JustPearlyThings - March 15, 2023


Woman says 304s deserve courtship


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Length

11 minutes

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197.42

Word count

2,313

Sentence count

186

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Misogyny

34

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Toxicity

53

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Hate speech

28

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In this episode, we discuss why women deserve to be treated equally to men and why it matters if a woman wants to have sex with a man or not. We also discuss the value of virginity and why women should be more careful with how they have sex.

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00:00:00.000 Why does it matter if a woman's traditional or modern? 1.00
00:00:03.300 I just don't get why we have all these.
00:00:05.800 Go ahead.
00:00:06.300 No, no, no.
00:00:06.820 Karen, no, Karen.
00:00:07.580 No, because that's what men want.
00:00:10.160 I don't know what your type is, but say you wanted X, Y, Z in a man.
00:00:14.980 You're not going to go for something that you don't want.
00:00:17.840 Essentially, men want modern, traditional women that have the quality, 1.00
00:00:23.420 so they're going to look for that.
00:00:24.980 They're going to go after that.
00:00:26.780 It's like the market dictates the price.
00:00:32.200 And so if you have a girl that's more traditional, more guys want her typically. 0.55
00:00:36.680 I mean, you know how everybody's been saying modern women don't necessarily deserve to be courted? 0.99
00:00:45.480 I would say that the only reason that view may be held is because women have sex to women. 1.00
00:00:57.200 Willingly. 0.69
00:00:58.320 And if women were more careful with how they had sex, the price of the value of vajayjay would go back to how it would be what it actually is, 0.97
00:01:09.240 as opposed to because right now, vajayjay has been devalued because it's everywhere.
00:01:14.460 And that's why you men can say that women don't deserve to be courted.
00:01:20.560 When I don't, I think all women should be courted. 0.99
00:01:24.680 If you're interested in- 0.97
00:01:26.580 Even a hooker? 1.00
00:01:27.320 Yes. 1.00
00:01:28.040 Even a hooker. 1.00
00:01:28.500 Why would she deserve to be courted? 1.00
00:01:30.020 Why not?
00:01:30.480 Because she gives it to everybody.
00:01:32.080 Why on earth would you-
00:01:33.060 She's not, she's a person.
00:01:34.680 She's a human being.
00:01:36.200 Right. 0.99
00:01:36.780 Women are far more than their vagina or their sexual status. 1.00
00:01:41.500 No, you just contradicted yourself there. 0.99
00:01:43.480 No, I said that the value of vajayjay has reduced because women give it out so much. 1.00
00:01:50.020 Yeah.
00:01:50.240 Yeah, that doesn't change the value of people, though.
00:01:52.880 That kind of implies that the value of the requirement-
00:01:55.520 Right, but the world doesn't owe you understanding.
00:01:58.560 So, I don't, men don't go to women and say, accept me short, accept me broke, accept me fat.
00:02:03.000 But we go to them and say, accept us ran through.
00:02:05.320 That's not a fair deal.
00:02:07.380 Some women, a lot of women do accept men that are short and broke.
00:02:11.980 No, not if you look at the date.
00:02:13.400 No, no, a lot of women do. 1.00
00:02:14.440 Men only swipe right on, or women only swipe right on dating apps 5% of the time. 0.53
00:02:18.180 5%.
00:02:18.620 On the high end, 20%.
00:02:20.220 Women do not accept, and that's the number one place that people are meeting today. 1.00
00:02:24.620 So, women, actually, we do not accept men that are short, broke, and fat.
00:02:27.220 Historically, even throughout all of history, most men didn't even get to reproduce.
00:02:30.700 That's a privilege.
00:02:31.360 But can I just, okay, so if a dude is broke, right, if a dude is short, right, okay, so
00:02:37.020 if you're broke, you're less likely to be able to provide for my family.
