Woman Gets A Taste Of Her Own Medicine
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about narcissism, social media and how to deal with it in the modern world. We also discuss whether or not we should have children and how we should deal with our mental health issues.
Transcript
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who's more narcissistic men or women give me a context what's more narcissistic social media
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or video games social media who's more addicted to what that's that's that's where it comes in
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really like it neither are a problem until they become a problem and they're using it okay okay
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okay but no no answer the question what's more narcissistic probably social media what's your
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what's your screen time do we have a look i don't want to have a look this is gonna make me feel sick
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it's all right it's all right okay you won't be the first you won't be the last i use this phone
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for work as well but i'm not not trying to make myself how do you find it what's what's the
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instagram time you know what i mean how do you find screens yeah settings should be there then
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where average the average ticket's like six or seven hours a day that's probably like on social
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media did she see it 11 11 hours a day 11 hours a day yeah this is my work fine as well so so who
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do you think was more narcissistic probably me to be honest probably me to be honest yeah yeah because
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because you know instead of like thinking of where he was coming from when he ghosted you you were like
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oh he wasn't there for me so it's like a me me me mentality oh definitely but if you're on like birth
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could you just probably thought right it was a guy isn't that what you would think if she was on
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birth control then she got pregnant bamboo i mean that's just what i hear i was bamboozled i was
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absolutely bamboozled i mean you may have been but i'm just telling you how it looks to like because
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if we're on a birth control that's 98 99 effective we can only get pregnant three days of the month
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so if you get pregnant it's like the guys are kind of like uh how did this happen it's true i know
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someone else personally that it's the same situation that's happened to them they were on
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the pill and they've had two children from being on the pill yeah yeah i i think you you seem very
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nice but i think most women lie about this i think they get pregnant on purpose i
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just don't believe it oh no i just don't believe it it's it's really not that hard not to get pregnant
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like no i agree really like you can only get pregnant three maybe five days of the month
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no i completely i don't completely agree with you how are we all how are we all getting pregnant
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left and right i just don't get it i have a theory i think a lot of women have secretly unknowingly
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bipolar a bipolar disorder where they have someone else that commits crimes on their behalf
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i think a lot of women have a representative that commits crimes on their behalf and then they can
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claim to not know what happened i'm with you brother exactly allergies to accountability and
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responsibility you know what's funny you know what's funny i saw there's um a guy from the 1900s
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talking about i was reading about the court system in the 1900s and he was talking about how
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female versus male victims even in the early 1900s before social media women would never admit
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they were guilty like if a man committed a crime he might be like all right i did it like i was wrong
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i did it but the woman would always have someone to blame and he was literally talking about this
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in the 1900s it's always someone else's fault yeah someone even if the action came down to the
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yeah yeah no accountability but it's interesting if if you say like um there was another case where a guy
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um killed his family and the reason he killed his family was because the wife basically threatened to
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like take all his he she threatened to leave him with the kids like just financially ruin him and
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it's like if we bring that up there's no sympathy for the man but it's it's like interesting because
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the other way around if you say oh well she killed her her baby but she was depressed but she was this
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but she was that there's like always sympathy for the woman there's never for the man
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and then the blame would go on mental illness yeah it's not it's not even up to her just yeah
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she was just mentally yeah um yeah so so you still you don't want kids though
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with the right person possibly but not as my not right this very second no i'm never going to say
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never because i don't know what's going to happen tomorrow i don't know what's going to happen next
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week did you want kids before no like when you were younger you never have wanted kids no like
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even when i was young like i've always been a little bit of a girly girl but my mom and dad
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used to buy me dollies they used to buy me prams i wouldn't touch it when did you get on social media
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oh god i started with tumblr okay tumblr how old were you oh god about 13 maybe i think i think that
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programs women to not want children at 12 13. think about it like that's if you're at 11 hours now
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you've probably been similar for a long time so think about how much influence that has over you
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every single day it's true and all of the programming and the messaging is like don't have kids don't
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have kids kids are a burden um you say that a lot of my like i watch a lot of stuff to do with kids
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my algorithm is full of kids go on tick tock go on instagram i've got all kids doing this and that and
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blah blah blah blah blah but i don't know it's it's just modern society today and i think it's
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absolutely shambolic and the dating pool that like you said earlier like if we were to go on tinder
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or hinge or anything like that the dating pool is the same sort of men and what sort of men like the
