Wife LOSES IT After Divorcing Husband And Gets What She Deserves
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about a woman who decided to leave her 18 year marriage because she thinks she is a lesbian. I also talk about how I came out to my family and the reaction they had to my coming out story.
Transcript
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Um, so there's a woman going viral right now talking about she regretted divorcing her pastor
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husband. And I honestly, I haven't even seen this yet. I didn't have time to watch it. So
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we'll see how this went for her. Let's pull it up. This is not easy. Coming out later in life,
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losing the stability of an 18 year relationship that needed to be, we needed to, I needed to
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leave anyways, but this stability is scary. So if anyone thinks that like I got my shit together,
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I don't. I have no idea what I am doing. Um, and the look she gave me was like disgust.
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Welcome back family. Just when I thought that these modern women might have run out of reasons
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to divorce their husbands, this woman just pulled a joker card on me. She was the pastor's wife,
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but surprisingly decided to end an 18 year old marriage just because she thinks that she is a
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lesbian now. And the worst part about this story is that she expected the whole church to endorse
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her decision of breaking up her own family. Let's jump in.
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So I just received a really interesting message. And, um, this person says that my life looks so great
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and that he's going to unfollow me because I'm practically gloating. It wasn't a criticism.
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I don't take it that way, but I do wonder like, what videos are you watching?
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Because this is not easy coming out later in life to my family, the first person in my family to come
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out, um, coming out to people of church, losing that community, losing the stability of, um, an 18 year
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relationship that needed to be, we needed to, I needed to leave anyways, but the stability is scary.
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So if anyone thinks that like I got my shit together, I don't, I have no idea what I am doing.
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So that's my reality. I'm strong and I'm bold and I'm aggressive and all those things,
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I just want to know what she thought was on the other side. Like, why would church accept a gay woman?
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I mean, I, I, you know, I got a little bit of a swearing problem, but I don't go swear in church.
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Do you know what I mean? Like, what does she say?
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It's the fact that she says, you guys think I've got it together.
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No one thinks you've got it together. No one is seeing that, thinking you've got it together.
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I just want to know, okay, because this is my thought. If you're going to be practically like on the verge of homelessness,
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couldn't you just like, like girls and just deal with it and just stay?
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Like, I mean, I mean, I don't know. Maybe I'm going crazy, but I'm like, is your sexuality like that important?
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She's crying a lot about something that she's chosen to do, right?
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She's complaining that she's lost all of these things.
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And she's saying, you know, I'm tough, all of this.
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It's like, okay, well, this video definitely doesn't make it look like that.
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But regardless, she's saying all of this and she's complaining about all the things she's lost.
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Maybe the men are going to come for me in the comments, but is pussy that important?
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And it was probably the hardest interaction I've had yet.
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For about eight years, I was a youth pastor at a church.
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And I had a core group of about six girls that I would mentor.
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Like, I would go to their sport games and their concerts and their shows.
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And I was really just there to encourage them and build them up.
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And one of my closest students, I ran into her yesterday.
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And then I realized how much time I had invested in people.
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And that how they accepted me as a certain version.
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Once again, my TikTok family has just been there.
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And I never, I never would have thought that a social media app
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I never, I never would have thought this, guys.
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I never in a million years would have thought that this process
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And that's just the way it's going to have to be for safety.
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I just don't know what I would have done without this community.
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Like, what, you think they're going to, at church,
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they're going to say, wow, we're so happy you just,
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I actually, I kind of want to go to this church.
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A church that actually sticks by traditional church values.
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I was like, what church is, what church do you go to?
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No, okay, because I'm like, what did she expect?
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I would, I would love to take this woman's phone off of her for a month.
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I can, oh, I just, it'd be a really interesting experiment.
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Because the only reason that she has clearly got all these ideas
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is she's spent way too much time on TikTok or whatever it is.
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She's decided that she wants to be a martyr among the liberals.
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Well, to leave your children and say that you're now pursuing your sexual liberation
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And yeah, she apparently doesn't feel any shame.
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Because the only reason she doesn't feel shame right now
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Yeah, I bet if, yeah, you took it away for a month.
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Like, I challenge people like this to go a week without your phone.
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You see it in the lifespans of almost like the,
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they thought one thing they were more conservative in their early 20s.
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And you see them kind of switch when they start to get like a group.
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Like, they start to let like one liberal in the group.
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And they just start to get, then they start to.
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it's almost like better that you know the patterns and tell them.
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Like, this is just, I'm thinking out loud, spitballing a little bit.
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But I was, I was thinking how I don't think the solution
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is hiding people from the world because the world will come to them.
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I feel like my generation and your generation is like a slight difference
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because mine wasn't completely, it was like half online.
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from when I'm like 10, 11 is like me and my friends recreating Vines.
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So it was very prominent from such a young age.
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Yeah, so Facebook with my generation is like really not.
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But Facebook was always kind of like an older generation thing,