JustPearlyThings - April 17, 2023


Why WOMEN dress to ATTRACT MEN

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
She tried To Slither Her way Through This Topic Delusional Woman Reveals Her Hypocrisy

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

211.32

Word count

1,825

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Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

15

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about self-objectification, self-esteem and the women's practice of dressing up as a man in order to attract a man. We also discuss the benefits of self- objectification and how to deal with it in the dating world.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 do you know um behind makeup like there's biological reasons that we wear them so like
00:00:05.700 so it's like so how can we say it's not for other people when you're signaling sexual arousal
00:00:11.040 i've heard this i don't know where that like is that what it like yeah because it's like during
00:00:15.060 sex your your lips are red that's why there's red lipstick and it's like it's same with yeah 0.91
00:00:19.840 blush on the cheeks your eyes because you look younger yeah more attractive and i heard i heard
00:00:25.780 that women wear red because they put red on what they want men to notice oh interesting yeah so 0.95
00:00:33.400 that's why a woman would wear a red dress and red makeup so like a woman to a man red you see red 1.00
00:00:41.520 from anywhere yeah it's definitely a inciting and you're more likely to wear red when you're ovulating
00:00:47.580 too cute i'm bleeding by the way i'm also red but there's one thing that you there's one thing that
00:00:55.440 you fail to you fail to understand the women's practice um self-objectification where the image
00:01:02.260 that you portray is what we see so if you dress up in a way that suggests that all you want is
00:01:07.960 sex that's what we see yeah but they're yeah but they'll they'll convince themselves but you're gonna 0.51
00:01:15.460 say yeah i'm doing this for myself what do you mean by dress in a way that says i'm wanting sex okay
00:01:22.100 look at this way for me i think the dating dating is a gateway to three marketplaces so you've got
00:01:28.120 the sexual marketplace the relationship marketplace and the marriage marketplace so when the woman 0.98
00:01:31.920 dresses up as a guy at one look at her in five seconds i can tell which of those marketplace she 0.99
00:01:36.860 wants me to see by just looking at the way she dress and most men are like me so how has that worked
00:01:44.380 out for you so far just like not in an offensive way but how is that so you've put these women into 1.00
00:01:49.500 these three categories um how has that worked out for you so far are you now in a you said you're
00:01:55.180 single so has that putting them into those three marketplaces by judging them by the way that they've
00:02:00.020 dressed has that worked out for you well i used to be married i was married for 20 years okay so when
00:02:03.940 that ended i decided okay forget marriage let me just do this sexual marketplace thing okay that was
00:02:09.740 brilliant it was liberating and all that but i then got to the point where i think you know women is 1.00
00:02:14.920 too much trouble but it's true women even the nicest one comes along and because i'm a nice guy 0.93
00:02:20.920 a girl told me that i'm too nice and because of that i'm vulnerable and she's trying to take advantage
00:02:26.000 of me so i'm thinking okay fine i will come and find you when i need you you can't you can't shame him
00:02:31.940 by like implying like that as personal life because that's kind of what you're doing i'll tell you but
00:02:36.360 but i'm saying but i'm saying like like because that's how men are is they they categorize women
00:02:40.380 by like the way you present yourself yeah like the same way girls will categorize men by the way
00:02:45.380 they if they look like a bum or they're wearing a suit and there's another thing that you don't
00:02:49.620 realize when you spend three hours doing yourself up and you come out it's from my point of view it's
00:02:55.840 good for your mental health if i look at you and make comments because otherwise that would be a waste
00:03:00.100 of three hours of your life if i don't say anything it's polite yeah i don't think so do you know what i don't
00:03:05.480 you think so no that's how it works so i see you i think oh she spends so much time let me give a 0.73
00:03:10.240 compliment you look nice even if i don't want anything with you yeah like because if if a girl 0.97
00:03:15.540 is dressing in a way that's seeking attention how can she be mad when she gets it so if you're if 0.99
00:03:20.520 you're dressing in a way where your ass is out your boobs are out you're you're a full face of makeup 0.99
00:03:24.820 and then someone compliments you you're mad 0.99
00:03:26.900 you could you could you could have dressed like like i don't get compliments when i go out in my
00:03:35.220 sweats like so we can't change the outcome for our actions that's the thing if we do something people
00:03:42.340 are going to perceive it one way or another but i think a lot of yeah i think like i tend to think
00:03:46.680 that you know you shouldn't just because i'm dressed a certain way doesn't mean that's who i am and that
00:03:51.180 might be true but the thing is people judge by the first few seconds of what they see you especially
