JustPearlyThings - Women Are THE DOWNFALL Of Marriages On Piers Morgan @MrNimaYamini ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 49

00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to another episode of

00:00:05.520 Pearl Daily where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Today I have a special

00:00:12.180 guest on the show. You were actually on one of our craziest episodes where I think half the panel

00:00:18.340 walked off. Welcome to the show Nemo. Why don't you introduce yourself to the people?

00:00:24.500 Thank you so much Pearl. It's great to be here. I feel like I'm coming back home.

00:00:27.680 You know, that was a crazy night. My name is Nima Yamini. I'm the author of a new book called

00:00:35.780 How to Not Be a Bitch, published by DNG. And yeah, just thrilled to be here. Again, 0.94

00:00:45.140 thank you for having me. Yeah, thank you for coming. Now, you know, I have to, this is my,

00:00:51.300 this is going to be my standard question to the men that come on the show. You know,

00:00:56.000 I have a women shouldn't vote t-shirt. Would you wear a women shouldn't vote t-shirt in public? 0.99

00:01:04.380 Yeah. That's all right. Answer honestly. Yeah, that women shouldn't vote. 1.00

00:01:11.600 Answer honestly. Be honest. It's all right if it's a no. I mean, if I was a bachelor,

00:01:15.780 it would be hard for me because, you know, all the women were, you know, not voting. They'd be 0.99

00:01:21.240 angrier and I'd be much harder to get a blow job. Well, guys, if you want to wear the women 1.00

00:01:28.180 should vote t-shirt, you know, get yourself a women should vote t-shirt. Really. I can't think 0.71

00:01:32.740 of a, can you think of a faster way for women to come up to you? Get yourself a women should 1.00

00:01:39.660 vote t-shirt. The link is in the description. So, all right guys, last night I went on another

00:01:46.240 episode of Pierce Morgan. Now, a lot of you thought, a lot of you, I saw your comments. Pearl will never

00:01:50.860 get invited back. Pearl is never going to go back on Pierce Morgan after they ambushed me.

00:01:59.260 But I'm back and I'm better, baby. So, I went on Pierce Morgan last night and, um, they had me on

00:02:06.160 with a traditional housewife and a feminist. You know, can you, can you imagine how that went? 1.00

00:02:12.400 Yeah. Yeah. I can already tell how that, that's going. You know, so what do you, do you think that

00:02:18.380 traditional housewives are praised by feminists typically? You know, I think, I think that 1.00

00:02:25.860 there's this like backwardness, uh, where like my wife, for example, is, is actually a liberal. She's 1.00

00:02:31.980 college graduate. We live in Germany and she likes being a housewife. She takes pride in it. I think,

00:02:37.700 I think it's empowering for a woman to be at home. And many women are happy being at home. It doesn't 0.99

00:02:42.240 mean she's not a feminist. I think you're a great example of a feminist. Oh yeah. Of 1.00

00:02:47.220 a real feminist. You know what I mean? Like a real feminist, not a toxic feminist. Yeah. You 1.00

00:02:52.280 know what I mean? Like, like a real, like a strong woman, a good woman. But I think a

00:02:56.620 lot of these women, they're out of their mind. Do you think, I, I find though that typical, 1.00

00:03:00.020 like the liberal chicks, um, I don't think they really celebrate women that stay home with 0.74

00:03:06.000 the kids. Yeah. I mean, it's, it's a disorder, man. Like, I don't know. Like who would they

00:03:13.040 want raising their kids? The government? The schools? Like, I mean, that's what they're

00:03:17.040 doing now, you know? Yeah. But you do see an uptick in, um, people that are homeschooling

00:03:21.480 their kids, which I do think is encouraging. Right. But, um, so let's, let's go to Pierce

00:03:26.980 Morgan and see what they said. How, I don't know. How has the feminist movement of the 0.99

00:03:32.600 last few decades, how has it gone for you? And when you look at it and see how women 1.00

00:03:38.280 have progressed, do you think it's been largely a force for good? Or do you think as the trad

00:03:44.360 wives did it, perhaps we've lost that sense of gender rules for want of a better phrase, 1.00

00:03:49.480 which actually worked very well for many people. Well, I mean, I mean, we've seen families

00:03:52.620 disappear. You know, um, I saw a study the other day that said only 25% of, I mean, this

00:03:58.620 is an American staff and American households have families. So, um, I guess there's positives

00:04:03.380 and there's negatives, but it's like at what cost, you know, 80, like 85, um, 150 years ago,

00:04:09.420 the average woman had seven kids, 85% of people were married. I mean, you know, there's also much

00:04:14.540 higher infant mortality and women die very young. And, you know, I mean, women were more depressed

00:04:19.520 than ever before. We're on antidepressants. Um, women over the age of 45 are the least 1.00

00:04:24.860 happy demographic. There are a lot of very complex reasons for that. And the issue you

00:04:30.280 have is women like Emily Ratajkowski, you know, marriage, again, I've said this before,

00:04:34.240 marriage isn't marriage anymore. The average marriage is seven years. We have things like

00:04:37.240 no fault divorce, leave if you're unhappy. So what does that mean marriage isn't marriage

00:04:41.560 anymore? Because there were so many marriages over the course of history where people have been

00:04:45.760 very unhappy, either the man or the woman has been very unhappy. And they've been forced basically

00:04:49.180 to stay in a marriage. It could have been an abusive marriage. It could have been a mostly 0.95

00:04:52.180 abusive marriage. And that would, you know, we have one life. Why would you spend it with

00:04:55.920 someone who doesn't make you happy? Marriage was about duty. And this is the problem we have

00:04:59.460 with women. Like women, men tend to be better people than us. Yeah, they really do. They tend

00:05:04.200 to, no, no, no, no. They tend to do the right thing. They are a much maligned species. I agree.

00:05:09.460 There's a reason we have phrases like a man of his word, right? A woman of her word. 1.00

00:05:13.760 Men will actually stick things out. Women, when she gets hard, we just leave. And you're 1.00

00:05:18.760 proving my point. What was your first answer? My happiness, right? Of course. Everyone

00:05:24.760 deserves to be happy. Everyone deserves to be loved. The family doesn't work when it's about

00:05:28.760 you. It's supposed to be about your kids. And that's the problem. It's supposed to be about

00:05:32.760 everyone. There's a balance and a compromise in relationships. Am I allowed to talk now?

00:05:39.760 Look, I think relationships are about balance. They're about compromise. They're about knowing,

00:05:43.760 understanding yourself, learning to, you know, know and understand another person. Eventually,

00:05:47.680 potentially, if you want to, bringing children into the world and teaching them how to do that

00:05:51.040 as well. Teaching them to balance a sense of their own identity with the love that they

00:05:55.000 have for another person. And, you know, for example, I know an older woman, actually, a friend

00:05:59.620 of our family who got divorced at about 60. She had, you know, this lovely family. They

00:06:04.300 were together since they were 18. And she said, I got to a point after I'd stopped being

00:06:08.140 a mother and, you know, I was just kind of getting on, I realized I'd lost my sense of

00:06:11.860 who I was. And I didn't really feel like I knew who I was anymore because I'd always just

00:06:16.040 been a wife and a mother. And I wanted to go out and explore that. And I think that's

00:06:19.040 fantastic. Good for her. What is traditionalism? I don't know what you think traditionalism is.

