JustPearlyThings - July 24, 2023


Woman TRIES To Wizzle Her Way Through This Question

Topics
cheating
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Chantel Trudy Rudy
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Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

164.4

Word count

1,436

Sentence count

201

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

8

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In this episode, we discuss the role of a wife and the role a wife should play in the life of her husband. We also discuss the roles of a daughter and a daughter-in-law and how they should be treated in marriage.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And my dad is still there, still there supporting her,
00:00:06.420 and she's still there supporting him.
00:00:08.920 So what I've seen her do over all these years,
00:00:13.340 because they were together, well, from before I was born,
00:00:17.080 they're in their 50s now.
00:00:19.100 Her just, even the business, they've opened up a business. 0.59
00:00:22.700 They've got teamwork now.
00:00:25.020 It's just, it's all about building.
00:00:29.200 She's built.
00:00:30.300 With her partner and her partner, my dad, she's built him together.
00:00:35.900 She's built him?
00:00:36.980 Yeah, like together, like just, they build each other.
00:00:39.840 Okay.
00:00:40.300 And it's like, it's a team thing, you know?
00:00:44.020 Do you think they're equals?
00:00:46.360 Equals? 0.97
00:00:47.000 In marriage, are they equal? 0.74
00:00:49.560 Yes.
00:00:50.280 Yeah.
00:00:50.880 Yeah, yeah.
00:00:52.460 But my opinion...
00:00:54.080 You think your role in marriage is to be an equal, a teammate?
00:00:57.500 Well, I just feel like they've still been right.
00:01:00.360 They're happy.
00:01:01.140 They've been going on.
00:01:02.300 This is just what I've seen.
00:01:04.260 Obviously, I'm not going to go into my deep detail of my life and my family,
00:01:07.860 but this is just my opinion.
00:01:09.680 I'm not married.
00:01:10.240 I've just seen what she's done.
00:01:12.540 And as a wife, they're still happy, boy.
00:01:16.960 Still together.
00:01:17.900 Still riding it.
00:01:19.240 And that's just me.
00:01:20.140 Anyway.
00:01:20.440 Okay.
00:01:20.900 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:01:22.920 To be the husband's helper.
00:01:24.580 To love, respect, and to submit to him.
00:01:29.400 Like, he is the leader.
00:01:32.080 And to just nurture the home.
00:01:34.620 Make a home.
00:01:35.640 Okay.
00:01:35.940 The house for him.
00:01:36.680 Yeah.
00:01:37.580 Yeah, I would say to love and support.
00:01:42.760 Be respectful.
00:01:44.840 And to listen.
00:01:48.640 Yeah, I think that's pretty much...
00:01:51.960 And yeah, be able to just give him...
00:01:54.580 What he won't be looking in other women for. 0.97
00:01:57.840 Okay.
00:02:00.300 I would say exactly what she said, actually.
00:02:02.220 But that's kind of biblical.
00:02:03.520 Speak up to the mic.
00:02:05.020 Well, what she said, I agree with her.
00:02:07.400 All the things that she's... 0.97
00:02:09.420 The lady over there, I don't really know her name. 1.00
00:02:11.580 What's your name?
00:02:12.280 No, no.
00:02:13.620 Chantel.
00:02:14.180 Chantel, yeah. 0.69
00:02:14.720 What what Chantel said, I agree with her.
00:02:16.700 So, copy and paste.
00:02:17.840 That's exactly how I think a wife should be. 1.00
00:02:21.540 Okay.
00:02:22.040 What do you think?
00:02:22.600 What is the role of a wife? 1.00
00:02:23.480 Yeah, I totally agree with the last two guys.
00:02:26.760 Yeah, definitely, you know, to be a helper, to respect, you know, commit in terms of paying
00:02:36.740 your role as a wife. 1.00
00:02:37.600 Okay.
00:02:40.880 Okay.
00:02:41.460 So, that would be to nurture, to reproduce.
00:02:45.260 Two other elements, I'll say, to heal the sick and to feed the hunger.
00:02:51.340 And to contribute towards the legacy that the man's trying to obtain or maintain.
00:02:59.760 Should you obey your husband, point blank, period?
00:03:04.520 No.
00:03:05.880 No?
00:03:06.380 No.
00:03:06.840 No?
00:03:07.180 What about you?
00:03:13.460 Can we define obey?
00:03:14.820 I was about to say that as well.
00:03:16.280 It depends.
00:03:16.620 Obey.
00:03:17.640 You don't know what obey?
00:03:18.680 I mean, I can get the definition.
00:03:20.180 You don't, you, you can't infer what it means.
00:03:23.140 I'll get, I'll get you guys.
00:03:24.400 You mean just say yes to everything they say, basically?
00:03:27.480 The yes scale?
00:03:28.260 Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:03:30.040 Submit to the authority of someone or comply with.
00:03:35.000 Should you obey your husband, point blank, period?
00:03:38.380 So, you say no.
00:03:39.700 What do you say?
00:03:42.040 No.
00:03:42.780 No.
00:03:43.300 Okay, what do you think?
00:03:44.100 Yes.
00:03:44.700 Yes.
00:03:46.560 She's torn, I see it.
00:03:47.940 I am.
00:03:48.420 She's like, I know the right answer, but I don't want to say it.
00:03:53.580 Yeah, I think it's a bit of both.
00:03:55.900 I think there's certain things you should just completely agree with
00:04:00.140 and other things that you just, how do you?
00:04:02.120 And that is no.
00:04:02.800 You should be able to.
00:04:04.320 Because Rudy and Trudy, I agree with you.
00:04:06.720 There's certain things, yes, but you will say no to something.
00:04:10.880 I am going to say no.
00:04:11.360 So, that is a no.
00:04:12.340 You won't always obey.
00:04:14.140 Okay.
