JustPearlyThings - November 08, 2023


Woman Gets SHUT DOWN For Saying This...

Topics
women sexualization
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Vegas Burning Man Simone
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Length

9 minutes

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210.15

Word count

1,961

Sentence count

191

Harmful content

Misogyny

35

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Toxicity

30

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21

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In this episode, we talk about nudity in public, and whether or not women should be allowed to be naked in public. Do women owe society modesty or should they wear revealing clothing in public? We also talk about the perils of sexualization and sexualization of women.

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00:00:00.000 That's a lot cheaper than a baby.
00:00:01.560 Well, it is, and porn's a lot cheaper than a date.
00:00:04.100 You just haven't seen a fat enough cat. 0.54
00:00:07.900 I challenge that.
00:00:09.880 I think men need to desexualize themselves, though.
00:00:12.480 I think corn, I think it's definitely not a good thing
00:00:16.620 for men.
00:00:17.320 We need to stop it.
00:00:18.360 Personally, myself, I've been practicing, you know,
00:00:21.860 semen retention, and I feel so much more energized.
00:00:26.560 Honestly, I'm just like, even like, I just think differently.
00:00:29.000 I just get up in the morning without no coffee, just active.
00:00:31.300 That's a good thing.
00:00:32.040 But we need to desexualize our minds.
00:00:33.580 I think, as men, that's something that we owe to society.
00:00:36.080 I think women should actually stop first, 1.00
00:00:37.740 because the more we keep giving out the nuni,
00:00:39.720 what do you think these men are going to do, say no?
00:00:42.080 Listen, if I was a dude, I'd say, here's free ting on a flat,
00:00:45.120 I'm taking it.
00:00:45.920 So this kind of goes back to, this kind of goes back to,
00:00:50.260 you know, this question as to what women in general owe society, 0.84
00:00:54.560 right?
00:00:55.460 And, you know, one question I had is,
00:00:58.300 do women owe society modesty? 1.00
00:01:01.600 Yes.
00:01:02.260 Because now, now, now I'm starting to see,
00:01:06.100 so I went to Vegas for like a collab,
00:01:10.380 like a couple months back, and I couldn't believe, 0.83
00:01:13.020 I was walking down the street and I saw women with their boobs out 1.00
00:01:17.020 and just stickers on their boobs, walking in public. 0.89
00:01:20.680 This is legal there, and I thought to myself, 0.63
00:01:26.220 you know, how is this not public nudity?
00:01:31.200 Why are women wanting to do this? 1.00
00:01:32.520 Well, you're not arrested.
00:01:33.520 This used to be a thing where you get arrested for public. 0.72
00:01:35.960 Yeah, and now they can literally have stickers on their boobs. 1.00
00:01:38.960 So it kind of bears the question,
00:01:40.940 do women owe society modesty? 1.00
00:01:43.600 And you seem to want to go, so go ahead.
00:01:45.600 I want her to go, because she had a long rant about this. 0.99
00:01:48.440 We were reading your tweets about this this afternoon.
00:01:50.940 Oh, we're going to, we're going to judge the pictures later.
00:01:53.440 Oh, boy.
00:01:54.440 But go ahead, go first.
00:01:55.440 Yeah, I mean, you know, a lot of what we're looking at is,
00:01:57.780 there's a problem with society in which every woman, despite her age, 1.00
00:02:01.740 wants to look like she's 20, but she can't pull it off after a certain age.
00:02:05.020 I'm just sorry.
00:02:05.960 So part of it's, you know, you have to realize after a certain age,
00:02:08.460 you can't pull it off, and you have to actually want to desire to be something else.
00:02:11.860 Maybe to be a mentor, maybe to be a professional, maybe to be a mother.
00:02:15.560 And there are appropriate outfits for all of that.
00:02:18.100 But we also have to remember that, like, honestly, like some women, 0.99
00:02:21.740 unfortunately, don't have that much to offer.
00:02:24.940 And so they marry people who want them to flaunt it. 1.00
00:02:29.380 They become trophy wives, and they kind of have to dress that way. 1.00
00:02:33.080 So I do think that there is a place for an immodest woman, even a mother, 1.00
00:02:36.620 even a woman of a certain age, to dress in an extremely sexualized and showy matter. 0.72
00:02:41.320 Because frankly, that's her job at that point.
00:02:43.720 She has nothing else.
00:02:44.520 That is her way to be productive for society. 1.00
00:02:46.400 And where would she do that?
00:02:48.120 Like, what are the rules?
00:02:48.720 Wherever the hell her husband wants her to.
00:02:50.720 See, I don't know.