00:06:24.220 I would say a modern mentality is me before the family. I would say traditional, traditionalism

00:06:30.260 is the family before me, especially in women. And so, and so, and so what I actually, it's

00:06:35.020 interesting. You said 60 year olds, cause you know, I've interviewed 600, 700 people roughly

00:06:40.220 in the past year and a half. I've done hundreds of shows interviewing people about relationships.

00:06:44.340 And what I find is the 60 year olds tend to, a lot of those women led their daughters astray.

00:06:50.220 You know, there, there's a reason we're in this mess, right? A lot of those women had 1.00

00:06:54.380 the wrong mentality when it came to marriage and had exactly the mentality that you're

00:06:58.000 talking about. Which is the one to prioritize balancing one's own sense of identity with

00:07:02.300 compromise in a relationship with someone else. No, no, it's myself before the marriage.

00:07:05.100 But that's again, you know, I think there's an interesting point here actually.

00:07:06.220 And it's really unfortunate because I would say the women of our generation really are, are suffering

00:07:10.900 because of the advice of the women of the past. There's an interesting point here,

00:07:13.460 right? Which is that we do live in a very individualistic society and we're all told, actually,

00:07:17.940 I think a lot of the time in our relationships as well, you have to be a certain way. If

00:07:21.940 you want to receive love, you have to abide by these, these laws, you have to be a certain

00:07:25.620 level of attractiveness, you have to earn a certain amount of money. It's all about you.

00:07:29.140 And that's not what love is.

00:07:30.500 So what did you think of the clip?

00:07:33.140 I think you made some good points. Yeah, I think you made some good points.

00:07:37.300 What did you, what, what, what happened after that? Like what, obviously you two that aren't having,

00:07:42.260 uh, aren't best friends, right? Well, I mean, everyone argues and just goes home.

00:07:49.300 Especially when you like do this a lot, like you just kind of, you know, even, even the first girl 1.00

00:07:54.420 I went on with Pierce Morgan, like I say hi to her every time I see her, you know?

00:07:59.460 But you know, it's interesting because I listened carefully to like the words that they say

00:08:04.260 and how she was saying love. Um, I needed to know who I was. And like, she was talking about

00:08:11.460 the 60 year old woman who divorced her husband because she felt like her, she lost her sense of

00:08:16.660 self. Yeah. And I just thought to myself, you know, aren't you, isn't your identity supposed to be in

00:08:22.340 your family? Yeah. And I don't know what, what I find is those women, um, just kind of listen to 1.00

00:08:29.940 feminists for too long and these like this me, me, me culture. And so, you know, they hit 60 and 1.00

00:08:36.340 they think the grass is greener on the other side. I don't know what the hell you think is on the other

00:08:40.580 side of a divorce. That's 60. Yeah. Yeah. Pretty lonely, man. Getting old and lonely is scary.

00:08:46.580 Yeah. And then she, she talked about, um, receiving love and she's like, you shouldn't have to be a

00:08:53.380 certain way to receive love. And I thought this was interesting because men know that they have to be

00:08:59.220 somebody in order to get into a relationship, right? You can't, you can't just be a loser and 0.98

00:09:04.260 receive love. Like I, in my opinion, the only people that deserve love are children. 0.79

00:09:09.620 And then after that, it's really the type of person you are in the character you have.

00:09:13.540 Yeah. Yeah. I think, I think you nailed it.

00:09:16.340 Yeah. What do you, what do you think about a woman getting divorced at 60 because she needs to 1.00

00:09:21.700 figure out who she is? Does she still have kids at home?

00:09:25.780 No, I think they're gone. It's sad because, you know, being alone when you get old, if you get

00:09:32.580 sick and no one's there, that's horrifying to get sick alone already. Yeah. But imagine being sick and

00:09:40.180 not having someone there with you at the hospital and then coming home empty. That's really scary.

00:09:46.260 Yeah. Yeah. I, I, I don't think that's, that's hard. Yeah. Yeah. That's what, and that's what...

00:09:54.740 Aging, aging ain't for the weak hearted man. Aging, aging is undefeated, you know? And as you get older

00:10:00.100 and older and, and, uh, you see other friends that are in their sixties and they have kids, grandkids,

00:10:06.820 kids that love them. You know, you can go out to Instagram pictures all day you want, right? But

00:10:12.260 at the, when you come home, you know, you're alone. That's, that's really horrifying.

00:10:17.300 Well, and the average person lives to be, I think, 77. But you could live to be 90,

00:10:23.460 you know? So what does a woman's life look like? Because women tend to live longer than men. So 1.00

00:10:27.620 what does a woman's life look like? She gets divorced at 60. What if she lives to be 90? 1.00

00:10:33.300 40 years? In your elderly years as a chick? Yeah. 1.00

00:10:37.460 Oh, good God. What do you think's on the other side of that? And it's funny. Um, I have an aunt

00:10:42.100 that got married pretty like later in life. Um, and I'm, I'm talking like, I think she was in her 0.92

00:10:46.820 sixties and she married a guy that was like 10 years older than her. This is an exception. It's not

00:10:51.700 the rule, but even he was talking about how at like the nursing homes or whatever, that he had like

00:10:56.740 four women did she pick from and he picked her. Oh man.

00:11:00.340 Do you know what I mean? So these women, cause a lot of them, it was funny. My, um, 1.00

00:11:03.860 my, my grandma, they, she passed away, but before she died, my grandpa died like 15 years before her.

00:11:09.860 And when I was in high school, I went to, she took me to something with all her like friends.

00:11:15.380 Right. And it was so funny because listening to them talking about dating, it sounded like

00:11:21.380 teenagers. You know what I mean? Where I was like, why are they like, I'm like, but it was kind of the

00:11:26.900 same stuff where it's like, there's only a couple of guys that go around. They date a guy for like,

00:11:31.220 one of them was talking about a guy she was dating. She's like, yeah, he died.

00:11:34.820 Yeah. So it's like, what, what do you think's on the other side of this?

00:11:38.900 Yeah. It's a good point. Yeah. You know, you know, when you're in your twenties and thirties,

00:11:43.860 it's like every year invincible. You think it's like life goes on forever. But in reality,

00:11:49.060 you know, you do get older. Yeah. Like age is undefeated.

