JustPearlyThings - September 29, 2023


Women CAN'T ACCEPT Unattractiveness As They Become Older


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17 minutes

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2,594

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229

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38

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25

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Why are women so sensitive to aging? And why do they think 22 year olds are hotter than 35 year olds? Rebecca and Diane discuss this and more on this episode of Thick & Thin with Rachel Maddow's new podcast.

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00:00:00.000 you know, there's stages of red pill. And the first stage of red pill is really realizing that
00:00:05.520 women are not up to par. These are what the women, our grandmothers and mothers and mothers 1.00
00:00:11.060 were raised to do and did. And we were not taught any of that. My generation was just left amok.
00:00:19.220 And then you start to realize that this simping is just crazy. And what I realized is women are 1.00
00:00:26.400 really sensitive to aging. Whenever I tweet anything about women looking uglier, yes, at an 1.00
00:00:35.260 older age, all of the women lose their minds. Now I want to, I want to tell you what started this 1.00
00:00:41.760 thought. I had a tweet earlier this week talking about how no, at 35, you cannot compete with 22
00:00:49.020 year olds. And the reason I had that thought was I looked at the most beautiful 35 year old women 1.00
00:00:55.920 that I know. And I thought to myself, okay, their, their skin still sags. They still got 1.00
00:01:02.200 light wrinkles or they got a Botox forehead, either or, you know, whatever, pick your poison.
00:01:07.120 They have fake whitened teeth, like they've, they've, or maybe a fake BBL, whatever money
00:01:12.340 they've put into staying attractive. I don't care. I'm not even hating on it. But my point is they spend
00:01:17.980 all of this money, fake boobs, the gym, whatever, only to not be able to compete with a 22 year old 1.00
00:01:27.960 because I could go to a college campus and find women hotter. And it wouldn't be hard. It would 1.00
00:01:34.700 be like half of the campus. Um, then what they'll do is they, is you see these coats, you see these
00:01:40.960 like coats, like they're like, ah, not the younger women. And they'll, and there's a couple of copes 0.98
00:01:46.340 that I really see. So cope number one, well, these women are sluttier than me. 1.00
00:01:51.040 Really, Rebecca, you've had 15 years and you think the 22 year old's done more damage.
00:01:58.840 Well, yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's the new generation. And I'm like, well, who raised that generation?
00:02:06.720 I, okay. So first it's them trying to discredit their purity. So they'll be like, oh, well,
00:02:12.100 they're sluttier. Okay. Then they'll say, well, you know, I look better than them. And I'm like,
00:02:18.480 really, really do you? And it's like, okay, guys, there's exceptions. There's JLo. Okay. JLo
00:02:31.840 is really hot. But are you JLo? Really? Like, why as women, do we have the sensitivity
00:02:37.820 to aging? It's okay. It doesn't have to be the end of the world. And I really just had this series
00:02:44.660 of tweets where I talked about this by your thirties. Like you're not supposed to be sexy
00:02:49.480 anymore. Yes. I said it. I said it. Shoot the messenger. I don't care. I don't care. Shoot the
00:02:56.160 messenger because by your thirties, you're supposed to have developed, wait for it guys, character.
00:03:02.820 Yes. Yes. Yes. And you know, looks and looking sexy and all that guys, it just looks kind of sad
00:03:11.660 in your thirties. It's sad. Like this is delusion. Like it's just, it's embarrassing. Imagine being a
00:03:20.220 wife and a mother and all these women will tweet, tweet me their selfies. Like, please stop, put it 1.00
00:03:26.600 away. I don't want to see it. And, and they're, they're these only fans, these old only fans models
00:03:32.320 are tweeting at me. They're nudes. And this is just exhausting and tiring. So I see a couple copes.
00:03:38.580 Cope number one is, well, the younger women are sluttier. Cope number two is, well, the younger 1.00
00:03:43.240 women are fatter. Well, I'm in better shape than these young women. And the men will still pick them 1.00
00:03:49.140 over you. Sorry. Sorry. And then three is, well, I have a better, my personality is so much better.
00:03:55.120 Is it, is it really? Can we just, and what does that go back to? Narcissism. Yes. I am so special
00:04:08.080 and amazing. And I need to argue with Pearl that I am hotter than the 22 year olds, 25 year olds.
00:04:15.120 I just need to prove Pearl wrong. And then what do they do? They call Pearl ugly. Oh, well, Pearl, 1.00
00:04:19.980 you look old. And, and, and I would say the 22 year olds are hotter. It, you know, calling me ugly
00:04:28.640 doesn't make you any hotter, Diane. And this is the thing, these old women, it's just like, and I think 1.00
00:04:34.820 to myself, wow, these are wives and mothers that raised us. These are the wives and mothers that will
00:04:44.620 raise the next generation of children. Dear God, I, this is why I think that some women should not 1.00
00:04:51.660 have children. Because can you imagine having that level of narcissism? Can you imagine being so
