Womanese： What Women Say VS What They Mean ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
On today's show, we have a special guest on the show, Donovan Sharpe, who is a friend of mine and someone I've known for a long time. In this episode, we talk about his journey into the world of content creation, how he got started with his content, and why he's one of the smartest, most intelligent people I know.
Transcript
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Good afternoon, good evening, ladies and gentlemen.
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Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
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Before we get started today, just to remind you guys, we are going to be raising the price
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Next month, I'm going to be having on the smart, non-famous men that I know in my personal
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And you guys actually can ask them questions directly.
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It's going to be able to teach you guys things like graphic design, editing, editing, production.
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That's all I'm going to say, I have smart, intelligent men that you guys really can learn from behind
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So when I first got into the red pill content, I think it was about four years ago, maybe three
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And as you guys know, one of the first videos that I saw was Kevin Samuel's high value men cheat and this triggered me a little bit.
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But one of the second or third or maybe fourth, I don't remember at this point, people that I saw was Donovan Sharpe's content.
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And Donovan was or is a red pill content creator.
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And he had a course called or a part of his channel called Womanese.
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I thought, I thought Donovan, come on, that is not right.
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He would say things like, for example, you know, if she calls him an asshole, it means she wants to F him.
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But then I did a thousand, you know, I interviewed a thousand women.
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And then I also observed myself, my friends, people I just knew's behavior over the years.
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And Donovan was one of those people that was just right about freaking everything.
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His entire, he has a course and it's called Womanese.
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And the link to it's in the description if you guys want it.
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It amazed me that he was just, like, I think he's spent years dissecting this stuff.
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And seriously, guys, I just, when I first heard the content that he had, I thought he was making it up.
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And then three years later, I come back and I'm like, he is completely right.
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So some of the stuff you would say I would think was an overreaction or it'd be kind of out there.
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And then time passed and I just thought, holy crap, Donovan knows his stuff.
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Like, I just, when it comes to what women say versus what they mean, there's no one that knows it better than you.
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Well, and the reason why is because I have had many, many, many failures with women.
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For every story that I have ever told about some big-breasted blonde that I, you know, game, some one-night stand I had with a hot redhead or a brunette, there are 50 stories of absolute, utter failure.
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And I think in life, and I think this goes, I think this goes with any, with anything you do in life.
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I think you learn more from failure than you do from winning, right?
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But when you lose, if you, if you look at yourself with a critical eye, if you're honest with yourself, you will learn a lot more, you know, during your losses than your wins.
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For example, let's just say someone, Stephen Curry, right, greatest shooter ever, you know, he, he, he shoots a bunch of threes.
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Stephen Curry has missed more three-pointers than he's ever taken.
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But with every miss, he learns a little bit more about what to do, what not to do.
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And so over the years, Stephen Curry has sort of honed his craft and it's not really knowing what to do.
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We all know, Hey, in order to shoot, you play basketball, Pearl.
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In order to shoot, you put the ball above your head and you let it go.
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But there are certain things you can do, like spreading your fingers across the basketball, the way you aim with your eye, the way you aim for aim for spot six, six inches before, you know, the basket that increases the odds of going in the arc of the ball.
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Well, the same thing goes on the dating market.
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If you walk and you approach, I don't know, let's just say 10 girls and they all blow you out.
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They all reject you instead of getting into your feelings, which is very easy to get because rejection is not easy to get used to, but it's a lot easier for men to get used to.
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But instead of just, you know, you know, she rejected me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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You have to think to yourself, okay, what did I say?
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She told me that she had a boyfriend, but she told me she had a boyfriend like three seconds after I approached her.
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And so I wondered why, when I kept trying, she told me, Hey, look, I told you had a boyfriend.
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Whereas you approach another girl and you're talking to her for 10, 15 minutes.
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And then she tells you that she has a boyfriend.
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You're like, okay, is it really that she has a boyfriend?
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So the earlier in the set, she tells you she has a boyfriend, the more likely it is that it's a rejection.
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If you learn these things and if you apply what you've learned and you go out and approach girls, you know that if you're, if you've been talking to a girl for 10, 15 minutes, and then she says she has a boyfriend, you know, she's probably lying.
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And she's saying that to throw you off the scent.
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And so that's, that's really the main reason I created woman ease.
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I created woman ease was to let guys know, Hey, listen, this is what women say versus what they really mean.
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And so how long did it take you from when you were complete blue pills step to, to like, how many years did it take you to figure all this out?
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Like, I think it would help people to know like how many reps you had or how many approaches you do.
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How many girl, like what was your, your origin story?
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Well, to make a very, very long story, very short.
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Um, so the way I discovered the red pill is I had just gotten out of a really, really bad breakup.
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That's not the relationship that red pilled me, got out of a bad breakup, moved to Atlanta for six months, decided I didn't want to live there.
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And so I got this, you know, this call center telemarketing job, pardon me, you know, because I'm really good at sales.
