JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023


Women Are Manipulative And Spiteful


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10 minutes

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Word count

2,194

Sentence count

1

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Misogyny

17

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13

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In this episode, we discuss the issue of who should have primary custody of the kids if the mother leaves the kids with the father and who should take care of them if the father does not have enough money to care for them.

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00:00:00.000 you say that men are needed to build these homes build everything sewage plumage how are they going 0.96
00:00:04.880 to do that if they have custody of the kid who's going to watch the kid well i i think the person
00:00:08.960 that can afford the kids should have that choice so he can still like it's not like i'm saying he
00:00:14.640 should never give the mother access but i think he should have the primary decision so what does
00:00:19.280 it mean i think i think to have a nanny what he of course to have a nanny well i'd imagine men
00:00:24.800 aren't as spiteful as women they'd be much more willing to let the mother like watch the kids the 1.00
00:00:29.200 women are the ones that use the kids as a tool they certainly agree with you i agree with you 1.00
00:00:33.920 with that i definitely agree with you with that but i will still say if you got if you think about it
00:00:38.800 men especially alpha males are not putting in 40 hours a week they might be putting in 80 hours a
00:00:43.920 week who is going to if they have custody of the children who's going to watch the children if
00:00:49.040 so there's a man and a woman and the woman leaves right right that's that's the situation we're
00:00:53.840 talking about that's the situation that i'm talking about yes and maybe he has to work a lot okay
00:00:59.200 i think he should get primary custody and decision making because she decided to leave and he earns
00:01:04.080 more meaning he can afford the kids i i'm not saying that he should not let the mother see the kids
00:01:09.760 i i think when he cannot watch the kids the mother should and if he's working 80 hours a week she's
00:01:14.720 going to get plenty of time exactly so if he's working 80 hours a week she's going to have the kids 0.99
00:01:20.720 anyway she's the one who is teaching them their morals their values they're cooking for them taking care of 1.00
00:01:26.400 them teaching them everything loving them doing all of that so why would the man have primary
00:01:30.560 custody why because he can't afford it if he's not going to be there anyway then what like i mean
00:01:34.800 honestly off the off the bat i think it should be 50 50 if it's mutual but i'm saying if the woman 0.86
00:01:41.120 chooses to leave i'm saying woman is abused and she chooses to leave because she's beaten up or she's
00:01:46.960 just mental abuse various things various scenarios can be millions of them what if she chooses to live
00:01:52.400 because she cannot survive there and she would be dead if she didn't live then what then it's
00:01:57.280 interesting how we always go to like the worst case scenario it's realistic yeah and i say it around
00:02:03.200 those situations do happen and so we would have to have safeguards so that women could escape really 1.00
00:02:10.400 unhealthy relationships um and so if there was that safeguard but if you know unless you proved that
00:02:18.480 you were abused you knew that the father was going to get full custody then what would happen is that
00:02:24.560 false allegations would skyrocket i just and you know i really want to just take the whole uh child
00:02:31.200 access issue out of the courts you know you're dealing with families who are struggling to split up
00:02:39.040 amicably and do what's in the best interests of their children by minimizing conflict and the way we
00:02:44.880 respond to it is by throwing it into an adversarial court system it's insane oh this is a public health
00:02:51.040 issue everyone involved needs to get down to the like psychiatrist's office and we need to you know
00:02:58.720 we need to go really yeah yeah these kids they need both their parents they need all their aunties
00:03:04.000 and uncles they need their grandparents it's so you don't think the family court system should exist at
00:03:09.840 all no wow i've never heard that view that's i agree absolutely not at all really with you on the
00:03:14.960 subject that women play up too much and all these fake allegations of xyz and i'm not going to mention
00:03:20.560 because i can't remember it did happen at chilies i hate it so much i think the people who falsely
00:03:26.560 allege someone of a crime that they have not committed they should be punished of an equal punishment
00:03:32.160 that would have been in the court yeah yeah just like you know but the the family court system is 0.99
00:03:39.600 definitely needed because let's say you're you're involved with a man right and you think he put
00:03:45.360 a condom on and he didn't now you end up pregnant now what all he has to do is just pick up and leave 0.51
00:03:51.360 when you have a family court system to enforce that he at least pays for helps pays for his child like
00:03:57.440 women we already have to take care of okay women we already i gotta i gotta stop you there you're 1.00
00:04:01.760 telling me you didn't notice he didn't have a condom there are times when you don't what is a man might
00:04:06.000 slip it off but when you're in the moment the whole time what's more common a man pulling off
00:04:11.680 the condom or a woman lying about being on birth control no idea i would say a man pulling off a 0.78
00:04:18.640 condom i would definitely say a man pull off a condom i would without a man i've heard no a man even
00:04:24.960 putting on a condom doesn't even put it on to begin with where where is your sample size is this just in
00:04:30.320 your bed you said where's your sample size yeah you keep talking about like where's the demographic
00:04:35.760 we're talking about here is it like specifically in your bed you're on birth control but these men
00:04:40.480 have been known i'm talking about in general about somebody who you know i travel to where i talk to
00:04:44.800 different people i you know do this i used to have a radio show like so i've talked to millions of
00:04:49.920 people before and when yeah research and when you actually sit and talk to people and you find out
