Woman Claims That She Is Rihanna
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
194.20795
Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and talk about what it's like growing up in the public school system and how they dealt with the pressures of being a teacher and being a student.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
I wouldn't say that there's an issue with comparing.
00:00:05.380
I think there's a problem with shaming for sure.
00:00:07.260
Because even when you look at sports, the best, like, the champions are the ones like,
00:00:17.340
When you're a kid and you're growing up, actually, when your parents encourage you,
00:00:25.060
Positive reinforcement is actually way more powerful than negative reinforcement.
00:00:30.820
We start to act like adults and not just children in big bodies.
00:00:34.140
We all have our inner child that actually, the more you keep giving negativity,
00:00:37.700
the more we're going to go into ourselves and be depressed.
00:00:41.360
I think the best teachers are the ones that didn't put up with shit.
00:00:45.020
Like, there's a teacher I had in seventh grade who, I swear, she made my life a living hell.
00:00:49.540
But I could still tell you how to diagram an English sentence better than anyone.
00:00:55.360
But did you, when you did something well, even though, like, if you weren't listening or you weren't doing something you were meant to do,
00:01:03.960
But then when you did something well, did she praise you?
00:01:06.480
Or did she tell you, did she just ignore the fact that you were...
00:01:52.160
And she would give me a detention even if I was, like, five seconds late.
00:02:06.220
But when I was on time, she didn't congratulate me.
00:02:13.120
And B, I think it's because she understood that it's not exceptional
00:02:20.120
Of that you should coach kids to be fit for society.
00:02:22.740
Not to chase validation or, oh, you know, if I tell you something good,
00:02:36.120
But if you achieve, have an actual achievement, just say you won an award,
00:02:41.580
No one's ever clapped for me when I won anything.
00:02:42.700
No, because you don't have us around you then, do you?
00:02:46.700
Yeah, but you know what, an award is for exceptional behavior.
00:02:55.160
But I think now we give awards for being average.
00:02:58.160
And I can see this, because if you ask, like, if I go on the street,
00:03:01.820
rate yourself one to ten with, like, a lot of women,
00:03:07.020
And then as soon as I say, oh, so you look the same as Rihanna.
00:03:44.280
Can I just ask, when you say 8.5, do you say just because of your looks
00:03:52.740
Actually, no, I'll say probably looks, whole package nine.
00:04:11.500
My modeling contracts are not there because I'm not trying to be a model.
00:04:18.480
People, people, listen, ask me what people are finding me for.
00:04:25.860
Well, yeah, like, I've literally, like, just going from posting on Instagram and stuff.
00:04:31.360
I, like, have been offered to work for Bottega and Puma and, like, collaborations with, like, Dua Lipa just from, like, posting on Instagram.
00:04:40.840
Like, they do, they have just found me naturally.
00:04:43.580
But also, like, when I've applied, I always get, like, replies.
00:04:52.740
Like, I do, like, I applied for Wilhelmina, like, yesterday.
00:04:56.740
And, like, this is, like, one of the biggest modeling, like, things in the world.
00:05:00.940
I do feel big-headed now, like, they replied, but.
00:05:04.640
So, basically, you're prettier than me because you're a model and I'm not.
00:05:10.480
I'm saying, based on the standards I'm trying to compare.
00:05:18.200
Beauty is a subjective thing, though, isn't it?
00:05:21.200
I do agree with you because beauty is so subjective.
00:05:24.480
Like, one person might look at me and then be like, fuck, like, you're so fucking sexy.
00:05:29.280
But then one person will be like, no, you're, like, ugly.
00:05:31.360
Babe, I think no matter what, I think there is certain things.
00:05:36.120
You can look at someone, even if they're different, no matter what race they are,
00:05:39.280
no matter what texture their hair is, no matter, you know, how they behave, their confidence,
00:05:46.820
you can look at a person, even, like, someone like you and I, I mean, we differ so much.
00:05:52.020
And someone will say, okay, she's better looking than this person.
00:05:56.420
We can, no, I think, like, yeah, because you've got to remember, there's a general consensus
00:06:01.500
for beauty that's been going on for a hundred years.
00:06:04.480
No, no, I think you can just look at someone and say she's, even people that, like,
00:06:09.340
obese people, for example, there are certain men that.
