JustPearlyThings - Why WOMEN dress to ATTRACT MEN

00:00:00.000 do you know um behind makeup like there's biological reasons that we wear them so like

00:00:05.700 so it's like so how can we say it's not for other people when you're signaling sexual arousal

00:00:11.040 i've heard this i don't know where that like is that what it like yeah because it's like during

00:00:15.060 sex your your lips are red that's why there's red lipstick and it's like it's same with yeah 0.91

00:00:19.840 blush on the cheeks your eyes because you look younger yeah more attractive and i heard i heard

00:00:25.780 that women wear red because they put red on what they want men to notice oh interesting yeah so 0.95

00:00:33.400 that's why a woman would wear a red dress and red makeup so like a woman to a man red you see red 1.00

00:00:41.520 from anywhere yeah it's definitely a inciting and you're more likely to wear red when you're ovulating

00:00:47.580 too cute i'm bleeding by the way i'm also red but there's one thing that you there's one thing that

00:00:55.440 you fail to you fail to understand the women's practice um self-objectification where the image

00:01:02.260 that you portray is what we see so if you dress up in a way that suggests that all you want is

00:01:07.960 sex that's what we see yeah but they're yeah but they'll they'll convince themselves but you're gonna 0.51

00:01:15.460 say yeah i'm doing this for myself what do you mean by dress in a way that says i'm wanting sex okay

00:01:22.100 look at this way for me i think the dating dating is a gateway to three marketplaces so you've got

00:01:28.120 the sexual marketplace the relationship marketplace and the marriage marketplace so when the woman 0.98

00:01:31.920 dresses up as a guy at one look at her in five seconds i can tell which of those marketplace she 0.99

00:01:36.860 wants me to see by just looking at the way she dress and most men are like me so how has that worked

00:01:44.380 out for you so far just like not in an offensive way but how is that so you've put these women into 1.00

00:01:49.500 these three categories um how has that worked out for you so far are you now in a you said you're

00:01:55.180 single so has that putting them into those three marketplaces by judging them by the way that they've

00:02:00.020 dressed has that worked out for you well i used to be married i was married for 20 years okay so when

00:02:03.940 that ended i decided okay forget marriage let me just do this sexual marketplace thing okay that was

00:02:09.740 brilliant it was liberating and all that but i then got to the point where i think you know women is 1.00

00:02:14.920 too much trouble but it's true women even the nicest one comes along and because i'm a nice guy 0.93

00:02:20.920 a girl told me that i'm too nice and because of that i'm vulnerable and she's trying to take advantage

00:02:26.000 of me so i'm thinking okay fine i will come and find you when i need you you can't you can't shame him

00:02:31.940 by like implying like that as personal life because that's kind of what you're doing i'll tell you but

00:02:36.360 but i'm saying but i'm saying like like because that's how men are is they they categorize women

00:02:40.380 by like the way you present yourself yeah like the same way girls will categorize men by the way

00:02:45.380 they if they look like a bum or they're wearing a suit and there's another thing that you don't

00:02:49.620 realize when you spend three hours doing yourself up and you come out it's from my point of view it's

00:02:55.840 good for your mental health if i look at you and make comments because otherwise that would be a waste

00:03:00.100 of three hours of your life if i don't say anything it's polite yeah i don't think so do you know what i don't

00:03:05.480 you think so no that's how it works so i see you i think oh she spends so much time let me give a 0.73

00:03:10.240 compliment you look nice even if i don't want anything with you yeah like because if if a girl 0.97

00:03:15.540 is dressing in a way that's seeking attention how can she be mad when she gets it so if you're if

00:03:20.520 you're dressing in a way where your ass is out your boobs are out you're you're a full face of makeup 0.93

00:03:24.820 and then someone compliments you you're mad

00:03:26.900 you could you could you could have dressed like like i don't get compliments when i go out in my

00:03:35.220 sweats like so we can't change the outcome for our actions that's the thing if we do something people

00:03:42.340 are going to perceive it one way or another but i think a lot of yeah i think like i tend to think

00:03:46.680 that you know you shouldn't just because i'm dressed a certain way doesn't mean that's who i am and that

00:03:51.180 might be true but the thing is people judge by the first few seconds of what they see you especially

00:03:56.460 men when it comes to deciding is this do i see this person as a wife yeah to me or do i see

00:04:02.400 um this person as somebody who might be good for a hookup or whatever people but what women don't 1.00

00:04:08.400 realize is you think a man thinks like you so you then think okay i want to be a wife and then you

