JustPearlyThings - Womanese： What Women Say VS What They Mean ｜ Pearl Daily

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00:04:18.860 So when I first got into the red pill content, I think it was about four years ago, maybe three

00:04:27.300 or four years ago now.

00:04:28.380 And as you guys know, one of the first videos that I saw was Kevin Samuel's high value men cheat and this triggered me a little bit.

00:04:36.860 It really did.

00:04:38.580 But one of the second or third or maybe fourth, I don't remember at this point, people that I saw was Donovan Sharpe's content.

00:04:48.280 And Donovan was or is a red pill content creator.

00:04:52.700 And he had a course called or a part of his channel called Womanese.

00:04:58.480 And he would say, this is what women say. 0.99

00:05:00.460 And this is what they actually mean.

00:05:02.960 Now, at the time, guys, I got to be honest.

00:05:05.380 I thought, I thought Donovan, come on, that is not right. 0.99

00:05:12.580 He would say things like, for example, you know, if she calls him an asshole, it means she wants to F him. 0.99

00:05:19.940 And I thought that's not true. 1.00

00:05:21.800 Maybe I just think he's an asshole, Donovan. 1.00

00:05:23.920 That is totally untrue. 1.00

00:05:26.420 Wrong, wrong.

00:05:27.820 But then I did a thousand, you know, I interviewed a thousand women. 0.97

00:05:31.660 And then I also observed myself, my friends, people I just knew's behavior over the years.

00:05:39.320 And Donovan was one of those people that was just right about freaking everything.

00:05:44.660 It was insane.

00:05:46.220 His entire, he has a course and it's called Womanese.

00:05:49.280 And the link to it's in the description if you guys want it.

00:05:51.640 It amazed me that he was just, like, I think he's spent years dissecting this stuff.

00:06:01.340 We're going to bring him on today.

00:06:03.200 He's a friend of the show.

00:06:05.820 And seriously, guys, I just, when I first heard the content that he had, I thought he was making it up.

00:06:14.900 I thought he was over-exaggerating.

00:06:16.560 And then three years later, I come back and I'm like, he is completely right.

00:06:21.880 Welcome to the show, Donovan.

00:06:24.120 I'm so happy to have you on.

00:06:26.860 Hey, how you doing?

00:06:27.860 Can you hear me?

00:06:28.580 Yeah, it wasn't really mainstream back then.

00:06:31.000 So some of the stuff you would say I would think was an overreaction or it'd be kind of out there.

00:06:37.280 And then time passed and I just thought, holy crap, Donovan knows his stuff.

00:06:43.240 Like, I just, when it comes to what women say versus what they mean, there's no one that knows it better than you. 0.99

00:06:49.780 Nobody.

00:06:51.260 Well, and the reason why is because I have had many, many, many failures with women. 0.99

00:06:58.060 And I tell this to my guys all the time.

00:07:00.880 For every story that I have ever told about some big-breasted blonde that I, you know, game, some one-night stand I had with a hot redhead or a brunette, there are 50 stories of absolute, utter failure. 0.84

00:07:14.120 And I think in life, and I think this goes, I think this goes with any, with anything you do in life.

00:07:20.920 I think you learn more from failure than you do from winning, right?

00:07:25.440 Even in sports, like if you win, okay, great.

00:07:27.560 We won.

00:07:28.180 But when you lose, if you, if you look at yourself with a critical eye, if you're honest with yourself, you will learn a lot more, you know, during your losses than your wins.

00:07:38.160 For example, let's just say someone, Stephen Curry, right, greatest shooter ever, you know, he, he, he shoots a bunch of threes.

00:07:44.140 Stephen Curry has missed more three-pointers than he's ever taken.

00:07:47.340 But with every miss, he learns a little bit more about what to do, what not to do.

00:07:51.400 And, you know, on any particular technique.

00:07:53.520 And so over the years, Stephen Curry has sort of honed his craft and it's not really knowing what to do.

00:07:58.660 It's knowing what not to do.

00:07:59.860 We all know, Hey, in order to shoot, you play basketball, Pearl.

00:08:02.300 In order to shoot, you put the ball above your head and you let it go.

00:08:04.940 But there are certain things you can do, like spreading your fingers across the basketball, the way you aim with your eye, the way you aim for aim for spot six, six inches before, you know, the basket that increases the odds of going in the arc of the ball.

00:08:17.320 You shoot it a little higher.

00:08:18.620 So it has more of a chance to go in.

00:08:20.460 Well, the same thing goes on the dating market.

00:08:22.720 If you walk and you approach, I don't know, let's just say 10 girls and they all blow you out. 1.00

00:08:27.080 They all reject you instead of getting into your feelings, which is very easy to get because rejection is not easy to get used to, but it's a lot easier for men to get used to.

00:08:34.920 But instead of just, you know, you know, she rejected me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:08:39.660 You have to think to yourself, okay, what did I say?

00:08:42.520 What did she say?

00:08:43.900 She told me that she had a boyfriend, but she told me she had a boyfriend like three seconds after I approached her.

00:08:50.240 Right.

00:08:50.880 And so I wondered why, when I kept trying, she told me, Hey, look, I told you had a boyfriend.

00:08:54.520 Whereas you approach another girl and you're talking to her for 10, 15 minutes.

00:08:58.060 And then she tells you that she has a boyfriend.

00:09:01.460 That's exactly what you're thinking.

00:09:02.600 You're like, okay, is it really that she has a boyfriend? 0.99

00:09:04.640 No, she told you that as a shit test, right? 0.98

00:09:07.520 So the earlier in the set, she tells you she has a boyfriend, the more likely it is that it's a rejection. 0.98

00:09:11.860 If you learn these things and if you apply what you've learned and you go out and approach girls, you know that if you're, if you've been talking to a girl for 10, 15 minutes, and then she says she has a boyfriend, you know, she's probably lying.

00:09:22.340 And she's saying that to throw you off the scent.

00:09:23.900 And so that's, that's really the main reason I created woman ease.

00:09:28.180 I created woman ease was to let guys know, Hey, listen, this is what women say versus what they really mean.

00:09:34.340 And so how long did it take you from when you were complete blue pills step to, to like, how many years did it take you to figure all this out?

00:09:45.940 Like, I think it would help people to know like how many reps you had or how many approaches you do.

00:09:52.900 How many girl, like what was your, your origin story?

00:09:56.440 Cause some people might not know it here.

00:09:59.240 Yeah.

00:09:59.760 So, Oh my God.

00:10:01.080 So, Oh my goodness gracious.

00:10:03.160 Well, to make a very, very long story, very short.

00:10:06.360 Um, so the way I discovered the red pill is I had just gotten out of a really, really bad breakup.

00:10:13.820 That's not the relationship that red pilled me, got out of a bad breakup, moved to Atlanta for six months, decided I didn't want to live there.

00:10:20.320 Then I moved out to Vegas.

00:10:21.420 And so I got this, you know, this call center telemarketing job, pardon me, you know, because I'm really good at sales.

00:10:27.700 I have a good speaking voice, et cetera, et cetera.

00:10:29.000 Well, there was this, there was this Mexican girl who was attractive ish looking, looking back now, she probably wasn't as attractive as I thought she was at the time. 0.95

00:10:36.420 And, you know, we really started it off and everyone, everyone said to themselves, okay, it's only a matter of time before Donovan and Martha, the girl's name.

00:10:43.300 Hook up.

00:10:44.140 Well, of course we hooked up and, you know, we had this three week relationship.

00:10:47.280 Well, three weeks into the relationship, I, it just, it just clicked in my mind.

00:10:52.060 I honestly stayed with her probably two weeks longer than I should have just because I was getting regular sex.

00:10:56.780 And I had, it's, it had been a while since I'd had sex with any girl for any period of time, but she was a single mother. 0.95

00:11:02.360 She had a bad kid.

00:11:03.300 Her house was always messy. 1.00

00:11:04.600 She was, she was an absolute dumpster fire. 1.00

00:11:06.640 So even then I had the foresight to say, okay, let me just go and dump this girl. 0.98

00:11:10.460 So I go over to her place and I dumped her face to face. 0.99

00:11:13.060 I was like, Hey, it's not going to work out, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:11:15.400 And what shocked me was that she didn't seem surprised at all.

00:11:18.940 She didn't take it as hard as I thought she was.

00:11:21.100 I thought it was just going to be a bunch of trauma and a bunch of crying.

00:11:24.100 But here's, here's why I thought she was going to cry.

00:11:28.620 This is my blue pill mind because a week and a half before she told me she loved me.

