JustPearlyThings - Woman OWNED After Reality Check

00:00:00.000 1800, 1700, no, okay, okay, so you don't even know the time period, no, I don't, and I don't give a fuck either, all I know is right now, you don't need to have, you don't need to have 10 kids, I know the time period, who the fuck wants 10 kids now, they had 10 kids for labor, so, they had kids, right, to put them to work, because they needed a family to be able to thrive, so, like, factories came in the late 1800s, and still, people still had 5 plus kids early 1900s, because they were just used to what was traditional, but here now, the tradition is having 2 or 3, you don't have to have fucking 10 kids, 0.98

00:00:29.900 and whose choice is that, it's ours as a whole, we're overpopulated as fuck, whose choice is that men or women, we're not overpopulated, also, also, just in general, like, you can't really afford 10 kids these days, right, they cost a lot more, poor people have more kids than rich people, yeah, and they're all government assistance, because they're not being responsible, exactly, so the human people are breeding, okay, no, no, no, no, no, no, wait, wait, wait, wait, who, who, who controls access to sex, men or women, women, it's the women's fault, not the men's, unless you're a rapist, which happens a lot, which is very, that's, 0.98

00:00:59.880 that doesn't happen a lot, no, it doesn't happen a lot, it definitely doesn't, it really doesn't, it really doesn't, the stats, if I pull the stats up when she's talking, and I tell you stats, you're gonna say facts don't matter, so that's only what's been reported, yeah, exactly, go ahead, go ahead, I do, I do, I do understand what you're saying, in the perfect world, if we have all these high value men walking around, we should be a certain way, okay, great, no, high value men, we unfortunately don't, and I, sorry, I have to say, I'm not trying to interrupt you,

00:01:29.880 because she had dated such terrible men, that acted like they were gonna be this provider, this person, got married to them, or end up having a kid, and then all of a sudden, they were abusive, alcoholics, she's lying, this whole thing, and I don't, you know, this is my mom's experience, and I know my mom is not a liar, she's probably lying, they're, they usually lie, yeah, but, no, it's like, because it's like,

00:01:52.880 what you call your mom right now, no, no, no, she'll say that, well, I'm not saying it's your mom, but a lot of women, then you hear the other side of the story, it's like, oh, I understand what you're saying, oh, but I'm saying, if it's more than one guy, she's the common denominator, she's probably abusive too, it's like, her picker is like, fucked up or something, no, I don't think it's picker, she's probably abusive, like, because it's like, what, what do the women do to bring this out of the men, if it's multiple men, that means she's probably doing something, but why, why is it that, like, you feel that we're doing something to, it's almost like, it's almost like, oh, because, no, no, no, no, what you're saying to me is, 0.66

00:02:22.880 like, I walked down the street just looking like this, and I got raped, oh, what was your fault, because, because, I look at, I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I'll tell you why, because when women, when women get power, we're not benevolent, when men get power, they are, if, if men wanted to, we could all be sex slaves in caves right now, in cages, that's what happens when men get power, when women get power, we tend to abuse men, we would destroy you, has anyone, how are you going to make more men, because we have the pussy, we're just going to rape us, and, like, just take him, we'll fucking, I would rather 0.99

00:02:52.660 kill a fucking baby, then you make me fucking have a baby without my fucking 1.00

00:02:56.180 let me, really, ok, let me get this straight, you think you would beat him in a fight, really, yeah, he's gonna, he's gonna, he's gonna impregnate me, when the baby comes out, I'm 1.00

00:03:03.420 killing that motherfucker, really, no, no, no, no, no, she's not talking about that, it's not coming out, so how are you gonna have babies without women, how are you gonna have babies without women, we're not talking about, we're not talking about that, 1.00

00:03:15.300 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. 1.00

00:03:18.900 Men will overdominate women no matter what time you create life. 1.00

00:03:22.540 Hello, hello, hello, hello.

00:03:24.000 Everybody over here is agreeing.

00:03:25.440 Yelling, hold on, hold on.

00:03:26.840 What she was saying is who's going to take control in a situation, a man or a woman? 0.77

00:03:31.860 We can overpower women physically. 1.00

00:03:34.060 We can dominate if we wanted to.

00:03:36.060 So if we wanted to, we could take control.

00:03:38.760 If there was physically, not mentally, ever, in life.

00:03:43.620 Go back to your statement about a benevolent.

00:03:45.400 Yeah, because when men get power, we're naturally benevolent.

00:03:48.540 When women get power, they're not. 1.00

00:03:50.020 And the problem is we have an entire generation of daughters and sons that have been told their dads were the bad guy, and usually they're not.

