:42:39.500 please please take it out

00:42:41.260 of this would she have

00:42:42.960 been better off taking

00:42:44.980 some of those

00:42:45.640 opportunities and going

00:42:47.740 for what she wanted okay

00:42:49.980 so clearly none of the

00:42:51.160 Christian men that

00:42:52.020 approached her she liked

00:42:53.220 she didn't like him now

00:42:54.980 I'm just saying

00:42:55.460 objectively this woman does

00:42:57.760 not want to be a Christian

00:42:58.800 guy because if she did so

00:43:02.480 she's only attracted to the

00:43:04.840 non-Christian men would she

00:43:08.040 have gotten what she

00:43:09.020 wanted if she said you know

00:43:10.420 what I'm gonna break the

00:43:12.420 rules for this guy I'm

00:43:13.400 gonna go for it I'm gonna

00:43:15.220 give him what he wants

00:43:16.220 I would argue yeah I would

00:43:20.240 argue you know I don't know

00:43:22.360 how you could say no let me

00:43:24.020 see I'm one year out from

00:43:25.520 turning 30 so I say if

00:43:28.040 they're making a sequel to

00:43:29.640 the thing I would love to

00:43:31.440 I'm you know I'm a little bit

00:43:34.240 awkward like Steve Carell I

00:43:37.000 could definitely play that

00:43:37.920 rule people are gonna have

00:43:39.220 find this very hard to believe

00:43:40.460 it was cute like when I was

00:43:42.280 22 24 was cute like oh I'm a

00:43:45.040 virgin you know that's that

00:43:46.120 see she's agreeing with me you

00:43:49.160 age out

00:43:49.800 it's cute 24 through 29 it's

00:43:54.400 not cute like you get judged a

00:43:56.540 lot you know a lot of guys

00:43:58.820 return your calls after they

00:43:59.920 find out they here's the two

00:44:02.440 things that happen when you tell

00:44:03.340 a guy you're virgin and this

00:44:04.760 is the honest truth so one you

00:44:07.880 tell them they say okay I

00:44:09.780 respect that but you can

00:44:11.140 already see it in their mind

00:44:12.040 and in their eyes that they're

00:44:12.900 like she's lying about this and

00:44:15.920 I'll crack it so after we talk

00:44:17.740 a month or so or you know

00:44:19.160 usually a month to three months

00:44:20.860 then they're like oh shoot she

00:44:22.700 was serious time for me to exit

00:44:25.080 when I put together your whole

00:44:27.160 life and what you've been

00:44:28.080 through and I'm telling you

00:44:29.540 man man or woman they will get

00:44:33.620 eaten alive in the modern dating

00:44:35.340 market they will that it's just

00:44:39.360 not gonna work you've had traumas

00:44:42.440 and you've had this unstable

00:44:44.420 existence for such a long time it

00:44:46.040 it actually makes sense to me that

00:44:47.600 you want to have the kind of family

00:44:50.260 that you wish you'd had as a kid

00:44:52.260 yeah I just I guess I want that

00:44:54.900 Norman Rockwell picture

00:44:57.460 now had she given it up she might

00:45:01.700 be a parent now because life

00:45:03.180 doesn't slow down when you're a

00:45:04.900 parent between late night feedings

00:45:06.980 work stress and just trying to

00:45:09.100 find a moment for yourself sleep is

00:45:10.860 the first thing to go but here's

00:45:12.520 the thing poor sleep doesn't just

00:45:13.920 leave you tired it affects

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00:45:42.100 okay so

00:45:44.540 also it helps the show so get pre-sleep

00:45:49.640 okay now we're gonna fast forward 10

00:45:53.820 years

00:45:54.240 now again it would be different if

00:45:58.800 she was getting the outcomes that she

00:46:00.880 wanted right if she was getting

00:46:02.720 offers from men she found attractive to

00:46:05.760 marry her that she was actually

00:46:06.920 interested in and she was on that path

00:46:08.580 but if it's not working she's not

00:46:12.160 attracted to the Christian guys she

00:46:14.480 wants a more exciting guy than that I

00:46:16.860 mean it's it's kind of it's helpful to

00:46:18.920 be honest with yourself about what

00:46:20.440 you want

00:46:20.940 and the guy she wanted weren't gonna

00:46:25.840 do it so it probably would have been

00:46:28.520 better for her to go a different

00:46:30.180 route

00:46:30.600 I wrote you a card saying I rooted for

00:46:39.300 you on the track I'm rooting for you on

00:46:41.060 this journey when you look at yourself

00:46:43.800 in those moments is it out of body does it

00:46:46.860 feel real are you like wait a minute

00:46:48.820 am I sharing it all with these people

00:46:50.360 I was like what did you just do like I

00:46:54.460 was I don't know I think I just had a

00:46:56.320 breaking point I know she's she's a bit

00:46:59.020 socially awkward but I don't think

00:47:02.200 she's socially awkward enough that I

00:47:04.040 would put her in the socially awkward

00:47:05.520 category I wouldn't I would put her in

00:47:09.920 the category of the women who use it as a

00:47:16.680 marketing tool blows up in their face it

00:47:18.920 was just I mean you saw I'm crying I'm

00:47:20.920 emotional my hair is an absolute nightmare

00:47:23.080 it's something you would never want to

00:47:24.920 post like just like a personal video and

00:47:27.640 I was I just I had had enough I was just

00:47:30.240 like this other after I started learning

00:47:32.740 more about the process and where I'm at I

00:47:35.120 was like I'm sharing this because I don't

00:47:37.180 want another woman to feel like they're

00:47:39.200 you know God help us you know I was so

00:47:42.220 happy that you talked specifically about

00:47:43.920 freezing eggs and the the process because

00:47:46.960 a lot of times you hear people say oh

00:47:48.160 freeze your eggs it's not that it's not

00:47:50.980 easy they make it seem like you walk in

00:47:54.540 you pick up a dozen you put them in the

00:47:56.600 freezer and then you go about your way you

00:47:58.720 have to inject someone in the chat said she

00:48:01.120 wants one of those guys from rom-coms

00:48:03.180 well look she was hot enough and high

00:48:07.060 profile enough she probably could have

00:48:08.860 dated a guy from a rom-com she was an

00:48:12.260 eight or higher but look you have to you

00:48:15.240 have to think about the men's point of

00:48:17.000 view because you think we got it let's

00:48:19.760 pretend we're a guy and the men she's

00:48:22.860 surrounded by surrounded herself with

00:48:25.180 their athletes their high-profile people

00:48:27.280 they're gonna have women throw throwing

00:48:32.220 themselves at them it's gonna be a tough

00:48:36.340 sell for a guy that has the choice to not

00:48:39.580 wait and not wait with beautiful women and

00:48:42.620 not wait with beautiful women that aren't

00:48:44.500 necessarily sluts right they get quality

00:48:47.480 women

00:48:47.880 it's gonna be a tough sell to say hey wait

00:48:53.220 for me now could she have sold it at 22

00:48:55.520 sure 29 that it's getting tougher not a

00:49:00.860 walk in the park it no so just to put

00:49:03.860 that more in a box for people I've had

00:49:06.500 spine surgery hip surgery shoulder

00:49:08.540 surgery and for this just to be a

00:49:10.700 procedure it is right up there with the

00:49:13.040 surgery like pain-wise discomfort

00:49:15.140 discomfort the amount of like recovery it

00:49:17.960 took me so yes it was how many shots a

00:49:21.020 day take us through the process I did IVF oh

00:49:23.600 yeah that's how I had my son like how

00:49:26.780 what's the process in a day for you well

00:49:28.940 every woman is different so I only had

00:49:30.980 to take two injections per day but some

00:49:33.140 women have to take more depending on

00:49:35.240 where they're at and like how many eggs

00:49:37.100 there she's still pretty attractive what

00:49:38.780 are we six

00:49:42.940 she's four oh come on under the makeup

00:49:46.940 she's a six she's a six under the makeup I'm

00:49:50.540 telling you trying to get out of there

00:49:53.600 what are you gonna give her

00:49:55.160 my producer will sign up

00:50:01.780 he's ready

00:50:09.520 he doesn't care love has no age

00:50:14.820 so two is light I was grateful for two and

00:50:22.100 also the days of you take it depend on how

00:50:25.220 fast your eggs are growing for 11 days

00:50:27.380 11 well that's still a lot I mean a lot

00:50:29.460 like they think she has Asperger's in the

00:50:32.360 chat

00:50:32.780 look Asperger's women get married all the

00:50:37.580 time you guys can tell me if you disagree

00:50:40.120 I do think she's a bit socially awkward

00:50:43.040 but I she's hot enough I well you know

00:50:47.920 let's go with this let's for a second I'm

00:50:50.020 gonna make the click case it's the social

00:50:52.120 awkwardness because you know the guys she's

00:50:56.400 selling to are high level she is not trying

00:51:01.140 to sell to an average guy she's trying to sell

00:51:05.920 to the athletes around her maybe the hosts

00:51:08.360 men like that are not going to be in those

00:51:15.560 positions generally speaking maybe a couple

00:51:18.920 athletes but in general unless they're somewhat

00:51:22.480 socially competent I think the men she would

00:51:27.100 go for which would be an entertainment now

00:51:30.900 she would have to have the skills to keep

00:51:33.360 them interested long enough that they marry

00:51:37.640 her

00:51:38.100 she's pretty pretty attractive no I still

00:51:47.600 think there would have been there would

00:51:49.340 have been maybe another guy that would sign

00:51:52.380 up

00:51:52.600 yeah I look at I don't think that's it I'm

00:51:57.980 gonna put it she liked the attention you let

00:52:00.100 me know you know you're getting bruised in

00:52:02.200 the stomach because you're you're trying to

00:52:04.080 rotate where you put the shots at you're

00:52:05.700 getting bruising and you know you're hormonal

00:52:08.960 you're injecting hormones I so I the tummy

00:52:12.460 thing I saw I had to you know luckily my husband was

00:52:15.660 there even Johnny and this is a fun story I'm in

00:52:18.760 the back of an uber in Las Vegas I went to go

00:52:20.880 see Cher and realized I needed Johnny to help

00:52:23.340 me my hairstylist inject me because I couldn't

00:52:25.320 do it myself and the uber driver was like what

00:52:27.320 is good it's like what happens in Vegas stays

00:52:29.800 in Vegas but I couldn't work up the nerve and

00:52:32.560 I messed up the schedule so my husband wasn't

00:52:34.940 there and I needed someone to inject me

00:52:36.760 because it was so painful and the idea of

00:52:38.820 injecting myself I couldn't overcome that

00:52:41.680 that so it took me a while I'm like I don't even like

00:52:45.400 getting shots at the doctors and then there's

00:52:48.100 another stigma I have as being an Olympic athlete

00:52:50.460 it's like okay you're injecting yourself with

00:52:53.240 hormones like that is like okay well there you

00:52:57.220 go pick and choose Christianity okay the next

00:53:01.780 virgin I'm gonna bring up is Reba Wilson now

00:53:04.620 this is the virgin that was too unattractive to

00:53:07.160 lose it because she was pretty fat when she was

00:53:11.660 younger and then she lost weight

00:53:12.980 when you chose to lose your virginity yeah and we

00:53:19.820 were so proud which I wish was an April Fool's joke

00:53:22.880 but it's not it's not yeah people who ever read it

00:53:26.760 yeah 35 years old yeah and you kind of kept that as

00:53:29.740 your secret you didn't want to tell me like you

00:53:32.200 didn't tell no friend nobody nobody knew that about

00:53:36.200 me and and I just thought I'm gonna write a memo I'm just

00:53:39.960 gonna put everything in it why were you now the headline

00:53:42.760 um I guess I'd seen that movie 40 year old version

00:53:47.780 yeah I thought well maybe if I lose my virginity before 40

00:53:51.180 it won't be that bad I'm so glad that I lost my virginity on

00:53:55.900 my term you know and I mean I was more than ready

00:53:59.220 by that age um but you know there was like some good things

00:54:03.720 about I didn't have STDs foliage okay we have Reba now I'm gonna guess

00:54:11.320 because she Lolo chose to wait Reba so I'm gonna I'm gonna guess she's

00:54:16.060 married now or has a kid I don't know we'll see Reba Wilson

00:54:21.780 maybe I could be wrong I'm

00:54:25.420 oh yeah see see at that age look oh my gosh did she do it with a girl

00:54:34.660 well oh no okay wait let's see is she a lesbian now

00:54:43.340 what okay I didn't get oh my gosh

00:54:49.660 okay that I did not guess I guess I was sort of right this is the other

00:54:57.740 thing the ladies become lesbians when they can't keep the men that they want

00:55:01.340 because they would rather be with a woman than an average man

00:55:04.040 they do they do very few women are straight lesbians when they're young

00:55:10.940 they either go through a really bad breakup and then swear off men

00:55:15.200 and then they become lesbians well I don't I

00:55:21.880 I guess I was technically right because I said I bet she's married and has a kid

00:55:28.640 but I just did not

00:55:30.120 no she just said she lost it oh yeah yeah yeah

00:55:38.020 okay um next we have Maddie Pruitt so Maddie Pruitt was a woman that went on The Bachelor

00:55:47.740 now The Bachelor is a dating show where you go on with and watch a man date 20 women

00:55:55.860 and then hopefully you win at the end and find love now Maddie Pruitt was on The Bachelor and there

00:56:03.300 was three other women that we're going to talk about so there was one woman who was a lawyer her

00:56:07.640 name was Kelly and there was another girl named Hannah Ann then there was Maddie all bombshells

00:56:14.580 these they're all eights to tens you know what let's let's do pictures just for the

00:56:18.620 just for the hell of it Hannah Ann so this is Hannah Ann at the time no oh

00:56:27.120 you know very very attractive woman I think she's married to someone else now

00:56:32.860 eight to ten all right then we got Kelly and Peter pilot

00:56:43.880 season so this is Peter the guy they're all competing for this is Kelly another one and then

00:56:55.820 we have then we have then we have Madison Pruitt

00:57:01.320 yeah so Madison Pruitt this girl here and her whole thing was that she was a virgin and she's

00:57:10.180 like a Christian influencer you guys know the type the IG Christian and what's interesting is even

00:57:17.240 though she was a virgin do you know who the parents hated the most

00:57:21.140 her we're gonna do we're gonna watch the mom just oh my gosh help me

00:57:29.020 hold on what the where did it go did they just log me out okay

00:57:36.840 oh I can just YouTube again Madison Pruitt

00:57:45.180 mother so at the end of the season Peter kind of was a dog I won't even lie to you guys

00:57:53.580 so Peter proposed to Hannah okay wait actually let me let me give you the background so

00:57:59.260 Maddie and Peter did a final fantasy date and on this final fantasy like on the basically when

00:58:08.420 there's four people left the bachelor gets to do overnights with the women before the last like

00:58:14.420 four people he dates everybody but it's all public nobody's hooking up now obviously how many men in

00:58:22.460 the chat are gonna turn down an eight or higher trying to sleep with you four attractive eights

00:58:30.260 or higher there there's no ugly women on this show and she got really pissed because he slept with

00:58:37.260 someone else but you went on the show and the lead always sleeps with somebody else so she basically

00:58:45.360 went on and said I am so special and awesome that he has to turn down all these other women and

00:58:51.080 exploring these other women for me I'm not delusional right I mean come on what what do you expect so

00:58:59.720 Peter she break or dinner finds out sleeps with other women okay so and she makes it this whole

00:59:12.680 dramatic scene now mind you she's in her mid-20s at this point she had a boyfriend for four years

00:59:19.220 in her early 20s do we believe that nothing happened in that relationship

00:59:24.520 now again this girl did win in the end and I'm gonna show you guys some virgins do pull it off but

00:59:33.440 she's pretty attractive she's an eight or higher and she's not super awkward

00:59:41.220 to like put myself in your shoes just don't like I don't know how to like let go of like the things

00:59:52.800 that I need in a relationship like I don't want to feel like a bad person for like the standards that

00:59:59.900 I have I know but like I I'm so proud of who I am and like the choices that I've made and like the

01:00:06.180 standards that I have and it's been so freaking hard in this because like I've I've had to look

01:00:11.400 past a lot of things like no I'm not okay with the guy that to to be kissing other women like

01:00:18.460 why are you here why okay like it's like when women date athletes and then cry about being cheated on

01:00:31.860 that's what you signed up for honey I don't know what you expected

01:00:38.800 or celebrity men I mean like when Brianna chicken fry was crying about getting cheated on what did you

01:00:45.200 expect he's obviously gonna cheat on you so you're gonna go on a show where you sign up read the

01:00:53.620 rules it says I'm going to date 18 women every other bachelor has slept with multiple women during

01:01:00.640 fantasy suites I mean men don't even know if they like you till they sleep with you post net clarity is

01:01:07.520 a real thing for the fellas so you know he he's not a religious guy you know I mean it's one thing if

01:01:15.040 he's a really this is the modern dating anyways oh and I've gotten here and I've gotten to this

01:01:24.320 place and it's like I've sacrificed a lot and I've compromised a lot and I've really pushed myself

01:01:31.740 in a lot of ways that I wouldn't normally for anybody else

01:01:35.080 but you're worth it and I'm fighting and I'm still fighting

01:01:41.620 this is one thing that I that's why I voiced it to you I

01:01:50.940 now again this is the play victim it works very well especially when the woman's very attractive right

01:02:06.960 uh I I got no sympathy not over here not me she dumps him essentially

01:02:15.080 for me okay it's this whole dramatic scene I'm not gonna watch it

01:02:22.960 now now Peter then she dumps him now Peter proposes

01:02:28.380 to Hannah Ann

01:02:31.040 you're telling me he was supposed to not hook up with this girl

01:02:35.440 I know when I had to give out that first impression rose

01:02:42.760 it was never a question for me after I was going to

01:02:46.700 and then from just all the memories that we've been able to make

01:02:53.800 I cherished every single moment I've been able to spend with you

01:03:00.440 said Pearl you're like a four I know I know I don't get cast on these shows

01:03:09.280 my life your life outcomes they tell you

01:03:11.900 these are eights or higher the ain't to work

01:03:15.460 follow my heart

01:03:18.820 this whole dramatic thing so Madison

01:03:25.680 she actually left two days ago

01:03:32.020 and I am

01:03:37.840 your beautiful spirit is honestly like anything I've ever seen before

