Woman Claims That Pr0n Is Healthy
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about sex and sexless men and why sex is a problem in modern society. Is sex a necessity or a luxury? Is sex out of choice or is sex a choice or a necessity?
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they say that in societies that um have a large group of sexless men those men become violent
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and so i wonder if corn helps deter men from being violent because then they have access to
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sexuality in a way these men they need god that's what they need oh amen amen to that i think that's
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what they need i think it just i don't know i just feel like the way that sex is now is not the same
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like people it's just not like maybe that's not love having intimacy it's just not about that it's
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just about getting your nut in like well but that's why my question was is sex a need that men can't
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live without long term anyways i feel like it is it depends on the generation no okay i'm not a man
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regardless of the generation no because it can be somewhat no that's not true because there's some
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men like i call i have a great granddad yeah and he he didn't have no kids no he had a partner for
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a while but then he went to the war and he just traveled around the world and that was his focus
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that was his purpose so i think sometimes they can shift their purpose i don't yeah i think some men
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are capable a lot more restraint when it comes to sex i was about to say they can it's just that people
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don't have the mental toughness anymore it's like everything's easy so you can there's no discipline
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have the mental toughness men or women are one in three women under 30 virgins i think no both
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both genders don't have the mental toughness anymore right now uh what were you gonna say i was gonna
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say with your um scenario with your granddad that could just be like out is that out of choice or is
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it not out of choice do you know what i mean i want to say a joke though i just kind of like
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yeah do you know that that tiktok one is like um really i i i need to i need to think about it
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before are you sure he's straight that's what i want to say he's definitely straight but he's like
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but he was all into like the um like wildlife going for walks like i don't know he was just out
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here living memories but maybe that's his age because he was like 90 something i don't know
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towards the end but i think like he wasn't focused on that men can't ultimately be fulfilled like i
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don't like to like live without it i mean it sounds like you know would the guy kill himself or something
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like that but yeah i don't think they can ultimately be fulfilled because i've had lots of clients where
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they have every area of life handled i'm sure you've seen this a lot of times if they don't have the
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girl that's like life isn't complete they're not fulfilled they're not ultimately happy even if they've got
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the money the body like everything they could have everything going on but without that partner
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by their side they're not ultimately he had a companion for years but he never like it wasn't
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that kind of relationship was just like a companion so i think that can be fulfilled with that loneliness
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not necessarily like a sexual drive that can just be yeah men are not emotional you think about
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so they can they i don't think they can't go without sex but they don't need that
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romance they don't need that affection they don't need like we do so if they want to do whatever
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they're doing in the bedroom watching whatever they want to watch but then they're happy with it
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i think i think corn is a really actually i think it's kind of healthy because i believe like all men
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they need sex yeah yeah i agree a thing that they need you know and like it's good that they at least
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have corn you know at least they have that thing that's like oh cool and it's like what he does in
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private at least like oh he really is i think it's something natural i think it shouldn't be like
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something that have to be banned or oh look what these girls are doing here like okay they chose to
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do that they chose to work like that so that's their problems you know don't look down on it yeah but
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they're like um oh because there's type of corn that's like this there's type of corn that's like
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that they have all these ties because they have like a public for all these types otherwise they
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wouldn't exist yeah so i think it's like it's like a necessity for them but imagine going on
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your partner's phone right why would you do that wait wait go on go on i'm curious about it wait wait
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wait wait hear me out hear me out cool imagine going on okay imagine going on your partner's phone
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and seeing that they search for a certain thing so it could be and it's not me like
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is that an issue is that an issue for you women why are you looking for problems
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hey i'm not toxic so let's not just but i'm just saying is that an issue for women what their men
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no no no it can be cold stuff i've heard that's why like what would you do if you saw your i don't
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i don't want to know exactly i don't but are you okay with it are women generally engaging with corn
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yeah as long as you don't cheat that's and as long as i don't know is it seen as cheating because i'm
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women see it's cheating yeah i've gotten yelled at a bunch for i'm curious out of the girls here is
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corn cheating yes raise your hand no no yeah yeah you guys say yes no i have a question
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what if what if um so if you think corn is cheating if you say no to him for sex can he
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then go do corn no yeah but just not with me but all women are different can he go and just yeah but
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can he go and just sleep with anyone else you'd rather him sleep with someone else i don't rather
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him it's it's i'd rather not know about it and do what we want to do if you're gonna sleep with
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someone that person you i'd rather you pay that person and you never cheat on someone that i
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personally know so i can just like at least and get to that situation but i'd rather not know so
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isn't cheating but that's why i just it's so complicated it's not that easy that's what i
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really don't want to know are you okay with that in your relationship what like cheating as long
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as long as you don't know no no if i know i will cut the mic that exactly if i know it i i want
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ignorance but ignorant exactly i i i honor that so you just don't look you don't ever look for it
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yes almost unless there's something kind of if my partner was okay with it i'd almost look at you
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less yeah what do you mean because that's a judgment that's his character yeah but but listen
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if you're gonna turn out why do you use the word partner i like that it's so common out here
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and i'm just like i don't want to date a partner
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here's the thing about partnership right because we think boyfriend girlfriend blah blah blah all of
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that with time partnership lasts yeah it's probably the best description isn't it your boyfriend you're
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attracted to him today tomorrow is changing your body's changing his body's changing partnership
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but that but that seems like it's 50 50 and to me i don't i don't want to okay if you like 50 50
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relationships i i prefer relationships that are a little bit in more traditional roles where i can
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like trust my husband's decision making but that would still be a partnership wouldn't it if you
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imagine you had a business partnership and his his interest in your business was 20 still
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technically a partner i think for me partnership just means someone willing to work with you for
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the ups and the downs for the good and the bad that's partnership see but partnership like that
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it sounds like you have the same roles and the same input decision making where when it's a
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husband and a wife that's very clear it's like different roles yeah like the man's at the head
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yeah yeah but here's the thing right and i've seen it happen to my mom what if your your husband
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is making the rules today but he can't make them tomorrow because he's sick he got a stroke he've
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so you have to step up in his shoes and continue the journey yeah i mean we in honor of him that's
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partnership i mean we could we could talk about exceptions but i'm talking about the rule which is
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like most people are healthy this is it yeah it's for better worse sickness and health that's partnership
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yeah yeah um to me it's just when you when i hear partnership it just sounds like 50 50 i just
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don't like the word so i just wonder why it's so common here because to me it's like i don't want
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a husband i don't want a partner i think it's just more figure of speech you just need to say
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yeah um can i ask about the one-sided yeah yeah okay yeah sure okay so you you guys do a little
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bit unconventional of a relationship right yeah totally can you tell me about it so yeah so in the
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beginning you know i'll admit it you're gonna make me sound like a dick but in the beginning
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like i was like seeing girls behind her back and then eventually we came to terms with the fact
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that you know we're just like what made it work the best was that i'm just fully upfront and honest
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about all of it and then we have like certain rules so like i don't have girls sleep over i don't go
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on dates with girls um i shower if i see a girl you know i shower afterwards and stuff like that
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um but i'll let you speak to it because it was like a big process in the beginning i mean
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it's definitely not normal no it was like step by step you know like um like i used to like before
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i i've always liked girls so it wasn't like a big deal for me like be actually attracted for girls
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so and i don't think it was like a trend like for me at the time because like i would look different so