00:02:51.960 I don't know, because I'm thinking, like, if...
00:02:54.300 I think that some of these outfits, it's, like, wrong because there are kids around.
00:02:59.600 And you can't just... 0.97
00:03:00.540 Even if your husband wants you to dress like a hooker... 1.00
00:03:02.940 Okay, so I grew up in a super progressive society, 0.99
00:03:06.080 where, like, I thought that a wedding was getting naked and wearing masks in the woods
00:03:09.180 and dancing around, right?
00:03:11.580 So I grew up around a lot of...
00:03:13.580 Wait, wait.
00:03:14.580 Oh, wow.
00:03:15.580 I grew up in Silicon Valley.
00:03:16.580 I don't...
00:03:17.580 Is that normal in Silicon Valley?
00:03:18.580 In Silicon Valley it was.
00:03:19.580 Naked sweat lodge, the masks, the dancing, the whatever, right?
00:03:21.580 I'm very, very progressive, right?
00:03:22.580 Right, okay.
00:03:23.580 So, you know, and I...
00:03:24.580 So you could say that I grew up as a kid around debauchery.
00:03:27.580 But it didn't screw me up at all.
00:03:30.880 I actually...
00:03:32.680 I lost my virginity with my husband.
00:03:34.980 It's...
00:03:36.380 I don't think that these things necessarily hurt people.
00:03:38.680 I don't think that nudity or sexualization hurts people.
00:03:40.980 In fact, it made me kind of blind to it.
00:03:42.780 I mean, the fact that I, at age, like, 15, went to Burning Man,
00:03:45.880 and I swear to you, I didn't see anyone use any drugs.
00:03:48.680 Somehow.
00:03:50.280 So I don't think...
00:03:51.280 At least anecdotally...
00:03:52.280 It doesn't mean you weren't using them.
00:03:53.780 You didn't see other people.
00:03:54.780 You know, I still, I've never been high, except for doctor's offices,
00:03:58.980 which is super fun, of course.
00:04:00.180 Yeah.
00:04:00.680 But, yeah, I just...
00:04:02.480 Anecdotally, you know, among the people, the peers that I grew up around,
00:04:05.680 I just, in that progressive culture, actually grew up around a bunch of prudes, frankly. 0.75
00:04:11.980 I think what you're saying, Simone, is that when women dress that way, 1.00
00:04:14.580 it's because they have nothing else to offer.
00:04:16.280 Yeah.
00:04:16.780 Women dress in a way that shows what they think they have to offer to society. 1.00
00:04:20.780 And if they don't feel, and a lot of women feel very disempowered in our society, 0.99
00:04:23.680 and they do feel that they have nothing else to offer, or this is their primary asset.
00:04:26.880 But, presumably, as a woman ages, because this asset deteriorates so quickly 1.00
00:04:31.880 in terms of its market value, most women who have anything else to offer 1.00
00:04:36.080 switch what they're selling to, like, I'm a good mother, or I'm a good chef,
00:04:39.880 or something like that, whereas it's a really negative sign to an individual.
00:04:45.380 They're still showing this, and they're, like, 40 or 30.
00:04:47.480 But when you're younger, something to think about as a woman is the type of woman, 0.98
00:04:51.680 not the type of guy you want to have sex with you, the type of guy you want to marry you. 0.80
00:04:54.680 Is he going to be attracted when you're showing all this out?
00:04:57.680 Or is he going to look at that and think, oh, this is not what I want in a wife?
00:05:01.480 Because I think that a lot of women, they get confused. 1.00
00:05:04.680 They say, oh, when I do this, guys hit on me.
00:05:07.280 When I do this, guys sleep with me.
00:05:08.680 And then they then think that that's the type of thing that will get a guy to marry them.
00:05:12.480 But these are two different things that you're courting for.
00:05:14.680 Have we created a problem, though, as men?
00:05:16.680 Yeah, we have.
00:05:18.680 Yes, thank you.
00:05:19.680 And what I wanted to say was women have been sexualized since this big.
00:05:24.480 I remember my father being like, you know, my friends are coming around.
00:05:27.280 No, no, women sexualize themselves. 1.00
00:05:29.680 Women get naked. 1.00
00:05:31.680 No, no, I disagree. 1.00
00:05:32.880 I think that women will get naked far quicker than men will ask for sex. 0.99
00:05:37.480 And my proof of this is going to Vegas, 0.99
00:05:40.680 those women are walking around naked. 1.00
00:05:42.880 Women walk around naked outside. 1.00
00:05:45.280 They walk around naked to work. 0.72
00:05:47.480 They take off their clothes more and more and more, 0.90
00:05:50.080 far before men ask for sex. 0.71
00:05:52.080 But would we be still talking about this if a guy was walking with his top off? 0.86
00:05:56.080 We wouldn't, because women have been sexualized. 1.00
00:05:58.280 Men can walk out with a T-shirt on and no one says anything.
00:06:00.880 But would they walk out with their slippers just hanging on the floor?
00:06:03.480 No, no, no.
