JustPearlyThings - Woman Gets A Taste Of Her Own Medicine

00:00:00.000 who's more narcissistic men or women give me a context what's more narcissistic social media

00:00:06.180 or video games social media who's more addicted to what that's that's that's where it comes in

00:00:16.440 really like it neither are a problem until they become a problem and they're using it okay okay

00:00:23.160 okay but no no answer the question what's more narcissistic probably social media what's your

00:00:28.860 what's your screen time do we have a look i don't want to have a look this is gonna make me feel sick

00:00:33.660 it's all right it's all right okay you won't be the first you won't be the last i use this phone

00:00:38.160 for work as well but i'm not not trying to make myself how do you find it what's what's the

00:00:42.540 instagram time you know what i mean how do you find screens yeah settings should be there then

00:00:48.780 where average the average ticket's like six or seven hours a day that's probably like on social

00:00:54.720 media did she see it 11 11 hours a day 11 hours a day yeah this is my work fine as well so so who

00:01:02.400 do you think was more narcissistic probably me to be honest probably me to be honest yeah yeah because

00:01:12.640 because you know instead of like thinking of where he was coming from when he ghosted you you were like

00:01:17.440 oh he wasn't there for me so it's like a me me me mentality oh definitely but if you're on like birth

00:01:22.080 could you just probably thought right it was a guy isn't that what you would think if she was on 0.96

00:01:26.000 birth control then she got pregnant bamboo i mean that's just what i hear i was bamboozled i was

00:01:31.360 absolutely bamboozled i mean you may have been but i'm just telling you how it looks to like because

00:01:35.040 if we're on a birth control that's 98 99 effective we can only get pregnant three days of the month

00:01:41.440 so if you get pregnant it's like the guys are kind of like uh how did this happen it's true i know

00:01:48.880 someone else personally that it's the same situation that's happened to them they were on

00:01:52.240 the pill and they've had two children from being on the pill yeah yeah i i think you you seem very

00:01:59.040 nice but i think most women lie about this i think they get pregnant on purpose i 1.00

00:02:04.400 just don't believe it oh no i just don't believe it it's it's really not that hard not to get pregnant

00:02:09.760 like no i agree really like you can only get pregnant three maybe five days of the month

00:02:14.880 no i completely i don't completely agree with you how are we all how are we all getting pregnant

00:02:19.520 left and right i just don't get it i have a theory i think a lot of women have secretly unknowingly 1.00

00:02:28.160 bipolar a bipolar disorder where they have someone else that commits crimes on their behalf

00:02:37.680 i think a lot of women have a representative that commits crimes on their behalf and then they can 1.00

00:02:42.160 claim to not know what happened i'm with you brother exactly allergies to accountability and

00:02:47.920 responsibility you know what's funny you know what's funny i saw there's um a guy from the 1900s

00:02:53.760 talking about i was reading about the court system in the 1900s and he was talking about how

00:02:58.080 female versus male victims even in the early 1900s before social media women would never admit 0.94

00:03:04.640 they were guilty like if a man committed a crime he might be like all right i did it like i was wrong

00:03:11.600 i did it but the woman would always have someone to blame and he was literally talking about this

00:03:16.160 in the 1900s it's always someone else's fault yeah someone even if the action came down to the

00:03:22.400 yeah yeah no accountability but it's interesting if if you say like um there was another case where a guy

00:03:29.520 um killed his family and the reason he killed his family was because the wife basically threatened to 0.59

00:03:34.400 like take all his he she threatened to leave him with the kids like just financially ruin him and 1.00

00:03:40.400 it's like if we bring that up there's no sympathy for the man but it's it's like interesting because

00:03:46.560 the other way around if you say oh well she killed her her baby but she was depressed but she was this

00:03:53.200 but she was that there's like always sympathy for the woman there's never for the man

00:03:56.480 and then the blame would go on mental illness yeah it's not it's not even up to her just yeah

00:04:03.120 she was just mentally yeah um yeah so so you still you don't want kids though

00:04:15.120 with the right person possibly but not as my not right this very second no i'm never going to say

00:04:22.240 never because i don't know what's going to happen tomorrow i don't know what's going to happen next

00:04:24.320 week did you want kids before no like when you were younger you never have wanted kids no like

00:04:29.280 even when i was young like i've always been a little bit of a girly girl but my mom and dad

00:04:33.120 used to buy me dollies they used to buy me prams i wouldn't touch it when did you get on social media

00:04:40.320 oh god i started with tumblr okay tumblr how old were you oh god about 13 maybe i think i think that

00:04:50.480 programs women to not want children at 12 13. think about it like that's if you're at 11 hours now 0.99

00:04:56.400 you've probably been similar for a long time so think about how much influence that has over you

00:05:01.280 every single day it's true and all of the programming and the messaging is like don't have kids don't

00:05:06.240 have kids kids are a burden um you say that a lot of my like i watch a lot of stuff to do with kids

00:05:12.640 my algorithm is full of kids go on tick tock go on instagram i've got all kids doing this and that and

00:05:16.240 blah blah blah blah blah but i don't know it's it's just modern society today and i think it's

00:05:21.600 absolutely shambolic and the dating pool that like you said earlier like if we were to go on tinder

00:05:25.680 or hinge or anything like that the dating pool is the same sort of men and what sort of men like the

