JustPearlyThings - Woman Gets EXPOSED For Doing This

00:00:00.000 Do you think it's cheating for women to get attention from other men?

00:00:03.700 To seek it?

00:00:04.820 Intentionally, yes.

00:00:06.220 If she's looking for it?

00:00:07.160 Yeah.

00:00:07.500 If she is actively looking for it, she wants to have attention from other men?

00:00:10.840 I think when you're talking physically, if you're out and about, that's different.

00:00:15.520 Again, social media is a different thing.

00:00:17.220 No, I said, is it cheating to get attention from other men?

00:00:21.080 To seek out attention from other men in a relationship?

00:00:23.600 Yes.

00:00:24.160 To seek, yes.

00:00:25.460 So then why wouldn't the selfie be cheating?

00:00:28.640 Because that's for everyone.

00:00:29.580 Exactly, who says that she's posting a selfie to get attention from men? 0.99

00:00:32.920 No, no, it's interesting what you say.

00:00:34.800 You say it's from everyone, but you don't really...

00:00:37.880 Why you upload something?

00:00:39.020 Why you upload a story or a picture?

00:00:40.200 Why not?

00:00:40.780 I want my friends and people I know and whoever to see what I'm getting up to.

00:00:44.440 What's the outcome?

00:00:46.140 I get some likes, but I don't really...

00:00:47.900 Do you ever post selfies to get attention from men?

00:00:51.700 No.

00:00:52.180 Never?

00:00:52.620 Never.

00:00:53.320 You've never posted anything on social media thinking a guy that you like would see it?

00:00:57.560 No, really.

00:00:58.740 In all honesty, I...

00:00:59.960 Everyone needs attention, especially if I think I look good.

00:01:03.440 We all did that at least one time.

00:01:05.700 It's not for someone else.

00:01:07.580 You all did it.

00:01:08.720 Come on, come on. 0.99

00:01:09.820 You know what?

00:01:10.860 We're not speaking about cheating now.

00:01:12.620 You know, when you upload a story, do you check who was the story?

00:01:18.080 Of course.

00:01:18.620 Only if I'm interested in someone specific, I might, but I don't post a story for a person.

00:01:23.860 Wait, wait, wait.

00:01:23.880 So you're basically...

00:01:24.840 But I don't post it for that person.

00:01:26.980 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:01:27.720 What'd you say?

00:01:28.220 What'd you say?

00:01:28.680 What'd you say?

00:01:29.120 Go back.

00:01:29.780 So if I post a story, I want all my friends to see it.

00:01:33.880 I want everyone to see it, whatever, because that's why I'm posting it.

00:01:36.380 Okay.

00:01:36.660 And he said, do I go and see if someone I like in my life...

00:01:41.200 What if someone you like in general?

00:01:42.660 Oh, no.

00:01:43.080 In general.

00:01:43.340 How many?

00:01:43.940 No, no, no.

00:01:44.580 Like, no, no.

00:01:46.240 But mostly the people that comment are like friends or like people I know, and I appreciate

00:01:51.340 that.

00:01:51.920 That's what I...

00:01:52.380 Have you ever...

00:01:53.820 Excuse me.

00:01:54.500 Have you ever deleted something that didn't go well?

00:01:56.820 No.

00:01:58.460 Guys got their ways as well.

00:02:01.600 That's a very quick answer.

00:02:03.220 But here's the thing.

00:02:04.080 This is how deeply we have been programmed and how a lot of us have been brainwashed.

00:02:08.640 You think it's bad for you as a woman to post something to attract a man, but then you 0.98

00:02:13.820 think it's perfectly fine to post something just to get attention from your friends.

00:02:19.480 Like, in my opinion, like, that just sounds kind of backwards to me because, first of

00:02:24.100 all, why are we placed on Earth?

00:02:25.580 We are placed on Earth to build relationships, mostly with the opposite sex, for the purpose 1.00

00:02:29.880 of furthering the human race, because part of making a relationship with the opposite 0.98

00:02:33.340 sex is to reproduce.