00:04:16.500 That's a tricky one.
00:04:17.520 I would say, yes, you should obey.
00:04:20.080 But only obey if he himself moves with godly principles.
00:04:25.440 Then, yeah, you should obey.
00:04:26.180 Because me personally, I obey God alone.
00:04:28.460 So, if he moves with godly principles, then, yeah, I think you should obey.
00:04:31.800 Because it will lead you both into an unselfish route.
00:04:34.900 You both can then just reap the benefits of that.
00:04:38.840 So, yeah.
00:04:39.720 If he's got godly principles, then, yeah, you should obey.
00:04:44.220 I agree with the last bit, what he just said.
00:04:47.520 And I believe, yes, so long as it's not detrimental to the home.
00:04:52.840 Okay.
00:04:53.780 I would say if it's beneficial to both parties, yes.
00:04:57.420 How do you determine what's beneficial to both parties?
00:05:00.260 When your boss asks you to do something, do you say if it's beneficial to both parties?
00:05:09.000 To a boss, it will be beneficial to do it because if not, you'd be fired, then you have to look at the consequences of being fired.
00:05:15.480 Or having the consequences of you having a rocky relationship with your boss now saying that you don't want to comply.
00:05:20.200 So, why will women submit to a boss but not their husband? 1.00
00:05:23.560 Because that's not, you're not getting paid.
00:05:26.980 That's different.
00:05:27.840 I mean, do you want a guy that provides?
00:05:31.020 True.
00:05:31.900 When you think of it like that.
00:05:33.160 Yeah, so, like, my question is why will we submit to a boss but we have to say, oh, well, what's in it for me when it's our husband?
00:05:40.280 Work is work.
00:05:40.940 We shouldn't be at home thinking that this is work.
00:05:43.320 Right, but it's the same dynamic.
00:05:44.860 It's an authority dynamic, right?
00:05:47.380 Mm-hmm.
00:05:48.480 I mean, it depends what you believe marriage is.
00:05:50.880 Like, because you seem to have more of an egalitarian model of marriage, which is really common where it's like 50-50, we have an equal say.
00:05:57.520 I don't believe in that.
00:05:58.860 Like, I think that you should listen to the men.
00:06:01.400 Is that you?
00:06:02.020 Have you got a partner?
00:06:04.880 Right, right, right.
00:06:08.500 No, but I just think you can look at what works in history and it's literally like the egalitarian model has never worked.
00:06:19.920 Would you care to elaborate on that a bit?
00:06:22.860 All right, let's look at, so, basically, feminism, when did it start? 1.00
00:06:27.040 Like, the early 1900s.
00:06:29.380 And that's when you start seeing in the media that men are abusers.
00:06:32.480 You start seeing these propaganda campaigns where it's like, we're 50-50.
00:06:36.520 We both have an equal say, right?
00:06:39.020 And so it's like the further, the more closer it's been to an egalitarian model, then the less from a submissive, like, authority structure, the more divorce rates have gone up, the less children we've had, the less relationships have formed.
00:06:53.420 It was just really hard to get a divorce before, wasn't it?
00:06:56.720 That's related.
00:06:57.400 I mean, yeah, because I think today what we have, it's not marriage.
00:07:01.900 You know, it's like basically being in a relationship.
00:07:05.180 I think divorce should be illegal. 1.00
00:07:07.200 Yeah, I don't believe in that.
00:07:09.260 Yeah, I don't think.
00:07:10.960 I think once you're married, that's it.
00:07:13.620 Yeah, unless it's, again, the whole abuse word.
00:07:16.420 Then I don't think there's anything, even with cheating, I think that can be worked out.
00:07:21.580 Wow.
00:07:22.180 Based.
00:07:22.840 Very based.
00:07:24.980 I do feel like if that's your husband, then that's who you've married.
00:07:28.680 You can work it out.
00:07:29.900 I mean, I think women cheat every day. 1.00
00:07:32.540 Yeah. 0.99
00:07:33.060 I mean, women, women are the biggest cheaters in 2023. 1.00
00:07:36.540 How many women we see have ass pictures on Instagram being in happy, healthy relationships? 1.00
00:07:43.240 Wait, is that cheating? 1.00
00:07:44.000 Women, yes. 1.00
00:07:45.700 Is that cheating for you?
00:07:46.540 Yes, yes.
00:07:47.580 I think that is absolutely cheating. 0.99
00:07:50.060 What do you need to post a picture of your butt on Instagram for when you have a husband? 1.00
00:07:53.840 What kind of butt? 1.00
00:07:55.040 Like, you know, just showing their nipples and underwear. 1.00
00:07:58.120 I think a selfie is cheating. 0.97
00:08:01.740 Really?
00:08:02.440 What do they need to see your beauty for? 0.99
00:08:04.340 You got a man.
00:08:05.160 Girl, we're going to be walking on the roads.
00:08:07.360 Everyone's going to see the faces now.
00:08:08.880 What do you, I mean, yeah, outside, but, like, what are you posting it online for?
00:08:12.580 How is that cheating?
00:08:13.720 Also, let's talk about, let's talk about women.
00:08:16.520 It's like, we're like, oh, cheating is the worst thing that could ever happen to us.
00:08:20.300 Well, I mean, are you a virgin on your wedding day?
00:08:23.260 No.
00:08:23.960 So, it's like, maybe we should get off our high horses.
00:08:26.900 It's like a man cheats once.
00:08:29.160 50 to 70% of the time, it's a one-time thing.
00:08:33.060 So, meaning he'll never do it again.
00:08:34.800 Most guys don't really get offered like that.
00:08:37.720 So, then the women are like, oh, cheating is the worst thing ever. 1.00
00:08:40.960 Like, when men are programmed to just screw random chicks. 1.00