JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023


Woman EXPOSES The Ungrateful Nature of Modern Women


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

218.04929

Word Count

2,094

Sentence Count

158

Misogynist Sentences

28

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the issues that women are facing in the workplace, in the family and in society in general. We discuss the role of women in society and how they need to be more assertive in order to be the head of the household.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I always say something, though, that you see us women, we talk,
00:00:03.120 especially when we're single, we always talk, like,
00:00:06.140 but once emotions come in, a guy can be on 15K
00:00:09.720 and he tells us to leave our jobs.
00:00:12.120 We could.
00:00:12.680 But this is a bad decision.
00:00:14.140 Yeah, and that's what I was just about to say,
00:00:15.840 that these are part of the issues that we have.
00:00:17.380 We don't think logically.
00:00:18.940 We always think with our emotions.
00:00:20.080 That sex is good.
00:00:22.160 But I swear, the last show, we talked about leadership,
00:00:24.660 and I think someone broke the fact that, you know,
00:00:26.860 women can be effective leaders, and everybody was like,
00:00:29.320 no, I said that, I don't know if I said,
00:00:32.860 did I say on the live show that I said that,
00:00:34.480 I feel like the issue is women don't know the power that they have.
00:00:38.440 Yeah, I said they don't know the power they have.
00:00:40.400 They try to play the powers that they think they need to have
00:00:43.040 because they see it glamorized.
00:00:44.580 So men in higher positions and everything.
00:00:46.900 And the thing with us women is sometimes we're very greedy.
00:00:49.560 We want a bit of everything, right?
00:00:51.420 So we see men being glorified in that area.
00:00:55.020 We too, we want to go there.
00:00:57.240 Feminists.
00:00:57.600 We too want to go there and be part of that party.
00:01:01.040 Whereas we're being glorified here.
00:01:03.760 If we were to embrace that position,
00:01:05.780 we don't realize the power we have.
00:01:07.960 That's why they always say,
00:01:09.020 behind every successful man is a successful woman.
00:01:12.080 We don't always need to be...
00:01:13.280 That's a feminist problem.
00:01:14.240 You think Ganges Khan had a successful woman?
00:01:16.640 That was why.
00:01:17.460 But being successful doesn't mean having status.
00:01:21.740 Being, being, it wasn't a successful woman,
00:01:23.840 a good woman, sorry.
00:01:24.680 But we don't have to...
00:01:27.840 We have an issue with not being in the limelight now.
00:01:31.040 I thought you were going to say that background.
00:01:32.000 Yeah.
00:01:32.560 It's being in the background.
00:01:32.980 There's nothing wrong with us being in the background,
00:01:35.260 rubbing his back when no one's there,
00:01:37.120 and him going out.
00:01:38.040 I don't know why women don't get frills out of just knowing that.
00:01:40.620 I think it's the lack of appreciation.
00:01:42.440 I feel like someone said it.
00:01:44.260 I don't know who said it.
00:01:45.160 Lack of appreciation.
00:01:45.840 In terms of, like, when we don't feel like,
00:01:49.140 okay, babe, thank you for doing that,
00:01:51.560 or thank you, being appreciated for the little things,
00:01:54.880 after a while, we now want to fight to get noticed.
00:01:57.360 But just to revole that,
00:01:59.400 do we women say thank you for going out to work hard?
00:02:02.280 That's what I was going to ask.
00:02:02.980 Thank you for making the money.
00:02:04.160 Thank you for giving me the money to buy food.
00:02:06.000 100% we do.
00:02:07.380 Not everybody.
00:02:09.060 I think we're only learning these things to praise our men now.
00:02:12.040 I don't think men are praised.
00:02:14.080 I think all of that is an expectation.
00:02:16.360 You're all going to say good morning no more.
00:02:17.780 I think all of that.
