Women Are THE DOWNFALL Of Marriages On Piers Morgan @MrNimaYamini ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 49
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Nima Yamini is the author of "How to Not Be a Bitch," a new book about how to not be a bitch. She was also on a recent episode of "Pierce Morgan" where half of the panel walked off.
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What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to another episode of
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Pearl Daily where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Today I have a special
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guest on the show. You were actually on one of our craziest episodes where I think half the panel
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walked off. Welcome to the show Nemo. Why don't you introduce yourself to the people?
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Thank you so much Pearl. It's great to be here. I feel like I'm coming back home.
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You know, that was a crazy night. My name is Nima Yamini. I'm the author of a new book called
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How to Not Be a Bitch, published by DNG. And yeah, just thrilled to be here. Again,
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thank you for having me. Yeah, thank you for coming. Now, you know, I have to, this is my,
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this is going to be my standard question to the men that come on the show. You know,
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I have a women shouldn't vote t-shirt. Would you wear a women shouldn't vote t-shirt in public?
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Yeah. That's all right. Answer honestly. Yeah, that women shouldn't vote.
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Answer honestly. Be honest. It's all right if it's a no. I mean, if I was a bachelor,
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it would be hard for me because, you know, all the women were, you know, not voting. They'd be
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angrier and I'd be much harder to get a blow job. Well, guys, if you want to wear the women
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should vote t-shirt, you know, get yourself a women should vote t-shirt. Really. I can't think
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of a, can you think of a faster way for women to come up to you? Get yourself a women should
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vote t-shirt. The link is in the description. So, all right guys, last night I went on another
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episode of Pierce Morgan. Now, a lot of you thought, a lot of you, I saw your comments. Pearl will never
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get invited back. Pearl is never going to go back on Pierce Morgan after they ambushed me.
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But I'm back and I'm better, baby. So, I went on Pierce Morgan last night and, um, they had me on
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with a traditional housewife and a feminist. You know, can you, can you imagine how that went?
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Yeah. Yeah. I can already tell how that, that's going. You know, so what do you, do you think that
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traditional housewives are praised by feminists typically? You know, I think, I think that
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there's this like backwardness, uh, where like my wife, for example, is, is actually a liberal. She's
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college graduate. We live in Germany and she likes being a housewife. She takes pride in it. I think,
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I think it's empowering for a woman to be at home. And many women are happy being at home. It doesn't
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mean she's not a feminist. I think you're a great example of a feminist. Oh yeah. Of
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a real feminist. You know what I mean? Like a real feminist, not a toxic feminist. Yeah. You
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know what I mean? Like, like a real, like a strong woman, a good woman. But I think a
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lot of these women, they're out of their mind. Do you think, I, I find though that typical,
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like the liberal chicks, um, I don't think they really celebrate women that stay home with
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the kids. Yeah. I mean, it's, it's a disorder, man. Like, I don't know. Like who would they
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want raising their kids? The government? The schools? Like, I mean, that's what they're
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doing now, you know? Yeah. But you do see an uptick in, um, people that are homeschooling
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their kids, which I do think is encouraging. Right. But, um, so let's, let's go to Pierce
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Morgan and see what they said. How, I don't know. How has the feminist movement of the
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last few decades, how has it gone for you? And when you look at it and see how women
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have progressed, do you think it's been largely a force for good? Or do you think as the trad
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wives did it, perhaps we've lost that sense of gender rules for want of a better phrase,
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which actually worked very well for many people. Well, I mean, I mean, we've seen families
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disappear. You know, um, I saw a study the other day that said only 25% of, I mean, this
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is an American staff and American households have families. So, um, I guess there's positives
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and there's negatives, but it's like at what cost, you know, 80, like 85, um, 150 years ago,
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the average woman had seven kids, 85% of people were married. I mean, you know, there's also much
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higher infant mortality and women die very young. And, you know, I mean, women were more depressed
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than ever before. We're on antidepressants. Um, women over the age of 45 are the least
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happy demographic. There are a lot of very complex reasons for that. And the issue you
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have is women like Emily Ratajkowski, you know, marriage, again, I've said this before,
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marriage isn't marriage anymore. The average marriage is seven years. We have things like
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no fault divorce, leave if you're unhappy. So what does that mean marriage isn't marriage
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anymore? Because there were so many marriages over the course of history where people have been
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very unhappy, either the man or the woman has been very unhappy. And they've been forced basically
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to stay in a marriage. It could have been an abusive marriage. It could have been a mostly
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abusive marriage. And that would, you know, we have one life. Why would you spend it with
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someone who doesn't make you happy? Marriage was about duty. And this is the problem we have
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with women. Like women, men tend to be better people than us. Yeah, they really do. They tend
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to, no, no, no, no. They tend to do the right thing. They are a much maligned species. I agree.
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There's a reason we have phrases like a man of his word, right? A woman of her word.
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Men will actually stick things out. Women, when she gets hard, we just leave. And you're
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proving my point. What was your first answer? My happiness, right? Of course. Everyone
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deserves to be happy. Everyone deserves to be loved. The family doesn't work when it's about
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you. It's supposed to be about your kids. And that's the problem. It's supposed to be about
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everyone. There's a balance and a compromise in relationships. Am I allowed to talk now?
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Look, I think relationships are about balance. They're about compromise. They're about knowing,
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understanding yourself, learning to, you know, know and understand another person. Eventually,
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potentially, if you want to, bringing children into the world and teaching them how to do that
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as well. Teaching them to balance a sense of their own identity with the love that they
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have for another person. And, you know, for example, I know an older woman, actually, a friend
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of our family who got divorced at about 60. She had, you know, this lovely family. They
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were together since they were 18. And she said, I got to a point after I'd stopped being
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a mother and, you know, I was just kind of getting on, I realized I'd lost my sense of
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who I was. And I didn't really feel like I knew who I was anymore because I'd always just
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been a wife and a mother. And I wanted to go out and explore that. And I think that's
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fantastic. Good for her. What is traditionalism? I don't know what you think traditionalism is.