01:03:44.500 you're thoughtful

01:03:46.940 you're caring

01:03:48.460 you're selfless

01:03:51.020 you're passionate

01:03:52.820 and above all else you're one of a kind

01:03:55.500 and my heart chooses you forever

01:04:00.760 okay now he's about he proposes whatever

01:04:07.600 anyway so then he dumps her

01:04:09.360 so he does this whole thing you know

01:04:14.140 dumps her

01:04:16.080 then gets back with the Christian girl

01:04:19.980 so he gets back with Maddie

01:04:21.680 and Peter's mom

01:04:24.900 now we all know his mothers

01:04:26.340 whose mother is protective of them

01:04:29.120 do you know what I mean

01:04:30.160 as a mother you want what's best for your son

01:04:32.020 maybe not your daughter

01:04:33.500 you got the competing thing

01:04:34.780 but especially if your son's a stud

01:04:37.080 do you know what I mean

01:04:38.000 like if your son

01:04:39.360 like every woman's dream is to have

01:04:42.380 a just Chad son

01:04:44.560 every every woman

01:04:46.560 any woman that says no

01:04:47.920 is lying

01:04:50.740 so then

01:04:52.160 Peter

01:04:53.980 Maddie Pruitt

01:04:56.200 mother

01:04:58.400 it was hilarious

01:05:00.500 so even though she's virtue signaling

01:05:03.440 doing all the Christian stuff

01:05:04.880 the mom doesn't care

01:05:06.660 the mom says look it

01:05:07.720 I liked that Instagram hoe over there

01:05:10.180 way better than you lady

01:05:11.560 you're you did this

01:05:14.000 let me show you

01:05:14.580 this was in Bachelor

01:05:16.020 the Bachelor fans

01:05:18.180 they know this was a big deal

01:05:19.580 at the time

01:05:20.300 Madison

01:05:22.320 and

01:05:23.580 it started on a rocky

01:05:25.380 road

01:05:26.460 because she had us wait

01:05:28.240 three hours

01:05:29.040 for her to come in

01:05:30.640 to

01:05:31.720 she didn't want to meet us

01:05:33.600 so we were there

01:05:35.000 three hours

01:05:35.680 we had just come across the country

01:05:37.260 I mean excuse me

01:05:37.960 across the world

01:05:38.820 and

01:05:39.680 we were exhausted

01:05:40.980 and you know

01:05:42.080 we were just

01:05:43.080 you know

01:05:43.860 just getting used to

01:05:44.760 the time there

01:05:45.740 and we had to wait

01:05:46.860 three hours

01:05:47.620 and when she did come in

01:05:49.340 the whole family

01:05:50.360 you know

01:05:51.540 we didn't get an apology

01:05:52.620 from her

01:05:53.820 and when I proceeded

01:05:55.420 to ask her

01:05:56.240 if she was madly in love

01:05:57.820 with my son

01:05:58.540 she said no

01:05:59.620 and that she would not

01:06:00.860 accept a proposal

01:06:01.800 in four days

01:06:03.280 so how do you expect

01:06:04.600 a mother

01:06:05.140 who loves her son

01:06:06.480 with all of her heart

01:06:07.680 to take that

01:06:08.780 I couldn't

01:06:09.640 my whole family

01:06:10.620 my son Jack

01:06:12.120 my

01:06:12.680 and as a mother

01:06:13.700 that

01:06:15.180 you know

01:06:16.300 wasn't

01:06:17.460 what we were expecting

01:06:18.840 and

01:06:20.180 therefore

01:06:20.880 when I said

01:06:22.200 that I wanted

01:06:22.700 Hannah Ann so badly

01:06:23.840 was because I knew

01:06:25.380 that

01:06:26.120 she's just

01:06:27.320 the issue to us

01:06:28.360 we just clicked

01:06:29.480 right away

01:06:30.100 we did not have

01:06:31.180 unfortunately

01:06:31.700 we did not have

01:06:32.760 the connection

01:06:33.260 with Madison

01:06:33.920 I know that

01:06:34.920 their biggest worry

01:06:36.240 and their biggest concern

01:06:37.420 was just that

01:06:38.080 you weren't there

01:06:39.040 with me

01:06:39.300 the way I was there

01:06:39.940 with you

01:06:40.260 and

01:06:41.120 you know

01:06:41.860 I know

01:06:42.140 back in Australia

01:06:42.880 we were

01:06:43.320 does she

01:06:44.840 A. take accountability

01:06:46.260 and say yeah

01:06:46.940 that was pretty rude

01:06:47.600 that's pretty rude

01:06:48.320 that's pretty rude

01:06:51.560 but confused

01:06:52.120 we were going through stuff

01:06:53.020 but

01:06:54.860 I can tell you guys

01:06:57.100 that

01:06:57.460 I know

01:06:58.300 how she feels for me

01:07:00.240 and

01:07:01.160 they broke up

01:07:02.760 I know

01:07:05.360 how I feel for her

01:07:06.220 and

01:07:07.500 you know

01:07:08.700 I just ask

01:07:09.260 that you guys

01:07:09.840 can give her

01:07:11.000 that chance

01:07:11.580 and trust me

01:07:12.580 and

01:07:14.060 you know

01:07:15.740 this is someone

01:07:16.320 that I love

01:07:16.880 and I fell in love with

01:07:17.800 so again

01:07:18.540 she thought

01:07:19.280 well I'm a virgin

01:07:20.200 so I don't have

01:07:20.940 to be likable

01:07:21.680 I don't have to

01:07:22.980 I can signal

01:07:24.720 my purity

01:07:25.500 I can do this

01:07:26.320 like imagine

01:07:27.420 you're talking about

01:07:29.720 how he

01:07:30.760 is the immoral one

01:07:32.240 because he slept

01:07:33.020 with a bombshell

01:07:34.080 I mean

01:07:35.540 can we just

01:07:36.080 be realistic

01:07:36.900 here ladies

01:07:37.720 everyone's boyfriend

01:07:43.360 husband

01:07:44.100 whatever

01:07:44.620 is gonna fold

01:07:45.540 you know

01:07:46.860 it's easy to say

01:07:48.180 that your husband

01:07:48.960 would never do that

01:07:50.020 when he doesn't have

01:07:50.960 women that look

01:07:51.780 like that interested

01:07:52.720 just like

01:07:55.240 it's easy to say

01:07:56.180 that my wife

01:07:56.900 won't leave me

01:07:57.760 when he doesn't

01:07:58.580 when she doesn't have

01:07:59.480 better men

01:08:00.360 available

01:08:01.100 you're like

01:08:03.140 oh my overweight

01:08:04.080 four wife

01:08:04.920 she's just never

01:08:06.420 gonna leave

01:08:06.980 well

01:08:07.320 nobody's trying

01:08:08.500 to take her

01:08:09.140 it's the same

01:08:11.420 thing with

01:08:11.940 you know

01:08:12.440 it's easy to say

01:08:14.520 it's easy to judge

01:08:15.520 a guy

01:08:17.060 for sleeping

01:08:18.140 with a model

01:08:20.340 when nobody

01:08:22.100 that's a model

01:08:22.740 is trying to sleep

01:08:23.660 with your boyfriend

01:08:24.300 you know

01:08:24.940 we can agree

01:08:27.120 nine

01:08:27.600 that last girl

01:08:28.680 that he proposed to

01:08:29.540 am I

01:08:30.020 are we gonna agree

01:08:31.240 not

01:08:32.900 nine

01:08:34.160 yeah

01:08:35.440 yeah

01:08:35.860 he's saying

01:08:39.980 he's saying

01:08:40.500 I'm too harsh

01:08:41.240 I'm just

01:08:41.600 I'm checking in

01:08:42.760 oh yeah

01:08:46.040 at least tonight

01:08:46.640 that she

01:08:47.140 she looked perfect

01:08:48.320 yeah so

01:08:51.580 he's gonna do it

01:08:54.020 you're putting them

01:08:57.160 together in a room

01:08:58.300 with a production

01:08:59.380 outside

01:09:00.080 ready to film you

01:09:01.000 if you leave

01:09:01.620 he's doing it

01:09:02.600 and she's gonna

01:09:06.180 virtue signal

01:09:07.140 at the least

01:09:08.220 you know

01:09:09.040 and she can't

01:09:11.260 go

01:09:12.200 and say hello

01:09:13.480 to the parents

01:09:14.440 ridiculous

01:09:15.120 ridiculous

01:09:16.780 totally

01:09:17.540 understand your

01:09:18.300 position

01:09:18.660 you just want

01:09:19.280 what's best

01:09:19.700 for your kids

01:09:20.320 as I do

01:09:20.900 the whole family

01:09:21.520 does

01:09:21.920 Chris

01:09:22.400 earlier Peter said

01:09:23.400 when we were

01:09:24.260 with Hannah Ann

01:09:25.140 showing the show

01:09:26.380 he said I gave

01:09:27.680 my heart

01:09:28.280 to two people

01:09:29.700 at that place

01:09:31.700 one only gave

01:09:33.520 his heart to him

01:09:34.380 and that was

01:09:35.600 Hannah Ann

01:09:36.160 so to me

01:09:37.780 of course

01:09:38.660 my love went

01:09:39.680 to Hannah Ann

01:09:40.260 because anyone

01:09:41.040 that loves your

01:09:41.680 child

01:09:42.080 or your son

01:09:43.200 your daughter

01:09:43.780 love them

01:09:45.000 dearly

01:09:45.560 I think

01:09:46.060 I think

01:09:51.800 this isn't

01:09:52.460 just Peter's

01:09:53.140 journey

01:09:53.480 you know

01:09:53.960 when you sign

01:09:54.560 up to come

01:09:55.060 on a show

01:09:55.480 like this

01:09:56.100 you're looking

01:09:56.780 for love

01:09:57.300 too

01:09:57.580 where was

01:09:59.140 the humility

01:09:59.760 where was

01:10:00.200 the

01:10:00.360 you would

01:10:01.560 agree

01:10:01.900 that

01:10:02.240 that's

01:10:03.120 pretty rude

01:10:03.800 that

01:10:04.080 you could

01:10:05.180 apologize

01:10:05.720 for that

01:10:06.360 you could

01:10:06.580 say look

01:10:07.060 I was wrong

01:10:08.780 no

01:10:09.940 this wasn't

01:10:10.420 just Peter

01:10:10.880 looking for

01:10:11.400 his wife

01:10:11.980 I totally

01:10:12.500 understand

01:10:13.180 you know

01:10:14.160 as a

01:10:15.820 mother

01:10:19.400 you are

01:10:20.320 gonna

01:10:20.520 obviously

01:10:21.080 you know

01:10:21.700 be thinking

01:10:22.220 about Peter

01:10:22.860 but also

01:10:25.000 this is my

01:10:25.580 journey too

01:10:26.060 and this

01:10:26.400 isn't just

01:10:26.860 Peter choosing

01:10:27.540 ladies

01:10:28.900 just so you

01:10:29.460 know

01:10:29.600 if a guy

01:10:29.980 looks like

01:10:30.500 this

01:10:30.860 he has

01:10:31.400 women like

01:10:32.000 this available

01:10:32.740 and like

01:10:33.620 20 of

01:10:34.080 them

01:10:34.640 just so you

01:10:35.340 know

01:10:35.780 this is me

01:10:39.100 choosing

01:10:39.440 Peter

01:10:39.800 and

01:10:40.380 yeah

01:10:44.360 she just

01:10:44.700 what'd she do

01:10:45.140 make it

01:10:45.440 about me

01:10:46.000 so

01:10:48.000 I hope

01:10:52.240 to

01:10:52.400 I hope

01:10:53.320 to be

01:10:53.600 this

01:10:53.880 like this

01:10:54.700 one day

01:10:55.140 with my

01:10:55.580 son

01:10:55.880 okay

01:10:56.620 yeah

01:10:56.940 I would

01:10:58.520 do the

01:10:58.820 same thing

01:10:59.280 I think

01:10:59.560 it is

01:10:59.780 important

01:11:00.140 that you

01:11:00.600 guys

01:11:01.060 find your

01:11:01.820 space

01:11:02.100 and find

01:11:02.460 your love

01:11:02.920 but

01:11:03.180 obviously

01:11:03.820 family is

01:11:04.300 important

01:11:04.660 it's

01:11:05.160 massively

01:11:05.680 important

01:11:06.020 yeah

01:11:06.180 all the

01:11:06.520 women on

01:11:06.960 this

01:11:07.160 I said

01:11:07.480 eight or

01:11:07.800 higher

01:11:08.080 they could

01:11:09.200 all

01:11:09.320 they all

01:11:09.600 do live

01:11:09.960 off of

01:11:10.240 their looks

01:11:10.600 they're all

01:11:10.920 pregnant

01:11:11.240 now

01:11:11.580 so

01:11:12.600 why rich

01:11:13.400 men

01:11:13.640 all of

01:11:14.100 them

01:11:14.620 Barb

01:11:15.180 how do

01:11:15.420 we turn

01:11:15.720 the page

01:11:16.180 and

01:11:16.560 actually

01:11:17.140 I think

01:11:17.440 Kelly might

01:11:17.920 not be

01:11:18.280 sorry

01:11:18.600 sorry guys

01:11:19.280 it's a shot

01:11:19.780 together

01:11:20.200 Chris he's

01:11:20.840 going to have

01:11:21.240 to fail

01:11:21.720 to succeed

01:11:22.420 Chris all

01:11:28.280 his friends

01:11:28.960 all his

01:11:29.780 friends

01:11:30.120 all his

01:11:30.600 family

01:11:31.000 everyone that

01:11:32.120 knows him

01:11:32.760 knows that

01:11:34.060 it's

01:11:34.500 it's

01:11:35.320 not

01:11:35.640 you know

01:11:36.140 it's

01:11:36.740 not

01:11:36.920 going

01:11:37.060 to

01:11:37.160 work

01:11:37.440 so

01:11:38.000 we've

01:11:38.220 been

01:11:38.340 trying

01:11:38.600 to

01:11:38.800 help

01:11:39.080 him

01:11:39.220 would

01:11:39.620 we

01:11:39.780 want

01:11:40.120 it

01:11:40.240 to

01:11:40.400 work

01:11:40.620 yes

01:11:41.180 Barb

01:11:44.460 was right

01:11:44.880 so then

01:11:45.460 I just

01:11:45.800 want to tell

01:11:46.140 you guys

01:11:46.420 the plot

01:11:46.880 twist

01:11:47.120 so

01:11:47.420 they end

01:11:48.500 up

01:11:48.720 breaking

01:11:49.060 up

01:11:49.480 and

01:11:52.320 he goes

01:11:52.740 and

01:11:52.960 dates

01:11:53.340 contestant

01:11:54.220 number

01:11:54.500 six

01:11:54.980 there

01:11:55.240 was

01:11:55.400 another

01:11:55.700 girl

01:11:56.000 named

01:11:56.280 Kelly

01:11:56.740 Peter

01:11:58.300 they

01:11:59.300 broke

01:11:59.580 up

01:11:59.740 to

01:11:59.900 eventually

01:12:00.440 I

01:12:01.200 mean

01:12:01.340 he's

01:12:01.560 a

01:12:01.700 star

01:12:01.960 look

01:12:02.240 at

01:12:02.420 I

01:12:02.920 mean

01:12:03.040 this

01:12:03.240 is

01:12:03.380 the

01:12:03.500 thing

01:12:03.660 we

01:12:03.820 got

01:12:03.960 it

01:12:04.060 we

01:12:04.140 got

01:12:04.240 to

01:12:04.320 think

01:12:04.460 about

01:12:04.660 choices

01:12:05.040 and

01:12:05.280 trade

01:12:05.500 offs

01:12:05.620 you

01:12:05.740 can

01:12:05.840 go

01:12:05.960 for

01:12:06.100 a

01:12:06.200 guy

01:12:06.300 with

01:12:06.420 no

01:12:06.600 options

01:12:07.060 or

01:12:07.220 few

01:12:07.620 options

01:12:08.160 and

01:12:09.180 your

01:12:09.280 chance

01:12:09.560 of

01:12:09.660 getting

01:12:09.800 dumped

01:12:10.140 is

01:12:10.320 like

01:12:10.520 zero

01:12:10.860 or

01:12:11.780 you

01:12:11.880 can

01:12:12.020 go

01:12:12.300 for

01:12:12.680 the

01:12:12.800 guy

01:12:12.960 you

01:12:19.480 attractive

01:12:20.020 of

01:12:20.320 the

01:12:20.480 three

01:12:20.820 but

01:12:21.100 she

01:12:21.300 still

01:12:21.840 I

01:12:22.780 get

01:12:22.880 yeah

01:12:23.080 now

01:12:23.340 she

01:12:23.560 would

01:12:23.700 run

01:12:23.940 if

01:12:24.080 she

01:12:24.200 saw

01:12:24.420 him

01:12:24.540 again

01:12:24.740 we

01:12:24.900 doubt

01:12:25.200 it

01:12:25.500 if

01:12:25.780 you're

01:12:25.860 going

01:12:26.000 on

01:12:26.120 a

01:12:26.220 podcast

01:12:26.560 about

01:12:27.080 him

01:12:27.380 you

01:12:29.100 know

01:12:29.340 honestly

01:12:31.280 I'm

01:12:31.520 doing

01:12:31.660 really

01:12:31.880 good

01:12:32.180 the

01:12:32.460 exes

01:12:32.920 that

01:12:33.100 women

01:12:33.340 complain

01:12:33.800 about

01:12:34.120 are

01:12:34.280 always

01:12:34.620 our

01:12:34.820 favorite

01:12:35.100 exes

01:12:35.520 I

01:12:35.640 just

01:12:35.800 want

01:12:35.980 you

01:12:36.100 guys

01:12:36.300 to

01:12:36.440 know

01:12:36.580 those

01:12:36.820 are

01:12:36.940 always

01:12:37.300 the

01:12:37.520 favorites

01:12:37.940 the

01:12:38.720 ones

01:12:39.020 that

01:12:39.180 we

01:12:39.320 don't

01:12:39.980 complain

01:12:40.440 about

01:12:40.780 like

01:12:43.340 the

01:12:43.460 ones

01:12:43.660 we

01:12:43.780 say

01:12:43.940 oh

01:12:44.120 he

01:12:44.280 was

01:12:44.440 so

01:12:44.640 great

01:12:44.980 we

01:12:45.120 didn't

01:12:45.300 like

01:12:45.520 him

01:12:45.700 we

01:12:46.960 didn't

01:12:47.540 so

01:12:48.000 I'm

01:12:48.220 sorry

01:12:48.420 if

01:12:48.580 your

01:12:48.700 ex

01:12:48.940 says

01:12:49.120 you're

01:12:49.260 a

01:12:49.340 nice

01:12:49.540 guy

01:12:49.900 and

01:12:50.200 you

01:12:50.540 were

01:12:50.700 so

01:12:50.940 awesome

01:12:51.540 she

01:12:54.100 didn't

01:12:54.280 like

01:12:54.520 you

01:12:54.700 she

01:12:55.900 went

01:12:56.120 to

01:12:56.240 go

01:12:56.380 find

01:12:56.600 a

01:12:56.700 Peter

01:12:56.920 Weber

01:12:57.200 sorry

01:12:57.720 sorry

01:12:58.220 fellas

01:12:58.880 I'm

01:12:59.140 extremely

01:12:59.520 happy

01:12:59.920 it

01:13:00.660 feels

01:13:00.860 so

01:13:01.160 good

01:13:01.480 to

01:13:01.680 be

01:13:01.800 able

01:13:01.940 to

01:13:02.060 say

01:13:02.200 that

01:13:02.500 I

01:13:02.860 am

01:13:03.040 very

01:13:03.400 very

01:13:03.780 happy

01:13:04.100 yeah

01:13:04.540 so

01:13:04.880 now

01:13:05.160 that's

01:13:05.500 where

01:13:05.640 he

01:13:05.800 ended

01:13:06.000 up

01:13:06.200 they

01:13:06.560 stayed

01:13:06.820 together

01:13:07.120 for

01:13:07.320 like

01:13:07.600 two

01:13:07.840 years

01:13:08.140 so

01:13:08.340 it

01:13:08.480 wasn't

01:13:09.400 a

01:13:10.760 complete

01:13:11.160 loss

01:13:11.640 right

01:13:11.980 but

01:13:13.080 that

01:13:13.260 was

01:13:13.380 I

01:13:13.520 guess

01:13:13.660 the

01:13:13.840 best

01:13:14.100 match

01:13:14.500 because

01:13:14.680 the

01:13:14.800 other

01:13:14.980 ones

01:13:15.220 lasted

01:13:15.580 like

01:13:15.840 three

01:13:16.100 months

01:13:16.400 each

01:13:16.800 you

01:13:19.080 know

01:13:19.260 you

01:13:19.460 gotta

01:13:19.660 go

01:13:19.900 a

01:13:20.080 little