00:11:32.600 Now I didn't tell her she loved me back, but I was like, no, there's no way this girl loves me because we've only been seeing each other for a week and a half.

00:11:38.400 We haven't known each other that long.

00:11:39.800 She's really just trying to reel me in.

00:11:41.760 So I was a little bit shocked when I told her, all right, Martha, it's not working out.

00:11:45.540 We need to go our separate ways.

00:11:46.600 She was like, okay, well later on I go home and you know, I'm doing my thing.

00:11:50.920 And you know, a friend of hers calls me up.

00:11:52.560 She's like, yeah, Martha just called and told me that, you know, you are going your separate ways.

00:11:56.800 I was like, yeah, you know, you know, it wasn't working out, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:11:59.820 I said, well, how is she doing anyway?

00:12:01.860 You know, because I can't, again, I'm thinking, okay, maybe this was just a delayed reaction.

00:12:05.360 I was like, yeah, actually she's getting ready to go out on a date.

00:12:07.500 And I was like, what?

00:12:09.980 Like I dumped this chick like an hour and a half ago. 0.97

00:12:12.620 Why is she going out on a date? 1.00

00:12:14.160 And so that right then and there, after I got off the phone with my friend, okay.

00:12:19.580 I jumped on the internet and I typed in, why do girls get over breakups so easily? 1.00

00:12:24.920 And that Google search changed everything.

00:12:27.820 That was the genesis of Donovan Sharpe.

00:12:30.220 So that's the, that, that's the reader's digest version of how I got into the manosphere.

00:12:35.140 So I guess my question is though, from there, like, did it take you one year or two years?

00:12:39.500 Cause your womanese is so detailed.

00:12:42.360 Like you go through everything.

00:12:45.340 And I'm, when I read it, I'm like, he must have spent years studying this stuff.

00:12:51.260 So how long did it take from point a to developing the course?

00:12:55.400 I guess, Lord, probably about a decade, probably about a decade.

00:12:59.160 I discovered the red pill in the summer of 2010.

00:13:02.660 I came out with the womanese course, incidentally enough, in 2021.

00:13:07.880 And, you know, listen, the good Lord, whoever he is blessed me with a very good memory.

00:13:11.900 And so, you know, throughout my life, you know, I just kind of reflect on all of the interactions

00:13:16.060 that I've had with women, the conversations that I've had.

00:13:18.120 And what I quickly began to discover after consuming enough red pill content is, wait a

00:13:22.900 minute, women are not really direct. 1.00

00:13:25.440 They don't really say what it is that they, that they actually mean.

00:13:29.780 And, you know, the interesting, the interesting thing, Pearl is, is that a lot of men these

00:13:33.740 days, we want women to be more direct. 1.00

00:13:36.040 And let's be honest, if women were more direct, we wouldn't have to read between the lines 1.00

00:13:39.940 with everything they say.

00:13:40.880 But on the other side of that, if you deal with women on the regular, like I did for 0.99

00:13:45.120 the better part of a decade, whether it's at work, you know, your relationship, your

00:13:48.840 family, anytime you deal with women, you can't actually really count on the fact that they 1.00

00:13:53.620 are going to tell you exactly what they mean.

00:13:55.660 And it sucks to not be able to take what they say at face value because it causes a lot of

00:13:59.420 confusion and frustration, especially when you're dealing with them romantically.

00:14:02.620 Now, the two main reasons why women aren't direct is number one, being verbally direct is seen 1.00

00:14:07.720 as a masculine trait, right?

00:14:09.000 It is a trait that is admired in men.

00:14:11.460 When a woman is direct, what is she seen as? 1.00

00:14:13.780 Bitchy, bossy, you know, whatever the case may be, or a woman with a bad attitude a lot 1.00

00:14:17.960 of times. 0.97

00:14:19.340 The second reason women aren't direct is because it makes them look bad a lot of times. 1.00

00:14:23.200 If you give me an example, if a woman is attracted to a guy and wants to sleep with him, she's 0.96

00:14:26.520 not going to say, he's hot, I want to bang him. 0.99

00:14:29.000 Obviously, that makes her look like a hoe. 1.00

00:14:30.700 So instead, what she'll do is she'll make up something nebulous about him to give herself 0.95

00:14:34.020 an excuse to be around him to sort of give herself the opportunity to make the sex happen. 0.87

00:14:38.020 But so in other words, and so instead of saying, well, you know, I really like the guy, I want 0.98

00:14:41.840 to bang him.

00:14:42.220 She'll be like, you know what, Dave over there?

00:14:43.620 I really like his energy translation.

00:14:45.760 I want to bang him.

00:14:47.100 But the way what the end, but the way modern women operate today, Pearl, and you experienced 1.00

00:14:51.440 this firsthand doing the pregame interviewing, interviewing a thousand women. 0.65

00:14:54.800 And they use their indirectness as a way to play games with men, as a way to mislead men, 0.95

00:14:59.960 and sometimes even flat out lie to men about what their intentions are.

00:15:03.420 However, if you are familiar with the way women communicate in terms of what they say versus

00:15:08.220 what they mean, you can pick up on this stuff rather quickly.

00:15:10.680 And that in large part is the reason I created Woman Ease 101.

00:15:13.180 And is it frustrating to you when blue pill men, like I see them attack you all the time 1.00

00:15:20.240 when you are correct.

00:15:22.400 And it's like, do you think that blue pill men know that you're, that you're correct and

00:15:27.200 they're just white knighting? 0.86

00:15:28.400 Or do you think they're ignorant and they think they're doing the right thing? 1.00

00:15:32.140 Yeah, I think, I think a lot of them are ignorant. 0.99

00:15:34.580 And I think a lot of them are, you know, caping up for their fair maidens. 1.00

00:15:38.760 But you know what, they always probably low key know that most bitches out here really 1.00

00:15:43.760 ain't shit, but they can't really wrap their, they can't admit it to themselves or other 0.99

00:15:47.820 people because then it destroys this rose colored view of who and what women really are. 1.00

00:15:52.740 A lot of men would like for women to keep that allure and that, and that mystery and

00:15:57.500 that mystique about them. 1.00

00:15:58.540 Like they're these otherworldly creatures, but women, they, they burp, fart and shit just 1.00

00:16:04.020 like the rest of us. 1.00

00:16:05.000 And the sooner men understand and recognize that women are really no women, like there's 1.00

00:16:11.120 no woman that is special.

00:16:12.500 And I remember a long time ago, a really good friend of mine said, you know what, Donovan,

00:16:16.020 women are people too. 1.00

00:16:17.600 And that sort of let me know.

00:16:19.160 And obviously women are people too, but a lot of men operate like women are these otherworldly, 0.99

00:16:23.560 godly and angelic like creatures.

00:16:25.840 But when you've been around them enough, just like you have, and you hear them, a guy and

00:16:30.340 a girl, like a girl kept arguing with a guy. 1.00

00:16:32.560 She's trying to sleep with him. 1.00

00:16:35.260 Oh yeah.

00:16:36.060 Nine out of 10 times the show, the cameras go off.

00:16:40.060 She's talking to him after.

00:16:41.960 And I'm like, you were just yelling at him 10 minutes ago.

00:16:47.420 Incredible.

00:16:49.120 Dude, it's, I guess you've reacted to so many.

00:16:52.280 I'll show you some of the clips where the girl was trying to think. 0.74

00:16:55.620 And then I was like, we don't go for 10% of men or 20, but it's not that bad.

00:17:00.880 And then there'd be like a single mother of four that's going for like this jacked, God 1.00

00:17:06.540 looking guy on the show.

00:17:08.220 And I'm like, how do you not see your, you're a single mom of four.

00:17:12.380 How do you not see this guy is out of your league?

00:17:15.120 Like, well, obviously the reason why she doesn't see that this guy is out of her league is because

00:17:20.700 the world tells her never settle, you know, you deserve the best, no matter, you know,

00:17:24.920 matter what, no matter what your situation is, video games, he's out of shape, doesn't

00:17:27.820 have any direction in life. 0.94

00:17:29.160 No problem calling men losers, but we don't call women losers, right?

00:17:33.580 And in my opinion, if you woman I'm talking to, is she a loser or is she a woman of potential 1.00

00:17:38.620 quality? 0.85

00:17:39.540 Yeah.

00:17:40.180 And the other thing too, that they, and it just, it drove.

00:17:45.300 Once I figured out that you guys were correct, I was, I could not believe how, like they

00:17:51.420 had, like, they put us on a DHS watch list and it's like, they do not want men getting

00:17:57.120 this information.

