JustPearlyThings - Woman Claims That Pr0n Is Healthy

00:00:00.000 they say that in societies that um have a large group of sexless men those men become violent

00:00:06.480 and so i wonder if corn helps deter men from being violent because then they have access to

00:00:14.200 sexuality in a way these men they need god that's what they need oh amen amen to that i think that's

00:00:20.120 what they need i think it just i don't know i just feel like the way that sex is now is not the same

00:00:28.840 like people it's just not like maybe that's not love having intimacy it's just not about that it's

00:00:36.540 just about getting your nut in like well but that's why my question was is sex a need that men can't

00:00:42.680 live without long term anyways i feel like it is it depends on the generation no okay i'm not a man

00:00:51.000 regardless of the generation no because it can be somewhat no that's not true because there's some

00:00:56.540 men like i call i have a great granddad yeah and he he didn't have no kids no he had a partner for

00:01:04.240 a while but then he went to the war and he just traveled around the world and that was his focus

00:01:09.360 that was his purpose so i think sometimes they can shift their purpose i don't yeah i think some men

00:01:14.660 are capable a lot more restraint when it comes to sex i was about to say they can it's just that people

00:01:18.920 don't have the mental toughness anymore it's like everything's easy so you can there's no discipline

00:01:23.000 have the mental toughness men or women are one in three women under 30 virgins i think no both 0.63

00:01:27.760 both genders don't have the mental toughness anymore right now uh what were you gonna say i was gonna 0.85

00:01:33.020 say with your um scenario with your granddad that could just be like out is that out of choice or is

00:01:37.560 it not out of choice do you know what i mean i want to say a joke though i just kind of like

00:01:42.020 yeah do you know that that tiktok one is like um really i i i need to i need to think about it

00:01:51.320 before are you sure he's straight that's what i want to say he's definitely straight but he's like

00:01:57.640 but he was all into like the um like wildlife going for walks like i don't know he was just out

00:02:05.400 here living memories but maybe that's his age because he was like 90 something i don't know

00:02:12.100 towards the end but i think like he wasn't focused on that men can't ultimately be fulfilled like i

00:02:17.620 don't like to like live without it i mean it sounds like you know would the guy kill himself or something

00:02:20.720 like that but yeah i don't think they can ultimately be fulfilled because i've had lots of clients where

00:02:24.420 they have every area of life handled i'm sure you've seen this a lot of times if they don't have the

00:02:28.480 girl that's like life isn't complete they're not fulfilled they're not ultimately happy even if they've got

00:02:34.340 the money the body like everything they could have everything going on but without that partner

00:02:38.060 by their side they're not ultimately he had a companion for years but he never like it wasn't

00:02:44.780 that kind of relationship was just like a companion so i think that can be fulfilled with that loneliness

00:02:50.580 not necessarily like a sexual drive that can just be yeah men are not emotional you think about

00:02:57.040 so they can they i don't think they can't go without sex but they don't need that 0.90

00:03:04.100 romance they don't need that affection they don't need like we do so if they want to do whatever

00:03:10.120 they're doing in the bedroom watching whatever they want to watch but then they're happy with it

00:03:14.080 i think i think corn is a really actually i think it's kind of healthy because i believe like all men 1.00

00:03:22.080 they need sex yeah yeah i agree a thing that they need you know and like it's good that they at least

00:03:30.140 have corn you know at least they have that thing that's like oh cool and it's like what he does in

00:03:35.200 private at least like oh he really is i think it's something natural i think it shouldn't be like

00:03:40.360 something that have to be banned or oh look what these girls are doing here like okay they chose to 1.00

00:03:46.520 do that they chose to work like that so that's their problems you know don't look down on it yeah but

00:03:52.020 they're like um oh because there's type of corn that's like this there's type of corn that's like

00:03:56.700 that they have all these ties because they have like a public for all these types otherwise they

00:04:02.280 wouldn't exist yeah so i think it's like it's like a necessity for them but imagine going on

00:04:08.160 your partner's phone right why would you do that wait wait go on go on i'm curious about it wait wait

00:04:13.760 wait wait hear me out hear me out cool imagine going on okay imagine going on your partner's phone

00:04:19.920 and seeing that they search for a certain thing so it could be and it's not me like

00:04:25.720 is that an issue is that an issue for you women why are you looking for problems 1.00

00:04:31.780 hey i'm not toxic so let's not just but i'm just saying is that an issue for women what their men 0.99

00:04:38.040 no no no it can be cold stuff i've heard that's why like what would you do if you saw your i don't

00:04:45.300 i don't want to know exactly i don't but are you okay with it are women generally engaging with corn 1.00