01:13:20.220 uglier

01:13:20.740 than

01:13:21.020 you

01:13:21.200 as

01:13:21.360 a

01:13:21.440 guy

01:13:21.740 like

01:13:22.620 a

01:13:22.780 little

01:13:22.960 bit

01:13:23.180 down

01:13:23.580 to

01:13:23.860 make

01:13:24.080 they

01:13:24.480 gotta

01:13:24.640 be

01:13:25.200 happy

01:13:25.620 to

01:13:25.820 be

01:13:26.000 there

01:13:26.300 you

01:13:26.660 know

01:13:26.860 it

01:13:27.340 never

01:13:27.680 works

01:13:28.140 when

01:13:28.340 the

01:13:28.480 woman's

01:13:28.900 better

01:13:29.120 looking

01:13:29.440 than

01:13:29.640 the

01:13:29.760 guy

01:13:30.020 divorce

01:13:30.660 divorce

01:13:33.100 okay

01:13:33.740 so

01:13:34.240 where

01:13:37.120 we

01:13:37.240 go

01:13:37.480 let

01:13:42.040 me

01:13:42.160 continue

01:13:42.720 now

01:13:44.720 we

01:13:44.940 got

01:13:45.140 Madison

01:13:45.680 Pruitt

01:13:46.180 we're

01:13:46.460 gonna

01:13:46.560 keep

01:13:46.820 following

01:13:47.280 her

01:13:47.700 oh

01:13:49.240 wait

01:13:49.380 they

01:13:49.520 broke

01:13:49.840 up

01:13:50.380 oh

01:13:51.900 wait

01:13:52.020 we

01:13:52.180 saw

01:13:52.640 that

01:13:52.900 okay

01:13:53.140 now

01:13:54.940 Madison

01:13:55.560 Pruitt

01:13:56.220 what

01:13:57.080 did

01:13:57.220 she

01:13:57.360 do

01:13:57.620 did

01:13:58.820 she

01:13:59.060 settle

01:13:59.540 for

01:13:59.860 a

01:14:00.100 godly

01:14:00.580 man

01:14:00.980 I

01:14:01.620 mean

01:14:01.780 maybe

01:14:02.200 she

01:14:03.260 then

01:14:03.480 went

01:14:03.680 on

01:14:04.140 to

01:14:05.460 date

01:14:05.660 a

01:14:06.000 billionaire

01:14:06.400 son

01:14:06.920 ever

01:14:07.780 settle

01:14:08.220 for

01:14:09.140 any

01:14:09.440 normal

01:14:09.860 guy

01:14:10.180 it

01:14:10.540 is

01:14:10.700 always

01:14:11.360 worth

01:14:11.980 millions

01:14:13.180 and in

01:14:13.700 this

01:14:13.900 case

01:14:14.180 billions

01:14:14.600 of

01:14:14.880 dollars

01:14:15.380 and

01:14:16.860 now

01:14:17.260 so

01:14:17.740 this

01:14:18.260 is

01:14:18.420 a

01:14:18.560 case

01:14:18.880 of

01:14:19.040 the

01:14:19.200 Instagram

01:14:19.700 Christian

01:14:20.720 where

01:14:21.940 they're

01:14:22.280 now

01:14:22.500 gonna

01:14:22.760 use

01:14:23.380 their

01:14:24.980 so

01:14:25.280 one

01:14:25.720 she

01:14:27.160 broke

01:14:27.580 up

01:14:27.760 with

01:14:27.900 the

01:14:28.060 pilot

01:14:28.420 Peter

01:14:28.800 guy

01:14:29.200 then

01:14:29.420 she

01:14:29.600 dated

01:14:29.860 a

01:14:30.060 couple

01:14:30.280 athletes

01:14:31.000 then

01:14:32.040 sold

01:14:32.400 to

01:14:32.620 this

01:14:32.860 guy

01:14:33.140 that

01:14:33.360 she

01:14:33.520 was

01:14:33.680 still

01:14:33.920 a

01:14:34.080 virgin

01:14:34.420 I

01:14:35.600 mean

01:14:35.720 you

01:14:35.840 guys

01:14:36.060 can

01:14:36.260 see

01:14:36.480 like

01:14:36.700 I

01:14:38.420 mean

01:14:40.620 she

01:14:40.760 was

01:14:40.940 like

01:14:41.100 27

01:14:41.700 no

01:14:43.780 again

01:14:44.020 but

01:14:44.220 she

01:14:44.400 did

01:14:44.860 sell

01:14:45.260 it

01:14:45.520 she

01:14:45.840 did

01:14:46.080 but

01:14:46.720 she

01:14:47.720 had

01:14:47.980 to

01:14:48.100 go

01:14:48.220 down

01:14:48.460 in

01:14:48.620 looks

01:14:49.020 right

01:14:49.420 he's

01:14:50.480 still

01:14:50.680 attractive

01:14:51.180 I'm

01:14:51.400 not

01:14:51.600 saying

01:14:51.840 he's

01:14:52.000 unattractive

01:14:52.700 like

01:14:52.980 good

01:14:53.340 looking

01:14:53.600 guy

01:14:53.840 but

01:14:54.700 who's

01:14:56.900 better

01:14:57.160 looking

01:14:57.580 who's

01:14:58.500 the

01:14:58.780 you

01:15:00.080 know

01:15:00.280 that's

01:15:01.900 out

01:15:02.020 of

01:15:02.140 order

01:15:02.360 the

01:15:02.640 guy's

01:15:02.940 gotta

01:15:03.120 be

01:15:03.340 the

01:15:03.600 here

01:15:04.960 have

01:15:05.520 to

01:15:05.640 tell

01:15:05.820 me

01:15:06.020 and

01:15:06.240 she

01:15:06.360 did

01:15:06.540 so

01:15:07.320 she

01:15:07.600 can't

01:15:07.860 lie

01:15:08.140 she's

01:15:08.480 an

01:15:08.580 honest

01:15:08.800 person

01:15:09.220 and

01:15:09.660 she

01:15:09.880 came

01:15:10.100 yeah

01:15:10.280 and

01:15:10.440 so

01:15:10.620 now

01:15:10.900 they

01:15:11.120 do

01:15:11.300 the

01:15:11.460 whole

01:15:11.640 Christian

01:15:12.140 marketing

01:15:12.620 thing

01:15:13.280 and

01:15:15.160 he's

01:15:15.500 gotta

01:15:15.660 live

01:15:15.960 a

01:15:16.100 life

01:15:16.420 of

01:15:16.620 using

01:15:16.900 his

01:15:17.080 relationship

01:15:17.760 for

01:15:18.760 brand

01:15:19.220 good

01:15:21.460 luck

01:15:21.880 anyways

01:15:24.400 now

01:15:26.200 let's

01:15:27.960 see

01:15:28.120 what else

01:15:28.480 we

01:15:28.620 got

01:15:28.840 now

01:15:30.360 the

01:15:30.640 thing

01:15:30.940 is

01:15:31.380 the

01:15:31.800 the

01:15:32.180 Christian

01:15:33.140 influencer

01:15:33.820 Christian

01:15:34.380 one

01:15:34.780 they

01:15:35.520 use

01:15:35.880 the

01:15:36.060 religion

01:15:36.480 for

01:15:36.760 clout

01:15:37.220 and

01:15:37.880 if

01:15:38.020 they

01:15:38.200 could

01:15:38.460 not

01:15:38.800 virtue

01:15:39.240 signal

01:15:39.740 they

01:15:39.940 would

01:15:40.100 not

01:15:40.380 be

01:15:40.560 Christian

01:15:40.940 they

01:15:41.120 wouldn't

01:15:41.480 if

01:15:42.300 they

01:15:42.460 could

01:15:42.640 not

01:15:42.860 market

01:15:43.300 and

01:15:43.940 profit

01:15:44.420 off

01:15:44.720 of

01:15:44.860 it

01:15:45.060 and

01:15:45.300 use

01:15:45.560 it

01:15:45.660 for

01:15:45.840 social

01:15:46.220 media

01:15:46.600 they

01:15:47.820 would

01:15:47.980 not

01:15:48.200 be

01:15:48.360 there

01:15:48.620 and

01:15:50.020 they

01:15:50.200 will

01:15:50.360 only

01:15:50.760 accept

01:15:51.260 hundreds

01:15:51.580 of

01:15:51.880 billions

01:15:52.160 of

01:15:52.380 dollars

01:15:52.760 now

01:15:57.860 I

01:15:59.000 think

01:15:59.200 that's

01:15:59.580 all we

01:16:01.380 got

01:16:01.620 for

01:16:01.860 today

01:16:02.140 now

01:16:04.080 we're

01:16:04.280 going

01:16:04.400 to

01:16:04.520 do

01:16:04.960 I'm

01:16:05.620 going

01:16:05.720 to

01:16:05.840 message

01:16:06.480 the

01:16:07.360 woman

01:16:07.560 that

01:16:07.780 called

01:16:08.100 in

01:16:08.260 yesterday

01:16:08.800 okay

01:16:11.640 you

01:16:12.520 can

01:16:13.380 call

01:16:13.900 in

01:16:14.320 now

01:16:14.760 now

01:16:21.960 I

01:16:23.400 also

01:16:23.740 I'm

01:16:23.960 going

01:16:24.080 to

01:16:24.160 go

01:16:24.380 back

01:16:24.660 through

01:16:24.860 my

01:16:25.060 power

01:16:25.460 point

01:16:25.920 that

01:16:27.780 I

01:16:27.940 made

01:16:28.340 to

01:16:28.620 kind

01:16:28.840 of

01:16:28.940 give

01:16:29.140 a

01:16:29.280 little

01:16:29.440 bit

01:16:29.660 of

01:16:29.920 I

01:16:30.700 want

01:16:30.820 to

01:16:30.900 make

01:16:31.080 my

01:16:31.280 points

01:16:31.740 a

01:16:31.920 little

01:16:32.060 bit

01:16:32.240 more

01:16:32.460 clear

01:16:32.800 because

01:16:33.140 I

01:16:33.380 think

01:16:33.600 pictures

01:16:34.700 do

01:16:36.240 a

01:16:37.420 little

01:16:37.600 bit

01:16:37.820 better

01:16:38.100 in

01:16:38.280 this

01:16:38.440 kind

01:16:38.640 of

01:16:38.720 thing

01:16:39.000 oh

01:16:39.920 no

01:16:40.000 I

01:16:40.080 did

01:16:40.200 the

01:16:40.320 wrong

01:16:40.440 one

01:16:40.880 where

01:16:45.280 is

01:16:45.500 it

01:16:45.680 oh

01:16:45.940 yeah

01:16:48.980 here

01:16:49.180 we

01:16:49.300 go

01:16:49.500 so

01:16:50.220 I

01:16:50.380 made

01:16:50.580 this

01:16:50.760 the

01:16:50.900 other

01:16:51.080 day

01:16:51.400 the

01:16:51.600 god

01:16:51.860 economy

01:16:52.300 for

01:16:52.560 a

01:16:52.680 different

01:16:52.940 show

01:16:53.260 but

01:16:53.440 I

01:16:53.560 just

01:16:53.740 thought

01:16:53.960 it

01:16:54.060 worked

01:16:54.320 really

01:16:54.560 well

01:16:54.860 so

01:16:56.800 we

01:16:59.980 have

01:17:00.180 the

01:17:00.320 god

01:17:00.580 economy

01:17:01.000 now

01:17:01.200 these

01:17:01.380 are

01:17:01.480 the

01:17:01.600 players

01:17:02.040 you

01:17:02.300 tend

01:17:02.600 to

01:17:02.800 see

01:17:02.960 at

01:17:03.160 churches

01:17:03.560 now

01:17:04.520 I

01:17:04.720 want

01:17:04.900 to

01:17:05.020 differentiate

01:17:05.580 modern

01:17:06.420 and

01:17:06.780 traditional

01:17:08.080 dating

01:17:08.580 now

01:17:09.440 remember

01:17:09.820 traditional

01:17:10.460 dating

01:17:10.840 if

01:17:11.000 you

01:17:11.100 go

01:17:11.260 back

01:17:11.500 in

01:17:11.640 history

01:17:11.940 it

01:17:12.120 was

01:17:12.220 always

01:17:12.480 standard

01:17:13.060 to

01:17:13.280 have

01:17:13.400 an

01:17:13.480 arranged

01:17:13.880 marriage

01:17:14.320 the

01:17:15.000 families

01:17:15.420 would

01:17:15.640 know

01:17:15.820 each

01:17:16.020 other

01:17:16.220 they

01:17:16.380 would

01:17:16.520 set

01:17:16.740 each

01:17:16.960 other

01:17:17.180 up

01:17:17.520 and

01:17:18.720 that

01:17:18.900 was

01:17:19.020 how

01:17:19.180 you

01:17:19.340 would

01:17:19.500 meet

01:17:19.720 you

01:17:20.020 didn't

01:17:20.220 really

01:17:20.460 have

01:17:20.640 a ton

01:17:21.060 of

01:17:21.200 choice

01:17:21.500 I

01:17:21.700 mean

01:17:21.840 I'm

01:17:22.740 sure

01:17:22.940 your

01:17:23.140 dad

01:17:23.680 wouldn't

01:17:24.040 put a

01:17:24.840 gun

01:17:25.220 to

01:17:25.420 your

01:17:25.560 head

01:17:25.800 and

01:17:25.940 say

01:17:26.060 you

01:17:26.200 gotta

01:17:26.520 do

01:17:26.840 it

01:17:27.100 although

01:17:27.860 in

01:17:28.100 some

01:17:28.400 countries

01:17:29.100 but

01:17:31.860 you

01:17:32.100 know

01:17:32.380 in

01:17:32.880 general

01:17:33.420 maybe

01:17:34.140 he

01:17:34.340 would

01:17:34.460 say

01:17:34.600 okay

01:17:34.760 what

01:17:34.920 about

01:17:35.160 him

01:17:35.560 she

01:17:35.780 would

01:17:35.880 say

01:17:36.000 no

01:17:36.340 when

01:17:36.540 he

01:17:36.600 would

01:17:36.700 say

01:17:36.780 you

01:17:37.540 you

01:17:37.580 would

01:17:37.680 say

01:17:38.640 no

01:17:39.540 you

01:17:41.800 won't

01:17:42.040 get

01:17:42.260 my

01:17:42.500 inheritance

01:17:43.000 you

01:17:43.320 can

01:17:43.460 go

01:17:43.640 for

01:17:43.820 that

01:17:44.140 drug

01:17:45.000 dealer

01:17:45.320 over

01:17:45.580 there

01:17:45.940 what

01:17:46.620 would

01:17:46.780 the

01:17:46.920 drug

01:17:47.260 dealer

01:17:47.600 be

01:17:47.860 of

01:17:48.020 the

01:17:48.200 1600

01:17:48.780 would

01:17:50.120 there

01:17:50.260 be

01:17:50.420 drug

01:17:50.680 dealers

01:17:51.020 back

01:17:51.340 then

01:17:51.540 we

01:17:51.660 gotta

01:17:51.780 think

01:17:52.020 about

01:17:52.240 this

01:17:52.480 but

01:17:52.760 I

01:17:53.320 don't

01:17:53.440 know

01:17:53.620 the

01:17:54.220 what

01:17:54.500 yeah

01:17:55.420 the

01:17:55.600 petty

01:17:55.900 thief

01:17:56.220 he

01:17:56.360 said

01:17:56.460 you

01:17:56.580 can

01:17:56.740 go

01:17:56.940 with

01:17:57.100 the

01:17:57.220 petty

01:17:57.480 thief

01:17:57.800 but

01:17:58.100 you

01:17:58.620 not

01:17:58.820 getting

01:17:58.980 any

01:17:59.180 of

01:17:59.280 my

01:17:59.420 inheritance

01:17:59.940 and

01:18:00.220 the

01:18:00.340 woman

01:18:00.560 would

01:18:00.740 think

01:18:01.040 do

01:18:03.000 you

01:18:03.060 know

01:18:03.140 what

01:18:03.200 I

01:18:03.260 mean

01:18:03.380 this

01:18:03.560 back

01:18:03.980 then

01:18:04.160 this

01:18:04.340 forced

01:18:04.840 women

01:18:05.160 to

01:18:05.380 cash

01:18:05.740 out

01:18:05.980 on

01:18:06.140 their

01:18:06.300 youth

01:18:06.720 faster

01:18:07.340 it

01:18:07.920 wasn't

01:18:08.240 like

01:18:08.440 the

01:18:08.620 women

01:18:08.900 of

01:18:09.080 the

01:18:09.200 past

01:18:09.780 wouldn't

01:18:10.540 have

01:18:10.680 done

01:18:10.860 the

01:18:11.040 same

01:18:11.240 thing

01:18:11.620 but

01:18:13.240 I

01:18:13.620 mean

01:18:13.820 do

01:18:14.160 you

01:18:14.300 okay

01:18:14.520 let's

01:18:14.820 just

01:18:15.000 think

01:18:15.200 knowing

01:18:16.140 how

01:18:16.460 we

01:18:16.640 are

01:18:16.880 as

01:18:17.100 ladies

01:18:17.420 where

01:18:17.760 we

01:18:17.900 love

01:18:18.120 attention

01:18:18.540 you

01:18:20.640 don't

01:18:21.000 think

01:18:21.540 that

01:18:21.780 the

01:18:21.920 women

01:18:22.140 of

01:18:22.280 the

01:18:22.380 past

01:18:22.800 would

01:18:22.980 have

01:18:23.080 did

01:18:23.220 the

01:18:23.380 same

01:18:23.620 thing

01:18:23.840 no

01:18:24.080 of

01:18:24.320 course

01:18:24.480 they

01:18:24.620 would

01:18:24.900 if

01:18:25.500 they

01:18:25.620 could

01:18:25.740 go

01:18:25.900 be

01:18:26.100 celebrity

01:18:26.560 worshipped

01:18:27.080 and be

01:18:27.320 a

01:18:27.440 Christian

01:18:27.760 speaker

01:18:28.160 they

01:18:28.360 totally

01:18:28.680 would

01:18:28.860 have

01:18:28.940 did

01:18:29.080 it

01:18:29.280 who

01:18:29.640 wouldn't

01:18:30.140 but

01:18:32.080 but

01:18:32.680 back

01:18:34.440 then

01:18:34.700 that was

01:18:35.100 that was

01:18:35.440 the

01:18:35.600 norm

01:18:35.900 so

01:18:37.020 modern

01:18:37.520 dating

01:18:37.920 meet

01:18:38.280 online

01:18:38.820 at

01:18:39.200 school

01:18:39.620 at

01:18:39.880 a

01:18:40.000 bar

01:18:40.340 or

01:18:40.860 in

01:18:40.980 a

01:18:41.100 social

01:18:41.400 setting

01:18:41.840 mostly

01:18:42.640 online

01:18:43.160 now

01:18:43.440 now

01:18:44.780 there

01:18:46.640 is a

01:18:46.980 little

01:18:47.120 bit

01:18:47.300 of

01:18:47.440 discrepancies

01:18:48.260 on

01:18:48.600 where

01:18:48.880 if

01:18:49.080 you

01:18:49.200 met

01:18:49.380 online

01:18:49.840 at

01:18:50.120 school

01:18:50.440 at

01:18:50.660 a

01:18:50.760 bar

01:18:51.020 social

01:18:51.440 setting

01:18:51.820 but

01:18:52.220 have

01:18:53.100 sex

01:18:53.400 within

01:18:53.640 three

01:18:53.920 dates

01:18:54.280 I'm

01:18:56.780 going

01:18:56.840 to

01:18:56.900 give

01:18:57.040 you

01:18:57.180 guys

01:18:57.420 three

01:18:57.700 months

01:18:58.080 max

01:18:58.520 when

01:19:01.180 you're

01:19:01.360 younger

01:19:01.680 but

01:19:02.620 yeah

01:19:02.780 you got

01:19:03.100 three

01:19:03.360 dates

01:19:03.800 because

01:19:04.200 the

01:19:04.380 men

01:19:04.520 this

01:19:04.680 is

01:19:04.780 the

01:19:04.880 problem

01:19:05.160 the

01:19:05.360 men

01:19:05.540 have

01:19:05.700 wasted

01:19:06.040 too

01:19:06.360 much

01:19:06.600 time

01:19:06.960 you know

01:19:07.180 men

01:19:07.380 see

01:19:07.580 their

01:19:07.720 time

01:19:08.020 as

01:19:08.140 money

01:19:08.400 and

01:19:09.640 they

01:19:09.840 have

01:19:10.060 put

01:19:10.320 you

01:19:10.520 know

01:19:10.760 it's

01:19:11.980 not

01:19:12.180 like

01:19:12.480 they're

01:19:13.060 trying

01:19:13.360 to do

01:19:13.820 prostitution

01:19:14.640 here

01:19:14.900 like

01:19:15.080 they

01:19:15.220 know

01:19:15.480 they

01:19:15.940 want

01:19:16.280 you

01:19:16.480 to

01:19:16.640 want

01:19:17.020 to

01:19:17.340 be

01:19:17.520 there

01:19:17.800 but

01:19:19.340 they've

01:19:19.600 just

01:19:19.780 figured

01:19:20.040 out

01:19:20.360 that

01:19:20.620 look

01:19:20.880 if

01:19:21.080 they

01:19:21.200 don't

01:19:21.320 have

01:19:21.460 sex

01:19:21.720 within

01:19:21.980 three

01:19:22.240 dates

01:19:22.660 they

01:19:23.080 don't

01:19:23.340 like

01:19:23.640 me

01:19:23.900 they're

01:19:24.500 gonna

01:19:24.660 they're

01:19:25.120 gonna

01:19:25.260 string

01:19:25.560 me

01:19:25.720 she's

01:19:26.120 gonna

01:19:26.240 string

01:19:26.500 me

01:19:26.660 along

01:19:26.960 for

01:19:27.160 three

01:19:27.440 months

01:19:27.860 and

01:19:29.200 I'm

01:19:29.800 sorry

01:19:30.180 none

01:19:30.640 of you

01:19:30.860 are hot

01:19:31.240 enough

01:19:31.500 for

01:19:31.680 this

01:19:31.900 anymore

01:19:32.260 if

01:19:32.480 I'm

01:19:32.640 not

01:19:32.800 getting

01:19:33.000 sex

01:19:33.360 out

01:19:33.540 of

01:19:33.640 this

01:19:33.900 I'm

01:19:37.140 not

01:19:37.320 doing

01:19:37.600 it

01:19:37.840 now

01:19:38.740 then

01:19:39.500 the

01:19:39.960 situation

01:19:40.660 ship

01:19:41.140 for

01:19:41.320 a

01:19:41.480 couple

01:19:41.720 of

01:19:41.880 months

01:19:42.140 up

01:19:43.120 to

01:19:43.340 a

01:19:43.500 year

