JustPearlyThings - Woman REJECTS First Date After Being Taken To Cheesecake Factory

00:00:00.000 moving on to the next topic today we're going to be taking a look at a video of a woman who 0.73

00:00:04.960 she basically got taken on a date by a guy and he brought her to the cheesecake factory which is i

00:00:10.320 think is like a i don't know if they actually do cheesecake but i think it's like a tgi fridays

00:00:15.200 type place as well yeah that's what i've heard anyway it's a restaurant nonetheless and this

00:00:20.720 lady got taken to this restaurant and she is very unhappy with her situation right even though she's 1.00

00:00:25.920 on a date and you you would think it would be ladylike and polite to just be happy to be on

00:00:31.040 the date but uh she seems to have a different idea let's let's take a look let me just get the door

00:00:40.320 point okay he got me at the cheesecake factory y'all oh you're not this far

00:00:58.080 yes uh would you want me to hook in the door for you

00:01:03.200 okay are you you're recording me yeah yeah this is the cheesecake factory

00:01:15.680 this is the cheesecake factory y'all what's the problem with that this is a chain restaurant

00:01:21.440 who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant you want to talk about it i'm

00:01:28.240 i'm i'm fine with talking about it even in front of them oh yeah i want to talk about it yeah come

00:01:34.240 on get up on in the car yeah we're going to talk about it so you expect a man to go all out on the

00:01:42.000 first day is that right i mean you're supposed to look at i mean i mean i feel like i'm doing everything

00:01:48.160 i'm supposed to do as a woman but i got myself all made up nothing wrong with the cheesecake factory 0.73

00:01:53.840 right yes there's a lot wrong with the cheesecake factory okay well look at i mean look at my planner

00:01:59.440 where we were gonna go originally see now that's that's where that's where we should have went all

00:02:04.400 right right there call him call him no what do you mean no see i told you both yesterday and this

00:02:13.680 morning you didn't even come downstairs for another hour and so i was waiting downstairs for an hour

00:02:21.200 yeah but i wasn't expecting for work to take me so long i got home a little late and like i said i

00:02:28.800 don't know you well enough to invite you up into my apartment and that is not possible and that's why

00:02:34.480 i'm saying i'm thinking okay if we're not there in the relationship to you know meet at your apartment

00:02:44.640 then maybe we're not ready in a relationship for such a nice fancy really uh restaurant as aria

00:02:51.600 especially if i'm paying for the whole thing

00:02:56.080 wow yeah speechless at that it's just the entitlement you know she she's she's admitting to everything that 0.66

00:03:06.960 she did wrong and she's saying that she's not ready for him to come up to her apartment so he says

00:03:14.080 okay fine if we're if we're not ready for that then maybe you're not ready for me to splash all my money

00:03:19.440 out on a fancy date and well i think that's fair enough yeah i think i understand what she's saying

00:03:24.560 on a first date you don't want someone don't want me anyway i would sort of feel a bit uncomfortable

00:03:29.920 having a man come into my place because obviously you know it leads to things and but be on time

00:03:36.160 then because he's saying he was waiting for her for a whole hour so be on time if you don't want him

00:03:41.040 coming inside your flat be on time be downstairs at the right time that you both agreed to be there

00:03:46.400 for and you know go on a date don't keep him waiting around because then yeah he's not going to

00:03:51.840 take you to a fancy restaurant he's going to take you to the cheesecake factory and also i'm sorry but

00:03:56.720 are you thinking what i'm thinking she's saying she's doing everything that she should be doing

00:04:04.320 for a woman and she's basically acting like she's a 10. yeah and she's very clearly not at it i mean 0.83

00:04:10.080 she was like is it like i belong in the cheesecake factory yes kind of yeah you look like pretty much

00:04:16.880 any other girl like you're you're nothing special and from what i know of the cheesecake factory it's 1.00

00:04:22.000 just a normal restaurant i'm trying to think of what the equivalent is over here maybe like

00:04:26.400 harvester or like i have never heard you've never heard a harvester no i don't know have you heard

00:04:30.240 like lola's cupcakes sure even lola's cupcakes i think that's a bit expensive

00:04:38.800 but i mean we can both agree she is acting like she is the type of woman that is 0.99

00:04:44.640 we're talking a nine a ten a model she's just not and i think something really important to note here