00:06:11.700
Being good looking and being a model, like, being a model, you have to have a certain standard
00:06:18.020
because they're going to put you out as a face of their brand.
00:06:21.180
And being pretty is another thing, like, yeah, I'm pretty.
00:06:24.260
You need a symmetrical face, like, girls just post, that's what I'm saying, like,
00:06:28.880
people that are model level pretty get model level results.
00:06:32.180
I've never posted an Instagram photo and had a modeling agency reach out to me,
00:06:41.820
But basing beauty on symmetry is very dangerous because beauty does not actually just feel.
00:06:46.640
No, that's the standards based on what people are trying to tell you.
00:06:49.680
No, no, no, Denelda, Denelda, Denelda, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:59.640
If you were just going to talk about standards, you would say, okay, blonde girl with blue eyes.
00:07:05.260
But even the symmetry of your face, scientifically, when you look at somebody,
00:07:07.600
if somebody's face is symmetrical, automatically your brain is.
00:07:20.540
Like, you know behind the scenes, if you have a dating app, it ranks you 1 to 10.
00:07:25.200
So, like, behind the scenes, like, you have a rating.
00:07:42.080
So, like, top 5% or 2% of guys get top 10% of girls or something like that.
00:07:55.420
I think it would be very different to what people rate themselves.
00:08:00.520
I just think it would be very different to what specifically women rate themselves.
00:08:05.440
I mean, we're told from a young age, we're special.
00:08:13.860
I don't understand why women don't realize that men control the rating.
00:08:18.820
The same way you guys control the rating for us, we control the rating for you.
00:08:23.800
And you lot are always trying to pick your own rating.
00:08:26.380
And we just be sitting there thinking, what is going on?
00:08:43.940
Man, her face on all that, but she got a fat ass.
00:08:55.240
Because the second I go into standards, you lot lose your mind.
00:09:02.000
I'm like, yo, I just wanted my breakfast made in the morning.
00:09:05.000
I wanted you to say good morning to me and be nice.
00:09:14.880
When you go into, like, standards and very firm, objective kind of levels, I notice a
00:09:21.900
lot of women I know go into this whole, like, postmodern, like, but what is beauty?
00:09:28.500
It's like the lines start getting blurred, innit?
00:09:43.880
Okay, okay, because I don't want anyone to cry.
00:09:48.720
Okay, okay, so I want everyone, all right, first to start, rate yourself one to ten.
00:10:36.320
So, so she's, she's a, she's a ten, but mine is ten because she's my man's wife, in it.
00:10:47.260
Because you've got a weird necklace on with shapes and stuff.
00:10:51.600
You're talking about, like, your star sign and, like, challenging generals, stuff like that.
00:10:55.940
Um, I'm going to stop at the first one, actually.
00:11:20.700
Also, also, I don't, I don't know you, so personality is, like, three points.
00:12:09.420
If you want to, because she's a wife, you could do it.
00:12:16.060
You don't have to participate if you don't want to participate.
00:12:23.100
And then I'm going to have the women rate each other, too.
00:12:46.960
Depending on what she says on a particular time.
00:12:48.740
No, you know, like on a normal day, you know, fresh face, no makeup, I'd say a seven, but
00:12:54.420
if she, you know, when she gets, you know, spruced up, you know, she could get that eight, nine in there, maybe.
00:13:01.380
Uh, let me go from, okay, yeah, here, on the end, I'm going to have to look at the camera.
00:13:14.180
I'm like, ooh, that name might have just given you an extra point.
00:13:22.160
So, I was going to say 6, but Valentina was like, oh, it's a nice name.
00:13:30.960
Based on what I'm looking at right now, I don't know, because you did say you just came from a shoot.
00:13:39.000
Yeah, so I'm going to just say 5 and call it a save 5.
00:14:03.920
It's love, but, you know, being friends with females is tough.
00:14:45.000
Based on the information that I've received so far.
00:14:55.080
So that automatically just puts five points on.
00:15:04.560
What you were saying about how you would go into like a.
00:15:09.620
The kind of honest devotion that you've given to your husband.
00:16:04.740
And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
00:16:09.200
If you want to help, please consider sending a super thanks below.
00:16:13.440
Every donation helps, and it helps make what we do possible.