01:19:43.720 some

01:19:44.100 men

01:19:44.320 will

01:19:44.480 say

01:19:44.640 you

01:19:44.780 know

01:19:44.860 you

01:19:44.980 gotta

01:19:45.120 wait

01:19:45.320 a

01:19:45.440 year

01:19:45.640 if

01:19:46.140 you

01:19:46.220 stick

01:19:46.440 around

01:19:46.660 a

01:19:46.820 year

01:19:47.040 then

01:19:47.520 you

01:19:47.640 can

01:19:47.740 be

01:19:47.860 mine

01:19:48.120 because

01:19:48.680 you

01:19:48.880 know

01:19:49.020 the

01:19:49.420 men

01:19:49.620 have

01:19:49.720 had

01:19:49.840 problems

01:19:50.300 where

01:19:50.460 they

01:19:50.580 brought

01:19:50.820 a

01:19:50.980 woman

01:19:51.180 into

01:19:51.460 their

01:19:51.640 social

01:19:52.100 circle

01:19:52.560 right

01:19:52.880 men

01:19:54.060 are

01:19:54.200 very

01:19:54.400 solution

01:19:54.980 oriented

01:19:55.500 so

01:19:55.860 they've

01:19:56.480 brought

01:19:56.660 a

01:19:56.780 woman

01:19:56.960 into

01:19:57.180 their

01:19:57.380 social

01:19:57.760 circle

01:19:58.200 and

01:19:58.700 she

01:19:58.900 ruins

01:19:59.240 his

01:19:59.440 life

01:19:59.740 you

01:20:01.460 know

01:20:01.700 she

01:20:02.060 talk

01:20:02.620 they

01:20:02.800 break

01:20:03.100 up

01:20:03.400 she

01:20:03.560 decides

01:20:03.880 to

01:20:04.040 talk

01:20:04.320 bad

01:20:04.640 about

01:20:04.920 him

01:20:05.060 and

01:20:05.180 the

01:20:05.300 thing

01:20:05.520 is

01:20:05.680 the

01:20:06.140 more

01:20:06.420 she

01:20:06.680 likes

01:20:07.100 you

01:20:07.260 the

01:20:07.400 more

01:20:07.660 she's

01:20:07.960 going

01:20:08.180 to

01:20:08.360 do

01:20:08.540 this

01:20:08.820 again

01:20:09.820 if

01:20:09.980 she

01:20:10.140 says

01:20:10.440 you

01:20:10.840 were

01:20:11.060 such

01:20:11.380 a

01:20:11.520 great

01:20:11.740 guy

01:20:12.160 I

01:20:13.380 bet

01:20:13.640 she

01:20:13.820 dumped

01:20:14.120 you

01:20:14.340 I

01:20:14.840 bet

01:20:15.020 she

01:20:15.180 did

01:20:15.360 sorry

01:20:15.680 fellas

01:20:16.120 I

01:20:16.320 don't

01:20:17.620 shoot

01:20:17.840 the

01:20:18.000 messenger

01:20:18.320 I'm

01:20:18.520 just

01:20:18.700 I'm

01:20:19.220 just

01:20:19.380 being

01:20:19.560 honest

01:20:20.000 here

01:20:20.320 so

01:20:21.440 situationship

01:20:23.640 now

01:20:24.080 this

01:20:24.480 how long

01:20:24.960 the

01:20:25.120 situationship

01:20:26.160 is

01:20:26.680 gonna

01:20:26.880 be

01:20:27.280 is

01:20:27.880 how

01:20:28.120 long

01:20:28.420 he's

01:20:28.640 been

01:20:28.840 hurt

01:20:29.180 so

01:20:30.220 if

01:20:30.460 he's

01:20:30.660 naive

01:20:34.640 gonna

01:20:34.960 he

01:20:35.240 might

01:20:35.440 ask

01:20:35.700 you

01:20:36.040 for

01:20:36.300 commitment

01:20:36.760 but

01:20:38.360 the

01:20:38.640 more

01:20:38.860 BS

01:20:39.420 he's

01:20:39.800 dealt

01:20:40.080 with

01:20:40.340 the

01:20:40.500 more

01:20:40.680 he's

01:20:40.980 dated

01:20:41.380 the

01:20:42.840 longer

01:20:43.440 that

01:20:43.860 vetting

01:20:44.260 period

01:20:44.700 is

01:20:44.880 gonna

01:20:45.040 be

01:20:45.380 I've

01:20:46.900 heard

01:20:47.160 men

01:20:47.560 say

01:20:47.920 years

01:20:48.540 I

01:20:51.260 mean

01:20:51.520 now

01:20:52.000 people

01:20:52.480 get

01:20:52.820 you

01:20:53.400 you

01:20:53.800 get

01:20:54.020 you

01:20:54.200 have

01:20:54.340 to

01:20:54.420 give

01:20:54.540 a

01:20:54.700 kid

01:20:55.060 first

01:20:55.480 for

01:20:55.700 certain

01:20:56.040 men

01:20:56.340 now

01:21:00.880 the

01:21:01.320 average

01:21:01.760 right

01:21:02.040 now

01:21:02.260 is

01:21:02.440 to

01:21:02.620 a

01:21:02.840 three

01:21:03.200 year

01:21:03.480 relationship

01:21:04.240 because

01:21:06.100 again

01:21:06.520 you

01:21:06.680 know

01:21:06.860 men

01:21:07.320 it's

01:21:08.040 not

01:21:08.220 like

01:21:08.400 they

01:21:08.540 don't

01:21:08.840 want

01:21:09.060 to

01:21:09.160 get

01:21:09.300 married

01:21:09.660 and

01:21:09.840 have

01:21:09.960 a

01:21:10.100 family

01:21:10.340 they

01:21:10.520 do

01:21:10.860 but

01:21:11.180 they

01:21:11.680 just

01:21:11.900 want

01:21:12.140 to

01:21:12.280 do

01:21:12.520 it

01:21:12.800 without

01:21:13.140 having

01:21:13.560 their

01:21:13.800 life

01:21:14.220 ruined

01:21:14.620 so

01:21:14.880 they

01:21:15.020 keep

01:21:15.220 thinking

01:21:15.540 of ways

01:21:15.860 to

01:21:16.060 circumvent

01:21:16.780 this

01:21:17.020 they

01:21:17.200 think

01:21:17.420 okay

01:21:17.700 now

01:21:18.440 again

01:21:18.680 the

01:21:19.180 men

01:21:19.420 that

01:21:19.620 have

01:21:19.820 never

01:21:20.220 participated

01:21:21.040 in

01:21:21.560 this

01:21:21.900 that

01:21:23.440 don't

01:21:23.780 have

01:21:23.900 a

01:21:24.000 lot

01:21:24.120 of

01:21:24.280 dating

01:21:24.600 experience

01:21:25.340 they're

01:21:25.620 not

01:21:26.100 they're

01:21:27.360 naive

01:21:27.900 right

01:21:28.260 they

01:21:28.480 haven't

01:21:29.140 participated

01:21:29.980 if

01:21:30.940 he

01:21:31.200 can't

01:21:32.000 remember

01:21:32.480 the

01:21:32.720 last

01:21:33.020 like

01:21:33.240 date

01:21:33.620 he's

01:21:33.860 gone

01:21:34.100 on

01:21:34.280 like

01:21:34.520 he's

01:21:35.220 not

01:21:35.400 really

01:21:35.700 participating

01:21:36.720 right

01:21:37.400 same

01:21:37.940 with

01:21:38.120 women

01:21:38.460 you know

01:21:38.960 the

01:21:39.120 same

01:21:39.280 with

01:21:39.440 the

01:21:39.620 virgins

01:21:40.220 they

01:21:40.380 don't

01:21:40.500 really

01:21:40.660 know

01:21:40.800 what's

01:21:40.960 going

01:21:41.100 on

01:21:41.400 but

01:21:43.240 the

01:21:43.440 men

01:21:43.620 that

01:21:43.760 have

01:21:43.920 dated

01:21:44.300 the

01:21:45.420 more

01:21:45.980 they've

01:21:46.360 been

01:21:46.560 hurt

01:21:46.860 or

01:21:47.020 been

01:21:47.220 burned

01:21:47.580 the

01:21:47.760 more

01:21:48.000 they're

01:21:48.280 going

01:21:48.420 to

01:21:48.560 up

01:21:48.900 that

01:21:49.260 waiting

01:21:49.660 period

01:21:50.100 and

01:21:51.240 so

01:21:51.420 a

01:21:51.600 strategy

01:21:52.020 of

01:21:54.600 for

01:21:54.820 a

01:21:54.920 guy

01:21:55.060 that

01:21:55.240 hasn't

01:21:55.700 been

01:21:55.900 burned

01:21:56.260 in

01:21:57.400 order

01:21:57.920 because

01:21:58.260 he's

01:21:58.480 going

01:21:58.580 to

01:21:58.640 be

01:21:58.780 naive

01:21:59.180 he's

01:21:59.380 not

01:21:59.540 going

01:21:59.660 to

01:21:59.700 make

01:21:59.900 them

01:22:00.160 jump

01:22:00.480 through

01:22:00.660 he's

01:22:01.260 not

01:22:01.360 going

01:22:01.480 to

01:22:01.540 make

01:22:01.740 her

01:22:01.860 do

01:22:02.060 anything

01:22:02.460 he's

01:22:02.700 going

01:22:02.800 to

01:22:03.320 be

01:22:03.820 like

01:22:04.040 it's

01:22:05.220 been

01:22:05.380 three

01:22:05.600 months

01:22:05.900 since

01:22:06.060 I've

01:22:06.240 had

01:22:06.420 sex

01:22:06.700 please

01:22:07.020 be

01:22:07.160 my

01:22:07.360 girlfriend

01:22:07.680 please

01:22:08.640 you know

01:22:09.680 so

01:22:10.020 this

01:22:12.220 is

01:22:12.380 going

01:22:12.540 to

01:22:12.860 depend

01:22:14.200 next

01:22:15.780 they

01:22:16.200 get

01:22:16.460 married

01:22:16.880 now

01:22:17.840 again

01:22:18.220 the

01:22:19.100 more

01:22:19.320 experience

01:22:20.020 a

01:22:20.200 guy

01:22:20.340 has

01:22:20.680 the

01:22:20.820 more

01:22:21.040 hoops

01:22:24.600 he

01:22:25.060 he's

01:22:26.280 going

01:22:26.420 to

01:22:26.500 say

01:22:26.680 prenup

01:22:27.460 he's

01:22:27.740 going

01:22:27.860 to

01:22:27.940 say

01:22:28.120 whatever

01:22:28.420 then

01:22:28.920 he's

01:22:29.260 going

01:22:29.400 to

01:22:29.480 have

01:22:29.740 one

01:22:30.040 to

01:22:30.200 two

01:22:30.400 kids

01:22:30.860 and

01:22:32.440 the

01:22:32.560 average

01:22:32.880 divorce

01:22:33.260 is

01:22:33.440 after

01:22:33.700 eight

01:22:33.940 years

01:22:34.140 that's

01:22:34.380 modern

01:22:34.740 dating

01:22:35.060 now

01:22:35.400 traditional

01:22:37.160 dating

01:22:37.580 is

01:22:39.260 arranged

01:22:40.060 the

01:22:40.640 families

01:22:41.260 know

01:22:41.580 each

01:22:41.800 other

01:22:42.060 the

01:22:43.340 families

01:22:44.020 pick

01:22:44.540 who

01:22:44.740 he's

01:22:44.920 going

01:22:45.040 to

01:22:45.140 marry

01:22:45.440 right

01:22:46.660 do

01:22:47.820 you

01:22:47.940 marry

01:22:48.220 young

01:22:48.680 before

01:22:49.580 25

01:22:50.240 you

01:22:51.660 have

01:22:51.800 kids

01:22:52.320 that

01:22:53.160 you know

01:22:53.420 the woman

01:22:53.740 has

01:22:53.960 kids

01:22:54.300 before

01:22:54.700 she

01:22:54.980 goes

01:22:55.240 to

01:22:55.440 school

01:22:55.780 four

01:22:56.620 plus

01:22:57.000 kids

01:22:57.340 listens

01:22:57.740 to

01:22:57.940 her

01:22:58.080 husband

01:22:58.400 believes

01:22:59.100 God

01:22:59.940 men

01:23:00.420 women

01:23:00.720 children

01:23:01.140 the

01:23:01.600 closer

01:23:01.980 you

01:23:02.240 are

01:23:02.440 to

01:23:02.560 that

01:23:02.800 the

01:23:02.980 more

01:23:03.280 traditional

01:23:03.980 I'd

01:23:04.320 say

01:23:04.520 now

01:23:05.780 the

01:23:05.960 challenges

01:23:06.540 in

01:23:07.400 traditional

01:23:07.900 dating

01:23:08.240 in

01:23:08.400 2024

01:23:08.940 it's

01:23:10.340 tough

01:23:10.660 for it

01:23:11.060 to be

01:23:11.440 real

01:23:11.900 because

01:23:12.680 the

01:23:12.900 woman

01:23:13.100 always

01:23:13.420 has

01:23:13.580 the

01:23:13.720 upper

01:23:13.940 hand

01:23:14.140 always

01:23:14.480 a

01:23:15.320 hundred

01:23:15.600 percent

01:23:15.920 of

01:23:16.080 the

01:23:16.160 time

01:23:16.440 because

01:23:17.180 no

01:23:17.980 church

01:23:18.480 is

01:23:18.700 going

01:23:18.840 to

01:23:18.940 be

01:23:19.120 able

01:23:19.340 to

01:23:19.580 out

01:23:19.880 pray

01:23:20.880 the

01:23:21.100 state

01:23:21.400 you

01:23:21.580 just

01:23:21.740 can't

01:23:21.980 if

01:23:27.060 damn

01:23:27.300 Pearl

01:23:27.540 you're

01:23:27.740 talking

01:23:28.000 about

01:23:28.240 my

01:23:28.420 past

01:23:28.900 I

01:23:29.720 listen

01:23:30.220 I

01:23:30.840 listen

01:23:31.720 to

01:23:32.040 the

01:23:32.180 how

01:23:32.920 do

01:23:33.080 you

01:23:33.120 think

01:23:33.260 I

01:23:33.360 come

01:23:33.540 up

01:23:33.720 with

01:23:33.860 this

01:23:34.020 you

01:23:34.180 think

01:23:34.340 I

01:23:34.460 make

01:23:34.680 this

01:23:34.900 up

01:23:35.080 I

01:23:35.720 take

01:23:36.100 feedback

01:23:36.560 from

01:23:37.000 the

01:23:37.160 experiences

01:23:38.000 of

01:23:38.300 many

01:23:38.540 men

01:23:38.840 right

01:23:39.200 and

01:23:39.380 I

01:23:39.520 read

01:23:39.860 I

01:23:40.320 read

01:23:40.700 the

01:23:40.860 experiences

01:23:41.500 they

01:23:41.780 have

01:23:42.020 in

01:23:42.160 dating

01:23:42.400 I've

01:23:42.600 also

01:23:42.840 you

01:23:43.420 know

01:23:43.600 I've

01:23:44.140 dated

01:23:44.400 myself

01:23:44.860 so

01:23:45.460 I've

01:23:46.140 seen

01:23:46.320 I can

01:23:46.700 tell

01:23:47.020 how

01:23:47.220 damaged

01:23:47.760 a

01:23:47.980 guy

01:23:48.200 is

01:23:48.400 by

01:23:48.600 talking

01:23:49.000 to

01:23:49.240 him

01:23:49.400 and

01:23:50.360 more

01:23:50.660 damaged

01:23:51.160 he

01:23:51.360 is

01:23:51.580 the

01:23:51.760 longer

01:23:52.880 he's

01:23:53.740 going

01:23:53.860 to

01:23:53.940 make

01:23:54.140 you

01:23:54.260 go

01:23:54.460 through

01:23:54.760 more

01:23:55.060 hoops

01:23:55.300 so

01:23:55.540 this

01:23:56.780 is

01:23:56.940 more

01:23:57.180 so

01:23:57.460 in

01:23:57.640 Protestant

01:23:58.100 churches

01:23:58.620 but

01:23:58.820 this

01:23:59.000 dynamic

01:23:59.420 is

01:23:59.640 everywhere

01:24:00.000 the

01:24:00.220 80-20

01:24:00.840 rule

01:24:01.340 applies

01:24:01.740 we

01:24:02.760 have

01:24:03.020 the

01:24:03.180 pastors

01:24:03.740 guys

01:24:05.380 in

01:24:05.540 the

01:24:05.660 bands

01:24:06.080 these

01:24:06.340 are

01:24:06.460 the

01:24:06.600 pimps

01:24:07.020 in

01:24:07.200 church

01:24:07.560 they

01:24:07.760 sleep

01:24:08.040 with

01:24:08.160 I

01:24:08.280 mean

01:24:08.380 everyone

01:24:08.660 knows

01:24:08.980 the

01:24:09.140 guy

01:24:09.280 that

01:24:09.460 virtue

01:24:09.780 signals

01:24:10.260 God

01:24:10.640 but

01:24:11.140 he's

01:24:11.360 sleeping

01:24:11.600 with

01:24:11.820 everybody

01:24:12.280 I'll

01:24:12.460 tell

01:24:12.560 you

01:24:12.640 the

01:24:12.780 story

01:24:13.040 there's

01:24:13.640 guy

01:24:13.840 that

01:24:13.980 came

01:24:14.140 on

01:24:14.260 my

01:24:14.420 show

01:24:14.700 and

01:24:15.440 the

01:24:15.580 whole

01:24:15.780 show

01:24:16.120 he

01:24:16.300 was

01:24:16.420 talking

01:24:16.680 about

01:24:16.900 how

01:24:17.040 cheating

01:24:17.320 was

01:24:17.560 wrong

01:24:17.880 right

01:24:18.120 and

01:24:18.280 how

01:24:18.560 degeneracy

01:24:19.320 is

01:24:19.560 awful

01:24:19.920 this

01:24:20.840 red

01:24:21.080 pilled

01:24:21.280 me

01:24:21.460 so

01:24:21.700 much

01:24:21.980 he

01:24:22.100 was

01:24:22.220 sleeping

01:24:22.480 with

01:24:22.680 three

01:24:22.880 women

01:24:23.160 on

01:24:23.360 the

01:24:23.480 show

01:24:23.720 three

01:24:24.220 because

01:24:24.940 the

01:24:25.180 women

01:24:25.380 would

01:24:25.580 talk

01:24:25.880 to

01:24:26.040 me

01:24:26.260 and

01:24:26.460 I'm

01:24:26.600 like

01:24:26.880 did

01:24:27.940 he

01:24:28.260 and

01:24:30.360 I

01:24:30.580 never

01:24:30.880 want

01:24:31.100 to

01:24:31.180 be

01:24:31.300 a

01:24:31.480 jerk

01:24:31.740 like

01:24:32.000 I'm

01:24:32.160 never

01:24:32.360 going

01:24:32.580 to

01:24:32.660 say

01:24:32.880 names

01:24:33.180 I'm

01:24:33.300 never

01:24:33.440 going

01:24:33.580 to

01:24:33.660 call

01:24:33.900 anyone

01:24:34.100 out

01:24:34.480 but

01:24:34.820 it's

01:24:37.500 you know

01:24:37.760 it's

01:24:37.960 like

01:24:38.120 arguing

01:24:38.660 that

01:24:38.920 all

01:24:39.080 men

01:24:39.340 cheat

01:24:39.700 and

01:24:41.260 knowing

01:24:41.720 something

01:24:42.260 about

01:24:42.620 somebody

01:24:43.160 and

01:24:43.400 not

01:24:43.680 being

01:24:43.900 able

01:24:44.100 to

01:24:44.320 use

01:24:44.640 it

01:24:44.780 because

01:24:45.000 I'm

01:24:45.180 not

01:24:45.380 an

01:24:45.540 asshole

01:24:45.900 you know

01:24:47.200 because

01:24:47.340 we're

01:24:47.500 debating

01:24:47.880 we're

01:24:48.100 saying

01:24:48.280 the

01:24:48.440 cheating

01:24:48.720 that

01:24:48.920 you

01:24:49.040 know

01:24:49.900 do

01:24:51.140 you

01:24:51.200 know

01:24:51.280 what

01:24:51.300 that's

01:24:51.500 like

01:24:51.860 for

01:24:52.100 me

01:24:52.240 I

01:24:52.380 can't

01:24:53.560 whatever

01:24:54.060 so

01:24:54.820 then

01:24:55.020 you

01:24:55.160 have

01:24:55.300 the

01:24:55.420 future

01:24:55.820 hoes

01:24:56.360 again

01:24:56.940 I

01:24:57.080 don't

01:24:57.220 know

01:24:57.340 these

01:24:57.500 women

01:24:57.700 personally

01:24:58.160 I'm

01:24:58.340 not

01:24:58.480 saying

01:24:58.620 they'll

01:24:58.780 do

01:24:59.160 it

01:24:59.260 but

01:24:59.340 I'm

01:24:59.440 saying

01:24:59.600 we're

01:25:00.280 going

01:25:00.360 to

01:25:00.440 pretend

01:25:00.720 these

01:25:00.940 are

01:25:01.040 the

01:25:01.140 archetypes

01:25:01.660 so

01:25:01.780 these

01:25:01.940 are

01:25:02.060 the

01:25:02.180 women

01:25:02.460 that

01:25:03.380 obviously

01:25:03.860 don't

01:25:04.340 listen

01:25:04.720 obey

01:25:05.000 listen

01:25:05.700 to

01:25:05.860 their

01:25:06.000 husband

01:25:06.360 they

01:25:06.760 back

01:25:07.040 talk

01:25:07.300 you know

01:25:07.700 they

01:25:08.120 back

01:25:08.400 talk

01:25:08.720 to

01:25:08.860 their

01:25:09.000 husband

01:25:09.420 they

01:25:10.280 clearly

01:25:10.800 do

01:25:11.100 not

01:25:11.300 like

01:25:11.520 the

01:25:11.680 husband

01:25:12.020 but

01:25:12.220 they

01:25:12.360 married

01:25:12.700 young

01:25:12.960 they're

01:25:13.100 kind

01:25:13.300 of

01:25:13.380 resentful

01:25:13.920 they

01:25:14.080 missed

01:25:14.340 out

01:25:14.540 and

01:25:14.660 they'll

01:25:14.800 divorce

01:25:15.160 him

01:25:15.340 at

01:25:15.480 35

01:25:15.900 then

01:25:17.280 there's

01:25:17.520 the

01:25:17.660 born

01:25:17.860 again

01:25:18.100 virgins

01:25:18.760 these