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I would say a modern mentality is me before the family. I would say traditional, traditionalism
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is the family before me, especially in women. And so, and so, and so what I actually, it's
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interesting. You said 60 year olds, cause you know, I've interviewed 600, 700 people roughly
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in the past year and a half. I've done hundreds of shows interviewing people about relationships.
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And what I find is the 60 year olds tend to, a lot of those women led their daughters astray.
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You know, there, there's a reason we're in this mess, right? A lot of those women had
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the wrong mentality when it came to marriage and had exactly the mentality that you're
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talking about. Which is the one to prioritize balancing one's own sense of identity with
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compromise in a relationship with someone else. No, no, it's myself before the marriage.
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But that's again, you know, I think there's an interesting point here actually.
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And it's really unfortunate because I would say the women of our generation really are, are suffering
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because of the advice of the women of the past. There's an interesting point here,
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right? Which is that we do live in a very individualistic society and we're all told, actually,
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I think a lot of the time in our relationships as well, you have to be a certain way. If
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you want to receive love, you have to abide by these, these laws, you have to be a certain
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level of attractiveness, you have to earn a certain amount of money. It's all about you.
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I think you made some good points. Yeah, I think you made some good points.
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What did you, what, what, what happened after that? Like what, obviously you two that aren't having,
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uh, aren't best friends, right? Well, I mean, everyone argues and just goes home.
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Especially when you like do this a lot, like you just kind of, you know, even, even the first girl
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I went on with Pierce Morgan, like I say hi to her every time I see her, you know?
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But you know, it's interesting because I listened carefully to like the words that they say
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and how she was saying love. Um, I needed to know who I was. And like, she was talking about
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the 60 year old woman who divorced her husband because she felt like her, she lost her sense of
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self. Yeah. And I just thought to myself, you know, aren't you, isn't your identity supposed to be in
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your family? Yeah. And I don't know what, what I find is those women, um, just kind of listen to
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feminists for too long and these like this me, me, me culture. And so, you know, they hit 60 and
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they think the grass is greener on the other side. I don't know what the hell you think is on the other
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side of a divorce. That's 60. Yeah. Yeah. Pretty lonely, man. Getting old and lonely is scary.
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Yeah. And then she, she talked about, um, receiving love and she's like, you shouldn't have to be a
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certain way to receive love. And I thought this was interesting because men know that they have to be
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somebody in order to get into a relationship, right? You can't, you can't just be a loser and
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receive love. Like I, in my opinion, the only people that deserve love are children.
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And then after that, it's really the type of person you are in the character you have.
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Yeah. What do you, what do you think about a woman getting divorced at 60 because she needs to
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figure out who she is? Does she still have kids at home?
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No, I think they're gone. It's sad because, you know, being alone when you get old, if you get
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sick and no one's there, that's horrifying to get sick alone already. Yeah. But imagine being sick and
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not having someone there with you at the hospital and then coming home empty. That's really scary.
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Yeah. Yeah. I, I, I don't think that's, that's hard. Yeah. Yeah. That's what, and that's what...
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Aging, aging ain't for the weak hearted man. Aging, aging is undefeated, you know? And as you get older
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and older and, and, uh, you see other friends that are in their sixties and they have kids, grandkids,
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kids that love them. You know, you can go out to Instagram pictures all day you want, right? But
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at the, when you come home, you know, you're alone. That's, that's really horrifying.
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Well, and the average person lives to be, I think, 77. But you could live to be 90,
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you know? So what does a woman's life look like? Because women tend to live longer than men. So
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what does a woman's life look like? She gets divorced at 60. What if she lives to be 90?
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40 years? In your elderly years as a chick? Yeah.
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Oh, good God. What do you think's on the other side of that? And it's funny. Um, I have an aunt
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that got married pretty like later in life. Um, and I'm, I'm talking like, I think she was in her
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sixties and she married a guy that was like 10 years older than her. This is an exception. It's not
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the rule, but even he was talking about how at like the nursing homes or whatever, that he had like
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four women did she pick from and he picked her. Oh man.
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Do you know what I mean? So these women, cause a lot of them, it was funny. My, um,
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my, my grandma, they, she passed away, but before she died, my grandpa died like 15 years before her.
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And when I was in high school, I went to, she took me to something with all her like friends.
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Right. And it was so funny because listening to them talking about dating, it sounded like
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teenagers. You know what I mean? Where I was like, why are they like, I'm like, but it was kind of the
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same stuff where it's like, there's only a couple of guys that go around. They date a guy for like,
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one of them was talking about a guy she was dating. She's like, yeah, he died.
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Yeah. So it's like, what, what do you think's on the other side of this?
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Yeah. It's a good point. Yeah. You know, you know, when you're in your twenties and thirties,
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it's like every year invincible. You think it's like life goes on forever. But in reality,
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you know, you do get older. Yeah. Like age is undefeated.
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It's really, um, interesting. I like to look at like case studies of people like that were kind
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of in the spotlight and the media. And it's interesting to see like some of the younger
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celebrity women kind of age out like Madonna, Britney Spears. Well, when you see like the level
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of attention they got and they kind of went crazy when they went older, it's like the women of my
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generation. Oh my, like with Instagram, it's going to be interesting to see like where we are in 20
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years. Yeah. Speaking of aging, right. All right. So this was my tweet. No, 35 year old. And I want
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to explain it to you before, because people, people tend to get triggered before they kind of see my
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mindset. So I had a tweet. I said, no, 35 year old women aren't that hot. None will compete with the
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average in shape, 21 year old. Don't shoot the messenger. Now, the reason I had this thought
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was because I would see top 35 year old women that were just really, really attractive, right? The
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models, the whatever. And I would think to myself on an average college campus, you could probably find
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like 10 chicks that are equally as good looking as them, if not more. Now it's not to say that there's
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no women that are attractive at 35 or pretty, but we live in this delusion where we tell women
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they're going to be hot forever. And at 35, most women would aim to have a family and kids and really
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have more of an identity in their character over their looks. But every time I make a broad,
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generalized statement where I know there's exceptions, but we were talking about the rule,
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right? Everyone gets mad and the wives just start arguing with me about their hotness.