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I have a good speaking voice, et cetera, et cetera.
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Well, there was this, there was this Mexican girl who was attractive ish looking, looking back now, she probably wasn't as attractive as I thought she was at the time.
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And, you know, we really started it off and everyone, everyone said to themselves, okay, it's only a matter of time before Donovan and Martha, the girl's name.
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Well, of course we hooked up and, you know, we had this three week relationship.
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Well, three weeks into the relationship, I, it just, it just clicked in my mind.
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I honestly stayed with her probably two weeks longer than I should have just because I was getting regular sex.
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And I had, it's, it had been a while since I'd had sex with any girl for any period of time, but she was a single mother.
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So even then I had the foresight to say, okay, let me just go and dump this girl.
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So I go over to her place and I dumped her face to face.
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I was like, Hey, it's not going to work out, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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And what shocked me was that she didn't seem surprised at all.
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She didn't take it as hard as I thought she was.
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I thought it was just going to be a bunch of trauma and a bunch of crying.
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But here's, here's why I thought she was going to cry.
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This is my blue pill mind because a week and a half before she told me she loved me.
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Now I didn't tell her she loved me back, but I was like, no, there's no way this girl loves me because we've only been seeing each other for a week and a half.
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So I was a little bit shocked when I told her, all right, Martha, it's not working out.
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She was like, okay, well later on I go home and you know, I'm doing my thing.
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She's like, yeah, Martha just called and told me that, you know, you are going your separate ways.
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I was like, yeah, you know, you know, it wasn't working out, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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You know, because I can't, again, I'm thinking, okay, maybe this was just a delayed reaction.
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I was like, yeah, actually she's getting ready to go out on a date.
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Like I dumped this chick like an hour and a half ago.
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And so that right then and there, after I got off the phone with my friend, okay.
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I jumped on the internet and I typed in, why do girls get over breakups so easily?
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So that's the, that, that's the reader's digest version of how I got into the manosphere.
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So I guess my question is though, from there, like, did it take you one year or two years?
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And I'm, when I read it, I'm like, he must have spent years studying this stuff.
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So how long did it take from point a to developing the course?
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I guess, Lord, probably about a decade, probably about a decade.
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I discovered the red pill in the summer of 2010.
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I came out with the womanese course, incidentally enough, in 2021.
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And, you know, listen, the good Lord, whoever he is blessed me with a very good memory.
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And so, you know, throughout my life, you know, I just kind of reflect on all of the interactions
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that I've had with women, the conversations that I've had.
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And what I quickly began to discover after consuming enough red pill content is, wait a
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They don't really say what it is that they, that they actually mean.
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And, you know, the interesting, the interesting thing, Pearl is, is that a lot of men these
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And let's be honest, if women were more direct, we wouldn't have to read between the lines
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But on the other side of that, if you deal with women on the regular, like I did for
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the better part of a decade, whether it's at work, you know, your relationship, your
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family, anytime you deal with women, you can't actually really count on the fact that they
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And it sucks to not be able to take what they say at face value because it causes a lot of
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confusion and frustration, especially when you're dealing with them romantically.
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Now, the two main reasons why women aren't direct is number one, being verbally direct is seen
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Bitchy, bossy, you know, whatever the case may be, or a woman with a bad attitude a lot
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The second reason women aren't direct is because it makes them look bad a lot of times.
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If you give me an example, if a woman is attracted to a guy and wants to sleep with him, she's
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not going to say, he's hot, I want to bang him.
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So instead, what she'll do is she'll make up something nebulous about him to give herself
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an excuse to be around him to sort of give herself the opportunity to make the sex happen.
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But so in other words, and so instead of saying, well, you know, I really like the guy, I want
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She'll be like, you know what, Dave over there?
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But the way what the end, but the way modern women operate today, Pearl, and you experienced
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this firsthand doing the pregame interviewing, interviewing a thousand women.
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And they use their indirectness as a way to play games with men, as a way to mislead men,
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and sometimes even flat out lie to men about what their intentions are.
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However, if you are familiar with the way women communicate in terms of what they say versus
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what they mean, you can pick up on this stuff rather quickly.
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And that in large part is the reason I created Woman Ease 101.
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And is it frustrating to you when blue pill men, like I see them attack you all the time
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And it's like, do you think that blue pill men know that you're, that you're correct and
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Or do you think they're ignorant and they think they're doing the right thing?
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Yeah, I think, I think a lot of them are ignorant.
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And I think a lot of them are, you know, caping up for their fair maidens.
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But you know what, they always probably low key know that most bitches out here really
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ain't shit, but they can't really wrap their, they can't admit it to themselves or other
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people because then it destroys this rose colored view of who and what women really are.
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A lot of men would like for women to keep that allure and that, and that mystery and
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Like they're these otherworldly creatures, but women, they, they burp, fart and shit just
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And the sooner men understand and recognize that women are really no women, like there's
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And I remember a long time ago, a really good friend of mine said, you know what, Donovan,
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And obviously women are people too, but a lot of men operate like women are these otherworldly,
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But when you've been around them enough, just like you have, and you hear them, a guy and
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Nine out of 10 times the show, the cameras go off.