00:04:52.980 yeah as long as you don't cheat that's and as long as i don't know is it seen as cheating because i'm

00:04:56.520 women see it's cheating yeah i've gotten yelled at a bunch for i'm curious out of the girls here is 1.00

00:05:00.640 corn cheating yes raise your hand no no yeah yeah you guys say yes no i have a question

00:05:08.100 what if what if um so if you think corn is cheating if you say no to him for sex can he

00:05:15.340 then go do corn no yeah but just not with me but all women are different can he go and just yeah but

00:05:22.180 can he go and just sleep with anyone else you'd rather him sleep with someone else i don't rather

00:05:26.520 him it's it's i'd rather not know about it and do what we want to do if you're gonna sleep with

00:05:31.700 someone that person you i'd rather you pay that person and you never cheat on someone that i

00:05:37.780 personally know so i can just like at least and get to that situation but i'd rather not know so

00:05:42.800 isn't cheating but that's why i just it's so complicated it's not that easy that's what i

00:05:50.880 really don't want to know are you okay with that in your relationship what like cheating as long

00:05:56.120 as long as you don't know no no if i know i will cut the mic that exactly if i know it i i want

00:06:08.180 ignorance but ignorant exactly i i i honor that so you just don't look you don't ever look for it

00:06:15.040 yes almost unless there's something kind of if my partner was okay with it i'd almost look at you

00:06:23.160 less yeah what do you mean because that's a judgment that's his character yeah but but listen

00:06:28.640 if you're gonna turn out why do you use the word partner i like that it's so common out here

00:06:33.460 and i'm just like i don't want to date a partner

00:06:35.840 here's the thing about partnership right because we think boyfriend girlfriend blah blah blah all of

00:06:45.600 that with time partnership lasts yeah it's probably the best description isn't it your boyfriend you're

00:06:50.900 attracted to him today tomorrow is changing your body's changing his body's changing partnership

00:06:55.900 but that but that seems like it's 50 50 and to me i don't i don't want to okay if you like 50 50

00:07:02.080 relationships i i prefer relationships that are a little bit in more traditional roles where i can

00:07:07.000 like trust my husband's decision making but that would still be a partnership wouldn't it if you

00:07:10.620 imagine you had a business partnership and his his interest in your business was 20 still

00:07:14.900 technically a partner i think for me partnership just means someone willing to work with you for

00:07:19.440 the ups and the downs for the good and the bad that's partnership see but partnership like that

00:07:24.340 it sounds like you have the same roles and the same input decision making where when it's a

00:07:29.440 husband and a wife that's very clear it's like different roles yeah like the man's at the head

00:07:32.740 yeah yeah but here's the thing right and i've seen it happen to my mom what if your your husband 1.00

00:07:38.740 is making the rules today but he can't make them tomorrow because he's sick he got a stroke he've

00:07:43.220 so you have to step up in his shoes and continue the journey yeah i mean we in honor of him that's

00:07:49.060 partnership i mean we could we could talk about exceptions but i'm talking about the rule which is

00:07:52.800 like most people are healthy this is it yeah it's for better worse sickness and health that's partnership

00:07:58.180 yeah yeah um to me it's just when you when i hear partnership it just sounds like 50 50 i just

00:08:04.460 don't like the word so i just wonder why it's so common here because to me it's like i don't want

00:08:09.040 a husband i don't want a partner i think it's just more figure of speech you just need to say

00:08:13.320 yeah um can i ask about the one-sided yeah yeah okay yeah sure okay so you you guys do a little

00:08:22.200 bit unconventional of a relationship right yeah totally can you tell me about it so yeah so in the

00:08:27.280 beginning you know i'll admit it you're gonna make me sound like a dick but in the beginning 0.89

00:08:31.460 like i was like seeing girls behind her back and then eventually we came to terms with the fact

00:08:35.860 that you know we're just like what made it work the best was that i'm just fully upfront and honest

00:08:40.620 about all of it and then we have like certain rules so like i don't have girls sleep over i don't go 0.68

00:08:45.680 on dates with girls um i shower if i see a girl you know i shower afterwards and stuff like that

00:08:51.080 um but i'll let you speak to it because it was like a big process in the beginning i mean

00:08:55.500 it's definitely not normal no it was like step by step you know like um like i used to like before

00:09:04.520 i i've always liked girls so it wasn't like a big deal for me like be actually attracted for girls

00:09:11.100 so and i don't think it was like a trend like for me at the time because like i would look different so

00:09:18.620 uh to go

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JustPearlyThings - July 21, 2023

Woman Claims That Pr0n Is Healthy

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