00:17:57.960 You guys would be too powerful, right?

00:18:00.400 No, listen.

00:18:01.480 And the thing is this man, it's like, if let's just say I were to, let's just say I were to

00:18:06.780 make this provocative statement, like women, you know, all women are, uh, all women are, 0.59

00:18:13.500 are, are the color purple.

00:18:14.700 Let's just say I just started a whole channel called the color purple and all women are 1.00

00:18:18.620 the color purple pearl.

00:18:19.860 No one's coming after me.

00:18:21.060 Would you like to know why?

00:18:22.160 Yeah.

00:18:22.440 Because there are no purple women walking around. 1.00

00:18:25.260 Right.

00:18:25.720 But the reason why they attack the manosphere, you know, women, women are like water. 1.00

00:18:30.380 They take the shape of the container that they're put in right now. 1.00

00:18:33.500 The container is fucked up. 1.00

00:18:34.620 So women are fucked up. 1.00

00:18:35.920 And so guys like me exist too. 1.00

00:18:37.420 We're not going to save everybody.

00:18:38.660 We get that.

00:18:39.500 But if we can save enough people, then, you know, maybe we can make the world a better place.

00:18:43.720 Who knows?

00:18:44.200 Yeah.

00:18:44.700 If, if enough men were red pillow where I think there would just be single mothers 1.00

00:18:48.440 everywhere.

00:18:49.380 Yep.

00:18:50.160 There probably would be a lot of guys would just do nail and bales and, and, uh, and yeah,

00:18:54.500 they, they wouldn't, they wouldn't take them seriously.

00:18:56.020 I, I, before we get into the womanese, I wanted to get your take on a tweet that I had, um,

00:19:01.260 that everyone was white knighting.

00:19:02.980 I look back and I think retrospectively, they're like, oh, I didn't know my value because I slept

00:19:08.460 with the drummer, the bartender, this guy, that guy, that guy, that guy.

00:19:14.460 And I could have, and I could have got more resources, but I didn't know it.

00:19:19.500 I think that's what they're communicating.

00:19:21.700 Do you agree or disagree?

00:19:23.200 Yeah.

00:19:23.280 Listen, it's, it's, it's cap, it's cap.

00:19:25.620 Women understand when, when, when a woman does, when a woman figures out that persons of the 0.99

00:19:30.640 opposite sex want to have sex with them instantly, they figure out, okay, the world is open to me. 0.94

00:19:36.920 If a woman is not sexually attractive, nothing is available to her preferential treatment dates, 0.93

00:19:42.480 marriage, kids, whatever the case may be, every form of a transactional relationship.

00:19:46.540 So I'll use my relationship as an example.

00:19:49.300 If Devin didn't let me have sex with her, I would not share my resources with her by the same token. 0.98

00:19:55.220 If Devin knows that if she didn't have sex with me, I'm not going to share my resources. 0.80

00:19:59.440 It is a transactional relationship.

00:20:01.360 And a lot of people, they, they, they kind of scoff.

00:20:03.800 Oh my God, it's a transactional.

00:20:05.140 Yes.

00:20:06.000 All relationships are transactional.

00:20:08.160 Love is an action.

00:20:09.240 Love is a transaction.

00:20:10.660 There is no act.

00:20:11.800 There, there is no, there is no romance without finance.

00:20:14.520 And I know a lot of people are going to have a problem with that, but this is the way it is.

00:20:18.840 And dude, I guess, relative to what you were when you met her, she is always going to love and

00:20:23.220 respect you, but just understand that if you fall off and don't show the resolve to get it all back,

00:20:28.040 she is going to leave.

00:20:29.660 And I conflated to this.

00:20:31.560 Let's just say a man has a lot of money and he falls off.

00:20:34.760 He loses his job, right?

00:20:36.540 A lot of guys will say, well, she'll probably just leave him. 1.00

00:20:38.820 Well, no, she's going to give him time.

00:20:40.600 You know, of course, due to the fact that she's been with him a while, but the clock is ticking.

00:20:44.780 On the other side of that, let's just say that a woman were to gain a little bit of weight. 1.00

00:20:48.780 The man wouldn't instantly leave her because she's been thin the whole relationship.

00:20:52.100 They'll give her a little bit of time to get thin. 1.00

00:20:54.600 But everyone in here knows that if that woman stays fat and that dude and that dude has 1.00

00:21:00.740 any value whatsoever, he is either going to cheat or he is going to leave her.

00:21:04.480 That's what this is.

00:21:05.540 This is just kind of what it is.

00:21:06.960 And so I think what we need to, I think men and women alike, we need to understand that

00:21:11.560 we both have to provide, we both have to provide value.

00:21:15.420 Men loaded exchange.

00:21:16.620 We got to get out of that mindset.

00:21:18.140 You know what?

00:21:18.720 But I don't think this Devin is so awesome.

00:21:25.080 She's so on your she's she's so on your program, too.

00:21:28.980 And I like I just wanted to say that I feel like she is so well, like she's such a good.

00:21:36.620 Yeah, I don't want to say trade.

00:21:38.200 I don't know if that was disrespectful, but no, seriously, I was like, yeah, I'm just watching

00:21:43.320 you guys interact even like off camera and stuff.

00:21:45.860 She's yeah, she is such a model woman. 1.00

00:21:48.200 Like she does great.

00:21:49.580 She is.

00:21:50.340 She is.

00:21:50.660 Yeah, I love her.

00:21:51.340 I love her very much.

00:21:52.320 And, you know, it's it's our nine year anniversary is coming up in October.

00:21:58.160 And it's hard for me to believe that that we have been together for almost nine years.

00:22:04.360 It was on dude.

00:22:05.520 It was absolutely unbelievable.

00:22:07.960 It's absolutely unbelievable.

00:22:09.340 Yeah, Devin is Devin is awesome.

00:22:11.020 I love her to death.

00:22:11.760 And I mean, we're still going strong.

00:22:14.060 I'm glad that I'm with her.

00:22:14.960 I said to her last night, I was like, dude, I'm glad we found each other.

00:22:17.340 So and it's even great because it shows that you can have it all as a man.

00:22:22.880 Like you can play the field and you can settle down and have a good long term relationship.

00:22:28.480 And I will tell you this.

00:22:29.780 I will tell you this.

00:22:31.480 It is my life is 10 times better now that I am with than I am with one woman than it ever 0.99

00:22:39.260 was when I was running through hose in Vegas.

00:22:41.060 Yes, it was fun.

00:22:42.260 It was a great time.

00:22:43.220 Magic carpet ride, all the rest of that.

00:22:45.180 But there is something to be said about having a woman that you love and trust who respects

00:22:50.580 and trust you.

00:22:51.380 It's it's just a much better existence.

00:22:53.620 But you can't get to that point unless you know how to handle them.

00:22:57.580 You can't get to that point unless you can decipher what they say versus what they mean.

00:23:01.320 Listen, Devin hit me with a lot of womanies when we first started talking. 1.00

00:23:04.360 And what's in what shocked her, what shocked her was that I would just call her out on

00:23:10.080 it.

00:23:10.260 Like I would just call her out.

00:23:11.500 She's like, and the funny thing is, is a lot of times she didn't even get upset.

00:23:14.700 She just kind of laughed.

00:23:15.820 That's what I knew she was right.

00:23:17.380 And she used to say to me all the time.

00:23:18.500 She's like, you're the only she's like, you're the only man that I have ever met who has spoken

00:23:22.320 to me in this way.

00:23:24.240 Women respect you when you understand how to handle them. 1.00

00:23:27.340 They might not like you for a short period of time, but in order to get a woman's love,

00:23:31.420 you have to have a respect and you cannot have a woman's respect unless you understand 1.00

00:23:35.240 what she says versus what she means.

00:23:37.560 So why don't we start there?

00:23:39.220 What was the early womanies that she would throw at you? 1.00

00:23:42.620 Oh my God, the early woman. 0.99

00:23:45.040 And the guy wasn't really the guy wasn't really coming around.

00:23:48.920 And so I was like, okay, what's the she actually reached out to me for a consultation?

00:23:51.320 Like, okay, what's the problem?

00:23:52.180 Well, he's this, he's that the third.

00:23:53.520 And I said, okay, so first of all, let's go ahead and get this, get this straight.