00:04:59.800 narcissistic that you can, you cannot read a tweet about younger women being hotter without taking it
00:05:08.320 personally and crying to me about it? Wow, Pearl, you are just the meanest where, you know, I just
00:05:16.440 think it's better that we live in reality and understand that we age. And as we age, we will be
00:05:22.980 valued for different things. Um, really in the world, unfortunately, the number one agency that we
00:05:30.040 have is beauty. You will make the most money off of beauty and you will get the highest suitor off of 0.99
00:05:35.940 beauty. Character does not compete with beauty. I don't say this with a happy heart. I don't, I don't
00:05:42.300 say this because I'm happy about it, but it's just reality. Men are looks first. Looks is where it 0.87
00:05:48.880 starts. And the 22 year olds are going to have you beat. Sorry. Sorry. Like, please stop whining to me
00:05:56.100 about this again. So then I get the copes and I realized that men are, they are assistants. They assist
00:06:04.080 in this delusion and how do they assist. They say, Hey, and I realized that men do this so they can
00:06:11.720 get sex. And I'll give you an example. I've noticed that broke men are always the ones that'll say, Oh,
00:06:18.940 well, I like them thick. Do you? Do you? I mean, there's a difference between thick and obese.
00:06:26.240 All right. There, there's a difference. There's a difference. All right. I understand there might be
00:06:31.840 a little curvy, a little less curvy, but let's be honest. Let's just, you don't see any rich, handsome
00:06:37.840 men with anything, but women with small waists. Oh, shoot the messenger. Ah, Pearl's so mean. Pearl's the 1.00
00:06:48.480 mean. And the reason that I say this is not because this is the next coat. Pearl is just so miserable
00:06:57.740 and she's just so, I just cry myself to sleep every day. Really? And I do this because I'm just really
00:07:08.100 sick of seeing pandering. I am sick of seeing the media, the marketing. I am sick of seeing the right
00:07:17.440 and the left hander. So I had another tweet and this one really hit people where it hurt. And instead
00:07:24.780 of asking, is it true? What are the women do? They attack your girl, Pearl, the big meanie. So I tweeted, 0.98
00:07:32.400 I said, no, your husband doesn't have a husband goggle. He notices you aging. Simping is an epidemic.
00:07:40.080 Now, what did I mean by this? Now, number one, is this true or is it false?
00:07:47.440 Wait for it. Crickets. Notice, do husbands notice that women age? 1.00
00:07:59.380 Yeah. And I noticed, I'll tell you what made me think of this phenomenon. I noticed that when men 0.93
00:08:04.660 showed pictures of their wives to me, it was always a picture from like 10 years ago.
00:08:10.680 They noticed, you know, and this doesn't mean, this does not mean that men will leave you high
00:08:17.420 and dry, that they cannot love you for different things. This does not mean you are worthless if
00:08:23.720 you age. But what it does mean is husband goggles are not real. It's just a thing that men say to
00:08:32.960 make women feel better about getting old. Now, and what do I, what do I mean by simping? Simping is 0.99
00:08:39.520 telling women what we want to hear so we can live in delusion for a lifetime. Um, and another thing 0.91
00:08:47.880 that made me think of this was, I've heard of cases of, um, let's just say guys as they get into
00:08:56.200 their sixties or seventies, you know, having erectile dysfunction, right? And really they're
00:09:02.440 just not attracted to their wives. Like they used to be because they're getting older, right? It's
00:09:07.240 one thing to have a 30 something year old wife, but this idea that if you marry your husband at 25, 1.00
00:09:14.260 that he is not going to notice that you aged by 65 is just delusion. It's just not true.
00:09:21.620 This isn't to hate on marriage. This isn't me being mean, but this is just me saying it would
00:09:26.800 be good for us to live in reality. Looks aren't everything. And the second half of your life as
00:09:33.360 women character is the most important thing because nobody is that hot over 35. All right. If you want 1.00
00:09:41.640 to extend it and make it 40, so be it. But the point of the matter is there is a cutoff for looks as
00:09:48.500 women. I see the most beautiful women on the planet from 20, 30, 40 years ago that look crazy 1.00
00:09:55.720 now. An example of this is Madonna. She was a beautiful world renowned pop star. Britney Spears
00:10:02.340 is another one. Now are they really hot, sexy? No, they keep taking off their clothes and it is sad
00:10:11.080 and depressing. And I am depressed that the level of wives and mothers on the market right now 1.00
00:10:18.000 are really just selling us these dreams. So now mind you, I don't know much about this chick. So 1.00
00:10:26.040 when I use these people as examples, I don't know anything about their lives. They very well could be
00:10:33.220 amazing, awesome people. Don't know. But what I point out is I typically can tell a lot by a chick, 0.98
00:10:39.680 by how she reacts to being told she is not the hottest thing since sliced bread. I think this chick 1.00
00:10:46.620 was one of them when I tweeted that at 25 you are hotter than 35 and she just really needed to show 0.90