00:02:40.500 If you're short, you're more likely to give me kids. 1.00
00:02:42.680 If a woman is ran through, her vagina still feels good. 1.00
00:02:46.760 You're still going to cum. 1.00
00:02:47.880 What's your problem? 0.99
00:02:48.420 She's more likely, she's more likely to cheat or leave. 1.00
00:02:50.520 You're still going to cum. 0.99
00:02:50.660 She's more likely to cheat. 1.00
00:02:51.640 She's more likely to cheat. 1.00
00:02:53.400 He is more likely to cheat as well.
00:02:55.780 No, no, no, no, no, she's, no, she's, no, she's, no, no.
00:02:59.800 Okay, I'm not talking over the host.
00:03:01.060 If she's slept with more people, she's not, she's more likely to cheat. 0.93
00:03:06.760 And if a guy is slept with more people, it's not the same.
00:03:09.920 Okay.
00:03:11.600 If, because it's, the thing is, a dude can be broke, short and ran through as well.
00:03:18.380 Men and women aren't the same. 0.98
00:03:20.160 Either way.
00:03:21.000 How can a man be ran through? 0.99
00:03:21.940 But this is the thing, guys, if you look at the other side of it, yeah, a man is, a woman, when they have sex, right, a man is coming inside of you. 0.99
00:03:33.640 Yeah.
00:03:33.860 Like, you end up holding onto that, like, sperm doesn't just leave your body.
00:03:37.840 So, I get there's a certain level in terms of, like, how many partners you should be with and how accessible you are to a man and just anyone and everyone.
00:03:45.880 But, I get the sense of, like, I wouldn't, if I was a man, I wouldn't want a woman that's just been with everyone. 1.00
00:03:53.380 I wouldn't want, as a woman, I don't want a man that's been with everyone.
00:03:58.060 And, and I.
00:03:58.720 But then why do you say that a hoe deserves to be courted? 1.00
00:04:01.560 Like, why should another dude put up with that? 0.99
00:04:04.160 Because, even if she, she may have had sex with other people, one, to be honest, let's be very, very honest, a hoe is probably going to make you come faster than a virgin. 1.00
00:04:13.660 So, she probably will, what you want from her, she can probably give it to you better than a virgin can. 0.95
00:04:19.520 A hoe will probably still be able to cook, still be able to clean, still be able to educate your kids. 1.00
00:04:24.240 If you're broke and you're short, you won't be able to provide.
00:04:27.520 Can I just quickly say, the one thing that you're missing.
00:04:31.560 Is that men value loyalty.
00:04:33.320 And the point that Pearl's trying to make is that she might be able to clean, like you said.
00:04:36.540 She might be able to cook. 0.96
00:04:37.680 She might, she might exhibit all of these traits, right? 0.99
00:04:40.120 However, and she might, she might give you good sex. 1.00
00:04:42.640 But men value loyalty. 0.92
00:04:44.080 And given her sexual status, she's far less likely to be loyal.
00:04:47.860 That's what men are aiming for. 1.00
00:04:48.900 It's, it's, the thing is, right?
00:04:50.740 At the, like, that is still, uh, that's still like a, a maybe.
00:04:56.380 She might be less loyal.
00:04:58.560 It's also equally, she might.
00:05:00.960 So you said, okay, you said, you said you saw my TikTok, right?
00:05:04.760 Oh, yeah.
00:05:05.320 Like you said you were, you were, before the show, you said you were triggered by my TikTok.
00:05:08.460 I wasn't triggered.
00:05:09.000 You're not triggered.
00:05:09.820 You were upset.
00:05:10.920 You were, you felt some type.
00:05:12.100 She was definitely true.
00:05:12.780 I felt that you have a platform and you, sometimes you're irresponsible with the things that you say.
00:05:21.400 Do you know which thing upset me?
00:05:23.780 The, the five body count one?
00:05:25.240 No, not that.
00:05:25.860 No, okay.
00:05:26.220 When you, when a girl said that she spent her twenties finding yourself and you said, what does that mean?
00:05:31.520 You don't spend, but so many women have to take time finding themselves. 1.00
