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Woman BROKE DOWN In Tears Because Men Don't Want To Date Her


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In this episode, I talk about loneliness and how it can be a very common problem for young women and how to deal with it. I also talk about the concept of abusing hypergamy and how the fear of missing out can lead to loneliness.

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00:00:00.000 and i'm not gonna lie cheated you know what i mean i did he taught me what like real love was he
00:00:04.880 unconditionally loved me because everybody loves you wow she cheated wow okay he really just
00:00:11.920 he forgave me multiple times not the rider die yeah he was a rider i made a lot of money in my
00:00:17.280 20s so i never asked him for um anything financially he never but then he also never
00:00:22.880 offered me what did he do well i was a stripper girl so oh you was making money yeah i was making
00:00:28.240 money and i needed that grounding i needed somebody that loved me unconditionally he seems like a good
00:00:32.880 guy to be honest he opened all my doors he drove fast cars he could fight and she still cheated 1.00
00:00:41.680 what up guys welcome to the just pearly things youtube channel and welcome to my reaction series
00:00:47.360 before i start don't forget to subscribe to the channel ring that notification bell the way you're
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00:00:56.000 vote t-shirt today okay so this video says women break down in tears because men don't want to date
00:01:02.560 her let's go welcome back family today we are going to see a woman who breaks down in tears for being 1.00
00:01:08.480 alone but before that let's check out some interesting related clips as a warm-up to understand where this
00:01:14.320 crying is really coming from been to the idea of like speaking to multiple guys i've always been
00:01:20.480 i feel like in order for me to actually settle down and like be with one person i would have to be
00:01:26.240 getting like the same energy reciprocated and they'd be having to really call for me and be like i want
00:01:32.640 to be with you this is how i feel so the problem how is a guy going to give you enough attention to
00:01:39.200 subsidize like dating let's say five men four men three men how is the guy going to get you and give you
00:01:45.200 enough attention is it even possible and then at that point on i'll be like okay like they're giving
00:01:51.840 all of them to me like now i'm ready to like fully commit and be serious to this person right but i think
00:01:58.320 until then it's a playing field i don't believe someone should get all your attention just because
00:02:05.200 it's like the beginning stage and we're talking like i'm not gonna close off any doors to see where
00:02:10.640 this goes until you reassure me that you're all in and and that you're solidifying what we have yeah
00:02:18.400 the dating multiple guys advice is very popular and pushed to young women this is just what i call
00:02:25.680 abused hypergamy a man that values himself will know when you are not giving him all your attention
00:02:31.520 and he will just walk away the fear of missing out and trying to have everything at the same damn time 0.51
00:02:37.040 result into a very lonely life for these young women check it out maybe this is too niche maybe 0.85
00:02:42.640 it's not i don't think it is but it's a beautiful day outside today it's literally 70 degrees it should
00:02:48.720 not be 70 degrees in february where i live but that is that's another video but it's beautiful outside
00:02:53.840 today and i was like you know what i'm gonna eat my lunch i'm gonna go outside i'm gonna sit before
00:02:59.680 my next class it's gonna be good i get outside and i look around and i realize i am quite
00:03:06.880 literally the only person sitting by myself it just made me so sad sad to the point where i got up
00:03:13.120 and i literally went inside and i felt like i couldn't enjoy the stunning day that it was today
00:03:19.120 because i was like i'm so sick of doing stuff by myself and i don't really feel lonely except in
00:03:27.120 instances like this and i think this is why my anxiety and my depression actually like is worse
00:03:34.480 lonely is a really common feeling nowadays and i think it's like because more people are living in
00:03:41.840 cities actually because i don't know there's something different like they say the grass is
00:03:47.280 isn't um like the grass grows where you water it right and there's just something about cities where
00:03:53.840 people are just able to replace their friend groups so easy where if you go to like a smaller town
00:03:59.840 people have to like work through things and grow as people and like become a better person and so i
00:04:05.040 think i think you're just gonna get like and you know people aren't getting married there's less
00:04:09.120 families there's less just community across the board um so actually i want to know where she went
00:04:13.840 and found couples because you don't really see that like you used to in the summer because i find
00:04:18.880 that during the summer for whatever reason i'm always like by myself i have friends don't get me wrong
00:04:24.880 my friends are incredible i love my friends are like my sisters but they have lives and i feel like
00:04:31.200 i don't anytime you see me out 90 of the time i am by myself i go to the store by myself i walk to
00:04:39.440 class by myself i sit by myself like i'm always alone and it never bothers me really until it slaps me
00:04:46.800 in the face that like oh everyone else is with somebody be it platonically romantically whatever
00:04:53.200 and i'm by myself like sitting outside today like that was like a perfect encapsulation of like
00:04:59.760 my entire life like everyone was sitting with someone and i was literally the only person sitting
00:05:04.800 alone and in that moment it just made me so depressed like it made me so sad and i've had
00:05:10.480 the same friend since high school and obviously we were in high school like we saw each other every
00:05:14.720 day and i texted my friends and i was like you guys i miss seeing you guys every day so bad and every
