Woman REJECTS First Date After Being Taken To Cheesecake Factory
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss a video of a woman who has been taken on a date by a man who takes her to the cheesecake factory and she is not happy with the outcome. We also discuss the concept of entitlement and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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moving on to the next topic today we're going to be taking a look at a video of a woman who
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she basically got taken on a date by a guy and he brought her to the cheesecake factory which is i
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think is like a i don't know if they actually do cheesecake but i think it's like a tgi fridays
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type place as well yeah that's what i've heard anyway it's a restaurant nonetheless and this
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lady got taken to this restaurant and she is very unhappy with her situation right even though she's
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on a date and you you would think it would be ladylike and polite to just be happy to be on
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the date but uh she seems to have a different idea let's let's take a look let me just get the door
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point okay he got me at the cheesecake factory y'all oh you're not this far
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yes uh would you want me to hook in the door for you
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okay are you you're recording me yeah yeah this is the cheesecake factory
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this is the cheesecake factory y'all what's the problem with that this is a chain restaurant
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who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant you want to talk about it i'm
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i'm i'm fine with talking about it even in front of them oh yeah i want to talk about it yeah come
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on get up on in the car yeah we're going to talk about it so you expect a man to go all out on the
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first day is that right i mean you're supposed to look at i mean i mean i feel like i'm doing everything
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i'm supposed to do as a woman but i got myself all made up nothing wrong with the cheesecake factory
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right yes there's a lot wrong with the cheesecake factory okay well look at i mean look at my planner
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where we were gonna go originally see now that's that's where that's where we should have went all
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right right there call him call him no what do you mean no see i told you both yesterday and this
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morning you didn't even come downstairs for another hour and so i was waiting downstairs for an hour
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yeah but i wasn't expecting for work to take me so long i got home a little late and like i said i
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don't know you well enough to invite you up into my apartment and that is not possible and that's why
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i'm saying i'm thinking okay if we're not there in the relationship to you know meet at your apartment
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then maybe we're not ready in a relationship for such a nice fancy really uh restaurant as aria
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wow yeah speechless at that it's just the entitlement you know she she's she's admitting to everything that
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she did wrong and she's saying that she's not ready for him to come up to her apartment so he says
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okay fine if we're if we're not ready for that then maybe you're not ready for me to splash all my money
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out on a fancy date and well i think that's fair enough yeah i think i understand what she's saying
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on a first date you don't want someone don't want me anyway i would sort of feel a bit uncomfortable
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having a man come into my place because obviously you know it leads to things and but be on time
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then because he's saying he was waiting for her for a whole hour so be on time if you don't want him
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coming inside your flat be on time be downstairs at the right time that you both agreed to be there
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for and you know go on a date don't keep him waiting around because then yeah he's not going to
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take you to a fancy restaurant he's going to take you to the cheesecake factory and also i'm sorry but
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are you thinking what i'm thinking she's saying she's doing everything that she should be doing
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for a woman and she's basically acting like she's a 10. yeah and she's very clearly not at it i mean
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she was like is it like i belong in the cheesecake factory yes kind of yeah you look like pretty much
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any other girl like you're you're nothing special and from what i know of the cheesecake factory it's
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just a normal restaurant i'm trying to think of what the equivalent is over here maybe like
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harvester or like i have never heard you've never heard a harvester no i don't know have you heard
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like lola's cupcakes sure even lola's cupcakes i think that's a bit expensive
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but i mean we can both agree she is acting like she is the type of woman that is
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we're talking a nine a ten a model she's just not and i think something really important to note here
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is this woman is not interested in this man not even remotely yeah you can tell because if she
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was interested in him he could have taken her anywhere okay women when they are interested in
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a man it doesn't matter where you are you're just grateful to be around him i remember when me and my
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boyfriend first started dating he he made a joke once and he was like uh i'm taking you to the golden
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arches and i thought oh my god that sounds so like fancy i i'd never heard this joke before i'd never
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heard mcdonald's be referred to as the golden arches yeah so i was like wow like what's the
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golden arches and and we turned up at mcdonald's and when he said it i was kind of thinking like i'm
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not dressed for a golden arches type place like what is this place and then we turned up at mcdonald's
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and not only was i relieved because i thought oh you know i am not dressed for a fancy place but
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you were happy it didn't matter because i was just happy to be with him yeah it wasn't about
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where we was going and any girl who's actually interested in a guy it doesn't matter where you
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are it doesn't matter what you're doing it could be a walk in the park it could be a coffee it could
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literally be anything you're just happy to be around them yeah so you know i think this guy has
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dodged a billet here um she was using him she's of course she's using him and she probably does this to
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to many guys yeah and you can tell just from her entitlement entitlement and her attitude the type of
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woman she is but uh yeah these are these are what the comments are saying he should have just
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taken her to a factory forget the cheesecake part get her doing some hard label with that dollhouse
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mindset yeah true completely agree i'd love to watch that part two another one says she looks
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dressed for mcdonald's she's lucky yeah yeah she looks dressed like she's going to the cheesecake
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factory she does though that's what i said like you know it's nothing special she doesn't look
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dressed up um so i'm a bit confused as to why she thinks that she belongs in a fancy restaurant when
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she doesn't even and this is what we're doing to women is that we're telling all women yeah you can be
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a 10. we're telling all women beauty has nothing to do with about we're telling all women beauty has
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nothing to do with how you look beauty is a feeling and as long as you can emulate that feeling of
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empowerment and self-love and confidence then that somehow equates to how you look on the outside but
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the reality is you look how you look yeah it's good if you are happy within your own skin i would never
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wish for anyone to be uncomfortable in their own skin but you look how you look and that is a fact
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and you just have to accept your circumstances for what they are be grateful that you are in the
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position that you are because let's not forget you know you might not be the prettiest person in the
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world but not everyone can use their arms and legs you know exactly yeah there's always going to be
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someone worse than you and we've seemed to have fallen prey to this mindset of of teaching girls
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that we're on a pedestal and that all men have to kind of flock and climb on top of each other to
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give us anything we want yeah and it it expects nothing of the women which is completely unfair to
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the men and i actually feel really bad for this guy because he's he's waited around an hour for her
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he's bought her somewhere and he even got out of the car to open the door for her yeah oh i didn't
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even see that he got out of the car he says do you want me to open the door for you but she had
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locked the door to his car yeah that's crazy you can tell he's so genuine and she's just like
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deluded but she looks like mentally ill i don't know it's kind there's kind of something weird there
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the way she's filming herself the entire time and making faces like she's a celebrity yeah it's really
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like i think she's deluded in more ways than one like she thinks she's better than she is as well
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which is also a delusion i think what's scary is the fact that she's not a rare type of woman i think
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what's scary is the fact that there's probably loads of these videos out there this just happens