00:11:52.340 It's really, um, interesting. I like to look at like case studies of people like that were kind

00:11:58.740 of in the spotlight and the media. And it's interesting to see like some of the younger

00:12:03.860 celebrity women kind of age out like Madonna, Britney Spears. Well, when you see like the level 1.00

00:12:11.460 of attention they got and they kind of went crazy when they went older, it's like the women of my 0.99

00:12:16.340 generation. Oh my, like with Instagram, it's going to be interesting to see like where we are in 20

00:12:24.260 years. Yeah. Speaking of aging, right. All right. So this was my tweet. No, 35 year old. And I want

00:12:31.300 to explain it to you before, because people, people tend to get triggered before they kind of see my

00:12:36.340 mindset. So I had a tweet. I said, no, 35 year old women aren't that hot. None will compete with the 1.00

00:12:43.540 average in shape, 21 year old. Don't shoot the messenger. Now, the reason I had this thought

00:12:49.860 was because I would see top 35 year old women that were just really, really attractive, right? The 1.00

00:12:55.380 models, the whatever. And I would think to myself on an average college campus, you could probably find

00:13:02.260 like 10 chicks that are equally as good looking as them, if not more. Now it's not to say that there's 0.99

00:13:08.580 no women that are attractive at 35 or pretty, but we live in this delusion where we tell women 1.00

00:13:14.100 they're going to be hot forever. And at 35, most women would aim to have a family and kids and really 1.00

00:13:20.020 have more of an identity in their character over their looks. But every time I make a broad,

00:13:25.620 generalized statement where I know there's exceptions, but we were talking about the rule,

00:13:30.420 right? Everyone gets mad and the wives just start arguing with me about their hotness. 1.00

00:13:37.540 And so Ashley Sinclair says, Pearl has started adding the qualifier in shape now because it's

00:13:44.340 not that 22 year old is hotter than 32. It's just by 33, many women get fat and let themselves go. 1.00

00:13:50.020 At 22, it's less likely. That was my argument months ago. Seems I convinced her. Now I'd like to say to

00:13:55.220 this Ashley chick, no, you did not convince me. I would say that if you have a 22 year old chick 1.00

00:14:01.220 that is not fat in general, they're hotter than a 32 year old chick. And that same chick is in general 0.98

00:14:07.060 going to be hotter at 22 than 32. And I think you see this in the modeling industry where women age 1.00

00:14:13.140 out pretty quickly. You said you worked with models in New York. Yeah, I worked with fashion models in

00:14:18.260 New York city for about 10 years. Okay. And I would bring them out to the nightclub and I would charge a fee.

00:14:23.060 And I remember that a lot of the models, they come in at 17, 18, full of life, full of energy,

00:14:28.500 full of optimism. Then maybe about three, four years later, if they're still even in New York,

00:14:35.300 they're beaten down, they're destroyed, you know, ages undefeated again. And you're constantly

00:14:41.380 competing with women that are 17, 18, 19. And back then, you know, fashion models was much more

00:14:48.180 prestigious than, you know, the weird stuff you see in 2020. It was, yeah, like the New York Fashion

00:14:55.620 Week, Paris Fashion Week. It wasn't that, it was even back then it was sort of like odd,

00:15:01.220 but now it's just become next tier of odd. Back then it was actually prestigious to work with fashion

00:15:07.540 models. But the idea that women, they fall off because you're constantly competing with, you 1.00

00:15:16.100 know, young women. And my thought is when I said that hot, that to me, when you say you're that hot,

00:15:22.980 by 35, you should be beautiful because your character, in my opinion, your character should

00:15:28.260 be developed to the point where you're beautiful. You're not hot anymore. You're a wife, you're a

00:15:32.420 mother. But it's like, how hot do you want to be as a mom? Don't you want to be beautiful? And so

00:15:39.620 when I said that hot, I'm like, isn't that like top 10% of beauty? And look at Margot Robbie, right?

00:15:44.660 She was a smoke show. God, and Wolf of Wall Street, all the men loved her. Now, you know,

00:15:49.860 and it's interesting, you see this happen to the women when they're younger, they're in the, 1.00

00:15:53.380 they're in the movies that market to men. So Wolf of Wall Street, Megan Fox, Transformers,

00:15:57.940 they get older, they start being cast in women and movies that are for women. Wow.

00:16:02.980 You notice that? So like Margot Robbie, Barbie, that's like women watch that. Wow. 0.97

00:16:07.460 And I think it's because women don't like to see women that hot on TV. Wow. 1.00

00:16:11.780 But men do. So like in the man movies, you'll see like the hottest, I mean,

00:16:14.980 all the hottest chicks are in the, in the man movies, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:16:19.700 Okay. So I responded to this chick because I said, no, by 33, you're less hot than 23. 0.95

00:16:26.180 The only exception is if you were obese, you know, because I was like, all right, 0.84

00:16:29.060 the 23 year old was fat. That's not really the same territory, but you get less hot as you get

00:16:34.980 older. By 35, most chicks have wrinkles, sag a bit and have under other indicators of aging. 0.65

00:16:40.660 Do not shoot the messenger. Is this untrue? I think you nailed it. I think she hates you

00:16:45.860 because you nailed it. It's like, it's okay. It's, I didn't say you're a bad person. So I, I have this,

00:16:53.380 um, thing where I talk about simping. Yeah. And I think that simps are equally as bad as the modern

00:16:59.700 women because they allow us to live in delusion. And a lot of times what I, what I noticed is when 1.00

00:17:05.380 men process information, their first reaction in general is if it's true. Yeah. Unless they're

00:17:11.380 simping. Yeah. Then cause women process information like individually. So they'll say like, how does this 1.00

00:17:17.380 apply to me? Like if I say, nope, a 22 year old is hotter than a 32 year old, you know, they'll say,

00:17:23.540 well, but I, they're like their reaction as well, but I was, but I'm hotter now than I was at 22.

00:17:29.300 Do you know, which it's usually a coat, but you know what I'm saying? Yeah.

00:17:32.660 So where men will, will think more in general. Yeah.

00:17:35.780 Except for the simps. So now Dr. Interracial says, my wife is 63 and hotter than Pearl. 1.00

00:17:42.180 And it's funny because I was never talking about his wife. I was never talking about my looks yet.

00:17:49.140 They feel the need to insult me or, you know, by tweeting me pictures of his wife. Like, well,

00:17:54.500 this is weird. This is weird behavior. Yeah. The idea that you're going to use your wife, 1.00

00:18:01.540 an image of your wife and then attack someone's daughter. That's just a poor way, poor taste of

00:18:07.300 showing his point. Like I understand he's simping for his wife, but he's also

00:18:14.180 degrading another man's daughter. So I don't really look at him as a guy of high moral authority.

00:18:19.620 Like he could have proved his point without, because at the end of the day, you're actually

00:18:24.260 another man's daughter. I have a daughter as a man. You'll never know what that feels like,

00:18:29.780 Pearl. You know what I mean? Yeah.