00:23:56.820 She's like, what's that? 1.00

00:23:57.500 I was like, you're fucking this dude. 1.00

00:23:59.160 And she's like, uh, okay. 1.00

00:24:00.680 She's like, no, I said, you're talking to him. 1.00

00:24:02.340 That means you're fucking this dude. 1.00

00:24:03.560 A lot of girls, girls don't like to say I'm fucking a guy. 1.00

00:24:07.520 They like to say that I'm seeing a guy or I'm talking to him or I'm dating him. 0.96

00:24:12.120 So that's the first thing that, that she would say, then she would say, well, I want to go

00:24:16.160 hang out with, I'm going to go hang out with my guy again, whatever the case may be.

00:24:19.740 And at that point she would, and at that point when she figured, when she figured out that I knew

00:24:24.680 what she was saying, like, you know, being able to read between the lines, you know,

00:24:28.100 she would be a little bit more honest and dare I say a little bit more direct because she knew

00:24:32.400 that if she tried to sort of mislead me about what her intentions were, that I would just,

00:24:36.660 that, that I would just call her out on it.

00:24:38.400 Here's another, here's another womanies translation, uh, we gave. 0.87

00:24:41.520 So we went to Hawaii and this is actually our, our nine year anniversary.

00:24:45.860 So we went to Hawaii and I remember we were talking while we were on the trip and she was

00:24:51.300 like, okay, so what are we going to do after this?

00:24:53.400 I was like, well, you know, I mean, if I like you after this trip, then, you know, maybe we'll

00:24:57.580 continue to see each other.

00:24:58.800 And then she says to me, she's like, well, I kind of have to do the same thing.

00:25:02.220 I don't know.

00:25:02.640 And I said, Devin, stop it.

00:25:03.980 I said, stop it.

00:25:04.500 I said, you've already made your decision.

00:25:05.980 You don't have to, what she tried to do is she tried to, she tried that inverse projection. 0.97

00:25:10.040 Oh, he's going to tell me, he's not sure about me.

00:25:12.580 That's making me same things that make us attractive to women are not, it's not, it's

00:25:16.580 not the same in reverse.

00:25:17.880 And so she had to learn a lot of that, but you know, a lot of times when she would hit

00:25:21.860 me with, you know, when she would hit me with like it, like, uh, she told me that she was 0.55

00:25:25.520 going to go out with one of her friends.

00:25:26.680 She was like, Hey, you know, my friend Kim called me and she asked me if I wanted to,

00:25:30.320 you know, go out to the bar or whatever.

00:25:31.580 And I told her I would see if I could go.

00:25:33.060 And I was like, no, no, no, no, you're not going.

00:25:34.720 She's like, no, I told her, I would say, I said, Devin, you're not going.

00:25:38.120 She's like, what are you talking about?

00:25:38.840 I was like, Devin, if the answer is anything, but yes, the answer is always no.

00:25:42.940 That's it.

00:25:43.740 That's all there is to it.

00:25:44.700 And she was like, huh, I never really thought of it that way.

00:25:47.060 Guess what?

00:25:47.640 Devin didn't go to the club with her friend, Kim.

00:25:49.680 She had already had her mind made up, but because she wanted to be indirect, even with

00:25:53.160 me, I'm not the person she committed to.

00:25:54.560 She says, well, I was thinking about going, I was thinking about saying, no, no, no, no.

00:25:59.220 You had already made your mind up.

00:26:00.680 And that's actually one of the translation clips I'm going to show today.

00:26:03.360 Oh, sure.

00:26:04.020 Can you show it on screen?

00:26:05.840 Yeah, sure can.

00:26:06.860 Let me go ahead and share.

00:26:09.800 Does he have the ability to share it?

00:26:12.140 Yeah.

00:26:12.560 Well, I think you have to give me the ability.

00:26:14.840 Yeah, that's what I was.

00:26:15.800 I was just talking to the producer just to make sure.

00:26:17.980 Oh, there we go.

00:26:18.680 Perfect.

00:26:19.820 Oh, there we go.

00:26:20.820 Okay.

00:26:21.700 Let's see.

00:26:22.560 Let's go to clip number two.

00:26:24.440 And here we go.

00:26:25.900 Maybe.

00:26:27.260 No.

00:26:28.360 We'll see.

00:26:29.640 No.

00:26:30.620 More than likely.

00:26:32.300 Uh-uh. 0.78

00:26:33.400 Hell nah.

00:26:34.040 If nothing comes up, sure.

00:26:36.860 Sure won't.

00:26:38.360 Um, if I can finish my project, of course.

00:26:41.660 Of course not.

00:26:43.580 If I don't have plans, definitely.

00:26:46.980 Definitely not.

00:26:48.940 When it comes to meeting up with girls, a general rule of thumb is that if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.

00:26:55.760 Listen, if a girl wants to meet up with you, she'll meet up with you. 1.00

00:26:59.060 She won't put conditions on it.

00:27:00.440 She won't tell you about other plans.

00:27:01.660 She'll simply say yes and wait for your instructions.

00:27:05.320 Okay.

00:27:05.920 So, pardon me.

00:27:08.320 This is where a lot of guys, Pearl, end up wasting a lot of time, energy, and resources on a woman who just isn't interested in them.

00:27:16.080 Like I said in the clip, if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.

00:27:20.400 And the way this will help you is that you won't be wasting time chasing a woman who doesn't like you like that, right?

00:27:26.480 These are the girls, these are the girls, really, who almost always put you in the friend zone if they don't straight up ghost you altogether. 0.85

00:27:33.960 The men who understand this are the men who don't get hung up on, are the men who don't get hung up on girls, you know, on girls who don't want them, which of course allows them to move on and spend time, you know, pursuing women whose, you know, whose interest level is a little bit higher.

00:27:48.440 So, again, if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.

00:27:53.440 It's got to be an enthusiastic yes, 100% of the time.

00:27:56.740 What else are the common ones that, what would you say are like the most common mistakes women or men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean?

00:28:07.220 There is only one mistake that men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean.

00:28:12.440 And that is taking what they say at face value.

00:28:15.380 You can never, you just can't, and again, this doesn't, I'm not trying to make women sound like these nefarious creatures. 0.98

00:28:21.580 This is just how they are, okay?

00:28:23.820 Men are direct, women are passive, okay? 1.00

00:28:26.760 And you just have to understand, especially in the romantic context, women don't want to look like a slut. 0.99

00:28:32.520 They don't want to give you the wrong signals. 0.83

00:28:34.320 And so they're always speaking, for example, let's say you start dating a woman and she says, I want to take things slow.

00:28:40.380 It absolutely positively means something else.

00:28:43.340 And I've got a clip for that as well.

00:28:44.980 Uh, this one is actually really, yeah, this one is crazy.

00:28:48.360 Listen to this.

00:28:49.420 We need to take a break. 0.99

00:28:52.460 I've been fucking another guy, but you're back. 0.99

00:28:55.580 We should start seeing other people. 1.00

00:28:57.700 I'm cheating on you.

00:28:59.300 Let's try an open relationship. 0.99

00:29:02.080 I'm having sex with another guy. 0.99

00:29:04.420 We need to talk. 1.00

00:29:05.800 I'm dumping you for the guy I'm cheating with. 1.00

00:29:08.120 A woman will never just tell you they're fucking someone else. 1.00

00:29:11.500 So to circumvent having to be honest and having a difficult conversation, which, by the way, means admitting she's cheating, she'll use any combination of these statements to avoid looking like a cheating slut. 0.99

00:29:21.240 If she says any of these things to you, she's been fucking another dude for at least six months and now knows she can start a relationship with him. 1.00

00:29:28.680 Count on it. 0.98

00:29:29.160 Okay, so there it is.

00:29:31.260 Okay.

00:29:31.540 And you have seen and heard the many, many ways that women characterize engaging in promiscuous behavior. 0.81

00:29:38.040 How many girls have you interviewed? 0.89

00:29:39.420 Like 12 or 1300?

00:29:40.660 Some crazy number like that.

00:29:41.760 Around a thousand.

00:29:42.500 Yeah.

00:29:43.400 Around a thousand.

00:29:44.000 And I don't think I have ever seen or heard a woman say straight up, the reason my boyfriend and I broke up is because I wanted to sleep around. 0.90

00:29:51.940 Or my boyfriend dumped me because he found out I was cheating.

00:29:55.500 Okay?

00:29:55.940 The way this will help you guys when it comes to dating is being proactive and ask her, hey, what happened in your last relationship?

00:30:03.100 Now, what she'll say is we grew apart or he wasn't attentive to my needs.

00:30:07.440 Or sometimes I'll just straight up lie to you and say he cheated on me.

00:30:10.260 And by the way, all these phrases are translated in the courts.

00:30:12.440 And when she says this to you, you now clearly understand that she is recreational use only.

