JustPearlyThings - December 25, 2022


Women are more promiscuous than men


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11 minutes

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209.53113

Word count

2,364

Sentence count

164

Harmful content

Misogyny

34

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28

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In this episode, we talk about cheating and why it s so common in our society. We also talk about why men cheat and why women cheat. We also get into why we should be holding men accountable for their actions.

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00:00:00.000 It's like even a good, like my, my dad, I'll give you, he's top 1% doesn't cheat, but my
00:00:06.040 dad doesn't have social media and he doesn't have beautiful models waiting for him every
00:00:11.680 day after work.
00:00:13.280 I think that would be hard for even a good man to, to say no to.
00:00:17.280 Like even my dad, if he was in a position where beautiful women are trying to do that 1.00
00:00:21.360 every single day, that's hard.
00:00:23.940 That's really hard for a guy.
00:00:25.480 Women get approached as well.
00:00:26.440 In fact, women get approached way more than men, but it's not usually, it's not usually
00:00:31.040 by men you want.
00:00:32.180 It would, I would also argue, I would also argue that it would be hard for a woman to stay 1.00
00:00:37.140 faithful if every day she was approached by high value men.
00:00:40.620 That's true.
00:00:41.240 So, but yeah, like you've been in that position.
00:00:43.800 It's, it's, if every day you're getting messages from like the top men in society, I think that's
00:00:51.940 hard for women to turn down. 1.00
00:00:53.580 We're hypergamous.
00:00:54.300 So it's not really about the quantity of men that approach you.
00:00:58.400 It's the quality.
00:00:59.040 I think just morally, I think everybody knows that cheating is wrong.
00:01:03.500 You know, like Tate even said it himself, when a woman cheats on a man, the pain that
00:01:08.760 he feels, so they know it's wrong innately, but they think that they have that path to
00:01:14.020 do it because I'm a man, I'm a high value man.
00:01:17.280 And it's like, do you know that pain that you felt?
00:01:19.600 So she feels that it's, no, I, and I, I agree with you.
00:01:23.000 I've, I've, I've been cheated on.
00:01:24.860 It was really hard, but, but at the end of the day, it's just not the same because like
00:01:29.740 at the end of the day, like I could get past it because I was like, you know what?
00:01:33.700 It was just a random.
00:01:34.620 It wasn't like, he wasn't in love with her, but like the way we would feel if a man was
00:01:39.000 in love with someone else, that's how men feel about us cheating on them sexually.
00:01:43.460 Like there's just a, do you think it's because there's just like, how do I want to say this?
00:01:49.040 Do you think it's because men are weaker in that department to where it's like, oh, you
00:01:54.300 can't even, I can't believe you had sex with guys before you even met me because that's 0.85
00:01:58.380 my pussy. 0.99
00:01:58.860 You know what I mean?
00:01:59.200 Like, I almost feel like it's because there's such a gap in where women really are and where 0.99
00:02:03.960 men are emotionally and mentally.
00:02:06.740 No, I just think it's like men and we can't undo biology, right?
00:02:10.880 So like we can't undo the thousands of years of biology and how, how did you pass on your
00:02:15.320 genes to the next generation?
00:02:16.580 For women, it was getting the best man that they possibly could, the strongest, tallest, 1.00
00:02:21.380 biggest, highest status, because then your kid would survive.
00:02:24.860 That meant he could protect you.
00:02:26.420 He could pass on resources to you and your kid would be strong and would be able to protect
00:02:30.520 itself for like vice versa for men.
00:02:33.880 It was, I don't want to pass on resources to a kid.
00:02:36.760 That's not mine.