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And I'm like, you were just yelling at him 10 minutes ago.
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I'll show you some of the clips where the girl was trying to think.
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And then I was like, we don't go for 10% of men or 20, but it's not that bad.
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And then there'd be like a single mother of four that's going for like this jacked, God
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And I'm like, how do you not see your, you're a single mom of four.
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How do you not see this guy is out of your league?
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Like, well, obviously the reason why she doesn't see that this guy is out of her league is because
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the world tells her never settle, you know, you deserve the best, no matter, you know,
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matter what, no matter what your situation is, video games, he's out of shape, doesn't
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No problem calling men losers, but we don't call women losers, right?
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And in my opinion, if you woman I'm talking to, is she a loser or is she a woman of potential
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And the other thing too, that they, and it just, it drove.
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Once I figured out that you guys were correct, I was, I could not believe how, like they
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had, like, they put us on a DHS watch list and it's like, they do not want men getting
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And the thing is this man, it's like, if let's just say I were to, let's just say I were to
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make this provocative statement, like women, you know, all women are, uh, all women are,
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Let's just say I just started a whole channel called the color purple and all women are
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Because there are no purple women walking around.
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But the reason why they attack the manosphere, you know, women, women are like water.
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They take the shape of the container that they're put in right now.
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But if we can save enough people, then, you know, maybe we can make the world a better place.
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If, if enough men were red pillow where I think there would just be single mothers
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There probably would be a lot of guys would just do nail and bales and, and, uh, and yeah,
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they, they wouldn't, they wouldn't take them seriously.
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I, I, before we get into the womanese, I wanted to get your take on a tweet that I had, um,
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I look back and I think retrospectively, they're like, oh, I didn't know my value because I slept
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with the drummer, the bartender, this guy, that guy, that guy, that guy.
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And I could have, and I could have got more resources, but I didn't know it.
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Women understand when, when, when a woman does, when a woman figures out that persons of the
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opposite sex want to have sex with them instantly, they figure out, okay, the world is open to me.
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If a woman is not sexually attractive, nothing is available to her preferential treatment dates,
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marriage, kids, whatever the case may be, every form of a transactional relationship.
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If Devin didn't let me have sex with her, I would not share my resources with her by the same token.
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If Devin knows that if she didn't have sex with me, I'm not going to share my resources.
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And a lot of people, they, they, they kind of scoff.
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There, there is no, there is no romance without finance.
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And I know a lot of people are going to have a problem with that, but this is the way it is.
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And dude, I guess, relative to what you were when you met her, she is always going to love and
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respect you, but just understand that if you fall off and don't show the resolve to get it all back,
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Let's just say a man has a lot of money and he falls off.
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A lot of guys will say, well, she'll probably just leave him.
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You know, of course, due to the fact that she's been with him a while, but the clock is ticking.
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On the other side of that, let's just say that a woman were to gain a little bit of weight.
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The man wouldn't instantly leave her because she's been thin the whole relationship.
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They'll give her a little bit of time to get thin.
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But everyone in here knows that if that woman stays fat and that dude and that dude has
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any value whatsoever, he is either going to cheat or he is going to leave her.
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And so I think what we need to, I think men and women alike, we need to understand that
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we both have to provide, we both have to provide value.
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She's so on your she's she's so on your program, too.
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And I like I just wanted to say that I feel like she is so well, like she's such a good.
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I don't know if that was disrespectful, but no, seriously, I was like, yeah, I'm just watching
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you guys interact even like off camera and stuff.
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And, you know, it's it's our nine year anniversary is coming up in October.
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And it's hard for me to believe that that we have been together for almost nine years.
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I said to her last night, I was like, dude, I'm glad we found each other.
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So and it's even great because it shows that you can have it all as a man.
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Like you can play the field and you can settle down and have a good long term relationship.
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It is my life is 10 times better now that I am with than I am with one woman than it ever
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But there is something to be said about having a woman that you love and trust who respects
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But you can't get to that point unless you know how to handle them.
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You can't get to that point unless you can decipher what they say versus what they mean.
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Listen, Devin hit me with a lot of womanies when we first started talking.
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And what's in what shocked her, what shocked her was that I would just call her out on
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She's like, and the funny thing is, is a lot of times she didn't even get upset.
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She's like, you're the only she's like, you're the only man that I have ever met who has spoken
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Women respect you when you understand how to handle them.
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They might not like you for a short period of time, but in order to get a woman's love,
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you have to have a respect and you cannot have a woman's respect unless you understand
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What was the early womanies that she would throw at you?
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And the guy wasn't really the guy wasn't really coming around.
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And so I was like, okay, what's the she actually reached out to me for a consultation?
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And I said, okay, so first of all, let's go ahead and get this, get this straight.