00:30:18.200 If you talk to a girl and you ask her what happened in your last relationship, oh, we grew apart, this means she cheated.

00:30:23.340 This is how womanies helps you guys. 1.00

00:30:24.880 It gives you a clear understanding of which women you should not take seriously and which women you shouldn't.

00:30:30.500 Got it.

00:30:31.060 What else?

00:30:31.900 What else do you have in clips?

00:30:34.400 Oh, this is another good one.

00:30:37.460 Watch and learn and listen very, very carefully.

00:30:40.180 This is actually, this is, a lot of this is, it's kind of a sobering reminder and it sucks that this is true, but it is.

00:30:46.860 Here we go.

00:30:48.380 I'm a strong woman.

00:30:49.700 I want a strong man.

00:30:51.800 I'm super competitive.

00:30:53.760 I want a super competitive guy.

00:30:56.480 Men are intimidated by me.

00:30:58.440 I am turned on by men who intimidate me.

00:31:01.380 A dating hack I discovered a while back is if you ask her what kind of woman she is, she will tell you what kind of man she wants. 0.99

00:31:07.960 A woman who talks about how strong, competitive, and intimidating she is is telling you she's turned on by strong, competitive, and intimidating men.

00:31:15.900 Okay.

00:31:16.540 This is why I've always, I'm sorry, go ahead.

00:31:19.200 Because we turn into the men we want to marry.

00:31:22.260 So, yeah.

00:31:23.040 Yeah, so it's like a woman with a sleeve wants a man with a sleeve, right? 0.99

00:31:27.280 There you go.

00:31:28.180 Yeah.

00:31:28.560 And this is why I've always encouraged men to be proactive with their dealings and women as far as, like, vetting them are concerned.

00:31:35.200 Guys, ask questions.

00:31:36.860 Do not be afraid to quiz her.

00:31:38.140 Don't be afraid to put her on the spot.

00:31:39.440 Because if there is one thing that we are all aware of, whether you're, you know, whether you're good with women or not, is that they love nothing more than to talk about themselves. 0.96

00:31:48.260 And not a one of us in here watching this right now are unaware of the phrase, let a woman talk long enough, and eventually she will tell on themselves. 0.97

00:31:55.980 Women, and you guys got to pay attention, women are always telling us who and what they are. 1.00

00:31:59.940 But most of the time, they're not aware that they are.

00:32:02.540 Okay, that particular translation that I just showed you, that allows you to find out what kind of woman you're dealing with, as well as the kind of man she wants to deal with.

00:32:10.780 Again, this saves you a lot of time because now you have the information you need to make the call as to whether or not you want to continue dealing with her.

00:32:17.680 Okay, so what questions would you say that they should ask?

00:32:22.720 The one that I just said, hey, what happened?

00:32:25.100 Or you mean as far as, I don't know, just ask, hey, what kind of woman are you? 0.98

00:32:29.540 Tell me what kind of woman you are. 1.00

00:32:30.620 You know, describe yourself in 30 seconds.

00:32:33.640 And if you ask a woman to describe herself in 15, 30 seconds, she will almost always tell you what she wants in a man. 0.99

00:32:40.160 And the reason she does this, Pearl, is because she's trying to impress you.

00:32:44.500 Like when you ask a woman what kind of a woman you are, she's trying to impress you, right? 1.00

00:32:48.780 And that's not a bad thing.

00:32:50.100 She wants to impress you because she likes you.

00:32:52.180 But what you also have to understand is that when women are trying to impress, when women try to impress you, they're going to tell you what they think you want to hear.

00:32:58.960 This is why they tell you I'm a strong, independent, and super competitive.

00:33:03.920 Okay.

00:33:05.060 Got it.

00:33:06.320 All right.

00:33:06.960 Very good. 1.00

00:33:07.520 The next one is my ex is an asshole. 1.00

00:33:11.560 This is actually the first one that we were talking about. 1.00

00:33:13.980 Here we go. 1.00

00:33:14.980 My ex is such an asshole. 1.00

00:33:16.760 I'm still in love with my ex. 1.00

00:33:20.120 A woman who talks shit about her ex is not over her ex. 1.00

00:33:23.380 Remember, gentlemen, the more she tries to convince you of something, the less likely it's true. 1.00

00:33:28.100 A woman who calls her ex an ass wants her ex in her ass. 1.00

00:33:31.800 Never forget that. 1.00

00:33:32.680 So many men, they actually, and this is where a lot of guys mess up. 1.00

00:33:39.440 So many men think that if a woman, if that, if a woman thinks her ex is an asshole, that she no longer wants her ex. 0.99

00:33:46.540 Guys, that is completely wrong. 1.00

00:33:48.260 Yes, she thinks he's an asshole. 1.00

00:33:50.140 And chances are he probably is. 1.00

00:33:51.740 But if you're dealing with a woman who A, talks about her ex and B, talks, you know, calls him an asshole, you need to understand that she is not over him. 0.97

00:33:58.360 Okay. 0.99

00:33:58.640 The reason she's talking to you is to create a false sense of scarcity with her ex to give her the impression that she's fucking someone else. 1.00

00:34:05.080 The second reason, and the most important reason, is she is looking to distract herself. 0.98

00:34:10.040 She doesn't like you like that.

00:34:11.440 Okay.

00:34:11.660 She just wants that constant, steady flow of male attention from you while she waits for her ex to make a play to get back with her. 1.00

00:34:17.980 And when he does, trust me, she will go running back to him. 1.00

00:34:21.080 So understanding this translation, my ex is an asshole. 1.00

00:34:23.340 Well, again, keep her from wasting time with women who don't really like you. 1.00

00:34:26.780 And here's the thing, Pearl.

00:34:28.380 Every woman has that one ex. 1.00

00:34:30.800 She can't leave alone.

00:34:32.080 It's that one ex, that one ex-boyfriend, that one situationship, that one.

00:34:35.820 She can't leave him alone.

00:34:37.100 Yes, eventually they do move on to some degree. 1.00

00:34:39.600 But if she calls her sex an asshole, her ex an asshole, when she's dealing with you, understand that it's only a matter of time before she starts fucking with him again. 1.00

00:34:47.040 So was there a situation that that happened to you and you found out she was cheating with the ex? 1.00

00:34:52.640 Oh, yeah, 100%.

00:34:53.780 Dude, the girl's name was Victoria.

00:34:56.160 I actually met her at a Five Guys. 1.00

00:34:58.920 Dude, this girl was, oh, my God, she had a great ass. 1.00

00:35:01.900 So I hit on her at Five Guys, and she's actually looking grumpy. 1.00

00:35:04.560 I was like, oh, either you don't like black people or you hate your job. 0.98

00:35:07.200 And she laughed, and that kind of broke the ice. 1.00

00:35:09.540 Well, she used to talk about how her ex was an asshole all the time. 1.00

00:35:12.240 And, again, I had the game, but I didn't have the understanding. 1.00

00:35:15.960 And I was like, yeah, he's an ex. 1.00

00:35:17.000 He's an asshole. 1.00

00:35:17.500 She likes me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:35:19.120 Of course, her phone is buzzing away.

00:35:20.740 And I'm like, well, who is that?

00:35:21.840 She's like, well, you know, that's my ex-boyfriend.

00:35:23.600 I'm like, oh, okay.

00:35:24.440 I wasn't worried about it because it's your ex-boyfriend. 1.00

00:35:27.240 He's an asshole, right? 1.00

00:35:28.560 Come to find out, she actually got back with him. 1.00

00:35:31.220 She got back with him while she was with me.

00:35:32.960 And that's when I sort of discovered monkey branching. 0.99

00:35:35.060 So that was my introduction to when women call their ex an asshole, it still means they want to get with him. 1.00

00:35:40.120 That doesn't mean that she doesn't think he's an asshole, but she absolutely still wants to get with him. 1.00

00:35:44.080 A woman can hate a man and still want to have sex with him. 1.00

00:35:47.480 Absolutely. 0.99

00:35:48.440 Oh, my God.

00:35:49.000 Yeah.

00:35:49.200 Women can. 1.00

00:35:49.800 Women can. 1.00

00:35:50.180 We can.

00:35:50.660 We can despise.

00:35:52.160 And men don't understand this.

00:35:55.460 Like, we could.

00:35:56.360 We could hate a guy, not want to spend any time around him, but still want to sleep with him.

00:36:01.640 That's right.

00:36:02.360 That's right.

00:36:02.860 Listen, and men.

00:36:04.140 And it's funny because.