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And so Ashley Sinclair says, Pearl has started adding the qualifier in shape now because it's
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not that 22 year old is hotter than 32. It's just by 33, many women get fat and let themselves go.
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At 22, it's less likely. That was my argument months ago. Seems I convinced her. Now I'd like to say to
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this Ashley chick, no, you did not convince me. I would say that if you have a 22 year old chick
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that is not fat in general, they're hotter than a 32 year old chick. And that same chick is in general
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going to be hotter at 22 than 32. And I think you see this in the modeling industry where women age
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out pretty quickly. You said you worked with models in New York. Yeah, I worked with fashion models in
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New York city for about 10 years. Okay. And I would bring them out to the nightclub and I would charge a fee.
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And I remember that a lot of the models, they come in at 17, 18, full of life, full of energy,
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full of optimism. Then maybe about three, four years later, if they're still even in New York,
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they're beaten down, they're destroyed, you know, ages undefeated again. And you're constantly
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competing with women that are 17, 18, 19. And back then, you know, fashion models was much more
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prestigious than, you know, the weird stuff you see in 2020. It was, yeah, like the New York Fashion
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Week, Paris Fashion Week. It wasn't that, it was even back then it was sort of like odd,
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but now it's just become next tier of odd. Back then it was actually prestigious to work with fashion
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models. But the idea that women, they fall off because you're constantly competing with, you
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know, young women. And my thought is when I said that hot, that to me, when you say you're that hot,
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by 35, you should be beautiful because your character, in my opinion, your character should
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be developed to the point where you're beautiful. You're not hot anymore. You're a wife, you're a
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mother. But it's like, how hot do you want to be as a mom? Don't you want to be beautiful? And so
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when I said that hot, I'm like, isn't that like top 10% of beauty? And look at Margot Robbie, right?
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She was a smoke show. God, and Wolf of Wall Street, all the men loved her. Now, you know,
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and it's interesting, you see this happen to the women when they're younger, they're in the,
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they're in the movies that market to men. So Wolf of Wall Street, Megan Fox, Transformers,
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they get older, they start being cast in women and movies that are for women. Wow.
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You notice that? So like Margot Robbie, Barbie, that's like women watch that. Wow.
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And I think it's because women don't like to see women that hot on TV. Wow.
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But men do. So like in the man movies, you'll see like the hottest, I mean,
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all the hottest chicks are in the, in the man movies, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Okay. So I responded to this chick because I said, no, by 33, you're less hot than 23.
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The only exception is if you were obese, you know, because I was like, all right,
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the 23 year old was fat. That's not really the same territory, but you get less hot as you get
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older. By 35, most chicks have wrinkles, sag a bit and have under other indicators of aging.
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Do not shoot the messenger. Is this untrue? I think you nailed it. I think she hates you
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because you nailed it. It's like, it's okay. It's, I didn't say you're a bad person. So I, I have this,
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um, thing where I talk about simping. Yeah. And I think that simps are equally as bad as the modern
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women because they allow us to live in delusion. And a lot of times what I, what I noticed is when
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men process information, their first reaction in general is if it's true. Yeah. Unless they're
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simping. Yeah. Then cause women process information like individually. So they'll say like, how does this
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apply to me? Like if I say, nope, a 22 year old is hotter than a 32 year old, you know, they'll say,
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well, but I, they're like their reaction as well, but I was, but I'm hotter now than I was at 22.
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Do you know, which it's usually a coat, but you know what I'm saying? Yeah.
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So where men will, will think more in general. Yeah.
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Except for the simps. So now Dr. Interracial says, my wife is 63 and hotter than Pearl.
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And it's funny because I was never talking about his wife. I was never talking about my looks yet.
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They feel the need to insult me or, you know, by tweeting me pictures of his wife. Like, well,
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this is weird. This is weird behavior. Yeah. The idea that you're going to use your wife,
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an image of your wife and then attack someone's daughter. That's just a poor way, poor taste of
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showing his point. Like I understand he's simping for his wife, but he's also
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degrading another man's daughter. So I don't really look at him as a guy of high moral authority.
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Like he could have proved his point without, because at the end of the day, you're actually
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another man's daughter. I have a daughter as a man. You'll never know what that feels like,
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So the fact that he degraded you to make an example is disgusting. Who does he think he is? I mean,
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he's not, he's no moral authority. This is probably votes for Kamala. You know what I'm saying?
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Actually, I think he's a conservative, but yeah, I don't understand.
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Probably a closet liberal. I don't know. But that's the thing. It's like, you know,
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it's like the guys like this that co-sign us and make us think we're like hot for a lifetime.
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And it's just not true. Again, when you get older, you should, you should be beautiful.
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Your goal shouldn't be to be like a sex object. It should be to be beautiful for your family and
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your husband, you know, because there's something about like, even if it's like an older woman that
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is just like really happy with her family and her children. And you know, you know what I mean?
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Yeah. Where like, I don't know who comes to your head, but there's like a couple of women that come
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to mind where, okay, they're a bit older, but it's like seeing them interact with their husband and
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their family. They're just beautiful. They're not sexy. They're not hot. They're, they're grandma,
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their mom, but they're, it's beautiful because they're not trying to be a sex object anymore.
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Yeah. Yeah. And like, and hot to me, when you say hot, that, that implies more of like a sex
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object. Beautiful is like something that's more intangible, you know? Yeah. Now facts simply aren't
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facts, bro. So again, these women, they start tweeting at me their selfies.
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I think, I think, I think it's just looking at the tweet is crazy. I mean, it's, it's, yeah.
