JustPearlyThings - Women Are SHOCKED At Men ABANDONING Them

00:00:00.000 life has been more fulfilling for me since my mid-30s than it ever was before that so just know

00:00:05.440 that your best years are ahead of you and you are never too old and it's never too late wrong wrong

00:00:11.120 wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong sometimes you are too old and it is too late when are women 1.00

00:00:18.000 expired i would say women expire at 32. in a long-term relationship again and then he shared

00:00:26.400 that she has been with women before and has a threesome fantasy and naturally he thought of me

00:00:34.000 that should be on like the women taking l's page wow wow do you miss me i thought of you when i

00:00:41.600 wanted a threesome with my girlfriend what up guys welcome to the just curly things youtube channel

00:00:47.760 and welcome to my reaction series today i'm going to be reacting to the big lie sold to women in 1.00

00:00:53.840 modern dating older women hitting the wall and big town before i start don't forget to subscribe to 1.00

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00:01:04.320 metric that youtube uses to push out these streams also guys get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt

00:01:10.080 today as you guys know all of these problems and dating really are just caused by giving women all 0.96

00:01:15.840 this choice so make sure you go get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt let's start the video 1.00

00:01:21.600 life has been more fulfilling for me since my mid-30s than it ever was before that so just know

00:01:27.120 that your best years are ahead of you and you are never too old and it's never too late wrong wrong

00:01:33.280 wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong sometimes you are too old and it is too late

00:01:40.800 when are women expired oh that would be a good that is going to be my show question tomorrow yeah king

00:01:46.480 write that down for topic we're gonna and put this video for the show tomorrow when do women expire 1.00

00:01:52.480 what age are we done expire donezo now the average age of first marriage is 30 and 31 so i'm not going

00:01:58.960 to pretend it's 30 it used to be 30 but we're in 2023 i would say women expire at 32 1.00

00:02:08.320 okay i'm just that's my question when are women expired when should you expect that you will be alone 1.00

00:02:14.000 forever when is there an age where you should just give up this is probably the loneliest i've ever

00:02:20.640 felt in my 32 31 and i'm in therapy and i'm 34 the codependency group i'm so done 31 2 32 you have

00:02:33.200 so much leverage and so many options i can't even tell you no you do not not as many as you think you

00:02:39.280 have lots of sex options but guys most men aren't really looking to get married they're not check

00:02:44.880 came he asked me for six dollars definitely think that i will stay alone for ever my god 37

00:02:54.880 jesus christ are we not opening doors anymore are we not doing that never used it 42 38

00:03:01.920 dating app in your life well the good news is you're about to have so much fun yeah so much fun

00:03:10.320 you see right off the bat we can see why so many women are nowadays struggling in dating because they've 0.99

00:03:16.000 been lied to over and over by other women telling them that they are perfect goddesses that every man 1.00

00:03:21.840 is dying to be with however the reality and that's why guys really what i'm doing is charity work yes yes

00:03:28.320 yes because gynocentrism is a thousand years old so chivalry really is the beginning of gynocentrism so

00:03:34.320 gynocentrism messes up the natural order of the world where women are supposed to submit and serve 1.00

00:03:40.800 men that is why you get all these videos of women that say i did so much for him and that is why you

00:03:46.080 get all these women saying the bar is so low that i and then they say all the things they did or all the 0.96

00:03:50.640 things they accepted because women only can truly love a guy if they serve him it does not work the 0.72

00:03:56.960 other way around and the problem is in society we're told that the men are supposed to serve us

00:04:02.720 and that we're so amazing and so special and relationships do not work that way you will

00:04:09.120 never have a girl that truly respects you if you are doing everything for her for her she is supposed

00:04:15.760 to do everything for you that's simply not true and maybe sunday night we'll go and have a really fun

00:04:21.440 night that's something that you want to do and instead he cancelled on me and i'm not gonna lie

00:04:26.800 i'm very hurt like it's just very sad for me and i'm very sad inside you see she's finding out in

00:04:34.960 real time that for women dating is easy when they are young but it gets much and much harder as they

00:04:40.800 get older despite all the nonsense being spread on social media about how their 30s and 40s are their

00:04:46.880 best times ever because the women following this advice are having a seriously terrible time at it 1.00

00:04:52.320 i'm officially done with dating right now i deleted my apps taking a break when i find that it's

00:04:57.760 becoming too much or starts hurting my feelings or starts feeling like a job i delete all my dating apps