00:02:19.800 What girls are you talking about?
00:02:21.480 I think all of that is gone.
00:02:23.180 Part of submission is to praise your partner.
00:02:25.080 Yeah, yeah, 100%.
00:02:25.940 100% acknowledge that they are the head of the household.
00:02:28.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:29.040 And I think that's enough ego to strike for them anyway.
00:02:32.040 But the problem is women don't submit if a guy makes less.
00:02:35.720 And so it's like, we want a top 20% income, 30% income,
00:02:39.320 but are you top 20%, 30% in women?
00:02:40.980 But the reason why, well, I can only speak for myself,
00:02:44.700 the reason why I want that, right?
00:02:47.960 Because I am that, financially wise.
00:02:50.820 Right, but that's what women do,
00:02:52.080 where they become the men that they want to marry.
00:02:55.680 I can agree with that.
00:02:56.700 And so you could say that I am that, and I want that,
00:03:00.620 and I understand, but for me, I do pretty well with this show.
00:03:05.440 I would never, in my right mind, expect a guy that I date
00:03:08.120 to make as much, it just wouldn't make sense.
00:03:10.060 But like I said, with me, okay, so imagine if I was on like 300K
00:03:14.500 and a guy was on 200K.
00:03:16.980 For me, that's not a problem
00:03:18.020 because we can still live a certain quality of life.
00:03:20.700 My problem is quality of life.
00:03:22.760 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:03:23.600 You hit the nail on the head.
00:03:25.080 This is the problem.
00:03:26.440 Like, this is the issue,
00:03:27.400 is that women won't go down in lifestyle for a family
00:03:30.120 and for peace and happiness.
00:03:32.360 Because, and like, they want to stay at that lifestyle,
00:03:36.220 but it's like, you know, would you give up getting your nails done?
00:03:39.220 Get it, like all the things you're-
00:03:40.320 Oh, oh, give it, but getting your nails done and stuff is,
00:03:42.700 that's not the lifestyle I'm talking about, by the way.
00:03:44.580 Take a smaller apartment, a small, like,
00:03:46.720 like less of everything for a family.
00:03:48.980 For a family.
00:03:49.680 And even, you know, quitting your job,
00:03:51.760 letting him be the breadwinner for a family.
00:03:54.560 Like Chris Rock made that joke.
00:03:56.000 He goes, men can't go back with sexually
00:03:57.380 and women can't go back with in lifestyle.
00:03:58.800 So like, as women, it's just like, yo,
00:04:00.640 remember when you were a teen and you dated,
00:04:02.380 the first guy you dated who had a car
00:04:03.860 and he could pick you up, take you out, whatever.
00:04:06.760 When that ended, you're like,
00:04:08.280 yo, I don't fuck with guys who don't have a car anymore.
00:04:10.760 I only fuck with guys who have a car.
00:04:11.860 And these times, you guys are still green.
00:04:13.740 So that proves Maxi's point about 10 sleeping with threes.
00:04:19.220 What do you mean?
00:04:20.080 Because when you've slept with a lifestyle-
00:04:22.060 But she wasn't a three, though.
00:04:23.780 No, I think I was just saying about lifestyle,
00:04:25.500 about what a man can do with an experience you have.
00:04:28.120 It adds to women's entitlement
00:04:30.340 because when you give them that lifestyle,
00:04:32.800 the next guy, they're expecting that and higher.
00:04:34.760 Well, but they could have earned the lifestyle.
00:04:36.680 Yeah, but you gave it to them.
00:04:38.140 That's the thing.
00:04:38.700 No, no, no, no.
00:04:39.080 I'm saying, I'm saying like,
00:04:40.240 like even themselves,
00:04:41.380 like could have,
00:04:42.000 they could have the job and earn it themselves.
00:04:44.000 Like one of the things Kevin Samuels used to say
00:04:45.940 was like, if, like to go down in lifestyle
00:04:48.720 for the guy that you want.
00:04:50.280 But like most girls don't want to do that.
00:04:52.260 Because the thing is,
00:04:53.060 I know you're saying that we could,
00:04:54.900 or the girl could earn the lifestyle.