00:02:38.320 So it was, I can't have a promiscuous woman because the kid might not be mine. 1.00
00:02:43.180 My genes might not even get, yeah, my genes might not get passed out.
00:02:46.400 So even though like we're in 2022 and we have like different things that offset this stuff,
00:02:51.300 you can't undo our biology.
00:02:52.840 But I also think it's accountability.
00:02:54.800 I think like Brittany was saying, Tate, you're literally like the male version of me and
00:03:02.580 you're praised and I'm shamed.
00:03:04.940 I think it's because we are not holding these men accountable.
00:03:08.560 Like you would say, you basically called Brittany a hoe before you met her. 0.97
00:03:12.700 That is so unfair.
00:03:13.800 And I think if we started to say, no, Brittany, not just Brittany in that situation, not calling
00:03:19.040 you a hoe or anything, not in that situation, say, Tate's a hoe, Brittany's a hoe, actually 1.00
00:03:24.000 hold each other accountable.
00:03:26.620 And it's just, it's just, but here's, here's the thing, like on the other side, on the other
00:03:32.200 side, when you were what, eight, when was the first time you got messaged by someone
00:03:35.960 with a blue check mark or like any attention?
00:03:38.760 Probably when I was like 2021.
00:03:40.880 Okay, 2021, she got the world at her fingertips, like just, just by being beautiful, right?
00:03:46.880 She can get messaged from like the top men in society.
00:03:50.360 It's not the same for men.
00:03:51.640 When a man's 2021, no woman's checking for him. 0.89
00:03:54.820 Maybe, maybe a very select few, but even, even if they're very good looking, like they're
00:03:59.580 not, they're not getting shit from rich girls. 0.98
00:04:01.940 No, but what I'm, what I'm saying is the men are getting those women, like actually saying
00:04:07.460 that it's because it's not right.
00:04:08.840 At the end of the day, cheating is wrong.
00:04:09.920 Men are women, biology or not, it's wrong. 1.00
00:04:12.900 And I think if we actually start to say, you know what, this man has got three baby mamas,
00:04:17.120 you're fucking ridiculous. 0.80
00:04:18.620 You're playing with me.
00:04:19.280 And here's the, but the thing is, it's such, okay, it's such a, who's at fault when most,
00:04:26.060 80% of women, 90% of women are sexually active, but only roughly five to 10% of guys can do
00:04:32.520 what you're saying.
00:04:33.760 So it's, the women are more promiscuous than the men. 1.00
00:04:36.200 It's like the problem you're talking about is so minuscule.
00:04:38.920 It's so small.
00:04:40.520 Like maybe 20% of men can, women are more promiscuous. 1.00
00:04:44.380 You're the reason why men cheat still.
00:04:46.040 Why do you keep cutting it off though?
00:04:47.200 Women, women have more sexual partners now. 1.00
00:04:49.320 What are you doing?
00:04:50.080 I'm coming for you today.
00:04:51.200 Now I'm your auntie Jenny, trust me.
00:04:52.780 You swore at me.
00:04:53.700 Disrespect, I do not accept disrespect.
00:04:56.540 Why are you doing so much?
00:04:57.020 This is why men will cheat because somebody is talking to you and you're still cutting 1.00
00:05:00.300 them off for no reason.
00:05:01.700 Pearl, please continue.
00:05:02.800 It doesn't even need to be high value.
00:05:04.800 But do you know what I'm saying?
00:05:05.720 So I'm saying like, okay, they're predicting that 45% of women will be single and childless.
00:05:11.100 That's so much so that the big banks are predicting this.
00:05:13.900 These women that are going to be single and childless and are on the path to that, it's 1.00
00:05:17.580 not like they're not sexually active.
00:05:19.120 They're probably sleeping with someone. 1.00
00:05:20.960 There's not a plethora of virgins around that are women, but there is one in three men under
00:05:25.340 30 are virgins.
00:05:27.120 So who's more promiscuous?
00:05:28.920 If the women aren't virgins, the body counts are getting higher. 1.00
00:05:33.320 And where on the other hand, men, it's a very small percentage that can actually get
