JustPearlyThings - Woman EXPOSES The Ungrateful Nature of Modern Women

00:00:00.000 I always say something, though, that you see us women, we talk,

00:00:03.120 especially when we're single, we always talk, like,

00:00:06.140 but once emotions come in, a guy can be on 15K

00:00:09.720 and he tells us to leave our jobs.

00:00:12.120 We could.

00:00:12.680 But this is a bad decision.

00:00:14.140 Yeah, and that's what I was just about to say,

00:00:15.840 that these are part of the issues that we have.

00:00:17.380 We don't think logically.

00:00:18.940 We always think with our emotions.

00:00:20.080 That sex is good. 0.99

00:00:22.160 But I swear, the last show, we talked about leadership,

00:00:24.660 and I think someone broke the fact that, you know,

00:00:26.860 women can be effective leaders, and everybody was like,

00:00:29.320 no, I said that, I don't know if I said,

00:00:32.860 did I say on the live show that I said that,

00:00:34.480 I feel like the issue is women don't know the power that they have. 1.00

00:00:38.440 Yeah, I said they don't know the power they have.

00:00:40.400 They try to play the powers that they think they need to have

00:00:43.040 because they see it glamorized.

00:00:44.580 So men in higher positions and everything.

00:00:46.900 And the thing with us women is sometimes we're very greedy. 1.00

00:00:49.560 We want a bit of everything, right?

00:00:51.420 So we see men being glorified in that area.

00:00:55.020 We too, we want to go there.

00:00:57.240 Feminists. 0.94

00:00:57.600 We too want to go there and be part of that party.

00:01:01.040 Whereas we're being glorified here.

00:01:03.760 If we were to embrace that position,

00:01:05.780 we don't realize the power we have.

00:01:07.960 That's why they always say,

00:01:09.020 behind every successful man is a successful woman. 1.00

00:01:12.080 We don't always need to be...

00:01:13.280 That's a feminist problem. 1.00

00:01:14.240 You think Ganges Khan had a successful woman?

00:01:16.640 That was why.

00:01:17.460 But being successful doesn't mean having status.

00:01:21.740 Being, being, it wasn't a successful woman, 1.00

00:01:23.840 a good woman, sorry.

00:01:24.680 But we don't have to...

00:01:27.840 We have an issue with not being in the limelight now.

00:01:31.040 I thought you were going to say that background.

00:01:32.000 Yeah.

00:01:32.560 It's being in the background.

00:01:32.980 There's nothing wrong with us being in the background,

00:01:35.260 rubbing his back when no one's there,

00:01:37.120 and him going out.

00:01:38.040 I don't know why women don't get frills out of just knowing that. 1.00

00:01:40.620 I think it's the lack of appreciation.

00:01:42.440 I feel like someone said it.

00:01:44.260 I don't know who said it.

00:01:45.160 Lack of appreciation.

00:01:45.840 In terms of, like, when we don't feel like,

00:01:49.140 okay, babe, thank you for doing that,

00:01:51.560 or thank you, being appreciated for the little things,

00:01:54.880 after a while, we now want to fight to get noticed.

00:01:57.360 But just to revole that,

00:01:59.400 do we women say thank you for going out to work hard?

00:02:02.280 That's what I was going to ask.

00:02:02.980 Thank you for making the money.

00:02:04.160 Thank you for giving me the money to buy food.

00:02:06.000 100% we do.

00:02:07.380 Not everybody.

00:02:09.060 I think we're only learning these things to praise our men now.

00:02:12.040 I don't think men are praised.

00:02:14.080 I think all of that is an expectation.

00:02:16.360 You're all going to say good morning no more.

00:02:17.780 I think all of that.

00:02:19.800 What girls are you talking about? 1.00

00:02:21.480 I think all of that is gone.

00:02:23.180 Part of submission is to praise your partner.

00:02:25.080 Yeah, yeah, 100%.

00:02:25.940 100% acknowledge that they are the head of the household.

00:02:28.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:02:29.040 And I think that's enough ego to strike for them anyway.

00:02:32.040 But the problem is women don't submit if a guy makes less. 1.00

00:02:35.720 And so it's like, we want a top 20% income, 30% income,

00:02:39.320 but are you top 20%, 30% in women?

00:02:40.980 But the reason why, well, I can only speak for myself,

00:02:44.700 the reason why I want that, right?

00:02:47.960 Because I am that, financially wise.

