JustPearlyThings - October 07, 2023


Wife LOSES IT After Divorcing Husband And Gets What She Deserves

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Vine Jesse
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Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

150.25

Word count

1,508

Sentence count

146

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

sentences flagged

Toxicity

18

sentences flagged

Hate speech

6

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about a woman who decided to leave her 18 year marriage because she thinks she is a lesbian. I also talk about how I came out to my family and the reaction they had to my coming out story.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Um, so there's a woman going viral right now talking about she regretted divorcing her pastor
00:00:04.880 husband. And I honestly, I haven't even seen this yet. I didn't have time to watch it. So
00:00:09.480 we'll see how this went for her. Let's pull it up. This is not easy. Coming out later in life,
00:00:16.820 losing the stability of an 18 year relationship that needed to be, we needed to, I needed to
00:00:28.760 leave anyways, but this stability is scary. So if anyone thinks that like I got my shit together, 0.95
00:00:38.100 I don't. I have no idea what I am doing. Um, and the look she gave me was like disgust. 0.81
00:00:48.700 Welcome back family. Just when I thought that these modern women might have run out of reasons 1.00
00:00:53.900 to divorce their husbands, this woman just pulled a joker card on me. She was the pastor's wife, 1.00
00:00:59.900 but surprisingly decided to end an 18 year old marriage just because she thinks that she is a 0.95
00:01:05.600 lesbian now. And the worst part about this story is that she expected the whole church to endorse 0.71
00:01:11.260 her decision of breaking up her own family. Let's jump in.
00:01:14.440 So I just received a really interesting message. And, um, this person says that my life looks so great
00:01:26.940 and that he's going to unfollow me because I'm practically gloating. It wasn't a criticism.
00:01:33.320 I don't take it that way, but I do wonder like, what videos are you watching?
00:01:38.860 Because this is not easy coming out later in life to my family, the first person in my family to come
00:01:54.480 out, um, coming out to people of church, losing that community, losing the stability of, um, an 18 year
00:02:05.740 relationship that needed to be, we needed to, I needed to leave anyways, but the stability is scary.
00:02:19.860 So if anyone thinks that like I got my shit together, I don't, I have no idea what I am doing.
00:02:28.280 So that's my reality. I'm strong and I'm bold and I'm aggressive and all those things, 0.89
00:02:34.720 but I'm also sensitive.
00:02:40.180 I just want to know what she thought was on the other side. Like, why would church accept a gay woman?
00:02:47.100 I mean, bitch, it's church. 1.00
00:02:48.920 I think it's hilarious. 0.99
00:02:50.180 I mean, I, I, you know, I got a little bit of a swearing problem, but I don't go swear in church.
00:02:54.560 Do you know what I mean? Like, what does she say?
00:02:56.300 It's the fact that she says, you guys think I've got it together.
00:03:00.180 No one thinks you've got it together. No one is seeing that, thinking you've got it together.
00:03:06.840 I just want to know, okay, because this is my thought. If you're going to be practically like on the verge of homelessness,
00:03:13.380 couldn't you just like, like girls and just deal with it and just stay? 0.83
00:03:18.100 Like, I mean, I mean, I don't know. Maybe I'm going crazy, but I'm like, is your sexuality like that important?
00:03:25.900 She's crying a lot about something that she's chosen to do, right?
00:03:30.420 Yeah.
00:03:30.820 She's complaining that she's lost all of these things.
00:03:33.800 And she's saying, you know, I'm tough, all of this.
00:03:36.700 It's like, okay, well, this video definitely doesn't make it look like that.
00:03:39.140 But regardless, she's saying all of this and she's complaining about all the things she's lost.
00:03:44.420 So it's like, well, maybe don't.
00:03:50.540 Maybe don't.
00:03:52.020 Like, I don't know. 1.00
00:03:54.520 Maybe the men are going to come for me in the comments, but is pussy that important? 0.99
00:03:58.140 And it was probably the hardest interaction I've had yet. 0.99
00:04:03.680 For about eight years, I was a youth pastor at a church.
00:04:08.300 And I had a core group of about six girls that I would mentor.
00:04:14.080 Like, I would go to their sport games and their concerts and their shows.
00:04:18.460 And I was really just there to encourage them and build them up.
00:04:21.960 And one of my closest students, I ran into her yesterday.
00:04:26.360 And I was in shock.
00:04:27.740 And I just went in like, oh, my God, hi.
00:04:33.680 And the look she gave me was like disgust.
00:04:43.900 Now, I didn't feel shame. 0.99
00:04:46.420 And so that's fucking exciting. 0.98
00:04:47.880 I didn't feel any shame. 0.98
00:04:50.240 But I was sad afterwards.
00:04:53.900 And then I realized how much time I had invested in people.
00:04:59.120 And that how they accepted me as a certain version.
00:05:06.000 I was still Jesse then.
00:05:08.160 Like, I didn't change.
00:05:09.660 I got better. 1.00
00:05:10.600 Fuck yeah, I got better. 0.99