01:25:19.060 are

01:25:19.180 the

01:25:19.300 women

01:25:19.520 that

01:25:19.720 do

01:25:19.840 the

01:25:20.000 rebrand

01:25:20.580 and

01:25:22.580 you know

01:25:22.980 we got

01:25:23.260 Nala

01:25:23.700 right

01:25:24.300 we got

01:25:24.560 the

01:25:24.680 Nalas

01:25:25.080 in church

01:25:25.660 only

01:25:26.780 fans

01:25:27.040 to

01:25:27.920 Jesus

01:25:28.280 we got

01:25:28.720 that

01:25:28.940 pipeline

01:25:29.540 Pearl

01:25:30.760 why don't

01:25:31.180 you try

01:25:31.600 to be

01:25:31.900 an

01:25:32.060 eight

01:25:32.320 yeah

01:25:33.180 let me

01:25:33.480 talk

01:25:33.740 to my

01:25:34.020 parents

01:25:34.640 do

01:25:37.440 you

01:25:37.540 want

01:25:37.700 me

01:25:37.820 let me

01:25:38.260 should

01:25:38.640 I call

01:25:39.940 my

01:25:40.140 parents

01:25:40.500 and say

01:25:40.880 why

01:25:41.200 wasn't

01:25:41.540 I

01:25:41.680 born

01:25:41.900 an

01:25:42.060 eight

01:25:42.280 I

01:25:42.980 shouldn't

01:25:43.240 have

01:25:43.380 to

01:25:43.500 work

01:25:43.880 I

01:25:45.660 should

01:25:45.860 have

01:25:45.960 been

01:25:46.080 offered

01:25:46.380 a

01:25:46.580 billionaire

01:25:46.940 like

01:25:47.340 these

01:25:47.580 ladies

01:25:47.900 I'm

01:25:48.320 just

01:25:48.460 kidding

01:25:48.680 I'm

01:25:48.900 just

01:25:49.020 kidding

01:25:49.200 okay

01:25:49.840 then we

01:25:50.760 got

01:25:50.940 the

01:25:51.160 simp

01:25:51.540 so

01:25:51.760 obviously

01:25:52.160 this

01:25:52.420 is

01:25:52.600 Crowder

01:25:53.060 he

01:25:53.340 was

01:25:53.520 the

01:25:53.780 simp

01:25:54.240 his

01:25:55.340 wife

01:25:55.640 divorced

01:25:56.520 him

01:25:56.780 she

01:25:56.960 was

01:25:57.140 the

01:25:57.300 Karen

01:25:57.660 and

01:25:59.060 she

01:25:59.280 took

01:25:59.500 everything

01:25:59.920 ruined

01:26:00.220 his

01:26:00.380 life

01:26:00.720 then

01:26:01.140 so

01:26:01.320 then

01:26:01.500 you

01:26:01.600 have

01:26:01.740 the

01:26:01.900 church

01:26:02.200 elder

01:26:02.660 simps

01:26:03.120 so

01:26:03.240 these

01:26:03.420 are

01:26:03.540 the

01:26:03.660 church

01:26:03.900 elders

01:26:04.200 that

01:26:04.400 will

01:26:04.520 back

01:26:04.800 anything

01:26:05.140 the

01:26:05.300 woman

01:26:05.500 says

01:26:05.800 up

01:26:05.980 so

01:26:06.120 if

01:26:06.220 the

01:26:06.300 guy

01:26:06.440 is

01:26:06.520 watching

01:26:06.820 porn

01:26:07.220 they'll

01:26:08.020 say

01:26:08.200 oh

01:26:08.640 what

01:26:09.480 an

01:26:09.640 evil

01:26:09.880 man

01:26:10.260 and

01:26:10.420 they'll

01:26:10.880 never

01:26:11.100 ask

01:26:11.540 if

01:26:11.700 the

01:26:11.820 wife

01:26:12.000 is

01:26:12.120 sleeping

01:26:12.400 with

01:26:12.640 the

01:26:12.780 husband

01:26:13.120 they'll

01:26:13.500 be

01:26:13.620 like

01:26:13.920 wait

01:26:14.940 she

01:26:15.100 hasn't

01:26:15.360 slept

01:26:15.620 with

01:26:15.800 me

01:26:15.920 and

01:26:16.020 he's

01:26:16.160 like

01:26:16.260 well

01:26:16.400 you

01:26:16.560 probably

01:26:16.880 should

01:26:17.100 have

01:26:17.220 made

01:26:17.380 her

01:26:17.480 want

01:26:17.640 to

01:26:17.760 sleep

01:26:17.980 with

01:26:18.140 you

01:26:18.260 and

01:26:18.340 he's

01:26:18.460 like

01:26:18.560 huh

01:26:18.880 you

01:26:20.920 know

01:26:21.020 these

01:26:21.220 are

01:26:21.340 the

01:26:21.500 simps

01:26:21.760 these

01:26:21.940 will

01:26:22.080 defend

01:26:22.460 women

01:26:22.780 at

01:26:22.940 all

01:26:23.080 costs

01:26:23.640 prodigal

01:26:25.760 daughter

01:26:26.080 theme

01:26:26.440 they found

01:26:26.940 Christ

01:26:27.320 but

01:26:27.520 can

01:26:27.660 never

01:26:27.880 check

01:26:28.200 if

01:26:28.360 it's

01:26:28.560 genuine

01:26:28.940 there's

01:26:29.280 no

01:26:29.400 barrier

01:26:29.700 to

01:26:29.920 entry

01:26:30.340 simps

01:26:31.320 they

01:26:31.540 make

01:26:31.800 money

01:26:32.060 off

01:26:32.320 of

01:26:32.480 Jesus

01:26:32.800 and

01:26:33.220 conversion

01:26:33.780 stories

01:26:34.440 sure

01:26:34.740 that's

01:26:35.080 genuine

01:26:35.480 I

01:26:35.760 don't

01:26:36.000 believe

01:26:36.380 them

01:26:36.680 and

01:26:38.200 then

01:26:38.300 they

01:26:38.440 yell

01:26:38.640 at

01:26:38.780 Pearl

01:26:39.040 do

01:26:39.300 you

01:26:39.340 know

01:26:39.420 what

01:26:39.480 I

01:26:39.560 mean

01:26:39.720 then

01:26:40.440 we

01:26:40.540 got

01:26:40.680 the

01:26:40.820 Karen

01:26:41.160 so

01:26:41.440 these

01:26:41.640 are

01:26:41.740 the

01:26:41.860 women

01:26:42.160 that

01:26:43.040 will

01:26:43.260 talk

01:26:43.620 about

01:26:43.860 degeneracy

01:26:44.600 yell at

01:26:45.060 men

01:26:45.260 for

01:26:45.520 watching

01:26:46.700 porn

01:26:47.200 they

01:26:47.840 always

01:26:48.120 shame

01:26:48.400 the

01:26:48.560 male

01:26:48.780 sex

01:26:49.200 drive

01:26:49.640 and

01:26:50.240 they

01:26:50.360 always

01:26:50.560 give

01:26:50.760 women

01:26:51.000 every

01:26:51.260 benefit

01:26:51.660 of

01:26:51.800 the

01:26:51.900 doubt

01:26:52.100 ever

01:26:52.380 ever

01:26:53.000 and

01:26:53.840 they

01:26:53.960 usually

01:26:55.540 divorce

01:26:55.960 their

01:26:56.160 husbands

01:26:56.480 later

01:26:56.800 because

01:26:57.260 it's

01:26:57.740 very

01:26:57.940 obvious

01:26:58.380 who

01:26:58.940 runs

01:26:59.240 the

01:26:59.400 relationship

01:26:59.980 right

01:27:00.360 it's

01:27:00.520 very

01:27:00.760 obvious

01:27:01.220 because

01:27:01.720 they

01:27:03.000 always

01:27:03.340 talk

01:27:03.680 first

01:27:04.040 they're

01:27:04.280 always

01:27:04.480 the

01:27:04.680 center

01:27:04.880 of

01:27:05.020 attention

01:27:05.420 I'm

01:27:06.020 not

01:27:06.180 saying

01:27:06.360 that's

01:27:06.560 right

01:27:06.780 or

01:27:06.920 wrong

01:27:07.160 I'm

01:27:07.320 a

01:27:07.420 talker

01:27:07.760 too

01:27:08.000 you

01:27:08.280 know

01:27:08.380 what

01:27:08.440 I

01:27:08.500 mean

01:27:08.640 but

01:27:09.160 it's

01:27:09.600 just

01:27:09.800 obvious

01:27:10.360 it's

01:27:10.800 just

01:27:10.960 obvious

01:27:11.300 who

01:27:11.500 runs

01:27:11.820 the

01:27:12.040 relationship

01:27:12.640 then

01:27:14.080 there's

01:27:14.320 the

01:27:14.440 occasional

01:27:14.880 couple

01:27:15.280 that

01:27:15.480 makes

01:27:15.800 it

01:27:16.060 and

01:27:16.640 they

01:27:16.780 have

01:27:16.940 no

01:27:17.120 idea

01:27:17.340 what's

01:27:17.560 going

01:27:17.740 on

01:27:18.080 they're

01:27:18.960 like

01:27:19.160 what

01:27:19.520 what

01:27:20.540 do

01:27:20.620 you

01:27:20.720 mean

01:27:20.920 you're

01:27:21.080 in

01:27:21.160 a

01:27:21.280 sexless

01:27:21.680 marriage

01:27:22.040 that

01:27:22.240 does

01:27:22.400 not

01:27:22.640 happen

01:27:23.080 they're

01:27:24.020 like

01:27:24.160 she

01:27:24.300 didn't

01:27:24.500 do

01:27:24.660 only

01:27:24.940 fans

01:27:25.360 no

01:27:25.580 way

01:27:25.940 so

01:27:27.160 these

01:27:27.380 are

01:27:27.500 the

01:27:27.640 clueless

01:27:28.220 right

01:27:28.460 so

01:27:28.660 like

01:27:28.880 Tucker

01:27:29.200 Carlson

01:27:29.720 and his

01:27:29.940 wife

01:27:30.100 they met

01:27:30.400 in

01:27:30.500 high

01:27:30.680 school

01:27:30.900 so

01:27:32.000 I

01:27:32.200 mean

01:27:32.300 they

01:27:32.440 don't

01:27:32.580 know

01:27:32.720 what's

01:27:32.940 going

01:27:33.160 on

01:27:33.520 they're

01:27:33.760 like

01:27:33.940 get

01:27:34.140 married

01:27:34.540 do

01:27:34.880 it

01:27:35.160 and

01:27:35.940 the

01:27:36.060 other

01:27:36.280 guys

01:27:36.640 are

01:27:36.780 like

01:27:37.020 this

01:27:37.520 is

01:27:37.700 what's

01:27:37.940 on

01:27:38.080 the

01:27:38.200 market

01:27:38.640 the

01:27:39.220 knowledge

01:27:39.680 and

01:27:40.700 they're

01:27:40.820 like

01:27:40.960 well

01:27:41.100 just

01:27:41.320 find

01:27:41.600 a

01:27:41.740 good

01:27:41.920 woman

01:27:42.240 it's

01:27:42.460 not

01:27:42.640 that

01:27:42.860 hard

01:27:43.200 and

01:27:43.340 they're

01:27:43.460 like

01:27:43.660 ah

01:27:44.420 oh

01:27:45.920 wait

01:27:46.040 no

01:27:46.220 what

01:27:46.400 no

01:27:46.820 what

01:27:48.020 did

01:27:48.140 I

01:27:48.260 do

01:27:48.520 how

01:27:49.620 do

01:27:49.700 I

01:27:49.740 go

01:27:49.840 back

01:27:50.220 oh

01:27:54.040 reset

01:27:54.340 I

01:27:56.200 don't

01:27:56.320 think

01:27:56.520 that

01:27:56.800 worked

01:27:57.560 okay

01:28:00.680 I'll

01:28:00.880 just

01:28:01.060 refresh

01:28:01.480 it

01:28:01.640 go

01:28:01.820 back

01:28:02.020 to

01:28:02.180 Google

01:28:02.400 Slides

01:28:02.860 I

01:28:04.980 just

01:28:05.220 like

01:28:05.500 to

01:28:05.680 give

01:28:05.900 you

01:28:06.060 know

01:28:06.160 people

01:28:06.460 say

01:28:06.840 I

01:28:07.000 make

01:28:07.280 it

01:28:07.400 up

01:28:07.660 but

01:28:07.960 it's

01:28:08.560 like

01:28:08.680 then

01:28:08.820 a

01:28:08.980 story

01:28:09.280 comes

01:28:09.640 out

01:28:09.860 every

01:28:10.120 year

01:28:10.340 that

01:28:10.520 proves

01:28:10.800 my

01:28:11.000 point

01:28:11.380 every

01:28:12.180 year

01:28:12.580 now

01:28:15.020 again

01:28:15.300 if

01:28:15.820 they

01:28:15.960 really

01:28:16.260 cared

01:28:16.860 about

01:28:18.020 Jesus

01:28:18.440 they

01:28:18.760 you

01:28:18.940 know

01:28:19.120 they

01:28:19.520 would

01:28:19.680 make

01:28:19.920 sure

01:28:20.180 that

01:28:20.400 the

01:28:20.540 people

01:28:20.980 that

01:28:21.660 were

01:28:21.820 speaking

01:28:22.240 were

01:28:22.480 genuine

01:28:22.940 so

01:28:24.560 that

01:28:25.800 it

01:28:26.800 doesn't

01:28:27.080 deter

01:28:27.380 people

01:28:27.760 from

01:28:28.040 church

01:28:28.340 but

01:28:28.520 they

01:28:28.620 don't

01:28:28.760 care

01:28:29.040 so

01:28:29.940 the

01:28:30.140 gon

01:28:30.360 economy

01:28:30.840 the

01:28:31.340 pastor

01:28:31.820 is

01:28:31.980 often

01:28:32.340 hooking

01:28:32.660 up

01:28:32.880 with

01:28:33.000 the

01:28:33.120 born

01:28:33.320 again

01:28:33.560 host

01:28:33.900 that's

01:28:34.140 why

01:28:34.240 he

01:28:34.340 wants

01:28:34.540 them

01:28:34.680 in

01:28:34.820 church

01:28:35.140 the

01:28:35.840 Karen

01:28:36.140 and

01:28:36.300 the

01:28:36.440 simps

01:28:36.700 are

01:28:36.840 shaming

01:28:37.220 men's

01:28:37.580 behavior

01:28:38.040 while

01:28:38.340 giving

01:28:38.580 women

01:28:38.940 a

01:28:39.100 pass

01:28:39.580 the

01:28:40.220 simp

01:28:40.540 church

01:28:40.860 elders

01:28:41.240 take

01:28:41.740 women's

01:28:42.180 side

01:28:42.380 for

01:28:42.560 everything

01:28:42.920 and

01:28:43.160 tell

01:28:43.340 women

01:28:43.600 they

01:28:43.780 are

01:28:43.880 amazing

01:28:44.280 and

01:28:44.500 simp

01:28:44.740 for

01:28:44.880 eternity

01:28:45.400 and

01:28:46.160 the

01:28:46.340 simps

01:28:46.680 and

01:28:46.780 the

01:28:46.920 born

01:28:47.120 again

01:28:47.380 hoes

01:28:47.840 find

01:28:48.300 each

01:28:48.540 other

01:28:48.780 when

01:28:49.000 divorce

01:28:49.380 calls

01:28:50.840 she

01:28:51.060 calls

01:28:51.380 him

01:28:51.540 abusive

01:28:51.960 and

01:28:52.260 the

01:28:52.400 church

01:28:52.900 will

01:28:53.140 take

01:28:53.400 her

01:28:53.560 side

01:28:53.900 this

01:28:56.080 is

01:28:56.300 something

01:28:56.800 that

01:28:57.420 they

01:28:59.020 made

01:28:59.520 of all

01:29:00.140 the

01:29:00.280 tradcon

01:29:00.880 women

01:29:01.340 half

01:29:02.680 naked

01:29:03.100 I

01:29:03.500 don't

01:29:03.600 know

01:29:03.740 someone

01:29:04.040 Glenn

01:29:04.600 sent

01:29:04.920 this

01:29:05.120 to

01:29:05.260 me

01:29:05.480 anyway

01:29:07.480 so

01:29:07.960 you know

01:29:08.980 I love

01:29:09.420 it when

01:29:09.840 women

01:29:10.260 call

01:29:10.860 will

01:29:11.760 message

01:29:12.140 and say

01:29:12.480 they want

01:29:12.840 to come

01:29:13.100 on the

01:29:13.400 show

01:29:13.680 because

01:29:14.860 you know

01:29:15.400 I think

01:29:15.720 it's important

01:29:16.260 that we

01:29:16.560 have

01:29:16.700 conversations

01:29:17.440 with people

01:29:18.220 you know

01:29:18.700 and there

01:29:19.740 was a

01:29:19.940 woman that

01:29:20.300 messaged

01:29:20.740 me

01:29:21.020 that said

01:29:21.840 I don't

01:29:22.920 remember

01:29:23.220 so please

01:29:23.840 if I'm

01:29:24.140 misquoting

01:29:24.620 you

01:29:24.840 you know

01:29:25.200 forgive

01:29:25.680 me

01:29:25.960 it was

01:29:26.180 something

01:29:26.440 like

01:29:26.780 I'm

01:29:27.520 the

01:29:27.640 exception

01:29:28.160 or I'm

01:29:28.940 I'm

01:29:29.460 the girl

01:29:30.700 that waited

01:29:31.240 till I

01:29:31.820 was later

01:29:32.320 to

01:29:32.900 I waited

01:29:33.540 till

01:29:33.760 marriage

01:29:34.300 and I

01:29:36.080 thought hey

01:29:36.560 come in

01:29:37.660 let's talk

01:29:38.420 about it

01:29:39.840 welcome to

01:29:40.460 the show

01:29:40.860 your name

01:29:41.180 is Hannah

01:29:41.600 right

01:29:42.120 yes ma'am

01:29:43.720 you know

01:29:44.260 we have

01:29:44.480 the same

01:29:44.860 first name

01:29:45.720 do we

01:29:47.780 we do

01:29:48.300 yeah

01:29:49.460 I there

01:29:51.040 was um

01:29:51.600 when I went

01:29:52.220 on the internet

01:29:52.760 there was a

01:29:53.640 Hannah Davis

01:29:54.340 and it was a

01:29:55.540 supermodel

01:29:56.140 it was Derek

01:29:56.700 Jeter's wife

01:29:57.440 and I just

01:29:58.940 was like I

01:29:59.580 need to be

01:29:59.980 at the top

01:30:00.460 of Google

01:30:01.040 and I

01:30:02.280 just I

01:30:02.780 don't want

01:30:03.480 to be next

01:30:04.060 I'm gonna

01:30:04.500 do Pearl

01:30:04.980 it makes

01:30:07.060 sense

01:30:07.480 so where

01:30:08.620 are you

01:30:09.020 calling out

01:30:09.620 of

01:30:09.860 I'm in

01:30:11.740 Ogden

01:30:12.320 Utah

01:30:12.660 no way

01:30:13.760 are you

01:30:14.400 Mormon

01:30:14.740 I'm not

01:30:16.100 Mormon

01:30:16.400 I knew

01:30:17.080 that was

01:30:17.380 gonna be

01:30:17.580 a question

01:30:18.100 yeah

01:30:18.400 it's not

01:30:18.900 LDS

01:30:19.440 um

01:30:20.360 I'm a

01:30:21.220 evangelical

01:30:21.840 conservative

01:30:22.580 Christian

01:30:23.380 okay

01:30:24.520 which is

01:30:25.200 odd in

01:30:26.140 Utah

01:30:26.420 but

01:30:27.120 that's

01:30:27.900 where I

01:30:28.200 am

01:30:28.380 right now

01:30:29.660 okay

01:30:30.460 um

01:30:30.940 yeah

01:30:32.300 a little

01:30:32.700 bit about

01:30:33.200 me

01:30:33.560 I grew

01:30:34.380 up

01:30:34.620 I'm the

01:30:34.920 oldest of

01:30:35.300 five

01:30:35.740 was

01:30:35.980 homeschooled

01:30:36.840 in a

01:30:37.220 rural area

01:30:37.940 in Montana

01:30:38.600 um

01:30:40.200 I went

01:30:41.240 to like

01:30:41.560 purity

01:30:41.920 conferences

01:30:42.680 um

01:30:44.460 I wasn't

01:30:44.900 allowed to

01:30:45.220 date

01:30:45.480 in high

01:30:45.960 school

01:30:46.340 um

01:30:47.360 and a

01:30:48.180 lot of

01:30:48.360 my

01:30:48.500 friends

01:30:48.720 got married

01:30:49.140 right out

01:30:49.520 of high

01:30:49.840 school

01:30:50.160 and I

01:30:51.320 kind of

01:30:51.620 felt pulled

01:30:52.140 between

01:30:52.440 getting

01:30:52.700 married

01:30:53.000 and then

01:30:53.460 like

01:30:53.700 wanting

01:30:53.960 to have

01:30:54.420 a

01:30:54.540 career

01:30:54.860 and so

01:30:55.520 I

01:30:55.860 moved

01:30:56.200 to

01:30:56.400 Chicago

01:30:56.880 when I

01:30:57.720 was 18

01:30:58.220 and went

01:30:59.220 to a

01:30:59.420 Bible

01:30:59.660 school

01:30:59.980 and didn't

01:31:00.780 really date

01:31:01.380 much

01:31:01.940 at all

01:31:03.220 in those

01:31:03.760 four years

01:31:04.560 um

01:31:05.560 a lot

01:31:06.260 of that

01:31:06.620 I would

01:31:07.020 have said

01:31:07.400 that I

01:31:08.040 had a lot

01:31:08.740 of like

01:31:09.080 culture shock

01:31:10.540 moving to

01:31:11.340 the city

01:31:11.800 and was

01:31:12.720 just trying

01:31:13.080 to figure

01:31:13.400 out

01:31:14.400 how to

01:31:15.200 interact

01:31:15.620 with like

01:31:15.980 um

01:31:16.440 and then

01:31:16.960 I moved

01:31:17.220 back to

01:31:17.580 Montana

01:31:18.040 um

01:31:18.980 when I

01:31:19.320 was done

01:31:19.720 with school

01:31:20.340 and there

01:31:20.900 were just

01:31:21.200 no guys