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men that women would always go for like not per se you would be attracted them on a sort of mental
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level like a mental capacity sort of level it'd be more of a physical attraction and that's
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i've lost my train of thought what the question what characters do you think what character traits
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do you look for in a boyfriend what like surface level or just actual just character
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traits top five top five top five uh caring okay um has a good relationship with their parents
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or like any adult figure in their life has got respect for their adult figures in their life
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because that plays a big part in it um ambition caring is a c has good relationships an h ambition
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is an a we've got chow so the last one has to start with a d chat yeah i'm joking despise despises
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modern scenarios we have to spell chad we're almost there my number one is doesn't think women should
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vote oh yeah wait really no not number one but i agree with you on that like every women we just
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spell chad no caring chav has a good relationship ambitious doesn't chad you think women shouldn't
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vote too no women should vote with women women have i'm always alone women should vote women everyone
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should be able to vote anyone that is of a legal aid should be able to vote what about what about
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like what about like idiots you can have male idiots as well yeah yeah i mean what about the male idiots
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can they not vote anyone everyone should have their right to vote i believe but um whether it counts or
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not criminals should the criminals get to vote absolutely yes yeah absolutely yes yes they
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should and then it's very simple it's just this is like more of a philosophical and like governmental
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argument but it's because it prevents uh because if criminals couldn't vote you would have uh a surplus
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of government power concentrated where people would be appointed as criminals so that they would not have
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the ability to vote right so if you look at like most constitutional monarchies today criminals can vote
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judges cannot because then you don't want judges to be able to be bought for their votes right because then they
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can take political decisions in court and what you want to avoid is political decisions in court you
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don't want to say he's a criminal if you have the authority to say that to take away their vote
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the u.s criminals can't i'm i was raised in the canadian constitutional monarchy and i and i very much
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agree that even though like i don't support criminals and nobody likes criminals whatever yeah but we
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can't give beginning on the soviet union which is where i spent the first nine years of my life
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a lot of people were deemed thought criminals and immediately you know they're removed from sort of the
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the oh i see because the government the government right right abuses the power right so they're
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by putting them exactly so so you can't you can't take away a person's you can't second class
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a citizen another example would be the i can't say that word well in the in the us it used to just
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be property owners remember remember when you when you had to be vaxxed to get a job or or to get
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on a bus or to go to a restaurant etc etc those people that's a second class thing because they
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said well you're a criminal against society because you're creating an excess risk of society which
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turned out to be untrue and completely manipulative but that's where we run into that sort of issue
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right well and the usa used to just be landowners most people couldn't vote until like the early
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1900s late 1800s like it was literally just landowners yep wait we had it set up but that's but democracy
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is the worst like the best of the world like there's no there's no good thing right like it just
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it is what it is what do you mean well i mean like constitutional monarchies like the uae are amazing
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and wonderful but there's also like a lot of not constitutional marquis i'm talking about like
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actual like let's say benevolent dictatorships constitutional monarchies like canada but
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like benevolent benevolent dictatorships like the uae are amazing because they have amazing
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leadership that invests in infrastructure and people like it's one of the greatest places on
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earth right but benevolent dictatorships always have that risk of flipping to not being so benevolent
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and then you turn into a venezuela situation right so so in one but but on the other end democracy you
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kind of get you kind of get a mix of everything so there's no like good outcome that you can guarantee
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under any system right yeah well but the thing is like usually you have to have some skin in the game
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that's like the way the u.s was for most of history like it was you had to be a landowner
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right and that way you could vote so most men and women couldn't vote listen i lean towards benevolent
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dictatorship myself like i just do um it's just because because i i prefer like if i'm in a company
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like and i am a ceo of a company just so it turns out like i believe that like i am better at making
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decisions than most of the people that are lower in that in that let's say hierarchy chain and the reason
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is because you know companies are built by the market voting for you with their dollars meaning
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that you make enough good decisions you can build something substantive right and like for example
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we have somebody that comes and helps us clean our office like very nice lady that does it but her
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decisions would not be wise in the course of of like choosing direction right whereas like in
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democracy you know what you have is usually a very unqualified person being flipped for the next
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very unqualified person and so it's not a good system but it's the best system that we have right