00:06:03.880 We're talking about in Vegas, when it's hot, it's a sunny day,
00:06:06.880 a man's walking with no T-shirt.
00:06:08.480 Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:10.680 Are we really going to have... 1.00
00:06:11.680 No shit. 0.99
00:06:12.280 Okay, okay. 0.99
00:06:12.880 Are we really going to...
00:06:14.880 How old are you?
00:06:15.880 28. 0.99
00:06:16.680 Okay, you're 28 and you don't understand why women have boobs. 0.98
00:06:21.080 That's why we have to have a shirt on. 0.97
00:06:23.480 No, no, no.
00:06:24.080 It's just, I feel like when, like women from a young age, 1.00
00:06:28.280 like what I was trying to say is when I was younger,
00:06:29.880 my father would say, you know, my friends are coming around,
00:06:31.880 make sure you're, you know, you're covered up.
00:06:34.080 Why on earth am I being told to cover up when people are coming around the house?
00:06:40.280 So you don't...
00:06:42.280 So he doesn't look like a terrible father.
00:06:44.280 So you don't...
00:06:45.280 No, but can I not wear shorts and a T-shirt? 1.00
00:06:47.280 So you don't grow up to be a whore. 1.00
00:06:50.280 But do we have to be covered from head to toe to not be sexualized? 0.99
00:06:55.480 When men come over, they, coming from a background where I've seen men
00:06:59.280 coming to people's homes and they abuse certain people's children,
00:07:02.480 including me, obviously, not to knock them out.
00:07:04.480 But you might touch me, but it's like...
00:07:06.480 No, seriously.
00:07:08.480 Black arms, everything.
00:07:09.480 The reason...
00:07:10.480 Sorry.
00:07:11.480 Sorry about that.
00:07:12.480 When men or other uncles, all these come into your house,
00:07:16.080 you're a young girl, your mom and dad should teach you modesty.
00:07:19.080 It doesn't mean you have to lose your sexy when you grow up.
00:07:20.880 I lost my sexy.
00:07:21.880 I'm sexy without even having to speak.
00:07:23.680 You know what I mean?
00:07:24.680 But it's like, when you're a young kid, you have to cover up.
00:07:28.280 You need to learn decency, modesty, understand how to dress
00:07:30.880 when people come over.
00:07:31.880 People are predators.
00:07:32.880 Your parents can't fully protect you all the time.
00:07:35.080 So you have to know how to protect yourself.
00:07:36.480 And the first way to do that is by dressing properly.
00:07:39.080 I used to be at home in short shorts, crop tops,
00:07:41.480 but I knew if a visitor's coming, I dress appropriately.
00:07:44.280 It's just a respect for yourself, for the people that are coming over
00:07:46.680 and for your family.
00:07:47.680 I used to be a little boy cover up when the females come out. 1.00
00:07:49.480 What's he going to wear?
00:07:50.480 He's not in the phone.
00:07:51.480 No, no, no.
00:07:52.480 But you might be shorting a t-shirt off.
00:07:53.880 Because boys and girls are different.
00:07:55.480 Why can't people just understand that?
00:07:56.480 No, but why is women sexualized? 1.00
00:07:57.680 And why is men not sexualized? 0.97
00:07:58.480 Because women are sexy. 1.00
00:07:59.480 And men are sexy.
00:08:00.480 No, that's not an answer for me.
00:08:02.480 Even as a man, I've got to say, I think you've got a point.
00:08:05.480 Thank you.
00:08:06.480 Because at the same time, I know you're saying,
00:08:08.480 okay, well, it doesn't matter.
00:08:09.480 You keep on saying people, but it is the influence of men.
00:08:13.280 Of course.
00:08:14.280 Do you think you have to protect yourself?
00:08:16.280 Sorry, sorry.
00:08:17.280 Why do we have to protect ourselves?
00:08:18.280 No, I will explain to you.
00:08:19.280 I will explain to you.
00:08:20.280 In all of nature, there are things that all the female species have 1.00
00:08:28.280 that they use to attract males.
00:08:31.080 And it's prevalent in every single aspect of nature.
00:08:35.080 So if you see peacocks, for example, the females spread their wings to attract the males.
00:08:40.080 If you see there are some other animals, they have different things they do to...
00:08:43.080 Sorry, not peacocks.
00:08:44.080 Sorry, peacocks is actually the males that attract females.
00:08:46.080 But my point is like in every part of nature,
00:08:51.080 you have something that one side of the species does to attract the other side.
00:08:56.080 Pheromones.
00:08:57.080 There will be more males that attract.
00:08:58.880 No, my point is, my point is, in human beings,
00:09:01.880 women have physical attributes that attract men. 1.00
00:09:05.880 Yeah.
00:09:06.880 That is how we are designed.
00:09:08.280 So the reason why you are taught to cover up is because those are attributes
00:09:12.880 that signal certain things to men biologically.
00:09:15.880 I'm sick. 0.72
00:09:16.880 I'm sick.
00:09:17.880 I'm sick.
00:09:18.880 I'm sick.