00:03:57.860 And I understand that.

00:03:59.100 I do actually agree with that.

00:04:01.240 It's happened.

00:04:01.940 My mom was actually really good at, like, not instilling negative thoughts about my father and allowing me to understand who he was.

00:04:08.140 I think what Pearl was saying, and not to attack you or your mom, but in any situation, even a man, if a guy's like, oh, I've been in 20 relationships and all the women were abusive, it's like, okay, whoa, what did you do?

00:04:22.000 There's an exception to the rule.

00:04:23.320 But I've seen ladies that have been in relationships time and time and time again and been physically abused. 1.00

00:04:29.880 And I'm like, okay, first of all, men don't generally want to do that.

00:04:32.460 But that particular woman, she's doing something. 0.98

00:04:34.860 I'm not agreeing, and I'm not justifying that the guy should be physical, but 10 relationships, hold on, hold on, hold on, let me finish. 0.99

00:04:41.120 10 relationships, what the fuck are you doing to cause these men to get violent with you? 0.96

00:04:45.760 Oh, I'm not doing anything. 0.99

00:04:47.620 I'm not doing anything.

00:04:48.580 No, you are the problem.

00:04:49.900 I think it's worth the attack that she attracts.

00:04:51.640 No, I don't think so.

00:04:52.900 No, no.

00:04:53.440 Well, I'm just thinking, like, what?

00:04:55.200 Okay, so he comes home, and he just says, I'm going to beat you.

00:04:57.780 There was no argument.

00:04:58.800 You weren't trying to control him.

00:04:59.860 Because I believe the natural order of the world is God, men, and women.

00:05:04.860 And when we try to confuse women and say we're equal to men and that we have an ability, like, that we should be able to control men, that's when evil happens.

00:05:11.100 I mean, I don't think there's equality with men and women at all.

00:05:13.620 Right, right.

00:05:14.200 But I think we're supposed to submit to men's authority. 0.98

00:05:19.640 And I think when we don't, that's when evil happens.

00:05:21.900 And so typically, when there's a dysfunction in the family, it's because the woman was trying to impose her will on the man. 1.00

00:05:28.160 Look, I understand what you're saying, because I've been red-pilled, like, and I'm 100% not a feminist.

00:05:34.140 I do believe in the red pill.

00:05:35.780 I think you're a little bit more extreme in the mentality of it.

00:05:38.340 Hell yeah.

00:05:40.340 And I will say this.

00:05:41.500 My first, my first, so I dated a guy, 5'4".

00:05:44.900 He did have a really nice body.

00:05:46.880 Great in bed.

00:05:47.760 5'4".

00:05:48.260 5'4".

00:05:48.900 No job.

00:05:49.680 Wow.

00:05:49.900 I was making a lot of money, so I paid for him.

00:05:55.220 But after school, everything, I wanted him to be better.

00:05:57.400 I did submit to him.

00:05:58.660 He didn't deserve it, but I did.

00:06:00.280 And I did start getting the disrespect.

00:06:02.740 I started to disrespect him because he was not, like, pushing him.

00:06:07.240 He wasn't giving you security.

00:06:08.180 Yeah, he wasn't doing it.

00:06:08.880 He wasn't trying to level up like I wanted him to.

00:06:10.700 He didn't have any job?

00:06:11.780 He didn't have no job.

00:06:13.080 Girl.

00:06:13.840 Yeah, it happened.

00:06:14.840 Well, he had a job when I met him.

00:06:16.180 Okay, but that's where, go ahead.

00:06:17.960 But listen, so this is my first, my first thought. 0.99

00:06:21.060 When I was laying in bed and I lost, my job ended up going under and I was like, fuck, 0.97

00:06:25.300 like, I have no money to take care of this person next to me and me. 0.99

00:06:28.600 If this house is burning down, I'm going to have to put him on my back, my dog in my hand,

00:06:32.180 and save us both.

00:06:33.520 Wow.

00:06:33.720 I was like, it was the biggest pressure I've ever had.

00:06:35.720 And then I thought to myself, if I have to make this person my long-term partner and

00:06:39.340 get married, what if I need to be bedridden with a child?

00:06:43.960 He cannot take care of us. 1.00

00:06:45.540 And he doesn't have that mentality of, you know what, I'm going to go shovel shit on the 0.99

00:06:49.240 corner just to make sure that this house is going to stay above her head. 0.98

00:06:52.980 So I was like, this is the most stressful I've ever been.

00:06:55.140 I will never do this again every day of my life.