01:31:22.100 there

01:31:22.780 I was in

01:31:23.880 like a

01:31:24.120 very small

01:31:24.580 church

01:31:25.080 in the

01:31:25.600 mountains

01:31:25.860 and so

01:31:26.980 I moved

01:31:27.780 to Denver

01:31:28.680 um

01:31:29.960 to go

01:31:30.420 to grad

01:31:30.900 school

01:31:31.280 but

01:31:32.400 intentionally

01:31:33.640 was like

01:31:34.500 okay I

01:31:34.860 need to

01:31:35.100 find

01:31:35.380 someone

01:31:35.800 and I

01:31:36.460 need to

01:31:36.720 go to

01:31:37.000 a place

01:31:37.360 where there

01:31:37.640 were more

01:31:38.000 options

01:31:38.660 um

01:31:39.860 and I

01:31:40.140 found Denver

01:31:40.560 to be a

01:31:40.940 very hard

01:31:41.300 place to

01:31:41.780 date

01:31:42.080 um

01:31:42.920 I went

01:31:43.480 out

01:31:43.860 I was on

01:31:44.320 Hinge

01:31:44.580 a couple

01:31:44.940 times

01:31:45.420 I went

01:31:46.000 out with

01:31:46.300 a few

01:31:46.600 guys

01:31:47.160 um

01:31:48.180 and those

01:31:49.300 relationships

01:31:49.760 lasted like

01:31:50.400 a couple

01:31:50.700 weeks

01:31:51.040 like I

01:31:51.380 had a

01:31:51.680 pretty

01:31:51.900 strict

01:31:52.460 I was

01:31:53.800 vetting

01:31:54.120 people

01:31:54.440 pretty

01:31:54.740 strictly

01:31:55.240 um

01:31:56.220 and then

01:31:56.540 I met

01:31:56.820 my husband

01:31:57.400 he was

01:31:58.400 living in

01:31:58.820 Utah

01:31:59.060 and put

01:31:59.600 his

01:31:59.840 hinge

01:32:00.060 location

01:32:00.560 in

01:32:01.700 Denver

01:32:02.300 and

01:32:03.560 we

01:32:05.140 talked

01:32:05.780 for three

01:32:06.260 hours

01:32:06.580 our first

01:32:07.060 date

01:32:07.340 and I

01:32:07.800 knew I

01:32:08.160 was probably

01:32:08.640 going to

01:32:08.900 marry him

01:32:09.400 and I

01:32:10.100 moved to

01:32:10.640 Utah

01:32:10.900 seven months

01:32:11.560 later

01:32:11.820 and we

01:32:12.020 got engaged

01:32:12.640 and we

01:32:13.400 been married

01:32:13.820 a year

01:32:14.280 so

01:32:15.040 and he

01:32:16.240 was also

01:32:16.720 a virgin

01:32:17.240 when we

01:32:18.540 got married

01:32:19.160 and had

01:32:19.760 dated like

01:32:20.500 two or

01:32:20.920 three times

01:32:21.580 but he

01:32:22.740 was like

01:32:23.160 my first

01:32:23.560 kiss

01:32:24.040 first person

01:32:25.100 I held

01:32:25.380 hands

01:32:25.740 with

01:32:26.100 like

01:32:27.000 oh wow

01:32:27.420 so you

01:32:28.260 were you

01:32:28.580 were a

01:32:28.900 real one

01:32:29.520 yeah

01:32:31.080 which is

01:32:31.800 funny

01:32:32.020 because I

01:32:32.380 read your

01:32:32.740 post

01:32:33.140 I was like

01:32:33.500 I really

01:32:34.080 agree with

01:32:34.700 you

01:32:35.020 um

01:32:35.920 but also

01:32:36.680 like that

01:32:37.020 wasn't my

01:32:37.420 experience

01:32:37.880 and I

01:32:38.200 do know

01:32:38.520 like plenty

01:32:39.420 of other

01:32:39.820 like a lot

01:32:40.360 of my

01:32:40.620 friends

01:32:41.060 were in

01:32:42.100 the same

01:32:42.500 situation

01:32:43.100 as me

01:32:43.460 some of

01:32:43.800 them got

01:32:44.220 married a

01:32:44.720 little bit

01:32:45.040 younger

01:32:45.340 and I

01:32:46.240 wish I

01:32:46.620 would have

01:32:47.000 gotten

01:32:47.220 married

01:32:47.420 younger

01:32:47.760 I tell

01:32:48.280 my sister

01:32:48.740 she's

01:32:49.060 19

01:32:49.500 I'm gonna

01:32:49.920 get married

01:32:50.280 right now

01:32:50.800 get married

01:32:51.420 young

01:32:51.820 because it's

01:32:52.440 just way

01:32:52.820 easier

01:32:53.320 um but

01:32:54.280 this is

01:32:55.060 this was

01:32:55.680 my experience

01:32:56.380 so

01:32:57.160 so

01:32:57.980 question

01:32:58.740 so

01:32:59.200 what age

01:33:00.600 were you

01:33:00.880 when you

01:33:01.100 met your

01:33:01.380 husband

01:33:01.700 you were

01:33:02.060 26

01:33:02.800 it sounds

01:33:03.240 like 27

01:33:03.820 I was

01:33:05.140 28

01:33:06.420 okay

01:33:07.440 and what

01:33:08.460 and what

01:33:09.760 was so

01:33:10.300 in your

01:33:10.560 early 20s

01:33:11.480 like what

01:33:11.960 happened

01:33:12.540 were men

01:33:12.920 not asking

01:33:13.540 you out

01:33:13.900 I mean

01:33:14.080 you're

01:33:14.240 Chicago

01:33:14.900 is such

01:33:15.240 a big

01:33:15.540 city

01:33:15.900 and you're

01:33:16.940 a pretty

01:33:17.200 girl

01:33:17.540 so I

01:33:18.060 just find

01:33:18.540 it hard

01:33:18.880 to believe

01:33:19.360 that men

01:33:19.800 weren't

01:33:20.220 trying

01:33:20.820 you know

01:33:21.520 yeah

01:33:23.240 I would

01:33:24.020 say I

01:33:24.940 I had

01:33:26.180 a lot

01:33:26.500 of like

01:33:26.860 guards up

01:33:27.780 and had

01:33:28.940 a lot

01:33:29.180 of I

01:33:29.580 was dealing

01:33:30.080 with a lot

01:33:30.400 of anxiety

01:33:30.940 I went

01:33:31.540 on one

01:33:32.060 date

01:33:32.600 I think

01:33:33.560 I had

01:33:33.880 two people

01:33:34.260 ask me

01:33:34.680 out in

01:33:35.060 like my

01:33:35.340 four years

01:33:35.800 of college

01:33:36.460 um

01:33:37.560 I also

01:33:38.960 I was in

01:33:39.680 the Midwest

01:33:40.100 and I really

01:33:41.140 didn't want

01:33:41.500 to stay

01:33:41.860 in the Midwest

01:33:42.340 and so

01:33:43.300 like a lot

01:33:44.080 of these guys

01:33:44.600 were like

01:33:45.000 they're

01:33:45.240 saying you

01:33:45.600 become like

01:33:46.000 a pastor

01:33:46.580 in Illinois

01:33:47.400 and I was

01:33:48.560 very much

01:33:49.040 focused on

01:33:49.640 going back

01:33:50.020 to Montana

01:33:50.560 and I

01:33:51.140 wanted to

01:33:51.480 be in the

01:33:51.800 mountains

01:33:52.080 and I

01:33:53.280 I would

01:33:54.860 say it's

01:33:55.680 funny a lot

01:33:56.380 of people

01:33:56.660 a lot of

01:33:57.040 my good

01:33:57.360 friends back

01:33:57.880 then were

01:33:58.280 like yeah

01:33:58.780 you kind

01:33:59.300 of like

01:33:59.660 put up

01:34:00.260 some walls

01:34:01.020 and guys

01:34:01.980 could tell

01:34:02.460 that you

01:34:02.740 had walls

01:34:03.260 up and

01:34:04.260 I realized

01:34:05.060 that in

01:34:05.720 my early

01:34:06.240 20s after

01:34:07.160 I was done

01:34:07.580 with college

01:34:08.320 and realized

01:34:08.880 that I had

01:34:09.460 to make

01:34:09.900 some shifts

01:34:11.020 if I was

01:34:11.820 going to meet

01:34:12.260 someone and

01:34:13.440 so that was

01:34:13.900 like my time

01:34:14.460 in Denver

01:34:14.900 was like I

01:34:15.600 was like I'm

01:34:15.960 just gonna go

01:34:16.460 out with guy

01:34:17.180 to go out

01:34:17.600 with because

01:34:18.140 I was picky

01:34:19.300 so yeah

01:34:21.020 would it be

01:34:21.520 fair would it

01:34:22.180 be fair to

01:34:22.700 say in your

01:34:23.160 early 20s

01:34:24.180 it wasn't a

01:34:24.960 priority to

01:34:25.900 be in a

01:34:26.260 relationship

01:34:26.860 um I would

01:34:30.960 say I really

01:34:31.600 wanted to be

01:34:32.260 in a relationship

01:34:32.800 I had like

01:34:33.460 crushes on guys

01:34:34.220 all the time

01:34:34.960 I just was

01:34:35.900 like I was

01:34:36.860 not confident

01:34:37.760 I think

01:34:38.440 confidence was

01:34:39.300 a big issue

01:34:39.920 and I didn't

01:34:41.600 I felt safer

01:34:44.260 to be in

01:34:44.900 friendships

01:34:45.460 with girls

01:34:46.220 like I didn't

01:34:47.060 really have a

01:34:47.560 lot of like

01:34:47.980 guy friendships

01:34:48.580 and I didn't

01:34:49.120 really know

01:34:49.420 how to interact

01:34:50.200 with with

01:34:50.860 men in

01:34:51.440 general

01:34:51.780 so um

01:34:53.800 I guess

01:34:54.380 but when

01:34:54.900 like later

01:34:55.680 in the story

01:34:56.400 you just

01:34:56.780 sounded like

01:34:57.260 you were on

01:34:57.620 a mission

01:34:58.060 more to

01:34:58.700 find a

01:34:59.140 husband

01:34:59.380 and that

01:35:00.060 was your

01:35:00.400 priority

01:35:00.960 and I'd

01:35:01.780 say your

01:35:02.060 actions sort

01:35:02.740 of matched

01:35:03.340 so it just

01:35:03.820 seems like

01:35:04.380 in your

01:35:04.640 early 20s

01:35:05.400 that wasn't

01:35:06.080 like is that

01:35:06.820 fair to say

01:35:07.760 yeah

01:35:08.300 you know

01:35:08.720 yeah I would

01:35:09.240 say so

01:35:09.740 like it was

01:35:10.700 funny I was

01:35:11.280 like given a

01:35:11.960 book when I

01:35:12.480 turned 18 for

01:35:13.160 my graduation

01:35:13.840 on like becoming

01:35:14.860 like a help

01:35:15.500 meet and I

01:35:16.720 threw it away

01:35:17.620 no way

01:35:18.400 because it

01:35:18.680 bothered me

01:35:20.220 and then

01:35:21.220 and I was

01:35:22.600 like the girl

01:35:23.100 that was like

01:35:23.540 I'm going to

01:35:24.100 go to school

01:35:24.740 and y'all are

01:35:25.520 going to get

01:35:25.840 married

01:35:26.260 yeah and

01:35:27.440 a few years

01:35:28.420 later I was

01:35:29.100 like wow

01:35:29.600 like my best

01:35:30.780 friend's pregnant

01:35:31.420 with her fourth

01:35:31.940 baby and like

01:35:32.980 happily married

01:35:33.740 and um I was

01:35:36.060 like I just

01:35:36.440 wish I wish I

01:35:37.860 hadn't believed

01:35:38.420 a lot of lies

01:35:39.440 or felt like

01:35:40.260 I had to

01:35:41.120 do something

01:35:41.640 different when

01:35:43.100 you know her

01:35:43.980 life is just

01:35:44.620 as fruitful

01:35:45.200 um and I

01:35:47.520 yeah so I

01:35:48.160 think I had

01:35:48.640 to like come

01:35:49.100 to terms with

01:35:49.640 that which is

01:35:50.060 why I encourage

01:35:50.600 people to get

01:35:51.120 married younger

01:35:51.860 because I think

01:35:52.440 it's just easier

01:35:53.280 but yeah I

01:35:54.220 would say like

01:35:54.940 by the time I

01:35:55.860 was in my

01:35:56.200 mid-20s I

01:35:57.120 was like I

01:35:57.480 have to take

01:35:57.980 this really

01:35:58.360 seriously

01:35:58.960 yeah and

01:36:00.120 the only way

01:36:01.140 to meet people

01:36:02.000 now is really

01:36:02.740 online and it

01:36:03.740 was like 2022

01:36:04.720 too when I

01:36:05.800 had that

01:36:06.840 yeah had that

01:36:07.800 decision making

01:36:08.760 process too

01:36:09.680 yeah no I

01:36:10.620 mean you know

01:36:11.960 that's how people

01:36:12.860 are meeting so

01:36:13.780 it makes sense

01:36:14.760 like I don't

01:36:15.240 think there's

01:36:15.600 any shame in

01:36:16.160 it no I

01:36:18.580 don't think so

01:36:19.060 anymore I

01:36:19.540 think there was

01:36:20.220 like when I

01:36:20.660 was in college

01:36:21.260 my friends and

01:36:22.560 I created a

01:36:23.160 farmer's only

01:36:23.780 account as like

01:36:24.520 a joke you

01:36:25.620 know and it

01:36:26.160 was like when

01:36:26.600 I turn 30

01:36:27.320 that's when I

01:36:27.940 go on online

01:36:28.720 dating and

01:36:29.680 then it kind

01:36:30.280 of yeah well

01:36:31.400 you it sounds

01:36:32.820 like you had to

01:36:33.440 swallow a bit of

01:36:34.180 pride

01:36:34.600 right because

01:36:35.540 it's almost

01:36:36.100 like the ego

01:36:37.000 of no I

01:36:37.380 don't want to

01:36:37.780 go online but

01:36:38.740 then you know

01:36:40.200 right yeah

01:36:42.120 yeah okay

01:36:42.800 wait so why

01:36:43.680 do you think

01:36:44.120 that you

01:36:44.620 believe it

01:36:45.540 were your

01:36:45.940 parent you

01:36:46.400 were homeschooled

01:36:47.340 so why did

01:36:47.860 you did you

01:36:48.980 feel like did

01:36:49.540 they shove it

01:36:50.040 down your

01:36:50.420 throat like

01:36:50.980 what made

01:36:51.360 you believe

01:36:52.060 the feminism

01:36:53.820 lie instead of

01:36:54.660 like the

01:36:54.940 helpmate book

01:36:55.680 yeah so my

01:36:58.580 mom was a

01:36:59.980 nurse and

01:37:00.820 she quit her

01:37:02.180 nursing career

01:37:03.060 to like stay

01:37:04.520 home my

01:37:05.280 dad she

01:37:05.880 never wanted

01:37:06.380 to homeschool

01:37:06.840 my dad

01:37:07.200 asked her

01:37:07.600 to homeschool

01:37:08.200 and she

01:37:09.600 did it and

01:37:10.780 she was

01:37:11.200 awesome she

01:37:12.680 homeschooled

01:37:13.040 24 years and

01:37:14.500 she always

01:37:14.960 talks about how

01:37:15.620 her greatest

01:37:16.200 regret was

01:37:16.840 losing her

01:37:17.340 nursing license

01:37:18.160 and so both

01:37:20.200 my parents would

01:37:20.900 have said like

01:37:21.380 we want you to

01:37:21.900 do what God

01:37:22.500 wants you to

01:37:23.060 do you know

01:37:23.900 like that was

01:37:24.560 kind of what

01:37:25.040 they said but

01:37:26.000 underneath I

01:37:27.140 did feel like

01:37:27.700 there was a

01:37:28.140 pressure for me

01:37:29.260 to be able to

01:37:29.760 like take care

01:37:30.340 of myself and

01:37:32.160 have a job and

01:37:33.760 so I think

01:37:34.740 that was also

01:37:35.860 prioritized as

01:37:37.320 well as just

01:37:37.900 like people are

01:37:38.760 like oh what

01:37:39.140 are you gonna

01:37:39.440 do what are

01:37:39.980 you gonna do

01:37:40.560 and it

01:37:42.240 wasn't enough

01:37:43.480 to just be

01:37:44.000 like I want

01:37:44.400 to be a mom

01:37:45.020 and I want

01:37:45.380 to stay at

01:37:45.760 home and

01:37:46.400 like raise

01:37:46.900 babies and

01:37:48.020 cook and

01:37:48.600 clean and

01:37:49.760 so it's

01:37:50.860 funny now too

01:37:51.640 because I got

01:37:52.620 a master's

01:37:53.200 degree in

01:37:53.740 clinical mental

01:37:54.380 health and I

01:37:55.440 practiced for

01:37:56.160 eight months and

01:37:56.940 I quit in

01:37:57.600 May and now

01:37:58.920 I work part

01:37:59.760 time teaching

01:38:00.460 piano and I

01:38:01.780 like make

01:38:02.340 dinner for my

01:38:02.880 husband who

01:38:03.280 comes home and

01:38:03.960 I'm like way

01:38:04.460 more happy I'm

01:38:05.560 way happier and

01:38:07.080 content and I'm

01:38:08.200 like well I

01:38:09.280 like wasted a

01:38:10.180 lot of time

01:38:10.600 going to school

01:38:11.240 to do now what

01:38:13.440 I actually want

01:38:14.220 to do hopefully

01:38:15.540 start a family as

01:38:16.420 soon as possible

01:38:17.400 but yeah so I

01:38:20.320 think it was

01:38:20.820 lies and some

01:38:21.860 pride and then

01:38:23.660 I think there was

01:38:24.180 just some fear in

01:38:25.180 some ways it was

01:38:26.200 just easier to do

01:38:27.440 whatever I wanted

01:38:28.280 to do versus

01:38:29.500 like realizing

01:38:30.480 like marriage

01:38:32.160 is a sacrifice

01:38:32.920 and learning to

01:38:33.840 like give up

01:38:34.840 my my dreams

01:38:36.500 or things that I

01:38:37.140 wanted to do

01:38:37.800 for the sake of

01:38:38.660 someone else

01:38:39.400 and I think when

01:38:40.980 you're 20 that

01:38:42.140 seems a lot more

01:38:42.960 daunting than now

01:38:44.300 later I'm like well

01:38:45.260 that was kind of

01:38:45.960 fun but not really

01:38:46.740 like I could go

01:38:48.460 back again it was

01:38:49.600 like all the times

01:38:50.600 being single or

01:38:51.480 going to parties

01:38:52.500 or being able to

01:38:54.380 watch whatever I

01:38:55.020 want on TV isn't

01:38:56.360 actually that worth

01:38:57.240 it so so you

01:38:58.860 mentioned your

01:38:59.460 friends from you

01:39:00.440 was that like a

01:39:01.040 community okay

01:39:01.980 yeah yeah I

01:39:04.760 would say about

01:39:05.360 70% of the people

01:39:07.240 I went well I

01:39:08.520 say I went to

01:39:09.220 high school with

01:39:09.820 but like did life

01:39:10.780 with all got

01:39:11.620 married pretty

01:39:12.240 quickly out of

01:39:12.880 high school and

01:39:13.840 are still there and

01:39:15.140 have families and

01:39:16.040 you're around 30

01:39:17.600 years old 29 30

01:39:19.520 30 okay and none

01:39:21.220 of them have

01:39:21.680 gotten divorced

01:39:22.460 no there was one

01:39:26.500 crazy girl and she

01:39:28.360 got married and she

01:39:29.780 went he she didn't

01:39:30.860 want kids and he

01:39:31.660 wanted kids and they

01:39:33.340 split up she was a

01:39:34.780 few years younger me

01:39:35.600 than me but yeah she

01:39:37.600 was the and so

01:39:38.620 they one that I know

01:39:39.300 of so they've all

01:39:39.900 been married like

01:39:40.540 seven years ish now

01:39:42.080 six ten okay okay

01:39:44.080 yeah some friends 10

01:39:45.300 to 12 years I grew

01:39:47.400 up in like my dad's

01:39:49.080 family he's one of