00:18:31.700 So the fact that he degraded you to make an example is disgusting. Who does he think he is? I mean,

00:18:38.500 he's not, he's no moral authority. This is probably votes for Kamala. You know what I'm saying?

00:18:44.180 Actually, I think he's a conservative, but yeah, I don't understand.

00:18:47.380 Probably a closet liberal. I don't know. But that's the thing. It's like, you know,

00:18:52.980 it's like the guys like this that co-sign us and make us think we're like hot for a lifetime.

00:18:58.740 And it's just not true. Again, when you get older, you should, you should be beautiful.

00:19:02.660 Your goal shouldn't be to be like a sex object. It should be to be beautiful for your family and

00:19:07.860 your husband, you know, because there's something about like, even if it's like an older woman that 0.99

00:19:13.060 is just like really happy with her family and her children. And you know, you know what I mean?

00:19:17.940 Yeah. Where like, I don't know who comes to your head, but there's like a couple of women that come 1.00

00:19:21.860 to mind where, okay, they're a bit older, but it's like seeing them interact with their husband and

00:19:26.900 their family. They're just beautiful. They're not sexy. They're not hot. They're, they're grandma,

00:19:31.940 their mom, but they're, it's beautiful because they're not trying to be a sex object anymore.

00:19:37.620 Yeah. Yeah. And like, and hot to me, when you say hot, that, that implies more of like a sex

00:19:42.820 object. Beautiful is like something that's more intangible, you know? Yeah. Now facts simply aren't

00:19:49.300 facts, bro. So again, these women, they start tweeting at me their selfies. 1.00

00:19:53.140 I think, I think, I think it's just looking at the tweet is crazy. I mean, it's, it's, yeah.

00:19:59.380 So that was her, I guess, younger on the left and then on the right. And so I just, you know, there,

00:20:04.340 there's her. She looks like a nice girl. Yeah. That's her daughter. No, I mean, that's like,

00:20:10.420 that's her at 32, I guess. And that was her at 22. So 22 years later. So, and then,

00:20:16.260 but like, what's the point of like doing this body comparison? Like, does that take away from your

00:20:21.780 main point that you made? Like you still made a good, valid point. Like what, what does this become

00:20:26.260 like a competition of focusing on each other's looks? It's distracting from the main topic.

00:20:30.980 Well, so yeah. And I responded and I'm like, all you did is get more naked. 0.77

00:20:35.780 I'm like, you just like took off your cloth. Yeah. But I've just noticed whenever I tweet

00:20:47.540 anything about younger being hotter, it's like women were so used to be like, I think, 1.00

00:20:52.980 look at marketing. Like you just notice all the movies are casting older women.

00:20:57.460 All the models are getting older. It's just like pandering.

00:21:00.740 It's not what men, any, if you want to look at like what men like, look at the male movies

00:21:05.540 and look at who's cast. Like wasn't Avengers. It was Scarlett Johansson. Yeah. Yeah.

00:21:09.620 I mean, I've, I've, I've seen, I've seen, I've been, you know, I've been like,

00:21:14.260 right with Scarlett Johansson in a New York city deli in Tribeca. We live in the same neighborhood

00:21:20.020 and she's actually like a very petite, small girl. Yeah. And like very small,

00:21:25.860 petite and very quiet. So when I see her in the superhero movies, I'm sort of like,

00:21:30.580 it's so far from what the reality is actually like. Yeah. It's beyond, beyond far from what

00:21:35.220 reality is like. So I want to give you like my take on marriage in 2023. Okay. I want to give

00:21:40.980 you my take. So, and then you give me your take too. I think marriage, traditional marriage is

00:21:45.700 beautiful. I love seeing couples that like make that work. I think it is amazing. But what I,

00:21:52.180 what I don't want is men not making an informed decision. So I think that men should be aware of the

00:21:58.900 risks that come with it. So that's kind of my opinion. And I think that some men, and this is

00:22:06.020 regardless of what I say, or I don't say you're with the laws being how they are, you're going to

00:22:11.140 keep seeing men walk away from there until the laws change. It's going to be a bigger and bigger number 1.00

00:22:16.340 every year, regardless of what Pearl said, because again, men are kind of logical, right? So they kind

00:22:22.180 of weigh the risks of marriage and the reward. And you know, sometimes they'll meet a girl where the reward

00:22:27.540 is worth it. Right. And they'll say, you know what? I know this system's against me. Some guys go to

00:22:31.860 different countries to figure this out. Like, it just depends on the guy. But until we start lowering

00:22:37.220 the risks, the women of 2023 are definitely worse than the women 20 years ago. Those women are worse 0.99

00:22:42.900 than we were just seeing a trend across the board. I don't say this in a happy way. I'm not happy about 0.95

00:22:47.700 it, but it's becoming more and more difficult for men to be traditional because many men are punished for

00:22:53.460 being traditional. Yeah. And what I see a lot of times is the men that say, you know what,

00:22:59.940 this is too much. I don't want to do it. They're shamed by the traditional conservatives for making

00:23:05.860 that choice. And I think for men sometimes, and I think it depends on the guy, right? So, you know,

00:23:14.900 I think a YouTuber is going to have a very different experience than say a factory worker. Yeah. And,

00:23:20.740 you know, we need factory workers for this country to run. We need truckers. We need plumbers.

00:23:25.460 And I think they just sometimes have a hard time. And a lot of times those are the guys we see like

00:23:30.100 walk away. Does that make sense? Yeah. Yeah. Because, you know, again,

00:23:33.220 with the Instagram economy, it's really hard to have the average woman stay unless you're exceptional 0.98

00:23:38.020 as a man. Yeah. Unfortunately, I don't say this in like a happy way. So Cernovich says,

00:23:43.700 90% of men speaking out against marriage aren't sought after. The truth is that a desired

00:23:49.220 man who isn't a sociopath will date widely enough until he meets someone who has his number and

00:23:55.620 that's it. The playboy or whatever is a goober myth from a beer commercial. So I wanted to talk

00:24:03.060 about the first part. In my experience, and this is just from like interviewing guys getting screwed 0.55

00:24:08.580 in divorce. I think a lot of the guys that speak out against marriage actually had success in dating

00:24:14.820 and got married and then just got screwed over. Yeah. Yeah. I think I, I'm a big fan of Mike. I

00:24:21.940 think he's a great guy. He's a great family guy. I agree with him in regards to 90% of men who speak

00:24:29.060 out again, 90% of men speaking out against marriage aren't sought after. Okay. I mean,

00:24:36.020 if I couldn't get any bitches and I had six inches taken off my dick, 1.00

00:24:43.780 I would probably have the same theory. 1.00

00:24:48.260 Yeah. See, I disagree.