00:05:02.880 and poop earrings unnatural hair color i think crazy lady glasses break and that's how you keep your sanity 1.00

00:05:09.280 and he said yeah fake eyelashes or botox but if you stopped and picked up some food i'd eat again

00:05:22.560 is the bar that low that you want me to drive to you and buy you food at the end of the world i don't

00:05:31.600 know if this is like a for an app thing or whatever but i'm like is that the i've honestly brought food

00:05:36.800 like i've just you know sometimes i'll hand food when i have it is bringing someone chipotle that big

00:05:43.040 of a deal this dude basically ordered free uber eats and a side chick to go but nope the bar isn't

00:05:50.160 that low she has simply been confronted with the fact that the balance of power has shifted yeah as

00:05:56.080 women get older and they start finding out the hard way that if you are still dating at that age as a 1.00

00:06:01.520 woman it's going to be way more difficult to keep a guy interested because women always take any form 1.00

00:06:07.120 of rejection as somehow a loss for the guy and never seem to reflect inward on how they might actually

00:06:13.040 be it's his loss sis it's his loss well it depends you know what i mean men who are a thousand cocks 0.95

00:06:21.840 stare fake eyelashes well to be honest men who are unable to communicate so i just looked at them

00:06:30.640 um unable to communicate equals does not communicate with me because he does not last morning

00:06:38.240 and he's deleted his account what is going on in this world crazy lady glasses these are glasses with 1.00

00:06:45.920 the big rim absolutely his loss yeah yeah she doesn't look i don't see any glaring red flat we'll

00:06:53.040 see literally his loss really what exactly did he lose here now this is exactly the type of nonsense

00:06:59.360 i'm talking heavy makeup hoop earrings fake hair the women are constantly bombarding each other with 1.00

00:07:05.600 never telling each other the actual truth oh raptor claws heavy makeup you know guys sometimes there's

00:07:12.080 like obvious signs anyways and keep telling each other that they are simply perfect as is and that

00:07:18.800 no change is needed at all attract whatever you want and whoever you want just by being you do women 0.99

00:07:25.840 actually watch this hoop earrings date your inner goddess your goddess energy goddess energy you know

00:07:34.080 that has um cult roots um it's in rachel's book occult feminism talks about how a lot of feminism has 1.00

00:07:40.960 like demonic roots basically a man that is going to provide for me that's going to treat me like

00:07:45.680 a princess that's going to be loyal okay well again being treated like a princess is gynocentric why

00:07:51.520 are you so amazing and special that you deserve princess treatment what even is princess treatment

00:07:56.560 it's almost treating you like a god a lot of times women are asking to be treated like a god don't 1.00

00:08:02.320 have high standards you just haven't met some crazy lady glasses yet who is willing to put in the time 0.77

00:08:08.320 an effort to meet your standard well what are your standards you know what if my standards are

00:08:12.800 what if my standards are i want a guy to literally kiss the ground i walk are they too high or should

00:08:17.840 i lower this question so i know that i am worth more and that i deserve more and the thing is is like

00:08:25.360 i am incredibly giving and kind and loyal and sweet and funny and i'm emotional but if you're giving why

00:08:34.560 are you talking about what you would get do you know what i mean giving people don't say that i

00:08:39.040 deserve all this they typically just give they're not really counting or keeping score and that's the

00:08:43.920 problem guys i i think that's the number one thing that i would tell men to look out for is spite because

00:08:49.440 women that keep score will keep score until they take your ass to family court you never a girl that 1.00

00:08:55.360 says i just give i just give so much red flag flag intelligent step into your goddess energy right

00:09:02.480 please drop a like on the video if you think that tick tock is just running away their brains with

00:09:06.560 absolutely terrible dating advice selling more lies to women and comment down below what you think

00:09:11.920 now this goddess mentality was working out great when they were in their early 20s having every single 0.99

00:09:17.200 guy drop to their knees to please them however as they get older and their list of demands gets longer

00:09:23.280 the guys that meet all of those requirements are not only having many more options to choose from

00:09:27.680 but they are starting to ask themselves what do these older women now offer other than a smile crazy

00:09:32.960 lady glasses hoop earrings and a long list of demands tonight was the first official date with i'm gonna

00:09:39.760 call him superman while that didn't age well i think i've been ghosted um date crazy lady glass i'll

00:09:48.480 tell you step one to not get ghosted take off those glasses ria wouldn't sleep with him i actually asked 1.00