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A lot of girls, girls don't like to say I'm fucking a guy.
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They like to say that I'm seeing a guy or I'm talking to him or I'm dating him.
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So that's the first thing that, that she would say, then she would say, well, I want to go
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hang out with, I'm going to go hang out with my guy again, whatever the case may be.
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And at that point she would, and at that point when she figured, when she figured out that I knew
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what she was saying, like, you know, being able to read between the lines, you know,
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she would be a little bit more honest and dare I say a little bit more direct because she knew
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that if she tried to sort of mislead me about what her intentions were, that I would just,
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Here's another, here's another womanies translation, uh, we gave.
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So we went to Hawaii and this is actually our, our nine year anniversary.
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So we went to Hawaii and I remember we were talking while we were on the trip and she was
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like, okay, so what are we going to do after this?
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I was like, well, you know, I mean, if I like you after this trip, then, you know, maybe we'll
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And then she says to me, she's like, well, I kind of have to do the same thing.
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You don't have to, what she tried to do is she tried to, she tried that inverse projection.
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Oh, he's going to tell me, he's not sure about me.
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That's making me same things that make us attractive to women are not, it's not, it's
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And so she had to learn a lot of that, but you know, a lot of times when she would hit
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me with, you know, when she would hit me with like it, like, uh, she told me that she was
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She was like, Hey, you know, my friend Kim called me and she asked me if I wanted to,
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And I was like, no, no, no, no, you're not going.
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She's like, no, I told her, I would say, I said, Devin, you're not going.
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I was like, Devin, if the answer is anything, but yes, the answer is always no.
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And she was like, huh, I never really thought of it that way.
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Devin didn't go to the club with her friend, Kim.
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She had already had her mind made up, but because she wanted to be indirect, even with
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She says, well, I was thinking about going, I was thinking about saying, no, no, no, no.
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And that's actually one of the translation clips I'm going to show today.
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I was just talking to the producer just to make sure.
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When it comes to meeting up with girls, a general rule of thumb is that if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.
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Listen, if a girl wants to meet up with you, she'll meet up with you.
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She'll simply say yes and wait for your instructions.
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This is where a lot of guys, Pearl, end up wasting a lot of time, energy, and resources on a woman who just isn't interested in them.
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Like I said in the clip, if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.
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And the way this will help you is that you won't be wasting time chasing a woman who doesn't like you like that, right?
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These are the girls, these are the girls, really, who almost always put you in the friend zone if they don't straight up ghost you altogether.
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The men who understand this are the men who don't get hung up on, are the men who don't get hung up on girls, you know, on girls who don't want them, which of course allows them to move on and spend time, you know, pursuing women whose, you know, whose interest level is a little bit higher.
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So, again, if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.
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It's got to be an enthusiastic yes, 100% of the time.
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What else are the common ones that, what would you say are like the most common mistakes women or men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean?
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There is only one mistake that men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean.
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And that is taking what they say at face value.
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You can never, you just can't, and again, this doesn't, I'm not trying to make women sound like these nefarious creatures.
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And you just have to understand, especially in the romantic context, women don't want to look like a slut.
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And so they're always speaking, for example, let's say you start dating a woman and she says, I want to take things slow.
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Uh, this one is actually really, yeah, this one is crazy.
00:28:52.460
I've been fucking another guy, but you're back.
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A woman will never just tell you they're fucking someone else.
00:29:11.500
So to circumvent having to be honest and having a difficult conversation, which, by the way, means admitting she's cheating, she'll use any combination of these statements to avoid looking like a cheating slut.
00:29:21.240
If she says any of these things to you, she's been fucking another dude for at least six months and now knows she can start a relationship with him.
00:29:31.540
And you have seen and heard the many, many ways that women characterize engaging in promiscuous behavior.
00:29:44.000
And I don't think I have ever seen or heard a woman say straight up, the reason my boyfriend and I broke up is because I wanted to sleep around.
00:29:51.940
Or my boyfriend dumped me because he found out I was cheating.
00:29:55.940
The way this will help you guys when it comes to dating is being proactive and ask her, hey, what happened in your last relationship?
00:30:03.100
Now, what she'll say is we grew apart or he wasn't attentive to my needs.
00:30:07.440
Or sometimes I'll just straight up lie to you and say he cheated on me.
00:30:10.260
And by the way, all these phrases are translated in the courts.
00:30:12.440
And when she says this to you, you now clearly understand that she is recreational use only.
00:30:18.200
If you talk to a girl and you ask her what happened in your last relationship, oh, we grew apart, this means she cheated.
00:30:24.880
It gives you a clear understanding of which women you should not take seriously and which women you shouldn't.
00:30:37.460
Watch and learn and listen very, very carefully.
00:30:40.180
This is actually, this is, a lot of this is, it's kind of a sobering reminder and it sucks that this is true, but it is.
00:31:01.380
A dating hack I discovered a while back is if you ask her what kind of woman she is, she will tell you what kind of man she wants.