00:02:50.820 Right, but that's what women do, 1.00

00:02:52.080 where they become the men that they want to marry.

00:02:55.680 I can agree with that.

00:02:56.700 And so you could say that I am that, and I want that,

00:03:00.620 and I understand, but for me, I do pretty well with this show.

00:03:05.440 I would never, in my right mind, expect a guy that I date

00:03:08.120 to make as much, it just wouldn't make sense.

00:03:10.060 But like I said, with me, okay, so imagine if I was on like 300K

00:03:14.500 and a guy was on 200K.

00:03:16.980 For me, that's not a problem

00:03:18.020 because we can still live a certain quality of life.

00:03:20.700 My problem is quality of life.

00:03:22.760 Do you get what I'm saying?

00:03:23.600 You hit the nail on the head.

00:03:25.080 This is the problem.

00:03:26.440 Like, this is the issue,

00:03:27.400 is that women won't go down in lifestyle for a family 1.00

00:03:30.120 and for peace and happiness.

00:03:32.360 Because, and like, they want to stay at that lifestyle,

00:03:36.220 but it's like, you know, would you give up getting your nails done?

00:03:39.220 Get it, like all the things you're-

00:03:40.320 Oh, oh, give it, but getting your nails done and stuff is,

00:03:42.700 that's not the lifestyle I'm talking about, by the way.

00:03:44.580 Take a smaller apartment, a small, like,

00:03:46.720 like less of everything for a family.

00:03:48.980 For a family.

00:03:49.680 And even, you know, quitting your job,

00:03:51.760 letting him be the breadwinner for a family.

00:03:54.560 Like Chris Rock made that joke.

00:03:56.000 He goes, men can't go back with sexually

00:03:57.380 and women can't go back with in lifestyle. 1.00

00:03:58.800 So like, as women, it's just like, yo, 1.00

00:04:00.640 remember when you were a teen and you dated,

00:04:02.380 the first guy you dated who had a car

00:04:03.860 and he could pick you up, take you out, whatever.

00:04:06.760 When that ended, you're like,

00:04:08.280 yo, I don't fuck with guys who don't have a car anymore.

00:04:10.760 I only fuck with guys who have a car.

00:04:11.860 And these times, you guys are still green.

00:04:13.740 So that proves Maxi's point about 10 sleeping with threes. 0.67

00:04:19.220 What do you mean?

00:04:20.080 Because when you've slept with a lifestyle-

00:04:22.060 But she wasn't a three, though. 0.91

00:04:23.780 No, I think I was just saying about lifestyle,

00:04:25.500 about what a man can do with an experience you have.

00:04:28.120 It adds to women's entitlement 1.00

00:04:30.340 because when you give them that lifestyle,

00:04:32.800 the next guy, they're expecting that and higher.

00:04:34.760 Well, but they could have earned the lifestyle.

00:04:36.680 Yeah, but you gave it to them.

00:04:38.140 That's the thing.

00:04:38.700 No, no, no, no.

00:04:39.080 I'm saying, I'm saying like,

00:04:40.240 like even themselves,

00:04:41.380 like could have,

00:04:42.000 they could have the job and earn it themselves.

00:04:44.000 Like one of the things Kevin Samuels used to say

00:04:45.940 was like, if, like to go down in lifestyle

00:04:48.720 for the guy that you want.

00:04:50.280 But like most girls don't want to do that. 1.00

00:04:52.260 Because the thing is,

00:04:53.060 I know you're saying that we could,

00:04:54.900 or the girl could earn the lifestyle. 1.00

00:04:57.000 Uh-huh.

00:04:57.700 But honestly,

00:05:00.140 if it came tea free

00:05:01.440 and you had to work for it,

00:05:02.620 which one would you take?

00:05:03.800 If it was given tea,

00:05:04.900 if your lifestyle was,

00:05:05.720 exactly,

00:05:06.520 so they wouldn't want to work for it

00:05:07.740 if they don't have to.

00:05:08.240 But can I ask you something, Maxie?

00:05:09.560 What's wrong with a guy

00:05:10.480 actually giving a girl

00:05:12.260 that's not as high a level as he is

00:05:15.020 a good life?

00:05:16.380 Financially.

00:05:16.800 Yeah, what's wrong with a guy dating a three 1.00

00:05:18.580 and her thinking,

00:05:19.780 okay, maybe I don't know.