00:04:51.040 is this woman is not interested in this man not even remotely yeah you can tell because if she

00:04:56.720 was interested in him he could have taken her anywhere okay women when they are interested in 1.00

00:05:02.240 a man it doesn't matter where you are you're just grateful to be around him i remember when me and my

00:05:08.240 boyfriend first started dating he he made a joke once and he was like uh i'm taking you to the golden

00:05:13.520 arches and i thought oh my god that sounds so like fancy i i'd never heard this joke before i'd never

00:05:19.120 heard mcdonald's be referred to as the golden arches yeah so i was like wow like what's the

00:05:23.440 golden arches and and we turned up at mcdonald's and when he said it i was kind of thinking like i'm

00:05:28.720 not dressed for a golden arches type place like what is this place and then we turned up at mcdonald's

00:05:33.600 and not only was i relieved because i thought oh you know i am not dressed for a fancy place but

00:05:38.480 you were happy it didn't matter because i was just happy to be with him yeah it wasn't about

00:05:43.920 where we was going and any girl who's actually interested in a guy it doesn't matter where you 1.00

00:05:48.400 are it doesn't matter what you're doing it could be a walk in the park it could be a coffee it could

00:05:52.240 literally be anything you're just happy to be around them yeah so you know i think this guy has

00:05:56.480 dodged a billet here um she was using him she's of course she's using him and she probably does this to 1.00

00:06:02.240 to many guys yeah and you can tell just from her entitlement entitlement and her attitude the type of 0.98

00:06:06.800 woman she is but uh yeah these are these are what the comments are saying he should have just

00:06:10.880 taken her to a factory forget the cheesecake part get her doing some hard label with that dollhouse 1.00

00:06:18.640 mindset yeah true completely agree i'd love to watch that part two another one says she looks

00:06:27.280 dressed for mcdonald's she's lucky yeah yeah she looks dressed like she's going to the cheesecake 1.00

00:06:35.120 factory she does though that's what i said like you know it's nothing special she doesn't look 0.99

00:06:40.400 dressed up um so i'm a bit confused as to why she thinks that she belongs in a fancy restaurant when 1.00

00:06:46.400 she doesn't even and this is what we're doing to women is that we're telling all women yeah you can be 0.87

00:06:51.120 a 10. we're telling all women beauty has nothing to do with about we're telling all women beauty has

00:06:55.840 nothing to do with how you look beauty is a feeling and as long as you can emulate that feeling of

00:07:00.960 empowerment and self-love and confidence then that somehow equates to how you look on the outside but

00:07:07.200 the reality is you look how you look yeah it's good if you are happy within your own skin i would never

00:07:13.280 wish for anyone to be uncomfortable in their own skin but you look how you look and that is a fact

00:07:18.800 and you just have to accept your circumstances for what they are be grateful that you are in the

00:07:23.840 position that you are because let's not forget you know you might not be the prettiest person in the

00:07:27.760 world but not everyone can use their arms and legs you know exactly yeah there's always going to be

00:07:32.160 someone worse than you and we've seemed to have fallen prey to this mindset of of teaching girls

00:07:38.000 that we're on a pedestal and that all men have to kind of flock and climb on top of each other to

00:07:43.120 give us anything we want yeah and it it expects nothing of the women which is completely unfair to 0.80

00:07:50.160 the men and i actually feel really bad for this guy because he's he's waited around an hour for her

00:07:55.520 he's bought her somewhere and he even got out of the car to open the door for her yeah oh i didn't

00:08:00.160 even see that he got out of the car he says do you want me to open the door for you but she had

00:08:03.840 locked the door to his car yeah that's crazy you can tell he's so genuine and she's just like

00:08:09.920 deluded but she looks like mentally ill i don't know it's kind there's kind of something weird there 0.69

00:08:14.400 the way she's filming herself the entire time and making faces like she's a celebrity yeah it's really

00:08:19.440 like i think she's deluded in more ways than one like she thinks she's better than she is as well

00:08:23.520 which is also a delusion i think what's scary is the fact that she's not a rare type of woman i think

00:08:28.240 what's scary is the fact that there's probably loads of these videos out there this just happens

00:08:32.320 to be one that's that's blown up there we go

JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023

Woman REJECTS First Date After Being Taken To Cheesecake Factory

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