01:39:50.000 five and then

01:39:51.320 there's 15 grandkids

01:39:52.500 and there's one

01:39:53.120 divorce yeah out

01:39:54.700 of all the couples

01:39:55.840 so so are they done

01:39:57.500 having kids or are

01:39:58.760 they still having

01:39:59.380 them because you

01:40:00.480 can tell I just

01:40:01.500 know because I

01:40:02.340 follow this stuff

01:40:03.160 you can tell when

01:40:04.400 the youngest kids

01:40:05.200 around five if they

01:40:06.720 stay together they

01:40:07.460 don't so I'm just

01:40:08.920 wondering if they've

01:40:09.520 made it past that or

01:40:10.340 not yet um not

01:40:13.020 wish not not wishing

01:40:14.220 either way I'm just

01:40:15.080 wondering no like

01:40:17.680 my one of my best

01:40:19.000 friends she's about

01:40:20.400 to have her fourth

01:40:21.260 baby and they

01:40:22.240 wanted six and now

01:40:23.620 she's gonna like

01:40:24.360 take a break she

01:40:25.360 was married uh I

01:40:27.120 was in college it

01:40:27.940 was like 2013 it

01:40:29.540 was like a 10 or

01:40:30.220 11 years so 2014

01:40:33.360 and um and are the

01:40:36.260 parents part of the

01:40:37.480 vetting process where

01:40:38.580 you're from like was

01:40:39.500 your dad a part of

01:40:40.700 vetting your husband

01:40:41.480 how did that work

01:40:42.420 yeah that's been an

01:40:44.960 interesting conversation

01:40:45.960 um my dad talked

01:40:48.840 strictly like he's

01:40:50.320 you know kind of

01:40:51.140 like the joke about

01:40:51.880 the shotgun dad and

01:40:53.060 on the front porch

01:40:53.920 but he actually

01:40:55.000 really wasn't like I

01:40:56.260 probably could have

01:40:57.020 gotten away with

01:40:57.660 dating in high school

01:40:58.680 but I was he said

01:41:00.340 no and I was a

01:41:01.940 real follower and I

01:41:02.760 was like okay I'm

01:41:03.280 just not I'm not

01:41:04.200 gonna date and he

01:41:05.160 and my mom were

01:41:05.800 best they were good

01:41:07.180 friends and then

01:41:08.280 they just got married

01:41:09.180 like they didn't

01:41:09.800 really date in like

01:41:11.240 the early 90s late

01:41:12.660 80s and so um he

01:41:15.440 always made it

01:41:16.260 clear though that

01:41:16.940 he wanted the man

01:41:17.960 to ask him yeah

01:41:19.640 uh before he dated

01:41:20.800 me and so my

01:41:22.400 husband did that

01:41:23.080 like we had known

01:41:24.040 each other two weeks

01:41:24.940 and he called my

01:41:25.720 dad um and that

01:41:27.540 was that made a

01:41:28.600 really good impression

01:41:29.260 on my dad um and

01:41:30.740 I was just really

01:41:31.240 thankful that he

01:41:32.140 wanted to incorporate

01:41:32.960 my family um I

01:41:35.180 would say like the

01:41:36.140 courtship model was

01:41:38.000 used a lot more

01:41:38.660 often when I was in

01:41:39.660 high school it just

01:41:41.000 gets weird when

01:41:42.000 you're older and

01:41:43.660 you live in a

01:41:44.080 different state and

01:41:45.300 you're like I

01:41:45.720 don't know like I'm

01:41:46.800 still making I'm

01:41:47.780 making no independent

01:41:48.580 decisions without

01:41:49.400 him and so ideally

01:41:51.940 I feel like that's

01:41:53.900 what should happen

01:41:54.640 he asked my dad if

01:41:55.700 he can marry me um

01:41:57.520 so yeah yeah I

01:42:00.260 mean I I don't

01:42:01.260 know how you would

01:42:01.940 do a traditional

01:42:02.980 model completely in

01:42:04.460 your mid-20s that

01:42:05.500 that's good luck um

01:42:07.680 I was just curious if

01:42:09.500 your friends that

01:42:10.220 married younger if

01:42:11.320 the parents like knew

01:42:12.560 each other were they

01:42:13.400 from the hometown

01:42:14.300 did they meet in

01:42:15.040 college I'm just

01:42:17.020 wondering like your

01:42:17.760 friends where did

01:42:18.520 they meet yeah some

01:42:20.720 of them were high

01:42:21.280 school sweethearts like

01:42:23.040 they met a youth

01:42:23.740 group in church and

01:42:24.720 then they got married

01:42:25.540 right away out of

01:42:26.400 high school um my

01:42:29.140 friend my best friend

01:42:30.440 got she and her

01:42:31.880 husband were both

01:42:32.680 homeschooled at the

01:42:33.420 same time but they

01:42:34.200 never met and like he

01:42:36.500 walked into her coffee

01:42:37.440 shop and she was a

01:42:38.280 barista and he

01:42:38.980 started flirting with

01:42:39.880 her and they were

01:42:40.860 married like a year

01:42:41.580 later um so I

01:42:43.380 I would say like

01:42:44.820 connections with

01:42:45.600 churches um I

01:42:47.920 have her family

01:42:48.920 wasn't super

01:42:49.780 involved um but

01:42:51.840 his was um I

01:42:53.980 I think it just

01:42:54.680 yeah just kind of

01:42:55.580 depended on on the

01:42:57.040 couple um but

01:42:59.680 yeah for sure and

01:43:01.280 did most of them

01:43:02.100 wait till they were

01:43:02.900 married too on both

01:43:04.420 ends like if you

01:43:05.720 had to guess a

01:43:06.560 percentage obviously

01:43:07.500 that's personal and

01:43:08.400 you'll never really

01:43:09.240 know but if you

01:43:11.060 you know it's not

01:43:12.020 like you're there

01:43:12.740 right but but if

01:43:14.380 you had to guess

01:43:15.140 uh yeah I would

01:43:19.560 say like 70%

01:43:20.980 wow that's really

01:43:22.220 high yeah wow

01:43:25.620 that would be my

01:43:26.520 guess based on like

01:43:27.520 the based on my

01:43:28.820 chat's gonna want

01:43:29.740 to go find their

01:43:30.600 virgin bride there

01:43:31.660 go move to

01:43:33.340 Montana they're like

01:43:35.560 where is this

01:43:36.400 although by the time

01:43:39.360 I got the back

01:43:40.300 after four years I

01:43:41.440 was like oh the

01:43:42.100 there's not as many

01:43:43.680 options as there

01:43:44.880 once were when I

01:43:45.780 was 18 so

01:43:46.800 they're asking why

01:43:48.660 you didn't date

01:43:49.700 anyone in the town

01:43:51.140 was there no one

01:43:51.680 you liked in like

01:43:52.440 high school or

01:43:53.180 anything

01:43:53.640 there were guys I

01:43:56.300 liked but I

01:43:57.340 didn't I just was

01:43:59.220 like I knew I was

01:44:00.140 gonna go to college

01:44:00.920 and I was like it's

01:44:02.260 gonna be a waste of

01:44:02.960 my time to date if

01:44:04.720 I'm not gonna get

01:44:05.360 married like I

01:44:06.380 knew that dating

01:44:07.260 was meant for

01:44:08.220 marriage and I

01:44:09.120 didn't want to

01:44:09.460 waste my time or

01:44:11.000 someone else's time

01:44:12.120 and so that was

01:44:14.240 why I didn't date

01:44:14.800 and I wasn't really

01:44:15.740 allowed to if I had

01:44:17.040 been 18 and I had

01:44:18.200 stayed home that

01:44:19.640 would have been fine

01:44:20.500 but I left pretty

01:44:21.620 quickly and then by

01:44:23.060 the time I came back

01:44:24.020 I was 22 and there

01:44:28.340 were just not there

01:44:29.620 were not as many

01:44:30.260 options um

01:44:31.780 yeah I think I

01:44:35.220 went on like one

01:44:36.080 or maybe one or

01:44:36.840 two dates so

01:44:38.260 did you have any

01:44:39.380 debt from getting

01:44:40.560 your master's at

01:44:41.440 all I actually

01:44:43.140 didn't wow you

01:44:45.120 were like a

01:44:45.600 unicorn no debt

01:44:46.880 that was the first

01:44:49.220 thing my husband

01:44:49.780 asked me on her

01:44:50.480 date that's a good

01:44:53.340 chat that's how men

01:44:54.660 think that's what the

01:44:55.280 chat say they're

01:44:56.260 like did she have

01:44:57.000 debt did she have

01:44:57.780 debt yeah no that's

01:44:58.800 a good question no

01:44:59.680 he asked every hard

01:45:00.560 question to like

01:45:01.680 he said like

01:45:02.740 shocking things to

01:45:03.780 roll me out so if

01:45:05.300 I was yeah not an

01:45:06.860 option no I I had

01:45:09.940 a grandfather who

01:45:10.960 left a trust fund

01:45:12.180 like going back I'm

01:45:13.340 like I would have

01:45:13.880 taken that cash over

01:45:14.960 the degree I like

01:45:16.400 buy a house with

01:45:18.440 that money instead

01:45:19.620 um but no no debt

01:45:22.400 thankfully and have

01:45:24.840 you did you watch

01:45:25.820 the archetypes I was

01:45:26.980 talking about of

01:45:28.280 virgins you said you

01:45:29.580 kind of agree didn't

01:45:30.800 agree like what was

01:45:31.780 your what was your

01:45:32.900 thought if 70% are

01:45:34.400 virgins you can you

01:45:35.360 can let me know if

01:45:36.100 I'm off no I

01:45:38.060 agreed with you I

01:45:39.120 just was like man I

01:45:39.940 really live in a

01:45:40.680 bubble like I I go

01:45:43.360 to a more I go to

01:45:44.860 like a patriarchal

01:45:45.800 style church so most

01:45:47.060 of these women are

01:45:47.980 like no one goes none

01:45:49.420 of their kids go to

01:45:50.080 public school we're

01:45:51.200 like baking bread you

01:45:52.800 know we're reading

01:45:53.400 like literature books

01:45:54.840 and book clubs and so

01:45:56.100 I just realized how

01:45:57.460 much of a bubble I was

01:45:58.460 in because it's not

01:45:59.520 that I didn't it's

01:46:00.800 not that I disagreed

01:46:01.660 with you because I

01:46:02.400 did go to grad school

01:46:03.420 and I did see more

01:46:05.160 of that I just I just

01:46:07.480 was kind of shocked

01:46:08.520 and I was like oh I'm

01:46:09.700 kind of weird yeah

01:46:11.720 yeah um the what so

01:46:18.360 you said it's a

01:46:18.960 patriarchal church how

01:46:21.060 do they deal with is

01:46:22.000 there ever divorces in

01:46:23.360 it and how do they deal

01:46:24.500 with it because I I'd

01:46:26.600 imagine it can't be a

01:46:27.540 hundred percent

01:46:28.180 divorce free right

01:46:29.440 there has to be at

01:46:30.120 least one I have not

01:46:33.000 been there since I've

01:46:34.240 been there a year over

01:46:35.120 a year and there

01:46:35.740 haven't been any

01:46:36.380 divorces as far as I

01:46:38.080 know they're not

01:46:39.460 again completely

01:46:40.480 against divorce I

01:46:41.380 think it depends on

01:46:42.100 the situation um so

01:46:44.620 I think some of the

01:46:46.380 issues that we're

01:46:47.140 seeing in terms of

01:46:48.100 like like you're

01:46:49.540 talking about like

01:46:50.040 the women Instagram

01:46:51.260 like purity like the

01:46:53.340 culture a lot of most

01:46:55.340 modern evangelicals

01:46:56.620 have like a

01:46:57.120 complementarian or

01:46:58.360 egalitarian view of

01:47:00.960 gender roles and

01:47:02.400 complementarian was

01:47:03.540 like a term created

01:47:04.700 after like this actual

01:47:06.720 revolution um to

01:47:08.800 basically be like we

01:47:10.740 don't really we kind

01:47:12.500 of believe in male

01:47:13.140 headship but we

01:47:15.080 can't really use the

01:47:16.200 word patriarchal and

01:47:17.940 so we're just going to

01:47:18.860 be like men and

01:47:20.000 women are equal before

01:47:22.560 God but like

01:47:24.020 complement each other

01:47:25.540 and so what happens

01:47:27.040 is like my parents

01:47:28.940 would be like okay my

01:47:29.900 mom's gonna submit to

01:47:31.100 my dad and you know

01:47:33.980 there shouldn't be

01:47:34.820 women pastors but it's

01:47:37.140 not really extended

01:47:38.200 beyond that where my

01:47:41.540 husband and I have like

01:47:43.420 pretty clear views is

01:47:44.500 like I think that like

01:47:47.220 me being a woman I have

01:47:49.120 like duties as a woman

01:47:50.540 and he has duties as a

01:47:52.060 man and um that

01:47:56.180 involves what we do

01:47:57.580 in our home but also

01:47:59.220 what happens in the

01:48:00.160 church and so um I'm

01:48:03.220 thankful for a church

01:48:04.140 too that like if

01:48:05.740 something were to

01:48:06.520 happen between us

01:48:07.620 there's like

01:48:08.040 accountability because

01:48:09.060 we took membership

01:48:09.800 vows and so um they're

01:48:13.060 like just as hard on

01:48:14.640 women as they are on

01:48:15.620 men in terms of like

01:48:17.120 sin issues and know

01:48:18.400 that like women tend to

01:48:19.440 struggle with different

01:48:20.080 sins and men do and

01:48:21.600 we we're gonna call

01:48:22.540 those out equally um

01:48:24.400 so you went to a

01:48:26.600 different church like

01:48:27.980 in your home like it

01:48:29.540 was a different type of

01:48:30.680 church it wasn't as

01:48:31.600 patriarchal you're

01:48:32.720 saying it's funny

01:48:34.820 because I would say my

01:48:35.660 parents lived out

01:48:36.420 pretty patriarchal

01:48:37.440 marriage yeah um

01:48:39.000 but I I wouldn't say

01:48:41.400 that they would they

01:48:42.560 wouldn't have used

01:48:43.440 that that language

01:48:44.900 yeah um and and we

01:48:49.360 would we we use that

01:48:50.580 language well it's kind

01:48:51.560 of provocative but I

01:48:52.900 think it makes a point

01:48:53.880 because I I would like

01:48:55.700 to separate myself

01:48:56.560 probably from the rest

01:48:57.520 of like modern

01:48:58.140 evangelical culture and

01:48:59.980 saying that no men and

01:49:02.420 women are different and

01:49:04.080 that I in my marriage I

01:49:07.040 have a duties to my

01:49:08.240 husband we're not just

01:49:09.280 like pals and we're just

01:49:10.780 gonna like get along and

01:49:11.800 be like buddy buddy

01:49:13.460 like no he's like

01:49:15.380 expecting me to make

01:49:16.360 him dinner and like

01:49:17.680 wash his clothes and

01:49:19.860 that's like a way that

01:49:20.860 I can serve and

01:49:21.560 sacrifice for him as

01:49:23.440 he's like driving to

01:49:24.760 work every day and

01:49:25.460 putting food on our

01:49:26.240 table and so were

01:49:27.860 there were there

01:49:28.640 divorces in the church

01:49:30.180 before was gonna be my

01:49:31.460 question I'm just

01:49:32.700 wondering how they

01:49:33.740 handled them in that

01:49:34.680 church and like your

01:49:35.640 hometown um in my

01:49:39.360 hometown well I went to

01:49:41.780 like a larger like

01:49:42.900 southern Baptist church

01:49:43.960 and they did not

01:49:44.480 handle divorce super

01:49:45.440 well um that's

01:49:48.120 different than the

01:49:48.680 church I'm attending

01:49:49.580 now I've kind of I

01:49:50.640 shifted denominationally

01:49:52.180 and I've gone more

01:49:53.140 reformed um what do

01:49:54.880 you mean they didn't

01:49:55.820 handle it very well

01:49:57.060 like what do you I

01:49:58.180 mean I would just say

01:49:59.300 there was like no

01:50:00.100 accountability it was

01:50:01.640 like oh you got

01:50:02.420 divorced that's a

01:50:03.300 bummer where if if I

01:50:08.520 if I cheated and my

01:50:11.140 husband went to the

01:50:11.880 elders I would go

01:50:13.340 under church

01:50:13.820 discipline and if I

01:50:15.900 didn't repent I would

01:50:17.120 be excommunicated and

01:50:18.900 there would be

01:50:19.440 consequences for my

01:50:20.860 actions and churches

01:50:22.540 just don't do church

01:50:23.380 discipline anymore so

01:50:24.840 would would he have to

01:50:26.820 could he divorce you on

01:50:27.920 those grounds in your

01:50:29.020 church oh yeah he

01:50:30.940 could and they would

01:50:32.000 be okay with that

01:50:32.920 yeah I would think so

01:50:37.000 I especially if I

01:50:38.020 wasn't if I

01:50:39.260 repented and wanted

01:50:41.240 to work it out and

01:50:42.740 there was like clear

01:50:43.560 signs of me repenting

01:50:44.960 there probably would be

01:50:46.180 like a trial period

01:50:47.320 that would be my guess

01:50:48.800 yeah I know that they

01:50:50.120 have I knew I know

01:50:51.760 they've excommunicated

01:50:52.640 people in the past but

01:50:55.840 there was no repentance

01:50:56.740 like the people just kind

01:50:57.800 of left and I would

01:50:59.040 assume that would happen

01:50:59.940 to like most like

01:51:01.340 evangelical women who

01:51:02.820 are cheating like they

01:51:04.260 don't want to be

01:51:04.700 accountable and it's

01:51:05.740 easy to hide in a big

01:51:06.620 church where you just

01:51:08.260 see the pastor on a

01:51:09.100 screen versus being

01:51:10.380 accountable to an

01:51:11.100 elder who calls you

01:51:12.400 once a week to see

01:51:13.120 how you're doing and

01:51:13.960 if you're if your

01:51:15.660 husband wanted you to

01:51:16.740 switch churches would

01:51:17.880 you do it yeah yeah