00:02:34.860 So if you're making it seem like trying to attract the opposite sex is such a bad thing,

00:02:40.140 I kind of think that's kind of weird.

00:02:41.980 And then...

00:02:42.540 Because it's true.

00:02:43.680 So in the Western world, everyone is just focused on these little things that actually

00:02:47.540 add up to nothing.

00:02:48.440 Everyone wants to get money just to be important.

00:02:50.780 Everyone wants to be noticed and have attention and get all these dopamine hits.

00:02:54.680 But then when you ask them, would you do this for the opposite sex, which most humans, our

00:02:59.760 lives and our livelihood and us being normal and being emotionally stable actually depends

00:03:08.300 on forming meaningful relationships with the opposite sex.

00:03:11.840 But yet you always see women fighting this. 0.99

00:03:14.100 No, I can't do this for a man. 0.89

00:03:15.760 It doesn't make sense.

00:03:17.040 But so, for example, if I go on holiday and I post a picture that I'm on holiday, it's

00:03:22.440 because I'm sharing the fun time that I'm having with the friends that didn't come on

00:03:26.680 holiday with me that time.

00:03:27.920 Do you talk to your friends?

00:03:30.640 Yeah, I do as well.

00:03:31.660 So why couldn't you just text them a picture?

00:03:33.780 I do send it, but I have quite a lot of friends.

00:03:35.880 How many?

00:03:36.740 Quite a lot.

00:03:37.660 How many?

00:03:38.420 Quite a lot.

00:03:38.980 But you see, it's like, do you think social media is real life?

00:03:42.340 No.

00:03:43.080 Okay.

00:03:43.420 So why are we so attached to it?

00:03:45.320 Well, I'm not.

00:03:45.880 I told you I'd give it up for a great husband.

00:03:49.440 No, but it's like you're fighting so hard for the selfie.

00:03:52.640 And I would even challenge what you just said.

00:03:55.200 You don't have a lot of friends.

00:03:57.140 This is also part of the delusion we all tell ourselves.

00:03:59.400 How do you have a lot of friends?

00:04:00.720 Because I have like five different jobs and I have different friend groups.

00:04:04.800 So it's just...

00:04:05.680 Those are not your friends.

00:04:06.680 They are.

00:04:07.380 They are.

00:04:07.960 Like I have personal friends, friends across the world.

00:04:11.440 Like it is just...

00:04:12.180 I need to ask one question to you.

00:04:13.980 They are fine things.

00:04:14.640 They are not friends.

00:04:14.860 So if someone goes, is your Instagram like private or public?

00:04:19.580 Sometimes it's private.

00:04:20.920 Sometimes it's not.

00:04:22.240 I'm not going to ask based on what it changes.

00:04:24.240 I'm going to ask something.

00:04:25.340 If some man goes and check your profile, would she think like, oh, this girl is to be married. 0.98

00:04:33.100 I want a wife here. 1.00

00:04:35.540 I don't know really.

00:04:36.820 It's not...

00:04:37.380 My Instagram is not like...

00:04:39.600 It's not that interesting to be honest.

00:04:42.240 That's not wife material. 1.00

00:04:43.120 I think it's interesting, Laura.

00:04:44.440 I mean, it's got some...

00:04:45.560 It's not just selfies and stuff.

00:04:47.700 It's like actually stuff that I do.

00:04:49.540 Like it's work stuff.

00:04:50.440 But it doesn't...

00:04:51.840 We can pull it up if you want.

00:04:53.400 I mean, do what you need to do.

00:04:55.000 Do what you need to do.

00:04:56.900 You might be surprised at what you find.

00:04:58.860 But it's not that interesting.

00:05:01.000 Okay.

00:05:01.540 If I was to be with you, yeah.

00:05:04.000 And I was telling you, okay, I understand you do that some work.