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So that was her, I guess, younger on the left and then on the right. And so I just, you know, there,
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there's her. She looks like a nice girl. Yeah. That's her daughter. No, I mean, that's like,
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that's her at 32, I guess. And that was her at 22. So 22 years later. So, and then,
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but like, what's the point of like doing this body comparison? Like, does that take away from your
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main point that you made? Like you still made a good, valid point. Like what, what does this become
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like a competition of focusing on each other's looks? It's distracting from the main topic.
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Well, so yeah. And I responded and I'm like, all you did is get more naked.
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I'm like, you just like took off your cloth. Yeah. But I've just noticed whenever I tweet
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anything about younger being hotter, it's like women were so used to be like, I think,
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look at marketing. Like you just notice all the movies are casting older women.
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All the models are getting older. It's just like pandering.
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It's not what men, any, if you want to look at like what men like, look at the male movies
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and look at who's cast. Like wasn't Avengers. It was Scarlett Johansson. Yeah. Yeah.
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I mean, I've, I've, I've seen, I've seen, I've been, you know, I've been like,
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right with Scarlett Johansson in a New York city deli in Tribeca. We live in the same neighborhood
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and she's actually like a very petite, small girl. Yeah. And like very small,
00:21:25.860
petite and very quiet. So when I see her in the superhero movies, I'm sort of like,
00:21:30.580
it's so far from what the reality is actually like. Yeah. It's beyond, beyond far from what
00:21:35.220
reality is like. So I want to give you like my take on marriage in 2023. Okay. I want to give
00:21:40.980
you my take. So, and then you give me your take too. I think marriage, traditional marriage is
00:21:45.700
beautiful. I love seeing couples that like make that work. I think it is amazing. But what I,
00:21:52.180
what I don't want is men not making an informed decision. So I think that men should be aware of the
00:21:58.900
risks that come with it. So that's kind of my opinion. And I think that some men, and this is
00:22:06.020
regardless of what I say, or I don't say you're with the laws being how they are, you're going to
00:22:11.140
keep seeing men walk away from there until the laws change. It's going to be a bigger and bigger number
00:22:16.340
every year, regardless of what Pearl said, because again, men are kind of logical, right? So they kind
00:22:22.180
of weigh the risks of marriage and the reward. And you know, sometimes they'll meet a girl where the reward
00:22:27.540
is worth it. Right. And they'll say, you know what? I know this system's against me. Some guys go to
00:22:31.860
different countries to figure this out. Like, it just depends on the guy. But until we start lowering
00:22:37.220
the risks, the women of 2023 are definitely worse than the women 20 years ago. Those women are worse
00:22:42.900
than we were just seeing a trend across the board. I don't say this in a happy way. I'm not happy about
00:22:47.700
it, but it's becoming more and more difficult for men to be traditional because many men are punished for
00:22:53.460
being traditional. Yeah. And what I see a lot of times is the men that say, you know what,
00:22:59.940
this is too much. I don't want to do it. They're shamed by the traditional conservatives for making
00:23:05.860
that choice. And I think for men sometimes, and I think it depends on the guy, right? So, you know,
00:23:14.900
I think a YouTuber is going to have a very different experience than say a factory worker. Yeah. And,
00:23:20.740
you know, we need factory workers for this country to run. We need truckers. We need plumbers.
00:23:25.460
And I think they just sometimes have a hard time. And a lot of times those are the guys we see like
00:23:30.100
walk away. Does that make sense? Yeah. Yeah. Because, you know, again,
00:23:33.220
with the Instagram economy, it's really hard to have the average woman stay unless you're exceptional
00:23:38.020
as a man. Yeah. Unfortunately, I don't say this in like a happy way. So Cernovich says,
00:23:43.700
90% of men speaking out against marriage aren't sought after. The truth is that a desired
00:23:49.220
man who isn't a sociopath will date widely enough until he meets someone who has his number and
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that's it. The playboy or whatever is a goober myth from a beer commercial. So I wanted to talk
00:24:03.060
about the first part. In my experience, and this is just from like interviewing guys getting screwed
00:24:08.580
in divorce. I think a lot of the guys that speak out against marriage actually had success in dating
00:24:14.820
and got married and then just got screwed over. Yeah. Yeah. I think I, I'm a big fan of Mike. I
00:24:21.940
think he's a great guy. He's a great family guy. I agree with him in regards to 90% of men who speak
00:24:29.060
out again, 90% of men speaking out against marriage aren't sought after. Okay. I mean,
00:24:36.020
if I couldn't get any bitches and I had six inches taken off my dick,
00:24:51.780
No, no, no. That's it. It's just, it's just, I think that, I think that there are a lot of attractive
00:24:56.740
men that are actually able, I don't want to use the word dominate to disrespect all the, the, the
00:25:05.700
loving and respectful wives out there, but they are the dominant force in the family as the clear,
00:25:12.100
undisputed leader. Like to the point where you can have a woman say, yeah, you are the man and you
00:25:18.820
are the leader. Now that doesn't mean she's the donkey or the cow in the relationship. You still love
00:25:23.300
your wife. You treat her good. But I do think that there are a group of men who are good ladies men.
00:25:29.060
Yeah. These are the sort of men that are ladies men. These are the sort of men that are good with
00:25:33.380
women and they get a wife that is actually, and I don't want to use the word subservient, but
00:25:40.660
they are very respectful and they admire their husband. Are there a lot of guys that are simps and
00:25:47.300
get walked over? We both know the answer to that. Well, I think, I think you're just,
00:25:51.460
if the answer is these men are, that are complaining are, are they're just subservient
00:25:56.420
men? Like, do you think 60% of men aren't good enough for marriage? Cause 60% of men aren't
00:26:01.700
looking for marriage and relationships. Put it like this, bro. So, so like in my head,
00:26:05.860
it's like the average man used to be able to get an average woman. You know, he didn't have to be this
00:26:10.820
like six foot tall. He didn't have to be, have this amazing job in order to attract a woman. It was like
00:26:17.460
an average guy could get 120 pound virgin and Mike and Mike's defense. Yeah. Let's just say,
00:26:23.940
for example, Mike here, Mike is like six foot four athletic build, successful, highly intelligent.