00:10:53.720 me her selfies. Wow. That is exactly what I needed. A post-wall women's selfies. Thank you. Now she says 0.96
00:11:02.300 Pearl is upset that she's aging out of the system. She insists leads to happiness. And because she is 1.00
00:11:08.780 miserable and alone. So there we go. Attack one. You, she didn't say you're wrong. She said you
00:11:15.280 are miserable and alone. Oh yes. I just cry every night in my misery. She wants happily married 0.84
00:11:24.780 couples to be miserable too. Oh, how did you know, Sarah? How did you know? All right. It's not simping.
00:11:33.180 It's called being in love. She has clearly never experienced and is likely to ever experience with
00:11:39.680 that insufferable attitude. She is a cancer. So I have, I'm just going to take my notes of this super 1.00
00:11:46.860 happy wife and mother. I think, you know, seems very happy. Sorry. And so she said, you are upset.
00:11:57.180 You are, I mean, she says aging out. So just, you know, old and ugly. Whatever. Um, you want us to be miserable.
00:12:15.180 Um, you will never, you'll be alone forever and you're a cancer. Where is the she is wrong?
00:12:26.180 Where, where is it? Am I wrong? Why? Like, I just cannot take this simpery. I cannot take this outrage
00:12:42.920 when they never answer the question, am I wrong? Now it's, you know, Pearl is just this ugly chick 1.00
00:12:51.060 never attacking what I said or the argument, which really, if you listen to, I had about like 50 tweets
00:12:58.340 on this. I'm just a tweeter. It's so easy. It's like, you can just pull one. I had like 50 tweets
00:13:03.740 on this where I explained that you're not supposed to be hot in your thirties because it is about
00:13:09.580 character. Yes. It is very sad when these wives and mothers are clutching onto their youth that they 0.98
00:13:17.380 no longer have. And, and trying to be these hot young chicks that they're just not anymore. 1.00
00:13:24.420 You're supposed to evolve and just become, you know, the grandma that's like baking cookies and
00:13:30.020 stuff. They used to know this, you know, and there's a reason I didn't come up with these terms,
00:13:34.980 guys. A lot of the stuff like leftover women, old maid, like this wasn't me. These have been
00:13:42.300 common terms in all of history. Pearl isn't what guys want. She's tall, not feminine, masculine, 0.98
00:13:51.820 logical, argumentative, controlling. For her to find love, she needs a robot dude like her. 0.99
00:14:00.940 So it's just back to the personal attacks, personal attacks, personal attacks. You know,
00:14:06.300 I thought this was a marketplace of ideas and what you'll see from the conservative Christians a lot
00:14:13.180 is they attack me personally. Why? Why? Is what I am saying incorrect? And that's what we have to
00:14:20.540 default to. What is truth? What is real? Not, oh, boo hoo. Pearl pointed out that you get old.
00:14:28.620 Do you know how many messages I get from happily married wives? And it warms my heart because
00:14:34.700 women that are happily married are not concerned about what the internet thinks, what Pearl thinks, 1.00
00:14:41.660 and they are certainly only concerned about what their husband thinks. And they know that they age,
00:14:47.900 they know that they get older, but they are focused on character. And those wives typically 1.00
00:14:53.660 know their husbands like the back of their hand. They know it doesn't matter if a younger chick is hotter 1.00
00:14:59.420 because I know my husband so well they could never compete. They have spent their
00:15:04.380 lives becoming amazing, phenomenal wives. And they do exist and they are out there. And most of them,
00:15:11.580 I hate to break it to you, agree with me. Yes. Yes. And it's unfortunate because the women that go on 1.00
00:15:19.260 social media talking about how amazing of a wife they are typically aren't the ideal. And guys, there's
00:15:26.060 exceptions. I could point to you exceptions. But the issue is, and why aren't they the ideal? Because
00:15:33.180 what is the number? What is one of the best traits of a wife? Humility. Humility. Wait for it. Humility. 1.00
00:15:41.820 You are not the best thing since sliced bread and they know. I pointed out on my show yesterday that when
00:15:48.780 that when the feminist answered the question about traditionalism, she was very arrogant. Where the 1.00
00:15:56.860 housewife answers the question about traditionalism and she says, I always try to put my husband's needs
00:16:04.300 first. And the way you answer questions is really, I don't know, you can just, there's just something you
00:16:11.260 can see about women that just have humility. They know they're not perfect. They know they're not amazing, 1.00
00:16:16.140 but they do the best that they can. And they're not busy tweeting their selfies at me. All right.
00:16:23.020 Like, this is just great. Like, please. And I wanted to point out one thing just to make myself clear.
00:16:28.300 No, no, this is not me attacking marriage. No, this is not me saying that your husband will not love you
00:16:35.180 for different things. My whole point is that I think that we should live in reality with the fact that we
00:16:40.380 age and stop crying about the fact that we age and make up all these words to make us feel better about
00:16:47.260 aging. No, you get uglier the older you get, and that's okay because you can have better character for
00:16:53.660 your family and loved ones. Wow.