00:05:38.020 sex and father a bunch of kids. 0.59
00:05:39.820 So that's why I say like, I know Tate tries to, he's like, don't make it a he said,
00:05:43.960 she said, but, but just by and large, it's more on the women because one, we're in control 1.00
00:05:48.420 of sex.
00:05:48.980 We pick who we sleep with and we're more sexually active than them. 0.96
00:05:52.780 In a sense, I agree because on average, yes, you're right.
00:05:56.540 Um, women are having sex a lot more. 1.00
00:05:59.060 However, when we're talking about promiscuity, men have three times more sexual partners than
00:06:06.240 women. 0.81
00:06:06.980 So when men have, I think it's like 24 and, um, the last, the last right now, I made sure 1.00
00:06:14.960 I, cause I done my research before coming back.
00:06:16.680 I was like, okay, I need to, I need to know.
00:06:19.020 So if, if that's true, again, it goes back to the Pareto principle, right?
00:06:23.120 So let's say the average number is higher for, for men.
00:06:26.520 Typically it's because the top five, 20%, even we'll even say 30% of men, let's give
00:06:31.700 them 30.
00:06:32.220 Like they, they sleep with 50, 60, a hundred, 150 girls, but one out of three are virgins 0.99
00:06:37.300 or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:06:38.820 Historically, historically.
00:06:40.180 Exactly.
00:06:40.640 That's why I agree with what you're saying.
00:06:42.080 But that's why I'm saying like, by and large, women are sleeping with a very small percentage 0.65
00:06:46.220 of men.
00:06:47.140 But those small percentage are ruining it for the other men.
00:06:51.040 So they keep sleeping with so many women, they're ruining it for the ones that aren't getting 0.96
00:06:55.280 married.
00:06:55.420 Okay.
00:06:55.700 Okay.
00:06:55.860 So actually it's that long.
00:06:56.980 Harsh.
00:06:57.320 I, I, you could argue that, but you could also say it's more on the women because we're 1.00
00:07:01.660 in control of sex.
00:07:03.160 Most men, like if you went to a biological level, their biology is to sleep with whoever 1.00
00:07:08.160 they can.
00:07:09.540 Right.
00:07:10.440 By like most men, if you get, if you get, if you get, if you get, if you get, right. 0.64
00:07:14.680 But, but for the men, right.
00:07:16.220 Where we have to be more selective and sacred with who we give it to.
00:07:19.300 Right.
00:07:19.540 Like we, we value sex more like emotionally than men do.
00:07:22.480 They'll just, and like most men, you get butt naked in front of them.
00:07:25.980 And so it's like, you're telling that small percentage of men, like, Oh, don't, don't
00:07:33.460 do that.
00:07:33.900 Okay, fine.
00:07:35.180 But at the end of the day, I think it's more on women because there's more sexually promiscuous 1.00
00:07:39.480 women than there are sexually promiscuous men.
00:07:42.220 And it's men's mating strategy to do that. 1.00
00:07:45.380 That's their biology where it's not in our biology to be promiscuous, but we're the ones
00:07:49.560 doing it.
00:07:50.100 But we have this like feminism empowerment. 1.00
00:07:52.360 You can do whatever you want and still be fine.
00:07:54.320 Where it's like, I feel like as, as women, if, if, if like, you should come back and say,
00:07:59.140 you know what, wait for someone that loves you, you know, wait for, wait for this, wait
00:08:03.260 for that.
00:08:04.380 Um, that's, that's just my opinion on it.
00:08:06.360 I just think it's more on the women because there's more of us doing it than the men.
00:08:10.580 Yeah.
00:08:11.480 Kind of.
00:08:12.440 I mean, I don't promote promiscuity, but I just think that there's just a double standards
00:08:18.500 where like men are just seen as it is what it is.
00:08:23.120 It's just biological.
00:08:24.280 They should like sex more, but women enjoy sex. 1.00
00:08:27.440 They do.
00:08:28.380 Like, it's okay.
00:08:29.660 Would you know what the biggest problem I would say is really, really, really, really,