00:26:30.420
His wife, I can, I've never met his wife, but I, from what I see, his wife respects him.
00:26:35.780
So he might have not the same, but that doesn't mean every guy can do what he did.
00:26:40.100
Well, that's, that's my point is a lot of times the guys that come at this
00:26:44.100
are kind of like, you know, rich men tend to stay married longer, right? They, they tend to,
00:26:49.060
they're the divorce rates like 25% among like rich men. I didn't know that. Yeah. So I think
00:26:54.820
they live in a different reality than the average men in this country. So I'll give you an example.
00:26:59.700
One of the top, um, in America, anyone, one of the top places people are employed is truckers.
00:27:05.460
Okay. So, and the average man makes $45,000 a year. I don't think those men are losers. I think,
00:27:11.780
I think a lot of times they speak down on the men that allow us to do what we do,
00:27:16.100
right? Like doing this, someone in a factory had to make this microphone. You know what I mean?
00:27:20.580
Like we need factory workers, we need truckers, we need plumbers. And I think that average women
00:27:26.580
don't respect average men anymore. And I think it is very risky because what I've seen, like just
00:27:32.180
doing the divorce documentary is the men that get screwed over the most, aren't the rich men.
00:27:36.500
The rich men might pay the most, but they can kind of recover and make,
00:27:39.780
make their money back later. Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
00:27:42.020
It's the average men are the ones like that I've seen, like commit suicide and divorce,
00:27:46.820
or, um, like I would say on the brink of suicide are ones that get false accusations
00:27:51.940
or, um, worked the same job for 20 years. And then their wife took half, like, imagine like
00:27:57.140
the average divorce is 46 years old. So again, like my, my, um, my one point is that a lot of the men
00:28:03.780
that talk about this, they're not over the average age of first divorce. And a third of them will,
00:28:09.140
half of them will divorce. If they're Christian, it's like a quarter, right? And a lot of the men
00:28:13.620
that commit suicide in this country over this stuff are the men that worked 20 years. Then their wife
00:28:19.300
takes half their shit, alienates them from their children. And they haven't seen them in many,
00:28:24.980
many, many, like sometimes it's like two, three years. And these are the Uber drivers, the truck
00:28:30.020
drivers, the plumbers, the factory, like these are average men. Um, and so I think a lot of times,
00:28:35.540
like the tall, good looking, successful men will kind of shit on them, but most of them can't do what
00:28:39.860
they do without them. Yeah. I mean, speak to your point about plumbers in particular plumbers,
00:28:46.020
some construction workers. Yeah. If you think about firefighters,
00:28:49.460
these are occupations also because of their exposure to that environment, they may be getting
00:28:56.420
cancer at a higher rate than a general population. Wow. I didn't even think about that. Yeah. So not
00:29:01.780
only is that plumber may be more exposed to an environment and toxins that give them a higher
00:29:06.820
rate of probability of getting cancer. Same with the firefighter. You should see how many of them get
00:29:11.060
cancer or, or, or, or, or, or, or some of our veterans. Right. Right. So, so not only are they not
00:29:16.580
making a high income, they're more exposed to these chronic conditions. I think they for sure
00:29:22.660
deserve much more respect at the very least top class healthcare. But that's, that's my point is
00:29:26.980
I just think like a lot of times they'll, they'll kind of say that they're cry babies or whatever,
00:29:31.620
but it's like, no, I don't, I don't think it's these men that can't get women. This is just my
00:29:36.020
experience. Maybe you think differently, but I don't see them as these men that can't get women.
00:29:40.660
I see them as average men who thought they signed up for the wife and kids
00:29:45.300
and were absolutely devastated when they had no idea what family court is like.
00:29:52.180
Yeah. And, and I think until you've really spent like a week in family court to see,
00:29:56.420
you know, these were not loser men. These were not men that couldn't get, it's just,
00:30:01.060
it's the average men that built this country that are getting absolutely destroyed by these women.
00:30:07.860
And it's not a fringe cases. It's not exceptions. Like this is common. And I do this on shows all the
00:30:14.180
time. I'll say, do you know a guy that's been falsely accused? Raise your hand. The whole room
00:30:18.660
raises their hands. You know, like, like this is a huge risk for men. And I don't say don't do it.
00:30:25.060
I think, you know, sometimes you find a woman that you think is worth the risk. And I think that's
00:30:29.380
beautiful. But what I don't think is good is to encourage young men to be naive.
00:30:37.700
I don't even think it's that high. What do you think?
00:30:41.140
I mean, okay. Do you think 60% of men are losers? 45% of men are 45% of men run the infrastructure
00:30:49.060
of this country. So that means one out of every two men does a job that helps you live the way you
00:30:54.420
live. So they do the factory workers, they're plumbers, they're truckers, they build the buildings,
00:30:59.780
drive the roads. And I think it's like, I don't really like influencers shitting on the average
00:31:05.540
men that allow us to do what they do. Are they just losers? Half of the men that run this country
00:31:10.820
are just whining that they can't get women. You know, those men used to get a wife and a kid.
00:31:16.180
That used to be the standard. And like, what's changed? I don't think they're losers, you know?
00:31:21.780
Yeah, it's like the cringe of, you know, what's changed is look at the media, look at the movies.
00:31:26.580
Like I saw this Jennifer Lawrence poster right here in London.
00:31:29.540
Right when I get here, I see a Jennifer Lawrence poster and I like, it's like the cringe inside
00:31:35.620
of me was so intense. There's a Jennifer Lawrence poster and she's this strong, dominant, intelligent
00:31:42.660
woman. And then she's next to this weak, no, you know, docile, idiotic, awkward young man.
00:31:50.980
And I'm just there thinking, why are we continuously making these men?