00:31:07.960
A woman who talks about how strong, competitive, and intimidating she is is telling you she's turned on by strong, competitive, and intimidating men.
00:31:23.040
Yeah, so it's like a woman with a sleeve wants a man with a sleeve, right?
00:31:28.560
And this is why I've always encouraged men to be proactive with their dealings and women as far as, like, vetting them are concerned.
00:31:39.440
Because if there is one thing that we are all aware of, whether you're, you know, whether you're good with women or not, is that they love nothing more than to talk about themselves.
00:31:48.260
And not a one of us in here watching this right now are unaware of the phrase, let a woman talk long enough, and eventually she will tell on themselves.
00:31:55.980
Women, and you guys got to pay attention, women are always telling us who and what they are.
00:31:59.940
But most of the time, they're not aware that they are.
00:32:02.540
Okay, that particular translation that I just showed you, that allows you to find out what kind of woman you're dealing with, as well as the kind of man she wants to deal with.
00:32:10.780
Again, this saves you a lot of time because now you have the information you need to make the call as to whether or not you want to continue dealing with her.
00:32:17.680
Okay, so what questions would you say that they should ask?
00:32:25.100
Or you mean as far as, I don't know, just ask, hey, what kind of woman are you?
00:32:33.640
And if you ask a woman to describe herself in 15, 30 seconds, she will almost always tell you what she wants in a man.
00:32:40.160
And the reason she does this, Pearl, is because she's trying to impress you.
00:32:44.500
Like when you ask a woman what kind of a woman you are, she's trying to impress you, right?
00:32:50.100
She wants to impress you because she likes you.
00:32:52.180
But what you also have to understand is that when women are trying to impress, when women try to impress you, they're going to tell you what they think you want to hear.
00:32:58.960
This is why they tell you I'm a strong, independent, and super competitive.
00:33:11.560
This is actually the first one that we were talking about.
00:33:20.120
A woman who talks shit about her ex is not over her ex.
00:33:23.380
Remember, gentlemen, the more she tries to convince you of something, the less likely it's true.
00:33:28.100
A woman who calls her ex an ass wants her ex in her ass.
00:33:32.680
So many men, they actually, and this is where a lot of guys mess up.
00:33:39.440
So many men think that if a woman, if that, if a woman thinks her ex is an asshole, that she no longer wants her ex.
00:33:51.740
But if you're dealing with a woman who A, talks about her ex and B, talks, you know, calls him an asshole, you need to understand that she is not over him.
00:33:58.640
The reason she's talking to you is to create a false sense of scarcity with her ex to give her the impression that she's fucking someone else.
00:34:05.080
The second reason, and the most important reason, is she is looking to distract herself.
00:34:11.660
She just wants that constant, steady flow of male attention from you while she waits for her ex to make a play to get back with her.
00:34:17.980
And when he does, trust me, she will go running back to him.
00:34:21.080
So understanding this translation, my ex is an asshole.
00:34:23.340
Well, again, keep her from wasting time with women who don't really like you.
00:34:32.080
It's that one ex, that one ex-boyfriend, that one situationship, that one.
00:34:37.100
Yes, eventually they do move on to some degree.
00:34:39.600
But if she calls her sex an asshole, her ex an asshole, when she's dealing with you, understand that it's only a matter of time before she starts fucking with him again.
00:34:47.040
So was there a situation that that happened to you and you found out she was cheating with the ex?
00:34:58.920
Dude, this girl was, oh, my God, she had a great ass.
00:35:01.900
So I hit on her at Five Guys, and she's actually looking grumpy.
00:35:04.560
I was like, oh, either you don't like black people or you hate your job.
00:35:07.200
And she laughed, and that kind of broke the ice.
00:35:09.540
Well, she used to talk about how her ex was an asshole all the time.
00:35:12.240
And, again, I had the game, but I didn't have the understanding.
00:35:21.840
She's like, well, you know, that's my ex-boyfriend.
00:35:24.440
I wasn't worried about it because it's your ex-boyfriend.
00:35:28.560
Come to find out, she actually got back with him.
00:35:32.960
And that's when I sort of discovered monkey branching.
00:35:35.060
So that was my introduction to when women call their ex an asshole, it still means they want to get with him.
00:35:40.120
That doesn't mean that she doesn't think he's an asshole, but she absolutely still wants to get with him.
00:35:44.080
A woman can hate a man and still want to have sex with him.
00:35:56.360
We could hate a guy, not want to spend any time around him, but still want to sleep with him.
00:36:05.680
And I know a lot of women who have slept around.
00:36:19.660
This is one of the few things that men and women have in common have in common as far as like, you know, sexual interactions.
00:36:26.340
We will have sex with a woman even if we don't like her.
00:36:29.220
If a woman hates you, when a woman tells you she hates you, it really means she loves you.
00:36:33.500
And I've said this before, Pearl, the opposite of love, as far as a woman goes, the opposite of love isn't hate.