00:06:57.300 And so that day forward, I understood the dynamic between a man and a woman and how I

00:07:03.560 do want a man to make more money or to be a little bit more responsible to be very dominant.

00:07:07.000 But the issue we have with a lot of chicks is we're living outside of our lifestyle means. 1.00

00:07:12.120 So like when you have kids, you're kind of supposed to go down in lifestyle.

00:07:14.980 Like I have a friend, she had four kids and she dated a guy that was making $45,000 a

00:07:19.260 year and she relied on solely one income.

00:07:21.040 They only had, I know you see, she's like, oh my God, how would I do that?

00:07:24.280 I like, but the thing is, no, the problem is women typically don't want to go down in 1.00

00:07:32.920 lifestyle for a family.

00:07:34.240 And that was expected before.

00:07:35.920 They knew you'd have to work harder to have, like women would work jobs even like with 1.00

00:07:40.500 kids and they knew they would, they would get it, they would get married and they would

00:07:43.960 like work harder and still have less because they had kids. 0.86

00:07:47.480 But the problem now is like women, we, we have these unrealistic like lifestyle expectations 0.86

00:07:52.560 because we've been living by ourselves for so long.

00:07:55.500 And I agree.

00:07:56.040 Cause it's like you're providing, you're being, what is it?

00:07:58.000 You're being the man that you want in your life.

00:08:00.200 Yeah.

00:08:00.480 So you're providing for yourself and stuff.

00:08:02.020 And I, I do agree with that.

00:08:03.840 And I think my mentality lately has like, okay, I'm trying to be, I'm very masculine of a

00:08:08.960 woman and I know this about myself, but I don't want to be that way.

00:08:12.200 Like I really am trying to be more feminine with a man, have him have the dominant role be 0.99

00:08:17.480 like, and I think sometimes with women, like, have you guys ever done this where like, you'll

00:08:22.020 date a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or like the nice guy and you're just trying

00:08:24.920 to like beat the odds.

00:08:26.160 So you're not trying to be a stereotype of what women think.

00:08:28.680 You see his potential.

00:08:29.860 Yeah. 1.00

00:08:30.020 And then you're like, damn it, I've fucked in my ass for this. 1.00

00:08:32.740 Cause it's like, yeah. 1.00

00:08:33.740 And I'm like, so then you end up becoming the other stereotype where you're like, I need

00:08:38.180 to date the guy that has more money or the guy that does this or something.

00:08:40.900 Well, I just wanted to say that, um, to your point, uh, Pearl, I understand back then family

00:08:47.240 was everything, right?

00:08:48.540 And time has changed to where as though family is not really a priority, meaning that if you're

00:08:54.900 going through something with your husband or maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend, you

00:08:59.080 kind of keep it to yourself because you don't want your family or your friends to judge you.

00:09:02.860 And you're making all of these huge decisions by yourself, which is very hard because you're

00:09:08.620 not seeing it from multiple, uh, perspective.

00:09:11.320 And again, we don't want our relationship, et cetera, to do a judgment though, because

00:09:16.500 at the end of the day, you have to regulate how you feel about some things.

00:09:20.740 No, no.

00:09:21.040 What I'm talking about is a support system.

00:09:22.920 So whereas though you have a huge family, you have a huge support system.

00:09:26.600 Maybe it is, you know, it has to do with the church or what your pastor, et cetera.

00:09:31.000 You have these people who can counsel, who can try to help you guys before you do decide

00:09:35.680 to say, Hey, this isn't working for whatever the reason.

00:09:38.880 But today's society is more so who's on my team.

00:09:42.560 It's like, Oh, I hate him.

00:09:44.380 You hate him too.

00:09:45.160 Or I hate her.

00:09:46.140 I, you know what I mean?

00:09:46.980 So it's more so like thinking about emotions instead of thinking about the long-term effect

00:09:52.380 of if you do this, you know, the girls that might say, Hey, we're going to go slash his 1.00

00:09:56.820 tires.

00:09:57.200 You might have a crew of girls that's down with that, but nobody's thinking logically like,

00:10:01.380 okay, we can slash his tires.

00:10:02.760 There's social medias.

00:10:03.580 There's ring cameras.

00:10:04.380 There's this, there's that.

00:10:05.620 And we all can go to jail and we may have kids that we're going to leave behind.

00:10:08.860 So it's so like emotional thinking.

00:10:11.840 Well, and I think you're right.

00:10:13.280 That's why I say like a hundred years ago, there was, there was five kids.