00:05:32.480 men that women would always go for like not per se you would be attracted them on a sort of mental

00:05:40.640 level like a mental capacity sort of level it'd be more of a physical attraction and that's

00:05:48.640 i've lost my train of thought what the question what characters do you think what character traits

00:05:53.280 do you look for in a boyfriend what like surface level or just actual just character

00:06:00.640 traits top five top five top five uh caring okay um has a good relationship with their parents

00:06:10.720 or like any adult figure in their life has got respect for their adult figures in their life

00:06:15.120 because that plays a big part in it um ambition caring is a c has good relationships an h ambition

00:06:23.360 is an a we've got chow so the last one has to start with a d chat yeah i'm joking despise despises

00:06:31.200 modern scenarios we have to spell chad we're almost there my number one is doesn't think women should 1.00

00:06:35.280 vote oh yeah wait really no not number one but i agree with you on that like every women we just 0.94

00:06:42.560 spell chad no caring chav has a good relationship ambitious doesn't chad you think women shouldn't 0.88

00:06:50.800 vote too no women should vote with women women have i'm always alone women should vote women everyone

00:06:56.640 should be able to vote anyone that is of a legal aid should be able to vote what about what about 1.00

00:07:01.040 like what about like idiots you can have male idiots as well yeah yeah i mean what about the male idiots 1.00

00:07:09.440 can they not vote anyone everyone should have their right to vote i believe but um whether it counts or 1.00

00:07:17.520 not criminals should the criminals get to vote absolutely yes yeah absolutely yes yes they

00:07:22.960 should and then it's very simple it's just this is like more of a philosophical and like governmental

00:07:27.520 argument but it's because it prevents uh because if criminals couldn't vote you would have uh a surplus

00:07:32.720 of government power concentrated where people would be appointed as criminals so that they would not have

00:07:36.160 the ability to vote right so if you look at like most constitutional monarchies today criminals can vote

00:07:40.320 judges cannot because then you don't want judges to be able to be bought for their votes right because then they

00:07:45.200 can take political decisions in court and what you want to avoid is political decisions in court you

00:07:49.040 don't want to say he's a criminal if you have the authority to say that to take away their vote

00:07:52.720 the u.s criminals can't i'm i was raised in the canadian constitutional monarchy and i and i very much

00:07:58.160 agree that even though like i don't support criminals and nobody likes criminals whatever yeah but we

00:08:02.000 can't give beginning on the soviet union which is where i spent the first nine years of my life

00:08:05.520 a lot of people were deemed thought criminals and immediately you know they're removed from sort of the

00:08:10.640 the oh i see because the government the government right right abuses the power right so they're

00:08:14.560 by putting them exactly so so you can't you can't take away a person's you can't second class

00:08:19.120 a citizen another example would be the i can't say that word well in the in the us it used to just

00:08:23.360 be property owners remember remember when you when you had to be vaxxed to get a job or or to get

00:08:28.160 on a bus or to go to a restaurant etc etc those people that's a second class thing because they 0.92

00:08:32.080 said well you're a criminal against society because you're creating an excess risk of society which

00:08:35.520 turned out to be untrue and completely manipulative but that's where we run into that sort of issue

00:08:39.360 right well and the usa used to just be landowners most people couldn't vote until like the early

00:08:45.440 1900s late 1800s like it was literally just landowners yep wait we had it set up but that's but democracy

00:08:51.680 is the worst like the best of the world like there's no there's no good thing right like it just

00:08:56.160 it is what it is what do you mean well i mean like constitutional monarchies like the uae are amazing

00:09:00.880 and wonderful but there's also like a lot of not constitutional marquis i'm talking about like

00:09:04.960 actual like let's say benevolent dictatorships constitutional monarchies like canada but

00:09:09.120 like benevolent benevolent dictatorships like the uae are amazing because they have amazing

00:09:13.200 leadership that invests in infrastructure and people like it's one of the greatest places on

00:09:16.720 earth right but benevolent dictatorships always have that risk of flipping to not being so benevolent 0.77

00:09:21.040 and then you turn into a venezuela situation right so so in one but but on the other end democracy you

00:09:26.160 kind of get you kind of get a mix of everything so there's no like good outcome that you can guarantee

00:09:30.880 under any system right yeah well but the thing is like usually you have to have some skin in the game

00:09:35.360 that's like the way the u.s was for most of history like it was you had to be a landowner

00:09:39.440 right and that way you could vote so most men and women couldn't vote listen i lean towards benevolent

00:09:43.680 dictatorship myself like i just do um it's just because because i i prefer like if i'm in a company

00:09:48.960 like and i am a ceo of a company just so it turns out like i believe that like i am better at making

00:09:54.400 decisions than most of the people that are lower in that in that let's say hierarchy chain and the reason

00:09:59.440 is because you know companies are built by the market voting for you with their dollars meaning

00:10:04.960 that you make enough good decisions you can build something substantive right and like for example

00:10:08.880 we have somebody that comes and helps us clean our office like very nice lady that does it but her 1.00

00:10:12.800 decisions would not be wise in the course of of like choosing direction right whereas like in

00:10:17.280 democracy you know what you have is usually a very unqualified person being flipped for the next

00:10:21.760 very unqualified person and so it's not a good system but it's the best system that we have right

JustPearlyThings - August 04, 2023

Woman Gets A Taste Of Her Own Medicine

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