00:31:56.180
We're shaming these men into oblivion. Then other women watch it and think this is,
00:32:02.420
this is it. Like the man's supposed to be subservient. Meanwhile, China's raising strong
00:32:07.220
men. Russia's raising strong men. Iran is raising strong men. We're going to get, we're going to,
00:32:12.740
this is like the, it's like Elon Musk said, like, this feels like the Roman empire. Like we're falling
00:32:17.700
apart. Our men have become women, girl. Yeah. Well, the women have become men too.
00:32:22.100
But in reality, when it's Chinese men against American women, we lose.
00:32:27.620
Correct. There's a, there's a point when reality comes to everyone's face. Yeah. We can't hide
00:32:34.500
from reality forever. But that's my point. Cause like, if he's, if he's saying that the, the men
00:32:40.020
that are walking away, 90% are just losers. Well then, then you're calling 63% of American men,
00:32:46.900
losers. Really? 63%. Are you so amazing? Like, like it just, I just think that's a bit conceited.
00:32:54.340
I think, I think you kind of have to hear where they're coming from. And I don't, I really, I, you
00:32:59.780
know, I, at first, like I kind of had similar thoughts, but then after interviewing like man,
00:33:04.660
after man, I've interviewed men that made six figures that this happened to. I've interviewed
00:33:09.460
men that like, I, I just interviewed a guy who was a Bollywood actor. So he was a, he had a modeling
00:33:16.260
contract. He was an actor. Same thing happened to him. He was just a loser. Really? And now he hasn't
00:33:22.260
seen his kids in three years. Like imagine what that would do to you. You have a daughter. How old
00:33:27.380
is she? Imagine if you haven't seen her in three years because, and I'm not, I pray this would never
00:33:34.100
happen to you. So don't take this as like, you know, but like imagine what that would do to you
00:33:38.820
as a guy, like you haven't seen the, like the person you love more than anyone in the world
00:33:43.460
for three years. Now his daughter, or I think actually it was a son, refuses to say his name
00:33:49.300
because of all the trash. The mom has talked about him. He had, he had money, right? And he was fighting
00:33:54.980
in court and he can't see his kid. So is, is he just a loser who's saying there's no, and he even
00:34:01.060
said, I wanted the fairytale ending. I thought I found my happily ever after. He says this to me.
00:34:06.900
And this is a guy that was tall, rich, good looking, and he's better off than I would argue.
00:34:14.500
He has a better shot at recovering than say a factory worker, which is one of the number one,
00:34:19.860
like that's one of the number one people are employed in America. Truckers, factory work,
00:34:24.500
Uber drivers are getting pretty big, you know, so. I mean, I mean, to, to your point,
00:34:30.660
look at what's happening to Russell Brand and, uh, uh, innocent family men, uh, Tristan and Andrew
00:34:35.940
Tate. I mean, you basically have women from years ago who can just literally engage in what would
00:34:43.380
normal people would call slander and defamation of character. But now these have become just regular
00:34:48.980
things you can say to destroy, damage, smear a man's entire career. And you have complete immunity
00:34:56.260
from prosecution. You have complete immunity in court. You can just destroy. She can't,
00:35:00.340
those women can now just say, uh, maybe it wasn't true. They walk away, but they've already caused
00:35:05.540
millions of dollars of damage. And my, my whole point is until you change some of these systems,
00:35:10.660
it's, it's systematic. Well, men, men just are going to keep walking regardless of what,
00:35:15.300
because they always say I'm leading, I'm leading men into destruction. Regardless of what I say,
00:35:19.780
you're going to see the same thing. The irony that you would be leading. I know, I know.
00:35:24.580
Well, I mean, this is like the 1984, like the idea that you would be doing that
00:35:28.820
when you're suggesting, Hey, this justice system, this is systematic abuse of fair justice for men.
00:35:35.140
And not only that Pearl, we're literally encouraging, incentivizing and celebrating women
00:35:41.620
to engage in slander, defamation of character, and to financially damage men with no final,
00:35:48.020
no legal repercussions. We're literally everyone, every man like Russell Brand that goes down or an
00:35:53.140
innocent family man like Tristan Tate and Andrew Tate, when they see that their freedom is taken,
00:35:58.500
we are literally rewarding and encouraging a million other women to do the same to someone in their local
00:36:04.580
town. Yeah. Yeah. And that's, that's what's horrifying. Yeah. And that's, that's why I don't
00:36:09.060
really like when this is why I like, and this is why I'm glad we could have this conversation. I
00:36:13.860
emphasize like I had nine siblings. My parents are still married. Like people think I have this like
00:36:17.860
evil, I've seen my parents built a multimillion dollar business together. They had 10 kids. Like,
00:36:24.020
I hope my daughter talks about me the way you talk about it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like,
00:36:28.180
exactly. I have, I have seen the upside of marriage and I never discount that it's there, but you know,
00:36:36.820
what I would describe divorce as for many men is death. And this might sound dramatic, but I mean,
00:36:43.380
imagine not seeing your daughter for years. That's death to imagine a lot of these men, their reality
00:36:49.300
is that another man is going to have more influence on their child than them. Because 20% of divorces,
00:36:55.380
they only see their daughter every other weekend. The other 20%, it's like limited. So half of divorces,
00:37:01.540
the man has very little to no contact with his child. That is, he has no control over what men
00:37:07.620
come into like, like that's death to a man on that. And I think that's even worse than the financial
00:37:13.620
stuff. I think so many guys would give up all their money just to see their kids and they, and they,
00:37:19.140
I, I, I meet them. And so to act like, okay, you know, a guy saying, you know, that's just too much
00:37:25.140
of a risk for me and walking away is like a loser. I just don't buy it. I think until you fix the
00:37:31.060
system, we're never going to have progress. Well, do you think only fans should be legal
00:37:36.820
in America? Um, I, I think I would ban it if it was up to me. I think it should be illegal because
00:37:44.340
I just think right now, and I'm not saying like, obviously there's going to be women that get away
00:37:48.340
with it or whatever, but I guess you kind of have to ask your question in a society,
00:37:54.420
should we ban things that are immoral? And some people would say, no, people are going to do it
00:38:00.260
every anyway, but I guess what, what formed my opinion was weed. Okay. Now when I was in high
00:38:06.580
school, weed was kind of like, it was like taboo a bit more. Like I know like people smoked it,
00:38:12.900
whatever, but I just think like there's been a change in society in America since you can like
00:38:18.580
go down the street and buy it where obviously people were going to smoke it anyway. But I don't
00:38:23.780
really like the idea of there being a storefront that anyone can go and just buy the weed.