00:24:51.780 No, no, no. That's it. It's just, it's just, I think that, I think that there are a lot of attractive

00:24:56.740 men that are actually able, I don't want to use the word dominate to disrespect all the, the, the

00:25:05.700 loving and respectful wives out there, but they are the dominant force in the family as the clear, 0.95

00:25:12.100 undisputed leader. Like to the point where you can have a woman say, yeah, you are the man and you 0.89

00:25:18.820 are the leader. Now that doesn't mean she's the donkey or the cow in the relationship. You still love

00:25:23.300 your wife. You treat her good. But I do think that there are a group of men who are good ladies men.

00:25:29.060 Yeah. These are the sort of men that are ladies men. These are the sort of men that are good with

00:25:33.380 women and they get a wife that is actually, and I don't want to use the word subservient, but 1.00

00:25:40.660 they are very respectful and they admire their husband. Are there a lot of guys that are simps and

00:25:47.300 get walked over? We both know the answer to that. Well, I think, I think you're just,

00:25:51.460 if the answer is these men are, that are complaining are, are they're just subservient

00:25:56.420 men? Like, do you think 60% of men aren't good enough for marriage? Cause 60% of men aren't

00:26:01.700 looking for marriage and relationships. Put it like this, bro. So, so like in my head,

00:26:05.860 it's like the average man used to be able to get an average woman. You know, he didn't have to be this 0.89

00:26:10.820 like six foot tall. He didn't have to be, have this amazing job in order to attract a woman. It was like

00:26:17.460 an average guy could get 120 pound virgin and Mike and Mike's defense. Yeah. Let's just say,

00:26:23.940 for example, Mike here, Mike is like six foot four athletic build, successful, highly intelligent.

00:26:30.420 His wife, I can, I've never met his wife, but I, from what I see, his wife respects him.

00:26:35.780 So he might have not the same, but that doesn't mean every guy can do what he did.

00:26:40.100 Well, that's, that's my point is a lot of times the guys that come at this

00:26:44.100 are kind of like, you know, rich men tend to stay married longer, right? They, they tend to,

00:26:49.060 they're the divorce rates like 25% among like rich men. I didn't know that. Yeah. So I think

00:26:54.820 they live in a different reality than the average men in this country. So I'll give you an example. 0.99

00:26:59.700 One of the top, um, in America, anyone, one of the top places people are employed is truckers.

00:27:05.460 Okay. So, and the average man makes $45,000 a year. I don't think those men are losers. I think,

00:27:11.780 I think a lot of times they speak down on the men that allow us to do what we do,

00:27:16.100 right? Like doing this, someone in a factory had to make this microphone. You know what I mean?

00:27:20.580 Like we need factory workers, we need truckers, we need plumbers. And I think that average women 1.00

00:27:26.580 don't respect average men anymore. And I think it is very risky because what I've seen, like just

00:27:32.180 doing the divorce documentary is the men that get screwed over the most, aren't the rich men.

00:27:36.500 The rich men might pay the most, but they can kind of recover and make,

00:27:39.780 make their money back later. Do you know what I mean? Yeah.

00:27:42.020 It's the average men are the ones like that I've seen, like commit suicide and divorce,

00:27:46.820 or, um, like I would say on the brink of suicide are ones that get false accusations

00:27:51.940 or, um, worked the same job for 20 years. And then their wife took half, like, imagine like

00:27:57.140 the average divorce is 46 years old. So again, like my, my, um, my one point is that a lot of the men

00:28:03.780 that talk about this, they're not over the average age of first divorce. And a third of them will,

00:28:09.140 half of them will divorce. If they're Christian, it's like a quarter, right? And a lot of the men 0.99

00:28:13.620 that commit suicide in this country over this stuff are the men that worked 20 years. Then their wife

00:28:19.300 takes half their shit, alienates them from their children. And they haven't seen them in many, 0.99

00:28:24.980 many, many, like sometimes it's like two, three years. And these are the Uber drivers, the truck

00:28:30.020 drivers, the plumbers, the factory, like these are average men. Um, and so I think a lot of times,

00:28:35.540 like the tall, good looking, successful men will kind of shit on them, but most of them can't do what 0.98

00:28:39.860 they do without them. Yeah. I mean, speak to your point about plumbers in particular plumbers, 0.99

00:28:46.020 some construction workers. Yeah. If you think about firefighters,

00:28:49.460 these are occupations also because of their exposure to that environment, they may be getting

00:28:56.420 cancer at a higher rate than a general population. Wow. I didn't even think about that. Yeah. So not

00:29:01.780 only is that plumber may be more exposed to an environment and toxins that give them a higher

00:29:06.820 rate of probability of getting cancer. Same with the firefighter. You should see how many of them get

00:29:11.060 cancer or, or, or, or, or, or, or some of our veterans. Right. Right. So, so not only are they not

00:29:16.580 making a high income, they're more exposed to these chronic conditions. I think they for sure

00:29:22.660 deserve much more respect at the very least top class healthcare. But that's, that's my point is

00:29:26.980 I just think like a lot of times they'll, they'll kind of say that they're cry babies or whatever,

00:29:31.620 but it's like, no, I don't, I don't think it's these men that can't get women. This is just my

00:29:36.020 experience. Maybe you think differently, but I don't see them as these men that can't get women.

00:29:40.660 I see them as average men who thought they signed up for the wife and kids

00:29:45.300 and were absolutely devastated when they had no idea what family court is like.

00:29:52.180 Yeah. And, and I think until you've really spent like a week in family court to see,

00:29:56.420 you know, these were not loser men. These were not men that couldn't get, it's just,

00:30:01.060 it's the average men that built this country that are getting absolutely destroyed by these women. 1.00

00:30:07.860 And it's not a fringe cases. It's not exceptions. Like this is common. And I do this on shows all the

00:30:14.180 time. I'll say, do you know a guy that's been falsely accused? Raise your hand. The whole room

00:30:18.660 raises their hands. You know, like, like this is a huge risk for men. And I don't say don't do it.

00:30:25.060 I think, you know, sometimes you find a woman that you think is worth the risk. And I think that's 1.00

00:30:29.380 beautiful. But what I don't think is good is to encourage young men to be naive.

00:30:34.580 Yeah. Well, to Mike's credit, he did say 90%.

00:30:37.700 I don't even think it's that high. What do you think?

00:30:41.140 I mean, okay. Do you think 60% of men are losers? 45% of men are 45% of men run the infrastructure 0.99

00:30:49.060 of this country. So that means one out of every two men does a job that helps you live the way you

00:30:54.420 live. So they do the factory workers, they're plumbers, they're truckers, they build the buildings,

00:30:59.780 drive the roads. And I think it's like, I don't really like influencers shitting on the average 0.97

00:31:05.540 men that allow us to do what they do. Are they just losers? Half of the men that run this country 1.00

00:31:10.820 are just whining that they can't get women. You know, those men used to get a wife and a kid.

00:31:16.180 That used to be the standard. And like, what's changed? I don't think they're losers, you know?

00:31:21.780 Yeah, it's like the cringe of, you know, what's changed is look at the media, look at the movies.