00:05:34.780 You were raised in a really beautiful home with a beautiful family with five older brothers that looked after you.
00:05:41.380 Not everybody, not five older brother. 0.58
00:05:43.340 I don't know.
00:05:43.760 My brother said that look after me.
00:05:45.140 But, but you had siblings.
00:05:46.320 They said you're on your own.
00:05:47.620 But you had siblings that helped you build character and helped you feel comfortable with who you are.
00:05:52.700 Not everybody has that same footing.
00:05:54.520 I understand that.
00:05:55.540 But the point is the world doesn't owe you understanding.
00:05:57.780 So, yeah, no, but you are, when you're saying that, like you deserve to be courted by someone.
00:06:01.700 Like the keyword is deserve.
00:06:03.080 Nobody deserves anything.
00:06:04.100 Can I, can I ask a question?
00:06:05.160 Can I ask a question?
00:06:05.900 Sorry.
00:06:06.520 Go ahead.
00:06:07.540 Um, so imagine you've got two guys, right?
00:06:10.180 You've got one guy, average height, average looks, average income, right?
00:06:13.940 You've got the second guy, right?
00:06:16.020 Tall, good looking, confident, intelligent.
00:06:18.880 Clearly there's one guy you would, you want more.
00:06:21.020 And there's one guy who's seen as more valuable to you because of what you look for than the other, right?
00:06:25.580 So would you be expected, right?
00:06:27.580 Because it's going to be harder to get him.
00:06:29.340 Yeah, right.
00:06:30.280 Would you be expected to the same degree, the same level of effort that you put in to get his attention, to connect with him, right?
00:06:38.380 Would you expect to have the same level of effort for the guy that you find less valuable?
00:06:42.780 You're going to have to redirect the question because I don't chase.
00:06:46.820 Yeah.
00:06:47.140 It's not about chasing, but you make an effort.
00:06:49.600 No, hold on.
00:06:50.080 Wait, wait, hold on.
00:06:50.560 Hold on.
00:06:50.720 You don't put effort in with guys at all?
00:06:52.400 No.
00:06:52.720 Can I just ask, what's your relationship status? 1.00
00:06:54.700 Have you read, have you read blind men love bitches? 1.00
00:06:57.420 No. 0.99
00:06:58.300 I was going to say, if you had a boyfriend, you would have said that.
00:07:00.300 So basically, if I just put in a mutual amount of effort.
00:07:07.740 So if that's that intelligent, whatever guy that's there, he can be there and they can be the average guy.
00:07:13.720 If the average guy is building more of a relationship with me or making more effort with me, that's who I'm going to.
00:07:18.300 So you don't reciprocate in dating?
00:07:20.240 No, I only reciprocate.
00:07:22.040 I don't, I'm not going to.
00:07:24.300 So how are you supposed to let him know you're interested?
00:07:26.220 You don't instigate, basically.
00:07:28.020 Yeah, exactly.
00:07:28.660 I don't instigate, I only reciprocate.
00:07:30.720 Because that's what he's saying.
00:07:31.500 If you had two men in front of you, how would you, like, how are you going to choose?
00:07:34.600 You're automatically going to choose.
00:07:35.960 I'm not going to want a guy that wants me to chase him.
00:07:38.640 Okay, so let me.
00:07:39.400 It's not about chasing, that's my point.
00:07:41.080 If you have two opportunities, like, both of them don't know about each other and you're speaking to them both,
00:07:45.820 you're automatically going to choose the one that is more suited to you.
00:07:49.100 Like, you're not going to choose the one just because of, or unless you care more about personality,
00:07:53.280 depending on what your values are.
00:07:54.520 I do care more about personality.
00:07:55.560 But that's what I'm saying.
00:07:56.240 So how do you choose?
00:07:57.980 And he's saying, like, how would you do that?
00:08:00.340 So if you're the last woman on earth.
00:08:02.440 You decipher the value.
00:08:04.460 But let me quickly ask you a question.
00:08:05.840 So just a little look into a man's brain, right? 0.95
00:08:09.380 Regardless what any man wants to say, men, off the bat, we want to have sex, right? 0.95