00:05:19.940 We weren't talking about a three financially.

00:05:21.680 No, a three in,

00:05:22.900 we're talking about in her whole packaging.

00:05:24.120 He's probably just fucking her,

00:05:26.620 that's the difference.

00:05:27.180 No, but I'm saying even so,

00:05:28.600 even if he's spoiling her

00:05:29.760 or he's got a car.

00:05:31.000 It does something to her mentality, I think.

00:05:32.720 But what is wrong with her

00:05:33.880 wanting something better?

00:05:35.820 There's nothing wrong with her

00:05:36.720 wanting something better.

00:05:37.820 Okay, okay, okay.

00:05:39.880 Okay.

00:05:40.860 This is,

00:05:41.620 we're going to go back to the cars.

00:05:44.440 She loves them.

00:05:45.480 We have a used,

00:05:47.400 a Honda Civic with a lot of miles

00:05:49.040 and they feel like they're entitled

00:05:51.620 to new BMW prices

00:05:53.000 and they want new BMW prices.

00:05:54.900 But when all the BMW buyers are like,

00:05:57.800 nah, that's a Honda Civic.

00:05:59.040 I don't want a Honda Civic.

00:06:00.080 I want the BMW.

00:06:02.080 They're like,

00:06:03.400 no offense,

00:06:04.280 what's wrong with wanting what I want?

00:06:05.640 You can want what you want,

00:06:06.380 but can you get it?

00:06:08.160 And in this context,

00:06:08.880 the BMW is at the 22 year old

00:06:10.600 and then the Honda Civic

00:06:11.920 is at the 30 something plus.

00:06:13.260 But the guy that owned the BMW

00:06:15.160 drove the Honda Civic

00:06:16.240 for like a week.

00:06:17.720 And now,

00:06:19.140 and great addition to my analogy.

00:06:23.340 Yeah, he was test driving.

00:06:25.140 Yeah.

00:06:26.100 And it was more cardio riding.

00:06:27.940 And then she was like,

00:06:28.840 is this my new?

00:06:29.400 Now they think they've got more value

00:06:30.700 than they actually do.

00:06:31.560 Is this my new buyer?

00:06:32.680 And he's like,

00:06:33.080 oh no.

00:06:34.580 Yeah.

00:06:37.060 It's a courtesy car.

00:06:38.940 Are you trying to say,

00:06:40.680 what's wrong with aiming high?

00:06:41.600 Is that what you're trying to say?

00:06:42.320 Yeah, like I just feel like,

00:06:43.540 okay, for me,

00:06:45.080 if you're saying three

00:06:45.860 as a whole package,

00:06:46.820 I think that means

00:06:47.780 she's not worth that much.

00:06:49.720 Right.

00:06:50.060 Well, I think what Pearl

00:06:51.500 is trying to say,

00:06:52.340 if you correct me if I'm wrong,

00:06:53.540 is you're fishing way out of your league.

00:06:56.180 Simply, yeah.

00:06:56.860 And it's out of my league.

00:06:58.140 Well, it's out of,

00:06:58.820 it's out of like,

00:06:59.780 okay, so what?

00:07:00.800 Top 20, 20.

00:07:01.960 It's what men value.

00:07:03.160 So like,

00:07:04.060 if men value purity,

00:07:05.620 youth,

00:07:06.580 and you don't have purity in youth,

00:07:08.420 and you want a top 20% guy

00:07:09.900 in terms of income,

00:07:10.880 like I just think it'd be hard.

00:07:11.960 There's exceptions,

00:07:13.120 but I'm not feeling entitled.

00:07:14.880 It's just,

00:07:15.360 what?

00:07:16.420 Yeah.

00:07:17.040 I think what I was going to say is,

00:07:18.440 I think the mistake

00:07:19.500 a lot of women can make 1.00

00:07:20.400 is they think

00:07:20.980 their league is the guys

00:07:22.600 who have sex with them. 0.84

00:07:24.000 And their league is actually

00:07:25.180 the guys who will commit to them.

00:07:26.940 And that's what I'll say,

00:07:27.620 literally,

00:07:28.100 because men are judged

00:07:29.020 by the calibre of woman

00:07:29.680 they can get,

00:07:30.180 whilst women are judged

00:07:30.800 by the calibre of man

00:07:31.420 they can keep.

00:07:32.140 Very true.

00:07:32.600 If you can't keep the man,

00:07:33.520 then you have no value

00:07:34.940 in that situation.