00:04:53.600 their stories and stuff you you're gathering evidence well my question is why doesn't she require the 0.89
00:04:58.560 men she sleeps with wears condoms you can see if they put it like this is so stupid no you can see 0.79
00:05:04.960 if a guy puts a condom on but how many times you turn on murray and he's taking a condom off and now
00:05:09.520 she's pregnant who's the daddy or trying to prove that he is the daddy i like it's more common it that
00:05:14.640 happens more than you know what that is interesting though because what is the response from the public
00:05:19.760 and the audience in situations where you get into these kind of real life stories about a man who slipped
00:05:24.880 the condom off like people that is not socially acceptable and people think that he is awful
00:05:32.000 whereas there was um a clip that went quite viral i think it was on oprah or something like that
00:05:38.560 and it was you know a an audience full of women and they're having like they're asking questions and 1.00
00:05:45.520 getting responses from different people and a woman stands up and she says look
00:05:50.880 we have some number of kids two or three kids i want another but my husband doesn't
00:05:58.480 should i pretend that i'm taking my birth control but stop and the entire audience like all of these
00:06:05.520 women jumped up hollering saying like do it do it sister you got to do it you want that kid like and 1.00
00:06:12.240 that was i've heard stupid i've heard stupid i'm just questioning like there's four guys here do you 0.84
00:06:21.520 guys know any woman that has lied that you think lied about being on birth control yeah it happened to 0.96
00:06:27.280 me yeah that happened to you do you know anybody do you know anybody wait i just want raise of hands
00:06:33.760 just there's four guys in here do you know anybody why are the girls excluded i know the woman who's
00:06:40.960 done that i believe i'm not on birth control okay well i was gonna ask the women the women have have 1.00
00:06:46.160 you ever been like condom where the guy said he was wearing a condom and then he took it off and you
00:06:52.800 didn't know that's never happened to me yes yes it's happened to me i choose my partners wisely so no no
00:06:58.640 no so okay so right now we got 25 and 100 this is random people that don't know each other so it
00:07:06.400 seems like one's more common than the other they're both situations i thought you talked to people so
00:07:14.640 now i do a random sample size this is a random sample size here in the uk first of all men don't
00:07:20.240 even try to wear condoms so you should come on now let's be for real i'm so for real i don't know
00:07:30.480 how you wouldn't notice i think that women just do that to play victim i'm going to be honest i think 0.99
00:07:36.160 that's a lack of like accountability i'm going to tell you how you're not going to notice right let's
00:07:39.680 say a man is is hitting it from the front right and he says flip over let me hit it from the back
00:07:45.040 and he takes it off because he's about to climax hello how am i gonna know all i know is i'm
00:07:49.920 flipping over i'm not gonna know i'm just gonna know the feeling like oh okay he likes this position
00:07:55.920 i'm not gonna reach down there oh let me make sure i'm in the moment it happens that's true
00:08:02.080 happens where does it put me if i lied about uh not taking birth control what i was taking
00:08:10.000 oh you lot you lied about it yes i was taking the birth control and i said i'm not
00:08:15.360 oh you you were taking that's really interesting that's a really interesting question
00:08:19.120 am i good or bad or ugly honestly i have i have something to say are you responsible
00:08:27.120 give it to me baby i understand that a lot of men don't wear condom right yeah i understand that but
00:08:31.600 i'm kind of worried if you're saying that there are men that would wear the condom and take it off
00:08:38.560 when they are about to ejaculate that is wild as hell like that's crazy they want to have baby no no it 0.95
00:08:45.360 sounds like a crazy concept but it is more common than what you think it is more common no you need
00:08:51.280 to think about the kind of men that would do that that's the point i'm trying to make those are not
00:08:56.000 stable individuals i live in new york everyone's crazy there every single person is crazy there
00:09:01.040 right so you would be surprised how many women i have come across that have said this exact same thing
00:09:06.880 like men if they're in it and it's feeling good you know what you know what they want to tell you
00:09:10.320 why they're all sleeping with the same guys
00:09:14.880 which goes back to my point the same kind of the only guy in new york but this is what i mean women
00:09:20.880 select horribly but that's that's if you're if you're sleeping with the guy like what does that
00:09:25.120 say about your decision but you gotta think about it all the good guys are probably taken so there's
00:09:29.680 only the bozos like that that are left for us to pick from that's not true this whole like if you're 0.91
00:09:34.800 not getting good men it's something it says something about you you are what you attract these
00:09:39.520 these prison guys you're talking about but the men i like are gay what can i do all the pretty men 1.00
00:09:44.720 they are gay and they don't want me what can i do she said it gay is like five percent of the 0.97
00:09:51.360 population it's not that high what of men yeah yeah but i like them yeah what about frogs though i heard
00:09:57.360 they're going that way but you know what that also demographics i really think all that does
00:10:02.800 depend on where you live as well like if you live in a country somewhere it might be easier for you to
00:10:07.600 find a good man you know i'm saying because it's a country they preach families marriage kids all of
00:10:12.960 that if you live in a thriving overpopulated city you're worrying about how you're going to pay bills
00:10:18.640 so everybody's not inclined to really be on some okay let's get married let's have children are you
00:10:23.600 saying all the men in here are not good men because they live in a populated city i'm not
00:10:29.040 saying that they're not they're gorgeous we're gonna do after the party but there are there are
00:10:33.600 communities within our overcrowded cities where most of us are a complete mess there are communities who
00:10:40.080 do very well have very stable families none of our messy issues