00:08:14.260 So you said previously that every single woman should be caught with disdain, okay?
00:08:19.040 Every woman should be caught with the same. 1.00
00:08:20.080 So if a man was to caught a woman, say, over three months, hypothetically, right? 0.57
00:08:24.360 If a man was to caught a woman over three months, he spent his time, money, resources, all of his energy on you. 0.93
00:08:30.560 Do you believe once he's done that, you owe him sex?
00:08:35.160 No, I don't believe I owe him anything. 1.00
00:08:36.720 But if I want to have sex with him, I'll have sex with him. 0.99
00:08:39.820 But he has to do all this stuff for you. 1.00
00:08:43.740 That's the biggest problem.
00:08:44.420 You're not doing anything for him.
00:08:47.440 I didn't say I'm not going to do anything for him.
00:08:51.300 I said that women deserve to be courted. 1.00
00:08:54.980 So I think that all women deserve, especially, and I think as well, it's the intention that you have for the woman.
00:09:01.840 So if you're dating women to find your life partner, then, yeah, then definitely you should take time to court them properly. 1.00
00:09:11.560 If you're dating women to fuck, then cool, date women to fuck. 1.00
00:09:16.860 So even the women that say, oh, men are trash, men are X, Y, Z, men don't deserve this from me, men don't need this from me. 1.00
00:09:25.980 I'm a, like Kevin Samuel says, I'm an independent woman. 0.99
00:09:29.760 I can do things on my own.
00:09:31.700 Like, why do they need to be courted if they can do it on their own? 0.93
00:09:35.960 They can take their self-taught and they can take their self, they can court themselves, essentially.
00:09:39.980 Why do they deserve to be courted if they're not essentially going to reciprocate it for the man? 0.85
00:09:48.400 So the thing is, for me, right, I feel that relationships, and you're probably all going to attack me for this, but it's what I feel and what I believe.
00:09:57.860 I feel relationships, marriage, is more advantageous for men than it is for women. 0.98
00:10:03.720 I feel that men need women more than women need men. 0.98
00:10:09.760 And because of that, men should make more efforts. 0.97
00:10:14.840 And like, yeah, even if those women that feel that men are trash, men are this, or all of those types of women, 0.96
00:10:22.000 they can either choose to be single and they'll be happy. 0.64
00:10:24.560 Or if a man wants them, that man should work to prove them wrong and work to have them on their side.
00:10:32.100 Okay, I have a question.
00:10:33.720 So, how do, how do, how do, how do men, you said women, or men need women more than women need men.
00:10:44.580 Yeah.
00:10:44.860 How is that true when they want everything in society?
00:10:47.600 What do you mean?
00:10:48.240 Everything.
00:10:48.940 The power supply.
00:10:49.880 The entire infrastructure of society.
00:10:52.000 Oh, it's, it's very simple. 0.98
00:10:54.000 It's because men need sex more than women need sex. 0.99
00:10:57.760 But can I just quickly say, that's all you offer. 1.00
00:11:00.140 God damn. 1.00
00:11:00.480 Who offers? 1.00
00:11:01.160 That's all you offer.
00:11:01.840 That's all women offer. 1.00
00:11:02.420 That's all women offer. 1.00
00:11:02.900 Okay, not all I offer, because I don't need to talk about it.
00:11:06.540 I mean, you just said you, you just said you would do nothing for a guy.
00:11:09.320 You said that.
00:11:10.200 I didn't have to.
00:11:11.360 So when, when you say that's not, that's not all you offer, generally speaking, 0.98
00:11:15.160 the things that you believe you offer a man, we point blank don't give a shit about. 0.97
00:11:18.440 Yeah. 0.96
00:11:18.640 You can offer personality. 1.00
00:11:19.740 You can offer the ability to clean the house unless you're loyal and the pussy's good. 1.00
00:11:25.360 We genuinely don't give a shit. 0.99
00:11:26.540 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this 0.99
00:11:33.680 platform.
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