00:07:35.500 But do you see how

00:07:36.580 that confuses a woman though? 1.00

00:07:38.480 Not really,

00:07:39.040 because if you're smart,

00:07:40.700 it's not smart,

00:07:41.620 but if you're just,

00:07:42.460 and this is why I always

00:07:43.180 talk about self-awareness,

00:07:44.180 and a lot of us

00:07:44.960 lack self-awareness.

00:07:45.920 If we were truly self-aware

00:07:46.920 and cognizant of our behaviours,

00:07:48.140 you'd understand that,

00:07:49.300 okay,

00:07:49.580 here's this guy

00:07:50.280 who I'm attracted to,

00:07:52.440 but based on his behaviours,

00:07:53.560 he's not trying to do anything

00:07:54.500 to keep me.

00:07:55.280 I think we'd never ever

00:07:56.400 take things at face value.

00:07:57.660 But you don't know,

00:07:58.200 women, 1.00

00:07:58.580 and this is what I mean,

00:07:59.320 but women who actively

00:08:00.660 ignore red flags,

00:08:02.260 because you know

00:08:02.780 when you look in hindsight,

00:08:04.420 this guy wasn't doing shit.

00:08:06.160 Like,

00:08:06.540 he literally slid in your DMs,

00:08:07.980 said,

00:08:08.200 when I'm coming to your yard,

00:08:09.080 and you're like,

00:08:09.460 yeah,

00:08:09.740 spread your head,

00:08:10.660 and now it's blowing your back out, 0.84

00:08:11.620 and now you're in love.

00:08:12.700 Is that a comment

00:08:14.300 of Krantz for you?

00:08:15.300 I don't know

00:08:15.540 what you're talking about.

00:08:16.020 Is that a comment?

00:08:17.520 No comment.

00:08:18.420 You are right.

00:08:19.540 Is this from experience?

00:08:21.840 Just get me.

00:08:23.780 You're stuttering.

00:08:24.800 You're stuttering.

00:08:26.780 You better make that

00:08:27.700 bling shimmer, boy.

00:08:29.700 No,

00:08:30.040 but I think you're right.

00:08:30.760 It is confusing.

00:08:31.820 It is confusing

00:08:32.480 to the woman 0.68

00:08:32.980 who doesn't understand men.

00:08:35.460 And I think...

00:08:36.100 And a lot of women don't. 1.00

00:08:37.060 And a lot of women don't. 1.00

00:08:37.860 And I think a big reason of that,

00:08:39.580 which is part of the reason

00:08:40.260 why this show

00:08:40.840 is as big as it is,

00:08:43.080 is because whenever men

00:08:44.400 in recent 10 to 20 years

00:08:46.420 have expressed,

00:08:47.240 okay,

00:08:47.420 this is what I like,

00:08:48.480 this is what I look for,

00:08:49.320 this is what I commit to,

00:08:50.760 a lot of the time

00:08:51.440 it is shamed as misogyny,

00:08:53.280 patriarchal,

00:08:54.320 et cetera, et cetera.

00:08:55.180 So then what happened

00:08:55.860 was men were like,

00:08:56.320 all right,

00:08:56.480 we're not going to say anything.

00:08:57.560 We'll just show by our actions.

00:08:59.220 But I think what can happen

00:09:00.440 is like you said,

00:09:01.580 like,

00:09:02.040 especially if a girl's 0.87

00:09:02.700 having sex with a guy 0.70

00:09:03.560 and she really likes him,

00:09:05.140 she gets clouded.

00:09:06.920 So she doesn't see,

00:09:08.420 oh,

00:09:08.660 actually,

00:09:09.000 no,

00:09:09.320 all the men who,

00:09:10.380 all the women 0.93

00:09:10.760 who are actually

00:09:11.120 getting commitment,

00:09:12.000 they're moving in this way.

00:09:13.800 And the women 1.00

00:09:14.360 who aren't getting commitment,

00:09:15.620 like myself,

00:09:16.720 they're doing the same thing

00:09:17.460 I'm doing.

00:09:18.080 And it's hard to see that.

00:09:19.240 I understand that.

00:09:19.720 I was just banned

00:09:22.240 on TikTok

00:09:23.140 and we are demonetized

00:09:24.860 on a daily basis

00:09:26.080 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023

Woman EXPOSES The Ungrateful Nature of Modern Women

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