00:08:33.140 and truly is the fact that all of a sudden from one, for one reason or the other, everybody
00:08:38.960 wants to talk about who they are having sex with and who they take to bed to the point
00:08:42.760 that you disclosing your sexual orientation is something that is even important at the
00:08:48.360 end of the day.
00:08:49.780 Listen, you may know that I'm not a virgin because I'm like, I told you I was in a relationship
00:08:53.280 for five years.
00:08:53.840 You're not?
00:08:54.440 Whatever I do.
00:08:55.700 No, wait.
00:08:56.560 Shut up. 0.95
00:08:57.140 I know.
00:08:57.960 Shocking, right?
00:08:58.860 But whatever.
00:08:59.300 I thought you were saving yourself.
00:09:00.400 My sister, listen, whatever I do or don't do is not for people to know, right?
00:09:05.080 It's not for people to want to discuss.
00:09:06.700 It's not for people, unless I'm going to show you my body, my naked body, I don't need 0.95
00:09:10.400 to talk to you about whatever I do in bed with someone else.
00:09:12.940 And I think that's one of the problems that also people are having, you know, they're going
00:09:16.420 to be like, listen, as a woman, you can have sex. 0.73
00:09:19.280 Fine.
00:09:19.800 What matters mostly, first and foremost, is how you handle yourself, how selective you may
00:09:24.100 be.
00:09:24.200 At the end of the day, they look for purity to a certain extent.
00:09:26.980 But if you're not a virgin, don't worry, my sister, hand yourself well. 0.54
00:09:29.920 Don't be there expecting men to accept women to just be sexually open and move in certain
00:09:35.460 ways that are mad and not get the repercussion.
00:09:38.220 That is why when I dress myself, I am a beautiful woman with a good body.
00:09:42.340 I am.
00:09:42.860 And I know and I don't need anybody else to tell me I've got a mirror.
00:09:45.380 But guess what?
00:09:46.020 When I walk around, I dress in a certain way.
00:09:48.740 Why?
00:09:49.040 Because I want to display myself in a way that brings back the attention that I am looking
00:09:54.360 for.
00:09:54.920 So when men approach me, they don't approach me like I'm a hoe.
00:09:57.600 When men approach me, they approach me with respect.
00:10:00.760 Everything comes down to how you choose to portray yourself.
00:10:03.580 A lot of women want to portray themselves as hoes and be like, yeah, I'm that girl, hot 1.00
00:10:06.900 girl summer.
00:10:07.700 What do you think that's going to do to you?
00:10:09.020 What is that going to do to your other sisters? 1.00
00:10:11.240 Handle yourself with more care.
00:10:12.600 I stand here.
00:10:13.540 Like I said, I want to be a role model to every single woman.
00:10:16.300 Be powerful.
00:10:16.980 Be strong.
00:10:17.580 Be intellectual.
00:10:18.220 Be educated.
00:10:19.140 But don't forget, respect yourself.
00:10:21.060 Don't be saying, I fuck who I want to fuck.
00:10:22.520 No, be selective.
00:10:23.740 That's it.
00:10:24.080 I agree.
00:10:24.600 And secretive.
00:10:25.340 Women definitely need to be held accountable. 1.00
00:10:27.540 Definitely.
00:10:28.080 Because I do think, like Tate said, we are the ones creating the problems for each other.
00:10:33.040 Because if you're opening your legs to any man, now they don't even feel the need to 0.79
00:10:37.260 get married anymore.
00:10:38.140 Because they're like, well, I can just get sex.
00:10:40.400 Like, it's so easy.
00:10:41.640 However, what I'm just trying to say is, don't we can't just put it on the women. 0.99
00:10:46.320 Because these men are the ones sleeping with the- 1.00
00:10:48.720 But I'm saying for 50 years, we have put it on the men.
00:10:52.900 Okay, there's a lot of little things in society you guys probably don't even notice.
00:10:57.080 And I didn't either before I started, like, really listening to what men say.
00:11:00.340 Like, what would you say?
00:11:00.960 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:11:04.480 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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