00:05:20.800 time a beautiful day comes around i'm like i wish i had someone to like go on a walk with i wish i had
00:05:26.880 like friends that i saw more often i wish i had a boyfriend so bad you guys i don't know but it made
00:05:32.640 me really upset and i literally got up and i went inside because i was like this is so embarrassing
00:05:38.080 now believe me when i tell you that there is definitely a guy who is bussing those chicks down 1.00
00:05:44.000 so when she says that she is alone she is not really alone only men feel what being alone
00:05:51.840 really yeah yeah women are single by choice there are very few men that choose to be single women it's
00:05:57.600 always a choice for the most part was like i can ensure you that she has a lot of men in her dms 1.00
00:06:02.880 that would treat her right but she completely ignore them because she thinks that she can do better 0.87
00:06:08.160 like this next girl he was like a different type of dude like he didn't even look you could come
00:06:12.480 come shake your ass in his face and he's just like nope not looking at work you know what i mean that's 0.94
00:06:16.160 a husband yeah where'd he at now what happened i know a husband when i hear one i wouldn't say i
00:06:22.480 you know i that up but no you know he was there for a time and he was a good man in my 20s but he
00:06:27.360 was a lot older than me and he was complacent he was complacent in a certain lifestyle a certain
00:06:33.280 financial bracket and there's just a certain life that i'm always going to be trying to chase and so
00:06:38.480 it would have never worked you hear that there's going to be a life that i'm always trying to chase
00:06:42.640 and it's a life that guys it's not most people are normal most people are average most people will
00:06:48.240 not get an extravagant lifestyle and it's funny because the people that i know that have super
00:06:53.760 that are well off never chased money it was never about money in my 30s oh wow wow and i'm not
00:07:02.320 gonna lie cheated you know what i mean i did he taught me what like real love was he unconditionally
00:07:08.480 loved me because everybody loves you based on wow if you cheat wow okay once you start doing
00:07:13.120 shit that they don't like then all of a sudden all these things start going out the window he really
00:07:16.560 just he forgave me multiple times let the rider die yeah he was a rider but he needed to get his
00:07:21.760 together in terms of finances i made a lot of money in my 20s so i never asked him for um anything
00:07:28.560 financially he never but then he also never offered what did he do well i was a stripper
00:07:33.200 girl so oh you was making money yeah i was making money money and i needed that grounding i needed
00:07:37.520 somebody that loved me unconditionally because it just made me go to the strip club and look at guys
00:07:41.040 like you ain't got for me um he seems like a good guy to be honest he opened all my doors he drove fast
00:07:47.680 cars and he could fight he was fine so he just didn't want more and she still cheated 0.98
00:07:53.680 for himself that's a huge thing i didn't of course this guy was a simp he did a little bit too much by
00:08:01.120 forgiving her for her debauchery but you got the point she always wanted more and more this is the
00:08:07.440 mentality of most modern women then when they hit the wall and realize that they are still single 1.00
00:08:13.520 this happens this video isn't gonna have a punchline tell you that right off the bat um
00:08:19.440 because i am basically just making it to stop crying um because usually when i start trying to
00:08:25.360 make video i stop crying and um i've been crying all day because i got sat on a plane next to a couple
00:08:35.440 and the whole time the guy had his hand on like his girlfriend's leg you know and it's just kind of like
00:08:41.920 that the whole time and um i just i can't like i've been single my whole life i'm 25 and i've
00:08:53.360 never gotten to experience that i've never gotten like close to that this is gonna be really common
00:09:01.440 it's already common it's gonna become even more common and it's just too much like it's too much i
00:09:08.880 can't do it anymore there are some people out there who they don't they're not interested in
00:09:13.360 a relationship and they want to be by themselves but like that's not me and that's never been me i
00:09:20.320 have always wanted to be in a relationship even though i've never been in one um and even though
00:09:25.920 i'm like i'm comfortable by myself and i can do things alone but like at a certain point it gets like
00:09:31.600 really sad doing things alone like i've traveled alone to so many places because like if i don't
00:09:37.840 go by myself i'm not gonna go if i don't do things by myself it's not gonna happen but at the same time
00:09:43.440 like it's so much fun to be able to like share that with someone else and like everyone i know
00:09:50.240 is in a relationship right now and like the majority of them have been in relationships for like a long
00:09:56.000 time like this is established and i just like i feel like i've always been alone and i don't want
00:10:02.640 to be and i don't understand why this is happening to me and it's because we have an entire society
00:10:08.880 that lies to women nobody tells us the truth men don't tell us the truth the media doesn't tell us 0.76
00:10:14.560 the truth even our mothers and fathers lie to us um and i just i don't know i like can't take it
00:10:20.880 anymore um and clearly this didn't work because i'm still crying and i just wasted like two minutes
00:10:25.920 of your time and i'm sorry and i hope you're having a better weekend than i am so fellas most
00:10:33.440 of the pain these modern women are going through are self-inflected so do not feel sorry for them
00:10:39.600 that's it for today's video yeah yeah you could put like a meme like oh is it not the consequences of my
00:10:45.760 own actions well if it isn't the consequences of my own actions what's up what's up
00:10:57.920 but let me know what you guys think in the comments i do think feminism has lied to women 1.00
00:11:02.560 let me know what you guys think get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt and i'll talk to you next time 1.00