00:04:13.840 dress like a slut and the one's looking at you and thinking oh this is a slut and most men will 0.99

00:04:19.180 not be honest enough to tell you that yeah the truth is there's a saying right clothing is the

00:04:24.180 dress of thought you can tell a lot about someone by how they wear their clothes the kind of clothes

00:04:28.800 they wear so and i think women understand this women the women understand women are extremely women

00:04:35.200 know this stuff very very well i think women like talk to each other and they're like could i convince 1.00

00:04:40.880 this guy that this guy is actually green like can i convince this guy that i wore this g-string just

00:04:46.820 because i like g-strengths i did it for me i wore a thong bikini for myself it's so comfortable

00:04:55.020 though you get like less tan lines it works the same way for men though why do you want that big

00:05:01.100 white patch all the way across your bum do you know what i mean so it works the same for men 0.73

00:05:07.640 because i remember i got stopped by the police and the police said to me do you know i will stop you

00:05:12.920 i said no it's and they gave me this bullshit about your car's got no mot and i'm dressed in 0.84

00:05:18.260 shirt and trousers then they stop another black guy he came out he's got his jeans on his pants

00:05:23.620 showing and the way they treated him i would literally stand inside each other the way they

00:05:28.560 treated him was completely different they treated me with respect they tore his car away they find

00:05:34.200 two thoughts on my car and they gave me an option which i found strange they said you got an option i

00:05:38.580 said what's that said three points or you're going to retire and i think are you serious he said yeah

00:05:43.880 so i went i said i'll change time they didn't give the boy they didn't give me any option at all

00:05:48.400 they found one foot in this car they brought the tow truck and took it away

00:05:51.320 and he didn't he didn't say anything it wasn't rude it was just the way he dressed

00:05:56.140 do you think do you not judge people at all by the way they're dressed

00:06:01.580 so if a dude comes in a very nice expensive suit you don't assume he has a better job than a

00:06:08.160 homeless man on the street i mean the assumption on the like on the job front yeah i get it right 1.00

00:06:13.080 i get that like maybe this person's so you can make assumptions such as like maybe they have more

00:06:18.020 money or maybe you don't think a girl that wears less clothes and posts her ass on the internet has a 1.00

00:06:23.300 higher need for attention than someone who doesn't you know that everyone's needy though like if you're

00:06:29.280 online posting pictures you're needy anyway so so could you answer the question yeah yes or no

00:06:33.580 do you think a girl that posts her ass on the internet needs more attention than someone who 1.00

00:06:38.620 doesn't depends what yes or no yes or no yes or no you can you could say yes and then explain or no

00:06:48.040 and then explain okay um no and i'll explain okay right because you can i feel like you can know

00:06:57.960 yourself i'm not saying i don't know how to like word it you can know yourself and depend oh it depends

00:07:06.940 what you use your social media for right that that's the way i'm going about it because if you're just

00:07:11.520 if you're just like an average person and you're just you're just randomly taking pictures of yourself

00:07:16.580 naked and then posting them on instagram then yeah i would say that is for attention okay but if you're

00:07:22.400 like i don't know if you're if you've got a swimsuit collection and you've got a business then i don't

00:07:30.380 think but you could you could have a model do that it doesn't have to be you you could you could just

00:07:35.040 pay someone to do it or there's a lot of women it would still be someone that's naked on your 1.00

00:07:39.220 instagram though yeah but it wouldn't be be you yeah so you still stand by the no she just tried

00:07:46.100 to dance right i want to say it's 50 50. can i say it's just female what percent what percent of 1.00

00:07:52.700 women do you think own a swimsuit collection everyone oh wait a swimsuit collection out of 0.99

00:07:59.780 100 women how many own a swimsuit collection out of 100 women how many own a swimsuit collection 0.99

00:08:05.220 like probably like one okay so why why are you standing on the 50 50 then because i just don't

00:08:10.900 think that like why do you post pictures of yourself when you're at the beach you want to like

00:08:14.520 for attention like why would you post any you could send a picture to the people you want to send it to

00:08:19.180 like your friends and family why do anything on the internet do you know i think it'd be weirder if

00:08:23.040 one of my friends sent text me a picture of her at the beach than if i saw it online but i'm saying

00:08:28.440 it's for attention regardless it's for attention from someone you could just take the pictures to have

00:08:33.060 other like why would you post it if you didn't want other people to see it and get attention from it

00:08:37.560 yeah okay

JustPearlyThings - April 17, 2023

Why WOMEN dress to ATTRACT MEN

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