00:04:57.000 Uh-huh.
00:04:57.700 But honestly,
00:05:00.140 if it came tea free
00:05:01.440 and you had to work for it,
00:05:02.620 which one would you take?
00:05:03.800 If it was given tea,
00:05:04.900 if your lifestyle was,
00:05:05.720 exactly,
00:05:06.520 so they wouldn't want to work for it
00:05:07.740 if they don't have to.
00:05:08.240 But can I ask you something, Maxie?
00:05:09.560 What's wrong with a guy
00:05:10.480 actually giving a girl
00:05:12.260 that's not as high a level as he is
00:05:15.020 a good life?
00:05:16.380 Financially.
00:05:16.800 Yeah, what's wrong with a guy dating a three
00:05:18.580 and her thinking,
00:05:19.780 okay, maybe I don't know.
00:05:19.940 We weren't talking about a three financially.
00:05:21.680 No, a three in,
00:05:22.900 we're talking about in her whole packaging.
00:05:24.120 He's probably just fucking her,
00:05:26.620 that's the difference.
00:05:27.180 No, but I'm saying even so,
00:05:28.600 even if he's spoiling her
00:05:29.760 or he's got a car.
00:05:31.000 It does something to her mentality, I think.
00:05:32.720 But what is wrong with her
00:05:33.880 wanting something better?
00:05:35.820 There's nothing wrong with her
00:05:36.720 wanting something better.
00:05:37.820 Okay, okay, okay.
00:05:39.880 Okay.
00:05:40.860 This is,
00:05:41.620 we're going to go back to the cars.
00:05:44.440 She loves them.
00:05:45.480 We have a used,
00:05:47.400 a Honda Civic with a lot of miles
00:05:49.040 and they feel like they're entitled
00:05:51.620 to new BMW prices
00:05:53.000 and they want new BMW prices.
00:05:54.900 But when all the BMW buyers are like,
00:05:57.800 nah, that's a Honda Civic.
00:05:59.040 I don't want a Honda Civic.
00:06:00.080 I want the BMW.
00:06:02.080 They're like,
00:06:03.400 no offense,
00:06:04.280 what's wrong with wanting what I want?
00:06:05.640 You can want what you want,
00:06:06.380 but can you get it?
00:06:08.160 And in this context,
00:06:08.880 the BMW is at the 22 year old
00:06:10.600 and then the Honda Civic
00:06:11.920 is at the 30 something plus.
00:06:13.260 But the guy that owned the BMW
00:06:15.160 drove the Honda Civic
00:06:16.240 for like a week.
00:06:17.720 And now,
00:06:19.140 and great addition to my analogy.
00:06:23.340 Yeah, he was test driving.
00:06:25.140 Yeah.
00:06:26.100 And it was more cardio riding.
00:06:27.940 And then she was like,
00:06:28.840 is this my new?
00:06:29.400 Now they think they've got more value
00:06:30.700 than they actually do.
00:06:31.560 Is this my new buyer?
00:06:32.680 And he's like,
00:06:33.080 oh no.
00:06:34.580 Yeah.
00:06:37.060 It's a courtesy car.
00:06:38.940 Are you trying to say,
00:06:40.680 what's wrong with aiming high?
00:06:41.600 Is that what you're trying to say?
00:06:42.320 Yeah, like I just feel like,
00:06:43.540 okay, for me,
00:06:45.080 if you're saying three
00:06:45.860 as a whole package,
00:06:46.820 I think that means
00:06:47.780 she's not worth that much.
00:06:49.720 Right.
00:06:50.060 Well, I think what Pearl
00:06:51.500 is trying to say,
00:06:52.340 if you correct me if I'm wrong,
00:06:53.540 is you're fishing way out of your league.
00:06:56.180 Simply, yeah.
00:06:56.860 And it's out of my league.
00:06:58.140 Well, it's out of,
00:06:58.820 it's out of like,
00:06:59.780 okay, so what?
00:07:00.800 Top 20, 20.
00:07:01.960 It's what men value.
00:07:03.160 So like,
00:07:04.060 if men value purity,
00:07:05.620 youth,
00:07:06.580 and you don't have purity in youth,
00:07:08.420 and you want a top 20% guy
00:07:09.900 in terms of income,
00:07:10.880 like I just think it'd be hard.
00:07:11.960 There's exceptions,
00:07:13.120 but I'm not feeling entitled.
00:07:14.880 It's just,
00:07:15.360 what?
00:07:16.420 Yeah.
00:07:17.040 I think what I was going to say is,
00:07:18.440 I think the mistake
00:07:19.500 a lot of women can make
00:07:20.400 is they think
00:07:20.980 their league is the guys
00:07:22.600 who have sex with them.
00:07:24.000 And their league is actually