01:51:20.300 nice yeah yeah so

01:51:22.940 the other question what

01:51:25.020 do you think of Nala

01:51:25.980 did you see Nala at

01:51:27.720 all I did see Nala

01:51:30.100 I don't know I really

01:51:33.540 want to give the benefit

01:51:34.420 of the doubt and like

01:51:35.900 pray I believe that

01:51:38.180 like the Lord can

01:51:39.060 change people's hearts

01:51:40.020 and that the Holy

01:51:40.760 Spirit can transform

01:51:41.800 people I and I do

01:51:43.960 realize that like when

01:51:45.420 you have a past there's

01:51:46.880 like things that you're

01:51:47.960 gonna struggle with I

01:51:49.720 think more of my issue

01:51:50.860 is I would have wanted

01:51:53.160 to see her just take a

01:51:54.120 break from social media

01:51:55.260 and like figure out all

01:51:58.120 of her stuff before

01:51:59.280 posting things on social

01:52:01.620 media it felt more like

01:52:03.280 she's trying to get

01:52:04.400 attention rather than

01:52:06.320 pursue purity or

01:52:09.120 holiness and figure out

01:52:10.780 her relationship with

01:52:11.720 with God so yeah that

01:52:13.800 would be my my quick

01:52:14.820 take on that okay I

01:52:16.660 agree I agree I would

01:52:19.360 like to see her put on a

01:52:20.280 bra but I don't know

01:52:22.040 that was my two cents

01:52:23.600 um I think that's all my

01:52:25.980 questions I have um do you

01:52:27.880 have any other thoughts on

01:52:28.820 the topic they're gonna

01:52:31.500 they're gonna want to

01:52:32.300 know this church they can

01:52:33.520 go to to find their

01:52:34.340 virgin actually I have

01:52:35.980 one more I just thought

01:52:36.900 of what percent of the

01:52:38.840 women in the church would

01:52:40.040 you say are marrying

01:52:40.820 under 25 in the church

01:52:42.740 you're at

01:52:43.180 um that's hard because I

01:52:52.300 know a lot of people who

01:52:54.120 okay I'll give you this

01:52:55.800 we my husband and I

01:52:56.980 hosted a singles mixer at

01:52:58.760 our church um people

01:53:00.880 from other places around

01:53:02.280 the country came we had

01:53:03.120 80 single people yeah

01:53:05.880 no one can escape it

01:53:07.480 huh between 80 and 46

01:53:10.160 came um a lot of the

01:53:12.820 people some of our

01:53:13.980 people from our church

01:53:14.800 have moved there like in

01:53:16.560 the last two years so I'm

01:53:17.800 not exactly sure how old

01:53:19.680 they were when they got

01:53:20.460 married but like our path

01:53:22.220 the majority of our

01:53:23.360 pastors and their wives

01:53:24.440 got married at like 19 20

01:53:26.020 and I've been married for

01:53:27.440 like 15 to 20 years so I

01:53:29.220 would say pretty young I

01:53:31.060 would say my husband and

01:53:31.920 I are are kind of odd in

01:53:34.620 that number in terms of

01:53:36.580 like ages because most a

01:53:38.380 lot of people are in their

01:53:39.320 30s and have yeah so I'm

01:53:41.300 not talking about

01:53:42.220 millennials um okay I'm

01:53:44.100 talking about like the

01:53:45.080 gen z so the though

01:53:47.480 because I'm the youngest

01:53:48.480 millennial by like I would

01:53:49.880 be gen z if I was a month

01:53:51.460 older or like younger

01:53:53.280 sorry um but so I'm 28 so

01:53:57.380 people under 28 okay

01:53:59.640 people under 28 um because

01:54:03.100 when I when I was in a

01:54:04.200 protestant church I just I

01:54:05.980 didn't find that the young

01:54:07.020 people were marrying it or

01:54:08.380 any sooner it would be

01:54:09.440 like the best looking men

01:54:11.820 and women would marry so

01:54:13.960 like the hottest guy would

01:54:15.460 get the hottest girl the hot

01:54:17.380 like of the like younger

01:54:19.240 people it would be like

01:54:20.240 two or three couples and

01:54:21.680 that the rest would kind

01:54:23.440 of stick it out until they

01:54:24.720 had to I don't know if

01:54:25.780 that's your experience

01:54:26.720 that's just mine

01:54:27.660 no I I agree with that I

01:54:32.080 just think yeah like I

01:54:33.480 talked to a single girl

01:54:34.580 last night and I was

01:54:36.240 like are you gonna get

01:54:36.840 married she's like I think

01:54:38.020 God's calling me to just

01:54:39.320 focus on my career so I

01:54:41.260 go okay I don't necessarily

01:54:44.000 how to respond to that

01:54:45.000 there's a handful of

01:54:46.560 single people at our church

01:54:47.880 like our pastor son he's

01:54:50.280 17 and he's engaged he'll

01:54:52.920 turn 18 this summer and

01:54:54.220 get married right away so

01:54:55.660 I think but he's like the

01:54:57.640 oldest in all these kids

01:54:59.080 who are coming up where

01:55:00.080 there is like an intention

01:55:01.720 for people to get married

01:55:02.940 and have lots of kids so

01:55:04.340 um the single people who

01:55:07.800 are there are like 23 and

01:55:10.660 up yeah and are trying to

01:55:12.400 find someone and it's been

01:55:13.520 hard so I don't necessarily

01:55:15.660 a lot of people in that

01:55:16.860 age demographic they're

01:55:18.160 like younger than 25 most

01:55:20.400 of those people I feel

01:55:21.320 like are it's easier to

01:55:23.080 get married and find

01:55:23.840 someone you'd say that by

01:55:25.820 30 most of them marry would

01:55:27.600 you say like more than 50%

01:55:29.120 yeah yeah okay that's what

01:55:31.700 I would guess too okay well

01:55:33.700 um they're they said you're

01:55:36.280 dodging like what question

01:55:37.360 is she dodging she needs to

01:55:39.820 go sorry they're kind of

01:55:41.560 they wrote they roast me too

01:55:44.060 um okay they will get

01:55:50.180 married to go to bio okay I

01:55:52.480 see uh hold on sorry dudes

01:55:56.140 but women don't like old men

01:55:57.960 is there an age gap in these

01:56:00.000 churches would you say like is

01:56:03.040 there age gap in dating or do

01:56:04.360 most people date the same age

01:56:05.760 um I like my husband's six

01:56:10.440 years older than me I found

01:56:12.900 like men are usually the old

01:56:14.220 older depending or there's the

01:56:17.400 same age so like uh our

01:56:19.100 pastor said he's engaged his

01:56:21.560 girlfriend or fiance is a few

01:56:23.360 years older than him which would

01:56:26.180 I would say that's kind of

01:56:27.280 unusual um most of our church

01:56:31.880 like half of them are all kids

01:56:33.960 under five currently so you can

01:56:37.140 ask me in like 15 years

01:56:39.320 okay what's happening the

01:56:41.500 demographic of the next

01:56:42.700 generation yeah let me just

01:56:45.380 make sure there's no questions

01:56:46.980 five one okay I think that's all

01:56:51.780 my questions for you thanks for

01:56:53.340 giving insight I like to get

01:56:54.620 people's stories so now I know

01:56:56.260 what's going on in um Utah you

01:56:58.960 know Montana he said right I'm in

01:57:02.560 Utah here I grew up in Montana

01:57:03.900 but yeah you're right well

01:57:05.880 thanks Pearl this is really

01:57:06.900 fun so thanks for coming on I'm

01:57:09.120 sure I'll message you again if

01:57:10.460 we have a topic that's like

01:57:11.560 relevant so come on again thank

01:57:13.820 you thank you bye-bye um let's

01:57:18.640 see what we got next

01:57:19.840 okay I'm gonna read the chat on

01:57:24.800 the website oh you guys have been

01:57:26.940 going for a bit Pearl oh wait I

01:57:30.280 read that already

01:57:31.040 when Deej and me keep in oh wait

01:57:37.880 Deej is loyal as a Labrador okay

01:57:40.820 wait hold on hold on

01:57:42.340 oh my gosh Dane every show guys

01:57:47.400 join the chat on the website if you

01:57:49.140 want your stuff read um it's 10

01:57:52.840 bucks a month 80 bucks a year I do

01:57:54.480 read the chat on the site I do read

01:57:55.880 sometimes on YouTube but it's got to

01:57:57.780 make me laugh or something Pearl think

01:58:00.080 about it logically if the male gives

01:58:01.740 her his virginity to her and she gives

01:58:04.160 his virginity to him do they both still

01:58:05.760 have the virginity do they cancel out

01:58:07.340 virginity is valued by men because of

01:58:09.920 paternity and because men are

01:58:11.160 territorial and protective of our

01:58:13.440 property this gives virginity value

01:58:15.980 beyond simply being a physical act like

01:58:18.100 sneezing male virginity is a creation of

01:58:21.700 feminists in the Protestant churches that's

01:58:24.880 not to say the premarital sex for men

01:58:27.140 before marriage is in a sin but he's

01:58:28.980 not losing his virginity okay wait I

01:58:31.660 read this let me keep going

01:58:33.580 so even ultra conservative men like me

01:58:40.040 when men will quickly accept a woman who

01:58:42.660 may not be a physical virgin but she

01:58:45.240 displays other signs of virtue and

01:58:47.860 purity Deej and I were 19 she was

01:58:50.260 pregnant when we got married in 1991 but

01:58:52.540 what attracted to me to her was not the

01:58:55.560 question of virginity it was the person

01:58:57.560 she was and that she served and

01:58:59.700 respected me Deej is as loyal as a

01:59:02.340 Labrador retriever and as brilliant as

01:59:04.240 she is she wasn't a know-it-all we fit

01:59:06.980 together like peanut butter and jelly so

01:59:08.800 the question of virginity just wasn't an

01:59:10.620 issue with Deej and me keep in mind that

01:59:12.700 we were only 17 and 18 when we started

01:59:14.520 dating by comparison a stone-cold virgin

01:59:18.120 who is a know-it-all who wants to treat

01:59:19.980 him like a child is a hard pass the

01:59:22.840 batshit crazy virgin who is insufferable

01:59:25.100 will lose out all all of her value as a

01:59:28.200 wife after about 2.3 minutes with a man

01:59:31.400 what's the post not clarity sets in

01:59:33.380 she's undesirable as a skanky woman

01:59:35.840 Elon Musk is above the law because he's

01:59:38.880 so rich with women serving your man is

01:59:40.800 like money in the bank if you deposit

01:59:42.920 enough service then you'll be like Elon

01:59:44.960 Musk you're above non virginity good men

01:59:48.160 prefer virgin women of course they'll

01:59:50.180 overlook a few bad decisions if she is

01:59:52.080 humble feminine agreeable gentle

01:59:53.680 submitted respectful loving kind can

01:59:56.340 cook and can clean virginity was at the

01:59:58.980 seems to be can I bear living with her

02:00:01.000 will she drive me to drinking and will

02:00:02.800 she ever shut up

02:00:03.900 in Protestantism it's a mixed bag when it

02:00:09.760 comes to IVF abortion and other birth

02:00:12.120 control especially us lower Protestants

02:00:14.960 because of feminism and nearly no

02:00:16.800 standards for admission the lack of

02:00:19.640 cohesiveness and Protestantism is what

02:00:22.040 makes me look favorably on Catholicism if

02:00:24.780 only if I could get past a handful of

02:00:27.260 theological issues you should ask a

02:00:29.020 hundred Protestants where they stand on

02:00:30.640 things like abortion and IVF and you'll

02:00:33.000 get at least 50 different answers you

02:00:34.980 know I'm sorry I went to Catholic school

02:00:36.820 you get the same answers from not the

02:00:39.060 men the men have like standards the men

02:00:43.660 have like you know they're like

02:00:45.160 principled they read the book and they're

02:00:46.740 like that's not the book the women are

02:00:48.780 like you know not all not all but the

02:00:51.240 women many of the women the Catholic

02:00:53.080 ladies they're like no I picked that

02:00:55.400 one I like that verse but not that verse

02:00:58.300 not not that one not at all in

02:01:02.080 Protestantism all you need is some guy

02:01:04.520 who can preach and people call him a

02:01:06.300 pastor and you have a new church that's

02:01:08.440 a big problem it's why American church is

02:01:10.380 so weak in Luke 1 it says that Mary was

02:01:12.260 a virgin but she was not chosen because

02:01:14.120 of her virginity Gabriel told it it was

02:01:16.740 because she found favor with God it was

02:01:18.640 about God's choice not her virginity

02:01:21.120 Mary's virginity addresses the question

02:01:24.240 of Jesus being born of the will of a man

02:01:27.440 which would have conferred sin within the

02:01:29.760 context of religion for him to be born

02:01:31.840 sinless she had to be a virgin for her

02:01:34.640 being a virgin was important Dane oh okay

02:01:38.460 they're talking to each other now one guy

02:01:42.500 Pearl Reed there is a women only Facebook

02:01:46.660 are we dating the same guy I actually am

02:01:49.420 in one of those because it's hilarious and

02:01:52.660 I wish I could read it but I don't want to

02:01:54.680 get kicked out of the group and I just I'm

02:01:57.580 very entertained by it it is over five

02:02:00.160 million women on there and become a menace

02:02:02.320 to men's lives and the world over Rich

02:02:05.080 Cooper addressed it before yeah my boyfriend

02:02:11.160 winded up on one of those pages once okay

02:02:15.740 let me keep going Pearl when a bride does

02:02:18.620 not attempt to get along with his family

02:02:20.480 she is really full of herself and it is

02:02:22.560 not above about him or them just her read

02:02:25.140 Pearl I disagree I think women should

02:02:27.060 always be better looking but not much

02:02:28.880 better five to one higher our looks are

02:02:32.080 are what men like about women first and

02:02:34.780 foremost look I like that in concept okay

02:02:37.160 I really do

02:02:37.720 but when I see relationships are in order by

02:02:43.700 the way I don't judge relationships by how

02:02:46.600 long you've been together like there's a

02:02:48.380 couple I know they've been together like

02:02:49.860 20 years

02:02:50.440 but that woman hen packs him every she's

02:02:53.340 always telling him that she makes more

02:02:55.320 money than him

02:02:55.900 and it's the it's the most degrading thing

02:02:59.100 I'm thinking what is wrong with you lady now

02:03:02.020 am I supposed to think that they're a

02:03:04.620 better relationship than the couple that's

02:03:06.600 that together five years and the woman

02:03:09.240 worships him that's the only way it works

02:03:11.740 she has to be obsessed now

02:03:13.440 now

02:03:15.980 that's that's what like what it comes down

02:03:20.740 to whose terms is the relationship on his

02:03:23.840 or hers if it's hers they're going to

02:03:25.180 destruction unfortunately and the thing is

02:03:29.400 now that you know we're not virgins

02:03:31.000 obviously women we're going to date up

02:03:33.340 we're going to date better looking so if

02:03:35.440 she's with a guy that's less good looking

02:03:37.280 than her that means she's dated better

02:03:39.720 looking in the past because

02:03:41.280 you know she's gone for a better looking

02:03:47.100 guy generally speaking if she's not a

02:03:50.440 virgin and oftentimes that leads to the

02:03:53.620 woman not appreciating the guy now

02:03:56.920 sometimes they start off kind of equal

02:03:59.600 and then the guy gets hotter the woman

02:04:01.020 gets uglier it makes sense it makes sense

02:04:03.620 but I think it works better when the

02:04:08.640 woman isn't it's like one to two points

02:04:12.360 lower and you know we see the bachelor

02:04:14.480 out of the three women the least good

02:04:19.260 looking one treated him the best it worked

02:04:23.360 out the best anyways

02:04:24.320 let me see Pearl what are your thoughts

02:04:29.780 on Roma army I don't really have any

02:04:32.900 thoughts like I mean she's fine I don't

02:04:35.120 I know she's made like I've I've seen her

02:04:38.480 tag me in some like videos kind of talking

02:04:43.040 trash I don't really have an opinion I

02:04:44.980 don't I'm sure that this is a problem

02:04:49.360 when I say people's names so you guys

02:04:52.440 do to me I'll do it because you're in

02:04:53.980 my chat but when I say people's names

02:04:56.820 then this gives them another video to

02:04:58.860 Spurg I'm like ah but it's the YouTube

02:05:04.080 game I can't hate on her for it so you go

02:05:07.760 girl okay now I think let me see I might

02:05:24.260 have one more person no I think we're

02:05:31.300 gonna end it today I gotta go play

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JustPearlyThings - January 09, 2025

Why The Modern Churches Love The PERPETUALLY SINGLE VIRGINS ｜ Pearl Daily

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