00:31:26.580 Like I saw this Jennifer Lawrence poster right here in London.

00:31:29.540 Right when I get here, I see a Jennifer Lawrence poster and I like, it's like the cringe inside

00:31:35.620 of me was so intense. There's a Jennifer Lawrence poster and she's this strong, dominant, intelligent 0.98

00:31:42.660 woman. And then she's next to this weak, no, you know, docile, idiotic, awkward young man. 1.00

00:31:50.980 And I'm just there thinking, why are we continuously making these men? 1.00

00:31:56.180 We're shaming these men into oblivion. Then other women watch it and think this is, 0.97

00:32:02.420 this is it. Like the man's supposed to be subservient. Meanwhile, China's raising strong 0.98

00:32:07.220 men. Russia's raising strong men. Iran is raising strong men. We're going to get, we're going to,

00:32:12.740 this is like the, it's like Elon Musk said, like, this feels like the Roman empire. Like we're falling

00:32:17.700 apart. Our men have become women, girl. Yeah. Well, the women have become men too.

00:32:22.100 But in reality, when it's Chinese men against American women, we lose.

00:32:27.620 Correct. There's a, there's a point when reality comes to everyone's face. Yeah. We can't hide

00:32:34.500 from reality forever. But that's my point. Cause like, if he's, if he's saying that the, the men

00:32:40.020 that are walking away, 90% are just losers. Well then, then you're calling 63% of American men,

00:32:46.900 losers. Really? 63%. Are you so amazing? Like, like it just, I just think that's a bit conceited. 0.98

00:32:54.340 I think, I think you kind of have to hear where they're coming from. And I don't, I really, I, you

00:32:59.780 know, I, at first, like I kind of had similar thoughts, but then after interviewing like man,

00:33:04.660 after man, I've interviewed men that made six figures that this happened to. I've interviewed

00:33:09.460 men that like, I, I just interviewed a guy who was a Bollywood actor. So he was a, he had a modeling

00:33:16.260 contract. He was an actor. Same thing happened to him. He was just a loser. Really? And now he hasn't

00:33:22.260 seen his kids in three years. Like imagine what that would do to you. You have a daughter. How old

00:33:27.380 is she? Imagine if you haven't seen her in three years because, and I'm not, I pray this would never

00:33:34.100 happen to you. So don't take this as like, you know, but like imagine what that would do to you

00:33:38.820 as a guy, like you haven't seen the, like the person you love more than anyone in the world

00:33:43.460 for three years. Now his daughter, or I think actually it was a son, refuses to say his name

00:33:49.300 because of all the trash. The mom has talked about him. He had, he had money, right? And he was fighting 0.98

00:33:54.980 in court and he can't see his kid. So is, is he just a loser who's saying there's no, and he even 0.98

00:34:01.060 said, I wanted the fairytale ending. I thought I found my happily ever after. He says this to me. 0.93

00:34:06.900 And this is a guy that was tall, rich, good looking, and he's better off than I would argue.

00:34:14.500 He has a better shot at recovering than say a factory worker, which is one of the number one,

00:34:19.860 like that's one of the number one people are employed in America. Truckers, factory work,

00:34:24.500 Uber drivers are getting pretty big, you know, so. I mean, I mean, to, to your point,

00:34:30.660 look at what's happening to Russell Brand and, uh, uh, innocent family men, uh, Tristan and Andrew

00:34:35.940 Tate. I mean, you basically have women from years ago who can just literally engage in what would 0.98

00:34:43.380 normal people would call slander and defamation of character. But now these have become just regular

00:34:48.980 things you can say to destroy, damage, smear a man's entire career. And you have complete immunity

00:34:56.260 from prosecution. You have complete immunity in court. You can just destroy. She can't, 1.00

00:35:00.340 those women can now just say, uh, maybe it wasn't true. They walk away, but they've already caused 1.00

00:35:05.540 millions of dollars of damage. And my, my whole point is until you change some of these systems,

00:35:10.660 it's, it's systematic. Well, men, men just are going to keep walking regardless of what,

00:35:15.300 because they always say I'm leading, I'm leading men into destruction. Regardless of what I say,

00:35:19.780 you're going to see the same thing. The irony that you would be leading. I know, I know.

00:35:24.580 Well, I mean, this is like the 1984, like the idea that you would be doing that

00:35:28.820 when you're suggesting, Hey, this justice system, this is systematic abuse of fair justice for men.

00:35:35.140 And not only that Pearl, we're literally encouraging, incentivizing and celebrating women

00:35:41.620 to engage in slander, defamation of character, and to financially damage men with no final,

00:35:48.020 no legal repercussions. We're literally everyone, every man like Russell Brand that goes down or an

00:35:53.140 innocent family man like Tristan Tate and Andrew Tate, when they see that their freedom is taken,

00:35:58.500 we are literally rewarding and encouraging a million other women to do the same to someone in their local

00:36:04.580 town. Yeah. Yeah. And that's, that's what's horrifying. Yeah. And that's, that's why I don't

00:36:09.060 really like when this is why I like, and this is why I'm glad we could have this conversation. I

00:36:13.860 emphasize like I had nine siblings. My parents are still married. Like people think I have this like

00:36:17.860 evil, I've seen my parents built a multimillion dollar business together. They had 10 kids. Like,

00:36:24.020 I hope my daughter talks about me the way you talk about it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like,

00:36:28.180 exactly. I have, I have seen the upside of marriage and I never discount that it's there, but you know,

00:36:36.820 what I would describe divorce as for many men is death. And this might sound dramatic, but I mean,

00:36:43.380 imagine not seeing your daughter for years. That's death to imagine a lot of these men, their reality

00:36:49.300 is that another man is going to have more influence on their child than them. Because 20% of divorces, 0.56

00:36:55.380 they only see their daughter every other weekend. The other 20%, it's like limited. So half of divorces,

00:37:01.540 the man has very little to no contact with his child. That is, he has no control over what men

00:37:07.620 come into like, like that's death to a man on that. And I think that's even worse than the financial

00:37:13.620 stuff. I think so many guys would give up all their money just to see their kids and they, and they,

00:37:19.140 I, I, I meet them. And so to act like, okay, you know, a guy saying, you know, that's just too much

00:37:25.140 of a risk for me and walking away is like a loser. I just don't buy it. I think until you fix the 0.86

00:37:31.060 system, we're never going to have progress. Well, do you think only fans should be legal

00:37:36.820 in America? Um, I, I think I would ban it if it was up to me. I think it should be illegal because

00:37:44.340 I just think right now, and I'm not saying like, obviously there's going to be women that get away

00:37:48.340 with it or whatever, but I guess you kind of have to ask your question in a society,

00:37:54.420 should we ban things that are immoral? And some people would say, no, people are going to do it

00:38:00.260 every anyway, but I guess what, what formed my opinion was weed. Okay. Now when I was in high

00:38:06.580 school, weed was kind of like, it was like taboo a bit more. Like I know like people smoked it,

00:38:12.900 whatever, but I just think like there's been a change in society in America since you can like

00:38:18.580 go down the street and buy it where obviously people were going to smoke it anyway. But I don't

00:38:23.780 really like the idea of there being a storefront that anyone can go and just buy the weed.