00:07:25.180 the guys who will commit to them.
00:07:26.940 And that's what I'll say,
00:07:27.620 literally,
00:07:28.100 because men are judged
00:07:29.020 by the calibre of woman
00:07:29.680 they can get,
00:07:30.180 whilst women are judged
00:07:30.800 by the calibre of man
00:07:31.420 they can keep.
00:07:32.140 Very true.
00:07:32.600 If you can't keep the man,
00:07:33.520 then you have no value
00:07:34.940 in that situation.
00:07:35.500 But do you see how
00:07:36.580 that confuses a woman though?
00:07:38.480 Not really,
00:07:39.040 because if you're smart,
00:07:40.700 it's not smart,
00:07:41.620 but if you're just,
00:07:42.460 and this is why I always
00:07:43.180 talk about self-awareness,
00:07:44.180 and a lot of us
00:07:44.960 lack self-awareness.
00:07:45.920 If we were truly self-aware
00:07:46.920 and cognizant of our behaviours,
00:07:48.140 you'd understand that,
00:07:49.300 okay,
00:07:49.580 here's this guy
00:07:50.280 who I'm attracted to,
00:07:52.440 but based on his behaviours,
00:07:53.560 he's not trying to do anything
00:07:54.500 to keep me.
00:07:55.280 I think we'd never ever
00:07:56.400 take things at face value.
00:07:57.660 But you don't know,
00:07:58.200 women,
00:07:58.580 and this is what I mean,
00:07:59.320 but women who actively
00:08:00.660 ignore red flags,
00:08:02.260 because you know
00:08:02.780 when you look in hindsight,
00:08:04.420 this guy wasn't doing shit.
00:08:06.160 Like,
00:08:06.540 he literally slid in your DMs,
00:08:07.980 said,
00:08:08.200 when I'm coming to your yard,
00:08:09.080 and you're like,
00:08:09.460 yeah,
00:08:09.740 spread your head,
00:08:10.660 and now it's blowing your back out,
00:08:11.620 and now you're in love.
00:08:12.700 Is that a comment
00:08:14.300 of Krantz for you?
00:08:15.300 I don't know
00:08:15.540 what you're talking about.
00:08:16.020 Is that a comment?
00:08:17.520 No comment.
00:08:18.420 You are right.
00:08:19.540 Is this from experience?
00:08:21.840 Just get me.
00:08:23.780 You're stuttering.
00:08:24.800 You're stuttering.
00:08:26.780 You better make that
00:08:27.700 bling shimmer, boy.
00:08:29.700 No,
00:08:30.040 but I think you're right.
00:08:30.760 It is confusing.
00:08:31.820 It is confusing
00:08:32.480 to the woman
00:08:32.980 who doesn't understand men.
00:08:35.460 And I think...
00:08:36.100 And a lot of women don't.
00:08:37.060 And a lot of women don't.
00:08:37.860 And I think a big reason of that,
00:08:39.580 which is part of the reason
00:08:40.260 why this show
00:08:40.840 is as big as it is,
00:08:43.080 is because whenever men
00:08:44.400 in recent 10 to 20 years
00:08:46.420 have expressed,
00:08:47.240 okay,
00:08:47.420 this is what I like,
00:08:48.480 this is what I look for,
00:08:49.320 this is what I commit to,
00:08:50.760 a lot of the time
00:08:51.440 it is shamed as misogyny,
00:08:53.280 patriarchal,
00:08:54.320 et cetera, et cetera.
00:08:55.180 So then what happened
00:08:55.860 was men were like,
00:08:56.320 all right,
00:08:56.480 we're not going to say anything.
00:08:57.560 We'll just show by our actions.
00:08:59.220 But I think what can happen
00:09:00.440 is like you said,
00:09:01.580 like,
00:09:02.040 especially if a girl's
00:09:02.700 having sex with a guy
00:09:03.560 and she really likes him,
00:09:05.140 she gets clouded.
00:09:06.920 So she doesn't see,
00:09:08.420 oh,
00:09:08.660 actually,
00:09:09.000 no,
00:09:09.320 all the men who,
00:09:10.380 all the women
00:09:10.760 who are actually
00:09:11.120 getting commitment,
00:09:12.000 they're moving in this way.
00:09:13.800 And the women
00:09:14.360 who aren't getting commitment,
00:09:15.620 like myself,
00:09:16.720 they're doing the same thing
00:09:17.460 I'm doing.
00:09:18.080 And it's hard to see that.
00:09:19.240 I understand that.
00:09:19.720 I was just banned
00:09:22.240 on TikTok
00:09:23.140 and we are demonetized
00:09:24.860 on a daily basis
00:09:26.080 on this platform.
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