00:36:39.700
If she doesn't really care, if she couldn't care less about you, she's over you.
00:36:43.120
If she hates you, she probably does, but she probably still loves you, too.
00:36:52.820
This this next one is extremely, extremely dangerous.
00:36:56.980
Okay, so a lot of women, a lot of women like to say we have a healthy relationship.
00:37:07.500
You're making it so hard for me to cheat on you.
00:37:10.160
When a woman finds it hard to cheat on you, she'll characterize your relationship as toxic to try to make it easier for her to cheat.
00:37:23.240
It will be very easy to cheat on you when I decide to.
00:37:28.300
Beware of any woman who brags about a healthy relationship.
00:37:32.020
This means she has cheated, is cheating, or is going to cheat.
00:37:35.740
Remember what I said about toxic relationships?
00:37:38.380
Well, the opposite applies when a woman says her relationship is healthy.
00:37:47.640
And a lot of men, listen, you guys need to understand very, very clearly
00:37:51.820
that modern women always want it both ways, okay?
00:37:54.860
They want the status and the security of being in a relationship
00:37:57.800
while also being able to engage in activities that make them look single.
00:38:01.680
In other words, they want you to take them off the market
00:38:04.100
but still allow her to have the for rent sign in the front yard.
00:38:06.880
And this is where a lot of men go wrong in their relationships.
00:38:09.380
When women shame you, like in the clip we just saw,
00:38:12.080
they're clearly telling you they don't want to be faithful to you.
00:38:16.400
They're on Instagram because they're looking for your replacement.
00:38:33.460
They hate it, but eventually they respect you and love you for it.
00:38:36.700
Yeah, but beta bucks providers are what keeps society running.
00:38:40.900
So that's why they don't want them getting the information.
00:38:45.540
Like if men, yeah, it would just be single mothers,
00:38:47.880
and then they wouldn't know what to do with all the single women.
00:38:54.280
Our, our, dude, our channels and all that being shadow banned and taken down,
00:39:01.980
They try to characterize, oh, we're trying to protect women from men.
00:39:05.680
This is economical because it's, you said it yourself.
00:39:08.920
We talked about it earlier in the episode, the economy,
00:39:16.940
not being aware of what their value is compared to what women's value is.
00:39:24.680
You know, my wife is the boss, et cetera, et cetera.
00:39:28.020
most men in the world have never been exposed to this kind of content.
00:39:30.820
And the powers that be are making sure that never happens.
00:39:37.220
Do you want to make $8 or do you want to make $2?
00:39:44.240
No, I mean, it's so simple when you think about it.
00:39:47.340
I mean, I, I don't know what age you figured it out,
00:39:49.780
but at some age men understand that they lose money.
00:40:02.220
Um, but, and it's not really the women's fault either because we're born into this.
00:40:10.020
Um, but corporations have more control over society.
00:40:13.820
If they're spending the women's money that they steal from the men rather than the men
00:40:21.700
This is why, this is why, this is why 90% of the commercials are geared towards women.
00:40:26.960
If you get any commercial, every commercial, almost every commercial you see is designed
00:40:34.240
It's like, we're seeing these miniature movies, these miniature romantic comedies.
00:40:37.660
Now the, the, the, the, the powers that be on Madison Avenue, you know, the advertising
00:40:44.140
And listen, this is a tale as old as time itself.
00:40:46.140
And this is men and women alike people, people buy based on emotion.
00:40:51.840
I used to sell cars for a living and yeah, you can tell them about the, you know, the,
00:40:55.160
the, the power steering and the, you know, the engine, this, this, and that, and the
00:40:57.860
third, they're not going to buy the car for 10 reasons.
00:41:01.580
And if that one reason is an emotional reason, you have a much higher, there's a much higher
00:41:06.040
probability that you are going to close that sale.
00:41:08.040
The guys over on Madison Avenue understand that very clearly.
00:41:10.660
This is why they push that emotional button every single time because women make what
00:41:14.880
80% of the financial buying decisions in this country.
00:41:18.180
So yeah, if I were them, I would do the same thing.
00:41:27.360
Now, what would you consider Pearl as a red flag in women?
00:41:32.360
And men, what is a red flag post red pill awakening that you had that, that like, if, like if
00:41:38.520
a guy does or says, or is X, Y, and Z, that is a red flag.
00:41:49.440
Um, well, the, what, what I'm thinking of could be a red or green flag, depending on
00:42:01.020
Like if, but if you want to play life on hard mode, you go to the city where there's
00:42:05.380
a batch of 20 year olds that come every year, you know what I mean?
00:42:09.780
So if you want, like, that's one that I would think of, but we like the men with options.
00:42:15.300
So I, I'm having a hard time deciding which, like, if it would be red or green, because
00:42:23.960
Actually gave, you actually gave the right answer.
00:42:26.920
There really are no, the only red flags that I can think of for a men that are not sexually
00:42:33.180
or economically attractive is he plays video games.