00:36:05.680 And I know a lot of women who have slept around. 1.00

00:36:08.080 They have probably fucked a guy or two. 0.98

00:36:10.200 They genuinely just did not like his people. 1.00

00:36:12.220 Dude, I fucked plenty of girls. 1.00

00:36:13.720 I just didn't like that much. 1.00

00:36:15.440 I just like having. 1.00

00:36:16.240 I just like having sex with her. 1.00

00:36:17.660 This is one. 1.00

00:36:18.260 This is one of the.

00:36:19.660 This is one of the few things that men and women have in common have in common as far as like, you know, sexual interactions. 0.56

00:36:26.340 We will have sex with a woman even if we don't like her. 1.00

00:36:29.220 If a woman hates you, when a woman tells you she hates you, it really means she loves you. 0.94

00:36:33.500 And I've said this before, Pearl, the opposite of love, as far as a woman goes, the opposite of love isn't hate. 0.96

00:36:38.340 The opposite of love is indifference.

00:36:39.700 If she doesn't really care, if she couldn't care less about you, she's over you.

00:36:43.120 If she hates you, she probably does, but she probably still loves you, too.

00:36:46.080 There's a thin line between love and hate.

00:36:47.400 And that's why the saying goes that way.

00:36:48.660 Got it.

00:36:50.600 Okay.

00:36:51.000 What's what's next?

00:36:52.820 This this next one is extremely, extremely dangerous.

00:36:56.980 Okay, so a lot of women, a lot of women like to say we have a healthy relationship. 1.00

00:37:03.040 Take a look.

00:37:04.300 This is a toxic relationship.

00:37:07.500 You're making it so hard for me to cheat on you.

00:37:10.160 When a woman finds it hard to cheat on you, she'll characterize your relationship as toxic to try to make it easier for her to cheat. 1.00

00:37:17.140 Way too many men fall for this ploy.

00:37:19.580 Do not be one of these men.

00:37:21.320 We have such a healthy relationship.

00:37:23.240 It will be very easy to cheat on you when I decide to.

00:37:28.300 Beware of any woman who brags about a healthy relationship. 1.00

00:37:32.020 This means she has cheated, is cheating, or is going to cheat.

00:37:35.740 Remember what I said about toxic relationships?

00:37:38.380 Well, the opposite applies when a woman says her relationship is healthy. 1.00

00:37:42.040 Yeah, it's a guy with no standards, right?

00:37:44.400 She can just do whatever she wants. 0.94

00:37:46.520 There you go.

00:37:47.640 And a lot of men, listen, you guys need to understand very, very clearly

00:37:51.820 that modern women always want it both ways, okay? 0.99

00:37:54.860 They want the status and the security of being in a relationship

00:37:57.800 while also being able to engage in activities that make them look single.

00:38:01.680 In other words, they want you to take them off the market

00:38:04.100 but still allow her to have the for rent sign in the front yard. 1.00

00:38:06.880 And this is where a lot of men go wrong in their relationships.

00:38:09.380 When women shame you, like in the clip we just saw, 1.00

00:38:12.080 they're clearly telling you they don't want to be faithful to you.

00:38:14.320 Women go to the club for attention. 1.00

00:38:16.400 They're on Instagram because they're looking for your replacement.

00:38:19.100 ...standards at all.

00:38:19.680 The family will.

00:38:22.160 Because if men actually had this information,

00:38:24.560 I think it would make relationships better.

00:38:26.660 Yes, there's going to be a learning curve.

00:38:28.500 No, women don't like it. 1.00

00:38:29.940 Women hate it when you figure them out. 1.00

00:38:33.460 They hate it, but eventually they respect you and love you for it.

00:38:36.700 Yeah, but beta bucks providers are what keeps society running. 1.00

00:38:40.900 So that's why they don't want them getting the information.

00:38:42.940 It would just be single mothers everywhere. 1.00

00:38:45.540 Like if men, yeah, it would just be single mothers, 1.00

00:38:47.880 and then they wouldn't know what to do with all the single women. 1.00

00:38:51.540 So they may get men's problem. 0.99

00:38:53.440 Go ahead.

00:38:54.280 Our, our, dude, our channels and all that being shadow banned and taken down,

00:38:58.580 it is, this is an economical decision.

00:39:01.800 Okay.

00:39:01.980 They try to characterize, oh, we're trying to protect women from men.

00:39:04.960 No, no, no, no, no.

00:39:05.680 This is economical because it's, you said it yourself.

00:39:08.920 We talked about it earlier in the episode, the economy,

00:39:12.120 the economy relies heavily on, on, on men, 0.99

00:39:16.940 not being aware of what their value is compared to what women's value is. 0.89

00:39:20.960 Every kiss begins with K get down on one knee, 1.00

00:39:23.420 do all this other kind of stuff.

00:39:24.680 You know, my wife is the boss, et cetera, et cetera. 1.00

00:39:27.100 Most guys have,

00:39:28.020 most men in the world have never been exposed to this kind of content.

00:39:30.820 And the powers that be are making sure that never happens.

00:39:33.200 And now we know why.

00:39:34.540 Yeah.

00:39:34.780 It's basically $8 or $2.

00:39:37.220 Do you want to make $8 or do you want to make $2?

00:39:40.140 Yeah.

00:39:40.620 I mean, all that tweet, I saw that video.

00:39:42.820 That was profound, Pearl.

00:39:43.980 Yeah.

00:39:44.240 No, I mean, it's so simple when you think about it.

00:39:47.340 I mean, I, I don't know what age you figured it out,

00:39:49.780 but at some age men understand that they lose money.

00:39:53.240 If they tell the truth, that's right.

00:39:55.400 Or they get kicked out of school.

00:39:56.820 They, they lose something.

00:39:58.240 Right.

00:39:58.600 And so they just learned to lie.

00:40:00.920 It's not really their fault.

00:40:02.220 Um, but, and it's not really the women's fault either because we're born into this. 1.00

00:40:07.720 It's like our grandmothers or whoever.

00:40:10.020 Um, but corporations have more control over society.

00:40:13.820 If they're spending the women's money that they steal from the men rather than the men 1.00

00:40:19.560 making choices.

00:40:20.540 Go ahead.

00:40:21.700 This is why, this is why, this is why 90% of the commercials are geared towards women. 0.85

00:40:26.520 Yeah.

00:40:26.960 If you get any commercial, every commercial, almost every commercial you see is designed

00:40:31.420 to get you emotional.

00:40:32.320 And it's funny.

00:40:32.940 We don't even see commercials anymore.

00:40:34.240 It's like, we're seeing these miniature movies, these miniature romantic comedies.

00:40:37.660 Now the, the, the, the, the powers that be on Madison Avenue, you know, the advertising

00:40:42.480 capital of the world, they know.

00:40:44.140 And listen, this is a tale as old as time itself.

00:40:46.140 And this is men and women alike people, people buy based on emotion.

00:40:49.980 They rarely buy based on logic.

00:40:51.840 I used to sell cars for a living and yeah, you can tell them about the, you know, the,

00:40:55.160 the, the power steering and the, you know, the engine, this, this, and that, and the

00:40:57.860 third, they're not going to buy the car for 10 reasons.

00:40:59.720 They're going to buy it for one reason.

00:41:01.580 And if that one reason is an emotional reason, you have a much higher, there's a much higher

00:41:06.040 probability that you are going to close that sale.

00:41:08.040 The guys over on Madison Avenue understand that very clearly.

00:41:10.660 This is why they push that emotional button every single time because women make what 1.00

00:41:14.880 80% of the financial buying decisions in this country.

00:41:18.180 So yeah, if I were them, I would do the same thing.

00:41:22.120 What's the next one we got?

00:41:24.940 The next one we got is a red flag.

00:41:27.360 Now, what would you consider Pearl as a red flag in women? 1.00

00:41:31.500 Yeah.

00:41:31.980 No.

00:41:32.360 And men, what is a red flag post red pill awakening that you had that, that like, if, like if

00:41:38.520 a guy does or says, or is X, Y, and Z, that is a red flag.

00:41:44.400 Ooh.

00:41:45.280 Tough one, isn't it?

00:41:46.900 Give me a second.

00:41:49.440 Um, well, the, what, what I'm thinking of could be a red or green flag, depending on

00:41:57.080 what you want.

00:41:58.040 Um, an easier time, you know what I'm saying?

00:42:01.020 Like if, but if you want to play life on hard mode, you go to the city where there's

00:42:05.380 a batch of 20 year olds that come every year, you know what I mean?

00:42:09.780 So if you want, like, that's one that I would think of, but we like the men with options.

