Woman REVEALS This Red Pill To The Entire Panel
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about monogamy and how it's not always easy being in a monogamous relationship. We talk about what it's like to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to have sex with their significant other and how to deal with that. We also talk about the challenges of being a single parent and how we deal with it.
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I am just so curious though, what if she say had a personal trainer, started to like him and she did want to engage with him.
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What is it about the rules that would stop you allowing her to be the guy?
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But even as women, do you want to bang a bunch of dudes?
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Sometimes it's like, I can say like, oh, sometimes like John arrives and then, oh, let's, you know, let's have sex.
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Sometimes I'm like so tired and it's like, oh, can you like, you know?
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So I, I, I'm fine if I say like, oh, not tonight, you know, because I know he's going to be fine.
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And I'm not like, you know, cutting him like so, you know, and it's not like something that's like, I feel I need so much.
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Because I'm, there's so many activities that I want to do.
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There's so many things that, oh, I want to do that.
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So when he goes and bangs and like come back happy, it's like, oh, this is, this is done.
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So we have like this thing together, you know, like we want to help each other.
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Like, you know, when I say activities, I say like stupid shit, like painting.
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But the problem is being inside of my job and having to take care of like the house, John,
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like the dogs, it was like just like too much for me.
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Because like I would do everything like kind of.
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And I hate that feeling because it like really starts to like stress me out.
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So, and then he was like, dude, you can like do this little things here and this.
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So, because he provides you give back in that way.
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He's going to have to get back to monogamy real quick then.
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But it's like when I first met him, to be honest, like today we have like all maids,
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we have people to walk the dogs, we have everything.
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But when I first met him and you have everything that we can buy, you don't care about so many
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Like we, he makes some amount that we don't even have time to spend.
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It's not like, oh, but like when I first met him, like three years ago, he wasn't rich.
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And it wasn't like, Liz, you have to do this, you have to do that.
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No, it was like, I can do this, so you can do that.
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There was a point that like his company was doing bad and I was like my job and I was just
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thinking, dude, if it goes bad, because like he likes some stuff, but I was just saying,
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oh, am I able to take us with my wage for some time?
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And I was to say, okay, so I need to work a little bit more here.
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So, I was willing to do that because like I chose for, it's like for his mind, you know?
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Well, I found that the girls that say, like he has to earn my submission or he has to make
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him a bunch of money, they're just keeping score.
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Like relationships aren't good if you're keeping score of what he's doing for you and what
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Would you rather date a guy you don't, all right, this is for a lifetime.
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Think of the last guy you dated that you just, you're kind of into him, kind of not.
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So, the guy you were the most in love with would do anything, got him in your head.
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Now, would you rather share the guy you liked the most ever and this sort of, maybe not
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as, you know, maybe it's not his job to screw other girls, but every now and then he's
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going to get some strange, but you're the main, you're the main.
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Or stay with the guy that you, eh, kind of liked for life.
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I won't share the guy that I like the most, but I'll share the guy that I don't like the
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So, if I like you that much, I want you to be mine.
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I mean, I'd rather just stay single, but if I had to pick one, it'd probably be the guy
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Because if I really like someone, I am jealous and I am petty as well.
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And I will do the most if I like you and you're not mine.
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It's a difficult one because if you're living with someone that you don't like, you're going
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So, would you rather just build yourself to a confidence where you don't mind?
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And like, I see she's so confident and she's happy.
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I would rather be with someone that I love and be happy.
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So, but, but my, do you guys think that most men cheat or no?
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Like, in your case, it would be like, oh, my guy won't cheat on me.
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And I think you're like, I can sense you guys are both are great people, you know, and you're
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I think that just boundaries, if you want to create children, healthy relationship, because
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it's easier, you have to work way harder than I have to work.
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We just like forgive, forget, blah, blah, blah, work them out.
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But the work that you both have to do, and maybe you're naturally, I can, I can sense that
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you're naturally are not jealous person, you know, you're naturally are way more open-minded
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Yes, but I think also in the future, when you have kids, things might get out of balance.
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I think, you know, if you just see relationship, traditional relationship, the most successful
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And there was like times where like she came over and like there was like she came over
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early or maybe not even early, but I was like sloppy and she like arrived and I was with
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But we keep, we keep like the emotional stuff like segmented.
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Like the love and the affection and stuff just with her.
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Are you going to carry on doing this when you have kids?
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With chat GPT out, I don't know about how much longer the world will be normal.
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But no, I mean, we're, we're pretty happy with the three dogs we have.
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It still allows flexibility to travel and do all these.
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Well, I'm curious because you guys going to get older.
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There's, there is like a reduce of your sexual needs.
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But I, but I take like supplemental testosterone to an endocrinologist.
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I still take like maca and the different libido supplements.
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My point is if that is what brings you fulfillment right, right now, at this point, what would
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I mean, like I come from an interesting background.
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Like the reason why I went and slept with 1600 girls, like I came from like a pretty verbal
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abusive childhood where like my parents are really nice people, but they're always saying
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And when I like sleep with a new girl, it makes me like feel like, oh, I'm not like that.
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So the element of you compensating then a little bit there.
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I don't know if it's compensating, but it's, it's definitely like, you know, I wouldn't
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have gone and done this had I not come from that background.
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Like people, like a lot of like the best UFC fighters, they're bullied for instance,
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And they were like, I'm going to become the best fighter in the world.
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So like, I think my mom like stripped all the like validation for me, like routinely
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And the way you come back is to sleep with women to make up for that trauma.
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I sleep with, I don't know, eight women a week, right?
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I've been doing it for years, years, years, but now I'm ready to commit to one woman.
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If you want to go from, from seeing a bunch of people just to one, because that's obviously
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That's helping my confidence and that's fulfilling.
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So how would you say to me, cool, stop that, stick to one woman.
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Well, I don't, I don't, I don't ever tell them like, you know, you should just be doing this.
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But you know, I don't tell them like any societal narratives.
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I don't tell guys to get a girlfriend or wife or bang a bunch of girls or see a bunch of
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But if they asked, I want to be with one woman, how can I go about that?
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Lots of, lots of guys just want girlfriends, but, but most of them like in practice, like
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once I teach them to be able to have a bunch of options and they pick the best one usually
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But you know, if they had that issue where they were seeing a bunch, I would, you know,
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they have to like realign their internal values and stuff like that, I guess, but they
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Do you guys, who here out of the women thinks that all men cheat when given the chance?
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I discovered something new tonight completely because she's stunning, gorgeous, right?
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And a lot of women that get cheated on, they will just say, I'm out of shape.
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I'm less, but it's just, I'm realizing your looks and who you are won't stop men cheating
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So NBA players have women and I know this, um, I just interviewed a guy who he has like
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good friends with a couple professional sports players.
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And he said that on the sidelines, these girls that are tens, okay, nines and tens will come
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to their games and just offer them threesomes and say like, we're, we're available and they
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hunt them down and try to get them to cheat on their wives.