00:05:11.620 Once again, my TikTok family has just been there. 0.99
00:05:23.060 And I never, I never would have thought that a social media app
00:05:28.940 would literally, like, be my lifeline.
00:05:35.720 I never, I never would have thought this, guys.
00:05:40.180 I'm so thankful.
00:05:43.120 And I've been absent on here for good reason.
00:05:45.920 I never in a million years would have thought that this process
00:06:00.120 would be as difficult as it has been.
00:06:02.700 And yes, I'm vague booking.
00:06:04.700 And that's just the way it's going to have to be for safety.
00:06:08.180 And, uh, I just, I just had friends.
00:06:13.560 And guys, I've met these people, like, once.
00:06:15.860 Twice?
00:06:16.440 Couple times?
00:06:19.120 They're like, you can come hang out.
00:06:30.380 I just don't know what I would have done without this community. 0.73
00:06:33.860 You guys have been my f***ing lifeline.
00:06:36.100 I don't know what she expected to happen. 0.64
00:06:39.680 Like, what, you think they're going to, at church,
00:06:41.680 they're going to say, wow, we're so happy you just,
00:06:43.520 I actually, I kind of want to go to this church.
00:06:46.420 Yeah.
00:06:46.740 Because it sounds bass.
00:06:49.960 A church that actually sticks by traditional church values.
00:06:53.120 That's what I thought, I was like.
00:06:54.100 In 2023?
00:06:55.300 I know, that's what I was like.
00:06:56.060 I was like, what church is, what church do you go to?
00:06:59.680 No, okay, because I'm like, what did she expect?
00:07:03.300 That she's like, okay, I didn't feel shame.
00:07:06.300 But I felt sad.
00:07:07.520 And I'm like, you're kind of describing.
00:07:11.680 I would, I would love to take this woman's phone off of her for a month. 1.00
00:07:17.460 I can, oh, I just, it'd be a really interesting experiment.
00:07:21.120 I think she'd go back.
00:07:22.440 Yeah, I think she would too.
00:07:23.000 Because the only reason that she has clearly got all these ideas
00:07:26.180 is she's spent way too much time on TikTok or whatever it is.
00:07:29.860 She's decided that she wants to be a martyr among the liberals.
00:07:34.760 And what's the easiest way to do that? 0.91
00:07:36.400 Well, to leave your children and say that you're now pursuing your sexual liberation
00:07:40.800 in whatever way, shape, or form that may be.
00:07:43.360 And yeah, she apparently doesn't feel any shame.
00:07:47.920 I think let's take her phone away. 0.88
00:07:49.580 Because the only reason she doesn't feel shame right now
00:07:51.400 is because she's in this narcissistic loop. 0.95
00:07:54.180 Like, take it away. 0.84
00:07:56.480 I know.
00:07:56.980 And then let's reassess the situation.
00:07:59.480 Yeah, I bet if, yeah, you took it away for a month.
00:08:01.980 Some people really need a social media break.
00:08:04.480 Like, I challenge people like this to go a week without your phone.
00:08:09.200 Just try it.
00:08:10.160 You see it in the lifespans of almost like the,
00:08:13.880 like a lot of influencers that were like,
00:08:15.880 they thought one thing they were more conservative in their early 20s.
00:08:19.080 And you see them kind of switch when they start to get like a group.
00:08:22.820 Like, they start to let like one liberal in the group.
00:08:25.240 Yeah.
00:08:25.380 And they just start to get, then they start to.
00:08:27.400 They infect the whole space.
00:08:28.260 Then they divorce their husbands. 1.00
00:08:30.800 And it's just like crazy.
00:08:32.560 But that was my thought was I was like,
00:08:35.500 it's almost like better that you know the patterns and tell them.
00:08:39.400 Like, this is just, I'm thinking out loud, spitballing a little bit.
00:08:42.300 But I was, I was thinking how I don't think the solution
00:08:45.140 is hiding people from the world because the world will come to them.
00:08:49.540 You can't avoid it.
00:08:50.880 Yes.
00:08:51.280 And it's interesting because in my,
00:08:53.480 I feel like my generation and your generation is like a slight difference 0.53
00:08:57.200 because mine wasn't completely, it was like half online.
00:09:00.120 Where you grew up, because you're 22.
00:09:03.040 23.
00:09:03.480 23, yeah.
00:09:04.480 So you grew up pretty,
00:09:06.220 I would imagine everyone was on social media.
00:09:08.560 Yeah, so I would say by sort of year five,
00:09:13.420 which is for the American people,
00:09:15.860 like 10 years old,
00:09:17.340 we had like Vine come about.
00:09:20.640 Oh, okay.
00:09:21.100 Like my sort of really funny memories
00:09:23.720 from when I'm like 10, 11 is like me and my friends recreating Vines.
00:09:29.120 So it was very prominent from such a young age.
00:09:33.400 And like, think about how young that is.
00:09:35.040 10 years old.
00:09:36.560 Vine was like everything back then.
00:09:39.320 Yeah.
00:09:40.300 Well, and that's like.
00:09:41.040 Vine was great though.
00:09:41.740 We had, yeah, Facebook was the big one for me.
00:09:45.720 Yeah, so Facebook with my generation is like really not.
00:09:48.820 Yeah.
00:09:49.620 It's like where you go for like family things
00:09:52.440 and to see what's going on in the local area.
00:09:54.420 If someone's selling something maybe.
00:09:55.880 But Facebook was always kind of like an older generation thing,
00:09:59.680 at least for my people.