00:10:16.720 And so like, they all had families and you'd all like raise kids together and it would

00:10:21.160 be like a community.

00:10:22.160 But now it's like, we have so many single mothers and single mother homes where it's 1.00

00:10:25.960 like, we don't have that community and that council we used to have.

00:10:29.420 And now women are making decisions on their own. 1.00

00:10:31.900 And we make, and we make, and we make terrible mates, mate selection on our own.

00:10:37.660 Unfortunately, someone want to bring up and it's interesting.

00:10:40.040 And again, I'm not going against the women, but have you heard of one female rap artist 1.00

00:10:46.100 that is positive about men?

00:10:49.780 No, no, no, I mean, unless there's conscious rap, you know, unless I'm saying, and so

00:10:56.600 What male is positive about women? 1.00

00:10:58.400 Exactly.

00:10:59.400 Yeah.

00:10:59.820 So a lot of the music, that same energy. 0.99

00:11:02.440 Queen Latifah said, who you calling a bitch? 1.00

00:11:04.560 Right. 1.00

00:11:04.800 No, you and I T Y.

00:11:07.000 That's my point.

00:11:07.920 The culture and what we're listening.

00:11:09.380 We got negative input coming in.

00:11:10.920 We got people around us.

00:11:12.020 And what happens is nobody is going to anybody for guidance on how to be successful in what

00:11:16.740 they want.

00:11:17.200 And it's all about me, me, me.

00:11:18.480 Right.

00:11:18.820 Yeah.

00:11:19.100 And then when, you know, who suffers the most is the kids, the children.

00:11:22.140 Yeah.

00:11:22.460 And then they get raised and then there's these problems.

00:11:24.380 And now what's happening is there's no nuclear families anymore.

00:11:27.680 It's almost a negative.

00:11:28.940 Yeah.

00:11:29.240 Right.

00:11:29.500 And it should be a positive.

00:11:30.660 Yeah.

00:11:31.120 You know, and there's so much like input.

00:11:33.380 Like, I remember a long time ago, I was like in a relationship and then the guy put me

00:11:37.400 in my place because I was drinking too much.

00:11:39.120 He had told me, hey, you need to slow down.

00:11:41.120 And I think my friends had heard him say that to me.

00:11:43.860 And I was like, okay, sorry.

00:11:45.400 And then on the side, he, she messages me and she goes, wow, you're going to let him

00:11:49.780 like tell you what to do like that.

00:11:51.760 And I think like a lot of like dynamics happen like that where we should be listening because

00:11:56.980 that's their partner.

00:11:57.680 If, if I was, you don't know, they don't know the man that you know.

00:12:01.460 It sounds like a good influence to me.

00:12:03.400 It's a good influence.

00:12:04.600 So, so the women only, the, my friends only heard.

00:12:07.500 He's trying to control you.

00:12:07.980 He's trying to control you.

00:12:08.840 Right.

00:12:09.140 But what he's saying is facts.

00:12:10.120 It's facts. 0.99

00:12:10.680 Well, and the, and the problem too is we have a generation of really shitty wives between 1.00

00:12:15.200 the ages of like 35 to like 65. 0.99

00:12:18.120 They're just not good wives. 1.00

00:12:19.440 And a lot of them got divorced and a lot of them didn't obey their husbands. 0.81

00:12:22.600 And a lot of them didn't listen to their men and didn't teach us what it meant to be

00:12:26.960 traditional because I just don't see modern relationships working.

00:12:30.940 I think if you want to do it, fine.

00:12:32.220 I got, I got no qualms doing what you want to do.

00:12:34.380 I just don't see relationship.

00:12:36.280 Like when there's a kingdom, right?

00:12:38.100 There's one King, not two.

00:12:39.580 If there's two Kings, they'd be fighting all the time.

00:12:41.260 There's a reason there's one.

00:12:42.340 And I think when there's two people trying to have control and power all the time, someone

00:12:46.240 has to give.

00:12:48.000 And unfortunately nowadays it's more likely to be the men because they're just, they're

00:12:52.780 just tired of the women. 1.00

00:12:53.900 And they're like, a lot of guys will just suffer in silence.

00:12:57.040 Yeah.

00:12:57.280 Yeah.

00:12:57.440 There's a reason that we have those phrases.

00:12:59.480 It's cheaper to keep her because there's a bunch of guys that they don't really have 0.98

00:13:03.100 good wives that we, that we can learn from, but they're still married. 1.00

00:13:06.700 And it's just like, you know, and they're, and they're almost like not even the King of

00:13:10.940 their own house.

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JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023

Woman OWNED After Reality Check

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