00:05:07.720 Make it purely professional.

00:05:09.560 No more pictures of you.

00:05:11.220 But some of my work is because I have pictures of me.

00:05:14.400 Like I do a bit of modeling.

00:05:15.440 I do a bit of acting and stuff.

00:05:16.780 So it is...

00:05:17.440 It's all relative.

00:05:18.200 But I also do some local...

00:05:19.280 How long do you plan to model and act?

00:05:21.840 Like till I don't get paid anymore.

00:05:26.160 Basically.

00:05:27.580 It's just interesting.

00:05:28.860 Oh, you said you'd give up the Instagram for the guy.

00:05:30.940 Yeah.

00:05:31.240 If he's the right...

00:05:32.200 Like husband.

00:05:33.080 Husband material.

00:05:33.760 We already...

00:05:34.760 You know, it has to be the real deal.

00:05:36.680 Yeah.

00:05:38.960 I'm going to read Super Chat.

00:05:42.240 Let me see.

00:05:44.300 Okay.

00:05:46.440 Here we go.

00:05:47.440 All right, guys.

00:05:48.500 I'm going to read Super Chats. 0.67

00:05:49.840 These are not my opinions, but the opinions of the chat.

00:05:52.840 Okay.

00:05:53.360 Rob, can you clip this segment so I can send it to my wife? 0.54

00:05:56.780 F.S.

00:05:57.260 Claire.

00:05:57.640 Logic is the worst enemy of the woman. 1.00

00:05:59.580 Overall, call it doublespeak.

00:06:01.080 They want to be treated equal until they don't, but also want to be treated like a lady. 0.97

00:06:05.280 This is the mindset of two individuals, children or cult members.

00:06:10.760 Ninja Smoke Tank Top Guy and Lil Asian are all capped. 0.83

00:06:14.360 Chat is pretty based.

00:06:15.440 In my opinion, this is why fresh and fit, don't break nobody, men.

00:06:19.260 Simping for the ladies, delusional.

00:06:21.600 Enter Black Dragon.

00:06:23.660 What does this panel think of age gaps?

00:06:25.920 I'm 41 and she's 21.

00:06:28.260 Women do not understand the biology of men. 1.00

00:06:30.900 Men are not biologically built monogamous.

00:06:33.440 It's a sociological practice that eventually fails due to need.

00:06:39.080 46 and two is women telling their husbands no sex if you don't do what I say guilty. 0.69

00:06:44.640 Is a woman telling her sex and her husband no sex until you do what I say guilty of coercion?

00:06:52.120 I'm just curious.

00:06:54.980 If a woman says no sex until you meet my emotional needs, did she coerce them? 1.00

00:07:00.300 I don't know.

00:07:01.000 I mean, if they're locked into a binding legal agreement, which is what marriage is.

00:07:06.600 It's not coercion?

00:07:08.480 But what about the coerced men?

00:07:12.060 Okay.

00:07:12.840 Why is it harder for women to take accountability for cheating? 1.00

00:07:15.840 Why do they, the person they cheat on?

00:07:19.600 Carlos Pearl.

00:07:20.600 Norm MacDonald broke the Tiger Woods example, men example down.

00:07:24.860 In his stand-up special, Me Doing Stand-Up, the clip is on YouTube.

00:07:28.620 DJ B-Fit.

00:07:29.780 How many of you guys broke up with someone?

00:07:31.280 We've read that already.

00:07:32.420 Let me refresh it real quick, guys.

00:07:36.820 I just wanted to point out real quick.

00:07:39.400 90% of women would never get the man they want. 1.00

00:07:42.760 And this is because most women want a man that is assertive, confident, strong, a leader,

00:07:48.860 and all of that good stuff, has money, tall, beautiful, whatever.

00:07:53.540 But at the same time, they say, well, he can't tell me what to do.

00:07:57.420 Typically, a man that's like that is not going to take your direction.