00:09:54.640 him if he was emotionally available to which he replied no i don't think i am

00:10:02.080 and guys emotionally available what does that even mean what what what type of guy are you looking

00:10:07.280 for you want a guy that's just talking about his feelings all the time you know we hate that

00:10:11.920 yes we want emotionally unavailable men and well it's sort of downward spiral from there yep she thought

00:10:19.360 that she had found superman and to be fair she probably did i'm sure he was great on paper and

00:10:25.360 checked all the boxes which is why she decided to go out with him in the first place however he

00:10:31.200 selected her as just one of many options and that's why he bounced when he saw that hmm she wanted

00:10:36.400 something serious and he just wanted to have fun this is something that many other women are finding 0.89

00:10:41.360 out as they get older because i assumed that we were exclusive but i asked him if he was talking to

00:10:46.400 anyone else or seeing anyone else and he said well am i going on dates no but i'm talking to other

00:10:51.120 women and i was like shocked absolutely shocked and probably really broken hearted because i probably

00:10:59.120 could have like things could have gone great now this one is actually hilarious because she couldn't 0.99

00:11:04.400 possibly fathom the idea that the guy would be talking to other women now in reality guys are usually

00:11:10.160 doing a little bit more than talking but she really bought into the goddess mentality that 1.00

00:11:14.480 she would be the center of his universe and that dating as a woman in your 30s and 40s would be so

00:11:20.080 much fun so at what age should you consider yourself to be a permanent side chick these are

00:11:25.840 the questions i want to ask tomorrow what age are you aged out are you done much fun yep so much fun

00:11:33.120 now don't get me wrong here as women get older they can still easily get many dates that's not really 0.99

00:11:37.920 the problem what is the problem is that these guys that they actually want to date are going to put

00:11:42.960 in less and less effort and are more likely to only be interested in a casual hookup um in the text

00:11:50.080 uh he told me that he was still with his current gf um despite the fact that when he'd broken up with

00:11:55.920 me he told me he never hoop earrings to be in a long-term relationship again and then he shared that

00:12:00.880 that she has been with women before and has a threesome fantasy and naturally he thought of me

00:12:08.400 that should be on like the women taking l's page wow wow do you miss me i thought of you when i wanted

00:12:16.320 the threesome with my girlfriend wanted to know if i was single and possibly interested see this guy had

00:12:22.960 no problem sleeping with her but he straight up told her i don't want a girlfriend after which

00:12:28.080 she goes off and finds an actual girlfriend who i'm assuming is younger than she is and the fact

00:12:33.520 that he even texted her about a threesome after he broke up with her clearly shows that he did not

00:12:39.120 take her seriously at all and this is a sad reality for most women who are dating as they get older or 0.58

00:12:45.280 are dating after a divorce however the lies and terrible advice don't just stop there because in

00:12:50.880 addition to creating this false fantasy land of dating in your 40s women are also telling other 0.99

00:12:56.160 women to definitely don't do things that men actually appreciate or look for in a woman or 1.00

00:13:01.760 you'll become a pick me girl which is simply breaking them yeah that's like the number one thing i get 0.85

00:13:07.120 pearls a pick me pearls a pick me oh my god pearl pearls pick me pearl i hate these people even more 0.51

00:13:14.480 i am not dating because i just found out thanks to tiktok that i am pick me girl

00:13:21.600 oh that is the worst that is the worst thing they call it pick me girl recovery and basically it's all

00:13:28.160 these whores convincing the other like the normal chicks the chicks that don't want to do crazy stuff to 1.00

00:13:33.600 be whores all this time i thought that i was so loving and so giving and such a great partner and i am if you're 0.67

00:13:42.400 looking for somebody who completely denies their own needs and wants and is like a stepford wife 1.00

00:13:49.680 yeah definitely don't be nice and loyal to your boyfriend or husband right i mean that would be

00:13:54.240 an insane request so this is the vicious circle i'm talking about of broken single women giving 1.00

00:13:59.840 terrible advice to others who then become broken as well and will join them that's sad because it's

00:14:05.280 very confusing and this is what i say you know you could shoot the messenger but at least in being honest

00:14:10.880 and the thing is men aren't honest because they want to get laid and women older women are not

00:14:16.080 honest because they're not married and they're competing with younger women and so it doesn't

00:14:20.320 serve them well to give us good advice giving more terrible advice to more women and sell more lies 0.99

00:14:25.840 about the joys of dating as they get older dating is actually super fun after divorce does she look 0.95