00:38:29.620
We all know what's going to happen, but at least when they do it, it's like, how do I put it? It's
00:38:35.380
more behind closed doors. I'm not even, I don't even really care if they go after them that much.
00:38:39.860
I just don't like living in a world where like, it's like easy to get. Now weed is one thing,
00:38:45.860
but I think of the idea of like prostitution. Do I like the idea of it being like Amsterdam,
00:38:52.580
where it's like, even though men do it anyway in America, right? Obviously like Vegas, whatever.
00:38:58.420
I don't really like the idea of raising my kids in a world where prostitution is just like
00:39:03.220
normalized to be out in public. Yeah. And I would say the same thing with OnlyFans. Like
00:39:08.180
obviously they're going to figure out ways to do it, but at least like let's, let's start banning them
00:39:14.500
like so they can't publicly talk about it anymore. You know what I mean? So they can't publicly promote
00:39:20.100
it. If you figure out a way to do it against the law, fine. I don't care. Right. I'm not saying we
00:39:25.620
should expend tons of police resources going after them, whatever, but at least guys, like,
00:39:31.940
I just don't want to be in a world like where it's so open. Uh, playboys settle down once they
00:39:37.860
find a woman they think is worth settling down for. Um, okay. I think there's two types. I think
00:39:43.700
there's the type of playboy that will be single forever. Like I don't see Drake ever getting married.
00:39:49.540
And now I know I use Drake as an example. I know he's an exception, but I think what you see in
00:39:54.740
celebrities, you also see like the micro versions of them and like the town. So like the Drake of his
00:39:59.780
day, they're never getting married. I sometimes, I wonder if, do you think Drake is actually gay?
00:40:05.940
Like he's just, I think he's bi. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Bye. I think he's probably bi. Yeah. I think
00:40:10.660
he's bi. Or, um, I think a lot of guys that go down the sexuality route too hard, end up like
00:40:16.180
fucking trannies and stuff. Yeah. Like that just, I don't know. I just, I, I, I feel like porn kind
00:40:22.020
of leads men that way. And I, the same way I think extreme, um, attention ruins women. I think
00:40:28.420
extreme sex kind of ruins men. Like when at a young age, they get access to like their wildest sexual
00:40:35.140
fantasies. And I think that kind of, some of them get kind of wacky and I think Drake kind of,
00:40:40.740
kind of, it looks like that with the nail polish and shit. Yeah. It is feminine,
00:40:45.780
but Drake to have like the nail polish. Yeah. What's next? Is he going to wear a wig?
00:40:50.100
Like what's next? Is he going to wear a skirt? Like, you know, where do we draw the line?
00:40:54.820
Um, and then where heels, you know, it's interesting. Okay. There's like a different
00:40:59.220
view on bisexuality of the next generation. Um, and I, I had this, I was on a live once with,
00:41:06.580
um, my sister, this was like a year and a half ago. My sister was in England. And, um, they asked me
00:41:12.420
if I would ever date a guy that was bi. And I said, Oh, hell no. Like if you, if you kissed
00:41:16.100
the man once over with you, you, you, you. And he's like, I bet you, your little sister has a
00:41:22.100
different view on it. Cause she's, um, my little sister's seven, six, six, seven years younger than
00:41:28.820
me. Um, and I go up to her and I asked her and my next little sister and like, Oh, we don't care.
00:41:33.700
And it seems to be like a more accepted thing now, like the bi stuff with guys. I don't like it,
00:41:40.740
but yeah, yeah, yeah. It's almost like Drake's making it popular. Bad Bunny. Yeah. Yeah. Right.
00:41:47.700
Yeah. They're pushing it. Um, okay. So, um, what do you think about Playboys though? Do you think, um,
00:41:55.300
what, what percent of Playboys settle down? I think a lot of the Playboys that I know
00:42:02.020
generally will settle down in their late thirties, early forties. Okay. And I think if they don't
00:42:09.700
meet, they don't catch that train, they may just be Playboys. Okay. So the last, um, the last topic
00:42:17.540
today and all right. So Carrie Washington reveals that she found out her dad wasn't her biological
00:42:25.620
father. So in her memoir, thicker than water, Carrie Washington unveils a life altering revelation.
00:42:32.980
Her biological father is not who she believed him to be. This disclosure came as she prepared
00:42:38.820
to participate in the PBS series, finding your roots where celebrities trace their ancestry
00:42:44.420
through DNA testing. Her parents who had concealed this truth for decades opted to share it privately
00:42:50.900
before the TV show. Their decision to keep this information from her had a profound impact on
00:42:56.180
Washington who had battled anxiety, self-esteem issues, and an eating disorder for years,
00:43:01.380
possibly due to subconsciously sensing the undisclosed secret. Despite her parents' initial
00:43:06.660
reluctance, Washington penned the memoir to share her authentic story, Thicker Than Water. Thicker Than Water
00:43:13.860
provides an intimate glimpse into her life as an artist, advocate, mother, daughter, wife,
00:43:18.660
and black woman aiming to offer readers insights into her experiences and promote greater self-compassion
00:43:24.500
and empathy. The revelation also deepened her connection with her parents, fostering a stronger
00:43:29.620
sense of love, compassion, and understanding. I mean, if there's any race that can go
00:43:36.020
40 plus years without admitting they adopted their kid, black people have it the best.