00:38:29.620 We all know what's going to happen, but at least when they do it, it's like, how do I put it? It's

00:38:35.380 more behind closed doors. I'm not even, I don't even really care if they go after them that much.

00:38:39.860 I just don't like living in a world where like, it's like easy to get. Now weed is one thing,

00:38:45.860 but I think of the idea of like prostitution. Do I like the idea of it being like Amsterdam,

00:38:52.580 where it's like, even though men do it anyway in America, right? Obviously like Vegas, whatever.

00:38:58.420 I don't really like the idea of raising my kids in a world where prostitution is just like

00:39:03.220 normalized to be out in public. Yeah. And I would say the same thing with OnlyFans. Like

00:39:08.180 obviously they're going to figure out ways to do it, but at least like let's, let's start banning them

00:39:14.500 like so they can't publicly talk about it anymore. You know what I mean? So they can't publicly promote

00:39:20.100 it. If you figure out a way to do it against the law, fine. I don't care. Right. I'm not saying we

00:39:25.620 should expend tons of police resources going after them, whatever, but at least guys, like,

00:39:31.940 I just don't want to be in a world like where it's so open. Uh, playboys settle down once they

00:39:37.860 find a woman they think is worth settling down for. Um, okay. I think there's two types. I think

00:39:43.700 there's the type of playboy that will be single forever. Like I don't see Drake ever getting married.

00:39:49.540 And now I know I use Drake as an example. I know he's an exception, but I think what you see in

00:39:54.740 celebrities, you also see like the micro versions of them and like the town. So like the Drake of his

00:39:59.780 day, they're never getting married. I sometimes, I wonder if, do you think Drake is actually gay?

00:40:05.940 Like he's just, I think he's bi. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Bye. I think he's probably bi. Yeah. I think

00:40:10.660 he's bi. Or, um, I think a lot of guys that go down the sexuality route too hard, end up like

00:40:16.180 fucking trannies and stuff. Yeah. Like that just, I don't know. I just, I, I, I feel like porn kind 1.00

00:40:22.020 of leads men that way. And I, the same way I think extreme, um, attention ruins women. I think 0.99

00:40:28.420 extreme sex kind of ruins men. Like when at a young age, they get access to like their wildest sexual

00:40:35.140 fantasies. And I think that kind of, some of them get kind of wacky and I think Drake kind of,

00:40:40.740 kind of, it looks like that with the nail polish and shit. Yeah. It is feminine, 1.00

00:40:45.780 but Drake to have like the nail polish. Yeah. What's next? Is he going to wear a wig?

00:40:50.100 Like what's next? Is he going to wear a skirt? Like, you know, where do we draw the line?

00:40:54.820 Um, and then where heels, you know, it's interesting. Okay. There's like a different

00:40:59.220 view on bisexuality of the next generation. Um, and I, I had this, I was on a live once with,

00:41:06.580 um, my sister, this was like a year and a half ago. My sister was in England. And, um, they asked me

00:41:12.420 if I would ever date a guy that was bi. And I said, Oh, hell no. Like if you, if you kissed 0.52

00:41:16.100 the man once over with you, you, you, you. And he's like, I bet you, your little sister has a

00:41:22.100 different view on it. Cause she's, um, my little sister's seven, six, six, seven years younger than

00:41:28.820 me. Um, and I go up to her and I asked her and my next little sister and like, Oh, we don't care.

00:41:33.700 And it seems to be like a more accepted thing now, like the bi stuff with guys. I don't like it,

00:41:40.740 but yeah, yeah, yeah. It's almost like Drake's making it popular. Bad Bunny. Yeah. Yeah. Right.

00:41:47.700 Yeah. They're pushing it. Um, okay. So, um, what do you think about Playboys though? Do you think, um,

00:41:55.300 what, what percent of Playboys settle down? I think a lot of the Playboys that I know

00:42:02.020 generally will settle down in their late thirties, early forties. Okay. And I think if they don't

00:42:09.700 meet, they don't catch that train, they may just be Playboys. Okay. So the last, um, the last topic

00:42:17.540 today and all right. So Carrie Washington reveals that she found out her dad wasn't her biological

00:42:25.620 father. So in her memoir, thicker than water, Carrie Washington unveils a life altering revelation.

00:42:32.980 Her biological father is not who she believed him to be. This disclosure came as she prepared

00:42:38.820 to participate in the PBS series, finding your roots where celebrities trace their ancestry

00:42:44.420 through DNA testing. Her parents who had concealed this truth for decades opted to share it privately

00:42:50.900 before the TV show. Their decision to keep this information from her had a profound impact on

00:42:56.180 Washington who had battled anxiety, self-esteem issues, and an eating disorder for years,

00:43:01.380 possibly due to subconsciously sensing the undisclosed secret. Despite her parents' initial

00:43:06.660 reluctance, Washington penned the memoir to share her authentic story, Thicker Than Water. Thicker Than Water

00:43:13.860 provides an intimate glimpse into her life as an artist, advocate, mother, daughter, wife,

00:43:18.660 and black woman aiming to offer readers insights into her experiences and promote greater self-compassion

00:43:24.500 and empathy. The revelation also deepened her connection with her parents, fostering a stronger

00:43:29.620 sense of love, compassion, and understanding. I mean, if there's any race that can go

00:43:36.020 40 plus years without admitting they adopted their kid, black people have it the best.

00:43:42.740 No one's going to be asking why they don't look like it. Oh, I see.

00:43:52.740 Wow. I can't believe they, they waited till their 40s. Isn't that crazy? Do you think that's wrong for

00:43:59.060 them to keep that secret? It's interesting. I've been on both ends. Yeah, these are such tough questions.