00:42:15.300 So I, I'm having a hard time deciding which, like, if it would be red or green, because

00:42:21.680 you know, we tend to interesting.

00:42:23.580 Yeah.

00:42:23.960 Actually gave, you actually gave the right answer.

00:42:26.920 There really are no, the only red flags that I can think of for a men that are not sexually

00:42:33.180 or economically attractive is he plays video games.

00:42:36.700 He lives, he lives with his mom, right?

00:42:38.600 But there are guys who play video games and live with their mothers who actually are able 0.77

00:42:43.340 to get women somehow.

00:42:44.860 So this next clip is about red flags.

00:42:47.620 Let's take a look and listen.

00:42:50.040 I want to take this slow. 1.00

00:42:52.160 I want to keep fucking my ex. 1.00

00:42:53.560 Wait a minute. 1.00

00:42:53.960 That's the wrong one.

00:42:54.700 I do apologize.

00:42:55.320 Sorry about that.

00:42:56.660 Here we go.

00:42:57.000 That's true.

00:42:57.400 It's a red flag that turns me on.

00:43:02.200 If it gets the attention of law enforcement, it gets the attention of young hot beaming. 1.00

00:43:06.620 Red flags are turned on for girls, guys.

00:43:08.440 And that's all there is to it.

00:43:09.940 If a woman says X, Y, Z is a red flag, it means she's turned on by him. 0.97

00:43:14.700 Okay.

00:43:15.780 Again, Pearl, you have interviewed like, you know, a thousand girls, you know, over the years.

00:43:20.720 And one thing that is consistent across the board in terms of their maid selection is

00:43:26.140 that they consistently commit to have children with get into situationships with men who have

00:43:31.420 quote, red flags.

00:43:32.720 And they tell us as much all the time when they talk about why their relationships end or why

00:43:37.240 they're not with the baby daddy anymore.

00:43:38.660 And I'm telling you better than nine times out of 10, they rattle off red flag after red flag.

00:43:43.400 He drank too much.

00:43:44.680 He was a drug addict.

00:43:45.800 He had a gambling addiction.

00:43:47.000 He had two baby mamas when he, you know, you know, you know, when he met her, the list goes on and on.

00:43:51.540 So when these chicks out here talk about that's a red flag, it is important to understand that this 0.86

00:43:56.400 means that they're giving you the green light to pursue them.

00:43:59.200 It should not be this way, but that's the way it is, unfortunately.

00:44:02.400 And it's interesting too, when I would have girls coming on the show and I would actually see what

00:44:07.760 their exes looked like. 0.66

00:44:09.340 Oh yeah.

00:44:10.020 Yeah.

00:44:10.220 And sometimes you would see the same ex.

00:44:12.540 I'm like, he might've been dated a couple of you.

00:44:16.360 But, but the, the one thing I think with young women now, it's really, they don't care about 1.00

00:44:21.420 money anymore.

00:44:22.320 They can go make their own money.

00:44:23.980 They care about clout.

00:44:25.300 That's, that's what they care about.

00:44:26.680 They care about pop.

00:44:27.540 Like when I started seeing it through the lens of young women want popular men.

00:44:32.000 So they want the guy playing guitar.

00:44:33.780 They want the guy with clout, everything, you know, and even, um, couples that you see

00:44:38.460 meet nowadays, it's like a lot of times it's through online communities where the guy is

00:44:43.620 the popular one in that community, or like it's in the neighborhood that they live in

00:44:49.120 nearby.

00:44:49.580 And the guy's the popular guy at the bar.

00:44:51.800 Like it's all, it's all women are like in high school forever. 1.00

00:44:54.860 They just want the popular guy.

00:44:56.580 So the, so the, the more men can like mimic that, the more they get the young, hot women. 0.87

00:45:02.600 Now the older women, why, I don't want to say wise up, but they have to think long-term 1.00

00:45:07.800 more.

00:45:08.580 Yes.

00:45:08.940 So that's when you see them.

00:45:11.080 Like I see the older women going more for like the doctors, the lawyer, but I don't really 1.00

00:45:16.620 see the young women giving a shit about men's accomplishments at all. 0.98

00:45:20.700 Like I, I see that, I see that with like women 27 and up. 0.99

00:45:25.980 Right.

00:45:26.960 And the interesting thing is, is what a lot of men and women really don't understand that

00:45:34.300 like when, when we're younger, girls tend to mature faster than boys.

00:45:39.180 Right.

00:45:39.680 I mean, dude, my sister's matured faster than me, but, and, and, and because of that, they,

00:45:45.840 they assume that when they're older, they're more mature.

00:45:48.640 No, no, no, no.

00:45:49.480 As soon as a woman figures out that men want to have sex with them, the maturation process 1.00

00:45:54.260 stops immediately. 0.93

00:45:56.540 Okay.

00:45:57.200 And the reason for that is because they now know that they have everything they need to

00:46:01.120 get everything they need in their firmware. 0.99

00:46:03.260 They're thinking, okay, guys want to fuck me. 0.99

00:46:05.600 So I don't have to have a good personality. 1.00

00:46:07.300 I don't have to learn to cook clean.

00:46:09.060 I don't have to learn to have conversation.

00:46:10.600 That's why there are so many smoke shows in Miami and Las Vegas and New York and LA who look, 1.00

00:46:15.840 they were a drop dead gorgeous, who are as dumb as a box of rocks. 1.00

00:46:19.080 Hot girls are useless because they've never had to be useful. 1.00

00:46:22.480 And I think I got, I think a lot of guys need, I think a lot of guys need to understand that. 0.97

00:46:26.020 So when it comes to girls these days that, that, that you've been dealing with an interviewing. 1.00

00:46:30.040 Yeah, of course, they're not worried about a doctor's, you know, a man being a doctor when

00:46:33.540 they're 21 and hot, but here's what happens. 1.00

00:46:35.820 So they stopped the maturation process when they figure out guys want to fuck them. 0.99

00:46:39.680 But then all of a sudden when they're 28, 29 and they start having, and they start buying 0.97

00:46:44.000 their own drinks from the club, maybe the situation ship doesn't last as long.

00:46:47.880 Maybe the guy you're having sex with isn't angling for a relationship a week later.

00:46:51.300 That's when the maturation process starts up again, because her hindbrain is thinking

00:46:54.600 to herself, Oh, I'm not getting as much attention from these high quality guys as I was when

00:46:59.260 I was younger.

00:46:59.860 So now I'm going to try to develop a good personality.

00:47:02.960 Now I'm going to try to cook and clean.

00:47:04.520 Now I'm going to be pretend to be feminine and docile. 0.75

00:47:06.720 There are a lot of guys out here who have dated men, who have dated women, you know, 0.99

00:47:10.560 who are in their thirties and forties who act like fucking teenagers. 0.99

00:47:13.520 The reason why they act like teenagers, the reason why they act like overgrown children 1.00

00:47:17.380 is because they still have the mind of a 16 year old. 1.00

00:47:20.100 16 years old is when they discovered that men wanted that men, that men wanted to fuck 1.00

00:47:24.600 them. 0.99

00:47:24.840 So they hadn't really thought about improving themselves in any way since they were 16 years

00:47:29.060 old.

00:47:29.400 So when you're out with the 38 year old, former batty, she probably might have the maturity 1.00

00:47:33.800 of a 20 year old because four years ago, she figured out, Oh, Oh, I'm 0.99

00:47:36.720 I better get mature because guys aren't throwing the dick at me like they used to. 0.98

00:47:40.020 And I see this going up every, like I see the length of, or the age of women that date 0.99

00:47:46.380 like bad boys for longer.

00:47:48.700 I guess you could say going up every year.

00:47:51.360 Like for example, in my mom's generation, it was like, if you weren't married by like 20, 0.97

00:47:56.860 like out of college, really, you were a loser.

00:47:58.860 Now it's Gen Z old. 0.95

00:48:01.600 I mean, Gen Z is 27.

00:48:03.720 Cause I'm, I'm two months away from Gen Z.

00:48:05.700 I barely, I'm a millennial, but barely.

00:48:08.520 Yeah.

00:48:08.820 So you really, so you're a millennial Z-er then.

00:48:10.820 Yeah.

00:48:11.100 Like if I was, I, my birthday is November.

00:48:13.220 If I was born in January, I'd be Gen Z.

00:48:15.800 So that's how close, that's how close I am to the cutoff.

00:48:18.140 Um, but only like, I looked up Gen Z, like 15% are married.

00:48:25.120 Wow.

00:48:25.660 Yeah.