00:42:38.600
But there are guys who play video games and live with their mothers who actually are able
00:43:02.200
If it gets the attention of law enforcement, it gets the attention of young hot beaming.
00:43:09.940
If a woman says X, Y, Z is a red flag, it means she's turned on by him.
00:43:15.780
Again, Pearl, you have interviewed like, you know, a thousand girls, you know, over the years.
00:43:20.720
And one thing that is consistent across the board in terms of their maid selection is
00:43:26.140
that they consistently commit to have children with get into situationships with men who have
00:43:32.720
And they tell us as much all the time when they talk about why their relationships end or why
00:43:38.660
And I'm telling you better than nine times out of 10, they rattle off red flag after red flag.
00:43:47.000
He had two baby mamas when he, you know, you know, you know, when he met her, the list goes on and on.
00:43:51.540
So when these chicks out here talk about that's a red flag, it is important to understand that this
00:43:56.400
means that they're giving you the green light to pursue them.
00:43:59.200
It should not be this way, but that's the way it is, unfortunately.
00:44:02.400
And it's interesting too, when I would have girls coming on the show and I would actually see what
00:44:12.540
I'm like, he might've been dated a couple of you.
00:44:16.360
But, but the, the one thing I think with young women now, it's really, they don't care about
00:44:27.540
Like when I started seeing it through the lens of young women want popular men.
00:44:33.780
They want the guy with clout, everything, you know, and even, um, couples that you see
00:44:38.460
meet nowadays, it's like a lot of times it's through online communities where the guy is
00:44:43.620
the popular one in that community, or like it's in the neighborhood that they live in
00:44:51.800
Like it's all, it's all women are like in high school forever.
00:44:56.580
So the, so the, the more men can like mimic that, the more they get the young, hot women.
00:45:02.600
Now the older women, why, I don't want to say wise up, but they have to think long-term
00:45:11.080
Like I see the older women going more for like the doctors, the lawyer, but I don't really
00:45:16.620
see the young women giving a shit about men's accomplishments at all.
00:45:20.700
Like I, I see that, I see that with like women 27 and up.
00:45:26.960
And the interesting thing is, is what a lot of men and women really don't understand that
00:45:34.300
like when, when we're younger, girls tend to mature faster than boys.
00:45:39.680
I mean, dude, my sister's matured faster than me, but, and, and, and because of that, they,
00:45:45.840
they assume that when they're older, they're more mature.
00:45:49.480
As soon as a woman figures out that men want to have sex with them, the maturation process
00:45:57.200
And the reason for that is because they now know that they have everything they need to
00:46:10.600
That's why there are so many smoke shows in Miami and Las Vegas and New York and LA who look,
00:46:15.840
they were a drop dead gorgeous, who are as dumb as a box of rocks.
00:46:19.080
Hot girls are useless because they've never had to be useful.
00:46:22.480
And I think I got, I think a lot of guys need, I think a lot of guys need to understand that.
00:46:26.020
So when it comes to girls these days that, that, that you've been dealing with an interviewing.
00:46:30.040
Yeah, of course, they're not worried about a doctor's, you know, a man being a doctor when
00:46:35.820
So they stopped the maturation process when they figure out guys want to fuck them.
00:46:39.680
But then all of a sudden when they're 28, 29 and they start having, and they start buying
00:46:44.000
their own drinks from the club, maybe the situation ship doesn't last as long.
00:46:47.880
Maybe the guy you're having sex with isn't angling for a relationship a week later.
00:46:51.300
That's when the maturation process starts up again, because her hindbrain is thinking
00:46:54.600
to herself, Oh, I'm not getting as much attention from these high quality guys as I was when
00:46:59.860
So now I'm going to try to develop a good personality.
00:47:04.520
Now I'm going to be pretend to be feminine and docile.
00:47:06.720
There are a lot of guys out here who have dated men, who have dated women, you know,
00:47:10.560
who are in their thirties and forties who act like fucking teenagers.
00:47:13.520
The reason why they act like teenagers, the reason why they act like overgrown children
00:47:17.380
is because they still have the mind of a 16 year old.
00:47:20.100
16 years old is when they discovered that men wanted that men, that men wanted to fuck
00:47:24.840
So they hadn't really thought about improving themselves in any way since they were 16 years
00:47:29.400
So when you're out with the 38 year old, former batty, she probably might have the maturity
00:47:33.800
of a 20 year old because four years ago, she figured out, Oh, Oh, I'm
00:47:36.720
I better get mature because guys aren't throwing the dick at me like they used to.
00:47:40.020
And I see this going up every, like I see the length of, or the age of women that date
00:47:51.360
Like for example, in my mom's generation, it was like, if you weren't married by like 20,
00:48:08.820
So you really, so you're a millennial Z-er then.
00:48:15.800
So that's how close, that's how close I am to the cutoff.