00:14:31.680 happy hoop earrings i texted him saying that i was done i didn't hear from him i texted him again

00:14:37.520 saying hey are we gonna hang out and nothing and it was i would say painful but that wasn't the right

00:14:43.360 word i was living in a sea of pain super super fun i had no more heart to break right so much fun

00:14:54.480 remember the uber eats girl who got ordered like takeout being depressed about how low the bar was set

00:14:59.680 well this is what she actually gives out as advice to other women so number one i think it's really

00:15:11.040 important to have an older gentleman on your roster okay listen to what she actually is telling you to

00:15:17.040 get a roster what on earth have an older man on your roster this is the same woman who sat in her car

00:15:23.920 crying that guys do not put in enough effort anymore wow geez i wonder why have an older gentleman on

00:15:33.280 your roster roster clearly that dude was correct in putting in minimal effort since she was trying to 0.88

00:15:39.520 date multiple men at the same time anyways it's this type of delusion and having your cake and eating it

00:15:45.200 too mentality that propels the lies that women sell to each other after which they are confronted with the 1.00

00:15:50.960 reality and run into a big fat wall but wait it gets much worse remember the dating after divorce

00:15:57.680 super coach who was promising all of that leverage that you will have as a newly divorced single woman 0.98

00:16:03.280 when it comes to dating after divorce i just want to tell you you have so much leverage and so many

00:16:10.080 options i can't even tell you well let's take a look how that actually plays out in reality welcome to

00:16:15.600 another edition of disaster dates by the divorcee got most gorgeous men i'd ever laced my eyes on

00:16:20.720 came up and talked to me and we had this whirlwind romance that was across the country until the point

00:16:27.600 where he said that he never meant anything that he said to me and everything was a complete lie and he

00:16:33.920 says that to all the girls so what happened to all of that leverage well i know it never existed now

00:16:40.000 some women see these clips and think what a mean guy for doing that to her but these are the same 0.99

00:16:45.200 woman who complained that men ghost them and this dude was way more honest than he needed to be

00:16:50.080 he could have simply just faded away and ghosted her or said hey it's not working out bye but no

00:16:55.920 he simply showed her the reality of dating as an older single woman which brings us to that very

00:17:01.040 important and oh so controversial no no word or better yet concept which is simply that men prefer

00:17:06.880 younger women while women prefer older men this is why women have it so easy when they are young 1.00

00:17:12.400 and can literally pick any guy they want however if they spend that time playing games thinking

00:17:16.960 that the party will last well into their 30s and 40s they will eventually get to a point where the

00:17:21.680 balance of power shifts and men of their own age that they want to date are now dating younger women

00:17:27.920 and they will only date older women for some short-term bedroom fun and the pattern is is when he

00:17:34.400 doesn't need me anymore and he has somebody else that he can cling on to that can provide him some

00:17:41.840 sort of like validation sex through love then he says terrible things to me he's honest to go away

00:17:50.800 and i'm just really disappointed in myself because i knew better you know but i'm also great now i will

00:17:57.680 make every man pay for it that i speak to in the future and put up all these walls and do 90 day

00:18:02.560 rules and just make their lives miserable the experience because now i really know better

00:18:07.840 she still doesn't know better you see it would work again just another one of those nonsense lies

00:18:13.520 but they are somehow always grateful for getting into a disastrous situation after which they start

00:18:19.120 living their quote-unquote best lives like i'm so glad i got hit by the car in the face because now

00:18:25.360 i know better no what would actually be better is for someone to tell you the truth about dating as you

00:18:30.560 get older as a woman which is that it will become much much more difficult than you are used to and

00:18:36.480 that if you don't stay in shape eat healthy and offer kindness and loyalty as actual valuable trades

00:18:42.560 instead of a long list of demands like some sort of dating terrorist then no guy is ever going to be

00:18:47.920 interested in you long term and you will only get played like a little girl yeah i think he's right 0.50

00:18:53.840 and a lot of people hate on these manosphere channels but in all honesty they tell you the truth

00:18:58.880 and most women are never told the truth in their life we have been lied to by the media

00:19:03.200 by older women by our mothers and even sometimes our grandmothers but let me know what you guys think

00:19:08.880 in the comments leave a comment um and the top comment we will read in our next reaction video

00:19:14.800 so like the video like your favorite comment in the comments and we'll talk to you next time

JustPearlyThings - November 04, 2023

Women Are SHOCKED At Men ABANDONING Them

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