00:03:56.460 men when it comes to deciding is this do i see this person as a wife yeah to me or do i see
00:04:02.400 um this person as somebody who might be good for a hookup or whatever people but what women don't 1.00
00:04:08.400 realize is you think a man thinks like you so you then think okay i want to be a wife and then you 0.99
00:04:13.840 dress like a slut and the one's looking at you and thinking oh this is a slut and most men will 0.99
00:04:19.180 not be honest enough to tell you that yeah the truth is there's a saying right clothing is the 1.00
00:04:24.180 dress of thought you can tell a lot about someone by how they wear their clothes the kind of clothes
00:04:28.800 they wear so and i think women understand this women the women understand women are extremely women
00:04:35.200 know this stuff very very well i think women like talk to each other and they're like could i convince 1.00
00:04:40.880 this guy that this guy is actually green like can i convince this guy that i wore this g-string just
00:04:46.820 because i like g-strengths i did it for me i wore a thong bikini for myself it's so comfortable
00:04:55.020 though you get like less tan lines it works the same way for men though why do you want that big
00:05:01.100 white patch all the way across your bum do you know what i mean so it works the same for men 0.73
00:05:07.640 because i remember i got stopped by the police and the police said to me do you know i will stop you 0.96
00:05:12.920 i said no it's and they gave me this bullshit about your car's got no mot and i'm dressed in 0.84
00:05:18.260 shirt and trousers then they stop another black guy he came out he's got his jeans on his pants 0.96
00:05:23.620 showing and the way they treated him i would literally stand inside each other the way they
00:05:28.560 treated him was completely different they treated me with respect they tore his car away they find
00:05:34.200 two thoughts on my car and they gave me an option which i found strange they said you got an option i
00:05:38.580 said what's that said three points or you're going to retire and i think are you serious he said yeah
00:05:43.880 so i went i said i'll change time they didn't give the boy they didn't give me any option at all
00:05:48.400 they found one foot in this car they brought the tow truck and took it away
00:05:51.320 and he didn't he didn't say anything it wasn't rude it was just the way he dressed
00:05:56.140 do you think do you not judge people at all by the way they're dressed
00:06:01.580 so if a dude comes in a very nice expensive suit you don't assume he has a better job than a
00:06:08.160 homeless man on the street i mean the assumption on the like on the job front yeah i get it right 1.00
00:06:13.080 i get that like maybe this person's so you can make assumptions such as like maybe they have more 0.99
00:06:18.020 money or maybe you don't think a girl that wears less clothes and posts her ass on the internet has a 1.00
00:06:23.300 higher need for attention than someone who doesn't you know that everyone's needy though like if you're 0.98
00:06:29.280 online posting pictures you're needy anyway so so could you answer the question yeah yes or no 0.99
00:06:33.580 do you think a girl that posts her ass on the internet needs more attention than someone who 1.00
00:06:38.620 doesn't depends what yes or no yes or no yes or no you can you could say yes and then explain or no 1.00
00:06:48.040 and then explain okay um no and i'll explain okay right because you can i feel like you can know
00:06:57.960 yourself i'm not saying i don't know how to like word it you can know yourself and depend oh it depends
00:07:06.940 what you use your social media for right that that's the way i'm going about it because if you're just
00:07:11.520 if you're just like an average person and you're just you're just randomly taking pictures of yourself
00:07:16.580 naked and then posting them on instagram then yeah i would say that is for attention okay but if you're
00:07:22.400 like i don't know if you're if you've got a swimsuit collection and you've got a business then i don't
00:07:30.380 think but you could you could have a model do that it doesn't have to be you you could you could just
00:07:35.040 pay someone to do it or there's a lot of women it would still be someone that's naked on your 1.00
00:07:39.220 instagram though yeah but it wouldn't be be you yeah so you still stand by the no she just tried
00:07:46.100 to dance right i want to say it's 50 50. can i say it's just female what percent what percent of 1.00
00:07:52.700 women do you think own a swimsuit collection everyone oh wait a swimsuit collection out of 0.99
00:07:59.780 100 women how many own a swimsuit collection out of 100 women how many own a swimsuit collection 0.99
00:08:05.220 like probably like one okay so why why are you standing on the 50 50 then because i just don't
00:08:10.900 think that like why do you post pictures of yourself when you're at the beach you want to like
00:08:14.520 for attention like why would you post any you could send a picture to the people you want to send it to
00:08:19.180 like your friends and family why do anything on the internet do you know i think it'd be weirder if
00:08:23.040 one of my friends sent text me a picture of her at the beach than if i saw it online but i'm saying
00:08:28.440 it's for attention regardless it's for attention from someone you could just take the pictures to have
00:08:33.060 other like why would you post it if you didn't want other people to see it and get attention from it
00:08:37.560 yeah okay