00:48:18.140
Um, but only like, I looked up Gen Z, like 15% are married.
00:48:25.900
I'd, I'd have to, I, let me, I could, I don't want to misquote.
00:48:40.280
So, but Gen Z, I know there are, some of them are too young.
00:49:00.920
Like, I, you know, it'll be interesting to see like Gen Z.
00:49:06.740
Cause when I was in Ireland, the average age of first marriage was 35.
00:49:12.300
That's not uncommon in some European countries.
00:49:14.760
If you Google like average age of first marriage.
00:49:18.320
Well, what do you, how do you think generation alpha is going to do?
00:49:20.680
Because it'll just, I mean, it is if technology advances, I don't know if it will, but I mean,
00:49:29.020
It kind of has extended fertility a little bit.
00:49:35.640
I mean, I know like they try to say it hasn't, but I, I just, because the thing is what I see
00:49:41.000
is things happen in the cities and then they migrate to the country.
00:49:48.080
So the, the trends that I saw in like downtown London is like, I mean, the women there on
00:49:55.600
my volleyball team, I mean, they're older than me and not really thinking about marriage.
00:50:03.620
And so I, I see this, like the, the party years or whatever, like I see that continuing
00:50:11.480
to go up, especially if, and I know it's all sort of fake, but like if Botox gets better,
00:50:19.920
if IVF gets better, or even if they don't get better, if the illusion to women is that
00:50:26.680
it, that it gets better, I just see it going up.
00:50:30.720
Like, even if, even if the technology isn't there, as long as they can convince women
00:50:36.200
that it will be there, you know, I mean, if you, if you see twin, like, like I think
00:50:42.700
about this, Donovan, Matt Walsh had two sets of twins in his thirties, his wife was in her
00:50:52.360
Like Crowder had, had twins too, with the wife in her third.
00:50:55.620
Like, so if the conservative, if the right leaning commentators are getting IVF kit, like
00:51:03.060
And I think they're going to hide this stat, but what percent of the future generations,
00:51:07.440
I mean, even Nick, I'm not going to say his name, but Nick F, I mean, he was born via
00:51:12.960
Like what percent of future generations are going to be born via IVF?
00:51:18.920
I think someday it might be a majority, even if the stats don't like show that, does that
00:51:24.800
No, that make dude, that, that makes perfect sense.
00:51:27.220
And I, I heard a stat that millennials and Gen Zers are not having nearly as much sex as
00:51:33.800
I mean, I've heard, I mean, I've heard that they're just not having sex anymore.
00:51:40.940
I mean, if you want to, if you want to check that out, I mean, the STD rates will tell you
00:51:45.900
because women are the ones that the women's are the ones that are spreading STDs.
00:51:50.260
So if women are not having sex, then Gen Z should have a lower STD rate.
00:51:56.220
I do think, yeah, I mean, I do think we got to think about like if a guy, if we're having
00:52:01.320
sex with a smaller percentage of men, if a guy has a five girl rotation, how often is
00:52:12.420
So I could maybe see like that possibly because, um, like the fives, the sixes, if the guys
00:52:23.260
I had a five girl rotation for two and a half weeks.
00:52:25.700
Like dude, anybody listen, man, look, look, look, look, look, every guy says I want to
00:52:35.000
I've done it before, but guys like it should be two, three at the very, very most.
00:52:41.420
And I know we teach you guys to make sure you keep one in the kitty to, you know, to
00:52:45.480
keep your abundance mentality, but guys, what you have to understand is that sleeping with
00:52:53.120
It's sometimes it can be a bit of a full time job.
00:52:57.440
If you've got a rotation of women, you have to fuck all of the women.
00:53:02.560
You'll hear a guy say, well, I'm fucking five girls at the same time.
00:53:07.980
No, the definition of having a rotation is you're fucking every girl in your rotation
00:53:12.420
And she expects to have sex with you again in the not too distant future.
00:53:19.480
And it's a nice little ego boost that you've got all these bitches in your phone that you
00:53:22.320
can come over and, you know, and let you smash her out in three texts or less.
00:53:25.560
But trust me, once you get there and you listen, once the new wears off.
00:53:33.120
It's more trouble than it worth more trouble than it's worth.
00:53:36.540
The worst thing about having a five girl rotation, like I did for two and a half weeks is that
00:53:41.240
you have to have sex Pearl when you don't want to, if you want to keep a girl in rotation,
00:53:47.840
And listen, we all, if girls think guys are thinking about, no, if you're fucking three
00:53:52.380
and four and five girls at the same time, you're not wanting to fuck all the time.
00:53:55.560
But if you want to keep the bitch in your rotation, you have to fuck her.
00:53:58.380
That means having to have sex when you don't want to.
00:54:04.280
And I, I think that's where some of maybe the sexlessness comes from.
00:54:07.640
It's like if a, if a four or five and six, like how often is she going to get into contact
00:54:22.460
I'd have to, I have heard that, like, there are stats saying that they're sexless, but we