00:08:01.020 He's going to do what he does, and he's going to expect you to follow.

00:08:04.480 So it's very funny when women come out and say, I want this guy, I want that guy, 1.00

00:08:08.240 but then they still come out and try to act like they are the man in the relationship.

00:08:11.200 It never works, and it's never going to work.

00:08:13.800 I mean, the earlier women start to understand that. 0.97

00:08:16.240 Either you want that guy, or you just go for a guy you can control.

00:08:19.860 Usually, there's no middle ground.

00:08:21.800 And it's interesting that they want all these things,

00:08:24.280 but they cannot really offer something in return,

00:08:27.800 something that is worth enough for what they ask.

00:08:31.640 Do you disagree?

00:08:32.420 No, many times it is, but I think it comes a lot with maturity as well,

00:08:38.340 and also a lot of the brainwash, because I don't agree with many things.

00:08:41.440 And that's why I always say, like, I'll protect my family and my relationship, right?

00:08:45.840 And there is some...

00:08:47.020 If you're really, like, a mature, mature woman, 0.76

00:08:50.080 you will know what you have to do and what a man...

00:08:52.560 I don't agree that they are equal, that they do the same things.

00:08:55.460 No, and especially inside a home, you know, it works in different ways.

00:09:00.500 So I think it demands a lot of intelligence, wisdom, and maturity

00:09:04.600 to, you know, to occur this dynamic between men and women.

00:09:09.480 And I think we've been programmed.

00:09:10.900 That's why we are so resistant and things like this,

00:09:12.980 and why so many relationships don't work.

00:09:14.820 What do women bring to the table in 2023? 1.00

00:09:17.340 Okay, I don't understand.

00:09:18.900 What is this table?

00:09:20.360 Where do we find this table?

00:09:21.900 Is it a manageable table?

00:09:23.400 Like, this is what I was trying to say before.

00:09:26.540 When I came to the table, what table are we talking about?

00:09:29.940 Okay, what should women bring to a relationship? 1.00

00:09:34.780 Like, when you go on a date with a man,

00:09:36.760 you typically expect him to pay for it, right?

00:09:39.240 No.

00:09:40.080 No?

00:09:40.420 Not me.

00:09:41.320 You go on a date with a woman? 0.99

00:09:42.660 Oh, Cap, come on.

00:09:43.920 Not me.

00:09:44.360 I've been with homeless guy for two and a half years.

00:09:47.580 So you don't know me.

00:09:48.920 Homeless guy? 0.73

00:09:49.720 You don't know me.

00:09:51.420 Were you homeless too?

00:09:52.580 Oh, yeah.

00:09:53.000 But this is the thing.

00:09:54.480 That's not like a good rebuttal to what she's saying.

00:09:57.200 You're saying that like, that's okay,

00:09:59.180 because you've been a homeless guy, so that's not good.

00:10:01.140 No, no, no, no.

00:10:02.280 One second, one second.

00:10:03.220 I said that because she just mentioned,

00:10:04.820 oh, like, if you pay, it's not me.

00:10:07.500 I'm not about to pay.

00:10:08.340 I'm saying it's not that.

00:10:09.540 I don't have like, it needs to be this,

00:10:11.880 or it needs to be this.

00:10:12.760 She's talking about the standard that women expect. 0.99

00:10:15.280 So you're saying that is not really like answering the question.

00:10:17.640 You're just trying to throw off the question

00:10:19.980 without really answering it.

00:10:21.680 I'm answering, I'm saying not me.

00:10:23.540 Not me.

00:10:24.200 I'm talking about me.

00:10:25.040 I can ask, I can answer just as me,

00:10:28.560 not like other women. 0.99

00:10:29.820 Yeah, but I'm saying not me.

00:10:31.340 Okay, okay, okay.

00:10:32.140 Okay.

00:10:32.760 Thank you.

JustPearlyThings - July 26, 2023

Woman Gets EXPOSED For Doing This

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