00:43:42.740
No one's going to be asking why they don't look like it. Oh, I see.
00:43:52.740
Wow. I can't believe they, they waited till their 40s. Isn't that crazy? Do you think that's wrong for
00:43:59.060
them to keep that secret? It's interesting. I've been on both ends. Yeah, these are such tough questions.
00:44:04.180
Yeah. Like these are like real hard, hard. You know, it's interesting. So I, um, I've been on both
00:44:10.820
ends of adoption. So my parents adopted three kids and they also gave up one. So, um, my mom and dad,
00:44:17.940
same parents, but they got pregnant when my mom was like, I think 17, 18. Um, they ended up giving
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that kid up and I didn't meet him till he was 30. And then on the other hand, um, and I actually had no
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idea. Like I, I had, you didn't understand what they told us. Um, we like, everyone didn't believe
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them. Like they're like, Oh, um, we have a brother. His name's Greg. And we're like, what kind of name
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is Greg? Like whatever, which is a fine name. We're just kidding. But you know, um, and then on the
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other hand, we adopted teenagers and it's interesting. What it actually taught me was I used to always
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think that environment was the most important thing, uh, because of the single mother home stats.
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So I always thought it was all about environment, no bio biology. My brother, Greg is actually so
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similar to us. And think about it, 30 years, never met us since he was a baby. And he was,
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he walks like us, talks like, uh, you know, and on the other hand, um, the three that we adopted,
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which we adopted them as teenagers, but you, you also, you kind of see, like, I've noticed that if you
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don't adopt a kid before three, it's really hard to like, um, they're pretty, their brains pretty
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much develop. So if they have habits or something, it's pretty tough to like, kind of change them,
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to be honest, or like if there's issues, cause I've, I've seen, um, I saw, um, a couple at my
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church a couple of years ago, they adopted one, um, kid that was one and a half and one that was like
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four. And the one that was four always had issues. The one that was one and a half didn't.
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And to me, it kind of said, like, if you don't get them, I guess soon enough, it's tough to mold
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them. But at the end of the day, people have biological predispositions regardless. And
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sometimes you can't override them. And so I would guess, I don't know if she had siblings or whatever,
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but I would guess that she probably felt like a disconnect with her siblings because I just think
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that there's something like blood is thicker than water. And there is something about like,
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you know, being someone's biological sibling and like a level of like closeness, I guess you can't
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What do you think about, um, men that find out that their kid isn't theirs? Like, uh, 33% of people
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that get their DNA tested, um, to see if it's, um, what's it called? They go to like, you know,
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test their DNA, uh, 33% find out the kid's not theirs.
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You know, it's crazy. I told my wife in the very beginning, I'm like, we're doing a DNA test no matter
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what, basically. But my daughter has such a striking image to me that it makes it pretty clear, uh,
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it's my daughter. But I would, and I have, and I trust my wife. She's a loyal wife, but I'm just so
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paranoid. Um, but if I were to find out that it's not my daughter and she cheated on me, but you know,
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as a, as a married man, I'd, I mean, I would be devastated. Yeah. I would be devastated. I think
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any guy would be devastated. I mean, should there be a law that protects men? Oh, I think it should
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be at birth, be it mandatory DNA testing. Do you think it should be a law that a man who got a woman
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pregnant? Um, he has to be able to sign off before a woman gets an abortion?
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Because you, because I would, I would ban abortion in Pearl's world. I don't believe in it.
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Because I guess the argument is, is that a woman knows she's the mother, but she can't necessarily
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say who's the father. I think that women that do that should go to jail for fraud.
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So it's like, I think if a guy cons someone out of their money, he goes to jail. Why is,
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why is it that a woman that cons a man, not only of his money, but his time and resources doesn't go
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to jail for fraud? Yeah. I mean, think about it. Like I think about a man and a woman having sex
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and he says, I'm about to come inside of you. And she says, yeah, I want you to come inside of me.
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And she gets pregnant. Right. And she gets pregnant. And she says, I'm getting an abortion.
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And the man says, don't get an abortion. I have the financial means. I can take care of the kid.
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Yeah. And I think that, I think that there's no justice for men.
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In that regard, I've actually had that happen to me. No, I was in high school. I was 18 to, you know,
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and, and, and you know, both our families could have afforded keeping the kid. And my ex-girlfriend
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at that time went and got an abortion and I was against it. And I, and I just kept thinking like,
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how is it possible that you can get an abortion without my consent? And she could do it. And she did.
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Now I'm 43. Think about it. 25 years later, I'm still angry about it.
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Wow. No. And I think it's, it's like the other side that we don't really hear about
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because people don't care about like what the men think about it. It's her body, her choice.
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I even told her like, Hey, if you don't want the child, give her to me, give them to me.
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I'll take care of it. I can take care of it. Yeah.
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But I didn't have any choice. It's the lopsided of our, you know, fake justice system.
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Well, I don't even, so if it was up to me, like I wouldn't, I'm like, I just don't, I'm pro-life.
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But, but even so, I think that would be a compromise that can make it more fair
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Cause I hear two arguments. One is that the cat's already out of the bag. There's no going back.
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Um, you know, when it comes to birth control, abortion, all that stuff. And the other side is
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there, like we should go back to traditionalism, um, from a policy perspective. So, uh, you know,
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I, I could hear both arguments, but I at least think at the very start, we need to make it more
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fair for men. Definitely. Especially when you know, like there's clear evidence that, hey,
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they were boyfriend and girlfriend, they were together. Yeah. I mean, I was specifically told,
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for example, in my case that she wanted to have a child and it wasn't until her father pressured her,
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um, that it worked out that she got it. Oh, her, her dad told her to abort?
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Pressured her. Oh, wow. Well, actually my high school, I didn't get along with her dad. I
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didn't have a great relationship with her dad. Um, and, uh, anyway, so the point is, is that I
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didn't have a say in it and they basically murdered my child and I got away, they got away with it.
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