00:48:25.900 I'd, I'd have to, I, let me, I could, I don't want to misquote.

00:48:28.740 Oh my God.

00:48:29.280 What percent.

00:48:30.160 Yeah.

00:48:30.800 Of Gen Z. 0.72

00:48:32.320 So 15 out of every 100 Gen Z-ers are married.

00:48:35.140 That is.

00:48:35.380 Yeah.

00:48:35.540 No, actually it's 10%.

00:48:37.160 Oh.

00:48:38.320 And, um, let's see.

00:48:40.280 So, but Gen Z, I know there are, some of them are too young.

00:48:43.960 So what is the youngest Gen Z?

00:48:47.120 I know, I know.

00:48:47.820 So some of it's, yeah.

00:48:49.560 So the youngest Gen Z is 13.

00:48:51.440 The oldest is 27.

00:48:53.600 So, yeah.

00:48:54.480 So, but still, that still means happy.

00:48:57.020 Like I see this going up and up every year.

00:49:00.920 Like, I, you know, it'll be interesting to see like Gen Z. 0.52

00:49:04.600 If I had to predict, I think they won't marry.

00:49:06.740 Cause when I was in Ireland, the average age of first marriage was 35.

00:49:11.160 What?

00:49:12.080 Yeah.

00:49:12.300 That's not uncommon in some European countries.

00:49:14.760 If you Google like average age of first marriage.

00:49:17.120 Well, what do you think about generation?

00:49:18.320 Well, what do you, how do you think generation alpha is going to do?

00:49:20.680 Because it'll just, I mean, it is if technology advances, I don't know if it will, but I mean,

00:49:26.920 IVF is so common in the cities.

00:49:29.020 It kind of has extended fertility a little bit.

00:49:32.140 If women can wait till 45, they'll do. 1.00

00:49:35.640 I mean, I know like they try to say it hasn't, but I, I just, because the thing is what I see

00:49:41.000 is things happen in the cities and then they migrate to the country.

00:49:44.720 Does that make sense?

00:49:45.840 So yeah, we've had this discussion.

00:49:47.280 Yeah, absolutely.

00:49:47.860 Yeah.

00:49:48.080 So the, the trends that I saw in like downtown London is like, I mean, the women there on 0.98

00:49:55.600 my volleyball team, I mean, they're older than me and not really thinking about marriage.

00:50:00.700 Like some of them are like 32.

00:50:03.140 Incredible.

00:50:03.620 And so I, I see this, like the, the party years or whatever, like I see that continuing

00:50:11.480 to go up, especially if, and I know it's all sort of fake, but like if Botox gets better,

00:50:19.920 if IVF gets better, or even if they don't get better, if the illusion to women is that 0.99

00:50:26.680 it, that it gets better, I just see it going up.

00:50:30.060 Does that make sense?

00:50:30.720 Like, even if, even if the technology isn't there, as long as they can convince women

00:50:36.200 that it will be there, you know, I mean, if you, if you see twin, like, like I think

00:50:42.700 about this, Donovan, Matt Walsh had two sets of twins in his thirties, his wife was in her

00:50:49.060 thirties.

00:50:49.760 Those were definitely IVF.

00:50:51.580 Of course.

00:50:52.360 Like Crowder had, had twins too, with the wife in her third.

00:50:55.620 Like, so if the conservative, if the right leaning commentators are getting IVF kit, like

00:51:02.200 what?

00:51:03.060 And I think they're going to hide this stat, but what percent of the future generations,

00:51:07.440 I mean, even Nick, I'm not going to say his name, but Nick F, I mean, he was born via

00:51:12.300 IVF.

00:51:12.960 Like what percent of future generations are going to be born via IVF?

00:51:17.800 I think it's going to be a lot.

00:51:18.920 I think someday it might be a majority, even if the stats don't like show that, does that

00:51:23.960 make sense?

00:51:24.800 No, that make dude, that, that makes perfect sense.

00:51:27.220 And I, I heard a stat that millennials and Gen Zers are not having nearly as much sex as

00:51:32.700 we thought they were.

00:51:33.800 I mean, I've heard, I mean, I've heard that they're just not having sex anymore.

00:51:36.360 Like how true is that?

00:51:38.340 Uh, I mean, I think the women are having sex. 1.00

00:51:40.940 I mean, if you want to, if you want to check that out, I mean, the STD rates will tell you

00:51:45.900 because women are the ones that the women's are the ones that are spreading STDs. 1.00

00:51:50.260 So if women are not having sex, then Gen Z should have a lower STD rate. 0.99

00:51:56.220 I do think, yeah, I mean, I do think we got to think about like if a guy, if we're having

00:52:01.320 sex with a smaller percentage of men, if a guy has a five girl rotation, how often is

00:52:08.080 he seeing the girls at the bottom?

00:52:10.620 Right.

00:52:11.340 Do you know what I'm saying?

00:52:12.420 So I could maybe see like that possibly because, um, like the fives, the sixes, if the guys

00:52:19.940 are nine and 10.

00:52:21.380 Sure.

00:52:21.860 Yeah.

00:52:22.040 They'll just throw themselves at him.

00:52:23.260 I had a five girl rotation for two and a half weeks.

00:52:25.700 Like dude, anybody listen, man, look, look, look, look, look, every guy says I want to 0.99

00:52:32.320 be fucking multiple girls. 1.00

00:52:33.800 And listen, we all do. 1.00

00:52:35.000 I've done it before, but guys like it should be two, three at the very, very most.

00:52:41.420 And I know we teach you guys to make sure you keep one in the kitty to, you know, to

00:52:45.480 keep your abundance mentality, but guys, what you have to understand is that sleeping with

00:52:50.580 multiple girls is work. 1.00

00:52:52.480 It is.

00:52:53.120 It's sometimes it can be a bit of a full time job.

00:52:56.120 And here's the thing. 1.00

00:52:57.440 If you've got a rotation of women, you have to fuck all of the women. 1.00

00:53:00.780 Otherwise they're not in your rotation. 1.00

00:53:02.560 You'll hear a guy say, well, I'm fucking five girls at the same time. 1.00

00:53:05.300 No, you fuck five girls three months ago. 1.00

00:53:07.980 No, the definition of having a rotation is you're fucking every girl in your rotation 1.00

00:53:11.860 regularly. 1.00

00:53:12.420 And she expects to have sex with you again in the not too distant future. 0.90

00:53:15.940 Gentlemen, that is hard work.

00:53:18.160 It's fun when it first starts. 0.99

00:53:19.480 And it's a nice little ego boost that you've got all these bitches in your phone that you 1.00

00:53:22.320 can come over and, you know, and let you smash her out in three texts or less. 0.99

00:53:25.560 But trust me, once you get there and you listen, once the new wears off.

00:53:29.780 Oh my, it, it, it's, it really is.

00:53:32.640 Believe it or not.

00:53:33.120 It's more trouble than it worth more trouble than it's worth.

00:53:35.540 And here's the thing.

00:53:36.540 The worst thing about having a five girl rotation, like I did for two and a half weeks is that

00:53:41.240 you have to have sex Pearl when you don't want to, if you want to keep a girl in rotation, 1.00

00:53:46.420 you got to fuck her. 1.00

00:53:47.840 And listen, we all, if girls think guys are thinking about, no, if you're fucking three 1.00

00:53:52.380 and four and five girls at the same time, you're not wanting to fuck all the time. 1.00

00:53:55.560 But if you want to keep the bitch in your rotation, you have to fuck her. 1.00

00:53:58.380 That means having to have sex when you don't want to. 1.00

00:54:00.880 And that is not fun. 0.96

00:54:01.960 Yeah. 0.96

00:54:02.200 That's not, that is no fucking fun, dude. 0.94

00:54:04.060 Yeah. 0.97

00:54:04.280 And I, I think that's where some of maybe the sexlessness comes from.

00:54:07.640 It's like if a, if a four or five and six, like how often is she going to get into contact

00:54:12.740 with a nine and 10?

00:54:14.120 I mean, like he'll do it.

00:54:15.820 Right.

00:54:16.060 I mean, they'll always do it, but sure.

00:54:18.400 Sure.

00:54:18.880 But that's, I guess she may do it.

00:54:20.780 Right.

00:54:21.100 Right.

00:54:21.520 But I don't know.

00:54:22.460 I'd have to, I have heard that, like, there are stats saying that they're sexless, but we 0.99

00:54:27.440 are.

JustPearlyThings - March 11, 2025

Womanese： What Women Say VS What They Mean ｜ Pearl Daily

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