00:44:04.180 Yeah. Like these are like real hard, hard. You know, it's interesting. So I, um, I've been on both

00:44:10.820 ends of adoption. So my parents adopted three kids and they also gave up one. So, um, my mom and dad,

00:44:17.940 same parents, but they got pregnant when my mom was like, I think 17, 18. Um, they ended up giving

00:44:24.020 that kid up and I didn't meet him till he was 30. And then on the other hand, um, and I actually had no

00:44:29.300 idea. Like I, I had, you didn't understand what they told us. Um, we like, everyone didn't believe

00:44:37.300 them. Like they're like, Oh, um, we have a brother. His name's Greg. And we're like, what kind of name

00:44:40.740 is Greg? Like whatever, which is a fine name. We're just kidding. But you know, um, and then on the

00:44:47.380 other hand, we adopted teenagers and it's interesting. What it actually taught me was I used to always

00:44:54.420 think that environment was the most important thing, uh, because of the single mother home stats. 1.00

00:45:00.660 So I always thought it was all about environment, no bio biology. My brother, Greg is actually so

00:45:06.100 similar to us. And think about it, 30 years, never met us since he was a baby. And he was,

00:45:12.340 he walks like us, talks like, uh, you know, and on the other hand, um, the three that we adopted,

00:45:17.860 which we adopted them as teenagers, but you, you also, you kind of see, like, I've noticed that if you

00:45:24.340 don't adopt a kid before three, it's really hard to like, um, they're pretty, their brains pretty

00:45:30.100 much develop. So if they have habits or something, it's pretty tough to like, kind of change them,

00:45:34.340 to be honest, or like if there's issues, cause I've, I've seen, um, I saw, um, a couple at my

00:45:40.020 church a couple of years ago, they adopted one, um, kid that was one and a half and one that was like

00:45:45.700 four. And the one that was four always had issues. The one that was one and a half didn't.

00:45:50.420 And to me, it kind of said, like, if you don't get them, I guess soon enough, it's tough to mold

00:45:54.740 them. But at the end of the day, people have biological predispositions regardless. And

00:46:00.020 sometimes you can't override them. And so I would guess, I don't know if she had siblings or whatever,

00:46:06.580 but I would guess that she probably felt like a disconnect with her siblings because I just think

00:46:12.820 that there's something like blood is thicker than water. And there is something about like,

00:46:18.660 you know, being someone's biological sibling and like a level of like closeness, I guess you can't

00:46:24.340 really replicate through adoption.

00:46:25.620 I mean, Kerry Washington's beautiful.

00:46:28.340 She's stunning.

00:46:29.380 Yeah, she's beautiful. 0.87

00:46:30.420 What do you think about, um, men that find out that their kid isn't theirs? Like, uh, 33% of people

00:46:37.780 that get their DNA tested, um, to see if it's, um, what's it called? They go to like, you know,

00:46:43.860 test their DNA, uh, 33% find out the kid's not theirs.

00:46:48.100 You know, it's crazy. I told my wife in the very beginning, I'm like, we're doing a DNA test no matter

00:46:52.660 what, basically. But my daughter has such a striking image to me that it makes it pretty clear, uh,

00:47:00.020 it's my daughter. But I would, and I have, and I trust my wife. She's a loyal wife, but I'm just so

00:47:05.460 paranoid. Um, but if I were to find out that it's not my daughter and she cheated on me, but you know,

00:47:15.220 as a, as a married man, I'd, I mean, I would be devastated. Yeah. I would be devastated. I think

00:47:21.940 any guy would be devastated. I mean, should there be a law that protects men? Oh, I think it should 0.95

00:47:30.580 be at birth, be it mandatory DNA testing. Do you think it should be a law that a man who got a woman 0.87

00:47:39.700 pregnant? Um, he has to be able to sign off before a woman gets an abortion? 0.97

00:47:49.140 Because you, because I would, I would ban abortion in Pearl's world. I don't believe in it. 0.99

00:47:53.700 Because I guess the argument is, is that a woman knows she's the mother, but she can't necessarily 0.98

00:47:58.660 say who's the father. I think that women that do that should go to jail for fraud. 1.00

00:48:04.100 So it's like, I think if a guy cons someone out of their money, he goes to jail. Why is,

00:48:13.220 why is it that a woman that cons a man, not only of his money, but his time and resources doesn't go 1.00

00:48:19.300 to jail for fraud? Yeah. I mean, think about it. Like I think about a man and a woman having sex 0.97

00:48:25.300 and he says, I'm about to come inside of you. And she says, yeah, I want you to come inside of me. 0.99

00:48:30.340 And she gets pregnant. Right. And she gets pregnant. And she says, I'm getting an abortion. 0.98

00:48:36.660 And the man says, don't get an abortion. I have the financial means. I can take care of the kid.

00:48:42.420 Yeah. And I think that, I think that there's no justice for men. 0.88

00:48:46.340 In that regard, I've actually had that happen to me. No, I was in high school. I was 18 to, you know,

00:48:53.140 and, and, and you know, both our families could have afforded keeping the kid. And my ex-girlfriend

00:48:59.700 at that time went and got an abortion and I was against it. And I, and I just kept thinking like,

00:49:05.140 how is it possible that you can get an abortion without my consent? And she could do it. And she did. 0.99

00:49:11.460 Now I'm 43. Think about it. 25 years later, I'm still angry about it.

00:49:17.620 That kid would have been 24 right now.

00:49:20.180 Wow. No. And I think it's, it's like the other side that we don't really hear about

00:49:26.820 because people don't care about like what the men think about it. It's her body, her choice. 1.00

00:49:30.980 I even told her like, Hey, if you don't want the child, give her to me, give them to me. 1.00

00:49:35.060 I'll take care of it. I can take care of it. Yeah.

00:49:37.780 But I didn't have any choice. It's the lopsided of our, you know, fake justice system.

00:49:43.700 Well, I don't even, so if it was up to me, like I wouldn't, I'm like, I just don't, I'm pro-life.

00:49:49.140 Yeah, me too.

00:49:50.340 But, but even so, I think that would be a compromise that can make it more fair

00:49:54.660 at least at the very least. Right. Yeah.

00:49:57.460 Cause I hear two arguments. One is that the cat's already out of the bag. There's no going back.

00:50:02.420 Um, you know, when it comes to birth control, abortion, all that stuff. And the other side is

00:50:06.420 there, like we should go back to traditionalism, um, from a policy perspective. So, uh, you know,

00:50:12.900 I, I could hear both arguments, but I at least think at the very start, we need to make it more

00:50:17.780 fair for men. Definitely. Especially when you know, like there's clear evidence that, hey,

00:50:22.660 they were boyfriend and girlfriend, they were together. Yeah. I mean, I was specifically told,

00:50:26.820 for example, in my case that she wanted to have a child and it wasn't until her father pressured her,

00:50:33.220 um, that it worked out that she got it. Oh, her, her dad told her to abort?

00:50:40.180 Pressured her. Oh, wow. Well, actually my high school, I didn't get along with her dad. I

00:50:45.380 didn't have a great relationship with her dad. Um, and, uh, anyway, so the point is, is that I

00:50:51.140 didn't have a say in it and they basically murdered my child and I got away, they got away with it.

00:50:55.300 All right, guys, like the video on your way out. Let's get this to 2000 likes,

00:51:00.580 because that is the most important metric that YouTube uses. Also get yourself a women shouldn't 1.00

00:51:05.220 vote t-shirt today. Um, all of these problems in society really just started from women voting. 1.00

00:51:12.340 All right, get yourself a t-shirt, like the video, and I'll talk to you next time.

JustPearlyThings - September 29, 2023

Women Are THE DOWNFALL Of Marriages On Piers Morgan @MrNimaYamini ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 49

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